Speaker 1: Wait wait like a white guy.
Speaker 2: You guys really are like the hip hop early morning
Speaker 2: late night talk to yall.
Speaker 3: Heatless Club is the most powerful popular urban radio show, like.
Speaker 4: From the Black Mothership in New York City.
Speaker 1: It's DJ ymb and Charlamagne to God. It's different.
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, Like, y'all know what y'all
Speaker 5: talking about. Thanks you y'all be Black five.
Speaker 6: I love y'all.
Speaker 7: Collectively known as Breakfast Club.
Speaker 3: So I'm always nervous when I do the Breakfast Club
Speaker 3: because sometimes you say stuff and it's just gonna get you.
Speaker 7: Everybody.
Speaker 4: It's from New Day.
Speaker 1: Is it your time to get it off your chest?
Speaker 4: Way yup, whether you're mad or.
Speaker 7: Black, time to get up and get something.
Speaker 8: Call up now eight hundred and five eighty five one
Speaker 8: O five one. We want to hear from you on
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Speaker 8: Natasha from North Carolina, from.
Speaker 7: North Carolina corner for you. Yes, ma'am, what you have
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Speaker 9: North Carolina You know what.
Speaker 8: We were supposed to actually bring it to North Carolina
Speaker 8: this year, but said South Carolina, We're gonna do it now.
Speaker 8: It's gonna do North or South. We're gonna actually do
Speaker 8: it with North, and we had the baby's cars.
Speaker 4: It was gonna be dope.
Speaker 8: But you know, actually what happened is the date we
Speaker 8: were gonna do it, uh p r E, which is
Speaker 8: Doll's company, reached out and wanted to do something special
Speaker 8: for Dolf, So we did it in Memphis.
Speaker 7: But we're definitely gonna hit up either South or North Carolina.
Speaker 7: I would love to.
Speaker 8: I mean, it's it's such a called culture. I think
Speaker 8: it would be great for the city.
Speaker 7: So we're working on it.
Speaker 10: Mama, can I my friends a couple.
Speaker 4: Of shout outs.
Speaker 9: I'm gonna get my friends to shout out thank you
Speaker 9: to seeing me positive vibes every morning.
Speaker 7: I love you, girl, you have a good morning about Hello?
Speaker 4: Who's this? Hello? Hey?
Speaker 11: What up?
Speaker 7: Get it off your chest?
Speaker 9: Bro, that's gonna say I love you, Love you guys,
Speaker 9: and that's I love you.
Speaker 1: Oh O, g Rob call this morning. Oh You're gonna
Speaker 1: need They're gonna want to be you.
Speaker 4: Hell if he goes good.
Speaker 11: Morning, listen being again from Detroit?
Speaker 4: What up though? Being?
Speaker 12: What up?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 11: Right? Hey, I just want to take a shout out
Speaker 11: to all the silver dads out here making to do
Speaker 11: what to do? Never dance for us.
Speaker 4: Man, ain't no such thing as no single dad.
Speaker 11: Man, you crazy man, I'm out here making it do
Speaker 11: what to do?
Speaker 4: Man, praise for something? Women? Do you dead? Get your
Speaker 4: ass off this phone.
Speaker 7: Damn it.
Speaker 9: Man, Man, I got two things back to back.
Speaker 11: I'm dealing with Friday, my boy turns four, and Shaturday.
Speaker 9: My other ones turns fourteen.
Speaker 11: I'm doing it by myself.
Speaker 13: What to do?
Speaker 4: What a mama went?
Speaker 11: Oh, they are talking about they don't get enough money
Speaker 11: on that day. So I'm okay.
Speaker 14: All right, congratulations on being a regular dad and great, great,
Speaker 14: great news.
Speaker 4: Man, you don't get no congratulations.
Speaker 11: Because everybody ain't. Though everybody ain't.
Speaker 1: You're right, you can't give nobody no propers with the
Speaker 1: supposed No, I don't give me.
Speaker 4: You perhaps with what you're supposed to do.
Speaker 14: You spost, take care of your kids, get your trump.
Speaker 14: Talking about single dance. That was the most he got
Speaker 14: to different every week is hell?
Speaker 4: That made me. Man, tell me I'm a single dad.
Speaker 4: Get a girlfriend? Then hello, who's this just there?
Speaker 3: Hey?
Speaker 4: Darren?
Speaker 7: Get up your chest there, Hey.
Speaker 15: Man, I gotta get this off my chest for the
Speaker 15: last two years. I've been looking at Charlotte kyn and
Speaker 15: you let me you.
Speaker 11: But Charlotte Mayne is like he's talking Trump.
Speaker 9: But he's acting like he's not on the radio. Wow,
Speaker 9: he's pro Trump.
Speaker 15: Because you're always saying what Biday's gonna do, what Biden
Speaker 15: ain't did?
Speaker 9: But when Trump was president, what.
Speaker 11: Did he do for black people?
Speaker 1: Not a damn thing?
Speaker 14: What did?
Speaker 16: What is he ain't fit.
Speaker 4: Keep? Not?
Speaker 2: Biden's in office? Though, my brother, like, you gotta you
Speaker 2: gotta criticuee.
Speaker 7: If you have a problem somebody, you gotta be able
Speaker 7: to say when you say it, be like, oh.
Speaker 2: You get why can't we critique the people in shaw Jean?
Speaker 2: How come if we could take the people in charge,
Speaker 2: you either pro one or or against one. I don't
Speaker 2: understand that logic, man.
Speaker 9: But Trump was president. Trump didn't do nothing but black people.
Speaker 9: Y'all don't never say that. Y'all would say what finding
Speaker 9: ain't doing? And y'all no fighter tries to do it.
Speaker 9: Republicans stopped it.
Speaker 4: Everything.
Speaker 1: Don't do something black?
Speaker 4: Do you know? Do you know?
Speaker 2: Do you know that there's nobody who's gotten donkey of
Speaker 2: today more in the history of Donkey of to Day
Speaker 2: than Donald Trump.
Speaker 1: You know, Donald Trump got his own Donkey to Day intro?
Speaker 4: Are he quiet? He gonna be quiet?
Speaker 7: Now he's on to get it off your chest eight
Speaker 7: hundred and five eight five one o five one. If
Speaker 7: you need to vent, hit it up now.
Speaker 8: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Wait,
Speaker 8: this is your time to get it off your chest.
Speaker 8: Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. We
Speaker 8: want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 11: Hello, this d J shot Man the Guard one morning og.
Speaker 4: He got a challenge in here for you.
Speaker 13: Is in here?
Speaker 17: Now?
Speaker 7: Call those Miller naive you know. O. G Robbins our
Speaker 7: resident New York rapper.
Speaker 1: He calls every Friday.
Speaker 8: He always gives us some boss charlamage, and myself we
Speaker 8: usually battle him.
Speaker 7: You know what I mean?
Speaker 2: But but but you and Chico Bean have of y'all. Y'all, y'all,
Speaker 2: y'all bought the old street flow back to the new school.
Speaker 4: Okay, O, g Rob go on challenge, let's go O
Speaker 4: g okay check it out.
Speaker 9: I said, yeah, they lack and postal enough in the
Speaker 9: thing spot. Let me show them how. That's more billy
Speaker 9: feeling like Jack pop making moons, embracing the coll tree.
Speaker 9: Let the lemperd speak to you all week, stuck on
Speaker 9: with peat stalk on each omper speed. I keep it
Speaker 9: lower from the metals product my foundation, no time wasting
Speaker 9: and body bags of crean nation. I'm holding court will
Speaker 9: spelled from my own g I respect the drunk, but
Speaker 9: whip poppers where supposed to be locked in nate steaming
Speaker 9: without my back ends the too tough for meessa and
Speaker 9: so white or whites of the law suit test and
Speaker 9: wait better. They bossed the low average as a nerve
Speaker 9: pretender how to pa brass Just Clifton scramble and I'm
Speaker 9: bossed handed, never beat defender.
Speaker 11: Still I'm gonna drop them.
Speaker 9: They return to center. The cool winners turn the hot summers,
Speaker 9: bringing them poor bearers.
Speaker 4: And it's gonna be easy to be easy.
Speaker 1: Look a little nerve.
Speaker 14: No man man to that man, Well, yes, this turn,
Speaker 14: it's gonna sell yourself down.
Speaker 4: South, brother, but I always pack heat.
Speaker 14: He's here, And you never seen like a clean New
Speaker 14: York street, creep in and out like the rats used
Speaker 14: to run up on your block, and nobody said they
Speaker 14: knew you.
Speaker 7: Nobody O g Rob you ain't really no o G.
Speaker 18: You just an old dude acting like the old mean
Speaker 18: mom with DJ nything because all.
Speaker 14: The DJ's envy when he hanging with Charlamagne. Used to
Speaker 14: be three people on the show, the good one and
Speaker 14: let to do They things.
Speaker 17: Wrong.
Speaker 1: Hang up the phone right now, hang on.
Speaker 9: Wrong now Now, I ain't going out.
Speaker 12: Like don.
Speaker 1: He dropped the mic and walked off. Oh g Rosie,
Speaker 1: give him some more.
Speaker 9: He dropped the bike. If you can't, you can't drop
Speaker 9: the bike over in one round, brother.
Speaker 1: You want another round?
Speaker 7: Loads going out like that?
Speaker 9: Listen they said, they said, stay strapped for Liverpool warfare.
Speaker 9: The underplayer prepared me with some steps. What happened from here?
Speaker 11: Yeah?
Speaker 9: That whos a few cauntterfits penny pinchers looking like damads,
Speaker 9: Lord Thomas keeping through your we're slow, the slow timeless?
Speaker 12: What you think?
Speaker 9: This is a couple of words just being put together
Speaker 9: and some halfways bumble schemes, pulling under pressure whatever that's
Speaker 9: not out. I'm not there s face shout, so your
Speaker 9: block and keep them box in my clent pain running
Speaker 9: marking and budget smiling. Now a line, I'm bouncing and
Speaker 9: swerving like whipstolen this just take your place here in
Speaker 9: the forecast. Can't make it out but that he was
Speaker 9: moving fast. Take the right way out left or little
Speaker 9: hot saw. She'll know me more for five mics and
Speaker 9: the chore call me throw back. Shorty's been at Eve.
Speaker 9: But y'all, y'all don't like the nickel bag from Marci
Speaker 9: Your Deep, the par metal.
Speaker 12: Your You asked what.
Speaker 14: You asked for it, I said, don't ask me no
Speaker 14: questions because I'm a problem solved. We pull up with
Speaker 14: two Chinese girls and two revolved real cool dude wrapping
Speaker 14: the at l got a whole lot of stuff in
Speaker 14: my pocket, most of is for sale.
Speaker 4: Don't ask me nothing because I don't like questions.
Speaker 14: You gotta write down all your comments and then text
Speaker 14: me to suggestion.
Speaker 4: When you see me out rolling. Just know that the
Speaker 4: block is probably hot.
Speaker 14: I don't know nothing about who got beat up, and
Speaker 14: I don't know nothing about them folks that got no
Speaker 14: snitching exactly the breakfast club, and we ain't even got
Speaker 14: no breakfast. We used to rock heavy ice, big chains,
Speaker 14: and I ain't even gotten no neck.
Speaker 1: Bars.
Speaker 7: All right, there, you know, love.
Speaker 1: Talking.
Speaker 4: One of the clues bombs.
Speaker 8: Rock car Little Miller red all right, Jesus, I shout
Speaker 8: you rock, get your chest eight hundrenk five eight five
Speaker 8: one oh five one.
Speaker 7: If you need to vent hit us up now. It's
Speaker 7: the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 4: Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 7: This boyfriend a long time boyfriend.
Speaker 3: I mean, I got like a couple of kids now,
Speaker 3: you know, Like why y'all want to know about my
Speaker 3: couchie sre be.
Speaker 13: I know.
Speaker 7: Where the name came from. If she said came from,
Speaker 7: I can tell her. You sayd where charlomagn came from?
Speaker 2: You can tell her if I said Charlamagne with the
Speaker 2: good Bunkie's Bookyunky is.
Speaker 1: Don't talk here line and you say bunky chalking like yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: And I love that for you see nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 3: I just feel like if we would get to my name,
Speaker 3: you know, I.
Speaker 1: Just yeah, I'm a fruitful queen.
Speaker 5: Since we still got this voice.
Speaker 3: Let me ask you this. Not too long ago, you
Speaker 3: said you didn't want you did not want to be
Speaker 3: gettle no more. You wanted to be you know, classier.
Speaker 3: I guess you know where did that stem from? Did
Speaker 3: that stem from what commentators or you know, spectators Definitely
Speaker 3: didn't spend from like commentators or spectators or the popcorn crew, gotcha. Honestly,
Speaker 3: I'm just growing as a woman. I am growing, you know,
Speaker 3: and I feel like it's just because I came from
Speaker 3: the hood. Don't mean that I forever I have to be,
Speaker 3: you know, ghetto. Ain't nothing wrong with being ghetto. You know,
Speaker 3: I thought i'd seen an interview.
Speaker 7: You said you want to you would fart.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I will far off.
Speaker 5: I said that. Yes, you think that's ghetto.
Speaker 2: I used to say that all the time back in
Speaker 2: the day. That was one thing I used to say.
Speaker 2: You know, you sucker for out of girls, and that's.
Speaker 5: Why I don't think that's a sign of love and respect. Yeah,
Speaker 5: I don't think that's good. I just think that's disgusting. Yeah,
Speaker 5: it's just neat.
Speaker 3: I never said I didn't want to be nastynmore so
Speaker 3: I don't. But if a man was to sucker for
Speaker 3: off my ass.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna let them.
Speaker 7: I love that.
Speaker 5: Let's get it now.
Speaker 3: You also said since he bought it up, and only
Speaker 3: him he bought it up, that she would like to
Speaker 3: be on as well.
Speaker 7: Shout at first shot up.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the only comparison that that she in the
Speaker 3: company because earlier somebody had said that they like to
Speaker 3: be p I'm saying I thought it wasn't there said
Speaker 3: and I was showing love, I said, because she is
Speaker 3: in supportation, yea supportation. At the end of the day,
Speaker 3: I don't know what I might do for somebody that
Speaker 3: I love. Yeah, Like I'm a very submissive queen. That's
Speaker 3: why I like to talk to somebody with leadership skills,
Speaker 3: because if I talk to a drug dealer, he probably
Speaker 3: had me in the hood, and I don't want to
Speaker 3: do that.
Speaker 1: Have a fantastic leadership skills. Many I love drug everything.
Speaker 2: I think there's not a drug dealer out here that
Speaker 2: couldn't been especially if you was a King fin you
Speaker 2: could have been the CEO be Fortune five hundred kings.
Speaker 5: And my daddy was a drug dealer, So that's okay.
Speaker 5: But at the end of the day, I feel like, yeah, yea,
Speaker 5: let me.
Speaker 1: Just happening. Are you at least on only fans? Are
Speaker 1: you getting paid for this?
Speaker 6: You know?
Speaker 3: You know how much I made from only fans bringing
Speaker 3: it up a million, more than a million pay But
Speaker 3: we're not even just talking about only fans. We're talking
Speaker 3: about posters that don't want viral. I'm blessed with one
Speaker 3: of them good looking cats. I don't know what you
Speaker 3: y'all see, but yeah, like I'm really one of them girls.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know you.
Speaker 1: Oh, you don't know what's going on?
Speaker 3: What's going yeah, because I'm I'm something irregular that you
Speaker 3: ain't never seen before.
Speaker 15: So I'm gonna get you.
Speaker 2: Used to it.
Speaker 3: Hence the name Silki with the good koochie. It ain't
Speaker 3: good for nothing. Listen, you get paid off. And that's
Speaker 3: what happened.
Speaker 5: Brings me to my next question. Let's go, are you
Speaker 5: still on only fans?
Speaker 3: Literally, I'm not on only fans right now, focused on
Speaker 3: my career and that's as an artist and as a
Speaker 3: TV star.
Speaker 7: Absolutely watch a couple of weeks ago, people were mad
Speaker 7: at you a couple of weeks ago.
Speaker 3: Right now, you want to say, that's okad.
Speaker 5: Right with my hair?
Speaker 7: He come on the show.
Speaker 13: What he did?
Speaker 1: He said, socks? He did now know you brow I
Speaker 1: thought you said I did think. I thought you said,
Speaker 1: y'all wanted to do it?
Speaker 5: He said, he said that, He said you want to
Speaker 5: do it, and that's.
Speaker 3: My girlsn't want to do So basically, what you want
Speaker 3: to say is no, I'm not the one that said
Speaker 3: I wanted to. It was like, honestly didn't want along
Speaker 3: with the flow and I didn't want to be a party.
Speaker 5: Okay, so one thing about it.
Speaker 3: We on South Beach, me and Miami you like to
Speaker 3: turn up, you know, and we're all outside, were working
Speaker 3: on the ground and I don't know who the hell
Speaker 3: said grabbed the hair and started I just like I
Speaker 3: have with it.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: First, no, at first, I was like, I'm not doing that.
Speaker 3: He's like, that's cool for others. That might be whatever
Speaker 3: they think, but we that's a missive play. I was
Speaker 3: actually having a good time miss mister play. Like, if
Speaker 3: my man want to walk me like a dog, I'm
Speaker 3: gonnalet him walk me like a dog. I'm gonna walk
Speaker 3: him like a dog. I'm gonna whip him with my wig.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna put candle wax on his ass. I'm gonna
Speaker 3: beat his ass, I'm gonna stretch his ass.
Speaker 7: Mama had a crime with it, and she said something.
Speaker 5: You yeah, my mama, Yeah yeah, but Lite Mama had
Speaker 5: a problem with him too.
Speaker 1: I did not make her cry.
Speaker 7: Something boat face.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 2: Verbadi said, you're the queen of the young struggle face.
Speaker 2: But that was it was the jokes between her and me,
Speaker 2: going back and forth. She actually cried when our former
Speaker 2: co host, ANGELIEE brought up her mother who had just
Speaker 2: passed away.
Speaker 1: That's what actually made her cry. And little Mama said
Speaker 1: that herself.
Speaker 3: Okay, no, no, all right, no, you don't think that
Speaker 3: the fact the struggle young struggle face a little bit
Speaker 3: even after her mom and looking at the loss and
Speaker 3: looking at the we don't you don't think that you
Speaker 3: could have chilled.
Speaker 5: And refrained from that comment.
Speaker 1: I apologize little Mama, wherever you are off. You see this,
Speaker 1: Remember I don't really okay because I remember people bring
Speaker 1: it up all the time. I can't forget it.
Speaker 11: I just.
Speaker 5: Accountability.
Speaker 1: You're right, and you know she did no, but she
Speaker 1: had rope.
Speaker 3: She has sent me like some universe meditation things. And
Speaker 3: I know she didn't mean she didn't mean anything wrong.
Speaker 7: She sent you a scripture.
Speaker 3: She was trying to give me some healing. Yeah, I
Speaker 3: ain't gonna I'm gonna lie. I do need a little
Speaker 3: bit of healing.
Speaker 1: But friend, it could have been personal.
Speaker 5: It could have been could have been more personal.
Speaker 3: Because it was like a little. Yeah, like what you said,
Speaker 3: you ain't saying about me farting these mouths.
Speaker 5: Yeah, because she probably did that.
Speaker 10: She did it.
Speaker 3: I ain't gonna let me clear this up. I ain't
Speaker 3: gonna lie. I feel like me knowing people. I feel
Speaker 3: like she's a genuine girl. She just hasn't time and
Speaker 3: she didn't need to because I just if I could request,
Speaker 3: I just heard d M me and we could have
Speaker 3: talked to chat.
Speaker 8: Yeah, we got more with Suki Hannah when we come back,
Speaker 8: don't move.
Speaker 7: It's the breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 8: Saying you got just hilarious we are the Breakfast Club
Speaker 8: was still kicking it with Suki Hannah.
Speaker 7: Now you got you got three kids?
Speaker 11: Right?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 7: Is that the reason you said?
Speaker 8: You know what, I'm gonna get away from only fans
Speaker 8: because you have kids to go to school and all
Speaker 8: the kids to be like, I know, your mama's you
Speaker 8: know Super, you know like.
Speaker 3: First of all, yeah, they don't want Super with the
Speaker 3: good coochie because I pop out them kids.
Speaker 5: My kids know I'm school with the good Kucci.
Speaker 1: What the hell I was gonna say? Because because they
Speaker 1: know I just you you got.
Speaker 3: Let me tell you something I love being pregnant. I
Speaker 3: love having baby's and I love raising babies, and I
Speaker 3: breastfeed all of them. I love children like I love
Speaker 3: my children so much, and they're gonna have prominent futures whatever.
Speaker 3: They want to be boxers, they want to be a
Speaker 3: sacrifice and thing I'm gonna do. I'm gonna do what
Speaker 3: I gotta do to make them that. But I feel
Speaker 3: like I'm gonna what it takes for me to get
Speaker 3: that cooing to make sure they straight. I'm gonna do
Speaker 3: what I gotta do. Nobody can't judge.
Speaker 7: Me to check a mom in school for saying something.
Speaker 5: My kids don't go to no public school.
Speaker 3: I pay for teachers, I pay for Yeah, I do
Speaker 3: stuff like that because you know, my kids are My
Speaker 3: kids are special. Like I'm not doing that. Everybody has
Speaker 3: their own reason what they do. But I'm a breastfeed
Speaker 3: of mom and I and I and I love my children.
Speaker 3: I have a good support system of good family and
Speaker 3: like I have a career and I take care of
Speaker 3: my kids are very good. I love them like I
Speaker 3: would do anything for them now as far as my
Speaker 3: only things, everybody don't pops.
Speaker 5: Yeah, did y'all know what y'all.
Speaker 3: Moms don did did y'all more telling y'all, y'all, mom
Speaker 3: had them bills pay and I ain't never had a
Speaker 3: wearing a chicken cooking dressing Martin Luther King And man,
Speaker 3: what would they call it again when it was Jeszabel Shindy, Yeah,
Speaker 3: Jezabel out there.
Speaker 5: One think about us. One thing about us.
Speaker 3: We're gonna pop some cat cat ain't free, and when
Speaker 3: the kids need some food, we're gonna do what we
Speaker 3: gotta do.
Speaker 5: That's one thing about black women.
Speaker 3: We're gonna make.
Speaker 5: It's something out of nothing.
Speaker 1: I don't get.
Speaker 3: We got five cents one dollar. We're gonna make some
Speaker 3: shake on that get old.
Speaker 7: And she said, man, I gotta go pop some coochie for.
Speaker 1: Going to get my babe.
Speaker 7: Ain't gonna do that.
Speaker 1: My baby's gonna be.
Speaker 3: My baby's rich right now, right now, right now is
Speaker 3: a little girl. She don't have to work any day
Speaker 3: of her life. She don't have to understand the struggle.
Speaker 3: She don't have to understand what the hood is like.
Speaker 5: And that's and that's what I did. My baby will
Speaker 5: never have to be in no hood and will ever
Speaker 5: have to.
Speaker 3: Work for nobody I'm gonna take care of her for
Speaker 3: the rest of my life, and when I die, she's
Speaker 3: gonna be good.
Speaker 5: So that's type of woman that I am.
Speaker 3: Maybe ain't gonna have to pop no ca, I'm gonna
Speaker 3: pop the cat. I'm a pop the cat. Okay, your
Speaker 3: baby hair, you get it in it.
Speaker 5: Smooth today you got the console popping in.
Speaker 3: Let me stop the upset. Speaking of the gusbands their
Speaker 3: gay husbands, Oh my go because I want to ask her,
Speaker 3: do you consider yourself getting I don't kiss, bisexual whatever.
Speaker 7: Don't do I have to have a name?
Speaker 1: No, you don't.
Speaker 3: I don't want one. Because I seen like the interview
Speaker 3: that I did, and I was just you know, trying
Speaker 3: to explain. He kept asking me all these different courts, Jason,
Speaker 3: he kept asking me all these different Oh yeah, shout
Speaker 3: out to Jason Lee. But he asked me all these
Speaker 3: different questions about what my sexuality is. And I was
Speaker 3: kind of talking in circles and I see the comments
Speaker 3: and they were like, shout out to the people that's
Speaker 3: real gay and going through the real things, and it
Speaker 3: was just like, you know, they're so judgmental in the comments.
Speaker 3: And that's why a lot of these men are d
Speaker 3: l and that's all why a lot of these people
Speaker 3: don't want to come.
Speaker 5: Out the closet.
Speaker 3: I don't consider myself gay, I don't consider myself straight.
Speaker 5: I love people.
Speaker 3: I feel like, well, maybe I didn't have to go
Speaker 3: on a day or being a relationship.
Speaker 5: I don't want to say that. I think it's wrong.
Speaker 7: So let's talk about your music.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I got that single Cataigo with AfroB
Speaker 3: and I ain't gonna lie him to New York for promo,
Speaker 3: run and the city, all the DJ's, DJ Clue and everybody.
Speaker 3: They been showing me a lot of love, and they're
Speaker 3: telling me that I got to hit and I believe
Speaker 3: in them.
Speaker 1: He's a liar, he said that to everybody.
Speaker 5: Youse a mother.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but let me tell you something.
Speaker 1: I promise you.
Speaker 3: I promise you because I know all of that too
Speaker 3: piece that you got on. You gotta thungb up your
Speaker 3: ass and your booty whole shape. So I'm gonna let
Speaker 3: you be great. But we're gonna get back in here.
Speaker 3: And because I got at and I'm talking about eating
Speaker 3: an ass, but I know that like his ass, say
Speaker 3: as Charlemagne.
Speaker 5: Campaign Champagne, you go up and respect for one.
Speaker 3: You see one, I'm gonna give over DJ Crew line God,
Speaker 3: tell the truth.
Speaker 5: And the money your here, eyebrows on fleet.
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Speaker 18: It's topic time. Call eight hundred five five one to
Speaker 18: join into the discussion with the Breakfast Club. Morning everybody
Speaker 18: you see j n V Charlemagne the God. We are
Speaker 18: the Breakfast Club. Now if you're just joining us, we're
Speaker 18: talking about spinning the block now. This conversation comes from
Speaker 18: Nellie and Ashanti and also Mandy and I'll stop at
Speaker 18: this point.
Speaker 1: No, I ain't going back. Did it, done it done?
Speaker 1: Not having anyting you today? He was like, she knowing
Speaker 1: that's the killa to day, it's single to Mayo, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna hit her up. No, she might make some poor,
Speaker 1: some horrible decisions.
Speaker 5: The number is blocked.
Speaker 17: Shout out to the ladies who changed the name in
Speaker 17: the phone. Remove the emojis, but do not answer.
Speaker 7: You can't have emojis by your name.
Speaker 17: If we done broke up this many times, your name
Speaker 17: is now, do not answer.
Speaker 5: But he's also.
Speaker 17: Blocked, so book, So the question is that is the question, y'all?
Speaker 5: I mean, I'm here's one thing you're just said.
Speaker 1: Ten years, yes, ten years, do not answer. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: it's in red and one is in white. Yes, because
Speaker 1: his name was something else. It looks like it wouldn't
Speaker 1: go through if you're blocked them though, right.
Speaker 7: No it doesn't. That's what's up, bro. What's your name?
Speaker 12: Yo?
Speaker 4: Yo?
Speaker 8: My name is Richard from the Hey Richie? Talking about
Speaker 8: spending the block? Is it a good idea? If you
Speaker 8: spend the block after a long time, has it worked
Speaker 8: for you or it doesn't work? Let's talk about it.
Speaker 4: Man.
Speaker 12: I really can't get it too too much. But I
Speaker 12: got I got. I got this two females whom I'm
Speaker 12: dealing with, and every time one of them whatever trying
Speaker 12: to hit me, I spend the block. But when I
Speaker 12: hit them, they spend the block too. So okay, so
Speaker 12: I get I got. I guess I don't. I guess
Speaker 12: it's the bad thing.
Speaker 3: Were you in relationships with either of these women, or
Speaker 3: is this just a sexual spin the block?
Speaker 1: I was in the relationship with both of them, spending.
Speaker 17: The block look like? Is it like a booty call?
Speaker 5: Is it like a little date night?
Speaker 1: What's it looks like for you?
Speaker 14: When they call?
Speaker 12: Whenever they hit me, I spend the block.
Speaker 7: Whenever they hit he said, they hit me, I hit
Speaker 7: it all right, thank you, sir?
Speaker 12: Hello, who's this Mandy?
Speaker 7: Hey, Mandy, good morning. How you feeling.
Speaker 10: I'm good?
Speaker 1: How are you good?
Speaker 7: You spun a block on somebody after a long period.
Speaker 10: Of time, Actually, he spun the block on me. We
Speaker 10: dated for like a year, we broke up, he got married,
Speaker 10: had a kid. Then they he broke up with her
Speaker 10: to be with me. He wanted to be with me
Speaker 10: the whole time. I still got Facebook messages. So when
Speaker 10: he was married, messages.
Speaker 17: Girl, I feel like you called so she can hear
Speaker 17: your voice.
Speaker 7: Damn, Oh, she's very well good. Oh wait are you
Speaker 7: with are you with?
Speaker 1: Are you with him now?
Speaker 5: And are they legally divorced?
Speaker 10: They are legally divorced. We've been together for next week
Speaker 10: to be nine years.
Speaker 2: Do you you've been a whole mistress for a long
Speaker 2: time I was about to say, Charlemagne brought up with Charlomagne.
Speaker 3: Charlamagne brought up for saying earlier. I want to know
Speaker 3: if you believe in the phrase you get him, you
Speaker 3: lose them.
Speaker 17: How you get them?
Speaker 4: Do you think that?
Speaker 10: But I didn't get him anyway.
Speaker 9: He just didn't want to be where.
Speaker 7: It's a long story.
Speaker 11: We'll even had that kind of time. She's a horrible person.
Speaker 10: But and I know that for a fact. We currently
Speaker 10: have his daughter.
Speaker 19: They have together.
Speaker 12: She lives with us.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you want to take care damn. So why
Speaker 1: you say you were never a mistress door because she
Speaker 1: was with him?
Speaker 9: I never they were not together.
Speaker 7: She said that she got back when they broke up.
Speaker 10: I don't want nobody else's man. He wanted to be
Speaker 10: with me, And I got messages where I'm telling him like,
Speaker 10: don't find your wife, like where is your wife?
Speaker 13: So he.
Speaker 1: You were plying though, So yeah, so he left his
Speaker 1: wife for you? Yeah, so y'all never messed around when
Speaker 1: he was married. Never. You're just sitting there lying on
Speaker 1: God on a good Friday for Charlamagne.
Speaker 10: Don't do that. I actually like you.
Speaker 7: Well, thank you, mama, thank you for sharing your story.
Speaker 4: Thank you.
Speaker 7: Now, what's the mall of the Story's.
Speaker 2: The more of the story, Mandy, I said, if you
Speaker 2: love something, let it go. If it comes back to
Speaker 2: you as yours, you let it go, it might not
Speaker 2: never come back.
Speaker 7: Don't love that you don't miss you?
Speaker 1: Oh that was for you, will not miss you.
Speaker 4: Yo.
Speaker 20: So if I'm saying this with a little bit of projection,
Speaker 20: because there's a lot of times that I've had to
Speaker 20: let someone go to really see if it's worth it
Speaker 20: and if they come back great, If not, then that
Speaker 20: wasn't the person for me.
Speaker 4: Y'all.
Speaker 1: Don't believe in breaking up the making up?
Speaker 7: Though No Many.
Speaker 1: Angelo wrote that beautiful song for No Many every time,
Speaker 1: every nine ten of them.
Speaker 20: Was it better every time?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah it was good.
Speaker 2: Break break up the make up in now by mephing
Speaker 2: Man Indiangelo, probably not.
Speaker 4: I'm sure we don't have that.
Speaker 7: We got all you need, we got all you need.
Speaker 1: It ain't the same. That's that's that's what people who
Speaker 1: never broke up. I do love something.
Speaker 7: I want to get that. Oh my god, I want
Speaker 7: to just role play a breakup. Shut because the breakfast club, Good.
Speaker 4: Morning, the breakfast club.
Speaker 8: J N v Charlamagne the guy we are to Breakfast Club.
Speaker 8: We got our co host with us this morning. It
Speaker 8: was Jess hilarious.
Speaker 7: That's right. And we have our special guests first time here. Yeah,
Speaker 7: thank you for joining us. Laverne Cox welcome.
Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 6: I am so excited to be here. In all of
Speaker 6: my multitudes, We're happy to have you here.
Speaker 7: Ben.
Speaker 6: That's what Jason said that we reached out last year
Speaker 6: when my barbie came out. I was like, it would
Speaker 6: be great to come onto the Breakfast Club and talk
Speaker 6: about the Laverne Cotts barbie. I'm the first trans person
Speaker 6: to have a barbie, and I think this audience is
Speaker 6: really valuable. I was, I was talking to Jason about this,
Speaker 6: and I think there's I don't like to say there's
Speaker 6: white media and black media, but like a lot of
Speaker 6: the work that I've done, the audiences have been diverse,
Speaker 6: but a lot it's been majority white audience. And I'm
Speaker 6: working at E now and it's definitely a diverse audience there,
Speaker 6: but there's this is.
Speaker 1: A black audience.
Speaker 6: Were happy and I'm black and I love being black,
Speaker 6: and this black excellence is I'm doing things out here
Speaker 6: and I think that it's important for this audience to
Speaker 6: know that so many of.
Speaker 1: Us went to use to you when you were acting
Speaker 1: on Orange Is the New Black.
Speaker 2: Yes, I told you when I I first met you
Speaker 2: at the iHeart Music Festival when he was backstage and
Speaker 2: I came up to you and I was like, yo,
Speaker 2: I'm a fan.
Speaker 1: You know love.
Speaker 2: I still love Orange and the New Black. So acting
Speaker 2: is what you really really want to do? Is that's
Speaker 2: your passion?
Speaker 6: Guy?
Speaker 1: It absolutely is, And I'm still acting.
Speaker 6: Last year a lot of people saw me Inventing Anna,
Speaker 6: which was a huge show on Netflix.
Speaker 1: I played Casey.
Speaker 7: Duke in that.
Speaker 6: I have a guest spot in something that I can't
Speaker 6: talk about yet, but it's really cool. And we're prepping
Speaker 6: to do a show with Norman Lear, the legendary Norman
Speaker 6: Lear called Clean Slate. George Wallace, the legendary comedian, plays
Speaker 6: My Dad. It's set in my hometown of Mobile, Alabama.
Speaker 6: It's a comedy and it's about this woman who goes
Speaker 6: back home and tries to reconnect with her dad after
Speaker 6: many years of being away. So we start shooting that
Speaker 6: in Savannah like next month.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I.
Speaker 2: Don't think this era ready for Norman le Comedy. Norman
Speaker 2: lived the Jeffersons in Good Time.
Speaker 6: Well one day time, one day to Time did really well,
Speaker 6: and he has he has new shows. Norman is one
Speaker 6: hundred years old and he's still producing shows. And people
Speaker 6: are watching.
Speaker 5: So as long as they watch, and we're going to get.
Speaker 1: As long as they're watching. Yeah, Norman is amazing.
Speaker 6: He is getting to know him and just being in
Speaker 6: a room with him when we pitched the show to him,
Speaker 6: it's just iconic. We sat in the room with him
Speaker 6: for like ninety minutes and after the meeting he said
Speaker 6: he was ninety six at them. He said, I learned
Speaker 6: more about life in this last hour that I should
Speaker 6: have known that I didn't know. And I'm so grateful.
Speaker 6: And we started working together on pitching his show and
Speaker 6: it took years and now here we are.
Speaker 8: I want to go back for people that don't know,
Speaker 8: this IS's first time on a breakfast class.
Speaker 7: Yes, So, how did you get into acting? What made
Speaker 7: you want to act? What got you into that mind frame.
Speaker 6: As a kid, I've always been a performer, So I
Speaker 6: started as a dancer. So I'm fifty years old, so
Speaker 6: back in the day, right, But that's black don't yes,
Speaker 6: And so I started studying dance in third grade. But
Speaker 6: I always knew I wanted to act, that I would
Speaker 6: transition to acting. And when I got to college, I
Speaker 6: was a dance major at mary Mountainhaan College and started
Speaker 6: acting there. So I've been acting like since college and
Speaker 6: did my first movie my senior year at Marymount in
Speaker 6: nineteen ninety six. I think that's what you wanted to do.
Speaker 1: I always knew.
Speaker 6: But then I finally accepted being trans when I was
Speaker 6: in nineteen ninety eight and started transitioning, and I was like, well,
Speaker 6: there aren't any transactors, so I don't know if I
Speaker 6: can't really be an actor and be trans. And so
Speaker 6: I went to fashion school for three semesters. I went
Speaker 6: to fit and then I was like, I don't really
Speaker 6: want to do this. I love fashion, but I don't
Speaker 6: want to do it. And then like, I did a
Speaker 6: few more movies, just auditioned and got a few independent films,
Speaker 6: and then I started training seriously with this woman named
Speaker 6: Susan Batson who was an iconic acting coach. But finally,
Speaker 6: twenty years after I moved to New York, I got
Speaker 6: my big break in Orange just New Black.
Speaker 1: That was use wow.
Speaker 8: You know, at first, I'm sure people didn't necessarily. I
Speaker 8: don't know if Laverne fits this or how difficult was
Speaker 8: that being turned down.
Speaker 6: I mean it was years of noes. I mean the
Speaker 6: reason why it took twenty years is that there were
Speaker 6: no roles for me. So at Susan Studio, she would
Speaker 6: have industry nights and I audition for casting directors and
Speaker 6: agents and they'd be like, you're very talented, but there's
Speaker 6: no roles for you. Your trans It's like, maybe you
Speaker 6: should move to la And so it was constantly that,
Speaker 6: and every once in a while trans something or drag
Speaker 6: thing would come up. And a lot of times in
Speaker 6: the beginning when I was auditioning, it would say drag queen,
Speaker 6: but I would just go in and they didn't know
Speaker 6: the difference between drag and trans.
Speaker 1: And I would book or I wouldn't book. And so
Speaker 1: for years there just weren't roles for me.
Speaker 6: And so when the Orange New Black audition came along,
Speaker 6: i'd actually was going to stop acting. I turned forty
Speaker 6: that year, so this was eleven years ago. It was
Speaker 6: twenty twelve. I turned forty. The big break hadn't happened.
Speaker 6: I was like, well, girl, you're forty, you're black, you're trans.
Speaker 6: Who do you think you're kidding? Thinking you can do this?
Speaker 6: And I was studying for my gri to go to
Speaker 6: grad school. I was a student, loan dead. It was
Speaker 6: a mess. Girl, I was in renter rears. I was
Speaker 6: in a payment plan to avoid e viction from my apartment.
Speaker 6: Girl girl is ginger neutral, So girls ginger neutral. Like
Speaker 6: a lot of people say, dude, this ginger neutral girl
Speaker 6: is ginger neutral for me, So everybody's girl. But the
Speaker 6: great thing about when the Orange audition it happened is
Speaker 6: that even though it was a struggle, I had been
Speaker 6: in acting class every week because I loved it.
Speaker 1: And this is what I say to people.
Speaker 6: If you want to be an actor and you don't
Speaker 6: love it, you should do something else, because you're going
Speaker 6: to be too old, too young, too short, too thin,
Speaker 6: too trans, to black, too white, And so all the rejection,
Speaker 6: I kept loving it, and so I kept, even though
Speaker 6: I kind of gave up hope, I kept going to
Speaker 6: class because I love acting. And so when the audition
Speaker 6: came along, I did the one audition, I booked it,
Speaker 6: and then this juicy role came along in the beautiful writing.
Speaker 1: And I was prepared. I was ready because I had.
Speaker 6: Trained, I had done independent films for a free, student
Speaker 6: films for free. I did everything I could to get experience,
Speaker 6: and so when this opportunity came, I was ready and
Speaker 6: I and I love the Oprah sets. This thing is luck.
Speaker 6: Luck is only when preparation meets opportunity. And when my
Speaker 6: opportunity came, I was prepared. And I'm still here and
Speaker 6: I still love what I do, and I get to
Speaker 6: do so many different things now. I love that I'm
Speaker 6: an actor, but I also get to host red carpets
Speaker 6: and I have an interview show that's amazing.
Speaker 3: That's what I want to ask you. Do you like
Speaker 3: one more than the other? Do you like being in
Speaker 3: a live red carpet space more than you do?
Speaker 4: Like what? I love it?
Speaker 6: I didn't think I would when they when he approached me,
Speaker 6: I was like, well, I hosted their countdown show in
Speaker 6: twenty twenty and had a lot of fun doing it.
Speaker 6: And then they asked me to, you know, be their
Speaker 6: new red carpets and I was like, do I want
Speaker 6: to do this? And will people forget that I act?
Speaker 6: And acting has always been Even though I've always done
Speaker 6: a lot of different things, I know that I'm an
Speaker 6: actor first, and that's what I prioritize and that's why
Speaker 6: people even care about me.
Speaker 1: But I love it.
Speaker 6: At the Grammys recently, I interviewed Machine Gun Kelly and
Speaker 6: he came to the carpet really vulnerable.
Speaker 1: It was intense. I was like, what's going on here?
Speaker 1: It was a different energy than I and he was
Speaker 1: really emotional.
Speaker 6: He found out in the car on the way there
Speaker 6: that he had lost the Grammy and he was planning
Speaker 6: to win, and he had built up.
Speaker 1: Basically, he said that he had built up like all
Speaker 1: of this.
Speaker 6: I'm going to prove people wrong and I'm going to
Speaker 6: be valid now because I've won this Grammy and he
Speaker 6: didn't win it. And he actually had the courage to
Speaker 6: be vulnerable and admit that on live television and it
Speaker 6: was a beautiful.
Speaker 1: Raw moment. And I love being able to hold space
Speaker 1: for that.
Speaker 6: I have a show with E called if We're Being
Speaker 6: Honest that's on Peacock and I hate an interview show
Speaker 6: and I get to whole space for a complexity, for
Speaker 6: people's humanity.
Speaker 1: We laugh, we cry.
Speaker 6: This is the stuff I love where we can like
Speaker 6: have real moments with the guests I'm speaking with and
Speaker 6: then hopefully the audience. I wanted to ask you about
Speaker 6: the red carpet thing because I wanted to ask you,
Speaker 6: what did you learn in the moment.
Speaker 1: With Will and Jada? We love you, Thank you for
Speaker 1: all the years of joy you've brought us. Thank you.
Speaker 6: We can't wait for our red table talk and more
Speaker 6: tanglements and no my entanglements, no mind tang ements.
Speaker 1: You received a backlash and everything. What did you learn, Oh?
Speaker 6: I learned that the world was not ready for the
Speaker 6: evolved relationship that they were presenting us, because when I,
Speaker 6: you know, I just jokingly said, you know, we're looking
Speaker 6: for more entanglements.
Speaker 1: I love red table talk.
Speaker 6: I love this miss and people thought I was being
Speaker 6: shady And I talked to Jada afterwards.
Speaker 1: She was fine.
Speaker 6: She thought it was funny, but the world interpreted it
Speaker 6: as mess. I feel like their intention was for us
Speaker 6: to see a different way to do relationships that wasn't
Speaker 6: like this traditional thing, and the world made it into
Speaker 6: mess traditional heteronormative, monogamous ideas about what a relationship should
Speaker 6: look like. I think everyone can do relationships on their
Speaker 6: own terms and should do relationships on their own terms.
Speaker 6: And I think they're doing that and the people just don't.
Speaker 8: All right, we got more with Laverne Cox when we
Speaker 8: come back, don't move. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,
Speaker 8: everybody is dj n V, Charlamagne, the gud.
Speaker 7: We are the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 8: Were still kicking it with Laverne Cox and our guess
Speaker 8: Hope Jess Hilarious is here.
Speaker 3: You know, being a comedian, we we often speak on
Speaker 3: nothing is off limits, you know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 3: we speak on things that you know, people in this
Speaker 3: in these days, these days and times may take a
Speaker 3: total different way than we're trying to, you know, put
Speaker 3: it out there. Has Do you think that because a
Speaker 3: comedian has a joke about LGBT, that they're homophobic? Like
Speaker 3: do you like what are your thoughts on that? Because
Speaker 3: I got a lot of jokes about the LGBT, but
Speaker 3: I have a lot of jokes about straight people.
Speaker 1: Do Yeah, everybody, I think it's really complicated.
Speaker 6: I interviewed Cameron Esposito on my show If We're being honest,
Speaker 6: and Cameron's a non binary stand up comic, and Cameron
Speaker 6: thinks you should be able to joke about anything right that.
Speaker 6: Cameron also said that a lot of comedians who have
Speaker 6: problems who's saying they're always being canceled and they can't
Speaker 6: aren't allowed to joke anymore, aren't.
Speaker 1: Used to getting feedback. So there's that piece. And I
Speaker 1: think too that.
Speaker 6: One can say something or do something that may be
Speaker 6: homophobic or racist and not be racist, right. But there's
Speaker 6: a difference between I am, like a statement of Brene
Speaker 6: Brown distinguishes between shame and guilt is shame is I
Speaker 6: am a mistake, and guilt is I made a mistake, right.
Speaker 6: So I think that's an important distinction to make that
Speaker 6: someone can unknowingly right say something or do something that's
Speaker 6: transphobic and be transphobic. I was on set for a
Speaker 6: show that I was doing many years ago, and one
Speaker 6: of my coworkers, who I adore and we're still friends
Speaker 6: to this day, said the T word, the T word
Speaker 6: that ends with a why. And I wasn't I wasn't
Speaker 6: upset by it, but I was like, I understood in
Speaker 6: that moment that this my coworker didn't understand that a
Speaker 6: lot of trans people.
Speaker 1: If you said that word, would have a problem.
Speaker 6: So it's just like something just like with racism, right,
Speaker 6: like I could think somebody can do something racist or
Speaker 6: say something racist not necessarily intending it in a certain way.
Speaker 6: There worth that we might not even know are problematic
Speaker 6: and we just don't know.
Speaker 1: But it is racist. It is transphobic. I mean for you,
Speaker 1: it's a comic.
Speaker 6: I mean, I mean, have you been criticized or a
Speaker 6: critique for some of your lgbtqs.
Speaker 5: Definitely, most definitely.
Speaker 1: But it made me.
Speaker 5: I was mad. I was very upset because I'm like,
Speaker 5: how can you say homophobic? Homophobic? Because of this? And
Speaker 5: because of that?
Speaker 3: And then and then it comes the thing of like
Speaker 3: if you say, oh, yeah, you know my brother gay
Speaker 3: or I got a gay best friend, then they still
Speaker 3: put you in a box like well.
Speaker 4: That's like.
Speaker 1: A black which I hate.
Speaker 3: What Yeah, big people always you know, say I was
Speaker 3: born a man and all that, and.
Speaker 1: I hate that.
Speaker 6: And how does that make you feel? How does it
Speaker 6: make you feel when people as as as it's don
Speaker 6: trans woman, I.
Speaker 5: Honestly have never got upset. I actually started putting it
Speaker 5: in my jokes.
Speaker 6: But it's other people that a lot of black women,
Speaker 6: for a lot of black women get upset about that, Yeah.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna be totally honest with you.
Speaker 3: I got upset that I called this this guy he
Speaker 3: was LGBT. He called me the T word that ended
Speaker 3: with a y, and I called him the F word,
Speaker 3: and I felt like and and but it was blue,
Speaker 3: I said, I felt like, all right, slur for slur
Speaker 3: and and he's like, oh, you know, everybody's like, you're
Speaker 3: not a part of the community.
Speaker 5: You can't say that. What gives him the right to
Speaker 5: tell me that I'm let's e word?
Speaker 7: Like you did know? Did he?
Speaker 1: Did he know that you?
Speaker 3: He was being smart, He knew exactly that I was
Speaker 3: a woman. That you know that I'm born a woman
Speaker 3: and a woman. But like you hit me below the
Speaker 3: bell and you weren't saying it because you were You
Speaker 3: really thought that you said that because you.
Speaker 1: Knew that, Oh yeah, there's a there's I think it
Speaker 1: was it.
Speaker 6: One of the city girls who just has a lyric
Speaker 6: about like pretty like transgender, like we it's it shouldn't
Speaker 6: be an insult to say that someone, I mean, look
Speaker 6: at me. It shouldn't be an insult to say that
Speaker 6: someone looks trans trans is beautiful but.
Speaker 1: Right and and I think too when in that moment
Speaker 1: using that.
Speaker 6: F slur, you were mad, I was like, for me,
Speaker 6: I decided many years ago, I had an incerent in
Speaker 6: a gay club and I was I was co hosting
Speaker 6: uh an event and I used the F word.
Speaker 1: I said, you use some loud F words. This was
Speaker 1: years ago.
Speaker 6: After the show, two black gay men came up to
Speaker 6: me and read me for They read me for filth
Speaker 6: and I'm there with my friend Ari, May he rest in.
Speaker 1: Peace and I'm like, no, we're reclaiming that word and
Speaker 1: I'm trans and.
Speaker 6: They were like not having it. And I talked to
Speaker 6: my friend Ari, and I myself right. I was like,
Speaker 6: we're reclaiming that word. We're taking the power away from
Speaker 6: that word. And Ari was like absolutely. Then I talked
Speaker 6: to my brother. My brother is identified as a practicing homosexual,
Speaker 6: just like the word gay. He thinks it's a white
Speaker 6: bushwalk construct and he prefers the idea of practiced orientation. Anyway,
Speaker 6: we're twins, and I talked to my brother about it,
Speaker 6: and I expected my brother to be like, yeah, they
Speaker 6: were crazy and they were wrong. And my brother was like,
Speaker 6: that's not your word to reclaim and I was like
Speaker 6: but no, but no, and it's like, that's not your
Speaker 6: word to reclaim. And then he said it a third
Speaker 6: time and then I started crying. Yeah, because I had
Speaker 6: to admit that I said something that was hurtful. I
Speaker 6: saw the hurt in their eyes.
Speaker 1: I didn't.
Speaker 6: I immediately became defensive, and that defensiveness I get. But
Speaker 6: that uncomfortability, that moment of sitting with like I hurt
Speaker 6: somebody and I didn't intend to, but I hurt somebody
Speaker 6: and that felt awful.
Speaker 8: Do you ever get tired of being I don't want
Speaker 8: to say, the Facebook the person that everybody comes to
Speaker 8: when there's a joke that people don't like, or when
Speaker 8: somebody says something in a lyric or.
Speaker 1: Spoken for me.
Speaker 7: Do you get tired of that?
Speaker 1: I'm not anymore. There's so many more of us.
Speaker 6: And what I what I love about my career and
Speaker 6: what I'm really proud of is that I'm the first
Speaker 6: openly transperson to be nominated for an acting in Me,
Speaker 6: But I'm not the last. I'm the first transperson to
Speaker 6: be on the cover of Time magazine, but I'm not
Speaker 6: the last. There's so many more trans people with the platform.
Speaker 13: Now.
Speaker 6: What I am frustrated by with these legislative attacks against
Speaker 6: trans people now is that people aren't talking to enough
Speaker 6: trans people. There's like lots of pundits and people who
Speaker 6: like talk about trans issues without a transperson in sight.
Speaker 6: There used to be a time I'm old enough where
Speaker 6: you know, people would talk about trans issues and actually
Speaker 6: bring on trans.
Speaker 1: People to talk. I can't.
Speaker 6: What I've learned is I can't speak on every issue
Speaker 6: because it's exhausting. This stuff is also traumatizing. Transphobia is traumatizing,
Speaker 6: Racism is traumatizing, Misogyny is traumatizing, and I can't live
Speaker 6: in that space. I can't live in that space all
Speaker 6: the time. And that twenty twenty taught me that too.
Speaker 6: I'm honored that I've been chosen, I think, by a
Speaker 6: power greater than myself, to be a vessel for all
Speaker 6: of the visibility that trans people have now. And it
Speaker 6: used to feel like a lot of pressure. And I
Speaker 6: used to feel this obligation to speak up about everything.
Speaker 6: And now I pray to God that like i'd say
Speaker 6: thank you, but I'm like, can I wear this light
Speaker 6: more lightly and with more joy?
Speaker 1: And I'm getting there. I'm in, and I'm getting there
Speaker 1: by staying in the.
Speaker 2: Love I do want to ask, because we're talking about
Speaker 2: it when it comes to gender identity, should we let
Speaker 2: kids wait until they are older to make that decision,
Speaker 2: Because I know that's a big.
Speaker 1: It is a big conversation right now.
Speaker 6: And what I say to that is that if you
Speaker 6: are not a trans child, or have a parent or
Speaker 6: a parent of a child who thinks they might be trans,
Speaker 6: it's none of your business. I think what has been
Speaker 6: happening with the GOP specifically now and all the like,
Speaker 6: we have to protect kids, kids in sports, kids, this
Speaker 6: kids that it's never been about kids. It's always been
Speaker 6: about stigmatizing trans people. There's a law in Oklahoma that
Speaker 6: was just introduced that would ban gender firming care up
Speaker 6: until the age of twenty six. This tells me what
Speaker 6: I've already always known. There's never been about kids. It's
Speaker 6: about making trans people not exist. Donald Trump just made
Speaker 6: a speech saying we need to ban gender firm and
Speaker 6: care for everybody. He may have misspoken, He misspeaks a lot,
Speaker 6: but he said we need to ban it for everybody.
Speaker 1: That is the plan.
Speaker 6: So I think when we are talking about someone else's
Speaker 6: access to health care or bodily autonomy, it's nobody else's
Speaker 6: business whether they're a child or an adult. The American
Speaker 6: Academy of Pediatrics, the American Medical Association, the INDUCT Society
Speaker 6: have a set of protocols and they're a well respected
Speaker 6: for treating trans kids. And that should be handled by doctors,
Speaker 6: not legislators, not people who are not involved.
Speaker 8: I will don't move. We have more with Laverne Cox
Speaker 8: when we come back. It's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning,
Speaker 8: still kicking it with Laverne Cox, and our special guest
Speaker 8: host is here, Jess Hilarious, Charlamagne.
Speaker 2: You know, I'm glad you here because we can even
Speaker 2: help just unpack another little bit of trauma that she
Speaker 2: went through. Remember just I saw you say this on
Speaker 2: it Don't Call Me White Girl podcast. Yeah, there was
Speaker 2: a guy hollering at you flew.
Speaker 1: Out and you try to fly you out.
Speaker 5: I wasn't into him.
Speaker 3: Okay, there was this guy, he's known everybody knows me,
Speaker 3: a singer from me saying the ones that will act
Speaker 3: like they didn't. But yeah, he DMed me and he
Speaker 3: was like he wanted me to.
Speaker 7: Have sex with him.
Speaker 5: Yeah, have sex with him, but he wanted me to
Speaker 5: bend him.
Speaker 1: Because he wanted you to drop on.
Speaker 5: No, he thought I had that already came like that.
Speaker 1: He thought that you were a trans woman who had
Speaker 1: not had wanted and.
Speaker 5: He really wanted this experience and he didn't know.
Speaker 7: He hit me after the show, tell me I might
Speaker 7: know who it is.
Speaker 5: She might not even be shocked, but the thing is,
Speaker 5: and I was like, wow, like and this was traumatizing
Speaker 5: for you. No, I just was like, it wasn't.
Speaker 7: It was not you're a mess.
Speaker 5: You're a mess girl trying to exalt me.
Speaker 6: He just literally thought that I was you know, you
Speaker 6: were trans, and so he was he was really wanting.
Speaker 1: I wasn't upset at all.
Speaker 5: And when I seen the money, I was like, dang,
Speaker 5: I wish I did had one of those. Because he was.
Speaker 1: Thought you were a sex worker. Yes, he thought he
Speaker 1: were a sex worker. He thought you were.
Speaker 6: TRANSI there's people always often assume they're trans people.
Speaker 4: There.
Speaker 1: Sex workers were not all workers.
Speaker 6: There's other things we can do. And this is not
Speaker 6: to you know, to mean sex work. We we you know,
Speaker 6: we're sex workers should be decriminalized and all that.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 3: But when I told him been looking, when I was like, okay,
Speaker 3: so no, I am you know a woman. He was like,
Speaker 3: oh damn, all right. Well see like it was like
Speaker 3: you still flyp me out for the money if you
Speaker 3: But no, he wanted something very specific. Yeah, very specific.
Speaker 3: And he wasn't disrespectful after he wasn't And I wasn't
Speaker 3: about to frech put that.
Speaker 5: Up, you know, none of that.
Speaker 3: But he was really like and I wouldn't say disappointed,
Speaker 3: but it was like, oh, sounds like you all right.
Speaker 6: He was disappointed, Like we have to you know, it's
Speaker 6: it's tricky to talk about sex. We're transfers because we're
Speaker 6: often sexualized, right, and so to have an adult conversation
Speaker 6: about sex and sexuality and not again to elevate the
Speaker 6: humanity of trans people. This is this is my work
Speaker 6: to elevate the humanity of trans people. But there are
Speaker 6: straight identified men who enjoy being pegged having a woman
Speaker 6: strap on, who enjoy a trans woman who might you know,
Speaker 6: give them that pleasure, and they still identify its straight
Speaker 6: because she's still a woman.
Speaker 11: Right.
Speaker 6: So I think that like a more evolved conversation that
Speaker 6: a lot of people aren't ready for, is that a
Speaker 6: sex act does not define your sexuality. Nobody can tell
Speaker 6: you who you are OK, nobody can tell you who
Speaker 6: you are, so you people. Sexuality exists on a spectrum,
Speaker 6: and I think it's like really problematic when we find
Speaker 6: out that someone enjoyed something sexually and then we start
Speaker 6: telling them that they are gay or start telling them
Speaker 6: of their sexuality. It is not our business to tell
Speaker 6: somebody their sexuality if they're in the closet, if they're
Speaker 6: in denial, that's actually not our business either, right, So
Speaker 6: there's too much of that.
Speaker 7: I think we can allow.
Speaker 6: And people are doing all sorts of things sexually, and
Speaker 6: I think it's all wonderful. I think it's great live
Speaker 6: it's all it's just consensual and everybody is an adult
Speaker 6: and it's great. And I don't I think that, like
Speaker 6: it's an advanced concept, but sex separating a sex act
Speaker 6: from someone's sexuality, I think it's something that's.
Speaker 1: Very evolved that I would love for people to be able.
Speaker 8: To char does the fact that potentially Charlemag doesn't act,
Speaker 8: that doesn't necessarily mean he's gay.
Speaker 7: That's what she's saying.
Speaker 2: I just look, I just love the fact that a
Speaker 2: transploman potentially took one of justice prospects.
Speaker 6: That's what I That's what he found he found the
Speaker 6: girl don't want me to You couldn't even like I
Speaker 6: could strap on?
Speaker 2: Did you offer that?
Speaker 8: Yes?
Speaker 5: Because the money you did much much was fifty thousand dollars?
Speaker 17: Girl?
Speaker 6: Like what?
Speaker 14: Girl?
Speaker 1: Probably? Okay, you can tell the girls who they that
Speaker 1: sex work? The girls out there. There is a man,
Speaker 1: a singer, offering fifty thousand.
Speaker 5: Dollars and they give me a piece of.
Speaker 7: Oh, he's like, he's over fifty.
Speaker 4: He's like.
Speaker 3: This was like somebody we listened to, like Beg and
Speaker 3: this day stuff. Don't get listen, we're still listening to
Speaker 3: them right now. Fifty thousand dollars a girl, A lot
Speaker 3: of girls can use that.
Speaker 5: And so I did you know? I had to talk
Speaker 5: it over with my.
Speaker 6: It's beautiful to be a black, beautiful to be a
Speaker 6: black trans woman and not need that money.
Speaker 7: It's good, beautiful to make my own money. Can we
Speaker 7: talk about this, yes, Barbie?
Speaker 1: Can we get the ball?
Speaker 14: You can?
Speaker 8: We can we talk about conversation that we were talking
Speaker 8: about this you will tell me, okay, but that's having
Speaker 8: that conversation and this.
Speaker 7: I want to know, how did this dog come about?
Speaker 7: Was this a dream of yours?
Speaker 6: When I found out Abdun had a dollar. I was like,
Speaker 6: I want a doll too, and I said to my manager, politics,
Speaker 6: I own a Barbie, and like, I don't know if
Speaker 6: he reached out, but like several years later, Mattel reached
Speaker 6: out and said, we'd love to do a Barbie. We're
Speaker 6: doing a tribute collection. And I said absolutely. It's like
Speaker 6: it was a dream, and it was. I have a
Speaker 6: I've talked a lot about this when the barbie came out,
Speaker 6: But when I was a kid, I wanted a Barbie
Speaker 6: and my mom did not allow me to play with barbiees.
Speaker 1: She it was forbidden.
Speaker 6: And I was in therapy and I told that story
Speaker 6: to my therapist, and my therapist said, you can It's
Speaker 6: never too late to have a happy childhood. You can
Speaker 6: reparent that inner child. I think you should go and
Speaker 6: buy yourself a Barbie. Did you and play with her?
Speaker 6: I absolutely did. I bought a Barbie, played with her,
Speaker 6: I dressed her, and it was healing. And then I
Speaker 6: told my mom about it, and then my mom first
Speaker 6: sending me barbies.
Speaker 1: It's always time.
Speaker 6: Oh, my mom started sending me barbies. Got this, I'm
Speaker 6: not gonna crown the breakfast club.
Speaker 1: And she started sending me black Barbie.
Speaker 6: Absolutely, she started sending me black Barbies, and it was
Speaker 6: just this wonderful like that we all have a little
Speaker 6: kid inside of us that needs attention and that needs healing,
Speaker 6: and yeah, she's been I've been taking really good care
Speaker 6: of my inner child and Barbie has been a huge
Speaker 6: part of that. And so what was so exciting for
Speaker 6: me about having my own Barbie is that other people
Speaker 6: can have this space of whatever age you are, or
Speaker 6: like free parent your inner child or and have and
Speaker 6: know that you can be trans or non binary and
Speaker 6: that like you exist.
Speaker 1: Well, it's my last question.
Speaker 2: I guess it's more like, even though a statement, I
Speaker 2: guess the challenge I have is a personality is I
Speaker 2: often wonder what's more impactful? Right, because you're Laverne Cox
Speaker 2: to me, like, you're not transgender actors, Laburn conc' leburn Cox,
Speaker 2: You've got a lot of things going on, So I
Speaker 2: wonder what's more powerful Just having you on a platform
Speaker 2: like this and just having a conversation about everything that
Speaker 2: you're doing, are allowing you to speak to you your.
Speaker 1: Transnis I can do both. Find a girl who can
Speaker 1: do vo.
Speaker 6: That For me, it's like just living my life as
Speaker 6: I'm fifty years old, living my life work. I worked
Speaker 6: in restaurants in New York for twenty years. I did
Speaker 6: not go to the restaurant talking about my transits. When
Speaker 6: I was working in a coffee shop, I just went
Speaker 6: to the restaurant. I was myself, and some people knew
Speaker 6: I was trans. Some people didn't. They they but they
Speaker 6: got to know me as a human being, and that
Speaker 6: was the most powerful thing.
Speaker 4: Ever.
Speaker 6: When I'm on sets, I'm not educating people are doing
Speaker 6: diversity and inclusion of training. I'm doing my job, and
Speaker 6: showing up and doing me has been the best way.
Speaker 6: So I think it's like it's about our humanity. Yes
Speaker 6: I'm trans, but like I'm so much more than that,
Speaker 6: and every trans person is so much more than that,
Speaker 6: and just our humanity, Like we've always been here, we've
Speaker 6: been second class citizens. If we're going to acknowledge that
Speaker 6: these folks are here, let's just like respect them and
Speaker 6: let them be. And it shouldn't affect you. It really shouldn't.
Speaker 6: And I think that, like I feel like a lot
Speaker 6: of men who get upset about trans women, it's like
Speaker 6: they want to be misogynist and they want to like
Speaker 6: holler at a girl and know that she was a
Speaker 6: signed female at birth, and they get upset and it's like,
Speaker 6: that's my problem that if you're driving to me, it's
Speaker 6: not like my problem that you clicked swipe right on
Speaker 6: me on a dating app like it just unmatched and
Speaker 6: move on.
Speaker 1: It's like people get so and then I.
Speaker 5: Think I made you jump right, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 7: He so Laverne Cox.
Speaker 2: Being honest with Laverne Cox on Peacock.
Speaker 13: Yes.
Speaker 1: Yes, and Oscar's read car bed.
Speaker 8: That's right, Marches, that's right, March twel well, thank you
Speaker 8: so much for joining us.
Speaker 7: We appreciate you. Oh, don't be a stranger.
Speaker 8: It's the breakfast club. It's Laverne Cox the breakfast Club.
Speaker 8: Your mornings will never be the same. When it's time
Speaker 8: to get with someone special, the best way to do
Speaker 8: it is with Magnum large sized condoms. That gold foil
Speaker 8: wrapper is a badge of honor and it means you're
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Speaker 5: Damn the hegg.
Speaker 1: Donkeys today, I me ain't trying to be donkey today.
Speaker 2: No more, they should be embarrassed by what they already did.
Speaker 2: I'm not making these people do these.
Speaker 5: Days called donkey of the day, and it really caught
Speaker 5: me off guard.
Speaker 7: Damned Charlamagne.
Speaker 1: Who got the donkey of.
Speaker 2: The day today, Well, Jess hilarious Donkey of de daykos
Speaker 2: to Stephania Santa Bria.
Speaker 1: She is a fifty year old fifth grade math instructor.
Speaker 2: Listen to what I said, fifty year old fifth grade
Speaker 2: math instructor.
Speaker 8: Math.
Speaker 2: Math, Okay, the area of knowledge that included the topics
Speaker 2: of numbers, formulas, and related structures.
Speaker 1: Shapes and spaces.
Speaker 2: Okay, you know five plus five, six times two eight
Speaker 2: divided by four.
Speaker 1: We all know what math is.
Speaker 2: And when you're in fifth grade, those students, you know,
Speaker 2: they focused on adding, subtracting, multiplying, and dividing whole numbers, fractions, decimals.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about?
Speaker 4: Okay?
Speaker 2: Well, Stephania Santa Bria, the fifth grade math teacher, faces
Speaker 2: charges including strangulation in the second degree, risk of injury
Speaker 2: to a minor, and reckless endangerment in the first degree.
Speaker 1: How did we get to that equation? Okay? What plus?
Speaker 2: What equal strangulation in the second degree, risk of injury
Speaker 2: to a minor, and reckless endangerment in the first degree. Well,
Speaker 2: let's go to ABC seven New York put to report
Speaker 2: Polaseky Liz.
Speaker 19: Usually when we hear about choke holds in the news,
Speaker 19: we're hearing about something that police are not supposed to
Speaker 19: do because it's dangerous. Well, in this case, a teacher
Speaker 19: who was working as a math coach is accused of
Speaker 19: putting a fifth grader in a choke hold. Now, this
Speaker 19: was supposed to be educational a demonstration, but the school
Speaker 19: district says that student fainted, letting.
Speaker 2: Us know that a staff member they or a math
Speaker 2: coach had rendered one of the students unconscious.
Speaker 19: According to the police reports, it happened while teaching a
Speaker 19: group of fifth graders a defensive jiu jitsu move and
Speaker 19: demonstrating on three of them. Someone alerted the school nurse.
Speaker 5: The student regained consciousness, it says the reports.
Speaker 1: Within seconds.
Speaker 19: Any idea how it came to be that she was
Speaker 19: teaching them martial arts when she's a.
Speaker 7: Math coach, you know.
Speaker 1: So the investigation is still on going. We're not sure
Speaker 1: exactly why she decided.
Speaker 11: To do that.
Speaker 19: At investigation that resulted in an arrest a week later,
Speaker 19: a fifty year old Stephanie Synabria at her home in Danbury.
Speaker 19: She's facing serious charges strangulation, risk of injury to a minor,
Speaker 19: and reckless endangerment.
Speaker 2: Ma'am, ma'am, you're supposed to be a math teacher, not
Speaker 2: math hoffe he Okay, this is what I'll be trying
Speaker 2: to explain to my wife.
Speaker 1: I don't understand this new math at all.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 2: Now, I'm all for teaching kids how to defend themselves,
Speaker 2: but I'm also off of everyone staying in the Nidnam lane.
Speaker 2: If the class is math, the subject is math, you
Speaker 2: are indeed a math instructor.
Speaker 1: Then why the hell are you teaching my child how
Speaker 1: to do a rid neck at chocolate?
Speaker 2: Okay, you're supposed to be teaching calculus, not the Campbell clutch.
Speaker 2: You're supposed to be teaching my child how to do fractions,
Speaker 2: not picking for a leg locks.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: This is the problem with the era we in. Everybody
Speaker 2: thinks they're an expert at everything. Nobody is actually in
Speaker 2: alignment with their actual purpose.
Speaker 1: Okay, when you.
Speaker 2: See a math teacher teaching kids how to do tech.
Speaker 2: Debosi's a million dollar dream. Then best belief, the math
Speaker 2: ain't mathing. Now we all parents in this, Tamar, What
Speaker 2: do you do when your child comes home and says
Speaker 2: her maths script?
Speaker 1: To put them in the crippler car, the crippler cross.
Speaker 17: Face, Oh, pray for me, and somebody go get my bell.
Speaker 5: Oh baby, it's going down.
Speaker 17: Yeah, I would have to have that math teacher teach
Speaker 17: me so I can teach her.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and be what.
Speaker 7: About you, well, female teachers, they got to deal with gey.
Speaker 8: I'm sure Gil will put her in the Brooklyn and
Speaker 8: head locks somehow, some way knock it right out, put
Speaker 8: you in the choko before she did.
Speaker 7: Yeah, and she and I almost passed out, like I
Speaker 7: was tapping up this side.
Speaker 8: Yes, and now we can't play flight anymore because she
Speaker 8: she had me in a lot and I couldn't get out,
Speaker 8: and I was, I was dying, and I was it's not.
Speaker 2: Funny, though, dropping don't you do it? I said, ship
Speaker 2: Maybe can't beat nobody in this house. Nobody he can take.
Speaker 7: I can take Peyton. She won.
Speaker 1: Okay, I will shoot this teacher a little ball.
Speaker 2: Maybe she's been seeing all these teachers online getting beat
Speaker 2: up by kids, So she was doing some her ventitive measures.
Speaker 2: She just had to let these little kids know that
Speaker 2: she knows a little something something, just in case one
Speaker 2: of them get too spotty. Okay, sometimes you got to
Speaker 2: show people your script so they know not to play
Speaker 2: with you. But here's the thing, miss math instructive. When
Speaker 2: playing with other people's kids, or should I say, when
Speaker 2: CAUs it harmed the other people's turn, you need to
Speaker 2: ask yourself one simple question, why is the math book sad?
Speaker 1: I repeat? Why is the math book sad? Because it
Speaker 1: has too many problems? And that's exactly that's exactly what
Speaker 1: you're gonna have and deserve.
Speaker 2: To have putting other people's kids in the cobra clutch. Okay,
Speaker 2: please give Stefana Santa Bria the sweet sounds of the Hamiltons.
Speaker 7: Oh no, you are do.
Speaker 12: Of the.
Speaker 13: Oh the day, fifty years old, big age of fifty,
Speaker 13: still making choices like that's.
Speaker 7: Crazy, Yes, it is all right, Well, thank you for
Speaker 7: that donkey.
Speaker 8: Today the Breakfast Club, the Freaky.
Speaker 1: It's Freaky Friday, got damn.
Speaker 8: Call in now eight hundred five eighty five one O
Speaker 8: five one. We want to hear from you on the
Speaker 8: breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Charlomagne the guy.
Speaker 8: We are the breakfast Club. We get our guest co
Speaker 8: host Claudia Jordan with the murder, and.
Speaker 7: It's Friday, so you know what that means.
Speaker 1: It's freaking freaking freaky Friday.
Speaker 7: And the freaky freaky freaky Friday question comes from.
Speaker 4: A white boy. Rick shot.
Speaker 7: The white boy Ricky supports me at all my car shows.
Speaker 8: But the question is, you know he got allegedly got
Speaker 8: into an incident where he said another woman's name while
Speaker 8: he was having sex and him and the woman got
Speaker 8: into an altercation.
Speaker 7: I'll say, allegedly I heard this. More to the story
Speaker 7: and I'll let him tell it.
Speaker 8: But we're taking it away from there and asking what
Speaker 8: turn offs in the bed for you, Charloma said.
Speaker 7: Charlamagne says, nothing.
Speaker 2: Everything turns to I don't even when your kids not
Speaker 2: going to do you got four what that's different.
Speaker 1: That's not a turn off.
Speaker 2: I can tell you that an interruption. I'm not turned
Speaker 2: off when they're not going to do it. Just you're interrupted.
Speaker 2: I got to start back up.
Speaker 7: It's like you know the car, you gotta go.
Speaker 1: Interrupted and turn off is when you just like it
Speaker 1: turned off.
Speaker 2: I think, I think, I mean, I haven't experienced this
Speaker 2: in quite a quite quite a long time, but yeah,
Speaker 2: I think older like Claudia said.
Speaker 17: Yeah, like if a guy has bad breath and like
Speaker 17: licht the boobs and then you got anything like that's
Speaker 17: you like I I like a little bit of a
Speaker 17: pressure around my neck sometimes right if they do it
Speaker 17: too hard, like like you're choking a man like I'm
Speaker 17: a woman, like be gentle.
Speaker 1: With it, like beasts.
Speaker 7: Tell somebody like that look too strong. This isn't for you.
Speaker 5: This isn't your thing.
Speaker 7: That would be messed up. You're all sexually choked somebody.
Speaker 2: Like.
Speaker 17: It's not supposed to really supposed to be kind of
Speaker 17: like a fantasy.
Speaker 1: Somebody up here says something.
Speaker 2: We were talking and he said that when he's doing
Speaker 2: it and the young lady is like, you know, are
Speaker 2: you there yet?
Speaker 4: Are you there yet?
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Because that shows that she
Speaker 1: might not be enjoying it to finish.
Speaker 17: That's the wrap it up music.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that the eid.
Speaker 2: When you get that, it's like, oh man, but not
Speaker 2: for thought. He was having a good time, not for nothing.
Speaker 2: The person you're talking about is big. You know what
Speaker 2: I mean, anybody, you didn't have to say all that.
Speaker 1: You said it. So I'm just did not say that
Speaker 1: his name is Big Max.
Speaker 7: But so the person is big. So just imagine, you know,
Speaker 7: the weight on you and she's like you man, right.
Speaker 1: That's your man, man, that's why?
Speaker 6: Why? What? What?
Speaker 2: What was that for?
Speaker 17: You're saying if she's on the bottom. Correct, she's on
Speaker 17: the bottom. It's hard to be on the bottom of it.
Speaker 1: From the bar, he was behind her. He wasn't on
Speaker 1: tough for her behind you can you imagine the weight behind.
Speaker 17: Sometimes from the back it really hurts something you didn't
Speaker 17: really you really get to it. I said, yes, like
Speaker 17: I know, right, and you and your boys were mad high.
Speaker 1: Too, like me, from the back, it really hurts.
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeahs foe.
Speaker 17: You're telling yourself something right today?
Speaker 4: Hello?
Speaker 12: This what mama's got Detroit?
Speaker 7: What's up?
Speaker 2: Brother?
Speaker 12: What? What?
Speaker 7: What is some turnover to the bedroom for you?
Speaker 4: Bro?
Speaker 3: Man?
Speaker 16: You know when you get the nibble on on your
Speaker 16: ear and that hairstink, man, sometimes the hairstraink.
Speaker 1: The hairstink you said, hair?
Speaker 7: Yeah you know that the hair you know the hair
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, hairstink.
Speaker 17: You gotta wash your weeds, ladies.
Speaker 4: Hello, is this the old school stetic?
Speaker 15: All right?
Speaker 7: What's up?
Speaker 1: Brother? What? What?
Speaker 7: What turned you off in the bedroom?
Speaker 2: Fish legs and black pantinghole fish legs and black pantyhole fish.
Speaker 17: That's a fish?
Speaker 7: What a fish smell?
Speaker 16: Yeah, laid black panted hairs. When you say the pant
Speaker 16: and hers that and then you that like you're gonna
Speaker 16: get some baked from fish tackler. That's what I mean that.
Speaker 2: My daddy said, if it smelled like alone, leave it alone.
Speaker 2: If it smell like fish, eat all you wish.
Speaker 17: No, no, no, your daddy's so you're wrong.
Speaker 7: Her father told you that.
Speaker 2: My daddy used to say all the time, smell like alone,
Speaker 2: leave it alone. If it smell like fish, eat all
Speaker 2: you will.
Speaker 17: Throats a lot?
Speaker 12: No.
Speaker 1: Who that's some good advice, think about it.
Speaker 7: Hello, good morning, good morning.
Speaker 11: My name is Jasmine Jamine.
Speaker 21: Good morning.
Speaker 10: So my my biggest turn.
Speaker 21: Off is when we're tongueing each other down. We're hot
Speaker 21: and heavy in the moment, and then you want a
Speaker 21: tongue my ear and I'm hearing that like nasty lit
Speaker 21: smacking and all that extra like I'm thirty one.
Speaker 8: Yeah, because in the twenties, where you where, where you
Speaker 8: put your tongue on in somebody's gross.
Speaker 12: Everybody.
Speaker 21: I don't care how clean. I don't care how clean
Speaker 21: you are, how much you wear, clean your ears acute.
Speaker 1: No, no, which is crazy though, because you probably like it, and.
Speaker 7: I didn't mean to hang out. I didn't know you're
Speaker 7: gonna go into the butt.
Speaker 1: Oh you didn't know.
Speaker 7: You've been doing.
Speaker 1: It every time? Hello, what's up?
Speaker 4: I'm sorry? We just have a butt.
Speaker 7: Friday. We asked you, what what is some turnover in
Speaker 7: the bedroom for you, mama to me turn off?
Speaker 10: It's no rhythm except the pubic hair like that's too nappy,
Speaker 10: that's not cut.
Speaker 11: And maintain, just overall not knowing what you're doing because
Speaker 11: we're too old, not for.
Speaker 10: You, for you not to be normal what you're doing.
Speaker 1: At this point.
Speaker 7: Can always learn, everybody can always learn, and they can
Speaker 7: cut their pubic hair off.
Speaker 17: But bad rhythm, you can't fix that. Like they have that,
Speaker 17: like that real quick, like that rabbit thing.
Speaker 11: Yeah, you had to have the You don't like they
Speaker 11: know what they're doing, but they don't please.
Speaker 2: All right, So what do you do?
Speaker 1: You're telling me you can't dance?
Speaker 17: Just say slow down, baby, Are we gonna slow down
Speaker 17: like we're on different rhythms?
Speaker 1: Jesus?
Speaker 4: All right?
Speaker 3: Well?
Speaker 8: Eight hundred five eight five, one oh five one. It's
Speaker 8: freaky freaking freaking Friday. And the freaky freaky Friday.
Speaker 7: Question is what are some turnoffs in the bedroom?
Speaker 4: Call us up.
Speaker 7: It's the Breakfast Club in mornings.
Speaker 2: It's freaky freaky Friday.
Speaker 4: Call in that.
Speaker 8: Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. You
Speaker 8: want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 7: Morning, everybody.
Speaker 8: It's DJ n V, Charlamagne, the gud We are the
Speaker 8: Breakfast Club. Clodia Jordan here, I'll guest host.
Speaker 7: And it's Friday. See know what that means.
Speaker 1: It's freaky, freaky freaky Friday.
Speaker 8: And the freaky freaky freaky Friday question is what are
Speaker 8: some turnoffs in the bedroom?
Speaker 7: This came from USh Out the White Boy Rick. Allegedly,
Speaker 7: it was reported.
Speaker 8: That him and this girl got into a situation on
Speaker 8: him and the girl, and she said that during sex,
Speaker 8: he called the wrong name. So we just asked, what
Speaker 8: are some of your turnoffs?
Speaker 1: Hello?
Speaker 9: Who's this is your boy? Love you from the bronk.
Speaker 9: He looked at thirteen.
Speaker 4: All right, love you.
Speaker 7: So, what are some turnoffs for you?
Speaker 10: Bro?
Speaker 9: It's freaky Friday? So I have looked the problem I
Speaker 9: have with Quinny. If you don't want a well doubt man,
Speaker 9: don't sign.
Speaker 4: Up for it.
Speaker 11: I got a co hostess woman. It took me three months.
Speaker 9: We grew me the room. She got dressed and walked
Speaker 9: away after you're flew.
Speaker 7: It, after she saw it.
Speaker 9: She got dressed and walked away after you've seen at
Speaker 9: thirteen and a half.
Speaker 1: So I need you, Claudia.
Speaker 8: This our guy, love you Love is his name. He
Speaker 8: has a thirteen and a half inch penis, right, okay?
Speaker 8: So he says a lot of women are scared of it.
Speaker 8: So he says when when when you know women I
Speaker 8: guess walk away when they see it.
Speaker 7: That's a turnoff. So technically your penis is the turnof
Speaker 7: yeah is your is you?
Speaker 4: Brother?
Speaker 17: You can't be mad at her for that though she
Speaker 17: knows her limitations.
Speaker 9: Well, then they put restrictions on you, like I can't
Speaker 9: have a guy, can only have Mintionnary.
Speaker 1: I don't feel sorry.
Speaker 9: I'm the woman that's happening.
Speaker 1: I don't feel sorry for you.
Speaker 17: That hurts you know what that feels like?
Speaker 7: Envy, Charla, may I have no, I don't.
Speaker 1: I'd be scared you.
Speaker 17: I have no thirteen and a half inches going in.
Speaker 7: Jesus, Hello, who's this angela? Good morning? What do is
Speaker 7: some turnofs in the bedroom for you?
Speaker 9: I would say, too much conversation, too much talking?
Speaker 4: What do you mean?
Speaker 7: Too much talking like dirty talking, or like asking you
Speaker 7: how you date, like.
Speaker 21: You know, like whispering things, or but people that want
Speaker 21: you to repeat thanks.
Speaker 10: To say this and say this, and have full conversations
Speaker 10: and just it gets to be a lot.
Speaker 7: I feel you.
Speaker 17: I had that before. My ex boyfriend will say, ask
Speaker 17: me weird, asked questions that were like I answer, I
Speaker 17: was ignoring him. I'm like, just shut up, just shut
Speaker 17: up and finished, like why you asked me? I don't
Speaker 17: want to answer your questions right.
Speaker 1: Now, I've gotten that I've been told to shut the
Speaker 1: hell up. Really, what questions do you ask?
Speaker 4: Matter?
Speaker 1: But I've been told you to shut up? Ain't you
Speaker 1: talking too much?
Speaker 17: Not everybody's good at sex talk like it is definitely
Speaker 17: a skill. And some people come up they show perverted
Speaker 17: and weird. They are in that moment like I like sexist.
Speaker 2: But that you just talk too much, like I think
Speaker 2: it's I think it's one of those things with less
Speaker 2: is more like, I don't think you're supposed to have
Speaker 2: a whole conversa what you say.
Speaker 1: You can't do a podcasts, You can't do a whole monologue.
Speaker 17: It should be a little bit of like half sentences
Speaker 17: here and like a baby this you like this, it's not.
Speaker 17: Don't be asking me stupid questions, that's right?
Speaker 1: Hello, is this I'm a stupid question?
Speaker 7: I wonder what do you hate in the bedroom?
Speaker 10: I hate hard breathing.
Speaker 8: Now, Relanda, Now ain't a lot is that there's a
Speaker 8: lot of people out there that that that don't work out,
Speaker 8: So you're gonna get a lot of hard breathing.
Speaker 1: So you're saying fat people people will sleeping fat people.
Speaker 9: You don't got to be back to have hard bleeping.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 7: You work out, Rolina.
Speaker 11: I don't.
Speaker 10: I need to know you probably hard.
Speaker 7: You probably breathe hard too, now.
Speaker 9: Mama, I don't. I don't.
Speaker 1: I really don't hard breathing you with a hard breath
Speaker 1: of Claudia probably I'm fifty.
Speaker 7: Thank you, mama.
Speaker 14: Hello?
Speaker 9: Is this his com from South Carolina?
Speaker 1: And I see all day.
Speaker 7: We're talking freaky Friday. We're just asking. You know what
Speaker 7: is some turn offs in the barn?
Speaker 13: Brother?
Speaker 9: Uh, you know when you get it in, you hear
Speaker 9: fart noise and you come out the one that sinks
Speaker 9: and not the one that was.
Speaker 1: Oh you're talking about I disagree? But what what far
Speaker 1: are you talking about?
Speaker 4: You like that? I like that?
Speaker 7: You mean queen for you're talking about fart?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 9: Yeah, maybe the win cold, but I.
Speaker 17: Ain't ain't wait even a queen for fire.
Speaker 7: What do you mean he's talking about fart fart?
Speaker 1: Yeah, then you're mistaken. Quef's for farts.
Speaker 17: Bro, Yeah, pretto much area. That means you've been going fast.
Speaker 17: He pumped at real fast.
Speaker 7: No, but I think you think he's talking about coming
Speaker 7: out the back end.
Speaker 1: Man, that's just nasty. I am a member of a
Speaker 1: tribe called Quef. I love a good queen.
Speaker 7: Don't think you're talking.
Speaker 17: If a girl farts with you, she don't really like
Speaker 17: you that much. Best believe, best believe it's coming the
Speaker 17: group chat. I thought, in his Jesus, one of my
Speaker 17: friends that you did that. She didn't care about him. Say,
Speaker 17: you girls are experts at holding in that far. We
Speaker 17: do it our entire life? If she parts are and sex,
Speaker 17: she does not care.
Speaker 1: She don't care about you at all. She's like, what
Speaker 1: is that a way? That's Is that another way to
Speaker 1: say wrap it up? To wrap it up? Jesus, what's
Speaker 1: the marrow of the story? Guys, I don't know. That's
Speaker 1: Claudia thirteen inches too much?
Speaker 7: So she got she's still the stuff going at y'all like,
Speaker 7: think like.
Speaker 17: What five six inches?
Speaker 7: What do y'all think? Charlman?
Speaker 1: What are you like?
Speaker 4: Eh?
Speaker 1: What do I like what you're talking about?
Speaker 4: All right?
Speaker 17: Well that between one and thirteen?
Speaker 1: No, because I don't know what you're talking about. I
Speaker 1: think I heard with the thirteen half happened?
Speaker 10: All right?
Speaker 8: The breakfast club, Charlamage, the guy we are the breakfast club.
Speaker 2: Now you've got a positive No, Charlemagne, I do have
Speaker 2: a positive note, man. The positive note is simple. Pay
Speaker 2: attention to your patterns. Okay, the way you learn to
Speaker 2: survive may not be the way you want to continue
Speaker 2: to live. Heal and shift.
Speaker 5: Breakfast club, You're finished with, yo, dub