Autism is my super blessing! I'm a high-school valedictorian, college graduate, world traveler, disability advocate. I'm a Unitarian Universalist. I'm a Progressive Liberal. I'm about equal rights, human rights, civil & political rights, & economic, social, &cultural rights. I do servant leadership, boundless optimism, & Oneness/Wholeness. I'm good naked & unashamed! I love positive personhood, love your neighbor as yourself, and do no harm! I'm also appropriately inappropriate! My self-ratings: NC-17, XXX, X, X18+ & TV-MA means empathy! I publish shows at 11am! Support this podcast:

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episode 1: Domestic violence in the Independent Fundamentalist Baptist (IFB) church movement

"Does the Independent Fundamentalist Baptist (IFB) church movement have a domestic abuse problem? The short answer is Yes!

The IFB church movement is built on a foundation of psychological manipulation and abuse. This is seen in how parents discipline their children and how husbands lord over and control their wives. These behaviors are often modeled by IFB pastors, deacons, and church leaders as they manipulate, control, and dominate church members...


 October 30, 2021  30m

episode 2: Sexual morality isn't about how long you wait. It's about how you treat yourself and the people you're with.

"From a more practical standpoint, not everyone is going to get married, or even legally can get married. The instruction to wait forever to experience a fundamental human pleasure is pointless and cruel. And while the old adage tells women that men won't buy the cow if they can get the milk for free, if I'm buying a cow, you can bet I'm going to make sure the milk is to my liking...


 November 1, 2021  55m

episode 3: Erotica is art!

"3 myths about erotica

There are a number of misconceptions surrounding erotica. Some of these myths are the result of sex-negative groups that aim to shame and control women. Others are simply based on stereotypes and misinformation. Let’s look at the biggest and most common three...


 November 1, 2021  29m

episode 4: Ethical porn categories, ethical porn genres part 1

"What turns you on? Could it be the act of submission or the need for power; sensual, intimate and romantic loving, naughty desires considered taboo; LGBTQ representation; fantasy worlds of a magical kind; delicious oral sex; sex with three or more; or maybe those considered mature who know how to ensure your pleasure? Whatever your sexual desires may be, we have a large collection of adult movie categories to fulfil your every need...


 November 2, 2021  26m

episode 5: Ethical porn categories, ethical porn genres part 2

"Whether you’re looking for role play, voyeurism, BDSM or squirting, there is sure to be something to satisfy your sexual desires here. Perhaps today you’re looking for menstruation and tomorrow you’ll be in the mood for a bit of outdoor sex, it doesn’t matter because each XConfessions indie adult short film has been organized into a category for your viewing pleasure...


 November 3, 2021  1h14m

episode 6: Ethical porn categories, ethical porn genres part 3 (final part)

"This is how we make our adult movies

The Store by Erika Lust is part of a new wave of adult cinema made with an ethical production process. We encourage an ethical production and distribution of adult movies and hope to challenge mass produced mainstream pornography.

These are the principles that we follow with our own productions and that we seek in the productions that we distribute.

Equal pleasure for everyone

Women's pleasure matters...


 November 3, 2021  56m

episode 7: The Independent Fundamentalist Baptist (IFB) Church's ritual child abuse, sexual allegations, and Thou Shalt Not Touch: The Six-Inch Rule

"These practices are, without a doubt, child abuse. Of course, IFB parents don’t see themselves as child abusers. How can it be abusive to follow the teachings of the Bible? they ask. Pastors will point not only to the Bible as justification for ritual child abuse, they will also point to history, saying that back in the days when America was great parents weren’t afraid to beat their children...


 November 4, 2021  47m

episode 8: Hypocrisy is ruining Evangelicalism

"When stories such as this one make the national news, non-Evangelicals are often outraged over such Puritanical, backward thinking and behavior, thinking that schools such as Heritage Academy are few and far between. However, there are scores of Heritage Academies scattered across the United States, each with harsh rules and discipline meant to keep students from drinking, cussing, smoking, fornicating, and listening to rock music...


 November 4, 2021  57m

episode 10: Resolving and solving issues in the church part 1

  1. “I neglected my family.” Church work can become a deceitful mistress (I struggle to find the male equivalent of the word). We become so consumed with our ministry that we neglect our families. But 1 Timothy 3:5 is clear that our families are our first ministries.
  2. “I had no system of accountability.” Unfortunately, most churches do not have clear guidelines for accountability...


 November 5, 2021  58m

episode 11: The healing powers of sex

"What is consent?

Consent is a voluntary, enthusiastic, and clear agreement between the participants to engage in specific sexual activity. Period.

There is no room for different views on what consent is. People incapacitated by drugs or alcohol cannot consent.

If clear, voluntary, coherent, and ongoing consent is not given by all participants, it’s sexual assault...


 November 5, 2021  36m