Speaker 1: Two teas in a pod which Teddy Mellencamp and Camridge Edge.
Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of The Twads. Hey Tamra,
Speaker 2: Hey Matie, Joe.
Speaker 1: How are you?
Speaker 2: I'm good? How are you?
Speaker 1: I'm good? I'm really good. I mean I'm a little.
Speaker 2: Nervous to recap this or just in general.
Speaker 1: No, on Friday, I have decided to go ahead with
Speaker 1: the prenuvo. I think it's called body scan. Oh, so
Speaker 1: it's one Jeff Lewis turned us on to you have
Speaker 1: to do it too.
Speaker 2: Are you doing it in Orange County or LA?
Speaker 1: No, they don't have one Orange County. You have to
Speaker 1: go to LA. So it's a full body MRI scan
Speaker 1: that detects cancer or any types of diseases in your body.
Speaker 1: It's one of those things like it's preventative. You want
Speaker 1: to know, but you don't want to know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you do want to know.
Speaker 1: So here's my question. I'm having the scan done. I
Speaker 1: don't know how long it takes for the results to
Speaker 1: get back, but a week after the scan, I leave
Speaker 1: for New York and then we leave for vacation for
Speaker 1: a tenure wedding anniversary.
Speaker 3: Do I want to know before then yes, because remember
Speaker 3: you were with me at Bravocon when I was waiting
Speaker 3: for results and they kept saying they didn't have it,
Speaker 3: and then Edwin got all weird because he actually had
Speaker 3: the results and they weren't good, like it's just better
Speaker 3: to know.
Speaker 2: And because that made me.
Speaker 3: Come unhinged like that, not knowing and waiting, like I
Speaker 3: was unable to actually enjoy myself to the full capacity
Speaker 3: because it was always in the back of my mind.
Speaker 3: But if you actually know your no, then you can
Speaker 3: plan ahead and go forward.
Speaker 1: I know, but what if they tell me something bad
Speaker 1: and then I'm then I'm going to be like, am
Speaker 1: I going to enjoy my vacation or I'm going to
Speaker 1: be on the beach going I'm just gonna drink because
Speaker 1: I want to die.
Speaker 2: Anyways, Oh my gosh, we are so morbid. What is
Speaker 2: wrong with that?
Speaker 1: Well, I you know, I suffer from really bad and thoughts, yeah,
Speaker 1: really bad, like on a daily So I have to
Speaker 1: tell myself.
Speaker 3: Now, now you're you're gonna be all right. It's it's
Speaker 3: important that you get checked and just do it.
Speaker 2: And then and.
Speaker 1: Another thing is severely claustrophobic. You know that I looked
Speaker 1: at the scan. It's you can watch TV in there,
Speaker 1: which doesn't make a difference to me. If something's just
Speaker 1: close to my face, it's hard for me. But it's
Speaker 1: open at the top and it's open at the end,
Speaker 1: which I think MRI normally is not open at the top.
Speaker 2: It's open, it's open, and I.
Speaker 1: Just don't know. I don't know if I'm gonna be
Speaker 1: able to do it. I think they might have to.
Speaker 2: They may. Maybe they can give you some laughing gas
Speaker 2: or something.
Speaker 1: I don't think laughing gas is gonna do it.
Speaker 2: Maybe they can give you some value that might do it,
Speaker 2: that might do it. I know, I know. I was
Speaker 2: just thinking another day about.
Speaker 3: I was like, gosh, remember that day that those two
Speaker 3: days when you were recovering from your necklift, how happy
Speaker 3: you were.
Speaker 1: Because you are dragged your mind. Yeah, so that's really
Speaker 1: the only thing that's going on here. We have two
Speaker 1: weeks until Orange County premieres. Super excited about that. I think,
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know if I'm ready for this.
Speaker 2: I'm excited too. I love that you're it's going to
Speaker 2: air and then you're getting the hell out of Dodge.
Speaker 1: So oh, I'm getting the hell out of Dodge the
Speaker 1: day before it airs.
Speaker 2: I'm yeah, so you're leaving it all on me.
Speaker 1: We have, by the way, the second episode, I won't
Speaker 1: even be in the country, so you definitely can oh gosh,
Speaker 1: find somebody to fill them that day.
Speaker 3: Ah, well, for Peter's sake, I'm sure we'll get someone.
Speaker 3: I don't even want to think about it. I gotta,
Speaker 3: I gotta really focus on today. I really got to
Speaker 3: focus on today. I wish, okay, because today first we'll
Speaker 3: get through headlines and stuff like that. But I wanted
Speaker 3: to watch your wedding so that I could compare and
Speaker 3: contrast the two weddings.
Speaker 2: But I didn't have time.
Speaker 3: So last week will we will cover your wedding at
Speaker 3: another point in time. I'm also getting my skin checked today.
Speaker 3: I'm doing my three to four month checkup. And so
Speaker 3: if i'm a little you suffered from intrusive thoughts, I
Speaker 3: suffer from like this weird energy.
Speaker 2: So if I'm a weird energy today, that is why
Speaker 2: it's all in fay.
Speaker 1: It's all going to be good. And even if they
Speaker 1: find something, you know, they find it so quickly because
Speaker 1: you have your skin checked so often. I stopped. I
Speaker 1: got to stop with it every six month check up
Speaker 1: because I've been clear, so I'm happy about that. But
Speaker 1: it's about time for me to go. I just got
Speaker 1: a spot on the side of my nose that won't heal,
Speaker 1: so I'm like, great, time to go in.
Speaker 3: Time to go in get our checks and this is
Speaker 3: the perfect time to do it. It's Melanimal Awareness month.
Speaker 1: Yes, okay, so the big wedding, I think the hair
Speaker 1: bit better than the wedding.
Speaker 2: The hair Okay, we can't. First we have to start
Speaker 2: with headlines.
Speaker 3: Which the problem is is I was watching the wedding,
Speaker 3: and then after I watched the wedding, I watched the
Speaker 3: trailer for the reunion, so any good that was had
Speaker 3: during the wedding was undone once.
Speaker 2: I watched the reunion. Did you feel me on that?
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes I did.
Speaker 2: I did.
Speaker 1: I was like oh watching the wedding, like oh, everything's
Speaker 1: so sweet, everything's so lovable. Da da da da. And
Speaker 1: then you see the reunion and it's like, I can't
Speaker 1: wait to night see your face again, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh god.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So in the reunion, the first they kind.
Speaker 3: Of start with Melissa to Teresa. I know you hate me,
Speaker 3: but just try to control yourself. And I'm seeing these
Speaker 3: memes everywhere, and it's Melissa is putting.
Speaker 2: She's like, she's like.
Speaker 3: Doing something with her collar, and then she's like, I
Speaker 3: know you hate me, but please try to control yourself.
Speaker 1: She actually had a hood back of her dress.
Speaker 3: So here we go. This is if this was bedazzled.
Speaker 3: But she says that, and but what about the part
Speaker 3: on here.
Speaker 2: When Teresa goes, I can't wait to ever see your
Speaker 2: face again, and she goes, why where are you going?
Speaker 2: Going somewhere?
Speaker 1: Now you are? That's a great. We need to do
Speaker 1: that on TikTok.
Speaker 3: We needed to Yeah, we need to remake that. I
Speaker 3: mean that is going to go down. I mean I
Speaker 3: think they both. I know, we just had our podcast
Speaker 3: with Carlos King where he he was like, I'm calling
Speaker 3: you two out, but I do think they're both great
Speaker 3: for the show.
Speaker 1: I'm still not clear what he is calling us that for.
Speaker 3: Something having to do with Jacqueline. He's saying that we
Speaker 3: were all sucking up Jacqueline's story until we talked to Melissa. No,
Speaker 3: we just had only heard one side. Once you hear
Speaker 3: both sides, then I still don't think that everything that
Speaker 3: Jacqueline said, was like, I feel like he was trying
Speaker 3: to say that we flip flopped with we flip flopped
Speaker 3: with Jacqueline, but no, we just heard Melissa's side.
Speaker 2: It wasn't fair.
Speaker 3: We were only hearing jacqueline side. But now watching the trailer,
Speaker 3: you see that Jacqueline comes up on the reunion. I
Speaker 3: didn't realize that, and Andy calls her out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I have heard about that. I'm not going
Speaker 1: to expose it, but I have heard what was said.
Speaker 1: Evidently there's some text messages.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 3: So Teresa then says to Marge, you're a devil. Marge
Speaker 3: says back, you're a criminal, and so is he, and
Speaker 3: then Teresa says, sleep with.
Speaker 2: One eye open.
Speaker 1: This is getting good.
Speaker 3: Then the next one is I don't give two shits
Speaker 3: about that. I care about private investigators, Marge says, and
Speaker 3: Melissa retorts in the clash, he needs to defend himself
Speaker 3: by having a folder on all of us.
Speaker 1: That's scary and spooky and concerning. And as a producer
Speaker 1: and a network, you think like, that's a liability, that's
Speaker 1: a person, that's a liability.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry if the network doesn't even have private investigators.
Speaker 2: On their Housewives to draw drama then the cast. Definitely.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it just shows his possibilities of what he could
Speaker 1: could do, like I would not. I think it's a
Speaker 1: great idea to do that and then to talk about
Speaker 1: it like it's no big deal then too. I mean
Speaker 1: there's a ton of pictures with him and Teresa with
Speaker 1: this bow guy.
Speaker 3: But then they backtracked now and said that they didn't
Speaker 3: hire Well also.
Speaker 1: The bo came out and said they didn't hire them. Okay, no,
Speaker 1: you didn't hire them. He probably did it for free.
Speaker 1: They're friendly.
Speaker 2: Well, now he's on a television show that a lot
Speaker 2: of people watch.
Speaker 1: But do you think as a private investigator you want
Speaker 1: that known? It wasn't private investigators more private? Like they don't?
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: I mean I've had when I was doing the True
Speaker 3: Crime Pod, we had a couple people openly feel comfortable
Speaker 3: about coming on and they were private investigators.
Speaker 2: So I think money's money and jobs are jobs.
Speaker 1: So I just was sure if they were private, they
Speaker 1: don't want to be out in But I guess not.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I think.
Speaker 3: It just means you don't want the person that's being
Speaker 3: checked out to know that you're a private investigator. But
Speaker 3: then John Fooda steps in and said, now I've got
Speaker 3: your card. I've got connections, big ones. But Louis replies,
Speaker 3: I've got your number. Okay, I'm out the security guard.
Speaker 1: So let me get this straight. So Louis hired security
Speaker 1: without telling the network. And then and they show up
Speaker 1: at where the sound stage. I don't even know where
Speaker 1: they're filming. They're filming in New York, probably right, yeah,
Speaker 1: and doesn't tell anybody, and Nanny's like, hold on, wait
Speaker 1: a minute, wait a minute. And he exposes and I'm like,
Speaker 1: what the hell? What did Louie think that Joe was
Speaker 1: going to beat him up?
Speaker 2: Do you?
Speaker 3: But also, anybody that you have at the reunion has
Speaker 3: to be COVID tested.
Speaker 1: They have to. There's a ton of things. They have
Speaker 1: to go through, tons of protocols, and it's a close set.
Speaker 2: It's a close set.
Speaker 3: Like I couldn't even I remember you could have I
Speaker 3: could have hair and makeup. At one time I wanted,
Speaker 3: like I think I needed my like somebody to bring something,
Speaker 3: and they were like, no, they can't come in here.
Speaker 3: Your you know, hair can go down.
Speaker 1: Chances are his whoever he hired to protect him was
Speaker 1: not allowed up correct well or.
Speaker 3: Who knows, Maybe it depends, But I think because he
Speaker 3: said the word death.
Speaker 1: Threats, I think every single one of us at one
Speaker 1: time have gotten a doubt.
Speaker 2: Please, we've all gotten a you kidding me?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 3: But also he didn't say we got death threats today.
Speaker 3: He said we got death threats last week.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't know if I believe that.
Speaker 2: But then do you find that there's parallels to VICKI
Speaker 2: with Teresa trying to fire people from her show.
Speaker 1: Well, I think that we've all gotten mad at one
Speaker 1: point another and was like, you're gone. I think I
Speaker 1: told Lizzie one you're just to fall off the couch
Speaker 1: because nobody would miss her.
Speaker 2: Did she by the next year.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she was gone. Yeah, I mean when you know,
Speaker 1: you know right, no, you know, But it was it
Speaker 1: was a bit much for Teresa to assume that Melissa
Speaker 1: is not going to be back. We don't know what's
Speaker 1: going to happen. Nobody knows. I don't think Bravo knows.
Speaker 2: No. I think they're trying to figure it out for sure.
Speaker 3: Then, as if we cared, Danielle is seeing her brother tomorrow.
Speaker 1: Right, it's just a day too late Danielle.
Speaker 2: Danielle, I hate to break it to you.
Speaker 3: The season's over now, honey, right, want to see the
Speaker 3: brother We want to see this on right.
Speaker 1: Well, what season's not over and it's about to begin
Speaker 1: is Crappy Lake. That's quite a name for leu Anne
Speaker 1: and Sonia's new show which they battle bed bugs and
Speaker 1: it's Testical Festivals.
Speaker 2: What is that?
Speaker 1: A testical festival?
Speaker 2: Say that five times? Testical Testical festival, Testical festival.
Speaker 1: Okay, so they are going to the town, tiny town
Speaker 1: in the midwestern town of Benton, Illinois. I've never even
Speaker 1: heard of it.
Speaker 2: I can only imagine, but you could say Illinois. So
Speaker 2: that's a plus Illinois.
Speaker 1: Why what are most people say?
Speaker 3: No, just Illinois, Like you know when your kids first
Speaker 3: try to spell out.
Speaker 1: Ill ainnoious. Yeah, So Bravo dropped the first trailer for
Speaker 1: Luanne and Sonya is welcome to Crappy Lake on Monday.
Speaker 1: What do you know what the air datea is?
Speaker 2: Is it July? I think it's July? Yeah, because it
Speaker 2: says they attempt to build a playground.
Speaker 3: Have Christmas in July? Go to diagars? I mean, are
Speaker 3: we going to recap this?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: I think we should okay anything to do with the Housewives,
Speaker 1: think that we should recap and by the way, that
Speaker 1: sounds like a fun show. I just wouldn't want to
Speaker 1: go to Crappy Lake.
Speaker 2: How do we know We've never been to Crappy Lake.
Speaker 2: My favorite thing to do.
Speaker 1: I don't want to eat testicles.
Speaker 3: Well, I don't want to eat testicles either, but I
Speaker 3: do love partying at a lake. Lakes are are bodies
Speaker 3: of water to be me too. I am like from
Speaker 3: growing up on Lake Monroe, it's I mean, the water's warm.
Speaker 2: Where if you go to Lake Tahoe or something, it's.
Speaker 1: Freezing crazy crazy. So interested to see that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, me too.
Speaker 3: Other than that, I feel like there hasn't been a
Speaker 3: ton of housewife headlines that we haven't already seen. I'm
Speaker 3: sick of talking about Ozembek. I really am sick of it,
Speaker 3: and it's been everywhere again.
Speaker 1: I'm kind of sick of talking about Banaput rules.
Speaker 3: I actually I was starting to think maybe I need
Speaker 3: to listen to the Call Me Daddy pod with Ariana,
Speaker 3: and then I just started going down the rabbit hole
Speaker 3: last night, and I feel like I'm like, why am
Speaker 3: I this invested at this point, Like now, all I
Speaker 3: really need to know is when filming's picking back up
Speaker 3: and I need to ensure that all parties will be there.
Speaker 1: I would like to know. I would like an update
Speaker 1: on Rachel.
Speaker 3: The fact that she's writing letters, but everybody's saying that
Speaker 3: she's just staying at her grandma's, Like, did she drop
Speaker 3: her phone?
Speaker 2: Why does she need to write letters?
Speaker 1: Well, I think she's in a facility that you can't
Speaker 1: have a phone, probably.
Speaker 3: But that that's not what everybody's reporting allegedly.
Speaker 1: What people are reporting, I mean, it is a weird
Speaker 1: thing to write a letter.
Speaker 2: Well, I do have to say this.
Speaker 3: If she is in a mental facility and Sandoval is
Speaker 3: really out dating somebody else and hasn't communicated.
Speaker 2: That with I mean, we have no idea. This is
Speaker 2: complete speculation.
Speaker 3: But if their communication is only over letters, can you
Speaker 3: imagine what she's going through right now while he's out
Speaker 3: out dating.
Speaker 1: I mean, would you just put it past him?
Speaker 2: No, I wouldn't. I wouldn't, But I mean.
Speaker 1: So, what are your what are your thoughts on in
Speaker 1: the press. Recently we saw Ariana moving out of her
Speaker 1: house and then you know, lots of paparazzi pictures and
Speaker 1: then we find out it's for a sponsored post.
Speaker 2: Listen.
Speaker 3: I mean, of course, I think it's it's gonna wear
Speaker 3: thin on people after a little bit.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's even the saying. I mean, grab that money, girl.
Speaker 1: But that being said, grab the money.
Speaker 3: Now is the time, like you, like everyone's talking about you,
Speaker 3: you might you take that money because remember she's still
Speaker 3: They did like a you know, I'm not good with
Speaker 3: house talk, but they did a blank to give money
Speaker 3: to Schwartz and Sandy's what's it called a refinance? Oh,
Speaker 3: they refinance their house something like that. Like, so they're
Speaker 3: like tied into this house. She needs the money, as
Speaker 3: I would assume she needs that money so she can
Speaker 3: get away from this situation. I couldn't imagine living in
Speaker 3: the house with somebody I was broken up with.
Speaker 1: Well, the market's pretty hot still. The prices are still
Speaker 1: I mean they've they're staying on the market a lot longer,
Speaker 1: but the prices are just gradually going down. So I
Speaker 1: would imagine if they've had this house for a few years,
Speaker 1: they'll be able to sell it. Yeah, I think so
Speaker 1: I would just want to get out of it. I mean,
Speaker 1: I just.
Speaker 2: Wouldn't want to co live No, and I would.
Speaker 1: Like to see her move out. I don't know if
Speaker 1: that was fully for the sponsored posts or if she's
Speaker 1: I mean, even if she's got to go crash on
Speaker 1: a friend's couch. I could not live.
Speaker 2: With him, Yeah, I could.
Speaker 1: He should move out. That's what should happen. He should
Speaker 1: move out.
Speaker 3: I wonder if ghost Day was trying to get enough
Speaker 3: money to keep the house, Like, is one of them
Speaker 3: wanting to continue living there and buy the other one out?
Speaker 2: That could be an option.
Speaker 1: I don't I don't think he's up financially set, is
Speaker 1: he well?
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Well, she's definitely making more. I would assume she is
Speaker 3: making more from so far than he's making. Yeah, but
Speaker 3: you know what, I we're on a sale for thirty
Speaker 3: nine ninety nine.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to be in that house. I would
Speaker 1: want out.
Speaker 3: I would want you and I are similar in that
Speaker 3: same way. I would go back who patched him in
Speaker 3: my one bedroom apartment me too, with all of my
Speaker 3: kids versus like, I don't know how what sh're doing
Speaker 3: it from Miami is doing it.
Speaker 2: It would make me insane.
Speaker 1: Same house is probably so Lisa's house is probably so big.
Speaker 1: She probably doesn't even see him. But I gotta believe
Speaker 1: she's out of that situation by now right.
Speaker 2: I bet she's not. They're still talking about it. They're
Speaker 2: still fighting over who. I just saw a.
Speaker 3: Recent report on that she's from him, allegedly that she
Speaker 3: spends over ten thousand dollars a month on Instacart and
Speaker 3: he you know, or something like that, and then Instacart
Speaker 3: responded like, we got you, Like it's just teddy.
Speaker 1: If we break up, who gets the pod?
Speaker 2: Who does get the pod?
Speaker 1: It's probably going to be you because you had it
Speaker 1: before me, even though we renamed it.
Speaker 2: But who would I find? That's another tea.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I don't want to think.
Speaker 3: Taylor, today is like a day that you're just really
Speaker 3: going to bring us down, Like you're going to talk
Speaker 3: about us dying and then.
Speaker 1: My mind's been crazy this week.
Speaker 3: And now you're going to talk about if I kick
Speaker 3: you out at the pod? Do you think your behavior
Speaker 3: is going to be that bad on Orange County that
Speaker 3: I'm going to boot you out?
Speaker 1: No? I mean there, I have my moments, and most
Speaker 1: of them are fueled with alcohol. And you know I
Speaker 1: have good moments. I have bad moments, but I would
Speaker 1: say that I'm the problem. I am most of the drama.
Speaker 3: Know what the problem is. We didn't have a happy
Speaker 3: place beverage from before. I know today we should. Today
Speaker 3: was the perfect day for that.
Speaker 1: We are sold out. Maybe you should have them back
Speaker 1: in stock any day now.
Speaker 3: All right, So let's get into the wedding first and foremost.
Speaker 3: I have to address this before anything else. Okay, Louie
Speaker 3: sitting down when he peas, I paused the show for
Speaker 3: ten minutes. See that. Every single man I know to
Speaker 3: find out if they do the same.
Speaker 2: How do you know he was?
Speaker 1: Why did I not see this in the show.
Speaker 3: Because it was at the beginning Teresa and Louie were
Speaker 3: talking and then something happened where she's like, oh, I
Speaker 3: know you said when you pee or something like that.
Speaker 1: She says it, yes, and is that Teresa.
Speaker 2: Goes, I love that, or he says it and then
Speaker 2: she goes, I love that.
Speaker 1: But was he actually doing it in the scene.
Speaker 3: I didn't watch him sit Why he talked about it?
Speaker 1: Oh, I thought you okay, okay, we was viewing. Yes,
Speaker 1: I thought, I'm like, wow, that's awestime Louis had.
Speaker 2: It was a confessional.
Speaker 3: But then the thing that I thought was even crazier
Speaker 3: it was I texted some people and it's not that.
Speaker 1: Uncarna, It's not that uncommon. I mean, I've I've seen
Speaker 1: Eddie sit down to pee. I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 3: Well, maybe it's because he knows he has a two coming.
Speaker 3: Maybe he's going to actually when he finds something, you say,
Speaker 3: he sits being I can't.
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm not saying all the time. I've just seen
Speaker 1: him sit and pee. But but you know what, nowadays,
Speaker 1: guys take their phone to the bathroom, and I think
Speaker 1: it's their time to not get their balls busted for
Speaker 1: being on their phone all the time. And they sit
Speaker 1: there even if they don't have to, and they sit
Speaker 1: on the phone.
Speaker 2: Well, I actually just listen to this clip. Do you
Speaker 2: know who?
Speaker 3: Tink says, no, she well she just wrote a book.
Speaker 3: But she was talking about how girls that are in
Speaker 3: this day and age that like pay attention to social
Speaker 3: media think that guys that have ghosted them are broken
Speaker 3: up with them or no longer are dating them are
Speaker 3: interested in them because they watch their Insta stories, and
Speaker 3: Tinks was like, listen, that is absolutely not the case.
Speaker 3: Men are just bored on the toilet going through their
Speaker 3: Insta stories. It means nothing like And I actually was
Speaker 3: thinking that because a lot of my single friends will say,
Speaker 3: I mean, I haven't heard from him, but he's watching.
Speaker 2: My Insta stories. I'm like, do you know how many
Speaker 2: times I.
Speaker 3: Accidentally go onto somebody's live and the fear I have
Speaker 3: my name and then you get out, yes.
Speaker 1: Yes, I've done that all the time.
Speaker 2: I'm like, it's just aimless things that happen.
Speaker 3: You can't And I was like, you know what, So anyways,
Speaker 3: go buy her book if you are.
Speaker 2: In the dating process, because I think she has a
Speaker 2: lot of good insight.
Speaker 1: My single girlfriend tells me all the time, Oh my god,
Speaker 1: my ex was looking at my videos. Why why is
Speaker 1: he not blocked? Just block them?
Speaker 2: Yeah, then you don't even have to know.
Speaker 1: But then it's like, oh, is an excitement that your
Speaker 1: ex is looking at your videos? I guess, but he
Speaker 1: may not even be looking.
Speaker 3: Sometimes I just leave mine on and then it like
Speaker 3: goes through everybody in my.
Speaker 2: Like oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I want to pay attention.
Speaker 1: I hear you.
Speaker 3: Okay, So then we start out the episode with them
Speaker 3: all getting ready, Okay, did you know what I.
Speaker 1: Learned something new. Did you know that Teresa and Dolores
Speaker 1: had been friends for thirty eight years?
Speaker 3: I did, Well, I didn't know the exact day until
Speaker 3: I saw this little all the pictures.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well that explains a lot, because you know, we
Speaker 1: love Dolores and she is just friends with everybody and
Speaker 1: she's the peacekeeper. But I could see why if you've
Speaker 1: known somebody for thirty eight years and gone through so
Speaker 1: much with them that you're pretty much always by their side,
Speaker 1: even if you don't believe in the hair.
Speaker 3: Well, I was gonna say, the hair proved that even
Speaker 3: our girl Dolores is able to tell a lie once
Speaker 3: in a while.
Speaker 2: She said, what a job you did is obviously not
Speaker 2: a compliment.
Speaker 3: But every single including Louis, was taken aback by the hair.
Speaker 3: Did you see even when they're getting married, his eyes
Speaker 3: were like darting back.
Speaker 1: I know, I know, I know, And there's so many like,
Speaker 1: oh that looks good. Well, the higher the hair, the
Speaker 1: closer to Jesus.
Speaker 2: Jesus looking up to you.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Then Derenda being the one to criticize Teresa's hair at
Speaker 3: the reception.
Speaker 2: Is very on brand.
Speaker 1: Who was that, Derenda? Well, Jen, I'm a team player,
Speaker 1: but here is supposed to be an accent piece, not
Speaker 1: the main event. I'm really fall in love Jen. She
Speaker 1: just wants the right thing to say all the time.
Speaker 3: But my question is what in the babie was Jen
Speaker 3: Aiden's bedazzled Aiden plastic surgery like tan with the shirt
Speaker 3: and the well, it.
Speaker 2: Was a get to note.
Speaker 1: She wanted it noticed, and we did.
Speaker 2: We did.
Speaker 1: Dolores is like I would like it a little lower.
Speaker 1: It's like, no, it ain't happening.
Speaker 3: But about how Priscilla Okay, so for those of y'all
Speaker 3: who don't know, Priscilla is Teresa's makeup artist, but she
Speaker 3: is also a lot of ours.
Speaker 2: Anytime we go to watch what Happens a lot.
Speaker 3: She's in this scene and you can tell like she's
Speaker 3: asked the question she's supposed to ask right now.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but she's been around housewives forever.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she has been doing everything.
Speaker 3: But she I love her digging about the Joe stuff,
Speaker 3: and you start to see Teresa's kids come a little unhinged.
Speaker 3: Once starts to tear up. Then I couldn't tell by
Speaker 3: who was yelling. I think it was Melania was starting
Speaker 3: to get upset.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was. Then jen Aiden.
Speaker 3: Comes in, so Priscilla's already done some grilling about the Gorgas,
Speaker 3: and then jen Aiden comes in and says, I just
Speaker 3: wanted to tell you I apologize for telling Danielle the
Speaker 3: rumor about Melissa and she feels like she played a part.
Speaker 2: No shit, Sherlock, but this was all planned on.
Speaker 1: Do you realize Joe's name was mentioned like ten times
Speaker 1: in the first fifteen minutes of the show.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it was too much.
Speaker 1: It was too much.
Speaker 2: It was too much.
Speaker 1: Do you think it was Melania going off on Jennifer
Speaker 1: when she was screaming, or do you think she was
Speaker 1: just going off like.
Speaker 2: Why is she crying?
Speaker 1: Why is she crying?
Speaker 2: I think she was doing it production.
Speaker 1: She was doing production.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I was confused, Yeah, because somebody said one of my
Speaker 1: friends are like, I can't believe she was yelling at
Speaker 1: Jennifer like that, and I'm like, I didn't take it
Speaker 1: like that. I took it as if she was just like.
Speaker 2: Why is she crying?
Speaker 1: Why is she crying? Like you know, concern.
Speaker 3: I think she was, well, she was yelling that her
Speaker 3: sister was crying. But I think she was doing that
Speaker 3: because they kept sending people in to talk to Teresa.
Speaker 2: Teresa was good. Teresa had already cried about her her family.
Speaker 3: She was already had these moments, and then people keep
Speaker 3: bringing up this stuff and you can tell that Teresa's
Speaker 3: kind of done with the conversation.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I have one question. What were those plastic things
Speaker 1: on Priscilla and Teresa's face? I think those were like
Speaker 1: they were they like COVID shields or were they?
Speaker 3: No, you put on your what is it that people
Speaker 3: put on with their fingers right here, serum? You put
Speaker 3: on the serum and then you put the mask over
Speaker 3: and it sucks the serum into your skin. Someone's put
Speaker 3: one on me before, so that's okay. So it was
Speaker 3: just like a face mask, got it?
Speaker 1: But I mean, wasn't she the one that was saying, like,
Speaker 1: my uncle's not here, we don't need to talk about him.
Speaker 2: Yeah. No, I think here's the thing.
Speaker 3: If we would have solely watched up up to this part,
Speaker 3: watched the wedding, all of these things happening at this
Speaker 3: point your start, you are able to see the good
Speaker 3: parts of Louis and Teresa, even when they're getting into
Speaker 3: the elevation and he like says do we get to
Speaker 3: have sex with and she's.
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, yeah, they're no doubt that they are so
Speaker 1: in love and you could see it and you could
Speaker 1: you could just see it. I mean, everybody looked beautiful,
Speaker 1: that the girls look I didn't realize that the youngest
Speaker 1: is only twelve years old.
Speaker 2: I know she's young.
Speaker 3: But the only part I really needed to see about
Speaker 3: Joe Gorga and Melissa at this wedding because they were
Speaker 3: not in attendance, is when Louie lost his shit and
Speaker 3: punched the wall. When Joe Gorga started posting on Instagram,
Speaker 3: which I can say whoever was posting on Instagram site,
Speaker 3: I think that it was the right time.
Speaker 1: Melissa and Melissa and Joe posted something about family or
Speaker 1: family doesn't empty blood and their partying in their backyard,
Speaker 1: and then the press picked it up. So it wasn't
Speaker 1: like people are like, oh, he contacted the press, he
Speaker 1: was doing stories. No, they did an Instagram story. Was
Speaker 1: it appropriate?
Speaker 2: Know what?
Speaker 1: I'm sure their feelings were hurt with everything that went down,
Speaker 1: and they turn out the wedding, but they shouldn't have
Speaker 1: done it.
Speaker 2: They also wrote better than a wedding. I know.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying it was a smart thing to do.
Speaker 3: Listen, they may not have called press, but people don't
Speaker 3: have to call press if you are something.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's on purpose.
Speaker 3: Like if you post something like that's controversial and your
Speaker 3: press will pick up, the press will pick it up,
Speaker 3: so you know what you're doing.
Speaker 2: So he whether he got a Google alert or whatever,
Speaker 2: it wasn't.
Speaker 1: I went no, Yeah, it would have been better if
Speaker 1: they did not do that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, if they didn't.
Speaker 3: Do that, they would have, in my opinion, taken the
Speaker 3: It would have been the high road for them, the
Speaker 3: whole way. But that is where it got, like now
Speaker 3: you're just poking at the bear. But what I did
Speaker 3: appreciate in this moment is that Louis did not say
Speaker 3: anything to Teresa.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean, do you think that people were sending
Speaker 1: him the articles or do you think he was on
Speaker 1: Instagram looking?
Speaker 2: I think probably someone texted him.
Speaker 1: Because on your wedding day, it's like, that's the last
Speaker 1: thing you should be doing, is well, she was getting
Speaker 1: changed wedding. Oh she was getting changed.
Speaker 2: You know, she was getting changed.
Speaker 3: I would probably look at my phone or look at
Speaker 3: pictures people tagged.
Speaker 2: Man, you know, if I just had was waiting. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it takes a while to change your whole look when
Speaker 2: you go from Tarma's wedding dress one to Tama's wedding
Speaker 2: dress too.
Speaker 1: For sure, for sure. And I will say, same designer
Speaker 1: as my wedding dress, the same wedding dress almost to
Speaker 1: the tea. Mine was a custom made dressed by Mark Zanino.
Speaker 1: I'm just shocked that Mark didn't say to Teresa, I
Speaker 1: don't know if she actually met with him, because I
Speaker 1: know hers was off the rack and say, like, you know,
Speaker 1: Tarma wore this wedding dress because after mine, mine was
Speaker 1: so popular that they reproduced him. Is that always saying it?
Speaker 2: Did you? Hold on? Did you wear both of those dresses?
Speaker 2: Are just the first?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 1: No, no, the pink beaded it's her pink as well.
Speaker 1: It's pale pink. Yeah, very very very very pale pink.
Speaker 1: Can I have a side by side right now of
Speaker 1: the two dresses. Yeah, I didn't do all the get
Speaker 1: up at the veil in the sleeve.
Speaker 2: What do you mean you didn't get fifteen hundred pins
Speaker 2: in your hair? Why not?
Speaker 1: Okay, let's talk about the hair for a little bit.
Speaker 1: I will say I think she looked absolutely beautiful, and
Speaker 1: the only person that could pull off this hair is
Speaker 1: Teresa and Marge Simpson. Those are the only two people
Speaker 1: they could pull off that hairdo.
Speaker 3: Listen, I would have watched a whole hour of people
Speaker 3: just responding to her hair.
Speaker 1: I know that they're saying, it costs ten thousand dollars
Speaker 1: to do your hair. They all they have to.
Speaker 2: Talk about here. I don't even remember their vows, but
Speaker 2: I remember their hair. No on. My two big takeaways
Speaker 2: from this episode were.
Speaker 3: Teresa's hair and her personal trainer who was trying to
Speaker 3: get everyone.
Speaker 1: Was that the personal train that she sounded like Rosie? Right,
Speaker 1: didn't you? I thought that was Rosy yet for so
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, we get to see Rosie.
Speaker 1: I'm like, that's not Rosie. Do you remember Rosie her cousin.
Speaker 1: She had the same voice. Wait, wait, who was she?
Speaker 1: Was she her trainer?
Speaker 2: It said Teresa's trainer. But she's like everyone shots to
Speaker 2: the most beautiful people here.
Speaker 3: And then someone's like, uh, well, and Teresa and Louis
Speaker 3: because they were shots.
Speaker 2: But the next thing, listen, I love you, Marge.
Speaker 1: Marge, Marge, really were you crying because you were happy?
Speaker 1: Are you crying because you were sad.
Speaker 2: We don't understand.
Speaker 3: Also, you already proved your point by not bringing your
Speaker 3: mom because Melissa's mom wasn't there.
Speaker 2: But honestly, you could have brought her. Let her have
Speaker 2: the mac and cheese.
Speaker 1: Like that mac and cheese look good.
Speaker 2: It looked so good.
Speaker 1: I was good and then But do you think she.
Speaker 3: Was really crying because she felt so sad about the
Speaker 3: broken friendship between the two.
Speaker 1: I don't know, But you know what, I always cry
Speaker 1: at weddings. You know who didn't cry? M Teresa. She's
Speaker 1: one tough cookie. I could barely look at Eddie at
Speaker 1: the wedding or say my mouths because I would start crying.
Speaker 1: Even Eddie got teary eyed, which I've only seen him
Speaker 1: cry three times.
Speaker 3: Ever, well, I think she, from what I've seen, she
Speaker 3: really only cries from her sadness. Right, Okay, So the
Speaker 3: difference is between the two dresses, all right. So the
Speaker 3: bottom is exactly the same, ye from these pictures, I
Speaker 3: feel like yours doesn't have that crisscross over it.
Speaker 1: No, my mind is kind of like a little bit
Speaker 1: of a sweetheart neckline. Hers. Yeah, it's the same. I
Speaker 1: just don't have.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just the beating is different up at the
Speaker 3: top and then you don't have the veil or are
Speaker 3: those gloves.
Speaker 2: Or the French manicure with acrylics.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, I was actually not that happy about my
Speaker 1: dress when I got it, and that's always the fear
Speaker 1: of having something custom made. I think Marks and you
Speaker 1: know is a great wedding dress designer, but I specifically
Speaker 1: said I did not want a mermaid look where it's
Speaker 1: bigger at the bottom, and that's exactly what I got. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so it's very similar dresses from the actual designer. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so housewives. It was a housewife event. There was Chanel,
Speaker 1: Jill's eron, Derinda Phedra, Cynthia, Alexia Kenya and Tim from NBC.
Speaker 2: But they never really let us see anybody.
Speaker 1: Well that's the thing whenever you have another just like
Speaker 1: Atlanta the other day when Candice was on, you saw
Speaker 1: her on stage, you saw her on FaceTime and that
Speaker 1: was it done. Yeah, I don't have any kind of crossover.
Speaker 1: They let them be seen, but hardly speaking, Spot I
Speaker 1: could have.
Speaker 2: Used a little bit more.
Speaker 1: I feel I could too.
Speaker 3: If you're going to do that, then let us see
Speaker 3: all the housewives interacting. Some of the drama because you
Speaker 3: know there's stuff going down. Yeah, so let us see it.
Speaker 1: What did you think about Marge wanting to slip out early?
Speaker 1: I felt like Marge, either come or don't come. Those
Speaker 1: are really our options. Like, if you want to go
Speaker 1: and support the people getting married, then go and have
Speaker 1: a good time.
Speaker 2: If you want to say that you don't fully support.
Speaker 1: It, you can't.
Speaker 2: There's no like halfway supporting.
Speaker 3: Either go to the wedding and you have a good
Speaker 3: time and you're supportive, or you don't go.
Speaker 1: Do you think that this wedding was originally just part
Speaker 1: of the show, maybe the season finale, I don't know,
Speaker 1: and then they decided to give her one episode special?
Speaker 1: Do you think the girls got paid to go to
Speaker 1: the wedding?
Speaker 3: I would guess that this was part of the season
Speaker 3: and then it got us special.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because there wasn't.
Speaker 1: A lot of talk about it at all.
Speaker 2: There wasn't I need to go back.
Speaker 3: I really am going to go back and now why
Speaker 3: your wedding so that I can see, like if you guys,
Speaker 3: how many confessionals you had, how much they featured the
Speaker 3: other women?
Speaker 1: Can you fast forward through the vagina waxing? Come again
Speaker 1: the vagina waxing? Can you just fast forward through that?
Speaker 3: I just don't need You got three episodes and Teresa
Speaker 3: got one because you got your vagina wax on camera.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I did, first time I've ever done in my life,
Speaker 1: and it hurt like a bitch and I've never done
Speaker 1: it again.
Speaker 2: Where'd you go? Sweet cheeks? You know what?
Speaker 1: I don't know. I can't remember. It's been so long ago.
Speaker 1: But yeah, and no shame of my game because they
Speaker 1: had legs up in the air and a camera at
Speaker 1: the end. I can't And I was with Julius. Julius
Speaker 1: was there with me.
Speaker 2: I was gonna say who else was there and who
Speaker 2: was doing the kid?
Speaker 1: And he's like, oh, that vagina is not bad. It
Speaker 1: actually looks good.
Speaker 2: No, one don't say actually before a compliment. You know
Speaker 2: how I feel?
Speaker 1: I know too well because he's gay, so he doesn't
Speaker 1: like Huginah's.
Speaker 2: But question, who was the cameraman?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I can't remember. I honestly cannot remember.
Speaker 2: If it's Pablo, I'm dead. I'm actually dead. I don't
Speaker 2: If it.
Speaker 1: Was Pablo, I'd probably be shy. But somewhere in video
Speaker 1: village that that is out there that is, you know,
Speaker 1: like they're they're editing in the editing room and like,
Speaker 1: oh God, look at cameras. Is that a hymn rite?
Speaker 1: What's going on down there?
Speaker 2: Is that a HIMMI?
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you have to let the hair grow
Speaker 1: out a little bit, I think before you have.
Speaker 3: Oh I don't, I can't, I can't. All right, we
Speaker 3: gotta go back and watch the special. But I mean,
Speaker 3: I hear's the thing. This wedding really did make remind
Speaker 3: me why they love each other. Does it make me
Speaker 3: believe that there isn't severe red flags? No, but I
Speaker 3: do want them to be happy, But I'm frightened about
Speaker 3: what's coming next once we get into the reunion.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean, the wedding was beautiful. I thought it
Speaker 1: was so loving. I love seeing his parents there. I
Speaker 1: loved how Teresa broke down when when the nurse text her,
Speaker 1: the nurse that took care of her father text her
Speaker 1: and said they're there with you, and she started crying.
Speaker 1: And I mean, that's got to be really hard.
Speaker 3: How do you think Andy felt when Teresa said the
Speaker 3: best possible person to marry us?
Speaker 2: And we were like, we know you asked Andy.
Speaker 1: First, and I think she did a great job. Louis's
Speaker 1: sister did a really good job. Eddie's married two people.
Speaker 1: First one was yeah, first one wasn't you know a
Speaker 1: little rocky and then that was a friend of his,
Speaker 1: and then the second one was my niece and he
Speaker 1: did an amazing job.
Speaker 2: Yeah, my brother married me. He had to go get
Speaker 2: his thing on online. You can do it. All you
Speaker 2: do is pay for it, especially when you get married
Speaker 2: in another country.
Speaker 3: We had to get our license in California anyway, in
Speaker 3: Los Angeles, and you got.
Speaker 1: Married in Italy. We got got married in Paris, Paris.
Speaker 1: But yeah, what did you think about the dancers? Do
Speaker 1: you think that they were tacky? Do you think they
Speaker 1: were good? Like I'm with Teresa, Oh yes, entertainment. The
Speaker 1: less clothes the better, I don't care. Like, did you
Speaker 1: think it was too much? Because I feel like the
Speaker 1: faces that they've shown this could have been editing. Was
Speaker 1: like ew, like really yeah, although Frank didn't have that face,
Speaker 1: I personally.
Speaker 2: Don't mind and over the top wedding no matter what
Speaker 2: it is.
Speaker 3: And like, you know, what if you're going to spend
Speaker 3: you know, three hours getting your hair done and ten
Speaker 3: thousand dollars and all these things like have dance, do
Speaker 3: all the things that you do, all enjoy Like for me,
Speaker 3: it was mainly just about a nice view my family
Speaker 3: laughing and a couple of drinks.
Speaker 2: Like it was easy for me.
Speaker 1: But you know, sure, ah, I thought it was cute.
Speaker 1: I thought it was nice. Did they have Teresa and
Speaker 1: Louis on Watch What Happens Live? Last night? I missed it.
Speaker 2: Shoot, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Do you think that they should have called instead of
Speaker 1: calling it Teresa gets married, call it Teresa's big Jersey wedding.
Speaker 2: Well, what like my big fat Greek wedding?
Speaker 1: Yeah, didn't Teresa's big fat Jersey wedding. They don't get
Speaker 1: very creative with the wedding specials like mine was Tamra's
Speaker 1: ocy wedding.
Speaker 3: Oh, Watch What Happens Live is on hiatus until June fourth.
Speaker 2: I wonder what's coming up around that time.
Speaker 1: He's probably on a little break. Yeah, So Lala Kent
Speaker 1: text me and said that we're on Watch What Happens
Speaker 1: Live together. So I'm excited about that because she's sweet
Speaker 1: and fun, has a lot of great energy. Still looking
Speaker 1: for some kind of address. Why is it when you
Speaker 1: need something, you can never find it. When it comes
Speaker 1: to a dress, I don't know.
Speaker 2: You're welcome to come ride in my closet.
Speaker 1: I've asked you to find me a dress.
Speaker 2: I have a hard time. There's so much going on, jam.
Speaker 1: I've ordered a couple of dresses that I think will work,
Speaker 1: but you never know until you get them on, because
Speaker 1: it's different to have a sitting dress opposed to a
Speaker 1: standard I know because.
Speaker 3: When you went on last time and you had on
Speaker 3: like the jumpsuit, yep, like I love that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So now are we going to show a different side.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not doing jumpsuit.
Speaker 2: No jumpsuit.
Speaker 1: I'm not doing to jumpsuit. I'm not doing a catsuit.
Speaker 1: I'm tired. As much as I really do like catsuits,
Speaker 1: i'm tired of seeing them. Okay, right, I've never seen
Speaker 1: you in a catsuit.
Speaker 2: Well, because I'm scared of cameltoes.
Speaker 1: Well do you have You don't have a long tour,
Speaker 1: so I don't think it's an issue in your life.
Speaker 2: A very long tour or so and short legs.
Speaker 1: Oh, you have very long torso for five foot one.
Speaker 2: Five foot four.
Speaker 3: Anyways, Fan thoughts from this episode, Oh the daughters are.
Speaker 2: Too involved with Teresa Joe feud.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I don't know. They're getting older, they're
Speaker 1: gonna get involved. The one thing that I do respect
Speaker 1: is that Joe Melissa's kids do not get involved.
Speaker 2: I do like that.
Speaker 1: I like it, like old school Jersey. I love the
Speaker 1: Italian music they played as Teresa walked down the aisle.
Speaker 1: I thought that was special.
Speaker 3: People are saying Teresa's energy is different when Melissa isn't around.
Speaker 2: I think it was.
Speaker 3: I think it was Teresa's wedding day, and I think
Speaker 3: she seemed like she was having a wonderful time and
Speaker 3: really happy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I do too. I agree.
Speaker 3: I hope that's because she's getting married, not just because
Speaker 3: somebody's not around.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, I didn't feel like a separate wedding special.
Speaker 1: Oh this didn't feel like a separate wedding special. Well
Speaker 1: it was not really. I mean, it was just an
Speaker 1: episode tacked onto.
Speaker 2: Here's the thing. It was an episode to hold us
Speaker 2: over until the explosive reunion next week.
Speaker 1: I thought it was great, and I thought it was nice.
Speaker 3: They have something nice to keep for as long as
Speaker 3: they're together. Oh, we forgot to talk about one other thing.
Speaker 3: When Louis's friend asked Bill about his cheekbones and then
Speaker 3: Bill never ask.
Speaker 2: The plastic surgeon something you don't want a real answer to.
Speaker 2: He says that, well, there is a little hollow neiss
Speaker 2: I know, Bill.
Speaker 1: Ejin, But that's a good plastic surgeon. He's gonna be
Speaker 1: honest with you. You know what plasturs I don't like
Speaker 1: is you don't ask questions. So like, you know what,
Speaker 1: you can use a little this, you can use a
Speaker 1: little that. To me, no, I don't.
Speaker 2: That's when you know somebody is an overdoer.
Speaker 1: Overdoer.
Speaker 2: Ye.
Speaker 3: Yeah, So if you ever go to a plastic surgeon
Speaker 3: they tell you to do a million things, it's a run.
Speaker 3: If they tell you, like, you know what, this is
Speaker 3: best suited for you, and this seems like would be too.
Speaker 2: Much, you know, I think that's key. Well, guys, that's
Speaker 2: the end of this episode.
Speaker 1: I know. Well, we wish the We wish the best.
Speaker 2: Of the best of luck, much love. Hopefully all goes great.
Speaker 2: We won't know because.
Speaker 1: And I'm super excited about seeing the reunion. I don't
Speaker 1: even know how many parts it is, do you? Is
Speaker 1: it three?
Speaker 2: Three parts?
Speaker 1: And then also tonight Vanner, Pump Rules, Reunions on.
Speaker 2: I know it's things, all the things are happening.
Speaker 1: But I feel like, how much more can we know?
Speaker 1: Like all the entire cast has podcasts and they've been
Speaker 1: talking about it for thirteen weeks.
Speaker 3: Alex said something comes out. He said that in the
Speaker 3: thing he was doing with LVP, So what was that that?
Speaker 3: Do we think what comes out is that she's pregnant?
Speaker 3: Or do we think that what comes out is where did.
Speaker 1: This pregnancy member come from? Because you know what, Pitty,
Speaker 1: I think you started it.
Speaker 2: I didn't you.
Speaker 1: Did, because remember when this whole scandal broke, do you
Speaker 1: remember she's going to get pregnant?
Speaker 3: But I didn't start it. Just like now that people
Speaker 3: are coming around going you know.
Speaker 2: What, I feel like they all did. They were all
Speaker 2: in on this. I was like, remember when y'all were
Speaker 2: attacking me before? Yeah, that opinion.
Speaker 3: But I don't know what's going to come out, but
Speaker 3: I would assume something is because I feel.
Speaker 1: Like, well, I'm sure there's a lot of stuff that's
Speaker 1: going to come out.
Speaker 2: We just don't.
Speaker 1: We think we know it all, but we don't. Well,
Speaker 1: not even you Teddy Joe.
Speaker 2: You guys need to go watch the Randall Emmett documentary.
Speaker 1: Okay, is that on Hulu? Because it's get give me
Speaker 1: your password?
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 3: Did you see that Netflix is about to take away
Speaker 3: sharing passwords.
Speaker 1: I don't share my password, but I do with my.
Speaker 2: Mom and my sister. You do.
Speaker 1: Well, now this is gone. I did have Hulu for
Speaker 1: a little bit because I was using my mom's password,
Speaker 1: but I got kicked off and I'm the pastor was
Speaker 1: so long you have to put it in there. That
Speaker 1: email was like twenty five letter. I'm like, I just
Speaker 1: can't do it. Too lazy, Well, too lazy. What are
Speaker 1: you doing this weekend anymore? You horsing around this weekend?
Speaker 3: Well, no, we're just riding for fun. And then it's
Speaker 3: like one of our kids last weekends of school, so
Speaker 3: we're just like having people to the house and barbecuing
Speaker 3: and swimming and just hanging around.
Speaker 1: I have Sophia's graduation coming up, and I need some advice. Yes,
Speaker 1: we just found out that her dad bought four tickets
Speaker 1: for graduation. Okay, she hasn't had a relationship with her
Speaker 1: dad in two years. Of course, I want him there.
Speaker 1: I'm not very happy with him right now, so I
Speaker 1: don't really speak to him. But Sophia's stressed out, and
Speaker 1: Spencer stressed out because he doesn't speak to his dad either,
Speaker 1: and I'm stressed out because he's going to bring Sydney
Speaker 1: and my heart will be you know, I suppress all
Speaker 1: those feelings.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, I know. I think.
Speaker 3: It's going to be really hard, but I think coming
Speaker 3: from somebody who didn't talk to their dad for a
Speaker 3: period of time, I think it's really important for her
Speaker 3: to have him there.
Speaker 2: I do too, And so.
Speaker 1: There's so much anxiety. You know, it's not like he
Speaker 1: could be you know, hey, me and Sidney are coming,
Speaker 1: and don't you know, I would be more than open
Speaker 1: to be like, Okay, let's all go out to dinner
Speaker 1: afterwards or something, but so much has been said and
Speaker 1: done that Spencer and Sophia don't want anything to do
Speaker 1: with him, and it's just he's destroyed our family, destroyed it.
Speaker 1: And now it's like we don't come together very often.
Speaker 1: And the last time we were all together was at
Speaker 1: Spencer's graduation and it was uncomfortable.
Speaker 2: It was really probably will be uncomfortable now.
Speaker 3: But I think the biggest thing is you're going to
Speaker 3: go and be the bigger person. And you know, if
Speaker 3: it were me, I would go have a note prepared.
Speaker 2: And give it to your daughter. Just pass it to.
Speaker 3: Her and then good to see you guys, and keep
Speaker 3: it moving. You don't have to do the group photos.
Speaker 3: You don't have to make not you know anymore. And
Speaker 3: I think that you can tell the same.
Speaker 2: Thing to your kids.
Speaker 1: And I want Sophia to acknowledge him. Yeah, I want
Speaker 1: him to be able to take a picture because I'll
Speaker 1: tell you when I went to Sydney's graduation, I felt
Speaker 1: so out of place. I had Ryan go with me.
Speaker 1: I was only able to get two tickets. I had
Speaker 1: Ryan go with me, and it was, you know, like
Speaker 1: I knew she didn't want me there, but I was there,
Speaker 1: and I wouldn't have missed it for the world. I
Speaker 1: would have, you know, found a way to get there
Speaker 1: if I didn't have a ticket. But I know what
Speaker 1: it feels like, and I don't necessarily want him to
Speaker 1: have to feel that way, but it is what it is,
Speaker 1: you know, when you tear a family apart like he did,
Speaker 1: this is this is what happens.
Speaker 3: No, but I think the all that has to be
Speaker 3: pushed aside for a second, because at one point in time,
Speaker 3: Sophia is gonna look back and go, we're both my
Speaker 3: parents present and one of the biggest things in my life.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know we've talked. Syphia's got anxiety, so
Speaker 1: it's like she's worried about what's gonna happen. Is there
Speaker 1: going to be a scene? Like I there would be
Speaker 1: no scene from me whatsoever.
Speaker 2: And from them either. They won't.
Speaker 3: I know, anxiety makes us go through all the different scenarios.
Speaker 2: But what's gonna happen? Is this going to go?
Speaker 3: You're gonna go, it's gonna feel a little cold, it's
Speaker 3: going to feel like there's a little bit of tension,
Speaker 3: and then you're gonna be okay. Because even my parents,
Speaker 3: like I forgot what.
Speaker 2: The event was. I think it was my sister's wedding.
Speaker 3: They hadn't seen each other in a very very long time,
Speaker 3: and we had so much anxiety leading up to it.
Speaker 2: And it was fine.
Speaker 3: Was it great? Was it something to write about? Absolutely not?
Speaker 3: But it was fine.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean I had that experience with my parents for
Speaker 1: they didn't speak for ten years and then they were
Speaker 1: together and now they can be together forever. But this
Speaker 1: is such a unique situation where you know, Sydney doesn't
Speaker 1: talk to me, She's talked to my mom, she talked
Speaker 1: to my dad, she doesn't talk to her barely talk
Speaker 1: to her siblings, doesn't talk to her aunt, uncle's nobody
Speaker 1: on my side of the family. And then there's Spencer
Speaker 1: and Sophia who are very close with my family and
Speaker 1: don't talk to their dad. So it's like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I just I hate it so much and I want
Speaker 1: it fixed so bad, but there's nothing else I can do.
Speaker 3: Well, I think a lot of people are going to
Speaker 3: you relate to what you're saying, because I think this
Speaker 3: happens so much. I mean, everybody is on Instagram and
Speaker 3: in this in this faux world that everyone lives and
Speaker 3: you always see the positive stuff, but there are so
Speaker 3: many families struggling, especially around this time and even summer
Speaker 3: schedules with the kids and going back and forth, like
Speaker 3: there's so much. So if there's anything that you guys
Speaker 3: have questions for me or Tam are on in regards
Speaker 3: to co parenting stuff, make sure that you guys leave
Speaker 3: in the comments and correct you.
Speaker 2: But we love you.
Speaker 3: We love you, Tam, and I know it's going to
Speaker 3: be hard, but at the end of the day, you're
Speaker 3: going to be a bigger person and you've got Eddie.
Speaker 1: And yeah, no, I will always be the bigger person.
Speaker 1: But the the amount of anxiety I have, not only
Speaker 1: for my kids, but for myself. You know, I suppress
Speaker 1: all those memories about Sydney.
Speaker 2: Doesn't mean that it's over.
Speaker 3: Like Tamra, It does not mean that it's It doesn't
Speaker 3: mean I'm telling you I did not talk to my
Speaker 3: dad for years.
Speaker 1: I know there'll be a day, but it's and now he's.
Speaker 2: One of the closest people in my life.
Speaker 3: I would call him and talk to him about anything
Speaker 3: and vice versa. I know, and it doesn't mean that
Speaker 3: I love him any less. Like there there, You know
Speaker 3: when you grow up with people that are divorced and
Speaker 3: there's just different sides to everything, and then you form
Speaker 3: your own.
Speaker 2: Protect your own protection.
Speaker 3: Like for me, I just went into a shell and said, like,
Speaker 3: I can only handle this much information. So if I
Speaker 3: just block everything out that doesn't suit me, yeah, then
Speaker 3: I'll be okay. But at the end of the day, Yeah,
Speaker 3: And at the end of the day, we have to
Speaker 3: process our feelings and then when you do, you realize
Speaker 3: that there is love there, and there is that you
Speaker 3: know it's going to come back around.
Speaker 2: But all you can do is just stay vigilant.
Speaker 3: Like that's why I would go with a note for
Speaker 3: her and just say I'm so sorry.
Speaker 2: And not no excuse, nothing, just I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I do that, like, I don't know, once a month
Speaker 1: I never get a response back.
Speaker 3: But a text and a handwritten note are different. Yeah,
Speaker 3: maybe a picture of you guys.
Speaker 1: I even do that. Yeah it's hard, but anyways, But
Speaker 1: on the flip side, my last child is graduating high school,
Speaker 1: so excited for that, and you're.
Speaker 2: Learning how to apply to college.
Speaker 1: I know, God, I know, I was texting you yesterday.
Speaker 1: Why can't I figure out how to beause she's just
Speaker 1: going to go to community college for two years and
Speaker 1: then transfer. I couldn't I have an appointment today at
Speaker 1: four o'clock at the college to take her and try
Speaker 1: to figure out what classes well general, what if I
Speaker 1: put her in the wrong math class? Know? And what
Speaker 1: if it's too hard? And then so well.
Speaker 3: I spent my time last night watching the Bama Rush
Speaker 3: documentary on HBO Max, which is all about Alabama sorority
Speaker 3: houses and rushing.
Speaker 1: Oh a fright.
Speaker 3: Yes, there's something called the Machine that oversees all the
Speaker 3: sororities and the fraternities, and there is somebody called Rush Consultants.
Speaker 3: They consult you how to get into the top tier houses.
Speaker 3: It is unbelievable, So go down that rabbit hole.
Speaker 2: Folks, you're welcome. But Tam, please keep us posted and
Speaker 2: I love you.
Speaker 3: And next week we have some fun guests and we'll
Speaker 3: be doing all the things