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Speaker 10: oh Man symbolizes just one thing to me. Man, It's
Speaker 10: just a constant remind of exactly how good God has.
Speaker 2: Been to me over the years.
Speaker 10: And I'm thanking for it too, because I realize every
Speaker 10: day that I wake up that I would be nothing
Speaker 10: without Him. That everything I am, that's any good in me,
Speaker 10: I owe to him.
Speaker 2: Now.
Speaker 10: Have I made some mistakes along the way? Yep, bunches,
Speaker 10: bunches and bunches. And will I continue to make mistakes
Speaker 10: along the way?
Speaker 2: Yep?
Speaker 10: Not as many, hopefully as I have in the past,
Speaker 10: because a lot of stuff I know better now. But
Speaker 10: you're still going to make mistakes now, you know, hopefully
Speaker 10: I've limited the amount of intentional error in my life.
Speaker 10: I've wiped quite a few of those out. But from
Speaker 10: time to time, because we're human, we're going to make
Speaker 10: a mistake every now and then.
Speaker 2: The trick, what it is, y'all, is.
Speaker 10: Not to let the devil deceive you into thinking that
Speaker 10: once you make that mistake that that's it. You can't
Speaker 10: do it. You're falling off the wagon. You can't reboard it.
Speaker 10: That's the biggest trick that he uses. He makes you
Speaker 10: think that if you keep stumbling, that you can't run
Speaker 10: the race. It kind of reminds me of a marathon runner.
Speaker 10: From time to time, I watch them on TV, and
Speaker 10: you'll see some people who finish the race, you know,
Speaker 10: in a nice pace. You see people finish the race
Speaker 10: sprinting towards the finished line. But every now and then
Speaker 10: you'll watch a marathon and you'll see a runner and
Speaker 10: the runner is in really, really a bad shape. The
Speaker 10: key is they finish the race. See, you don't get
Speaker 10: disqualified in the marathon because you stumble.
Speaker 2: You don't. They don't.
Speaker 10: They don't take your opportunity to finish the race because
Speaker 10: you keep falling.
Speaker 2: That's not the key. The key is finishing.
Speaker 10: And a lot of times what the devil does is
Speaker 10: he makes you think that because you keep stumbling, because
Speaker 10: you're swaying from side to side, that you know you
Speaker 10: out the race. Well, that's not the case. And see
Speaker 10: and then this thing called life. Let me help you
Speaker 10: understand something. Everybody falls, Nobody sprints to the tape in
Speaker 10: this one. Nobody just runs free and clear. That has
Speaker 10: some people running faster than you and all like this,
Speaker 10: and some people gonna get to the end before you
Speaker 10: let them go ahead. And when the end come, the
Speaker 10: end come. I ain't in the rust. You get to
Speaker 10: the end. But in this race, though, when you're stumbling
Speaker 10: and you're falling, it's a part of it. No one
Speaker 10: gets through this race without stumbling and falling, swaying from
Speaker 10: side to side. So don't let the enemy deceive you
Speaker 10: in the thinking that it's over. I try to be
Speaker 10: encouraging to people because I don't want people to get
Speaker 10: stuck on this thing, you know. And my walk is
Speaker 10: very different from a lot of people's walks. And then
Speaker 10: I know a lot of people who walking in faith
Speaker 10: the way I'm walking in faith. But my thing in
Speaker 10: the morning is just to remind those that is not
Speaker 10: a perfect walk man, that it's not something that's set
Speaker 10: up where you're gonna be skipping through life scott free
Speaker 10: without any pitfalls. You know, I keep saying it over
Speaker 10: and over and over again because, like I said, when
Speaker 10: I was in DC, my boy Hondo said this to
Speaker 10: me and it just kind of stuck with me that
Speaker 10: the road to construct, the road to success is always
Speaker 10: under construction. Have to figure and count on the setbacks
Speaker 10: and the pitfalls. But it's those people that that that
Speaker 10: that are that fight through will be the victors in
Speaker 10: the end. You cannot give up, man, Stop going somewhere
Speaker 10: and sitting down every time something goes down. It's going
Speaker 10: to go down. It's a part of it. It's going
Speaker 10: to happen. It's going to occur that are going to
Speaker 10: be setbacks. If you go and sit down every time
Speaker 10: there's a setback, that's not how this works.
Speaker 2: It is designed that way.
Speaker 10: If success were easy, everybody would be successful. But success
Speaker 10: is just reserved for those who are willing to fight through,
Speaker 10: who refuse to settle for mediocrity, who wants something more. Now,
Speaker 10: don't get me wrong. Success is defined by each individual
Speaker 10: so what I may consider to be successful, you may
Speaker 10: not consider that. You know what Bill Gates considered successful.
Speaker 10: I might not consider what Michael Jordan considered successful. I
Speaker 10: might not consider what you consider successful. Your boss might
Speaker 10: not consider. You have to define what that is for yourself.
Speaker 10: It may not be monetary at all. You know, your
Speaker 10: level of success could be tied up in community service.
Speaker 10: It could be tied up in family. It could be
Speaker 10: tied up in the church. Your level of success could
Speaker 10: be tied up into boys clubs. It could be any
Speaker 10: number of things. Whatever your level of success is, you
Speaker 10: have to determine what that is you and the best
Speaker 10: way to determine that is to get in touch with
Speaker 10: your maker, who created you, to find out what your
Speaker 10: mission and your purpose is so he can put you
Speaker 10: on track. I just had this conversation with my son
Speaker 10: and we were talking about getting on the.
Speaker 2: Path that God has set up for you.
Speaker 10: Many times we find ourselves fighting through life because of
Speaker 10: so much uncertainty, because we have no idea where we're headed.
Speaker 10: It's like one of my sayings that I have at
Speaker 10: my mentoring camp for boys is is that a boy
Speaker 10: without a male role model is like an explorer without
Speaker 10: a map. See if you don't have a map laid
Speaker 10: out in front of you of where you're going when
Speaker 10: you wake up every day, that pretty much explains the
Speaker 10: feeling of confusion, the laxadaisical attitude, the lack of purpose,
Speaker 10: to not understanding your mission because you don't have not
Speaker 10: gotten in touch with your creator to find out exactly
Speaker 10: what your path in life is. What are you supposed
Speaker 10: to be doing? The moment you can identify that is
Speaker 10: the moment that you get started waking up with purpose,
Speaker 10: with the sense of direction. When you kill the sense
Speaker 10: of I don't know what's next or what to do. Now,
Speaker 10: there's going to be some confusing moments no matter what happened,
Speaker 10: it's going to be some uncertainty, but at least you'll
Speaker 10: know where you're going. So if you tied awaking up
Speaker 10: feeling loss, abandon confuse, don't know what to do, don't
Speaker 10: know what you're supposed to be doing, refer back to
Speaker 10: your makeup. Because when He created you, he had a
Speaker 10: plan for you. When he created you, he had a
Speaker 10: path for you. Now we've made some decisions to get
Speaker 10: off of both of those, the mission and the path.
Speaker 2: But God can get you right back on track.
Speaker 10: Do that today, ask him what you're supposed to be doing,
Speaker 10: and listen. God has all the answers if you form
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Speaker 2: I know you ain't here every morning. Some of you are. Hell.
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Speaker 10: To wake the world up and put you in a
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Speaker 10: nobody bad like we. You can believe that there's other
Speaker 10: radio shows. But nothing, nothing can pass, nothing come pass
Speaker 10: to you. Nothing, Ladies and gentlemen, Shirley Strawberry and calling
Speaker 10: for Real, the Mouth of the South, Mississippi Money.
Speaker 2: Who is Monica who is a radio and TV producer.
Speaker 10: Today we discovered Ladies and Gentlemen, Junior Boy better known
Speaker 10: as Killed Space, and the legend that his nephew Tommy,
Speaker 10: who's had several ailments this year, but God is in
Speaker 10: the blessed business, has overcome their all. He's doing shoulder
Speaker 10: exercises right now. The five pound dumb bell. Lady and Gentlemen,
Speaker 10: Steve Harvey, Marny Showton, Junior, what's going on?
Speaker 11: Let me tell you something. I think the euphoria at
Speaker 11: his house in Woof already. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I know
Speaker 11: any more, just got it.
Speaker 2: It's a brand new house. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I'm in trouble though, That's all I know.
Speaker 11: I didn't know because you know, when you hear your
Speaker 11: name early in the morning, it ain't never good. I
Speaker 11: know that she yelling across the house early in the morning.
Speaker 11: It ain't never good all because are we moving? Because
Speaker 11: I've packed up all the coffee in here.
Speaker 1: I didn't know.
Speaker 2: I thought we was leaving.
Speaker 11: So now I'm in trouble because I ain't no coffee
Speaker 11: making here, Ain't no coffee in here, ain't no pots
Speaker 11: in here. Ain't nothing all this stuff here, I can't cook.
Speaker 11: She made rice and gravy on the microwave yesterday. Very talented, though,
Speaker 11: I must tell you, very talented. I don't know how
Speaker 11: she did it, but she made rice and gravy in
Speaker 11: the microwave yesterday. But I just know that right now,
Speaker 11: she's not really happy with me because.
Speaker 1: I'm move it. I thought that was the goal.
Speaker 11: We can't keep it here, we have to move it.
Speaker 11: So I'm in trouble for that. I can't understand. I
Speaker 11: thought the house would be enough. Give me at least
Speaker 11: two months. Please give me two months of happening. Now
Speaker 11: I'm back in trouble again. You for your gone, That's
Speaker 11: what's wrong on What is the problem that we're doing
Speaker 11: what they asked us to do and we still get
Speaker 11: in trouble?
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you could never do enough? Yeah, yeah it is?
Speaker 10: Is it?
Speaker 2: Because I was.
Speaker 4: Not all knowing?
Speaker 1: But we're not insatiable.
Speaker 2: We willn't even know what that means.
Speaker 12: But damn that.
Speaker 4: With that because she out this morning.
Speaker 1: She went out this morning where out of town.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's right. It ain't have enough, But there weren't all.
Speaker 13: The ways appreciative of what you do. We're just looking.
Speaker 2: But it ain't enough though we got we're not saying it. Tommy.
Speaker 2: You know they're gonna.
Speaker 12: Get cussed out in this new house though. You do
Speaker 12: know that you're gonna get you. Yeah, right after you
Speaker 12: move in, coming up mony.
Speaker 14: Day, gift together to come yes, coming up at thirty
Speaker 14: two minutes after the ain't the house. We'll hear from
Speaker 14: the nephew. Is he runs that prank back? Right after
Speaker 14: this you're.
Speaker 13: Listening hard Morning Show.
Speaker 14: It is time now for the nephew and run that
Speaker 14: prank back? What you got for us today, neth Well, you.
Speaker 12: Know what, Shirley, You always got to celebrate people's birthdays.
Speaker 2: You know you want to celebrate.
Speaker 12: You want to show us love and care that you
Speaker 12: care about them on this great, great, great great day
Speaker 12: that they're celebrating. You know, we do it all the
Speaker 12: time here on the Steve Hardy Morning Show. We celebrate
Speaker 12: each other's birthday. We make sure we say birthdays, show love.
Speaker 2: We do that here. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 12: So I wanted to reach out and say, you know,
Speaker 12: your wife's birthday, your wife's.
Speaker 13: Birthday, your wife's birthday.
Speaker 12: Not mine, not mine, my wife ain't any pranks. Let's
Speaker 12: get let's get that strength, none of that right there
Speaker 12: is where I draw the lot.
Speaker 14: So you're celebrating someone else's wife.
Speaker 12: Oh yeah, And I want to make sure that I
Speaker 12: want to make sure that he's not getting her what
Speaker 12: I'm getting her.
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
Speaker 13: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: Couldn't what's her size is? You know?
Speaker 12: I want to get us some sex that you understand
Speaker 12: what I'm saying. But I don't want us to get
Speaker 12: the same thing. And I used to know there with
Speaker 12: two of them, Now you got the same Victorian secret.
Speaker 12: You know what I'm saying that doesn't make no sense
Speaker 12: to me, you understand. So, so your wife's birthday, cat dog,
Speaker 12: if you would.
Speaker 3: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach there.
Speaker 15: Yeah, what's up, hey, Darren Man?
Speaker 3: What's going on? Brother?
Speaker 13: Uh?
Speaker 3: My name is Chris Man. I worked with I worked
Speaker 3: with your wife, Sharon. I think I think I may
Speaker 3: have seen you at one of the one of the
Speaker 3: gatherings before man, like a happy hour we had after
Speaker 3: work or something. I don't know if you remember me
Speaker 3: or not.
Speaker 15: Now I don't remember you.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, cool, Hey listen man, I know sharing
Speaker 3: birthday is coming up, so I wanted to if you
Speaker 3: didn't mind, I hope you don't mind me called. I
Speaker 3: wanted to reach out and see if you were you know,
Speaker 3: what you were getting her for a birthday. I wanted
Speaker 3: to make sure you know we're gonna pitch in and
Speaker 3: get us something at the job. Will make sure you
Speaker 3: know we didn't get you know, you know what you
Speaker 3: may have been gonna get it.
Speaker 15: You know what I'm saying, kind of like something like
Speaker 15: a grab dag or something like that.
Speaker 3: Uh oh, I wasn't gonna hear it with no grab man.
Speaker 3: I was just you know, like I said, we was
Speaker 3: gonna get something. You know, we haven't really put our
Speaker 3: put our all the thoughts to it or what we
Speaker 3: was gonna get yet, but I want, I personally want
Speaker 3: to see what you was getting that way. We don't know,
Speaker 3: do Okay?
Speaker 15: Well, she likes money, man, you can you know, uh
Speaker 15: give us some give us some cash or you know
Speaker 15: Starbucks card or uh something from McDonald something. You know,
Speaker 15: it don't have to be too big. She she don't
Speaker 15: uh you don't have to you know, she she's not
Speaker 15: that materialistic. Okay, Okay, let.
Speaker 3: Me let me let me ask you.
Speaker 2: This is so deep?
Speaker 3: Uh do you uh you know what a size is?
Speaker 15: Do I know what her size is?
Speaker 3: Still like clothing?
Speaker 2: You know?
Speaker 3: Do you know what side she will?
Speaker 15: Uh? Yeah, I know what size she's not? She's one
Speaker 15: white man. I think this is kind of like I'm
Speaker 15: getting a little bit uncomfortable with this.
Speaker 7: Man.
Speaker 3: What do you do you think? You know? I don't
Speaker 3: mean to make you un comfortable.
Speaker 2: Let me ask you this.
Speaker 3: Do you think she would like?
Speaker 7: Uh?
Speaker 3: Do she like stuff from Victoria's Secret?
Speaker 15: WHOA hold up? Man? Stop right there? You talking about what?
Speaker 3: No? I, like I said, I wanted what what you hey?
Speaker 15: What's your name again?
Speaker 10: Man?
Speaker 7: My name Chris?
Speaker 3: Like like I said earlier, my name How long you
Speaker 3: been with the company? I haven't been there six months?
Speaker 2: You know?
Speaker 3: But like I said, I think I saw you at
Speaker 3: one of the happy y'all I saw maybe you just
Speaker 3: don't remember who I am.
Speaker 15: Though, No, no, no, man, but you way out of
Speaker 15: line talking about her size, And I'm not comfortable with
Speaker 15: this at all. Man. You know, okay, okay, your way out,
Speaker 15: your way out of line, right, But what what?
Speaker 3: What's what? You didn't answer? My question was, what do
Speaker 3: you think she liked Victoria's Secret?
Speaker 15: You want to answer your question? Keep talking about.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, what's what's what?
Speaker 9: What?
Speaker 3: What's the language? Brother? What's what's her? We brothers?
Speaker 15: You know we ain't we ain't we ain't no brothers?
Speaker 15: You fool? What do you get off asking me about
Speaker 15: my wife's clothes?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, all right, talk with her.
Speaker 12: Okay.
Speaker 3: What all I'm saying is is do you think she
Speaker 3: gonna like the victorious secret?
Speaker 2: I will give her?
Speaker 15: Hey, man, just to stup with that? Do you know
Speaker 15: how long we've been together? I know this woman since
Speaker 15: high school. Don't come to me with that.
Speaker 3: Okay. So so I was just trying to get up
Speaker 3: what what?
Speaker 2: What?
Speaker 15: What time do you guys get off? I'm coming.
Speaker 3: I lead off at five thirty, but I was gonna
Speaker 3: leave early.
Speaker 15: I mean, right, hey, we can talk about this faith
Speaker 15: to faith.
Speaker 3: Say, hey, listen, I'm trying to.
Speaker 15: Get listen what I ain't gotta listen to me?
Speaker 3: I'm trying to get shared of panty. And Bra said, pat, okay, hey.
Speaker 15: You ain't buying my wife and she wouldn't even accept
Speaker 15: it anyway.
Speaker 3: Okay, hey man, how.
Speaker 15: You get this number? How you get this number? I
Speaker 15: know she didn't give you this.
Speaker 3: Let me tell you hot there. I got it from
Speaker 3: your wife Sharon, because guess who I am? I am
Speaker 3: nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Sharon got
Speaker 3: me to prank phone call you?
Speaker 15: What there there?
Speaker 7: This happened?
Speaker 3: Man, This nephew Tommy brother.
Speaker 15: Man, this is some boys, This is some real books.
Speaker 15: This is some straight up bully. Hey man, you ain't right. Man.
Speaker 15: You know you need to stop with people, you know,
Speaker 15: because you might get you might somebody might be waiting
Speaker 15: for you have to work one day. Man, that's totally wrong.
Speaker 15: You ever heard of karma? I heard somebody gonna play
Speaker 15: a prank on you one day? Your uncle is right,
Speaker 15: somebody's gonna what's yours? A matter of time?
Speaker 3: Oh man? All right, all right, darn Before I get
Speaker 3: my mad, will you please tell the people what is
Speaker 3: the baddest radio show in the land.
Speaker 15: Steve Harvey Show.
Speaker 2: Now you see how stupid that he is on Friday?
Speaker 12: Can you imagine how ignority is gonna be tomorrow night
Speaker 12: at the Cat's Wick Feel Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. It sound like
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Speaker 12: and lou Nell to Touay McLaren. Oh my god, did
Speaker 12: I not tell y'all that? Okay, surely take us out
Speaker 12: because I'm about to blowed up in here, I'm telling you.
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Speaker 13: We'll talk about all of these stories abobb of the hour.
Speaker 14: Yeah, but right now it is time to ask the CLO.
Speaker 14: This runs from Dedre in Fort Myers. Dija writes, my
Speaker 14: husband raised his ex wife's child as his own. He
Speaker 14: and I are married now, and my husband still spends
Speaker 14: time with the boy, who's eight years old. My husband
Speaker 14: asked if the boy can spend the summer with us
Speaker 14: is it wrong for me to say no to this?
Speaker 2: See that's a touching.
Speaker 10: Yes, you want to have complete, complete separation from his past,
Speaker 10: but the child knows him as his dad, that's true.
Speaker 2: And to remove the boy's.
Speaker 10: Male role model from his life so you can be comfortable. See,
Speaker 10: you don't want to reminder that his him and his
Speaker 10: exis baby in your house. And I'm not even sure
Speaker 10: I think I heard you right. It's not his biological son, right, right.
Speaker 13: Right, right, It's not it's not no, it's it's.
Speaker 2: Excess son is soul.
Speaker 10: But yeah, I understand your concern about that, your hesitation,
Speaker 10: I do is very real. But at the same time,
Speaker 10: if you could just consider for a moment the welfare
Speaker 10: of a child who has only known this man as
Speaker 10: a father figure and to remove that from him, that's
Speaker 10: concerning that.
Speaker 2: It's her, you know.
Speaker 10: But lady, if you wanted to just be about you did,
Speaker 10: of course you're absolutely correct, But if you would consider
Speaker 10: the plight, you know, it's you know, I don't think
Speaker 10: that me and get enough credit oftentimes, especially fought men
Speaker 10: who step up and.
Speaker 2: Take care of kids that aren't they own.
Speaker 10: That's a special dude, man, because he's taking the responsibility
Speaker 10: over for somebody who'd have walked away from it. And
Speaker 10: that's a special dude. And now you're telling him not
Speaker 10: to do that.
Speaker 13: Yeah, you're right, Steve, all right?
Speaker 14: Moving on to Frank in Atlanta, I was dealing with
Speaker 14: a wild and crazy woman and the sex was top shelf,
Speaker 14: but she liked to bite and pinch, and she tried
Speaker 14: to smother me with a pillow once. I had to
Speaker 14: leave her alone before she killed me. But I can't
Speaker 14: get her off my mind. Should I talk to her
Speaker 14: about being less aggressive in bed or leave her alone
Speaker 14: for good?
Speaker 2: You need to live alone now? Is good? Though, Steve?
Speaker 2: That was good. She gonna kill him.
Speaker 13: Though, That's what he's afraid of. That's what That's what
Speaker 13: he's afraid of.
Speaker 15: Yeah.
Speaker 12: Can he put on one of them oxygen man's and
Speaker 12: going there with that? I mean, I mean something, Yeah, breathe, you.
Speaker 2: Gotta do all that I showed him.
Speaker 10: Suggest dog, you just go get your girl that do
Speaker 10: regular stuff and going bad down, you know, make that
Speaker 10: works for you, all that excitement coming at the price
Speaker 10: for you. She didn't try to kill you. She'd a
Speaker 10: bit you.
Speaker 2: Or you be stabbed. That's what I see.
Speaker 10: That You're gonna get stabbed, don't they pitching and tracking
Speaker 10: and bting and smothering. Ain't nothing left but gunshots and stabbing. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 10: you're gonna be in there playing Russian Roulette with him.
Speaker 2: You can't get it mind, I know, Yeah, I know.
Speaker 2: So you ain't been bit before. That's what you're saying.
Speaker 10: You ain't didn't like it, You ain't don't like fighting, Tommy,
Speaker 10: I don't like or smothered with a pillow or No,
Speaker 10: you're not smothering me without getting knocked in the float.
Speaker 10: You other than me, My reaction to smothering is not good.
Speaker 10: Johnny Waller chilseed me one time in the ninth grade.
Speaker 2: That's all I needed.
Speaker 10: Right there after that, I knew that wasn't gonna be
Speaker 10: gratifying for me. Evil and here, oh yeah, all right.
Speaker 14: Moving on to Penny and Harlem, Penny says, my boyfriend
Speaker 14: tells his friends too much of our personal business.
Speaker 13: We did some role playing in bed.
Speaker 14: For the first time, and I overheard him telling his
Speaker 14: friend about it. How could he do that? Does it
Speaker 14: mean he doesn't take our relationship seriously?
Speaker 10: Yeah, he's very immature. Most men men that's got somebody
Speaker 10: they care about. We're not discussing our bedroom life with
Speaker 10: our boys. We're not doing it because we got too
Speaker 10: much respect for it.
Speaker 2: She off Livings. Lady. You know, if you just in't
Speaker 2: here tricking, you know, Oh, that's how much discussion.
Speaker 14: So she thinks it's something and you just something entirely
Speaker 14: different from his perspective.
Speaker 2: Well, what's their relationship though, ship?
Speaker 13: She said, he's her boyfriend.
Speaker 2: That's all you is. He don't care about you. If
Speaker 2: you talked about you, yeah, I don't. That's not a
Speaker 2: good sign.
Speaker 1: And you're hearing that from men.
Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, yeah, because I don't talk about nobody I
Speaker 10: care about. You're not getting that car by.
Speaker 2: She put a leg up on that ceiling. Fan. Let
Speaker 2: me tell you, let me tell you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, watching the game.
Speaker 13: Yeah, how long are her legs?
Speaker 2: Yep? No, Well you know she wasn't in the bed.
Speaker 2: She was hanging from us.
Speaker 14: Well, all right, so there you have it, Penny in Harlem.
Speaker 14: Let's have it at home. Last one, Harlow shake, last one, Steve.
Speaker 14: This is from Willett's in Charlotte. Okay. Willett said, I
Speaker 14: had a three so with my husband and he is
Speaker 14: still sleeping with the woman. I feel guilty for inviting
Speaker 14: her into my marriage, so I never questioned him about
Speaker 14: the affair. I want my husband back all to myself.
Speaker 14: How do I reverse what I've done?
Speaker 10: You a going okay, okay, be good, you said, cool,
Speaker 10: let's do it, he said, she in yeah you Yeah,
Speaker 10: you gave the hall pass, right she did. Now you
Speaker 10: can ask for the pass back, but you're still going
Speaker 10: to be in the hall though.
Speaker 13: Not happening. Yeah, you're right, he's.
Speaker 10: I the hall pass back in the classroom, and I
Speaker 10: will stay out here in this hall though.
Speaker 16: Yeah, so it's going good over there.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 13: How can she get her husband back all to herself?
Speaker 13: That's what you want?
Speaker 2: No, I'm just told you that's not gonna have No,
Speaker 2: he don't.
Speaker 13: Yeah, he got there's nothing he goes.
Speaker 2: You can't for miss.
Speaker 13: Yeah, but she changed. She changed because he's still sleeping then.
Speaker 10: Yeah, but see you can't. You can't tell a man
Speaker 10: it's okay to sleep around. And then now he done
Speaker 10: get used to it. Now you're gonna tell him y'all
Speaker 10: don't want you to sleeping around no more. So then
Speaker 10: he's thinking in hisself. So now you just want be
Speaker 10: back over here?
Speaker 2: Yes, with you.
Speaker 13: Yeah, yourself, just doing regular stuff.
Speaker 2: That's what we're doing with you.
Speaker 13: Right Wait what he's so selfish.
Speaker 2: Just with you. That's it from now. You know what,
Speaker 2: that's not gonna work. He ain't got the life by
Speaker 2: where he at.
Speaker 1: No, I ain't got the lie.
Speaker 13: Your marriage is open. Yeah, she opened it up. All right,
Speaker 13: thank you, CLO.
Speaker 14: Moving on now to the top of the hour and
Speaker 14: Entertainment News right after this you're.
Speaker 13: Listening morning show.
Speaker 2: All right.
Speaker 14: So this week started out with drama after two journalists
Speaker 14: from competing organizations left their long standing jobs.
Speaker 13: On Monday.
Speaker 14: Don Lemon was reportedly terminated from his position at CNN,
Speaker 14: and Fox News announced that Tucker Carlson won't be returning
Speaker 14: to that network. The news sent shockwaves through social media,
Speaker 14: and director Lee Daniels had an idea. He was one
Speaker 14: of many that shared his thoughts about Lemon and Carlson.
Speaker 14: Daniels did an Instagram live video encouraging Lemon and Carlson
Speaker 14: to join forces. Daniels said, Don Lemon, Tucker Carlson, If
Speaker 14: I were a smart executive, I put them both on
Speaker 14: the same TV show. How bananas would the ratings be?
Speaker 14: I think it could possibly unite the country. Now that's
Speaker 14: from Lee Daniels.
Speaker 2: What do you think, Steve, Yeah, you like the country.
Speaker 13: Well, now there's news.
Speaker 2: Now, mister Daniels, you do.
Speaker 13: Great moves, excellent.
Speaker 10: Your work is epic out as you don't. Now, I'll
Speaker 10: tell you what. I'll produce the show with you, cause
Speaker 10: it'll be a hell of hit.
Speaker 13: It's about you.
Speaker 2: Matter of fact, I'm finish. Text Don right.
Speaker 13: Now to tell him you got to deal for him.
Speaker 12: Boy, please, and mister Daniels, since be talking about movies,
Speaker 12: I'm here if you need.
Speaker 13: It, And how is this about you?
Speaker 12: This is a great time to tell me. It's to Daniels,
Speaker 12: I'd like to work. I'm just saying.
Speaker 14: The question is with Don Lemon and Tucker Carlson be
Speaker 14: good on TV together?
Speaker 2: Oh see, it would be it would be question.
Speaker 10: Yeah, it would be tough man, but it would be
Speaker 10: musty TV because that's never been done before.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 10: Okay, look like like CNN does it. CNN does it.
Speaker 10: They'll have a republican right wing like Scott on every
Speaker 10: now and then to add at the right perspective. But
Speaker 10: never have you had two stars sit there and debate
Speaker 10: certain subjects and topics. And I think we'll be interesting,
Speaker 10: but those two egos in the same room, he's gonna
Speaker 10: be wrong.
Speaker 13: Yeah, but it's like you said, must see.
Speaker 2: For the right check, you better deal with it.
Speaker 13: So there you go, all right.
Speaker 14: In an interview at Time one hundred summit earlier this week,
Speaker 14: Kim Kardashian talked about her criminal justice reform efforts and
Speaker 14: said she would consider giving up reality TV to be
Speaker 14: an attorney full time. Kim's passion for law and justice
Speaker 14: has been well documented over the past several years. Just
Speaker 14: last week, camera sister Chloe and rapper Little Baby visited
Speaker 14: at California State Prison to learn about inmates experiences on
Speaker 14: the inside. When asked if she would ever leave reality
Speaker 14: television to focus solely on being a lawyer, Kim said, quote,
Speaker 14: I would be just as happy being an attorney full
Speaker 14: time and doing that. The journey just really opened up
Speaker 14: my eyes to so much. It gets overwhelming because there's
Speaker 14: so much to be done. I would totally spend more
Speaker 14: time doing that cameras or no cameras, So there, you know.
Speaker 10: I mean, I think everybody has to get to a
Speaker 10: point in a life where you discover your purpose, and
Speaker 10: I think that's when life becomes very fulfilling when you
Speaker 10: find the reason why the two most important days in
Speaker 10: your life are the day you're born and the day
Speaker 10: you discover why those two days are absolutely critical. The
Speaker 10: sad part of it is a lot of people go
Speaker 10: through life never really attaching themselves to a purpose. And
Speaker 10: Kim Kardashian could very well find that, because you know,
Speaker 10: it's if you thinking, if anybody is thinking out there,
Speaker 10: there's got to be more to life than this, that's
Speaker 10: because it is. And the moment you stop thinking there's
Speaker 10: got to be more to life than this, you in
Speaker 10: some trouble because the Bible clearly says a man without
Speaker 10: a dream or a vision shall perish. It does not
Speaker 10: say a man without an education will pass. It says
Speaker 10: when you stop dreaming and having visions, you will die
Speaker 10: because there is nothing to shoot for. And once you
Speaker 10: lose the aiming ability, you've lost one of the major
Speaker 10: components to waken up every day. And that's what I
Speaker 10: thank God for a great deal, my ability to have
Speaker 10: dreams and visions. And everybody has them, everybody on the
Speaker 10: show has them, everybody listening has them. You just can't
Speaker 10: let the devil rob you of that because The devil's
Speaker 10: main goal in life is to rob you of your destiny.
Speaker 10: That's he wants that more than anything. He don't care
Speaker 10: if you get a big house. He don't care if
Speaker 10: you make a lot of money. He just wants to
Speaker 10: rob you of your destinies. What God has put you
Speaker 10: on this world to do. And if he can make
Speaker 10: you think there's nothing for you to do, if he
Speaker 10: can make you think you've already arrived, if he can
Speaker 10: get you to thinking, this is it in Lord, have mercy.
Speaker 10: He wins the battles fight. People fight. I'm sorry you
Speaker 10: didn't ask me all that.
Speaker 2: No, that was good though.
Speaker 14: People need to hear that. That's that's greatness, all right.
Speaker 14: Moving on to Angel Reese. You know her exposure has
Speaker 14: increased drastically since she led the LSU Tigers women's basketball
Speaker 14: team to the twenty twenty three NCAA National championship earlier
Speaker 14: this month. She's so popular now that during a recent
Speaker 14: radio interview, she revealed that rappers Drake and Future were
Speaker 14: among the many celebrities that have slid into her DMS.
Speaker 14: Reese made sure she explained the nature of their conversations,
Speaker 14: though Angel said they just congratulated her. It was just congratulations. Okay,
Speaker 14: that's all it was.
Speaker 13: Before you start thinking other things. Just congratulations And what
Speaker 13: have we learned from this?
Speaker 2: Fella? Say out to young girls, do.
Speaker 14: You yeah, stay out, But imagine that Drake.
Speaker 13: You look at your your your d MS and Drake
Speaker 13: is in there. Wow.
Speaker 2: I don't even know how to do, you know what, I.
Speaker 1: Don't know why to get in there?
Speaker 13: You? Oh, all right?
Speaker 14: Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, Steve has
Speaker 14: a special announcement.
Speaker 13: I wonder what that could be. We'll find out right
Speaker 13: after this. You're listening morning show, all right.
Speaker 10: Steve, So you're Charley. I have an announcement to me.
Speaker 10: Oh okay, sorry to interrupt.
Speaker 2: It's okay.
Speaker 10: This is major news, everybody. I need your divided attention.
Speaker 10: You know, for the first time in all of American
Speaker 10: broadcast history, this is the first time you all women
Speaker 10: of color, are going to be recognized on the national
Speaker 10: platform for all of their hard work and contributions to
Speaker 10: the radio industry. Now, as a part of the Black
Speaker 10: Women in Radio's Oral History Project, they have selected thirty
Speaker 10: nine African American female radio veterans from all over the
Speaker 10: country who will be celebrated in Washington, d C. At
Speaker 10: the Library of Congress this afternoon.
Speaker 2: Folks that would.
Speaker 10: Include our very own miss Sherli Strawberry and Colin for real.
Speaker 11: Over here want to do it when Jun hit it.
Speaker 10: They will be two of the thirty nine African American
Speaker 10: female radio veteran. They are part of the Black Women
Speaker 10: in Radios in Augrie thirtieth and for the first time
Speaker 10: in history, have been invited to attend the Radio Preservation
Speaker 10: Task Force Conference in our nation's capital. So they will
Speaker 10: be going up there to represent Black women in radio,
Speaker 10: to represent the Steve Harvey Morning Show, to hold it
Speaker 10: down for all of our markets, all of our listeners.
Speaker 2: Two.
Speaker 10: We got two. Ain't nobody else got too. We got
Speaker 10: two of the veterans of radio representing women of color.
Speaker 10: We want to congratulate Shirley and Color. They're gonna also
Speaker 10: get a tour in the White House and will be
Speaker 10: greeted by the White House Press Secretary Corriem Joan pl Yes,
Speaker 10: all her name could be.
Speaker 16: Karen, it's not, she's a sister joe yell or you
Speaker 16: could be Carrie May, Jean Pierre, whoever that is. Thank
Speaker 16: you for recognizing our sisters for congratulations to our very
Speaker 16: own Shirley Strawberry and call her for real, because we
Speaker 16: are pretty show are the only ones that's sending two bad,
Speaker 16: bad women own up there to DC.
Speaker 2: You better show out.
Speaker 13: Thank you.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have Ellie dress y'all.
Speaker 10: Oh, Shirley, a lotta have y'all up there and just
Speaker 10: straight for Steve.
Speaker 14: Congratulations Carla and to all the other women. This is
Speaker 14: quite an honor. We appreciate this very much.
Speaker 13: Yes, thank coming. Congratulations Shanley, thank you, Thanks Carla.
Speaker 14: All right, coming up more of the Steve Harby Morning Show.
Speaker 14: I think Ross the Wallace is stopping by right after
Speaker 14: this is this Friday.
Speaker 13: Yeah, he'll be here.
Speaker 14: Yeah you're listening morning show. You see he's here and
Speaker 14: ready to God, welcome to Roscoe Wallace.
Speaker 10: I'm already say all here. You ain't gonna recall me.
Speaker 10: I'm already here.
Speaker 2: I see, I ain't, I ain't been labeled nothing. I'm one.
Speaker 2: Lets you ready where I.
Speaker 17: Want to little Bobby woman, if you think you're lonely now, if.
Speaker 2: You think you lonely, no, you're about now open.
Speaker 10: Here waiting till tonight.
Speaker 2: Girl.
Speaker 10: If you think you lonely, Oh, lonely, lonely, lonely waiting
Speaker 10: till tonight? Girl, Hay hippie.
Speaker 2: Or you know you met with.
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's go up to Chicago, Chicago the show.
Speaker 4: It was a cold.
Speaker 10: This day, Oh my life.
Speaker 2: But I want to break it down like that. Man.
Speaker 10: Yes, I see her face and where I go on
Speaker 10: the street and even at the picture.
Speaker 2: Of her show.
Speaker 10: Have your seena till they have your seena. I hear
Speaker 10: her voice to be holy, she can set me free.
Speaker 2: Have your seena? Tell me? Have you seen up?
Speaker 4: Why?
Speaker 2: Oh why teach? You have to leave me and go away?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 2: Yeah, whoa been? You said? Having some one to leave?
Speaker 10: You know?
Speaker 2: And I'm lost? What baby, I'm lost?
Speaker 4: Whoa girl?
Speaker 10: I probably if you left me now, I'm I don't know.
Speaker 10: I don't know where to look for love and I
Speaker 10: don't I don't know how how you there?
Speaker 2: Hey you baby? That was a rebate you mix it? Yeah,
Speaker 2: it was nice. It was nice you see how on? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I loved it.
Speaker 2: Girl, that keel, that's what you got. That woman.
Speaker 11: The dramatics, what you're seeing go outside.
Speaker 4: That one.
Speaker 2: Yen thew race.
Speaker 10: It may sound crazy, Bud, I want to go outside, plain, squirrel, squirrel,
Speaker 10: the end rain.
Speaker 2: I could do so many I could do that. What
Speaker 2: you what you get? What you get?
Speaker 10: I said, what you see is what you getting, my baby?
Speaker 10: And real is the best is the best thing you had?
Speaker 10: The best thing yet?
Speaker 2: Oh? Digit tive like who weave?
Speaker 10: Whirling round and round, roping down here spinning on the ground.
Speaker 10: You kisses make me de is it.
Speaker 13: In the head?
Speaker 2: Now falling? Yea falling?
Speaker 7: Ah?
Speaker 2: Here I go down and down I go.
Speaker 10: I can't help myself one more time?
Speaker 13: Coming up next? Where you throw my mind?
Speaker 14: Oh you're listening morning show coming up at about four
Speaker 14: minutes after the hour. It's my strawberry letter for today
Speaker 14: and the subject is I just met my play sister
Speaker 14: in law. We'll get into that in just a few
Speaker 14: because right now it is time for the nephew and
Speaker 14: today's prank phone call. What you got for his neph
Speaker 14: This right here?
Speaker 2: Don't you hate child support?
Speaker 4: Hey?
Speaker 2: What I do?
Speaker 13: What?
Speaker 2: Fine? Why whine? Let's go cat?
Speaker 7: Hello?
Speaker 2: Hello, I am trying to reach a Melvin Colbert.
Speaker 15: Please, Yeah, this is me.
Speaker 2: Mister Melvin. How are you?
Speaker 12: My name is Timson with the Child Support Services, and.
Speaker 2: I wanted to give you a call.
Speaker 12: Going through the records that we have, I wanted to
Speaker 12: follow up on some things. We're noticing here that your son,
Speaker 12: Melvin Junior, is going to be turning eighteen here pretty soon.
Speaker 12: But looking at our records, it indicates that you were
Speaker 12: doing pretty well with child support for seventeen maybe well sixteen,
Speaker 12: sixteen years. It just seems like we're here within the
Speaker 12: last year you seem to have fallen off. Seem like
Speaker 12: we haven't gotten a payment from you within the last year.
Speaker 2: I'm looking, I'm dating it back. Now looks like wait a.
Speaker 15: Man, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.
Speaker 7: Now, you said it for sixteen years. My son be
Speaker 7: eighteen in three months, right, I.
Speaker 2: Know that's what we're saying.
Speaker 12: It seems like he's approaching eighteen, sir. But within the
Speaker 12: last twelve months, twelve thirteen months, sir, we haven't really
Speaker 12: we haven't really gotten a payment here from you as
Speaker 12: far as child supports concern by.
Speaker 7: Man, hold on, what you mean? You ain't got no permit?
Speaker 15: They take it out my check.
Speaker 7: They take money out of my check every week, every
Speaker 7: pay check twice and that's twice a month. They take
Speaker 7: money out of my check. And they've been taking money
Speaker 7: out of my check. So you need wait, you need
Speaker 7: look at that computer again. Looking there again, sir.
Speaker 2: I've gone through the records over and over. I actually
Speaker 2: thoroughly checked before I give people a phone call.
Speaker 12: I'm ninety nine point nine percent sure this is dated
Speaker 12: back thirteen months. You've been paying right at seven hundred
Speaker 12: and fifty dollars a month, am I right?
Speaker 15: Yes, that's right, and.
Speaker 12: They break it up over over a four week period
Speaker 12: and you get paid weekly.
Speaker 2: So they've been taking it out.
Speaker 7: Three hundred every two weeks. They've been taking three hundred
Speaker 7: seventy five dollars out of my chick. So something wrong
Speaker 7: now they've been taking that. I know they've been taking
Speaker 7: out my chick.
Speaker 12: Well, sir, I don't want to be the bearer of
Speaker 12: bad news, but what's happens when situations get to this point.
Speaker 2: This is what takes place.
Speaker 12: Even though the child is turning eighteen, what they're going
Speaker 12: to do, sir, is now extend child support until the
Speaker 12: child reaches twenty one, which is another three years now.
Speaker 7: Oh no, no, hell no, hell now, Now they've been
Speaker 7: taking three hundred and seventy five dollars by my chicks
Speaker 7: twice a month. So now, ain't no extending nothing. My
Speaker 7: coat ought to say when my son turned eighteen and
Speaker 7: three months, three months from tomorrow, that damn child support
Speaker 7: gonna get cut out. Ain't no extendsion no twenty one,
Speaker 7: No take care of my son now now, now you
Speaker 7: listen to me some y'all. Y'all got deep dump. I
Speaker 7: take care of my son and they take it out
Speaker 7: of my chicks.
Speaker 2: Sir.
Speaker 12: Wait a minute, sir, what I'm saying is it's not
Speaker 12: in the computer. We don't have any listings of it.
Speaker 12: It hasn't been done within the last thirteen months. That's
Speaker 12: when when it comes to a situation like this we
Speaker 12: extend it to three to the childe, twenty three to
Speaker 12: the childe twenty No.
Speaker 7: Sure, ain't extended nothing on me eighteen y'all ain't got baby.
Speaker 7: They talking about it. I ain't paid. I got the
Speaker 7: chick stubs where they've been taken out of my check. Now,
Speaker 7: how come y'all don't have a representation.
Speaker 15: Certainly you have a not chext What is check stubs?
Speaker 10: That?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 7: I got a box while I keep the chick stubs there?
Speaker 2: Do you have every check stuff you damn.
Speaker 7: Right, I got every chick stuff and I got the
Speaker 7: other damn receipts everything I fought for them. Well, excuse me,
Speaker 7: I don't mean talking about my son like this. But
Speaker 7: but but what.
Speaker 12: Super I'm the I'm the actual manager here. I'm the
Speaker 12: one that makes the phone call.
Speaker 2: Sir.
Speaker 12: We've gone through these records over and over, trying to
Speaker 12: make sure that we were definitely clear on it before
Speaker 12: we give a personal call about a situation like this.
Speaker 7: Oh no, that's bush man, that's but now now you
Speaker 7: know that's that's a sir, Sir.
Speaker 12: I don't want to be a bearer of bad news now.
Speaker 7: With doubt, but don't call me what you don't want
Speaker 7: me to be.
Speaker 3: No bad sir.
Speaker 12: You will be paying this until the child is twenty one.
Speaker 7: Oh I bet you you wait to my son turned eighteen.
Speaker 7: I bet you want a thing, y'all. Ain't take it
Speaker 7: out of my take one mind, sir.
Speaker 12: Let me, sir. What I'm not gonna do is have you.
Speaker 12: I'm not gonna go back and forth with you. Okay, Now,
Speaker 12: you're gonna pay twenty one until he's twenty one, or
Speaker 12: you're going to jail.
Speaker 7: Well, miss, let me tell you one thing, now, I
Speaker 7: know what the hell they've been taken out of my
Speaker 7: chick twice a month. Do you don't hear me? I
Speaker 7: know what they've been taking out because I know what
Speaker 7: I've been bringing home.
Speaker 12: Well, sir, is there a possibility?
Speaker 7: Right? And look at let me take any hell I be.
Speaker 7: I'll tell you what. When my son at eighteen, ain't
Speaker 7: no moretion coming out of my check, y'all can pay
Speaker 7: to twenty one if you want to. Y'all can care.
Speaker 7: I've been taking care of it. Y'all can pay the
Speaker 7: twenty one that hell.
Speaker 12: Now, are you having problems giving money to your son
Speaker 12: to support him?
Speaker 2: Sir?
Speaker 7: What you're talking about? I ain't. Y'all have no problem
Speaker 7: taking this out of my I take care of my son.
Speaker 7: I take care of good, getting my hair cut every week,
Speaker 7: buying them damn tennis shoes still get acting, no problem
Speaker 7: paying with my son. I take care of my son.
Speaker 7: I take care of what's mine. And that's what I've
Speaker 7: been doing for the path down there eighteen years come
Speaker 7: three months from tomorrow, That's what I've been doing. So
Speaker 7: I tell you what, I'm gona still take care of
Speaker 7: my damn son. After words, but it ain't coming out
Speaker 7: of my check. To y'all, I'm gonna take care of
Speaker 7: my own but our needs. Y'all in my little folks,
Speaker 7: and give me take care of my damn son. So
Speaker 7: eighteen comes, I bet you one thing in three months
Speaker 7: on that four months, nothing be not come out of
Speaker 7: my check.
Speaker 12: I bet you that we're gonna it's gonna go until
Speaker 12: the child is twenty one.
Speaker 7: But don't tell me. Calm down now these I'm gonna
Speaker 7: get these straight. Call you and we're gonna.
Speaker 3: Get you straight.
Speaker 12: We're gonna get you straight. You're gonna pay until he's
Speaker 12: twenty one because you were negligent.
Speaker 2: For the last thirteen months.
Speaker 10: You were.
Speaker 7: Come who you think you talking to? Your sign problem?
Speaker 2: You?
Speaker 7: What's your name?
Speaker 6: Now?
Speaker 7: Come telling me you don't lost your mind.
Speaker 12: My name is Tim Hillers, and I'm with the Child
Speaker 12: Support Services. You have been negligent for thirteen months, and
Speaker 12: you're gonna pay.
Speaker 2: You're gonna pay until all right.
Speaker 7: Put me on my phone talking about I ain't got damper. Now,
Speaker 7: let me tell you something. Let me tell you one thing.
Speaker 7: Come three months, I'm gonna pay it. I'm gonna pay
Speaker 7: for three months, but after three months old. A WK.
Speaker 7: I ain't giving y'all or his mama another thing, but
Speaker 7: I give it to my son. But that's better than
Speaker 7: Field is ain't getting another plenty out of me.
Speaker 3: So now not a time?
Speaker 7: And you you gotta.
Speaker 1: Say who is who is that?
Speaker 2: Back?
Speaker 7: Then that's my gas. But but you heard what I said,
Speaker 7: right Yo, I'm telling you what I said. You got that,
Speaker 7: So you go and tell her that. You go and
Speaker 7: tell whoever. Then turn the general here over the US.
Speaker 7: You tell if the ass that and not come out
Speaker 7: my check. I'm looking for you. You want to know
Speaker 7: what I've been doing, so you know what? You can
Speaker 7: kiss my black come three months and I take you.
Speaker 2: Well, let me say something to your face.
Speaker 7: Is you listening what you got to say?
Speaker 10: Man?
Speaker 2: This is left you time? It from the Steave Harvey
Speaker 2: Morning Show.
Speaker 12: You just got prank by your boy stand.
Speaker 2: Melvin you all right? Man?
Speaker 3: Put you up to this man your boy staying.
Speaker 12: I guess he would you staying work with you?
Speaker 15: Work for me?
Speaker 7: Driving Summer said you want to go, I'm gonna take
Speaker 7: the break something then he's gonna want.
Speaker 3: It, okay, saying y'all.
Speaker 12: Call man, let me ask you something, mister, mel What
Speaker 12: is the baddest radio show in the world.
Speaker 7: Man, y'all have some crazest man and the Steve Harvey
Speaker 7: Morning Show. That's a bet y'all, cold man out, cold man.
Speaker 2: I'll take care of my son now. I'm take care of.
Speaker 13: My son, all right. Thank you, nephew. We needed that.
Speaker 14: Coming up next. Strawberry Letter. Subject, I just met my
Speaker 14: play sister in law. We'll talk about it right after this.
Speaker 14: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now
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Speaker 12: You never know, Michael uperhold on tight. We got it
Speaker 12: for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 13: Thank you, Tommy. Subject.
Speaker 14: I just met my place sister in law. Okay, Stephen Shirley.
Speaker 14: I met my husband online and we dated briefly before
Speaker 14: we got married. We figured out that we knew a
Speaker 14: lot of the same people and all my friends that
Speaker 14: knew him vouched for him and.
Speaker 13: Said he's a great man.
Speaker 14: His mother always acted strangely, but he said that's just
Speaker 14: how she is, and she would come around and be
Speaker 14: sweet Eventually. A couple of weeks after our wedding, I
Speaker 14: asked his mother to meet for lunch, and she asked
Speaker 14: if she could bring her play daughter. I wanted to
Speaker 14: meet anyone close to my husband, so I was excited
Speaker 14: That lunch date with his mom has sent my marriage
Speaker 14: into a downward spiral. The play daughter knew everything about
Speaker 14: my husband, even more than his mom. She said they've
Speaker 14: been the best of friends, but never romantically involved. She
Speaker 14: said they've sat up many nights crying together over bad relationships.
Speaker 13: I have never seen my husband cry.
Speaker 14: She told us that my husband almost died after a
Speaker 14: watched liposuction. As the mom didn't know he had surgery,
Speaker 14: she thought he lost weight naturally. I asked her why
Speaker 14: she didn't come to the wedding if they were so close,
Speaker 14: and she said she wasn't invited. My mother in law
Speaker 14: said she insisted that she come, but the play daughter
Speaker 14: said she felt like my husband was moving shady since
Speaker 14: he met me.
Speaker 13: Now, if this doesn't sound like a whole side piece
Speaker 13: relationship with my husband?
Speaker 2: Then what is it?
Speaker 13: Why is his mother not seeing this?
Speaker 14: My husband swears he's never been intimate with his play sister,
Speaker 14: but couldn't explain why he has never introduced me to
Speaker 14: her and none of its friends know of her. If
Speaker 14: I asked this play sister more questions, will I look insecure?
Speaker 14: And should I keep my head high as the WiFi?
Speaker 14: Or should I do more research on her? Yes, you
Speaker 14: should keep your head high as the WiFi. And you
Speaker 14: don't need any more research. I mean, how much research
Speaker 14: do you need? The research you want to know that
Speaker 14: you want to do now that should have been done
Speaker 14: before the marriage? Okay, that should have been done then anyway,
Speaker 14: you pretty much laid it all out the closer, with
Speaker 14: the first one being her saying, your husband's moving shady
Speaker 14: since he met you.
Speaker 13: And what does that mean? What does moving shady mean?
Speaker 13: Does it mean he.
Speaker 14: Didn't invite her to the wedding because he didn't want
Speaker 14: any drama, or he didn't introduce her to any of
Speaker 14: his friends because he didn't want any drama or didn't
Speaker 14: want them to know about her?
Speaker 13: What did that mean?
Speaker 14: I mean, there is a reason for him, not telling
Speaker 14: could be a side piece situation, like you said, But
Speaker 14: his mom sure knows a lot about her, and she
Speaker 14: knows her well enough to invite her to lunch with
Speaker 14: you guys. So this woman has definitely been around for
Speaker 14: a while. But I don't think you need to ask
Speaker 14: her any more questions.
Speaker 2: Let this go.
Speaker 14: If you want to ask questions, ask your husband. This
Speaker 14: all happened before you and him got together, and this
Speaker 14: is a chance you take.
Speaker 7: You know how it goes.
Speaker 14: When you meet someone online and you married them quickly,
Speaker 14: you don't get to know the person. So please remember
Speaker 14: everyone has the past.
Speaker 10: Steve, Well, this is gonna be a good one for
Speaker 10: me because I can answer all these questions.
Speaker 2: You have all of them with rather a certainty and assuredness.
Speaker 10: You met your husband online, We dated briefly before we
Speaker 10: got married, Well there it is.
Speaker 2: There, it is.
Speaker 10: You dated briefly before you got married. Now I don't
Speaker 10: know how you are, how old you all are. You
Speaker 10: haven't mentioned any kids anything, But you have to understand,
Speaker 10: like Shirley said, everybody comes with the history. So when
Speaker 10: you date briefly, you don't get to learn the history
Speaker 10: because you haven't been put in enough situations where things
Speaker 10: can crop up.
Speaker 2: You all got along and everything.
Speaker 10: Now, his mother has always acted strangely strangely, but he
Speaker 10: said that's just how she is, and she would come
Speaker 10: around and be sweet eventually. Well, a couple of weeks
Speaker 10: after you got married, you asked your mother in law
Speaker 10: to meat for lunch. That was a great idea. Your
Speaker 10: mom in law asked if she could bring her play daughter.
Speaker 2: Hell fault.
Speaker 10: Now, please don't let this boy's mama act like she
Speaker 10: don't know, because she is a grown ass woman though,
Speaker 10: and women know, women know what they're doing.
Speaker 2: They're very smart women.
Speaker 10: I ain't hardly ever met no stupid women until they
Speaker 10: start listening to their heart instead of their intuition. Other
Speaker 10: than that, they are on top of the food tor
Speaker 10: chain when it comes to brains and smart.
Speaker 2: Don't you misunderstand that for a moment.
Speaker 10: So the boy and mama know what he's doing, gonna
Speaker 10: bring the play daughter, And you said yeah, because you
Speaker 10: want to meet anybody close to your husband, because now
Speaker 10: you're trying to learn your husband after you've married him,
Speaker 10: instead of dating him longer to learning before you got married.
Speaker 10: So now here we go. So I was excited that
Speaker 10: lunch day with his mom. But that dunch date sent
Speaker 10: your marriage into a downward spiral. The play daughter knew
Speaker 10: everything about my husband, see right there. Why did the
Speaker 10: mama bring her even more than his mom? She said,
Speaker 10: they've been the best of friends, were never romantically involved.
Speaker 10: Why is she talking to you? You know why I
Speaker 10: think she talking to you because she trying to play
Speaker 10: the spoiler. She trying to be the spoiler. It's always
Speaker 10: some some woman getting left by the wayside at the
Speaker 10: altar and then all of a sudden, Wanner, I know more.
Speaker 2: Me and him talk, We everything. They they've been the
Speaker 2: best of friends. She said.
Speaker 10: They've set up many nights crying together over bad relationships.
Speaker 10: That I've never seen my husband cry. That's because you
Speaker 10: ain't known him long enough.
Speaker 2: But I'll tell you what.
Speaker 10: After he found out you and the mama and the
Speaker 10: plate sister was at lunch, he was I better ask
Speaker 10: for someone crying then.
Speaker 14: All right, hang on, stee, We'll have part two of
Speaker 14: your response to this Strawberry letter at twenty three minutes
Speaker 14: after the hour. Today's subject, I just met my play
Speaker 14: sister in law. We'll get back into it right after this.
Speaker 13: You're listening Hardy Morning Show.
Speaker 14: All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter.
Speaker 13: The subject is I just met my play sister in law.
Speaker 10: Well, this woman met this man online, dated briefly, and
Speaker 10: then got married.
Speaker 2: Dating briefly doesn't allow you.
Speaker 10: To learn the person's history, so now you're learning his
Speaker 10: history while you're married. You've always thought that mama was
Speaker 10: actually sort of funny to you, so you wanted to
Speaker 10: invite her to lunch after you all got married. A
Speaker 10: couple of weeks she asked you could she bring her
Speaker 10: a plate daughter? Okay, so then you said yeah, because
Speaker 10: you want to meet everybody close to the family. Well,
Speaker 10: that date then sent your marriage into a down wid
Speaker 10: spiral because little miss play daughter then set up here
Speaker 10: and knew everything about your husband and molding his mama.
Speaker 10: She said, they've been the best of friends, but never
Speaker 10: romantically involved. She said, they've set up many nights crying
Speaker 10: together over a bad relationship.
Speaker 2: I have never seen my husband cry. Well, you ain't
Speaker 2: been with him long enough.
Speaker 10: But I tell you what though, after he found out
Speaker 10: you was with his mama and his play sister, his
Speaker 10: ass was somewhere crying in that's for them.
Speaker 2: I can promise you his ass was.
Speaker 10: She told us that my husband almost died after a
Speaker 10: batch LIPOSUCTIONET and his mom didn't even know he had
Speaker 10: the subject.
Speaker 2: Okay, well, did you know he had lifebo such?
Speaker 13: No, she didn't know.
Speaker 2: Did you know it was botched?
Speaker 14: No?
Speaker 2: How do you know that he almost died?
Speaker 10: I'm listening to this story that this woman is weaving
Speaker 10: for you. We've cried together. Yea, all this is stuff
Speaker 10: you can't check on. We cried together, set up many nights.
Speaker 10: So okay, So if y'all been crying together all of
Speaker 10: all the bad relationships you had pretty much? Why I
Speaker 10: explain why a little play sister and play sistant law
Speaker 10: ain't got no damn body. See I know this, now,
Speaker 10: know who you're talking to. She thought the mother thought
Speaker 10: he lost weight naturally. I asked her why she didn't
Speaker 10: come to the wedding if they were so close, and
Speaker 10: she said she wasn't invited. Now, the mother in law
Speaker 10: jumped in and said she insisted that she come, but
Speaker 10: the play daughter said she felt like my husband was
Speaker 10: moving shady since he met me. Hm, well that's a
Speaker 10: good son. See, he didn't invite her because he didn't
Speaker 10: want her round, want the drama right, you know, because
Speaker 10: you already know his mama and the girl close.
Speaker 2: Now why would he do that? And listen to me.
Speaker 10: The key to this, I want your takeaway to be
Speaker 10: is he felt like she didn't want to come to
Speaker 10: the wedding and she felt like my husband was moving shady.
Speaker 10: Since it will the husband were trying to distance himself.
Speaker 10: That's a good thing, that's what moving shady. Men. Now,
Speaker 10: if this doesn't sound like a whole side piece relationship
Speaker 10: with my husband, then what is it?
Speaker 2: But see, if it was a side piece situation, it
Speaker 2: ain't no more.
Speaker 10: But you're meeting a man that had a background, as
Speaker 10: do all men. He had a background, So now where
Speaker 10: we at. If it was a side piece, he didn't
Speaker 10: tell you about.
Speaker 2: It, cause who do that?
Speaker 10: What man meets a woman and go, hey, let me
Speaker 10: tell you about these chicks I got out here on
Speaker 10: this that nobody find to do that. And I don't
Speaker 10: know what you think a man supposed to do that for.
Speaker 10: But you can lose him expectation. You can take that
Speaker 10: off the plate because we're not finna do that. And
Speaker 10: then if my husband swears he's never been intimate with
Speaker 10: his place system, but couldn't explain to me why he
Speaker 10: never introduced me to her, and none of his friends
Speaker 10: know of her.
Speaker 2: Okay, so.
Speaker 10: You the play sister over there when we buy ourself,
Speaker 10: you ain't coming up around my friend because you ain't gonna.
Speaker 10: I ain't got no future with you that could be it.
Speaker 10: But now you trying to make something out of his
Speaker 10: past and turn it into his right now. And there
Speaker 10: are no signs of him messing with this girl right now.
Speaker 10: So even if she was a side piece, please lose
Speaker 10: your desire for him to tell you that he had
Speaker 10: a side piece, because he didnet have a side piece,
Speaker 10: and it's been several it ain't just hum. So if
Speaker 10: I asked this play sistem more questions, will I look secure?
Speaker 2: Why would you ask her anything?
Speaker 10: This girl ain't nothing in here but to place fall,
Speaker 10: and she gonna tell you all kinds of stuff because
Speaker 10: she's been crying with your husband over a bad relationship,
Speaker 10: which means she can't get it a good relationship now
Speaker 10: another relationship. He done found you, and he'd have picked
Speaker 10: you over her. Why would you ask her anything? Cause
Speaker 10: she ain't got but one mission right now is to
Speaker 10: try to make you think she got more of a
Speaker 10: relationship with him than you do, and she don't.
Speaker 2: Should I keep my head high as a wife?
Speaker 17: You know?
Speaker 10: Should I do more research on her? Stop researching her.
Speaker 10: Stop digging up in this man's past, because you're gonna
Speaker 10: find something you don't want to know now. But now
Speaker 10: suppose he dug up your past, you don't think he
Speaker 10: finds a couple of things too that look a little shady.
Speaker 10: Get out the man's past. Build your future with this man.
Speaker 10: Stop looking in the rear view mirror. You are the wife,
Speaker 10: not her. Hold your head high.
Speaker 2: You the wife.
Speaker 10: Have a talk with him and say, hey, look, lose
Speaker 10: her number, lose her information. I ain't gonna beat you
Speaker 10: up about this, but make sure that that hell for
Speaker 10: stay gone. If I see her again, you won't see
Speaker 10: me again. You make your choice, that's all to it.
Speaker 10: But I ain't gonna deal with her and your mama.
Speaker 10: You don't have no defferent play sister in law quick
Speaker 10: calling her.
Speaker 13: That I'm surprised you didn't say we cried together like
Speaker 13: the oh jays.
Speaker 2: I try to show more versatility.
Speaker 13: Yeah, you are a very talented man.
Speaker 2: Yes you are all right.
Speaker 14: Leave it your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram
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Speaker 14: podcast on demand. Coming up next, it is Junior and
Speaker 14: Sports Talk right after this.
Speaker 13: You're listening Harvey Morning Show. It is time now for
Speaker 13: Junior and Sports Talk, which you got Junior?
Speaker 11: Okay, Sureley, Well, let's just go ahead and get it
Speaker 11: out of recap NBA.
Speaker 1: Playoffs this week. Look, I know it's tough on you, man.
Speaker 11: I know Nick's knockout the Cavalien's man one six the other.
Speaker 1: Night man they out. I know it's tough, funk man.
Speaker 2: I know, Steve and they already text me.
Speaker 10: He said the CALV was almost as bad as the
Speaker 10: Smiths was on Celebrity Family. I texted him back and said, no,
Speaker 10: the Calvs was worse for another Cleveland tragedy.
Speaker 2: So come so close, said so far?
Speaker 11: Well up, well look at this man they throwing the
Speaker 11: ones man, because let's talk about this man. These heat
Speaker 11: man knocked the bucks out.
Speaker 2: They gone. The Greek is gone.
Speaker 1: The Greek is gone.
Speaker 9: Man.
Speaker 12: Job Jimmy who Jimmy blanketed blank?
Speaker 11: Butler put up forty two man, Now you come back
Speaker 11: forty two man. It was one, twenty eight, one twenty
Speaker 11: six in overtime, Jimmy but getting buckets and the Greek
Speaker 11: freak did the press. Coffee said, you know what, man,
Speaker 11: it's steps as he says. So he said, he's coming
Speaker 11: back next season.
Speaker 1: You're gonna have to because your answers out right now.
Speaker 11: Also, man, you know what, they ain't going away up
Speaker 11: the Kings and the Warriors.
Speaker 1: Man, let me tell you something.
Speaker 11: The Warriors is not going away.
Speaker 10: Man.
Speaker 11: They knocked off the Kings twenty three to one sixteen, the.
Speaker 2: Warriors taking all the team. They beat the Kings again. Yeah,
Speaker 2: they take bye bye Kings.
Speaker 1: They take a three two lead.
Speaker 10: Man, you are not gonna catch them. Light skinned boys.
Speaker 10: Y'all play the Night Las.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, they played the night I mean on the time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they play the Knight.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 11: The Kings and the Warriors played Game six tonight. Also,
Speaker 11: you know Phoenix sent the Clippers home. Yeah, gonna take
Speaker 11: on Devi you know, no Kawhi Leonard, no, Paul George. Yeah,
Speaker 11: they can't win with them on the on the on
Speaker 11: the Westbrook was out there swinging, he was fighting, he
Speaker 11: was swinging on people, he was rebounding. If the swing
Speaker 11: come behind he's rebound. They got the way he playing, Yeah,
Speaker 11: he's not playing man. So also the night man, Like
Speaker 11: I said, we got the Kings and the Wars and
Speaker 11: then we got the Grizzlies and the Lakers. Man, can
Speaker 11: the Lakers close it out tonight? The Grizzlies, That boy
Speaker 11: John Morunt is a special talent. But this light skinned boy,
Speaker 11: Dylan Brooks, that were his hair platted.
Speaker 10: You need to shit your young ass down and learn
Speaker 10: yourself something because Lebron been handing it to your ass.
Speaker 2: You should have you should have had more respect about
Speaker 2: that talking about this man. Oh he did.
Speaker 10: He did twenty rebounds and then I saw him blow
Speaker 10: by your ass like he was me standing on the
Speaker 10: quarter of this. I mean, the light skinned people need
Speaker 10: to be very careful, especially when you wear pig tails.
Speaker 10: You can't clap your hand talk trash dealing brook Thank you, Junior,
Speaker 10: coming out in white framed glass.
Speaker 2: You don't look like a killer in white.
Speaker 10: Sun bron blown man, Now watch him out.
Speaker 13: Thank you Junior for sports talk.
Speaker 14: Coming up at the top of the hour, is the
Speaker 14: modern generation more rude and disrespectful?
Speaker 13: We'll talk about it right after this.
Speaker 14: You're listening hard morning show. All right, guys, he's a question.
Speaker 14: I think we touched on this earlier this week. But
Speaker 14: the question is, is the modern generation more rude and
Speaker 14: disrespectful you think or is it the same as it's
Speaker 14: always been.
Speaker 13: What's your take on that.
Speaker 2: We weren't this rude.
Speaker 12: We weren't rude at all, disrespect I was respectful at.
Speaker 14: All time to adult, especially to elderly people who were
Speaker 14: my elder Yeah, I.
Speaker 2: Cut somebody in my age you're peer. Yeah, people's parents, grandmother. No,
Speaker 2: that was unheard of. Man.
Speaker 13: You couldn't your parents found out?
Speaker 12: That was it?
Speaker 2: Your These kids now are robbing old people. These kids
Speaker 2: now they're they're violating old people.
Speaker 10: I mean they beating them up on elevators and stores,
Speaker 10: and walking in their house and and and just just
Speaker 10: that criminalizing the elderly.
Speaker 2: That's that was unheard of back in the day. Matter
Speaker 2: of fact, man, if.
Speaker 10: You did something to old people and we found out
Speaker 10: about it, we handled with your Yeah, dog you not.
Speaker 2: You can't do that, dog.
Speaker 17: You know what You're right, Steve, my husband said. Growing
Speaker 17: up in New Orleans, you know, if they was out
Speaker 17: on the street, you know, just being boys or whatever.
Speaker 17: If an elderly person walk by. They'd be like, chill, chill,
Speaker 17: chill chill, Yeah, such and such, chill out, chill out,
Speaker 17: chill out. Dogs are you doing, ma'am? You know it
Speaker 17: was a respect that I'm watching. I'm watching forty eight
Speaker 17: hours the other night. Ninety eight year old war veteran
Speaker 17: who had served the country. Ninety eight year old war
Speaker 17: veterans raised these boys in this neighborhood do the right thing.
Speaker 17: One of the kids really loved him and knew him
Speaker 17: and stayed next door. Three of the boys said, hey, man,
Speaker 17: we need some money. Let's rob the old guy. He
Speaker 17: went to the corner store. He was still driving the car.
Speaker 2: He got in the car.
Speaker 10: The dude that knew him went up to him to say, hey,
Speaker 10: mister Jackson. And but then the other dude came up
Speaker 10: with a gun, and the young dude tried to stop
Speaker 10: him and say, hey, man, no, we ain't finna do that.
Speaker 10: That's mister Jackson. You know, he'll give us some money.
Speaker 10: Your dude shot the man twice. Oh. The old man
Speaker 10: pulls off, makes it to his house down the street,
Speaker 10: drives up on the curve, dies in the car. Well,
Speaker 10: he didn't die in the car. They came and got him,
Speaker 10: but he died two days later in the hospital. Now
Speaker 10: they finally catch the folk guys because somebody saw him.
Speaker 10: The little dude that knew him has tried to stop it.
Speaker 10: He just broke down crying. He saibody ain't in ten
Speaker 10: for this to happen to missus Jackson. When he pulled
Speaker 10: the gun out, he tried to stop the dude, but
Speaker 10: he was that but he stopped him to rob mister Jackson.
Speaker 10: He was gonna ask you for money, and they said
Speaker 10: they were gonna take whatever money he had in the car.
Speaker 10: Dude came up with the gun and shot the lad Wow.
Speaker 10: See now, back in the day, they would have never
Speaker 10: got off that block. No, no, because dog you shot
Speaker 10: who man? Oh no, man, no don't.
Speaker 2: This generation is just beyond disrespectful.
Speaker 10: It is an ugly world we live in now because
Speaker 10: of lack of respect and consideration. And old people man
Speaker 10: have earned the right to live their life freely and
Speaker 10: in peace. And like Tommy said when we was going
Speaker 10: down the street being boys, if an old person walket
Speaker 10: hold of kill man, hic come, my.
Speaker 14: Husband said, if they came, if an old person came
Speaker 14: and needed a seat, we would have to get up
Speaker 14: and give the older persons stopped anywhere.
Speaker 13: Yes, you could stand up, you're young.
Speaker 10: Me and my mama was on the bus going downtown
Speaker 10: one time. He said, love, go downtown. My mama's old
Speaker 10: lady got on the bus. I stood right up. She
Speaker 10: sat down in that seat. She said, you you raising
Speaker 10: that boy? She said, well, his daddy, his daddy got
Speaker 10: him like candy. She said, I got two boys just
Speaker 10: like that.
Speaker 13: Yeah. I mean, it's it's definitely different these days. And
Speaker 13: how blessed you were, you know, to have a father
Speaker 13: in the house to do that for you, Steve, you know,
Speaker 13: but why is it like that?
Speaker 17: Where is the disconnect between parenting these days the way
Speaker 17: we were parented.
Speaker 1: I don't I don't understand they got but being parent
Speaker 1: There you go, Tom.
Speaker 14: Yeah, all right, yep, all right, thanks guys. Coming up
Speaker 14: at twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have more of
Speaker 14: the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening
Speaker 14: Harvey Morning Show. All right, So this is an interesting story.
Speaker 14: Despite the surgery reportedly having a grueling recovery period, men
Speaker 14: have been flocking to surgeons to lengthen their legs.
Speaker 13: Okay, recording to wait.
Speaker 2: Wait, wait, you can get legged done.
Speaker 13: Yeah yeah, yeah, listen to me.
Speaker 2: Been Thailand for a long time. I'm gonna about it.
Speaker 13: Go ahead, holding out, Uncle Steve well.
Speaker 2: Tyler, Come on, go here, sir.
Speaker 13: So listen.
Speaker 14: According to the New York Post, a forty one year
Speaker 14: old Minnesota man spent seventy five thousand dollars to increase
Speaker 14: his five and a half foot frame by three inches.
Speaker 13: Okay five five? What three inches? So five eight?
Speaker 2: Don't act like you ain't been there.
Speaker 14: But he did it so he could get more dates,
Speaker 14: and after his first successful surgery, he spent another ninety
Speaker 14: eight thousand dollars to get us hied up to five ten.
Speaker 13: Okay, you got.
Speaker 10: Money, boy, you're gonna mess around. If you're boy, you
Speaker 10: won't your six forty.
Speaker 14: The live lengthening procedure is accomplished by inserting a magnetic
Speaker 14: lengthening rod and pins into the thigh bones.
Speaker 13: So there you got it.
Speaker 10: To do that.
Speaker 2: I don't know you didn't getting all that. I'm you're
Speaker 2: too old for this time. And look at the.
Speaker 14: Steam Harvey Morning Show coming up at thirty three minutes
Speaker 14: after we'll play around it, would you rather right after this.
Speaker 13: You're listening Harvey Morning Show. It is time now for
Speaker 13: a round it.
Speaker 14: Would you rather? Would you rather introduce your wife to
Speaker 14: your new female friend? Or would you rather shave your
Speaker 14: facial hair? That's all the hair I got enough?
Speaker 10: Okay, y'all know female friends. I don't know who I'm
Speaker 10: gonna introduced. Y'all want to come over and meet them? Yeah, so, y'all,
Speaker 10: I ain't got no new female friends.
Speaker 2: New friends.
Speaker 11: Well, I'm already be so don't matter. You know, I'm
Speaker 11: already facial hair. I don't keep nothing, so I'm already.
Speaker 11: I ain't got ten minutes.
Speaker 1: You don't have no I don't know.
Speaker 11: I don't have nothing, so I ain't got to tell
Speaker 11: her about Well.
Speaker 2: No, we're gonna take the my brow heavy over there
Speaker 2: looking like an emoji.
Speaker 14: Would you rather wear undies filled with whipped cream or
Speaker 14: would you rather wear wet sneakers?
Speaker 12: I didn't wove whed cream for you. Ain't never left
Speaker 12: somebody house with all?
Speaker 10: Right, a.
Speaker 2: Boring life for y'all. Y'all have a bunch of losers. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna put the wet ass ten shoes on sneakers.
Speaker 13: You don't want to be like your nephew with the
Speaker 13: web cream in your You know.
Speaker 2: One time, man, I had got I had got this
Speaker 2: like I had foot uh.
Speaker 10: And I messed around, was messing with my feet, and
Speaker 10: I put it on my crop and next thing you know,
Speaker 10: I had an irritation down there. So to fix it,
Speaker 10: my mama told me to put corn starch on it.
Speaker 10: And so I had put corn starch all inside my underwear.
Speaker 13: Old school remedy.
Speaker 10: Well, I went over this girl's house and pulled my
Speaker 10: pants down and forgot I had that corn start.
Speaker 2: I pulled my drawers down, and that corn starch had.
Speaker 10: Dead it up on me. It looked like cottage cheese.
Speaker 10: I looked down there, she squeezed.
Speaker 2: I scream. I looked down with wet in.
Speaker 4: There, hollw.
Speaker 13: Igorous.
Speaker 10: I tried to go in the bathroom and wash it
Speaker 10: all off and explain it. It was just as crazy,
Speaker 10: Oh that that didn't go good? Boy, boy, it looked
Speaker 10: because it looked like I was standing up there with
Speaker 10: a yeasting fishing and I just could not explain that.
Speaker 13: Okay, we're moving on. You're crazy.
Speaker 2: The visual will right now. Boy, get the tennis shoes.
Speaker 14: Would you rather have a perfect body? But an ugly face?
Speaker 14: Or would you rather be handsome with a big gut?
Speaker 12: I'm gonna take that gut. Hell I got the gut now, Hell,
Speaker 12: I'm good. You ain't handsome handsome? You know, it's just
Speaker 12: for you, y'all to glasses. That's this for y'all, that's this.
Speaker 12: That question ain't even for me.
Speaker 2: Go you're pretty pretty far. Tell them, I'm trying to
Speaker 2: tell them.
Speaker 13: All right, that's today's roundup?
Speaker 14: Would you rather coming up next to it is our
Speaker 14: last break of the day of the week on this Friday,
Speaker 14: and we'll have some closing remarks from the one and
Speaker 14: only Steve Harvey right after this.
Speaker 13: You're listening Morning show, all right, Steve.
Speaker 14: Here we are the last break of the day on
Speaker 14: this last day of the week for us this Friday.
Speaker 13: Leave us with some closing remarks.
Speaker 10: You know, I think that what I want to share
Speaker 10: with you is something that prevents so many people from
Speaker 10: becoming successful. And that thing is called excuses. You know,
Speaker 10: it's it's it's amazing how when we want to justify
Speaker 10: a lack of effort, or we want to justify our procrastination,
Speaker 10: or we want to justify not doing something we said
Speaker 10: we were going to do. We want to justify just
Speaker 10: not getting started. We can come up with some pretty
Speaker 10: pretty impressive excuses. But you know the thing about an excuse, though,
Speaker 10: it serves no one except the person that's providing the excuse.
Speaker 10: The person you're giving the excuse too. It does nothing
Speaker 10: from them because that level of expectation for you was
Speaker 10: in place and the fact that you didn't come through.
Speaker 10: I mean, how can you possibly think that this person
Speaker 10: is sitting there going, wow, that's great. You didn't come through.
Speaker 10: Now you were here, Okay, well I'm sorry that happened.
Speaker 10: So when will you get to it? Or you hear
Speaker 10: something like oh wow, man, I didn't know that. And
Speaker 10: when you walk a guy and when you walk away,
Speaker 10: that person goes, wow, I can't count on it. Or
Speaker 10: if you keep giving excuses, then after a while a
Speaker 10: person just goes, I don't believe nothing, he says. And
Speaker 10: either way, man, the person that you gave the excuse to,
Speaker 10: I can promise you they don't think as much of
Speaker 10: you as they did when they first thought you were
Speaker 10: coming through. Folks, if you could learn to eliminate excuses.
Speaker 10: You know who taught me not to have excuses? My father,
Speaker 10: my fallow strong man man studs powerful to me, it's
Speaker 10: the greatest dude have new. But he taught me about excuses,
Speaker 10: he says, son, don't ever give me an excuse, because
Speaker 10: what that ain't gonna.
Speaker 2: Do me no good. He said, we ain't got nothing.
Speaker 10: At least you could give me your word, he said,
Speaker 10: we ain't got nothing else, we ain't got too much
Speaker 10: more than pot to piss in. But if you gonna
Speaker 10: give me your word, tell me you're gonna do something.
Speaker 10: Don't give me no excuse instead, because now we ain't
Speaker 10: got nothing, y'all. If you could eliminate excuses, if you
Speaker 10: could stop the allowing yourself off the hook, because that's
Speaker 10: all it is.
Speaker 2: The only person you're hurting with these excuses is you.
Speaker 10: I'll give you an example of how you hear other
Speaker 10: people with your excuses. That if you have a child
Speaker 10: and you keep promising your child that you're gonna do so.
Speaker 10: If you a dad and you don't live with your child,
Speaker 10: your boy, your girl, and you tell them you're gonna
Speaker 10: come by, that child is at the window and at
Speaker 10: the door waiting. They got their little bag pack, they
Speaker 10: got their lunch Packause I'm going with my daddy and man,
Speaker 10: oh man, oh man, the disappointment that had that child
Speaker 10: had with you. But and then you call in and
Speaker 10: guess what you say, I had to work, Sorry man,
Speaker 10: but I had to work. Well, I got you had
Speaker 10: to work. But guess what, and does nothing for that
Speaker 10: child that was waiting on their dad.
Speaker 2: I got, you got to work. But what they got
Speaker 2: to do?
Speaker 10: That don't stop the disappointment in the child. See excuses, man.
Speaker 2: They go a long wait.
Speaker 10: Man, they do far more damage than you can imagine.
Speaker 10: So after a while, if you keep doing that to
Speaker 10: that child, and you keep promising your child you're gonna
Speaker 10: do something and you never do it.
Speaker 2: Ah, think about that, man, what that does to that child.
Speaker 10: If you're in a relationship and you keep promising the
Speaker 10: person you're in a relationship with you you're gonna do
Speaker 10: something for him, you never do it. How long you
Speaker 10: think this racist relationship gonna laugh? You gotta do what
Speaker 10: you say you're gonna do.
Speaker 2: You can't create excuses. But then the person who.
Speaker 10: Really gets damaged to you, because when that child grows
Speaker 10: up and he can now stand on his own and
Speaker 10: he can take his own self somewhere, he can buy
Speaker 10: his own clothes, and now you wanna come around and hey,
Speaker 10: that's my son. And then he's old enough to ask
Speaker 10: you questions. Yeah, I'm your somble. Where were you when
Speaker 10: I needed you?
Speaker 2: Man? Where were you when I was standing in the window?
Speaker 10: Where were you when I was sitting on the porch, man,
Speaker 10: with my lunch box, just looking at every card that
Speaker 10: went by, hoping that my daddy would finally come through,
Speaker 10: till my mama finally tell me coming there off the porch.
Speaker 10: You see, man, Now you got to deal with that
Speaker 10: and all them excuses you was giving that boy or
Speaker 10: that little girl back then. It don't mean damn thing
Speaker 10: to them, you know, man, And it stops you so much. See,
Speaker 10: once you become a person that provides excuses, it ain't
Speaker 10: just to your children, It ain't just to your love
Speaker 10: and your love on. It's to your job, it's to
Speaker 10: your career. And pretty soon you start giving excuses to
Speaker 10: yourself because it's a pattern of behavior. And you've got
Speaker 10: to break that pattern of behavior because it's a no
Speaker 10: win situation for you. Stop making excuses, man, Why don't
Speaker 10: you just simply do what you say you gonna do.
Speaker 10: It's much easier to do that if you say you're
Speaker 10: gonna do it, be a man of your word, a
Speaker 10: woman of your word, and go do it.
Speaker 2: Period. Now, if you're not gonna do it, say that,
Speaker 2: be a man of your word on that. See, that's
Speaker 2: what I do.
Speaker 10: When somebody asks me to do something, I distinctly tell them, Hey, man,
Speaker 10: I'm not gonna do that. I'm sorry, but I won't
Speaker 10: be that way. Ain't no hope of you looking for me. Well,
Speaker 10: he said he wasn't coming, but I'm gonna see if
Speaker 10: he come anyway. No, no, no. If I tell you
Speaker 10: I'm not coming, you pretty much bank I ain't coming.
Speaker 10: But if I tell you I'm coming, you can look
Speaker 10: for me, and chances are I'll be there. It would
Speaker 10: take a lot for me not to do what I
Speaker 10: say I'm going to do, because I just ain't made
Speaker 10: it that way. I don't like excuses. You can't get
Speaker 10: to where you're going with a bunch of excuses, all right.
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