The 6570 Family Project

If you are a parent of a tween, teen or somewhere on the way, this is exactly the place for you! This is the playground for parents who want to raise their kids with intention, strength and joy to come and hear all the discussions, get all the tactics and have lots of laughs along the way! We will dive into the real challenges in raising kids today and how to show up as parents AND teach your kids to show up as members of the family and individuals in the world. My name is Nellie Harden. Big city girl turned small town, front porch, iced tea sippin’ momma who loves igniting transformation in the hearts and minds of families by helping them build Self-Led Discipline™ and Leadership to elevate the family experience and set the kids up with a rock solid foundation they can launch their life on all before they even leave home!


episode 8: What is Generational Leadership Paralysis and How Do I Defeat It? Interview with Skyla Harden

You are running around in a basic Tasmanian Devil like tornado of laundry, work, kid's taxi service, meal prepping, and helping the neighbor find their lost cat and your kiddo is just sitting there. When you ask them to help with something the bland and unknowing, probably annoyed, face rises from the entertainment at the moment and says... "what?"

Yep. You are not alone. It is happening in nearly every home. 

Let me ask... what made you do so much and what is making them do so little? 

Why does this gap exist and what can we do about it? Let's chat!

Today I have a very special guest on as well and that is my oldest daughter who is 16. She went through a transformational experience this summer that opened her eyes and heart and she shares all about it here!

About the Guest:

Skyla Harden is a vibrant 16-year-old junior in high school doing dual enrollment at the local community college. She has been in private school, public school, homeschool, Christian school, and now the community college and has thrived academically everywhere while continuously growing in emotional and mental awareness and wellbeing. She has been an entrepreneur in several philanthropic and retail businesses as well as helping with marketing and sales presentations for a widespread eco-friendly company and being employed at a local shop since she was 15. She is the oldest of 4 sisters, enjoys writing, and plans to pursue psychology and therapy as an adult. 

About the Host:

Nellie Harden is a wife of 20+ years, mom to 4 teen/tween daughters, dreamer, adventurer, servant, multipreneur, forever student, and a devoted teacher, but her ride-or-die passion is her work as a Family Life Coach & Mentor. 

Coming from a career background in marine mammal sciences, behavioral work, and a host of big life experiences, both great and not some not so great, she decided that designing a life of purpose and freedom was how she and her husband, along with their 4 daughters, wanted to live. 

Her work and passions exist in the realms of family and parent mentorship because she believes that a family filled with creativity, fun, laughter, challenge, adventure, problem-solving, hugs, good food, and learning can not only change a person’s life but is the best chance at positively changing the world. 

She helps families build Self-Led Discipline™ & Leadership Into their homes, sets their children up for a wildly successful life on their terms, and elevates the family experience with big joy, palpable peace, and everyday growth!

With a lifelong passion and curiosity in thought, choice, behavior, and growth she has found incredible joy in helping families shift perspective, find answers, and a path forward.


(Nellie has been coaching families for over 10 years and has degrees in Biology, Animal Behavior and Psychology. ) 



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