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episode 102: Is Masturbation Bad For You? Understanding The NoFap Movement

To fap or not to fap... that is the question. Are there health benefits to giving up masturbation? Is porn addiction a real thing? And just what is the NoFap movement, anyway? It’s time talk about sex with someone you love… yourself.



episode 101: This is Why You Can't Get Over Her

Friends, do you suffer from uncontrollable longing for someone who barely knows you’re alive? Are you unable to get over that break up, even after months or years? Do you have the sinking feeling that nobody in the world could be as right for you or...



episode 100: Is She Flirting or Just Being Friendly?

How do you tell the difference between when someone's flirting with you and just being polite? And why are we so bad at telling the two apart in the first place?



episode 99: Let's Talk About Toxic Femininity

One of the subjects I come back to fairly often is the idea of toxic masculinity. It’s something that I personally feel is important to talk about because of how much it directly affects men and makes our lives that much harder and that much worse....



episode 98: How To Build A Lifestyle That Attracts Amazing Women

When we talk about being more attractive to women, we tend to focus on the surface. We talk about how to dress, what to say, how to act. But that’s the polish, the sizzle, not the substance. It may get people's attention, but without any substance...


 2018-11-08  15m

episode 97: Developing A Mindset For Relationship Success

Success, whether in life or in relationships, doesn't come from having the perfect plan or never making a mistake. It comes a mindset that strips away the things that hold you back and keeps you focused on what matters. You learn to avoid all of the...


 2018-11-01  16m

episode 96: This Is Why You Fail

How often has the frustration of being single gotten to you? How many times have you asked yourself: why aren’t you going to get any better? Why do other people find love and you don't? Why aren’t you able to build the life that you want to...


 2018-10-25  17m

episode 95: What Men Get Wrong About Women

If you’re looking for advice on dating women, then you're going to find many, many self-proclaimed experts in the female mind. The problem is that most of them are almost entirely wrong. Worse, they set men up for failure by insisting on an...


 2018-10-18  15m

episode 94: How To Be A Better Man

Over the last month, the nation has had one of many conversations about sexual assault and the affect it has on survivors. And as more women speak up, sharing their stories, sharing their pain and their rage, there are guys — guys who don’t...


 2018-10-11  14m

episode 93: #93 - Flirting Mistakes That Women Hate

There's a lot of bad advice out there when it comes to flirting.  Advice that not only does it not work, but is actually a masterclass in how to creep women out and occasionally piss them off. Meeting women can be hard enough without making...


 2018-09-12  13m