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Is a sexless relationship healthy? The answer is a resounding no! Our sexual needs activates the reward system or striatum, a primitive regions of the brain that is sensitive to innate pleasures such as food, sex, and drugs. Sex drive is one of the most primitive brain systems, it’s as basic as our need for food. The craving for sexual gratification is as bothersome as being hungry. Sexual activity is an important component of the reward system that reinforces emotional attachment, indicating that sexual activity may increase emotional connection and intimacy. When sexual needs are rewarded consistently, then love develops. In other words, love grows out of positive rewards and habits in the form of sex.

How do you know if you're sexually compatible with someone? Can you fix sexual compatibility? Sexual compatibility is something that can be worked on by being open and communicating. Communication is the most important aspect of this dilemma. Openness and discussing individual needs early in a relationship can help couples stay together, build better bonds and encourage feelings of confidence; providing an open environment from them to share their wants and needs.

What it feels like to be sexually incompatible with your partner? How do you know if you're sexually incompatible? If you’re sexuality incompatibility it is very likely that unfilled sexual desires which will be fulfilled elsewhere. Therefore having an understanding of both your need and seeking to fulfil them will build stronger bond, cohesiveness  and better intimacy. 

If you share similar sex drives, you’ll avoid becoming one of the 37% of people who admits that they want more sex than their partner does. How do you build sexual compatibility? In this episode I’ve provided some quizzes to help couples open up and understand their sexual compatibility. Below are Amazon discount codes, up to 60% off sex toys to spice up your love life. 

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