Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call. This may
Speaker 1: be one of the strangest awkward Tuesdays we've ever done.
Speaker 1: And dare I say it's going to be more awkward
Speaker 1: for us than anybody else. I don't think I've ever
Speaker 1: said that before, where it's going to be awkward for
Speaker 1: everyone in the room. Really? Why? Because we have a
Speaker 1: listener named Sophia who actually came on our show a
Speaker 1: few months back to do a closure call because her
Speaker 1: best friends stole her boyfriend. Then they wanted to name
Speaker 1: their baby after her. That's right, which that didn't end
Speaker 1: up happening, thank god, But it all got sorted out,
Speaker 1: and now apparently more drama has found its way into
Speaker 1: poor Sophia's life. Sophia starting to think, maybe here's the problem.
Speaker 1: I want to thank you for bringing the tea to
Speaker 1: our show. We are very thirsty for tea, so thank you.
Speaker 1: Oh no, oh no, how's the killing guys? Oh my god,
Speaker 1: it's better than you. What's going on that made you
Speaker 1: want to do an awkward Tuesday? So I met a
Speaker 1: guy online in like this chat right where we were
Speaker 1: talking about you know that he was on your show
Speaker 1: as well. What you met another person on our show? Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was like in this chat thing that I found
Speaker 1: online and he was talking how he did like a
Speaker 1: second date update. That's amazing. I didn't know anybody was
Speaker 1: willing to tell people that they were on our show.
Speaker 1: I thought that's a secret, would like a self help group.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah yeah, okay, yeah, so he was like
Speaker 1: desclibing his experience about you know, like what he went
Speaker 1: through with you guys and how you guys try to
Speaker 1: help him or whatever. Can I just ask was it positive? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was. It was a good one. It was like
Speaker 1: that the girl had a guess like light about her age,
Speaker 1: but you know, he ended up like forgiving her for
Speaker 1: and they did like an update update and well they're
Speaker 1: basically strolled together. Now wow, Okay, for some reason, I
Speaker 1: thought you were talking to a single dude. But this
Speaker 1: is like a group chat of people who are like
Speaker 1: survived appearing on our show and just want to tell
Speaker 1: about their experience. What it was, Sophia. It's like a
Speaker 1: whole group of people that have been on the show,
Speaker 1: or just you and Evan. No, it was just like
Speaker 1: it was a public like online chat thing that he
Speaker 1: was describing his experience, and when I saw it, I said,
Speaker 1: oh my god, that's so funny. I was on the
Speaker 1: show too, Okay, got so you joined in and told
Speaker 1: about your awesome experience hanging out with us, right, yeah, absolutely,
Speaker 1: And like him and I were talking back and forth,
Speaker 1: there was like nothing inappropriate, ornything which was friendly stuffed,
Speaker 1: so that we got this really funny idea, like why
Speaker 1: don't we organize a meetup for local people who's you know,
Speaker 1: been on your guys' show? What a Yeah, it's really cool,
Speaker 1: I think why I mean, does everyone else feel a
Speaker 1: little hesitant, like it's just like a hate group? Pass? No?
Speaker 1: I mean I think it'd be cool because you could
Speaker 1: be like, how do you know? Oh I was on
Speaker 1: the Loser line? What about you? I mean, yeah, but
Speaker 1: how can we didn't get an invite to this Brook
Speaker 1: and Jeffrey reunion, Like it feels like you would want
Speaker 1: us there, right because they want to be honest? Yeah,
Speaker 1: maybe maybe it's a mix of view. Someone had a
Speaker 1: good time. Well. I mean I reached out to jose
Speaker 1: on snapshot about it, but I never got a response. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he barely responds to us when he's in the bathroom,
Speaker 1: and we need him to come back in a phone call.
Speaker 1: So don't take that person one of those like racy bots.
Speaker 1: I don't really talk to yet. Well, I talked to
Speaker 1: those thoughts all the time. Yeah, I'm curious. How did
Speaker 1: the Brook and Jeffrey listener reunion go? I mean it
Speaker 1: was okay. I like invice to probably about twelve people
Speaker 1: that were, you know, in that shot or whatever, and
Speaker 1: only about five people showed up, including you know Rufer Ruffer.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, yeah remember Rufer? I remember? Oh Uf? Yeah?
Speaker 1: What was Rufer in? He was a guy he took
Speaker 1: like drugs to like relax before his date and then
Speaker 1: he accidentally like passed out. He was hilarious, classic Roofer. Well,
Speaker 1: I can't believe he showed up. Yeah, that's a big win. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he probably doesn't remember showing up, but he got there. Huh.
Speaker 1: So it was it was pretty good. It was entertaining,
Speaker 1: to say the least. And then Evan came and he
Speaker 1: brought his girlfriend, obviously, the one that he had called
Speaker 1: the show about, you know, said they were still together,
Speaker 1: so she was there. She'd been on the show too. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So what part of this leads you to making an
Speaker 1: awkward Tuesday phone call today. So we were there for
Speaker 1: a couple hours, and like we were getting quite a
Speaker 1: few drinks. But at one point I saw kind of
Speaker 1: like something like a red red flags. It's like met
Speaker 1: alarms go off in my head, and it was his
Speaker 1: girlfriend followed Rufer over to the hallway near the bathrooms
Speaker 1: at one point and they were talking and like it
Speaker 1: looked really flirty. Oh my god, and then his girlfriend
Speaker 1: like handed him it looked like a phone number on
Speaker 1: a on like a little torn napkin, like at the
Speaker 1: end of something, you know what I mean, maybe it
Speaker 1: was the loser line that would really come. I mean,
Speaker 1: it sounds like you have a thing for Evan and
Speaker 1: you're maybe seeing things. Are you sure that that was? No? No,
Speaker 1: that's how I'm reading it. I am not into Evan
Speaker 1: by any means now, and I have too much respect
Speaker 1: for relationship to I mean, come on, what happened to
Speaker 1: me and my ex? No? Somebody else? Okay, okay, no, No.
Speaker 1: I felt uncomfortable and like I didn't want to approach
Speaker 1: him and him think that, But I knew that you
Speaker 1: guys kind of had like an intermediary contact like with him,
Speaker 1: and I've spoken to him before, So you want us
Speaker 1: to call him and tell him what or you're gonna
Speaker 1: tell him. I mean I can tell him. I just
Speaker 1: was hoping to have like some support from you guys
Speaker 1: and stuff, since you guys were there before about how
Speaker 1: like no, I only like you as a friend. That's it,
Speaker 1: So like there's something you should know. It's it's not right,
Speaker 1: Well you want to get involved motives here week, I mean, like,
Speaker 1: I think it's kind of weird that. I mean, I've
Speaker 1: been on your show before and you guys like wouldn't
Speaker 1: want to call somebody else out on like their shady shenanigans.
Speaker 1: That's before. It's true. I feel like we should be
Speaker 1: called her instead of Evan, like that would be my
Speaker 1: move or roof. Sure, but we'll call the boyfriend now. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're gonna play a song come back, and we'll call
Speaker 1: Evan for you and let you tell him that you
Speaker 1: think something is going on between his girlfriend and Ruffer
Speaker 1: and also maybe you secretly love him a one a minute.
Speaker 1: We're gonna do it with your awkward Tuesday phone call
Speaker 1: right after this. Hold on, it's awkward, it's Tuesday. It's
Speaker 1: awkward Tuesday phone call. We were joking around a lot
Speaker 1: in the first part, but I think we were all
Speaker 1: just mind blown that any listeners who've been on the
Speaker 1: show before would actually want to meet up and connect
Speaker 1: and build friendships with each other over what happened on
Speaker 1: our airline at Yeah, it's really sweet. I mean, honestly,
Speaker 1: we're honored, it's cool. We just never really think about it,
Speaker 1: but it's totally possible that that would happened. And that
Speaker 1: is what happened when Sophia and Evan came up with
Speaker 1: the idea to do a listener reunion where different individuals
Speaker 1: who've in on second dates and closure calls. They all
Speaker 1: met up at a bar the other night to share
Speaker 1: stories and bond about being on our show, which is
Speaker 1: great until Sophia witnessed Evan's girlfriend being flirty and sliding
Speaker 1: a piece of paper into Rufer's pocket. Yeah, another former
Speaker 1: listener who was on our show. It's hard to follow
Speaker 1: everybody here. But now we don't know what the paper was,
Speaker 1: If it was a phone number, if it was like
Speaker 1: a recommendation for a plumber, we have no idea. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but she felt wrong, Vibespea. That's why we have Sophia
Speaker 1: on the line, and she wants to tell Evan what's up.
Speaker 1: Starting with Jose's advice, Jose, what are you think in here? Well,
Speaker 1: assuming this private group has bonded you, which it does
Speaker 1: a lot of times when people run these groups, you
Speaker 1: guys have been on the show together, it seems like
Speaker 1: you really care about your friendship with Evan. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: mean he's a really nice guy and I'm just trying
Speaker 1: to look out for him. You just don't want him
Speaker 1: to get hurt exactly. I think you need to make
Speaker 1: it very clear that you are coming from a strictly
Speaker 1: friendship angle, because guys always assumed we want to get
Speaker 1: in your pants. Yes, you like this guy. I think
Speaker 1: once he truly believes that you are being a friend here,
Speaker 1: that's when he's going to be open to whatever you're
Speaker 1: going to say. Now, Okay, reinforce that you're just a
Speaker 1: friend and nothing more and nothing will ever ever happen
Speaker 1: to think he's kind of gross. Ye, that's a friend?
Speaker 1: What do you think? I mean? I get what Jose say,
Speaker 1: and I get back that, but I also think you
Speaker 1: don't know what happened right between Evan's girlfriend and Rufers,
Speaker 1: so you can't deliver it as an accusatory thing. You
Speaker 1: just need to say, Hey, listen, I'm just giving you
Speaker 1: some information. This is what I saw. He can interpret
Speaker 1: however he wants to. Maybe it's no big deal, maybe
Speaker 1: he won't care. But you can't put your opinions on
Speaker 1: what was actually happening. Okay, just don't say the word
Speaker 1: cheating first. Yeah, yeah, right, yea, all right, So we're
Speaker 1: gonna dial Evan right now. Let you make your awkward
Speaker 1: Tuesday phone call. And if he is our number saved line. Yeah,
Speaker 1: We're gonna go deep into our lines here and let
Speaker 1: you make your awkward call. You ready, Yeah, let's do it,
Speaker 1: all right, just friends, here we go. Hello, Hey, what's up? Hey?
Speaker 1: Who's this? It's so fair? Hi. I just I wanted
Speaker 1: to talk to you about they get together the other night.
Speaker 1: Oh did you did you have fun? Yeah? I had
Speaker 1: a lot of fun. Actually, I'm kind of glad we
Speaker 1: did that, Like we should try to organize another one. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: for sure, I mean it was I think it was
Speaker 1: a great idea. I'm really glad we came up with that.
Speaker 1: But um, yeah, I actually I have something that I
Speaker 1: but I kind of want to confess to you about
Speaker 1: the whole name. Oh okay, yeah, and keep this in
Speaker 1: keep this in mind, even like I just I really
Speaker 1: I care about you, like as a friend, like that's
Speaker 1: that's it. We're just friends and everything. But I saw
Speaker 1: something that kind of like alarms me a little bit.
Speaker 1: I guess I thought it was a little bit strange.
Speaker 1: And I mean, I don't know it made Maybe it's nothing. Um,
Speaker 1: you know, slow down, like you sound super nervous, you're
Speaker 1: talking very fast everything. Okay, Well I am nervous because
Speaker 1: it's it's kind of hard to tell you this and uncomfortable.
Speaker 1: But at one point, um, you know, we were all
Speaker 1: sitting down and and your girlfriend, she she got up
Speaker 1: and she followed Rufer over to like the bathroom hallway
Speaker 1: area there in the back. So I couldn't really hear
Speaker 1: what they were saying or anything, but I did see
Speaker 1: her slipped like a piece of paper into like Rufer's
Speaker 1: front jacket pockets. Okay, And I don't know, man, it
Speaker 1: just it seemed kind of flirty and Lufer have like
Speaker 1: this like she decoite smile on his face. And I
Speaker 1: don't want to tell you because it's I don't know,
Speaker 1: so weird to me and I respect you and everything,
Speaker 1: like as a friend. Um, I don't know, I thought
Speaker 1: I should know, and then even you's still there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just uh, oh my god. Look, I mean, I
Speaker 1: know this is not what you want to hear. And
Speaker 1: I really like not trying to start drama, but I
Speaker 1: just I mean, I don't know, my like, am I
Speaker 1: being crazy here? Well? Maybe she was giving him her
Speaker 1: contact info because Ruffer is good at fixing bikes. I
Speaker 1: don't know if you you knew that, And um, you
Speaker 1: know she's been saying she wants to do well, I
Speaker 1: mean I don't I don't know, man, but from the
Speaker 1: looks at it, like I've i've looked like she wanted
Speaker 1: Ruffer to fix more than just her bike. Don't say that. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just saying, I mean, come on, like
Speaker 1: everybody at the table was talking about how his second
Speaker 1: date it was like the funniest and he is. He
Speaker 1: is kind of charming and like a funny, like weird
Speaker 1: hobo type of way. But I mean I don't know,
Speaker 1: like maybe your girlfriend picked up on that and and
Speaker 1: I don't know. Okay, okay, okay, stop stop, I get it.
Speaker 1: Rufer's got away with women we all were all, well,
Speaker 1: I didn't even up at you, like, I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: really like, I didn't even up at you at all. Look,
Speaker 1: it's not upsetting. It's just like I know what you're
Speaker 1: talking about, and I I'd rather not think about this again, sweet,
Speaker 1: think about what? Like you knew about this already. Well
Speaker 1: I didn't at the time, but I found out later,
Speaker 1: Like before the call. My girlfriend told me, wait, what
Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm confused. Oh gosh, like this is just
Speaker 1: so embarrassing. No, no, no, no, no no, I won't talk
Speaker 1: to you. I swear, I swear I'm just like supporting
Speaker 1: your fine. I just don't get it, like, what's going on?
Speaker 1: You cannot repeat this to Annywatton. But my girlfriend said
Speaker 1: she wanted to liven things up, so she asked Ruffer
Speaker 1: just to come over for entertainment one night. Entertainment. What
Speaker 1: does that mean? I don't think you want to know?
Speaker 1: I want that took a turn? Is he going to juggle? No? No, no, no,
Speaker 1: hold on, what are you doing? What are you serious?
Speaker 1: Right now? Welcome back to the show, buddy. No, this
Speaker 1: is the worst ever. Oh my god, you're a double
Speaker 1: veteran now of our show. I know it's the worst ever,
Speaker 1: but could you be a little more specific on what
Speaker 1: you This is just so shocking, like a guy like
Speaker 1: for who did I feel like? But is it is
Speaker 1: our listeners hanging out? Yeah, Energy, I'm trying to figure
Speaker 1: out from what you're describing, Evan, I'm just trying to
Speaker 1: wrap my head or possibly my legs like roof or
Speaker 1: around the situation. What entertainment are we talking about? Are
Speaker 1: you serious just to think? No? No, no, I don't
Speaker 1: I don't want to think about it. Yeah, and Sophia,
Speaker 1: what are you doing getting these guys involved with this?
Speaker 1: Like I've already been on with them and that turned
Speaker 1: out well, we got you a girlfriend, Yeah, you know
Speaker 1: that turned out good relationships going. I'm sorry, Ivan, and
Speaker 1: I don't mean to make you mad at me for
Speaker 1: saying something. I mean, I hope you're not, but I
Speaker 1: just I don't know, maybe citicus with myself. I was
Speaker 1: just concerned about you. No, no, no, I'm not mad
Speaker 1: at you. I'm just frustrated because I didn't know I
Speaker 1: was on the radio and now I've seen something I
Speaker 1: probably shouldn't have, so you know, my girlfriend's gonna hear it,
Speaker 1: and uh god, this man, this is not good. You
Speaker 1: don't feel bad a lot. There's a many couple out
Speaker 1: there that are in open relationships and it may not
Speaker 1: be easy for one of the members of the relationships.
Speaker 1: So that's okay. I don't think they're there yet, Jose.
Speaker 1: But yeah, on the positive, Rufer is probably here in
Speaker 1: this right now and absolutely loving it. Like, yeah, Rufer's
Speaker 1: open for business ladies. But Evan, has anything like happened
Speaker 1: with you and your girlfriend? No, no, no, nothing has happened.
Speaker 1: He has not been over not materialized. Please let it go. Ye,
Speaker 1: we're open for a thruffle update. I have nobody else Okay,
Speaker 1: new segment that's not happening. That's never happening. And this
Speaker 1: is a sign that shouldn't have even been discussed to
Speaker 1: be in with Like, oh my god, okay, okay, even
Speaker 1: we don't want to upset you and make you any
Speaker 1: more embarrassed. I just want to Besides, you know that
Speaker 1: part of your life we'll leave your relationship out of
Speaker 1: it is your friendship with Sophia still okay, Evan, Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're still cool. I just oh, okay, so we should
Speaker 1: have down well, you know, maybe just talk to your
Speaker 1: girlfriend about being a little more discreet. Yes, time, Well
Speaker 1: she followed him to the bathroom. I just I mean,
Speaker 1: I happened to see it on accident, but I think
Speaker 1: she was trying to be discreet. Yeah, what were you
Speaker 1: doing hanging by? No friends just go with each other
Speaker 1: to the bathroom. Which Speaking of which, Jose, do you
Speaker 1: think you and me absolutely all right? Well know I
Speaker 1: always got to go. It's a single stall, you guys
Speaker 1: that we have. We don't need no roofers over there
Speaker 1: waiting for us. Brooking Jeffrey in the morning,