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Speaker 9: Uh huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody. You're listening
Speaker 9: to the voice. Come on, dig me now, one and
Speaker 9: only Steve Harvey got a radio show today?
Speaker 3: Is it?
Speaker 4: Everybody? On a real positive note? Today? Is it? Today
Speaker 4: is the day?
Speaker 9: You know, when I was in high school, you know,
Speaker 9: my mother was a Sunday school teaching until she passed.
Speaker 9: I would walk out the door every morning on my
Speaker 9: way to school, and my mother used to say, listen
Speaker 9: to me, son, Hey, don't forget. Today is the day
Speaker 9: that the Lord has made. Let us rejoice and be
Speaker 9: glad in it. And you know, I ain't think much
Speaker 9: of it. You know, it was just my mama being religious.
Speaker 9: You know, Mom's spiritual woman, So you know I just
Speaker 9: took it as that. But as i've gotten older, man,
Speaker 9: You know that's registered more and more with me. Today
Speaker 9: is the day that the Lord has made. Let us
Speaker 9: rejoice and be glad in it. That's pretty cool, man.
Speaker 9: What better blessing will you get throughout the day than
Speaker 9: the fact that he allowed you to live and see
Speaker 9: it the day? See sometimes, man, when you're young, you
Speaker 9: don't pay no attention to that. But all you got
Speaker 9: to do is keep living, keep watching some people that
Speaker 9: you know not be here anymore, go to class reunions
Speaker 9: and they smaller, see people that you really loved.
Speaker 4: It meant a lot till you leave.
Speaker 9: This world, and all of a sudden, man, immortality starts
Speaker 9: to matter a great deal to you. Some of us
Speaker 9: learned this lesson sooner than others. But I know when
Speaker 9: you're young, man, you know, you think you're gonna be
Speaker 9: here for a while. You think you got time to
Speaker 9: play around, You think you got time to get it together,
Speaker 9: You got time to make the mistakes. And but man,
Speaker 9: oh man, I almost every full blown adult that I
Speaker 9: know will tell you and have said these words right
Speaker 9: here many times, And I would see the reason I'm
Speaker 9: saying is because I want you to hear them, because
Speaker 9: you're gonna use them if I only knew then what
Speaker 9: I know now? Do you know how many people have
Speaker 9: said those words right there? Because in time, man, you
Speaker 9: gain so much wisdom. Oh but it ain't like nobody
Speaker 9: didn't tell you, though somebody told you back then. Hey man,
Speaker 9: it's best to buckle down now, he say, Hey man,
Speaker 9: you better quit wasting time. Hey, look, do your best
Speaker 9: at all the times. You know, stop stop worrying about that.
Speaker 9: I'm telling you, son, in a minute, them clubs ain't
Speaker 9: gonna mean nothing to you. In a minute, that going
Speaker 9: out all the time ain't gonna mean nothing to you.
Speaker 9: I can't tell you how many times I repeat it
Speaker 9: to my kids. But man, today is a different day,
Speaker 9: because today is the day that the Lord has made.
Speaker 4: So he gave you a shot today. If you woke up.
Speaker 9: This morning, or if you're finishing your day on your shift,
Speaker 9: he gave you a new day. Nothing bigger than the
Speaker 9: fact that he woke you up today. Now, why don't
Speaker 9: you do something about that? Why don't you take advantage
Speaker 9: of it? How about if you start today? How about
Speaker 9: if you stop hesitating today? How about if you stop
Speaker 9: delaying it today? How about if you stop procrastinating today.
Speaker 9: How about if you make today to day that you
Speaker 9: go for it. I mean, man, let's all just decide today,
Speaker 9: let's go for it. Let's put forth a maximum effort today.
Speaker 4: Man, what you're doing.
Speaker 9: Look, man, take advantage of this blessing of waking up,
Speaker 9: do something today. If you would just start the process, man,
Speaker 9: start that business you always dreamed of. Go look into
Speaker 9: that other job you always yearn for. Go get the
Speaker 9: training you need to get the promotion. Man, go back
Speaker 9: to school, man, go see what you need to do
Speaker 9: to lift yourself to the next level. Stop waking up
Speaker 9: every day seeing how it's gonna go, and start waking
Speaker 9: up and do something about how it goes.
Speaker 4: If you make one step, he'll make two. But you
Speaker 4: could people.
Speaker 9: Talk about all the time, man, it seemed like you're
Speaker 9: always getting a blessing. Oh man, when you talking to
Speaker 9: a person, listen to this. If you talking to a
Speaker 9: person and it seems like there's always a blessing coming
Speaker 9: his way, let me tell you what that person doing.
Speaker 9: That person is putting one foot in front of the next.
Speaker 9: That person is putting forth some efforts out there, and
Speaker 9: that's the only way God can bless you.
Speaker 4: God can only bless you with your efforts.
Speaker 9: He can only put his finger on the thing that
Speaker 9: you are doing or attempting.
Speaker 4: That's all he can help you with.
Speaker 9: He there are no jobs walking up to your door,
Speaker 9: knocking on your door. But if you beating the pavement,
Speaker 9: if you sending in the apps, if you online scouring
Speaker 9: somewhere to work, somewhere to get a job, then God
Speaker 9: can touch somebody's heart to hire you. But if you
Speaker 9: sitting at the house every day, smoke every day, drinking,
Speaker 9: but you wondered why you just can't get a job
Speaker 9: a couple times, you the one out there. If you
Speaker 9: ain't got a job, you got to look go get
Speaker 9: one every day. You got to go look for one
Speaker 9: every single day. You can't take no days off. How
Speaker 9: about today? How about today? If we decide today is
Speaker 9: the day that we're gonna make the move. Today is
Speaker 9: the day that we stop delaying, hesitating, procrastinating. Today is
Speaker 9: the day that we take a step in the direction
Speaker 9: to do something for ourselves, for our lives, for our family,
Speaker 9: for our wives, for our children, for our community, for
Speaker 9: our school. Do something today, for crying out loud, man,
Speaker 9: stop sitting in your own life in just a stew
Speaker 9: of misery.
Speaker 4: In your own life. I'm gonna tell you something.
Speaker 9: If you are in a state of confusion, if you
Speaker 9: are troubling, if you're stuck on what to do next,
Speaker 9: you let me tell you what's happening. You're not doing enough.
Speaker 9: That's what it is.
Speaker 4: Man.
Speaker 9: See when I get in a place, man, where I
Speaker 9: don't know what the next move is, it's because i'd
Speaker 9: unusually stalled out.
Speaker 4: See, this is the way God works. This is the
Speaker 4: way He's worked for me.
Speaker 9: Every time I'm busy and I'm about the business of
Speaker 9: always trying to live my creed, which is ABC.
Speaker 4: My model is ABC. Always be closing.
Speaker 9: I'm always working on something, something to close something. When
Speaker 9: you're so busy with the business of improving yourself and
Speaker 9: doing with yourself and becoming the best you you can be,
Speaker 9: God is always working on your behalf behind some scene
Speaker 9: of something that you're in the process of tempting to close.
Speaker 9: But because you're not doing all you can do, you're
Speaker 9: limiting you. You are because if your decision not to
Speaker 9: give you all and all, you're limiting the opportunities for
Speaker 9: God to put his finger on things in touch them,
Speaker 9: on your behalf. I don't know if the average person
Speaker 9: really understands or knows what it takes to truly be
Speaker 9: successful on whatever level you're talking about. But whatever that
Speaker 9: level is, I don't care what a dollar amount you've
Speaker 9: got attached to it, what level you got if you
Speaker 9: have made the decision that you're going to be successful.
Speaker 9: I think that a lot of people, the average person
Speaker 9: does not know what that means.
Speaker 4: Whatever level you've decided to be successful on.
Speaker 9: See, that's your level of faith, that's where you see
Speaker 9: your life at. Well, guess what you got to maximize
Speaker 9: your efforts to even get to that level.
Speaker 4: So listen to me.
Speaker 9: If you want to be successful at your church, if
Speaker 9: you want to be successful in your relationship, if you
Speaker 9: want to be successful down at the day, if you
Speaker 9: want to be successful at your college, if you want
Speaker 9: to be successful on your job, guess what it's gonna
Speaker 9: take all you got in that world to become a success.
Speaker 4: I don't know why people think.
Speaker 9: That if you don't want to be what somebody else said,
Speaker 9: you ain't got to put forth that effort.
Speaker 4: Na, Nah, I ain't wrong.
Speaker 9: You've got to put forth your maximum effort at whatever
Speaker 9: role you trying to accomplish. Lord have messy man. How
Speaker 9: about today, though, y'all? How about today? Today is a
Speaker 9: good one. Let's make today today. Let's get out of that.
Speaker 9: Let's get on with it. Stop hesitating, stop delaying, stop procrastinating,
Speaker 9: start today. Watch God have something to put his finger
Speaker 9: on there. And that's all you're trying to do, man,
Speaker 9: To line yourself up with God's grace, you got to
Speaker 9: put out a lot of effort so God can put
Speaker 9: his finger on something. You feel me today, I shall
Speaker 9: hope you do, because I'm on one today.
Speaker 4: Let's go.
Speaker 9: You're listening hard morning, ladies and gentlemen, everybody. As difficult
Speaker 9: as life can be, sometimes I am still ever so greatful.
Speaker 8: Man.
Speaker 4: Oh man, I thank God, I.
Speaker 9: Really do, man, because he just he keeps me covered,
Speaker 9: He keeps me waking up, He keeps me moving forward,
Speaker 9: He keeps me mentally protected.
Speaker 4: Am I tired? Yes? Am I covet even more so? Whatever? Whatever?
Speaker 9: In spite of all of it, I don't care what
Speaker 9: besets me in my life. God is in control, and
Speaker 9: God gonna get you through it, just like he's gotten
Speaker 9: you through every other thing He's gotten. You've been easy
Speaker 9: and I've been in some stuff. But boy, God been
Speaker 9: good to me.
Speaker 2: Man.
Speaker 9: That's what I'm appreciative of. And I'm a ride with that.
Speaker 9: That's my testimony today. God be good to me through
Speaker 9: it all. You know, I don't care hide and look
Speaker 9: what it seemed like, what it may appear to be
Speaker 9: when it when it, when it passed, we're gonna be
Speaker 9: shining like two brand new pennies. Yeah, I remember I
Speaker 9: used to put pennies in my loafers.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you were loafers.
Speaker 4: Wow, Yeah, I had loafers. I had, I had a liking.
Speaker 9: Let me introduce her by damn gonna tell this story
Speaker 9: Shirley Strawberry calling for Real Mississippi, Monica Junior uh and
Speaker 9: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. I when I sold life insurance,
Speaker 9: I wore loafers.
Speaker 8: Job, well you know I had, Yes, you did life
Speaker 8: and sure just yeah I sold life insurance.
Speaker 4: It wasn't really what. I was a good salesman. I did.
Speaker 4: My follow three wasn't good. I didn't don't know.
Speaker 9: Once you bought the policy because I wanted to commission
Speaker 9: right services and servicing it.
Speaker 4: Call me, I mean know you called me with a
Speaker 4: claim or something like that. What what did you just
Speaker 4: saw you, sir.
Speaker 9: Okay, damn because because every time they call you it
Speaker 9: was a problem.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 4: But we sold fine shoings.
Speaker 9: You know, Renters inshoance and you know, whole life insurance.
Speaker 9: But it was a death company, so it wasn't a
Speaker 9: high levels though. And I used to wear penny loafers.
Speaker 1: Okay, back to a penny.
Speaker 9: Sears came out with a suit, a khaki suit.
Speaker 4: I don't know if anybody remembers this. That came with
Speaker 4: a badge.
Speaker 9: And whenever you had to clean the suit, you put
Speaker 9: the suit in the bag and you put the whole
Speaker 9: bag in the Washington shuit.
Speaker 4: Okay, No, it was a khaki suit.
Speaker 9: About to remember that now, I ain't ever heard that.
Speaker 1: That's okay, interesting Jr.
Speaker 9: You probably wasn't born yet whatever to give a damn.
Speaker 9: It was either Seals or J. C. Pennies. One of
Speaker 9: them had a suit, a khaki suit. You can only
Speaker 9: get it in khaki. Ain't come no other coming. What
Speaker 9: it got it dirty, You put it in this red
Speaker 9: bag and you do the whole bag in.
Speaker 4: The Washington Let me tell you something, Yeah, don't say
Speaker 4: all that. No more penny loafers. What huh, what with that?
Speaker 4: In the penny loafers. That's where my life was.
Speaker 9: I wore penny loafers with a penny in it, and
Speaker 9: I wore a kaki suit from Seals that you can
Speaker 9: wash in the bag hardly.
Speaker 4: Don't rest of me in washing a suit in the bag, reude.
Speaker 7: Geez.
Speaker 10: All right, coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour,
Speaker 10: we'll run that prank back with Junior in for the
Speaker 10: nephew right after this.
Speaker 5: You're listening Morning show.
Speaker 10: It is time now to run that prank back with
Speaker 10: Junior in for the nephew.
Speaker 1: What you got for it's Junior.
Speaker 11: When y'all tell me that he don't work here no more,
Speaker 11: I feel better because he ain't in here.
Speaker 4: So it is run that prank back. Your baby got
Speaker 4: my baby name? But I know timmy fire, you ain't.
Speaker 12: Two weeks on the vacation time.
Speaker 4: I am.
Speaker 3: Come on, hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach a Patricia. Patricia,
Speaker 3: who is it? How you doing? Listen? My name is
Speaker 3: Floyd Floyd. I want to give you a call. You
Speaker 3: your daughter she attends middle school? Right?
Speaker 13: Okay, what's your name again?
Speaker 3: Floyd Floyd?
Speaker 14: Okay?
Speaker 13: What can I just fight you.
Speaker 3: Uh, well, like I said, your your daughter she goes
Speaker 3: she do go to middle school, right yeah, okay, her name,
Speaker 3: her name is Derek.
Speaker 14: Why you need to know that?
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, ain't something wrong or something? No, no, no, no,
Speaker 3: nothing wrong. I mean I don't mean the alarm. Ye're
Speaker 3: nothing like that. But let me see what you calling me. Well,
Speaker 3: here here's the situation. My daughter actually goes to middle
Speaker 3: school along along which with your daughter. Okay, And and
Speaker 3: it's it's a bit of a problem that that that
Speaker 3: has arisen that me and my wife just found out about.
Speaker 13: Okay, what they have some issues Derek and you in
Speaker 13: some kind of like trouble or something.
Speaker 3: No no, no, no, nothing like that.
Speaker 13: But I say, you don't food with nobody at that school.
Speaker 13: She don't mess with nobody. She own the honor row
Speaker 13: and everything. I don't have no problems out of Derreka,
Speaker 13: right like none.
Speaker 3: Okay, now let me no, let me tell you, miss
Speaker 3: miss Patricia, what the problem is. See, my daughter name
Speaker 3: is Dereka.
Speaker 13: Okay.
Speaker 3: So, and and it just blew me and my wife
Speaker 3: away that it was another Dereka that went to the school.
Speaker 13: Okay, all right, So I don't know too many Derekase,
Speaker 13: that's the unique name. That's cute.
Speaker 3: Okay, right, right, Well here's the problem. Me and my
Speaker 3: wife Actually, you know, when it was time to name
Speaker 3: my child, we thought we was really picking the name
Speaker 3: that nobody would have a pick out for their daughter,
Speaker 3: and to have another Derek in the school that lewis
Speaker 3: to wait and I guess the real reason why I'm
Speaker 3: trying to call you, miss Patricia c is if if
Speaker 3: there's something maybe we can work out, you know, maybe
Speaker 3: like your Dereka does middle name or nickname she can
Speaker 3: be called by in opposed to both of them being Derek.
Speaker 3: You really want to our child to be the only
Speaker 3: one with this name?
Speaker 15: Okay?
Speaker 13: Wait, wait, wait, wait? Now you calling me and you
Speaker 13: asking me to change my baby's name.
Speaker 3: Well, I mean you you ain't really got to legally
Speaker 3: change I mean we just start calling us something else,
Speaker 3: you know.
Speaker 13: No, no, wait a minute, say what you the name
Speaker 13: in police or something? Do you know how many ands
Speaker 13: and lit with this? And Patricia's out there? What if
Speaker 13: I asked everything in the United States to change their
Speaker 13: name from Patricia? You know how crazy that is?
Speaker 3: And I understand that you must be on drugs. Now
Speaker 3: what I'm trying to say, is you know this is
Speaker 3: something that we really have. Our baby girl was this
Speaker 3: name and we didn't want nobody else to have this.
Speaker 3: So does Yo Derek have a middle name she can use?
Speaker 13: No, we gonna call her Dereka like we've been calling.
Speaker 13: You name your baby d D. Let's call your baby
Speaker 13: d D.
Speaker 15: Is you change y'all?
Speaker 13: Y'all change y'all baby name at the school.
Speaker 3: I'm not calling. I'm not calling.
Speaker 13: I don't give what you call it, but I'm not
Speaker 13: changing my baby name.
Speaker 3: Hey, listen, Okay, look, I'm trying to call you and
Speaker 3: handle this like adults, you know, but you're seeing the
Speaker 3: sit You're gonna push my foot and to take me
Speaker 3: to another level.
Speaker 13: You ain't calling me trying to handle You can just
Speaker 13: ask me to change my baby name, call my baby
Speaker 13: something else at the school because y'all want y'all baby
Speaker 13: name to be Derek and the only Derek in the school. Hey,
Speaker 13: you know how many other kids at the damn school got
Speaker 13: the same name.
Speaker 3: I understand that, but from my baby girl, it ain't
Speaker 3: supposed to be like that her. I'm throwing.
Speaker 15: I'm throwing for you, baby girl and your wife but
Speaker 15: you know I'm not changing my baby damn name. Y'all
Speaker 15: call y'all baby d No.
Speaker 3: What I'm trying to do is get it rectified that
Speaker 3: we can call.
Speaker 15: You get my phone number. I know that school ain't
Speaker 15: give you my number.
Speaker 3: I got your number. Don't worry about that, I got it.
Speaker 3: The problem is are we talking about right now? If
Speaker 3: can we what can we start calling your child? Give me?
Speaker 3: I know that's school ain't called you my bamn number. Listen, ma'am.
Speaker 3: All I'm trying to do is figure what can we
Speaker 3: start calling your daughter DA now she been doing?
Speaker 15: Call you and your right God need to go down
Speaker 15: to the f Statistics office and good child of the
Speaker 15: name I cond you something out the kind of name
Speaker 15: for her, but my dad to good teach the same
Speaker 15: day I name.
Speaker 3: Let me explain something to you. I've been trying to
Speaker 3: be calm with you. You're a horshow, But if you're
Speaker 3: gonna find something else to call out at me, I'm
Speaker 3: gonna go. I'm gonna get all the other heads number.
Speaker 13: How do you get my numbers?
Speaker 3: Don't worry about how I got the number. Listen to
Speaker 3: what I'm trying to tell you. If you don't find
Speaker 3: another name. I'm gonna start getting the kids to call
Speaker 3: your daughter something else.
Speaker 15: You're listening to call my baby siding I probably I'm
Speaker 15: with them. Everybody who called my boy stops.
Speaker 3: You're gonna have to change your baby name. I want
Speaker 3: my baby the name to be the Derek Joe Joe.
Speaker 3: How up? Get the extreme now, my prince, it's supposed
Speaker 3: to be the only one named Derika had a car and.
Speaker 15: Call it Yoda. This shopping else at the school.
Speaker 3: I'm going out these kids starting tomorrow at school calling
Speaker 3: your daughter. I'm not staying.
Speaker 13: I'm the side with you like this number.
Speaker 15: Hang um off, my phoney, don't come on right now.
Speaker 3: Let me tell you something about I got one more
Speaker 3: thing I need to say to you. You listen to me?
Speaker 3: What are you listening to me?
Speaker 15: I'm listening to you.
Speaker 3: What bless his nephew Tommy from the Steve Hobbin Morning Show.
Speaker 3: You just got franked by your girlfriend. Give her wait?
Speaker 15: Oh god, ain't got an even brank me on this saw.
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry you all right? Sor yes, I'm gonna
Speaker 3: give her friend who i'ma god? You baby? That is? Oh?
Speaker 13: I have go start if you got my nerves bad
Speaker 13: this morning, Lord have mercy.
Speaker 3: Lord, I gotta catch my brea. I got one more thing.
Speaker 3: I gotta ask you, darling, what is What is the
Speaker 3: baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio show in the land,
Speaker 3: seem the Morning Show.
Speaker 13: I listen to y'all every morning.
Speaker 15: Y'all crazy, y'all crazy, and Nord have mercy.
Speaker 3: Y'all got my blood.
Speaker 15: Brush up this morning. I love y'all.
Speaker 13: I listen to y'all show every morning.
Speaker 11: Your baby got my baby name. I'm telling you i'mnna
Speaker 11: take a name on this show.
Speaker 1: Nephew, Nephew Jr.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Nephew Jr. Nephew. Tell me he's been fine. I
Speaker 4: know it. I mean, will you let me have fifteen
Speaker 4: days in a row?
Speaker 9: Up?
Speaker 11: Can I just take fifteen?
Speaker 5: Right there?
Speaker 4: I knew it. You used up all your days with
Speaker 4: CHRISTI thank you.
Speaker 10: Coming up next to it is asked to see you, Lord,
Speaker 10: you're listening hard Morning Show coming up at the top
Speaker 10: of the hour and Entertainment news. Tim Braxton reportedly wants
Speaker 10: to leave Atlanta after a car robbery. Megan this Stallion
Speaker 10: says she's starting a new chapter in her life and
Speaker 10: little Ken says she did not approve of the Ebony
Speaker 10: magazine cover. We'll talk about all of these stories at
Speaker 10: the top of the hour, but right now it is
Speaker 10: time to ask the clo.
Speaker 1: This is from Brenn in Saint Paul.
Speaker 10: Brenn writes, my son's first grade teacher can't stand me,
Speaker 10: so I asked that he'd be moved out of her class.
Speaker 10: I have problems with her when my older son was
Speaker 10: in her class. She shouldn't be allowed to teach black
Speaker 10: kids at all. How do I get the principal to
Speaker 10: hear me out?
Speaker 4: Oh, oh, so you want to play the race card.
Speaker 9: Oh, she shouldn't be allowed to teach black kids at all. Well,
Speaker 9: I deal with that quite differently. So we can't get
Speaker 9: into what I do. Because when Winter was a little
Speaker 9: boy that we had a problem at the school that
Speaker 9: I thought was race, and it was it was. It
Speaker 9: was a little white boy that used to bully win
Speaker 9: to and he was step on his hand.
Speaker 4: He was a bigger boy, and he step on his hand.
Speaker 9: And went to come home and show me his hand
Speaker 9: that this boy he stepped on my hand when I
Speaker 9: be on play fround. So you know, I was trying
Speaker 9: to teach my son to, you know, whoop his ass.
Speaker 4: But I couldn't quite get that across.
Speaker 9: To him because my kids didn't go to school where
Speaker 9: you had to whoop ass. I did, and so I
Speaker 9: had to go up to the school and I explained
Speaker 9: to the teacher what I thought the problem was, and
Speaker 9: then I asked for a meeting with the administration, which
Speaker 9: was the principal, and I had the boy's father come
Speaker 9: up to the school and then that's when I introduced
Speaker 9: him to what racism looks like. And I don't know
Speaker 9: if you're gonna want to do that, because I wore
Speaker 9: a white T shirt up to the school with a
Speaker 9: big N on the front up and then we started
Speaker 9: the meeting like that, Yes, this is a true story.
Speaker 9: You became then when I was in there then, So
Speaker 9: you're not gonna do that. So now let's get back
Speaker 9: to what you should do.
Speaker 1: This is not another student.
Speaker 4: So now what that's the only racism, uh story? I had?
Speaker 1: So you can't help Brend. Is that what you're saying?
Speaker 9: All my other racism I was in college and I
Speaker 9: handled it with violence, So I don't have it. I
Speaker 9: ain't never had a teacher. All the teachers didn't like
Speaker 9: me because I was black. I wasn't doing good in
Speaker 9: school nowhere. My els was earned, So I can't really
Speaker 9: claim that on racism. I just I turned in bad
Speaker 9: and work, all right. What I'm saying is all you
Speaker 9: should do is you should demand a meeting, yeah, with
Speaker 9: the superintendent and the principal in school, and start building
Speaker 9: a fire. And if it's right, right and justified, then
Speaker 9: you have a case and maybe they could reprimmend and
Speaker 9: she'll start being walking a little bit more like. But
Speaker 9: you little baby ain't finn to be stopped being black.
Speaker 9: Welcome to America, all right.
Speaker 1: Moving on, thank you.
Speaker 10: Moving on to Aliyah in Indianapolis, got Aliah, what are
Speaker 10: you thinking? Alia writes, I've been with my fiance for
Speaker 10: five years and he told me that he possibly has
Speaker 10: a two year old daughter.
Speaker 1: I have a three year old with.
Speaker 10: Him, and I plan to marry him and continue loving him.
Speaker 10: How do I convince him to take the DNA test
Speaker 10: so we can move ast this?
Speaker 9: Well, look, if he's telling you he think he got
Speaker 9: a daughter, it's pod because he got more. Now, how
Speaker 9: do I convince him to do a DNA Well, you know,
Speaker 9: child supporters is if it ain't hit.
Speaker 4: It's coming.
Speaker 9: So I mean, you know now you don already said
Speaker 9: you're gonna stay with him and you can love it.
Speaker 9: Y'all need to just go ahead on. You're not finna
Speaker 9: break up with him. He being honest and bought this
Speaker 9: to you. So all you got to convince him to
Speaker 9: do a DNA test to But first he was testing
Speaker 9: the waters. I think I might have a two year
Speaker 9: old daughter. He's trying to see how that's gonna lay
Speaker 9: out there first. Then if you cool with it, he'll
Speaker 9: take the DNA. But you seem like you've already made
Speaker 9: that necessary for testing. Good luck to both of you.
Speaker 9: Life ain't perfect. You know, go ahead on. And he
Speaker 9: told him truth, but you know and you can.
Speaker 10: In some cases, yeah, because he was cheating and he
Speaker 10: knew that it would come out eventually.
Speaker 9: Yes, well, that ain't why he did it. The baby
Speaker 9: ain't finding come out eventually. The baby hell right, see
Speaker 9: you I don't I don't do the eventually. No, No,
Speaker 9: you got the problem got to be here right before
Speaker 9: we confess to ye, see the baby here. That's why
Speaker 9: he figured. He don't figure you might get busted. The
Speaker 9: bust is hill.
Speaker 4: I think all right, moving.
Speaker 10: On to Wilma and Huntsville, woman says, I was going
Speaker 10: through my man's phone and I saw Texas between him
Speaker 10: and his mom. He told her about our last argument,
Speaker 10: and he asked her for advice on dealing with my attitude.
Speaker 10: Should I be mad or let it go and be
Speaker 10: grateful that he even cares.
Speaker 12: That's the text between him and her mother, not his mother,
Speaker 12: her mother.
Speaker 4: Oh so he done went to your mama? Between him
Speaker 4: and my mother.
Speaker 16: Yeah, yeah, it was a text between him and the
Speaker 16: girl's mama, and he was asked her for advice on
Speaker 16: how to helen what you mad at him phone.
Speaker 9: Damn, he went to your mama. He didn't even go
Speaker 9: to his mama. He went to your mama, the one
Speaker 9: that made you. Who would better know what's wrong with
Speaker 9: you than the one who gave you birth and life?
Speaker 9: So now he didne went to her going, hey, hey, hey, apple,
Speaker 9: don't fall far from so let me ask you. So
Speaker 9: it's crazy hell for him, that's what she did. This
Speaker 9: is what she did. How do I handle this?
Speaker 4: Right here?
Speaker 9: Because he and he trying the problem solved, because figuring
Speaker 9: women out is an impossible text.
Speaker 1: He'll never be able to do that.
Speaker 4: So he just trying to find some help.
Speaker 9: Because brother, and listen to me, you will never have
Speaker 9: a more difficult task your life than to try to
Speaker 9: figure one of them.
Speaker 10: And that's why she's asking should she be mad or
Speaker 10: let it go and just be grateful that he even
Speaker 10: cares enough to call.
Speaker 9: All of them crazy though, all of them.
Speaker 4: Every last one of them.
Speaker 11: Yeah, her name Wilma already, So what age is we
Speaker 11: looking at?
Speaker 4: And how old them? Well, Wilma.
Speaker 9: They just get it up in there, you know, because
Speaker 9: they want to honor their grandmama and honor.
Speaker 4: The great grandmama.
Speaker 9: Baby, you go back, she texting her mama, So her
Speaker 9: mama ain't all that old. Her mama was probably Wilma.
Speaker 9: Mama could have been a mama, you know, sixteen something
Speaker 9: like that.
Speaker 1: You don't know.
Speaker 9: She probably grandmama at thirty eight. So you know, you
Speaker 9: just had to work through that. Sometimes that Wilma get
Speaker 9: passed down, the pay tribute to grandmama's and stuff like that.
Speaker 9: You know, it was a girl text us one time.
Speaker 9: Her name was Ernestine. She was twenty five. You know,
Speaker 9: it's some carryover right here. They had reached Lord Mercy,
Speaker 9: I'm gonna name you after your great grandmama. Yeah. Man,
Speaker 9: you you're sitting up been the job at of vocation.
Speaker 9: They come out to get you out of the room.
Speaker 9: Is here's it main up here?
Speaker 1: Thank you, Celia. We gotta go.
Speaker 10: Coming up at the top of the hour. We'll have
Speaker 10: some entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening
Speaker 10: Hardy Morning Show. Well, according to Hollywood Unlocked, Tamar Braxton
Speaker 10: recently posted on an Instagram some footage of her car
Speaker 10: being broken into at her luxury Atlanta apartment building parking garage,
Speaker 10: and now Tamar is ready to move out of Atlanta altogether.
Speaker 10: Tamar wrote quote, I hate it here. OMG. I mean
Speaker 10: everyone is a target. You just don't know. Tamar feels
Speaker 10: like she's being watched, but as a public figure, she
Speaker 10: stands out even more. It might be difficult for Tamar
Speaker 10: to relocate because she works for Dish Nation, which tapes
Speaker 10: in Atlanta. And if you recall back in twenty twenty one,
Speaker 10: she was robbed in calab Assa's I think so yeah.
Speaker 4: Well, nuts in crime.
Speaker 9: It is everywhere crime, and you know it's no running
Speaker 9: from that. We're in the falling world. You got robbed
Speaker 9: in tlabasts you got robbed first of all. You know
Speaker 9: when you do some precautionary stuff. Look y'all know you
Speaker 9: can't leave no whole lot of stuff in your car overnight.
Speaker 9: You can't leave no Christmas boxes on the front doorstep.
Speaker 9: You got to get you a doughbell camera like everybody else.
Speaker 9: It's things you have to do. You can't leave packages
Speaker 9: in your car. I mean some of the stuff. And
Speaker 9: I'm not blaming Tamark. She got victimized. Oh yeah, and
Speaker 9: the looking.
Speaker 4: At the tape. These low life ass people.
Speaker 9: You can't have nothing no more without some butthole coming along.
Speaker 9: It's too trifling to take their ass to work now.
Speaker 9: They won't take what you got.
Speaker 12: I mean, and on that video they just taking their
Speaker 12: time through, like going through her stuff. This is terrible.
Speaker 12: But you know you can't leave stuff in your car.
Speaker 12: You can't leave a backpack in your car. Even tell
Speaker 12: you that, don't leave nothing.
Speaker 4: But Tamar, Tamar is a really cool person.
Speaker 2: Man.
Speaker 4: What Tamar should do is just settle down, refocus.
Speaker 9: You can't keep moving and running, and you can't allow
Speaker 9: people to upset your life with every little blow of
Speaker 9: the wind.
Speaker 4: You left calibas, you move to Atlanta, you go, you go,
Speaker 4: what and listen to.
Speaker 9: Me, here's you know? Well, okay, I don't know. I
Speaker 9: don't want to sound. Look, probably your largest expense in
Speaker 9: your life will beat your home purchase.
Speaker 4: Yeah you know, nobody.
Speaker 9: Yeah, And it's and it's a worthwhile investment because you
Speaker 9: spend more time home than you do anywhere. Your off
Speaker 9: days is home, when you sleep at home, and it's
Speaker 9: the place you go to recuperate, rejuvenate. You've got to
Speaker 9: put yourself in the safest environment that you can. But
Speaker 9: we all know crime got car keys. Even if you
Speaker 9: move out way. Our criminals have car keys. They drive now,
Speaker 9: so they can find you. But try to limit your exposure.
Speaker 9: Get yourself in a secure garage, especially if you're a
Speaker 9: high profile person, and if you're a single woman. You've
Speaker 9: got to protect yourself with as many measures as you
Speaker 9: can afford to do. And your safety and and and
Speaker 9: well being and peace of mind is worth a little
Speaker 9: extra money.
Speaker 4: Because peace of mind, man is priceless.
Speaker 11: Can't find Steve Harvey right now.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not.
Speaker 9: I'm not, Look man, I don't yeah, yeah, I don't
Speaker 9: live behind no castle walls.
Speaker 4: I ain't got no moat around my house. I wish
Speaker 4: you to live.
Speaker 1: I still have to live.
Speaker 4: I do want to mote, though, I want.
Speaker 10: To dig all right?
Speaker 4: Had you in half? You belsh.
Speaker 3: All?
Speaker 10: Moving on to Meg the Stallion did a recent interview
Speaker 10: on entertainment tonight. She addressed to Justin Timberlake issue at
Speaker 10: the VMAs Plus. Megan said she's staying off social media,
Speaker 10: and she says she loves herself take a listen.
Speaker 17: And it took me a while to I always like
Speaker 17: to think of myself as a confident person. I always
Speaker 17: like to thought that I didn't care about much. I
Speaker 17: thought I was nonchalant. But it took me to go
Speaker 17: through things where so many people were talking about me
Speaker 17: constantly to where I had to realize, Okay, maf you
Speaker 17: know that's nonchalant to care for you as you thought
Speaker 17: you was. So I had to take a step back
Speaker 17: reevaluate myself. I had to get in a comfortable position
Speaker 17: with myself, and now I genuinely can say I'm in
Speaker 17: love with Megan.
Speaker 4: Good for her.
Speaker 12: She says she stayed off social media in that interview too,
Speaker 12: that's good.
Speaker 1: Good for her. She went through a lot and finally
Speaker 1: in entertainment news.
Speaker 10: Ebony Magazine released a release multiple covers for their Hip
Speaker 10: hop fiftieth anniversary issue. Lil Kim, Buster Rhymes, Swiss Beats,
Speaker 10: Rick Ross, and fifty Cent were all featured. However, Kim
Speaker 10: and some of her fans aren't feeling her cover. One
Speaker 10: person wrote, whoever did the editing needs to be fired? Okay,
Speaker 10: Little Kim's cover shot appears to have a lot a
Speaker 10: lot of airbrushing. The photography director Keith Major has responded
Speaker 10: to the backlash and said Little Kim wanted to be
Speaker 10: in She wanted to be in charge of her own
Speaker 10: retouching for her Ebony Magazine cover.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm gonna start doing that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, on a lot of magazine covers.
Speaker 9: What are you gonna I'm gonna get on now. I
Speaker 9: gotta start doing some touched. I'm an air brush? What
Speaker 9: is airbrush?
Speaker 10: When they I don't know, you know, they brush out
Speaker 10: your flaws all of that.
Speaker 1: You have perfect.
Speaker 4: A lot of rushing. That's a lot of damn rushing.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 9: I'm the next picture I take, I ain't gonna have
Speaker 9: no expression on my face. I'm gonna all the preases out.
Speaker 9: I'm gonna be sitting up here talking about Steve got botox.
Speaker 4: Finish.
Speaker 9: Hey man, let me tell y'all something. I'm finna figure out.
Speaker 9: I'm finna figure this game out right here. I'm gonna
Speaker 9: give me some pretty ass picture. I'm gonna be I'm
Speaker 9: gonna have people gonna be looking at me talking about
Speaker 9: that's your my mo.
Speaker 10: Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll talk
Speaker 10: about National First Love Day right after this.
Speaker 5: You're listening morning show.
Speaker 10: Well, earlier this week it was National First Love Day.
Speaker 10: We all encountered love with someone we admire, and this
Speaker 10: is the day to look back on the first time
Speaker 10: we ever did so. Steve, do you remember who your
Speaker 10: first love was? I know you do, because you never
Speaker 10: forget anything. Do you remember Patricia Turner?
Speaker 3: I knew it.
Speaker 1: You remember how old were you?
Speaker 9: I'm talking about real love. Well, I thought I could
Speaker 9: love a woman to do something about him.
Speaker 4: Okay, so this Patricia Turner, she was Patricia Turner.
Speaker 9: I wanted to take her to the prom because she
Speaker 9: was dating the older guy, and he took her to
Speaker 9: the prom. He wasn't he wasn't even in hospital. I
Speaker 9: didn't know what this was about. I got beat out
Speaker 9: by I just was just like Floyd. When she came
Speaker 9: to the prom and I saw him, it was no
Speaker 9: way I can with this ass right here. It was
Speaker 9: just it was it was just too much. I was
Speaker 9: just a little I was still a boy, you know.
Speaker 9: It wasn't nothing for I had job, but I was
Speaker 9: making enough money for me, so it kind of that
Speaker 9: was my heartbreak. And but then after the prom was over,
Speaker 9: the next day at the senior picnic was at Cedar
Speaker 9: Point Amusement Park. The girl I took went to my church.
Speaker 9: The biggest mistake I've ever made in my li I
Speaker 9: took a church girl to the prom and the after
Speaker 9: prom she was sleep at the after prom?
Speaker 4: Takele.
Speaker 1: Was it boring or it just wasn't what she did?
Speaker 9: She just went to sleep. I'm out there dancing with
Speaker 9: everybody else. Lord, I was dancing, so my ass off.
Speaker 9: I had these frand new Flag Brother shoes.
Speaker 4: Everybody.
Speaker 9: Hey man, y'all had to see my outfit. I don't
Speaker 9: know what the hell y'all talking me. I had to
Speaker 9: see my outfit. So I'm out here dancing. I'm I'm
Speaker 9: doing all the day, both corners, and I'm all of
Speaker 9: a mustards. I'm working it, you know, folk, Corners, Hollywood.
Speaker 1: You had a big jungle booget.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 9: So then the next morning we all went to the
Speaker 9: Senior picnic. I took her to that. She was asleep
Speaker 9: in the car. So we go to the senior picnic.
Speaker 9: We get on the ride and we're on the train
Speaker 9: going around. I look and I see Patricia Turner standing
Speaker 9: by herself looking at the fence, and she waved at me.
Speaker 9: When my train was going back. I jumped off the
Speaker 9: train climbed an eight foot fist because when I waved
Speaker 9: out her, she said I said, she said, have fun,
Speaker 9: priderick because old the girl, old Las dude talking me.
Speaker 9: I ain't going no damn mutingment park. I'm stilling like that.
Speaker 9: I'm a ship you too.
Speaker 4: I climbed an eight foot fist and spent the.
Speaker 9: Whole day with Patricia Turner. Next time I saw that
Speaker 9: drag date of mind, she was standing.
Speaker 4: At the car in the Parky.
Speaker 9: Never croking, what the greatest moments of mother life?
Speaker 10: Happy National First Love Day? Coming up at thirty four
Speaker 10: minutes after the hour, Well check your voicemail, Steve. Right
Speaker 10: after this you're listening Hardy Morning Show. It is time
Speaker 10: now to check your voicemail, Steve. If you want to
Speaker 10: leave a message for Steve, call him eight seven seven
Speaker 10: twenty nine. Steve eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve, you
Speaker 10: might just hear your call on the air. Here we go.
Speaker 10: This one's from Nick Nicks out of Kentucky. He left
Speaker 10: a message about college football.
Speaker 7: Hey, uncle Steve, this is Nick Fuckentucky.
Speaker 2: I heard you talking about Coach Prime and the impact
Speaker 2: he's made on college football, not just HPC used, but
Speaker 2: the college football scheme in the hole and hotality. Well,
Speaker 2: I was walking home, Me and my girl was walking leaving.
Speaker 7: The UK football game.
Speaker 2: And a halftime and I was over with her two
Speaker 2: young people talking about go Colorado, Go Colorado. Now here
Speaker 2: it's the University of k Chucky. I'm walking home nickelball
Speaker 2: game and uh, I look over my shoulder and having
Speaker 2: to beat your young brothers tell him about to go
Speaker 2: to Colorado here at the University of Chucky. That's not
Speaker 2: the only impact. That's a great impulset that these young
Speaker 2: boys are having to follow something this great. I love
Speaker 2: Coach Prime. I love what you do as well. Keep
Speaker 2: on doing his brother, I appreciate you.
Speaker 9: I appreciate you too, brother. Oh boy, yeah, it's very
Speaker 9: impunt here sports friends. Oh yeah, then impact that Prime
Speaker 9: is having right now on football, it's amazing.
Speaker 4: First of all, he's a he's a coach that who
Speaker 4: really care to coach?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 4: And here is here a personality?
Speaker 9: Yeah, most coaches are not personality. You ever listening to
Speaker 9: Nick Saban?
Speaker 4: Tough?
Speaker 9: Yeah? Dude, he no football, he'll yeah, hell yeah, Nick
Speaker 9: Saban no football?
Speaker 4: And I like him as a person. Just dry this much,
Speaker 4: put some paint on the wall and watch it.
Speaker 9: And I think that that's what And he's shocking so
Speaker 9: many people with his success. He's gonna change the face
Speaker 9: of football.
Speaker 4: I am telling you right now.
Speaker 9: Opportunities that will be in front of black people will
Speaker 9: be at a rate you've never seen before.
Speaker 10: All right, Uh, moving on to a fishing guy in Oklahoma, Steve.
Speaker 4: Oh, good morning.
Speaker 18: I know Steve doesn't hear these, but if you would,
Speaker 18: I'm in Oklahoma and I'm a fishing guy. He will
Speaker 18: be in Oklahoma at the Shock Talk Casino, which is
Speaker 18: thirty minutes away from the lake. I know he loves
Speaker 18: to fish. I would love to take Steve fishing and
Speaker 18: some of his people no charge. Bill Miller Keecks almost
Speaker 18: stripper guide.
Speaker 4: Is on my Facebook.
Speaker 18: Please see that he gets this because I know that
Speaker 18: he would love to catch some of these stripped bass.
Speaker 18: This is the best lake in the United States. Get
Speaker 18: back then, So thank you very much, please get this.
Speaker 4: Thank you. Damn man, what boy you got?
Speaker 3: What?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 9: Fishing, guys, stripers, I've only wished. I've only been striper
Speaker 9: fishing once, you know, he.
Speaker 1: Said as the best sending.
Speaker 9: Stripers are bads, not as large a mouth as a
Speaker 9: large mouth.
Speaker 4: They look different.
Speaker 9: They fight like like they damn they fight like pitt
Speaker 9: bulls and they big. Oh, they don't voluntarily come to
Speaker 9: the boat.
Speaker 1: No fish the.
Speaker 3: Man.
Speaker 4: I wish I had time.
Speaker 9: I'm thinking about that because I got another buddy up there,
Speaker 9: man that uh.
Speaker 4: Talk to me.
Speaker 9: Oh. I love fishing, man. I don't know everything there
Speaker 9: is to know about fishing. I fish with older guys
Speaker 9: sometimes and they teach me stuff.
Speaker 10: You know.
Speaker 9: I'm still learning about a lot of stuff. But I
Speaker 9: love fishing. Somebody asked me one day, would you rather
Speaker 9: play golf for fish?
Speaker 4: I said, I rather to fish, you know, the fake fishing.
Speaker 9: Yeah, because I know how to fish.
Speaker 4: Playing golf at the tribe.
Speaker 9: Yeah, I told that little why I wanted to go,
Speaker 9: and it goes man. You know, you know I know
Speaker 9: how to fish, so you.
Speaker 4: Know, so you consider.
Speaker 3: Weekend.
Speaker 9: I would man pending if I had enough time to
Speaker 9: see what a time I get to Oklahoma. That's the
Speaker 9: second date. It's because it's a day after California. I
Speaker 9: don't know what time I can get there, and then
Speaker 9: I can't be out there fishing.
Speaker 4: I got to work that night. You know.
Speaker 1: Okay, we're about the next day.
Speaker 9: You just stay over and go fishing with well, see,
Speaker 9: I gotta I can't tell you what I'm gonna do.
Speaker 4: Then me and my wife, I got a plan, you know.
Speaker 4: All right, Oh you're still married.
Speaker 9: Yeah, nobody's surprised.
Speaker 4: All right.
Speaker 10: Coming up next, we'll have the prank phone call for
Speaker 10: today from the nephew. But Junior's in for the nephew today,
Speaker 10: so we'll hear from Junior right after this.
Speaker 5: You're listening Hard Morning Show.
Speaker 10: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about
Speaker 10: four minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for today and
Speaker 10: the subject is scratchy and stubbly but I love him.
Speaker 1: We'll get into that and find out what that's all about.
Speaker 10: And just a few because right now Junior is in
Speaker 10: for the nephew with today's prank phone called Junior, what
Speaker 10: you got?
Speaker 11: I'll tell you I got. I got ninety seven days
Speaker 11: of pranks is what I've been doing. He've been here
Speaker 11: and I'm telling y'all I know, and this prank phone
Speaker 11: call is appropriate because I think this what the hell
Speaker 11: did happen?
Speaker 4: Because I know it. You can't tell me nothing different.
Speaker 4: I ain't crazy. I work plenty of jobs, and I
Speaker 4: don't know.
Speaker 11: If you ain't here for ninety nine days, it's a possibility.
Speaker 4: This is what happened.
Speaker 11: The prank today is your new boss, because David Tommy
Speaker 11: got one.
Speaker 4: We don't know his name, but he got a.
Speaker 1: New boss some day were you're sure of it?
Speaker 11: You if I have to tell the public one more time,
Speaker 11: another prank and he ain't here, and y'all don't tell
Speaker 11: me nothing.
Speaker 4: I know he has another job.
Speaker 11: It's no other way. We're paying all Tommy bills right now.
Speaker 11: How to hell your bills getting paid? He working somewhere,
Speaker 11: Tommy Jr. Junior, Tommy making money, Tommy got a TV show,
Speaker 11: Tommy Duke stand up, Tommy got radio show, Tommy got money.
Speaker 4: Man so do you. But look where you at.
Speaker 1: Case closed.
Speaker 9: See you're not talking about oh, you're talking about responsible.
Speaker 9: You're talking about this, yeah yeah, No, See you're talking
Speaker 9: about where he worked. But you you're you're you're talking
Speaker 9: about me. You're talking about discipline.
Speaker 12: Responsible does not responsible because he's on vacation as hell?
Speaker 4: Are you here possible, Steve when you're going make age?
Speaker 4: Because you be gone? So I be gone as hell.
Speaker 4: I call me what you want to call me when
Speaker 4: I'm on my damn vacation. But I'm out.
Speaker 9: But just but just what what you call me irresponsible?
Speaker 9: You can call me undisciplined. For what I do want
Speaker 9: you to call me.
Speaker 11: Is oh, let's go your new boss pray phone call
Speaker 11: for today.
Speaker 3: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach Jason place.
Speaker 14: Interesting. How can I help you?
Speaker 3: Hey? Jason, Uh, this is Lyle. I'm giving you a
Speaker 3: call a lot of human resources. Right. How you doing?
Speaker 3: You're performing the project guy out there?
Speaker 14: Yes I am, I'm the project manage. How can I
Speaker 14: help you?
Speaker 3: Listen? You've been training an individual out there, I think
Speaker 3: for the last month or so. You have you been
Speaker 3: training a uh yes, a.
Speaker 14: Great guy, doing great work, doing good Okay.
Speaker 3: I was, I think, is he coming along pretty good
Speaker 3: with everything? Oh?
Speaker 14: Man, he picking up real good, man. He learning trade.
Speaker 14: I mean he's picking up just like a love him
Speaker 14: to pick up. Take some young Wilker.
Speaker 3: And here's how many more weeks of training out there?
Speaker 14: I will say, probably about another week or two, or
Speaker 14: we let him, you know, put put him on his arm.
Speaker 3: Okay, do you think he'll handle it efficiently? Oh?
Speaker 14: Yes, I think he'd be a great, great employee.
Speaker 3: Okay, you've been with the company, how long?
Speaker 14: Going on? Stop? Seventeen years?
Speaker 3: Yeah, my records are telling me somewhere around sixteen plus, right, right, right,
Speaker 3: go on seventeen Okay, you've been with us quite a while.
Speaker 3: And well, first of all, let you know we're grateful
Speaker 3: of you, of the work that you're putting in.
Speaker 14: Oh man, I appreciate my man made man. I appreciate
Speaker 14: it to help the company. Man, and you know, being
Speaker 14: here to eat many years man.
Speaker 3: He let you know, man, I love my company exactly. Listen,
Speaker 3: we got a few adjustments we're gonna be making out
Speaker 3: there on the plant. Here's what we're gonna do now,
Speaker 3: he say, you gonna be done in about a week
Speaker 3: or two.
Speaker 14: Yeah, about a week.
Speaker 3: Because okay, here's here's what we're gonna do on that
Speaker 3: particular day that he gets released. And you you, you
Speaker 3: definitely know he's ready for everything. I'm gonna want you
Speaker 3: to give him your key card as well as the
Speaker 3: key to your office. I'm gonna want you to give
Speaker 3: him your key card that gets you actually onto the property.
Speaker 3: And and you have you have your own parking space too,
Speaker 3: don't you, Yes, I do. Okay, Now we're gonna need
Speaker 3: you to give it your key card and your office
Speaker 3: key and we'll we'll find you another place to park.
Speaker 3: He's actually probably gonna be parking in your space.
Speaker 14: Hold, hold on, what do you mean? You can't mean
Speaker 14: to give him my key hocking parking space, but your.
Speaker 3: Key card that gets you onto the property, the little
Speaker 3: little electrical card there right that as well as your office.
Speaker 3: He's gonna actually be taking over as project manager.
Speaker 14: No, no, sir, I'm not giving up nothing, sir, over
Speaker 14: the parket manager.
Speaker 3: Let's let's first of all, sir, let's do that. Let's
Speaker 3: stone the language down. Okay, we're gonna find a place
Speaker 3: for but for the time being, we're gonna put you
Speaker 3: back in until we find find no gang, I'll find
Speaker 3: a place.
Speaker 14: I mean my place. Well, I'm right now, I'm not
Speaker 14: moving from nowhere.
Speaker 3: That's all right.
Speaker 14: I'm not yanging at the signing. Nothing.
Speaker 3: I got seventeen years o.
Speaker 14: Ain't nobody sit to sign me? Not a place to move?
Speaker 3: You got to.
Speaker 14: Understand that part there. I got seventeen years up in
Speaker 14: here and chrain a young guy and this guy got
Speaker 14: a couple of months and you're talking.
Speaker 3: You just wanted to do what to me?
Speaker 14: Move me.
Speaker 3: Listen, this is a temporary move. We're gonna find something
Speaker 3: better for you.
Speaker 14: No, you ain't know whatever.
Speaker 3: This is a project.
Speaker 14: Ain't nobody got that understanding.
Speaker 3: This has come from the head, and the head who
Speaker 3: tell me who.
Speaker 14: The head is? I know the heade.
Speaker 3: This decision actually come from the vice president.
Speaker 14: No, they ain't told me none of that. It comes
Speaker 14: to me first.
Speaker 3: I'll tell you what, Jason, this is something I'm supposed
Speaker 3: to probably not tell you. But let me let me
Speaker 3: let you in on a little something.
Speaker 14: Let me hand on something because this is gonna be
Speaker 14: some bull him because I check the whole place up
Speaker 14: out here, and I.
Speaker 3: Mean, let me explain something to you, Jason. This young
Speaker 3: guy that you've been training. He is actually the next
Speaker 3: few of the vice president.
Speaker 14: I don't give a about no nephew or no vice
Speaker 14: president of mine. Do you think I care about some president?
Speaker 14: Tell him? Tell the president I said what I said
Speaker 14: him and.
Speaker 3: The next you?
Speaker 14: Who cares about the nextew? They ain't never told me
Speaker 14: none of this?
Speaker 3: Okay? Well, can I expect you to give your key
Speaker 3: over to him? No?
Speaker 14: Hell no, I ain't gitting nobody nothing. Don't get the
Speaker 14: law to come and get it. Ain't nobody getting nothing.
Speaker 14: I ain't leaving. How that sounds cirt.
Speaker 3: All I can ask you for is I need your
Speaker 3: key card and I need the key to your office.
Speaker 3: I need you to empty out your things so we
Speaker 3: can move Victor in there and own you a place.
Speaker 3: This is just a temporary slop right now.
Speaker 14: You them ain't nobody getting a thing.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 14: I done been here. I tell you what I'm gonna do.
Speaker 14: I go out there and I temp slapped this little
Speaker 14: fem okay, and then I find out who his boss
Speaker 14: is or whoever the Nesty votes to beach and kick
Speaker 14: hit because I ain't giving up nothing. And this is
Speaker 14: them talking about job y'all with the wrong one, okay,
Speaker 14: with the wrong one at this time.
Speaker 3: Abody, you're talking about beating the vice president's nephew. You're
Speaker 3: you're losing control here, Jason.
Speaker 14: No, I ain't losing nothing. I'm the only thing control
Speaker 14: I'm gonna lose. And when I kick it, how that sounds?
Speaker 14: And I'm gonna kick the boat to see all of them?
Speaker 14: How that sounds? And that makes it sound clear for you.
Speaker 3: No, We're trying to just give you someplace to be
Speaker 3: temporarily until I find you another slot.
Speaker 14: Ain't no other slot. My slot is my slot.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna kick it.
Speaker 14: Give ratt not how that sound to you.
Speaker 3: All I'm asking is I need your key card and
Speaker 3: I need the key to the office. Get all your
Speaker 3: things out so I can get Victor moved in within
Speaker 3: the next week.
Speaker 14: Ain't no keys, okay, all of them. I don't give
Speaker 14: a how that sounds. I don't care nothing about them. Okay,
Speaker 14: because I see you gonna make me somebody out here today. Okay,
Speaker 14: I'm tired of it and this ain't gonna happen to me.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna get security to come over and walk you out. Okay.
Speaker 14: No, ain't no security for to walk me no way
Speaker 14: how that sounds. I came here, ain't buy myself. Ain't
Speaker 14: nobody said to walk me up out in?
Speaker 3: Are you having problems moving out for the nephew.
Speaker 14: The nephew okay, the nephew is not gonna come in here.
Speaker 3: Take Okay, there's another nephew that you need to be
Speaker 3: aware of. Do you know who the other nephew is?
Speaker 14: Hell no, I ain't never seen no other nephew. I
Speaker 14: ain't know that was a nephew.
Speaker 3: Let me tell you who the other one is.
Speaker 14: Who the other one is the other one is.
Speaker 3: Nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Jason, you
Speaker 3: just got franked.
Speaker 14: Y'all aligned with me? Man, Come on, man, don't play
Speaker 14: with me, man, Jason, Yeah, Lilien, Man, this ain't no
Speaker 14: Tommy Man. Y'all need to put that man. Man, y'all
Speaker 14: don't know how long the brother man I worked I
Speaker 14: worked up man. Hey, man, I ain't me just.
Speaker 3: This baby, y'all.
Speaker 14: But man, Man, y'all.
Speaker 3: Got me good man, I got you, man, I got
Speaker 3: I got one thing to ask you, man, what's the
Speaker 3: baddest radio show in the.
Speaker 14: Last That Steve Hobby Morning sheperd.
Speaker 11: Y'all new boss with Tommy hands. I'm telling you, I
Speaker 11: know it.
Speaker 4: His boss on vacation. This is not vacation. We all here,
Speaker 4: we do have time.
Speaker 9: Take it, Tommy, I mean, junior, why don't you take
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Speaker 4: I need all my time for crisis.
Speaker 1: I can't.
Speaker 4: You don't have to use did I start hurting?
Speaker 11: I got to take off, so I got to take off.
Speaker 1: But you don't have to use your vacation days. All right,
Speaker 1: You're never gonna solve this. Coming up next the same time.
Speaker 4: I got off.
Speaker 10: Coming up next, it is today's Strawberry Letter. The subject
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Speaker 10: Junior's subject scratchy and stubby, but I love him just
Speaker 10: Stephen Shirley. I'm forty two years old and I've rekindled
Speaker 10: an old flame with a man from my past. I
Speaker 10: ran into him at the grocery store and he was
Speaker 10: wearing a skull cap and hoodie because it was a
Speaker 10: cold and rainy day. I was so excited to see
Speaker 10: him that I didn't focus in on his ungroomed facial hair.
Speaker 10: He asked me to meet him at a juice bar
Speaker 10: so we would catch up. We could catch up, and
Speaker 10: that's when I realized how much he has changed over
Speaker 10: the years. He showed up with the same skull cap
Speaker 10: on and I asked to see his hair. It was
Speaker 10: a big bush of naps and he hadn't combed in
Speaker 10: a while. He told me he washes it daily and
Speaker 10: lets it do whatever it wants to do. After that,
Speaker 10: he is very handsome, but he needs a haircut and
Speaker 10: he needs to s shave. The patches of hair on
Speaker 10: his face. I cannot even call it a beard. It's
Speaker 10: scratchy and stubby. And if he kisses me. It's painful.
Speaker 10: So I'm sure you're going to wonder why I continue
Speaker 10: to go out with this man that doesn't groom himself.
Speaker 10: It's been almost a year since we've reconnected, and it
Speaker 10: was a long winter last year. I was tired of
Speaker 10: being alone and cooking for just me, so I started
Speaker 10: seeing him regularly to pass the time. And I'm fallen
Speaker 10: and I've fallen back in love with him despite the prickly,
Speaker 10: itchy sex. I asked him if he'd consider cutting down
Speaker 10: his back hair, his leg hair, and his underarm hair
Speaker 10: a little bit, and he said it's not the manly
Speaker 10: thing to do. He sees how his body hair leaves
Speaker 10: find scratches all over my body, but he still won't
Speaker 10: groom himself. He's a clean man and he smells wonderful,
Speaker 10: but I'm sick of the scratchy, stubby sex. Since he
Speaker 10: won't compromise, Is it a sign that he doesn't care
Speaker 10: about me?
Speaker 1: Is this just a fling to him?
Speaker 10: Well, I just say forget about what it is to him,
Speaker 10: because this is about you. You're dating and sleeping with
Speaker 10: a man whose body hair leaves scratches all over you.
Speaker 10: Why I mean this has to be painful. It has
Speaker 10: to be uncomfortable for you. Does he care about you?
Speaker 10: You asked, Well, he must not care about your feelings,
Speaker 10: or he would shave quickly, itchy stubbly. Sex is not
Speaker 10: good sex that period. You don't have to do this.
Speaker 1: You don't have to be with him.
Speaker 10: Have you thought of stopping the intimacy until he shaves
Speaker 10: and grooms himself? Otherwise you're just taking whatever he gives
Speaker 10: you and not getting what you want. You want a clean,
Speaker 10: well shaven, well groomed man, and that's not too much
Speaker 10: to ask. You say, he won't compromise, and yet you're
Speaker 10: compromising way too much. And what does he mean it's
Speaker 10: not manly. It's very manly to shave and groom yourself,
Speaker 10: very much so. And most clean men, do you know,
Speaker 10: They may not do it all the time every day,
Speaker 10: but they certainly groom themselves and shave. You're only staying
Speaker 10: with him because you don't want to be alone. And
Speaker 10: I'm sorry, that's just not a good enough reason. You
Speaker 10: can do better, Steve.
Speaker 9: Well, Well, so this is the first letter in all
Speaker 9: the years of doing the Strawberry Letter. Uh huh, Well,
Speaker 9: a woman is dayton a superhero, a superhero. The fact
Speaker 9: what you're Dayton Wolverine. Really, it's fascinating to me. You're
Speaker 9: saying all the right things and wrong things at the
Speaker 9: same time, and that I don't understand. So let this
Speaker 9: be a lesson to all women who are compromised. But
Speaker 9: you have to understand what a compromise is. A compromise
Speaker 9: means you give a little, they give a little. You
Speaker 9: all meet in the middle, and that is the comp
Speaker 9: pro mind. That's how it's done.
Speaker 4: You give, he give.
Speaker 9: You're doing all the giving, and the giveing he doing
Speaker 9: is only enough to BENEFITEO. You rekindle a relationship with
Speaker 9: a guy used to day you're forty two, You saying
Speaker 9: the letters. You've been a long winner. You're tired of
Speaker 9: cooking for yourself and tie of being alone. That ain't
Speaker 9: no reason to just take anybody in anything. Come on now,
Speaker 9: tied to being I get it, but come on, you
Speaker 9: gotta think more of yourself. Matter at the grocery store
Speaker 9: had a skull cap in the hoodie because it was
Speaker 9: cold and raining. To seem you didn't focus on his
Speaker 9: ungroomed facial hair.
Speaker 4: You ain't see that.
Speaker 9: If I'm were you and I'm forty two and I
Speaker 9: run up in the woman I ain't seen in a while.
Speaker 4: I promise you I would notice her facial hand. I'll
Speaker 4: give you my damn word on me.
Speaker 1: Ain't don't wear a hell.
Speaker 4: David, I'm gonna not notice this.
Speaker 9: He asked me to meet him at a juice bar
Speaker 9: so we could catch up, and then that's when you
Speaker 9: realize how much he's changed over you. He showed up
Speaker 9: with the same skull cap on. I asked to see
Speaker 9: his hair. It was a big bush of naps that
Speaker 9: he ain't calmed in a while. He told me he
Speaker 9: washed it daily and let it do whatever you want
Speaker 9: to do. Next line, he is very handsome. What what
Speaker 9: did I just read?
Speaker 4: The same.
Speaker 9: You said he had a big bush and naps that
Speaker 9: he ain't combed in a while. He ain't combed his hand.
Speaker 9: What he told you he washed it daily and he
Speaker 9: let it do whatever he want to do?
Speaker 4: After that? Is he wearing the halftl of the halfstyle win?
Speaker 1: Hang on, we'll find out.
Speaker 10: We'll have part two of your response coming up at
Speaker 10: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter subject
Speaker 10: stubby and scratchy, but I love him. We'll get back
Speaker 10: into that right after this.
Speaker 5: You're listening Hardy Morning Show.
Speaker 10: All right, Come on, Steve, Let's recap today's strawberry letter.
Speaker 10: The subject is scratchy and stubby, but I love him.
Speaker 9: Letty ran up into an old flame one day, had
Speaker 9: a hoodie on the skull caps. She was so excited
Speaker 9: to see she didn't notice the ungloomed facial hair. I
Speaker 9: said earlier, and I will repeat. If I'm forty two
Speaker 9: and I run up in a woman and I ain't
Speaker 9: seen in a while, and I see her at the
Speaker 9: grocery store, I can assure you I will notice and
Speaker 9: pay attention to her ungrown facial hair. I'm gonna know this.
Speaker 9: I'm gonna know this right here. You're a woman and
Speaker 9: you got some damn facial hair. I fin to know that.
Speaker 9: I'm fin to know that. I'm gonna have to take note.
Speaker 9: I don't know what didnt happened, But then and then
Speaker 9: he asked me to meet him at the juice bar,
Speaker 9: so we can catch up at that point. If I
Speaker 9: see a woman and I'm forty two, and she got
Speaker 9: facial hair, I ain't seen it in a while. She's
Speaker 9: down at the juice bar by her. Damn, we ain't
Speaker 9: got to go down here and catch up on nothing.
Speaker 4: I done caught up. I seen what I oh.
Speaker 9: I ain't gonna hurt your feelings and say no, I
Speaker 9: ain't gonna meet you, but I ain't coming to the
Speaker 9: juice bar. You ain't seen then the while, you ain't
Speaker 9: got my note. It's called ghosting, all right. So she
Speaker 9: get down there. She ain't seen the Why I got
Speaker 9: the same scull cap on. You asked to see his hair.
Speaker 9: It was a big bush and naps, and he ain't
Speaker 9: calmed it in a while. He told me washington every
Speaker 9: day and let it do what it do. After that
Speaker 9: next line, he is very handsome. Damn, you ain't that line.
Speaker 9: I'm not gonna see what she I told you. She
Speaker 9: making a lot of statements. I don't understand. Ran up
Speaker 9: into a guy you ain't seen a while. You didn't
Speaker 9: notice his ungroom, facial hand. I run up into a
Speaker 9: woman I ain't seen it in a while. I'm gonna notice
Speaker 9: any facial hair. I don't give a damn what if
Speaker 9: there's one. It's this one curl coming off your chin.
Speaker 9: I'm gonna pick up on that. I'm gonna notice that,
Speaker 9: and I'm gonna make mental note of it. Now you
Speaker 9: do dated this man that don't calm wash, don't comb
Speaker 9: his hair, don't let it do nothing. It is looking
Speaker 9: nappy to you. It looks untain. And then right after
Speaker 9: that you say, and he's very handsome.
Speaker 4: How you know? He might be? But how do you know?
Speaker 9: But he needs a haircut, and he needs to shave
Speaker 9: the patches of hair on his face. I can't even
Speaker 9: call it a beer to scratch he and stubbly. If
Speaker 9: he kisses me, it's pain. So I'm sure you're going
Speaker 9: to wonder why I continue to go out with this
Speaker 9: man that doesn't groom himself. Everybody wanted that. Everybody listening
Speaker 9: to the Strawberry letup? What are you doing? You're going
Speaker 9: out with the man that doesn't groom himself? What now
Speaker 9: it goes crazy. It's been a year since we reconnected,
Speaker 9: and it was a long winter last year. I was
Speaker 9: tired of being alone and cooking just for me, so
Speaker 9: I took Wolverine in. He was out in the cold,
Speaker 9: living in a cave, and I decided, come on, Wolverine,
Speaker 9: you ain't got to live in a cave no more.
Speaker 4: Come on over here and stay with me.
Speaker 9: So I started seeing him regularly to pass the time,
Speaker 9: and I've fallen back in love with him.
Speaker 4: Yes, I'm in love with a superhan.
Speaker 9: I'm in love with him despite the prickly, itchy sets
Speaker 9: most animals have, harry prickly wild set. I saw a
Speaker 9: video two Kowala bears having set. They were tearing his
Speaker 9: skin off each other's back, and I guess, you know,
Speaker 9: for if I'm a wild ass animal, and that's what
Speaker 9: it is, that's what it is. I've seen a line
Speaker 9: climb up on the line this and hand set and
Speaker 9: bite it on the back of her neck.
Speaker 4: I've seen that on PEV folks. That ain't what I want.
Speaker 9: Bob Albert was doing this women though he was fighting
Speaker 9: women while he was having such as just being have
Speaker 9: a little line ass moments and stuff like that. It's
Speaker 9: just I'm just not in all that, like Thateve. I'm
Speaker 9: just going to he Hey, this is my turn with
Speaker 9: this letter. I'm just telling you, and you said I'm
Speaker 9: in love with him despite prickly itchy sex. Nobody won't
Speaker 9: that but you. I asked him if he considered listening
Speaker 9: to this cutting down his back hair leg hair and underarmed.
Speaker 4: Heir, what so it just ain't on his face?
Speaker 9: You done went out with sash Squatch or whatever his
Speaker 9: name is, Bigfoot, You done make big foot and just
Speaker 9: and it's just and under and had a little bit
Speaker 9: and he said, it's not the manly thing to do,
Speaker 9: or damn dog, it is grooming and taking care of yourself.
Speaker 9: Is cutting your hair? All this is manly? I don't
Speaker 9: is he familiar with this? Does the thing that thowns
Speaker 9: called the black Man's country Club, It's called the bober Shop.
Speaker 1: He spent a lot of time down.
Speaker 9: There because we have to groom ourself and then we
Speaker 9: have to honor our woman's wishes. Anyway, he sees how
Speaker 9: his body had leaves, fine scratches all over my body.
Speaker 9: And he still won't groom himself, but you still letting
Speaker 9: him climb on it, girl body. He's a clean man
Speaker 9: and he smells wonderful. What but I'm of the scratchy,
Speaker 9: stubbly sex. Since he won't compromise this it a side
Speaker 9: that he don't care about me? Absolutely good, Damn what
Speaker 9: you think? This is who I am? Just what I am,
Speaker 9: Just what I'm giving you? Taking a lead, Stop having
Speaker 9: sex with him till he groomed himself. Now, if he
Speaker 9: decides he'd rather stay ungroomed and have sex with you,
Speaker 9: he'd rather be scratchy, itally, itchy and prickly than to
Speaker 9: have sex with you or to be with you. You
Speaker 9: can find this out right away. Stop having sex with
Speaker 9: him until he grooms himself. If he won't groom himself,
Speaker 9: then y'all finish having.
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Speaker 10: Coming up at forty six minutes after the hour, we'll
Speaker 10: hear from Junior and Sports Talk.
Speaker 1: Right after this.
Speaker 10: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now
Speaker 10: for Junior and Sports Talk. Junior, what you got man off?
Speaker 11: Nick Chubb out for this season for the Browns. Man
Speaker 11: into itself in the game on Monday Night football against
Speaker 11: the Steelers.
Speaker 4: Horrible injury. Horrible, horrible injury.
Speaker 3: Man.
Speaker 9: I felt so bad from that young guy, man horrible.
Speaker 9: It was horrific. It was so bad. ESPN wouldn't even
Speaker 9: show it. Oh yes, but the pictures, the steel pictures
Speaker 9: of the actual man. This brother's leg was bent in
Speaker 9: a way I've never seen that before.
Speaker 11: Oh wow, didn't look good at all. And on top
Speaker 11: of that, Kareem Hunt though paid a visit to the Browns.
Speaker 4: Would you take him today? That bucket ball though?
Speaker 1: Man that day right now?
Speaker 11: Also up, man, let's go get to it, man, Dean Sanders.
Speaker 11: In the Buffaloes, Colorada, Buffalo is going up against or.
Speaker 4: Again number this would be their toughest test.
Speaker 11: Yes they twenty one point underdogs Colorado Colorado is yes.
Speaker 9: Yeah they They was twenty one point under dog against
Speaker 9: Tulane too, but they had Travis Hunter. But they had
Speaker 9: Travis Hunter, Trafford Hunter. Travis Hunter is out. It's gonna
Speaker 9: be tough now that late hinter. This boy is getting
Speaker 9: these death threat He doesn't deserve death threats for that
Speaker 9: late hit.
Speaker 4: But here's the problem.
Speaker 9: Any other time they review stuff, like if there's a
Speaker 9: fight in the NFL or colleague, they review it even
Speaker 9: after the game is over and they hand out suspensions.
Speaker 4: They now review targeting.
Speaker 9: And if they missed the call on the field, they
Speaker 9: review targeting and put people out. This was a blatant
Speaker 9: late hit. Absolutely, Why nothing has happened to this player
Speaker 9: is beyond me, especially with the severity of the injury
Speaker 9: they've got.
Speaker 4: This guy got. Yeah, man, because that's a late hit.
Speaker 9: Y'all missed it on the field, but if you miss targeting,
Speaker 9: you go.
Speaker 4: I can review that.
Speaker 9: They review fights and issue punishments a week after the
Speaker 9: game over with, and that if they had given something
Speaker 9: to this guy that I believe that would squash the
Speaker 9: death threats. Now that death threats are unfair. It's unfair because.
Speaker 12: It's a football came out against that. He spoke to
Speaker 12: He said, stop that, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 11: Yeah, all right, well man, let's talk about this. Giants
Speaker 11: forty nine is tonight? Who you got forty nine?
Speaker 4: Giants can't be What is we talking about?
Speaker 14: Yeah?
Speaker 4: What we're doing it for? Party? Samuel defense? You know
Speaker 4: Saquan Is he hurt? Yeah, he's out. We were talking
Speaker 4: about folk.
Speaker 7: What is.
Speaker 4: Come on?
Speaker 11: Sports?
Speaker 9: Right?
Speaker 4: All right? Upset? Game of the Week Colorado, Oregon? Okay, okay,
Speaker 4: let's not.
Speaker 1: Coach Money's on. Coach Prime are coming up. At the
Speaker 1: top of the hour.
Speaker 10: A woman needs some social media advice Steve, her boyfriend
Speaker 10: doesn't listen when she says she won't marry again. We'll
Speaker 10: talk about it right after this. You're listening Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 10: All right, Steve Leslie on Facebook Rights. I got married
Speaker 10: young and we had a son when I was twenty.
Speaker 10: My husband was emotionally abusive and we divorced after three years.
Speaker 10: I've been dating my current boyfriend for five years now,
Speaker 10: and he's a wonderful man, and my son adores him.
Speaker 10: I've told him many times that I don't ever want
Speaker 10: to get married again, but he basically just ignores what
Speaker 10: I say and talks about how we will get married
Speaker 10: one day. Last night, I told him that if getting
Speaker 10: married is important to him, then we should break up,
Speaker 10: and he left mad and didn't come home. I'm worried
Speaker 10: about how this is going to affect my son. I
Speaker 10: don't really want to break up with my boyfriend, but
Speaker 10: if I refuse to ever get married again, what should
Speaker 10: I do?
Speaker 4: Well, tell a person what to do.
Speaker 9: But sometimes you take the baggage and you carry it
Speaker 9: too far. Why don't you give that baggage over to God.
Speaker 9: He got you out of the mentally abusive relationship. That
Speaker 9: doesn't mean all relationships are abusive. You being with this
Speaker 9: guy for five years. You absolutely love him. He treats
Speaker 9: your son wonderful. You're not in an abusive marriage, but
Speaker 9: you're not an abusive relationship. But you think if you
Speaker 9: get married, all of a sudden, this guy is going
Speaker 9: to become what you had before. That's not fair to yourself, right,
Speaker 9: It's not fair to your relationship with God. It's amazing
Speaker 9: how God delivers us from things, and then we keep
Speaker 9: revisiting it. God gets us through something and we keep
Speaker 9: taking it with us. God get us over something, and
Speaker 9: we keep wringing it back up. You can't drive your
Speaker 9: car looking in the rear view mirror. So now you
Speaker 9: want to resign yourself to being a girlfriend the rest
Speaker 9: of your life when you clearly have a man who
Speaker 9: wants to honor you, put a ring on your finger,
Speaker 9: have a family, and treat you right. But you don't
Speaker 9: want that because you was in a bad relationship.
Speaker 4: Girl.
Speaker 9: Come on, now, this is two separate dudes. He's proving
Speaker 9: it for five years. Why would you not give.
Speaker 4: Yourself, your child, your.
Speaker 9: Family, your life a chance now if that's just not
Speaker 9: what you want now, if you don't want to be married,
Speaker 9: you don't like being in a monogamous relationship and committee it.
Speaker 9: What's the boyfriend fault? See, I don't, you don't. It's okay.
Speaker 9: Let me ask you a question, young lady. Is it
Speaker 9: okay if your boyfriend see other people?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 4: Probably not, probably not. Okay? Are you trying to see
Speaker 4: other people?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 4: She's cool, it is, yeah, okay, so cool.
Speaker 8: Now.
Speaker 9: I don't ever want to get married again, but you.
Speaker 4: Want to act married. Yeah, I'm missing the point.
Speaker 9: And for all of you women out there that's gonna
Speaker 9: be hating on me talking about Steve. She ain't got
Speaker 9: to get married or she don't want to, she don't.
Speaker 9: But let's be honest about the reason why I want
Speaker 9: to be somebody somebody, prince.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I want to belong to somebody.
Speaker 9: I want to be thought of first by somebody.
Speaker 4: You don't want that. You don't.
Speaker 9: You don't want a man to put you on a
Speaker 9: pedestal and honor you.
Speaker 4: You don't honesty? Why you would not want Yeah, she
Speaker 4: doesn't want?
Speaker 9: Okay, Well then you shouldn't be in a relationship.
Speaker 4: No, I just don't want to be married.
Speaker 9: But y'all playing married though y'all live for you live together.
Speaker 4: He left in come back you hurt the man. Man.
Speaker 9: If a man tell you want to marry you, that's
Speaker 9: an ultimate commitment for anybody.
Speaker 4: And you tell him.
Speaker 9: If I don't want to get married, If that's the
Speaker 9: deal breaker, you should we should break up.
Speaker 4: Okay, All right now when you.
Speaker 9: Walk away, Yeah, if you don't want him, okay, because
Speaker 9: I don't lie. The women gonna sign up for this one. Yeah,
Speaker 9: and I don't know what you're gonna tell your boy. Yeah,
Speaker 9: if he wanted us, but I didn't want him to
Speaker 9: want us, that he wanted us too much because.
Speaker 1: Of how your daddy treated me five years ago.
Speaker 4: It's just too much, won't.
Speaker 1: Too much loving?
Speaker 4: All right?
Speaker 10: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming
Speaker 10: up at twenty minutes after the hour. Right after this,
Speaker 10: you're listening Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, Elevate You
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Speaker 4: It is a.
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Speaker 4: It works. How great timeline.
Speaker 9: I was out of shape in January. It got announced
Speaker 9: in October that I was fat and wheezy?
Speaker 4: Why is he doing? Right after that the product came out.
Speaker 9: I'm just helping y'all understand how God works in mysterious ways.
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Speaker 10: After the hour, we'll play another round of would you rather?
Speaker 10: Right after this you're listening hard Morning Show. It is
Speaker 10: time now for another round of would you rather? Would
Speaker 10: you rather be friends with someone you were in love? With,
Speaker 10: or would you rather be married to someone you secretly hate?
Speaker 9: Huh?
Speaker 10: You want to be friends with someone you you are
Speaker 10: in love with, or you want to be married to
Speaker 10: someone that you secretly hate.
Speaker 1: You can't stand this person.
Speaker 9: I've been married to that person. That ain't no fun
Speaker 9: at all. I sely hated her and she openly hated me.
Speaker 9: Something I've had it the best of both will and
Speaker 9: the only reason I secretly hated hush because I didn't
Speaker 9: want to say it out loud, but I did. But
Speaker 9: she was openly hating me secretly, I developed the hate.
Speaker 9: It was an incredible relationship. We shared a hate. We
Speaker 9: shared a hate, and so I've done that before. So
Speaker 9: what is option eight?
Speaker 10: Would you rather be friends with someone you love, you're
Speaker 10: in love with?
Speaker 9: You're a Marjorie friend Marjorie right now? I kid you,
Speaker 9: not including all my dudes. Marjorie is my best friend.
Speaker 1: That's right, should be?
Speaker 3: Ye?
Speaker 9: Well, it's not as it should be. You should be
Speaker 9: your wife doesn't have to be your best friend. She
Speaker 9: could just be your friend. Your best friend oftentimes is
Speaker 9: one of your boys. It's always been that way for me.
Speaker 9: It's never been My best friend was my wife before
Speaker 9: My best friend has always been my homies. I've discovered
Speaker 9: something over the years. My best friend now happens to
Speaker 9: be Marjorie. But do I have some great friends?
Speaker 4: That's homies?
Speaker 9: Ride or die? I'm talking about make a phone call
Speaker 9: in it go down, hey man? Like he man, Amen,
Speaker 9: Like that scene in the movie, Hey man, I'm getting
Speaker 9: ready to go hurt some people. You could never ask
Speaker 9: me what it's about now or later. The dude looked
Speaker 9: at him and said, who car we take?
Speaker 4: That's all I got some cats like that? Yeah, friendship,
Speaker 4: all right?
Speaker 5: Which marginie?
Speaker 4: She not that way, baby, I'm going down here to
Speaker 4: hurt some people.
Speaker 9: Know you not know you're not not that? Yeah, we
Speaker 9: got to I draw the line with her right there.
Speaker 9: She can't do that. I got some cat talking call
Speaker 9: for this.
Speaker 10: Would you rather go bald or would you rather have
Speaker 10: a high pitched voice?
Speaker 4: Surely we missed it.
Speaker 1: Repeat would you.
Speaker 10: Rather go bald or would you rather have a high
Speaker 10: pitched voice?
Speaker 12: Well?
Speaker 4: We very much one. I'm fighting? He said, Yeah, damn
Speaker 4: what her? You got both.
Speaker 7: Her?
Speaker 4: You got a high pitched boy? Then you're going bold
Speaker 4: your answer? What you want to do? That's what was
Speaker 4: in here.
Speaker 9: You're talking about I'd rather go bald all you.
Speaker 1: Let him speak in his lower lower voice.
Speaker 4: Go ahead me okay from the thread in my lowest voice. Dude,
Speaker 4: you go. You gonna stop talking about me a rather.
Speaker 3: Well?
Speaker 1: Close out the show and just a few right after this.
Speaker 5: You're listening morning show.
Speaker 10: All right, guys, here we are last break of the
Speaker 10: day on this Thursday. As always, it's been a good day.
Speaker 10: And Steve, we have one more phone call for you
Speaker 10: before we get out. Uh, this is a guy who
Speaker 10: needs some life motivational advice. You're going on a big
Speaker 10: motivational speaking tour, so this is a great call.
Speaker 7: Hey, what's going on, Steve? Morn and cool keeping listening
Speaker 7: to you. Hey, I just had a quick question. Man,
Speaker 7: I feel like I have a calling on I know
Speaker 7: I have a calling on my life because so it
Speaker 7: burns inside of me when I think about it. You
Speaker 7: know what I'm saying. But I have a calling on
Speaker 7: my life, and I believe not only put me and
Speaker 7: my family on a different level, but it will also
Speaker 7: help a lot of other people. But I'm not being
Speaker 7: consistent about it. I'm being just a beating about it,
Speaker 7: and I'm not I'm not going after it like I should.
Speaker 7: What you suggest I can do to keep me focused,
Speaker 7: and you keep me consistent about it and about it.
Speaker 7: I appreciate it in a day.
Speaker 4: Thank you.
Speaker 9: It's simple. It's very simple. What I answer I'm about
Speaker 9: to give you. It's very simple, but it's hard. You
Speaker 9: have to become disciplined. Discipline is doing what you have
Speaker 9: to do even when you don't want to. See to
Speaker 9: answer the calling on your life, it requires some discipline
Speaker 9: because that calling.
Speaker 4: You don't want all to come with the calling.
Speaker 9: I've oftentimes not wanted everything that comes with my calling.
Speaker 9: But you it eats away at you. You have to
Speaker 9: answer the call. You not answer the call. You just said, brother,
Speaker 9: it will make a better way for your family, your
Speaker 9: life and everything. But you also are looking at the requirements,
Speaker 9: and that's what's got you shaking. You ain't consistent because
Speaker 9: you wake up some days and you just don't want
Speaker 9: to do that today. Discipline is doing what you have
Speaker 9: to do even when you don't want to do it. So, bruh,
Speaker 9: you have to become disciplined. Discipline is the key to
Speaker 9: becoming successful. Without discipline, you cannot become successful.
Speaker 4: You just can't.
Speaker 9: And discipline is hard to do. Discipline is hard to develop.
Speaker 9: It's hard to wake up and do something that you
Speaker 9: have to do, do something you don't want to do,
Speaker 9: and got to do it anyway.
Speaker 4: It's hard, man.
Speaker 9: But those that honor the discipline are the ones that
Speaker 9: have different types of lives. And you get to make
Speaker 9: that choice. God gives us the power of decision. We
Speaker 9: all get to decide who we are, what we gonna be,
Speaker 9: and the moment you stop trying, you have to now
Speaker 9: make the adjustment to settle in, well, this is my life.
Speaker 9: If you say this is my life, this is what
Speaker 9: I resigned myself to, then that's guess what. That's what
Speaker 9: your life is to be. And if you ain't happy
Speaker 9: with it, that's your God ain't stopped you from dreaming.
Speaker 9: God didn't stop you from believing you did. That's yourself.
Speaker 9: When you stop dreaming, that's you. When you quit believing
Speaker 9: that's you. That decision occurs in your mind, between your
Speaker 9: temples and your earloads. Those decisions are made up there you. You,
Speaker 9: you are the foreman of your brain. You just have
Speaker 9: to understand that your brain is operated in two halves.
Speaker 9: You have a positive side and a negative side, a
Speaker 9: foreman is in charge of the negative side, and a
Speaker 9: foreman is in charge of the positive side, and a
Speaker 9: foreman is in charge of the negative side. Who you
Speaker 9: called to the forefront to give instructions to every day Because.
Speaker 4: You're the CEO, you're the ball.
Speaker 9: If you say, well, man, I don't walk up on
Speaker 9: the wrong side of the bed, Man, I don't feel
Speaker 9: myself today, then guess what. That's a negative thought. The
Speaker 9: forman that's in charge of the negative sides. Come to
Speaker 9: the front of your brain, that starts issuing workers orders today.
Speaker 4: Well, boss man said he got up on the wrong
Speaker 4: side of the bed. To day.
Speaker 9: Boss man said he don't feel himself today. Let's get
Speaker 9: to work and the workers on the negative side, and
Speaker 9: the brain starts manufacturing.
Speaker 4: Thoughts to justify and fulfill the command of the CEO.
Speaker 9: On the other hand, if you wake up and say, Lord,
Speaker 9: I thank you for this day. I'm grateful. I'm expecting
Speaker 9: great things to happen to me. I'm looking for a
Speaker 9: life of abundance, and if anything happens contrary to that,
Speaker 9: I expect you to give me the strength and the
Speaker 9: will and the discipline to forge forward.
Speaker 4: Guess what the forman that's.
Speaker 9: In charge of positive thoughts, turns around and says, okay,
Speaker 9: fellas you heard the CEO today, it's gonna be a
Speaker 9: great day today. We expect great things today and if
Speaker 9: anything were to happen, gonna give us the strength and
Speaker 9: fortitude to forge forwards. And that's what gets produced. It's
Speaker 9: called discipline. Whenever I meet anybody and they are falling
Speaker 9: short of their dreams, always check them on their discipline,
Speaker 9: because y'all.
Speaker 4: It's really up to you. You ain't gotta get mad
Speaker 4: and nobody else. You have the power of choice.
Speaker 9: You get to decide now if you're gonna sit in
Speaker 9: your life and accept it the way it is. Whatever
Speaker 9: cards life then dealt you, and you're gonna just play
Speaker 9: that hand right there. You ain't gonna try to get
Speaker 9: no new cards. You ain't gonna go and pull from
Speaker 9: the deck. You ain't gonna try to embedter your hand.
Speaker 9: You just these the five cards I got. What That's
Speaker 9: not how this worked. You can change cards, man, if
Speaker 9: you don't like the hand.
Speaker 4: Now, listen to me. Do we all have some cards
Speaker 4: in our hands we don't want?
Speaker 9: Of course, you canna have the lowest card in the deck,
Speaker 9: A deuce. But if you get four deuces, you fin
Speaker 9: to win. Three deuces can win, Homie. You understand you
Speaker 9: can take something. God has the ability to take something
Speaker 9: bad and turn it into it. Man, you pick your hand, Man,
Speaker 9: I got it. Two a spade. You playing spade? You
Speaker 9: pick up your card. I got three of spade, Man,
Speaker 9: I got four spade. Pay I'm all these low ass spades.
Speaker 4: Keep picking.
Speaker 9: You mess around, and you got seven spades in your hands.
Speaker 9: I don't care if it's two through eight. You fit
Speaker 9: the win, Homie, you fit in the win. Now, Brother,
Speaker 9: get this, talk to God to THEAYD love to hear fro.
Speaker 4: Y'all have to friend.
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