Worldbuilder's Anvil

Do you have visions of fantasy world’s dancing through your head? Are you a gamemaster that wants to tell stories in your world? Are you a fiction writer who wants your next setting to be your best? Do you want to build better fantasy worlds? Then the Worldbuilder's Anvil podcast is for you. Learn to create the physical world, characters, cultures, kingdoms, races, species and monsters. Learn it all, with some banter to boot. Join Michael and Jeffery on the weekly podcast that looks at storytelling, game mastering, pop culture and life through the lens of fantasy world building. Subscribe TODAY! Listen to new episodes every Monday and BUILD BETTER FANTASY WORLDS.

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episode 339: The power in lying to yourself


Today's Topic –  The Bad, Ugly, and Good about lying to yourself

For complete Fantasy Worldbuilding, show notes go to Gardul.com

Podcast Show Flow

Lying to yourself is not all bad

  • The bad
    • Danger of entitlement
    • Self- Sabotaging
    • Can cause errors in decision making
  • When
    • The emotions, good or bad, are absolute
      • I must win this time
      • If I write a book everyone will hate me
    • cognitive dissonance
    • To protect yourself (Not always good)
  • The good
    • The power in your word
    • Alerts you to faulty thinking
  • How to use it to your advantage
    • Tell yourself you are good at it?
    • Create Triggers to replace the sick up feeling with excitement

WBT

Create a conman character to bilk you out of money. If you ever meet someone like this character avoid them

RW  Task

Gardul.com/audible try out the book Triggers Creating Behavior That Lasts - Becoming the Person You Want to Be

 

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https://www.mentalhelp.net/blogs/why-we-lie-to-ourselves/

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