Speaker 1: All right, guys, this is from Andrea and Carrollton. Andrea
Speaker 1: needs some advice. She says, I had sex with a
Speaker 1: guy that I've been friends with for twenty two years.
Speaker 1: He got divorced, and he comes over a lot to
Speaker 1: play basketball with my son and watch movies just to
Speaker 1: keep his mind occupied. He wants to date me and
Speaker 1: see if we can build on our friendship, but he
Speaker 1: says he needs time to sort things out. I think
Speaker 1: he's at my house all the time because he's lonely.
Speaker 1: But I'm willing to be patient and let him get
Speaker 1: his mind straight before he jumps into a relationship with me.
Speaker 1: But he still wants sex in the meantime, I'm withholding sex,
Speaker 1: and he said it's too late to do that because
Speaker 1: it's a crucial part of getting to know me better.
Speaker 1: We've been friends most of our lives, so shouldn't he
Speaker 1: know me already.
Speaker 2: But y'all did it already. It happened. So what we're
Speaker 2: finna cut it off? Now? You can't cut off what
Speaker 2: we didn't started. I'm sorry that you can. It's her
Speaker 2: by now now. Once we didn't start, we got to
Speaker 2: keep going, and we need to be consistent with it.
Speaker 3: Too.
Speaker 2: Hello, I'm sorry. We can't just we can't just stop
Speaker 2: this and all of a sudden, we're gonna try to
Speaker 2: find a relationship after that. No, no, we got to
Speaker 2: work through it, work through it. Yes, yes, we were
Speaker 2: gonna love through this.
Speaker 4: We already in a relationship. Ship, We've already had six
Speaker 4: We already in a relationship. And you guess what I'm
Speaker 4: doing you a favor. I'm playing basketball with your son
Speaker 4: and watching movies.
Speaker 3: That's what I'm doing. Why come over here with the boy? Yeah,
Speaker 3: I don't even like the boy. I don't like it.
Speaker 3: To keep mind occupied, that's what she said, Come on you,
Speaker 3: that's what it is.
Speaker 4: Yes, we are consistent. Yes, well we're in a relationship.
Speaker 1: So she's saying, but shouldn't he know her already? That's
Speaker 1: what she's asking, shouldn't he know me already?
Speaker 3: Well, we need to get to know you a little
Speaker 3: bit more. We don't. We don't know you in that
Speaker 3: depth yet.
Speaker 2: So we got to know what it's like to be
Speaker 2: with you on a daily basis, how you how we
Speaker 2: work together on a daily basis.
Speaker 3: We need to know that, and love is a part
Speaker 3: of that.
Speaker 1: Friends we have confuses those things.
Speaker 3: You don't confuse nothing. I'm playing sex makes it a
Speaker 3: lot more clearer. Yeah, love, and I'm already I know.
Speaker 4: To keep getting his sex, I gotta take the rasketball
Speaker 4: if I have to do.
Speaker 3: I take him out there. I let him shoot some shots.
Speaker 3: I shoot some shots.
Speaker 4: We play defense on each other. We get then he's tired.
Speaker 4: So when he's tired, he go to bed early. That's
Speaker 4: why I'm still up sex.
Speaker 3: This is easy. I don't know how this is.
Speaker 2: That boy don't play ball like that. He is not
Speaker 2: all that. That boy that drive well, he is not.
Speaker 3: I'm not here for that boy at all.
Speaker 1: I'm here friends for most of their lives.
Speaker 3: She says.
Speaker 1: You should know her already. She wants to take what
Speaker 1: so what.
Speaker 3: We're supposed to get married next week. We're supposed get
Speaker 3: married next week? What? Because to make.
Speaker 1: Sure that he's okay and not She's not a rebound,
Speaker 1: That's what she's trying to think.
Speaker 4: Rebound, Yes, the boy, that was the rebound. When the
Speaker 4: boy missed the shot, I grabbed the rebound. That's what's out.
Speaker 3: There in the driveway. Thank you, all right, I can
Speaker 3: talk about a rebound.
Speaker 1: No, Andrea, I tried to help you with these guys.
Speaker 1: All right, we have we have time for another one guys.
Speaker 1: This one's from Maya in Cincinnati, who says, my husband
Speaker 1: asked me to take him to the airport, and I
Speaker 1: hate to drive his car, but he insisted. We were
Speaker 1: in heavy traffic and I had to slam on breaks.
Speaker 1: A condom slid from under the driver's seat and he
Speaker 1: me picking it up. He said it's his condom that
Speaker 1: he paid for to keep in his car. He said
Speaker 1: he would not answer any more questions. When he landed
Speaker 1: in New York, he still wouldn't tell me about the condom.
Speaker 3: How do I react?
Speaker 1: Do I assume he's cheating and just deal with it?
Speaker 3: Oh? He in condom? Since that's what's wrong? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 3: Well was he going to get out of this one?
Speaker 3: Because he's not all out of it.
Speaker 2: When it's slid. He should have been right down there
Speaker 2: with it. He really should have tried.
Speaker 1: He tried. She said, he tried to beat me picking
Speaker 1: it up. Man, Okay, but his lame excuse is his
Speaker 1: condom that he paid for to keeping it.
Speaker 4: Why is he talking? Don't say nothing. Just pick the
Speaker 4: condom up and get on the plane. Why'd you explaining it?
Speaker 4: We can't get out of it.
Speaker 3: He got he got to get his wife hypnotized. He
Speaker 3: have to. We got to get this out of him.
Speaker 3: We got to get this out of her head. He
Speaker 3: got to get hypnotized. Oh my god.
Speaker 1: Oh that's a tough one.
Speaker 3: Under the driver's seat. You don't do that. Why, Okay,
Speaker 3: something happened. I will.
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