Speaker 1: What's up. It's Lift Service.
Speaker 2: I'm Angela Yee, I'm Gig Maguire, I'm Jazz and Brand,
Speaker 2: I'm kim On Sorrio.
Speaker 3: Ashley Marie all right.
Speaker 4: Well, kim On Sorrio, just for context, is a good
Speaker 4: friend of mine who I've known since we both kind
Speaker 4: of came up in this business together. And she's also
Speaker 4: an executive producer in the world of TV and film. Okay,
Speaker 4: and so she is currently producing The Impact New York.
Speaker 4: All right, And Ashley Marie, as we should all know
Speaker 4: by now, is one of the stars of the series. So,
Speaker 4: Ashley Marie, I know your mom too. You know, I'm
Speaker 4: Bernice Burgos and you guys are on the show together.
Speaker 4: So we're gonna get all into that. But of course
Speaker 4: we want to know more about you. You came in here
Speaker 4: a little frazzle today.
Speaker 3: Girl in the moment?
Speaker 5: Hut what happened? Why are you?
Speaker 3: I just wanna my me? And who not my man?
Speaker 3: But he my man cheated on me?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that is awful.
Speaker 4: Now you've got to work and you found like you
Speaker 4: said fifteen minutes ago, Yeah, so how did you find out?
Speaker 3: I got a phone call on and they was like oh,
Speaker 3: you're still dealing with such and such And I'm like yeah,
Speaker 3: and they're like, oh, well he's dealing with such and
Speaker 3: such and I'm like that's not true. She like they
Speaker 3: like no, she told me herself, and I'm like, what,
Speaker 3: like right? But I'm happy though, because the new year.
Speaker 4: So do you you know the woman that he's okay?
Speaker 4: She had like an enemy or no, not friend, something
Speaker 4: like that.
Speaker 6: So friendly me, like maybe a friend of me.
Speaker 5: Yeah, liked y'all say high viby.
Speaker 3: We don't say high. But we know of each other,
Speaker 3: like we used to be cool.
Speaker 7: Okay.
Speaker 4: And she knows that's your man. No, your man, that's
Speaker 4: not your No. She on the show nobody knows okay, but.
Speaker 3: She on the show No.
Speaker 6: New York January twenty second.
Speaker 4: Eat Relationship and going on Because when you said my man,
Speaker 4: I didn't realize that. I thought you still were wear
Speaker 4: Bubba who's the CEO of Highbridge, that's who you have
Speaker 4: a daughter with.
Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, but see there's my man who not
Speaker 3: my man. So it's not really my but I'll be considerate.
Speaker 5: Somebody kind of deal with Okay, man, Well we didn't
Speaker 5: go together, were you under the pre a little bit
Speaker 5: under the impression that it was just you and him
Speaker 5: dealing with each other.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, yeah, okay.
Speaker 4: So we had just started dealing redaling with each other
Speaker 4: because I stopped dealing with my bayfather before the bull dropped.
Speaker 4: What when y'all see the show, y'all gonna be like, girls,
Speaker 4: it's just.
Speaker 1: A lot in that girl like, I can't wait.
Speaker 5: I know, well, it sounds messy.
Speaker 1: I love it.
Speaker 4: So, but this was a fairly new thing that because
Speaker 4: y'all justice, Yeah, like three days ago it was really okay,
Speaker 4: So can you forgive somebody when it's that early on?
Speaker 4: Maybe there's like some overlapping.
Speaker 8: So my whole thing is I feel like some everybody
Speaker 8: always got somebody in some sort of capacity.
Speaker 7: Like hold on.
Speaker 3: We knew each other though we were dealing with each
Speaker 3: other in September, in August, in August, and then we
Speaker 3: stopped dealing with each other, and then we just we
Speaker 3: started dealing with each other. But in that time, when
Speaker 3: we started dealing with each other just a few weeks ago,
Speaker 3: he told me that he wasn't dealing with nobody.
Speaker 1: That was my next question.
Speaker 8: Has there been a conversation of what what we got
Speaker 8: going on and what our intentions are with each other.
Speaker 1: But how long ago did you stop dealing with your ex.
Speaker 3: Ago?
Speaker 4: I mean, who got kids in here? You got kids,
Speaker 4: you got everybody. Yeah, don't deal with daddy.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I told you.
Speaker 5: But I did for a while afterwards.
Speaker 7: So I get it.
Speaker 5: I understand.
Speaker 2: I don't get it to ye.
Speaker 3: So y'all still gonna do with each other.
Speaker 8: It's probably your same age. So and her father unfortunately
Speaker 8: passed away, but even when he was alive, we didn't.
Speaker 3: We wasn't nothing, okay, but I know my baby father
Speaker 3: s when I was fifteen, okay. So and I was
Speaker 3: like my first love, my first everything. So I don't know.
Speaker 3: Still to this day, we see each other and we
Speaker 3: be like smiling every time. You don't get butterflies when
Speaker 3: you see each other.
Speaker 1: I said, why aren't y'all just together?
Speaker 3: Because I have a lot going on? And I left.
Speaker 3: We was living with each other for five years and
Speaker 3: it was too much. Like I went from living with
Speaker 3: my mom my sister and it was just being us
Speaker 3: three where the house would be quiet, and then living
Speaker 3: with him is like now I got a cater to everybody,
Speaker 3: like it would be his family coming over which I
Speaker 3: don't have a problem with.
Speaker 4: I love them, but it's like I gotta cook for everybody.
Speaker 4: I gotta make sure everything is clean. No, but they
Speaker 4: don't want that. They don't want that. I put it
Speaker 4: right in the plate like I made it's overnight.
Speaker 3: You're right, it was cool, But I just felt like
Speaker 3: I wasn't able to find myself like a housewife. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I was a housewife.
Speaker 4: So you want some time on your own, basically is
Speaker 4: what it is. Because she was dealing with him since
Speaker 4: she was fifteen. They do have a kid together. She
Speaker 4: lived with It's nice to live on your own.
Speaker 5: This is my first time, So you live by yourself
Speaker 5: right now on the show, you guys kind of talk
Speaker 5: about the fact that you're living on myself. Yeah, that's
Speaker 5: that's good.
Speaker 3: This is the first time I went straight from living
Speaker 3: with my mom to men.
Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, So let's talk about Berniece for a second,
Speaker 4: because when I met your mom, she was working at
Speaker 4: Baby and the Mall. This was before she really blew
Speaker 4: up as like a he has an influencer as a
Speaker 4: host and doing different things, and so she had you
Speaker 4: when she was pretty young to fifteen years old.
Speaker 1: Okay, and So what was that.
Speaker 4: Like having a mom who was like a fun young mom.
Speaker 7: Real quick, sorry and have something for you.
Speaker 9: Oh gosh, okay, god, she almost dropped the cake.
Speaker 7: That is so amazing.
Speaker 3: That was so cute.
Speaker 4: I just said where she was just saying that now,
Speaker 4: I would say that about yesterday and.
Speaker 5: I was like, where is this is a Q right?
Speaker 7: I love this?
Speaker 5: Okay, chanel okay, purple face.
Speaker 6: That's how beautiful.
Speaker 3: That's really cute.
Speaker 10: You.
Speaker 5: I love him.
Speaker 10: His birthday to you, Happy birthday to you, Happy birthday,
Speaker 10: deer Angela.
Speaker 1: Hali Birthday to you. Am.
Speaker 4: I like this because it looked like it's so pretty.
Speaker 6: It is so nice.
Speaker 1: It's a beautiful guy.
Speaker 5: And I was like, oh that's pretty.
Speaker 1: Look I got some rich friends, y'all not gonna rich.
Speaker 5: This ain't no cheap cake.
Speaker 1: All right, we're gonna have to cut this.
Speaker 7: Thank you.
Speaker 1: Don't go anywhere.
Speaker 6: It's set decoration though. You got to put it there.
Speaker 7: Now.
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is so cute. It is super cute. That's
Speaker 3: his favor color.
Speaker 7: Purple.
Speaker 6: It's blanking. It's blanking. Oh, I should tell everybody.
Speaker 2: Dan was gonna be like this was I should tell
Speaker 2: I should tell everybody how Angela acts in the Chanelle store.
Speaker 6: She's been buying everything. You would talk about having rich friends.
Speaker 1: I'm not rich, No, I'm cash poor right now buying cash.
Speaker 6: How much is that jacket?
Speaker 1: I'll take that.
Speaker 4: I'm like anyway back to Ashley Marie, but no, So,
Speaker 4: how was that for you growing up with your mom?
Speaker 4: She was young, fun, you know, popular, people knew her.
Speaker 4: What was that like for you?
Speaker 3: I have always been like doing my own thing, So
Speaker 3: when my mom was doing all of that, I wasn't
Speaker 3: really realizing what was really going on, like I was
Speaker 3: in school. But like I will be fighting people because
Speaker 3: they'd be like, you know, she works in starlets, so
Speaker 3: they'll be like, oh, your mom is a stripple, but
Speaker 3: she's not even.
Speaker 1: A strip a vitender. I started writing.
Speaker 3: Starts in the rings.
Speaker 4: So it's like I'll be going off on people a lot.
Speaker 4: I'll be arguing I ain't know how to deal with
Speaker 4: certain stuff. People be commenting stuff on my Instagram and
Speaker 4: it's like, you know, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I was a rebel child though, So but that.
Speaker 4: Is tough though, because I can imagine like going to
Speaker 4: school and people saying negative things. So I got her
Speaker 4: comment on this because I have a very similar situation.
Speaker 4: I actually was a stripper, and like I said, my
Speaker 4: daughter and your daughter are, how are you?
Speaker 3: I'm twenty seven, same age, she's.
Speaker 8: Twenty seven, And the difference is we lived in Atlanta,
Speaker 8: where stripping is the thing.
Speaker 1: So when she was in middle.
Speaker 8: School, high school, I was like the top stripper at
Speaker 8: the top strip club, and everybody knew me the same
Speaker 8: way everybody knows your mother and I. In hindsight, I
Speaker 8: would ask her, like, you know, how was that, and
Speaker 8: she's like, how was what? Like life was great? So
Speaker 8: I was very eager to hear your response to what
Speaker 8: that question was, because you know, I kind of lived
Speaker 8: that same life on the other side, but really as
Speaker 8: a stripper. But now you know she's grown and Atlanta.
Speaker 8: It's definitely then when it different when it comes.
Speaker 3: When my mom started in Starlett's, she we moved to Jersey,
Speaker 3: so we was in the Bronx for a long time
Speaker 3: and then we moved to Jason. I'm like, this tough
Speaker 3: kid coming to Jersey being around only kids, and it's
Speaker 3: like some of these kids is bougie, some of them
Speaker 3: is not. And it's like, you know, they on Instagram,
Speaker 3: so they see what's going on, right, And then it
Speaker 3: was like, you know, my mom's dating life and all
Speaker 3: this extra stuff. And I was just like I was
Speaker 3: on time and I'm like, whoever got's son? And stay
Speaker 3: I'm or whatever. So I was really a rebel. Like
Speaker 3: my mom really went through it with me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't imagine.
Speaker 3: She was like, look, I was like a lot.
Speaker 4: But then she also had her pajama line and still does.
Speaker 4: So you work with that too or no?
Speaker 3: No. I helped start it. I helped with the designs
Speaker 3: in the beginning, and I stopped. I stopped doing that
Speaker 3: why because that's not my passion. I had my own
Speaker 3: business too. I was selling waide Streness. But I was
Speaker 3: doing that for the money and I made a lot
Speaker 3: of money. But that's not my passion.
Speaker 5: Okay, so your passion against music?
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's always been music since I was little.
Speaker 1: So how did you embubb meat?
Speaker 3: I met him and a party was and hear, yeah
Speaker 3: that was when.
Speaker 7: I was young.
Speaker 3: I wasn't have enough party, but he was like, and good.
Speaker 3: My mom dressed me in a church lady out. I
Speaker 3: was so sad. I was fifteen. She I finally her
Speaker 3: dressed me. She dressed me looking crazy. He noticed me,
Speaker 3: but then he started hitting me up. And I had
Speaker 3: a boyfriend and I was like, I can't talk to you,
Speaker 3: and then I got with him. He was the first
Speaker 3: boy that stood over my house.
Speaker 6: That was And so she's still in love with him.
Speaker 7: The impact.
Speaker 1: She's breaking up with.
Speaker 5: Daddy, she's really still in love with her.
Speaker 6: Yeah, she's really.
Speaker 7: Do you think that.
Speaker 2: I can tell We've been filming now for about three months.
Speaker 3: No spoilers, but.
Speaker 2: You can tell, right, just in terms of how she
Speaker 2: lights up when she speaks about him.
Speaker 4: What about when he's with other women? Since you guys
Speaker 4: aren't together, does he tell you she.
Speaker 3: Literally like, lose my mind? What you mean, I'm a
Speaker 3: little key crazy. I'm a tourist. So are we crazy?
Speaker 5: Your birthday?
Speaker 3: May night? Go ahead, Yeah, I'll be going crazy.
Speaker 4: Like give us an egg, not now, though, Give us
Speaker 4: an example of something you've done that you would consider crazy.
Speaker 3: Oh, I said it on the show. I did a
Speaker 3: lot of shit.
Speaker 1: Oh.
Speaker 3: I put all his clothes outside. We lived in a
Speaker 3: big house, and I put all his clothes outside, and
Speaker 3: I made like a I did like a board, and
Speaker 3: I stated everything he did and all the cheating.
Speaker 5: He did a board.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I did a board, bag bags all his stuff.
Speaker 3: It was all in bags.
Speaker 4: And all the neighbors came out at like seven in
Speaker 4: the morning and they was coming up to the board
Speaker 4: and they was reading it.
Speaker 3: They was like, oh, he ain't coming home.
Speaker 7: Oh wow, But he came home.
Speaker 3: He went through the window, came I.
Speaker 1: Would have wanted to come home after the board.
Speaker 5: I've never heard nobody do that.
Speaker 1: Did anybody Did the neighbors take the clothes?
Speaker 3: No, they were just laughing. They all knew us, so
Speaker 3: they knew we was always fighting. And then when he
Speaker 3: pulled in. It's so crazy because I was kicking him
Speaker 3: out so much that in his car and his trunk.
Speaker 3: Oh he had was his clothes. All his clothes is
Speaker 3: already in nail, so he needed was some.
Speaker 5: More bag or just like y'all were together.
Speaker 3: He was not cheating. She was definitely.
Speaker 5: Did you ever fight any of the women.
Speaker 3: One time? It was only one time, but they felt
Speaker 3: like I was so crazy. They don't really wanted to fight,
Speaker 3: like I was like staying in front.
Speaker 1: I can't imagine having like that.
Speaker 3: That's fine. I just got cheated on and I don't
Speaker 3: care right now. Like I'm I don't care.
Speaker 5: I might hit you later.
Speaker 6: That's growth. That's growth when you don't want to fight.
Speaker 4: But though you never want to be so numb to
Speaker 4: cheating and think that it's so normal that you don't care.
Speaker 4: It's not because it's not normal, Like it's not anything
Speaker 4: to just be like I don't care.
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. I'm at the point like
Speaker 3: if I get a man right now, whoever it is,
Speaker 3: my baby father, the new guy, whoever, if you cheat
Speaker 3: on me, if you even give me some type of signs.
Speaker 1: Have you ever cheated?
Speaker 7: Hell?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: What was your reason?
Speaker 8: Because we have a theory that women cheat for like
Speaker 8: certain reasons, for different reasons.
Speaker 1: Yeah, m.
Speaker 3: The truth. Yes, please, I cheated on my baby father first.
Speaker 3: He wasn't doing anything wrong. He was like the perfect, perfect,
Speaker 3: perfect boyfriend. I cheated on him first. That's what started
Speaker 3: his cheating.
Speaker 5: Why did you? Why did you cheat on him?
Speaker 3: Because he took me from somebody and I was I
Speaker 3: still kind of liked them, but I was just I
Speaker 3: was young, I got I had daddy isshoes. I didn't
Speaker 3: you know, I really didn't know what's a good man
Speaker 3: until I met one. So when I cheated. I was
Speaker 3: just like, damn, I fucked up.
Speaker 4: So that kind of ruined the relationship. And that's when
Speaker 4: he started cheating.
Speaker 3: That's when it started.
Speaker 1: Man, that's now. That's accountability though.
Speaker 4: To say that I'm the person that that kind of
Speaker 4: made it start. When you say you have daddy issues?
Speaker 4: So your dad is he on the show?
Speaker 3: Girl?
Speaker 1: And what was your relationship like with him growing up?
Speaker 3: He's on the show and he just he's just a
Speaker 3: a hallm baby daddy. I wass y'all know.
Speaker 4: You know, they's selling dogs, pit bulls and shit. They
Speaker 4: take dogs better than they take their kids. So my
Speaker 4: mom had one of those.
Speaker 5: So how is how is it filming with him on
Speaker 5: the show and stuff?
Speaker 10: No?
Speaker 3: I only feel with him one time. Okay, yeah it was.
Speaker 3: It was weird because we don't we get into it,
Speaker 3: but that was like I don't know, spoil spoilers.
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, was he present though you're throughout your life?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 7: No, he wasn't.
Speaker 1: Okay not at all. How does how does your mom
Speaker 1: deal with him?
Speaker 3: She don't at all? Like ill that that's the lute hush.
Speaker 3: She don't deal with him at or she's like you've
Speaker 3: grown you're grown ass woman. I don't got to deal
Speaker 3: with that man.
Speaker 1: So, m so was he there even like when you
Speaker 1: were born?
Speaker 3: Was he jail when I was born?
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, all right? Wow, this is a lot that
Speaker 1: you see.
Speaker 4: I think people have to also understand where people are
Speaker 4: coming from because, like you said, you know, your mama's
Speaker 4: fifteen when she had you, your dad was in jail
Speaker 4: when you were born, and then even in your relationships,
Speaker 4: you didn't know how.
Speaker 3: To Like, yeah, I feel like that scarred me a lot,
Speaker 3: Like in a lot of situations that I have now
Speaker 3: still as an adult, it's like I still have those
Speaker 3: type of daddy issues because of that. So it's like
Speaker 3: now I'm maturing, I'm twenty seven, I got a passion
Speaker 3: for what I want. I know what I want, and
Speaker 3: it's like now I'm not dealing with certain shit before
Speaker 3: I didn't know.
Speaker 1: So what's an ideal man for you? Like, what would
Speaker 1: you say? These are the things that I want in
Speaker 1: a relationship.
Speaker 3: A cultured man?
Speaker 5: What is a cultured man?
Speaker 3: I mean, my daddy's African, so he's very cultured. He's
Speaker 3: very family orientated. Like you know, we've been to Africa,
Speaker 3: so I get to see different things, different living and
Speaker 3: stuff like that. I like a man that could cook.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, like that mad at that jas He's like
Speaker 1: me too. The men that can actually could Like if
Speaker 1: a guy could cook, can it really cooked?
Speaker 10: No?
Speaker 1: Not just on the grill either, you know every guy every.
Speaker 3: Yeah for sure. What a dude that could dress, that
Speaker 3: coulddress me, that could take care of me? Like I
Speaker 3: shouldn't be able to ask you for anything. You should
Speaker 3: already know I needed, right.
Speaker 4: You know that's interesting because you've made money from a
Speaker 4: young age, Like you said, you were selling waste trainers.
Speaker 1: You were an influencer, so you've always you know, I.
Speaker 3: Never really needed a man, but i'd be wanting. I
Speaker 3: got lucky, ma mee, Daddy Rich.
Speaker 1: Do you get along with Ella because she's on the
Speaker 1: show and that's a Buggy's girlfriend.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's my daughter's godmother.
Speaker 1: Okay, so that's nice.
Speaker 4: So you guys asked you are on the impact to
Speaker 4: look at him shaking her head. Yeah, so that's nice
Speaker 4: that you guys are actually on there together and our
Speaker 4: friends in real life.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's one of my closest friends.
Speaker 1: Do y'all tell each other stuff? Like, girl, why I
Speaker 1: was with such and such and so each other.
Speaker 3: She know everything me I didn't. I tell I'm a snitch.
Speaker 3: You I can't know nothing.
Speaker 7: They know.
Speaker 3: You cannot say nothing around my ears.
Speaker 7: I got ears.
Speaker 3: I can hear through the room, my hair. I record
Speaker 3: what they said.
Speaker 1: I did not.
Speaker 7: That's hard.
Speaker 1: Now, let me ask everybody in the room that.
Speaker 4: Right. Let's say you're in a relationship and but you're
Speaker 4: friends with your man's you know girl, but your man's
Speaker 4: friends girl, you all become friends and hang out together
Speaker 4: if you know her man is doing something, you know
Speaker 4: because of your man.
Speaker 1: Let's say you know because.
Speaker 4: He's you're Are you supposed to tell because your man
Speaker 4: might be mad at you for that?
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6: Business, I'm mind.
Speaker 2: There's five people that I'm never minded my business for
Speaker 2: five women that I'm like, you can't do anything.
Speaker 6: I'm I'm bringing it to you. Everybody else, I'm minding
Speaker 6: my business.
Speaker 10: Right.
Speaker 5: If it's something, then I might think it depends on
Speaker 5: all My relationship is like with you, most likely I
Speaker 5: want to stay. I want to because the thing is
Speaker 5: you'll tell them they'll stay together.
Speaker 7: There. You can't exactly.
Speaker 3: Like other people relations because I snitched.
Speaker 4: I don't care, because then it might make like say
Speaker 4: bodies like I don't want her around I don't want
Speaker 4: her around us because.
Speaker 1: You can't care. But they.
Speaker 3: Together, But they got to take that between them two.
Speaker 3: The guys, they can take that. We you know, we close,
Speaker 3: our kids was close.
Speaker 2: So it's kind of like, nah, I love that because
Speaker 2: if it was the other way around, they telling they
Speaker 2: snitching on us, for sure.
Speaker 1: So have you gotten told on?
Speaker 3: I don't think so.
Speaker 7: I might have.
Speaker 3: Said, you know, you never know a nigga be like
Speaker 3: I heard, and he heard it from that person, so.
Speaker 7: You never know.
Speaker 4: But I was, now, what about bringing your child around? Like,
Speaker 4: let's just say he brings your daughter around like another
Speaker 4: another woman child.
Speaker 3: She's fine. She'd be six in February. She talking and
Speaker 3: she told you too much. She get it from from
Speaker 3: both my mothers. Got the she'd be like, I heard that.
Speaker 3: She like I asked her. I'd be like, indeed, daddy
Speaker 3: got girlfriend. She'd be like, no, Mommy, you and my
Speaker 3: daddy's gonna get married by.
Speaker 1: Force, by force, okay whatever you think you guys will
Speaker 1: get married.
Speaker 3: Oh, I don't know, maybe maybe not.
Speaker 1: But you've never felt like you feel about him about
Speaker 1: anybody else.
Speaker 5: No, So wait a minute. So he can't bring anybody
Speaker 5: around under no circumstances.
Speaker 1: What about you?
Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I've never I've never ever bought my daughter
Speaker 3: around me in respect. I think I think it's just
Speaker 3: I've been so big on family. You know. I didn't
Speaker 3: get that when I was a kid. So it's like,
Speaker 3: if I'm gonna do that, like that has to be
Speaker 3: my man. I can't do that serious relationship.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, okay, Now what about your mom working a
Speaker 1: lot too when you were young?
Speaker 3: What about it?
Speaker 1: You know, I'm saying, was that hard for you also?
Speaker 4: Or who was like, you know, if you have to
Speaker 4: be in the house because she's working at nights as
Speaker 4: a bartender, then y'all.
Speaker 3: I was the rebel child. I liked it.
Speaker 7: I don't like that.
Speaker 3: I was like, bye, you need to fold your clothes.
Speaker 3: I was hyped, I got the frequentt I was.
Speaker 1: Perfect what I was.
Speaker 3: I was so like that didn't bother me at all.
Speaker 4: And so you always all right, So when you talk
Speaker 4: about what you want to do, which is music, you
Speaker 4: always knew you wanted to do that.
Speaker 3: I used to be a dancer for Radio Disney, Pece Star.
Speaker 3: I don't know if y'all know who that is, but
Speaker 3: she was a rapper, so I was a backup dancer
Speaker 3: for her. I was a backup dancer for Bianca, for
Speaker 3: Young Bay. Yeah. So I've always been in the meg music. Yeah.
Speaker 3: I was always doing as a kid though my mom
Speaker 3: had me and all types of stuff when I was six.
Speaker 3: So I've always been a dancer and I've always been
Speaker 3: in singing classes. So I thought originally I was going
Speaker 3: to sing, and then I started rapping because I knew
Speaker 3: how to write. I didn't even know I knew how
Speaker 3: to write until I wrote Back on the Market.
Speaker 1: But how did your baby daddy feel about that? He
Speaker 1: liked it? Back on the Market. He liked it.
Speaker 3: I was surprised. He was calling. He was getting calls
Speaker 3: from jail, like yo, your baby. He's like, yeah, you
Speaker 3: want to hear it. I was like, wow, that's what
Speaker 3: I But it still when when his family want to
Speaker 3: get him mad, like I'm.
Speaker 1: Back in the walking Oh my gosh.
Speaker 4: Do you ever Kim as an executive producer and you see,
Speaker 4: like thinking about what we came up with, you know,
Speaker 4: when we were younger and in the game and just
Speaker 4: on our way up? Do you give advice or as
Speaker 4: an executive producer? How involved are you get in people's lives?
Speaker 2: Like I had a cast member tell me one time
Speaker 2: on a show I was doing. They said, damn, Kim,
Speaker 2: how you just come in and out of people lives
Speaker 2: like this?
Speaker 1: Because that's true.
Speaker 2: It's because you have to really get into in order
Speaker 2: to give a good show and tell good story, you
Speaker 2: have to really become you know, you got to get
Speaker 2: into your cast lives.
Speaker 4: So but how is that when the camera stopped rolling
Speaker 4: then and now? Like you said, don't pick on my
Speaker 4: phone business, you said, I.
Speaker 3: Don't be kidding.
Speaker 6: I'm Kidding'm kidding. No, some people will say that, they'll
Speaker 6: be like, okay, am I going to court you when
Speaker 6: the shows up. That's not true. I'm definitely all in
Speaker 6: there business.
Speaker 1: But you know, in a real way, what happens if
Speaker 1: you don't like somebody.
Speaker 7: I never not like.
Speaker 5: Someone, Angela, Remember you didn't you didn't care for it.
Speaker 1: That's impossible. Listen, it was a couple.
Speaker 2: I'm at the point in my career where I think
Speaker 2: that if I don't like you, I just don't have
Speaker 2: to deal with you. You know, I don't have to
Speaker 2: deal with casts on that level, right, Like, we have
Speaker 2: a big team of producers, so I like to be
Speaker 2: really involved, but I don't have to be involved. So
Speaker 2: if I don't like you, I just won't be involved.
Speaker 2: We have a show to do if you And really
Speaker 2: I don't have any personal issues. I think there was
Speaker 2: one person, like in my whole reality show career, right which.
Speaker 1: Came and I was starting to.
Speaker 6: Stand Angela, I'm just going to do this.
Speaker 3: Both.
Speaker 6: There was a man and a woman. Yeah, and it's
Speaker 6: not personal.
Speaker 2: It's just don't don't disrespect, don't just you know, like
Speaker 2: if we're here to do a job, so if there's
Speaker 2: no personal like we're doing a job.
Speaker 10: You know.
Speaker 4: It's so interesting seeing people are telling like their realities
Speaker 4: now and things that they've gone through.
Speaker 1: What are your thoughts about that?
Speaker 4: Because I feel like we came in an era where
Speaker 4: you don't talk about like things happen behind the scenes
Speaker 4: and they stay behind the scenes.
Speaker 1: But now I feel like it's everybody talking about reality.
Speaker 1: I don't think that's a bad thing.
Speaker 4: It's a different thing because when we came up, it
Speaker 4: was like you, if you want to be around people,
Speaker 4: you gotta keep your mouth shut. Mind your business, you know,
Speaker 4: stay focused, do your own thing. If something happens to you,
Speaker 4: no one gives a fuck. You got to understand it's
Speaker 4: just part of the job. That fucked up shit is
Speaker 4: going to happen to you. But now it's a time
Speaker 4: where something happens and we get to be like this
Speaker 4: person did that, and not that it always turns out good.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 2: Social media though, I feel like it's really like what
Speaker 2: social media has done, even even because.
Speaker 6: Don't forget Angela and I did a show together.
Speaker 2: So we did a show, right and instagram around it
Speaker 2: or just was it now, right, So like we didn't
Speaker 2: have social media in the way that we have it
Speaker 2: now at that time.
Speaker 6: So it's really like some YouTube stuff I think back then, Yeah,
Speaker 6: like it wasn't.
Speaker 3: It wasn't nothing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, something happened.
Speaker 5: Is everywhere they all live and explaining what happened other
Speaker 5: person's in the comments.
Speaker 1: So being that this is your first reality show, how
Speaker 1: was the experience for you?
Speaker 4: I think I was mostly myself, Like I don't know
Speaker 4: to be anybody else but myself. So I feel like
Speaker 4: in certain times I was like a little bit too chill.
Speaker 6: You would tell me you want the tea.
Speaker 3: I was like really really laid back, cause it's like
Speaker 3: I don't know y'all. Like, you know, so I'm gonna
Speaker 3: act how I act when I don't know somebody. So
Speaker 3: but it's like, you know, I'm meeting people. I have
Speaker 3: to be open to it, have to be nice. I
Speaker 3: am nice, but it's like I can come off mean
Speaker 3: sometimes what you think.
Speaker 2: You're nice, but you're a little y'all got to really
Speaker 2: tune in because here's the thing.
Speaker 6: This, this is what I tell Ashley all the time.
Speaker 6: This is her first job.
Speaker 2: Tell them it's your first job, right, So like even
Speaker 2: though we're shooting a show, you got to come to work.
Speaker 2: You gotta come and and it's it's a lot, and
Speaker 2: they sign up for the show and they're not necessarily
Speaker 2: ready for the show of like your phone is going
Speaker 2: off all the time.
Speaker 6: You got to be responsive all the time.
Speaker 2: You got to come to set all the time, to
Speaker 2: get hair and make up every time you come or
Speaker 2: you know, so it keeps They've never.
Speaker 6: Been that busy, I think, I mean, I don't know
Speaker 6: if they've.
Speaker 5: Never been that busy.
Speaker 4: So it's like, yeah, because that was hard for me
Speaker 4: when we did our show is I had a full
Speaker 4: time job on the radio.
Speaker 3: Different outfit and fly. I'm like, oh, my dad using
Speaker 3: all my ship.
Speaker 2: Different looks and so it's it's it's keeps them busy.
Speaker 2: But I think it gets you focused in a way
Speaker 2: that you've never been focused before. So if you are
Speaker 2: doing music, which is what she's doing, you're like, you
Speaker 2: know what, now I see the grind because it's every
Speaker 2: day with us, we always be looking for Ashley producers
Speaker 2: be blowing up her phone.
Speaker 3: Went for two days to do that.
Speaker 5: What were you doing?
Speaker 4: I just needed a mental I just needed one of
Speaker 4: those mental breaks because it was just a lot going
Speaker 4: on all at one time, and it was like, okay,
Speaker 4: what the fuck, Like I need to gather everything together,
Speaker 4: all my ship and I turned my phone off from everybody.
Speaker 3: Nobody can fund me, but.
Speaker 4: You know what, and see, we could have never did
Speaker 4: that because I feel like right now people are more
Speaker 4: understanding of the fact that you do need a mental
Speaker 4: break and you do need to.
Speaker 1: Take a rest. When we were coming up, it was like,
Speaker 1: I'm so used to that every day stop like it's
Speaker 1: when you off clock.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's all day.
Speaker 1: But it is important to make sure you take care
Speaker 1: of yourself, because that's how you have a breakdown.
Speaker 7: Dude, Yeah, if you don't.
Speaker 3: I have a kid, So every day I wake up
Speaker 3: six in the morning, make sure breakfast is ready for
Speaker 3: my daughter, take her to school, which is like thirty
Speaker 3: minutes away from my house. So it's like it's a lot,
Speaker 3: Like I'll be needing a little break and I needed
Speaker 3: those two days.
Speaker 7: Baby.
Speaker 1: I was like, is she coming back, y'all?
Speaker 5: Is there anything that you learned about yourself throughout this
Speaker 5: process of filming the show?
Speaker 1: Clocking in at work?
Speaker 3: I definitely known that. I mean, yeah, I would say
Speaker 3: clocking the network for sure. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Did you make friends? Something like that?
Speaker 4: Clear trapping? She's been on lip service. I think she's
Speaker 4: really Yeah, she's the same song we a day of.
Speaker 1: Part Okay, Yeah, No, she was really good and she's
Speaker 1: very talented and.
Speaker 5: A nice that's my girl.
Speaker 3: That's my girl. I mean, I mean I made friends,
Speaker 3: Like you know, we getting there. It's like it all
Speaker 3: depends what happens after the show.
Speaker 5: If we went staring.
Speaker 6: Here, can we did together?
Speaker 10: Right?
Speaker 6: Like she said Kim, I'm like, I mean, I will hope.
Speaker 3: Nobody saying thatthing crazy about somebody? Does I know they are.
Speaker 3: It's cool, but this is lipserver.
Speaker 4: So let's talk about the new song Knock Knock, all right.
Speaker 4: That there's one line in particular that stood up stood
Speaker 4: out to me before you can hear, has this ever
Speaker 4: happened to you?
Speaker 1: Has your Joe have a lot?
Speaker 3: No? But hold on, damn, I can say, go ahead.
Speaker 3: What I gave my baby father head every morning?
Speaker 1: That was every morning morning?
Speaker 3: Really you but your teeth first, of course, but sometimes
Speaker 3: I didn't. Everybody that's clocking in, I don't. She didn't
Speaker 3: have that's a job. That's yeah, it was every day.
Speaker 3: But I feel like I did it so much that
Speaker 3: now my joy really be like locking.
Speaker 5: Whose idea was it for?
Speaker 7: Every day? The daily? You know who that was?
Speaker 4: You never asked me you know what that because she's like,
Speaker 4: you're not leaving the house with a loaded weapon, period.
Speaker 3: I knew. Like, I feel like, this is my theory,
Speaker 3: Like if a guy comes a lot, then he ain't
Speaker 3: even doing nothing. But if he comes a little bit,
Speaker 3: he been doing.
Speaker 1: He could also have been masturbating.
Speaker 6: Are you sure so you was really doing it to investigate?
Speaker 1: I mean sometimes he didn't know that was investigation.
Speaker 6: There be like, let me see and he'd be like,
Speaker 6: she had a little measuring cup on the side.
Speaker 3: I know, I know.
Speaker 5: So did you enjoy getting you got?
Speaker 3: That's my ship?
Speaker 1: So you never skipped a day?
Speaker 7: No, what if you're mad?
Speaker 3: I was mad at unless I was mad. That was
Speaker 3: the only time.
Speaker 1: Were there are times when you were like this wasn't
Speaker 1: a lot?
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, scientist, I'm like, I know what I'm
Speaker 3: talking about.
Speaker 5: Are you going to do that for them every day?
Speaker 3: I mean, I dealt with a guy after my baby father,
Speaker 3: the guy I was just dealing with for three days. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I don't think I would do that with him. It's
Speaker 3: just that I know my baby father to the team
Speaker 3: like I know him. It's not if he gets with
Speaker 3: another girl, he probably gonna love it there because she
Speaker 3: ain't gonna no ship. I know everything. So it's like,
Speaker 3: you can't pass up nothing with me.
Speaker 1: You got to start all over it, right, Okay, Now,
Speaker 1: how can a guy tell it for a woman is cheating?
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 4: We don't cheat because you admitted when you cheated, right,
Speaker 4: did you act different whether like.
Speaker 3: Some you know, he went through my phone? Yeah?
Speaker 1: What made him go through your phone?
Speaker 3: Not a damn thing. He just took it, and I
Speaker 3: think I made him go through my phone. I started
Speaker 3: going crazy. I could have just chilled and he would
Speaker 3: have just been like, let me just see. He was
Speaker 3: literally just going to see something. And I was like,
Speaker 3: get my phone for sure, because I never did that,
Speaker 3: he'll take my phone. I would take his phone. I
Speaker 3: would look at the time, I would go on Instagram.
Speaker 3: He would never care. But when he took it that time,
Speaker 3: I lost my mind. He was like, he ran in
Speaker 3: his car and he drove off.
Speaker 1: You were like, oh, you were like, I can't even
Speaker 1: go the cop has my phone.
Speaker 3: That was the first time it happened. The second time
Speaker 3: it happened, I called the cops when he took my phone. See,
Speaker 3: I knew it.
Speaker 7: I knew it.
Speaker 4: That's big doing something crazy if you call the cops
Speaker 4: because somebody has The.
Speaker 3: Cops was laughing at me. They was dying laughing. I
Speaker 3: was like, sir, I need my phone. I have stuff
Speaker 3: in there.
Speaker 1: Like wow, do you think you could ever get it
Speaker 1: back to where it was with him?
Speaker 3: I think so. That's the one best friend. I think so,
Speaker 3: But it's going to take He got to understand my
Speaker 3: life now, my life is not the same does he
Speaker 3: not like what you do? Like?
Speaker 1: Does he not like?
Speaker 3: I feel like he's like up and down. It's kind
Speaker 3: of like sometimes he likes, sometimes he don't. It's like,
Speaker 3: you know, how guys are.
Speaker 5: Is it that you're more independent now that he can't care.
Speaker 3: For I don't know if it's that I'm independent. I
Speaker 3: just think like the posting on Instagram, the certain outfits
Speaker 3: that I'm wearing that kind of bothers him. It's like
Speaker 3: he can't have certain control over me the way he
Speaker 3: will usually have there because it's like I gotta work,
Speaker 3: like I wrap, I talk about certain things.
Speaker 1: Right, So you think you'll ever chant him again?
Speaker 3: Now? Yeah, I don't care. I'm doing my own thing,
Speaker 3: don't I don't want to be.
Speaker 1: Buying It doesn't sound like it's got work.
Speaker 4: At first, it feels like it is. And then when
Speaker 4: you say, I don't care, I'm doing my own thing.
Speaker 4: Even when you're in the song and the song before
Speaker 4: this where you said you're heartless, that's the same that
Speaker 4: the first song where you broke up, the breakups back
Speaker 4: and the work yeah.
Speaker 3: Back, oh yeah that was I didn't think I was
Speaker 3: going to get back with him after that, but he
Speaker 3: liked this, So I don't know, we weird. Nobody understands us.
Speaker 3: Kim don't even understand. I just kim be like, yo,
Speaker 3: what what is it with y'all? Like I don't want
Speaker 3: to say it.
Speaker 7: It's weird.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we just say we just flow.
Speaker 6: But they're in love.
Speaker 10: You know.
Speaker 2: Sometimes people in love, they just they just can't get
Speaker 2: enough of each other. It's like, you're so in love,
Speaker 2: you can't be together because you know, you get together.
Speaker 2: It's so detrimental to like your functioning your everyday life.
Speaker 5: That's why I don't like liking guys too much.
Speaker 1: You can't.
Speaker 6: You can't. You can't.
Speaker 5: You can't because I wouldn't.
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm like, oh, you mean, like I'm
Speaker 3: like I want to cook for you. I want to
Speaker 3: cater to you, like I want to wake up my
Speaker 3: days to you or to my kid or whatever. And
Speaker 3: it's like I really have my own stuff now, like
Speaker 3: I got my own shit going on. I can't do that,
Speaker 3: Fugu right now. I can't. It's not gonna work.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you this.
Speaker 4: When you were younger, a lot of people knew who
Speaker 4: you were from social media, where there ever a lot
Speaker 4: of like creepy guys.
Speaker 1: Handing you up when you weren't even so creepy older people.
Speaker 3: It's so crazy still to this day, creepy guys right
Speaker 3: me and it's guys be trying to talk to me
Speaker 3: and my mom. It's so weird. It's so weird. And
Speaker 3: before I literally write do back, I will go to
Speaker 3: her DM first just to make sure, just to sit.
Speaker 4: I'll be like, wow, it's straight, like we're good over here,
Speaker 4: Like it's good, funny, that's insane.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's one thing that I don't got to worry
Speaker 1: about with my daughter.
Speaker 8: But the only thing is is I have an age
Speaker 8: range that I don't straight away from because I just
Speaker 8: feel like I don't want to be fucking on somebody
Speaker 8: that we possibly fucking on my kid.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just weird.
Speaker 8: And I had her when I was seventeen, so we're
Speaker 8: still that very short age gap, and it's like the
Speaker 8: older she gets, the kind of closer we get in age,
Speaker 8: even though I'm aging as well, but the age gap
Speaker 8: kind of closes right, And that's really like it's just
Speaker 8: like a morality thing, like I can't talk to a
Speaker 8: guy that's this much younger than me just because he's
Speaker 8: so much to the age of my feet, Like.
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I think about it, and she dates a
Speaker 4: guy ten years younger, and you date a guy ten
Speaker 4: years older.
Speaker 1: That's you're so.
Speaker 7: Happy and they like her, you know, and I ain't.
Speaker 8: Even the young ones be beating down my mind as well,
Speaker 8: which is why I made the comment, because that's that's
Speaker 8: who I attract.
Speaker 1: Now they'd be like thirty and I'd be like.
Speaker 4: Everybody in here, I feel like has been through a
Speaker 4: really bad, dramatic breakup. What look at camstation in her head,
Speaker 4: Like yes, you know, but all of us, like we've
Speaker 4: been in long term relationships that have been like really traumatic.
Speaker 4: What would be some advice that you would give, you know,
Speaker 4: when you look back at what you went through and saying, Okay,
Speaker 4: this is what I would have done, you know differently,
Speaker 4: if anything, you know, what's that dang? I honestly feel
Speaker 4: like I should have spoken up more when I knew
Speaker 4: things instead of keeping them in and just kind of
Speaker 4: sweeping them under the rug. Like I feel like there
Speaker 4: are so many times where I just allowed the bullshit
Speaker 4: to happen where I should have and could have and
Speaker 4: just decided not to for whatever reason.
Speaker 7: In the moment.
Speaker 8: I feel like, in hindsight, maybe I should have said
Speaker 8: some shit back then instead of letting it comes. I mean,
Speaker 8: I'm very good at communicating, but I just felt like
Speaker 8: I was like keeping ship as attacking like ammunition, Like
Speaker 8: I was holding on this stuff because one day I'm
Speaker 8: going to shoot back, and I should have been shooting
Speaker 8: back in a moment. And then it's also you're like
Speaker 8: gathering information one and then that way, when you do
Speaker 8: some shit, you'd be like, well, you did this exactly,
Speaker 8: because sometimes when you let things like that faster, it
Speaker 8: gives you an excuse to do what you want to
Speaker 8: do because you know what they did.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I'm saying, What about you, Jasmine?
Speaker 5: What if I think I would have two things? I
Speaker 5: would have been more independent. I dealt with somebody and
Speaker 5: they took care of me like everything, you know, and
Speaker 5: well I liked It's it made me less independent, so
Speaker 5: certain things I didn't know how to do anything.
Speaker 1: I was like, Jasmine, you gotta get your own phone line.
Speaker 7: She's like, I don't.
Speaker 4: Get off the family then, and I'd be like, and
Speaker 4: my therapist be like, yes, get your own bride.
Speaker 5: You're an adult and I'm like, I mean, you know,
Speaker 5: he would do everything for me, so it was just like, okay,
Speaker 5: he would he would just do everything. Yeah, so I
Speaker 5: would you know.
Speaker 4: But I feel like, but that also could be a
Speaker 4: control thing too, because if you don't do these things
Speaker 4: and then you don't know how to do them, and
Speaker 4: then you're so reliant on somebody for them, it puts
Speaker 4: them in a position where they.
Speaker 1: Have a lot of control.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 5: And the other thing I think I would have told
Speaker 5: myself is, you know, when you're experiencing something, it feels
Speaker 5: so intense, and later it doesn't. It's not really when
Speaker 5: you're in it, it's magnified. And I would tell myself, like,
Speaker 5: it's not going to feel like you just need some time.
Speaker 5: It's not going to be this big deal.
Speaker 7: Right, Okay.
Speaker 4: I would say for me, i'd be letting things go
Speaker 4: on too long. I let my last relationship last for
Speaker 4: so long, and I should have been like, I wasn't
Speaker 4: happy and it was and you know good, but I
Speaker 4: was just like whatever. And so I think that you
Speaker 4: have to really like face those things and if it's
Speaker 4: not good and you see it's not going anywhere, then
Speaker 4: it is time to just say.
Speaker 5: Easier not to address it up.
Speaker 1: It's easier to kind of like not me.
Speaker 3: I'm a dress.
Speaker 4: I'm a very like fade to black type of person.
Speaker 4: I let something like run his course and just kind
Speaker 4: of fade out. You're capital yeah yeah, instead of like
Speaker 4: being like, all right, let's have a talk, let's do this,
Speaker 4: let's do that, let's figure this out. And I think
Speaker 4: that sometimes, like how you say you like to do
Speaker 4: everything for somebody, I could be like that too, and
Speaker 4: I do too much for people that when they don't
Speaker 4: really deserve it.
Speaker 3: I would say saying, like past relationships, right, I should
Speaker 3: have took more of his money.
Speaker 4: Honestly, you know, I look at it and now he
Speaker 4: give me anything that I want. But we're not together.
Speaker 4: But when we was together, would be so quiet and
Speaker 4: he had so much money. Sure this car is and
Speaker 4: I would ask for nothing. Okay, yeah, like that was
Speaker 4: stupid as hell.
Speaker 3: I would have took more his money.
Speaker 1: He wasn't just doing stuff for you though, like just.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it was like I didn't need much that
Speaker 3: was always in the house. I didn't need much. I
Speaker 3: wasn't even going out with my friends for real, so
Speaker 3: it's not much I needed and I would have got
Speaker 3: on my ship like I would have got more addressed up,
Speaker 3: more been outside, more looked good, got pretty like I
Speaker 3: feel like I didn't really get in tune.
Speaker 5: Sounds like you would have enjoyed life more.
Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure?
Speaker 1: What about you, Kim?
Speaker 6: How much time you got, how much time you go
Speaker 6: through it?
Speaker 1: You did? You did?
Speaker 3: I think?
Speaker 7: I think.
Speaker 6: One I would stop.
Speaker 2: Falling in love with the idea of something, right Like
Speaker 2: that would be my advice to women.
Speaker 6: Stop falling in love with the idea.
Speaker 2: So you see somebody, you know how they are, but
Speaker 2: you trying to change them to what you want them
Speaker 2: to be. They're not going to change for you. If
Speaker 2: he did it to the last girl, he's going to
Speaker 2: do it to you because that's in his character, right,
Speaker 2: So stop trying to I'm special.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no no.
Speaker 2: You have to like learn how to learn somebody and
Speaker 2: be in love with who they are, right And if
Speaker 2: you're in love with who they are, that's when you
Speaker 2: could find some like real I think common ground. I
Speaker 2: think for me, learning how to be happy alone has
Speaker 2: been my journey, right, So like it's dangerous now you
Speaker 2: do seems happy, So what do you be doing yourself.
Speaker 3: It is dangerous.
Speaker 6: I don't know what to do.
Speaker 5: If I don't have my daughter, I'll be like what,
Speaker 5: I'm about to go to New York. I don't even
Speaker 5: know what to do?
Speaker 1: Well I do?
Speaker 2: I do say when I keep myself really busy with work,
Speaker 2: So I do have a lot of work to do.
Speaker 2: I have a lot of projects, and I focus on that.
Speaker 2: But I think outside of that, just really enjoying yourself,
Speaker 2: right and not being so a lot of us are
Speaker 2: very co dependent, yes, right, so when you've been in
Speaker 2: relationships like I was very co dependent, and I was
Speaker 2: also I think through my divorce. You notice I was
Speaker 2: afraid to be alone, right, So I didn't want to
Speaker 2: be alone after I got divorced.
Speaker 6: It was like the fear that I had of oh
Speaker 6: my god.
Speaker 3: Like are you gonna dielan?
Speaker 2: No, you're gonna die a loan anyway, because when of
Speaker 2: y'all is gonna die first, or you're all gonna break up.
Speaker 1: But you're a tragic you know, like.
Speaker 2: You are not going to die together, Okay, so at
Speaker 2: some point you're.
Speaker 6: Going to be alone. So you got to learn how
Speaker 6: to be alone and be comfortable with that.
Speaker 2: And so now I'm so comfortable with like being by myself,
Speaker 2: and if someone is around, I enjoy their company like wholeheartedly,
Speaker 2: like I enjoy the time we have together and being
Speaker 2: with that person.
Speaker 7: Do you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: I always feel like it's so important for people to
Speaker 4: understand how to be independent and be a great individual
Speaker 4: on your own before you could be great in a
Speaker 4: relationship with somebody. Yes, you know, sometimes some people will
Speaker 4: tell you like, oh, no, you're supposed to be able
Speaker 4: to rely on the other person and be codependent.
Speaker 1: I think that is not dangerous.
Speaker 4: It's great when you're an independent, amazing person that I'm
Speaker 4: with you because I'm choosing this, not because I have to.
Speaker 3: When I was with my daughter's that my family, I
Speaker 3: have a lot of women in my family's not a
Speaker 3: lot of guys. They will be like, you need to
Speaker 3: just stay with him because he take care of you.
Speaker 3: Like they would never tell me get up and get
Speaker 3: your own ship, like I did that on my own right,
Speaker 3: And they would, like my grandmother everybody, like you need
Speaker 3: to just stay there, Like where you're gonna go after this,
Speaker 3: what you're gonna do. I literally felt like, damn, this
Speaker 3: is all I got, So I just stood and I
Speaker 3: dealt with all the ship.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, because sometimes that is something that is like
Speaker 4: a traditional thing to generation.
Speaker 1: You're gonna be with.
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, but you know, even if you think about
Speaker 4: your mom, she's always got her own. Yeah, she could
Speaker 4: tell me the same ship too. We're gonna go, it's you,
Speaker 4: him and the baby.
Speaker 3: Need to just stay here.
Speaker 10: I was like.
Speaker 4: I would have been because she didn't do that, you
Speaker 4: know what she definitely, Yeah, she went and got her own,
Speaker 4: but she wanted you to be able.
Speaker 3: She felt like and a lot of people felt like
Speaker 3: I wasn't strong enough to be on my own. So
Speaker 3: when I did it, it surprised everybody, Like I just
Speaker 3: got up and I.
Speaker 1: Just I left, like me and that day, what what
Speaker 1: made that happen? That day? When you got up and left?
Speaker 4: I got call and again, don't go back, and I
Speaker 4: went back to that. But okay, I said that wrong.
Speaker 4: We were not together. I continuously told him we were
Speaker 4: not together, but y'all living together. Though he was living together.
Speaker 3: But I told him like, I'm about to go get
Speaker 3: my crib and this is gonna be what it is.
Speaker 3: But he never listened to me. He thought I was playing.
Speaker 3: And one day he went through my phone. But that
Speaker 3: night I prayed and I was like, I want to
Speaker 3: leave this man. I can't deal with this no more,
Speaker 3: like I can't be in this house my own stuff.
Speaker 3: I want to do everything on my own. And that
Speaker 3: day he went through my phone. I packed on my stuff.
Speaker 3: Three days later I got my own grip.
Speaker 5: You got to stop going through the phone.
Speaker 1: I don't like that mean, I don't like because I've
Speaker 1: been telling my friends stuff.
Speaker 7: I don't like talking.
Speaker 1: Crazy, reckless, you're not.
Speaker 7: Behavior.
Speaker 3: It's because he went through my phone where he wasn't
Speaker 3: even together, like a year ago, like that, and I
Speaker 3: was like, I cried in the car.
Speaker 1: I said, how dare you passwords? I was.
Speaker 5: Don't want to be somewhere where you feel.
Speaker 7: Like damn Joe, like I can't even like sleep you.
Speaker 6: Look that's too hard, like is too hard? But turn
Speaker 6: your phone off, silent and like what do you do?
Speaker 7: Like the phone?
Speaker 1: And sometimes when you go through somebody's phone, it's not
Speaker 1: what it seemed like.
Speaker 10: Too.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't want them, it's definitely not yeah, because
Speaker 4: sometimes there's guys that you know him for ever that
Speaker 4: they'll be like, okay, I love you, be like I
Speaker 4: love you too, and you don't mean it.
Speaker 7: He looked it.
Speaker 1: I love him, then I love I don't, but it
Speaker 1: don't have to meet in a romance romantic. Romantic would
Speaker 1: be like like I have guy friends.
Speaker 6: That's the older thing though.
Speaker 4: Yeah I love you even like yeah, like he'll he'll
Speaker 4: do a place, just did a birthday post and he's like,
Speaker 4: I love you, and I'm like, I love you.
Speaker 7: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: But I mean, if a guy saw messages between you,
Speaker 4: we don't text each other like.
Speaker 6: That, you and Donnelley, you and done, I'll be texting
Speaker 6: each other.
Speaker 1: I love you, you know what. It's funny that he
Speaker 1: does because he'll be like, love you, and I don't
Speaker 1: never say it be like.
Speaker 5: An ongoing joke because she never I love you Angela.
Speaker 5: She'd be like, okay, yeah, so it's kind of like
Speaker 5: an ongoing joke. And so that's why it's funny. But
Speaker 5: if somebody didn't know.
Speaker 4: They can see something. I've known him since I end
Speaker 4: you know, all the friends. Yeah, I can't just pop
Speaker 4: out with a guy friend.
Speaker 3: Who the fuck is this?
Speaker 4: Has he ever messed with any girls that you know? Okay,
Speaker 4: he got ruled, he got cold Oka. Have any of
Speaker 4: his friends ever tried to holler at you?
Speaker 1: Okay, I feel like somebody did. No if they did,
Speaker 1: what you tell him?
Speaker 3: Hell yeah, I'm a snitch, so.
Speaker 7: I don't play.
Speaker 3: They know I'm gonna tell I don't care. Of course, guys,
Speaker 3: he knows he's in the industry, so of course, like
Speaker 3: people in that same industry that he knows.
Speaker 5: Yeah, have you talked to anyone else in the industry?
Speaker 7: Oh?
Speaker 1: My girls, last last not too much for me.
Speaker 3: I'll take that, Yes, okay, I mean I have but
Speaker 3: like I have rules too, Like I don't. I wouldn't just.
Speaker 1: Nobody from high Bridge.
Speaker 4: No, hell no, nobody New York. It would not be nobody, Okay,
Speaker 4: whole I wouldn't. What about like ball, I know a
Speaker 4: lot of NBA players, I don't.
Speaker 3: I've never dealt with an NBA player.
Speaker 1: Baby in MDMs though they do, but I've dene with
Speaker 1: a football player. Okay, my team? Oh my god.
Speaker 4: Listen, and you had a viral moment that had to
Speaker 4: have well, how hard was that for you? Like the
Speaker 4: first time when you went viral there was a video
Speaker 4: oh when.
Speaker 3: I was younger, Yeah, yeah, that was like that was terrible.
Speaker 6: The guy who that was, he died.
Speaker 3: Actually he's not even around anymore. But yeah, I was
Speaker 3: what sixteen, he was sixteen too, and he wanted to
Speaker 3: be with me, and I was telling him we were
Speaker 3: sneaky links back in the days. We were sneaky links,
Speaker 3: and I really liked him, he really liked me. But
Speaker 3: we ended up not being together. I ended up getting
Speaker 3: one another dude, and he got tight.
Speaker 7: He was mad.
Speaker 3: He so before he posted that video of me and him,
Speaker 3: he posted a picture of me and him, like two
Speaker 3: months before we was laid up, and he was like,
Speaker 3: I got your bitch with me right now. You don't
Speaker 3: even know it.
Speaker 4: It was to my boyfriend though, Wow, but I was
Speaker 4: with my boyfriend. He was literally in the house together,
Speaker 4: so yeah, like I'm not there right.
Speaker 7: And then.
Speaker 3: On his birthday June thirtieth, he a girl he was
Speaker 3: talking to posting him or something like that. I said
Speaker 3: something and then he posted the video and I was like,
Speaker 3: that was like the first time I ever wanted to
Speaker 3: like literally come in suicide.
Speaker 4: It was so sorry to hear that it was, because
Speaker 4: that's really hard and I always feel people are leaking
Speaker 4: any type of sex tape when you think about how
Speaker 4: that affects somebody, their family has to see that. It
Speaker 4: was bad.
Speaker 5: It was especially as a woman. I'm not saying it's
Speaker 5: not hard as a man, but it's really hard as
Speaker 5: a woman. Yeah, when it happens to us, because people
Speaker 5: just and ity be other women tearing us apart literally
Speaker 5: on social media.
Speaker 1: People act like you wanted that to happen.
Speaker 10: It was.
Speaker 3: It was so bad I could I really couldn't believe
Speaker 3: that he did that. And then it was like my
Speaker 3: mom was just getting lit at that time, like I
Speaker 3: was young as fuck, and it was like, you know,
Speaker 3: she didn't know what to do, and it wasn't really
Speaker 3: out there that she had a daughter my age. A
Speaker 3: lot of people didn't know that till later on. So
Speaker 3: she was like she was just looking at me like
Speaker 3: what the fuck is wrong with you? Like why would
Speaker 3: you do that? And I was just like I don't know,
Speaker 3: Like I just wanted to see my thing. I just
Speaker 3: wanted to see what I looked like doing it. And
Speaker 3: it was like I was sixteen, I was being fast,
Speaker 3: I was being grown and I fucked.
Speaker 4: Up, right, But that's also like a learning lesson to you,
Speaker 4: Like I ain't letting nobody camera, no flash because I
Speaker 4: was done it before, right, Yeah, I would never allow
Speaker 4: anything that access, you know, I don't.
Speaker 1: Do that because I know you got a lot of teams.
Speaker 1: She didn't like listen. Somebody Feulna looked my ship.
Speaker 7: Later like, oh I look good, because right, how did
Speaker 7: you get through it?
Speaker 10: Though?
Speaker 7: Like what did you?
Speaker 1: What helped you?
Speaker 3: Well, my mom wasn't talking. She was like really really
Speaker 3: disappointed after that. And my stepfather he helped me. My
Speaker 3: best friend at the time, she helped me. But I
Speaker 3: was really just like sucluding myself, like I didn't want
Speaker 3: to be around nobody. I don't know what the hell
Speaker 3: how I got through that?
Speaker 7: Like that was hard. That was hard.
Speaker 3: That was so bad. Like I feel so bad for
Speaker 3: girls that go through stuff like that because it's like
Speaker 3: you don't know where to put your head at, Like
Speaker 3: you feel like when you walk outside they seen nobody.
Speaker 7: Yeah, everybody looks bad.
Speaker 3: And then especially when me and my daughter's father got together,
Speaker 3: people started reposting it. It came back out, but he
Speaker 3: had already seen it. He didn't care, so when he
Speaker 3: when they was posting it, he came immediately to my house.
Speaker 3: He's like good.
Speaker 1: I was like that's sweet.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was crazy. You know.
Speaker 4: It goes back to a Jasmin said earlier though, because
Speaker 4: sometimes things happen and it feels like it's the end
Speaker 4: of the world and you can't move on from it,
Speaker 4: and then later on you look.
Speaker 1: Back and be like, while it was bad, you could
Speaker 1: be like, oh I got that, got through it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that was something I thought I would never get through.
Speaker 3: Like even my father's family was writing me saying bullshit,
Speaker 3: that's why it happened to you, and.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, if anything, that's the time when you're like,
Speaker 1: are you okay?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I feel like a lot of people didn't check
Speaker 3: up on me like that. It was just like I
Speaker 3: feel like everybody was against me more than they were
Speaker 3: like checking on me. So I don't know.
Speaker 1: How was it for you when you found out that
Speaker 1: you were having a kid? Was that planned?
Speaker 3: We planned it, Daddy, We planned it. But people was
Speaker 3: mad too, Like my family was a little shady in
Speaker 3: the beginning. But I ain't give a shit, right, I
Speaker 3: don't care. I mean I was grown. I'm twenty one, right.
Speaker 1: And you can take care of her. He can take
Speaker 1: care and you guys put together.
Speaker 3: And I kept getting pregnant, so I was like, I'm
Speaker 3: not about to get pregnant again, and I keep this one.
Speaker 3: Were gonna do this one? And we was like, fuck it,
Speaker 3: let's do it, and we did it.
Speaker 1: That's decision.
Speaker 7: That was it?
Speaker 1: Is she on the show?
Speaker 10: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Okay, that's my bool. So how was it for you?
Speaker 1: Like what was the decision for you guys to even
Speaker 1: do the impact?
Speaker 4: How?
Speaker 7: How was that?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 4: How did they approach you guys about it? What was
Speaker 4: the conversation like between you and your mom where there
Speaker 4: are reservations that you had?
Speaker 3: Well, my mom did not want to do the show.
Speaker 3: She didn't know because it's.
Speaker 1: That first time doing reality TV.
Speaker 4: I remember she was supposed to do a show that
Speaker 4: Lla was executive producing that end up happening.
Speaker 3: She did not want to do it. She was like,
Speaker 3: actually I don't want to do it. But I got
Speaker 3: a call from my two manager, Steven Amber, and it
Speaker 3: was like how you feel about being on reality TV?
Speaker 3: And I'm like it was love and hip hop, Bama
Speaker 3: want to do it? No shaite? But I was like
Speaker 3: then they told me what it was. I was like,
Speaker 3: fuck it, I'll do it, and it was like yeah,
Speaker 3: we want to get Lla two. I'm like hell yeah.
Speaker 3: And then when I told my mom, she was like,
Speaker 3: you could do it. I don't know about me. And
Speaker 3: I'm like, it kind of go together, like you know,
Speaker 3: you from New York and you could tell a story too.
Speaker 3: But I don't want it to look like we always
Speaker 3: together because that's not really us. Like we we I
Speaker 3: have my life, you have your life. So Kim had
Speaker 3: to tell her and keep telling her and try to
Speaker 3: get her to record, because oh my god, it was
Speaker 3: like to get a record, it is like breaking next.
Speaker 3: So but we did it and it was cool.
Speaker 1: And how was it for you guys?
Speaker 4: When you guys started being able to go out together,
Speaker 4: people had things to say about, Ah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was fun. I like going out with my mother.
Speaker 3: I don't trust nobody, like I'm funny, like and y'all
Speaker 3: going to see it on the show, Like I'm really
Speaker 3: like I could be standorfish, but I'm really not, Like
Speaker 3: I'm really a sweetheart. But to be around my family
Speaker 3: and to be around my close friends, that's like my sanctuary.
Speaker 3: That's like home to me. Yeah, and I feel safe.
Speaker 3: So it was lit going outside my mother, be in
Speaker 3: a bag with my mother. No, it was lit.
Speaker 1: Now when it comes to them music West the Plans.
Speaker 3: My main goal is to be a headliner. I always
Speaker 3: wanted to be a headliner. I want to headline shit.
Speaker 3: I want to be on Rolling Loud, like I want
Speaker 3: to be that girl, like I want to really like
Speaker 3: take this to the next level. And I know a
Speaker 3: lot of people say that, but it's like I'm really
Speaker 3: like blocked in. Everything with me is like music, Like
Speaker 3: I'm all the way locked in.
Speaker 4: Do you hesitate to ask your expert help and assistance
Speaker 4: and anything, or do you feel like I don't want Okay.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna ask if I need something, I need help,
Speaker 3: like what's going on? Like I don't mind asking nobody
Speaker 3: for help, like I write my own shait yet. But
Speaker 3: I mean I feel like as a woman and as
Speaker 3: a rapper, I feel like we always need help. Like
Speaker 3: you know, dudes, they not gonna say that they was
Speaker 3: getting help, but they get help, so it's like there's
Speaker 3: nothing wrong with it. Like I haven't used the writer
Speaker 3: for real, but I would. I don't give a shit,
Speaker 3: you know, I.
Speaker 4: Don't care see the big deal in that either, because
Speaker 4: first of all, it helps you put other people onto
Speaker 4: like when the guys be in the room together, you
Speaker 4: got a crew. Sometimes people throw out lines or they
Speaker 4: might have something dope or say it like this that
Speaker 4: is getting help.
Speaker 3: Actually, what's that movie? Shape out of Content?
Speaker 7: And easy? Yeah easy?
Speaker 3: Ice Cube wrote all those songs. Yeah, so what the
Speaker 3: fuck is the problem?
Speaker 7: Like, I don't see no problem.
Speaker 5: In its it's becoming it is.
Speaker 3: I feel like right now, it's hard to use a
Speaker 3: writer because they talk about men. Writers talk about the
Speaker 3: same ship. In my opinion, that's why I like to
Speaker 3: write my own ship. They talk about sex, they talk
Speaker 3: about what people what they think people want to hear. Right,
Speaker 3: So it's kind of hard to really find a good
Speaker 3: ass writer.
Speaker 1: But you've been trying to a little bit.
Speaker 4: I want and La sings right, okay, So are y'all
Speaker 4: gonna do anything like that?
Speaker 3: But hers don't don't come to the studio. She is
Speaker 3: hard to get her to the studio. She's good, I
Speaker 3: can I tell her that all the time. She's good.
Speaker 3: But to get her to go to the studio is
Speaker 3: like pulling hairs, Like I'm like, damn, girl, like just
Speaker 3: do it, do the ship like I do it for you,
Speaker 3: like so, but hopefully she'll come.
Speaker 4: I feel like that would have been a great storyline
Speaker 4: on the show to see the studio together.
Speaker 5: Maybe yeah, maybe next season.
Speaker 1: Look at him. She's like, she's like, I'm in my business.
Speaker 4: And there's also a lot of women on the show,
Speaker 4: like we said, dreamed I was on there, Chinese Kitty
Speaker 4: Cleo Trapper.
Speaker 1: Who else is on it?
Speaker 6: Millennie, Oh yeah, MILLENNI right, Scott Louis.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 1: But when it comes to artists, artists, you know these
Speaker 1: would be people too.
Speaker 10: Ye.
Speaker 1: How is it you think working with other women?
Speaker 7: Is it easy for them?
Speaker 1: Do they are they like receptive to I don't.
Speaker 3: Think girls are really that welcoming, not seeing the girls
Speaker 3: on the show, because I think they are welcoming. But
Speaker 3: I'm saying girls in the rap music, I don't really
Speaker 3: think that they're that welcoming. I've only made songs with dudes,
Speaker 3: so like a girl wouldn't hit me up, Like, hey girl,
Speaker 3: I would hit a girl up. But I feel like
Speaker 3: sometimes girls be feeling like they better or they're bigger,
Speaker 3: and it's like I don't feel that way, like I'm
Speaker 3: gonna do what I gotta do.
Speaker 4: Also, sometimes it's just a matter of because people might
Speaker 4: not even know until and when the show comes out
Speaker 4: they don't know that you do music. Some people may
Speaker 4: not even have you know, there's so much going on
Speaker 4: sometimes things like they're like oh yeah, yeah, yeah, and
Speaker 4: so I think this might help.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm excited, but what the help? I can't read
Speaker 3: music like the market is good, knock knock is good,
Speaker 3: and I don't even my music is actually sing like
Speaker 3: in the music that I really do want to put out,
Speaker 3: this is just ship that I know kids would like, like,
Speaker 3: this is ship that I know will get me a
Speaker 3: fan base. This is really not the music that I
Speaker 3: want to do. This is just easy sh strategy. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it's just whatever.
Speaker 4: So do you now, let me ask you this when
Speaker 4: it comes to dating, right, so we've seen your mom
Speaker 4: likes your your child's father because she's like staying with him.
Speaker 1: Do you like the guys that she dates? Like?
Speaker 3: Do you?
Speaker 10: No?
Speaker 3: I know you don't.
Speaker 1: Have you liked any of them? Have been like he's
Speaker 1: a good one.
Speaker 3: For you years ago? Okay years years years or years
Speaker 3: years ago? I don't like them? No, I don't. I'm
Speaker 3: I'm I'm a tough cookie, like.
Speaker 5: I'm trying to man.
Speaker 3: You want her to have a family, man, a man
Speaker 3: that's like you know, somebody and.
Speaker 7: Hairs.
Speaker 3: I just want her to look. I know when my
Speaker 3: mom is happy, and I just feel like she deserves everything.
Speaker 3: So I feel like sometimes seeing her cater to someone
Speaker 3: and they not catering to her the way that I
Speaker 3: feel like she should be getting catered to, that bothers me.
Speaker 3: So I want her to have somebody that's going through
Speaker 3: the whole nine, Like I need my mother, not even
Speaker 3: to lift a finger. I need you to take care
Speaker 3: of my mother.
Speaker 7: That's what I want us.
Speaker 4: All right, Well, I feel like all those good things
Speaker 4: we put it in the atmosphere. You know, you single,
Speaker 4: you're back on the market, like she's gonna get back
Speaker 4: together with her ex.
Speaker 1: But you know that's neither here nor.
Speaker 4: Your child's I honestly, the fact that you get butterflies
Speaker 4: and the faces that you make even when you talk
Speaker 4: about here, and the accountability that you've taken for things
Speaker 4: that have gone wrong, and the fact that your daughter
Speaker 4: wants you all to be together.
Speaker 6: He's facetiming you pick up, pickup, That's what I'm doing.
Speaker 1: She always do that, sister ship started.
Speaker 4: She's such a preducer, right right, all right, Well, Ashley Marie,
Speaker 4: thank you so much.
Speaker 1: For joining us.
Speaker 4: This is our first time having to sit down. The
Speaker 4: show starts on January twenty second, correct, yes, all right,
Speaker 4: January twenty second.
Speaker 5: You feel good?
Speaker 3: Yeah, hell yeah, it's lit.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, all right, lay back, all right, Well
Speaker 1: that is it. It's lip service and Chimosario for guest hosting.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, some guest hosting here. So it's birthday. I
Speaker 2: just came for the cake, just a birthday episode.
Speaker 1: Why don't you jump on the episode with us? Just
Speaker 1: because I want to make sure that people also see.
Speaker 4: Who's behind the scenes, just because Kim's been doing her
Speaker 4: ship for a really long time and sometimes it's a
Speaker 4: job that people don't understand how hard it is.
Speaker 2: Like it's it's let me just say, it's hard to
Speaker 2: get a show on that green Lit. Everybody has a
Speaker 2: show right now. Yeah, everybody comes up to me like
Speaker 2: I got to show. I got to show, I gotta show.
Speaker 6: You gotta come. I'm a TV power. It's hard to
Speaker 6: get green Lit.
Speaker 3: You got a good show.
Speaker 6: I think we have a great shot.
Speaker 7: I can't wait.
Speaker 1: She's excited about it. I will tell you all that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she's excited about it.
Speaker 4: And we worked on my chewo scam story together she
Speaker 4: executed about Jennifer Williams. Yeah, that was a two episode
Speaker 4: series on BAH one about Jennifer Gay Scammed.
Speaker 1: He did really well too, it did, and congratulations to y'all.
Speaker 1: They didn't promote it much, but you know, it still
Speaker 1: did well. It's not nhr FI, it's the truth. They didn't,
Speaker 1: but you know what, we promoted it now.
Speaker 6: I executive produced that, yeah, yeah, I executive produced it with.
Speaker 7: Angela and I. Yeah. Yeah, it's good.
Speaker 1: You should watch it when you get some times.
Speaker 3: Watch it.
Speaker 4: All right, Well, it's lip service, and thank you for
Speaker 4: being so open to talk about everything, even the difficult things.
Speaker 1: All right, it's all right, yes,