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The more conventionally attractive somebody is, the more social and cultural value we tend to ascribe to them. And the more social value we give them, the more we define our own value in our ability to “win” them. This is never more evident than...

How do you make it through a party when you don’t know anyone? Since this is the last episode for 2017, I’ve decided that instead of answering one person’s questions, I’m answering several at once. After all, we’re heading straight into the...

This week we're starting a new, semi-regular series,  taking questions from readers, listeners and viewers. This week: He has no problem meeting women... but he's getting ghosted on the regular. The dates don't happen and everyone quits returning...

Being interesting isn't just about knowing things or having done incredible things. You also want to be able to share those experiences with others. Most of us don’t think about the way we present ourselves to others - not just in how we look...

This week, I want to give you one of the most valuable tips I can possibly give. This is that One Simple Trick, that single thing that you can do that will double your online dating success, make you the center of attention at any gathering and ensure...

How many times have you had a conversation that went something like this: you think you’ve been doing well, but as soon as you’re done talking, that’s it and they’ve basically forgotten you exist. This is a common sticking point for a lot...

Get your free worksheet on how to ask for consent: http://eepurl.com/c-AgBr Pop quiz, hot shot: you’ve just made eye contact with an incredible woman across the room. She seems to be giving you the “come hither” look. What do you do. WHAT...

Lately you can’t really turn on the news or go through social media without hearing about people talking about sexual assault, sexual harassment, unwanted groping or sliding into someone’s DMs with some fresh dick pics nobody asked for.  Of...

Let’s say that you’re out - maybe you’re at a party, maybe you’re at a bar, maybe you’re killing some time between classes and you see somebody who is just amazing. They may be a perfect stranger, they may be someone you’ve had a crush on...

Do you have have that friend who seems to just connect with people. They can roll up on strangers and end up with new best friends and dates. And you… can’t. It doesn’t seem fair, does it? These people can stumble into any social situation and...