We are Believers: Podcast

We believe that we are all creators of our own realities. Everything is possible and impossible at the same time. If we change our perceptions, the world around us will change. In this podcast, we examine everyday life situations using a practice of honest self-reflection, clear communication and optimistic realism. Our goal is not to tell you what to do as we cannot claim to know the solution to every problem. We can only demonstrate our approach to living and express what we believe. Hosted by Daria Hackenberg and Hollis P Monroe. https://instagram.com/wrbelievers https://facebook.com/wrbelievers


Eine durchschnittliche Folge dieses Podcasts dauert 49m. Bisher sind 35 Folge(n) erschienen. Dieser Podcast erscheint wöchentlich.

Gesamtlänge aller Episoden: 1 day 6 hours 44 minutes


Dating a woman in her 20s versus her 40s

In this episode, we will try to understand why women in their twenties and women in their forties behave so differently on dates and within relationships.

We’ll touch on what a woman in her 20s seems to want, and why she doesn't need such things at 40 while other requirements becomes uncompromisingly necessary over this same period of time.

We will talk about power dynamics, sensitivity, natural inclinations and, as always, relationships...


 2020-07-02  40m

Optimist, Pessimist and Reality

What if what we think of as “real” isn't actually real?

What if we told that there is no such thing as reality?

What if we told you that you can change your reality?

Have you noticed that some people only see the good in things while others, even at the best of times, can always find something bad?

Why does one person always seem to be lucky and another always seem to be unfortunate?

Who can say that the way someone perceives a situation is actually seeing...


 2020-06-21  45m

Looking at a beautiful woman is like looking at the sunset

"Looking at a beautiful woman is like looking at the sunset." Hollis P. Monroe.

In this episode: we share our views on how a man feels when he looks at an attractive woman and why it is so fascinating. As well, we discuss what it feels like for a woman when she meets an attractive man.

We talk about whether this "first" impression can be preserved and how long it might last...


 2020-06-13  47m

Why can't she see the real me?

You are a funny and easy-going guy who met someone. You spent some nice time together, you were joking like you always do. But then, she wrote that you are too serious for her...


 2020-06-06  46m

I am lazy. Or am I?

Are you lazy? 

Would you consider yourself a lazy person?  At times, do you feel as though you have no energy to accomplish the day’s tasks or even the inspiration to get out of bed in the morning?  Do you get down on yourself because of this lack of enthusiasm?  

If you answered yes to any of these questions, then this episode is for you!

We will question the preconception of laziness and even challenge its actual existence...


 2020-05-29  43m

Afraid of getting old

As children, we are in a rush to grow up, but once we reach adulthood, we very often regret that we didn’t fully appreciate our fleeting youth  

We do indeed grow up but at some point we recognize that we are also starting to grow old. The body looses the strength, speed and resilience it once had as the first wrinkles appear and the gray hair splashes. Most of us fear of aging...


 2020-05-24  53m

Tinder dating with and without isolation

Quarantine and social distancing have brought about new challenges for all of us.

The restriction of physical interaction has left us no choice but to search for it on the Internet.

The result seems to be that apps such as Tinder are being used more that ever before...


 2020-05-18  42m


In this episode, we examine a letter from a person who seeking advice from relationship philosopher and YouTuber, Alexander Grace.

In short. he was asking for guidance on what he should do about his seemingly one-sided relationship. And although it was posted over 8 months ago,  in our opinion, this topic will always be relevant to many and therefore still worth exploring...


 2020-05-11  42m

Podcast introduction

Let us introduce ourselves!

We are Believers is a project run by Daria Hackenberg and Hollis P Monroe.

This podcast is rooted in philosophical theory, as well as real world practice, to be affirmed or challenged throughout our conversations.

We are believers in ideas, people, and the power of love.

We are not trying to change your mind. We only express what we believe as we do not claim to know...


 2020-05-04  3m


A week of chatting and finally the long-awaited first date, but she (oh my God!) came without makeup!

What would that mean? 

She wants to show that she's not interested in you? 

Or does she want you to recognize her as a person first? 

Or is she nice and comfortable with you?

Or maybe she never wears makeup and her armpits are in the jungle?

Or maybe it just doesn't matter?

In this episode we try to figure out the possible...


 2020-05-03  1h0m