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episode 7: Fear of Being Butch

There’s no shame in asking for a ‘90s boy band haircut.

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Production help from Cathy Wong, Tommy Bazarian, and Rachel Matlow. Khane Kutzwell's barber shop is Camera Ready Kutz. 

Thanks to the many people helped produce Kathy's story on being butch:

  • Esther Godoy and Madelaine Imber from Butch Is Not A Dirty Word
  • Rae Tutera from Bindle & Keep
  • The women of the Butch-Femme Social Club of LA
  • Everyone who talked to Kathy but didn’t make it into the final story: Lillian Faderman, BK Chan, and Aheri Stanford-Asiyo.

Episode scoring by Jeremy Bloom and Isaac Jones with additional music by Broke for Free ("Calm the Fuck Down") and James Pants ("Bird").

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