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My Husband Lied To Me
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d62bbSyMbOQ&t=619s
My Husband Lied To Me And I'm Confused & Hurt
Women feel confusion, grief, and intense sorrow when their husbands lie about pornography use and other forms of betrayal.
Some women even say that the lying is even more painful than the actual betrayal.
It is completely normal to feel devastated by your partner's dishonesty. You can take positive actions to protect yourself from further harm and begin the path to healing.
Read the full transcript below and listen to the free BTR podcast to hear the story of an anonymous woman who found healing and peace after devastating emotional abuse, including lying.
I Think He Lied To Me But I'm Not Sure
Abusive men are master-manipulators and because of that, it's not always easy to spot a lie.
Lying is not just saying something untrue, it is also:
* Withholding the truth* Admitting to a partial truth* Using semantics to mislead* Overexaggerating or underexaggerating the truth* Guilting and shaming a partner for asking for answers
My Husband Lied To Me: Now What?
It is very important for women to set safety boundaries after betrayal. Boundaries are courageous actions that women take to separate themselves from abuse. Lying is a form of psychological and emotional abuse and it causes intense emotional pain in women's lives.
Seeking support is another important step after discovering betrayal and lying.
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Full Transcript:
Today we have a brave woman sharing her D-Day story.
Anonymous: I wanted to do a share about my D-Day, mostly because today is the three year anniversary of my D-Day.
My Husband Lied To me about his porn use
Three years ago, it was a Sunday and I had been at church. At that time I had a young colicky baby. So church for me meant a lot of walking the halls and dealing with sad baby. But that particular day the third hour of church they had a special kind of visitor come. It was two missionaries from the LDS church's addiction recovery program specifically on pornography recovery.
They came and talked to the women and the men of my congregation about the addiction recovery program and about their stories. I only was able to hear a little of it because I was in and out with the baby. But I was just thinking at the time “Wow, I’m so grateful I don’t have to deal with that.”
My Husband Lied To Me For Years
So we went home after church and we got the baby and my older daughter down for a nap and I was just talking to my husband and...