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Speaker 8: Good morning everybody, y'all listen to the voice. Come on,
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Speaker 8: a radio show?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 8: Man boy, God has been good to me. Man, I
Speaker 8: can't really count at all. You can't either, you know,
Speaker 8: it's all in perspective. You really can't count all that
Speaker 8: God has done for you if you look at every
Speaker 8: little thing. It's unbelievable the things He's done for us.
Speaker 8: How many times you know, we got through something without
Speaker 8: even talking to him about it.
Speaker 7: He just he just blessed us with it. How many
Speaker 7: you know?
Speaker 8: It's just it's so much that the fact that you
Speaker 8: wake up in the morning, the fact that you still
Speaker 8: have a place to stay, the fact that you know
Speaker 8: may be struggling out here. But guess what you still
Speaker 8: going to work. You know, you live in check to check,
Speaker 8: but you're making it all. You got all the plates spinning.
Speaker 8: You know it's hard. You got a lot of plate spinning,
Speaker 8: but you keep them up there somemmer every now and
Speaker 8: there one break, but he put two more back up
Speaker 8: there to look a little bit better. And you got
Speaker 8: to get to spending them so it all works. And
Speaker 8: then you got a lot of people who just can't
Speaker 8: seem to mentally put it together as to you know,
Speaker 8: why their life isn't in a position that they wanted
Speaker 8: to be. We talk about this oftentimes, but I don't
Speaker 8: want to try another angle with you today.
Speaker 7: You know, maybe it's you. Have you ever thought about that?
Speaker 7: Maybe it's you.
Speaker 8: Maybe it's no external force that's at fault, like you
Speaker 8: keep making the excuse to be You know, so many
Speaker 8: people out here, Well, if this hadn't have done this,
Speaker 8: if he hadn't have done that, if she hadn't have
Speaker 8: done that, I would have been further along. I wasted
Speaker 8: all my time, my years with this man, and he
Speaker 8: did this, and I could have been here, and I
Speaker 8: could have been there.
Speaker 7: And this woman she did this to me. And if
Speaker 7: she hadn't have done that, I could have been here
Speaker 7: and I could have been there. Maybe it's you.
Speaker 8: Maybe it's not really that external force that you keep
Speaker 8: making it out to be. See, I've done this to
Speaker 8: myself before. Once again, I'm talking to you about something
Speaker 8: I know about. I've done this to myself before. I've
Speaker 8: had the reason I wasn't where I wanted to be.
Speaker 8: I had it figured out as some external force. I
Speaker 8: had worked it out in my mind. Clearly it wasn't
Speaker 8: me because of so and so or if this hadn't happen,
Speaker 8: and if they hadn't have done this, I would have
Speaker 8: been further along up the road. That's what I was saying.
Speaker 8: But hold on, man, boy learned a valuable lesson.
Speaker 7: Man.
Speaker 8: See, if you don't ever let it go, it's gonna
Speaker 8: be hard for you to go. If you don't ever
Speaker 8: let it go, it's gonna be hard hard for you
Speaker 8: to go.
Speaker 7: I was listening to.
Speaker 8: Bishop td Jake's one day, and I heard him say,
Speaker 8: you can't drive your car if you.
Speaker 7: Gonna keep looking in the rear view mirror.
Speaker 8: You go outside and try that, try to drive your car,
Speaker 8: but keep your eye in the rear view mirror. All
Speaker 8: you looking at is where you're being. All you're looking
Speaker 8: at in that rear view mirror is where you passed
Speaker 8: or should have passed, something you should have moved on from.
Speaker 8: All you're doing is looking in that rear view mirror
Speaker 8: at what happened back now.
Speaker 7: If you don't stop.
Speaker 8: Looking in the rearview mirror, you're gonna crash your car
Speaker 8: over and over and over again. All you got to
Speaker 8: slow it down so bad in order for you to
Speaker 8: keep looking in that rear view mirror. If you don't
Speaker 8: learn to let it go, it's gonna be hard for
Speaker 8: you to go forward because you keep reviewing the past.
Speaker 8: The past is the past, and I know it's hard.
Speaker 9: Man.
Speaker 8: I watched a show and this lady said, well, I
Speaker 8: just can't ever forgive them for that, or guess what.
Speaker 8: Guess what God may have already forgiven that person. That
Speaker 8: person may be extremely remorseful, could have gone to God
Speaker 8: and got in forgiveness for it years ago.
Speaker 7: But you.
Speaker 8: Sit here and you keep hanging on to the back.
Speaker 8: I can't ever forgive that. Then I heard Bishop Jakes
Speaker 8: come on the show one time and say something that
Speaker 8: really really struck home. You keep drinking the poison, waiting
Speaker 8: on your enemy to die.
Speaker 7: He said that.
Speaker 8: I just shook my head and went, wow, you drinking
Speaker 8: the poison, waiting on your enemy to die. Revenge isson
Speaker 8: to you. You know, if hatred is poison to you. Unforgivingness,
Speaker 8: when you won't forgive a person, that person could be
Speaker 8: going on with their life, made the right with God.
Speaker 7: Don't know how you feeling. They skipping through life.
Speaker 8: Now you make adjustments every time you see the and
Speaker 8: it takes energy. Man, it takes so much energy to hate.
Speaker 8: It takes so much energy not to forgive to Now
Speaker 8: they come in the room. You got to avoid them.
Speaker 8: Stay over here, Oh here they come. Now you got
Speaker 8: to make a situation over here. They come into the
Speaker 8: house his family reunion. Oh oh, here they come. Or
Speaker 8: where they gonna be in the basement. I'm going to
Speaker 8: be on the third floor. I want to go out
Speaker 8: here and get some barbecue. She out there at the barbecue, staying,
Speaker 8: oh lord, I don't want a barbecue.
Speaker 7: I just eat to take a set of people, man.
Speaker 8: Take themselves all out of position, trying to make adjustments,
Speaker 8: when if you it would simplify your life, if you
Speaker 8: would let just let it go.
Speaker 7: Maybe you ain't where you need to be because.
Speaker 8: Of them external forces altogether. Maybe you're not where you
Speaker 8: need to because of you, because you won't let it go,
Speaker 8: you won't move forward. Look at this, ladies. Let's say
Speaker 8: you've been in a situation with a man for years.
Speaker 8: It didn't work out. For whatever the reason, it just
Speaker 8: didn't work out. I got what you say he did.
Speaker 8: I got what he did. I got he all of that,
Speaker 8: YadA YadA YadA. When you get through, did not God
Speaker 8: get you through it? Did not he allow you to
Speaker 8: survive it.
Speaker 10: I got you, got some cuts on you, I got
Speaker 10: you been a little bit bruised.
Speaker 7: But did he.
Speaker 8: Not get you through it? So, now that he's freed
Speaker 8: you from it, now he done went on. He got
Speaker 8: a whole nother family over there somewhere. Now he trying
Speaker 8: to make it right because maybe he learned the mistake
Speaker 8: he made and now he trying to be a better man.
Speaker 7: He just trying to get it right now.
Speaker 8: But you sitting there holding on to it, you drinking
Speaker 8: the poison, waiting on your enemy to die. So now
Speaker 8: instead of you enjoying the blessing of finally being free from.
Speaker 7: A situation that was not healthy for you.
Speaker 8: You create an even more unhealthy situation in your mind
Speaker 8: by hating, by having revengeful thoughts, by hoping he fall
Speaker 8: on his face. Maybe you even doing something to the
Speaker 8: other situation to make sure they struggle. Oh man, you
Speaker 8: drinking the poison, waiting on your enemy to die. Maybe
Speaker 8: you ain't where you ought to be in life, not
Speaker 8: because of your external forces, but maybe it is you.
Speaker 8: If you don't let it go, it's gonna be hard
Speaker 8: for you to go. You can't keep driving your car
Speaker 8: looking in the rear view mirror. Come on, man, Forgiveness
Speaker 8: is not for the other person. Forgiveness is for you. Listening,
Speaker 8: ladies and gentlemen, right now, it's that time again. This
Speaker 8: is Steve Harvey Morning Show. We up, We're grateful. Uh
Speaker 8: we uh live in a life of expectation. I ain't
Speaker 8: worried about nothing, man, none at all. God is good,
Speaker 8: been good to me. I I'm here, is and he mind?
Speaker 7: What else? What else?
Speaker 8: Let's go, Let's get it, Steve Harven Morning Show. Shelly
Speaker 8: Strawberry calling for real Mississippi Monica.
Speaker 7: Junior Junior was on your mind?
Speaker 2: Man, Yeah, you know what, man? You know you say
Speaker 2: you ain't worried about it. You show because you stay
Speaker 2: in the news. Now you show you ain't worry about nothing.
Speaker 7: No, I'm not in the news.
Speaker 8: What I'm on blogs, that's different.
Speaker 2: It's ain't Fox.
Speaker 8: Yeah, this ain't ABC, NBC. No, I'm on blogs though,
Speaker 8: blogs is different.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 8: Somebody called me the other day and said, Steve, do
Speaker 8: you know nobody major is saying anything but good things
Speaker 8: about you and your wife?
Speaker 7: Don't these they blogs?
Speaker 11: Man?
Speaker 8: I ain't even so, you know, I really ain't even
Speaker 8: worried about it, Junior, I turn it over to the Lord.
Speaker 7: He working through it.
Speaker 8: You know, I'm man, We're sitting over here, shining like
Speaker 8: new Pennies, still in love, man, making plans going place.
Speaker 7: It's all good.
Speaker 12: Man.
Speaker 7: I was going.
Speaker 8: You know, I'm a little different than she is thought.
Speaker 8: You know, she prayed for the enemies and everything.
Speaker 2: I ain't a Christian.
Speaker 10: No, No, that's that's that's advanced level Christian.
Speaker 1: There next to God almost.
Speaker 7: That's that's Christ Like I'm I'm just trying to.
Speaker 8: I'm just trying to, you know, sign up and do
Speaker 8: the entry level stuff, you know, going to others as
Speaker 8: you would have him do, unto you. So I'm I'm
Speaker 8: still stuck on that one, right there, do on the
Speaker 8: others as you would have him doing the So you know,
Speaker 8: if you do it it to me, I'm assuming it
Speaker 8: must be what you want done to you.
Speaker 7: So when I yes, call him.
Speaker 1: Please you're sixty six years old? Surely said you have
Speaker 1: to grow.
Speaker 7: I agree with her on that.
Speaker 1: So what is that grow?
Speaker 8: This was how long did it take me to get here?
Speaker 7: That's what you don't want to know. You gotta grow?
Speaker 7: How grew to it? Man? You don't even want to saying.
Speaker 1: That's really funny.
Speaker 7: See, I ain't even.
Speaker 1: Messing around.
Speaker 9: In the words about in the words of.
Speaker 8: My partner or a flip. I mean it is growing. Yeah, man,
Speaker 8: what else?
Speaker 2: You just got to praying for people?
Speaker 12: You just got there, sixty seven years old, not enemies.
Speaker 2: No, you ain't doing that.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I just started praying for others.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so special.
Speaker 8: I got prayer of time with the Lord I usually
Speaker 8: spend most of me.
Speaker 10: Mostly all of that is for me, because man, I
Speaker 10: got some things.
Speaker 7: I'm dealing with it.
Speaker 8: I'm trying to overcome when battle and all this said,
Speaker 8: by the time I go down that list who.
Speaker 7: Run pray, I got all the work or something. So yeah, man,
Speaker 7: I just now.
Speaker 10: You know, me and my wife we pray together, so
Speaker 10: you should be saying, Lord help us, and I'll be
Speaker 10: willing to life.
Speaker 13: Mon coming up in thirty two minutes after the hour. Yes,
Speaker 13: we'll run that prank back with Junior in for the
Speaker 13: nephew right after this. You're listening morning show. It is
Speaker 13: time now to run that prank back with Junior in
Speaker 13: for the nephew. What you got for us today?
Speaker 1: Junior?
Speaker 7: You know we ain't.
Speaker 12: Heard from the nephew, but he keep leaving these pranks
Speaker 12: for us. Is he even coming back? I don't even
Speaker 12: know he act?
Speaker 2: How big is?
Speaker 1: How big is?
Speaker 2: He's just staying like a booth. Ye, you should be
Speaker 2: able to heal by now.
Speaker 8: I mean, I know, you know I don't normally defending Tommy,
Speaker 8: but then no, how long are you gonna stay in Georgia?
Speaker 2: Oh here, okay, I got it.
Speaker 1: Okay, here we go.
Speaker 2: Here you go, repot the pews.
Speaker 7: Here we go.
Speaker 2: Run that break back is repot the pews. Let's go get.
Speaker 9: I'm trying to reach a pastor, Pastor Wilkins.
Speaker 11: Yeah, this is doctor Wilkins.
Speaker 9: Are you the you're the pastor of Mastor Church. Am
Speaker 9: I right?
Speaker 11: Mathe shirt? That's correct? How can I help?
Speaker 9: Okay, my name is Daniel and I'm calling from a RCS,
Speaker 9: which is a church supply, and we have an outstanding
Speaker 9: bill here that we wanted to bring to you all's
Speaker 9: attention for like twenty three thousand dollars for your pews
Speaker 9: that has not been paid. So we wanted to see.
Speaker 11: Or not to cut you off miss Yeah, yeah, Daniel
Speaker 11: from RCS.
Speaker 9: Yeah, church supply, sir, that's this is exactly what you
Speaker 9: guys got your cus.
Speaker 11: Okay, our standing bill for twenty three times. Well, first
Speaker 11: of all, that's normally all our standing bills are handled
Speaker 11: by our finance department. You know, you would need to
Speaker 11: speak to our treasurer and they were able to help
Speaker 11: you with that.
Speaker 9: Evidently, sure that this hasn't been taken care of in
Speaker 9: this matter when it comes to these pews, because like
Speaker 9: I stayed it before, you guys owe twenty three thousand
Speaker 9: dollars on these pews and I think this was probably
Speaker 9: twelve to thirteen years ago, so maybe this was something
Speaker 9: before you got there, But nevertheless, they're still an our
Speaker 9: standing billing right now. We're actually going to be repossessing
Speaker 9: these pews as of early seven o'clock Sunday morning.
Speaker 11: Not far this Sunday morning. No, we have the Women's
Speaker 11: Day's Missionary is here today and also Sunday we have
Speaker 11: like our pit and then.
Speaker 9: Have a lot of things. And you actually run it
Speaker 9: off your schedule. To me, that's that's really not my concern.
Speaker 9: And maybe your Women's Day or whatever is gonna get
Speaker 9: y'all gonna do a standing up because.
Speaker 11: Right now we're not going to do it. You're not
Speaker 11: understanding me. See did you say twelve or thirteen years ago? Sure, well,
Speaker 11: I've been the past here for ten years and you know,
Speaker 11: you know, like that.
Speaker 9: Occurred before you got there. But nevertheless, the bill is
Speaker 9: still outstanding and these cells need to be taken care of. Now.
Speaker 9: If y'all don't have the twenty three thousand dollars, then
Speaker 9: I got to come pick these pews up Sunday morning, sir.
Speaker 9: We got well, I don't go over there.
Speaker 11: You're not hearing me. And first of all, this is
Speaker 11: my private number. How did you get this number?
Speaker 9: Your your numbers here in the books as a contact?
Speaker 11: No, this is this is all I only get us
Speaker 11: out to very few people, and I know none of
Speaker 11: them will will give our numbers. So that's definisue right there.
Speaker 11: And second of all, if you're talking about coming in
Speaker 11: our church Sunday morning to take our pews, uh, that's
Speaker 11: not something you really want to do, sir.
Speaker 9: I have to do my job the same you get
Speaker 9: up on Sunday morning and you have to do yours.
Speaker 9: I have to do mine. So my job is to
Speaker 9: get these fews back because you guys are twenty three
Speaker 9: thousand dollars in the ribs.
Speaker 11: No cayl. Let me tell you, I ain't always been
Speaker 11: been a preacher. Now you come to my church and
Speaker 11: you test them pews, I'm gonna come out that proof here,
Speaker 11: don't you.
Speaker 9: I'm not here to go to what you used to
Speaker 9: be and what you are now. I'm nothing to go
Speaker 9: back and forth with you on that the bottom line.
Speaker 11: So the consequention you don't want to deal with sign
Speaker 11: because you know I, oh, hold on, hold on, hold on,
Speaker 11: let me calm down, because you know you not to
Speaker 11: make me say some words that I've been delivered from.
Speaker 11: Thank God, I'm.
Speaker 9: Going to deliver them pews away from you on Sunday. Now.
Speaker 9: I got to come and pick them pews up. That's
Speaker 9: the bottom line. Do you have twenty three thousand Sunday morning?
Speaker 11: Twenty three thousands? I understand that's not the issue. The
Speaker 11: issue is you have no business calling me on my
Speaker 11: personal phone. I'm in my meta cration time right now,
Speaker 11: trying to get concentrated for you know my message that
Speaker 11: after deliver later this afternoon, so we need all of
Speaker 11: our pullures.
Speaker 9: Well, let me ask you something, sir. Do you have
Speaker 9: the twenty three thousand dollars that you can give me
Speaker 9: Sunday morning and then you can continue whatever it is
Speaker 9: you have going on that day. Other than that, I'm
Speaker 9: gonna have to take them pills.
Speaker 11: I got to call me between y'alls. If you're not listening,
Speaker 11: sign that ain't my bill, I ain't paying it, you
Speaker 11: ain't touching my cues.
Speaker 9: I'm not gonna continue to go. Okay, listen, I'm trying
Speaker 9: to respect what's pastor will trying to respect you.
Speaker 11: First remend, doctor Wilkins. I appreciate it if you call
Speaker 11: me in my name, Reverend doctor Wilkins.
Speaker 9: Okay, Reverend doctor Wilkins. Now, first of all, I'm coming
Speaker 9: up there Sunday. Now, I'm hoping. I only have to
Speaker 9: lay hands on these pews. Now I gotta lay hands
Speaker 9: on something else that I got to do. What I
Speaker 9: got to do.
Speaker 11: You can come on up here and you say it
Speaker 11: on the property. That's cool, but you touch them pills.
Speaker 11: I got some lawyers in here. They can take that
Speaker 11: Jesus code off. They can stay it down. They can
Speaker 11: get with you, Pardner. I'm saying, you know what they do.
Speaker 11: I walk through the valley shadow of death. I will
Speaker 11: see no evil. I ain't got no problem work.
Speaker 9: Wait wait wait wait, wait, wait.
Speaker 11: Wait wait wait. You're talking about coming to me.
Speaker 7: And to my church, because.
Speaker 9: I'm gonna do what I got to do. Man, y'all
Speaker 9: twenty I'm gonna do what.
Speaker 11: I gotta do in the name of jeans, right man, hey, man.
Speaker 9: Stand up the whole service. Now, what which one do
Speaker 9: you want?
Speaker 11: However you want to have it?
Speaker 9: I got I got something else. I want to tell
Speaker 9: you. You listen to me, past listening.
Speaker 11: If you ain't saying nothing, sign is you listening to
Speaker 11: say to me?
Speaker 9: I've got to say this to you. That is nephew
Speaker 9: Tommy from the Steve Hobby Morning Show. You just got
Speaker 9: pranked by your entire Deacon boy.
Speaker 11: Who man.
Speaker 9: Will because this is his nephew, Tommy Man from the
Speaker 9: Steve Hobby Morning Show. Your deacon boy got me the
Speaker 9: prank phone call you boy. I can't believe this, boy.
Speaker 9: You make me a little.
Speaker 6: Religion sign.
Speaker 9: In there? Man, you hung in there past which one
Speaker 9: of them was Deacon Glove?
Speaker 11: Okay, okay, okay, I've got some things I got to
Speaker 11: talk to lovel about. You know, I would wonder how
Speaker 11: you got my personal cell phone number anyway, Man, So.
Speaker 9: Well, I'm glad I was able to put a laugh
Speaker 9: on your face today.
Speaker 11: Oh man, I'm to walk hot.
Speaker 9: I gotta ask you, man, pastor, what is the baddest
Speaker 9: radio show in the land, The.
Speaker 11: Hardy Morning Show. Listen, let me tell you this. Keep
Speaker 11: doing what he's doing the first minute in the show, Man,
Speaker 11: I love that. Okay, I really loved that, and really
Speaker 11: it really blessed the people.
Speaker 9: Really appreciate that. Man, it really will.
Speaker 2: All right? Sure that is Repold appeuse run that Frank
Speaker 2: back by the diff you.
Speaker 9: Thank you, Junior.
Speaker 13: Coming up next, it is that's the clo our chief
Speaker 13: Love Officers.
Speaker 14: You're listening hard Morning Show.
Speaker 13: Coming up at the top of the Hour and Entertainment
Speaker 13: New celebrity break up news Hannah Taylor confirms her separation
Speaker 13: from her husband Eiman Schumpert. We'll talk about why halle
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Speaker 13: the road with your motivational tour dates. We'll talk about
Speaker 13: all of these stories at the top of the hour,
Speaker 13: but right now it is time to ask the clo
Speaker 13: dry Anne and Saint Pete writes, I'm married and my
Speaker 13: girlfriend thinks I'm going to leave my wife for her.
Speaker 13: When we started seeing each other, my wife and I
Speaker 13: were about to call it quit, but my wife is
Speaker 13: pregnant and I want to work things out.
Speaker 1: How do I break the news to my mistress?
Speaker 7: Well, the same way you told that y'all was finna
Speaker 7: break up.
Speaker 2: M hm.
Speaker 8: See the reason she thinks you're gonna leave your wife
Speaker 8: for he is because that's what you told her. You
Speaker 8: said y'all was splitting up, y'all was on the outs.
Speaker 8: That gave her hope, so she invested in a failed marriage,
Speaker 8: only to find out now that you want to repair it.
Speaker 8: But you don't know how to tell her that. The
Speaker 8: same way you told that your other piece of business
Speaker 8: go in there and tell her your new business. She's
Speaker 8: pregnant and I want to work things out. That's how
Speaker 8: you do it.
Speaker 7: Man. That ain't easy, or is it?
Speaker 14: M Yeah, okay, but.
Speaker 8: Man, we be writing these letters just casual. My girlfriend
Speaker 8: thinks my wife for her?
Speaker 7: Man. Have you ever heard such a thing? Yep?
Speaker 14: Like it's an everyday occurrence?
Speaker 7: Yes, man, what's wrong with her?
Speaker 8: I told her, you know, I told her, you know,
Speaker 8: we was having trouble and stuff. But now she pregnant
Speaker 8: or I want to stay with her? How I'm gonna
Speaker 8: tell her that the same way you told her you
Speaker 8: was fitting to leave your girl. That's how you got
Speaker 8: the girlfriend. Dog, Come on, man, all right?
Speaker 13: Moving on to Stacy and Knoxville, Stacy says, my mother's
Speaker 13: boyfriend is about six years older than I am, and
Speaker 13: we have mutual friends. I slept with one of his boys,
Speaker 13: and he went and told my mother. I'm thirty eight
Speaker 13: years old, and my mother is questioning me. How do
Speaker 13: I tell them both to mind their business?
Speaker 7: And maybe I'm being too simple today?
Speaker 8: What you know, how you just wrote this letter in
Speaker 8: and told us, Why don't you tell them she the
Speaker 8: one dating the little boy? He gossiped, he messy. Yeah,
Speaker 8: you know y'all got mutual friends. He never told your mama. Yeah,
Speaker 8: I slept with him, mamma, Yeah, see it going all. Yeah,
Speaker 8: I slept with him because I'm thinking like that, Well,
Speaker 8: all you can lie, Mama, that's not true.
Speaker 7: I didn't speak to nobody.
Speaker 1: Those are your choices, truth or lot.
Speaker 7: Now, guess what one sound better? Mama? I didn't sleep
Speaker 7: with nobody. What is he talking about? He's lying?
Speaker 12: Sound good?
Speaker 7: Right there? That's I go with that. I go with
Speaker 7: that one, right. Some delight is usually much more helpful. Man.
Speaker 7: I don't see what y'all be y'all just with this truth.
Speaker 7: I like that.
Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, I ain't slept with nobody. Get out my life,
Speaker 8: get out my business. And you're dating this little boy
Speaker 8: now you're not here. And hell, we got mutual friends.
Speaker 7: Not here in it. If they in there making up stuff,
Speaker 7: you know how me and lie.
Speaker 14: But why can't you tell them the truth?
Speaker 9: Though?
Speaker 1: Why? Because why ain't they business? Okay, Now she's.
Speaker 8: Going through anxiety about how to tell them to stay
Speaker 8: out of her business. First of all, there is no
Speaker 8: business for you to get in because it ain't happened.
Speaker 8: So stay out of my business.
Speaker 7: Period.
Speaker 8: That's all you gotta do. You don't owe them the truth.
Speaker 8: Who are they?
Speaker 7: Your mama dating a boy six years older than you?
Speaker 7: Forty five?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah, he forty five?
Speaker 7: All right?
Speaker 14: Moving on to Yogi in Birmingham.
Speaker 13: Yogi says, I met a guy online and we talked
Speaker 13: for hours, like we're in high school. He may as
Speaker 13: well be still in high school since his mother lives
Speaker 13: with him. He's twenty nine, and I refuse to go
Speaker 13: over to his house because I'm not ready to meet
Speaker 13: his mom. Am I being insensitive.
Speaker 8: No, well you know what now you online? Do he
Speaker 8: stay with her? Does she stay with him? Or do
Speaker 8: he stay with her?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 8: See, you might not go over there because your mama.
Speaker 8: Maybe the mama don't want you. He can't have a company.
Speaker 15: Get off that phone, yeah, say it all lights out.
Speaker 8: It might be a couple of problems and then another thing.
Speaker 8: You want us to take you serious? Calling yourself Yogi,
Speaker 8: They just don't sound You're not Yulanda. Try give yourself
Speaker 8: some jazzy Louis. You know what, if you're talking to
Speaker 8: this man, he wants you to come over, just don't
Speaker 8: don't go over that. It ain't that hard.
Speaker 1: I can't.
Speaker 7: I don't know what else to say.
Speaker 8: Okay, you don't want to go meet his mama, you
Speaker 8: ain't got to?
Speaker 13: Okay, all right, blast one Steve. Justine in Jersey City says,
Speaker 13: my intern is like a daughter to me, So I
Speaker 13: let her borrow money and I do nice things for
Speaker 13: her because I wasn't blessed.
Speaker 1: With a daughter.
Speaker 13: I noticed that she sold one of the persons I
Speaker 13: gave her on Facebook. Should I confront her or tell
Speaker 13: her how it made me feel? Or pull away from
Speaker 13: her and stop buying her things? Well, dog dog, Justine,
Speaker 13: you yeah, Justine, it's a female.
Speaker 7: Oh oh oh, Justine bought this little girl a person?
Speaker 7: Uh huh?
Speaker 8: That is well, Justine. She ain't want the little old
Speaker 8: ass pocketbook. That's probably what it was. She wanted a purse,
Speaker 8: and you done bought her ass a pocketbook. You know
Speaker 8: you are only here by these old ass brand pocketbooks.
Speaker 8: You know you done got it. She ain't want the
Speaker 8: one from Macy's. She did not want that one. Now,
Speaker 8: it looked nice to you, but that ain't the one
Speaker 8: she wanted. Got the two big handles on it, got
Speaker 8: the clasp on it. You know, got a shoulder strap
Speaker 8: and handles. You know it's got the little lock on it.
Speaker 8: But the name ain't quite what she wanted. You done
Speaker 8: bought her she wanted, you know, she wanted a little
Speaker 8: maybe a Coach Proud or maybe a little you know,
Speaker 8: LV bag or something like that. You know, she just
Speaker 8: want something. I don't know all the name brands that
Speaker 8: they won't gucca. You know she you you end up
Speaker 8: and bought the Marseille. You know that's that's Macy's own brand.
Speaker 7: You bought them. I say.
Speaker 8: You know that may say that. It may why. They
Speaker 8: may say, yeah you call it that may say, but
Speaker 8: it's Macy's and she didn't want to She put it
Speaker 8: on Facebook and she sold it.
Speaker 7: Well, you know, if it's gonna hurt your feelings.
Speaker 8: See yeah, stop buying and stuff now. If you don't
Speaker 8: want your stuff sold, you can't give it to people.
Speaker 8: Once you give a person something, you know, it's it's different.
Speaker 8: I'm gonna say all this, you know. Or it was a
Speaker 8: nice bag and she put it on Facebook and sold it.
Speaker 8: Maybe she needed to cash, but she didn't like the bag.
Speaker 8: People have different taste. Yeah, ain't you ever bought somebody
Speaker 8: something and they didn't like it.
Speaker 15: Yeah, but if you don't have any of her bags,
Speaker 15: don't worry. He don't worry anywhere. It won't be on
Speaker 15: Facebook market. Did she give it to me?
Speaker 7: It'd be a full blown fight in here right? What
Speaker 7: did you given away? Hello?
Speaker 13: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have
Speaker 13: some entertainment news for you.
Speaker 1: Thank you, Celo.
Speaker 13: Right after this, you're listening morning show.
Speaker 8: Well.
Speaker 13: According to People magazine, actress and singer Tianna Taylor has
Speaker 13: announced that she and her husband, former NBA player Emon
Speaker 13: Schumpert are separated after seven years of marriage. She says,
Speaker 13: in all fairness, Iman and I are separated and I
Speaker 13: have and have been for a while. She's thirty two,
Speaker 13: She wrote in a post on Instagram on Sunday. She says,
Speaker 13: to be one thousand percent clear, infidelity ain't one.
Speaker 1: Of the reasons for our departure.
Speaker 13: We are still the best of friends, great business partners,
Speaker 13: and our one hell of a team when it comes
Speaker 13: to co parenting our two beautiful children. Tianna and Schumpert
Speaker 13: were well back in twenty fifteen.
Speaker 14: They share two children.
Speaker 13: In her post, Tianna says she added that she and
Speaker 13: Schumpert up their separation private at first, which is why
Speaker 13: we've been able to successfully and peacefully separate without all
Speaker 13: of the outside noise.
Speaker 1: The only reason I'm even sharing.
Speaker 13: This part of the chat is because the narratives are
Speaker 13: getting a little out out of hand and it's unfair
Speaker 13: to all parties involved. She continued, I hope this provided
Speaker 13: some clarity for you, Okay, Auntie is taking you all
Speaker 13: off the chat by.
Speaker 8: Two Well, I think she thinks so, because if.
Speaker 7: I go on and make a statement, I must be
Speaker 7: Paul Paul.
Speaker 13: And other entertainment news, Sally Berry is still mad at
Speaker 13: Drake for using an image of her getting slimed at
Speaker 13: the twenty twelve Nickelodeon Kids Choice Awards as a cover
Speaker 13: art for his new single with Sizza called Slim You Out.
Speaker 13: After a fan asked Tally Berry why she so mad
Speaker 13: since the photo was owned by Getty Getty Images, Hallie
Speaker 13: claimed Drake initially reached out to her for permission and
Speaker 13: she turned him down. Halle responded to a fan in
Speaker 13: her Instagram comments, because he asked me, and I said, no,
Speaker 13: that's why why ask? If you intend to do what
Speaker 13: you want to do. This was an f you to me,
Speaker 13: not cool.
Speaker 1: You get it.
Speaker 13: Hallie also posted a disapproval message, saying sometimes you have
Speaker 13: to be the bigger guy, even if you're a woman.
Speaker 13: So she didn't like it, she said, yeah, she didn't
Speaker 13: like it. He asked her, she said no, and he
Speaker 13: did it anyway.
Speaker 1: Wow, what did you think about that?
Speaker 8: That's kind of jacked if that's true. I mean, Drake
Speaker 8: Fraake may complain of money. Yeah, he seems to be
Speaker 8: a decent brother. Man, I don't I don't know.
Speaker 7: What happened there, espe she's a call of Drake said no, yeah.
Speaker 9: You know, but.
Speaker 8: There's no recourse because if it's a geddy image. Yeah,
Speaker 8: all you got to do is pay geddy.
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's it. Yeah, that's where we are in the
Speaker 7: world today.
Speaker 8: So yeah, but I understand her being Draken wanted to
Speaker 8: you know, she said no, Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 2: Know, but don't worry about it.
Speaker 8: It's gonna be number one, don't Yeah, I mean it,
Speaker 8: Drake And right, yeah, so right there, see what I know,
Speaker 8: flam me out.
Speaker 16: It's not a gospel song. Mean, I'm flimming.
Speaker 1: Here's something you do know about Steve.
Speaker 13: For sure, you're back on the road with your new
Speaker 13: Motivational Tour dates Friday September twenty ninth you're at the
Speaker 13: Yamava Yamava Casino in Highland, California, and Saturday September thirty
Speaker 13: if you're at the Choctow Casino and Durant, Oklahoma. So, Steve,
Speaker 13: what can people expect from you if they've never seen
Speaker 13: you live as a motivational speaker. I mean, we all
Speaker 13: know you as a comedian and talk show host, radio host.
Speaker 13: All the things that you do.
Speaker 10: Well, one thing for show. If you feel like he's
Speaker 10: getting dry to me, there will be some jokes.
Speaker 1: Told Motivational Tour.
Speaker 8: Yeah, it's motivational guys. But I'm not gonna sit up
Speaker 8: here and die. You know, I do have a skill set. No,
Speaker 8: you know, it's it's I mean, you know, quite naturally.
Speaker 9: You know.
Speaker 8: I use humor to keep people's attention, of course. I
Speaker 8: mean there's nothing. No I'm gonna sit there and not
Speaker 8: say something funny, you know. But it's mostly jewels, jewels
Speaker 8: and gems that can help you move your life along.
Speaker 7: You know. I use humor to keep people's attention.
Speaker 8: You know, A very important man a long time ago
Speaker 8: told me, who was a comedian, a major STARp Bill
Speaker 8: calls me. He said, remember, when you have the ability
Speaker 8: to make people laugh, you have their undivided attention. And
Speaker 8: once you have their undivided because everybody likes to laugh,
Speaker 8: and once you have their undivided attention, you can tell
Speaker 8: them anything. So you have to be careful with what
Speaker 8: you say. And so that's always been important to me.
Speaker 8: I have to monitor what I say because people are listening,
Speaker 8: because when everybody wants to laugh, because every to everybody
Speaker 8: I know want two things in their life. They want
Speaker 8: to be happy and they want to be successful. If
Speaker 8: you're not, if you don't like those two things, then
Speaker 8: it's okay, something's wrong with you.
Speaker 7: Anyway.
Speaker 8: I don't know you, but everybody I know wants to
Speaker 8: be happy and successful. Everybody I know likes to laugh.
Speaker 8: And if you can make a person laugh, you have
Speaker 8: their undivided attention because they hang on your words.
Speaker 7: Man.
Speaker 8: And so of course I use comedy because comedy helps
Speaker 8: people stay with it. You know, everything that happened in
Speaker 8: my life ain't been tragic. I've I've made even my
Speaker 8: tragedies funny. Homeless ain't funny. But you know, if you
Speaker 8: got to keep your car running all night. You know
Speaker 8: it gotta be some funny.
Speaker 1: Stories in there, you know, Yeah, I guess for sure.
Speaker 8: I had a car one time that I couldn't. I
Speaker 8: had to keep my foot on the gas. But like
Speaker 8: if I stopped at the light, I had to step
Speaker 8: on the break and raise the idol a little bit
Speaker 8: because if I cut off, man, my car would cut
Speaker 8: off for four hours. And I couldn't afford that a
Speaker 8: lot of times. So I traveled with a brick in
Speaker 8: the car and.
Speaker 1: I would lay it on the gas puny, dangerous.
Speaker 14: Wow, all right, kept the car railed up.
Speaker 13: Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour Trending Political News,
Speaker 13: Donald Trump admitted un Meet the Press that he needed
Speaker 13: votes to win the twenty twenty election.
Speaker 14: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening Hard
Speaker 14: Morning show.
Speaker 13: Well, in trending Political News Meet the Press, new host
Speaker 13: as sister by the name of Christian Welker got Trump
Speaker 13: to admit.
Speaker 14: That he needed votes to win the election.
Speaker 17: Take a listen, they say twenty two thousand votes, over
Speaker 17: millions and millions of votes.
Speaker 1: Twenty two thousand votes.
Speaker 17: So when they do twitter files or when they have
Speaker 17: fifty one intelligence agents come out and lie that the
Speaker 17: laptop from Hell was Russia disinformation, and now they find
Speaker 17: out it's not.
Speaker 14: But they knew that at the time.
Speaker 7: They cheated on the election in that way.
Speaker 2: Joe, I just want to.
Speaker 6: Be clear, though.
Speaker 14: Are you saying you needed those votes in order to win?
Speaker 1: Are you acknowledging you didn't win.
Speaker 7: I'm not acknowledging. No, I say I won the election.
Speaker 1: Oh boy.
Speaker 9: You know.
Speaker 7: The amazing thing is he will blatantly lie and tell
Speaker 7: it to the public and they just believe him.
Speaker 1: Yeah, whatever it is.
Speaker 13: It's not even and he's not even a good liar
Speaker 13: like us. He's not a good liar. He's not. I mean,
Speaker 13: you're colorful, you you know what I'm saying. So so
Speaker 13: Trump admitted or acknowledged that he didn't win the election.
Speaker 13: Then he caught himself and said, I'm not acknowledging. No,
Speaker 13: I say I won the election.
Speaker 1: But you needed the votes. Yeah you needed the votes.
Speaker 7: Yeah you didn't.
Speaker 13: Mean it's very concientie, very confusing line. According to Time magazine,
Speaker 13: Trump has been indicted four times and faces ninety one
Speaker 13: criminal charges related to attempts to overturn the twenty twenty
Speaker 13: election loss in the state of Georgia, illegal retention of
Speaker 13: classified documents and falsifying business records to hide hush money
Speaker 13: payments to adult film star Stormy Daniels. Yeah, you're stop lying.
Speaker 13: You need to stop lying, Trump because now you're getting
Speaker 13: caught up in your own lives.
Speaker 8: Why that one right there ain't enough? Yeah, the payments
Speaker 8: to the poorn star, that's enough.
Speaker 1: Man for the president.
Speaker 14: Business records and in his lawyer.
Speaker 7: The average American male.
Speaker 8: Would trade in their entire life for Donald Trump's billionaire playboy,
Speaker 8: big jet golf courses. So this is a life that
Speaker 8: they aspire to, and so to see to learn how
Speaker 8: he got it.
Speaker 7: And what he did.
Speaker 8: That's okay, I'm telling you he accepted because that's what
Speaker 8: they admire.
Speaker 7: Okay, they admire that man.
Speaker 15: No moral well whatever he flatto, so you know, all right,
Speaker 15: Look he was chanting for Hillarycourd.
Speaker 13: Yeah, twenty coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour,
Speaker 13: Coach Prime sixty minutes interview is trending.
Speaker 14: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening Hardy
Speaker 14: Morning Show.
Speaker 13: Well sixty minutes is the oldest and most watched news
Speaker 13: magazine on television, and this past Sunday Coach Prime. Deon
Speaker 13: Sanders sat down with John Wortham for a sixty minutes
Speaker 13: interview and he talked to Coach Prime about his mindset
Speaker 13: taking the Colorado job. He asked Coach Prime, was he
Speaker 13: the change agent? Take a listen?
Speaker 1: Are you the change agent? Are you the ultimate change agent?
Speaker 18: I make a difference. I truly make a difference. I
Speaker 18: make folks nervous, man. I get folks moving in they seat.
Speaker 18: I get folks tiling their thongbs. I get them thinking
Speaker 18: and second guessing theyself.
Speaker 7: You know what, have you ever.
Speaker 18: Been so clean that you walked in and somebody looked
Speaker 18: down at you, and then they looked at themselves. They
Speaker 18: had to check themselves be because you were so clean.
Speaker 18: I have that effect.
Speaker 1: That's the vibe you're getting.
Speaker 7: I have that effect. That was some good game right there.
Speaker 2: But say it, man.
Speaker 8: I related to that he would He also Steve talked
Speaker 8: about the job at Colorado.
Speaker 1: Take a listen, Steam won one game last season? Is
Speaker 1: that a way a point of appeal?
Speaker 18: God wouldn't relocate me into something that was successful.
Speaker 7: That don't make sense to do it?
Speaker 18: He had to find the most disappointing and the most
Speaker 18: difficult task and this is what it was, and this
Speaker 18: is what it is.
Speaker 8: M Come on, here's a guy who is confident at
Speaker 8: where he is and who he is, and he understands
Speaker 8: his path and his calling.
Speaker 7: He's not confused about it. That's why he's able to talk.
Speaker 8: But he talks like nobody else because number one, the
Speaker 8: reason he talks like nobody else because he's authentic. He
Speaker 8: don't have those prepared answers, those cliche responses.
Speaker 7: You know, I just get to wherever was. You know.
Speaker 8: You you ever listen to interviews and they all sound alike.
Speaker 8: You can put a group of celebrities together and all
Speaker 8: their interviews that sound alike until you talk to somebody authentic,
Speaker 8: and then all of a sudden you get a quote
Speaker 8: you ain't heard before, or reasoning or thought process because
Speaker 8: they just being real. That's always been his mo o.
Speaker 8: He's just been Dean, he been prime time. You don't
Speaker 8: like it, that's it, you know he is it. Don't
Speaker 8: change nothing, no.
Speaker 15: Yeah, but college football, it's Colorado is the at the
Speaker 15: center of college football right now. He is just I
Speaker 15: don't know, he's just doing this thing. He really is
Speaker 15: so proud of him. Yeah, what a career He's had
Speaker 15: what a life.
Speaker 2: You know, he don't sound like other head coaches in
Speaker 2: college football. He don't sound like them.
Speaker 12: That's what makes him, Yeah, because he not.
Speaker 7: He not.
Speaker 8: But he's always known that about himself. You know. I
Speaker 8: know the man personally. We talk all the time.
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, we've been friends for years. Yeah.
Speaker 8: This dude right here, he not changing his hustle?
Speaker 7: Is this? This dude is authentic. Now, I watch a
Speaker 7: lot of people, you know, jump.
Speaker 8: On the band wagon all of a sudden, they going
Speaker 8: down Naddy. They want to talk with him and all that.
Speaker 8: I know, man, But see I watched, you know, man
Speaker 8: when he was stumbling? Who was there when? So when
Speaker 8: he left football?
Speaker 7: Who was there? You know?
Speaker 8: And looked like what nothing going on? Where was they
Speaker 8: at when he was down there? That he had that
Speaker 8: camps going on in dalla Us? Where was the big
Speaker 8: stories at now? And some of them kids he had
Speaker 8: in that campus playing on that football team right now?
Speaker 7: See where were the Where was the big stories?
Speaker 8: When he was doing not big things in they eyes?
Speaker 8: But now he doing something big? Now he comes everybody
Speaker 8: everybody won't flying to Colorado now everybody?
Speaker 9: Man?
Speaker 7: And he gracious when when they get that.
Speaker 8: You know, he gracious to him because he that guy
Speaker 8: is some people over there flying in just to be
Speaker 8: seen on the.
Speaker 13: Scene, like you say, Coach Prime still opens them and
Speaker 13: welcomes them with open arms, because that's the type of
Speaker 13: man he is.
Speaker 1: And I like his obedience.
Speaker 13: You know, he said God wouldn't send me this place
Speaker 13: wherever God sends him.
Speaker 14: You know he's going. I love that.
Speaker 7: Well, you ever been disobedient to God?
Speaker 14: Yeah?
Speaker 13: Yeah, okay, how did that work out for you?
Speaker 9: All?
Speaker 8: Right?
Speaker 4: Now?
Speaker 13: Well, coming up next, it is the prank phone call
Speaker 13: for today, and Junior is in for the nephew. Right
Speaker 13: after this, you're listening morning show. Coming up at the
Speaker 13: top of the hour, right about four minutes after, it's
Speaker 13: my Strawberry letter for today and the subject is she
Speaker 13: was supposed to be for me. We'll get into that
Speaker 13: find out what that's all about in just a few
Speaker 13: because right now we have to do the prank phone
Speaker 13: call for today and Junior is in for the nephew.
Speaker 2: Junior, what you got, nephew, Tommy DoD he's still work here.
Speaker 15: Yes, he still he's a ask his uncle about that time.
Speaker 12: I ain't never seen this vacation, this long. We don't
Speaker 12: never get this long. I just want to know he
Speaker 12: still work here?
Speaker 1: What asses supervisor?
Speaker 7: By THI?
Speaker 8: Tommy? You know Tommy? You come on, man, you know Tommy.
Speaker 8: Tommy been wanting to beat us way a long time.
Speaker 2: He just showing who he really is, right now.
Speaker 7: That what you're saying, He just being here everything he
Speaker 7: see me do.
Speaker 8: I got it.
Speaker 14: That's a good guy, right that he emulates you.
Speaker 2: Right, that makes sense.
Speaker 12: You want to try to do it so when you
Speaker 12: take off a month, he finna take off a month.
Speaker 1: Don't tell me gone no mole.
Speaker 7: Now he ain't gonna be gone no more. He already
Speaker 7: running short.
Speaker 1: He right, he run out. He texted you and said, what.
Speaker 8: Man, we're gonna have to deal with this. When I
Speaker 8: got back, man, he go. He'll spend all kind of money.
Speaker 8: You don't think that stuff was gonna be free bid.
Speaker 8: You didn't think he came with the airline ticket. You're
Speaker 8: all right about your ticket on points. You ain't think
Speaker 8: if you stayed at the hotel you.
Speaker 7: Got spending money.
Speaker 1: Get the break, come having a good time.
Speaker 2: He has a break for today the wedding with Butcher.
Speaker 2: Come on, cat, Hello.
Speaker 9: I'm trying to trying to reach Allen. Hey, how you
Speaker 9: doing this? Butcher man? But uh, yeah you was. You
Speaker 9: was at the cookout the other day with the family.
Speaker 9: I'm Christian's cousin. Oh okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, y'all
Speaker 9: was that you was at the at the cookout the
Speaker 9: other day. I wanted to reach out to you. I know.
Speaker 9: The wedding is in the next two weeks, right, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 9: yeah yeah, you you ready for that? Yeah? Okay, Well,
Speaker 9: hey man, I got a little bit of a problem that,
Speaker 9: uh you know if we kind of wanted to call
Speaker 9: you about, you know, because the family got together and
Speaker 9: had a little meeting, like and what the deal is
Speaker 9: is just here. I know, I know you excited and
Speaker 9: want to marry my cousin and she kind of excited
Speaker 9: too about the whole thing. But you know, like the
Speaker 9: family members, we got together and decided that uh for
Speaker 9: right now, I mean right now we're fend of like
Speaker 9: we're find the call the wedding off for right now?
Speaker 6: What you're talking about? What you talking about calling the
Speaker 6: wind off?
Speaker 9: We'll see you know everybody. Thank you cool and our
Speaker 9: and uh you know, we real real passionate man about
Speaker 9: you know, people marrying into our family or whatever, like
Speaker 9: you know, the gathering of and that you know that
Speaker 9: was a pot look thing. Everybody brain something? Right?
Speaker 6: Oh, christ ain't ever told me no like that about
Speaker 6: what about something about not getting no married?
Speaker 9: Okay, we'll see right here, Like I say, this is
Speaker 9: what the family done decided all what the family decided on. Okay,
Speaker 9: you see, this is what I'm trying to tell you.
Speaker 9: See we're a real close knit family and it's like
Speaker 9: this here. See first of all, let me get you
Speaker 9: to understands here you talking to Butcher right now. All right,
Speaker 9: here's a deal. You know, we didn't decide that the
Speaker 9: wedding name in the appen in two weeks until like
Speaker 9: when we had we had to pop up barbecue. Everybody
Speaker 9: brain something? Why you ain't brain nothing?
Speaker 6: What you talking about? I'm paying for what?
Speaker 9: Oh oh oh oh oh oh. That's what you've been
Speaker 9: to throw up in our face, that you're paying for
Speaker 9: the wedd.
Speaker 6: Hell yeah, what's I supposed to bring?
Speaker 9: Hey man, everybody ain't something? We have a plot? Look,
Speaker 9: you know, everybody brings something contribute to the function, all
Speaker 9: the event that's going on, you know, and for you
Speaker 9: to walk up in there and I have none that
Speaker 9: let us know what kind of person you're gonna be
Speaker 9: in the family. We can't have it cool this again,
Speaker 9: this butcher right here, I don't know no butcher.
Speaker 6: Look, I came to the family gathering picnique. I came there,
Speaker 6: showed up, loving on all y'all, telling y'all break this
Speaker 6: is gonna be. And now you're telling me I can't
Speaker 6: marry Christmas.
Speaker 9: Is that what? Ain't man? The family that already voted,
Speaker 9: and when the family vote, dog, that's it.
Speaker 6: I ain't marry in the family.
Speaker 9: You married. You married my cousin, Christian. That's what you're
Speaker 9: trying to do, and you ain't fit to marry her.
Speaker 6: Look, i'ma calling up to my job talking like this.
Speaker 6: I'm already on hot from to day with some boat
Speaker 6: my suppers that I'm puosed to do.
Speaker 11: Not come calling me with no vote.
Speaker 9: Hey, man, let me tell you this here until we
Speaker 9: can decide that you good but Christian, until we can
Speaker 9: decide that you know you can handle being married to her,
Speaker 9: and you come correct as a family member. And if
Speaker 9: you're gonna come to potlust, then you bring a pot.
Speaker 9: You ain't brain nothing.
Speaker 6: I ain't got a fear, ain't nothing I'm paying for
Speaker 6: this wedding. I don't give watch you up there, all
Speaker 6: that money out of dropped for this? How about two
Speaker 6: bottles of wine to it?
Speaker 9: You bought when I ain't seen no wine.
Speaker 6: I don't care if you got that wine or not.
Speaker 6: I saw her mama drinking it.
Speaker 9: Okay, Well, I ain't getting no wine. I don't remember
Speaker 9: nobody bringing no wine, see Butcher, nor to see anything
Speaker 9: that go on.
Speaker 6: I got class. I don't know what he's talking about, Butcher. Whatever,
Speaker 6: I bought some wine. Ma mama was drinking it. And
Speaker 6: I ain't playing that this wed and going down. I
Speaker 6: don't spend over twenty three thousand dollars on.
Speaker 9: There, a man, I ain't already told you that the
Speaker 9: family then voted on that the wedding name.
Speaker 6: I don't give up what the family voted on.
Speaker 9: I done pay for this.
Speaker 6: I ain't heard nothing from Christian about this.
Speaker 9: Christen might not know what we've bene voted on. We
Speaker 9: made the decisions sometimes for everybody you undersaying.
Speaker 6: That don't include me.
Speaker 9: Well, let Christian know that we's gonna stop the web.
Speaker 9: I'm just calling to let you know before I ain't
Speaker 9: tell her. What's up you're.
Speaker 6: Trying to tell me? Christen don't even know.
Speaker 9: Now we ain't told her that. We don't agree with
Speaker 9: you yet, and then we're gonna stop the winning. We
Speaker 9: ain't told of it. Man out of here.
Speaker 6: I'm paying all this money for this. Man y'all ain't stopping.
Speaker 9: Hey, man, I done already told you what we're doing.
Speaker 9: All right. I'm not going to continue to go back
Speaker 9: and forth with you.
Speaker 6: Better get off my alreadys and your voice at me.
Speaker 6: I don't know what hell you.
Speaker 9: I tell you what? Let me say this to you.
Speaker 9: I don't care if I got to bust up in
Speaker 9: the church and stop this wedding because you then win
Speaker 9: against what we just said. Whatever I got to do.
Speaker 6: I don't know who you with. I wish y'all was
Speaker 6: try to stop this wedding. Look we can handle it
Speaker 6: right now. I can get off of work. I'm already
Speaker 6: going through some books and I'm already on fire. I
Speaker 6: will come there and bust.
Speaker 9: Yo right now. Do you know what? See see see
Speaker 9: what she was going with Nigel. See Nigel ain't act
Speaker 9: like this? Oh what what? I don't know?
Speaker 6: You didn't bring that me and that doesn't already have.
Speaker 6: Don't even bring that.
Speaker 9: Came up in me. Hey man, heymen, I'm just keeping
Speaker 9: it real with you. Nigel ain't act like this here
Speaker 9: that we done have words. And if that doesn't want
Speaker 9: to come and bust up in that.
Speaker 6: Too, he dealt with just like that.
Speaker 9: Man. I'm just trying to say, there's a home family
Speaker 9: one hundred.
Speaker 6: I don't want to hear nothing about this no more.
Speaker 9: Tell me where to be and we can deal with
Speaker 9: this right now. I'm just letting you know the family
Speaker 9: don't voted. The family that already know now what we'll do.
Speaker 9: We'll push the wed in back and then give us
Speaker 9: time to reevaluate you.
Speaker 6: Man, we evaluate me.
Speaker 9: I don't need no.
Speaker 6: Evaluation from y'all and me and christn getting married. How
Speaker 6: to put some money on this?
Speaker 9: All I know is the wedding ain't happening.
Speaker 6: That the wedding is happening now. I set them pay
Speaker 6: for all this taw some books you the family were
Speaker 6: gonna get married in two and a half weeks. If
Speaker 6: jof y'all don't come in, if y'all come up in that, y'all.
Speaker 9: Gonna get that on the straight that I'm trying to
Speaker 9: say hello, hey man, I'm trying to tell you, man,
Speaker 9: right now, the family don't want you in the family
Speaker 9: right now.
Speaker 6: I don't give it about y'all. Ain't in love with y'all.
Speaker 6: I'm married Christen, and I can give a if I
Speaker 6: see y'all ever again.
Speaker 9: I'm gonna tell you this here. The family voted on
Speaker 9: one more thing you need to go on on. Know,
Speaker 9: then while we're at it, I.
Speaker 6: Say, no, damn democracy, we getting married. That is between
Speaker 6: high and I and if y'all don't want to be there,
Speaker 6: jump off in the dish.
Speaker 9: Yeah, it's one more thing we didn't voted on. What
Speaker 9: else you don't vote it on? We voted on this.
Speaker 9: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 9: Christians and Todd family got me the prank phone. Call
Speaker 9: you y I'm still to come to the wedd.
Speaker 6: You Tommy.
Speaker 9: I don't put all that money out like that. I
Speaker 9: was like, no, son, I got one more thing. I
Speaker 9: got to ask you, dog, what is what is the
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Speaker 6: Lane Steve Hardy Morning Show. Baby, I'm being real with you, man,
Speaker 6: Somebody gonna.
Speaker 9: You up.
Speaker 12: Okay, nephew, I'll be back sometimes weekly.
Speaker 2: I just find that you think it came with the
Speaker 2: points for the fight.
Speaker 1: The next text will be Uncle Steve, send money. It will,
Speaker 1: it will will, all right, Junior, thank you.
Speaker 13: Coming up next it is the Strawberry Letter and the
Speaker 13: subject is she was supposed to be just for me?
Speaker 13: All right, we'll get into that find out what that's
Speaker 13: all about. Right after this.
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Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 12: Lady, gentlemen, it's time for the Strawberry Litter with my
Speaker 12: good friend Shirley Strawberry.
Speaker 13: Thank you, my good friend. Junior's subject she was supposed
Speaker 13: to be just for me. Here's Stephen Shirley. I'm thirty
Speaker 13: two years old with a set of twins that are
Speaker 13: two years old. My husband works hard and he's allowed
Speaker 13: me to stay home with the twins and work part
Speaker 13: time in the evenings. We had to hire a babysitter
Speaker 13: because he's not able to handle the kids by himself
Speaker 13: like I can. The babysitter keeps the children during the
Speaker 13: day if I have a doctor's appointment or need to
Speaker 13: run some errand my husband doesn't like me to use
Speaker 13: a babysitter during the day because we have to pay her.
Speaker 13: What he didn't know is that I would call this
Speaker 13: girl over whenever I wanted to see her or for
Speaker 13: us to mess around. It wasn't always about the twins.
Speaker 13: I met this young lady at the gym and we
Speaker 13: hit it off instantly. She sells waist trainers on the side,
Speaker 13: and she fitted me for one and pressed herself all
Speaker 13: up against me.
Speaker 1: When she was stuffing me into the waist trainer.
Speaker 13: She said, I felt really good, and I told her
Speaker 13: she felt even better. We got closer and closer, and
Speaker 13: she came over to my house. She came over to
Speaker 13: meet my twins. That was when it all went down
Speaker 13: and things changed between us. I hired her instantly to
Speaker 13: be the babysitter. When she came over during the day,
Speaker 13: it was for me and the twins. What I overlooked
Speaker 13: was the fact that she's so hot that my husband
Speaker 13: might want her too. We experimented with a threesome before
Speaker 13: we got married, so I figured he would tell me
Speaker 13: if I wanted another woman. So I figured he would
Speaker 13: tell me if he wanted another woman. I wish he
Speaker 13: had because I walked in on him and this woman
Speaker 13: on the couch. Nothing was going on yet, but it
Speaker 13: was about to be. It was about to be on
Speaker 13: and popping if I hadn't walked in when I did.
Speaker 13: He and I had to talk about this beautiful woman,
Speaker 13: and he said we should fire her. But I think
Speaker 13: he said that so he can have her all to himself.
Speaker 13: Would it be best to ask her for a threesome
Speaker 13: or fire her?
Speaker 9: What?
Speaker 14: So you brought this girl into your.
Speaker 13: Home and started sleeping with her, and now you're mad
Speaker 13: because you think your husband wants your girlfriend all to himself.
Speaker 13: This sounds crazy And if she's that hot, what did
Speaker 13: you think was going to happen? I mean, really, you
Speaker 13: didn't think long and hard about this when you brought
Speaker 13: her into your marriage and your home and everything. And
Speaker 13: you might think a threesome will solve the problem. No,
Speaker 13: it's not going to solve the problem. A threesome is
Speaker 13: not going to make this go away. It will only
Speaker 13: make things worse for you. I mean, your husband will
Speaker 13: agree to a threesome. I'm sure, after all, you guys
Speaker 13: did it before before you got married. But he's already
Speaker 13: trying to do her without you. That's the problem. In
Speaker 13: other words, a threesome is not going to solve your issue.
Speaker 13: He'll still want to go, he'll still want to do her.
Speaker 13: You're just giving him more of what he wants by
Speaker 13: suggesting a threesome. So in this case, I just think
Speaker 13: it's best for you to go ahead and fire him.
Speaker 1: Yeah, go ahead and fire her.
Speaker 13: I mean so you won't have to worry about coming
Speaker 13: home and seeing her on the couch making out with
Speaker 13: your husband by themselves.
Speaker 7: Steve, that ain't the problem.
Speaker 1: What's the problem?
Speaker 2: How the problem?
Speaker 8: If she's sitting on the couch, you need to fire
Speaker 8: her so he don't mess with her. The problem is
Speaker 8: she messing with the woman. That's the whole problem. The
Speaker 8: woman don't even get to the house if it wasn't
Speaker 8: for her little chubby ass in here getting stuffed into
Speaker 8: the waist trainer. That's what happened. I'm just reading what
Speaker 8: the letter said. Was she said, I just I'm just
Speaker 8: going by the letter, y'all. Y'all stop talking about me.
Speaker 8: Would I be doing this letter?
Speaker 1: I'm just reading.
Speaker 8: The lady says she met me going at the gym
Speaker 8: because she was selling waist trainers.
Speaker 7: She fitted her with one, and that she was stuffing
Speaker 7: me down into the waist.
Speaker 13: Train Well, it it, It does require a bit of I.
Speaker 8: Would I would imagine that it was. But she said,
Speaker 8: when she stuffed me down in it, just move. I
Speaker 8: ain't never been stuffed in none of my clothes.
Speaker 13: Well, you don't wear a waist trainer either. That's for women.
Speaker 7: I have needed one. I've looked into you go on,
Speaker 7: needed a waist training? I really have, I really have.
Speaker 1: All right, that's not all she said.
Speaker 7: I got some.
Speaker 8: I got some partners. Doesn't ask me about the waist
Speaker 8: training before? You know, at that age, you know what
Speaker 8: we're starting to look like. You know, we're carrying, you know,
Speaker 8: we you know?
Speaker 14: So was that a good business waist trainers for men?
Speaker 15: No?
Speaker 8: I bought one of them T shirts one time, and
Speaker 8: I had to get a butcher knife and cut it off.
Speaker 8: I couldn't. I couldn't even swallow. I couldn't even I
Speaker 8: couldn't even eat food. I don't even here where I'm
Speaker 8: gonna lose weight because I had to quit eating because
Speaker 8: I couldn't swallow.
Speaker 7: That's how tight this T shirt was on. And so.
Speaker 8: See, I don't really like this letter because it's nothing.
Speaker 8: It's no nothing in this letter I can help be with.
Speaker 8: You've made a decision. You hide this girl that you.
Speaker 8: She said, oh you feel good? You told her she
Speaker 8: feel even better. You invited over the house to check
Speaker 8: out the twins, and that's when it all jumped off.
Speaker 7: I mean it jumped off.
Speaker 8: And now when you call over, it ain't for the twins, now,
Speaker 8: your husband man, because y'all got to pay them.
Speaker 7: That's what you pay people for services. People that come
Speaker 7: your house free don't know.
Speaker 8: The air conditioning man don't come your house free. Electrician
Speaker 8: don't come free. Hookers ain't free. Okay, why y'all what
Speaker 8: y'all thought they y'all thought they was free.
Speaker 1: No, No, that's not what it is.
Speaker 8: Hookers come to houses, yeahses hotels, hookers climbing cars, depend
Speaker 8: on whatever you are. They got a high level, they
Speaker 8: got to escort services. You can go out with them,
Speaker 8: show up places. All right, Just hold on, hold on.
Speaker 13: We'll have part two of your response coming up in
Speaker 13: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's strawberry letter subject
Speaker 13: she was supposed to be just for me.
Speaker 14: We'll get back into that right after this. You're listening
Speaker 14: Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 13: All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter.
Speaker 13: The subject is, she was supposed to be just for me.
Speaker 7: Well, she was supposed to be, but you.
Speaker 1: She ain't just for you.
Speaker 7: She for everybody.
Speaker 10: First of all, she sells waist trainers at the gym,
Speaker 10: so she sell it to anybody.
Speaker 8: She stuffs a lot of people into these waist trainers,
Speaker 8: not just you. She be up on a lot of people,
Speaker 8: and she like it any kind of way you want
Speaker 8: to do it. Now, she sells a service. It starts
Speaker 8: as a product, but she sells a service.
Speaker 7: The product is the waist training.
Speaker 8: The service is baby City.
Speaker 7: Once you are no longer a.
Speaker 8: Teenager and out of high school, you are not a
Speaker 8: babysitter no more. That title changes because you change. You
Speaker 8: ain't the little girl down the street no more. Yeah,
Speaker 8: once you get older, you grow up, things start happening
Speaker 8: to your body. See, you ain't the babysitter no more.
Speaker 8: They have titles for you now. They call them nannies, governesses, governesses. Yeah,
Speaker 8: that's a title, junior. You could be hired as a
Speaker 8: governess to watch to educate the children. That's when those
Speaker 8: women knew me have college degrees and stuff. They call governesses.
Speaker 14: Yeah, but she called her a babysitter in the letter.
Speaker 8: Well see, but she ain't the baby no more. Let's see,
Speaker 8: I told you once you're not in high school watching
Speaker 8: kids no more. Ladies change these titles on these women
Speaker 8: because that ain't what they are no more, Arnold Schwartzen.
Speaker 1: They can tell you that.
Speaker 8: Okay, Okay, I can understand when they come over to
Speaker 8: the house and if they look like they can have
Speaker 8: a baby, then they not babysitters no more.
Speaker 7: But she does baby makers.
Speaker 1: She does have twins, Yeah, she got twins.
Speaker 8: But the lady that sell the uh waist trainers ain't
Speaker 8: got no twins.
Speaker 7: So you done bought this hook into the house.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 7: And see, I don't know how y'all don't see.
Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, she played the babysitter, but she ain't over
Speaker 8: there sitting the baby though. Now she rocking everybody to sleep. Now,
Speaker 8: Ruba baby.
Speaker 7: Baby in the tree top?
Speaker 6: What is he home?
Speaker 8: You come on over here too, right, come now, you
Speaker 8: walked in on them. They were sitting on the couch.
Speaker 8: Ain't nothing happened yet, but you you knew you had
Speaker 8: walked in on it because you know she saw him
Speaker 8: from behind.
Speaker 14: Mm hmm.
Speaker 8: You brought her in the house, you committed the first room.
Speaker 8: Now when it looks like it's about to go all wrong,
Speaker 8: you mad at her, and he talking about, well we
Speaker 8: are to fire her.
Speaker 2: Saw the baby come in soons?
Speaker 7: Yeah, that little girl came on that zoom you bring.
Speaker 8: See See, Carla's daughter is a babysitter. She's a babysitter.
Speaker 8: You three grown help us on this zoom right here?
Speaker 8: Y'all are babysitters, y'all homewreckers.
Speaker 1: Age of the child that the babysitter.
Speaker 7: Not the babysitter.
Speaker 14: Can you can you please focus on the letter?
Speaker 8: I am focused, y'all them you're not babysitters. And y'all
Speaker 8: come in here, y'all homewreckerds. Y'all know good hair well
Speaker 8: you don't need to being here watching your damn back, Okay,
Speaker 8: I got a question, yes, because this letter ain't worth
Speaker 8: for damn.
Speaker 7: I ain't.
Speaker 1: She's mad that her go ahead, carl her.
Speaker 15: I just wanted to know if Monica was watching my daughter.
Speaker 1: She's not babysitting, that's not what it's called.
Speaker 7: Well, I wouldn't trust.
Speaker 19: Her, you know. Back to you, thank you your.
Speaker 7: Daughter, and I know your daughter.
Speaker 10: Know somebody down at that school that can come over
Speaker 10: and keep an eye if you have.
Speaker 7: Don't have her in your house anyway.
Speaker 13: The point is she's mad that her husband wants the
Speaker 13: babysitter too, or the whatever you want to call her.
Speaker 8: Her husband, Shirley wants to fire the girl. She don't
Speaker 8: want to fire the girl because the girl take care
Speaker 8: of her and the twins.
Speaker 14: When she she just.
Speaker 8: Said she there that they might end up in a threesome.
Speaker 8: The husband don't want to do that. He say, fire
Speaker 8: her because he don't want to pay her. See that's
Speaker 8: what this is. Any more questions about it.
Speaker 1: She doesn't.
Speaker 13: He doesn't want to pay her for babysitting, but he
Speaker 13: wants the benefits of her being there as well.
Speaker 8: You don't know that assuming her guilty conscience assumed when
Speaker 8: they were sitting on the couch that they was about
Speaker 8: to get busy. I don't know what the babysitter sitting
Speaker 8: on the couch with her husband for any day away,
Speaker 8: it would have been right.
Speaker 10: Well, you know, I got my hand on your thigh.
Speaker 10: I'm sitting to be talking about working out.
Speaker 7: We discussed.
Speaker 1: Post comments today.
Speaker 8: This woman brought this woman into the house. She's trying
Speaker 8: to make a Demand's fault.
Speaker 1: She don't want to many.
Speaker 7: She don't want to.
Speaker 1: Find they need to, no needs you.
Speaker 8: Taking care of the babies and the wife.
Speaker 7: She was supposed to be just for me.
Speaker 13: Right, and now she's mad that her husband's involved. Post
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Speaker 13: We got Junior and Sports Talk right after this.
Speaker 14: You're listening Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 13: All right, ladies and gentlemen, he is here, Junior and
Speaker 13: Sports Talk.
Speaker 1: What you got Junior?
Speaker 2: All right? Piper, let's go through week too, Mancy, how
Speaker 2: you do it?
Speaker 7: I feel I was on five.
Speaker 2: Hey, Pimpy, good week for you to here we go.
Speaker 7: Eagles.
Speaker 12: I would Eagles over the Vikings thirty four to twenty eight.
Speaker 12: Picked it so dem piff Bills over the Raiders thirty.
Speaker 2: Eight to ten. Told you, he we go, Pippins, you
Speaker 2: are the road.
Speaker 12: Don Ravens over the Beagles twenty seven to twenty four,
Speaker 12: knew it, Chiefs over the Jaguars seventeen to nine, solid
Speaker 12: us a Rock, Titans over the Charges twenty seven to
Speaker 12: twenty four.
Speaker 7: Pitman, I don't think I made that one.
Speaker 12: Nippy picked the Charges on now one. But here you
Speaker 12: go right back though. Falcons over the Packers twenty five.
Speaker 7: Excuse me, excuse me?
Speaker 8: Could you quit giving me credit until I get the credit.
Speaker 7: You give me?
Speaker 2: Focus?
Speaker 12: Did win? Seahawks over the Lions thirty seven to thirty one?
Speaker 7: That hurt me? That hurt me so mad?
Speaker 12: I want to Detroy Yeah, Coats over the Texans thirty
Speaker 12: one to twenty.
Speaker 7: I don't even know what to say, by child down
Speaker 7: there in Houston. Y'all gonna have a long ass year.
Speaker 2: Did you ever gonna pick us this season? Pipping ever?
Speaker 7: Not that I know him?
Speaker 1: Answer, Yeah, I just don't care.
Speaker 2: You don't care nothing about my feelings.
Speaker 12: Buccaneers over the Bass twenty seven to twenty one. I
Speaker 12: picked it, Yes you did, Pipping. You picked that with
Speaker 12: two Pippin Giants thirty one, Cardinals twenty eight Pipping.
Speaker 7: Told you.
Speaker 4: Did you?
Speaker 12: Well, you know what, I'm just Gonnatart put some money
Speaker 12: on these picks because you ain't missing we go.
Speaker 7: I'm gonna be a pimping mint.
Speaker 2: I can't do it. Here we go, Pipping forty nine.
Speaker 12: Er Is over the Rams thirty to twenty three, Cowboys
Speaker 12: over the JITs thirty to teen. Joe, Yeah, yeah, he
Speaker 12: picked it. Cowboys going to playoff the season, Pip, Yeah yeah,
Speaker 12: Cowboys going to the playoffs.
Speaker 2: Here we go, pick it. You go another with Pippin.
Speaker 12: This is you all day long, pipping. Dolphins over the
Speaker 12: Patriots twenty folks, I said it, Come on, say that pipping.
Speaker 12: You just over here doing now here go one man,
Speaker 12: Broncos and Commanders.
Speaker 2: Thirty five to thirty three.
Speaker 8: Yeah, the commanded man Russell almost handled man trying man.
Speaker 2: Here you go, shirt all right.
Speaker 13: Coming up at the top of the hour, if someone
Speaker 13: needs some social media advice asking about.
Speaker 14: Should they break up with their boyfriend we'll talk about
Speaker 14: it now.
Speaker 8: He brought some social media.
Speaker 14: Hey you're listening hard Morning show.
Speaker 13: All right, so Steve Toya on Facebook rights. My boyfriend
Speaker 13: and I have been together for three years and have
Speaker 13: lived together for about a year. For a while, I imagine
Speaker 13: that we would get married someday, But lately I've been
Speaker 13: feeling like this isn't going to work out. A couple
Speaker 13: of incidents have led me to this conclusion. One is
Speaker 13: that my parents offered to let me buy their house
Speaker 13: for a really good price and then rent them back
Speaker 13: the basement so they can travel when they retire and
Speaker 13: have a home to return to. When I told my
Speaker 13: boyfriend about this, he lost his mind and said there
Speaker 13: was no way he would ever live with my parents.
Speaker 13: I was hurt because it made it sound like the
Speaker 13: decision was only his to make, like we're not equal
Speaker 13: partners in this relationship. Should I break up with him
Speaker 13: or try to work it out first?
Speaker 1: Interesting?
Speaker 8: Well, I mean, that's an interesting stance for them to take.
Speaker 8: You all have been living together for a year and
Speaker 8: dating for three years. Who he is?
Speaker 9: Now?
Speaker 8: You know they want to rent out the basement so
Speaker 8: they can travel and come back and have a home
Speaker 8: to go to.
Speaker 7: He's not living with your parents.
Speaker 8: I can understand that, but that's a hard line stance
Speaker 8: and there's no discussion. He's just put his foot down. Now,
Speaker 8: if you want to marry a person who doesn't compromise,
Speaker 8: and you want to marry a person who doesn't listen
Speaker 8: to your wants and desires, then go ahead. Yeah, when
Speaker 8: you see red flags, stop collecting him. Yeah yeah, you know, Toya,
Speaker 8: it may not be the guy for you.
Speaker 7: He's not even trying to hit it.
Speaker 14: Yeah, yeah, yeah, he made the decision.
Speaker 1: That's it.
Speaker 8: And all your parents are saying is they need a
Speaker 8: home to come back to because they're gonna do a
Speaker 8: lot of traveling when they retire. Now you know what
Speaker 8: that means.
Speaker 7: They travel ain't going nowhere but once a year.
Speaker 17: But.
Speaker 7: Right there, they're gonna be here the whole downtown.
Speaker 13: And you know downstairs upstairs is going to bleed into downstairs.
Speaker 1: So that's why you said no, toy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, mom and daddy's down there in the basement.
Speaker 7: Okay.
Speaker 8: I don't know anybody that wants to live with in
Speaker 8: laws in the house. That's that's a hard ask, you know. Yeah,
Speaker 8: But if they want to sell you the house, but
Speaker 8: they want to come back to that house and pay rent.
Speaker 8: The fair thing really of your parents is to let
Speaker 8: you have your life. And if they want to sell
Speaker 8: the house, then go and and rinch yourself somewhere else.
Speaker 8: Get your an apartment where you ain't gotta take care
Speaker 8: of grass and all that. That's fairer too, instead of
Speaker 8: invading in your space and living downstairs. And I know
Speaker 8: I know where the guy's coming from. I wouldn't want
Speaker 8: to live with iron loss, you know, so okay every
Speaker 8: day now, okay.
Speaker 14: But you may not see them if they're downstairs.
Speaker 7: You know they they ain't gonna stay down there, ain't
Speaker 7: no kitchen.
Speaker 13: I know they're in the house, and aren't you going
Speaker 13: to be I would feel some kind of way if
Speaker 13: my parents were in the basement anyway.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would want you to come upstairs.
Speaker 7: Yeah, your daddy out in the back yard, whitling. I
Speaker 7: don't want all this.
Speaker 13: Bet you whitling and turn.
Speaker 8: All that noise down upstairs. Me and your mama trying
Speaker 8: to go to sleep.
Speaker 12: What this guy got It's not gonna work out, daddy
Speaker 12: standing draws.
Speaker 14: It's my house.
Speaker 1: Oh wait a minute, this is your see all of
Speaker 1: that yeah. Yeah, this is going to be a little crazy.
Speaker 13: So should she break up with him or try to
Speaker 13: work it out first?
Speaker 8: I mean, you should try and talk it out and
Speaker 8: see what's happening. You know what I mean, breaking up?
Speaker 8: I don't want to know what your mommy, daddy.
Speaker 1: Now that you think more about it, you out Yeah.
Speaker 15: Yeah, So is that really a red flag?
Speaker 1: Then go back to that all right.
Speaker 8: I don't know if it's a red flag, but it's
Speaker 8: just the guy's being honest with how he is.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, oh hell or not?
Speaker 7: All right.
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Speaker 8: Let it What about you? You let it go?
Speaker 7: I'll be trying to let it go.
Speaker 8: But every time, how did I sound when I was
Speaker 8: taking my fat ass up them steps?
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Speaker 13: Weez Us out coming up in thirty two minutes after
Speaker 13: the hour, we'll play another round of would you rather?
Speaker 1: Right after this Stop it Steave.
Speaker 13: You're listening Hardy Morning Show, and it's time now for
Speaker 13: a round of would you rather? Would you rather make
Speaker 13: love on a balcony or would you rather make love
Speaker 13: on the kitchen table?
Speaker 2: Kitchen table?
Speaker 4: Kitchen?
Speaker 12: Hey take that on their bag but give me the
Speaker 12: passive pains sometimes.
Speaker 2: Right now, spik you with this skin it. Let's get
Speaker 2: this knife in his it's wave action in this kidding knife.
Speaker 20: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
Speaker 10: Steve, Well junior, you it's personal preface you your balconies
Speaker 10: has been You've been thinking apartment balcony where you've got
Speaker 10: the little Weber grill on one side and them two
Speaker 10: fold oid hip. I was thinking of a more elaborate
Speaker 10: balcony like the one you got some lounges and stuff
Speaker 10: like that. I'm just go on and let you let
Speaker 10: your Would you rather stand.
Speaker 9: All right?
Speaker 13: Would you rather have a pause button in your life?
Speaker 13: Or would you rather have a rewind button in your life?
Speaker 12: Pause right now? Just hey, hey, where I'm at right now?
Speaker 7: Pause it right here?
Speaker 4: Please?
Speaker 14: Yeah, okay, Mitch McConnell, Now.
Speaker 10: I need that damn rewind. I need to go back
Speaker 10: and get some stuff back. I got to go back,
Speaker 10: you god, dog, I have said something most stuff too late.
Speaker 1: You see.
Speaker 7: You don't know you need to pause, but until after
Speaker 7: you do it.
Speaker 10: Yeah yeah, so see yeah, I need to just go
Speaker 10: and do it and then press rerun, feel real good
Speaker 10: about what I said, and then rewind and then tell
Speaker 10: them something else.
Speaker 12: Okay, every time you say something much you don't even
Speaker 12: act like you can you say it.
Speaker 8: I really don't because showing a brand, I try to
Speaker 8: act like I care. I really yeah, I really really
Speaker 8: don't down.
Speaker 13: All right, would you rather live alone without any human
Speaker 13: contact for two years? Or would you rather never be alone?
Speaker 13: I mean even when you're in the shower in the
Speaker 13: bathroom for two years? Which one live alone with no
Speaker 13: human contact for two years or never be alone for
Speaker 13: two years?
Speaker 8: Ooh, I don't think that people understand what that two
Speaker 8: years by yourself would do to you mentally. Man, That
Speaker 8: would take the majority of people out. Yeah yeah, yeah,
Speaker 8: they gonna get on your nerves. But I know how
Speaker 8: to deal with that better.
Speaker 7: Yeah. Yeah, I'm going aheading people with me for two
Speaker 7: years because that two years of no human contact. You
Speaker 7: really don't understand that that leads that really can lead
Speaker 7: to a mental illness.
Speaker 14: Yeah yeah, got yeah.
Speaker 1: All right, that's today's round of would you rather?
Speaker 14: Thank you?
Speaker 1: Now?
Speaker 13: Coming up at forty nine minutes after it's our last
Speaker 13: break of the day, and we'll close out the show
Speaker 13: with one and only Steve Harvey.
Speaker 14: Right after this, You're listening Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 13: All right, here we are guys on this Tuesday break
Speaker 13: of the day.
Speaker 14: It's been a good day, Steve.
Speaker 1: Before we get out.
Speaker 13: Of here, we do have one more Facebook question for you.
Speaker 13: This one's from Hunter and it's one of our white
Speaker 13: listeners we.
Speaker 1: Knew would haunt it.
Speaker 2: Well, you said.
Speaker 13: You never got a black dude named Hannah. Now all right,
Speaker 13: Hunter says, my mom has a dog, but you think
Speaker 13: she'd given birth to another child. Three years ago, she
Speaker 13: brought home a pure bred Border Collie. The dog is great,
Speaker 13: and it's really good for her since she's alone a
Speaker 13: lot of the time, but the cries for attention are
Speaker 13: getting ridiculous. Next weekend, she's having a third birthday party
Speaker 13: for Chloe, that's the dog's name. She knows and wants
Speaker 13: it to be a giant celebration, even hiring a DJ.
Speaker 13: It's not like we don't spend time with mom once
Speaker 13: a week, so it's not you never come over issue,
Speaker 13: but these doggy birthday parties where presents are expect it
Speaker 13: are just ridiculous.
Speaker 1: I've told her I'm not.
Speaker 13: Interested in bringing my family over this time around, and
Speaker 13: the guilt came over like a waterfall. Is there any
Speaker 13: way to win in this one? I really have better
Speaker 13: things to do, and I don't want to do this
Speaker 13: every year.
Speaker 8: I just don't y'all know how y'all are about dogs.
Speaker 8: I don't know what the surprise is, y'all. Y'all, y'all
Speaker 8: love some dogs?
Speaker 11: Now?
Speaker 7: Do I know Black people that love dogs? Y'all do?
Speaker 14: Oh?
Speaker 7: Yeah, my wife. My wife loves that damn dog of ours.
Speaker 8: Man lets him in the house, have him sitting around
Speaker 8: with his big ass, and I'll be going, hey, hey, hey, hey,
Speaker 8: you know, but y'all know how y'all are about these dogs.
Speaker 8: But now you got to start putting your foot down
Speaker 8: a little bit. Stop all this feeling guilty because you
Speaker 8: don't want to go over your mama house called Chloe
Speaker 8: down birthday.
Speaker 7: Chloe is a dog.
Speaker 8: Chloe don't even know it's his damn birthday. Chloe don't
Speaker 8: like DJ's Chloe. I don't care what Chloe is. Boy
Speaker 8: girl with a vow to Collie. I don't care what
Speaker 8: it is.
Speaker 9: What.
Speaker 14: I don't even care Choe.
Speaker 7: Don't nobody give it.
Speaker 8: Damn This dog don't even know it's its birthday. We're
Speaker 8: not throwing no party. For no damn dog wasting all
Speaker 8: this money on this damn dog.
Speaker 12: Man.
Speaker 8: I know a lady that had let me tell you something,
Speaker 8: she used to have parties for her dogs. They would
Speaker 8: have themes where everybody had these little dogs. You had
Speaker 8: everybody had left dogs, right, you had to dress your
Speaker 8: dog up on the theme. They had bowls, play setting
Speaker 8: with the dog's names on it. They had little collars
Speaker 8: that each one of the dogs would put on when
Speaker 8: they came in, and all this hell. Man, my wife said,
Speaker 8: Steve invited to this. I know you're not gonna go.
Speaker 8: I know good here where I ain't going. I'm not
Speaker 8: driving this little damn ragged ass dog over nobody house.
Speaker 8: Talking about were going to a dinner and it was
Speaker 8: at a hotel. She had rented a little room out
Speaker 8: and everything. You are, MA shitty me sitting up here
Speaker 8: watching these damn dogs in here eating out the wrong bowl.
Speaker 7: That's not your bowl, that's Quincy's bowl.
Speaker 8: Well, I don't know if anybody told you how. Any
Speaker 8: damn dog can't read. So you know, I know, you know, mama,
Speaker 8: y'all you're gonna have to stop this. You're gonna have
Speaker 8: to have this party by yourself. I'm not bringing my
Speaker 8: kids over here to celebrate this damn dog.
Speaker 7: I'm just a knock man. It's a dog.
Speaker 1: But what difference doesn't that it makes the mom happy?
Speaker 1: So what y'all come celebrate?
Speaker 2: Well, Chloe the.
Speaker 7: Dog, Mama, that's your dog. I'm not doing that.
Speaker 1: So Hunters should tell his mom, just like that Ken
Speaker 1: doing it.
Speaker 7: Ain't my wing gonna bab make it this year.
Speaker 1: Anything, But then she'll make him feel guilty.
Speaker 13: Steve, and he's asking, is there any way to win
Speaker 13: in this situation if.
Speaker 7: Grandbaby having surgery that day?
Speaker 13: No, No, he just says he doesn't want to do this.
Speaker 14: Every can can he tell his mom that we.
Speaker 8: Take the kids of Disneyland. Your mama gonna have to
Speaker 8: get over this. Now it's a damn dog. It's a dog.
Speaker 13: But the dog dogs members are members of the family
Speaker 13: and everything, got it?
Speaker 1: Yeah, they are dogs are members of the family.
Speaker 8: This family member eat off the flow sometimes. This family member,
Speaker 8: if you don't get up in time, will drop a
Speaker 8: load down there by that damn Now, this family member,
Speaker 8: y'all keep talking about family member got flaws. This family
Speaker 8: you gotta call it your family member.
Speaker 7: Sheds. Okay, it's a dog. They do.
Speaker 8: They're so loyal, they are loyal.
Speaker 10: But them as dogs, they dogs. I don't care what
Speaker 10: y'all say. Man, they dogs, they family members. But your
Speaker 10: family member is a dog. See, now get a man
Speaker 10: and call him a dog, and then we got a
Speaker 10: damn problem, don't we. But then you get a dog,
Speaker 10: and now you wonta treat the dog like he like?
Speaker 7: All that? Where we going to dog.
Speaker 1: Birthday party? Cloyd?
Speaker 7: Their birthday party?
Speaker 8: Cloyd don't even know it's their birthday?
Speaker 1: About though.
Speaker 2: At the prem hurt about this birthday party? Wait till
Speaker 2: your mama read the wheelt Chloe gets everywhere. That's when
Speaker 2: you're gonna.
Speaker 9: Be hurt.
Speaker 1: Because you didn't tell party.
Speaker 14: See.
Speaker 8: The only thing I being nun is waiting on when
Speaker 8: the DJ play Atomic Dogs and then.
Speaker 2: Shout out to the queues.
Speaker 7: Hey, y'all have a great day today.
Speaker 8: Talk to God, he'd absolutely love to hear from it.
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