After my husband betrayed me by both lying to me about his pornography addiction and his gaming addiction, AND because he used pornography and spent excessive amounts on gaming, I kicked him out of the house.
I had a lot of people give me terrible advice, unsolicited advice. I was sick of it, but I also didn't know what to do, or where to turn for the right answers.
I wasn't even sure if my marriage would survive. Or if I wanted it too. I was confused.