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Speaker 2: Good morning everybody.
Speaker 5: You're listening to the voice, Come on, dig me now,
Speaker 5: one and only Steve Harvey, I got a radio show,
Speaker 5: just trying to give God some back, just some back
Speaker 5: of what even gave me, just a portion, you know.
Speaker 5: Just I'm just trying, man to to show some type
Speaker 5: of gratitude for all his blessings. I'm just trying to, man,
Speaker 5: just get it right sometimes, you know what I mean.
Speaker 5: I mean, man, you just can't do what you want
Speaker 5: to do and just live wrong all the time. Man,
Speaker 5: you gotta at one point in time, Steve, come home. Man,
Speaker 5: come on, man, you could do better.
Speaker 2: I know you can. You know saying and you know
Speaker 2: what I had to do.
Speaker 5: I had to stop saying I'm gonna try to do better,
Speaker 5: and I just had to say, hey, man, I'm going
Speaker 5: to do better. You know, trying is just to put
Speaker 5: forth in effing and then if it don't work, well okay.
Speaker 5: But if you make up in your mind that I'm
Speaker 5: going to do something, then trying isn't enough. It's getting
Speaker 5: it done is the only thing that matters. See, it's
Speaker 5: the difference between doing and trying. We're gonna try to
Speaker 5: win the game, or we're gonna go out here to
Speaker 5: win the game. Now, trying to win the.
Speaker 2: Game means that you could lose.
Speaker 5: But when you got in your mind made up, most
Speaker 5: athletes will tell you that they go out there with
Speaker 5: the full intent and purpose of winning and winning only
Speaker 5: see they don't put the second place finish on the
Speaker 5: cover of Sports Illustrated.
Speaker 2: Second place don't get you there.
Speaker 9: You you got to win.
Speaker 5: And now take it out of the scope of athletics,
Speaker 5: but keep it in that type of analogy. In life, man,
Speaker 5: you just want to you want to win in life,
Speaker 5: don't you. I mean, at the end of the day,
Speaker 5: don't you want to be on the cover of Sports Illustrated.
Speaker 2: In life? Don't you want to be recognized for your
Speaker 2: hard work?
Speaker 5: Don't you want, you know, to be recognized within the
Speaker 5: bonus structure down at your job.
Speaker 2: Don't you want to have your plaque up on the
Speaker 2: wall down at your job?
Speaker 5: I mean most people do. Some people could care less.
Speaker 5: Some people don't care about looking good or being their best,
Speaker 5: And that's cool. But I ain't talking to them though.
Speaker 5: I'm talking to you. I'm talking to those of you
Speaker 5: who want to be the best you can be. You know,
Speaker 5: people kill me when they getting mad at people and
Speaker 5: he Brown knows and he all up on the employee
Speaker 5: of the month man, the dude doing his job to
Speaker 5: the best of his ability, and he getting recognized for it?
Speaker 2: What they got to do with all that you're talking about?
Speaker 2: Because you ain't up there.
Speaker 5: There's amazing, man, how people describe other people's success. He's
Speaker 5: so lucky lucky? Hey man, do they kind of get
Speaker 5: you a little bit when people call you lucky? Well,
Speaker 5: let me tell you what luck really is, y'all. Lucky
Speaker 5: is when hard work bumps up into opportunity. Some people
Speaker 5: call that luck. But hold on, let's think about this.
Speaker 5: If you wasn't working hard, an opportunity presented itself, what
Speaker 5: would you call that? But see, when you've been working
Speaker 5: hard and opportunity presents itself and it bumps up in
Speaker 5: each other. Now people want to call that luck, but
Speaker 5: hold up, he got to park though today, ain't paying
Speaker 5: no attention to Yeah, that opportunity came by, But if
Speaker 5: you had not been working hard, and the hard work
Speaker 5: had not ran up in the opportunity, what would you have? No, sir,
Speaker 5: it's not luck, it's work. It is work, because there's
Speaker 5: a scripture that said faith without works is dead. But
Speaker 5: my mama was a Sunday school teacher. She taught me enough.
Speaker 5: Though Now I know difference between right and wrong, just
Speaker 5: like you do. You ain't got to you know, it
Speaker 5: kills me when people write a strawberry letter?
Speaker 2: Am I wrong for this?
Speaker 7: You know?
Speaker 10: Well?
Speaker 2: Look at listen read your letter?
Speaker 9: Are you wrong for this?
Speaker 3: You know you're wrong?
Speaker 5: What you don't need else to be telling you know?
Speaker 5: But I'm gonna do this anyway. Well else, hee, Go ahead, though,
Speaker 5: do what you want to do. But you know what, y'all,
Speaker 5: here's the best advice I can give you. This is
Speaker 5: what I really came to talk about this morning, but
Speaker 5: I got sidetracked because I listened. Get out of your
Speaker 5: own way. So many of us are blocking our home
Speaker 5: blessings were just in our own way. We are in
Speaker 5: our own way, and one of the most dangerous ways
Speaker 5: you can get in your way is to do it
Speaker 5: your way, to get it figured your way, and to
Speaker 5: lock in on your way. And this the way it's
Speaker 5: got to go. Do you know how many people are
Speaker 5: blocking their blessing? Do you know how long I block mind?
Speaker 5: With that mindset right there? Look, because this the way
Speaker 5: you do it, you think that makes it the right way?
Speaker 5: You think jazz because you done thought on it long
Speaker 5: and hard, and that's what you really want.
Speaker 2: Do you really think that your way is the right
Speaker 2: way or could that be a better way? See?
Speaker 5: Until I started listening to God and started paying attention
Speaker 5: to his way, man, I was spinning my wheels.
Speaker 2: Man. I was out here so determined this how I
Speaker 2: was gonna do it.
Speaker 5: But you know, I had to learn how to get
Speaker 5: out of my own way because just because I could
Speaker 5: do it my way didn't mean it was the right way.
Speaker 5: I had to get out of my own way. Just
Speaker 5: get out your way, man, Now, what what does that mean?
Speaker 5: That means, See, set your goals, That means have your dreams.
Speaker 5: I'm saying, set your goals, man, I ain't saying, don't
Speaker 5: set goals.
Speaker 2: Listen to me. Set your goals. What is it you
Speaker 2: want to happen?
Speaker 9: What is it you like to have, What is it
Speaker 9: you like to be? What do you aspire to?
Speaker 2: Set your goals and set your dreams.
Speaker 5: Now, take your goals and your dreams to God and
Speaker 5: ask God to show you how. Man, you can save
Speaker 5: yourself a lot of pain. Listen to somebody who did
Speaker 5: it his way for so long. And when I finally
Speaker 5: got out of my way, out of my own way.
Speaker 5: When you've heard old people say, let go and let God,
Speaker 5: you've heard them say that I didn't. I didn't get it,
Speaker 5: but I got it. Now let go and let God.
Speaker 5: And it's amazing little saying. Though now you know you
Speaker 5: may not get it now. It took me a bunch
Speaker 5: of years to get it too. But when I took
Speaker 5: my goals and my dreams and my vision to God
Speaker 5: and I said, God, this is what I hope for,
Speaker 5: this is what I aspired to, this is what I
Speaker 5: want to be, this is why I would love to
Speaker 5: get to. Then I said, help me show me how,
Speaker 5: point me in the right direction, Let me follow your footsteps,
Speaker 5: guide me and give me a spirit of discernment. Show
Speaker 5: me who wrong? Because I meet people every day. Ain't
Speaker 5: up to no good with me every single day.
Speaker 2: Oh man, man, I can't believe.
Speaker 5: I want to be to you. Man, the Lord told
Speaker 5: me something was gonna happen to me today. Well, see,
Speaker 5: I talked to him every day. He did not mention
Speaker 5: you to me. He ain't said nothing to me. He
Speaker 5: didn't tell me what was gonna happen in mine. Now
Speaker 5: I don't mean it can't happen because I'm open to it.
Speaker 5: So really, man, I'm proud, and please know I'm listening
Speaker 5: as well as I've ever listened before. But get yourself together, though,
Speaker 5: see know your goals and your and then let God
Speaker 5: show you how to do it.
Speaker 9: He'll do it. You know.
Speaker 5: It's so important everybody, that you get focused, that you
Speaker 5: aim for something, that you dream of something, that you
Speaker 5: aspire to something. But it's the most the best thing
Speaker 5: you can do. After you do all that, Man, get
Speaker 5: God involved in it. Man, talk to him. I mean,
Speaker 5: why would you not what you got to lose? You
Speaker 5: ain't got to go down there and make no big
Speaker 5: scene and run laps around the church and run up
Speaker 5: there and throw yourself on the altar and scream and
Speaker 5: flip over and throw money in the ad.
Speaker 2: You ain't got to do that. This you and God, man,
Speaker 2: This you and God.
Speaker 5: You know you got to serve and praise him the
Speaker 5: way you do it. You gotta let nobody else tell
Speaker 5: you how it's done. It's a personal relationship. People kill
Speaker 5: me if you don't do it this way. If you
Speaker 5: don't come here to this church and you don't run
Speaker 5: around in this circle and you don't get flipped in
Speaker 5: the an, you don't, Hey man, you better go have
Speaker 5: a relationship with God. See what that's about, you understand?
Speaker 5: Or nobody throw you off with all that? All right,
Speaker 5: all right, y'all talk to him. He love to hear
Speaker 5: from you.
Speaker 2: Today morning show, ladies and gentlemen. It is upon us.
Speaker 5: It is the morning hour. It is a moment that
Speaker 5: we've been waiting for all night. To be honest with you,
Speaker 5: I was hoping I would be here when it arrived.
Speaker 5: I am here, grateful, motivated, favored, and relentless in my
Speaker 5: pursuit of happiness. Even though the Constitution is not talking
Speaker 5: to us, I am in pursuit.
Speaker 2: Of my inalienable right to that pursuit of happiness. Damn
Speaker 2: it here I am, ladies and gentlemen, Charley Stalkin.
Speaker 1: I like it, Steve, good morning, good morning, and Cala
Speaker 1: for real, good morning. Happy Friday, never mad a legend
Speaker 1: that is, Julie whatever, Everyboday morning, the old.
Speaker 5: And nearly defeated and very bitter about it for the survival.
Speaker 2: J Anthony Brown?
Speaker 4: What what what?
Speaker 11: What?
Speaker 2: Mister Harvey ignorant at a whole another level.
Speaker 9: pH d mm hmm yes, sah, yes, sa, it's Friday.
Speaker 1: Whoa, it's happening.
Speaker 9: Our I t y it's Friday. Yeah, yeah, that sounds great.
Speaker 12: And you don't like Friday's why, nephew, because it's too
Speaker 12: close to Monday.
Speaker 1: That makes a lot of sense.
Speaker 11: If you sounded excited about I get excited till sad
Speaker 11: to come cast.
Speaker 1: You know what logic, great man, right up on Monday.
Speaker 2: God mens, your question?
Speaker 13: Are you.
Speaker 9: What day am I happy with?
Speaker 1: What's your favorite day?
Speaker 2: Of Its too close?
Speaker 9: I like Thursday?
Speaker 2: Why Thursday?
Speaker 7: Because we almost it's like the weekend starts for me
Speaker 7: actually on Thursday, but Saturday, but the whole.
Speaker 5: But if you don't like the next day, which is Friday,
Speaker 5: because it's too close to Monday.
Speaker 2: And that's why I'm trying to piece just together.
Speaker 1: Struggling over here.
Speaker 9: You like you got headaches, you got the stuff to do.
Speaker 1: All you got, this is your nephew, you got to do.
Speaker 2: Worry about this.
Speaker 7: Thursday is four days away. Thursday is four days away
Speaker 7: from Monday. Either either way you go towards it, think
Speaker 7: about it. Monday is just bad.
Speaker 9: So Thursday it's four ways away either way you look
Speaker 9: at it.
Speaker 5: Well, let's see what you don't want to reason why
Speaker 5: you say on Thursday and Friday and using Monday because
Speaker 5: you can't say whence.
Speaker 6: Oh, I.
Speaker 2: Say, Queen say time I want to say when you
Speaker 2: say what I say?
Speaker 9: When Queen's any time I want to say Queen's Lord.
Speaker 12: That's not it, all right, listen, coming up at thirty
Speaker 12: two minutes after the hour, we'll hear from the nephew
Speaker 12: to run that prank back right after this.
Speaker 1: You're listening morning.
Speaker 12: Show, all right, and it's time to start your morning
Speaker 12: off with the nephew and run that prank back.
Speaker 7: What you got for his nept Right now, we're in
Speaker 7: a stupid category and that belongs to me, all right.
Speaker 9: Praise dance team. Is the name of this prank team,
Speaker 9: cat Dog. If you would.
Speaker 10: Hello, this is the day that the lawd has made.
Speaker 10: Let us rejoice and be glad. And and how you doing?
Speaker 10: I'm looking for uh, Tania. This is Tania. This is
Speaker 10: brother Puller from the church.
Speaker 6: How are you.
Speaker 10: Oh, I'm brother Fower you I'm good, I'm good. We
Speaker 10: wanted to give you a call about the about the
Speaker 10: praise dancing that's at the church. First of all, I
Speaker 10: wanted to really show you how much you're doing a
Speaker 10: great job over there with the praise dancers and you
Speaker 10: you definitely do a great job on every third sondy
Speaker 10: that you guys actually perform. Everybody seemed to really like it. Well,
Speaker 10: thank you, thank you. What can I do for you today?
Speaker 10: There's a bit of a situation with you know, it's
Speaker 10: been brought to our attention. We actually had a small gathering,
Speaker 10: a little meeting about it and wanted to I've been
Speaker 10: elected to actually give you a call. I'm sorry, kid,
Speaker 10: Brother Fuller, uh huh and and who had a meeting
Speaker 10: uh some of the brothers at the church and and
Speaker 10: uh passed to actually sat in for a moment on it.
Speaker 10: And I was actually elected actually just give you a call.
Speaker 10: Nothing that I don't think we can't get rectified and
Speaker 10: and you know, move on slowly as we normally do.
Speaker 10: But I just think it's we wanted to reach out
Speaker 10: to you and kind of make you aware of it.
Speaker 10: If it's if you don't mind, okay? And what things
Speaker 10: are those? Well, sister Tanya, has any of the praise
Speaker 10: dancers before they became praise dancers?
Speaker 6: Was was?
Speaker 10: Was any of them strippers?
Speaker 6: I beg your pardon.
Speaker 10: Was any of the praise dancers that at the church
Speaker 10: that you have on the praise team right now? Was
Speaker 10: any of them strippers in the past? I'm sorry, sir,
Speaker 10: I don't I don't really know who you are, and
Speaker 10: I don't really understand this line of questions. Like I said,
Speaker 10: I'm brother full. I don't think we've met. But uh,
Speaker 10: like I said, I've been elected to give you a
Speaker 10: call now. It seems what happened is this past week
Speaker 10: when you all actually danced, it seemed like a couple
Speaker 10: of the girls was actually GiB rating doing the praise routine. Hey,
Speaker 10: what job ratings?
Speaker 9: Brother Pullow.
Speaker 10: I don't know who you are and I don't know
Speaker 10: what you saw. None of my girls with GIY rating,
Speaker 10: they would dancing for the Lord, and I think if
Speaker 10: you look through your lord's eye, perhaps you would see
Speaker 10: them better instead of maybe you were looking through the
Speaker 10: girating eye. No, see a couple of the girl we
Speaker 10: can pull them out.
Speaker 6: A couple of them have.
Speaker 10: Stript girl tendencies of it then because some of them
Speaker 10: have been trestrimp girl's tendency. You know what, sir, I
Speaker 10: think we need to complete this call. Perhaps I need
Speaker 10: to call Bishop to speak to him myself, because you know,
Speaker 10: I don't know what you do all day, but I
Speaker 10: have a real job and I'm sitting here holding a
Speaker 10: conversation in my office about GI rating strippers in the church.
Speaker 14: Are you kidding me?
Speaker 10: Well, listen, now here's a couple of other things that
Speaker 10: they're talking about. Some of the girls feet or real
Speaker 10: ask you when you all are performing and they want
Speaker 10: to see it, maybe you can you can.
Speaker 6: I don't know.
Speaker 10: Maybe I don't know if y'all need to grip or
Speaker 10: whatever that y'all don't. Y'all don't put lotion on. We're
Speaker 10: not sure what that is. As well as the totally
Speaker 10: follow everybody has three four, five different designs and everything.
Speaker 9: Is it?
Speaker 10: Any way, y'all can be in unison with your toenail parts.
Speaker 10: But the most important thing hell the jib rating doing
Speaker 10: the dance routine. I don't know what your feet look like.
Speaker 10: I don't need you calling me talking to me about
Speaker 10: my girls their feet, their nail pology. Perhaps your mass
Speaker 10: should be on Jesus instead of on them. How about that? Oh?
Speaker 10: From my mind, I don't have time. I don't have
Speaker 10: time to be on Jesus when somebody's shaking They what
Speaker 10: at the church? That's the problem.
Speaker 6: I know what.
Speaker 10: Look, I'm at work now, I'm trying to keep a
Speaker 10: work tone. You're gonna make me hurse up here and
Speaker 10: let me tell you something. Don't call me anymore. I
Speaker 10: will deal with pastor. If he has something to say
Speaker 10: with me, he can say it to me personally. But
Speaker 10: I'm done with this conversation. Are you gonna deal with
Speaker 10: the ji rating? Is what we want to know?
Speaker 14: Maybe you know what.
Speaker 5: It just hit me.
Speaker 10: Maybe you're one of the ones that's doing the giant rate. Look,
Speaker 10: let me tell you something. My girls ain't gonna joe ring,
Speaker 10: and neither am I. Now I am done with this conversation.
Speaker 10: Do you understand you, but listen, I'm done. Are you
Speaker 10: done with the rate? That's what we want to stop
Speaker 10: so we can We can't praise the Lord if the
Speaker 10: booty is is shaken.
Speaker 14: You know what shirt? Look, I gotta go to work.
Speaker 10: I gotta go now again. I don't know what your
Speaker 10: issue is. It sounds to me like you have an
Speaker 10: issue with I rating booties. I've not heard so much
Speaker 10: joy rating booties on one conversation in my entire life.
Speaker 10: Now my mind is set on Jesus. I don't know
Speaker 10: what your mind is set on.
Speaker 14: What sister tell you?
Speaker 10: Before you was a praise dance, a ministry over the ministry?
Speaker 10: Did you ever used to strip?
Speaker 14: Y'all?
Speaker 10: I didn't do no stripping. Now that you want to
Speaker 10: do any stripping? Did you wh'm gonna do any stripping?
Speaker 10: You heard what I said? How are you asking somebody call?
Speaker 10: You would ask you if your ma'ma diet some stripping?
Speaker 14: How you like that?
Speaker 6: You know?
Speaker 10: And I want to know when is the next rehearsal?
Speaker 10: Then the way I can come and pick out who
Speaker 10: it is that's doing this time. Real you don't have
Speaker 10: you don't have any businesses at my rehearsal. I don't
Speaker 10: want to see you at my rehearsal. I don't want to.
Speaker 10: I don't want to see any plight for you in
Speaker 10: my rehearsal. If I see you near one of my girls,
Speaker 10: that's why I'm coming after you myself. Do you understand me?
Speaker 10: You need to find out who's doing that job.
Speaker 9: Thing.
Speaker 10: You need to tell your buddy y'all, And I'm good y'all.
Speaker 10: Ain't dancing when the wait is being pas because I
Speaker 10: ain't no telling how you act with them ones coming
Speaker 10: through that, you know what? That's it.
Speaker 5: That's it.
Speaker 10: You call me disrespecting me. I met what. I can't
Speaker 10: even have this more?
Speaker 6: You know what?
Speaker 10: Don't call me no more? Still look at my girls
Speaker 10: no more? Man fast coming down to church and see
Speaker 10: what I got for it. I don't want to know
Speaker 10: if you gonna stop the job rating gonna do it?
Speaker 6: Ain't you talking to like that?
Speaker 10: You're supposed to be a minute t goodday? Yeah? Let
Speaker 10: die listen and tell you now I'm getting ready to
Speaker 10: get well. I got one more pain to say to you.
Speaker 10: Fold you leave now. You ain't got a thing to
Speaker 10: say to me. I said I was dealing and I said,
Speaker 10: I got one more pain to say, is you listen?
Speaker 10: You know what, man, get off my phone, and I'm
Speaker 10: gonna say it anyway. This is Nephew Tommy from the
Speaker 10: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your entire praise and ministry congregation,
Speaker 10: all your girls got me the prank phone call you.
Speaker 10: Oh I'm Anaho for real. Oh oh, I'm gonna I
Speaker 10: think I can church on.
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Speaker 9: Boy Tony Roberts, Oh Lord have mercy is in the
Speaker 9: building all.
Speaker 12: Right, thinking if you Tommy coming up next, it is
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Speaker 1: You're listening Harvey Morning Show right now?
Speaker 12: It is time yeah for ask the CLO chief Love officer,
Speaker 12: Steve in the building. Yeah, all right, so here we go.
Speaker 12: This one is from Tanjula in Mississippi. Tanjula rights, I'm
Speaker 12: a thirty two year old professional woman by day and
Speaker 12: at night I'm an escort. I keep a low profile
Speaker 12: in my city and go to the neighboring city for
Speaker 12: my escort business. I've been dating a guy for almost
Speaker 12: three months and he thinks I'm a school teacher and
Speaker 12: model because I met him at a casting call for
Speaker 12: models for a music video. I need my side gig
Speaker 12: to pay off my student loans, but I know this
Speaker 12: guy won't like it. Should I be honest with him
Speaker 12: or keep the lie going?
Speaker 9: Oh?
Speaker 2: Wait a minute, what? So she says she does what
Speaker 2: in the daytime?
Speaker 12: She's a professional woman, she says, she didn't say specifically, but.
Speaker 2: At night, so she's an escort?
Speaker 1: Yeah, at night?
Speaker 2: So what is the list she's trying to keep going
Speaker 2: that she's.
Speaker 12: An escort, that she's an escort. Wait a minute, she's
Speaker 12: an escort to pay off her student loans.
Speaker 2: Well, wait a minute, how did he meet her?
Speaker 12: It says she met him, she's been dating him. She
Speaker 12: he thinks school teacher. She thinks he's a school teacher
Speaker 12: and a model because she met him at a casting.
Speaker 1: Call for models. Oh okay video.
Speaker 5: Oh okay, So he didn't call the escort service and
Speaker 5: meet her, No, sir, Oh okay, he met her at
Speaker 5: the thing.
Speaker 2: So he thinks, well, he doesn't know uh the junk didjello?
Speaker 3: Man?
Speaker 5: Oh wait, do her name sound familiar to you? Ain't
Speaker 5: like her damn name with Denise.
Speaker 1: And I'm missing something like talking mad Well.
Speaker 2: First of all, change your damn name. Yeah, everybody gonna
Speaker 2: know who you are.
Speaker 5: You may ain't even have to escort service all down
Speaker 5: at the school board to a googler is very rare.
Speaker 2: So look, look, hey, look, young sister.
Speaker 5: You can't be so desperate to pay off your student
Speaker 5: loans that you will do anything. Your reputation and your
Speaker 5: life forward after this is far more important than the present.
Speaker 5: And always understand that what you're doing the dog today
Speaker 5: gonna come out in the light tomorrow and it may
Speaker 5: ruin an opportunity with a career.
Speaker 2: Move or a man.
Speaker 5: So if I were you, I would double think this
Speaker 5: escort service business. It's paying off student loans, ain't that important?
Speaker 5: They got all types of things available because of COVID.
Speaker 5: Now with student loans, you need to go online and
Speaker 5: research some of this stuff. They got programs and help
Speaker 5: you pay off student loans. You ain't got to sell
Speaker 5: yourself to pay off no damn loan. Think about your
Speaker 5: life moving forward. You're thirty two, You're an attractive girl, so.
Speaker 1: You think you should she should be honest with him. No,
Speaker 1: hell no, okay, he.
Speaker 5: No going Your job is doing today. You're a professional woman.
Speaker 5: That's your damn job. Do not tell this man you
Speaker 5: and escort. Okay, just get out to escort business. Just
Speaker 5: ain't the time for the truth for y'all. Getness through
Speaker 5: that gets up here. May now it's truth.
Speaker 2: Y'all be trying to tell too much honesty.
Speaker 9: You know, anybody want to hear that dude be liking you.
Speaker 5: Now you're gonna tell him you a damn escort. He've
Speaker 5: gonna take your meet his mama.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, all right. So we're moving on.
Speaker 12: Ginger and Mobile, Alabama says. My husband and I bought
Speaker 12: a town home and a part of town with a
Speaker 12: lot of young families. We're in our early sixties and
Speaker 12: downsized when we retired. The family's tutor is down, has
Speaker 12: a daughter that's a senior in high school, and she's
Speaker 12: got a boyfriend that's always around Saturday. My husband and
Speaker 12: I saw this girl and her boyfriend making out in
Speaker 12: the car parked in front of our house. My husband
Speaker 12: is the type to mind his business, but not if
Speaker 12: it's in front of our house. Should we tell her
Speaker 12: parents about this?
Speaker 5: No, that ain't your business. Truth, that ain't your damn business.
Speaker 5: What is you talking about? Mind your damn business.
Speaker 3: Y'all want to move.
Speaker 9: Y'all old ass down there with all the yunkies.
Speaker 5: Now, if you should have stayed your ass where old
Speaker 5: people can't climb in back seats.
Speaker 2: And do nothing.
Speaker 5: No, tell her parents what stop? It ain't your business.
Speaker 5: Your husband is the type to mind his business.
Speaker 3: You should too, And what good.
Speaker 5: Is telling it gonna do? All they gonna do is
Speaker 5: go somewhere else and sneak. You can't raise that little girl.
Speaker 9: That ain't your business?
Speaker 2: The hell is you over here? Fall?
Speaker 1: If they downside?
Speaker 8: Downside?
Speaker 9: Go to senior citizen home?
Speaker 2: If you bat damn old.
Speaker 12: Cannon, Philly, we're moving on, Candace, and Philly says, my
Speaker 12: mother and my crazy aunt maybe sharing a man. My
Speaker 12: aunt and my stepdad have an inappropriate friendship. My aunt
Speaker 12: introduced him to my mom, but I think they used
Speaker 12: to mess around before that. We all went to my
Speaker 12: aunt's house last month for a cookout and my aunt
Speaker 12: was sitting on my stepdad's lap. I noticed her suddenly
Speaker 12: grinding on his lap, and when she realized I saw it,
Speaker 12: she jumped up. I told my mom what happened, and
Speaker 12: she said, they like to joke around like that. How
Speaker 12: could my mom be so blonde?
Speaker 5: Cause your mama liked jokes. Oh, she said, they joking around.
Speaker 5: Your mama probably laughing her ants off somewhere. Once again,
Speaker 5: if you just ain't your damn be what is along
Speaker 5: with these letters today?
Speaker 9: These grown ass.
Speaker 2: People consisting adults.
Speaker 5: Your aunt was on her sister's her husband's lap grinding,
Speaker 5: saw you and jumped up.
Speaker 2: Now he had to stay seated. Figure out then you that.
Speaker 5: Already went and told your mama, and your mama told
Speaker 5: you they joke around like that. Your mama might already
Speaker 5: know what's going on. Your mama might be playing or something.
Speaker 5: Go state, why is your young ass murder?
Speaker 9: That's right?
Speaker 5: See, the other people was too old to be in this,
Speaker 5: and now you too young to be in just the
Speaker 5: worst damn clo questions.
Speaker 12: Nosey asked people, everybody, mind your own business, mind.
Speaker 5: Your damn business, to hear about something about your life.
Speaker 1: You're listening Morning show.
Speaker 12: All right, it's time for something funny, Steve. We want
Speaker 12: you to try and help people get their next job
Speaker 12: simply by crying. Okay, I'm going to tell you what
Speaker 12: this is all about. It says breaking out some tears
Speaker 12: may help you land your next job. During a job interview,
Speaker 12: you definitely want them to remember you, and it turns
Speaker 12: out a few tears just might do the trick. While
Speaker 12: you may think that crying during the interview process would
Speaker 12: blow your chances of getting a job, there are some
Speaker 12: people who say it actually works wonders.
Speaker 5: So okay, well let's go there. Okay, we're a job
Speaker 5: interview and are interviewing me tell you, and so let's
Speaker 5: go and let's start interview. Let's start the interview.
Speaker 1: Well, good morning, mister Harvey, how are you today.
Speaker 5: Missus Strawberry, mister Miles, thank you for having me such
Speaker 5: an opportunity.
Speaker 7: All right, so, mister Harvey, let's get started. I wanted
Speaker 7: to ask you what exactly what makes you qualify.
Speaker 9: For this job.
Speaker 5: Well, having had several jobs before that gave me the
Speaker 5: experience of the exact thing that you folks are looking for.
Speaker 2: It's pretty much made me qualify. And you know, everybody
Speaker 2: that I've ever worked with have always said I was
Speaker 2: really just overqualified.
Speaker 1: Here, let me ask you something, mister Harvey. Why did
Speaker 1: you leave your last job?
Speaker 2: Oh god, it's so difficult that you bought this up.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, oh god, I was.
Speaker 2: I was there for sixteen years. Oh really, Uh, you know,
Speaker 2: they just came in and.
Speaker 1: They just closed it.
Speaker 4: I mean.
Speaker 2: They just shut it, shut the doors. I was in
Speaker 2: the parking lot. Happened. I was studying there. Shane put the.
Speaker 1: Door crying, mister Harvey.
Speaker 2: No, no, it was just just Shane the door job interview.
Speaker 9: It's not happy. Let me jump in here.
Speaker 2: Okay. Just before that, they were all.
Speaker 7: I wanted to ask you, mister Harvey. You know, a
Speaker 7: job like this, you're gonna be working with a lot
Speaker 7: of people. You're going to be doing a lot of interacting.
Speaker 7: Uh you know, how do you do you have the
Speaker 7: skills set to actually interact with other people?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Excuse me, Yeah, I'm interacted with qui you're having a
Speaker 2: damn it doesn't take much, we see.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I interact with people from time to time who's
Speaker 5: just talking about it sort of hits me, you know,
Speaker 5: and I'm fine.
Speaker 2: I'm fine with other people.
Speaker 1: Mister Harvey.
Speaker 12: This is a sales position we're looking to hire you for,
Speaker 12: and we just want to make sure that you're the
Speaker 12: right person. As Thomas mentioned earlier, you have the right
Speaker 12: qualifications for this position. You have to interact with people,
Speaker 12: you have to sell our product, and you know people
Speaker 12: by you first before they even buy the product. So
Speaker 12: I just want to make sure that that you know.
Speaker 12: This little crying thing I hear, it's it's not really.
Speaker 3: Hey, I just I don't.
Speaker 9: I got a question for you.
Speaker 2: I don't just cry, you know all the time.
Speaker 1: Sounds like you do.
Speaker 2: I'm out of work.
Speaker 9: I'm crying because I'm out of work.
Speaker 1: There's no crying at work.
Speaker 3: I don't want I.
Speaker 1: Don't not here yet.
Speaker 3: You hired me.
Speaker 2: I can stop you cry too, if you want.
Speaker 1: What are your strengths. Let's talk about something positive.
Speaker 5: One of my strengths. I can absolutely pull it together.
Speaker 5: That's one of my strong suits. I promise you I can.
Speaker 5: If you just hired me giving you job holds out
Speaker 5: of the CS like instant if I want to just
Speaker 5: say you're hired to show you just sitting here in
Speaker 5: the eighteenth interview, this is the third level. This is
Speaker 5: supposed to be it I was told by your supervisor.
Speaker 2: Then it wouldn't We wouldn't even be inured as long
Speaker 2: as there here I am, and we're still talking about
Speaker 2: a job.
Speaker 1: Well, this is that's why it's called a process, mister Harvey.
Speaker 5: All process, Yeah, a fallow the interview process or I suffer.
Speaker 8: Jesus Jesus.
Speaker 1: Hi, so he'll stop.
Speaker 7: Please, Well, let's let's evaluate Miss Shirley Strawberry Carlor.
Speaker 9: Do you think we have the right person for the job.
Speaker 7: How about we let this person sell themselves in thirty
Speaker 7: seconds to us?
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, sounds good.
Speaker 9: Yes, mister Harvey, could you sell yourself for thirty seconds
Speaker 9: to us?
Speaker 1: Lease, Okay, you need a moment you want to go
Speaker 1: out let me okay, and you can start now and now.
Speaker 5: And I believe that I'm extremely qualified, but this position
Speaker 5: due to the fact that I'm probably the most experienced
Speaker 5: candidate that you meet from time to time, I've also
Speaker 5: discovered that I have several traits that this company's lacking,
Speaker 5: and I can be a most fulfilling factor in developing
Speaker 5: the app to loot direction of your firm and your company.
Speaker 5: I will be but an asset, and that is why
Speaker 5: I think I should have the job.
Speaker 3: Okay, right, he said, mouth little right there, no tears.
Speaker 1: Okay. If you're asking me, I would say, he's hired.
Speaker 1: You're listening morning show. Come on, Steve Anthony Brown is
Speaker 1: here to murder another hit.
Speaker 2: I wanted to delay.
Speaker 1: Yes, you are, he is here.
Speaker 2: Don't be alarmed.
Speaker 1: I was doing something and we're doing something. It's called
Speaker 1: your show.
Speaker 2: You guess what?
Speaker 15: Hi, everybody where is I'm just out of breath from
Speaker 15: following following Steve the first and didn't he.
Speaker 9: Can't do that.
Speaker 2: Took a lot of breath, you know, living.
Speaker 8: All of that. Hi, everybody, that's Halloween.
Speaker 1: Here's a Halloween Diddy for you on the Steve Harday
Speaker 1: Morning Show. Check it out.
Speaker 8: Damn it?
Speaker 3: Hello ween.
Speaker 15: Now I'm got the boysom candy kids holding out their hands.
Speaker 15: I think that big one was twenty three room for
Speaker 15: holding babbies. They come from a Loadver.
Speaker 16: Interrupted me while I'm watching TVV. How many don't trouble
Speaker 16: with alive.
Speaker 17: See two many and baby too many bays him.
Speaker 16: I hate Halloween too many and too many babies, too
Speaker 16: many babies.
Speaker 17: Oh ladies, sat a rage Dave addressing screaming, doing.
Speaker 8: Live nice stride? Why God trigger teating? It's a child thing.
Speaker 8: Such a scary face. Hey you connect, I'll.
Speaker 3: Be saying that.
Speaker 8: The brown that's not y'all. But I have a lot
Speaker 8: of rag.
Speaker 17: Too many baby, too many? Damn I head Halloween too many?
Speaker 9: Am I head Halloween?
Speaker 3: Too many?
Speaker 10: Baby?
Speaker 9: That's right there.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna play it at my wife's Halloween carnival in
Speaker 5: the backyard.
Speaker 2: Yeah this she throwing for all the grim keys.
Speaker 8: And baby damn Halloween.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna play that in the backyard.
Speaker 1: Speakersday this year. I'm addressing you're listening morning show.
Speaker 12: All right, guys, here's a good one for you. A
Speaker 12: social media question we found on our Facebook page. What
Speaker 12: if before dating someone new? And I know you guys
Speaker 12: are married, but you needed two different references from exes
Speaker 12: even if you're before you got married, how about that
Speaker 12: you needed two different references from your exes.
Speaker 1: Here's the question, which of.
Speaker 12: Your exes would be your two references and why and.
Speaker 1: What would they say? What do you think they'd say,
Speaker 1: Come on here, junior face, let's go.
Speaker 13: We're not doing none of my anxious but we can't
Speaker 13: go is back to vacation, Bible school and get somebody
Speaker 13: out of there. Don't get boy in my don't as
Speaker 13: a reference. As a reference, you need somebody who was
Speaker 13: in church to talk about.
Speaker 2: Tell you both of my references was from the fifth grade.
Speaker 3: All right?
Speaker 2: What they would say about?
Speaker 9: What would they say?
Speaker 5: He showed so much promise and he was trying to
Speaker 5: overcome a stubber.
Speaker 1: And he was determined, just glowing, Steve and just blowing.
Speaker 2: And just the way he wore his older brother's clothes.
Speaker 5: It was just fascinating, the way he would double wrap
Speaker 5: his belt around his thin, frail to underdeveloped body. And
Speaker 5: his ability to cut out cardboard the shape of his
Speaker 5: shoe and stick it in there so you never even
Speaker 5: knew that the bottom of his shoes had holes in it.
Speaker 2: He was just amazing, Yeah, he was. He was really.
Speaker 5: I always if girl, if you ever get a chance.
Speaker 5: His sliding boy skills, he this boy could. He would
Speaker 5: go up to the top of the step and jump
Speaker 5: halfway down the slide boy for his butt even hit
Speaker 5: it and then beeps fly up in the air laying
Speaker 5: on his feet.
Speaker 2: You should always knew he was gonna be something.
Speaker 11: You've been on this earth for sixty three year years
Speaker 11: in reference from we're going back to when you were ten, Greg.
Speaker 1: Yes, you think that's something?
Speaker 3: Okay, tell me what about you?
Speaker 1: You think that was something from from?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 10: What about you?
Speaker 1: Tell me your exes? What would they say? Who would
Speaker 1: they be?
Speaker 9: Come on, Uh, I'm so scared right now. I shirt,
Speaker 9: I'm married. I'm just so.
Speaker 7: Ever show I know, but I found out earlier this week.
Speaker 7: You've been listening all week. I'm just I'm scared of
Speaker 7: my damn mouth.
Speaker 1: Right now, Jackie, we love you, Jackie.
Speaker 2: I'll tell you what they said because I knew all them.
Speaker 1: Okay, please, yeah, come on?
Speaker 5: You know, yes, girls, I would. I would recommend him.
Speaker 5: You know, he he he kept all his promises. You know,
Speaker 5: he said he would never leave me.
Speaker 2: He didn't. I got rid of him. He said that,
Speaker 2: you know.
Speaker 5: Think the thing about it. I mean, he's very much
Speaker 5: the same today as he was then. He hasn't let
Speaker 5: money affect him. He ain't let money affect him.
Speaker 3: He was stupid.
Speaker 2: Then he's still stupid.
Speaker 1: I missed that far.
Speaker 5: Then, you know the most obvious one is I mean, look,
Speaker 5: he had the same size shoe, he the same Hi.
Speaker 2: This is a person who's never changed.
Speaker 9: Yes, I should have done my own.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what would big Honey say?
Speaker 9: Big honey had to be.
Speaker 1: Now let me tell you, I don't know who big
Speaker 1: Honey is. She was one of Tommy's ex girlfriend, Yeah, honey.
Speaker 2: On her back her tattoo was a slab of ribs.
Speaker 3: Do you remember Kwe?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 5: I remember Kwei's tattoo on her back was ice cream Sunday,
Speaker 5: not the fruit, not the kwed, no the whole Sunday.
Speaker 9: Oh, big honey, man, god or I had some cold
Speaker 9: ones by I remember Kiwi?
Speaker 1: She had shut hands.
Speaker 7: Oh man, big honey. Sons jumped on me. Nothing gonna
Speaker 7: bring up your whoop my ass in front of the house.
Speaker 3: Man, I got that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And you have to eight and nine year old woke.
Speaker 3: Steve.
Speaker 8: You tell it all, don't you?
Speaker 3: Coming up next to the nephew with.
Speaker 1: The price phone call. Right you're listening.
Speaker 12: Morning show coming up at the top of the hour,
Speaker 12: right about four minutes after it's my strawberry letter for today,
Speaker 12: the subject my wife's young friend m We'll get into it,
Speaker 12: but right now the nephew is here with today's prank
Speaker 12: phone call.
Speaker 1: What you got for us? New Well, Shirley.
Speaker 7: A lot of pairers hate to hear it. Some of
Speaker 7: them get the call. You know, it happens sometimes your
Speaker 7: son didn't make the team. I'm gonna say it again,
Speaker 7: your son, Oh wow, didn't make the team. Let's go
Speaker 7: cat down.
Speaker 6: Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach missus Lydia lit is
Speaker 6: she masters? This is coach Watkins up at the up
Speaker 6: at the school.
Speaker 18: How are you, hey, Coach Watkins?
Speaker 14: I'm fine?
Speaker 6: What can I do for you? Listen, we've had maleik
Speaker 6: out for the last week and a half. He's been
Speaker 6: coming to practice here at the Junior High School and
Speaker 6: wanted to reach out and give you a call about
Speaker 6: everything that's going on.
Speaker 18: Oh yeah, well, I know he's really excited. He can't
Speaker 18: wait to start the season. He's ready.
Speaker 6: Well, you know what, I'll be honest with you. A
Speaker 6: great kid, and he's got a good heart, and he's
Speaker 6: really really really trying and trying to produce as much
Speaker 6: as possible.
Speaker 18: Well, you know, he loves the game and he's been
Speaker 18: playing since he was a little kid.
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, you know, this is you know, this is
Speaker 6: the seventh grade. This is the first time some of
Speaker 6: these kids have played organized football, and this is the
Speaker 6: first time playing school football. And it's a big it's
Speaker 6: a big transition that if you've been playing little league ball,
Speaker 6: a Pop Warner or whatever you want to call it.
Speaker 6: It's a it's a big difference, in a big transition
Speaker 6: to go from one to the other.
Speaker 10: You understand, Yeah, I do understand.
Speaker 14: But Malik is been working.
Speaker 18: Really hard, yes, and he's ready.
Speaker 6: Well well, well let me let me say this. My
Speaker 6: main reason for calling you is letting you know that
Speaker 6: Leak as of right now is not going to be
Speaker 6: able to make the cut as far as what you
Speaker 6: be well, he's not going to be able to make
Speaker 6: the cut as far as being on the team for
Speaker 6: this year. Now, I got you said.
Speaker 18: Wait, wait, you said that Malik is not gonna be
Speaker 18: able to make the team.
Speaker 14: He's not gonna make the team.
Speaker 6: He's a great kid, you know, he's a great.
Speaker 14: I know he's a great kid.
Speaker 18: But wait, maan, Now, he didn't play Pop Warner and
Speaker 18: he was a stunning quarterback so what are you talking about.
Speaker 18: He's not gonna make the team this year.
Speaker 6: He was the best, say had out on that squad. Okay,
Speaker 6: and you know what, I've heard a lot about him.
Speaker 6: I heard he did a great job.
Speaker 14: Heard about him.
Speaker 18: Wait a minute, what man, have you seen his goat
Speaker 18: twenty touchdowns in the season.
Speaker 6: I understand what are the kids is out there doing that?
Speaker 6: But you know what, but right now, we got a
Speaker 6: lot of different kids that are coming into this particular school,
Speaker 6: so you know, the competition has gone greater and greater
Speaker 6: than what we could possibly understand.
Speaker 18: Wait a minute, this is seventh grade. First of all,
Speaker 18: everybody makes the team. Nobody gets cut in the first place.
Speaker 18: You got an A team and a B team.
Speaker 14: So you telling me my baby ain't made.
Speaker 6: None of them teams? Right right now? Mss lydia. Uh
Speaker 6: you know Uhlik? Like I said, Malika is a great kid.
Speaker 6: I like it. I know what Malik is.
Speaker 18: I know that he's a great kid and he's a ballplayer.
Speaker 18: Now I make sure that. So don't come telling me
Speaker 18: that he's not good.
Speaker 14: Enough to make the cut on.
Speaker 18: This seventh grade team, telling me who is the quarterback?
Speaker 14: Who? Yeah, you tell me what's going on?
Speaker 6: Who is the quarterback? Well, actually, right now, my son
Speaker 6: is the quarterback. Your son, well, I mean you know, yeah,
Speaker 6: is actually the quarterback. He hasn't done any Pop Warner
Speaker 6: or anything, but he really has what it takes to
Speaker 6: be the never played.
Speaker 14: Football before, or he's never played organized football, but he
Speaker 14: is going to be the quarterback for the seventh grade team.
Speaker 18: Is that what you're telling me?
Speaker 6: Well, yeah, my son is actually starting quarterback, but that.
Speaker 14: My son don't make the team and my son score
Speaker 14: twenty touchdown? Twenty touchdown? Is that what you're telling me?
Speaker 12: Oh?
Speaker 14: Hell no, this is I'm calling up to that school tomorrow.
Speaker 14: I will be up there tomorrow.
Speaker 6: Let me explain something.
Speaker 14: What do you say, ain't something news?
Speaker 6: No, no, no, no, no, no, no no no.
Speaker 14: I don't know what this is. This nepotism or whatever
Speaker 14: thing you got going on around here. But hell no,
Speaker 14: my son ain't Nathan what. Hell no, it's gonna be
Speaker 14: smoking the city to mind when I get up there,
Speaker 14: Miss Lydia.
Speaker 6: What I want to say this is that if your
Speaker 6: son would take a year off lord and try to
Speaker 6: get itself together and get his fundamentals together together, a
Speaker 6: greater football player when he gets to be headed to
Speaker 6: the eighth grade.
Speaker 14: He was the wrongest all last year. What you going
Speaker 14: about this? Fundamentals together? Your son ain't never even pros.
Speaker 6: But you know what, I've worked with my son and
Speaker 6: you know, and it's a little it's a little awkward
Speaker 6: for me to try to talk about what my son
Speaker 6: has done.
Speaker 14: Yeah, hof for you to talk about because you don't
Speaker 14: know what your son has done, because ain't nobody ever
Speaker 14: seen your son. You just got this dream, probably something
Speaker 14: that you ain't dead.
Speaker 18: You want to live vicariously through him.
Speaker 14: Hell no, that's that is about it.
Speaker 6: I don't like that in school. I played in high school,
Speaker 6: and let me say this, I'm trying to do the
Speaker 6: best that I can and the best of my ability
Speaker 6: to make sure that everybody gets a good and fair
Speaker 6: shot at what's going on.
Speaker 14: I thought not, but he don't get to play, So
Speaker 14: what about getting I think don't get the players.
Speaker 6: Probably he doesn't even gonna work out to be some burgle.
Speaker 14: Turn that to the mother mothers. That's some bull. I
Speaker 14: bet you, I guarantee you this. My son will be
Speaker 14: starting this year. I guarantee you this.
Speaker 6: You don't want none of that okay. Right now, all
Speaker 6: I can say is I need Malik to actually bring
Speaker 6: his cliques back because my son's gonna need him to
Speaker 6: play in what I.
Speaker 14: Tot them, your son at getting your son running down
Speaker 14: that field, We're gonna run the barefoot.
Speaker 18: He ain't get mine nothing, man.
Speaker 6: From my records. Understanding is that the cliques actually came
Speaker 6: a record. I'm na say the one that told you that.
Speaker 14: My son can't fight your records't thinking about your records.
Speaker 14: You your mama and the day she busted your man.
Speaker 6: I'm not gonna sit here and go back and forth
Speaker 6: with you. All I'm trying to say is this.
Speaker 9: That league ain't not to do.
Speaker 14: You start looking for a get your resume together.
Speaker 6: You know what, ma'am. I'm not gonna go back and boy,
Speaker 6: I got one more thing I need to say.
Speaker 14: Nothing that you ain't got nothing else to say to me.
Speaker 14: My son to be playing, and I'll be up there tomorrow.
Speaker 6: I have one more thing I need to say to you.
Speaker 6: You're listening.
Speaker 14: Only thing you need to tell me is who I
Speaker 14: need to talk to tomorrow. Now.
Speaker 6: I'll let you know that as soon as I tell
Speaker 6: you this, are you're listening I'm listening. What this his
Speaker 6: nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your sister
Speaker 6: ain't a got me to a prank phone call? You hell.
Speaker 14: Man, I thought that was really coltant.
Speaker 6: You gotta be all hot in here, whom everybody said
Speaker 6: the school way day day was going though? Oh man, man,
Speaker 6: I got something. Ask what is the baddest and I
Speaker 6: mean the baddest radio show in the land, The Steve
Speaker 6: Harve Reloaded Show. Oh lord, you got.
Speaker 3: A long time.
Speaker 2: Right now is my new tops lovetime.
Speaker 5: You need to get your resume together because you're gonna
Speaker 5: need working.
Speaker 9: You're trying to live by curiously through.
Speaker 3: Him because you.
Speaker 1: Because not run down the side all your.
Speaker 9: What Oh man?
Speaker 11: What every parent of a student athlete is hollybody?
Speaker 9: Yeah, do you involved with your sportsman?
Speaker 2: You touchdowns last year?
Speaker 3: He he make the team?
Speaker 1: Who is your boy?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 2: This is some of that nepotism?
Speaker 8: Boy, Yes, she did say it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Telly, I know how you think of this stuff.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, tell me that one right there that
Speaker 2: said my new top three.
Speaker 9: Big up to all the coaches that's coaching all about you.
Speaker 2: We love y'all.
Speaker 7: We appreciate y'all, man, we put our kids in y'all hands,
Speaker 7: and y'all try to make out the leads out of them.
Speaker 2: So damn that if you don't play mine, I'm the
Speaker 2: lady on the phone.
Speaker 19: All right, Coming up, coming up Strawberry Letters.
Speaker 12: Subject my wife's young friend. Will get into it right
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Speaker 12: Subject my wife's young friend. Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been
Speaker 12: married for eight years, and my wife has owned a
Speaker 12: trendy clothing boutique for four years. She decided to hire young,
Speaker 12: attractive females to represent the type of clothes she sells.
Speaker 12: The store manager is a gorgeous twenty eight year old
Speaker 12: woman with a bang and body Two years ago, my
Speaker 12: wife decided to help her pay for body conjuring procedures
Speaker 12: so she can always look great in the clothes at
Speaker 12: the boutique. I didn't approve, but my wife said it's
Speaker 12: her money and she did it anyway. My wife also
Speaker 12: got her a company car to use since she delivers
Speaker 12: clothes to their VIP customers. I did not like this either,
Speaker 12: but my wife bought the bmw X three for her anyway.
Speaker 12: I also learned that for Christmas, my wife gave this
Speaker 12: woman a nice bonus for processing the online sales during
Speaker 12: the pandemic. All of my wife's reasonings for treating her
Speaker 12: so well makes sense, but I'm still looking side eyed
Speaker 12: at my wife because they're running around like best friends,
Speaker 12: going to day parties and brunches. On weekends when I
Speaker 12: travel for my job, the young lady stays at my
Speaker 12: house so my wife.
Speaker 1: Will not be alone.
Speaker 12: Most women would not want this gorgeous and superfine woman
Speaker 12: around her husband, but she spends a lot of time
Speaker 12: around us. You can only imagine the thoughts that have
Speaker 12: run through my mind, but I fight the temptation to
Speaker 12: even look at her perfectly shaped butt and tiny little waist.
Speaker 12: I wouldn't be surprised if my wife feels the same
Speaker 12: way about her, because as our sex life hasn't been
Speaker 12: the same recently. If they are traveling and staying in
Speaker 12: one hotel suite together, is it possible that they're more
Speaker 12: than friends? What to a fifty four year old woman
Speaker 12: and a twenty eight year old woman have in common?
Speaker 1: Anyway? Should I question my wife? Please advise?
Speaker 12: Well, it took you long enough. It took you till
Speaker 12: the end of the letter to figure it out. All
Speaker 12: the signs are right there. I don't think anyone is
Speaker 12: that good of friends. Okay, I have to take a break.
Speaker 12: Sometimes your wife sounds like this girl's sugar mama slash
Speaker 12: lover to me, because she's doing way too much with her.
Speaker 12: One tip off should be that she didn't listen to
Speaker 12: anything you told her about spending money on the young woman.
Speaker 1: She bought her a car.
Speaker 12: What that's a huge expense, and not to mention the
Speaker 12: nice Christmas bonus she gave her, And then you said
Speaker 12: it made sense. Come on now, well this is way
Speaker 12: too just in your face for you not to notice this.
Speaker 12: And then you say the sex isn't the same between
Speaker 12: you and your wife. Well, no, that's because she and
Speaker 12: this younger woman with the banging body as you call it,
Speaker 12: are in a relationship and you're in the way. You know,
Speaker 12: she's just doing it because you're a husband. At this point,
Speaker 12: it sounds like should you talk to her? Well, yes,
Speaker 12: I think you should. And if your wife is honest,
Speaker 12: which I doubt she'll be, you'll find out why she
Speaker 12: wants this super fine woman around her with the tiny
Speaker 12: waist and the banging body and the perfectly shaped butt,
Speaker 12: because that's her girlfriend.
Speaker 1: Okay, they're seeing each other.
Speaker 2: Steve, Well, how much time I got.
Speaker 6: Some?
Speaker 10: Eh?
Speaker 5: I got about three minutes. So let me just go
Speaker 5: on and do this the second half of this Letter'm
Speaker 5: gonna do something special though.
Speaker 2: Okay, so let's just talk.
Speaker 5: About this woman who's doing all this for this woman
Speaker 5: with the banging body. Let's just get in to it.
Speaker 6: Uh.
Speaker 5: The wife decided to help her pay for body come
Speaker 5: to and procedures so she can always look great in
Speaker 5: the clothes at the bousique boutique.
Speaker 2: That that's why she paid for search. Okay, then let's
Speaker 2: go down.
Speaker 5: So my wife also got her a company car to
Speaker 5: use since she delivers clothes to their v I P customers.
Speaker 5: I didn't like that either, but my wife bought the
Speaker 5: bmw X three for her. Anyway, what you get that
Speaker 5: to drop clothes off? That's that's that's what you get for.
Speaker 2: Dropping clothes off. Okay, queen too.
Speaker 5: And then for Christmas, my wife gave this woman a
Speaker 5: nice bonus for processing the online sales during the pandemic.
Speaker 2: Wait a minute, ain't ain't that what you're supposed to do?
Speaker 7: Uh huh.
Speaker 5: But but if you're processing the orders during the pandemic,
Speaker 5: what what you need a car to? I'm so down confused.
Speaker 5: And then you said in the letter, all of all
Speaker 5: of my wife's reasoning for treating her so well makes sense, makes.
Speaker 2: Sense to hudo to us, because I'm confused. Let me
Speaker 2: ask you something.
Speaker 5: If you bought a girl, no no, If you bought
Speaker 5: a young boy, paid for life over section, gave him
Speaker 5: some pecks and some biceps, and then you turned around
Speaker 5: and bought a young boy a damn car so he
Speaker 5: can look good dropping off some packages. And then if
Speaker 5: you gave a young boy a Christmas bonus cause he
Speaker 5: was delivering making all the processing all the online sales, and.
Speaker 2: Your wife told you not to do any of this,
Speaker 2: but you did it anyway. How would this look?
Speaker 5: I ain't even gonna ask you what would happen if
Speaker 5: you bought a banging girl a body, bought a girl
Speaker 5: a coll and gave a girl a Christmas bone. I
Speaker 5: ain't even gonna ask you that, Jesse, if you bought
Speaker 5: a younger dude that dog. I don't know what to
Speaker 5: tell you. But when we come back, I'm bringing back
Speaker 5: my man Roscoe Wallace to help you understand what has
Speaker 5: happened through song.
Speaker 2: He'd wrote a lot of songs through and we got
Speaker 2: some songs to help you with this letter.
Speaker 1: All right, hang on, Steve, hang on.
Speaker 12: We'll have part two of your response coming up at
Speaker 12: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letters, subject
Speaker 12: my wife's young friend.
Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening
Speaker 1: hard morning show.
Speaker 12: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.
Speaker 1: The subject is my wife's young friend. Hit is man.
Speaker 5: This woman hitting out. His wife is fifty four and
Speaker 5: the girl is twenty eight. She worked for and she
Speaker 5: said young clothing at this boutique for young people. So
Speaker 5: she got all attractive women working in the store that
Speaker 5: represent the clothes. She said, But this one girl who's
Speaker 5: absolutely gorgeous. She'd bought her pay for all her body
Speaker 5: come to and procedures so she can always look great
Speaker 5: in the clothes at the boutique. He didn't approve of that,
Speaker 5: so his wife also got her a company car to
Speaker 5: use since she delivered clothes to their VIP customers.
Speaker 2: I ain't like this either, but the wife bought the
Speaker 2: truck anyway.
Speaker 5: Then for Christmas, who wife gave this woman a nice
Speaker 5: bonus for processing online sales during the pandemic.
Speaker 2: Now is she processing online sales or she dropping off.
Speaker 9: Stuff with the car? Then he said, my wife's reasoning
Speaker 9: for cheatingh so, well makes sense.
Speaker 2: Boy, you crazy boy? So you just trying not to
Speaker 2: go along with her. You try not to see it.
Speaker 5: I can only is wonderful what woman brings a fine
Speaker 5: woman around her husband. She spent a lot of time
Speaker 5: around us. You can only imagine the thoughts that had
Speaker 5: been running through my mind. But I fight the temptation
Speaker 5: even looking at her perfectly shaped butt in tiny little waist.
Speaker 2: Well you notice what it was.
Speaker 5: I wouldn't be surprised when my wife and wife feel
Speaker 5: the same way about her because our sex life ain't
Speaker 5: been the same recently. Now, if they traveling and staying
Speaker 5: in one hotel suite together, is it possible that they
Speaker 5: molting friends?
Speaker 9: Well, let me ask you something.
Speaker 5: If you got money for surgery, and you got money
Speaker 5: to buy a new car, and you got money for
Speaker 5: Christmas bonuses, how you ain't got money for your own
Speaker 5: damn hotel room. For the good you them bought everything else,
Speaker 5: but you just can't by her own damn hotel room. Sir,
Speaker 5: you know what's going on? Well please, let's welcome to
Speaker 5: the show. The one and only Roscoe Wallace, who has some.
Speaker 2: Songs that he wrote. What's going on? Everybody?
Speaker 9: I'm back? Where you going?
Speaker 2: What you say you were?
Speaker 3: We back Wednesday?
Speaker 2: He had, Okay, cool, I'm here.
Speaker 3: I wrote some songs in my career.
Speaker 2: A lot of y'all don't know this. White boy right here,
Speaker 2: oh Sam.
Speaker 5: For town'sand band, they wrote a song called Smoke from
Speaker 5: a Distant Fire, And I wrote this.
Speaker 2: For the dude in the letter. Okay, okay, okay, you
Speaker 2: left me here on your way he to perd.
Speaker 10: H.
Speaker 5: You pulled the rock right out from under my line,
Speaker 5: I know where you're going. I knew when you came
Speaker 5: home last night and hear what you need to know
Speaker 5: cause your eyes has a miss from the smoke.
Speaker 9: Of a distant fire.
Speaker 5: See that what he needed to know right now because
Speaker 5: the smoke going on in there, you know, in a
Speaker 5: distant fire right there. Yeah, and you know he having
Speaker 5: trouble with that, you know. And so these other songs
Speaker 5: right here, like hold on, let me do this one
Speaker 5: for you, whoa two? I'm I'm gonna just start him
Speaker 5: in the bet your lie awake nights never rest to
Speaker 5: be it?
Speaker 2: What shit in it?
Speaker 9: With all to yourself?
Speaker 20: Oh but still the bottom line is you have to
Speaker 20: deal with it, and to yourself at least be fast, said.
Speaker 9: Hold it on.
Speaker 20: It's very hard to do with love gone and there's
Speaker 20: no lie, I said, holding on. It's ver hard to do,
Speaker 20: very very hard to do, Queen love.
Speaker 3: Gone.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's another hit I wanted to write for you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, who.
Speaker 2: Is still a room even when there's nothing now.
Speaker 1: But gloom?
Speaker 3: But all room is not a high and a hof
Speaker 3: in not a home wind.
Speaker 2: Not two of us.
Speaker 3: A far apart and one of us.
Speaker 10: Had a bro.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Yes, she needs the soul that he need to know
Speaker 5: because he's struggling, you know, and all this here y'all
Speaker 5: want to know, Yes, sir, Yeah, okay, okay, okay, hold on,
Speaker 5: hold on. You took me, you're riding in your rocket.
Speaker 5: You gave me a stopping and then have of my
Speaker 5: from heaven. You dropped me back down to this cold,
Speaker 5: cold wear home. I would not do that to a
Speaker 5: damn dog. Old baby's all right. See, I wrote all
Speaker 5: these song for people like that to get in a
Speaker 5: situation like that. I don't want to stop you in
Speaker 5: and just share my talent and I'm gonna get with
Speaker 5: people and tell them to hang on in there.
Speaker 2: But love is gone and hard hold on.
Speaker 12: All right, fishing Rosco, thank you. Poster comments on today's
Speaker 12: Strawberry Letters. Hold up, held on Instagram and face pulled
Speaker 12: up to the bumps.
Speaker 1: You're listening hard Morning show. Time out for a round
Speaker 1: of would you rather here we go?
Speaker 12: Would you rather be alone for the next five years
Speaker 12: or never be alone for the next five years?
Speaker 9: But it's like just nobody, don't nobody at all us alone?
Speaker 1: Yeah, that would be the very definition.
Speaker 5: Don't get me wrong. I'm gonna get bt. I got
Speaker 5: sleep with somebody.
Speaker 9: I didn't got time to meet a lot of times
Speaker 9: I can't. I can't just be with me.
Speaker 2: I get I don't get enough. I don't talk back
Speaker 2: enough to myself.
Speaker 1: All right, Would you rather be the richest person in
Speaker 1: the world.
Speaker 2: Hey, okay, I don't get damn.
Speaker 1: Damn b is Would you rather be the smartest person
Speaker 1: in the world?
Speaker 5: He know, I want to be the smartest president. Well,
Speaker 5: I'm offended. I watched Jeopardy at that time when that
Speaker 5: dude had won nineteen times in a row. I was
Speaker 5: offended the entire time. Stupid ass. You ain't riding no
Speaker 5: bike when you was a little boy. What was your
Speaker 5: truck at? You don't date nobody? Because for you to
Speaker 5: know that much, he didn't have a childhood.
Speaker 10: I mean.
Speaker 12: All right, moving on to would you rather have sex
Speaker 12: the night before? Or would you rather wake up to
Speaker 12: sex and.
Speaker 1: Be the night before?
Speaker 9: The night before?
Speaker 3: What the night before?
Speaker 9: Just before?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 8: At night?
Speaker 1: Would you rather have a sex that usually up?
Speaker 2: I got to go, so I'll take it at night.
Speaker 1: You taking it.
Speaker 9: Don't really matter as long as it's happening.
Speaker 1: Just okay, Now, that's what.
Speaker 2: I don't really have to go to sleep. I would
Speaker 2: rather be put to.
Speaker 1: Sleep, all right.
Speaker 12: Last one, guys, here's a Halloween question. Would you rather
Speaker 12: spend Halloween night at a funeral home or would you
Speaker 12: rather spend Halloween night at a cemetery?
Speaker 9: They all did in him. No, give me that cemetery.
Speaker 9: Them people at the funeral home, they be moving still there.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be hode.
Speaker 6: No.
Speaker 5: You can run at the cemetery. You might slam up
Speaker 5: into a couple of tubes, Tom, but I'm not finn
Speaker 5: to be in here and hear noises? Could funeral when
Speaker 5: you funeral director come back that morning, he's gonna put
Speaker 5: all them bodies back up?
Speaker 2: Who told these curtains down? Like paling on the wall.
Speaker 1: You're listening Morning show?
Speaker 12: All right, guys, time now for comedy roulette. J Anthony Brown,
Speaker 12: please explain.
Speaker 15: It's very simple, very very simple. It take three subjects,
Speaker 15: put them on a wheel, spin it whill stop. Because
Speaker 15: we're comedians, professional comedians.
Speaker 2: We can make it funny.
Speaker 8: Watch us do it, watch us do it?
Speaker 1: All right, Okay, here are the categories.
Speaker 12: Embarrassing things kids say, embarrassing things kids say, excuses people
Speaker 12: say to eat stuff they're not supposed to like.
Speaker 2: That one.
Speaker 1: The doctor said it.
Speaker 12: Was okay, all right, and made up conspiracy theories, made
Speaker 12: up conspiracy theories.
Speaker 1: All right, Here we go, spin the wheel. See where
Speaker 1: it stops.
Speaker 12: It stopped Doingmbarrassing things.
Speaker 1: Kids say, embarrassing things.
Speaker 8: Embarrassing things.
Speaker 15: Kids say, here we go comedy reltt, Hey, mama, how
Speaker 15: come my little brother look like Uncle Kenny?
Speaker 2: All right?
Speaker 9: Embarrassing things.
Speaker 13: Kids say, hey, look everybody, he got some on his lip.
Speaker 1: It look like you burn.
Speaker 8: Embarrassing things.
Speaker 9: Kids say, Daddy, why is our neighbor over here? I
Speaker 9: thought you didn't like him?
Speaker 3: Boy.
Speaker 1: Embarrassing things.
Speaker 5: Kids say, my mama gonna be a minister because she
Speaker 5: called Jesus a lot at night.
Speaker 3: Oh.
Speaker 8: Embarrassing things. Kids say, Daddy, I thought you said, Grandmama,
Speaker 8: breast of that boo boo?
Speaker 1: You said that, Okay?
Speaker 9: This embarrassing things.
Speaker 1: Kids saying this was actually was a true statement.
Speaker 13: My nephew actually made here.
Speaker 3: How come you know to Steve?
Speaker 9: Don't have the same money, y'all do the same thing.
Speaker 1: I'll take your ass in the room right up your
Speaker 1: now so much worry about that?
Speaker 2: Shut up, don't you.
Speaker 6: All?
Speaker 9: I saw this.
Speaker 1: Embarrassing things.
Speaker 2: Kids say Mama, my thing won't go down.
Speaker 1: That's embarrassing.
Speaker 12: There's little boy grocery stuff.
Speaker 2: Laughed my ass off.
Speaker 8: Embarrassing things.
Speaker 15: Kids say, you're talking a whole lot of chat before
Speaker 15: that white man came over here.
Speaker 3: Why you change your mind now?
Speaker 9: Embarrassing things.
Speaker 6: Kids say, Hey, Michelle, how you doing?
Speaker 1: Lisa just left? Well, y'all see each other.
Speaker 3: Get your ass damn quit talking.
Speaker 9: Embarrassing things. Kids say, Mamma, your wig is crooked again?
Speaker 9: Why illustrating it? All right?
Speaker 1: Come on, see the embarrassing things the kids say.
Speaker 2: Last one, Mama went opened the door last night.
Speaker 3: Why was daddy on his knees in the bed?
Speaker 1: Wow, that's embarrassing. Embarrassed, Yeah, embarrassed.
Speaker 19: All right, ladies and gentlemen, that's comedy roulette from the guy.
Speaker 19: We'll be back with more of today's trending stories on
Speaker 19: the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 1: It's twenty minutes after right after this, you're listening Steve
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 12: We all know that Halloween is right around the corner
Speaker 12: right well, According to net Yeah c net dot com,
Speaker 12: watching a horror or a scary movie a scary movie
Speaker 12: can actually distress you.
Speaker 1: What hell it? Can actually actually destress you.
Speaker 3: That's what it says.
Speaker 5: This is according a statement. As we read this on
Speaker 5: Behalf of Him Body with Steve Harvey Morning Show. The
Speaker 5: following statement that Shirley Strawberry is about to make is
Speaker 5: a white.
Speaker 2: Statement, very much.
Speaker 3: Meenad dot com.
Speaker 12: All right, listen, so they say, apparently watching horror movies
Speaker 12: allows you to forget your own daily fears and worries
Speaker 12: and get totally involved in other people's fears and worries.
Speaker 1: It's it both.
Speaker 5: But if you scared, don't right people's feels, that's your
Speaker 5: other feel Right, I'm already pressed now I'm watching a
Speaker 5: movie stress me out because I'm scared.
Speaker 12: Now, it distracts you from your anxiety. It puts you
Speaker 12: your own problems in perspective. The world may be a mess,
Speaker 12: politics may be stressful, and your job may be terrible,
Speaker 12: but at least a psycho killer isn't chasing you around
Speaker 12: with an act and that relaxes you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's right.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 9: Every time I see Jason, I get sleeping.
Speaker 1: Yeah, put you in a WUSI.
Speaker 2: All right, We're moving on watching Polder Guys come out TV.
Speaker 10: Now.
Speaker 2: I'm sitting over here, I'm looking at my TV.
Speaker 12: You're here coming up at thirty three minutes after the hour.
Speaker 12: We'll play around him.
Speaker 1: Would you rather right after this? You're listening hard Morning show.
Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, Anthony Brown is here to murder another hit.
Speaker 1: Yes you are, he is here.
Speaker 2: Don't be alarmed. I was doing something and.
Speaker 3: We're doing something.
Speaker 1: It's called your show.
Speaker 15: Guess what, Hi, everybody where you head is I'm just
Speaker 15: out of breath following following Steve the first I did.
Speaker 2: He can't do that takes a lot of breath, you know, letting.
Speaker 8: All of that.
Speaker 15: Hi, everybody else, Halloween, here's a Halloween diddy for you
Speaker 15: on the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 8: Check it out.
Speaker 15: Damn it's hollow. Now I've got the bictle candy kids
Speaker 15: holding out their hands. I think that big one was
Speaker 15: twenty three.
Speaker 16: Roun folks holding babbabes.
Speaker 1: They come from a Loadver.
Speaker 16: Interrupted me while I'm watching TV. How many Donald trouble win?
Speaker 16: I see too many?
Speaker 10: And baby?
Speaker 3: Too many?
Speaker 10: Am I had.
Speaker 8: Halloween to too many babies? Too many babies? Oh, ladies,
Speaker 8: call a rage. The ain't adressing screaming going live nice tride?
Speaker 8: Why God? Trigger seating is a child thing such a
Speaker 8: scary face. Hey, you can bet I'll be saying the money,
Speaker 8: the brown, the spot, y'all. But out of long brag
Speaker 8: to man.
Speaker 17: Too many, baby, too many? Am I head Halloween? Too many?
Speaker 3: Too many?
Speaker 8: Bad?
Speaker 1: Am I head Halloween?
Speaker 3: Too many?
Speaker 8: Too many?
Speaker 10: Baby?
Speaker 1: Oh wait many right there.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna play it at my wife's Halloween carnival in
Speaker 5: the backyard.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she throwing for all.
Speaker 5: The grim keys, damn Halloween. I'm gonna play that in
Speaker 5: the backyard speakers.
Speaker 1: My wife's.
Speaker 15: The grits, a whole nother experiens line. I'm telling it
Speaker 15: will be in my neighborhood. It probably will be ten
Speaker 15: thousand kids.
Speaker 1: That come over in mind to ten thousand thousand.
Speaker 2: Ten thousand kids.
Speaker 1: A lot of kids this she I'm addressing. You're listening
Speaker 1: Morning show. All right, here we are at the final
Speaker 1: break of the day, with just one more thing. Steve's
Speaker 1: closing remarks, what do you have for us?
Speaker 8: Say?
Speaker 1: What do you have for us today?
Speaker 2: Sir?
Speaker 1: Your wisdom drop it?
Speaker 5: Okay, today I thought I'd talked to you about something
Speaker 5: with a little bit different angle to it. It's going
Speaker 5: to be positive, But I want to talk to you
Speaker 5: about something that many people consider negative. I want to
Speaker 5: talk to you today about disappointment because I think that
Speaker 5: we all have to grapple with disappointment from time to time.
Speaker 5: The problem with disappointment is that disappointment also if you
Speaker 5: don't understand it, disappointment can turn.
Speaker 2: So ugly so fast.
Speaker 5: Too many people allow disappointment to turn into resentment. Too
Speaker 5: many people allow disappointment to turn into a final verdict,
Speaker 5: so to speak. In other words, you know, so many
Speaker 5: people think that this disappointment for them symbolizes the end.
Speaker 5: When you allow for disappointment to turn into resentment, and
Speaker 5: you allowed disappointment to turn into the final verdict, you're
Speaker 5: losing what disappointment actually can become for you. And I
Speaker 5: want you all to start looking at disappointment as motivation.
Speaker 5: How many times have you been faced with something that
Speaker 5: was disappointing. Let's say you go in to get.
Speaker 2: A job and you're on your last interview, and I
Speaker 2: have been in this position.
Speaker 10: Man.
Speaker 5: I was trying to get an insurance job one time
Speaker 5: years ago, and I went in and I had gotten
Speaker 5: gone through about three or four interviews. I was at
Speaker 5: my final interview and I said, man, I'm about to
Speaker 5: get this job, man, get my little family together, I'd
Speaker 5: be all right.
Speaker 2: And got to that interview and they told me no.
Speaker 5: And the reason they gave me for not hiring me
Speaker 5: was I had moved too many times over the past
Speaker 5: seven years and that represented it to their company, a
Speaker 5: sign of unstableness.
Speaker 2: That disappointment for me was gut wrenching.
Speaker 5: I actually got in my car, my little seventy two Chevy,
Speaker 5: and I was driving off Man and tears was in
Speaker 5: my eyes when I got up on the freeway and
Speaker 5: I drove back and I looked back over at that
Speaker 5: big building with that big powerful name on it, and
Speaker 5: I had gone through four interviews and I and all
Speaker 5: of a sudden, I was so disappointed and not got
Speaker 5: getting hired. But you know what I learned to do though,
Speaker 5: from that moment on, I turned all my disappointment into motivation.
Speaker 5: I said, Okay, now this might not be right for everybody,
Speaker 5: but I use it as a challenge. I use all
Speaker 5: my disappointments as okay, I'll show you. I use them
Speaker 5: all this motivation. From the time my teacher told me
Speaker 5: that you ain't gonna never be nothing, that there's no
Speaker 5: way they'll put somebody like you on TV because you
Speaker 5: have a stuttering problem and you can't even talk. I said, okay,
Speaker 5: but who are you who is issuing out this disappointment?
Speaker 2: Because you're not gonna make me resent.
Speaker 5: You and you're not gonna cause me to think that
Speaker 5: you're denying me this opportunity. Are you handing me this
Speaker 5: bad news of disappointment. I'm not going to allow you
Speaker 5: to be my final verdict. You will not be the
Speaker 5: truth teller in my life. You are not going to
Speaker 5: be the person who are who is the author of
Speaker 5: my destiny. You are not it that belongs to God,
Speaker 5: not you, and I will not give that to anyone.
Speaker 5: So when you're facing disappointment, do not hand that disappointment
Speaker 5: over to the person who gave it to you in the.
Speaker 2: Form of empowerment.
Speaker 5: Do not allow them to control your destiny with this
Speaker 5: one piece of disappointment that causes you to go into
Speaker 5: such resentment that you become bitter and all of a sudden,
Speaker 5: now all you think about is that, and you be
Speaker 5: getting you developed this nasty attitude. You don't have to
Speaker 5: do that, and you also don't have to let them
Speaker 5: become the final verdict. They are not the author of
Speaker 5: your destiny. They are not the author of your future.
Speaker 5: They are not that belongs to God and only God.
Speaker 5: Don't let them trip you up. And I'm saying this
Speaker 5: because I've had many, many, many disappointments.
Speaker 2: You ain't this. You ain't that. I've had shows, counseled,
Speaker 2: gigs taken.
Speaker 5: I've been fired from radio, I've been all of that,
Speaker 5: or I've had some disappointing setbacks. But let me tell
Speaker 5: you something I've learned to do. I've learned to take
Speaker 5: all those setbacks and use them as motivation. And I
Speaker 5: just quietly say to myself, you ain't my God. You
Speaker 5: ain't the author of my destiny. You didn't create me,
Speaker 5: You don't know me. You have no say so in
Speaker 5: the real outcome of who I'm going to be and
Speaker 5: what I'm going to turn myself into.
Speaker 2: It's not you. And I'll not give you the power
Speaker 2: to do that to me.
Speaker 5: You who think you have the power By telling me no,
Speaker 5: by turning me down, by refusing me, by voting against me,
Speaker 5: by saying that I'm not the right one for the part,
Speaker 5: they're saying that your company don't need a person like me,
Speaker 5: by telling me that I represent an unstable person by
Speaker 5: telling me that I don't have.
Speaker 2: What it takes.
Speaker 5: None, no, no, no, no, it's just because you don't know,
Speaker 5: because you don't know what God really has for me,
Speaker 5: and that ain't your fault. So why bear resentment for
Speaker 5: these people who are causing this disappointment in your life?
Speaker 5: You don't have to do that because they are not
Speaker 5: the author of your destiny. And don't you dare give
Speaker 5: them that. You take that disappointment and you use it
Speaker 5: as the motivation. Feel sorry for people who tell me no,
Speaker 5: because you know what I know. I know they just
Speaker 5: don't know what God has for me, and I end
Speaker 5: up somehow through God's grace and mercy showing them all.
Speaker 5: Keep the right attitude, y'all. God got something for you
Speaker 5: through all your disappointments. Y'all have a great weekend.
Speaker 2: Okay.
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