Speaker 1: It's topic times called eight hundred five five one five
Speaker 1: one to join it to the discussion with the Breakfast.
Speaker 2: Club Morning everybody. It's DJ Envy, Charlamagne the God. We
Speaker 2: are the Breakfast Club Now. If you're just joining us,
Speaker 2: we're talking about something that Young Miami said Laura LaRosa,
Speaker 2: she's our guest co host.
Speaker 3: So what did Young Miami say?
Speaker 4: So?
Speaker 5: Young Miami said that she is ready to be in
Speaker 5: a relationship in love again and that this was her
Speaker 5: last summer being outside.
Speaker 2: So we're asking eight hundred and five eight five one
Speaker 2: oh five one. When do you know that it's over
Speaker 2: for your hot girl some or your hot boys some?
Speaker 3: What is it over? When is it you're gonna stay
Speaker 3: your ass in the house? That is the question.
Speaker 2: Uh, Charlamagne and myself, we've been out of the hot
Speaker 2: boy somemer for a long time, so we have to
Speaker 2: go to you, miss Laura Larossa, when do you feel
Speaker 2: like you're gonna be out of that phase? But you
Speaker 2: don't want to be in a hot girl some anymore.
Speaker 6: I don't really have like a date, like you know,
Speaker 6: there's a like psa.
Speaker 5: After job, but I think that life won't let me
Speaker 5: know or a person I meet or whatever happens, you
Speaker 5: know what I mean.
Speaker 2: So even if you don't find let's say, per person,
Speaker 2: do you still decide, you know what, well, maybe this
Speaker 2: is not me.
Speaker 3: I don't want to be out.
Speaker 5: Oh one hundred percent, like even now, Like there are
Speaker 5: certain things that I would do, like you know, our
Speaker 5: college days like go to eat my friend in here
Speaker 5: in the studio will tell you I've always been like
Speaker 5: a super even in a relationship. I'm a very much social,
Speaker 5: go out, hangout person. But there are things that I
Speaker 5: would do then that I won't do now because I'm
Speaker 5: just older and it's just it's not a vibe anymore.
Speaker 6: It's not cute. It doesn't look good for me.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, don't be the hot girl that don't know
Speaker 1: that you know, their hot girl days are long gone
Speaker 1: because a lot of hot girls evolving the golden girls
Speaker 1: and don't even realize that they golden girls.
Speaker 7: Like some women are.
Speaker 1: Almost fifty and they doing the same thing right now
Speaker 1: that they've been doing since they was twenty.
Speaker 7: Muhammad Ali said.
Speaker 1: The person who still thinks that fifty the way they
Speaker 1: did at twenty has wasted thirty years of their life.
Speaker 7: I know, a lot of.
Speaker 1: Golden girls who still think they hot girl and everybody
Speaker 1: is laughing at them, and they're about to be hot
Speaker 1: girls again.
Speaker 6: It's the women.
Speaker 5: It's some golden granddaddy's out there as well that are
Speaker 5: they should have been retired to ucci daddy shorts.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know, I guess we haven't marketed it.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, like men, You know, I
Speaker 1: guess men men the.
Speaker 3: Men.
Speaker 5: The double standard is different, and man could be dating
Speaker 5: it outside forever.
Speaker 7: Yeah, but then we think they look stupid.
Speaker 1: Trust me, they running around.
Speaker 7: If they do.
Speaker 5: You know how many people are looking at Diddy and
Speaker 5: everything that he has going on.
Speaker 3: People look at Ditty is stupid.
Speaker 7: He looks stupid to me, I said that before. I'm
Speaker 7: on records.
Speaker 5: Y'all are like two of a population of however many.
Speaker 1: And I'm not judging anybody. Yeah, but I'm not judging nobody.
Speaker 1: I just look at I look at people who got stability.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I like jay Z and Beyonce.
Speaker 1: I like Lebron James and Savannah. I like seeing, you know,
Speaker 1: black men with their black wives and their beautiful black families.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, if you're a certain age
Speaker 1: and you're still running around here in these streets, you know, acting.
Speaker 7: Like a player. You know that that that looks calling
Speaker 7: them me?
Speaker 3: Why you didn't saying me, I'm black.
Speaker 1: You're Dominican. But I do like your family dynamic. I
Speaker 1: love I love I love you and Gea together. I
Speaker 1: love you and Gee. I love seeing y'all and y'all
Speaker 1: you're not though. I love seeing you and all your
Speaker 1: kids with all your matching out fits. I think that's incredible,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Hello?
Speaker 7: Who's this?
Speaker 4: Hi?
Speaker 8: This is Jessica.
Speaker 2: Hey Jessica, good morning, good morning, good morning. Now when
Speaker 2: did you know that hot girl summer was over for you?
Speaker 3: Mama? Is it or you still hot girl summer? In
Speaker 3: it out?
Speaker 8: I knew when I was in my twenties. So I'm
Speaker 8: the youngest of five and I was clubbing, doing everything.
Speaker 8: And then I looked around and I'm partying with my
Speaker 8: oldest brothers and sisters friends and seeing them in the
Speaker 8: club trying to drop it like it's hot. I was like, ooh, no,
Speaker 8: the things for me, dang, gotta.
Speaker 7: Settle the man. Yo. You know how many women I
Speaker 7: know that be saying that's my homegirl's son. But that's
Speaker 7: my homegirl's daughter.
Speaker 1: Like if you if you're still in the club and
Speaker 1: you remember when your homegirl was pregnant with somebody, but
Speaker 1: now that child is in the club with you, something wrong,
Speaker 1: that's a that's.
Speaker 6: A skilled feeling too.
Speaker 8: I went into party and I backed my way out
Speaker 8: that same night, I was like, yeah, trying to settle down.
Speaker 3: I'm good, damn, thank you, Jessica. Hello, who's this this?
Speaker 4: Money? Oh?
Speaker 3: Hey, money, I feel like something's coming.
Speaker 9: Hey sounds.
Speaker 4: No, I jump get off work, y'all? Or nice security. Baby,
Speaker 4: I'm tad. I just did a two jobs sh dad.
Speaker 4: But I was like, Dane, this is just a perfect time. Yes,
Speaker 4: I needed this.
Speaker 5: So you're still outside, not from work, but like somewher outside.
Speaker 4: Oh no, I'm dealing with all that, baby. Y I'm
Speaker 4: gid kids. We just graduating from college.
Speaker 10: No, I'm talking with all.
Speaker 5: Your two kids just graduated from college? You said, are you?
Speaker 4: Yeah? I have two kids and I graduated from college.
Speaker 4: I'm done with a high girl something.
Speaker 11: But I've been in that face.
Speaker 7: When did you know?
Speaker 4: I knew once I really have the self reflect on myself,
Speaker 4: like I really have to truly like dig deep with myself,
Speaker 4: Like it's really like the hot dress summer, messing with
Speaker 4: this guy, that guy. I have to stop and think
Speaker 4: like is this really neat?
Speaker 2: Like is this really after pregnancy? After pregnancy, after pregnancy,
Speaker 2: it's after day.
Speaker 4: Man, that's not really of you, and that's not for you.
Speaker 9: It's that's not sent from God.
Speaker 6: I was.
Speaker 1: I know that all right, Lord, you know she said
Speaker 1: that's so real. Just now and just everybody listening. She said,
Speaker 1: self reflection. And I think a lot of times that's
Speaker 1: the problem, right, Like when you're running from something, like
Speaker 1: when you really haven't gone out there and done any
Speaker 1: of the.
Speaker 7: Work on yourself.
Speaker 1: You haven't you know, done any therapy or anything like that,
Speaker 1: and you got all this unhealed trauma. You're afraid to
Speaker 1: stop and look in that mirror, right because you know,
Speaker 1: when you stop and look in that mirror, you gotta
Speaker 1: deal with everything that you've been running from. So a
Speaker 1: lot of these people that you see still out there
Speaker 1: in these streets, still moving a certain way, they're doing
Speaker 1: that because they running from themselves.
Speaker 2: Well eight hundred and five eight five, one oh five one.
Speaker 2: Now we're talking about something young Miami put on social
Speaker 2: media yesterday, which was.
Speaker 5: I'm ready to be in a relationship and love again.
Speaker 5: This was my last summer being outside public service announcement.
Speaker 5: The city goes ready to go back in.
Speaker 7: That's right.
Speaker 2: So we're asking, when do you know that hot girl
Speaker 2: summer is over? Let's discuss it's the breakfast Club.
Speaker 3: Good morning, it's topic time. The phone.
Speaker 1: Called eight hundred and five five one to join into
Speaker 1: the discussion.
Speaker 7: With the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 2: Talk about it more than everybody's DJ env charlamagnea god.
Speaker 3: We are the breakfast Club.
Speaker 2: Now if you're just joining us, we're talking about something
Speaker 2: Young Miami said on social media. We got our guest
Speaker 2: co host, Laura la Rossa here. Now what the Young
Speaker 2: Miami say for people that's just joining us.
Speaker 5: Young Miami says she is ready to be in a
Speaker 5: relationship and love again.
Speaker 6: This was my last summer outside, right, So.
Speaker 3: We have Lauren on the line.
Speaker 2: Lor Lauren said, just like Lebron said, if I don't
Speaker 2: feel tired, why would I quit?
Speaker 3: So talk to it back?
Speaker 9: Okay, so high line. So like I know, people like
Speaker 9: my dad, he was fifty years old when he retired.
Speaker 11: He still was working here and there because he still
Speaker 11: thought that energy.
Speaker 9: When you still used to doing something for so long,
Speaker 9: it's hard to sit them.
Speaker 10: So it's just like Lebron.
Speaker 9: Said, I don't feel like quitting.
Speaker 10: So y'all lucky. I'm thirty one.
Speaker 3: Okay, so you're still in the streets.
Speaker 4: Oh no, but hold up. I agree with you.
Speaker 9: Lauren's said prior it's hard to be in a relationship
Speaker 9: nowadays because it's just it's he made things more competent
Speaker 9: than it.
Speaker 11: Needs to be.
Speaker 9: A social media makes everyone a serial cheater, even though
Speaker 9: they'd probably not thinking about it. As soon as you
Speaker 9: like a picture, somebody thinks you're cheating. You know, if
Speaker 9: you say hi to somebody, did somebody? I think you cheated.
Speaker 9: If you told something that somebody thinks.
Speaker 11: It's subliminal cheating. And it's like brou Women are different.
Speaker 4: Than men as well.
Speaker 9: A women don't really want to be in the street.
Speaker 11: I mean, I don't know where women really out here.
Speaker 10: Just it's some some most men do because they.
Speaker 11: Just don't care. Y'all to our exception of the rule,
Speaker 11: because y'all decent men, but we can't be all.
Speaker 9: All these men ain't out here being decent.
Speaker 1: They've been a man for forty Contrary to popular belief,
Speaker 1: I've been a.
Speaker 7: Man for forty five years. I don't believe.
Speaker 1: I talked to a lot of different men, and no
Speaker 1: man wants to be in the street. Men always want
Speaker 1: to be settled down. Many of the feel too way.
Speaker 1: They either let the good one get away or they've
Speaker 1: been in the streets so much that they've never.
Speaker 7: Found the good one.
Speaker 1: But every man wants to find that one person to
Speaker 1: settle down and build with.
Speaker 9: I believe that we all meant to be with somebody,
Speaker 9: but it's just it's so toxic because people don't.
Speaker 10: Know how to date no more, know how to court
Speaker 10: no more.
Speaker 11: They don't even know what the meaning is because they're
Speaker 11: so used to getting that quick fix that.
Speaker 9: They don't know the difference between being in love with
Speaker 9: somebody and just liking somebody.
Speaker 5: I will say, for me being like a you know,
Speaker 5: recently new dater, one of the things that I had
Speaker 5: to sit and reflect on is like, who are the
Speaker 5: people that I'm allowing into my space? Like not sexually,
Speaker 5: not even there, but just who am I going on
Speaker 5: dates with?
Speaker 6: Dates with? Who am I allowing to even have my number?
Speaker 6: And why?
Speaker 5: And once I did that my thinking even around, like
Speaker 5: my options have changed.
Speaker 6: Like I think that that's important as well too.
Speaker 5: And again, being outside does not mean that everybody that
Speaker 5: comes your way and everything that comes your what you're with.
Speaker 5: I think it just means that you're open to the
Speaker 5: fact that you're single and you're here. You want to
Speaker 5: try things. I think you have to learn things and
Speaker 5: experience you even know, Like, I can't even answer the
Speaker 5: question when sessl asks me, like, what are you looking for?
Speaker 5: I'm like, I'm honestly stiff figuring it out.
Speaker 2: Well, you're being courted, because a lot of women say
Speaker 2: that men are not courting these days. They're not doing
Speaker 2: the things that probably your father or somebody's father.
Speaker 3: Would have done.
Speaker 5: I recently had a situation where I was being courted
Speaker 5: and it was cool.
Speaker 7: Can't like that, guy, lawyer Lloyd? What if it? What
Speaker 7: if you missed your blessing of being a step mama?
Speaker 7: What if that was your Charlamagne?
Speaker 6: Can we hang up on him?
Speaker 10: Hell? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Do that?
Speaker 7: Hello?
Speaker 10: Oh was Leo?
Speaker 3: What's man?
Speaker 7: Leo?
Speaker 3: What's up?
Speaker 2: We're talking about? When is it time to give up
Speaker 2: that hot girl some or that hot boys summer?
Speaker 10: Yeah? Yeah, I know I know, man. Yeah. By the way,
Speaker 10: I like the roles on here. She pretty locked over it. Think, yo,
Speaker 10: we got it retired and oh my god, it's twenty
Speaker 10: five of another the biggest turn off of somebody, damn thing.
Speaker 10: Both then be talking about who they would dat and
Speaker 10: who they're not. We know who they would not date,
Speaker 10: and they talking about girl's a turnoff?
Speaker 1: Yo, black man, you are correct.
Speaker 10: Keep saying please.
Speaker 6: Say thirty and up thirty enough, yous. We're just we're dating.
Speaker 4: That hot girl.
Speaker 10: Please return.
Speaker 5: I know what I'm saying. So we're returning today. So
Speaker 5: what am I doing? Am I living my best sex
Speaker 5: in the city life?
Speaker 7: Like?
Speaker 6: What am I giving?
Speaker 7: Then?
Speaker 6: Because I'm thirty one.
Speaker 10: I don't know.
Speaker 7: You a girl?
Speaker 1: Know you a girlfriend? That's where you at in life?
Speaker 1: This hot girl girlfriends, then golden girls, that's the that's.
Speaker 7: Where it goes.
Speaker 2: But what about Janelle Monee something? Because Janell Money looks
Speaker 2: like she's having the best summer ever.
Speaker 6: She's just free, She's just herself.
Speaker 2: That's what you want be for a big That's the
Speaker 2: best way to I think detox from a situation number one,
Speaker 2: and then you just attract what is attracted to you.
Speaker 5: I don't think you should force anything like you should
Speaker 5: just live and see what happens.
Speaker 3: All right, Well, what's the moral of the story going
Speaker 3: to the club tonight?
Speaker 7: Retired talk to the form of hot Girl.
Speaker 5: I was not going to the club any of these nights. No,
Speaker 5: I will not be in the club, not this week.
Speaker 5: I might be there next.
Speaker 2: Week, next week, Jesus Christ. All right, well, we got
Speaker 2: roomors on the way. When we talk about give us
Speaker 2: little tease.
Speaker 5: We are going to be talking about some health updates. Tory, Kelly,
Speaker 5: Little Dierk. They're doing a bit better, so we won't
Speaker 5: let the people know.
Speaker 3: All right, we'll get into that. Next it's to breakfast club.
Speaker 7: Good morning,