With That Being Said

Join Esther Boykin and Erica Turner, two licensed marriage & family therapists who run Therapy is Not a Dirty Word- a collection of workshops, retreats, happy hours, and other awesome ways to bring people and therapists together in real life. We bring professional expertise into beautiful, fun, and inspiring settings to make the wisdom of therapy more accessible to everyone. With that being said… let’s start the podcast! |Psst... podcasts aren't therapy. Please consult a health professional in person for real life help as needed| Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/withthatbeingsaid/support

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Eine durchschnittliche Folge dieses Podcasts dauert 55m. Bisher sind 28 Folge(n) erschienen. Dies ist ein zweiwöchentlich erscheinender Podcast
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episode 5: It's Always You... Even When It's Them


In this episode of "With That Being Said", Esther and Erica share about the importance of setting AND communicating your boundaries with others. No relationship is without boundaries, so Esther and Erica discuss how you can communicate your boundaries even when it's difficult, and why they believe boundaries are actually necessary to form meaningful connections...


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 2020-01-28  46m
 
 

episode 4: Episode with James Bland


In this episode of "With That Being Said", Esther and Erica talk with special guest James Bland! James is a content creator, film maker, actor, writer, producer, and director. He is the creator, show runner and star of the award winning digital drama, Giants. Esther, Erica and James discuss the stigma around mental health, especially in communities of color, and how James is using his platform in Hollywood to help end it...


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 2020-01-14  37m
 
 

episode 3: How Long is this Gonna Take?!


In this episode of "With That Being Said", Esther and Erica discuss how to set realistic expectations for therapy and answer the frequently asked question from clients - "How long is this going to take?" (spoiler: you probably won't like the answer)...


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 2019-12-17  1h5m
 
 

episode 2: Technology Won't Save You


On this episode of "With That Being Said", Esther and Erica discuss the times when technology is actually getting in the way of our relationships with others. Don't worry, this isn't like a lecture from your mom about how your cellphone is going to kill you. Esther and Erica take the stance that in general technology can assist relationships, but the problem is when technology is used to avoid all awkward and uncomfortable conversations...


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 2019-12-03  57m
 
 

episode 1: Unpopular Opinion About Forgiveness


On this episode of "With That Being Said", Esther and Erica share their "unpopular" opinion about forgiveness. They dive into the complexities of forgiveness, from the strict dictionary definition definition, to why there seems to be so much value placed on forgiveness. Esther and Erica make the case that forgiveness is a process, and not a destination and sometimes it's choosing between what takes more energy: to hate or to forgive...


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 2019-11-05  56m
 
 

episode 8: Don't Be Listening To Your Lil Instagram Friend


On this episode of "With That Being Said", Esther and Erica discuss all the internet advice you're reading and need to stop. They'll share examples of:

- bad advice they've seen online, and what makes it bad

- advice that isn't bad, but isn't good for you

And will share tips on how you can evaluate what advice is helpful to you and what advice is not...


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 2019-04-30  53m
 
 

episode 7: Let's Talk About Sex with Pam Costa


On this episode of "With That Being Said" we chat with sex and relationship coach Pam Costa.  We'll discuss a range of topics related to sex, including the importance of having a community you can talk candidly with about sex (especially for women!), what you can expect in sex therapy, and about open and poly-amorous relationships.  Pam's Website:  www.downtothere.com Circles: www.downtothere...


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 2019-04-16  54m
 
 

episode 6: Self Care with Jerico Mandybur


On this episode of "With That Being Said" we chat with writer and self-care advocate Jerico Mandybur about how to manage your self-care and reclaim what brings you joy. We also discuss the role of social media in our lives, self-exploration and Tarot.  Jerico's Tarot Book and Deck available NOW -  Neo Tarot: A Fresh Approach to Self-Care, Healing & Empowerment Jerico's Website:  jericomandybur.com  Jerico's Instagram: @jerico.mandybur Become a supporter of this podcast: https://anchor...


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 2019-04-02  41m
 
 

episode 5: Bad Parents


On this episode of "With That Being Said" Esther and Erica discuss two tragic cases of 'what were the parents thinking?' and discuss why it's not helpful -- and even dangerous -- to view people as wholly bad or good. 


*Warning: this episode contains an audio clip about sexual assault that some listeners may find triggering. 


Twitter Video:  pic.twitter.com/tQcA4Ogk91 

Abducted in Plain Sight: https://www.netflix...


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 2019-03-19  1h6m
 
 

episode 4: Our Fave TV Couples


 In this episode Esther and Erica share their 3 favorite TV couples - who they think have the ingredients for a successful marriage (with some debate of course).


*Spoiler Alert: the shows are linked below so don't click the link if you don't want to know the picks yet!*

--The 'Good Enough' Couple

--The 'Has The Potential To Go The Distance' Couple

--The 'All Time Favorite' Couple

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 2019-03-05  1h15m
 
 
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