Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and welcome to steff
Speaker 1: I never told you production of iHeartRadio, and.
Speaker 2: We are coming back with an additional episode of women's
Speaker 2: magazines and Dot Dot Dot because well, I have elongated
Speaker 2: once again a very wide broad subject into several episodes.
Speaker 2: It's not going to be the same amount as religious
Speaker 2: trauma episode. Thank god, it's not going to be twenty thousand.
Speaker 2: I think I'm going to keep it at a succinct three, okay,
Speaker 2: because I have topics in mind, and with that, if
Speaker 2: you haven't already, we would suggest going back to our
Speaker 2: earlier episode on the history of women's magazines, because we
Speaker 2: kind of break it down on how it began, what
Speaker 2: it looked like, all of that, and even the problems
Speaker 2: back then. Because for today, we are talking about the
Speaker 2: state of women's magazines slash publications today, and I do
Speaker 2: see publications because obviously they're like the handheld copy of
Speaker 2: a magazine is less and less and you're more likely
Speaker 2: going to see digital, which, funny enough, I kept running
Speaker 2: into paywalls because I need to call somebody about that
Speaker 2: because that was an issue anyway. Yeah, Annie, did you
Speaker 2: have do you have currently or did you have at
Speaker 2: any point a favorite magazine or did you even have
Speaker 2: a subscription.
Speaker 1: I looked this up because I knew we were going
Speaker 1: to be talking about this. I didn't have a subscription.
Speaker 1: I bought entertainment weekly, not infrequently if it was a
Speaker 1: movie or a celebrity I like. I had a subscription
Speaker 1: to Disney Adventures, which was kind of a small magazine format.
Speaker 1: You're not seeing what I can do, but like imagine,
Speaker 1: size wise, most magazines are like eight by eleven.
Speaker 3: This one was sort of a third of that.
Speaker 1: Maybe that's probably way off, but it was smaller, and
Speaker 1: I think I got it. I originally subscribed to it
Speaker 1: because I loved the Ulsen twins and they were somehow
Speaker 1: they were featured in it quite frequently. But I remember
Speaker 1: very vividly, and I don't know if we're going to
Speaker 1: talk about this in this episode of the next but
Speaker 1: Ryan Gosling was on the cover one time as young Hercules,
Speaker 1: and I had the cover. I took out like all
Speaker 1: the relevant pages and saved them. But it wasn't him.
Speaker 1: That's that's not why I started subscribing. It wasn't him,
Speaker 1: But I did save all of those and I remember
Speaker 1: the cover.
Speaker 3: So clear now.
Speaker 1: I mean we do use a lot of magazines for work.
Speaker 1: I think I'm still in the same, Like, if it's
Speaker 1: like a Star Wars magazine, I'll it. I went through
Speaker 1: a big I think Entertainment Weekly is pretty like it's
Speaker 1: been the same. I have a lot of friends who
Speaker 1: like seventeen, I went through a Time magazine period.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's more like if I see something like, oh
Speaker 1: I really want that, it's less about a subscription thing, right.
Speaker 2: I remember Time magazine covers like nobody's business. For some reasons,
Speaker 2: those stand out. Kudos to the art director and the
Speaker 2: photographers because they would do their thing to make sure
Speaker 2: they would stand out. But then, like, I never had
Speaker 2: a subscription when I was growing up, my friends did,
Speaker 2: so I would go over to their houses and we
Speaker 2: would just go through the magazines and then like talk
Speaker 2: about them. I want to say, like, I was really
Speaker 2: into music more so than anything else. I remember distinctly
Speaker 2: a picture of Salt and Peppa because they were one
Speaker 2: of my favorite groups when I was in middle school,
Speaker 2: so I remember seeing them a lot. But I never
Speaker 2: really had any magazines. Again, my mother had Southern living
Speaker 2: in her house, and I think she had good housekeeping
Speaker 2: in her house. And I think some of these subscriptions
Speaker 2: were fundraising subscriptions.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you know.
Speaker 2: What I'm talking about. Like I remember, like that used
Speaker 2: to be a thing way back when you could buy
Speaker 2: wrapping paper as school fundraisers. But also you could buy
Speaker 2: subscriptions of magazines for a good deal, seventeen dollars for
Speaker 2: a year subscription, so that's twelve magazines.
Speaker 1: I brought this back a stressful memory that I'd forgotten
Speaker 1: because I was one of the kids that would try
Speaker 1: to sell those wrapping papers.
Speaker 3: It was the worst. I hated it. It's like I'm
Speaker 3: a failure. I can't sell anything.
Speaker 2: Well, you know, there was this episode. I don't know
Speaker 2: if anybody watched Parenthood at any point in time. They
Speaker 2: are now gone, and there's some problematic things in that
Speaker 2: whole show, but I really enjoyed it. And one of
Speaker 2: the big episodes was that the kid was selling the
Speaker 2: Christmas paper for his baseball team to get uniforms and such,
Speaker 2: and he forgot and didn't do it, and so he
Speaker 2: already had the paper, which was odd to me because
Speaker 2: that was not the thing you had to do it
Speaker 2: sign up for or whatever. But like uh, he yells
Speaker 2: at his mom for not being rich enough to just
Speaker 2: order it herself and not have to sell it. And
Speaker 2: I remember thinking that was a thing. The parents would
Speaker 2: be rich enough that they are the grandparents would just
Speaker 2: buy it all and they wouldn't have to worry about
Speaker 2: it because it was so stressful. It's like, what is
Speaker 2: this anyway? Wow, that's just yeah, on the whole tangent
Speaker 2: on that one. But yeah, subscription magazines were a thing
Speaker 2: as well. And really I remember it being way back
Speaker 2: when in some movies that there were door to door salesmen.
Speaker 2: He would sell these as well. So it was a thing.
Speaker 2: It was a racket, and now it kind of has
Speaker 2: become a whole different thing with the digital world and
Speaker 2: print may be dying. Slash kind of is we all
Speaker 2: love it somehow. But with that some context, now that
Speaker 2: we're actually talking about magazines, y'all, before we begin, we
Speaker 2: are going to be talking about body and fat shaming
Speaker 2: as well as body dysmorphia and sexual content in this episode,
Speaker 2: So Happy Valentine's Day well ahead of time. Also, there's
Speaker 2: a lot of backlash that came out against women's magazines
Speaker 2: not too long ago. The other there was a whole
Speaker 2: reckoning in like two thousand and twenty ten. Uh. But
Speaker 2: also a lot of our information comes from then, so
Speaker 2: it is fairly dated. Like I said, it looks like
Speaker 2: more people were likely to look into how the magazines
Speaker 2: have become or can become more feminists or empowering. So
Speaker 2: that's good and that's more recent, but in like the
Speaker 2: late nineties. Also we have some articles from the late nineties,
Speaker 2: so yeah, this is pretty dated nineties, early two thousands
Speaker 2: and twenty tens where we're talking about the problems with
Speaker 2: magazines and women's magazines specifically.
Speaker 3: Mm hmm.
Speaker 2: So just that heads up. I think they still hold
Speaker 2: up because the same argument is repeating itself, and there
Speaker 2: was a lot of like overlapping of social media and
Speaker 2: magazines as well, so when we talk about it, especially
Speaker 2: when it comes to like teen stuff, it may be interchangeable.
Speaker 2: A lot of the research that we saw from like
Speaker 2: thesis and research papers again come from the late nineties
Speaker 2: and two thousands era, early two thousands era, because again,
Speaker 2: like I said, there was a big record and'll be like,
Speaker 2: why are we doing this? Why are you still doing this? You'
Speaker 2: all have a problem. So it's good to see that
Speaker 2: that happened. It's sad to see it's still happening.
Speaker 3: Yeah, ignore right now.
Speaker 1: A lot of when I'm checking out the grocery store,
Speaker 1: a lot of the times, all kind of magazines, I'm like, wow, still.
Speaker 2: Okay, y'all, there's the cabbage diet. Cabbage soup diet is
Speaker 2: still really big, apparently because I love cabbage soup. I
Speaker 2: don't do it for that sake, but I would try
Speaker 2: to find the recipe. All the articles have it, and
Speaker 2: I was like, what, I just like cabbage soup. What's
Speaker 2: happening anyway? Yeah, and it's something to note that the
Speaker 2: print in itself has faded and moved towards digital or online,
Speaker 2: and we'll probably talk about that in the last episode.
Speaker 2: I'm going to say the next one is the last episode.
Speaker 3: I'm trying to convince yourself it's.
Speaker 2: Going to happen. I've narrowed it down to the two
Speaker 2: specific subjects so I don't vary, so.
Speaker 1: Okay, well, we'll see, we'll see. I would also say,
Speaker 1: go check out our episode we did on fanzines because
Speaker 1: we did talk about some of this stuff in there.
Speaker 1: Yes as well, but yes, okay, women's magazines today there are. Yes,
Speaker 1: a lot of women's magazines still and according to the
Speaker 1: Library of Congress, they estimate quote more than seventy five
Speaker 1: thousand periodicals are published each year in the United States
Speaker 1: and Canada alone, and that number swells to over one
Speaker 1: hundred and twenty five thousand worldwide. Consumer magazines alone account
Speaker 1: for more than twenty thousand North American titles. Women's magazines
Speaker 1: have consistently ranked in the top ten magazine categories. Of course,
Speaker 1: this includes all the different types of magazines and the
Speaker 1: articles from twenty twenty three, so the numbers are not
Speaker 1: quite exact, but it's big.
Speaker 3: I would say it's still pretty close twenty.
Speaker 2: Two eight, yeah, three, ten years ago or a month ago.
Speaker 2: We are going to kind of just delve into this
Speaker 2: ugly side of women's magazine. So, like we said earlier,
Speaker 2: the women's magazine industry has already had some shakeups and
Speaker 2: revamping what they are doing or how they were portraying
Speaker 2: women overall. And we mentioned this later, but yes, this
Speaker 2: is all cis heteronormative. Just go ahead and put that there. Okay,
Speaker 2: Unfortunately we will kind of dapple into it, but not really.
Speaker 2: So this is the way they focus it is making sure,
Speaker 2: women are women, and I say that sarcastically and not
Speaker 2: with that belief in that conversation and that type of statement,
Speaker 2: and that women all want a husband. Again, obviously not
Speaker 2: what we think so but this is how it's going
Speaker 2: to come out. But again, we can't ignore the massive
Speaker 2: impact they have had overall in general to society. We
Speaker 2: talked a bit about the way early periodicals transformed women's
Speaker 2: fashion and encourage women to become more in tune with
Speaker 2: their habits and housekeeping, but it would continue to influence women,
Speaker 2: specifically when it came to body image, which quickly became
Speaker 2: a moneymaker for I think all of the magazine is
Speaker 2: not many, I think all of them. Yeah.
Speaker 1: In fact, according to a thesis done by Jamie S.
Speaker 1: Nobles from the University of Southern Mississippi in twenty fourteen
Speaker 1: discussing the depiction of women's body image and magazines from
Speaker 1: nineteen fifty two to night teen ninety five, and it
Speaker 1: talks about how advertisements within magazines changed over the years
Speaker 1: to influence women. They talk about how body types and
Speaker 1: models changed throughout history and also why that might be.
Speaker 1: Here's a quote. The hypothesis stated that the depictions of
Speaker 1: women would shift from curvy to thin women, but most
Speaker 1: of the magazine advertisements depicted women as fit slash average
Speaker 1: in the nineteen fifties, and the ads moved on to
Speaker 1: lean models as the years progressed. Although actresses like Marilyn
Speaker 1: Monroe were curvier and were thought to be sex symbols,
Speaker 1: the models in the magazines did not reflect her type
Speaker 1: of voluptuousness. There were fewer depictions of full figured women
Speaker 1: in the magazines than any other category. Most of the
Speaker 1: models were fit slash average until the nineteen seventies, and
Speaker 1: then the number of lean models spiked. Of the one
Speaker 1: hundred and eighty images viewed, lean was the most found
Speaker 1: model size, with ninety of the one hundred eighty models
Speaker 1: perceived as lean. Fit slash average had the second highest number,
Speaker 1: with sixty six of the advertisement scene as healthy athletic build.
Speaker 2: Okay, of course, as voluptuous and curvy as Marilyn Monroe was,
Speaker 2: she would not be considered a plus or large size.
Speaker 2: In fact, her waist size would have been more like
Speaker 2: a small or even an extra small, and one site
Speaker 2: said even smaller than that, like it wasn't even on
Speaker 2: a category of what we would see today. And though
Speaker 2: she was medium at the top, according to the clothes
Speaker 2: that people that the researchers have measured, and her hips,
Speaker 2: and she did have hips, she would not have been
Speaker 2: considered plus size today at all. Again, many want to
Speaker 2: claim that because they says she wore size sixteen, she
Speaker 2: wears six sixteen, that they accord to French clothing, and
Speaker 2: most of her clothing were tailored to her. But yes,
Speaker 2: she was curvy, sure on a different standard. Like that's
Speaker 2: that's a whole different conversation. I think waste size was
Speaker 2: typically twenty four inches small, and it got as big
Speaker 2: as maybe twenty seven. And from what I also found,
Speaker 2: like it says that she uh probably weighed from anywhere
Speaker 2: from like one hundred and four to one hundred and fourteen,
Speaker 2: and the most you's ever gotten was one forty And
Speaker 2: for her being I think five to four that's not huge,
Speaker 2: that's not plus size. Let's just we just we're just
Speaker 2: gonna put that there in Some of the changes in
Speaker 2: who was being advertised or what was being advertised actually
Speaker 2: has a lot to do with trending diet culture. Diet
Speaker 2: culture has been around for a long time, to the
Speaker 2: Greek days. They said because the whole athletic look and
Speaker 2: all of that, and is a money making machine. We've
Speaker 2: talked about this with like influencers and all of that.
Speaker 2: This is a money maker according to different reports. Uh
Speaker 2: And I will say I was very confused and maybe
Speaker 2: I don't understand the verbiage between like value market versus
Speaker 2: whatever else, because the numbers were everywhere, So I was
Speaker 2: like what And again this could have something to do
Speaker 2: with they only had something that was specific to weight
Speaker 2: management versus things like food, which even though they may
Speaker 2: not be diet culture, they use and use that influence anyways,
Speaker 2: like milk probably could still be considered that level as well.
Speaker 2: So who knows. But with that estimated value of the
Speaker 2: dieting industry, slash market is as high as over four
Speaker 2: hundred billion dollars and seemingly increasing every year obviously, although
Speaker 2: it did take a little bit of a dip when
Speaker 2: a few years ago the whole body positivity became more
Speaker 2: popular and more accepted, which I miss But then we
Speaker 2: now have the usage of products like ozimbic, which is
Speaker 2: being used as a cure all for weight loss and
Speaker 2: a giant money maker as well. It's no secret that
Speaker 2: the magazine industry has had a hand with grown this
Speaker 2: specific culture. Here's another quote from that same thesis. So
Speaker 2: why did women's bodies depictions should from fit average to lean?
Speaker 2: The researchers believes that the key to that is the
Speaker 2: fitness exercise boom of the nineteen seventies. By the seventies,
Speaker 2: Americans awareness of fitness grew, and with that the role
Speaker 2: of exercise in American lives expanded, and exercise became part
Speaker 2: of the recreational pastimes. Jogging was one of the most
Speaker 2: popular forms of fitness. For example, the New York Marathon,
Speaker 2: which had previously only had approximately three hundred participants in
Speaker 2: nineteen seventy two, expanded to include more than eleven thousand
Speaker 2: competitors in nineteen seventy nine. With the influence of the
Speaker 2: Women's Movement and Title nine, an act that imposed gender
Speaker 2: equality in sports opportunities in educational organizations, a large number
Speaker 2: of women took up sports for the first time in
Speaker 2: the nineteen seventies.
Speaker 1: Right and it continues. The average size of men and
Speaker 1: women continued to rise during this time, and obesity numbers
Speaker 1: exploded in the nineteen eighties. As food is made more
Speaker 1: readily available, a fewer people cook at home, turning America
Speaker 1: into a fast food nation. Because of the fitness boom
Speaker 1: and the increasing waistband of Americans, the diet industry takes
Speaker 1: off and by the nineteen eighties is a multi billion
Speaker 1: dollar a year industry. Within the structure of that industry,
Speaker 1: there is a great deal at stake to keep women
Speaker 1: hooked into the obsession about their beauty, their weight, and
Speaker 1: their dieting practices. Advertisements that show women who are impossibly
Speaker 1: thin and beautiful despite their rising obc rates are showing
Speaker 1: women what they should aspire to become. Women try to
Speaker 1: achieve the impossible, and so they buy the diet products
Speaker 1: that only guarantee a temporary solution to their weight problems.
Speaker 1: When the diet is over, the women will most likely
Speaker 1: gain the weight they lost plus some. The women then
Speaker 1: see the perfect women in the magazine adds and experience
Speaker 1: body dissatisfaction and decide to purchase more diet products. Thus
Speaker 1: an endless circle is created. The fact that diets do
Speaker 1: not work is the best kept secret in the diet industry.
Speaker 1: Only long term lifestyle changes will help women to lose
Speaker 1: weight and stay healthy by presenting an ideal difficult to
Speaker 1: achieve and maintain, the cosmetic and diet product industries are
Speaker 1: assured of growth and profits. The shift the researchers saw
Speaker 1: from fit slash average women to lean women could be
Speaker 1: rooted in an economic ploy to keep women reaching for
Speaker 1: the unattainable.
Speaker 2: Right, And I think that's such a big emphasis. This
Speaker 2: is a ploy. Yeah, which why the back and forth
Speaker 2: fat diets are huge. Atkins not a sponsor does not
Speaker 2: want you to keep that weight off. They want you
Speaker 2: to continue to buy their products and tell you that's
Speaker 2: the only way you're going to maintain that way.
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 2: There's so many things, of course, and we're going to
Speaker 2: talk a little bit about this later, Like this can
Speaker 2: also create dangerous habits, which is really really unfortunate for
Speaker 2: later times. And I will say I bought into this
Speaker 2: and sometimes still do still do because I am so
Speaker 2: insecure and I've been taught I need to be skinny,
Speaker 2: and skinny means being a size three, which is impossible
Speaker 2: for me, like it will never happen, but for some
Speaker 2: reason in my head, I must, And therefore the pills
Speaker 2: that I see on self magazines is definitely gonna help me.
Speaker 2: It is not.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, it's really it's effective. Get it in
Speaker 1: your head and you think, well, if I just do
Speaker 1: this and do this, but I remember doing it, especially
Speaker 1: like in college.
Speaker 3: And it was exhausting. It was exhausting, and like the
Speaker 3: payout wasn't much.
Speaker 2: And that wasn't I grew up hungry in high school
Speaker 2: and college, and I am so sad that I missed
Speaker 2: out on food. Right, I literally ate pasta and that
Speaker 2: was one time of day. And I still I think
Speaker 2: I've trained myself so badly to not eat that I
Speaker 2: don't eat. And I know you know that level as well.
Speaker 2: I've gotten better about it. I've gotten better. But if
Speaker 2: I'm busy or if I'm overwhelmed, that's the first thing
Speaker 2: to go, yeah, because that's something I can control. But
Speaker 2: we know that's so with unattainable goals that continue to
Speaker 2: motivate tempt women. Other very specific magazines also came into play.
Speaker 2: Magazines like Shape, Women's Health, and again Self and other
Speaker 2: such magazines are riddled with adverts that promise the perfect
Speaker 2: body in a short amount of time. According to another
Speaker 2: research paper that was published in Turkey, the influence of
Speaker 2: magazines like Women's Health and Cosmo continue to not only
Speaker 2: perpetuate the perfect body, but also the idea that perfection
Speaker 2: is only found within westernized standards. Here's the quote from
Speaker 2: that paper. The magazine often advises women to watch their
Speaker 2: weight all the time by eating certain light mils and
Speaker 2: drinking certain healthy drinks, helping to detox the body. Nevertheless,
Speaker 2: the magazine often shows dieting as such an easy thing
Speaker 2: which women do not have to worry about by getting
Speaker 2: into stress. As Kim and Lennon, which was a researcher previously,
Speaker 2: have mentioned. However, dieting is in fact a painful thing,
Speaker 2: especially for women who have excess weight. Therefore, the magazine
Speaker 2: always puts ideal beauty standards in front of women, and
Speaker 2: it expects them to reach those high standards by looking
Speaker 2: good and young. Therefore, the female readers are implicitly advised
Speaker 2: that they need to groom, shop, diet, do fitness, and
Speaker 2: take care of their bodies to preserve a perfect image
Speaker 2: that is related with that white ideal beauty. And that's
Speaker 2: we don't really talk about this at all in that level.
Speaker 2: We do talk a little bit about the fact that
Speaker 2: it is oppression, This type of culture is oppression, but
Speaker 2: the fact that the majority of what we see are
Speaker 2: all until recently, like Kim Kardashian and like hip hop
Speaker 2: stars have kind of changed that a little bit. I
Speaker 2: feel like Korean pop stars have now brought it back
Speaker 2: to this Western idea that you have to be skin
Speaker 2: a skinny skinny, as one woman was quoted saying, being
Speaker 2: wraith like is ideal, and I think that's kind of
Speaker 2: the issue. And by the way, we also are not
Speaker 2: talking at all about the cosmetic industry, which, like I said,
Speaker 2: I picked and choose because we did talk about that
Speaker 2: before with influencers and such as that. But yes, the
Speaker 2: other if if there was a chart, I'm sure it
Speaker 2: was like forty five percent diet culture of forty cosmetics
Speaker 2: and ten percent good luck fashion.
Speaker 1: I'm just kidding, yeah, fashion, because I if you want
Speaker 1: to go back and listen to some episodes we've done.
Speaker 1: But like things like shaving, that was largely due to
Speaker 1: the fabric that was popular at the time, and it
Speaker 1: was advertised magazines like if you want to wear this fabric,
Speaker 1: you have to shave. So a lot of things like
Speaker 1: that and also oddly enough past the co host leave
Speaker 1: it was Christian Caroline. It was a long time ago
Speaker 1: talked about Barbie. One of the reasons Barbie is so thin,
Speaker 1: it's cheaper to make clothing for someone who's very thin, right,
Speaker 1: So it's also very beneficial for the fashion industry.
Speaker 2: Right in general. And that's the part is that we
Speaker 2: also don't talk about this, but I found an article
Speaker 2: upon article about talking about the fact that being in
Speaker 2: this die culture, being thin gives more advantages to this
Speaker 2: idea of thin privilege, gives more advantages to those who
Speaker 2: are thin, typically white as well as Yes, it's cost
Speaker 2: effective because the clothing is cheaper as well, because for
Speaker 2: some reason, anything that is beyond a size eight needs
Speaker 2: to be ten dollars extra, if not fifty.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and they should be. We'll put a big
Speaker 1: asterisk on that because there's also been things that are like,
Speaker 1: what are you doing It's not really yeah, but anyway,
Speaker 1: that is there what they.
Speaker 3: Have said, Yes, yes, yes, okay.
Speaker 1: But to go back to this research article we've been quoting,
Speaker 1: they continue with this warning, however, the women who over
Speaker 1: exercise and diet unfortunately engage in unhealthy behaviors such as
Speaker 1: eating disorders as a result. In other words, the magazine
Speaker 1: expects Turkish women to transform their bodies to a lighter
Speaker 1: size and resemble the Western ideal of beauty, which not
Speaker 1: only means culturally assimilating the curvy body, but also anticipating
Speaker 1: to invite diseases such as anorexia or bolimia in the
Speaker 1: long term.
Speaker 2: Right. Yeah, you know there's been cultures where I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 2: these are my people. I want to be here because
Speaker 2: my body looks more like them. Yeah, and they like
Speaker 2: me better because of that.
Speaker 1: I have to say, I unfortunately witnessed this in other
Speaker 1: countries where people will tell me, oh, I'm not going
Speaker 1: to eat for a couple of days, and I'd be like, what, like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: I need to lose weight, and they would just say
Speaker 1: it and I would be like, oh.
Speaker 2: Oh right, this whole level with again, like Europeans, no
Speaker 2: hate to any Europeans, but like they will talk about
Speaker 2: the fact that they can't they can't look as big
Speaker 2: as Americans or whatever whatnot, and so what they do
Speaker 2: is not eat for a few days and that's absolutely normal.
Speaker 2: Like that's like, that's so sad, don't you miss it?
Speaker 3: Yeah, Also, like no offense, I've done it, but it
Speaker 3: is not gonna last.
Speaker 2: It's not gonna Yeah, you're only causing yourself trouble and headaches,
Speaker 2: literal headaches. Yes, And while we are here, let's just
Speaker 2: remind ourselves that though we are coming back to the
Speaker 2: idea that dieting is good and being skinny is the
Speaker 2: only way to exist, yes, it's a sarcasm, it's not,
Speaker 2: And that this movement in itself is anti like just
Speaker 2: anti everything in so many ways. Yes.
Speaker 3: Yes.
Speaker 1: From the National Alliance for Eating Disorders. Diet culture quote
Speaker 1: encompasses the collective beliefs and practices that promote the pursuit
Speaker 1: of weight loss as the ultimate marker of health and wellbeing.
Speaker 1: It is a pervasive force that permeates various aspects of
Speaker 1: our lives, from media portrayals of ideal bodies to the
Speaker 1: messages we receive from friends, family, and even healthcare professionals.
Speaker 1: Diet culture often emphasizes the importance of adhering to strict
Speaker 1: eating regimens, promoting quick fixes, and advocating for the thin ideal.
Speaker 1: It's based on fallacies like one food is better than another,
Speaker 1: People who are thin are healthier, people who are thin
Speaker 1: or more attractive. Higher weight bodies are a result of
Speaker 1: poor health choices. Individuals have full control over their health
Speaker 1: and appearance right.
Speaker 2: And in that article it talks about health ism, which
Speaker 2: is this narrative which a lot of healthcare professionals have done,
Speaker 2: which blame everything on being overweight and ignoring the actual
Speaker 2: health and problems, and it is anti obviously. There was
Speaker 2: an interesting TikTok video too of this young young baby
Speaker 2: girl who calls herself a life coach saying that tomatoes
Speaker 2: make you fat. That was it and she I think
Speaker 2: was trying to say when she was apologizing later on
Speaker 2: was everybody went after her, was that it hurts her
Speaker 2: stomach and because of the ascid and they're like, that's
Speaker 2: completely different. That is completely different from they make you fat. Okay,
Speaker 2: calm down. But yeah, so with that, I mean it's
Speaker 2: it's cultures like this that feed into that kind of narrative.
Speaker 2: And yeah, this culture literally demonizes fatness. And again this
Speaker 2: is from the National Alliance. With this connection to Christianity
Speaker 2: and morality, which we didn't talk about. We did kind
Speaker 2: of talk about being the perfect housewife. That means having
Speaker 2: the perfect body. The thought is the whole keeping the
Speaker 2: body clean and holy or keeping it yeah, and keeping
Speaker 2: it tight for your spouse like they meant to you
Speaker 2: can't be getting that pot belly. I've heard that said.
Speaker 2: Literally a pastor, a preacher like his last name is Graham,
Speaker 2: apparently he's there is the founder of Grant.
Speaker 3: Dont on this whole subject, oh my gosh.
Speaker 2: But he was one of those that preached this idea
Speaker 2: that our body and being skipping a meal is for God.
Speaker 2: Of course we didn't talk about this in the ruligious
Speaker 2: trauma God I just haunts me, I swear. But yeah,
Speaker 2: the idea of fascinating which wasn't holy idea for sure,
Speaker 2: but is used by many people to lose weight.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, and we have discussed this before. This is
Speaker 1: ingrained in our culture to a point that I think
Speaker 1: a lot of people don't realize. We've had listeners write
Speaker 1: in and be like you were saying something terrible like
Speaker 1: people should lose weight, Like okay, but just real quickly,
Speaker 1: Graham created Graham crackers to like stop people from masturbating.
Speaker 3: Yes, and he told me does yeah.
Speaker 1: And now he hated sugar and he basically thought you
Speaker 1: should like not experience food really if you really sin,
Speaker 1: it was a moral issue.
Speaker 3: And now grabcrackers.
Speaker 1: I'm so much sugar in them, and it gives me joy.
Speaker 2: I wonder what his family thinks of that legacy.
Speaker 3: I mean, if they're getting the money, they probably don't care.
Speaker 2: I mean, but like, are they ashamed of that legacy
Speaker 2: or are they what I mean, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Sure?
Speaker 1: And it's also like you know, I do get joy
Speaker 1: out of it, but it is we also have a
Speaker 1: kind of whole issue with sugar in this country and
Speaker 1: what's added, so you know, but it does give me
Speaker 1: joy that he's like in his grave.
Speaker 2: Different conversation, But f y about Graham crackers, because what
Speaker 2: do we do but go on tangents. In the first rate,
Speaker 2: my teacher, who was one of my favorite teachers, would
Speaker 2: have us give us graand crackers and then give us
Speaker 2: frosting and let us cover it with frosting and candy,
Speaker 2: and that would be our snack. And boy did I
Speaker 2: frost both sides.
Speaker 3: I mean, you use it to build gingerbread houses.
Speaker 2: And it's great, it's true, but I remember that snack
Speaker 2: like nobody's business, thanks miss right. And with that, this
Speaker 2: this diet culture actually supports system of oppression. So when
Speaker 2: we say where it is anti I mean it's anti uh,
Speaker 2: it is anti black. And we've talked about it before,
Speaker 2: how this movement, how uh, the fat phobia is real
Speaker 2: racist ideals, especially when it comes to oppressing people and
Speaker 2: who it oppresses and how they use it against people
Speaker 2: of color, specifically black people. It holds up the patriarchy
Speaker 2: because once again, this is for the sake of men,
Speaker 2: oftentimes the way you look, especially when we talk about
Speaker 2: looking your best for your husband, for this, for your
Speaker 2: for your next day, for prom all recipes.
Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 2: And then it reinforces once again the idea of thin privilege,
Speaker 2: which exists. And people may say, like we talked about
Speaker 2: have we ever talked about pretty privilege and thin privilege?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 1: Again, it's a weird thing though, because I know we
Speaker 1: talked about it on the video series.
Speaker 2: I don't know, Okay, Okay, maybe we need to come back,
Speaker 2: because that's like it keeps coming back around in that
Speaker 2: conversation about who gets what and why and who gets
Speaker 2: the raises and who who gets hired? And these are
Speaker 2: those conversations. Yeah, and it's an industry that has made
Speaker 2: billions of dollars on things that don't work or that
Speaker 2: don't last and are not realistic, and uses your insecurities
Speaker 2: based on what society dictates to you is good or
Speaker 2: is the best?
Speaker 1: Yes, and it's It can be heartbreaking when you know
Speaker 1: someone who's doing it and they're like eating this one
Speaker 1: food and they'll tell you, like, I've heard this one
Speaker 1: will work.
Speaker 2: Right according to this magazine. I got these recipes and
Speaker 2: I'm going to stick to it. Yeah, two almonds for breakfast,
Speaker 2: and I'm like that measuring stuff.
Speaker 1: Wow, Oh my god, Oh my god, and the alliance
Speaker 1: ends with quote. This diet culture fosters negative body image,
Speaker 1: and it perpetuates unrealistic beauty standards and a serious weight stigma.
Speaker 1: This toxic mindset contributes to body dissatisfaction and low self esteem. Additionally,
Speaker 1: diet culture significantly increases the risk of developing eating disorders,
Speaker 1: as the obsession with food restriction and control can trigger
Speaker 1: disordered eating patterns and severe psychological distress. The harmful impact
Speaker 1: of diet culture on both short term well being and
Speaker 1: long term mental and physical health is the stark reminder
Speaker 1: of the urgent need to challenge and dismantle this harmful ideology.
Speaker 2: Right, So, yes, that's not necessarily about magazines, but just
Speaker 2: the reason why we think this is probably and even
Speaker 2: though it seems harmless to have five exercises to tone
Speaker 2: up your abs. It does contribute to this culture. So
Speaker 2: just as a reminder, be careful. Oh and with all
Speaker 2: that out of the way, let's talk about how magazines
Speaker 2: in general have really really influenced women in sex and
Speaker 2: the different ideas. Yes, again, if you're hanging out with
Speaker 2: kids on this one, we're gonna read some things. I
Speaker 2: think it might make you blush.
Speaker 1: Annie, I'm like pre blushing just thinking about it.
Speaker 3: So I believe you're right.
Speaker 2: So FYI, you might want to pause and take the
Speaker 2: young one out or put EarPods in, however you need to.
Speaker 2: And I have to admit that, as someone who lived
Speaker 2: in the world of purity culture, I believed in it.
Speaker 3: Y'all.
Speaker 2: Annie, I didn't tell you this. My mother brought over
Speaker 2: a tubfull of my childhood things. She's moving me out officially,
Speaker 2: for real, for real. You've got a house. Taking this right,
Speaker 2: and in it on the top, I find a certificate.
Speaker 2: It says marriage certificate, and it is my marriage certificate
Speaker 2: to Jesus WHOA So when I say when I say
Speaker 2: I was in that culture and it is pristinely kept,
Speaker 2: my mother made sure that it was kept all perfect
Speaker 2: on top, unlike unlike me living in sin today, which
Speaker 2: she has accepted and loves my partner. But anyway, when
Speaker 2: I say yes, I lived in that purity culture, I
Speaker 2: honestly didn't know much about sex until probably late twenties.
Speaker 2: And though of course I understood the general concept. Yes,
Speaker 2: I have seen things. I've seen movies. I would often
Speaker 2: turn to different magazines like Cosmo, like Glamour, Red Book
Speaker 2: and even seventeen to find out what men liked. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: those those got me. Those articles got me. If I
Speaker 2: had a question about oral sex, I would often see
Speaker 2: an article and in those magazines, and I would try
Speaker 2: to take as many notes as possible. Annie, Yes, I
Speaker 2: heard did like, oh you do this and that, and
Speaker 2: that's why that seems weird. But okay whatever, And I
Speaker 2: know I'm not the only one because that sold. I
Speaker 2: will say that that like we might have hidden in
Speaker 2: and we might have giggled and not said it out loud,
Speaker 2: but we sure did read it from relationship advice on
Speaker 2: how to keep a man wanting more. Magazines were a
Speaker 2: reference source for so many, so many women. In fact,
Speaker 2: magazines are often how young people would educate themselves on
Speaker 2: those embarrassing or even panicked situations. Margaret Singer was actually
Speaker 2: arrested in nineteen fourteen for her book, but also for
Speaker 2: her articles in The New York Call that covered topics
Speaker 2: of sex, birth control, and STIs for so many people
Speaker 2: who desperately needed that information.
Speaker 3: Yep.
Speaker 1: And later in nineteen sixty, after the debut of the
Speaker 1: Playboy magazine, which is a whole different conversation, the magazine
Speaker 1: featured its Advisor column, offering advice not only on sex,
Speaker 1: relationships and life as well. And by the way, according
Speaker 1: to a Vice article and a podcast released by iHeart
Speaker 1: and Crooked Media titled Stifft, the first ever erotic magazine
Speaker 1: for women was published in nineteen seventy three by the
Speaker 1: same dude who started Penthouse, Bob Guccioni, which was titled Viva,
Speaker 1: and according to that article, they quote paired feminist writing
Speaker 1: from women like Betty Friedan and Erica Jong and stories
Speaker 1: on anti rape groups and female circumcision with full frontal
Speaker 1: male nudity and frank sex advice as the first erotic
Speaker 1: women's magazine and embodied the fight to push forth the
Speaker 1: conversation about women's sexuality amid the patriarchal influence of the decade.
Speaker 2: And in that article is including the actual creator, Bob Guccione,
Speaker 2: who we know is interesting. And though it was acceptable
Speaker 2: for with gay magazines at the time to talk openly
Speaker 2: about sex and relationships, it wasn't so much for ladies magazines.
Speaker 2: It took a little while later for the first one
Speaker 2: to pop up in nineteen sixty five in the Cosmo
Speaker 2: magazine the then editor in chief Helen Gurley Brown, which
Speaker 2: she has a really great quote about why wouldn't every
Speaker 2: woman want to be a feminist? Which I was like, yes,
Speaker 2: come on, now, she may have been one of our people's,
Speaker 2: kind of a white woman of our people's, but you
Speaker 2: know what I mean. But she was the then editor
Speaker 2: in chief, and she revamped the magazine from being geared
Speaker 2: toward housewives to more so single career ladies and published
Speaker 2: an article on birth control pills in her first credited
Speaker 2: issue of the magazine. So she was ready to go.
Speaker 2: She was ready to go talking about all these things,
Speaker 2: and more magazines started following suit with the articles written
Speaker 2: by the opposite sex to teach the other sex how
Speaker 2: to satisfy or how to keep their relationships attacked. So
Speaker 2: Oftentimes they would feature men to tell women whatever the
Speaker 2: advice was, and then vice versa. For men's magazines, they
Speaker 2: would have women come on and give advice as well,
Speaker 2: so you know things happen. Many famous examples are still
Speaker 2: talked about today from Dear Abby, which is more wholesome,
Speaker 2: but did have questions about relationships that she would talk
Speaker 2: about to writers like Candace Bushnell from Sex and the
Speaker 2: City fame, who wrote for The New York Observer in
Speaker 2: her advice.
Speaker 1: Here's the quote from get Me Giddy dot com, which
Speaker 1: is the sexual health related site. Thank you, Samantha for
Speaker 1: having me say this. In the late nineties and early
Speaker 1: two thousands, less historically raunchy women's magazines began adding sex
Speaker 1: to their usual topics of coverage in order to attract
Speaker 1: more readers. Ladies Home Journal printed its first Behind Closed
Speaker 1: Doors sex column in two thousand, and Red Book began
Speaker 1: running it sex column Red Hot Sex that same year.
Speaker 1: Soon sex wasn't just a topic reserved for magazines known
Speaker 1: for their edginess. It was an expected part of mainstream
Speaker 1: women's publications. Men's magazines underwent a similar shift, with magazines
Speaker 1: like Esquire and GQ, both founded in the thirties and
Speaker 1: originally focused on fashion, increasingly covering sex.
Speaker 2: Right. Yeah, So I was just really excited that you
Speaker 2: got to say the name of that site, get megiddy
Speaker 2: dot com, which some of a really helpful site. But
Speaker 2: I was like, what, And because I can't resist a
Speaker 2: good read through of ridiculous things, here's a few of
Speaker 2: the worst sex tips Annie, he's already blushing. Of the
Speaker 2: worst sex tips from women's magazines, according to Mackenzie Z. Kennedy,
Speaker 2: who blessed us with these quips seven years ago. So
Speaker 2: as a seven year old post for Filthy, So here's one.
Speaker 2: Bring your lover on your food shopping excursion. View it
Speaker 2: as sentual foreplay. You can have a lot of fun
Speaker 2: caressing and gently squeezing foods and inhaling their aromas. The
Speaker 2: conversation should be entertaining too, And I will say, I
Speaker 2: guess aie, you had a kind of related thing with food,
Speaker 2: so maybe maybe.
Speaker 1: Also look go back to your episode we did on
Speaker 1: the movie Fresh.
Speaker 3: Sometimes this doesn't work out, oh lord.
Speaker 2: Because they didn't have all the grocery sing, didn't they?
Speaker 2: I forgot about that. Okay, here's another one. Make two
Speaker 2: fists around a shaft, and twist them in opposite directions
Speaker 2: as hard as you can under this advice, Kennedy wrote,
Speaker 2: this really bad sex tip has been inspiring people to
Speaker 2: write about bad sex tips because it's literally telling you
Speaker 2: to give your partner an Indian rugburn on the most
Speaker 2: sensitive part of his body. I don't think that's comfortable.
Speaker 2: The next one is firmly hold the bottom of his
Speaker 2: shaft in one hand and slowly push it towards the base.
Speaker 2: Imagine you're pushing his penis into his body. So again,
Speaker 2: I don't know if it's that effective. Here's another one.
Speaker 2: Take a tennis ball and roll it with a slight
Speaker 2: pressure between his shoulders and over his butt to help
Speaker 2: him release pent up sexual energy. Got to bring a
Speaker 2: tennis ball into it.
Speaker 3: I guess you're too lazy.
Speaker 2: To do anything else. And then the next one is
Speaker 2: very softly bite the skin of his scrotum. I feel
Speaker 2: like they could go very wrong, very very wrong. You
Speaker 2: maybe he enjoys it and it says, And lastly, making
Speaker 2: him a snack after sex. It doesn't have to be
Speaker 2: a gourmet mill. A simple grilled cheese or milk and
Speaker 2: cookies will do.
Speaker 3: A simple grilled cheese or milk and cookies.
Speaker 2: You know, the level of like it just boom down
Speaker 2: to serve him. Thanks, and this will make it go
Speaker 2: make a sandwich woman. I'm so sorry for that. It's true,
Speaker 2: but it's essentially that a statement I feel like. So yes,
Speaker 2: of course we don't. We're not to get into all
Speaker 2: of it. And I'm sure, again this is seven years ago,
Speaker 2: so I can't imagine what else is out there. I
Speaker 2: wrote some of these nows. I actually I've heard the
Speaker 2: shaft ones just so you know, which I think is
Speaker 2: quite hilarious. It's such a romance novel term that is fantastic.
Speaker 2: And again, though weest with some of these ridiculous bits
Speaker 2: of advice, there is a real concern with some of
Speaker 2: the information that is being spread. Although on the positive side,
Speaker 2: having popular publications open up conversations about women learning to
Speaker 2: enjoy sex or learning to explore sexual desires is a
Speaker 2: plus and for a long time unheard of. It has
Speaker 2: helped to destigmatize women's sexuality and even taught some men
Speaker 2: about women's anatomy that they may not have understood. Hello Glitterius.
Speaker 2: But there have been problems as well. According to one article,
Speaker 2: some feel that women's magazines aren't celebrating being sexually open,
Speaker 2: but rather pushing women to have degrading sex and calling
Speaker 2: it IMpower. Now, I'm gonna be transparent here. This article
Speaker 2: that I found written in evmagazine dot com seems as
Speaker 2: I was reading it seems to be leaning very heavily
Speaker 2: into the more like coming back to femininity, and it
Speaker 2: kept saying that idea, which seems to be code for
Speaker 2: like a conservative media, conservative think tank. I think I
Speaker 2: do think there's a point here. Young girls are given
Speaker 2: an embellished idea that they're being told that everyone and
Speaker 2: every woman enjoy wild sex and are scared to set
Speaker 2: boundaries for themselves. So I definitely think that's a conversation
Speaker 2: where we don't have enough of that. We've come so
Speaker 2: far sometimes to being sexually liberated, which is amazing, to
Speaker 2: forgetting the part about consent, which we have talked about
Speaker 2: previously in Boundaries. That was one of our book clubs too.
Speaker 2: Of our book clubs actually wasn't it Come As You Are?
Speaker 2: And the Ace book as well, because we have not
Speaker 2: really pounded that into the head of like what consent?
Speaker 2: When can you stop? And all those conversations and being
Speaker 2: kind of so open to the idea that we're not
Speaker 2: communicating to the younger generations of what that means. So
Speaker 2: I do think there is some thought to that, as
Speaker 2: well as the fact that women are told this is
Speaker 2: what's happening, and this we were all doing this. Like
Speaker 2: I've heard so many stories of men asking for threesomes
Speaker 2: and they don't want necessarily want it, but being told
Speaker 2: this is what people do so they just go with it,
Speaker 2: and being uncomfortable with it, so all of those things.
Speaker 2: I think it definitely has that point. So many of
Speaker 2: the magazines lean into the pleasing a man idea, so
Speaker 2: confusing liberation to non stop sescapades again, and the fact
Speaker 2: that you have no choice or you have no power
Speaker 2: to say no to any of these things or to stop,
Speaker 2: like even if you were enjoying it to a certain
Speaker 2: point and being able to have that communication. So I
Speaker 2: think that is a big conversation of that. But the
Speaker 2: article I'm referring to here also had an article titled
Speaker 2: porn turned me by sexual and ruin my relationship, So
Speaker 2: I feel like that's very yeah, weighty and very obvious,
Speaker 2: as well as how to catch a husband, So you know,
Speaker 2: watch out what you read. They had some good points.
Speaker 2: I will not discredit that there. I would not take
Speaker 2: everything they said as right in fact, so just on
Speaker 2: the notes.
Speaker 3: Yes for sure. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So coming back to the original point, there is misinformation
Speaker 1: that can happen with sex advice given from a magazine article.
Speaker 1: As one writer states in Dame Magazine, a walk through
Speaker 1: social media can illustrate just how deep the notion that
Speaker 1: women aren't big on sex or orgasm runs. While women
Speaker 1: fake orgasms, says a common meme, men fake entire relationships.
Speaker 1: Other prevalent humor suggests that the best way to turn
Speaker 1: a woman on is through house cleaning, unless a guy
Speaker 1: our gal does so, naked mopping induced arousal is unlikely.
Speaker 1: Stress relief is important, of course, and if helping the
Speaker 1: chores or other tasks alleviates it, terrific. But I've noticed
Speaker 1: significantly more stress inducing this in the context of female
Speaker 1: sexuality than girlfriends complaining about dirty dishes. And yes, this
Speaker 1: is talking about the whole women having orgasms thing, which
Speaker 1: we have discussed before at a links. And though this
Speaker 1: article was written in twenty fifteen, we are still talking
Speaker 1: about that and finding that misinformation today.
Speaker 2: I mean, men are getting on podcasts saying women don't
Speaker 2: have orgasms, so or can't have orgasms, that's not biological.
Speaker 2: So you know we're still having that conversation. Yes and yeah.
Speaker 2: As we mentioned before, there's both good and bad when
Speaker 2: it comes to the sex relationship bets within magazines, and
Speaker 2: research seems to back that up. According to Kristen Mark,
Speaker 2: who was a therapist and professor, after doing a short
Speaker 2: survey and readthrough of a popular women's magazine, specifically Cosmopolitan,
Speaker 2: she concludes these findings suggest that women's magazines such as
Speaker 2: Cosmo has potentially mixed effects. The impact is potentially problematic
Speaker 2: when women, after brief exposure, are less likely than those
Speaker 2: exposed to the control to believe premital sex intercourse is risky,
Speaker 2: though it doesn't have to be risky. Use condoms, practice negotiation,
Speaker 2: communicate with your partner, and make sure it's consensual. But
Speaker 2: the short term impact of Cosmo can also be empowering
Speaker 2: for women when after brief exposure, they're more likely than
Speaker 2: those exposed to the control to believe that women should
Speaker 2: be assertive in prioritizing their sexual desires for their osake,
Speaker 2: but not for male partners.
Speaker 1: Yes, and I think it's also important that again, we
Speaker 1: have no like, we don't have good sexual education in
Speaker 1: this country. And you know, places like Florida are banning
Speaker 1: the Dictionary because it has the definition of sex in it.
Speaker 3: So if you have something like this, it can.
Speaker 1: Be it can be really like you never hear about it,
Speaker 1: and that's kind of it's unfortunate because it can be problematic,
Speaker 1: but it is also okay, maybe I can like this thing,
Speaker 1: So yeah, I agree, it's sort of a there's pluses
Speaker 1: and negatives, and of course if you couldn't tell yes,
Speaker 1: this is very heteronormative. The lack of information and advice
Speaker 1: offered to the queer community was very blatant, going back
Speaker 1: to that get Me Giddy dot com article, they wrote.
Speaker 1: In the years following the publication made a point to
Speaker 1: include more empowering and inclusive sex articles with LGBTQ perspectives
Speaker 1: and advice geared toward feminist Glamour similarly did away with
Speaker 1: content focused on what guys think, including a columnist by
Speaker 1: the name of Jake to emphasize sex advice focused on
Speaker 1: women's empowerment, and they continue Still the LGBTQ community has
Speaker 1: been largely underrepresented in sex advice columns, though some writers
Speaker 1: have recently stepped up to fix that. In twenty seventeen,
Speaker 1: John Paul JP Brammer started the sex and love advice
Speaker 1: column O La Poppy in Out magazine to provide guidance
Speaker 1: to queer people who don't have the same access to
Speaker 1: information about their sexuality online as straight CIS people. Secy
Speaker 1: Blanchard similarly began her column MTF and DTF to talk
Speaker 1: about the little discussed experiences of dating and sex from
Speaker 1: a trans woman's perspective.
Speaker 2: Right In research paper titles Narrative Analysis of Sexual Etiquette
Speaker 2: and teen magazines, the authorites other than brief mentions of
Speaker 2: masturbation in seventeen lesbian dreams in Mademoiselle, bisexual men who
Speaker 2: put their field partners at Risk and Glamour, and one
Speaker 2: story in Mademoiselle about a woman trying to save a
Speaker 2: gay man from being gay. We found no representations of
Speaker 2: homosexuality or masturbation that indicate these could be appropriate expressions
Speaker 2: of sexuality. While there's also nothing which condemn these sexual expressions,
Speaker 2: their absence could be seen as very limiting or isolating
Speaker 2: by young women with these interests. Again note this was
Speaker 2: actually written in nineteen ninety eight. So yeah, when I
Speaker 2: say some of these are really dated, they are. But
Speaker 2: the lack of information is something that should be recognized
Speaker 2: and is oftentimes not seen in larger publications. Like we
Speaker 2: just talked about the get megiddy dot com was like
Speaker 2: a twenty twenty article, so it's not been long and
Speaker 2: it's still very unrepresented. And the things that we do
Speaker 2: see are specific to queer culture instead of being in
Speaker 2: the popular publications. And that article is obviously specific to
Speaker 2: teen magazines as it was titled. Like I said, I
Speaker 2: have read my fair share of sex and relationship advice
Speaker 2: from different teen magazines, which we will delve into in
Speaker 2: the next episode. And honestly, again, all this information is
Speaker 2: a bit overwhelming, with a little with very little to
Speaker 2: offer in like all the contexts, the way we have
Speaker 2: to search for things is within itself. A lot of
Speaker 2: times they call themselves outs. I will give them that,
Speaker 2: like Lamberer will call themselves out. Cosmo has called themselves out.
Speaker 2: You know, they've really changed their tone in the last
Speaker 2: five years, which again it's gonna be about in the
Speaker 2: next episode, but for today, we're going to pause here.
Speaker 2: And yeah, I have done exactly what I didn't want
Speaker 2: to do make a three part thay. Apologies y'all, but hey,
Speaker 2: this is good stuff.
Speaker 1: I like how you say three part shut it.
Speaker 2: I'm determined.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Well, finally I'm gonna finally reveal the
Speaker 1: countents of my Ryan Gossling shock, and.
Speaker 3: I'm very excited.
Speaker 2: Is sitting on this outline taunting me?
Speaker 3: Oh it's chaunting me too, daunting all of us.
Speaker 2: Well, if you have any.
Speaker 1: Thoughts about this, I mean, we would love to hear them.
Speaker 1: I think I might go flip through some of my
Speaker 1: I still have some magazines. Oh, just see what's in there.
Speaker 2: I have to find some quizzes from those old school magazines,
Speaker 2: because there's some I remember taking those, like what kind
Speaker 2: of man are you supposed to be? With all those?
Speaker 2: I gotta find one of those.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I think the old Horo scipts could be fun.
Speaker 2: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: Yeah, those like like fashion like flow chart things.
Speaker 2: Yeah, us color salads.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll have to come back maybe for a Monday mini.
Speaker 2: Not not not part beautiful.
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, I will help you with this.
Speaker 1: Well, listeners, if you have any thoughts about any of that,
Speaker 1: or like, yes, any old magazines you want to share
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