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Speaker 7: Looking me come come out?
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Speaker 8: I sure will? Good morning everybody. You are listening to
Speaker 8: the voice, Come on, dig me now one and only
Speaker 8: Seve Harvey got a radio show, Yeah man, got one.
Speaker 2: Hey.
Speaker 8: You know, I thought I think of my life in
Speaker 8: terms of blessings. You know, I take mostly a positive
Speaker 8: approach and a positive spin to my life. I hardly
Speaker 8: ever dwell on you know, the what's well. I can't
Speaker 8: say that I don't think about the what's wrong in
Speaker 8: it because I have to, because I have to address
Speaker 8: problems as they arise. But I try not to let
Speaker 8: them consume me. I let the consumption part be about
Speaker 8: the blessings, the positive things that has occurred in my life,
Speaker 8: the good things that God has done for me, the
Speaker 8: power that He's displayed in my life, the protection He's
Speaker 8: given me over the years, to being tucked under his wings.
Speaker 8: I focus on the things that he promises me. I
Speaker 8: think of all the goodness that I perceive to come
Speaker 8: my way. I think that has a lot to do
Speaker 8: with me learning more and more about the law of
Speaker 8: attraction in terms of you know, what you think and
Speaker 8: what you put out in the space, and what you
Speaker 8: pray about is what you receive. You know, and so
Speaker 8: I've become better and better at that. It's not to
Speaker 8: say that I'm not human and I don't have moments
Speaker 8: where I think a little bit too long about what's
Speaker 8: going wrong and what enemy is about to attack and
Speaker 8: what they're going to do and say and and all
Speaker 8: of is his. That's not to say that I'm not
Speaker 8: concerned about it. But I try to dwell mostly on
Speaker 8: the positive. And one of the things that I learned,
Speaker 8: you can have an incredible life, all of us. We
Speaker 8: can have incredible lives if we just let God drive.
Speaker 2: See. The problem that I had years ago was I
Speaker 2: was the driver of my life, and.
Speaker 8: I was taking myself in the directions that I thought
Speaker 8: would be best for me, and I aimed at things
Speaker 8: that I thought I could accomplish, and I set goals
Speaker 8: that I saw myself being able to attain I was
Speaker 8: driving when I gave up and I let God drive.
Speaker 8: I then opened up my mind and my spirit to
Speaker 8: what God had for me, for what God could see
Speaker 8: for me, for what God could do in my life. Well,
Speaker 8: for what God wanted for me. Now he wanted for me,
Speaker 8: and he wanted of me. See, that's the connection that
Speaker 8: you got to try to make. Well, not try, that's
Speaker 8: the connection that you got to make to really get it. Now,
Speaker 8: listen to me.
Speaker 2: What I don't want you to do is do like me.
Speaker 8: Don't be afraid of the what for of the what
Speaker 8: he wants you to do part see, because that ain't
Speaker 8: gonna be nearly as demanding an and as offsetting as
Speaker 8: you think it's gonna be.
Speaker 2: See.
Speaker 8: I thought that if I did God's will, that if
Speaker 8: I let God tell me what to do, that it
Speaker 8: would cause me to not to be able to do
Speaker 8: a certain some things I wanted to do well, which
Speaker 8: is true. But the stuff I wanted to do was
Speaker 8: all detrimental to my well being and my future and
Speaker 8: my growth and development as a man. I was stopping
Speaker 8: my own growth as a man because see, I was
Speaker 8: doing what I thought I should do as a man.
Speaker 8: But when you give it over to God, so God
Speaker 8: has a much better plan for you than you can
Speaker 8: ever have for yourself. And God knows a better way,
Speaker 8: far better than the one you know. I want you
Speaker 8: to believe that. Man, You got to understand that part
Speaker 8: of it. And that's the part that I finally got
Speaker 8: through my head to let God do it his way
Speaker 8: and to show me a better way, and to teach
Speaker 8: me a better way and expose to me a better way.
Speaker 8: And when I opened up my mind to what God
Speaker 8: was talking about, I began to see things totally differently.
Speaker 8: Things started coming to me totally differently. If you've been
Speaker 8: a friend of mine or a fan of mine over
Speaker 8: the years, I mean, you've had to see it, the change.
Speaker 8: You've had to see the difference. I mean, and I
Speaker 8: acknowledge that every chance I get, because I promise God
Speaker 8: I would, and I hope that I'm not falling short
Speaker 8: in that category. But then again, if I told it
Speaker 8: all day long, woul He's done for me, I still
Speaker 8: wouldn't have enough time to really explain thoroughly what He's
Speaker 8: done for me, because it's such a continuous growth in me.
Speaker 8: But now that's not to say that I'm finished or
Speaker 8: I'm done or I'm complete, because I'm still shock.
Speaker 2: You can't be him.
Speaker 8: You can strive for perfection. I hear people saying it
Speaker 8: all the time. I applaud you for saying you want
Speaker 8: to be perfect, but you ain't and you can't. So
Speaker 8: you quit saying it. You quit saying it to me,
Speaker 8: quit saying it to other people. I'm seeking a life
Speaker 8: of perfection, but it's something that you cannot have because
Speaker 8: he said you can't do it.
Speaker 2: But that's what he'd have for.
Speaker 8: He'd have for the moments when you stumble and you fall,
Speaker 8: and you go stumble and fall. See, you got to
Speaker 8: get that part right, man, The stumbling falling part is coming.
Speaker 8: But see, you get God in your life and it
Speaker 8: helps you so that you don't stumble, fall, wallow, roll,
Speaker 8: over lay their languish.
Speaker 2: That's what God is for. So when you stumbling, fall,
Speaker 2: you get back up.
Speaker 8: Because you're going to make mistakes, You're going to get
Speaker 8: it wrong, You're going to come under attack, You're going
Speaker 8: to be lied about, you are going to be falsely accused.
Speaker 2: That's going to happen to you.
Speaker 8: The moment you make a decision to do better the
Speaker 8: moment you try to be more. The devil got to
Speaker 8: send his attackers man, and he controls certain people. He
Speaker 8: just got people that's on his side twenty four seven.
Speaker 2: You know him too.
Speaker 8: You've all met one or two of the men in
Speaker 8: your life. They just busy with the business of nothingness.
Speaker 8: It's busy about about the destruction of others. You said,
Speaker 8: I know them, you know them. They coming. But here's
Speaker 8: what you gotta hold fast too. They can't take away
Speaker 8: nothing from you that God gave you. They didn't make you. See,
Speaker 8: people who claim to have made you, if they so
Speaker 8: in to make you business, why don't they make theyself?
Speaker 2: Or if they ain't with you no more?
Speaker 8: And they so busy in them I made you business,
Speaker 8: why don't they make somebody else? Since you want to
Speaker 8: get credit for making somebody make yourself. If you're responsible
Speaker 8: for someone else's success, then you should easily be able
Speaker 8: to take claim and be responsible for your own success. See,
Speaker 8: be careful of that, and don't change your course because
Speaker 8: somebody is attacking you with that.
Speaker 2: I just hope man, that I'm giving it to God
Speaker 2: the way I said I.
Speaker 8: Would give it to him, that I would unload every
Speaker 8: chance I got that I was supposed to without.
Speaker 2: Being, you know, or here he come again?
Speaker 9: You know.
Speaker 8: I try not to be that, but man, I don't
Speaker 8: know what else to be for the first twelve minutes
Speaker 8: of my show? What else you want me to say?
Speaker 8: I got four hours? I can't give God twelve twelve minutes, man,
Speaker 8: I mean, for real, Steve, come on, man, I mean,
Speaker 8: let's look at this right here. If you've given honor
Speaker 8: to God just twelve minutes out the day, dog, he
Speaker 8: gave you twenty four hours of luxury and life and
Speaker 8: breath and hope and promise that you ain't got twelve
Speaker 8: minutes to give him out the day.
Speaker 2: That don't make no sense. What in exchange?
Speaker 8: What a wonderful life God has given me in exchange
Speaker 8: for so small of effort that I put forth. Don't
Speaker 8: let the effort you got to put forth to God
Speaker 8: seems so dawning that you don't attempt to do it,
Speaker 8: because man, it seems like a lot.
Speaker 2: It ain't nothing to compare to what He be giving
Speaker 2: us for real.
Speaker 8: So if you want a real life, you want a
Speaker 8: real shot at what you can be, what you can have,
Speaker 8: what you can own, what you can become who you
Speaker 8: really are.
Speaker 9: Go to God.
Speaker 2: Let him fix you.
Speaker 7: Man.
Speaker 1: That's all you're listening harymore show.
Speaker 8: Ladies and gentlemen, playoffs. Everybody, let me have your attention.
Speaker 8: Today is not gonna be another one of them days.
Speaker 2: Today is a new day, new day, new day?
Speaker 6: What day? Is it?
Speaker 1: A new days?
Speaker 4: Gonna be a new day?
Speaker 9: That a.
Speaker 2: Something says a song? Oh yes, murder brings reality. I
Speaker 2: want to say, why is it?
Speaker 9: Yeah?
Speaker 7: Is that a song?
Speaker 4: But it's gonna be that?
Speaker 1: And tell me I heard you say nude day.
Speaker 2: I heard a little nicked and put a little nicked
Speaker 2: in your day.
Speaker 4: Naked? Okay, we just got here.
Speaker 1: We just put our clothes on.
Speaker 4: It's gonna crack if you naked.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a little chili out.
Speaker 4: To warm up, as the old people say, warm up?
Speaker 1: How how you feel up?
Speaker 5: Stevie know I'm talking about right, it's blown in there
Speaker 5: warm more, won't warm up. It's in the kitchen on
Speaker 5: top of it, and just warm it up and eat it.
Speaker 2: None. Old people had a house hot no matter what time.
Speaker 3: Of the year.
Speaker 4: I can't see what.
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. A couple of years ago,
Speaker 2: A couple of years ago, we did.
Speaker 8: Uh took my family out on Thanksgiving that we delivered meals,
Speaker 8: meals on wheels, and we delivered all day, you know,
Speaker 8: to families in need.
Speaker 2: We went into this old lady's house. Come on, hey man,
Speaker 2: it was so I didn't know. And as soon as
Speaker 2: I the Lord Jesus, what not you? What is you
Speaker 2: doing down here? Baby? What did it?
Speaker 7: TV?
Speaker 2: People know you downhill? She went to her window and
Speaker 2: looked out the color. Ain't no police with you? I said, no, ma'am.
Speaker 8: Oh lord, you want me to call my nephews, I said,
Speaker 8: for what so they can watch over you?
Speaker 2: I said, ma'am, I'm from here.
Speaker 7: I heard you was, but you don't.
Speaker 2: It's Look what time is it?
Speaker 8: I said, it's twelve thirty. Oh you got a little time?
Speaker 8: Want you to be gone? You're gonna stay till this dog?
Speaker 8: I said, nah, here, I got to do a lot
Speaker 8: of other house. Oh I thought you were gonna stay
Speaker 8: awhile I said, no, don't just drop this off. I
Speaker 8: got some more houses to take care of. I said
Speaker 8: all that to say, it was the hottest house I've
Speaker 8: ever been in in my tide life. And that conversation
Speaker 8: we had was taken two damn longs.
Speaker 4: I had reached that age, that hot stage.
Speaker 5: Yeah man, it's gotta behind really yeah, I room, my
Speaker 5: kids will even come see me. It's too hot over there, Dad.
Speaker 2: And oh that's the reason you made it.
Speaker 9: All right?
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Speaker 10: The nephew is here to run that prank back what
Speaker 10: you got for his nef repole man, repole man.
Speaker 2: We got to get that car. Let's go.
Speaker 11: Hello, I'm trying to reach age please this here. Sorry,
Speaker 11: my name is Robert. I'm with the collection agency. You
Speaker 11: do own a Sierra GMC truck? Am I correct?
Speaker 9: Yep?
Speaker 11: Okay, we don't show that we've had any payments within
Speaker 11: the last I guess about three close to four months now,
Speaker 11: and we want to try and stop having to come
Speaker 11: in and repossess it. Maybe we give you a chance
Speaker 11: to bring your payment in, but we haven't had a
Speaker 11: payment from you in about four.
Speaker 2: Months, sir.
Speaker 6: No financial with the other another thing, I don't know
Speaker 6: what's mo. Yeah, I've been paying all the time. It's
Speaker 6: directed party from Cory.
Speaker 9: About that.
Speaker 2: Well, I'm they've they've turned you over to us.
Speaker 11: I'm with uh collection agency and we haven't gotten anything
Speaker 11: from I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't show any uh any paperwork.
Speaker 11: Here on the computer at all that we've had any
Speaker 11: payments made within the last four months.
Speaker 2: So that's why they have.
Speaker 6: It over to y'all without my permission. They can't never
Speaker 6: tell my truck over to y'all. Ap Yo.
Speaker 2: Well, I understand that, sir.
Speaker 11: What happens is if you haven't paid it in a
Speaker 11: certain amount of time, it actually comes over to the
Speaker 11: collection agency.
Speaker 2: And that's what they've done. They've actually sent it over
Speaker 2: to us.
Speaker 9: Uh.
Speaker 11: They've given us uh pretty much all the information on you.
Speaker 11: I guess it's uh goldish type of color, uh seer
Speaker 11: two thousand and three GMC truck from our understanding, Am
Speaker 11: I correct?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 11: Uh, Now, what I'm gonna need from you today, Jeremy,
Speaker 11: is for you to come in uh and make a
Speaker 11: payment to us this evening for four months so we
Speaker 11: can see so we don't have to come in and
Speaker 11: repossess your truck. And I don't want to have to
Speaker 11: do that. But if I have to send a record
Speaker 11: out there to you, I have your address.
Speaker 2: On file as well. I don't want to have to
Speaker 2: send anybody have to pick it up.
Speaker 6: Y'all not come and get my truck. And I'm not
Speaker 6: paying y'all for for no full month. I'm not paying
Speaker 6: my truck no all the time, every month. That's a
Speaker 6: done deal, sir.
Speaker 11: I don't want to get in a back and forth
Speaker 11: with you, but I'm telling you exactly how it's gonna go.
Speaker 9: Now.
Speaker 2: I come out there and repossess it myself. But I'm telling.
Speaker 9: Up it's no.
Speaker 6: Look, that's not that's not even all where we gotta
Speaker 6: go with that. Don't be you don't need to be
Speaker 6: screaming and fussing and chaotic. Can come get it yourself
Speaker 6: and all that suffy so much? Truck, my truck, that's
Speaker 6: gonna be that?
Speaker 11: What hang on, let's back up, because I'm a man
Speaker 11: just like your man. What do you mean it's gonna
Speaker 11: that's gonna be that? What are you saying?
Speaker 2: What are you? What do you what are you saying
Speaker 2: to me? Son?
Speaker 6: I'm telling you, sir. Look, I'm telling you that I'm
Speaker 6: paying my truck note and and that's the final I
Speaker 6: don't know.
Speaker 11: Let's get I've already stated to you before. I'm with
Speaker 11: an agency. And let's get one thing straight. You don't
Speaker 11: tell me I tell you now, Hey.
Speaker 6: Hey, calm down on the phone. It don't make no
Speaker 6: sense to me, you know, over the phone and whatnot.
Speaker 6: You can come, you can come get the truck, my truck. Yeah,
Speaker 6: I work, I'm ready. You can come. You can come
Speaker 6: try to get my truck. You come on there.
Speaker 11: Sure, I'm already aware of where you work in the
Speaker 11: whole nine yards. Now I don't I'm trying to be
Speaker 11: as uh cardial with you as I can.
Speaker 2: Now you can.
Speaker 6: Come and get my truckle I'll tell you I'll be
Speaker 6: paying much. So you know you should have dropped down
Speaker 6: and being like, all right, I'm gonna check with somebody else,
Speaker 6: check with somebody else and make sure I'm right, and
Speaker 6: then call me back.
Speaker 11: I'm telling you you haven't paid anything. That's what I'm
Speaker 11: telling you. I've got it listed on the computer. You've
Speaker 11: been turned over an agency and you haven't done it.
Speaker 11: You haven't done it thing.
Speaker 6: What you used to you. You you're raising your press,
Speaker 6: screaming and hollo over the phone like that they ain't
Speaker 6: gonna do me up.
Speaker 9: You no good.
Speaker 6: But you ain't getting no money from me. Then you
Speaker 6: ain't coming my truck. Well, a matter of fact, you
Speaker 6: could come to my truck. I'm I'm gonna be at
Speaker 6: my truck and I'm gonna wait on you, ana be.
Speaker 2: It doesn't make any difference, sir. You gotta get repossessed tonight.
Speaker 11: If I don't get four months payment bruck, definitely, if
Speaker 11: I don't get four months payment brought into me collection agency,
Speaker 11: your truck will be taking care of.
Speaker 6: Hold on, listen, man, hold on, you kind of kind
Speaker 6: of serious heart, you quick cursing at me.
Speaker 7: That's what's wrong?
Speaker 12: You got me?
Speaker 6: Trust, Look right outside, you can come over here and
Speaker 6: get it. I'll be sitting on that way for you.
Speaker 2: Look, you know what. I'm at the point I don't
Speaker 2: give it about this job. I'm ready to come kick
Speaker 2: your That's what I'm ready to do. Call him back.
Speaker 2: I don't need a little scared hanging up the phone.
Speaker 2: You're standing here like a man, and you handle your problems.
Speaker 6: Hey, hold on, I'm I can't be dealing with that.
Speaker 9: I make it.
Speaker 6: Wa, bro, stop calling.
Speaker 11: I'm at work to doing my job the same way.
Speaker 2: You're doing yours.
Speaker 6: You don't want to get truck.
Speaker 2: I got one more thing I want to say to
Speaker 2: you before you go. And you're listening. This is Nephew
Speaker 2: timing from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 9: You just got pray, you got you.
Speaker 6: Got all, my teacher, You are all right, man, I'm
Speaker 6: gonna talk to this roof man. I'm talking about cool
Speaker 6: you talking about.
Speaker 9: She told me?
Speaker 2: She told me, man, she said that boy love that truck.
Speaker 6: Yeah. That's my choice, man, my only trasportation. Man, that's choice. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 6: you got it?
Speaker 11: You got Hey, I gotta I gotta ask you, man,
Speaker 11: Tell me brother, what is the baddest. I'm talking about
Speaker 11: the baddest radio show in the late Steve sho Now
Speaker 11: you're having ladies and gentlemen repo man, Yeah, somebody gotta
Speaker 11: do it.
Speaker 2: You've been repold before.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know anyone who hasn't been.
Speaker 8: Actually, Oh well I thought you got said, you don't
Speaker 8: know nobody who manak ain't never had a car, repot,
Speaker 8: never had no hell No, ain't never had a car.
Speaker 2: Tom ain't never had a repose, Carl I ain't never
Speaker 2: had no car.
Speaker 9: No, I ain't.
Speaker 3: You guys When my daddy had a repo and he
Speaker 3: told he told me he got stolen, my mom said,
Speaker 3: who told you that?
Speaker 9: Hey?
Speaker 8: Man, they had a deal in Cleveland when I was
Speaker 8: about twenty four. You mean when Mopegs was hot. They
Speaker 8: had a special deal. You can come down and get
Speaker 8: one and then pay on it for three months. They
Speaker 8: had to come get that.
Speaker 2: You got a moped repo?
Speaker 8: Well, I said, a bike. Well let me put you
Speaker 8: They tried to come get that. You think I can
Speaker 8: hide a car good?
Speaker 7: You know?
Speaker 2: No, I hit the mopeed in my backyard for three weeks.
Speaker 8: Oh, naden say in the backyard, I rake les one
Speaker 8: time and hit it.
Speaker 2: One time. I put put in that big ass garbage
Speaker 2: cad to put the top on it.
Speaker 1: Looking now you're listening Hardy Morning Show.
Speaker 10: It is time to get some great advice from the
Speaker 10: CLO that stands for Chief Love Officer.
Speaker 1: We call him the Close Steve Harvey.
Speaker 10: Shateria in Memphis writes, I have been dating a younger
Speaker 10: man for four months, and he's been using my car
Speaker 10: to go to work because I work from home.
Speaker 7: Now.
Speaker 10: I had a doctor's appointment yesterday, so I told him
Speaker 10: to call his mama for a ride. His mama called
Speaker 10: me and said, I'm only four years younger than her,
Speaker 10: So I'm his mama now and I need to take
Speaker 10: care of his knees.
Speaker 1: Would I be out of line to curse her out?
Speaker 9: What?
Speaker 7: Well?
Speaker 8: First of all, let's talk about a couple of things
Speaker 8: that I noticed, Shateria. This man you Dayton, got to
Speaker 8: be young because your name is Shaterria, and I don't
Speaker 8: know nobody named Shatiria that was born in the seventies,
Speaker 8: So I'm assuming that you are a young mother yourself.
Speaker 2: Now, you the one in here and rob this crackling.
Speaker 8: You're dating this little damn baby that just now got
Speaker 8: off his bicycle, so he ain't even got a car.
Speaker 2: Now you letting him use your car.
Speaker 8: You told him you got to go to the doctor
Speaker 8: because you got some medical complications. He can't do that,
Speaker 8: and then you told him using mama's car his mama's car.
Speaker 8: Would I be wrong for cussing out or kicking hotel?
Speaker 8: What are you doing?
Speaker 2: This is your fault.
Speaker 8: The fact that his mama can call you, the fact
Speaker 8: that you had him call his mama says you're in
Speaker 8: the wrong relationship. Shateria that rhymes with cafeteria henry. Yes,
Speaker 8: where we have the problem at right there? Your name,
Speaker 8: your age, and this damn baby you done picked up
Speaker 8: and moved around in here to your house that don't
Speaker 8: have a car. Bad selection. It ain't his mama, it's
Speaker 8: the boy you selected to be your man. Yeah, bad's
Speaker 8: your problem. Next question, all.
Speaker 1: Right, Moving on to Tay in Ohio.
Speaker 10: Tay says, I'm a twenty two year old student and
Speaker 10: I'm dating a black guy that is giving me grief
Speaker 10: because he's very friendly. He feels like he has to
Speaker 10: show the black girls on campus a lot of attention
Speaker 10: or they'll hate him for dating outside of his race.
Speaker 10: One of the girls can't stand me, and she's always
Speaker 10: talking slick to me.
Speaker 1: Should I pull her aside to see what the problem is?
Speaker 1: Or do I keep ignoring her? Like he said to.
Speaker 2: Well, let me let me give you, Let me let
Speaker 2: me say something to you. Now when you pull her
Speaker 2: to the side. Hey, I just want you.
Speaker 8: To understand that ain't the end of it. Let me
Speaker 8: live culturally. Once you pull them to the side and
Speaker 8: start addressing it, you finna get way molding.
Speaker 2: You bargain for.
Speaker 9: Now.
Speaker 8: The dude has told you to ignore it. You could
Speaker 8: ignore it, but I understand the position he's in. He
Speaker 8: gives them extra attention so they don't hate him. Look,
Speaker 8: are you enjoying this relationship, lady? It don't sound like
Speaker 8: she is to me. It's very much with this. You
Speaker 8: don't like the pressure, you don't like what come with it.
Speaker 8: And he's not coping with it real good either, because
Speaker 8: he feels in some kind of way. But now, let
Speaker 8: me explain something to you. Don't pull that black girl
Speaker 8: to the side.
Speaker 2: Don't do that. Don't do that.
Speaker 8: System beg a girl. Listen to me, Listen to Uncle Steve.
Speaker 8: Don't pull that black girl to the side, because it
Speaker 8: ain't gonna go nothing like you think you're not gonna
Speaker 8: believe her damn reaction. First of all, if you literally
Speaker 8: tap her on the elbow and say, come over here
Speaker 8: for a minute, let me talk to you, not just
Speaker 8: don't do that, don't you First, it's gonna be a
Speaker 8: pause and hesitation, the disbelief that you're addressing her. But
Speaker 8: if all the black women you done point, you're gonna
Speaker 8: picked out her is the one you gonna check her.
Speaker 8: I can't even tell you how this is fit to
Speaker 8: go now. I don't know if you're a cheerleader. I
Speaker 8: don't know if he an athlete, I don't know if
Speaker 8: you're on a debate team.
Speaker 2: I don't know what you own. But do not grab
Speaker 2: Shiteria Junior and pull her to the side.
Speaker 7: This is not him.
Speaker 2: Yeah, do not do that. It's not going to go.
Speaker 13: Thank you.
Speaker 10: Cela Monique and Tyler Town said. My husband and I
Speaker 10: had a card party over the weekend and his best
Speaker 10: buddy got drunk and slept on our floor all night.
Speaker 10: He also urinated on himself, and he had on dark jeans,
Speaker 10: so my carpet is ruined in that spot. My husband
Speaker 10: didn't want to make a big deal out of it
Speaker 10: and embarrass him. So we have to pay to have
Speaker 10: our carpet replaced. Shouldn't he make his buddy pay for this?
Speaker 2: You just so drunk you.
Speaker 8: Done fell asleep on the floor and pede on yourself.
Speaker 8: I mean he could go to him and say, hey, man,
Speaker 8: look here's a problem. And he was at the house.
Speaker 8: You got drunk. I know you couldn't help it, but
Speaker 8: you laid the floor and you peed on yourself, and
Speaker 8: my wife got to replace the carpet. Man, can you
Speaker 8: give us a little something on it? You know you
Speaker 8: should offer at that point, Well he not, Yeah, because
Speaker 8: he gonna swear him down.
Speaker 2: He gonna swear him down. He ain't peede on himself.
Speaker 2: Well who you know?
Speaker 8: If in the volunteer and that that wasn't he dark
Speaker 8: ain't pee on a little flow? Yeah that was a bill.
Speaker 8: Think I peed on myself.
Speaker 2: Now that's beer. I laid it in the beer. I
Speaker 2: saw the beer. I might knock the cup over. I
Speaker 2: can give you a couple of honey.
Speaker 8: Hell no, hell no, hell no, it ain't nowhere. And
Speaker 8: he ain't laying that any You can't prove he pre no, no, no, no, no.
Speaker 8: Hold on, bro, so you're gonna come to me with that?
Speaker 2: Yeah, we got picture? Hold on? Did you see me pete?
Speaker 12: No on my phone?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Now hold on?
Speaker 9: On?
Speaker 2: Who phone mine?
Speaker 7: Hold on?
Speaker 8: So your girl taking picture of me peeingna get turned?
Speaker 9: Yeah? You got?
Speaker 8: I mean he could mention it to him, but it's
Speaker 8: the the dude gonna deny it and stop him. Card
Speaker 8: party and stop letting people sleep on your floor overnight.
Speaker 8: Stop doing that, all right? Send his ass home pee.
Speaker 2: On his own floor.
Speaker 1: Oh with the smell in that house?
Speaker 2: All right?
Speaker 10: Moving on to Stephanie in La Stephanie says, I'm in
Speaker 10: my mid forties and I can't function without having sex
Speaker 10: at least four times a week. I work long days,
Speaker 10: so it's hard for me to meet a good man,
Speaker 10: to meet good men, and I end up tensed up
Speaker 10: all night and can't fall asleep. My neighbor has always
Speaker 10: been an option, but I don't want to be intimate
Speaker 10: with someone in my building. What's the worst that could happen?
Speaker 10: Should I go ahead and invite him over?
Speaker 2: I don't feel I don't care what you do. I
Speaker 2: really don't.
Speaker 8: Just ain't a love question, just a lost question. You're thirsty.
Speaker 8: You in your forties, you gotta have sex full times
Speaker 8: a week. Yeah you know what got's two You in
Speaker 8: your forties and you had to have sex full times
Speaker 8: a week.
Speaker 4: Okay, we'll go ahead and have it.
Speaker 2: No, no, if you have to go ahead, what you
Speaker 2: want me to tell you?
Speaker 9: Now?
Speaker 8: Your neighbor, you don't want to sleep with him because
Speaker 8: he who've been doing the full times a week for
Speaker 8: you up to now? Well that part see what I
Speaker 8: think is you got to have sex four times a week.
Speaker 8: Your problem is you can't find nobody want to have
Speaker 8: sex with.
Speaker 2: You full times a week. That's your real problem. That's
Speaker 2: what she said.
Speaker 10: Yeah, all right, coming up next more of the Steve
Speaker 10: Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 1: Right after this.
Speaker 10: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, Jay
Speaker 10: and Junior are here with some pointers for people. Okay,
Speaker 10: So no matter what you're into, whether it's drinking alcohol
Speaker 10: or smoking legally, now this is how you know when
Speaker 10: you've had enough and it's time to what put and
Speaker 10: put it down down?
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's time to put it down, all right, Jay,
Speaker 4: go ahead.
Speaker 5: When you got your light on your phone and you're
Speaker 5: looking for your phone, it's time to put it down.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's absolutely true. It's in your hand.
Speaker 14: Yeah, and all mine is real. And I don't care
Speaker 14: if he is listening this morning, but this is what
Speaker 14: he gonna stop. Nick here if you said it drinking
Speaker 14: O eat. But every time you hear a police sign,
Speaker 14: you grabbed me. Put the old eat down. You don't
Speaker 14: need to drink this no more. I'm tired to tear
Speaker 14: my clothes off and police go. But I'm not gonna
Speaker 14: sity here with do this with ya Jay.
Speaker 7: He knows where he is.
Speaker 1: That's put it down.
Speaker 5: Okay, all right, it's three o'clock in the morning. You
Speaker 5: throwing out a drinking to make Thanksgiving dinner and it
Speaker 5: ain't even Thanksgiving. It's time to put it down.
Speaker 4: Time, it's just going.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just too.
Speaker 6: Thick.
Speaker 14: Another if you say what h huh in the conversation
Speaker 14: MORETI five times what it's time to put it down?
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right for about who.
Speaker 7: That one?
Speaker 9: Here we go.
Speaker 2: I'm good.
Speaker 4: If you like what you're smoking on both ends.
Speaker 2: It's trying to put it down on both ends.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, cook, you got one of.
Speaker 2: Okay, tell you something.
Speaker 14: If I come over your house and I walked on
Speaker 14: stairs and you playing PlayStation and you got the headphones off.
Speaker 2: Dog, whatever you is, you do what it's time to
Speaker 2: put that down.
Speaker 7: You see that.
Speaker 14: You're talking to a handst so what a place that
Speaker 14: you control in your hand as you smoking?
Speaker 7: I know what you're.
Speaker 8: This happened with a friendom mind if you drive it? Yeah,
Speaker 8: and we just set at this light and it have
Speaker 8: changed greens three times. Yeah we still now, but staring
Speaker 8: at the witch.
Speaker 1: You you get time, you.
Speaker 5: Put it down down, It's time, it's time put it down. Well,
Speaker 5: you you decide to make a cake and you waiting
Speaker 5: for the cake to be done. You got all the
Speaker 5: ingredients in the pan, but what you did was you
Speaker 5: stuck it in the dish washing and you waiting.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Times put it down.
Speaker 6: There.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I got one.
Speaker 8: If you done got hungry and you done decided you
Speaker 8: want some pinto beans and you soaking them and you
Speaker 8: just get a spoon and sit down and start eating.
Speaker 2: You've got to you got.
Speaker 10: Right coming up next, more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 10: Right after this, you're listening to Harvey Morning Show. We
Speaker 10: here at the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Love food all
Speaker 10: of us, but there are a lot of foods we
Speaker 10: think are from other countries that are actually invented in
Speaker 10: a good old USA, And those are some of the
Speaker 10: most famous ones.
Speaker 1: Like Fortune cookies invented right here.
Speaker 10: Yeah, it was actually invented in San Francisco by a
Speaker 10: Japanese American baker.
Speaker 7: Did you'll know that? Did you notice, Steve?
Speaker 2: I did Fortune? They don't taste good.
Speaker 10: I like them with chocolate, white chocolate on them, and
Speaker 10: they don't shy.
Speaker 2: Surely excuse me. Chocolate is the worst thing you could
Speaker 2: put in your body.
Speaker 1: I absolutely know that, But it tastes real good. That's
Speaker 1: all I'm saying.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. You're a very wonderful health reason and you
Speaker 2: just destroyed it. I know that, any damn.
Speaker 10: Yeah, I don't eat it now, but yeah I used to,
Speaker 10: and it's delicious. Orange chicken. How about that one?
Speaker 2: That's good? Yeah?
Speaker 10: It was created in Hawaii in nineteen eighty seven by
Speaker 10: Panda Express chef Andy Koe or Kyle ok.
Speaker 1: I didn't know that, Wow, I know.
Speaker 2: Who came up with them. It was the Crustation who
Speaker 2: came up with them. They do, they do copy it.
Speaker 1: German chocolate cake came my.
Speaker 8: Mama, Yeah, my mama it has I don't know who
Speaker 8: made it, befolk. I don't know who made it, befolk.
Speaker 8: Ain't nobody make it? Like huddle ear lost via Hobby
Speaker 8: greatest piece of German chocolate cake?
Speaker 2: Hold the wow?
Speaker 10: I have to I heard German chocolate. But anyway, it
Speaker 10: has nothing to do with Germany. It's because of its name,
Speaker 10: Samuel German that it's called German blad.
Speaker 2: People, they're perfected it.
Speaker 1: Oh yes, hello, that coconut.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we've had a lot taken from us. So hey,
Speaker 2: the right of that we took. We took the cake.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, we love German cake, all right.
Speaker 10: English muffins, English muffins from England, from England. They were
Speaker 10: actually invented in New York City in nineteen eighty four
Speaker 10: by English immigrants Samuel Bass Thomas.
Speaker 2: They were rich, they were really nothing. Let me give
Speaker 2: you some real dishes that was created right here in America. Okay,
Speaker 2: come on, what you got hit it? Yes, work it out, boy,
Speaker 2: Whether they want to be a not fried sprayl yes,
Speaker 2: hot dogs.
Speaker 1: And beans, yeah, American dish. All right, there you have it.
Speaker 1: You're listening morning show.
Speaker 9: All right.
Speaker 10: Sometimes we all find ourselves in a conversation, okay, be
Speaker 10: it political, scientific, educational, financial, even hip hop pop culture
Speaker 10: based conversations where.
Speaker 1: We just have no clue, I mean clueless.
Speaker 2: To what the person is talking about. Okay, So so
Speaker 2: guess what sure to do with sports?
Speaker 1: Busted?
Speaker 10: So do you guys chime in and ask people to
Speaker 10: to get you up to speed or do you just
Speaker 10: not in agreement?
Speaker 2: Like you know, you know, like I actually get into conversations.
Speaker 1: I wanted to start with you.
Speaker 8: Yes, get in the concert, like bring up a subject
Speaker 8: where you know I ain't got nothing now I don't
Speaker 8: know nothing about it.
Speaker 1: Engineering making a bridge, Oh.
Speaker 8: Man, you know when me and my father man used
Speaker 8: to work construction. You know, I used to work on bridge.
Speaker 8: We used to pad of cracks in the bridge. So
Speaker 8: I knew all about the structural design of a bridge,
Speaker 8: what called the fracture spaces in it?
Speaker 2: And I just did like that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, did you or your father go to engineering school?
Speaker 1: I mean take engineering?
Speaker 2: And I never did.
Speaker 1: A construction company.
Speaker 8: Or no, no, no, no, Now we work for this company,
Speaker 8: Frank Buddy, Brank buddy contract.
Speaker 1: Have you ever driven over a bridge?
Speaker 9: Oh?
Speaker 2: Hell yeah, I been a lot of That's how we
Speaker 2: knew how they cracked.
Speaker 8: You know, the structural engineering position is what we would
Speaker 8: take hold was the uprooted problem that diverted the situation
Speaker 8: into a crack in the first place.
Speaker 2: We sound good, What are you talking about?
Speaker 7: There's like a.
Speaker 2: Board game like this, Go ahead ahead.
Speaker 3: I was gonna ask him, though, Shirley, So how would
Speaker 3: you what would you recommend to.
Speaker 1: Update a bridge?
Speaker 2: Well, I think up is a very bridge.
Speaker 8: The Golden Gray Bridge has been needed update and repairing.
Speaker 8: You know, been several earthquakes as we reaking the foundation.
Speaker 8: But I think what we're gonna have to do is
Speaker 8: we're gonna have to do a section out of time.
Speaker 8: I think we're gonna have to break that bridge and half.
Speaker 8: So we had this one way traffic going one way,
Speaker 8: and then once you get the one one lane locked off,
Speaker 8: and then you can do the restructure work on the
Speaker 8: other side, and then you reinforce it up under with
Speaker 8: welding beams and now to join them back together.
Speaker 2: That way they'll fixed that. Whole time you.
Speaker 10: Mentioned earthquakes, I was wondering. You know, we're out here
Speaker 10: in l A. What you know a lot of seismatologists
Speaker 10: have been on the news lately. Saying there is a
Speaker 10: possibility that there could be an earthquakes coming soon.
Speaker 1: You agree with that?
Speaker 2: Four point seven?
Speaker 1: A four point seven? What are you basing that on?
Speaker 2: Yeah, because last was four pointed.
Speaker 1: You predict Are you a seismatologist, Finny Chance or you
Speaker 1: had you know anybody that is?
Speaker 2: No, I'm a quake atologist.
Speaker 7: After show, so far, so good? Yeah, go ahead.
Speaker 2: Ahead, anything just anything I couldn't I can get right
Speaker 2: with it.
Speaker 1: And house you're not allowed about.
Speaker 8: How Yeah, I grew up in a housing projectist.
Speaker 1: I meant seismologist, said seismatologist.
Speaker 2: That's why I said, you said quake, because I knew
Speaker 2: you ain't know what. Okay, go ahead, you know you
Speaker 2: know anything about design and airplane? Are absolutely? Absolutely?
Speaker 1: You mean like the engines and stuff for inside, which,
Speaker 1: well let's.
Speaker 2: Go be Yeah.
Speaker 8: Rose Royce is number one engine manufacturer of jet planes
Speaker 8: in the world.
Speaker 1: Right now now that I believe, No, that's from you,
Speaker 1: that I believe.
Speaker 8: Rose Ross is number one jet manufactured engine parts and
Speaker 8: motors in the world today.
Speaker 2: And so whatever I'm picking out a plane, always go
Speaker 2: Rose RoCE engine.
Speaker 10: Okay, what's the best feat to get up with altitude?
Speaker 8: Well, you want to fly at least thirty three thousand,
Speaker 8: but if you're in the whole war substantial plane, you
Speaker 8: can get up to forty nine thousand, which then at
Speaker 8: that point you can see the curvature of the Earth.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I cannot argue it.
Speaker 1: I guess you're up there in heaven on my.
Speaker 8: Afe forty nine thousand feet in the G five you
Speaker 8: can see the curvature of.
Speaker 2: The Earth ahead.
Speaker 1: Wow, the planet, so.
Speaker 2: You can see that the world is around Wow. No,
Speaker 2: and that's a fact it is.
Speaker 1: I can't argue with you because I have a new
Speaker 1: idea all about the thirty three thousand altitude. All right, Steve,
Speaker 1: thank you.
Speaker 10: Up next, it is a nephew switching gears with a
Speaker 10: prank phone call for today.
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening morning show coming up at
Speaker 1: the top of the hour. Right about four minutes after.
Speaker 10: It is my strawberry letter for today's subject. He wants
Speaker 10: me but not the children. Right now, it is the
Speaker 10: nephew's turn with today's prank phone call. What you got,
Speaker 10: King of Pranks?
Speaker 11: I got a prank for y'all, Linda. I want to
Speaker 11: ask y'all some y'all tell me if I'm in the roll. Okay,
Speaker 11: all right, So my wife is a little love sick,
Speaker 11: all right, the love sick, and I didn't think nothing
Speaker 11: of it. Yeah, I'm gonna take you, y'all. Just let
Speaker 11: me know if I if I'm in the roll? Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 11: we go out, we go out to dinner. We go
Speaker 11: out to dinner, and we bump into some we both
Speaker 11: do some people that I know, and uh so, I
Speaker 11: you know, I'm playing now I'm playing, But I introduced
Speaker 11: her is my ex girlfriend?
Speaker 2: Now, ain't she really my ex girlfriend? You know what
Speaker 2: I'm saying? Yeah, that's right. Ain't she really? You're my wife?
Speaker 6: Not?
Speaker 2: But you're my ex girlfriend.
Speaker 11: I said that, this is my ex girlfriend, Jackie right here.
Speaker 2: She looked at me like, what did you just you
Speaker 2: are my ex girlfriend?
Speaker 7: Ain't you?
Speaker 2: What are you upset about?
Speaker 9: Yes?
Speaker 2: So am I wrong?
Speaker 7: Yes?
Speaker 9: Yes?
Speaker 1: Yeah I knew you were before you.
Speaker 8: I think that really, dog, that's really got sex?
Speaker 2: Really?
Speaker 13: You know?
Speaker 9: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 9: Damn?
Speaker 12: That was wrong?
Speaker 1: Was well real stupid?
Speaker 2: Well okay, if we go back to being the girlfriend,
Speaker 2: why is that?
Speaker 9: And what.
Speaker 7: Here?
Speaker 2: You y'all ex girlfriend? I don't see this didn't gain
Speaker 2: you a promotion? You don't see that.
Speaker 1: Stop trying to flip it.
Speaker 11: Come on now here it is. Come on, cat dog,
Speaker 11: let's go. The name of this is uh quarterback, sneak,
Speaker 11: quarterback sneak. Let's go cat dog.
Speaker 9: Hello that streak the cans she cares. This is Tony.
Speaker 9: Are you mama?
Speaker 12: Excuse me?
Speaker 9: You are you mama?
Speaker 12: Yeah? I am Why Who are you?
Speaker 9: My name is Tony. I'm Deandre's daddy. DeAndre. They played
Speaker 9: on this past season. They played on the football tea,
Speaker 9: they played on the on the Seahawks together.
Speaker 12: Okay, okay, but like, why are you calling me?
Speaker 9: Okay, I'm calling you for a particular reason. Let me
Speaker 9: tell you what's going on this whole past football season.
Speaker 9: Your son Isaiah, he was a starting quarterback, right.
Speaker 12: Yeah, he's Yeah, he's a certain quarterback. He works real hard.
Speaker 9: Like that's that said physical. Let me let me go
Speaker 9: say it. I already know that my son DeAndre is
Speaker 9: way better than your son Isaiah. I already know that
Speaker 9: all right. Now, I ain't get to excuse you. No,
Speaker 9: I ain't gonna excuse me. I'm not gonna chuse myself
Speaker 9: about this. I've been wanting to get you on the
Speaker 9: phone so I can tell you exactly what's going on.
Speaker 9: Let me tell you something when when the season come
Speaker 9: back around, when they getting ready to play again, I'm
Speaker 9: telling you right now, my son DeAndre gonna be starting.
Speaker 9: Please know that. Trust me. I swear to you. I
Speaker 9: know what you did for your Excuse me, sir.
Speaker 12: Excuse me you you who do you think you are
Speaker 12: calling me telling me that your son is gonna take
Speaker 12: my son's position on the team. How do you even
Speaker 12: have my number?
Speaker 9: I got? I got your number from a reliable sort.
Speaker 9: What are the payers gave me your number?
Speaker 12: But what's like, what kind of mental problems you got
Speaker 12: calling my house telling me about how your son is.
Speaker 12: So your son is like not barely even on the team,
Speaker 12: he's not even starting.
Speaker 9: Okay, now my son ain't start. Okay, Well he's gonna
Speaker 9: be starting next year. Okay, But I know what you
Speaker 9: did it for your son to be started. Trust me.
Speaker 9: I know what you did, Kansas.
Speaker 12: I didn't do anything. My son earn't his positions. So
Speaker 12: I mean, I don't I don't really get what you're
Speaker 12: saying here. You're talking about talking to some big game
Speaker 12: about your son taking my son's position.
Speaker 9: Life.
Speaker 12: First of all, I don't even know who you are.
Speaker 12: I don't know how you got my number. Like these
Speaker 12: these are kids, it's not it's really not that serious.
Speaker 12: Like their kids out there having a good time, trying
Speaker 12: to play a game. It's like, I haven't seen you
Speaker 12: at a game.
Speaker 9: I don't know.
Speaker 12: I don't know what you think. You are stepping up
Speaker 12: being like my son is gonna take your son's position?
Speaker 12: Like what kind of crazy are you? You're calling me
Speaker 12: out of nowhere, out of that, You're calling me nowhere,
Speaker 12: out of the clear blue. I'm just minding my business.
Speaker 12: My son is playing his game. Who the are you
Speaker 12: and why are you calling me?
Speaker 9: Like what? I ain't been to no games, but I'm
Speaker 9: gonna be there on next season. I'll be there, Okay, Okay,
Speaker 9: I mean.
Speaker 12: You could try, You could try. You might not want
Speaker 12: that come cause your son still ain't certain.
Speaker 9: But let's come on and get to the reason why. Carl,
Speaker 9: you I already know why your son starting, because he's
Speaker 9: going on. They're going what what?
Speaker 12: No, my son is starting because he earned his position.
Speaker 12: He's the best on the team.
Speaker 9: You're saying that, Cannons, But are you sure your son
Speaker 9: ain't starting? Because maybe you maybe you slept. Maybe you
Speaker 9: slept with coach Brian.
Speaker 12: What wait, excuse you look like, did you did you?
Speaker 9: Did you sleep with coach Brian so your son can
Speaker 9: get that position? Did you do that?
Speaker 12: Your mama slept with coach be coach Brian with her
Speaker 12: dry that's why your son ain't playing.
Speaker 6: Who do you think you are accusing me of.
Speaker 9: Sleeping with a coach? Hey, hey, I'm just I'm just
Speaker 9: letting you know.
Speaker 12: I know what you did for your You don't know,
Speaker 12: you don't know, you don't know, okay, So.
Speaker 9: So so you you singing you ain't self with coach Briant,
Speaker 9: that's what you're saying. So Isa, they are starting because
Speaker 9: he just because because he they just picked him the start.
Speaker 12: You are crazy. First of all, you're gonna have to
Speaker 12: talk to my husband because these accusations are ridiculous and
Speaker 12: out of control. But I don't know who the do
Speaker 12: you think you are in the house excusing me of
Speaker 12: sleeping with the coach my son earned his positions on
Speaker 12: the teams. He's like, what the do you think you are?
Speaker 12: You are straight?
Speaker 2: Brother?
Speaker 9: Who is your hook? Who is that?
Speaker 12: My husband is Curtiss, So you don't know because you
Speaker 12: ain't never showed up for your own damn son.
Speaker 9: Okay, Curtis, you'll you'll hold nint Curtis. Okay, okay, So
Speaker 9: I tell you I need I need to talk to Curtis. Seat,
Speaker 9: That's what I need to do.
Speaker 12: Oh you're gonna more than talk to Curtis. You're gonna
Speaker 12: catch some same hands from Curtis with that mouse.
Speaker 9: Okay, all good? So so so let me answer this this.
Speaker 6: You saw him like Curtis that drive trucks, that Curtis I'm.
Speaker 12: Talking about, Curtis, my husband in my house. You don't
Speaker 12: know who we are because you ain't never showed up.
Speaker 12: You ain't nobody. Your kid is nobody, his host and
Speaker 12: phone call, his book. And you need to crawl back
Speaker 12: into whatever the hole you came out of because I
Speaker 12: am not here for this.
Speaker 9: Curtis is a truck driver, right, Yeah.
Speaker 12: You're lucky here? Am I your over yet?
Speaker 7: Oh?
Speaker 9: Okay, okay, you found my Curtis non Now? Can I
Speaker 9: tell you something else I don't find out by Curtis?
Speaker 9: Can I tell you that I don't?
Speaker 12: I don't, I don't. I kind of don't want to
Speaker 12: hear anything that comes out of your mouth at this point,
Speaker 12: I'll tell you this.
Speaker 9: The last thing I'm gonna say my mouth. Can I
Speaker 9: just tell you what I know?
Speaker 12: By Curtis, you better make it quick.
Speaker 9: I'm gonna make it quick. Curtis got me the plank
Speaker 9: phone called you. This is nephew Tommy. Can this from
Speaker 9: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got pranked by
Speaker 9: your husband? Curtis?
Speaker 12: Are you killing me?
Speaker 9: We're in the radio right now. You alt right now,
Speaker 9: but you're gonna be on in the morning though.
Speaker 12: Oh my goodness, like my heart is racing right now.
Speaker 12: The component tear off your throat. You're killing me. My
Speaker 12: husband put you up to this show.
Speaker 9: Your husband got me to call you, baby. He said,
Speaker 9: y'all Son is amazing quarterback. I said, cool, We're gonna do.
Speaker 12: This, yo. You don't understand. My chest feels like a
Speaker 12: vice right now.
Speaker 9: I want to throw all I can't say. You got
Speaker 9: to tell me one thing. What's the baddest and I
Speaker 9: mean the baddest radio show in the last Steve Harvey
Speaker 9: in the Morning.
Speaker 6: Oh my gum sweating yo.
Speaker 2: Sweat it out, baby, sweat it out. This is what
Speaker 2: we do. Break it down, Break it down, coach.
Speaker 8: That's why Yeah, my mama slept with the coach. Now
Speaker 8: you assaulted that sister, she was done. Yeah, because you
Speaker 8: say anything, you say any of this.
Speaker 2: The curtis.
Speaker 11: Get ready to get ready, Greenville, South Carolina at the
Speaker 11: Convention Center.
Speaker 2: The nephew is coming to town. Did you hear what
Speaker 2: I said?
Speaker 11: Greenville, South Carolina, Saturday, August the nineteenth. The Nephew will
Speaker 11: be in the building. That's Nephew, Tommy and Friends, and
Speaker 11: you don't want to miss it. We all own a roll,
Speaker 11: Baby and laying in the cut at the Howard Theater, Washington,
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Speaker 10: It is the strong, very letter subject. He wants me
Speaker 10: but not the children. Dear Stephen Shirley. I am a
Speaker 10: forty nine year old female married to a forty nine
Speaker 10: year old man. We have five children and five grandchildren.
Speaker 10: Here is the problem my current husband, he says, I have.
Speaker 10: I have five children and five grandchildren. Okay, not we
Speaker 10: Oh okay, here is the problem. My current husband is
Speaker 10: not the father of my children. I married this man
Speaker 10: when my children were young, so he's been in their
Speaker 10: lives for a very long time. My youngest son just
Speaker 10: graduated from high school and we'll be going away for college.
Speaker 10: So now my husband thinks that we are done raising children,
Speaker 10: and from now on it will be just the two
Speaker 10: of us. He has said that we don't have to
Speaker 10: worry about the kids anymore because they are all grown
Speaker 10: and have their own lives. So am I not supposed
Speaker 10: to So am I not supposed to be involved with
Speaker 10: my children since they are no longer living at home.
Speaker 10: My children range from ages thirty two to eighteen years old,
Speaker 10: and all five of them live in different states. I
Speaker 10: want to see them and my grandkids as often as
Speaker 10: I can. In fact, I'd like to move closer to them.
Speaker 10: My husband does not want anything to do with them period.
Speaker 10: He doesn't want to visit them, and he doesn't want
Speaker 10: them to visit us. He said that they don't need to.
Speaker 1: Come for the holidays.
Speaker 10: What the hell he really thinks that, because they are adults,
Speaker 10: I am supposed to forget that they exist. I understand
Speaker 10: that these are our golden years and we should be
Speaker 10: enjoying quality time together and traveling the world. But our
Speaker 10: travels should also include trips to see my children. If
Speaker 10: he's really serious, I may have to spend my golden
Speaker 10: years alone. Stephen Shirley, can you please help me?
Speaker 2: Well?
Speaker 10: Your letters started off nicely so I'll put it like this.
Speaker 10: Your husband, I'm sure, feels like he's done his job
Speaker 10: and it's over. These were not his kids. He raised
Speaker 10: them anyway. He's been in their lives since they were
Speaker 10: really young. So he's done and not being their biological debt.
Speaker 10: Like I said, the ties are cut. He has no
Speaker 10: connection really to them. It seems he cut them off
Speaker 10: and his concentration is now on you and you guys'
Speaker 10: future together. He wants to live, he wants to live
Speaker 10: his life, you know, and do all of those things.
Speaker 10: But now I think that he's being very unrealistic when
Speaker 10: he says the children he doesn't want the kids to
Speaker 10: come and see you, or he doesn't want you to
Speaker 10: go see the kids.
Speaker 7: How is that?
Speaker 10: I mean, really, that's a bit unrealistic, especially if it
Speaker 10: makes you happy to see your kids.
Speaker 1: You're his wife.
Speaker 10: He should want to see you happy and do those
Speaker 10: things that make you happy. I mean, it's very unrealistic
Speaker 10: to say that. He really thinks that because they're adults,
Speaker 10: you're supposed to forget that they exist. No, that's not
Speaker 10: the issue, and he knows that's not the issue. They
Speaker 10: are grown and they are living their own lives. That
Speaker 10: part is definitely true. But you guys got to come
Speaker 10: to some kind of compromise in terms of when you
Speaker 10: see the kids and when you go see the kids.
Speaker 1: Even if you just go by yourself, you have to
Speaker 1: see your kids. These are your kids, Steve.
Speaker 8: You're a parent. Now he wants me, but not the children. Okay,
Speaker 8: that I can relate to. I don't want mine either though.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and on any day between the seven of them,
Speaker 2: you can come get four just like that.
Speaker 8: But we are parents. You're forty nine, man's forty nine.
Speaker 8: You got five children and five grandkids. He's not the
Speaker 8: father of the kids. Your youngest son just graduated high
Speaker 8: school going away to college. So now your husband think
Speaker 8: that we done raising children and from now on it
Speaker 8: it just be the two of us. He has says
Speaker 8: that we don't have to worry about the kids no
Speaker 8: more because they're all grown and have their own lives. Okay,
Speaker 8: are you kidding me? You really think that's how it goes?
Speaker 8: Do you know that you are a parent for life.
Speaker 8: You may not be a husband or a wife for life,
Speaker 8: but once you become a parent, you're a parent for life. Now,
Speaker 8: there are some good ones out there, and there are
Speaker 8: some bad ones out there. I got it, you, sir,
Speaker 8: are about to turn into a bad one because you
Speaker 8: don't get it. You are in your golden years. You
Speaker 8: said that later in the letter. Your kids are from
Speaker 8: thirty two to eighteen. All of them live in different states,
Speaker 8: and you want to see your kids and your grandkids.
Speaker 8: Matter of fact, you want to move closer to her.
Speaker 8: Your husband don't want nothing to do with them, period.
Speaker 8: He doesn't want to visit them, and he doesn't want
Speaker 8: them to visit us.
Speaker 2: He says, they don't need to come for the holiday.
Speaker 7: What the hell?
Speaker 2: That's what the lady type don't need to come for
Speaker 2: the holidays. What the hell?
Speaker 8: What the hell is right? Come on, man, are you
Speaker 8: for real? Bruh, you're gonna just act like you never
Speaker 8: met these people. He gotta come home. He's not ready
Speaker 8: to live on his own, and I got that. The
Speaker 8: kids range from thirty two to eighteen. Man, Do you
Speaker 8: know how much advice they need? So how much help
Speaker 8: they need? Financial support they need? Come on, man, that
Speaker 8: ain't hot his work?
Speaker 2: Man? You crazy? And he don't want them indivent. He
Speaker 2: don't want him to come for the holidays.
Speaker 8: What the hell he thinks that because they are adults,
Speaker 8: I'm supposed to forget the day exists. That's the craziest
Speaker 8: part of it. You gotta be nuts. It doesn't work
Speaker 8: there way. Come on, man, I understand that these are
Speaker 8: our golden years. You ain't be forty nine hell golden.
Speaker 8: But if that's how you want to look at it, okay, cool.
Speaker 8: And if we should be enjoying quality time together and
Speaker 8: traveling the world, players should also include trips see my trip.
Speaker 2: If he's really serious, I may have to spend my
Speaker 2: golden years alone. And we will be back when I
Speaker 2: was a kid.
Speaker 15: What you say, Steve, I said, William back, all right,
Speaker 15: we will be back at twenty three after with part
Speaker 15: two of Steve's response, too, he wants me but not
Speaker 15: the children?
Speaker 1: Right after this.
Speaker 10: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, here
Speaker 10: we are part two of today's Strawberry letter. The subject
Speaker 10: he wants me but not the children.
Speaker 2: Wow, well, there's youngest one that graduated.
Speaker 8: The boy is five kids, none of them he is
Speaker 8: now he going while they graduated, they gone, we threw
Speaker 8: it then they out. He's saying, no, they have their
Speaker 8: own lives, their adults. They should be able to make
Speaker 8: it on their own. I see my grandkids as off
Speaker 8: as I can. It's what the woman says. In fact,
Speaker 8: I want to move closer to him. My husband don't
Speaker 8: want anything to do with them, period. He don't want
Speaker 8: to visit them. He don't want them to visit us.
Speaker 8: He said, they don't need to come for the holiday.
Speaker 8: What the hell, lady said, what to hell? No, we
Speaker 8: don't come for the holidays. What is Christmas about?
Speaker 1: Exactly?
Speaker 8: He really thinks that because the adults, I'm supposed to
Speaker 8: forget they exist. I understand that these are golden years
Speaker 8: that we should been enjoyed, follow the time together and
Speaker 8: traveling the world. But I travel plans and the called
Speaker 8: trips to see my children. He's really serious. I may
Speaker 8: have spent my golden years alone. Steven Shirley, can you
Speaker 8: please help me? He wants to check out. In essence,
Speaker 8: he wants to check out. He wants to say that
Speaker 8: I've done my duty. I raised these kids to the
Speaker 8: best of my ability. I've contributed, and now they gone,
Speaker 8: that's it. I'm chilling. I wish that was the case.
Speaker 1: But honey, why don't you want to see the kids?
Speaker 1: I mean that something.
Speaker 2: Happened already seen the kids, Well, yeah.
Speaker 10: You've seen him since they were young, I mean, and
Speaker 10: they live their own lives now.
Speaker 2: I saw all I needed to see when they was here.
Speaker 2: I'm tired.
Speaker 8: I've been working, paying bill, put keep to college and
Speaker 8: were covering up dream about that boy and coffee machine all.
Speaker 10: That and honey, we appreciate it so much, but these
Speaker 10: are my kids. I have to see them on the holidays.
Speaker 1: That's what the holidays are for.
Speaker 10: Family holidays, Yes, family like Thanksgiving, like Christmas, get free
Speaker 10: like Thanksgiving like Christmas.
Speaker 2: We ain't going down there.
Speaker 1: I've already made arrangements for them to come here.
Speaker 2: They finish cork, were here to the house.
Speaker 1: I'm you know, getting the big Christmas tree and everything.
Speaker 1: They're gon.
Speaker 2: We just got ready to We just got rid of
Speaker 2: the damn boy. And what the hell are you inviting
Speaker 2: them back for? They don't think we want them.
Speaker 10: Well, he has to have somewhere to go when he's
Speaker 10: out of school for Christmas break school.
Speaker 2: Don't wait, he ain't done at one Am International School.
Speaker 1: But I want him to come home. I missed them.
Speaker 1: I carried them for nine months.
Speaker 2: This is my blood, so you raising me kid to
Speaker 2: be none. But rumps, that was wrong right here.
Speaker 1: He's a great kid. He's in college now, he great.
Speaker 2: He will let him fear for herself, go and make it.
Speaker 2: You know, he ain't got nowhere to get a job.
Speaker 1: Wow, I don't understand.
Speaker 10: I mean, you were so good with them when they
Speaker 10: were young and helping me raise them. Now all of
Speaker 10: a sudden, it's like, who are you? They are.
Speaker 1: I don't know you.
Speaker 2: I was just counting the day.
Speaker 1: What do you mean you were counting the day until
Speaker 1: they got out this house. But you were so good.
Speaker 1: They call you daddy. You're not even there, Vio.
Speaker 2: She never call me daddy cause they can't find that.
Speaker 10: Well, you know, I just wanted to let you know
Speaker 10: that I really appreciate that you were there for me,
Speaker 10: there for my kids.
Speaker 2: I know you do, baby, I appreciate. Now I want
Speaker 2: you to be here for me.
Speaker 1: Well, I am here for you, but I'm also you.
Speaker 2: All the time, all that the mom day's over with.
Speaker 1: No, the mom days are never over with.
Speaker 2: Gone.
Speaker 9: No, they're not.
Speaker 2: They no, they not cause you keep inviting them back.
Speaker 9: Leave more.
Speaker 10: They act girl, these are my kids and this is
Speaker 10: my house too. They're coming home for the holidays. Okay,
Speaker 10: I put my foot down.
Speaker 2: That's waiting to get the hell out. Never invite them
Speaker 2: back over for the holidays.
Speaker 7: It's just be in here.
Speaker 2: We ain't got no. We ain't gonna be able to
Speaker 2: put a tree up.
Speaker 1: We're gonna put a tree up right over there.
Speaker 7: But when.
Speaker 2: If you put a tree up.
Speaker 8: Over there and then all these people come in the house,
Speaker 8: we ain't gonna be decorated.
Speaker 1: It's just five kids and five grandkids and there's about
Speaker 1: ten people.
Speaker 2: Look at the living mood.
Speaker 10: Well, then maybe we need a big house because I'm
Speaker 10: not getting rid of my kids.
Speaker 2: A bigger house.
Speaker 1: Yes, it's a bigger house.
Speaker 2: Girls, that girl, we can find out all them people
Speaker 2: out of here only here. We need a bigger house.
Speaker 1: It's just for a few days during the holidays.
Speaker 2: Honey.
Speaker 1: You don't want to say Christmas caro.
Speaker 8: Yeah, no, matter of fact, I want this house stage
Speaker 8: saying sid so they can they already outgrowing.
Speaker 1: And who's gonna we need a bigger house. Who's gonna
Speaker 1: help me cook?
Speaker 10: That's what we love doing, that, me and the girls
Speaker 10: cooking together, paring Christmas dinner and Thanksgiving dinner.
Speaker 2: You ain't no We're gonna stop this damn joke the
Speaker 2: woman in the letter. If you're gonna try to slide
Speaker 2: in and you can cook, we're gonna end the damn
Speaker 2: troup the letter can cook, We've got to try to
Speaker 2: slide into.
Speaker 8: We're gonna help you cook that. We've been trying to
Speaker 8: find out two thousands. I don't know what the little
Speaker 8: Mexican to.
Speaker 1: His name is there?
Speaker 2: Neston not.
Speaker 7: Sorry you, Steve?
Speaker 1: Are you still the man in the letter? Make up
Speaker 1: your mind?
Speaker 2: I'm man in the letter.
Speaker 8: But what you try to slide in with a cooking
Speaker 8: complimend by yourself and I ain't FeelA.
Speaker 2: Let you do it now? Surely you can't cook? Will
Speaker 2: help me cook? Anybody?
Speaker 1: I'm speaking as the woman in the letter. All Right,
Speaker 1: we gotta go, We gotta get out of here.
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Speaker 1: Listening Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, time to play
Speaker 1: comedy roulette. Let's go Bertie. Yeah, you want to explain it?
Speaker 4: Quickly, Jay, we dig four subjects. Put him on the wheel,
Speaker 4: spun the wheel. We stop, We'll do the damn dame.
Speaker 1: All right, here we go.
Speaker 10: Things people say who don't watch television, things that know
Speaker 10: it all will say stuff you say when you break
Speaker 10: something that doesn't.
Speaker 1: Belong to you.
Speaker 13: And movie rolls, Tommy could definitely play spin the wheel.
Speaker 2: Well, we know where to hit it, but we know
Speaker 2: where it's going.
Speaker 13: What happened by mistakes? Promise you movie rolls, Tommy definitely could.
Speaker 6: Let's go.
Speaker 2: Jay oh Man, Tommy, come on.
Speaker 4: He could play the Hulk when he was a boy,
Speaker 4: The Hope all grown up, The Hope.
Speaker 2: Jesus movie, Roles Nephew.
Speaker 14: Tommy could play Thing one or Thing two in a
Speaker 14: Doctor SEUs movie.
Speaker 2: I could play Phi.
Speaker 8: You, Harvey, I can play I'll tell you what you
Speaker 8: could play better though, for the Gary Coleman story.
Speaker 4: What you talking about the story of the Jolly Green Giant?
Speaker 2: Keep me tall, Jake me tall j who he's gonna
Speaker 2: be one of the shoes. Let me see who I
Speaker 2: could play.
Speaker 11: I could play Kareem abdul Jabbar oh in the Kaream
Speaker 11: of Dude the bo movie.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you're.
Speaker 8: Gonna be his socks. You're getting up there, you ahead?
Speaker 8: Emanuel Lewis the Beginning.
Speaker 4: Webster. Yeah, all right, come on, what's the story of
Speaker 4: the fifty foot Man?
Speaker 2: Come on, Jake, that's all right. Remember Chucky the movie?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 14: Yeah, Tim, he gonna play the Bio Pig documentary of Chucky.
Speaker 2: He's gonna bust out of.
Speaker 7: A box and everything. Ju tom your turn.
Speaker 11: I could play, because you know I know him Shaquille
Speaker 11: O'Neal life Store.
Speaker 4: Yes you can't.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay, yeah, you're ready for what? You really
Speaker 2: gonna play it over bubbles my years with Michael he was.
Speaker 1: These are movie roles that Tommy definitely could play.
Speaker 10: All right, we'll be back with more of the Steve
Speaker 10: Harvey Morning Show coming up right after this.
Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, here's
Speaker 1: something we saw on Facebook.
Speaker 10: Now, there was a boss who asked five coworkers who
Speaker 10: were in a meeting if they had any spare change.
Speaker 10: So this guy said, my friend was about to reach
Speaker 10: into his pocket, and a coworker grabbed his hand.
Speaker 1: To quickly start to quietly stop him from offering change.
Speaker 10: A different coworker who was eager to kiss, but said, hey,
Speaker 10: I have eighty cents. The boss said, great, I heard
Speaker 10: your change jingling throughout the meeting. Please don't bring any
Speaker 10: change into the meetings anymore.
Speaker 2: Set up.
Speaker 10: Yes, yes, yes, so Steve, I got to ask you.
Speaker 10: I know you have a crazy horrible boss story.
Speaker 2: I know you do.
Speaker 8: Please yes, I mean, you know, just in my life,
Speaker 8: I thought all my bosses was horrible because first of all,
Speaker 8: my problem as every yeah, every last one of them.
Speaker 8: I never none of my boss because I didn't I
Speaker 8: didn't think none of them should be in charge of me.
Speaker 2: That was my whole damn Yeah. So I had this
Speaker 2: I had. I had a boss named Bob Cook and
Speaker 2: Cleveland at Jenny Metric uh huh. And he was.
Speaker 8: He was chastising me one time because he didn't like
Speaker 8: the way I had unloaded this truck with the tomoil.
Speaker 8: So he pulls me in the office to talk to me.
Speaker 8: Little fat, little dude, real big asstmach. He leaned back,
Speaker 8: had his foot up on the desk. He said to me,
Speaker 8: you know something, Harvey, if you could just change your
Speaker 8: work habits. I've been at this company thirty years. If
Speaker 8: you following my footsteps, you could be me. One day, WHOA,
Speaker 8: I got up and was walking out that door. He said,
Speaker 8: where are you going? I said, man, I don't want
Speaker 8: to be you and walked out that door and shut
Speaker 8: that door. Two weeks later, I was gone, okay, yeah
Speaker 8: that cost me right there, and walk out moment shut
Speaker 8: the door. I said, man, I don't want.
Speaker 9: To be you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm agreeing with Steve.
Speaker 5: Quitting takes a toll on your life, and it only
Speaker 5: hits you when you're sitting in that car. I mean,
Speaker 5: you quit inside, you got your outside, and you have
Speaker 5: already quitted. I'm saying inside, I'm not well, the hell
Speaker 5: with it.
Speaker 7: Damn it.
Speaker 5: You take your job and you know what you can
Speaker 5: do with it. Okay, I'm out this, and you add
Speaker 5: and then you walk out. Now you in the car,
Speaker 5: and then that's that's when it all hits you.
Speaker 1: Hit you, right, What did I just do?
Speaker 9: What?
Speaker 16: Jay?
Speaker 2: Jay? When you realize they finished sending you your last check?
Speaker 8: Yeah, ain't too many people with a job got enough
Speaker 8: savings and last man, you know.
Speaker 2: What I mean?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah six months. Very few people got six months
Speaker 2: of savings set up?
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 5: When you realize that you're off when you realize that
Speaker 5: you're off from work that day real early. I mean
Speaker 5: you off real early, like whoa, I'm off, like like
Speaker 5: eleven thirty A. M.
Speaker 2: You off.
Speaker 9: Back?
Speaker 2: Yeah, you ain't even making lunch. You off, and they
Speaker 2: don't call nobody because everybody else is at Yeah.
Speaker 5: And then when you called back, they all of a
Speaker 5: sudden whispering to you, and you not even now they whispering.
Speaker 2: Man, I heard you, I heard you left. I can't
Speaker 2: I gotta go. I mean, like what we were just funny?
Speaker 2: What the hell happened?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, I got into I worked. I worked at
Speaker 11: the gap. I worked at the gap, and I'm aneath.
Speaker 11: I'm a neath fanatic, y'all know that. So my job
Speaker 11: was sure, baby gap.
Speaker 2: I worked at the gap. I'm over the sweat wall.
Speaker 11: I got the sweat wall immaculate, and I mean everything
Speaker 11: folded just it's picture purpose. And I got into it
Speaker 11: with a customer that just started pulling stuff out the
Speaker 11: sweat while trying to try and stuff and just yanking
Speaker 11: stuff out. And the manager came up saying, hey, you
Speaker 11: just do what you're supposed to do. You you fix
Speaker 11: it and you put it back. I said, what the
Speaker 11: hell you talking to I had this wall perfect over here,
Speaker 11: But what are you gonna do?
Speaker 2: Man, I'm gonna go down here. I went down into
Speaker 2: windows and got me a burger camera hands. I just
Speaker 2: couldn't take it.
Speaker 1: A perfect wall, really, Tommy.
Speaker 2: For him to get all them sweats up that hound
Speaker 2: that wall.
Speaker 10: Today's trending stories coming up in twenty minutes after. Right
Speaker 10: after this, you're listening Hardy Morning Show. All right, Carla,
Speaker 10: me and just some you know, just some random girls
Speaker 10: were talking. This question came up. It's like, because you know,
Speaker 10: we were taught to make up the bed when we
Speaker 10: get out, make up the bed. No what it wants
Speaker 10: to come home to an unmade bed. But in our
Speaker 10: house it's whoever is last, whoever gets up last. If
Speaker 10: I get up first, then you know Nesto has to
Speaker 10: make up the bed and he makes it up really well.
Speaker 1: I must say all about really well.
Speaker 3: Next Stone needs to call my husband Ash because he
Speaker 3: ain't making up the bed like that. He will get now,
Speaker 3: you know, because we have to be to work so early.
Speaker 3: Of course we I get up first, but he gets
Speaker 3: up early too. He'll go to the gym and all
Speaker 3: that to make sure I'm up and but nah, child,
Speaker 3: I got to come right back in there and make
Speaker 3: up the bed.
Speaker 1: Just sad, just sad.
Speaker 10: But let me let me I'm fussed and nagged enough. Okay,
Speaker 10: you've gotten it just right, all right, hey, listen, follow us, yes,
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Speaker 3: I'm on the Gram at my Girl Shirley and I'm
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Speaker 1: I'll post the.
Speaker 7: Bed Yeah, all.
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Speaker 10: three minutes after the hour. Right after this, you're listening
Speaker 10: Steve Harvey Morning Show. We here at the Steve Every
Speaker 10: Morning Show. Love food, all of us. But there are
Speaker 10: a lot of foods we think are from other countries
Speaker 10: that are actually invented in a good old USA. And
Speaker 10: those are some of the most famous ones. Like fortune
Speaker 10: cookies invented right here. Yeah, it was actually invented in
Speaker 10: San Francisco by a Japanese American baker.
Speaker 7: Did y'all know that? Did you notice?
Speaker 1: See I didn't.
Speaker 2: Fortune cook They don't taste good.
Speaker 1: I like them with chocolate, white chocolate them, then they're good.
Speaker 2: Surely excuse me. Chocolate is the worst thing you could
Speaker 2: put in your body.
Speaker 1: I absolutely know that. But it tastes real good. That's
Speaker 1: all I'm saying.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry you a very wonderful health reason.
Speaker 9: And you just it.
Speaker 6: I know that.
Speaker 1: I don't eat it now, but yeah I used to,
Speaker 1: and it's delicious. Orange chicken. How about that one?
Speaker 7: That's good?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 10: It was created in Hawaii in nineteen eighty seven by
Speaker 10: Panda Express chef Andy Kao or Kyle.
Speaker 9: Wow.
Speaker 2: Know who came up with the crush station? Who came
Speaker 2: up with them? They did? They do a copy?
Speaker 1: German chocolate cake came German?
Speaker 8: My mama, yeah, mama, it is. I don't know who
Speaker 8: made it. Befoult, I don't know who made it, befolt.
Speaker 8: Ain't nobody make it? Like huddle ear lost Verra Hobby
Speaker 8: greatest piece of German chocolate cake?
Speaker 10: Hold up, wow, have heard German chocolate. But anyway, it
Speaker 10: has nothing to do with Germany. It's because of its name,
Speaker 10: Samuel German that is called German.
Speaker 17: Glad people they're perfected it. Oh yes, hello, that coconut. Yeah,
Speaker 17: we've had a lot taken from us.
Speaker 9: Hey, the right that.
Speaker 2: We took we took the cake. Okay, okay, love we
Speaker 2: love German cake, all right.
Speaker 1: English muffins, English muffins from England.
Speaker 3: From England.
Speaker 10: They were actually invented in New York City in nineteen
Speaker 10: eighty four by English immigrant Samuel Bass Thomas.
Speaker 1: They were rich, they were really nothing.
Speaker 2: Let me give you some real dishes that was created
Speaker 2: right here in America.
Speaker 16: Okay, come on, what you got shit lits, yes, work
Speaker 16: it out, boy, whether they want to be or not,
Speaker 16: fried sprail yes, hot dogs and pork and beans.
Speaker 1: Yeah, American dish. All right, there you have it. You're
Speaker 1: listening Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 10: All right, guys, this is our last break of the
Speaker 10: day and it is time for some closing remarks from
Speaker 10: the one and only Steve Harvey.
Speaker 8: Well, it's been a good day. Let me ask you,
Speaker 8: guys a question, just off the top of your head.
Speaker 8: What do you all and anybody can answer this question.
Speaker 8: What do you think is probably the number one cause
Speaker 8: that gets in the way of people moving forward or
Speaker 8: what has gotten in the way of you over the
Speaker 8: years from moving forward, Because I mean it happens to
Speaker 8: all of us, myself included. I'm just asking a question
Speaker 8: to the crew.
Speaker 1: Fear of failure, failure, fear of success.
Speaker 8: Sometimes trying to fix the past, wow, and lack of faith. Well, okay,
Speaker 8: let me address three things. This is a jo I'm
Speaker 8: gonna try to do this quickly. Let's talk about fixing
Speaker 8: the past. Let's talk briefly about fear, and let's talk
Speaker 8: about the fear of being successful. Let's start with the
Speaker 8: fear of being successful. A lot of people have a
Speaker 8: fear of becoming successful because they're not sure of the
Speaker 8: requirements that will be placed on them once they become successful.
Speaker 8: Some people think that they won't be able to handle
Speaker 8: the regiment of being successful, and that right there is
Speaker 8: you're not understanding how God works. God never puts you
Speaker 8: someplace He doesn't prepare you to be. Do you understand
Speaker 8: that as you become successful that you going to be tested,
Speaker 8: You're going to be challenged, You're going to be faced
Speaker 8: with all types of situations that will better you, equip you,
Speaker 8: and make you the experienced person that you need to
Speaker 8: be to be.
Speaker 2: In the place that you're going to finally wind up
Speaker 2: in it.
Speaker 8: Stop being afraid of success and understand that God is
Speaker 8: not going to put you in a room that you're
Speaker 8: not qualified or equipped to be in. That's for starters. Now,
Speaker 8: let's talk about fixing the past. You ready, you can't,
Speaker 8: you can't. You get no do overs in life. The
Speaker 8: problem that people have when they try to fix the
Speaker 8: past is because they are surrounded by people who are
Speaker 8: constantly reminding them of the past and telling them you're
Speaker 8: not this, and you're not that, and you can't do
Speaker 8: this because you did that and I remember when you
Speaker 8: did that. When you remove those people from your life
Speaker 8: who are constantly trying to remind you of your pass
Speaker 8: you will.
Speaker 2: Then lose the need to have to fix it.
Speaker 8: See, but you have to fix it when there are
Speaker 8: people in your life and including you, who keep bringing
Speaker 8: the past to the forefront to put it in your presence.
Speaker 8: That's why the Lord's prayer is simple, give us this
Speaker 8: day our daily bread.
Speaker 2: The Bible very rarely.
Speaker 8: Talks to you about your past, because it's been forgiven,
Speaker 8: it's done. I haven't read a whole lot of scriptures
Speaker 8: to help me with my past. I read a lot
Speaker 8: of scriptures that talk about Now. I read a lot
Speaker 8: of scriptures that talks about faith, the belief in things
Speaker 8: that you cannot see, trusting in his word, holding on
Speaker 8: to his unchanging hand, realizing that all things are possible
Speaker 8: through him. I read a lot of scriptures about that,
Speaker 8: but nothing is more prevalent in our life today than
Speaker 8: the Lord's prayer, which clearly says, give us this day
Speaker 8: our daily bread, because tomorrow you have no control over Now.
Speaker 8: You can have hopes for tomorrow, you can have plans
Speaker 8: for tomorrow, you can have visions and aspirations for tomorrow.
Speaker 8: But everything about tomorrow, which I have finally learned, should,
Speaker 8: should be tempered with the remark if it's God's will
Speaker 8: and in God's timing. That way, it releases me from
Speaker 8: having to be worried about the timing of an event,
Speaker 8: because just because it's been denied, just because it's been delayed,
Speaker 8: does not mean that it's been denied.
Speaker 2: I had to learn that. So fixing your past can't
Speaker 2: be done. What's done is done.
Speaker 8: First thing you want to do about fixing the past,
Speaker 8: remove people from your life who are constantly reminding you
Speaker 8: of your past. And then, secondly, forgive yourself, just as
Speaker 8: God has done. I used to do it to myself
Speaker 8: all the time. Even at my daughter's wedding, I made
Speaker 8: the statement I said, I've spent all of my adult
Speaker 8: life trying to fix the mistakes I made as a
Speaker 8: young man. You know what Bishop Jakes told me, who
Speaker 8: was at my daughter's when he said you're too hard
Speaker 8: on yourself. He said, you're too hard on yourself. You
Speaker 8: need to stop doing that to yourself, Steve, And he
Speaker 8: was right because I keep trying to do that and
Speaker 8: I had to stop. And last, but not least, let's
Speaker 8: just talk about fear itself. The majority of us have
Speaker 8: a fear of success and a fear of failure because
Speaker 8: we don't have a strong enough relationship with God. I'm
Speaker 8: telling you, man, God e raises fear. God puts you
Speaker 8: in a comfort zone. I mean, if you think about
Speaker 8: it just for a second. Everybody, everything that you've ever
Speaker 8: gone through, and I've said this, I can't tell you
Speaker 8: how many times on the show.
Speaker 2: Everything you've gone through, every challenge you've.
Speaker 8: Ever had, every setback, every hardship, you've managed somehow to
Speaker 8: this point to get past all of them. Your track
Speaker 8: record for surviving rough days and challenges is one hundred percent.
Speaker 8: Why would God not continue to do that for you.
Speaker 8: Lose your fear because God is near. Lose your fear
Speaker 8: because God is near. Those are the three things I
Speaker 8: wanted to address. Thank you for giving me those closing remarks,
Speaker 8: I have a great day.
Speaker 2: Talk to God. He'd love to hear from you. See
Speaker 2: you tomorrow.
Speaker 9: Bye.
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