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Speaker 2: You know, I was going through something that I've been
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Speaker 2: God about it, and I mean for years.
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Speaker 2: of it yesterday again a situation. But you know what,
Speaker 2: after it was over, you know, I kind of laid
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Speaker 2: been going through something for so long and then even
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Speaker 2: did this morning. When I woke up. I was actually
Speaker 2: taking an inventory account of how many times I made it.
Speaker 2: How many times, man, I didn't have the rent and
Speaker 2: somehow I came up with it. How many times I
Speaker 2: didn't have my house payment and somehow I came up
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Speaker 2: did not have enough, didn't see no way, but somehow
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Speaker 2: this one right here. I don't know what I'm gonna do,
Speaker 2: but somehow I got my health back. How many situations
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Speaker 2: Somehow I made it. I look at all the accidents
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Speaker 2: think about even the simplest times of like stepping off
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Speaker 6: I was just tripping the other day.
Speaker 2: I was thinking about the times that I've been hit
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Speaker 2: was thinking about, Man, when they count you out? Do
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Speaker 2: He ain't gonna be nothing, He ain't nobody See who
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Speaker 2: many times I've been counted out? You know how many
Speaker 2: times they done wrote me off? How many times have
Speaker 2: you been written off?
Speaker 1: Man?
Speaker 6: But here you still standing? Yeah, you're a tripped on it.
Speaker 2: Take an inventory, y'all of how many times? Count the
Speaker 2: times you've made it? What about the times man, when
Speaker 2: nobody was there to encourage you? But you still here
Speaker 2: though you have tripped on that? Ain't nobody called you?
Speaker 2: I told you good day. Nobody called you and told
Speaker 2: you recently thank you. No one's called you and told
Speaker 2: you how much you meant to them, how much you've
Speaker 2: done for them? Or man, that you can make it.
Speaker 2: Never give up. Keep your head up, man, keep grinding.
Speaker 2: But you still here, even when nobody. Have you counted
Speaker 2: the times man, that you made it anyway? Have you
Speaker 2: counted the times that you felt like quitting, you felt
Speaker 2: like giving up, you kept going.
Speaker 6: How about the time this is a good one right here?
Speaker 2: How about the times man, when everybody's standing around saying,
Speaker 2: ain't no way, ain't no way.
Speaker 6: Man.
Speaker 2: I can't tell how many times I've heard this, ain't
Speaker 2: no way, and then somehow there is a way. You
Speaker 2: know why, because he make a way. You understand.
Speaker 6: You know how many times I've heard this one right here? Steve,
Speaker 6: listen to me, man, Nobody ever before has done that.
Speaker 6: You can't do that. How many times you done heard?
Speaker 6: No you or you know anybody that done that? You
Speaker 6: can't do that. No one has ever done that. I
Speaker 6: made it anyway?
Speaker 2: You know, they don't normally or we don't normally allowed this,
Speaker 2: but in this case, for you, we gonna make an exception.
Speaker 2: How many times have you heard that, Oh, I think
Speaker 2: I'm onto something? How many times have you heard in
Speaker 2: your lifetime? We don't normally or they don't normally allow this,
Speaker 2: but we gonna make this exception in your case?
Speaker 6: How many times you done heard that? Have you ever
Speaker 6: counted the times that you made it? Everybody out except me?
Speaker 6: How can that be? You know you're the only one
Speaker 6: that got through this? Congratulations?
Speaker 7: Wow?
Speaker 2: Man, I don't hardly see this too many times. But
Speaker 2: do you realize that normally this is what happened to people?
Speaker 2: But man, I don't know how your name came up,
Speaker 2: but here you are. Wow, it never happens like that.
Speaker 2: You ever counted those times I was doing it yesterday?
Speaker 2: I was doing it this morning. I was just taking
Speaker 2: an inventory everybody of how many times I've made it?
Speaker 2: So what I learned yesterday was when God gets you
Speaker 2: through something, when he pulled you out on the other side,
Speaker 2: no matter how difficult or how long it took. When
Speaker 2: He gets you out on the other side, why don't
Speaker 2: you get up, dust yourself off, and start troting what
Speaker 2: you laying there for? Man? Wallowing in it, going over it,
Speaker 2: recycling it in your mind. So many people can't move
Speaker 2: forward because we keep recycling stuff in our mind when
Speaker 2: clearly it's time to move on, it's time to let go,
Speaker 2: it's time to go and see what God has for you.
Speaker 2: Stop looking at what you lost. What you lost was
Speaker 2: probably not yours to have in the first all in
Speaker 2: the first place. Do you know the things I've lost? Now,
Speaker 2: I'm not talking about losing a loved one, a mother
Speaker 2: or father, nothing like that. I'm talking about innate objects
Speaker 2: or situation. Do you know the things I've lost? Man,
Speaker 2: I look back on it. I wasn't supposed to have
Speaker 2: them in the first place, or they was.
Speaker 6: Doing me no good. I wasn't wasn't mine to lose,
Speaker 6: but I claimed I lost it.
Speaker 2: Come on, man, take an inventory everybody. Start looking at
Speaker 2: the things man, that God has brought you through. Start
Speaker 2: looking at how many times He allowed you to make it.
Speaker 2: And get glad about waking up in the morning. Man,
Speaker 2: get glad about your life. Start feeling something positive about
Speaker 2: your situation. You cannot expect God to continue to bless
Speaker 2: you if you're not grateful for the things.
Speaker 7: That you have.
Speaker 2: Why would God sitting down here looking at you, upset, angry,
Speaker 2: laying in the wall of what you are not grateful for.
Speaker 2: You just can't find the scene and find no gratitude
Speaker 2: in your heart about nothing, but you steady asking God
Speaker 2: for something. So now you think God is crazy? You
Speaker 2: think he gonna give you some more stuff to not
Speaker 2: be grateful for. Are you kidding me? Why would he
Speaker 2: do that.
Speaker 6: He's too full of too much mercy to send you
Speaker 6: through that over and over and over.
Speaker 2: The more I give my child, the more ungrateful they are,
Speaker 2: the less gratitude they show. But I'm gonna keep dumping
Speaker 2: it on them so they can keep feeling ungrateful and
Speaker 2: then show like a gratitude. God's not gonna do that
Speaker 2: to you. Come on, man, have you ever counted how
Speaker 2: many times you made it? I can't count how many
Speaker 2: times God then got me through something. But when He
Speaker 2: gets you through it, you ain't get up and get
Speaker 2: on about your business. Don't lay that in it.
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Speaker 5: Al Green, Donny hath the way, Okay, Luther Vandra, Hey.
Speaker 1: No no, no, ain't going.
Speaker 6: What name them? Get Donald have the way?
Speaker 11: Marvin.
Speaker 2: Yes, Now, I love all of them for various reasons.
Speaker 2: But let me explain it from the top down. Take
Speaker 2: Luther off all this.
Speaker 6: Going anywhere, greatest male vocalist ever.
Speaker 1: Live, so going anywhere?
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Speaker 6: how he's not going? And then who else?
Speaker 1: And Marvin, Yes, definitely not. It's gotta be done. It's
Speaker 1: gotta be done. That's gotta be And no disrespect to Donnie.
Speaker 1: Don't many players. That's the hardest one. Yet a lot
Speaker 1: of one more.
Speaker 2: Ring by right day, hold stop right there, stop right there.
Speaker 6: Them two ain't going nowhere. Now, go ahead, go ahead.
Speaker 1: For the bread of college greens, which what one got
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Speaker 6: I ain't no shopping the greens can go.
Speaker 1: Took out corn bread.
Speaker 6: Ain't no more shopping for your Hey man, hey, your ass.
Speaker 1: Is out the family, just like those collar greens. All right,
Speaker 1: that was fun. That was fun. Keep you going though
Speaker 1: you're listening hard morning show.
Speaker 9: All right, guys, it's time to spend the morning up
Speaker 9: with the nephew and run that prank back.
Speaker 1: What you got for it? Snap, surely it is PSC
Speaker 1: P s C. That is prostate.
Speaker 11: Chuckles, goet, no PSC cross state.
Speaker 8: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach a Roger. Roger, my
Speaker 8: name is Greg, I'm a PSC. I got you on
Speaker 8: my schedule. I'm supposed to come by your house tomorrow
Speaker 8: morning at about seven fifteen. I just want to give
Speaker 8: you a call, give your heads up and let you
Speaker 8: know we will be there about seven fifteen. From my understanding,
Speaker 8: you go to work at US. Oh you say, I'm
Speaker 8: a PSC, sir, I'll be there. I'll be there tomorrow.
Speaker 8: I got you on my schedule for Monday morning, and
Speaker 8: I'll be there at least about seven fifteen. From my understanding,
Speaker 8: you go to work at seven thirty, and my proceed
Speaker 8: is only gonna take a couple of minutes. But I
Speaker 8: wanted to a friendly call and let you know that
Speaker 8: I will be by there tomorrow morning.
Speaker 10: What's the PSC, PFC? What's you say? A PSC?
Speaker 8: PSC? Sir? PSC? I will be there tomorrow. I've been
Speaker 8: in business probably for the last I guess about thirteen
Speaker 8: fourteen years now.
Speaker 10: What is PSC specialist?
Speaker 2: What you do?
Speaker 8: Oh? You're not I'm sorry, you're not familiar.
Speaker 10: How you got me on the schedule? Why ain't trying us?
Speaker 6: And nothing?
Speaker 8: Oh? I got you on my list here. I don't
Speaker 8: know who puts you on here? You it's been paid
Speaker 8: for everything for me to come by and do my job,
Speaker 8: and like I said, it only take me a couple
Speaker 8: of minutes and I'll have you on your way. How
Speaker 8: do you get my number?
Speaker 10: Taga in How did you get my phone number?
Speaker 1: Sir?
Speaker 8: Everything I have I got, I got twenty stops tomorrow
Speaker 8: and I got your schedules as my first stop tomorrow morning.
Speaker 8: I don't know I got your phone number. I do
Speaker 8: have your address. Are you at.
Speaker 2: Drives?
Speaker 10: Yeah, that's my add just but I'm not scheduled for
Speaker 10: nobody to come to my house in the morning. I
Speaker 10: gotta go to work in the morning. I'm I gonna
Speaker 10: be here right right.
Speaker 8: My understanding, Well, from understanding, you pull out about seven
Speaker 8: thirty and I'm gonna get there seven to fifteen. Like
Speaker 8: I said, you know, the procedure only takes about two
Speaker 8: three minutes, and you tell me worry.
Speaker 10: About everybody my information? You know, when I leave home
Speaker 10: and everything.
Speaker 7: Who is it?
Speaker 8: Like I said, my name is Greg, I'm a PSC
Speaker 8: and I'll be there.
Speaker 10: Okay, you said that, I ready, you'll see me tomorrow.
Speaker 8: I'm sorry. I just wanted to give your friendly call
Speaker 8: here on Sunday and let you know that I'll be there.
Speaker 8: I'll be there about seven fifteen, and we'll get you
Speaker 8: taken care of it and then I'll let you get
Speaker 8: on your whay to work.
Speaker 10: You still ain't telling me what I suppose what you're
Speaker 10: supposed to.
Speaker 8: Be doing, sir, A PSC is PSC. I'm a pro
Speaker 8: state checker, and what I'll be doing is coming in
Speaker 8: and checking your pro state tomorrow.
Speaker 10: Oh well, now you ain't coming here checking my price state.
Speaker 10: I gave my proce state checked by my doctor. Who
Speaker 10: was you talking about coming to check my five state?
Speaker 4: Now at my house you ain't come to check my
Speaker 4: And you know what, I get this all the time.
Speaker 8: I get a lot of people that are in denial,
Speaker 8: a lot of men that that claim that they.
Speaker 10: Got the state is fined. I in my price state
Speaker 10: check just at at the beginning of this year. Man,
Speaker 10: you don't need to come to my eye checking my pried.
Speaker 4: State, Sir.
Speaker 8: A lot of people, a lot of men are in
Speaker 8: denial saying that they got it checked and they got
Speaker 8: it a lot of times we find out they haven't.
Speaker 8: And there has to be a reason if I got
Speaker 8: you on my list and it's paid, somebody is paid
Speaker 8: one hundred and twenty five dollars for me to come
Speaker 8: out there and check it.
Speaker 10: Well, you should be happy you paid us twenty five dollars.
Speaker 10: This is a lesson job. You have to do that
Speaker 10: because you're not come and check my pave state.
Speaker 8: Sir. I'm gonna check it now. I'm gonna be by
Speaker 8: there tomorrow and I'm seven pif pent. I'm putting my
Speaker 8: rubber glove on with a little bit of jail on it,
Speaker 8: and I am going to check your pro state and
Speaker 8: then I'll let you get on the work.
Speaker 10: Well, I'll tell you what, never, rubber glove ain't going
Speaker 10: no where near me, home, boy. I tell you what
Speaker 10: you've ved on over my eyes. If you want to,
Speaker 10: it ain't gonna be pretty, and it ain't gonna be
Speaker 10: nice with you in your rubber glove.
Speaker 8: Sir.
Speaker 10: Might have mad to stick a reubel glove up yo
Speaker 10: when I'm done with you, And don't be comfortab by
Speaker 10: my high talking about taking my price state, Sir.
Speaker 8: Sir, do you realize that this is the leading calls
Speaker 8: to black men? Do you realize that I understand that
Speaker 8: all right, the black men three out of five black
Speaker 8: men are lost every year. We just so you ought
Speaker 8: to be very grateful that someone is sending me by
Speaker 8: there to check it and make sure you're okay.
Speaker 3: I'm grateful that I.
Speaker 10: Can pay for a doctor that I go to every
Speaker 10: at once a year. Man, you're gonna have to come
Speaker 10: to my hoigh time by sticking no rubber glove of me.
Speaker 4: Man, I'm stunging with you, sir.
Speaker 8: I'm not gonna sit here and go back and forth
Speaker 8: with you. My job is to give you a friendly
Speaker 8: call and let you know that I'm coming all right
Speaker 8: now tomorrow. Ma listen, I don't want to hear anymore
Speaker 8: of it. Tomorrow morning, I'm there at seven fifteen, and
Speaker 8: you're gonna get your price state checked whether you like
Speaker 8: it or not.
Speaker 4: Well you made don't buy here dead, I show him
Speaker 4: be here.
Speaker 10: You mail bad, Thank you bad enough to come over
Speaker 10: here check my I say, you bang it.
Speaker 8: I'm gonna mark it. So you just be ready at
Speaker 8: seven fifteen, but you're gonna get your prostate checking.
Speaker 4: I'll be here, I say, I'll let you go on
Speaker 4: the work in case. Come you come on over here
Speaker 4: if you want.
Speaker 10: You you know my address and all my what time
Speaker 10: I go to work and everything. You you bang your
Speaker 10: back on over here if you want to.
Speaker 8: I don't care if I gotta come over there, sir
Speaker 8: and hold you down and check your prostate. I'm coming
Speaker 8: to check your prostate at seven fifteen tomorrow morning, or
Speaker 8: I'll tell you what.
Speaker 4: You bring your mark John over there. You you think
Speaker 4: you know who I am, what I need over here?
Speaker 4: You come on over here and you do what you
Speaker 4: gotta do. I can't be over there tomorrow more wherever
Speaker 4: being wrong. You're gonna be checking something else besides me.
Speaker 4: You're gonna be checking you on you bry it.
Speaker 10: Don't know where if you want to she if I
Speaker 10: don't get you up out of here, wanna be coming
Speaker 10: to my house today. But you you tell somebody talking
Speaker 10: about I needed prostint check or something, somebody on the
Speaker 10: phone something I need to prostate or something. You bang
Speaker 10: your I'll tell you what. I'll be here when you
Speaker 10: get here.
Speaker 4: You bang it over.
Speaker 10: I want to bring that tomorrow in the morrow going off,
Speaker 10: you won't walk it say if you gotta be weird
Speaker 10: away from this, you may if you want to.
Speaker 8: I'm gonna have my glove on tomorrow and I'm gonna
Speaker 8: be checking your prom stay.
Speaker 4: I'll tell you ain't in the morning.
Speaker 10: If you want to tell about checking the price state.
Speaker 10: You're gonna be checking your own pride state because I'm
Speaker 10: telling you what I got something for you. You come
Speaker 10: from here, you by your bad You think you're bad
Speaker 10: enough to come on here, Chase, I'm over here, you
Speaker 10: come on with it.
Speaker 8: I got one more wing I need to say to
Speaker 8: you all.
Speaker 10: You're listening, then, what Dad you got to say to me?
Speaker 12: Now?
Speaker 10: You told me it's not just you got to tell me?
Speaker 8: Now? Are you listening to me?
Speaker 10: This bab down over here? You're gonna be here and
Speaker 10: I'm gonna be over there.
Speaker 8: But I got one more thing I want to say.
Speaker 10: Are you listening what you got to say to me?
Speaker 6: Man?
Speaker 8: That's this nephew till Me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 8: You just got pranked by your homeboy?
Speaker 4: Who who?
Speaker 10: Who you say you was?
Speaker 8: Again? Hey man, this is nephew Timmy from the Steve
Speaker 8: Harvey Morning Show. Man, your homeboy got me to prank
Speaker 8: phone call.
Speaker 7: You, Chris Harmon tell me by man?
Speaker 10: All right, Roger boy, y'all about to make me go out?
Speaker 10: I don't wondering who the hell don't come out on somebody?
Speaker 10: How to do a prostate? Chicks on regular basis like that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I sold got me, man, I'm gonna get
Speaker 4: him back.
Speaker 10: Boy, I can't believe you do me like that. I'm
Speaker 10: gonna go over there and check his pro state. You know,
Speaker 10: I don't even think you get here checked on the regular.
Speaker 10: I want to have somebody to come check mine.
Speaker 8: Hey, man, I got one more thing to ask you, man,
Speaker 8: what is what is the baddest I'm talking about the
Speaker 8: baddest radio show in the land.
Speaker 10: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Man, Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 9: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now,
Speaker 9: ladies and gentlemen to ask the CLO. The Chief Love
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Speaker 1: This one from Hello, Yeah, the close clo.
Speaker 8: Hello.
Speaker 1: This one is from Khalil in Ohio.
Speaker 9: Khalil says, I'm forty seven years old and I've been
Speaker 9: married for close to six years. I got a new
Speaker 9: job in a different state and we're staying in temporary
Speaker 9: housing until we find a house.
Speaker 1: My wife can work from home, so she was able
Speaker 1: to keep her job.
Speaker 9: Over the weekend, we plan to look at a few houses,
Speaker 9: and my wife told me that I should look at
Speaker 9: apartments because she was moving back to our old city.
Speaker 9: She said she missed her mom and her friends and
Speaker 9: her old life. I'm her husband, and she.
Speaker 1: Should be with me. Am I right or wrong?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, wow, you're right about that. Yeah, she should
Speaker 2: be with you. But now let's deal with what's happening though.
Speaker 2: She moving back to her old city with her mom
Speaker 2: and her friend whole life, and he whole life. You know,
Speaker 2: let's keep right kind of. Hey, well let me just
Speaker 2: let me just give her a gesture. Don't start there.
Speaker 2: Let's go back to this old life business, because you
Speaker 2: know I had one too. Oh you know, I don't
Speaker 2: know what you thought I was before.
Speaker 1: I got married. Who've been married for six years?
Speaker 6: It's that seven year?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 1: What it is?
Speaker 6: She want to go back and leave you down there
Speaker 6: with that apartment? All right?
Speaker 2: Careful now, yeah, you got to be real careful. Yeah,
Speaker 2: the separation ain't good sometimes.
Speaker 1: Once we put these beads in this house? Is it
Speaker 1: think you only come on Bobby?
Speaker 2: Wait tonight, girl, See you gotta be careful.
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, all right.
Speaker 6: He ended up being in that apartment just playing all
Speaker 6: the old hits turn off.
Speaker 1: So he's right in that She should you want to
Speaker 1: be with him? Yeah, definitely.
Speaker 9: Sir Khalil Jericha in DeSoto, Texas says, I'm twenty eight
Speaker 9: and I'm dating a man that has a three year
Speaker 9: old daughter that is a brat. She was at my
Speaker 9: boyfriend's house recently and I cooked dinner for the three
Speaker 9: of us. It was baked chicken, sweet potatoes.
Speaker 1: And broccoli.
Speaker 9: This three year old child announced that she wasn't eating
Speaker 9: my food because it looked nasty. She asked for chicken
Speaker 9: nuggets and her dad took her to get some. She
Speaker 9: stuck out her tongue at me before they left. I
Speaker 9: don't play with children, and she needs to know that.
Speaker 9: Can I discipline her myself or should he?
Speaker 2: Well, I mean right now, he should, but you know
Speaker 2: it's not right to disrespect you. But now, on the
Speaker 2: other hand, there's some things you can do when ain't
Speaker 2: nobody around. You know, I've done it to a lot
Speaker 2: of people kids.
Speaker 6: Well, like, what what do you mean?
Speaker 1: What's you have done?
Speaker 8: Though?
Speaker 2: You know, just just right in the hear just what
Speaker 2: you do, just put you right over against it and
Speaker 2: just said, don't get your ass, don't hit them, just
Speaker 2: say it.
Speaker 1: She is a brad. At three.
Speaker 2: Wow, come on, she don't like your cook it? And
Speaker 2: he got her some nuggets. Now, can we put a
Speaker 2: bunch of mustard on that? On the nuggets? When she
Speaker 2: turned her head? Can we load? Can we what else
Speaker 2: can we do?
Speaker 6: It's just.
Speaker 2: Really nice, like put it right up under the skin.
Speaker 2: You's a little space between the nugget and the skin.
Speaker 2: Like get a little needle and just put a little
Speaker 2: tabasco in each one. Yeah, the hot daddy that's caused
Speaker 2: a fresh.
Speaker 7: It.
Speaker 9: Laying in Detroit says, I've been a widow for two
Speaker 9: years and I have a thirty seven year old son
Speaker 9: that comes by once a week to have coffee with me.
Speaker 1: Well, I didn't take that into consideration.
Speaker 9: When I had a little too much wine with my
Speaker 9: new boyfriend and he ended up spinning the night with me.
Speaker 9: My son popped up at my house for coffee early
Speaker 9: the next morning, and I was still in bed with
Speaker 9: my boyfriend. My son got angry and told the man
Speaker 9: to leave. I told him he didn't have to leave.
Speaker 1: My son said, it's too soon for me to date.
Speaker 1: How soon it's too soon?
Speaker 2: Well, obviously it ain't too soon, because she had naked
Speaker 2: for two years it's been how long?
Speaker 1: Two years?
Speaker 6: Yeah? Two years? I see it.
Speaker 2: Dog, it's just too soon for you. Your mama ready,
Speaker 2: she and that close off everything, Mama ready. Two years
Speaker 2: is enough time though, two years?
Speaker 6: Two years?
Speaker 2: New boyfriend? I mean, man, you know, sorry you lost
Speaker 2: your father. I mean, but you know, you know, life
Speaker 2: goes on.
Speaker 9: Man.
Speaker 2: You know, man, you should really man, you should be
Speaker 2: happy for your mother. I know not, but I wouldn't
Speaker 2: be either. I'd put his ass out to tell you. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: you gonna get about it here my dad, you're leaving
Speaker 2: here naked.
Speaker 6: Wow.
Speaker 9: I remember when at Tommy's dad's funeral he said exactly that,
Speaker 9: telling men that were in the audience not to come
Speaker 9: around his mom.
Speaker 1: Don't come around my mama house. I don't want to
Speaker 1: hear about that.
Speaker 11: My daddy fixed your alarm. Oh if you ain't got
Speaker 11: your alarm ower back, guess what that's over. You don't
Speaker 11: get that long.
Speaker 1: It's always come around my mama.
Speaker 11: How acting like you're looking for alarm? I know what
Speaker 11: to hear you're looking for. Let me tell you right now,
Speaker 11: it's a wrap.
Speaker 1: It's not happening, all right, Celo. We're moving on.
Speaker 9: This one's from Anonymous in Georgia. Anonymous says, I'm in
Speaker 9: my mid thirties and recently divorced. I got to keep
Speaker 9: the house and he gets to pay the mortgage. There's
Speaker 9: one big problem though. His mother lives in the basement
Speaker 9: in the studio apartment we built for her three years ago.
Speaker 9: She's not willing to move out, so the judge said
Speaker 9: she could keep the apartment in my basement. I don't
Speaker 9: want her down there period. What if I sold the
Speaker 9: house to get rid of her, would that be too
Speaker 9: low down?
Speaker 2: I mean, you could sell the house if you got it,
Speaker 2: but he paying the mortgage. I mean, you know, look y'all,
Speaker 2: y'all got a divorce. You know, you keep the house,
Speaker 2: but you got to keep mama too, because mama in
Speaker 2: the base.
Speaker 1: In the apartment.
Speaker 6: I don't know what to tell you. I'm stomped on never.
Speaker 2: I know, you don't want to end there, but the
Speaker 2: judge says she can stay, so you know, yeah, all
Speaker 2: you can do is make it rough.
Speaker 6: To be down there. Cut the water, or you can
Speaker 6: just get a leak right up above the flow.
Speaker 1: We gotta go, Clo. Thank you for your advice. As always,
Speaker 1: you're listening Morning Show.
Speaker 5: All right, it's time for something funny, high for something.
Speaker 5: Finan I got something, a list, we all got some.
Speaker 5: Just let you know right away when it ain't none
Speaker 5: of your damn bit. You might't see it, Yeah, but
Speaker 5: let it go.
Speaker 8: Let it go.
Speaker 1: What you keep, what you see, but it ain't your
Speaker 1: b for instance, Yeah.
Speaker 6: You are going to have to do something now we
Speaker 6: have because you're not good that you don't like this
Speaker 6: because you're.
Speaker 1: Bullsh but miss is real bad.
Speaker 6: I want you to read them. This is really going
Speaker 6: on in people's lives. I want you to read at
Speaker 6: least two of these, all of you, and read it
Speaker 6: like you mean it. Let's start off with you.
Speaker 1: Here we go, all right, here we go. Number one,
Speaker 1: This ain't none of your openings. You see it. If
Speaker 1: you see.
Speaker 5: Somebody throwing a large rug rolled up and it's got
Speaker 5: feet hanging out.
Speaker 7: Yeah, so damn.
Speaker 13: Tell somebody and speak when you walk back, how you
Speaker 13: doing s I'll tell you what. I'll tell you what.
Speaker 6: This is real.
Speaker 13: When you at a restaurant, uh huh, you see somebody
Speaker 13: in the back having a problem with the food, and
Speaker 13: somebody holl out what the hell?
Speaker 1: I just say, keep eating, don't somebody get into it.
Speaker 6: That one. I'll tell you what.
Speaker 11: If you at the restaurant see a cow pass through
Speaker 11: the back and two chickens fly food, that really ain't nothing.
Speaker 12: What you go on?
Speaker 6: Come on, try read one of these and big one.
Speaker 1: Just pick one.
Speaker 9: Should Okay, If you see your neighbors kids, if they
Speaker 9: steal a car or something and it's not yours.
Speaker 1: Your damn.
Speaker 6: Nothing.
Speaker 1: My neighbors don't know them, it don't.
Speaker 2: If you see somebody with something on, they know and
Speaker 2: it looked like break your soul?
Speaker 6: Is your damn.
Speaker 1: Okay? All right, all right?
Speaker 9: If you see someone open the exit door.
Speaker 1: Okay, you're at the movies.
Speaker 9: And they let nine people in the theater, Oh, come on.
Speaker 11: MBI the.
Speaker 1: Movie starting.
Speaker 11: If you hanging out with some white folks at the
Speaker 11: park and they hear something and walk through the woods,
Speaker 11: let me tell you something that ain't got nothing to.
Speaker 8: Do with you.
Speaker 1: That ain't none of you want you going there now
Speaker 1: that I don't agree with you.
Speaker 6: He heard something? Lemon had one?
Speaker 3: Lemon?
Speaker 1: Had one?
Speaker 8: Lemon?
Speaker 6: Have one?
Speaker 1: All right?
Speaker 5: Your homeboy, y'all been boys feeing tight, y'all tight, just
Speaker 5: hang out. All of a sudden you see him hanging out,
Speaker 5: hugged up with another dude.
Speaker 6: That none of that. You gotta be careful.
Speaker 1: They don't say anything about this.
Speaker 13: If you see someone at the drive through take the
Speaker 13: money and put it in his pocket, nothing your damn
Speaker 13: you as.
Speaker 6: Trong as you get your food, just get your food.
Speaker 1: You better call the police. You don't know.
Speaker 6: You don't drive off from that window. You don't know
Speaker 6: what he going through.
Speaker 1: You don't know what's at all.
Speaker 10: Man.
Speaker 2: If you in line, uh after amusement Paul right, okay, yeah,
Speaker 2: and somebody cut the line behind you yet that ain't your.
Speaker 6: Come up here in front of me, but you cut
Speaker 6: You see him.
Speaker 1: Cut right there like the right behind you. That ain't
Speaker 1: yourn the line. That's not right. Not let me tell
Speaker 1: you that one.
Speaker 11: If you wit your wife, uh huh and see your
Speaker 11: girlfriend with another man, that really ain't no damn your mouth.
Speaker 1: Yeah, let me saying. You shouldn't say nothing, not gonna
Speaker 1: say any not a thing, not a good time.
Speaker 7: I heard.
Speaker 1: You're in the grocery store.
Speaker 5: You see somebody go over to the grapes and they
Speaker 5: eat about they four handfuls of break up, a pound,
Speaker 5: they eat a complete they eat a pound break I
Speaker 5: just set there getting grapes.
Speaker 1: That ain't none of your tail business. That jo Jay?
Speaker 1: Is that that dealing? That's great? How about this Jay?
Speaker 1: But you have to bank, uh huh, And you have
Speaker 1: to window, and the man next to you have to winter.
Speaker 13: If you see him slide the note to the tailor, Hey, hey,
Speaker 13: that ain't none of your tail being.
Speaker 1: Give me my twenties I had and let me go
Speaker 1: get out. All right.
Speaker 5: I'm with you, all right, You and you in the
Speaker 5: coffee place right, you're sitting there, and you see somebody
Speaker 5: get a handful of them sugars, like just a handful,
Speaker 5: two in each hand, two handful of the packs.
Speaker 1: Put them in their pocket. They don't bother. I'm diabetic anyway.
Speaker 1: That's too many sugars, jump too much.
Speaker 6: If you in the jail, uh huhh.
Speaker 2: And you see somebody working out with a train and
Speaker 2: the trainer tailed him to do fifteen reps and he
Speaker 2: walk home and they don't do but six.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I gotta tell that, honest, it ain't got nothing
Speaker 1: to do.
Speaker 9: All right, coming up more of the Steve Harvey Morning
Speaker 9: Show right after this.
Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, here
Speaker 1: we go.
Speaker 9: Time for would you rather? Would you rather jump rope naked?
Speaker 1: Or wear a helmet during sex?
Speaker 8: Me?
Speaker 11: Just helmet on, jump rope, that jump rope aware you're
Speaker 11: at man, you just you're just all overplay.
Speaker 2: And when you miss nick, miss, you're gonna have wet
Speaker 2: marks on your legs.
Speaker 6: And I can't take up and down. That's too much banging.
Speaker 1: And when you get it caught up in that rope,
Speaker 1: that's that's that's entanglement, that's entangled.
Speaker 2: But I'm a frank though, because I can't swam into
Speaker 2: my thighs ten times and still be conscious.
Speaker 6: I can't. I'm gonna there's gonna.
Speaker 2: Be some short, short, short, short rope jumping. You ain't
Speaker 2: fell Steve unconscious.
Speaker 6: Putting his helmet on.
Speaker 1: It's gonna look like I'm going bike riding, but I'm
Speaker 1: not all right?
Speaker 9: Would you rather wink at every woman you see? Or
Speaker 9: bark at every woman you see?
Speaker 6: So what are we doing?
Speaker 1: Are we winking or are we barking? What you're gonna
Speaker 1: wear your eyes winking? That's just you're gonna be just
Speaker 1: just caid.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you now that bark gonna get on
Speaker 2: your nerves Hello, it's gonna get your nerves.
Speaker 6: All that barking gets.
Speaker 1: On your nerves.
Speaker 6: I'n't been around the bruhs before.
Speaker 1: It just went.
Speaker 6: Man, I got to go home.
Speaker 1: Too much.
Speaker 2: Now I can't do it no more. Yeah, you don't
Speaker 2: mark no more. You got the new young bruhs. You
Speaker 2: know who they are. Okay, you got them old bruhs
Speaker 2: that make you give it to them.
Speaker 1: So you guys want to wink?
Speaker 9: Would you rather bathe in pickle juice or would you
Speaker 9: rather bathe in warm hot dog water?
Speaker 2: Yeah, pickle juice can't get up in there. No, that
Speaker 2: pickle juice gonna create a problem. That pickle juice can't touch. Now,
Speaker 2: one of them opening fellas.
Speaker 1: Hot dog water can hot dog water? Ain't no vinegar
Speaker 1: in that? I want that hot dog water.
Speaker 6: My brothers. Let me tell you what my brothers used
Speaker 6: to do. The dude.
Speaker 2: They would eat all the hot dogs and pour the
Speaker 2: hot water juice in the bowl with some crackers and
Speaker 2: tell them that was soup.
Speaker 1: You did that to me, I'm gonna be talking about
Speaker 1: nobody else you did.
Speaker 2: Well, how I had to learn it from somewhere. I
Speaker 2: thought it was a good thing to pass.
Speaker 1: On family tradition. Thinking I had some damn soup. I
Speaker 1: really did, I swam.
Speaker 6: I told her.
Speaker 1: You're listening morning show. It's time for comedy roulette with
Speaker 1: you guys. I had no here.
Speaker 8: How we do this?
Speaker 1: Let explained because we have new people any day. Give
Speaker 1: us four subjects. Quiet Steve, you have to explain everything, people,
Speaker 1: And come on, Jay, all right, yes, we four j.
Speaker 5: We have four subjects. That not being one of them.
Speaker 5: Put them on the wheel. Spun the wheel, weds do We'll.
Speaker 9: Do the damn All right, let's go comedy roulette. Number
Speaker 9: number one, you just blank, but I'm not supposed to laugh.
Speaker 9: Number two, keep on eating stuff in the fridge that
Speaker 9: don't got your name on it, and see what happens
Speaker 9: to you.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 9: Number three blank is a bad white boy or white girl.
Speaker 9: Oh and number four, yeah, number four, he picked on
Speaker 9: the wrong person this time. Uh huh, he picked on
Speaker 9: the wrong person this time.
Speaker 1: All right, cat span it, spin it. I'm like, all
Speaker 1: they're all good to beat myself in the fridge. Oh
Speaker 1: it stopped doing. You just blake, But I'm not supposed
Speaker 1: to laugh.
Speaker 2: Hold on, hold on, before you do that, I gotta
Speaker 2: set rude Okay, none of these jokes can be fat jokes.
Speaker 1: Oh no problem, No, what what said that?
Speaker 6: You just they staying far?
Speaker 8: I know.
Speaker 1: You just blake, but I'm not supposed to laugh. Okay.
Speaker 5: I told you before you started to cut the power off,
Speaker 5: before you change that socket, but you didn't, and then
Speaker 5: and not give behind clean across.
Speaker 1: But I ain't laugh. I'll tell you what you don't.
Speaker 1: What did I tell you?
Speaker 8: Man?
Speaker 1: What did I tell you? I told you that was
Speaker 1: not apple juice?
Speaker 6: You drunk it?
Speaker 1: Anybody that was prune's juice.
Speaker 11: But now see nasty the bathroom somebody in it.
Speaker 1: But see now, I'm not opposed to liapsy. You know
Speaker 1: what pruved you do?
Speaker 2: Wow?
Speaker 6: I just told you I ain't finished putting the screws
Speaker 6: in that tread.
Speaker 8: Man.
Speaker 6: Now you done, just jumped your ass up on that
Speaker 6: and start running. And I ain't supposed to laugh.
Speaker 5: I told you walking out the people house every day,
Speaker 5: teasing that dog. One day he gonna get out and
Speaker 5: wear your behind out.
Speaker 3: He just did.
Speaker 1: You got Doug boes all over your body. But I
Speaker 1: ain't supposed to laugh.
Speaker 8: Yeah, no, you.
Speaker 1: You allergic to shrimp? Oh yeah, I look up.
Speaker 13: You had already been into the goo. Have to just
Speaker 13: swim up before my face, and I'm not supposed to laugh.
Speaker 1: I told you they was shrimping the rough room bore
Speaker 1: you comedians.
Speaker 11: What did I tell you? And I tell you what
Speaker 11: I tell you. I know it was April food, but
Speaker 11: I told you I said, I said that. What I said,
Speaker 11: I said, your wife is at the club. Go somewhere else.
Speaker 11: Why you show up with your number two at the cliff,
Speaker 11: Why you do that?
Speaker 1: Come on playing with you? You expect me not to laugh.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, plain comedy roulette. Let's show on my turn.
Speaker 3: Attention.
Speaker 1: I told you you heard me.
Speaker 6: See I told you not to buy that use Mazara.
Speaker 1: It's gotten personal, has it?
Speaker 6: I asked not to go down there talking to Donald Trump.
Speaker 3: Did not tell you that?
Speaker 1: Coming up more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right
Speaker 1: after this. You're listening Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at
Speaker 1: the top of the hour. Right about four minutes after.
Speaker 9: It's my strawberry letter for today, the subject how large
Speaker 9: is too large?
Speaker 1: We'll get into that in just a.
Speaker 9: Few minutes, but right now the nephew is here with
Speaker 9: today's prank phone call.
Speaker 1: What do you have for us today.
Speaker 11: Nephew, it happens to us quite often, Shirley call it
Speaker 11: it happens. The title today is he left his draws.
Speaker 11: He left his draws, okay, And it's happened on so
Speaker 11: many different occasions, and I think it's happened for all
Speaker 11: of us. Whether you whether you have found somebody's draws
Speaker 11: that they left at the house. Oh oh, you are
Speaker 11: the person that left the draws, all right, he left
Speaker 11: his draws.
Speaker 1: Cat dog, if you would.
Speaker 7: Hello, yes, hey, this is the door man mark of
Speaker 7: your building. Okay. I have a mistress here who is
Speaker 7: trying to get buzzed up to your unit. Are you
Speaker 7: Are you at home right now? Sir?
Speaker 10: No, No, no, sir, I'm not a who a mister?
Speaker 8: What sorry?
Speaker 7: What you say?
Speaker 6: Mister?
Speaker 7: And he wants he buzzed up. Supposedly he left some
Speaker 7: articles in the room or in your unit a couple.
Speaker 8: Of days ago.
Speaker 7: And I was out of town a couple of days ago.
Speaker 8: What day are we talking about?
Speaker 10: Uh so what day you?
Speaker 6: Actually?
Speaker 7: He started Wednesday, Thursday and Friday. He was there all
Speaker 7: three days. You guys let him into my apartment for
Speaker 7: three days.
Speaker 8: He was in my place.
Speaker 7: No mischief We don't let anybody in and let someone
Speaker 7: in the unit allow them to be buzzed up. That's
Speaker 7: the rules there of the building. So we definitely didn't
Speaker 7: do anything of char.
Speaker 10: Who let him in?
Speaker 8: Who buzzed him?
Speaker 7: Indy, sir, I hate to say it, but I'm assuming
Speaker 7: your wife must to buzz him up. You mean my
Speaker 7: wife was not there three days ago.
Speaker 10: She was on a business trip. She was not at
Speaker 10: the apartment three days ago.
Speaker 7: No, sir, your wife was here. I've actually seen your wife.
Speaker 8: Come in and out.
Speaker 10: Okay, the dude is there right now.
Speaker 7: He's downstairs. He's here right now with me.
Speaker 6: Sir.
Speaker 7: What did he leave him late?
Speaker 11: Okay?
Speaker 7: One second, MISSI hang, actually leave this part fair pant?
Speaker 4: I know?
Speaker 7: And what else he says?
Speaker 6: He left?
Speaker 7: Uh a pair of pants so underwearing the tooth for
Speaker 7: rush shirt. Sir, till kill till he's.
Speaker 8: There right now? Let me talk to him.
Speaker 10: Put him on the phone. Let me talk to you
Speaker 10: know what, missus.
Speaker 7: Right now, we're listening to you, and I rate the
Speaker 7: way you saying. I don't want to put this guy
Speaker 7: on the phone. Mark, if you want to keep your
Speaker 7: job at the building, you're gonna put him on the
Speaker 7: phone now, sir, Sorry, miss he's actually leaving out of
Speaker 7: the building.
Speaker 6: Now he's.
Speaker 7: Leave, he's walk putting.
Speaker 10: Him on the phone. What is your problem?
Speaker 7: You got videos to vailis right?
Speaker 8: You got video footage of everybody that comes.
Speaker 7: In and out of the building, right, yes, sir, But
Speaker 7: you know, if if nothing occurs, we I think we
Speaker 7: should have footage that goes back at least two weeks,
Speaker 7: so we should be able to pull some things up
Speaker 7: for you.
Speaker 2: Sir.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm gonna need you to get that, and I
Speaker 7: need to hit over to me right now. I'm at
Speaker 7: my work email. I need it today because this is
Speaker 7: some y'all let my apartment and it's like, what kind
Speaker 7: of income fool party?
Speaker 10: What kind of infore are you?
Speaker 8: Sir?
Speaker 6: Missus? Missus?
Speaker 7: All right, well, please hear me out, sir, hear me out.
Speaker 7: I heard. We haven't just let someone in. Someone in
Speaker 7: your unit. Buzz someone up. We didn't just let anyone up. Now,
Speaker 7: I know you don't want to hear it, but I'm
Speaker 7: assuming your wife buzz this guy just turned up. We
Speaker 7: didn't do that. You shut stuff and get me what
Speaker 7: I asked for and then we're done. Okay, Well, well,
Speaker 7: you know you're saying I have a problem. Maybe you
Speaker 7: have a problem pleasing your wife and that's why she's
Speaker 7: buzzing other people.
Speaker 10: Oh you talking to me like that, you pump.
Speaker 7: You're being respectful to me as well, sir.
Speaker 10: No, no, no, no.
Speaker 7: The disrespectful is you coming and letting people come up
Speaker 7: to my building.
Speaker 6: That you know is now.
Speaker 7: I haven't let anybody up. I can't stop your wife
Speaker 7: from doing what she's doing. You don't forget him what
Speaker 7: you're thinking and mind taking out on me and what
Speaker 7: you should be saying to your wife. Somebody has got
Speaker 7: a dress up all the time and always buzzing somebody
Speaker 7: up to the room when you're gone. That's what tw
Speaker 7: me to the door man.
Speaker 8: You you you, you know what.
Speaker 10: I'm the only around here busting my take care.
Speaker 7: Damn man, I'm over here working right now to take
Speaker 7: for that.
Speaker 10: Job.
Speaker 7: Well, you might be handling you, but man, whatever the dinner,
Speaker 7: you're not. You're not handling your business at home. That's
Speaker 7: why she keeps buzzing people off.
Speaker 8: Sir.
Speaker 7: You know what with the business I'm a handle when
Speaker 7: I get home today and show.
Speaker 10: Them what I mean.
Speaker 7: Man, your your wife has been sir, you're gonna quit
Speaker 7: calling me the door man. Okay, doorman, what's showing my position?
Speaker 7: What you do for a living? I'm a doorman door
Speaker 7: and thank you, missing door man. Matter fact, I'm gonna
Speaker 7: stop calling you miss the door man, because that's giving
Speaker 7: you too much respect.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 7: You know, if you if you stop Tommy from going
Speaker 7: up to your room, you'll be fine. Who the Tommy nephew,
Speaker 7: Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your wife got
Speaker 7: me the prank phone called you.
Speaker 4: Y'all crazy.
Speaker 7: You're about to get.
Speaker 10: About job cushing.
Speaker 7: Man, It is not fool man.
Speaker 4: You don't know.
Speaker 7: That was going through my head and she.
Speaker 10: Was about to get it.
Speaker 7: You always everybody was about Hey man, I gotta ask you, man,
Speaker 7: what is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio
Speaker 7: show in the land?
Speaker 10: Man, gotta be the Steve Harvey Morney Show.
Speaker 1: He left them, won't they leave them? Wonie Willy will.
Speaker 11: Cold up next on the fifteenth I will be in Dothan, Alabama.
Speaker 11: That's right, Dothan, Alabama, And the tickets are on seal
Speaker 11: red now. And then of course on the twenty second
Speaker 11: of July, that Saturday, it's the Conclave Baby Kappa Alpha
Speaker 11: Pside Fraternity Incorporated. We will be in the one and
Speaker 11: only Tampa, Florida. Did you know what I said? Tampa Florida.
Speaker 11: So the Family Outing on the Riverwalk, the nephew would
Speaker 11: be hosting along with the beautiful Dane King. We will
Speaker 11: be hosting the Family Outing. We got step shows, we
Speaker 11: got music, we got fun. It's all going down and
Speaker 11: laying in the cut is Nashville, Tennessee twenty seven, twenty eight,
Speaker 11: twenty nine. I think I'm up in thirty I'm in Nashville, Tennessee.
Speaker 11: Tickets on cell right now. That would be Zany's Comedy
Speaker 11: Club in Nashville, Tennessee.
Speaker 1: I'm on the run, baby, I'm on the rug, all right. Nephew, catchum, catchum,
Speaker 1: catchu if you can.
Speaker 9: Coming up next Strawberry Letters subject how large it's too large?
Speaker 9: We'll find out right after this. You're listening Dave Harvey
Speaker 9: Morning Show time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if
Speaker 9: you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more.
Speaker 9: Please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com
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Speaker 1: Right here, right now. I'm buggle up, Hold on, tank,
Speaker 1: we got it for you here.
Speaker 9: It is a strawberry let us subject how large is
Speaker 9: too large?
Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley.
Speaker 9: I am in a struggle right now, and I need
Speaker 9: a little advice for a big problem. I have a
Speaker 9: male friend that I've known since first grade and we're
Speaker 9: almost forty now. I'm divorced and dating a lot of
Speaker 9: men after my divorce. After a one day recently, I
Speaker 9: had a revelation that my soulmate is someone I have
Speaker 9: known all my life. My good male friend and I
Speaker 9: hang out all of the time, but he's not who
Speaker 9: I had in mind if I were to date someone
Speaker 9: i've known a long time. He's a tall man, almost
Speaker 9: six ' five, with big hands and feet. He's not overweight,
Speaker 9: but he's massive in size compared to me. I'm petite
Speaker 9: and barely five to three, so he towers over me.
Speaker 9: He's always well groomed, but handsome. He is not exclamation mark.
Speaker 9: So he and I met up after work for dinner
Speaker 9: with another male friend of ours. He paid my tab
Speaker 9: as usual and said all I owed him was a hug.
Speaker 9: He walked me to my car and I got on
Speaker 9: my tiptoes like I always do to give him a hug,
Speaker 9: but this time he kissed me. That was a first,
Speaker 9: and I must have had too much wine because I
Speaker 9: started kissing him back. He picked me up and sat
Speaker 9: me on my car and we kissed for a good while.
Speaker 9: He didn't say a word. Afterwards, he took me down
Speaker 9: off my car and said good night. I was so
Speaker 9: turned on that I told him to follow me home.
Speaker 9: At my house, we kissed some more and then went
Speaker 9: to my bed. After a few minutes of us trying
Speaker 9: to have sex, we realized it wasn't going to work.
Speaker 1: This man is large and in charge in all areas.
Speaker 9: I was not ashamed because I've known him forever, and
Speaker 9: we laughed for hours about it. He opened up and
Speaker 9: said he wants to date me, and I'm all for
Speaker 9: trying it because I do love him and I know
Speaker 9: he loves me. But it's is intimacy out of the question.
Speaker 9: I will need to try it before I get too
Speaker 9: serious with him.
Speaker 6: What should I do?
Speaker 8: Who?
Speaker 9: Okay, I understand your concern, and this is certainly the
Speaker 9: opposite if some of the letters we get, that's for sure.
Speaker 9: I'm sure many women would want to be in your
Speaker 9: shoes right now, but it's not about them.
Speaker 1: This is about you. First.
Speaker 9: I would tell you to talk to your doctor. Women
Speaker 9: who are women are definitely built to carry children and
Speaker 9: to push.
Speaker 1: Babies out and all that.
Speaker 9: But it's always good to be sure about what's going
Speaker 9: on with your own body. And I think it was
Speaker 9: the wine that took over your body and you went
Speaker 9: too far a little bit in this one, and that
Speaker 9: maybe that's why you know you were struggling and didn't fit.
Speaker 1: You were trying too hard.
Speaker 9: I think you need to be sober if you want
Speaker 9: to be into it with him and intimate with him.
Speaker 1: I say, the next time you guys.
Speaker 9: Get together, maybe you should relax and let things happen organically.
Speaker 9: Don't try too hard, don't think too hard, don't try
Speaker 9: to force it any of that. It's gonna either fit
Speaker 9: or won't. I mean, you know, and that's how life is,
Speaker 9: I guess. But you gotta take your time, relaxed and
Speaker 9: not rush into this situation.
Speaker 1: And that's all I got.
Speaker 6: I tried to well. I gotta don't worry about it.
Speaker 2: Sometimes you can't be Ginger Shelley kill people. Help now
Speaker 2: his ladies in the struggle right now. She been knowing
Speaker 2: this man since they was in the first grade. They fought,
Speaker 2: and she's divorced. She's dated several men.
Speaker 8: She had this.
Speaker 6: Revelation, yeah, that her soulmate was somebody.
Speaker 2: That she's known for a long time, you know, you know, revelation, premonition, feeling, dream,
Speaker 2: whatever she had. Well, she got a good male, free
Speaker 2: and to hang out all the time. And he's not
Speaker 2: who she had in mind if I would to date someone.
Speaker 1: He's tall man.
Speaker 2: He's almost six five, with big hands and big feet.
Speaker 2: Now I notice, see.
Speaker 6: This is why I come in. I got big hands
Speaker 6: and I got big feet. I understand.
Speaker 2: You've noticed Thomas very quiet normally he got something say
Speaker 2: on these days.
Speaker 6: I got it.
Speaker 2: Okay, well I got another. I got the pard. I'm
Speaker 2: gonna have you chime in, tom to just sit back.
Speaker 2: I found a part for you.
Speaker 6: I ain't got more.
Speaker 2: He's not overweight, and he's massive in size compared to me.
Speaker 2: Once again, this is not Tommy. Well, it's just he Look,
Speaker 2: you know, it's just short. You know this man six five. Well,
Speaker 2: we can't be talking about Tommy big hands. You seen
Speaker 2: his hands when you just some live remote got a
Speaker 2: little raccoon hands. You know, I remember when Tom was
Speaker 2: a baby. He couldn't even hold the apple, you know.
Speaker 2: With the letter, I'm just saying we had to cut
Speaker 2: the apple in a slice. He's not overweight, but he's
Speaker 2: massive insize compared to me. Huh, well, now I'm petite
Speaker 2: five three. He's well groomed, yeah, which is a plus.
Speaker 2: Now he's always well groomed. She's barely five three. He
Speaker 2: towers over me, but handsome he is not. Okay, right there, Town,
Speaker 2: right there, you got something you won't say.
Speaker 11: Right there, I'm not gonna be ugly with you, and Junior,
Speaker 11: I ain't say you was.
Speaker 6: This is the part I'm just I told you it
Speaker 6: was a part in the letter where you could come
Speaker 6: in at.
Speaker 1: He falls on time.
Speaker 2: So they met up after work for dinner. All right,
Speaker 2: hold that thought, and right after that it started popping off.
Speaker 2: We'll be right, all right, we're.
Speaker 9: Gonna have part two of Steve's response coming up in
Speaker 9: twenty three minutes after the hour subject how large is
Speaker 9: too large?
Speaker 1: We're gonna go to break and get back into it
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening hard Morning show.
Speaker 9: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter
Speaker 9: subject with you, which you seem to think is about Tommy.
Speaker 1: Uh well, it's just no, no, no, Tommy.
Speaker 6: He's just a section in him.
Speaker 1: Which section is that?
Speaker 6: I will get to it?
Speaker 1: Okay? How long? Too large?
Speaker 6: This woman is in the struggle right now. She got
Speaker 6: a big problem.
Speaker 2: She got a male friend she knows in first grade
Speaker 2: day forty now, and she's divorced, and she's dated a
Speaker 2: lot of men. But she had to reach a recu
Speaker 2: premonition that her soulmate was somebody that she's known.
Speaker 6: For a long time.
Speaker 8: Now.
Speaker 6: She got a good male friend. They hang out all
Speaker 6: the time.
Speaker 2: But that ain't somebody she thought it would be. He's
Speaker 2: tall man, almost sixty five, big hands, big feet.
Speaker 6: This is not Tommy six ' five, big hands, big feet.
Speaker 6: That ain't Tommy. He's not over waight, but he's massive inside.
Speaker 6: To me, I put tea go ahead, barely fed where
Speaker 6: she fired three? That ain't hard to be bigger than hugy.
Speaker 1: No, massive inside.
Speaker 6: It's what I'm doing. I know because she fired three.
Speaker 1: I'm not hugging back.
Speaker 6: Yeah, she fired three.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna give you that though we we we are,
Speaker 2: but I got the line for you. This whole time
Speaker 2: he tie was over me. He's always well groomed. Here
Speaker 2: we go, temmy but handsome.
Speaker 6: He is not there you go any comments. I'm not
Speaker 6: feel free, I'm not ugly.
Speaker 8: I got that.
Speaker 2: I understand that. That's called denial. Okay, let's move on
Speaker 2: with the letter. We met up for work for dinner
Speaker 2: at another male friend of ours. He paid the tab
Speaker 2: and he said, all you in was a hug. He
Speaker 2: walked in to the car. I got on my tippy
Speaker 2: toes like I always do to give Hi a hug.
Speaker 6: But this time he kissed me. Now here we go.
Speaker 6: This was the first. That was a first.
Speaker 2: And I must have had too much wine because I
Speaker 2: started kissing him back.
Speaker 6: And Shirley come talking about instange. No, it wasn't.
Speaker 2: It wasn't why you wanted to. Wine and alcohol make
Speaker 2: you do exactly what you think. It removes reasoning. Another time,
Speaker 2: Tommy got something you won't say right now?
Speaker 1: All right?
Speaker 6: What is sex is where you might can have something? Say?
Speaker 7: All right?
Speaker 2: He picked me up and he set me on my
Speaker 2: car and we kissed for a good little while he
Speaker 2: didn't say a word afterwards. That's that, ain't you Tommy?
Speaker 2: You can't pick him on the pickup?
Speaker 6: Well, you know how high you had to have over
Speaker 6: your head to get up the mess around? Fall back,
Speaker 6: break your back, don't try that.
Speaker 1: We told you.
Speaker 6: You had a g I, Joe. We wouldn't even let
Speaker 6: you put that on the kitchen table.
Speaker 1: Watch watch, watch, And we.
Speaker 2: Kissed for a good while. He didn't say a word
Speaker 2: after he took down off the car and said good night.
Speaker 2: Play a move straight, player moved right there. I was
Speaker 2: so toned on I told him to follow me home.
Speaker 2: Now she ain't drink that much, surely, because she drove
Speaker 2: home she knowed a way. So now at my house,
Speaker 2: we kissed some more and then went to my bed,
Speaker 2: because this is what you do.
Speaker 6: So you got him in the bed.
Speaker 2: After a few minutes of us trying to have sex,
Speaker 2: we realized it wasn't going to work.
Speaker 6: Now let's put the brakes on trying how you try
Speaker 6: to have sex. I don't know about that.
Speaker 2: This man is large and in charging all errors. I'm
Speaker 2: not ashamed because I know an the fair and we
Speaker 2: laughed hours about it. Well, how high he he held
Speaker 2: if in the half sex, we don't have secret Now
Speaker 2: I'm goffing the hell we laughing for now, I'm just trying.
Speaker 9: I'm just asking because they're friends and it didn't work,
Speaker 9: so you know, they laughed it off.
Speaker 2: He opened up and said he wants to date me
Speaker 2: in and I'm all for trying it because I do
Speaker 2: love him and I know he loves me, but it's
Speaker 2: intimacy out of the question. My answer right off the bat,
Speaker 2: it's probably. But then I have other answers. I will
Speaker 2: need to try it before I get too serious with him.
Speaker 6: What should I do?
Speaker 2: Well, let's think about this. If you say you gotta
Speaker 2: try it, I suggest that you practice. All listen, we
Speaker 2: got to practice. We got to treat this sex like
Speaker 2: a marathon. You don't just go out there and run
Speaker 2: twenty six and a half mile, no, you, No, you
Speaker 2: got the wrong practice. First, you got to learn how
Speaker 2: to run a mile. You can't do the whole marathon.
Speaker 2: Then you got to learn how to do five miles.
Speaker 2: You can't do the whole marathon. Then you got to
Speaker 2: do a ten k. You can't do a whole marriae
Speaker 2: a thorn. Then you gotta try to. Then you can
Speaker 2: do t K, then you gotta try to do half
Speaker 2: a marathon thirteen miles. You follow what I'm saying. So,
Speaker 2: since this man is large, we got to ease into this.
Speaker 2: We got to and I know this, I'm been through.
Speaker 1: I've been through.
Speaker 2: This is not your part, Tommy, it's not your part. Quiet,
Speaker 2: but tonight you had your part. You You still back
Speaker 2: there trying to put up on the car. I'm at
Speaker 2: the house second time, trying to work out how we're
Speaker 2: gonna do this. Now you just got You know, there's
Speaker 2: an old saying on how to become successful, and I'm
Speaker 2: gonna share it with you. And this is all I'm
Speaker 2: gonna say about this letter. I've given this advice to
Speaker 2: millions of people. Inch by inch, anythings a cinch. Yeah,
Speaker 2: have a happy life, enjoy yourself, work it.
Speaker 1: Out all right? Thank you, Steve. Post your comments on
Speaker 1: today Strawberry.
Speaker 6: Steal back there trying to put up on that car,
Speaker 6: and we've Harby.
Speaker 9: Had them on Instagram and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry
Speaker 9: Letter podcast on demand.
Speaker 1: You're listening morning show.
Speaker 6: But I know y'all don't. Thank y'all. Off to ladies.
Speaker 1: What question quickly?
Speaker 8: Uh?
Speaker 6: One got to go. That's what we've been doing all day.
Speaker 2: One got to go, ladies, Denzel Washington, Idris Elbow, No,
Speaker 2: Will Smith, the Rock Ladies.
Speaker 6: One got to go.
Speaker 1: Got you know what, I'm gonna go with the rock.
Speaker 6: I'm gonna go with the rock.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm going with the rock.
Speaker 11: Will will Is just.
Speaker 13: Well, answer, you ain't gonna like my ass, so we
Speaker 13: don't got to go.
Speaker 1: You know, not to do this understanding though exactly.
Speaker 2: You understand you ought to do one. You ought to
Speaker 2: do one for women too. The ladies put together listen,
Speaker 2: asked a fell.
Speaker 9: All right, all right, Halle Berry, that's over. So hell
Speaker 9: uh Meg, the Stallion you can stop right then. Kim
Speaker 9: Kardashian and Jennifer Lopez.
Speaker 11: Bye Stallion, Bye bye Stallion. Sorry about your foot bye.
Speaker 10: Yeah.
Speaker 2: And I'm gonna have to go with your Stallion simply
Speaker 2: because I don't really know her. Yeah, but Halle j Loo.
Speaker 5: Kim Kardashian and Kim Kardashian, I mean, I love the Stallion,
Speaker 5: but she got the ride.
Speaker 11: Off of Let's pull the Stallion out and put Beyonce,
Speaker 11: Halle beyond.
Speaker 9: Who, Kim Kardashian, that's who. That was my list, and
Speaker 9: you substituted the stallion got to go?
Speaker 12: You got to go?
Speaker 7: Are you.
Speaker 1: Ja show up? I know that, I know, And you
Speaker 1: don't want any entanglements.
Speaker 6: You're just trying to stay with the least amount of problem.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 6: If you try to stay out of a situation, you
Speaker 6: leave the situation. Yeah, yes, oh man, which.
Speaker 2: Okay, well it ain't it ain't. I ain't how much
Speaker 2: Helly ain't leaving at all? Well, because I know Halle,
Speaker 2: I have Halle had to go?
Speaker 6: Do you know her?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 6: I know her?
Speaker 9: Oh so you okay, Well, I know one thing. JOm
Speaker 9: Zell and Indris aren't going anywhere ever in like get
Speaker 9: rid of them when they die and come back.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're still in the list.
Speaker 2: There's still now I'm not I'm not. I didn't pick
Speaker 2: them casts of flyness. Uh huh, I just because I
Speaker 2: know Hallie and for anybody's thinking. And I don't know
Speaker 2: I like that, but I just know him.
Speaker 6: Okay, No, I don't know at all.
Speaker 9: All right, you're listening hard Morning Show. It is time
Speaker 9: now to check Steve's voicemail and listen. If you want
Speaker 9: to leave a voicemail yourself for Steve, call him eight
Speaker 9: seven seven twenty nine, Steve eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve,
Speaker 9: let's go to this caller just left a message for you, Steve.
Speaker 10: What's up, Steve, Harvey and crew man.
Speaker 8: Turn the radio down, y'all can be playing that tank
Speaker 8: this early in the morning. Man, y'all have me late
Speaker 8: for work.
Speaker 10: Old lady heard that song come out of the bathroom
Speaker 10: slow dancing.
Speaker 8: And then then well we'll leave it at that, but yeah,
Speaker 8: y'all have me late for work.
Speaker 10: Then morning they want y'all know that keep up to
Speaker 10: good where y'all have a good day.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're absolutely welcome, sir, And you're absolutely welcome.
Speaker 6: We're going to try to get you again one morning
Speaker 6: later on this week. Thank you all right?
Speaker 1: Goodness beautiful?
Speaker 8: What we do?
Speaker 1: That's this?
Speaker 9: One's from Jasmine from Detroit. Jasmine needs some parenting advice Steve.
Speaker 14: Hi, Uncle Steve, this is Jasmine from Detroit. I was
Speaker 14: calling because I wanted to get some advice from you.
Speaker 14: I'm thirty four, I'm a single mom. I've been single
Speaker 14: for almost ten years now, I am divorced, and I
Speaker 14: know you talk a lot about how men should be
Speaker 14: fathers and how women shouldn't hold their kids away.
Speaker 10: From the fathers for you.
Speaker 12: Know, trivial things. In my case, I'm not a mom
Speaker 12: that keeps my son away his father. His father just
Speaker 12: doesn't want to do right. My son is fourteen years old.
Speaker 12: I want to know what we're you say for single
Speaker 12: moms that don't have a support system and don't have
Speaker 12: fathers in their lives and males in their lives that
Speaker 12: can influence their sons.
Speaker 14: What advice would you give to us?
Speaker 12: And also I would like to ask, would you be
Speaker 12: writing a book on single moms raising sense by theirselves? Okay,
Speaker 12: thank you.
Speaker 2: Listen, as far as the boy goes, you have to
Speaker 2: get him in some type of program where there's sports, Scouts,
Speaker 2: one hundred Black Men, Boys and Girls Club, because you
Speaker 2: have to get him in a position where mentoring is occurring.
Speaker 6: Also, I would attempt to call the father and say, listen,
Speaker 6: he really needs you. He's going through it. Your absenteeism
Speaker 6: in his life is hurting him at this point.
Speaker 2: And I'm not going to get in a way, but
Speaker 2: I just really need you to spend some time with
Speaker 2: your son because I don't know how to turn him
Speaker 2: into a man, and you do, and he really needs that.
Speaker 2: I would really appreciate the help from you. I won't
Speaker 2: bother you with anything if you just spend some time.
Speaker 2: You got to try that at least. I know that's
Speaker 2: maybe uncomfortable for you because I don't know how you
Speaker 2: all got away from each other, what's caused the breakup
Speaker 2: or the separation. But when it comes to for the children,
Speaker 2: you have to make some uncomfortable decisions sometimes and do
Speaker 2: some things. It's uncomfortable that he ain't gonna tie to
Speaker 2: sleeping with you. Again, not that uncomfortable, but I mean,
Speaker 2: you know, look, having a conversation with your ex is
Speaker 2: worth to try. But other than that, the programs that
Speaker 2: are out there, sports Scouting, Boys and Girls Club one
Speaker 2: hundred Black men have wonderful mannering program.
Speaker 1: Yeah, write a book about this.
Speaker 6: No, he had a book about that. No, No, there's
Speaker 6: too much cussing to be in that book.
Speaker 1: So you can cuss in the book, just not on
Speaker 1: the radio.
Speaker 13: These lines the book, yeah lines, you're gonna be using
Speaker 13: things you can tell your children.
Speaker 6: Because it just ticks me off a bit too, because
Speaker 6: I need for brothers.
Speaker 2: I need men out there to just look, man, I
Speaker 2: know I know how they can be sometime I've had
Speaker 2: X with kids, it can be a whole bunch of challenges,
Speaker 2: but you gotta.
Speaker 6: Fight through them because your job as the dad.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you right now when I learned it,
Speaker 2: God does not release you from that responsibility.
Speaker 6: Fellas. He just don't.
Speaker 2: He don't ever let you off the hook because whatever
Speaker 2: excuse you got, it ain't it ain't gonna do it
Speaker 2: because you're the father.
Speaker 6: So it's your job to beat the dad.
Speaker 9: Mm hmm yeah, all right, great advice, Jasmine. All right,
Speaker 9: thank you, Steve.
Speaker 1: You're listening Morning show. All right, we have a little
Speaker 1: time to kill here, Steve. This game is so hot
Speaker 1: today that we've been playing one. Got to go. Jay
Speaker 1: came up with this. I got one.
Speaker 3: I got.
Speaker 1: Let me try.
Speaker 11: Here we go Coupo Sloop ice Cube, jay Z who
Speaker 11: Snoop Doggs ice ice Cube.
Speaker 1: Snoop Dogg's not going no damn.
Speaker 3: We know that for me too.
Speaker 9: I love He's and Monica will kill us all if
Speaker 9: we take out Cube.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so that.
Speaker 5: In the beginning, dog I c jay Z so got
Speaker 5: his How I picked one because who could have normally
Speaker 5: most hang out with There's no way I'm gonna hang
Speaker 5: out with jay Z.
Speaker 1: It's no way, no possibly, it's a good c what
Speaker 1: you guys see who you got who? That's too hard?
Speaker 1: That one's too hard, that's awful. That's PWK is the.
Speaker 6: Only one I really didn't know. I know these other brothers.
Speaker 4: Man.
Speaker 1: I'm but in terms of pack is was a movement.
Speaker 1: So he has JA. Yeah you feel I'm you on
Speaker 1: that one?
Speaker 6: All right.
Speaker 1: We can't decide on that one, Tommy. That was too good.
Speaker 9: All right, More Hardy Morning Show coming up and some
Speaker 9: trending news at thirty three minutes after the hour. Right
Speaker 9: after this, you're listening hard Morning Show. All right, guys,
Speaker 9: here go time for would you rather? Would you rather
Speaker 9: jump rope naked?
Speaker 1: Or wear a helmet during sex? B just helmet on
Speaker 1: jump rope? That jump rope away. You're hot, man, you
Speaker 1: just you're just all over the place now.
Speaker 2: And when you miss Nicky, you're gonna have wet marks
Speaker 2: on your leg. And I can't take it up and down.
Speaker 2: That's too much banging.
Speaker 11: And when you get it caught up in that rope,
Speaker 11: that's that's that's entanglment. That's entangled.
Speaker 2: But I'm a frank though, because I can't slam into
Speaker 2: my thighs ten times and still be conscious.
Speaker 1: I can't get there.
Speaker 2: There's gonna be some short, short, short, short rope jumping.
Speaker 6: Ain't fell Steve unconscious putting his helmet on.
Speaker 1: It's gonna look like I'm going bike riding, but I'm
Speaker 1: not all right? Would you rather wink at every woman
Speaker 1: you see? Or bark at every woman you see? So
Speaker 1: what are we doing? Are we winking or are we barking?
Speaker 6: Whatever?
Speaker 11: You're gonna wear your eyes winking, that's just you're gonna
Speaker 11: be spark just just.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you now that bar is gonna get
Speaker 2: on your nerves. Hello, it's gonna get your nerves. All
Speaker 2: that barking gets on your nerves. I've been around the
Speaker 2: bruhs before it just went man, I got to go home.
Speaker 1: Too much.
Speaker 6: Now I can't do it no more.
Speaker 1: You don't bark no more.
Speaker 2: You got the new young brothers. You know who they are, Okay,
Speaker 2: you got them old brus that make you give it
Speaker 2: to them.
Speaker 9: So you guys want to would you rather bathe in
Speaker 9: pickled juice?
Speaker 1: Or would you rather bathe in warm hot dog water?
Speaker 2: Pickle juice can't get up in there. That pickle juice
Speaker 2: gonna create a that pickle juice can't touch.
Speaker 6: Now one of them opening s. Fella, I'm saying, hot
Speaker 6: dog water can hot dog water? Ain't no vinegar in that.
Speaker 1: I want that hot dog water.
Speaker 6: My brothers. Let me tell you what my brothers used
Speaker 6: to do. They was a honter ad, dude.
Speaker 2: They would eat all the hot dogs and pour the
Speaker 2: hot water juice in the bowl with some crackers and
Speaker 2: tell them that was soup.
Speaker 1: You did that to me, I'm gonna be talking about
Speaker 1: nobody else you.
Speaker 6: Did well how I had to learn it from somewhere.
Speaker 6: I thought it was a good thing.
Speaker 1: To pass on family tradition. Thinking I had some damn soup.
Speaker 1: I really did, I swam.
Speaker 9: I told her, all right, we'll be back at forty
Speaker 9: nine minutes after with our last breakup the day, and
Speaker 9: of course with some closing remarks from the one and
Speaker 9: at least Steve Harvey right after this.
Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show.
Speaker 9: All right, here we are, guys, our last break of
Speaker 9: the day, and Steve, you have some closing remarks.
Speaker 12: You know what.
Speaker 2: I'm just on this tip right now because I want
Speaker 2: to just remind people, really, really focus on yourself. And
Speaker 2: I'm not meaning to the point where you don't consider
Speaker 2: other people. That's not what I'm saying. But in order
Speaker 2: to be successful, I really want you to focus on yourself,
Speaker 2: because in order to get you to the next level,
Speaker 2: nobody should know you better than yourself, and the best
Speaker 2: way to know yourself is to be true to yourself.
Speaker 2: Do the things that feel right to you, Do the
Speaker 2: things that motivate you, Do the things that put you
Speaker 2: in a better position. Do the things that you know
Speaker 2: in your heart are right. If it don't feel right,
Speaker 2: it's probably cause it's not. If what you are doing
Speaker 2: is at the expense or the cost of somebody else,
Speaker 2: you're gonna have to pay for that because that's not
Speaker 2: how it's done. You don't have to use anybody to
Speaker 2: get to where you're trying to go in life, especially
Speaker 2: if it's in the same place God has for you.
Speaker 6: God don't need no help.
Speaker 2: God don't need you using nobody, stepping on nobody, abusing nobody.
Speaker 2: He doesn't need that help. So if you are doing
Speaker 2: something and you know what's wrong, you have to pull
Speaker 2: yourself up, pull yourself together.
Speaker 6: Now, listen to me.
Speaker 2: When you make a mistake, and you will and you
Speaker 2: get it wrong, and you will get up and go again,
Speaker 2: Get up and go again. You have to keep moving forward.
Speaker 2: God is not looking for your perfection. He is only
Speaker 2: looking for your persistence. You are not going to be perfect.
Speaker 2: I don't care how hard you try. That's what grace
Speaker 2: and forgiveness and mercy is all about. Because he put it.
Speaker 2: He implemented a system where he knew that we were
Speaker 2: going to fail so many times along the way trying to.
Speaker 6: Get it right.
Speaker 2: So he created grace, mercy and forgiveness. So when you
Speaker 2: make a mistake, stop laying in it. It's okay, you
Speaker 2: made a mistake. It's no big deal. Everybody makes them.
Speaker 2: But know yourself and know what you do. If you
Speaker 2: don't really care to drink, nothing says you have to drink.
Speaker 2: If you're the person that really ain't in the weed,
Speaker 2: just causees legal don't mean you got to do it.
Speaker 2: Alcohol is legal, cigarettes is legal.
Speaker 6: But if it's not for you, it's not for you.
Speaker 1: You know yourself.
Speaker 3: And lock in.
Speaker 6: After you know yourself, lock in on your purpose. You
Speaker 6: know I say this all the time.
Speaker 2: The two greatest days of your life or the day
Speaker 2: you're born in the day you discover why. But listen
Speaker 2: to me, man, that why is critical, That why is
Speaker 2: your purpose? That why is your meaning your service? That
Speaker 2: why is everything?
Speaker 6: You've got to.
Speaker 2: Lock in on your purpose and stay there and stop
Speaker 2: allowing everything to sidetrack you. So many people, Man, we
Speaker 2: are so easily distracted in this world because the distractions
Speaker 2: are everywhere. But you got to get tuned into your purpose.
Speaker 2: Why are you on this earth? Are you really on
Speaker 2: this worth to live the way you live in? I mean,
Speaker 2: you have to just come to that. I had just
Speaker 2: just sit myself down one day and go, Steve Harvey,
Speaker 2: are you really in this world to live the way
Speaker 2: you live it?
Speaker 1: Do you think that God.
Speaker 2: Took all this time bring you through all the stuff
Speaker 2: he brought you through, for you to act like this,
Speaker 2: for you to continue living like this? And when I
Speaker 2: had that honest conversation with myself, the answer was no.
Speaker 2: And so I had to start pulling it together. But
Speaker 2: I couldn't pull it together by myself. I had to
Speaker 2: ask God for some help. You know, why would I
Speaker 2: not go to God for the help. He's my creator.
Speaker 2: If you're driving a car and you got a car
Speaker 2: and your car break down. There's an owner's manual in
Speaker 2: the glove compartment, and you know why is there because
Speaker 2: it helps you troubleshoot what's wrong with the car. Now,
Speaker 2: if you're driving a Toyota, that manual that you're looking
Speaker 2: for in the glove compartment is gonna be a Toyota
Speaker 2: manual specific to the type of car that you're driving.
Speaker 2: That way, you know exactly how to fix what's wrong.
Speaker 2: So when something is that's wrong with you, you have
Speaker 2: an owner's manual. It's your Bible, it's your Koran, it's
Speaker 2: your Terror, it's whatever you read for your religious faith.
Speaker 2: You have an owner's manual that specifically can fix your ailment.
Speaker 2: And it comes in chapters and verses. I don't care
Speaker 2: what's wrong with you, There is an answer in those pages.
Speaker 2: And if you don't have the book, all you got
Speaker 2: to do is ask God for help. But you have
Speaker 2: got to get tuned in you your purpose. And when
Speaker 2: you make mistakes and you fall, it doesn't mean it's over.
Speaker 2: I have fallen thousands of times. But the blessing that
Speaker 2: I have that God has given me is I have
Speaker 2: the will, the desire and the faith to get back up.
Speaker 6: Over and over and over again. And you can do
Speaker 6: it too. You have that same thing in you. In
Speaker 6: order to get up. You simply have to look up.
Speaker 2: Every time I fall, I look to my heavenly Father
Speaker 2: and he gives me the strip to go on to tomorrow.
Speaker 6: And you got it.
Speaker 2: All you got to do is get home, go to sleep,
Speaker 2: wake up and go again. Come on, y'all, this is
Speaker 2: the year. You can change a lot of things. It's
Speaker 2: gonna take some effort on your part, but you can
Speaker 2: do it. It's just take some faith. Now, faith with
Speaker 2: our works is dead. You got to get busy, stay
Speaker 2: true to yourself, identify your purpose, and stop getting distracted.
Speaker 2: Let's go my clothing remarks. Y'all have a great day,
Speaker 2: all right? Talk to God. He loved to hear from it.
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