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Speaker 1: good morning everybody. Y'all listening to the voice, Come on
Speaker 1: dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a
Speaker 1: radio show. Okay, Okay, here's what I want to share
Speaker 1: with you. Stop complaining. So I had to let you
Speaker 1: see how I let that one sit for a second.
Speaker 1: Stop complaining. Do you realize without us even thinking about it,
Speaker 1: oftentimes we just complain about stuff and it comes up
Speaker 1: in such subtle forms. Man, I don't know why they're
Speaker 1: still letting that lady work there. Man, if they don't
Speaker 1: fire this woman, Man, I don't know what I'm gonna do.
Speaker 1: Shoot your me crazy. She always got something to say.
Speaker 1: I bet to day though, the way I'm feeling right now,
Speaker 1: I bet she'd been not saying nothing to me today.
Speaker 1: M yeah, yeah, because day it today it I'm sick
Speaker 1: of her running her mouth. Last time she said something
Speaker 1: to me, I should have said something to it. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I'm just giving you a small
Speaker 1: example of how it starts to snowball once you start
Speaker 1: to complain. It's it just carries over into so many things. Man,
Speaker 1: Stop complaining about your call, Stop complaining about your bus pass,
Speaker 1: Stop complaining about your kids can't seem to get it together.
Speaker 1: Stop complaining about your man can't seem to get it together.
Speaker 1: Stop complaining. Stop Have you noticed? I'm just asking have
Speaker 1: you notice that in all of your complaining, it has
Speaker 1: provided not one solution. The reason I'm telling you to
Speaker 1: stop complaining because God is able, Because God is capable.
Speaker 1: He is capable and able of fixing anything, capable and
Speaker 1: able of curing anything, capable and able of allowing you
Speaker 1: to get to adjusting to things, and capable and able
Speaker 1: to strengthen you to get through and change anything. But
Speaker 1: the key here is God is capable, and God is able.
Speaker 1: A lot of times I find myself complaining because I
Speaker 1: have not used my greatest asset, and that's my relationship
Speaker 1: with God. You all have one now. You may not
Speaker 1: have nurtured it, but you have one because God created
Speaker 1: you as his child. He's available to you. Now. The
Speaker 1: fact that you ain't went to him. Okay, once again,
Speaker 1: who fathers that? Stop complaining Until you strengthen your relationship
Speaker 1: with God and formulate this relationship. You don't have enough weapons.
Speaker 1: You ain't got a big enough shield to fight this
Speaker 1: thing called life. It just keeps coming. Man, And unless
Speaker 1: you develop a relationship with God, you need a partner
Speaker 1: in all of this. Maybe you got another route you're
Speaker 1: gonna take. But every successful person I know personally has
Speaker 1: a relationship with God. I have some really really some
Speaker 1: people that's kind of up there in the success term
Speaker 1: in terms of business and money and statute. I'm just
Speaker 1: talking about that portion of success. And then I have
Speaker 1: a lot of people who are very successful in the
Speaker 1: in their spiritual life, who have become great men of
Speaker 1: God and women of God. But look at all of them,
Speaker 1: and all of them have substantial amounts of you know,
Speaker 1: possessions and things like that. Also, most successful people I
Speaker 1: know have that even if you saw them never with
Speaker 1: a big lot of house and a lot of money
Speaker 1: or stuff like that, they had so much respect, so
Speaker 1: much love, so much power was given them from people
Speaker 1: that their life was rich in that area, you know,
Speaker 1: like a man Nu the King or something like that,
Speaker 1: or Gandhi or somebody who lived their life in nervous
Speaker 1: or Nelson Mandela who came out and just man, people
Speaker 1: put stuff at their feet because of their service. So
Speaker 1: all successful people I know have that. Every last one
Speaker 1: of these people that I know, they have relationship with God.
Speaker 1: They used the tool that was available to them to
Speaker 1: give them the strength, the bullets, the arrows, the slings,
Speaker 1: the shield to fight this thing called life and have
Speaker 1: the most valuable partner right there by their side. They
Speaker 1: heavily father God because he will help you get through
Speaker 1: this thing called life. Man, stop complaining all the time.
Speaker 1: It's not fixing anything. Why don't you do yourself a
Speaker 1: favor and strengthen your relationship with God? Man? Why can
Speaker 1: I never get over? Well you have not because you
Speaker 1: asked not. Man? How come I always got problems? Well,
Speaker 1: you keep trying to solve them yourself and taking them
Speaker 1: to your friends. You keep trying to do them with
Speaker 1: your own thought process. Who are you? I keep telling you, man,
Speaker 1: you're going through stuff you ain't got no business going through.
Speaker 1: And if it's you going through something over and over
Speaker 1: and over and over, and the same problem keep coming
Speaker 1: back to bite you again. All that's saying is you
Speaker 1: still ain't strengthen your relationship with God. It's your relationship.
Speaker 1: He's not gonna make you have one with him. He
Speaker 1: is a perfect gentleman. He only comes into your life
Speaker 1: when you invite him in. But for those who do
Speaker 1: invite him, men, they have a distinct advantage on their
Speaker 1: road to success, a distinct advantage. You can do it
Speaker 1: without him. Trust me, you can. How far you get.
Speaker 1: I can't promise you nothing, how well you handle it
Speaker 1: when you arrived there, I can't promise you nothing. How
Speaker 1: long you're gonna stay there, I can't promise you nothing.
Speaker 1: How difficult it's going to be without him. I can't
Speaker 1: give you that. It's going to be far more difficult.
Speaker 1: But you can. Something can happen, and you know, receive
Speaker 1: a measure of success and thinks you and this move
Speaker 1: you made, and you can describe it as I got lucky.
Speaker 1: I happened to be in the right place at the
Speaker 1: right time. I got lucky. Lucky is usually how other
Speaker 1: people describe other people's success. Poor he was lucky, he
Speaker 1: was right there. Well, let me tell you what lucky is.
Speaker 1: Luck's when hard work bumps up into opportunity. If you've
Speaker 1: been working hard as something, an opportunity presents itself that
Speaker 1: comes a match. That's not luck. But now, if you
Speaker 1: haven't done that on a repetitive enough basis, that opportunity
Speaker 1: could present itself one time. You got to reconnect. Stop complaining, man,
Speaker 1: come on, listen to me. Stop complaining. It hasn't fixed
Speaker 1: a single thing in your life. And if you're a
Speaker 1: chronic complainer, it's because you really really have not fixed
Speaker 1: your relationship with God. He'll smove it out for you.
Speaker 1: That I can tell you for a fact. I know
Speaker 1: that for a fact he's moved mine out. All right,
Speaker 1: let's go. You're listening show top top. Wake Up, wake up,
Speaker 1: wake up, wake up, wake up, wake up. This is
Speaker 1: your wake up call. This is the Steve Harvey Morning Show,
Speaker 1: wake up call, Rising Shine, give yourself that stretch, that
Speaker 1: boning yawn and sit on the edge of the bed.
Speaker 1: Thank the man. And then you got to get up,
Speaker 1: get out and get something. It is the nephew holding
Speaker 1: it down today along with the beautiful ladies that would
Speaker 1: be Caller Ferrell, Mississipip Monica and the one and only
Speaker 1: the hot voice of Radio, Shirley Strawberry. Yeah. And then
Speaker 1: there is the junior favorite favorite play Cousin Killa Junior
Speaker 1: Boy Fates. We are in the building. We are holding
Speaker 1: it down, and we are bringing the ignorant, the stupid,
Speaker 1: and then the ladies will bring the beauty and then
Speaker 1: kind of give it a little bit more balance of
Speaker 1: what we need from two ignorant people at the same time.
Speaker 1: We're gonna do that. Yes, yes, And before I go
Speaker 1: in and father, I just want to say, did you
Speaker 1: see that one hundred Friday Night? Did you see that
Speaker 1: one hundred one, one hundred episodes? Once again, I'm ready
Speaker 1: to love network? Yes, ye, hosted by yours truly. In
Speaker 1: case people didn't know, I'm sorry, that's that's That's not
Speaker 1: hosted by Nephew tomp It's hosted by Tommy Miles. That's right,
Speaker 1: which which which happens to be owned by the one
Speaker 1: and only Oprah Winfrey, who made a guest appearance. Come on,
Speaker 1: that's majorly epic, Lee, Big Lee, I was not wrong,
Speaker 1: Bigley Strong you better every big I was working in Baltimore.
Speaker 1: My mom would called me and I said, Mom, I'm
Speaker 1: I'm in a dress room, get ridy gonna stay. I know,
Speaker 1: I know you're working. But Oprah just said your name.
Speaker 1: She did. She said my name before the first time
Speaker 1: I heard let's see y'all name, I said, okay, all right,
Speaker 1: let me get to work. That was awesome. It really was.
Speaker 1: Later on and about forty five minutes, we're gonna talk
Speaker 1: about Ready to Love one hundredth episode. You're gonna hear
Speaker 1: from the very I don't Oprah what we're talking about
Speaker 1: on the own network. You know, she owned the network
Speaker 1: showing Timmy some love. That is so amazing. Congratulations time
Speaker 1: what big We didn't somebody did y'all see the Did
Speaker 1: y'all see the cake one hundred episode? Cake? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: That's when. Uh, that's when Will Packer actually came on
Speaker 1: the set and surprised me in Miami. I had no idea.
Speaker 1: I didn't know. I didn't not I did not know
Speaker 1: we've even reached a hundred. I did not know anything really,
Speaker 1: But I mean, you know that topped with everything that
Speaker 1: you went through while you were making the show last year, Tommy,
Speaker 1: I mean, what a blessing on top of a blessing,
Speaker 1: you know, you're one hundredth episode. You went through everything.
Speaker 1: What a year for you? You know, it's been it's
Speaker 1: been an amazing Yeah, it's been an amazing journey. Man,
Speaker 1: I'm so grateful. I'm so blessed and and man, just
Speaker 1: to have my wife there with me doing that, yeah
Speaker 1: that man, if she would not have been there, I
Speaker 1: just I couldn't have made it through. That isn't my rock,
Speaker 1: my rock, my rock, my rock. Oh yeah, that's that
Speaker 1: is beautiful. Well, coming up with thirty two minutes after
Speaker 1: the hour, we're gonna hear more from the nephew as
Speaker 1: he runs that prank back. Right after this you're listening show,
Speaker 1: it is time now to start your morning off with
Speaker 1: the one and only mister one hundredth episode himself. Nephew, Tommy,
Speaker 1: run that prank back? What you got, I'm gonna dig
Speaker 1: off into this bag of stupid right here for a minute, Sharon,
Speaker 1: let me see, let me gather myself. All right, here
Speaker 1: we go. Can you fix my roof? Can you fix
Speaker 1: my roof? It is very insulting. And then it is
Speaker 1: wrong to call a Spanish person and ask them can
Speaker 1: you fix my roof? It's just wrong. It's just wrong.
Speaker 1: You gonna play. But in order to prank, you gotta
Speaker 1: be wrong. You gotta be wrong. You can't. It's no
Speaker 1: right prank. It's just ampousible all right, right, I don't
Speaker 1: want to be right. Yes, but but but but but
Speaker 1: you know what's crazy My Spanish roommate. I had a
Speaker 1: Spanish roommate in college for a couple of years. Uh
Speaker 1: jaf Frank had nothing as he loves this prank. So
Speaker 1: this goes out to my boy, can you fix my roof?
Speaker 1: Let's go get hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach Eduardo.
Speaker 1: Uh does word Eduardo? How are you doing? Man? I'm
Speaker 1: one of your neighbors. Man, I'm actually like two streets over.
Speaker 1: I wanted to see if you could come around here
Speaker 1: man and help me out. Man, I gotta leak in
Speaker 1: my roof. Are you able to come around the corner
Speaker 1: real quick and see about fixing my roof? Who? Who's this? Yeah?
Speaker 1: This sammy man? I live like two streets over from you.
Speaker 1: You're you're Eduardo? Right? Yes? Is it? Word them? Okay?
Speaker 1: I need you to I gotta leak in my roof. Man.
Speaker 1: I wanted to see if you can come around here
Speaker 1: and and take a little in your roof. What does
Speaker 1: that have to do with me? No, no, I gotta
Speaker 1: leak in it. It doesn't have anything to do with you.
Speaker 1: But I wanted to see if you could come around
Speaker 1: here and fix it for me. How did you get
Speaker 1: my number? Man? I mean, where do you think I'm
Speaker 1: I would fix your roof? I got your number from
Speaker 1: one of the neighbors. But you you're you're you're you're Hispanic, right? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I know, I'm I'm hestatical, I'm not from the standing.
Speaker 1: I'm Mexican if that's what you're asking. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: what I'm an American Mexican American? I mean, are you
Speaker 1: are you're trying to be funny or what? What are
Speaker 1: you talking about? Right? Or I gotta go fix your roof?
Speaker 1: I mean when you don't don't know Mexican people know
Speaker 1: how to do roots. You know what? Man, don't talk
Speaker 1: to me like that. I'm an educated Mexican. I'm your
Speaker 1: worst nightmare. Who do you do? Who? Who do you
Speaker 1: think you could call? Me? Because I think of all
Speaker 1: Mexican fixed roofs and listen here, I'm not a roofer.
Speaker 1: I work at a bank. Okay, you understand that. I
Speaker 1: understand you work at a bank. But from my understanding,
Speaker 1: all Hispanic people, I mean, what do you what do
Speaker 1: you what are you doing with the bank? I mean
Speaker 1: you you la time little bank? What do you? What
Speaker 1: do you do with the bank? Listen to you, ignorant.
Speaker 1: I work at a bank. I'm a loan officer. I
Speaker 1: am a dangerous I'm a Mexican with good credit. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm a dangerous Mexican. You put the wrong person. Are
Speaker 1: you that stupid? Huh? What is the magic you school?
Speaker 1: Who gave you my number? Where do you live? You
Speaker 1: can't be one of my neighbors. I haven't seen a
Speaker 1: retarded walking around my neighborhood, ladies. I'm two streets over
Speaker 1: from you. Man, I'm like I said, I got a
Speaker 1: leak in my room and somebody gave me your number.
Speaker 1: I thought all Hispanic people knew how to fix rooms.
Speaker 1: Oh really, maybe if I don't cut your classic, if
Speaker 1: you're in the scale type of up, huh would that
Speaker 1: be good? Why don't you come over to my half.
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. Look I man, you you you
Speaker 1: you're taking this. You're taking this the wrong way. I'm
Speaker 1: trying to give you some work. Man, I'm trying to
Speaker 1: what all I really wanted to see if you could
Speaker 1: come over in and fix the leak. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, that's that's really all I wanted to do it.
Speaker 1: I heard you know that most Hispanic people, you know,
Speaker 1: all of y'all supposed to know how to do a route.
Speaker 1: I mean, are you are you kidding me? Man? You stupid?
Speaker 1: I work at a bank. I've got a degree. You
Speaker 1: didn't hear me. You're one of them, ignorant to don't
Speaker 1: listen anything. I live in the nice neighborhood. Man, what
Speaker 1: do you do? You sell drugs to live in this neighborhood.
Speaker 1: You pieces, look at this, You're making me to grade
Speaker 1: myself like just talking to you. I don't do kyle,
Speaker 1: I don't do construction. I don't fix rules. I'm not
Speaker 1: a cannon. I don't do yards. Okay, do you steal?
Speaker 1: There's nothing wrong with being a construction worker, for name,
Speaker 1: brick or doing tile or doing roof, And there's nothing
Speaker 1: wrong with that. Man. I got a lot of relatives.
Speaker 1: I've done those jobs myself, but I educated myself. Now
Speaker 1: I've got a degree, and I work at a bank
Speaker 1: as a long office don't you with me? Don't you
Speaker 1: ever call me again? Little honey? Hey? Hey, hey cool, Hey,
Speaker 1: I need English, Man, I need English English. You what
Speaker 1: what what are you saying? Man? What are you saying? Hey? Man?
Speaker 1: Don't you don't don't be upset because I speak to
Speaker 1: languages and you speak what or you can probably speak
Speaker 1: tig lattin or something like. Hey, you know this. You
Speaker 1: don't want a man. I don't even I don't even
Speaker 1: like to talk like this. And I've worked at a bank.
Speaker 1: I gotta deal with customers every day, and I deal
Speaker 1: with ignorant. I don't even like I deal with ignorant,
Speaker 1: not on a daily basis I can do. They got
Speaker 1: playing with it. Man. I grew up on the West Side.
Speaker 1: You need to watch your tone. Okay, man, you hey man,
Speaker 1: let me let me let me ask you this though.
Speaker 1: Do you know Wholios? Yeah? I know Whoos. That's that's
Speaker 1: my cousin. Now what does he have to do? It's okay, okay,
Speaker 1: Julio is the one that told me to call you.
Speaker 1: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Man,
Speaker 1: your cousins just got me the prank fall. Call you down, man,
Speaker 1: that's what and what? Yeah, Man, I listen to that show. Man,
Speaker 1: y'all got me where Man? Where? He well? Who? I
Speaker 1: was ready to be a real mescan from the hood. Man, God,
Speaker 1: Holly you all right? Man? He got me Now, I
Speaker 1: was gonna go back to be let my cousins who
Speaker 1: boy from Man? Hey, Man, I got one more thing?
Speaker 1: Ask you had war though? What is the baddest and
Speaker 1: I mean the baddest radio show in the land, Man
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey in the morning Man, he got me? Hey, Tommy,
Speaker 1: Tommy bum before you go. Man home from the Hood
Speaker 1: would love that, man, he'd be one of the homeboys. Man.
Speaker 1: Did we put some stupid on that? Yeah? At the beginning,
Speaker 1: middle and end. Yeah, yeah, yeah, My man went off
Speaker 1: about this Hooper got to be all the way through.
Speaker 1: That's how I do. That's how do. Let me drop
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Speaker 1: April first, at the Texas Trust. Tickets are own sale
Speaker 1: right now. All right, thank you, you're listening to show
Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour. In entertainment news,
Speaker 1: still trending some of our favorite winners and highlights from
Speaker 1: the NAACP Image Awards. And speaking of awards, Hey, listen,
Speaker 1: Rihanna will perform at this year's Oscars. Okay, well, thank
Speaker 1: you very much. Yes, that part right there. Yeah, And
Speaker 1: Nick Cannon says it is up to God if he'll
Speaker 1: have any more children. Just telling you what. We'll talk
Speaker 1: about all of these stories at the top of the hour,
Speaker 1: but right now it is time to ask the ready
Speaker 1: to love Officer and Junior. Here we go. But Tina
Speaker 1: and uh Lanham says, I moved in with my boyfriend
Speaker 1: two months ago and he's been ignoring me since then.
Speaker 1: I think he changed his mind and wants me out
Speaker 1: because he avoid me and he sleeps on the couch.
Speaker 1: Should I confront him or start making play to move? Huh? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you need to start making playing. He tired of you?
Speaker 1: Are ready? You didn't got a last damn I don't
Speaker 1: know what you'dn't have done in that house. But once
Speaker 1: a man revert to that couch, and that couch start
Speaker 1: being his home. He is tired of you. He's tired
Speaker 1: of looking at you everyway, every room. He walking you
Speaker 1: in now too, he tired of you. You didn't got
Speaker 1: on his lands, dog on nerves. And yes he thinking
Speaker 1: about when you gonna leave. And you need to start
Speaker 1: thinking about it too. But all your stuff in a
Speaker 1: box to the left, go ahead, Jimman. Yeah, no, he
Speaker 1: is side of you. Really. I'm telling one thing you
Speaker 1: need to start doing. You get in the car and
Speaker 1: take penning paper with you because you need to start
Speaker 1: filling new addresses. You need start that move in specials,
Speaker 1: you need starting ninety nine move ins. You need to
Speaker 1: start looking at all of that, because he is ready
Speaker 1: for you to go. I'm telling you this is a
Speaker 1: clip side. He owned the couch every night. He don't
Speaker 1: even want the bed, yea, And ain't trible, ain't talking,
Speaker 1: ain't saying nothing? Oh yeah, saying right. He owned the
Speaker 1: couch with this little blanket. He cool with that. Yes,
Speaker 1: this isn't bad. It is all right. Moving on to
Speaker 1: Sophie in Denver. Sophie says, I'm thirty eight years old
Speaker 1: and I'm dating a twenty five year old man. His
Speaker 1: mama worked with me and that's how we met. She
Speaker 1: does not know we're dating, and he doesn't want her
Speaker 1: to find out. I'm too grown for that. So how
Speaker 1: do I tell my ex co worker I'm with her son?
Speaker 1: You didn't stole that latest boys, that baby he's twa
Speaker 1: with his mom. He is not ready for a relationship
Speaker 1: with a thirty eight year old woman and he's twenty
Speaker 1: five years old. I promise you, this is a boy
Speaker 1: you got, and he's doing boy things because he's scared
Speaker 1: to tell his mama's stuff. You ain't grown up yet.
Speaker 1: He just boy. You got yourself a boy. But you
Speaker 1: liked that boy toy at the beginning, didn't you. Yes
Speaker 1: you did, Yes, you did. Because he's twenty five and
Speaker 1: he's got he could do some different things. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: talked that boy something, you cook some good food, and
Speaker 1: you bought him a PlayStation as you did. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean you got him me twenty five, You win him,
Speaker 1: so you might have were gonna just come out and
Speaker 1: tell us, mama, just ask some questions, like how did
Speaker 1: the vontee like spaghetti. Put this stuff together? But stop? Yeah,
Speaker 1: how you how you wanted? Did he do a turkey
Speaker 1: and ground beef? Girl? Talk to me, this boy can't
Speaker 1: eat Oh my gosh, oh this boy eat me out
Speaker 1: of the house at home. Why does he like to
Speaker 1: go to the movies that? Did you know where you
Speaker 1: like to go to the movies? That sass killed? Stuff
Speaker 1: like that. You'll figure the whole thing out, Golden, You
Speaker 1: tell her he with you and Sophie? Okay, what'side jeans?
Speaker 1: He wearing thirty eighth in the way? What is it
Speaker 1: that big? Now? He needs the pass shopping? Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: just tell her. And I didn't get the bunte suit
Speaker 1: we got up? Yeah, yeah, we got to get him
Speaker 1: one of them nice yellow suits. Faith he gonna to
Speaker 1: preach together, all right. Moving on to Julie. Crazy Julie
Speaker 1: in Tallahassee writes, my sister's boyfriend is having sex with
Speaker 1: this girl I work with, and my co workers told
Speaker 1: me I'm low down because I haven't told my sister.
Speaker 1: The last time I told my sister about him, she
Speaker 1: didn't even question him. Do I stay out of it
Speaker 1: or try to tell her again? They I just ain't
Speaker 1: got nothing to do with you. Oh my god, I
Speaker 1: can't staying. People are getting other people's business. This ain't
Speaker 1: got nothing to do with you and your sister because
Speaker 1: you out lands time behind this. Now you you go
Speaker 1: again and you think you you know you what you
Speaker 1: think the second time to John, No, this is not working. Leave.
Speaker 1: Let your sister find this out on her own. And
Speaker 1: she don't find out. She just don't find eye. But
Speaker 1: stay your butt out of it, all right. It's good
Speaker 1: to be on the side lane sometimes and just why
Speaker 1: it is? Yeah, watch, she's getting pressure from her co workers.
Speaker 1: Though that's the pro n tell your co workers just
Speaker 1: so she don't need to tell her. So, my sister, no, listen.
Speaker 1: She had told you to come in here. Stop talking
Speaker 1: about what Darrel out here doing in these streets. Darren
Speaker 1: day at your mouth. She had told you already. Now
Speaker 1: quit going down and talk about what Darrel doing without
Speaker 1: in the streets out here. Put you my sister though, Yeah,
Speaker 1: well I don't want to hear it. We we got
Speaker 1: different mamas and dads anyway, We don't even don't alway
Speaker 1: blood we have Okay, Cody had talked me with Darrel
Speaker 1: doing out in these streets. Lead down name. She hadn't
Speaker 1: told you already, Cold Julian, Yeah, you got it up,
Speaker 1: so so she'll just find out on her own. Okay,
Speaker 1: did she gonna come back? And the team? Why you
Speaker 1: ain't tell me? Darrel was out here in these streets.
Speaker 1: We got to take the first time. I ain't known,
Speaker 1: I ain't know. I'm sure I don't know out of
Speaker 1: it all right? Last one, guys, Last one or Linda
Speaker 1: and Brandon says, My thirty year old daughter lives with
Speaker 1: me and it is ruining my life. I come home
Speaker 1: and she's either laid up on my couch or in
Speaker 1: my bed. The TV in her room is broken, so
Speaker 1: she sleeps with me to watch TV. She has a job,
Speaker 1: but she uses her money to shop, hang out and travel.
Speaker 1: I know I made this problem, but how do I
Speaker 1: fix it? Oh? We got to go cold Turkey. We
Speaker 1: gotta cut this off right here. No, you're not gonna
Speaker 1: be just laying up with me, laying up with me
Speaker 1: in my room watching my TV. No, you got to go.
Speaker 1: We got you got you got. I'll tell you what.
Speaker 1: Help your daughter get her first month's rent at an apartment.
Speaker 1: But let's move the hell out of here now. First
Speaker 1: month rent put a little sum on her count. And
Speaker 1: now you own your own. You got to maintain and
Speaker 1: you got a job, so that all that's shopping and traveling.
Speaker 1: Now you're gonna have to balance that but your own check.
Speaker 1: But at this point when you got to get your
Speaker 1: butt out of my house, this is it, this is it.
Speaker 1: You ain't got that, and build her little house out
Speaker 1: back somewhere, night little house or something. Telling her mom
Speaker 1: to build her daughter out her night little time to
Speaker 1: one of them tining homes in the backyard. The one
Speaker 1: you're getting that tining home here'll make you thinking about
Speaker 1: what you really wanted, like get your ass in that
Speaker 1: little tining home about yourself. But you can't. But you
Speaker 1: can't be coming in and out of this house. We
Speaker 1: threw with that or tying home on the one or
Speaker 1: the two. I'm with. I'm telling you we gotta make
Speaker 1: some dressing changes. Like times you gotta go. You got
Speaker 1: to go through some extreme stuff. So I suggest, man,
Speaker 1: you really want to teach your listen, take all the
Speaker 1: stuff out the house. She liked, so she liked them TVs.
Speaker 1: Take them TVs out of here. Get that couch she
Speaker 1: liked to let the phone. Take that out. Get all
Speaker 1: that table like. She liked to say to eat that.
Speaker 1: Get rid of the table. Don't have no funch in
Speaker 1: here with your come on, just boop everything out. Just
Speaker 1: sit in that house within the dark. Don't pay the
Speaker 1: light bell turning lights out in here. She can't get
Speaker 1: your football nothing, just being here with me in the dark.
Speaker 1: So long you can do out last. I got a job.
Speaker 1: I'm going to work. Yeah, take all that stuff out it.
Speaker 1: She liked anything in refrigeration, she like eat. Don't buy
Speaker 1: none of that normal. Get all that out of this. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, all right, guys, thank you. Riddelow and Junior
Speaker 1: appreciated coming up at the top of the hour, and
Speaker 1: we'll have some entertainment news for you right after this.
Speaker 1: You're listening well, guys, still trending some of our favorite
Speaker 1: moments from the NUBLEACP Image Awards. There was a moment
Speaker 1: when Queen Latifa talked about our struggle and resilience as
Speaker 1: a people. And then w NBA star Britney Grinder and
Speaker 1: her wife Cherrelle Grinder surprised the audience when they walked
Speaker 1: out on stage and received a standing ovation. Take a look.
Speaker 1: Thank you. Pause. Um, we are just truly so thankful
Speaker 1: to all the people, media, of whom are black women
Speaker 1: and black lead organizations who fought so hard to bring
Speaker 1: Big home tonight. It feels so good to be here,
Speaker 1: especially with my beautiful, amazing wife, and with all of
Speaker 1: y'all here today. I want to thank I want to
Speaker 1: thank everyone, and let's keep fighting the brain home. Every
Speaker 1: American still detained overseas. Thank you. That was that it
Speaker 1: was written. It voys has changed. Really, I'm say it
Speaker 1: sounds different, a little wott. Yeah, well it's deeper. It's
Speaker 1: deeper than what I what I remember me. So you know,
Speaker 1: you went to schools, you went to high school here
Speaker 1: in Houston, so you grow up, watched her grow up?
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah yeah. But it was a star studded
Speaker 1: audience today, Serena Williams, Jonathan Major, you saw Dwayne Way,
Speaker 1: everyone on their feet, Tracy Ellis Ross, you know clapping,
Speaker 1: you know who you know who stole the show? A
Speaker 1: turn to Benjamin Crop stole yeah, down stole the show.
Speaker 1: It was Yes, that boy is a baseman. Yes yeah, Uh,
Speaker 1: I ain't going to court with Benjamin Crawl. I don't
Speaker 1: care ticket traffic ticket night. I'm going with Benjamin crap.
Speaker 1: That's how I promise you you when you called me
Speaker 1: down them me, I ain't coming in until me and
Speaker 1: get here. Yeah. Well. Other NAACP image winners include Angela
Speaker 1: Bassetts she one for Angela, one for Entertainer of the Year,
Speaker 1: Black Panther would kind of for every One's Best motion Picture,
Speaker 1: Avid Elementary one Big, including Best TV Comedy. According to
Speaker 1: The Hollywood Reporter, I know I love that show, but
Speaker 1: but this is the one that surprised to me sort
Speaker 1: of kind of. Uh. Will Smith won for Best Actor
Speaker 1: in a Motion Picture for his role in Emancipation and
Speaker 1: then we'll post it on Instagram. Wow in double ACP.
Speaker 1: I am absolutely humbled by this. You know, I think
Speaker 1: it was a lot in that. You know, No, Greta,
Speaker 1: he gave me award. You're not we'll gave you. We'll
Speaker 1: gave you award. You not messing up this show, not
Speaker 1: this No, no, too soon, too soon we will be
Speaker 1: we'll be sending that two day mail. That'd be two days. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that one. Yeah, he won, But yeah, like you say,
Speaker 1: Junior violent David's I was so happy for this one.
Speaker 1: One for the woman King, which was my favorite movie
Speaker 1: of twenty twenty two, favorite movie. It was outstanding. Um yeah,
Speaker 1: what a great movie and she deserved to win that.
Speaker 1: The Social Justice Impact Impact Award winner Civil Rights Attorney
Speaker 1: like you said, Tommy Benjamin Trump with an outstanding speech.
Speaker 1: Gabrielle Union and Wayne Wade were emotional when they accepted
Speaker 1: the President's award as they talked about their daughter Zaiah
Speaker 1: and the issues faced by her and other black trans people.
Speaker 1: And in Kerrie Washington presented Serena Williams with the Jackie
Speaker 1: Robinson Sports Award. And you know, Serena was gracious as
Speaker 1: always with her acceptance speech. Just just lovely, lovely, lovely
Speaker 1: to see her win that award. Yeah, So congratulations to
Speaker 1: all the NAACP Image Award winners. In other in other
Speaker 1: entertainment news, it's awards season, the Academy Awards. Yes, Rihanna
Speaker 1: will be one of the performance Get your mind right,
Speaker 1: She'll be one of the performers. She's gonna sing the
Speaker 1: nominated song list to me. Uh, she's going she don't
Speaker 1: sound like that, Just like that from Black Panther Reports
Speaker 1: with Conda Forever the soundtrack. You can't have all these
Speaker 1: people up in the AFP. All these you can't have
Speaker 1: all that at the at the Oscars. It's not just
Speaker 1: whatever whatever. Yeah, won't think everybody. I don't think everybody
Speaker 1: got their rope on. I'll be worried. I'll be trying
Speaker 1: to see if they got their rope on ABC and
Speaker 1: the Academy. You know, they risk getting a flurry of complaints.
Speaker 1: We acc heard from more than one hundred viewers of
Speaker 1: Super Bowl fifty seven on Fox. They complained that Rihanna's
Speaker 1: halftime performance was too sexual, the dancers too suggestives with
Speaker 1: their hip thrust. I know, just anything to read to
Speaker 1: get on Rihanna right now. Yeah, that's what I agree.
Speaker 1: They were. Definitely did pat She did pattic one time,
Speaker 1: she did yeah, yeah, and yeah and then put it up.
Speaker 1: I saw that somebody probably named Karen that wrote to
Speaker 1: the FCC you think about Rihanna's halftime show. Yeah, they
Speaker 1: said children shouldn't be exposed to pornography as an adult.
Speaker 1: I don't wish to see it. Where has decency gone?
Speaker 1: This is all for Rihanna's performance. Yeah, okay, Karen, Yeah,
Speaker 1: come on, yeah, yeah, we've seen worse for sure. Uh,
Speaker 1: finally an entertainment news. Nick Cannon says he will let
Speaker 1: God decide if he's done having children. Nick, of course,
Speaker 1: his father twelve children. Today, he said, is up to
Speaker 1: God to decide when he will stop. Nicka's forty two.
Speaker 1: He welcome to child in December. Yeah, the lords, I guess,
Speaker 1: but he's saying there may be more. He doesn't know.
Speaker 1: It's God's decision. It's not off. Yeah, I think it's
Speaker 1: up to protection. This is what this is up to.
Speaker 1: That's not know what I got to do it. This
Speaker 1: is up to protection. Coming coming up in twenty minutes
Speaker 1: after the hour, the one hundredth episode of the hit
Speaker 1: reality dating show Ready to Love. We'll talk about it
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to morning show. Congratulations yet
Speaker 1: again to our very own nephew Tommy or Tommy Miles
Speaker 1: as they call you, Unready to Love. Yes, you're one
Speaker 1: hundredth episode of Ready to Love. It is a hit.
Speaker 1: It is a hit, hands down. It's a hit. Um
Speaker 1: reality dating show that we all love. We all love
Speaker 1: the show on own network. Take a listen to Oprah
Speaker 1: Winfrey's message to Will Packer and Tommy Miles when Will
Speaker 1: Packer first came to me with an idea to help
Speaker 1: grown black folk final love. I was more than a
Speaker 1: little intrigued with all the dating shows on TMM. How
Speaker 1: would people respond to a show that was about more
Speaker 1: than just sex and skin, a show designed to help
Speaker 1: singles find real love. Now, after one hundred episodes and
Speaker 1: toughtless connections, I think the answer is pretty clear. We
Speaker 1: all want to experience authentic love, whether it's in our
Speaker 1: own lives or rooting for strangers on TV. We want
Speaker 1: genuine connection. And so, as the show's original fan, I
Speaker 1: wanted to say to you Will Packer, Tommy Miles, the
Speaker 1: entire Lighthearted team, I want to thank you all for
Speaker 1: a hundred, one hundred, yes, one hundred episodes of helping
Speaker 1: grown folk fine love. Thank you, thank you, thank you,
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you. Boy. You bet old that one.
Speaker 1: What I'm telling you I don't know about in the world.
Speaker 1: What upraid? Right? Oh my god? Your thoughts it's it's
Speaker 1: you know, it's it's a milestone. Nothing, not something I
Speaker 1: even put in my plans. I just, you know, just
Speaker 1: was was blessed that Will Packer called me here so
Speaker 1: many years ago and offered me a job I didn't
Speaker 1: I didn't have to Um didn't have to audition for it,
Speaker 1: you know, he said, you just you fit this very well.
Speaker 1: And I didn't know what you know, even going through
Speaker 1: the first season. I was like, oh my god, I
Speaker 1: didn't know. That's what was great about the first season.
Speaker 1: I didn't know what to expect, and they didn't know
Speaker 1: what to expect. So it was new to all of us.
Speaker 1: And uh to just to just be this much further
Speaker 1: down the line to get one hundred here and we're
Speaker 1: still rolling, getting ready to start Dallas. This this is
Speaker 1: a blessing. Man. I don't take any of this for granted. Man.
Speaker 1: I give this to God and all the glory because
Speaker 1: this is this is um. This is what it means
Speaker 1: when they say you're not in control. I I was
Speaker 1: not in control. It just happened. This is and this
Speaker 1: is just truly to me a blessing from God. That um.
Speaker 1: And then I'm ready to go get another hundred, man,
Speaker 1: because it's it's it's working. People are loving it and
Speaker 1: and this opens right. You know, you are cheering for
Speaker 1: people that you don't even know. You just when you're
Speaker 1: sitting there on the couch watching and you'd be like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, he needs to be with her, not
Speaker 1: her and she need to him. You're trying to piece
Speaker 1: it together yourself. You know. It's just a beautiful thing
Speaker 1: to watch them fall yell at the TV. All right,
Speaker 1: thank you, nep you, and congratulations again. We couldn't man
Speaker 1: all right, Um. Coming up at thirty four minutes after
Speaker 1: the hour today's roundtable discussion, there's a new study out
Speaker 1: on what are the patterns that lead to cheating? We'll
Speaker 1: talk about it right after this you're listening show. A
Speaker 1: new study aimed to look at the causes and effects
Speaker 1: of cheating in a relationship. Okay, that's what's out now,
Speaker 1: because for decades, researchers have debated the question of if
Speaker 1: cheating was a direct cause of relationship problems or is
Speaker 1: it just a response to a problem already present in
Speaker 1: the relationship. Okay, so you've got two things going on there.
Speaker 1: Recent study in Germany released some new data. It said
Speaker 1: infidelity maybe a consequence rather than a cause of relationship trouble.
Speaker 1: And then it said data showed the relationship's well being
Speaker 1: started to decline before infidelity happens. Then it said after
Speaker 1: the cheating happens, both people in the relationship reported more
Speaker 1: conflict and less satisfaction. Yeah. Yeah, So is it a response,
Speaker 1: you guys think, or is it the cause? I think
Speaker 1: it's I think it's a response. I think it's like
Speaker 1: Germany said, Germany said, a consequence, right, m yeah, maybe
Speaker 1: a consequence rather than I think it's I think it's
Speaker 1: after so many things have going bad in the relationship.
Speaker 1: I think people revert to that. That's what I think.
Speaker 1: That's just timmy talking. Now, that's what that's the that's
Speaker 1: the case study I've gathered hearing. Then you read a lot,
Speaker 1: read a lot. This is my research. I think I
Speaker 1: think most most let's let's let me just say men.
Speaker 1: I think most men when they're not getting when they're
Speaker 1: not happy at home, when they're not getting what they
Speaker 1: you know what, I think some men are not getting
Speaker 1: what what what they were getting at the beginning of
Speaker 1: a relationship. And and you know what the old people say,
Speaker 1: you know, whatever it took to get this man, that's
Speaker 1: what it takes to keep this man. I think when
Speaker 1: people don't have, when that doesn't stay consistent, then then
Speaker 1: you know, mind wonders, your wonders over. Yeah, yeah, that's
Speaker 1: that's that's that's how they're working on it. That's how
Speaker 1: they're working on it, working on it by by working
Speaker 1: on something else, that's how they're working on So okay,
Speaker 1: Junior newly married. Well, yeah, that's not the study I had.
Speaker 1: My research din't come back like that. My research came
Speaker 1: back that I wanted out. That's what I think. It
Speaker 1: can't right directly back to that, I just won't out.
Speaker 1: You see me with somebody else, that's what clear saying.
Speaker 1: I won't out. I don't I don't want to be
Speaker 1: with you. That the research I came up with this
Speaker 1: is he shows me. Have you ever heard the phrase
Speaker 1: marriage takes work? Relationships take work? And it does. It does,
Speaker 1: But you guys say you don't want to work on it,
Speaker 1: you just want to leave or cheat. No, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I didn't say that. I told you what the case
Speaker 1: study was. I told you. I ain't said nothing about
Speaker 1: no damn timing. I said nothing like this. You're saying
Speaker 1: that could be the cause of it. Yeah, that could
Speaker 1: be the call. I'm happy when I man, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: go good. We know that, we know that I left
Speaker 1: all kinds of evidence I wanted out when she found them,
Speaker 1: phone him in my pocket that's a sign right there.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get out. So you're gonna keep this
Speaker 1: numb in your pocket like I gonna find out what
Speaker 1: what was that phone? The fact that fact that you
Speaker 1: had number's own paper is what's surprises for me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: here was this. Oh this is like in ninety seven eight,
Speaker 1: you know, want that's back back when you kept a
Speaker 1: pin in your pocket. That's fine. I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: I mean even with her, you know I got cheated on.
Speaker 1: I saw her. What the dude? I knew then she
Speaker 1: wanted out. I saw her and she would even let
Speaker 1: his hand out when she saw me. She kept holding
Speaker 1: me out. I knew she wanted out see me, and
Speaker 1: still kept his hands Come on, now, let his hands out,
Speaker 1: dropped his hand, na, you see me, let his hand down,
Speaker 1: Just kept on walk. That's okay, okay, okay, on going out.
Speaker 1: That's what this is. Back in college, I was so crushed.
Speaker 1: I walked in on something. Oh man, what oh I
Speaker 1: saw it. I saw it. Cheating on you, Yeah, man,
Speaker 1: I saw it. He ran down the hall with his
Speaker 1: clothes hand kid. What yes? Blown away? Yeah? Put that
Speaker 1: in your head and that visual is still out of
Speaker 1: this day. Better Yeah, because you've actually seen it. All right,
Speaker 1: it's a lot yeah, all right. Coming up next, today's
Speaker 1: frank phone call from the nephew who still traumatized after
Speaker 1: all these years. Now we understand you a whole lot better.
Speaker 1: That's frank phone call is coming up right after this
Speaker 1: you're listening show coming up at the top of the hour,
Speaker 1: right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today,
Speaker 1: and the subject is get this subject. It's a player.
Speaker 1: It's a player's ball every weekend. What he is? What? Wait?
Speaker 1: Do you This letter is funny, but right now the
Speaker 1: nephew is here with today's frank phone call. What you
Speaker 1: got for us? Naff? Surely this is for all your
Speaker 1: ladies out there. It's got the eyelashes that go pass
Speaker 1: your nose, you know them, them long eyelash nose. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean that. There's gotta be a limit to your thing.
Speaker 1: There's a limit to these eyelashes. Some of y'all know better.
Speaker 1: You know you can't see, but it's okay. But what
Speaker 1: you ain't gonna do is put them lashes on my wife.
Speaker 1: That's what you're not gonna do. He can't come he
Speaker 1: can't come home, and can't see me. Call he can't
Speaker 1: see me. Just don't make no sense. Okay, Well, this
Speaker 1: right here is called lashing out. Lashing out cat dog,
Speaker 1: if you would, Hey, it's clashing out. How can we
Speaker 1: lash you out? I'm trying to reach Bianca is Hey, listen.
Speaker 1: My name is Brian, my um, my wife Jamie. Come
Speaker 1: up there and get out eyelashes done? Is uh? Who
Speaker 1: who's the owner of this place? I am Brian. What's
Speaker 1: going on? Okay? Going on? You you're Bona? Are you
Speaker 1: the one that own the place? I'm Bianca. I'm the owner.
Speaker 1: We opened about a year and a half ago. Proud, happy,
Speaker 1: black owned, women owned, woman owned establishment. What can I
Speaker 1: do for you? Here's the deal. I'm sick and tired
Speaker 1: of my wife coming up there and then when she
Speaker 1: get back home, she got these thick eyelashes on and
Speaker 1: they long as hell, you know, I mean, it's these
Speaker 1: ere lashes thicking on somebody's mustash. This is a damn shame,
Speaker 1: you know not, and told her to take this hold up. Brian. Now,
Speaker 1: I may or may not be the person doing it,
Speaker 1: But whoever, I'm pretty sure probably that sounds familiar. But whoever,
Speaker 1: we have a lot of customers. But whoever comes in here,
Speaker 1: they picked their lashes. We we you know, we collaborate.
Speaker 1: But the girls are saying what they want done. They
Speaker 1: pick it. So if they're thick, they're thick because they
Speaker 1: want them okay too they too thick, and then and
Speaker 1: they too long. Your our ladges ain't supposed to be
Speaker 1: sticking away. I pass your nose. That's a damn shame.
Speaker 1: But let me let me tell you what I'm getting
Speaker 1: at though. Here's here's here's my reason for calling. If
Speaker 1: my wife come home one moti say what can you
Speaker 1: send her down? Because I mean, I'm running a business
Speaker 1: here and you sound crazy. They can steer you through
Speaker 1: the phone. The girl. They're looking at me in the chair.
Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on. I don't know. Can
Speaker 1: you calm down? You're loud and screaming. All I'm saying is,
Speaker 1: if my wife come home with the long thick as
Speaker 1: our lads is again, I'm gonna come up there and
Speaker 1: raise holy hell at that damn place. I'm telling you
Speaker 1: the truth about that. You know, what are you talking about?
Speaker 1: What are you threatening me? You are not coming up here.
Speaker 1: I'm coming up there. You my wife coming home with
Speaker 1: them thick as long as our ladges. Again, I am no,
Speaker 1: you're not coming up here. We just opened a year
Speaker 1: half ago. We are doing this. We don't need no
Speaker 1: drama for nobody. You need to talk to your wife,
Speaker 1: fix your marriage, don't come up taking up. Ain't nothing
Speaker 1: wrong with my marriage. The only thing wrong with my
Speaker 1: marriage is the damn thinking as I landed and they
Speaker 1: too long? That's the why are you? Why are you
Speaker 1: calling me with this? See now, I'm yell. I'm calling
Speaker 1: because this is where she got her eyelash is done.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh my god. Didn't you need to
Speaker 1: talk to your wife? Okay, I need to calm down.
Speaker 1: I'm running a business here. What you're trying to do
Speaker 1: sabotazing me? What you work for? The car ain't trying
Speaker 1: to sabotage numb. But I tell you what if she
Speaker 1: come home with the long thinking as I last again,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna come up there and I'm gonna find all
Speaker 1: the violating and coldes and everything building colds and I
Speaker 1: will get you shut down if we if we don't
Speaker 1: stop these long thinking as I last. Okay, Brian, I'm
Speaker 1: from the south Side, so you need to back up,
Speaker 1: because now you're threatening my livelieshood. Yes, I'm gonna go
Speaker 1: there with you. You're threatening my livelihood, You're threatening the
Speaker 1: jobs of so many girls here. What are you doing?
Speaker 1: You need to talk to your wife and need to
Speaker 1: back the fie up. And I am sorry to courage.
Speaker 1: We try to speak class here, but now you're making
Speaker 1: me lash out at from lash out. But you need
Speaker 1: to back up. This is my job and people have jobs.
Speaker 1: What are you going threatening to come up here? All
Speaker 1: the cops on you, and you will not be able
Speaker 1: to come here, and we will not let yours get
Speaker 1: her her eyelashes on you. And you need to fix
Speaker 1: your marriage because you got some anger issues. Clearly you
Speaker 1: pissed off at your wife and you're calling us threatening
Speaker 1: to ruin our business. Ryan, What is your wife's name?
Speaker 1: What my wife name is? My wife name is Jamie? Okay,
Speaker 1: because anybody is here, no Jamie or do Jamie's lashes? Okay.
Speaker 1: It's like four girls raising their hand because everybody goes
Speaker 1: to somebody different, so I don't know who it is
Speaker 1: does Jamie lashes? But you got some anger issues, okay.
Speaker 1: I ain't got no anger issue. The only problem I
Speaker 1: got is my wife having some long, thick eyelashes and
Speaker 1: they further out thank her nose and thinking into somebody's
Speaker 1: much there. That's what I got a problem with. Okay,
Speaker 1: you know what, Jamie just needs to leave your because
Speaker 1: if you got an you call her. Why are you
Speaker 1: calling us people? They put Why wouldn't I call the
Speaker 1: people that put the thick lances on? Why wouldn't I? Well,
Speaker 1: first of all, you need to talk to Jamie and
Speaker 1: send her up here. We're gonna tell her that to
Speaker 1: leave your first of all, thinking of all, I don't
Speaker 1: I can I help you? You are interrupting my grinding. Okay,
Speaker 1: we are interrupting our grinding, and we got a business
Speaker 1: going here. What is your problem? Can't you go do
Speaker 1: some work, go and talk to your wife and seek
Speaker 1: your marriage? You know what? You know what you I'll
Speaker 1: tell you what. I'll tell you what. You're not trying
Speaker 1: to fix. No, no, no, you're trying to fix the problem.
Speaker 1: I'll be up there. I'll be up there and I
Speaker 1: will bring somebody that will shut that boy. Call the
Speaker 1: car right now, call them down. Tell them somebody who's
Speaker 1: coming up here? And they threatening us aid last out
Speaker 1: call see the three girls calling right now, So bring
Speaker 1: your little up here, mother, Come on, come on, bring
Speaker 1: bring it up here. Let me ask yours is calming
Speaker 1: up there? Yeah? Carmen is sitting in my face right now.
Speaker 1: What is going on? Joy? You know him? Carmen? Why
Speaker 1: are you asking me about Carmen? Where's calming it? Right now?
Speaker 1: She's right here looking at me? What what is is? She?
Speaker 1: Is she laughing? Hold on, yeah, now she's starting to laugh.
Speaker 1: What's going on? Y'all? God? Me looking crazy at night
Speaker 1: byca Calm down, baby, check this out. This is nephew
Speaker 1: Tommy from the Steve Harvey Marty Show. Your girl, Carmen
Speaker 1: got me the prank phone call you. Oh oh my,
Speaker 1: calm okay, you know what y'all got me out here
Speaker 1: looking dad. I cannot Tommy, Tommy, nephew Tommy. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: Oh my god. What's up girl. I'm just lashing out
Speaker 1: a little bit, that's all. I'm just laughing. Oh, oh
Speaker 1: my god. I'm sorry, Matthew, Tommy, I was acting crazy.
Speaker 1: You got to tell the nephew, what is the baddest
Speaker 1: and I mean the baddest radio show in the land,
Speaker 1: the one, the only Steve Harvard Morning Show, always forever.
Speaker 1: All right, So y'all let me know, y'all gotta tell
Speaker 1: me what what's the limit? Now? What's the limit on
Speaker 1: lashes on my pends on your style what you want.
Speaker 1: You can have a natural look or you have to
Speaker 1: tell all the more dramatics. Yeah, yeah, the last check
Speaker 1: what you want when you're looking. But when they look
Speaker 1: like a whole, like a whole, feathery, feathery, just a peacock.
Speaker 1: I mean, if y'all know what I'm y'all seeing the
Speaker 1: ones I'm talking about. Yeah, and we wear lashes. We
Speaker 1: wear lashes every day because I love lashes. I want
Speaker 1: me to stop wearing. But I can't tell that those
Speaker 1: are nut y'all lashes. I can't tell that. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: start look like a Disney character that with your last
Speaker 1: come on now, just a whole lot here, now, come
Speaker 1: on now. But you know what, nephew, you said it
Speaker 1: best win is enough a limit? I think when you
Speaker 1: can't see I think exactly you draw the line shirt. Yes,
Speaker 1: have you ever seen a Chinese parade which are really incredible?
Speaker 1: You ever seen that dragon? If you ever seen the
Speaker 1: lashes that right now, that's a bit far. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: sorry it's a bit far, so I mean these that's
Speaker 1: what the men say. That's what I've always heard from
Speaker 1: men about women's lashes, that they can get too long
Speaker 1: and too much. I can't see it a s. I
Speaker 1: can't see that as your pupil. I can't collecting dust
Speaker 1: and everything. Enough. All that, all right, listen coming up
Speaker 1: next Strawberry Letters. Subject. The subject is it's a player's
Speaker 1: ball every weekend. We'll get into that right after this.
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Speaker 1: it for you. Here. It is Strawberry Letter. Subject It's
Speaker 1: a player's ball every weekend. There's Stephen Shirley. I'm fifty
Speaker 1: five years old and my husband is your age, Steve.
Speaker 1: We met online and hit it off quickly because we
Speaker 1: loved to Dan's cook and collect antiques. I lived in
Speaker 1: Detroit and he lived in Florida. When we met, and
Speaker 1: after we talked on the phone for a couple of months,
Speaker 1: he flew me to Florida for a visit. When I
Speaker 1: got to was a little dusty house. My allergy wouldn't
Speaker 1: allow me to stay there, so I had to get
Speaker 1: a hotel room. His house is stuck in a time
Speaker 1: warp and I'm still trying to fix it up now.
Speaker 1: What shocked me the most about his place was the
Speaker 1: very old furniture that he's had since his early thirties.
Speaker 1: I'm into antiques, but he took it to a new level.
Speaker 1: The same goes for his wardrobe. He's proud that he's
Speaker 1: not gained much weight since he was twenty five, and
Speaker 1: he can still wear his old suits. I'm talking old,
Speaker 1: and she put old in all caps. He said the
Speaker 1: new clothes style don't fit him right, and they're not
Speaker 1: good quality material like the old fabrics. He shocks me
Speaker 1: with his belted suit jackets, leg pants and all the
Speaker 1: turtlenecks he owned. We're compatible in other areas, so I
Speaker 1: tried to overlook his style. At first, I thought I
Speaker 1: could buy him new things after we got married, but
Speaker 1: he's not going to let that happen. Every night that
Speaker 1: we go out, he looks like he's going to a
Speaker 1: player's ball and I'm his daughter that tagged along with him.
Speaker 1: People love taking pictures with him and often call him
Speaker 1: old school. He seems to love the attention he gets
Speaker 1: from the others, but from the others when we're out,
Speaker 1: but I feel like the people are making fun of
Speaker 1: him and it's embarrassing. How do I get him to
Speaker 1: lose his seventies don Cornelius vibe and switch up his
Speaker 1: wardrobe a little bit? Or is it wrong to try
Speaker 1: and change him now that we're married? Please help? Wow?
Speaker 1: How do you answer this letter? Your husband is stuck,
Speaker 1: like you say, he's stuck in the seventies. At the
Speaker 1: players ball with Superfly and the Mac. It was obviously
Speaker 1: a great time for him, and he has fond memories
Speaker 1: of his heyday. The issue is life is about change
Speaker 1: and moving on, moving forward to make new memories. That's
Speaker 1: what life's all about. Can you change him? You ask?
Speaker 1: It doesn't sound like it, you know, we can only
Speaker 1: change ourselves. The problem with him is the attention that
Speaker 1: he gets. He gets a lot of attention. He loves it.
Speaker 1: It's hard to tear him away from all of that.
Speaker 1: He should want to make you happy too, though, and
Speaker 1: he should be open to your suggestions. If you want
Speaker 1: him to try something new and different, try to nicely
Speaker 1: persuade him to wear a new piece. And when he does,
Speaker 1: you know, you gotta do the old. Baby. You look
Speaker 1: so good, you look sexy in that. You gotta fawn
Speaker 1: all over him and make him feel good. Maybe you
Speaker 1: can influence him that way. Otherwise you're gonna have to
Speaker 1: take the good with the bad, you know, meaning, keep dancing,
Speaker 1: keep you know, keep going out you guys having fun,
Speaker 1: keep antique shopping with him, and keep cooking together. Those
Speaker 1: things are good. Those things are in place, and you're
Speaker 1: happy with that. But his wardrobe sounds like it's gonna
Speaker 1: be what it is, the blaired pants and the belted jackets.
Speaker 1: I don't know. He's sixty six. Hard to change him, Tommy,
Speaker 1: And you're not the rules, pretty baby. Come on, Cozie,
Speaker 1: and you know how Right now I'm gonna wear what
Speaker 1: I want to wear. And when we go out, you
Speaker 1: understand me. All right, I'm gonna put on my mink
Speaker 1: coat and my window pane pants, baby, and that's how
Speaker 1: we're gonna do this thing. You understand now, I want
Speaker 1: you to get over there to that bar, baby, and
Speaker 1: bring me a whiskey sour. You understand what I mean.
Speaker 1: I mean that I'm saying because when daddy wants something,
Speaker 1: that's what daddy wanting. Look at me, tell you someone.
Speaker 1: When I get back in this house, I don't want
Speaker 1: to hear nothing about this couch that I bought it
Speaker 1: money gonna be warded in nineteen seventy one because this
Speaker 1: is the baddest thing that they was making at the time.
Speaker 1: You understand me, right across from my high five stere Yo,
Speaker 1: you did it? I mean that all right? This these
Speaker 1: speakers are from Jensen. You understand what I'm saying. And
Speaker 1: in the bedroom, I got some ken woods in there
Speaker 1: that's gonna be bouncing the baby. Okay, So did it?
Speaker 1: When I talk to you, I want you to make
Speaker 1: sure that daddy always got what daddy need. Now you
Speaker 1: get in there and you polish up my platform, my
Speaker 1: platform shoes, and you make this look right for me. Okay,
Speaker 1: And before we go out tomorrow night. I'm gonna need
Speaker 1: you to straighten my hair and get Daddy the way
Speaker 1: Daddy want to look. You feel me, and that's what
Speaker 1: I'm digging with right here. You get that straighten income
Speaker 1: and put it on that stove. Yeah, I'm gonna sit
Speaker 1: in the kitchen with you and we're gonna get this
Speaker 1: as straight like Daddy wanted. You understand me, Okay, Now,
Speaker 1: I don't want to. I don't want to hear nothing
Speaker 1: about no Louis Batons and no Gucci's up in here,
Speaker 1: all right, because I didn't have it's doing it up
Speaker 1: in here, baby, all right? So when you dig it,
Speaker 1: dig it when I'm talking to you, you know the rules.
Speaker 1: You chose me. Now we can settle this like we
Speaker 1: got some class, or we can get into some gangster business.
Speaker 1: You understand that, and I mean that. Now, bring me
Speaker 1: my belt to my meat coat and let me tie
Speaker 1: it in a knock because I'm feeling sexy. You feel me.
Speaker 1: They wanted me to be sweet daddy on good times,
Speaker 1: and I tear that down because I already knew I's
Speaker 1: been too much. I'd have been too much for the
Speaker 1: Evans family. You feel me, baby, Yeah, yeah, all right,
Speaker 1: But because I am the original sweet daddy. Yeah, So
Speaker 1: all I can say is what you gotta do is
Speaker 1: you gotta blend into what sweet Daddy want baby, all right,
Speaker 1: what I was sweet Daddy asking for. That's what you do.
Speaker 1: But you don't come up in here with no Calvin Klein,
Speaker 1: a little town and a Gucci and definitely not none
Speaker 1: of that that that that that aremoney stuff. Man. No,
Speaker 1: we're sticking to what we've been wearing. Baby silk shirt,
Speaker 1: open up to the second button with chains hanging in
Speaker 1: the middle. You're gonna lock me the way I am. Baby.
Speaker 1: Let my passing on to my man junior boy, he
Speaker 1: gonna handle it on the next break man, because that's
Speaker 1: how we do it, all right, That's how players play,
Speaker 1: you feel me? Yeah? All right, listen, we'll have part
Speaker 1: two of the response to the shrubbery letters you got
Speaker 1: to say coming up. Subject today is it's a player's
Speaker 1: ball every weekend. We'll get into it right after this.
Speaker 1: Stick yourself, stick yourself. You're listening show all right. Time
Speaker 1: Now to recap the strawberry letter, The subject is it's
Speaker 1: a player's ball every weekend. A fifty five year old
Speaker 1: woman wrote in about her husband, who is sixty six.
Speaker 1: She said, he's Steve's age. They met online. They hit
Speaker 1: it off because they I missed that the first times.
Speaker 1: I'm fifty five and my husband is your age, Steve,
Speaker 1: so he's sixty six. That's the first line, right. They
Speaker 1: met online. They hit it off because they had so
Speaker 1: many things in common. They both loved shopping for antiques,
Speaker 1: they both loved dancing, and they both loved to cook.
Speaker 1: So she lived in Detroit, he lived in Florida. She
Speaker 1: moved to Florida. When she went down to his house,
Speaker 1: she couldn't believe it because his house was stuck in
Speaker 1: the when he was in his early thirties. The furniture
Speaker 1: was the same. She said. She had to move out
Speaker 1: and get a hotel because it was really, I mean
Speaker 1: literally dusty in there. He wore the same clothes his
Speaker 1: wardrobe was. It's terrible, she said, because he's still dressed
Speaker 1: like he was thirty. He hadn't gained much weight, so
Speaker 1: he could still wear all of those old clothes. He said.
Speaker 1: The fabrics that they make these days don't compare with
Speaker 1: the fabrics of back in the day. He still wears
Speaker 1: he still wears belt and jackets. He still wears bell
Speaker 1: bottoms or flared leg pants, and you know, he walks proudly.
Speaker 1: When they go out into the club. He gets a
Speaker 1: lot of attention. She's afraid that the people are really
Speaker 1: making fun of him and not you know, loving him
Speaker 1: like he thinks they are. So what she wants to
Speaker 1: know is how does she get him to lose his
Speaker 1: seventies don Cornelius vibe and switch up his wardrobe a
Speaker 1: little bit? She wants to know is it wrong to
Speaker 1: change him since they're married? She needs help. She says
Speaker 1: she can't tell us how many turtlenecks he owns because
Speaker 1: she doesn't know. She's never seen so many turtlenecks on again.
Speaker 1: Eight tents. Yeah, all right, Junior, we need to hear
Speaker 1: from you now what you got with that boy. I
Speaker 1: don't even know what to tell you, because, yeah, I
Speaker 1: didn't get here till seventy eight with the hello. I know, yeah,
Speaker 1: I can't even understand. I mean, I remember seeing some
Speaker 1: of this stuff. Now you know what I mean? If
Speaker 1: he ended these black lights, he just end the black lights.
Speaker 1: I don't know, Lava, Now, I mean, hes gonna have
Speaker 1: nuggets on every hand. I mean, this is what the
Speaker 1: nuggetings gonna be there, Cadillac, you're finna get in it?
Speaker 1: You getting out of It's the same one seventy fold?
Speaker 1: Come on, what do you want us to do? He
Speaker 1: is him? This is him. You should have asked what
Speaker 1: he looked like or got a picture before you went
Speaker 1: down the Florida. You would have known this already. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Same. He probably told you
Speaker 1: to bring you some of them what you call them
Speaker 1: for darls, the hats timing from Detroit to down down
Speaker 1: to see things and bring me one of the hats
Speaker 1: back down here. Yes, I'm old school. That's him. That's
Speaker 1: who he is. Old school. That's his dress, that's his style.
Speaker 1: That's him. And they may be making fun of but
Speaker 1: he's a player. He don't even care. Every day this
Speaker 1: is what I bring him. Yeah, yeah, what his name is?
Speaker 1: Tommy probably got what his name is? Just give me
Speaker 1: a name. That's him, Simp slim, that's sick slam all
Speaker 1: day long. Man, I don't know what you want to be, Okay, Tommy,
Speaker 1: everywhere you go, what's your theme music? I know you
Speaker 1: got theme music. Every time you take a staff, it's
Speaker 1: theme music playing in the back. That's him him all day. Baby,
Speaker 1: that's him. They call him old school Junior. They called
Speaker 1: old school O, old school oh ge, that's him all day.
Speaker 1: You're not changing that. He's not giving that up. You're
Speaker 1: not getting him in twenty twenty three. He's not coming. No.
Speaker 1: That's why I said, you know, be happy with the
Speaker 1: things that you do have together. You have the shopping
Speaker 1: for antiques, you have the cooking, you have the dance thing,
Speaker 1: the wardrobe. You may have to let that go. It is,
Speaker 1: but but look at the bright side though. If you
Speaker 1: need stockings, he got stocking socks. He got there. You see,
Speaker 1: y'all can share some of this stuff. He got them
Speaker 1: pinstriped socks. Now, I'm telling you he got them. You
Speaker 1: can wear them socks. All he is is this his
Speaker 1: to his hard is in there. It's in there. It's
Speaker 1: not coming out. It's not coming out. And he's not changing.
Speaker 1: That's nothing she could do. This is your man, watch it,
Speaker 1: suckerime time turkey. That's him. Maybe if she called ain't margin,
Speaker 1: ain't margin is the only one I've seen poor list off.
Speaker 1: He actually pulled uncor Steve out of them eighteen buttons shoots.
Speaker 1: He actually poured them out of transformed she transformed it.
Speaker 1: I mean he un Steve had buttons on his drawers
Speaker 1: back in there, he I mean he had buttons. The
Speaker 1: airwere airwere and ain't margin got him? What's all these buttons?
Speaker 1: What's your button? And only stop fun? You can't get
Speaker 1: in no pockets? All them got buttons? Stopped quit doing this?
Speaker 1: Why you gotta cover in your pants with a button
Speaker 1: on it? What did you are? You're gonna uncover it later?
Speaker 1: What is that fall? You gonna uncover it? Nobody got
Speaker 1: no pull over T shirt with no buttons on? Why
Speaker 1: you have all these buttons? Like? Yeah, let me tell
Speaker 1: you about my hands, baby, I got some when you
Speaker 1: come in, I got some beads in the front room.
Speaker 1: And when you come through there, and you're gonna come
Speaker 1: through the beads, you understand me. Get over here to
Speaker 1: the right, there's a big wooden spoon and fog hanging
Speaker 1: on the wall. It just lets you know that we're
Speaker 1: gonna be eating up in here. You feel me? Come
Speaker 1: on in the back. There's a lava lamp over there
Speaker 1: on the h Yeah, on that console, you understanding that?
Speaker 1: Now that console got a it's a long time. So
Speaker 1: there's a TV in the bottom, but it don't work
Speaker 1: no more. You feel men? All right, old school. Post
Speaker 1: your comments on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve MARVFM on
Speaker 1: Instagram and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on Demando.
Speaker 1: Coming up in forty six minutes after the hour, Junior
Speaker 1: with Sports Talk. Right after this, you're listening to Harvey
Speaker 1: Morning Show. It is time now for Junior and Sports Talk.
Speaker 1: What you got Junior? All right, Shirley, Well, let's just
Speaker 1: go ahead and put it out here. Man, let's just
Speaker 1: go ahead and just saying, hey, man, congratulations to Damian Lillard.
Speaker 1: Damian Lillard dropped seventy one points by itself, only just
Speaker 1: by his damn self. No help, No wasnom, no other guards.
Speaker 1: Seventy one Tommy, man, he wouldn't miss nothing. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: I ain't knowing about this. No, he just missed seventy
Speaker 1: one points by hisself. Just yeah, of course we lost,
Speaker 1: we lost, yes, seventy one points. Man. I just got
Speaker 1: to say nothing like, I've never seen anybody shoot like that. Baby.
Speaker 1: He Maybe we all to do this, man, Maybe maybe
Speaker 1: the Texans football team ought to go play basketball. And
Speaker 1: didn't send the basketball team to the football might let
Speaker 1: him switch. Maybe thinking outside the bus, that's really think
Speaker 1: that's side the bus there, that's Joe's looking across the
Speaker 1: street like when we don't have nothing to do with him.
Speaker 1: We don't know, we don't we have a World Series.
Speaker 1: We're not told we're not doing none of that. That's us. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we had that also, man want to give a shout
Speaker 1: out man to I'm just just out here working. Come on,
Speaker 1: Lamar Jackson, we still need you. He is still not
Speaker 1: signed his franchise tag with the Baltibore Ravens, so we
Speaker 1: still don't know what's gonna happen with Lamar Jackson. He
Speaker 1: wants more money than Deshaun Watson guaranteed, he won't. He
Speaker 1: wont more than two hundred and thirty million. And he
Speaker 1: keep coming in with his hunting and he won't massage money,
Speaker 1: is he He won't way, he won't molding that, and
Speaker 1: so they keep offering him the money and he won't
Speaker 1: take that. He would have hit want He want all
Speaker 1: his money guaranteed. That's what he wants. So that's where
Speaker 1: we know where he's going. What's gonna happen now, Aaron
Speaker 1: Rodgers is out the dark cave. Now he out the
Speaker 1: dark retreat. We still don't know where he wants to go.
Speaker 1: So we got a car. Yeah, Aaron, he just sat
Speaker 1: in the room for the three hundred square feet for
Speaker 1: from four age by himself in the dog He said,
Speaker 1: I gotta think this out. What food? Was the lights off? No? No,
Speaker 1: he wasn't dark in a cave. Well was the electricity off?
Speaker 1: I hadn't done that before at my apartment. That they
Speaker 1: ain't doing nothing spectacle. Now I didn't managed through a
Speaker 1: week with them lights off? Yeah, nothing amazing, he say
Speaker 1: nothing to Mading. He doing, man, So that's our sports man.
Speaker 1: Don't forget to catch being your favorite play cousin. Julia
Speaker 1: and my man nephew Tommy. April First, Dallas, Texas. Trust theater. Man,
Speaker 1: we're gonna be in the building. I'm telling you, Ben Dominique, Rodger,
Speaker 1: Perry Monique headlining and hosted by nephew Tommy, and I'm
Speaker 1: just on the show with him. Man, We're gonna rock
Speaker 1: this thing out, Dallas. Just get rid of April foods.
Speaker 1: That's gonna be stupid. Carlin, I will be there front
Speaker 1: and from I got something to do that day. Ohala
Speaker 1: go like the only one book working, working, excited, coming
Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour. This woman on
Speaker 1: social media needs some advice about her roommate. Your diet
Speaker 1: is not my problem. I'm not giving up my Girl
Speaker 1: Scout cookies. We'll talk about it right after this What
Speaker 1: You're Listening show. Jamila on Facebook writes, my roommates New
Speaker 1: Year's resolution was to get back in shape, and she's
Speaker 1: still going strong. She's going to the gym five days
Speaker 1: a week, she's eating better, and she's not snacking as
Speaker 1: far as I've seen anyway. Me, on the other hand, well,
Speaker 1: I'm basking in the glory of Girl Scout cookie season
Speaker 1: and this has created some tension. It's not like I'm
Speaker 1: eating them in her face and gloating, But now she's
Speaker 1: saying that even seeing a box in the trash is
Speaker 1: torture and temptation, and I should have more respect for
Speaker 1: what she's trying to accomplish. I do respect it, But
Speaker 1: ain't nobody giving up then mints? Uh so Tommy and
Speaker 1: j No, Tommy and Junior. Is there some sort of
Speaker 1: resolution uh here? Because it's all right for you to
Speaker 1: have your cookies, but you just can't flaw on them
Speaker 1: like that. Now, keep your cookies in your in your room,
Speaker 1: under your bed, okay, under your bed somewhere, don't don't
Speaker 1: just trust me. When she see that box in that
Speaker 1: trans can, she goes in that trans can, she see
Speaker 1: if it's one moment in there, he's seeing that checking.
Speaker 1: Now she ain't just tempted. She tried to get one.
Speaker 1: I'm just letting you know he didn't try to get one.
Speaker 1: Everybody that work out going backslide. I promise you so help.
Speaker 1: I don't put it all up in a face. You
Speaker 1: just you just you just right there eating right then
Speaker 1: dead in front of not doing that. She said the
Speaker 1: box the tsh. She burned the box, do something, leaving
Speaker 1: this evidence around, Junior. No, I'm telling now the thin
Speaker 1: mints and girls gotta cookies. They are to not to
Speaker 1: be played with it. I don't say if you're trying
Speaker 1: to lose weight, I'm eating the right in front of you.
Speaker 1: I'm not worried about you. You the one want to
Speaker 1: be thin, not me. Gona eat thin mints don't want
Speaker 1: to be thin though, I just doesn't know. I go
Speaker 1: eat the right in front of her face. I don't care.
Speaker 1: I pay renting here too, but I pay my half. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: as I eat a thin mint, I'm telling you that
Speaker 1: that's it. What what do you care? It's not your fault,
Speaker 1: it's not your business. She the one got the pressure
Speaker 1: on her. Now she's going into trash smelling that box.
Speaker 1: Every time you put one in there, I put two, three,
Speaker 1: And then the day I just get all the long.
Speaker 1: I eat them cookies all day long. Couple of them
Speaker 1: cook Yeah, leave a couple of them cookie land on
Speaker 1: the counter. Just leave a land on the count. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: test her. Ain't nobody that diet and diet you for that.
Speaker 1: You got to mentally be prepared, and this is helping you.
Speaker 1: Put them cookies on that counter and leave them now
Speaker 1: all days a week, and get stronger. And then the
Speaker 1: next week put an oxtail up there. Let's leave get
Speaker 1: wipe her down. Try tail. I'll tell you what's gonna
Speaker 1: stop it. Put something chick. Put something chick filate nuggets
Speaker 1: up there. I'll bet you no, it's got to be fried.
Speaker 1: I don't want them, damn. I don't want them grill nuggets.
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't want a healthy nugget. I don't
Speaker 1: you're going in. Let's go going in? All right? I
Speaker 1: think we have time for one more. Sorry, you're on
Speaker 1: your own. You're on your own, Jamilla, you're on your
Speaker 1: own girl? Are you eating him right now? That's what
Speaker 1: that's what's sound like every day and they're you look
Speaker 1: at gooda coming out right? All right, let's get to Tisha.
Speaker 1: On Steve Barb FM, Tisha writes, my husband has been
Speaker 1: a know it all for as long as I've known him,
Speaker 1: but he's actually right a lot of the time. Although
Speaker 1: I don't like to encourage him. He's warned me several
Speaker 1: times that he thinks I'm taking a big chance parking
Speaker 1: my car on the street when I go to work
Speaker 1: in the city. But I tell him stop worrying that
Speaker 1: it's perfectly safe. Well, yesterday I came out at the
Speaker 1: end of the day and someone had crashed into my
Speaker 1: rear bumper. I don't want to tell him because he'll
Speaker 1: never let me live it down. So should I just
Speaker 1: swallow my pride and admit he was right? Or secretly
Speaker 1: get it fixed? Should I tell him a little lie
Speaker 1: it wasn't parked on the street when the damage happens.
Speaker 1: What should I do this. Ain't worry lying, but yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know why would you do this? Ain't nothing
Speaker 1: to lie? But I keep you don't get your car fixed?
Speaker 1: At him? You did? Maybe you know what? She was right?
Speaker 1: I seen in the parked on the street. He was
Speaker 1: so so right. I got hit and you know what,
Speaker 1: I need to get the car fixed. That's all. It'll
Speaker 1: take it on the chain. Yeah, tell your many. I
Speaker 1: agree the truth. Man, last, I can't stand there all right, Well,
Speaker 1: have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to show ticket Later November seven,
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Speaker 1: told Rivera that the ticket had losing number. Still, Reggie
Speaker 1: said he would give half of the jackpot to Rivera
Speaker 1: if the ticket won. Now, it seems that a different
Speaker 1: man altogether won the powerball edwin. Castro was found to
Speaker 1: have the winning ticket and reportedly chose to take the
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Speaker 1: Some After learning this, Rivera went back to the California
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Speaker 1: is Edwin? I mean, what if Reggie come up missing?
Speaker 1: Coming up in thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll
Speaker 1: play a round of would you rather? Right after this?
Speaker 1: You're listening to show? All right, guys, it's time now
Speaker 1: for a round of would you rather? Would you rather
Speaker 1: never use the internet again? Or never fly on a
Speaker 1: plane again? Which one? Hey you need? I don't know
Speaker 1: how we're gonna book these tickets without this dawn internet,
Speaker 1: But yeah, I rather I got the fly you call
Speaker 1: you could call it airline. Now we're back to walking. Well,
Speaker 1: now we're back to walking in there, bying a ticket
Speaker 1: at the count, back to doing that, which is cool.
Speaker 1: I still gonna get there putting it being put on
Speaker 1: hold for hours and that because I can't bust it
Speaker 1: across America. Normo, I can't do that for you? All right?
Speaker 1: Would you rather be? In a real life version of
Speaker 1: the Walking Dead, okay or Jurassic Park, which which one
Speaker 1: I'm I'm not. I'm not doing any dead people. I'm
Speaker 1: not doing I'm not doing I'm with you, dinosaur, the
Speaker 1: terra docto, I'm doing all that, but I'm not I'm
Speaker 1: not the the dead people walk around. I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: do it. Okay, Yes, Carla, have y'all seen Jurassic Park? Yes,
Speaker 1: we'd rather run from a dinosaur than the zombies. Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: Because one the dead people bite you, that's it. You
Speaker 1: become dead too. I don't want that. But missed a
Speaker 1: round and got a big wasn't paying attention a sudden.
Speaker 1: I'm seeing my uncle Fred, who's been dead twenty years.
Speaker 1: We know, all right? Would your brother? Would you rather
Speaker 1: exist in the world with only your wife? Or everyone
Speaker 1: but your wife? Oh? Yeah, wife, that's it. But just
Speaker 1: you and her though, that's cool, Not me and my baby?
Speaker 1: Just awell awell, ain't but time? Oh yeah, ain't nobody
Speaker 1: else in the world but us, right and cool? We
Speaker 1: just Adam and Eve. We neck it in afraid. I mean,
Speaker 1: what what time are we in? You? Where? We don't care?
Speaker 1: It don't matter because it's just it's me and huh,
Speaker 1: all right, here's one. Would you rather eat one raw
Speaker 1: onion or one hundred candy bars in one sitting? Which
Speaker 1: one a raw onion? Onion? Pledge? I need a raw onion?
Speaker 1: You can eat row. Yeah, it takes it takes bout
Speaker 1: three weeks to get out of you know, it takes
Speaker 1: bout three weeks. Yeah, okay, So onion on what one
Speaker 1: hundred snickers? Hundred snickers? H give me that, give me
Speaker 1: that purple on you know instead of that yellower white one. Okay,
Speaker 1: So Carl and I snickers all day long, girl, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'll be eating hundred snickers, right, I know. All right.
Speaker 1: That's today's version of I take that onion and kiss
Speaker 1: y'all dead and y'all coming up in forty nine minutes
Speaker 1: after the hour. It's our last break of the day
Speaker 1: and we'll close out the show right after. You're listening
Speaker 1: to last break of the day. We've got a great
Speaker 1: morning today, Yes, Yes, we have fun today. Steve. It's
Speaker 1: time for you now to take us home with your
Speaker 1: closing remarks. What you got for us today, Steve, Well,
Speaker 1: this is going to be shortened to the point I
Speaker 1: think I just want to remind everybody something that your
Speaker 1: dreams can come true if you're willing to fight for him.
Speaker 1: You have to fight for your dreams. You have to
Speaker 1: fight for the life of your dreams. You have to
Speaker 1: fight to be free. You have to fight to be
Speaker 1: an entrepreneur. You have to fight to be successful. You
Speaker 1: have to fight the nay sayers when you say I'm
Speaker 1: gonna leave my job. You have to fight the nay
Speaker 1: sayers when you say I want a better job. You
Speaker 1: have to fight some forces out there when you go,
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm gonna leave here to pursue a
Speaker 1: better position at another company. You're gonna have to fight
Speaker 1: for it. Change requires a fight. It just does. It
Speaker 1: just does. I don't know why it is, man, but
Speaker 1: there's people always in our lives somewhere who are going
Speaker 1: to fight us on decisions that we make about ourselves.
Speaker 1: I don't know why it is, but it seems to
Speaker 1: happen for everybody. All of us have to fight to
Speaker 1: get through to the other side. You have to fight
Speaker 1: through the wall of fear. You have to fight through doubt,
Speaker 1: you have to fight through confusion. You got to fight
Speaker 1: through the nay says. You got to fight through haters.
Speaker 1: You gotta fight through the fact that it didn't go
Speaker 1: your way. You have to fight through the fact that
Speaker 1: you got up and you just wasn't feeling yourself today.
Speaker 1: You gotta find a way to fight through. You gotta
Speaker 1: find something in you that makes you key fighting even
Speaker 1: when you don't. There's a poem that stands at a
Speaker 1: point that says, if you can force your heart, your nerve,
Speaker 1: and your SiNW to serve its turn, long after it
Speaker 1: has gone, when there is nothing left within you except
Speaker 1: the will to say to them, hold on, you have
Speaker 1: to fight like that. Now. The funny thing about that
Speaker 1: line and that point, I think that's uh if if
Speaker 1: and the stand the stanza says, if you can force
Speaker 1: your heart, your nerve, and SiNW s new is the
Speaker 1: fibers that holds all your insights together. They call that
Speaker 1: s new, those tenders or whatever it is, that that
Speaker 1: stuff that that there's lines and cords and fibers that
Speaker 1: hold your heart and organ and all that stuff in place.
Speaker 1: If you could force your heart, nervous a new to
Speaker 1: serve your turn long after it has gone, when there's
Speaker 1: nothing left within you, accept the will to say to
Speaker 1: them hold on. That's how you got to fight. That's
Speaker 1: how you got to fight. And it's all right, but
Speaker 1: make it a good fight. Don't lay down. Don't let
Speaker 1: nobody punk you out your dreams, don't let nobody trick
Speaker 1: you out of what God has for you. Don't let
Speaker 1: the fact that you got to fight stop you from fighting.
Speaker 1: Life is a fight, man, it's a dog fight out here.
Speaker 1: They're not walking money up to your house. I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: they're not passing out you. They don't send free money
Speaker 1: to nobody's house. You got to do something to get it.
Speaker 1: And if you really want to get it, you are
Speaker 1: involved in a fight. Like it or not. That is
Speaker 1: what we are in. We are in a fight, So
Speaker 1: get with it. Stop punking out. It ain't time for that.
Speaker 1: You're in a fight. We are in a fight. Let's go.
Speaker 1: That's what it is every day. And if you think
Speaker 1: it's not, keep sitting up in here lighting letting life
Speaker 1: slap you upside your head, because that's exactly what it's
Speaker 1: gonna do. You're in a fight, folks. You're in a
Speaker 1: fight for your dreams. You are in a fight for
Speaker 1: the life God has for you. You are in a
Speaker 1: fight for your future. You are in a fight for
Speaker 1: your promotion. You're in a fight for advancement. You're in
Speaker 1: a fight to do life better. You are in a
Speaker 1: fight to have more. You are in a fight to succeed.
Speaker 1: You are in a fight to overcome. You are in
Speaker 1: a fight to beat illness. You are in a fight
Speaker 1: every day of your life. What you think this is
Speaker 1: you got to fight and make it a good fight.
Speaker 1: Here's the tip to fighting. If you have God in
Speaker 1: your life, you will not lose the fight. Period. That's
Speaker 1: all I gotta tell you. If you have God in
Speaker 1: your life, you will not lose the fight if you
Speaker 1: include Him in the process. Seeing all of my fights,
Speaker 1: here's my partner here, my tag teen partner. When I
Speaker 1: tag him in, everybody in the ring me declared. All
Speaker 1: the people that take me to court falsely, all the
Speaker 1: people who lie about me falsely, all the people who
Speaker 1: try to brut me down for self gain. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: not over here by myself. I am protected by a
Speaker 1: scripture Isaiah fifty four seventeen that no weapon formed against
Speaker 1: me shall prosper come from me. If you want to,
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna take you. I'm gonna hand you the scripture.
Speaker 1: Get out the way. I've seen him do it for
Speaker 1: me too many times. But I know I'm in a fight.
Speaker 1: I just don't go to the fight alone. You can't
Speaker 1: take a knife to a gun fight for God in
Speaker 1: your life, and you cannot lose the fight, because that's
Speaker 1: what we're in. We're in a fight. You feel me, Yes, sir?
Speaker 1: Drop the mic, baby, that was a good one, Steve.
Speaker 1: That's yeah, in a fight good, try to fight for
Speaker 1: your dreams. All right, Well, thank you, sir, y'all have
Speaker 1: a great week here. Who yeah, well whatever for all
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