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Speaker 6: Good morning everybody.
Speaker 8: You're listening to the voice, come on dig me now,
Speaker 8: one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Man
Speaker 8: o man o, man Wow. I think about all the
Speaker 8: things God has done for me is overwhelming at times,
Speaker 8: and I want everybody to have that feeling and to
Speaker 8: sharing that feeling of completion and satisfaction. And the only
Speaker 8: reason I got this, and it's the thousandth time I've
Speaker 8: said it, is because I formed a relationship with my creator.
Speaker 1: Period.
Speaker 8: That's it. That's that's it. I can't tell you as
Speaker 8: anything else else. You know, I've always had a strong
Speaker 8: work ethic. My father put that in me. My father's
Speaker 8: conversation with me growing up was always constantly about work hard,
Speaker 8: don't be lazy, be a man, do what you say
Speaker 8: you're gonna do. YadA YadA, YadA, YadA YadA. Man, I
Speaker 8: was so tired of my father at times. I was going, Man,
Speaker 8: what is with this dude?
Speaker 6: Right here?
Speaker 8: Man, every time we have a conversation, it's got to
Speaker 8: be about work. It's got to be about, you know, man,
Speaker 8: doing your best, trying hard, you know, working and being honest,
Speaker 8: do what you say you're gonna do. But that was
Speaker 8: his mission. I can't tell you how much I appreciate
Speaker 8: that now. I can't even I can't even put it
Speaker 8: into words when I think about my old man and
Speaker 8: what he was to me, and I just, man, I'm
Speaker 8: so grateful for that balance I had in my life.
Speaker 8: And then my father was a fighter. He fought on
Speaker 8: the weekends.
Speaker 6: You know.
Speaker 8: My father used to come home with his with his
Speaker 8: clothes toe off of him. He put a fresh shirt
Speaker 8: on and he go back. My mom used to talk
Speaker 8: about my father fighting all the time, slick, while you
Speaker 8: are always fighting. You know a little bit of that
Speaker 8: rubbed off on me too. You know that that kind
Speaker 8: of got into me. And I didn't understand that either,
Speaker 8: But then I'm the same. My mother was a Sunday
Speaker 8: school teacher for forty years, so her conversation was never
Speaker 8: about fighting or anything. It was all about love and
Speaker 8: understanding and doing another that you would add and do
Speaker 8: unto you. My mom was a Sunday school teacher, so
Speaker 8: I learned about faith. I had to go to Sunday school,
Speaker 8: prayer meeting, Bible study, young people meeting, choir rehearsal. You know,
Speaker 8: I was a churchman so much I was actually looking
Speaker 8: as there's got to be an alternative to this, you know.
Speaker 8: I want you know, I was a little kid even
Speaker 8: I was thinking at one point, maybe I ought to
Speaker 8: look into Hell because there's got to be something cooler
Speaker 8: than this going on every day. It got that crazy
Speaker 8: for me. But the balance between those two people created
Speaker 8: who I am today. And I want you to understand
Speaker 8: that the things that you are in your past have
Speaker 8: helped create who you are today. If you view it
Speaker 8: the right way, everything that has happened to you in
Speaker 8: your past has happened to you for a reason, and
Speaker 8: it's usually for the good if you view it that way.
Speaker 8: But if you, on the other hand, or a type
Speaker 8: of person who can't move forward because you are allowing
Speaker 8: your past to stop you from having your future. Then you,
Speaker 8: my friend, are doing a disservice to your life. You
Speaker 8: are not honoring God's blessings. You are not taking advantage
Speaker 8: of the gain, knowledge, wisdom, and experience of your life. Example,
Speaker 8: if you are a woman and you are always talking
Speaker 8: about a former relationship, what he did to me. If
Speaker 8: he had not did this to me, I wouldn't be
Speaker 8: in this place today. I thought I had a man.
Speaker 8: Now I ain't got no man ahllah lah lah la
Speaker 8: lah if I you know, he came along and I
Speaker 8: was doing just swell. He just came in and he
Speaker 8: just lied to me. He lied to me, nod. He
Speaker 8: did this to me, Then he cheated, then he left.
Speaker 8: All of that that you're saying can very well be true.
Speaker 8: Have you thought that maybe maybe somewhere in God's infinite wisdom,
Speaker 8: that he knew that you had made a mistake in
Speaker 8: picking him anyway? Maybe he knew you had made a
Speaker 8: mistake in saying yes or I do to him anyway,
Speaker 8: or come on, move in? And so what he did
Speaker 8: was based on your decision now to say yes, I
Speaker 8: do or come on, let's move in together. That was
Speaker 8: your decision. You ain't go to him about this one.
Speaker 8: You made this decision. Based on that decision, and all
Speaker 8: the negative things that started happening, He allowed you to
Speaker 8: get away from it. Now how you got away from it,
Speaker 8: it's always not the choice of ours. See, you stuck
Speaker 8: on the fact that he left, that he walked out.
Speaker 8: But let me share this with you. When he was there,
Speaker 8: how good was he to you? How good was he
Speaker 8: for you? See, you got to stare at you got
Speaker 8: to look at the blessing. The blessing is. Now you
Speaker 8: are on your own. Now you walk in your house.
Speaker 8: Ain't nobody in there with a disruptive spirit. Now you
Speaker 8: go home. You could take your clothes off, walk around
Speaker 8: like you want to. Now you go home, you can
Speaker 8: sit down and look at TV or catch your breath
Speaker 8: if you want to. Your kids don't have to see
Speaker 8: y'all arguing all the time. Have you looked at the
Speaker 8: blessing in it? But now if you gonna keep looking
Speaker 8: at the negative, then guess what. Now you can't move
Speaker 8: forward because you keep allowing your past to keep you.
Speaker 6: From moving forward.
Speaker 8: If God has brought you through it, why don't you
Speaker 8: move on from it? Look, you got through it. He gone,
Speaker 8: He ain't coming back. He got somebody else, So you
Speaker 8: gonna sit there and just keep tripping. Becauts he gone
Speaker 8: and he got somebody else. Hey, pick yourself up. Thank
Speaker 8: God for the blessing. It didn't feel like a blessing.
Speaker 8: Why you was going through it, and all the pain
Speaker 8: of him leaving and the divorce and all that messed
Speaker 8: you up? Got it when you get through it, all
Speaker 8: of that. You ain't the first one being left. You
Speaker 8: ain't the first one being divorced. You ain't the first
Speaker 8: one been in a bad relationship. Pick yourself up, Thank
Speaker 8: God for the blessing, and move forward in your life,
Speaker 8: because maybe when you quit complaining, maybe you'll find out
Speaker 8: that God has something in store for you that he
Speaker 8: wants you to have, but he can't give it to
Speaker 8: you if you ain't grateful. So God gives you a blessing,
Speaker 8: but because you don't see it as a blessing, you
Speaker 8: ain't grateful for it. Now, guess what, You steady asking
Speaker 8: God to do something for you, but you ain't thanking
Speaker 8: him for what he's done for you, but you steady
Speaker 8: wanting him to do more.
Speaker 6: How does that work? How does that work? Man? That
Speaker 6: He should keep on giving you things when you ain't
Speaker 6: even working with the stuff he Didne gave you and
Speaker 6: I don't know.
Speaker 8: And I'm just using that one example that could go
Speaker 8: for me and too, vice versa, and so on and
Speaker 8: so forth. I'm just using that as an example. Now,
Speaker 8: why I laid on that one so long? You have
Speaker 8: to take that over God, that's all just sat I
Speaker 8: ain't pointing fingers at nobody in nothing, because I've been
Speaker 8: guilty on both sides of the coin. Who am I?
Speaker 8: But I'm just sharing with you what I had to do.
Speaker 8: I had to learn to stop allowing my past to
Speaker 8: interfere with my future. Moning show, ladies and gentlemen, boys
Speaker 8: and girls, I've got sunshine on a cloudy day when
Speaker 8: it's called outside. I got the month of May in
Speaker 8: Junior's mind. That is a Jodasy song called Freaking You.
Speaker 8: It's not, it's called my Girl by the Temptation. Today
Speaker 8: is a wonderful day, man. I so appreciate it. God,
Speaker 8: Thank you Lord for waking us all up again, for
Speaker 8: getting us off our jobs, getting us ready to go
Speaker 8: to our jobs, getting us ready to go to school,
Speaker 8: to and fro back and forth, all of that. Appreciate you.
Speaker 8: It's a Good day, ladies and gentlemen. This is the
Speaker 8: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Shirley Strawberry calling for real Mississippi
Speaker 8: Monica Junior, the legend that is nephew Tommy Jr.
Speaker 6: You look you look real sunny today. Yeah I do.
Speaker 9: Man, I just got a question for you.
Speaker 6: I do.
Speaker 9: I don't even know.
Speaker 10: So you know, it's an honor to have your family
Speaker 10: come to you to fix problems.
Speaker 9: You take pride in fixing your family's problems.
Speaker 6: Uh, it is possible.
Speaker 8: So then you get on out of my face. What
Speaker 8: I be trying to do, Man, I ain't got no
Speaker 8: time for this. I got so I told you I
Speaker 8: try to head off problem because if you remain let
Speaker 8: me explain something to you. If you are one of
Speaker 8: the ones in your family or the one who is
Speaker 8: doing well and people have access to you, there are
Speaker 8: people who are going to abuse the access. That are
Speaker 8: people who treat that access wonderfully. There are people who
Speaker 8: I know if they call me, something must be seriously wrong.
Speaker 6: And then it's some people that called that I know.
Speaker 8: Every time something wrong, I'm gonna be the fixed fil
Speaker 8: I know exactly who they are. I could tell I
Speaker 8: got a certain ring for them and everything. So it's
Speaker 8: not it's not that I take pride. I mean it's
Speaker 8: my duty sometimes because I used to suffer from guilt,
Speaker 8: you know, being a successful person in my family, I
Speaker 8: used to suffer from guilt, which I found was the
Speaker 8: most useless emotion in the world, guilt because guilt only
Speaker 8: serves the person who's applying you.
Speaker 6: So I don't suffer from guilt anymore. I am what
Speaker 6: I am. I have what I have.
Speaker 8: God has given me what he's given me, and he
Speaker 8: ain't give it to you because you didn't. You didn't
Speaker 8: want it. You didn't want But you can't look over
Speaker 8: here and see me with it and think you supposed
Speaker 8: to have some to get that off your mind. Hello, right,
Speaker 8: then that's unfair. Yeah, that's unfair. So why do you
Speaker 8: feel honored?
Speaker 10: No, I don't really feel honored about it. I feel
Speaker 10: good about it. I'm able to do it for him
Speaker 10: because we ain't hand about it in the family. To
Speaker 10: do we all had to put money together, you know,
Speaker 10: six the priblem Yeah, we got just mind now.
Speaker 8: Oh no, let me tell you man, I paid for
Speaker 8: most few. I think funerals is the thing that I
Speaker 8: paid the most for. Consistent because you know, you know,
Speaker 8: you know my family, you know they have life insurance,
Speaker 8: but they short, you know, they're old. They paid on
Speaker 8: five thousand dollars policy all they life. Then you know
Speaker 8: you can't bury nobody for five no more?
Speaker 6: Oh no, not publish.
Speaker 1: You care, but it won't be no public not have
Speaker 1: a repast and all of that.
Speaker 6: No, Anna, you're not gonna really see this cask whatever,
Speaker 6: you can do it.
Speaker 1: All right?
Speaker 11: Thanks guys, coming up next to his a nephew and
Speaker 11: run that brank back right after this. You're listening hard
Speaker 11: morning show. It is time now for the nephew to
Speaker 11: run that prank back.
Speaker 5: What you got for his neph Sureley, I got side
Speaker 5: job cleaner, watch me work.
Speaker 6: Idiots got doll if you would.
Speaker 12: Robbie wanted to get an order in for some construction
Speaker 12: uh supplies I need to pick up.
Speaker 13: That's fine.
Speaker 7: What's your what's your company?
Speaker 12: Uh? The roof and Company company?
Speaker 13: Have we have we done this and form?
Speaker 12: No? No you haven't. This is my first time called.
Speaker 12: I heard you guys were pretty good.
Speaker 13: I appreciate the compliment.
Speaker 12: Okay, I know listen, Uh, I need to get this
Speaker 12: as soon as possible. Man, can I possibly pick up
Speaker 12: these supplies like in the next couple of hours.
Speaker 13: Uh, well, you know, no, it don't work. That fact
Speaker 13: kind of a quick turnaround. We got a little bit
Speaker 13: of a backup, but I can I can U My
Speaker 13: back depends on what you need.
Speaker 12: Okay, here's here's what I need. Man, I need five
Speaker 12: rolls of duct tape.
Speaker 13: Okay, that's no problem, that's quick.
Speaker 12: Okay, I need plastic. Man, listen, if you was gonna
Speaker 12: wrap up something in plastic that's like about uh six
Speaker 12: foot two in height and two hundred pounds, how much
Speaker 12: plast did you think I would need to wrap to
Speaker 12: wrap that up?
Speaker 13: In this is second? You're you're asking for plastic like
Speaker 13: a roller plastic.
Speaker 12: Yeah, I'm telling I need to wrap up something that's
Speaker 12: six foot two and like two hundred and ten pounds.
Speaker 13: I probably would get about three.
Speaker 12: Yards four yards of possis Okay, okay, I need to
Speaker 12: get that. Then let me ask you this here. If
Speaker 12: you was gonna try to put some cement on that
Speaker 12: to hold it down, how much cement you think and
Speaker 12: hold it down?
Speaker 13: I'm more confused. You're running a roofing company, right.
Speaker 12: Yeah, I'm a roofer company. But I'm doing a little
Speaker 12: side work for some friends of mine.
Speaker 13: Oh okay, okay, I just got a little confused. Can
Speaker 13: you tell me this is Talish and Company? No problem,
Speaker 13: No problem, got.
Speaker 7: Some man waiting.
Speaker 13: You're you're trying to hold something more. I'm trying to
Speaker 13: Are you.
Speaker 12: Trying to hold something down? So? How many bags of
Speaker 12: cement do you think I need to hold down something
Speaker 12: that's two hundred and twenty pounds? Wow?
Speaker 7: I don't know.
Speaker 12: Eight bags, eight bags, eight bag.
Speaker 13: Eight bags, I would recommend at least.
Speaker 12: Okay, okay, give me eight bags of cement. Now, just
Speaker 12: something else. I want to ask you. Do you have
Speaker 12: anything any type of cleaner man that can get that
Speaker 12: can get blood, I mean paint off the floor.
Speaker 13: Yeah, we got industrial cleaners some of that content.
Speaker 11: Industrial clean said, Well, well.
Speaker 13: He said, paint the paint or blood the frank Okay, yeah,
Speaker 13: I mean I've gotten that's your cleans lot Himes.
Speaker 7: You mean, do you have the preference?
Speaker 12: No, just whatever you could throw in there. I need that. Now,
Speaker 12: let me ask you this here. Do you have anything
Speaker 12: that can like just kill a smell? You know what
Speaker 12: I'm saying? If you know, if you don't want something
Speaker 12: to smell. You got anything for that?
Speaker 13: Wait? Mane something something some guy in your place?
Speaker 7: Is this place is something?
Speaker 12: Something? Did you do there?
Speaker 13: An animal or something you found? I mean, I'm kind
Speaker 13: of confused. You're talking about smell and clean up? Did
Speaker 13: you of animal.
Speaker 7: On a construction?
Speaker 12: A rabbie? Listen, man, just take the rder. That's all
Speaker 12: I need you to do.
Speaker 13: Okay, okay, No, I'm sorry. I wasn't asking your business.
Speaker 12: I just it was a little concern.
Speaker 7: What are we getting?
Speaker 12: What are we cleaning up?
Speaker 13: And what do we I mean, I guess the are
Speaker 13: we cleaning up a tile?
Speaker 12: Fold?
Speaker 6: To clean up carpet?
Speaker 7: I mean, what's the what's the cleaner for?
Speaker 13: And what's the where's the odor?
Speaker 14: Of?
Speaker 7: Sir?
Speaker 12: All? I'm asking you? Do you have something strong en? Though? Like?
Speaker 12: Do you think ammania can can keep a smell down?
Speaker 12: What do I need to keep a smell down?
Speaker 13: You're definitely gonna need ammonia. I mean, you gotta get
Speaker 13: something to just scrub that right down, because I mean,
Speaker 13: wherever that sent is, if it's in your if it's
Speaker 13: in the walls. But you got fabriished in that place
Speaker 13: singing whatever.
Speaker 12: What you got it?
Speaker 7: You probably have to have a.
Speaker 13: Different type of deodorized or something for the carpet, something
Speaker 13: for the walls. I mean, I don't. I guess, I
Speaker 13: guess it's kind of confused just to as to where
Speaker 13: the things coming from.
Speaker 12: And don't worry about all that, man, he man, listen,
Speaker 12: just just right down. What the order is?
Speaker 7: Okay, I got it you.
Speaker 13: I got the five rolls of ductive, I got the
Speaker 13: full yard of plastic, I got the hate back of
Speaker 13: the cement, I got the industrial clean, I got the pneumonia.
Speaker 13: I'm I'm I'm typing it all in. I got I've
Speaker 13: got your order.
Speaker 12: Okay, let me man, do y'all have any type of machete? Anything?
Speaker 12: That's real? Shop?
Speaker 13: But what?
Speaker 12: Oh?
Speaker 13: Okay, hold on second, and now now you're completely off base.
Speaker 13: You do realize you call the hardware.
Speaker 12: Store, right, I'm calling as talk about I need some supplies. Man,
Speaker 12: I'm doing the job on the side. I need some supply.
Speaker 13: I get that, you said that already, but I'm confused
Speaker 13: about it. Now you're asking for a weapon. What what
Speaker 13: what would you do the machete for? I mean, you're
Speaker 13: you're talking about, uh what you you're gonna chop down
Speaker 13: some some some brush. I don't I don't, I don't
Speaker 13: get it. What's in the shaddy for?
Speaker 12: Hey? Man, listen, listen, y'all. Job is to take the order. Man,
Speaker 12: that's your job. Robbie, don't tell me what my job is.
Speaker 13: I know what my job is. This is my stole man, Okay.
Speaker 13: I've been working here a lot longer than you even
Speaker 13: can imagine, and people don't call up asking for a
Speaker 13: moonia and and cleaner and trying to get a smell out.
Speaker 13: I mean what I just I'm trying to figure out how.
Speaker 12: Best to help you. I'm sorry what I'm doing, Robbie,
Speaker 12: is you being nosy? You being no All you gotta
Speaker 12: do is feel the order and have it have it
Speaker 12: done in two hours when I get there. That's all
Speaker 12: you gotta do.
Speaker 13: I can't do that in two hours. I can't even
Speaker 13: I were backed up with this point. I'm not even
Speaker 13: sure I.
Speaker 7: Can get this done.
Speaker 13: Maybe tomorrow morning, just tomorrow morning, work.
Speaker 7: For you, O.
Speaker 4: Man.
Speaker 12: I got to get rid of this body. I got
Speaker 12: to get rid of this guy today.
Speaker 13: Whoa whoa, whoa, whoa whoa. I need to call I
Speaker 13: need to call the policeman.
Speaker 12: You just said body right there. That's about white people
Speaker 12: always want to call the police when it ain't got
Speaker 12: nothing to do with them. Listen, all you need to
Speaker 12: do is fill the order.
Speaker 13: Okay. I need to tell you something. Okay, And I
Speaker 13: don't know if you if you found a body, I
Speaker 13: don't know if you're responsible for the body either the way.
Speaker 13: I don't want to be any part of this business.
Speaker 7: Okay. I don't know why you're planning or where you're.
Speaker 13: Trying to bury this thing, but you're basically asking me
Speaker 13: to be accomplished to something that's none of my business. Hey,
Speaker 13: I need your name right now.
Speaker 12: Okay, I I'm not giving you my name.
Speaker 7: You said, oh drooping.
Speaker 13: Hey, hey, listen to me. You said your call from
Speaker 13: triphing company.
Speaker 12: Are you I'm not?
Speaker 14: I'm not.
Speaker 12: Hey, man, let me tell you something. Why your wife
Speaker 12: folks always trying to be a bot? Tell you why
Speaker 12: you want like white folks?
Speaker 13: What's your problem something about white folks talking about purple green,
Speaker 13: black blue book. It's not about white.
Speaker 7: It's what you asking for.
Speaker 13: That sounds like you trying to bury your body. Okay,
Speaker 13: that's what I'm trying to think of. Are you and
Speaker 13: You're not?
Speaker 7: What is your name?
Speaker 13: I need your name. I'm your name right now.
Speaker 14: Man.
Speaker 12: Well, first of all, you at work, you're not you can't.
Speaker 12: You don't want to be talking to me like this.
Speaker 13: I don't care if I'm swearing at work. My co workers,
Speaker 13: the people here, they all know who I am, and
Speaker 13: I know if I was talking to someone some people.
Speaker 7: You not just talking like this too.
Speaker 13: I'm gonna try just call I'm gonna get the cops
Speaker 13: on your figure out who the you are.
Speaker 12: Don't you want to know who I am? Do you
Speaker 12: know Marcus?
Speaker 7: Marcus?
Speaker 13: He works here?
Speaker 12: Okay, Marcus is who got me to call you? This
Speaker 12: is nephew Tommy from the Steve Alby Morning Show. Robbie,
Speaker 12: you just got prank by your co worker, Marcus.
Speaker 7: You have got to be kidding me.
Speaker 13: Marcus, Marc, I see you over there, I see you,
Speaker 13: son of a Marcus.
Speaker 7: Why don't you tell me this?
Speaker 12: Hey, I gotta ask you, Robbie. You gotta tell me this. Man.
Speaker 12: What is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio
Speaker 12: show in the land.
Speaker 13: That's easy, Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 1: All right, thank you, nephew.
Speaker 11: Coming up next as the clo you're listening Steve Harvey
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Speaker 11: Carla is here with the recap of last night's Grammy
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Speaker 11: up at the top of the hour, but right now
Speaker 11: it is time to ask the clo Felicia in Lexington
Speaker 11: Colo Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey says.
Speaker 1: I'm five years younger than my boyfriend and.
Speaker 11: He talks down to me and calls me baby girl
Speaker 11: when his friends are around. I'm twenty three and he
Speaker 11: makes me feel like I'm not on his level or
Speaker 11: mature enough. He says, my age is not an issue.
Speaker 6: So what is it. I'm not really sure about this.
Speaker 8: I think he gets around his friends and he tries
Speaker 8: to take on a more domineering persona. You know a
Speaker 8: lot of some guys get around the frieze and they
Speaker 8: show out. It's real as simple as that. He could
Speaker 8: just be showing out a baby girl. Slow down. Come
Speaker 8: on now, you know you don't know nothing, but if
Speaker 8: a man not but I'm gonna tell you this now.
Speaker 8: If a man is talking down to you now, it's
Speaker 8: not gonna get better. So you have to you start.
Speaker 6: It's time.
Speaker 8: It's a good time for you to start evaluating why
Speaker 8: you're with him. And if you don't tell him, look,
Speaker 8: you're gonna have to stop talking down to me in
Speaker 8: front of people. It could continue and it could worsen.
Speaker 8: That's the best I got for you. I don't really
Speaker 8: know the particulars of how he's talking to you, but
Speaker 8: for you to write in you must be feeling some
Speaker 8: kind of way. So if you were my daughter, you know,
Speaker 8: I just tell you. You know, you might want to revaluate
Speaker 8: this situation right here, because you know this might not
Speaker 8: be going over. What's the benefits of the relationship you're
Speaker 8: in of all, because right now you're giving me the negatives.
Speaker 8: Are there any benefits other than you like him and
Speaker 8: you just spend some time with him. I wish people
Speaker 8: would stop doing that. Stop looking at the amount of
Speaker 8: time you done put into a relationship to determine whether
Speaker 8: you're gonna stay in it or not unless you're married
Speaker 8: and children are involved. See that adds that that heightens
Speaker 8: the equations on it. But if that ain't the case,
Speaker 8: then man, miss me baden. And then at some point,
Speaker 8: even if you're married with children, if you just living
Speaker 8: in a constant state of misery, that's not good either.
Speaker 8: So I'm not gonna do that. I don't recommend divorce
Speaker 8: to anybody. I do recommend it highly to myself though,
Speaker 8: all right.
Speaker 11: Moving on to Tatiana in Freeport, Tatiana says, my boyfriend
Speaker 11: and I have been together two years and he's my son,
Speaker 11: and we just start having sex when my son is home.
Speaker 11: He won't respect my wishes and hold it down during sex,
Speaker 11: he said, my son will be fine.
Speaker 1: Is he rude or is he right?
Speaker 8: No, that's that's really really rude. That's really really rude.
Speaker 8: Your son will be fine. No, this dude, he just
Speaker 8: want to do it like he'll He has no regard
Speaker 8: for this child. It's certain things a child don't need
Speaker 8: to be exposed to, and that's one of them them.
Speaker 8: Sounds of his mama coming from the room. You don't
Speaker 8: know what's going through that little boy mind.
Speaker 6: Man, that's just not healthy at all. Yeah.
Speaker 8: So see, man, No, the dude he needed. No, you
Speaker 8: need to put a stop to that. No, we're not
Speaker 8: doing nothing over here. If you can't hold it down
Speaker 8: and we can't wait until my son go to sleep
Speaker 8: and all this hell, then we not. It ain't happening
Speaker 8: over here. No, No, he'll be fine. See that's that
Speaker 8: dude right there. He's thinking only about himself. You have
Speaker 8: to consider the well being of the child first. I
Speaker 8: mean you his mother. Come on, dude, right here, he
Speaker 8: just want what he wants. I like, Holly, Well, the
Speaker 8: baby's in the room.
Speaker 6: Come to deal with it.
Speaker 1: The boy, the baby, the boy and the boy.
Speaker 6: All right.
Speaker 11: Moving on to Weston and Newark, Western writes, one of
Speaker 11: my friends is marrying my ex girl, and they kept
Speaker 11: the relationship quiet. I don't talk to him all the time,
Speaker 11: but I think he should have told me. Did he
Speaker 11: owe me that courtesy or not?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 8: Man, br they finna getting married? Bru Do you know
Speaker 8: how far up the road this thing and went? Nowt Nah, bruh,
Speaker 8: stay out of it. Let it go. He your friend,
Speaker 8: he marrying your ex. They kept it a secret because
Speaker 8: they didn't want nobody to knew. They didn't want nobody
Speaker 8: to know. He thought it was a little messy, and
Speaker 8: she thought it was a little messy. So you know
Speaker 8: how it is. You know you was your ex and
Speaker 8: then he was looking at her the whole time and
Speaker 8: she was looking at him the whole time. And they
Speaker 8: decided when they started seeing each other to keep it
Speaker 8: undercovers because they knew it would create this.
Speaker 6: Well, now they getting married.
Speaker 8: He don't owe you nothing, dog, Now I want you
Speaker 8: to understand something that ain't a friend and you thought
Speaker 8: he would.
Speaker 6: Hell, yeah, he got a location.
Speaker 11: Okay, so even if he didn't owe him that, Steve,
Speaker 11: couldn't he have just picked or is this not what
Speaker 11: men do? Pick up the phone and say, hey man,
Speaker 11: you know so you won't hear it from anyone else.
Speaker 1: I want to tell you.
Speaker 8: Yeah, but see, yeah, i'd have did that. But if we,
Speaker 8: if were real boys, thought place that's kind of yeah,
Speaker 8: that's kind of sideways. If I'm talking about my real boys. Now,
Speaker 8: if I just know what, dude, that ain't nothing. Yeah,
Speaker 8: that ain't nothing.
Speaker 15: That one of my friends.
Speaker 8: But if we friends, though, we ride or die I'm not.
Speaker 8: We're not doing the second game, not with your girl,
Speaker 8: because there's too many women out here.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm not gonna do that. So now you understand that.
Speaker 8: That friend that you thought you had, y'all ain't at
Speaker 8: the level you thought you were.
Speaker 6: That's what at this point.
Speaker 8: Oh lord, if you had her on that waiting yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: Go to the wedding.
Speaker 9: Yeah, turn the cake o.
Speaker 1: You got? Did anyone object to this wedding?
Speaker 7: I do?
Speaker 8: Yeah, you're fine, but this ain't nothing for you to lose.
Speaker 8: No sleep about they they made they getting married, man,
Speaker 8: they way up the road. Just just just chalk that
Speaker 8: one of them and say, okay, so I thought we
Speaker 8: were cooler than we really were, and just chalk that up.
Speaker 8: So you lost her and him, it ain't no problem.
Speaker 1: Oh gosh, all right?
Speaker 11: Last one Fawn and Charlotte says, my birthday was on
Speaker 11: January fifteenth, and I didn't get anything for my birthday.
Speaker 11: My husband said, I'm over forty now and birthdays are
Speaker 11: no big deal. He's turning forty this year. Should I
Speaker 11: tell him that birthdays are no big deal? Should I
Speaker 11: be evil like him?
Speaker 6: Well?
Speaker 8: I mean, if you do it, that's you he said,
Speaker 8: at the rules. You know, so if you do it,
Speaker 8: he set the rules. But that's dumb fellas women's birthdays
Speaker 8: the woman you in a relationship with, it's important days anyway.
Speaker 8: Valentine's Day is important, Christmas is important, the anniversary is important,
Speaker 8: and birthdays are important them folk gifts a year now
Speaker 8: that ain't gotta be huge gifts.
Speaker 6: But you gotta do something. Valentine's Day. You can't let
Speaker 6: that go by because that's a national day to recognize your.
Speaker 8: Sweetheart, her birthday, that is her day. You've got to
Speaker 8: get her something. You've got to go h uh. And
Speaker 8: then then it's Christmas, and then it's anniversary. Now if
Speaker 8: she's a mother, Lord have mercy, that's another one.
Speaker 6: That's another. It's five times.
Speaker 5: Now.
Speaker 6: I'm gonna tell you something. Men don't get nothing for
Speaker 6: the anniversary.
Speaker 8: Me and don't get nothing for Valentine's Day, and me
Speaker 8: and don't and Father's Day. I strowly started making a movement.
Speaker 8: We need to counsel follows.
Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour. Thank you, fellow.
Speaker 1: We'll have some entertainment news for you right after this.
Speaker 11: You're listening Hard Morning show, all.
Speaker 12: Right, So Carlor.
Speaker 11: The Grammys aired last night. Philisina, What happened whot Down the.
Speaker 16: Sixty six Annual Grammy Awards last night, hosted by Trevor Noah.
Speaker 1: Trevor did his thing. He did a great job.
Speaker 6: Yes he always does.
Speaker 16: Yeah, yeah, La, it went down, star studying. Mariah Carey
Speaker 16: kicks things off. She was the first presenter. She looked
Speaker 16: fantastic at me, she was beautiful. Tracy Chapman performed her
Speaker 16: iconic song fast Car loved her with Luke Colmbe's Sizza
Speaker 16: Straight Fire. She killed and performed her song Killed Bill
Speaker 16: and Snooze Tasha.
Speaker 1: We were in the house Holland yelling for her.
Speaker 16: It was emotional when she won her speech, Best R
Speaker 16: and B Song.
Speaker 1: Stevie wonder you saw him?
Speaker 16: Surely he did the Tony Bennett tribute. Taylor Swift won
Speaker 16: her third Yes, yes, he passed away. You know how
Speaker 16: the Grammys, dude? Yeah, Yes, Stevie did his thing. Taylor
Speaker 16: Swift won her thirteenth and Grammy for her album Midnights,
Speaker 16: and she promoted she has a new album dropping in April.
Speaker 1: So there you go.
Speaker 6: How you do it?
Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all.
Speaker 16: Lenny Kravitz, he introduced John Baptiste and nesby Jimmy jam
Speaker 16: Terry Lewis for the Late Great Black Godfather Tribute to
Speaker 16: Clarence Avant. See that was a nice tribute. Nice tribute. Oprah.
Speaker 16: Oprah Winfrey was in the building. She introduced Fantagia Lord YESLRD.
Speaker 1: Yes proud married.
Speaker 16: Fantasia performed the Tina Turner tribute. She set the stage
Speaker 16: on fire. We gotta give it up to the sage.
Speaker 6: Room and watched that by myself.
Speaker 1: It's out of fast, baby thick fast was on the
Speaker 1: informance of the night. Yes, Yes, I love Tasia.
Speaker 16: Let's see the best new artist Victoria Monete.
Speaker 1: I told you how she was gonna win. Put that
Speaker 1: on my mama. Yeah, ye yep, I love it, love it.
Speaker 16: She won yup, Houston's own Junior Travis Scott from the
Speaker 16: Seri City, Texas. He performed, and uh, let's see the
Speaker 16: speech of the night jay Z with all the shade
Speaker 16: on stage. But you know what, jay Z, he just
Speaker 16: kept in one hundred about his wife.
Speaker 1: That's what it was really about.
Speaker 16: He took a moment, he won the Doctor Drake Global
Speaker 16: Impact Award and on stage he.
Speaker 1: Just kept in one hundred.
Speaker 16: His daughter joined them on stage Blue Ivory, and he
Speaker 16: did not come to play during.
Speaker 1: His speech, and JA, you just basically talked about I
Speaker 1: think last year.
Speaker 16: I don't know if you guys remember last year during
Speaker 16: the Grammys renaissance, Beyonce's album, you know, she won all
Speaker 16: of these Grammys and Album of the Year.
Speaker 1: Last year she did not win.
Speaker 16: And I remember watching the Grammys last year and I
Speaker 16: looked at the TV, like, what the Harry Styles. Harry
Speaker 16: Styles won Album of the Year last year. Harry Styles.
Speaker 16: And I like Harry Styles.
Speaker 1: I love him.
Speaker 8: I don't even know who he is, but let me
Speaker 8: just say this for him. This when you need Kanye,
Speaker 8: come on back there, ninety and you need Kanye, come
Speaker 8: on up in there and keeps well.
Speaker 16: And we all remember when Kanye got mad when Taylor
Speaker 16: won and he felt Kanye felt that Beyonce should have won,
Speaker 16: and he went up there and said, what was the best.
Speaker 6: Thing ever happened to Taylor Swift?
Speaker 16: But that was Taylor's moment. Jay Z took his moment,
Speaker 16: his own moment to speak about his wife. So that
Speaker 16: was what Jay did last night. And he talked about
Speaker 16: keep showing up until they give you.
Speaker 1: What you deserve. That was basically what he was saying.
Speaker 16: He talked about boycott's in the past from the Grammys.
Speaker 16: Remember when Will Smith and Jazz Jeff did it. They
Speaker 16: boycott and then they went home and watched the Grammars,
Speaker 16: but theocott by not going. He mentioned that, and then
Speaker 16: when DMX didn't get nominated or didn't win, and he
Speaker 16: talked about when he did the same thing. He said,
Speaker 16: I didn't go, but I went and watched it too. Well, yeah,
Speaker 16: so there was some yeah, some kind of boycott. So
Speaker 16: there were some things, but that was his point. That
Speaker 16: was Jay's point about the Grammys. You gotta keep you
Speaker 16: gotta get it right, get it right, show up.
Speaker 1: And get it right. So that was Jay's message.
Speaker 16: How you feel about that, Steve, Well, you know, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 8: I'm a I'm all I'm good with if you speaking
Speaker 8: the truth. What he said was factual. Ye, I'm not
Speaker 8: good when people up there speaking their opinions as truth
Speaker 8: and they really are live. So I support that one
Speaker 8: hundred percent. Anybody standing up for their girl, I'm with
Speaker 8: that too, you know, I'm just a proponent of that.
Speaker 8: So I like, you know, yeah, yeah, he said, when
Speaker 8: I'm nervous, I tell.
Speaker 1: The truth truth.
Speaker 6: You know.
Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, you know that right there. You can't get
Speaker 8: mad at the brother for that. I think he's done
Speaker 8: so much. I think a cat like jay Z, who
Speaker 8: has done so much, he's earned the right to speak up.
Speaker 8: I mean, and he he has a voice that's worth
Speaker 8: listening to. We have to be careful in our culture
Speaker 8: who we give a voice to. Everybody that speaks up,
Speaker 8: don't need to say nothing. Some people need to be quiet.
Speaker 8: Stop listening to liars. Jay Z is not known to
Speaker 8: be a liar.
Speaker 6: He's just not.
Speaker 8: He's a hard worker, he's accomplished, he's he's he's sheer greatness.
Speaker 1: He's good.
Speaker 6: Oh man, he that dude.
Speaker 1: Culture.
Speaker 8: So those are the people you lended ear to when
Speaker 8: they have a voice. Be very careful because of this
Speaker 8: thing we live, the world we live in today, be
Speaker 8: very careful of who you who you give a listen to.
Speaker 8: You know, stop letting fools direct your life and your thoughts.
Speaker 11: All right, call black woman, come a black woman, Thank
Speaker 11: you guys. Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour,
Speaker 11: we will have a black History moment right here on
Speaker 11: the Steve Harvey Morning Show, and we will tell you
Speaker 11: how Steve Harvey himself is making history right after this
Speaker 11: you're listening morning show.
Speaker 1: Well, February is.
Speaker 11: Black History Month, and this year's Black History Month theme
Speaker 11: is African Americans and the Art, and it aims to
Speaker 11: explore the influential African Americans in visual and performing art, literature, fashion, folklore, language, film, music, architecture,
Speaker 11: culinary and other forms of cultural expression. So on that note,
Speaker 11: may I have a drum roll please, mister Harvey.
Speaker 1: We want to honor you, sir.
Speaker 11: You are the first black host of the hit TV
Speaker 11: game shows Family Feud and Celebrity Family Feud, and this
Speaker 11: is your fourteenth year hosting Family Feud. So we got
Speaker 11: to say congratulations to you in this Black History Month.
Speaker 11: Steve Harvey, all right, congratulations you history.
Speaker 10: You see that?
Speaker 1: Oh here boy, we had time.
Speaker 6: Thank you, thank you, thank.
Speaker 1: You all so much energy, that same energy.
Speaker 6: No, this is how you accept it, humb.
Speaker 8: You don't go up there wow man by time like
Speaker 8: I don't want to thank me.
Speaker 6: No, I ain't.
Speaker 8: That was a great speech. I wouldn't make it right hand,
Speaker 8: all the things I was supposed Yeah, I wouldn't.
Speaker 14: Man.
Speaker 8: You know what, man, It's like really crazy for me
Speaker 8: when I look back on it all. I look back
Speaker 8: on it all.
Speaker 6: You know. I got agree Old back in November. October.
Speaker 8: November, I received Agree It was didn't add to November,
Speaker 8: but I received the tv Icon Award of thirty years
Speaker 8: of Television. I can't even tell you, man, how that
Speaker 8: just came up on me.
Speaker 6: And I didn't realize it.
Speaker 8: But I was in the same room accepting an honor
Speaker 8: that Kevin Hart was in, Eddie Murphy was in, Denzel
Speaker 8: Washington was in, And to be in that same room
Speaker 8: on the same night, it was really really humbling for me, man,
Speaker 8: because what God has done for me. I just did
Speaker 8: not see it coming. You could not have told me
Speaker 8: that I would have lasted in television this long, you know,
Speaker 8: because it's just been it's unheard of, it really is, man,
Speaker 8: and it's just been like, it's been a lot of
Speaker 8: first for me. First first black to host a pageant show,
Speaker 8: you know, mister Universe, I did.
Speaker 6: I was the first black to host New Year's Eve show.
Speaker 6: You were the first black to say the wrong name.
Speaker 1: Shot Fire.
Speaker 11: You were doing Family Feud since twenty ten, Steve.
Speaker 6: Congratulation, I'm taping right now. Year fifteen.
Speaker 1: Wow, congratulations how many did Richard Dawson do.
Speaker 11: Richard Dawson did from seventy six to eighty five? All right,
Speaker 11: long running, congratulations Steve. Coming up at thirty four minutes
Speaker 11: after the hour, she will be here. Who you ask,
Speaker 11: Sister Odell? Right after this you're listening hardy morning show,
Speaker 11: ladies and gentlemen. As promised, she is here, the one
Speaker 11: and only Sister Odell.
Speaker 17: Yes, jeesus, my lord, my lord, my lord.
Speaker 6: Good mornings. Everyone, go down ULLI College. You on your
Speaker 6: time in Mississippi.
Speaker 17: David morning?
Speaker 6: Do David in there? You know I like him. He
Speaker 6: works on the board. He don't say nothing. Yes, he's
Speaker 6: a member hood, yes, ma'am. Yes, wonderful. Good morning.
Speaker 1: What's going on, Shirley, Well news, Sister Odell.
Speaker 11: I just good morning to you. I just wanted to say,
Speaker 11: you know, Valentine's Day is coming up, and we kind
Speaker 11: of consider you an expert in love and stuff like that. Yeah,
Speaker 11: you've get married, you know, you've had your relationships and everything.
Speaker 1: So eleven husbands, Wow.
Speaker 6: That day now that dad, that's axe, Yes, ma'am.
Speaker 1: That's definitely qualified you as an expert.
Speaker 6: Got it going on cracking and popping? So you can't
Speaker 6: water me down. I'm still.
Speaker 8: Milk, chocolate, milk, four milk, old mill rice, milk, cab water.
Speaker 11: Same thing en crackling pop baby. Well are you getting
Speaker 11: ready though? For Valentine's Day?
Speaker 15: Is there someone?
Speaker 8: And you know I have to do women's women shouldn't
Speaker 8: have to get ready for Valentine's Days.
Speaker 6: There's some responsibility. Mean, we will just be there.
Speaker 1: But you know what is you gonna do a lot
Speaker 1: of women these days by their partner or.
Speaker 8: That was wrong with these hepos these days they see
Speaker 8: they y'all, y'all in mess around and let these men's.
Speaker 1: Just reverse the trends on it.
Speaker 6: You ain't probably do all that for them, stop doing
Speaker 6: for them? They post?
Speaker 14: Do you?
Speaker 8: You know you got these little rapper boys and sit
Speaker 8: up and change and rund got you talking about what
Speaker 8: you're gonna.
Speaker 6: Bring to the table and all this What is your
Speaker 6: rabbitad bringing to the table?
Speaker 1: Come on?
Speaker 8: And so that ought to be to stop the ground
Speaker 8: right here. Why is I got to show you what
Speaker 8: I got to the table?
Speaker 6: Why you come up?
Speaker 8: Tell me folk? Because you saw something on the table,
Speaker 8: you want it? That's right, And that's what it comes
Speaker 8: up to the woman faut. Now you come up there
Speaker 8: and all of a sudden you got a whole lot of.
Speaker 6: List of what we need to be.
Speaker 8: Well, what is you damn come on dropping if you
Speaker 8: can't buy a box of hand there some damn flowers
Speaker 8: over Valentine's there. You ain't finna get what you're seeing
Speaker 8: on this table. We are pulling up this tablecloth. I'm
Speaker 8: telling you that right now you won't see what's under
Speaker 8: this table flaw.
Speaker 6: Bet your laugh.
Speaker 1: I like that when when you take us to school
Speaker 1: like that, when you're edge waymen? Is this shine now,
Speaker 1: shary De?
Speaker 6: Your women didn't letting these boys get away with too much.
Speaker 17: Make these young men's be men's.
Speaker 6: Okay, before you start showing them how much a woman
Speaker 6: you eating?
Speaker 1: Yes, Smith, what does that mean? Exactly? Break that down
Speaker 1: for people.
Speaker 8: Who don't passing out your cookies? Come people that ain't
Speaker 8: bringing milk?
Speaker 1: Yes, oh okay. The whole word today says so damn think.
Speaker 6: Of this best right here?
Speaker 8: All these little young girls going to you're watching these
Speaker 8: are Dardashian girls on TV.
Speaker 6: You want to just go have a baby without a husband,
Speaker 6: You better get.
Speaker 8: Yourself a man first and quit worrying about what you
Speaker 8: see them Dardashian girls.
Speaker 4: Going on nothing.
Speaker 1: Dardashians, Carla.
Speaker 8: They got money, they have keys home, they want to
Speaker 8: They got babysitters and nannies and security.
Speaker 6: You ain't got nobody's ain't nobody but your mama.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, all right. So you believe in like the
Speaker 1: man should be the provider.
Speaker 6: That's what they made for. What mans don't want to provide.
Speaker 17: That's your job.
Speaker 1: But nowadays, sister Odell, you know they have the women
Speaker 1: taking care of the men. Men stay high and the
Speaker 1: women go to work.
Speaker 6: I wood take care of me. You want to be
Speaker 6: out of your mind.
Speaker 8: No, that's right, you little shit, your ass at the
Speaker 8: house talking about you and mamma daddy.
Speaker 6: No, you ain't not a mean he ain't mamma daddy.
Speaker 1: Well whatever they call they sail mamma daddy. What's this
Speaker 1: like a dad?
Speaker 11: Mom?
Speaker 6: All these here, mama daddy? You know where a man
Speaker 6: stay home, take like.
Speaker 1: A house husband, say, get your ass or job somewhere.
Speaker 5: The hell.
Speaker 1: Well, thank you sister Odell for that word.
Speaker 11: Today, ragged ash man, Hey you leave well, happy Valentine's today?
Speaker 11: All right, coming up, n it is a nephew with
Speaker 11: Today's prank phone call. Right after this you're listening Hard
Speaker 11: Morning show coming up at about four minutes after the hour.
Speaker 11: It's my Strawberry letter for today and the subject is
Speaker 11: I need to move out, but he won't let me.
Speaker 11: We'll get into that find out what that's all about
Speaker 11: in just a few but right now it is time
Speaker 11: for today's prank phone call with the nephew.
Speaker 1: Nephew, I got it, I got it.
Speaker 6: Let me, let me let me first.
Speaker 5: Uh, I gotta thank New York City man, Manhattan, Oh
Speaker 5: my god, y'all came out and hung out with the
Speaker 5: nephew Saturday night at the NYC Winery, two sold out shows.
Speaker 5: Appreciate your man, Thank you, thank you, Thank you everybody.
Speaker 5: The w b l s came out. Miss Ann Tripp
Speaker 5: came and hung out with me. It was it was
Speaker 5: all changing. So I would say, thank you.
Speaker 13: Man.
Speaker 5: Got a gift last night. I mean, I got a
Speaker 5: gift on Saturday night from miss Ingrid Dixon. It's Ingrid
Speaker 5: Dixon and she is waiting for me to have Ready
Speaker 5: to Love after sixty. So that's something I have to
Speaker 5: talk Yeah, ready to Love after sixty, that's something I
Speaker 5: got to talk to will pack about because that's what
Speaker 5: I get everywhere I go from everywhere I go to airport,
Speaker 5: them all anywhere. When you're gonna do something for people
Speaker 5: that's in the sixty crowd, we need Rented the Love sixty.
Speaker 6: Tell me.
Speaker 5: I think it'll worked, though, Big Donald, I think it
Speaker 5: would possibly work. Rented to Love.
Speaker 6: Holy Season, Yes to one or two week version to Well,
Speaker 6: that's not that.
Speaker 5: But you know what, Actually I said that we should
Speaker 5: do a nice weekend, a nice four day weekend or something.
Speaker 6: If it works, work.
Speaker 5: What do you mean?
Speaker 8: See, well, it's like the record label when the last
Speaker 8: time you've seen a six year old person get a
Speaker 8: record deal, because we need three albums out y'all to
Speaker 8: complete this deal.
Speaker 6: Chances of that happening. But they did gold numbers. They did,
Speaker 6: they did golden.
Speaker 1: On It works, Run, Hit Getting Married very much, it
Speaker 1: was hit.
Speaker 8: Yeah, ABC, I ain't like how that sounded, right. No, No,
Speaker 8: it's not, it's not and it's not I was making
Speaker 8: a race reference.
Speaker 1: Oh oh oh.
Speaker 6: No, I'm just being rich. I ain't talking about the age.
Speaker 6: I'm talking about the race.
Speaker 8: Now, be careful, it's gonna it's gonna play out differently
Speaker 8: because we different towards each other. It would be okay, man,
Speaker 8: if we would be supportive and loving and respectful and
Speaker 8: cheering for each other.
Speaker 6: But we've changed in our culture, man, we've changed for
Speaker 6: each other at all. Oh hell oh hell no, do
Speaker 6: you know the dogs? You're gonna get that hate that's
Speaker 6: gonna go that way? Look at her? Why he looked
Speaker 6: like that?
Speaker 1: Who wants.
Speaker 17: Braud?
Speaker 1: They do it to the young people, now, I would
Speaker 1: be mad if they did that to older people.
Speaker 8: You can please paying yourself to get mad that internet
Speaker 8: man that in and then I'd love to see it personally.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that'd be nice. It would be a nice change.
Speaker 1: We're gonna roof a.
Speaker 5: Love well miss Ingrid Dixon, miss Ingrid. I don't know
Speaker 5: if we're gonna do it.
Speaker 6: Well, they can do it, but let's make it. Deal.
Speaker 6: If you do it, Tommy, let's just get more. Tell
Speaker 6: all the old people they have to sign the paperwork
Speaker 6: so we can put some other used effectitious names, Ingrid, Agnes, Abigail.
Speaker 6: All of that ain't good TV.
Speaker 15: Come on, Tommy.
Speaker 6: Prak this is super Bowl Trip. Super Bowl Trip. Let's go.
Speaker 12: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach you. You Martina, Please
Speaker 12: I'll see you not in right at the moment.
Speaker 7: Can I take a message or something I can help
Speaker 7: you with?
Speaker 12: Uh? Actually, I'm giving a call to make sure double
Speaker 12: checking on confirmation for mister and missus.
Speaker 7: Now, man, now that may be a mistake because she's
Speaker 7: going by herself. I'm not going, so that should be missed.
Speaker 12: That's all, okay, All right, Well I'll tell you what
Speaker 12: we have. We have our schedule.
Speaker 14: We wanted to make sure we gave the confirmation and uh,
Speaker 14: you know, with a big weekend like this, we're double
Speaker 14: checking and making sure everybody's actually coming and getting their
Speaker 14: rooms because you know, you're subject to get charged for it.
Speaker 14: And we definitely have the honeymoon sweet waiting on her honeymoons.
Speaker 7: We man, we've been married seventeen years. What's you come about? Honeymoon?
Speaker 6: Sweet?
Speaker 12: Well, we got missus.
Speaker 7: What's the name on that?
Speaker 12: Miss Martina? Is that right?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 12: That's my wife? Yeah, all right, and we've got Tony
Speaker 12: as well.
Speaker 7: Who who is Tony?
Speaker 12: My name is Vernon? Say what now?
Speaker 7: My name is Vernon? Who the hell is Tony?
Speaker 12: So?
Speaker 7: Wow, we we have where this is uh the wrong one.
Speaker 7: I think y'all got the wrong one man.
Speaker 12: Okay, did you guys make reservations here at the hotel
Speaker 12: and for the super Bowl weekend. My wife is going
Speaker 12: to this.
Speaker 7: Weekend to be with her sick auntie. That's what she
Speaker 7: told me. Now, I don't know nothing about noose, but
Speaker 7: you know what, Yeah, keep talking to me. Yeah, okay, twy,
Speaker 7: keep talking to me, because, uh, this will getting really
Speaker 7: interesting right here.
Speaker 12: She's coming to I have a mister and missus Martina
Speaker 12: and Tony are coming. We have the honeymoon suite here
Speaker 12: for the super Bowl weekend, checking in tomorrow and checking
Speaker 12: out on Monday.
Speaker 7: I don't now you know what this is right here,
Speaker 7: because see now I got to said. She told me
Speaker 7: she was going to see her seek auntie, and I
Speaker 7: told her cool, I paid for the damn ticket myself.
Speaker 7: I got my tax returned back and I paid for
Speaker 7: my damnself so she can go out there. And you're
Speaker 7: telling me this help for the main reservations and out
Speaker 7: let's clok.
Speaker 12: I mean, what the hell I mean? Now?
Speaker 14: Uh? Uh?
Speaker 7: Victor, Victor?
Speaker 12: What's your name again?
Speaker 7: But my name is Vernon, Okay, mister Vernon, sir.
Speaker 12: I first of all, I do apologize. I'm just a.
Speaker 12: You know, I'm here and in the reservations, and basically
Speaker 12: they just got us calling because it's a big weekend
Speaker 12: and you know if you if you don't come in
Speaker 12: your your car will definitely get charged. They gotta stu.
Speaker 7: Well, y'all been not charged nothing to my car. Don't charge.
Speaker 7: Matter of fact, I want to cancel this reservation. She
Speaker 7: can fall back in as far as I'm concerned. This
Speaker 7: is the met will walk up in here right now.
Speaker 7: They don't walk up up in there right now, because
Speaker 7: see this is this.
Speaker 12: Okay, let's let's just slow Let's slow down a minute.
Speaker 12: Le's slow down. Maybe there's just a mistake here.
Speaker 7: I mean, no man, uh uh the honey, I'm sweet
Speaker 7: at the no one she told me, no wonder, I'm like.
Speaker 7: She teld me she needed two hundred dollars for them hotel,
Speaker 7: me for the hotel room.
Speaker 12: Yeah. Well actually it's well they must be splitting in here.
Speaker 12: It's it's it's about four hundred and something to night
Speaker 12: for this room.
Speaker 7: Excuse me, she will say that much come up there
Speaker 7: and wedding ring.
Speaker 12: Wow. Okay, well I'll.
Speaker 7: Tell you what, sir.
Speaker 12: Is there any way I can I can call back
Speaker 12: and speak to Martinez.
Speaker 7: So I can I never in life call back to
Speaker 7: this okay, because see if you call back here talking
Speaker 7: about this, because yea, I don't know you know me
Speaker 7: answer this phone. Okay, this is her phone. She would
Speaker 7: to go runn erring for me. But don't you never
Speaker 7: call this phone back again because see, she ain't coming,
Speaker 7: not this lifetime.
Speaker 6: She's not.
Speaker 7: But uh, you know what, I want to thank you though,
Speaker 7: I appreciate you let me in on the rules up.
Speaker 12: Yeah, knew it. Okay, okause, mister Bernon scared? Slow down,
Speaker 12: some man hang on. Okay, now listen. What I have
Speaker 12: to do is I have to talk to the person
Speaker 12: that made the reservation in order to cancel it. Now.
Speaker 12: I don't any means you're counseling right now, but I
Speaker 12: need to hear that from miss Martina that has trust me.
Speaker 7: When she gets back, you're gonna even talk to you.
Speaker 7: You can cancel it now. I'm telling you now, cancel it.
Speaker 7: It ain't gonna be no honeymoon. Okay. We've been there
Speaker 7: for seventeen years, we got folk kids, and I'm sitting
Speaker 7: back here. No cancelor now, I'm telling you.
Speaker 12: The counselor I cannot cancel it without speaking on her.
Speaker 7: I tell you what your best better is to cancel
Speaker 7: that because if you put a charge on that, I'm
Speaker 7: gonna drive it and find Joe. What's your name? Excuse me,
Speaker 7: what's your name? I'm Brian, Sir, Brian, if there's one
Speaker 7: charge with my credit, but I will find you, sir,
Speaker 7: mean you do you have Tony's number where I can
Speaker 7: call him and.
Speaker 12: Maybe you know what you know.
Speaker 7: I'm gonna have Tony's number in a minute, because I.
Speaker 18: Got her phone.
Speaker 7: I'm just go through it and find it because this
Speaker 7: is some and she gonna do it with Tony. So
Speaker 7: if you called back here, you're not gonna get her
Speaker 7: because she's gonna be over.
Speaker 12: There with that. Okay, sir. Now there's one more person
Speaker 12: that's on the schedule on the room.
Speaker 7: One more personal.
Speaker 12: They're doing the freesome. I'm not sure. Now I got
Speaker 12: another person on the on the schedule on here.
Speaker 7: This can't get no worse. Come on, Reddy, you.
Speaker 12: Want to I'm sorry, you want the name of your
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Speaker 1: It is strawberry and let us thanking a few subject.
Speaker 1: I need to move out, but he won't let me.
Speaker 11: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm thirty seven years old and my
Speaker 11: sister is forty five. I'm staying with her and her
Speaker 11: living boyfriend of seven years. I've been having sex with
Speaker 11: her boyfriend, and it started after I was here only
Speaker 11: a week. For years, the sexual tension has been strong
Speaker 11: between me and her boyfriend, but I was married at
Speaker 11: the time. A few years ago. She mentioned it, but
Speaker 11: she wasn't mad. I wondered if it was on her
Speaker 11: mind when I moved in with him, but it's like
Speaker 11: she doesn't care at all. She confided in me that
Speaker 11: she has a new man and she's trying to figure
Speaker 11: out if he's a sure thing or not before she
Speaker 11: breaks up with her boyfriend. She said that I need
Speaker 11: to help keep her boyfriend's mind off her when she
Speaker 11: sneaks away. I have been doing exactly what she asked
Speaker 11: me to do. I don't think she cares, but I
Speaker 11: know she would flip out if she knew all of
Speaker 11: the things he's done to me in her guest bedroom.
Speaker 11: Her boyfriend is gentle and he guides me through the
Speaker 11: experience with soft whispers.
Speaker 1: And kisses. I am about to lose my mind because
Speaker 1: it's that good. But what we're doing is so bad.
Speaker 11: Before I get into deep, I told my sister's boyfriend
Speaker 11: that is time for me to move out. He almost
Speaker 11: cried and said I can't go. I waited two weeks
Speaker 11: and told him again that I was moving out, and
Speaker 11: I gave him a date.
Speaker 1: He told my sister and she begged me to stay.
Speaker 11: Either my sister is aware of what's going on and
Speaker 11: she doesn't care, or she's planning to attack me in
Speaker 11: my sleep. He doesn't want me to move out, So
Speaker 11: should I keep this arrangement for a little while longer?
Speaker 1: That is her question.
Speaker 11: Girl, Please get out of your sister's house today. I
Speaker 11: don't care if she has another man or not. It's
Speaker 11: still not right what you're doing. This is your sister.
Speaker 11: I mean, come on, she opened up her home to you.
Speaker 11: This is how you show your.
Speaker 1: Gratitude to your sister. You didn't even wait a week
Speaker 1: before you started sleeping with her man.
Speaker 11: I mean, you're sleeping with her man in her house.
Speaker 11: By the very definition, this is just wrong. He almost
Speaker 11: started crying. Did you say when you told him you
Speaker 11: were going to move out. Of course he did. You're easy,
Speaker 11: You're convenient. Why would he want to let someone so
Speaker 11: accessible to him go? He doesn't have to do anything
Speaker 11: because you're right there at his back and call. I mean,
Speaker 11: he's living a dream and he wants to keep it
Speaker 11: that way. You moving out will mess up his good thing.
Speaker 11: I hope you see that. I really hope you see that.
Speaker 11: You gotta go, Sis, Stop doing this to your sister,
Speaker 11: who's been nothing but kind to you.
Speaker 1: Get out, get your own place. And you know what,
Speaker 1: I'm glad you're not my sister, Steve.
Speaker 8: You know when you write this letter, and I think
Speaker 8: the question is should I keep this arrangement for a
Speaker 8: little while longer? That's really the question. Should I keep
Speaker 8: this arrangement for a little while longer? That's the There
Speaker 8: is no should I get out now?
Speaker 6: Should I? How should I break this to my sister?
Speaker 6: Do you think we should all talk it through? There?
Speaker 8: You don't want none of that. All you want to
Speaker 8: know is at the end of the letter. So should
Speaker 8: I keep this arrangement for a little while longer? A
Speaker 8: this letter right here has so much that nobody in
Speaker 8: this letter is okay. Nobody in this letter is right
Speaker 8: nobody in this letter is. I mean, what are y'all doing?
Speaker 8: I got consensual. I know what the term consensual means,
Speaker 8: but everybody's consenting to a bunch of bulls. So you
Speaker 8: thirty seven, your sister forty five? You staying with her
Speaker 8: and her living board friend for oh of seven years.
Speaker 8: I've been having sex with her boyfriend and it started
Speaker 8: after I was only there for one week. For years
Speaker 8: as sexual tension has been strong between me and her boyfriend,
Speaker 8: but I was married at the time. A few years ago,
Speaker 8: she mentioned it, but she wasn't mad. So I'm saying you,
Speaker 8: I guess you said it a few years ago, your sister.
Speaker 6: Would you know what?
Speaker 8: I see how you and Ray Ray look at each other.
Speaker 8: I see that y'all need to y'all watch y'allself now.
Speaker 8: But she wasn't mad. A few years ago she mentioned it,
Speaker 8: but she wasn't mad. So I wondered if it was
Speaker 8: on her mind when I moved in with them. Hell yeah,
Speaker 8: how you think it wasn't She mentioned it twice to you,
Speaker 8: and then you moved in.
Speaker 6: She knew that when you moved in, but it's like.
Speaker 8: She don't care at all, She confided in me that
Speaker 8: she got a new man and she trying to figure
Speaker 8: out if he's the sure thing or not before she
Speaker 8: breaks up with her boyfriend.
Speaker 6: Okay, so that then gave everybody the green light to
Speaker 6: do what they want to do.
Speaker 8: I'm assuming she said that I need to help keep
Speaker 8: her boyfriend's mind off her when she sneaks away.
Speaker 6: Now hold on, let me say this.
Speaker 8: The dude that's in the middle of this hill, aw,
Speaker 8: didn't my fortune smile on him?
Speaker 14: This?
Speaker 8: How in the world this happened, This gift, this incredible
Speaker 8: moment of ecstasy, was just provided for me a girl
Speaker 8: that I had been looking at over a seven year
Speaker 8: period that I had some strong sexual tension. He happens
Speaker 8: to be the sister of my girlfriend. She's having trouble
Speaker 8: in her marriage. She moves in with us, and in
Speaker 8: one week we ain't fantasizing no more, were actually doing it.
Speaker 6: And then my wife, who's.
Speaker 8: Seeing somebody else, my girlfriend, who seeing somebody else, tells the.
Speaker 6: Girl to keep me occupied. Why she all sneaking with
Speaker 6: her bar friend?
Speaker 11: Hang on, hang on, Steve living right there, we have
Speaker 11: part two of your response coming up at twenty three
Speaker 11: minutes after the hour today Strawberry letter, subject I need
Speaker 11: to move out but he won't let me.
Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening
Speaker 1: hard Morning Show.
Speaker 11: All right, Come on, Steve, Let's recap today's strawberry letter
Speaker 11: that subject I need to move out but he won't
Speaker 11: let me.
Speaker 6: I've never read a letter with so much pain and
Speaker 6: pleasure in it. I'm just concusing. I don't know.
Speaker 8: I won't to be happy for the dude, right, But
Speaker 8: you don't really want advice. I thirty seven year old lady,
Speaker 8: and she got a sistan that's forty five, that's been
Speaker 8: staying with her and her living boyfriend.
Speaker 6: She got a living boyfriend of seven years.
Speaker 8: The lady that's writing a letter says she's been having
Speaker 8: sex with that living boyfriend and it started. I was
Speaker 8: there after only a week. For years, the sexual tension
Speaker 8: has been strong between me and her boyfriend. But I
Speaker 8: was married at the time. And then a few years
Speaker 8: ago she mentioned it, but she wasn't mad. I know
Speaker 8: it's some sexual trench between you and layby, but she
Speaker 8: wasn't mad at the time. I wondered if it was
Speaker 8: on her mind when I moved in with them. It
Speaker 8: was on all, y'all, it was on everybody's mind.
Speaker 6: It was on her mind. When she offered the place.
Speaker 6: He went along with it.
Speaker 8: Like, well, if your sister really need a place, I
Speaker 8: just I'm okay with it. And then you were, ohh
Speaker 8: there's sexual attention between me and oh, I hope they'll
Speaker 8: let me stay there. It took y'all one week to
Speaker 8: figure it out, and then y'all start doing each other.
Speaker 8: But you say, it's like she don't care at all,
Speaker 8: because she confided in me that she got a new
Speaker 8: man and she trying to figure out if it's a
Speaker 8: sure thing or not. Before she break up with a boyfriend,
Speaker 8: she said, I need your help to keep my boyfriend's
Speaker 8: mind off of her when.
Speaker 6: She sneaks away.
Speaker 14: What what?
Speaker 6: Who gave me the gree?
Speaker 8: You gotta live in hall pass, You got a green light,
Speaker 8: you got consent, you got the okay, And I have
Speaker 8: been doing exactly what she asked me to do.
Speaker 6: You was doing it before she asked you, and I
Speaker 6: don't think she cared.
Speaker 8: But I know she would flip out if she knew
Speaker 8: all the things he's done to me in their guest room.
Speaker 8: She would flip out. She knows something happening, and what
Speaker 8: you think he ain't done it to her. That's how
Speaker 8: you get to be alive in.
Speaker 6: For seven years.
Speaker 8: You think what's happening in that guest room is crazy.
Speaker 8: You ought to see what's happening in that master girl
Speaker 8: seven years here? How you think he got.
Speaker 6: Good at it?
Speaker 8: Keep it in that practicing in the master. So when
Speaker 8: you come to the guest room, you just say, have
Speaker 8: it at your house. Her boyfriend is Gumple. He guides
Speaker 8: me through the experience with soft whispers and kissing. I'm
Speaker 8: about to lose my mind because it's that good. But
Speaker 8: what we're doing is so bad. Now, before I get
Speaker 8: in too deep.
Speaker 6: She said.
Speaker 8: Now let me stop right here, she said, before I
Speaker 8: get in too deep? How much deeper?
Speaker 17: How much?
Speaker 12: What?
Speaker 6: Before I get in too deep? Girl? How much deeper
Speaker 6: do this water get? I told my sister's boyfriend that
Speaker 6: it's time for me to move out.
Speaker 8: He almost cried. Now, I ain't giving consentedou this letter.
Speaker 8: But if I was the boyfriend and he told me that, Hell,
Speaker 8: I cried to you to you don't even understand. He
Speaker 8: ain't got to go nowhere to cheat. No, he ain't
Speaker 8: got to sneak to cheat.
Speaker 1: It's right there.
Speaker 8: The wife, the girlfriend want you to keep him occupied
Speaker 8: while she await, and you okay with it, and he
Speaker 8: ain't got to go to work.
Speaker 1: But I cry too perfect.
Speaker 6: He cried and said I can't go.
Speaker 8: I waited two weeks and told him again I was
Speaker 8: moving out, and I gave him the date. He told
Speaker 8: my sister, and she begged me to say, either my
Speaker 8: sister's aware of what's going on, or she don't care,
Speaker 8: or she's planning to attack me in my sleep. First
Speaker 8: of all, your sister ain't gonna attack you to sleep.
Speaker 8: If that was gonna happen, that would have been happened.
Speaker 8: It ain't no way no woman gonna wait this long.
Speaker 8: She would have been done you. You are the convenient arrangement.
Speaker 8: She has your sister know you, She know what y'all doing.
Speaker 8: Ain't nothing happening in no woman house. But that's stending
Speaker 8: free of the time, and she don't know. She had
Speaker 8: an inkling y'all was up to something before y'all got
Speaker 8: into it. She just bought you in here because now
Speaker 8: that's gonna help her figure out her move with her boyfriend.
Speaker 8: So she is aware of it, and she done begged
Speaker 8: you the state or she gonna plan on attacking you
Speaker 8: in your sleep. That would have been done happen. But
Speaker 8: you ain't got to worry about that because he gonna
Speaker 8: save your life. I can promise you that he's the
Speaker 8: one person that all dive in front of that night
Speaker 8: because he can't let nothing happen. You the goose that
Speaker 8: laid the golden egg. Ladies no way in their heads.
Speaker 8: I'm telling you right now, you the prize and you
Speaker 8: the catch me out. Hey, ain't nobody got this go
Speaker 8: this me and listening to this letter, going oh, how
Speaker 8: can we speak? Because the fool I live with ain't
Speaker 8: allowing none of this to happen at birth, I can't
Speaker 8: even make a phone call it a bathroom with the
Speaker 8: lights out without this flow of gas. He doesn't want
Speaker 8: me to move out, So should I keep this arrangement
Speaker 8: for a little longer?
Speaker 6: Lady?
Speaker 8: Look, it seems to me like what you're really hoping
Speaker 8: for in the back of your mind is that your
Speaker 8: sister goes on gets with this new boyfriend. So you
Speaker 8: could have hugged her boyfriend all to yourself. But I'm
Speaker 8: gonna tell you right now, he's not gonna keep you,
Speaker 8: because it's hard to go from second to first. Very
Speaker 8: few people get to moved up from a side chick
Speaker 8: to wife side chicks. They rarely make the cut at wife.
Speaker 8: They make it sometimes, but for the most part they don't.
Speaker 8: He gonna be off somewhere and looking for this situation again.
Speaker 8: I don't know what to tell you. I don't care
Speaker 8: what y'all do. I really don't. I really don't. But
Speaker 8: if the dude could write in and tell me how
Speaker 8: he pulled this off?
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Speaker 15: What you got Junior?
Speaker 10: All right, Shirley, you know yesterday uncle was the Pro Bowl.
Speaker 10: Did anybody watch it? Didn't nobody watch flag football game?
Speaker 10: I couldn't tune in for that. Yeah, gradually I can't
Speaker 10: watch the flag football game.
Speaker 17: Can't.
Speaker 9: I can't pull myself together to do it.
Speaker 10: Also with other dudes Man, Lebron James raised my eyebrows
Speaker 10: over the tweet that he put out over the weekend. Man,
Speaker 10: it was just a tweet of an hour glass with
Speaker 10: no no text on it and explained it.
Speaker 9: So everybody expect like, what does that mean? Like to me,
Speaker 9: he wanted to be traded.
Speaker 14: Do it?
Speaker 9: Do it mean he run out of time for you know,
Speaker 9: his career. We don't know what it means. He just
Speaker 9: asked about it.
Speaker 10: Yes, it we don't know. They ain't even ask he
Speaker 10: asked him. He wouldn't even explain it, Like, what did
Speaker 10: it mean, Bron? He said, nope, I want to talk
Speaker 10: about it, so you know. But you know, Rich Paul
Speaker 10: came out his agents and said, hey, Lebron James has
Speaker 10: never been traded in the middle of the season. He
Speaker 10: is committed to the Lakers. And they did beat the
Speaker 10: Knicks over the weekend. I don't know if you saw
Speaker 10: the game off, but it was a really good game.
Speaker 10: But Lebron James and the end of the nine game winners.
Speaker 8: I don't want to basketball on TV this time of
Speaker 8: the year. When do you start watching playoffs? When they
Speaker 8: care the playoffs? Yeah, that's when you see basketball. They
Speaker 8: play in the playoff.
Speaker 9: So what they playing now?
Speaker 8: They don't they just bashing forth up and down. Yeah,
Speaker 8: every now and then you see a good game, some
Speaker 8: rivalries play or something. Game get tight. But I wait
Speaker 8: till the end of.
Speaker 10: The season, not even after the after the All Star game.
Speaker 10: You ain't watching them like when he racing it he
Speaker 10: did to play on my dog playoffs?
Speaker 9: Got it all right? Let me ask you this now. Now,
Speaker 9: you know the super Bowl week is starting up this week,
Speaker 9: you know, so we're getting ready to I don't.
Speaker 8: I don't even pay no attention to that super I
Speaker 8: used to really get caught up in that super Bowl
Speaker 8: hype for two weeks.
Speaker 6: I don't think that no more. I go now this week,
Speaker 6: right here, I start kind of listening.
Speaker 10: A little bit, you know, Yeah, yeah, I got you
Speaker 10: because I was gonna ask you because you know, US
Speaker 10: is doing the halftime show. Who who's the best halftime
Speaker 10: show you've seen? Because they're saying right now, just Lopez
Speaker 10: and that they had the best one.
Speaker 6: I give it, damn what they said?
Speaker 1: Who's said you said that? Last week?
Speaker 6: Yeah they had a good show. It was a nice show. Okay, but.
Speaker 8: Well I saw Prince, I said, my time show uh,
Speaker 8: Beyonce and that one they did with Dre and Eminem
Speaker 8: and all them. That was that thing, right, that was
Speaker 8: strong Man, that was you know, but but but but
Speaker 8: but Jennifer Lopez did a good one.
Speaker 6: Now I've seen something.
Speaker 1: Rihanna last year was fire.
Speaker 9: Yeah, because you know, I just don't think they're asking us.
Speaker 6: I just think they just you know, well, Usher Finn
Speaker 6: to come in here and show y'all something listening to me.
Speaker 8: That dude is a show boy. Yeah, boy is a
Speaker 8: real showman. Don't you think nothing wrong about Usher? Raymond.
Speaker 18: You gotta give me full name because because because Roscoe
Speaker 18: Wallace and his grandfather was cool, she's rare.
Speaker 6: Father attended at Raymond.
Speaker 11: Coming up at the top of the hour, a guy
Speaker 11: set up a meeting with his girl and his side chicken.
Speaker 1: Things didn't go so well. He needs your advice, Steve.
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Morning show.
Speaker 5: Steve.
Speaker 1: This is from BK in Florida.
Speaker 11: B K says, I was dating a beautiful introvert and
Speaker 11: I messed up and cheated on her. After we broke up,
Speaker 11: I was sick. I told her I would do anything
Speaker 11: to get us back together. She said she wanted to
Speaker 11: sit down with the woman that I cheated with. Against
Speaker 11: my better judgment, I set up a meeting for the
Speaker 11: three of us. My girl took one look at my
Speaker 11: side chicken called her TACKI buck tooth bee. She also
Speaker 11: said her weave was terrible and her shoes were cheap.
Speaker 11: This woman didn't deserve that.
Speaker 1: So I told my girl to check. She got up
Speaker 1: and left.
Speaker 11: Now she won't speak to me. She said, I defended
Speaker 11: my side piece. Is this a lost cause?
Speaker 6: And dog, you stupid.
Speaker 8: When she said, if you want to do anything, get
Speaker 8: back to me. I want to meet your side piece.
Speaker 6: And then you said, okay, but you have to understand
Speaker 6: that why would your side pieces?
Speaker 8: But as soon as she sat down, oh you left
Speaker 8: me for this buck too, raggedy hair, having heffer wear,
Speaker 8: she bast shoes, and she was right about all that.
Speaker 8: This was a first appearance. She was right about all
Speaker 8: of that. But she didn't deserve that. Dog, what's wrong
Speaker 8: with you? You got to be young man, How did
Speaker 8: you think this was gonna go? First of all, why
Speaker 8: is it necessary that she sit down with the girl
Speaker 8: you cheated on her with? Everybody want that meeting? Those
Speaker 8: meetings very rarely ever happened?
Speaker 5: Who is she?
Speaker 14: Who is she?
Speaker 6: Who is she? Put on the phone? Don't do that either, dog,
Speaker 6: don dog, There was no good could have come out
Speaker 6: of this.
Speaker 1: You're telling them, right, Steve, so bro.
Speaker 8: The lesson than this, you can you can write this off, man,
Speaker 8: you can't do that no more. Do you know why
Speaker 8: you should never cheat again? In you do you know
Speaker 8: why you should never cheat again?
Speaker 6: Stupid?
Speaker 1: Stupid, he said against a better judgment. He did gainst
Speaker 1: what you're doing for.
Speaker 12: That?
Speaker 1: But buy some shoes though, dog man, you can't like that,
Speaker 1: and some more hair.
Speaker 6: Or some fix man them little shoes that smile at
Speaker 6: you when she walked, You know how your shoes open
Speaker 6: up on each side and smile.
Speaker 8: But you you know when you walk in your feet
Speaker 8: crep your shoes got the smiley mouth different.
Speaker 1: Teas shoes though I didn't know they had a name
Speaker 1: for it, but her mouth, smiley mouth shoes.
Speaker 6: What which I know exactly what I'm talking about? When
Speaker 6: the end step step wrong side? Keep ass shoes?
Speaker 11: All right, all right, I think we have time for
Speaker 11: one more, Steve. This is from Addie and Moss Point.
Speaker 11: Addie says, my boyfriend has a drawer at my house
Speaker 11: because we've been together for almost two years and he
Speaker 11: spends a lot of time here. I have put my
Speaker 11: things in a plastic I have to put my things
Speaker 11: in a plastic bin at his house and he slides
Speaker 11: it under his bed. I thought it was because his
Speaker 11: apartment is tiny and messy.
Speaker 1: But is he hiding my things? Am I giving him
Speaker 1: more than I'm getting? M?
Speaker 8: Well, you and a band? And yeah, yeah, I mean
Speaker 8: it is tiny and messy, that's for sure. He probably
Speaker 8: want your stuff in the bend with an ad tight
Speaker 8: lid on it. Yeah, because he filtered it, so I
Speaker 8: wouldn't read too much into it. He probably don't have
Speaker 8: a drawer to give you. What's his stuff in?
Speaker 6: M see?
Speaker 8: You know you gave him a drawer. There's really nothing
Speaker 8: wrong with that. It's in a band under the bed.
Speaker 8: He ain't got nowhere for it to go, he messages,
Speaker 8: so I wouldn't read too much into that.
Speaker 6: But you gave him a drawer. He gave you a band.
Speaker 6: What you need to do is when he out the room,
Speaker 6: you need open the drawers he was in.
Speaker 8: Somebody else got to draw over that and that yam
Speaker 8: anybody else got a drawer?
Speaker 6: Yeah? Because you just got a little plastic band up
Speaker 6: under the bed. Don't will everybody?
Speaker 11: There's more bends I all right, all right, coming up
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Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 4: All right.
Speaker 11: So there's a new Wendy Williams documentary coming out. It's
Speaker 11: called Where Is Wendy Williams. It's going to premiere on Lifetime.
Speaker 6: When Is when We? Yeah, you ought to do the
Speaker 6: announcement for the show.
Speaker 5: Yes, ladies and gentlemen, get ready for Where When Do
Speaker 5: We Woo woo?
Speaker 6: Straight out of the When Is City.
Speaker 11: It's happening February twenty fourth and the twenty fifth. It's
Speaker 11: going to explore the events that led to Wendy's led
Speaker 11: Wendy to disappear from the Spotlight. It's going to center
Speaker 11: on Wendy's struggles with money, alcohol, and mental health. The
Speaker 11: trailer was released Friday, and in the clip, Wendy is
Speaker 11: heard saying, I have no money and let me tell
Speaker 11: you something.
Speaker 1: If it happened to me, it can happen to you.
Speaker 11: Wendy's sun and sister both appear in the documentary and
Speaker 11: express that Wendy is not mentally well. The interviews in
Speaker 11: the documentary are done by the people closest to Wendy,
Speaker 11: so it's not clear why they're exposing Wendy's current condition.
Speaker 1: Again, Tommy, what's the name.
Speaker 14: Of the show?
Speaker 1: Where is? It's in two parts.
Speaker 11: It's gonna air February twenty fourth and twenty fifth on Lifetime.
Speaker 15: You don't want to miss it. The street in the
Speaker 15: same neighborhood.
Speaker 11: Yeah, all right, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey
Speaker 11: Morning Show coming up at thirty three minutes after.
Speaker 1: We'll play a round of would you water?
Speaker 11: Right after this, you're listening Harvey Morning Show. It's time now,
Speaker 11: guys for a round of would you rather? Would you
Speaker 11: rather be a pastor or a lawyer?
Speaker 12: Oh?
Speaker 6: I'm crooked a lawyer some stuff. I'm not visiting the
Speaker 6: sickest shutting in here we go?
Speaker 16: Oh that on?
Speaker 6: I ain't coming to my office telling me your problem.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Oh, well, you don't need to be a pastor.
Speaker 1: That requires compassion for you know, I.
Speaker 8: Don''t go down there every Sunday, every your job. I
Speaker 8: don't forget about every Sunday.
Speaker 1: Sundays you want to chill. Yeah, the game as pastor
Speaker 1: you're up.
Speaker 6: Hey man, we're gonna have to move. We're gonta and
Speaker 6: my service gonna have to move around.
Speaker 11: What do you mean.
Speaker 8: Different playing that Sunday where we haveing church at all
Speaker 8: and super and super Bowl Sunday.
Speaker 1: We all completely okay?
Speaker 6: All right?
Speaker 1: So you'd rather be a lawyer? You guys rather be lawyers?
Speaker 6: All right?
Speaker 11: Would you rather turn up the TV while your wife
Speaker 11: is talking? Or would you rather pretend to fall asleep?
Speaker 14: Oh?
Speaker 9: Yeah, b I tried.
Speaker 6: I'm going asleep. Yeah, I'm just gonna.
Speaker 1: You better go to sleep. Turn the TV up while
Speaker 1: your wife.
Speaker 9: Is I turned the T while she was talking.
Speaker 1: She ll plugged it, ripped that whole TV off the wall.
Speaker 6: Just fall asleep, you know, I really am with this
Speaker 6: whole You cannot turn that TV up though?
Speaker 1: All right? Would you rather would you rather have a
Speaker 1: bear in your backyard? A bear? Or would you rather
Speaker 1: have your ex in your front yard?
Speaker 6: Hey?
Speaker 9: Yeah, put the bear back there. I ain't got to
Speaker 9: go out there.
Speaker 6: He in the backyard.
Speaker 5: Man, I'm gonna try to talk to bad it we
Speaker 5: come bare, I'm gonna have a discussion.
Speaker 6: I know what it's the same thing. Hell, well, I
Speaker 6: solved that problem. I have my exit in the front yard,
Speaker 6: and then after us come round back.
Speaker 1: Let me you.
Speaker 6: Should be coming up the driveway. I'll be looking out
Speaker 6: the window a little bit more terror.
Speaker 17: Terror.
Speaker 1: That was really bad, so terrible to make perfect.
Speaker 12: That?
Speaker 6: All right?
Speaker 1: Last one?
Speaker 11: Would you rather speak your mind twenty four to seven
Speaker 11: or just do whatever you want to do? Twenty four
Speaker 11: to seven?
Speaker 6: Do whatever I want to.
Speaker 19: Do, whatever, no repercussions, whatever you want to know before seven,
Speaker 19: Please do what I want to do.
Speaker 1: All right, Thanks, guys, that's today's rounded.
Speaker 11: Would you rather coming up next to our last break
Speaker 11: of the day and we'll close out the show with
Speaker 11: the one and only Steve Harvey right after this. You're
Speaker 11: listening Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, here we are
Speaker 11: last break of the day on this Monday.
Speaker 15: Steve, I think, Junior, before we.
Speaker 10: Get out of your hockey, I gotta ask your opinions, Yeah, man,
Speaker 10: let me ask. So we was our smoke cigars?
Speaker 12: Man?
Speaker 9: I don't know this guy.
Speaker 10: You know, you know, but you know it's all the
Speaker 10: one guy in the group when you're smoke and it's
Speaker 10: gonna try to say something vocaty and it's a group
Speaker 10: of men, and we just understand how he could do that.
Speaker 10: He said he loved his wife so much that he
Speaker 10: thinks about just taking her last name. Is that ever
Speaker 10: possible for you all?
Speaker 14: No?
Speaker 6: No, But he can go ahead and do whatever he wants. Yeah,
Speaker 6: yeah you can't. That whip.
Speaker 8: Situation ain't be nothing else or else. Her family got
Speaker 8: some money, so I don't know my wife so much.
Speaker 8: I'm gonna take her last name. But they about to
Speaker 8: get married.
Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, he's her last name, and.
Speaker 8: I see, let me explain something to see. Here's what
Speaker 8: then happened, And she done told him he not changing.
Speaker 6: Her last name.
Speaker 8: Yeah, So now he to prepare his group of tears
Speaker 8: and said, you know what, I love my wife so much,
Speaker 8: I'm thinking about taking her last name. Because she said
Speaker 8: she's not going to change her last name. That's what
Speaker 8: didn't happened, because where does that come from? Yeah, her
Speaker 8: last name. Well, what has happened is they've had the
Speaker 8: discussion that she done said adamantly, I'm not changing my
Speaker 8: last name. So now he's sending here talking about I
Speaker 8: love my wife so long. See that little punk move
Speaker 8: right there, you know, because I mean for me that
Speaker 8: that would be a deal breaker. If you don't want
Speaker 8: my last name, then I understand that.
Speaker 6: Then cool.
Speaker 8: Then you don't you don't want to join me, you
Speaker 8: want to stay you And that's cool, and wei'll need
Speaker 8: to get married.
Speaker 6: Let's just keep dating. If Hall Bearry is here, I
Speaker 6: mean that I need to be Tommy Barry. I'm gonna
Speaker 6: be Tommy.
Speaker 1: Barry, Tommy Bearry all day long.
Speaker 6: Can be Tommy. Go ahead, I ain't lasting.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you questions.
Speaker 16: So if your wife, this woman in your fiance, she
Speaker 16: has a lot of money, I'm talking.
Speaker 1: Like Jeff Bezos money, Steve billions would change I'd have
Speaker 1: been Tommy Smith.
Speaker 6: Steve.
Speaker 19: Yes, So there are some conditions to it, Okay, but
Speaker 19: put it in lights, Steve.
Speaker 11: Yeah, but that's so offensive to you. If if the
Speaker 11: woman doesn't want to take your.
Speaker 6: Name, well yeah, it's that.
Speaker 8: That to me is a deal bro And why because
Speaker 8: I'm not finna take your father's last name. I'm not
Speaker 8: gonna do that because what about my father and and
Speaker 8: the man he raised me to be, and the man
Speaker 8: you said I do too? That that ain't who you
Speaker 8: really want? What we ain't doing all that? I don't
Speaker 8: want to do that.
Speaker 5: I don't want to do that all that is it
Speaker 5: offensive when the lady keeps her maiden name and and
Speaker 5: and has that uh you know once she used both of.
Speaker 6: Them people, I don't.
Speaker 8: I don't think hyphen nation would bother me so much
Speaker 8: as you're just not gonna take my name, you know.
Speaker 6: I would, I would, I would be a little bit
Speaker 6: bugged about it.
Speaker 8: But I could also understand if you want to continue
Speaker 8: to honor your father that way, yeah, you know, and
Speaker 8: then I'm okay. I would be okay with that hyphenated.
Speaker 8: But my last name is don't be on that paperwork
Speaker 8: or else.
Speaker 6: We're not gonna.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't care what if she made more money
Speaker 1: than you if you know.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's going to do with that?
Speaker 8: Well, I mean, I mean really technically, it has nothing
Speaker 8: to do with it. Me and my heart across on
Speaker 8: the reel. No, I don't care what you make on
Speaker 8: the I don't.
Speaker 1: Care what real answer.
Speaker 16: So, now, when when I got married, my maiden name
Speaker 16: became my middle name, I stopped legally using my middle
Speaker 16: name until my maiden name is my middle name.
Speaker 1: Now Pherreh is my married name. So I'm cool with that, yeah,
Speaker 1: but I have no hyphen in it. But some people
Speaker 1: do it.
Speaker 16: Some women get married and they don't use their husband's name,
Speaker 16: like Tommy was saying at all. It's not that they
Speaker 16: don't say that their husband has to use their name.
Speaker 16: They just don't use their husbands last I've seen.
Speaker 14: Not do that.
Speaker 8: You see we're not doing that. Going back to it, Well,
Speaker 8: my dog, you know you're just asking me.
Speaker 6: I'm old school. I'm old fashioned. You know what I mean.
Speaker 8: And that's why I am with it. You know all
Speaker 8: y'all doing heyn. Let me tell you something. All this
Speaker 8: new stuff, it ain't working. It's not working, dog, dog,
Speaker 8: it's not working. This new way of living, this this
Speaker 8: this moving in first, he's having all these kids first.
Speaker 8: It's not working for the average woman. Man, there is
Speaker 8: an order to this thing. The reason that was an
Speaker 8: order was to protect the woman, to give a woman right.
Speaker 8: You can't you can't get it. Later on, you moved
Speaker 8: in to a house, ain't got your name on the deed.
Speaker 8: You you moved in and you are it's bank accounting.
Speaker 8: Your name ain't on the bank accounting. And he gives
Speaker 8: you money as he sees fit.
Speaker 6: This dog, this what all all this new stuff, the
Speaker 6: new stuff ain't working.
Speaker 7: And listen to this.
Speaker 8: All these pre nups do you know? And this is
Speaker 8: honest to God's truth. I have never met a couple
Speaker 8: that had a pre nup that did not use it.
Speaker 1: Wouldn't have That's what I don't.
Speaker 6: I ain't nothing we had to build, wasn't nothing to.
Speaker 8: Pre nupt We didn't have no, we didn't have the
Speaker 8: nut for what, nothing to pre Now when I got
Speaker 8: with Marjorie, I had a little bit, But yeah, I
Speaker 8: just knew this was it. I'm betting on at all,
Speaker 8: all or nothing for me. That's just my opinion. You
Speaker 8: don't have to agree with me. Hey, listen, y'all talk
Speaker 8: to God today because he probably be open to listen
Speaker 8: to what you got to say than I am.
Speaker 6: Y'all, have a great day. We'll see you tomorrow. Carl,
Speaker 6: I ain't know you were walking around with at him.
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