Speaker 1: Dude, guys, this is history. What you've done with you
Speaker 1: guys should throw a platform that influenced this morning show.
Speaker 1: Bass dj Inji every playing by record. I made it
Speaker 1: just hilarious.
Speaker 2: I'm like God, I didn't keep out of breath clubs.
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Speaker 1: Good morning Charlamagne de cat Peace up playing in his Friday.
Speaker 3: Yes, and it's International Women's date.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, Friday March eighth, So happy International Women's Day.
Speaker 3: J just hilariols.
Speaker 2: Yes, do y'all see I meet my grand entrance because
Speaker 2: it is International Women's Day.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's why you look very nice today. You look
Speaker 1: nice every day.
Speaker 2: I was ray saved. Don't play with me, don't play.
Speaker 1: Yes, thank you, you look very nice today. Thank you.
Speaker 1: I got your breakfast coming too. Oh my god, what
Speaker 1: all the women uh that work here at the breakfast club? Breakfast?
Speaker 2: Oh that is nice.
Speaker 1: That I don't like my food choice? Okay, is it
Speaker 1: a taco. No, No, I kept it.
Speaker 2: Simple because nine times out of ten he never ate
Speaker 2: from these places. Love giving people food that he never tried, never,
Speaker 2: And it's like, what, why do you do that?
Speaker 4: How about food that you didn't asked for? Like you've
Speaker 4: been saying tacos all week. All week, I've been trying
Speaker 4: to get your tacos. Well, clearly been trying, but we
Speaker 4: know that you can't get tacos this early in the morning.
Speaker 4: But I got something really simple, something very tried and true,
Speaker 4: something that never has let.
Speaker 1: Us down, just like the women at All Life Chick fil.
Speaker 5: A, why.
Speaker 2: Very much? That is crazy.
Speaker 1: Biscuits You like biscuits?
Speaker 6: Biscuits?
Speaker 1: What you had a biscuit yesterday?
Speaker 2: Yeah, from McDonald's.
Speaker 1: Jesus Christ, you like biscuits.
Speaker 2: No, why wouldn't you ask?
Speaker 1: He doesn't listen. I'm gonna try.
Speaker 2: Trying to get lunch. Ain't no pancakes, Ain't no.
Speaker 1: Chicken, biscuits with the eggs, the cheese. No, you ain't
Speaker 1: got no big back, so you want to appreciate it
Speaker 1: the big back employees International Women's Day. We're not talking
Speaker 1: big backs this morning. Man's roll with you. Jesus Christ.
Speaker 4: Look, I'm gonna try to get your taco again. Yesterday
Speaker 4: only Taco Bell was open. But it's Friday, so maybe
Speaker 4: they'll open up a little.
Speaker 1: Earth Why they're gonna be open on Friday, because they're
Speaker 1: talking open all week the food truck or something. We're
Speaker 1: gonna try to get a taco. It's six o'clock in
Speaker 1: the morning to seven. Women like for men to be thoughtful.
Speaker 1: You should have thought about this yesterday, you know, the.
Speaker 2: Woman not to take the easy way out and get
Speaker 2: Chick Filate breakfast like your damn kids here.
Speaker 1: Jesus, oh my goodness.
Speaker 4: All right, it's all about our women this morning. So
Speaker 4: we're gonna be uh, nothing but women's songs, right to
Speaker 4: all the men's songs.
Speaker 1: Nothing but women's songs. We're gonna let just pick some
Speaker 1: of them. Drake Drakes shut up? Why not go that way?
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Drake is very tapped in.
Speaker 2: Come on now, I don't need nobody.
Speaker 4: Please listen, Red, youre go enjoy the chip a. Okay, look,
Speaker 4: this is men International Women's there. Why you're asking a
Speaker 4: medical mask? She said, you bought it for the women,
Speaker 4: but you want to ask the men. You know what
Speaker 4: I don't know what they identify ask let me stop,
Speaker 4: let's get back into it.
Speaker 1: That is true. I don't know what red identify you
Speaker 1: ass or lose. Oh come on now, now we're talking.
Speaker 1: Now put that marriage. Put that on a right. One
Speaker 1: of the greatest records of all time. Instant moved changes
Speaker 1: you hear me, that's right.
Speaker 4: When we come back, we got front page News. Testling
Speaker 4: figure will be joining us. It's a long interest, so
Speaker 4: we can keep talking for a second.
Speaker 1: By the way, this intro should not be this long
Speaker 1: in radio. I just want to put that out there.
Speaker 1: In radio. I don't know who the program director here
Speaker 1: is all the assistant program director, but they should cut
Speaker 1: that whole should for a second post that's too long,
Speaker 1: it starts. How can we do that a lot on
Speaker 1: this station? I just want you to know that's radio
Speaker 1: one on one.
Speaker 7: What's that?
Speaker 1: Keep going the beats to what I'm saying. The basics
Speaker 1: of it is, you're supposed to cut these long intros.
Speaker 1: They be like the breakfast club. And you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. I shouldn't have to tell anybody in here that.
Speaker 1: By the way, good morning morning everybody. It's DJ en
Speaker 1: Vy jes Selariy is Charlamage the guy. We are the
Speaker 1: breakfast club. Now let's get in some front page news.
Speaker 3: Morning Tis, Good morning, DJ, and be good morning Jess.
Speaker 2: Hilarious. Charlemadea god have to be International Women's Day, Thank
Speaker 2: God girl morning.
Speaker 1: Now, I want to start up with some quick sports.
Speaker 4: If you didn't hear, I guess on Netflix Jake Paul
Speaker 4: will be fighting Mike Tyson on July twenty.
Speaker 6: What.
Speaker 2: Yes, it's crazy.
Speaker 1: I mean I'm not mad at it because you know,
Speaker 1: Mike Tyson gonna get gonna get paid. Mike ty Is
Speaker 1: gonna make a lot of money. Mike Tyson might get hurt,
Speaker 1: He's not gonna get hurt. Yeah, he's not gonna get hurt.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. He's been in the game
Speaker 1: long enough, he's grown enough. They probably gonna have a
Speaker 1: lot of stipulations in place that we may or may
Speaker 1: not know about. They probably gonna use bigger gloves. He's
Speaker 1: not gonna get hurt. I hope not. It's not gonna
Speaker 1: get hurt.
Speaker 2: Soul clowned out.
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean it's a joke, you know, as
Speaker 1: far as boxing is concerned. But I mean, you know, Mike,
Speaker 1: Mike gonna get a big pay day. It's interesting to
Speaker 1: see Mike still getting big paydays at fifty seven years
Speaker 1: that's right.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know how old is Oh yeah, big clown out.
Speaker 1: But all right, all right, we're gonna watch Yeah, we
Speaker 1: definitely gonna watch it. Y'all.
Speaker 4: Well, now says, let's get into President Biden stated the
Speaker 4: Union last night.
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, Spicy Joe showed up last night. I kind
Speaker 2: of enjoyed it. I enjoyed while he was on his
Speaker 2: yell Joe out of the yeal glow whatever they say.
Speaker 2: He had a lot of spice last night. He showed
Speaker 2: up at the State of the Union, tackled a lot
Speaker 2: of issues. He said no one earning less than four
Speaker 2: hundred thousand would pay an additional penny and taxes. He
Speaker 2: talked about getting rid of more junk fee, something we
Speaker 2: talked about on the show. He also had a strong
Speaker 2: message for reducing the costs of prescription drugs and called
Speaker 2: out Republicans for not voting for it. He actually called
Speaker 2: out a lot and so we're gonna go through a
Speaker 2: couple of recaps. Take you listen how he called it
Speaker 2: Republicans about prescription drugs.
Speaker 8: Right for pros and sign not one of your Republican
Speaker 8: buddies were voted for it. We finally beat big pharma.
Speaker 8: Instead of paying four hundred dollars a month or thereabouts
Speaker 8: are insulin with diabetes and it only costs ten bucks
Speaker 8: to make. They only get paid thirty five a month
Speaker 8: now and still make healthy profit.
Speaker 2: He also went at Republicans for not supporting the infrastructure bill.
Speaker 2: He said, basically, you guys had no problem accepting the
Speaker 2: money he's sent up here, clapping and sharing, but you
Speaker 2: don't want to accept the money. Take a listen to that.
Speaker 8: Forty six thousand new projects have announced all across your communities.
Speaker 8: And by the way, I noticed some of you strongly
Speaker 8: voted against it or they're cheering on that money coming in.
Speaker 1: If any who don't want that money in your district,
Speaker 1: just let me know.
Speaker 2: He also told Republicans want addressing immigration, that they know
Speaker 2: how to read and that they need to stop. You know,
Speaker 2: if they disagree with the bill, read it and get
Speaker 2: the facts for yourself. Listen to that.
Speaker 1: Just don't save live.
Speaker 3: I've been order of the border.
Speaker 8: They're also getting me and any new president new emergency
Speaker 8: authority temporarily show found the border when the number of
Speaker 8: migrants that the border is overwhelming. The border patrol unions
Speaker 8: endorsed this bill. The Federal Chamber of Commerces. Yeah yeah,
Speaker 8: you changed ho look at the facts.
Speaker 7: I know, I know you know how to read.
Speaker 2: He even told the Supreme Court justices directly, I haven't
Speaker 2: seen this. He told them that, hey, you're gonna find
Speaker 2: out how women feel about Roe versus Way basically said
Speaker 2: the f around and find out paraphrase, and take a listen.
Speaker 1: It's a decision to overturn Roe v. Wade.
Speaker 8: The Supreme Court majority wrote the following, and with all
Speaker 8: due respect, Justices, women are not without electoral political power.
Speaker 1: You're about to realize just how much you write it out.
Speaker 2: So a lot going on. We can't fit in everything
Speaker 2: in a couple of minutes that I have, but quite
Speaker 2: a bit going on. It's also, you know, we had
Speaker 2: obviously Taylor Green, who is notorious for always interrupting and
Speaker 2: you know, calling the president a liar. Of course she
Speaker 2: did that yesterday. Donald Trump responding in real time on
Speaker 2: his truth social basically saying that a lot of the
Speaker 2: good stuff that Biden was talking about was implemented under
Speaker 2: his administration. But he kicked in once Joe got in
Speaker 2: and you know, basically saying the same thing that Joe
Speaker 2: is a detriment to America. What'd you think, Charle Man,
Speaker 2: I know you're watching in real time.
Speaker 1: Oh, I mean for me, you know, nothing about Biden
Speaker 1: surprised me last night, you know, other than the fact
Speaker 1: they was up that late. You know, it started at nine,
Speaker 1: when it's til after ten. All I kept asking myself
Speaker 1: was what was President Biden, Nancy Pelosi and Jim Clyde
Speaker 1: Burns that scheduled during the day for them to be
Speaker 1: up that late.
Speaker 2: But you don't think he was a little spice. He
Speaker 2: had a little bit more and bigger to him.
Speaker 1: And nothing about last night surprised me. You know, I've
Speaker 1: been asking one question over the past several months, and
Speaker 1: it simply is the Biden Harris ticket still a winning ticket.
Speaker 1: This isn't twenty twenty. You don't have this series of
Speaker 1: unfortunate circumstances that you had. Then there's no COVID, there's
Speaker 1: no George Floyd protests. So what is going to energize
Speaker 1: people to go out there and vote in November? Because
Speaker 1: clearly it's not the threat of democracy that is Donald Trump.
Speaker 1: So can they win. I don't know. He had a
Speaker 1: lot more energy last night, but I don't know if
Speaker 1: that resonated with the American people. I just I don't know,
Speaker 1: Like you know, the do you know he asked for
Speaker 1: a boarder deal, but you got to put that on
Speaker 1: the table. The border isn't fixed. You know, you have
Speaker 1: a thirty dollard people dead in Gaza and everyday working
Speaker 1: class people aren't feeling the financial relief they would like.
Speaker 1: So I don't know. I'm still not clear on if
Speaker 1: they are a winnable ticket, even though he was solid
Speaker 1: last night. I don't know.
Speaker 4: I always feel like they're like, in salute to all
Speaker 4: the car salespeople, I feel like they're just always bad
Speaker 4: car salespeople. Like the car's gonna be able to fly
Speaker 4: and you won't have to be able to put gas
Speaker 4: in it, and then when you push this button, oh
Speaker 4: my gosh, the car will do zero to sixty and
Speaker 4: one point five seconds. That's what it always feels like.
Speaker 4: It just feels like they're just selling a lot of dreams.
Speaker 4: It feels like they're just telling people what they want
Speaker 4: to hear to try to get them excited, opposed to
Speaker 4: what they need to hear, and I always felt like
Speaker 4: that with this.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I mean he was able to speak to
Speaker 1: a lot of accomplishments that they have already done. But
Speaker 1: I just don't know if those accomplishments that he's already
Speaker 1: done overshadow the things that people want to see them done,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like last night he got
Speaker 1: interrupted because you know, of the border crisis. He got
Speaker 1: interrupted because what's happening in Israel and Gaza. So I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't know, that's my question. Even though he did
Speaker 1: have a lot of energy last night, I don't know
Speaker 1: if that actually having the energy.
Speaker 7: Can we.
Speaker 1: Have an energy that right there shouldn't be enough. Just
Speaker 1: simply saying that our president have a post should not
Speaker 1: be enough. He drank a momahead and had a little
Speaker 1: but I mean, like I said, he was, he was
Speaker 1: solid last night. But my question still remains, are they
Speaker 1: a winnable ticket in November? I simply don't know. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: that is front page news. What are we talking next hour?
Speaker 2: Damn Joe? I tried, well, but those of you who
Speaker 2: are going on us free Raak next week, if you're
Speaker 2: going to Miami, may want think twice. They said you
Speaker 2: come down to Miami with that foolishness. You're going to jail.
Speaker 2: So we're gonna talk about there the seven o'clock hour.
Speaker 4: All right, we'll get into that next. Everybody else, get
Speaker 4: it off your chest. Matter of fact, we just went
Speaker 4: ahead from the women this morning.
Speaker 3: You fell us fall back. It's International Women's Day. Fellers
Speaker 3: fall back.
Speaker 1: Let the women on online. Why are you talking? Jees
Speaker 1: should be doing this. Yes, what's the number? What exactly?
Speaker 1: Eight hundred five five one women, ladies call up right now,
Speaker 1: Jess would love to hear from you. It's the Breakfast Luve,
Speaker 1: good morning.
Speaker 9: The Breakfast Club is your time to get it off
Speaker 9: your chest. Way up, whether you're mad or black, something to.
Speaker 1: Get up and get something. Call up now. Eight hundred
Speaker 1: and five eight five one oh five one. We want
Speaker 1: to hear from you on the Breakfast Club. Want to
Speaker 1: get off your chest.
Speaker 10: I'm saying having that happy to all the women.
Speaker 7: See your wife down at home work, They thank you girl.
Speaker 1: You need a man to buy you a better phone.
Speaker 2: Man man, I'm I'm at work right now, okay here
Speaker 2: so she can actually buy her own phone. Thank you.
Speaker 2: International Women's done, well, thank.
Speaker 1: You, mam.
Speaker 6: I bet you get me and my god, O my god,
Speaker 6: oh my god.
Speaker 1: No, well, thank you so much, Niica, We get different. Jess.
Speaker 1: You doing different now though? Now she go, oh my god, hello,
Speaker 1: who's this?
Speaker 11: Very good morning?
Speaker 1: This bird bird? This is about this morning bird.
Speaker 6: I know y'all, but I want to give my sister apology.
Speaker 6: That's what the women say.
Speaker 5: What you did?
Speaker 2: Man?
Speaker 6: Okay, so he and the boyfriend they got a TikTok
Speaker 6: and they be cooking. But big back and I told
Speaker 6: you a big back. Sell he really didn't take that delight.
Speaker 6: You can't snap it to me. But I just want
Speaker 6: to apologize to sorry. When I want TikTok.
Speaker 1: Okay, what is it? He calls him a big back?
Speaker 2: Yeah, he got says, has a TikTok. See be cooking
Speaker 2: with her husband. He called the big bad chef. He's
Speaker 2: gonna call and he's gonna call breakfast time.
Speaker 1: Well, big bag.
Speaker 6: I want to shout out TikTok the real b family,
Speaker 6: the real family.
Speaker 12: Let me go.
Speaker 1: Let's go, black people, let's go. We don't take nothing serious. Okay,
Speaker 1: let's go.
Speaker 4: We'll get it off your chest. Eight hundred and five
Speaker 4: eighty five, one oh five one. If you need to
Speaker 4: vent hit us up now it's the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 9: Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Wait, this is your time
Speaker 9: to get it off your chest. Eight hundred five eight
Speaker 9: five one five one. We want to hear from you
Speaker 9: on the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 7: Hello, Hello, good morning.
Speaker 1: What's your name?
Speaker 3: My name is Margaret. Margaret, Happy International Woman's Day.
Speaker 7: Thank you. I'm a longtime listener, but a first time caller.
Speaker 7: I'm sixty four years old. I love the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 2: We love you, Charlomagne.
Speaker 7: You want to just sit out the conversation time, Charlemagne,
Speaker 7: I'm speaking directly to you. Some mornings you piss me off.
Speaker 7: I wish I could, you know, reach through the radio
Speaker 7: and strangle you. You're not helping. You make me feel
Speaker 7: like I don't want to go out and vote. And
Speaker 7: I am a long time Democrat, not because I don't
Speaker 7: agree with some of your points that you put across,
Speaker 7: but your conversation sometimes in the morning is very discouraging.
Speaker 7: Voters will not go on to vote.
Speaker 1: No, don't blame that on me. Don't blame don't don't
Speaker 1: blame the lack of energy you're feeling from the Biden administration.
Speaker 1: Don't blame that on me. Let Margaret speak.
Speaker 7: I am blaming. I'm not blaming the lack of energy.
Speaker 7: I'm just saying, sometimes you don't give the administration do
Speaker 7: you know what's due to them. They're trying their best,
Speaker 7: you know they have the other time, who is blocking everything?
Speaker 7: Is trying to do what is it supposed to do.
Speaker 7: It was the same thing when Obama was in tower.
Speaker 7: People say, oh, Obama did nothing for the country, what
Speaker 7: could he do? The Republican block everything he tried to do.
Speaker 1: Well, Obama did some very good things, like Obamacare. But
Speaker 1: this is what I always tell politicians, man, don't volunteer
Speaker 1: the lie. They know what Congress is going to look like.
Speaker 1: They know these people better than we do before they
Speaker 1: get in office. So don't volunteer the lie and tell
Speaker 1: people that you're going to do all of these things
Speaker 1: if you know you can't get them done. And if me,
Speaker 1: as a tax paying citizen and a voter, I pay
Speaker 1: my taxes and I vote, I should be able to
Speaker 1: express that and that shouldn't discourage you from voting in
Speaker 1: any way, shape or form. I think you're trying to
Speaker 1: blame me for your lack of enthusiasm for voting, because
Speaker 1: everybody has a lack of enthusiasm for this upcoming election
Speaker 1: because nobody wants this rematch. But don't put that on me.
Speaker 7: So I'm going to ask you a question, Charlamae have
Speaker 7: you ever have you ever said I'm going to do
Speaker 7: something in the future and it doesn't manifest because of
Speaker 7: somebody else.
Speaker 11: No, No, I don't believe that.
Speaker 8: You.
Speaker 1: Have a great weekend.
Speaker 7: Anyway, have a great day, and thank you very much
Speaker 7: for taking my call.
Speaker 1: All right?
Speaker 3: Where you call them from Queen's New.
Speaker 7: We are Springfield Boulevard.
Speaker 1: Oh, Springfield, but cambri Height, Queens Village. Was that.
Speaker 4: Laarrelton, Okay, Laurelton, all right, wells the little everybody out
Speaker 4: in Queens, New York, thank you all right.
Speaker 1: And there's Margaret sixty four years old. She should not
Speaker 1: be falling the paid pressure because I've never told you
Speaker 1: not the vote. I've never told you Joe Biden hasn't
Speaker 1: done anything. I literally just said ten minutes ago that
Speaker 1: he was able to express a lot of the accomplishments
Speaker 1: that he's gotten done. It's but it's about the things
Speaker 1: that people want.
Speaker 2: Like if you got represented the couch, sir, because she
Speaker 2: hopped on there that's why you would have never said
Speaker 2: nothing about the couch, because it's your influence. You'd be
Speaker 2: acting like you don't know your influence.
Speaker 1: The couch is real, though, this year is all about
Speaker 1: the Republicans who crow the god is real, the Democrats
Speaker 1: of the couch in the couch. So you know whose
Speaker 1: job it is to get people off the couch?
Speaker 2: Donald Trump and Joe Biden and Charlamagna.
Speaker 1: No, it's not Hello, who's this?
Speaker 13: Oh wow, man, this is dread. I am calling y'all
Speaker 13: out of the coon capital of the Minute West known
Speaker 13: as the five one Free.
Speaker 6: Jesus, Yes it is, I sure did.
Speaker 13: I completely don't rep that city the nasty natty.
Speaker 1: So how old am I?
Speaker 13: Yeah, I'm the same agent Uncle Shi and Djam knocking
Speaker 13: on them fifties doors. Yeah, you're right, because that ain't
Speaker 13: something some of these young folks will say.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's the only reason why I ask That's
Speaker 2: the only reason why I asked. Yeah.
Speaker 13: Uh and you know speaking and since I did get
Speaker 13: I can't believe it. Yes, I'm glad you know she
Speaker 13: is a good addition to the to the crew because
Speaker 13: and this ain't no uh jocking, because I don't job.
Speaker 13: But like I thought, if anybody gonna come, because really
Speaker 13: I was kind of chicked out, not gonna lie like,
Speaker 13: we don't even know another chick be giving you all
Speaker 13: the run for your money, and.
Speaker 1: Absolutely why you caught her off? Jets up International Woman's
Speaker 1: Day continue big and jets up man.
Speaker 13: Exactly, I big it up up because she'd be bringing
Speaker 13: it with she bringing the little heat. And uh even
Speaker 13: in the funny thing whoever stood up Uncle Charlotte and
Speaker 13: roasted them for exist even I mean, I'd like y'all
Speaker 13: got the right war finally, but I would say this
Speaker 13: on the on the app, Yes, I'm probably not your
Speaker 13: typical chick in the sense that even all this, you know,
Speaker 13: International Women's Day, I mean, we got History Month. I mean,
Speaker 13: I'm just kind of saying, be careful of what the
Speaker 13: white man is putting in our ears with a bunch
Speaker 13: of white feminism, and it's ruining our family, and uh
Speaker 13: that's just something to be aware of. I don't know,
Speaker 13: I don't really cake for no Kick Day and all
Speaker 13: of that. Just love to the black man, love to
Speaker 13: the black family, love to the black woman, all of it.
Speaker 1: But it's not it's not International White Woman's day though,
Speaker 1: that women's day?
Speaker 10: No, but what is All of this.
Speaker 13: Stuff falls out of what they keep putting down about everything,
Speaker 13: like why is there a kick in it? And a
Speaker 13: chicken in it?
Speaker 14: And it comes to.
Speaker 13: Feminism, which is very dangerous for us.
Speaker 1: What mans your question? What grade was you smoking this morning?
Speaker 1: When you walk? She was drinking?
Speaker 7: You know what.
Speaker 13: Dreads don't need nothing to be crazy. I'm already crazy
Speaker 13: as ill.
Speaker 1: That's right, yes, ma'am, Yes, ma'am. You dreads, he's dress.
Speaker 2: That's that with y'all y'all look crazy?
Speaker 3: Are we crazy? That lady sold for three minutes? Y'all
Speaker 3: know she hired a drunk or something.
Speaker 1: You enjoying herself? It's just a friday that ain't mad
Speaker 1: at him?
Speaker 4: Get it off your chest eight hundred and five A
Speaker 4: one five one. If you need to, you can hit
Speaker 4: us something now. We got rumors, we got just with
Speaker 4: the mess coming up?
Speaker 2: Yes we do. Mike Ip said he ain't never doing
Speaker 2: another dumb ass podcast.
Speaker 4: We'll talk about it next to the Breakfast clug aboard
Speaker 4: it the Breakfast Club more than everybody is tj V
Speaker 4: just hilarious charlamage the guy we are the Breakfast Club
Speaker 4: and what up, Tess, It's just hilarious. Let's take on
Speaker 4: page news is International Women's Day? So lit hours, two
Speaker 4: women on the show. This is Jess, hilarrus and tears
Speaker 4: that listen so much.
Speaker 1: Let's jump right into Miami.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Miami is breaking up with spring Break. They said
Speaker 2: they getting sick of the foolishness and the crime. Take
Speaker 2: a listen.
Speaker 15: Miami Beach is hoping to leave the shooting and unruly
Speaker 15: crowds of previous spring breaks in the pot.
Speaker 4: It would be difficult to get here into our city,
Speaker 4: and once you get here, the expectation is you played
Speaker 4: by rules.
Speaker 15: Newly elected Mayor Stephen Minor sites to death last year.
Speaker 1: It's not just bad for our businesses, it's bad for
Speaker 1: our residents. It's bad for a churst. I have a
Speaker 1: responsibility as married to keep everyone safe.
Speaker 15: Over the month of March last year, there were nearly
Speaker 15: five hundred arrests and more than one hundred firearms seized.
Speaker 15: This year, the city's new rules for its busiest March
Speaker 15: weekends include raising some parking prices to one hundred dollars,
Speaker 15: adding security checkpoints and bag checks at some beach entrances,
Speaker 15: and closing liquor stores at eight pm.
Speaker 2: Damn here the liquor stores. They're really upset about it.
Speaker 2: They said, it's not fair at all. It's only about
Speaker 2: four hundred police officers in Miami. So when you think
Speaker 2: about four hundred police officers trying to police thousands of people,
Speaker 2: you know that's a lot. So they're bringing in edged security.
Speaker 2: Governorn de Santis stopped by Miami Beach and had this mess.
Speaker 2: As you said, if you're coming here to enjoy Florida
Speaker 2: and have a good time, that's fine. But if you're
Speaker 2: coming for other reasons, if you're committing crime causing having,
Speaker 2: you're gonna pay the price.
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't be mad at Miami Beach, you know, don't
Speaker 1: be mad at the government officers of Miami Beach. Be
Speaker 1: mad at the people who come there and act a
Speaker 1: damn fool. If I was the mad, if I was
Speaker 1: residents of Miami Beach, I would probably want the same thing,
Speaker 1: simply because you got a lot of folks who come
Speaker 1: from out of town things up and didn't leave. Don't
Speaker 1: make it so easy for them to f things up.
Speaker 1: I ain't mad at it. I mean it can work.
Speaker 4: Before Miami Beach was the popular springs place. It was
Speaker 4: Virginia Virginia Beach, and everybody used to go to Virginia
Speaker 4: Beach for a spring break. And then Virginia Beach did
Speaker 4: something similar where they put a curfuse and put restriction
Speaker 4: on so many different things where people were like, you
Speaker 4: know what, I don't want to go any more because
Speaker 4: I don't want to be harassed.
Speaker 1: They did that in Myrtle Beach too. Beach Murdle Beach
Speaker 1: for black Bike Weekend they did the same thing and
Speaker 1: back Black Bike Weekend is actually this weekend? It is,
Speaker 1: I think so. I thought black bike was in Maynah,
Speaker 1: black Bike wega't in no March. Myrtle Beach Black Bike
Speaker 1: Weekend is not It's a black Bike Weekend this week.
Speaker 1: Maybe's not Myrtle Beach, definitely Myrtle Beach. I thought that
Speaker 1: Myrtle Beach is like May.
Speaker 2: Let me see, is another bike week in Daytona Beach.
Speaker 1: Daytona this week?
Speaker 2: They don't have a lot of crime. The bike week
Speaker 2: kind of a little bit of older crab, wouldn't you say?
Speaker 1: Yeah, they tone this this weekend. Yeah, black bike weegn
Speaker 1: Murtle Beaches May twenty fourth to the twenty seventh. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they tune this this weekend. Now, what else you got
Speaker 1: for spring break?
Speaker 2: Yeah, just some spring break travel news. Just wanted to
Speaker 2: give you a little bit of update of the Transportation
Speaker 2: Security Administration. They're this issue on a warning letting people
Speaker 2: know that it will be record breaking travel this week's
Speaker 2: March seven through March twenty fifth. They're expecting travel up
Speaker 2: by six percent, which that means that's good people have
Speaker 2: some disposal income. They also put out an advisory saying
Speaker 2: if you're going to Mexico, the US Embassy says to
Speaker 2: travel smart because of nearby crime, unregulated alcohol, and drownings
Speaker 2: just to name a few risks. Remember you guys were
Speaker 2: talking about this last year with the travel advisories with Mexico,
Speaker 2: and I think you went anyway, DJM, I think you did.
Speaker 2: You just ignored the advisory.
Speaker 12: I did.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So they're issuing that again. They said, you know
Speaker 2: that threat is not over, so make sure you pay attention.
Speaker 2: They're also encouraging people to enroll in a program called
Speaker 2: step in. That program want you enroll in it? It
Speaker 2: gives you information about the travel, the information on security,
Speaker 2: different stuff that you should look out for. People taking
Speaker 2: people's money and stuff like that. So they said that
Speaker 2: was a good program. And TSA also said they want
Speaker 2: you to come to to make sure you come to
Speaker 2: the airport early. Make sure you remember the three one
Speaker 2: one rule that's been packing your liquid three point four ounces. Basically,
Speaker 2: they say, don't come there getting mad and acting a fool.
Speaker 2: You know, the drill, and that's what it is. So
Speaker 2: TSA got in on that alert as well. So they
Speaker 2: don't want no problems at the airport.
Speaker 4: All right, Well, anybody traveling, be safe out there, and
Speaker 4: remember sometimes don't go to where people tell you don't go.
Speaker 4: I know, a lot of the times when you go
Speaker 4: to Mexico or you go to Jamaica, or you go
Speaker 4: to a lot of these places, there's places that they
Speaker 4: tell you don't go.
Speaker 1: There's a reason why they tell you don't go, So
Speaker 1: don't go, all right, I know. So it's spring break
Speaker 1: this week, yes break next week next week Monday, yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, Well, thank you, Tad, you have a
Speaker 3: good weekend.
Speaker 2: Absolutely you guys as well.
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Speaker 4: All right, now when we come back, just fix my
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Speaker 4: Jess is here for you for International Women's Day. Eight
Speaker 4: hundred five A five one oh five to one. Call
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Speaker 2: X about me for relationship problems, X about me. If
Speaker 2: you need to beat your coworker's ask about me, your
Speaker 2: coworker need to beat your ass, call it a dot
Speaker 2: to Jess and I'm here to fix your mess.
Speaker 1: Fix your mess.
Speaker 2: It's giving very much messy.
Speaker 3: Let me fix that morning everybody.
Speaker 4: It's DJ n V Jess Hilarious, Charlamagne the Guy. We
Speaker 4: are the Breakfast Clubs International Women's Day and we're opening
Speaker 4: up the phone lines eight hundred five A five one
Speaker 4: oh five to one. If you have some questions for Jess,
Speaker 4: It's Jess will fix your mess.
Speaker 10: Hello.
Speaker 1: Who's this?
Speaker 4: Hey?
Speaker 1: Hey Brittany?
Speaker 16: How Yes, I'm doing great. I'm calling in to get
Speaker 16: just to help me with my mess.
Speaker 2: Okay, what's up? Girls?
Speaker 1: Wrong?
Speaker 16: So I come from a strong Caribbean background where we
Speaker 16: are very blunt people, and I learned that a lot
Speaker 16: of the information that is shared sometimes do not have
Speaker 16: any reasoning behind it. They just come out their mouths.
Speaker 16: You'll walk into a room and they'll say something honest
Speaker 16: about you, and it really don't be filtered. So I've
Speaker 16: grown up to filter myself, but my honesty is still
Speaker 16: very blunt and direct. I just want to know how
Speaker 16: can I be a little bit more kinder and still
Speaker 16: not stem away from my background?
Speaker 2: Oh so what are some examples? So say you walk
Speaker 2: in the room and is it now? Are these encounters
Speaker 2: these blunt encounters with men, women, your friends, family?
Speaker 11: Like?
Speaker 8: What?
Speaker 2: Who is it?
Speaker 10: Oh?
Speaker 12: Everyone?
Speaker 1: Very yeah?
Speaker 2: Oh gosh, And I know how y'all can because I
Speaker 2: have a lot of Caribbean friends. I don't think you
Speaker 2: can never get better with that without strang away from
Speaker 2: being who you are, because because for one, people just
Speaker 2: have to know you. You're the type person that you
Speaker 2: got to get to know to realize that that you
Speaker 2: don't really mean it in a personal way. That's just
Speaker 2: how you were raised. That is like literally in you
Speaker 2: give me an example of something that you said that
Speaker 2: hurt somebody feelings that they came and told you later.
Speaker 16: About Well, I had a supervisor that was questioning the
Speaker 16: work that I was doing, and I asked her if
Speaker 16: it's possible that she can just show up to my
Speaker 16: meeting and give me an example, and then I can
Speaker 16: go ahead and follow her lead. And I was told,
Speaker 16: that's very rude of me to say, because that's not
Speaker 16: her position. She's here to tell me what to do.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's not rude at all. That's that's that's
Speaker 2: the best you got.
Speaker 5: I thought that was the best.
Speaker 16: I thought I said it in a most professional way
Speaker 16: and considerate, because I definitely could notice that to her expertise,
Speaker 16: and I feel like the only way that we can
Speaker 16: resolve it is by you leading and I follow.
Speaker 2: No, I mean, that's the best you got for me.
Speaker 2: You ain't never like blatantly insult nobody. And then and
Speaker 2: they came back to you later like what you said
Speaker 2: was rude? Yeah you have, haven't you no?
Speaker 8: Selling?
Speaker 17: What do you need?
Speaker 2: Because who is telling you that you need to be nicer?
Speaker 2: You don't need to be nicer. You just need to
Speaker 2: continue to be who you are. And there's somebody out
Speaker 2: there for you, whether it's friends, guys, or whatever. That
Speaker 2: will accept you for who you are. You ever tried
Speaker 2: to Is this dating advice I'm giving you, or just
Speaker 2: what life advice?
Speaker 16: I'm trying to grow when it comes to my communication style,
Speaker 16: and I know that my honesty is just a little
Speaker 16: bit pudulant for people. I'm trying to see if I
Speaker 16: can soften it. I have had people say they weren't
Speaker 16: ready for that honesty.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's what I was trying to get. Okay, so
Speaker 2: they weren't ready for that honesty. Listen, Honestly, you're not
Speaker 2: here to coddle adults either, though, you get what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 2: sometimes people do need honesty. That's the problem with these
Speaker 2: days in communication, why lines get blurred and why people,
Speaker 2: you know, stay in friendships and relationships a little bit
Speaker 2: too long because nobody wants to hurt the other feelings,
Speaker 2: the other person's feelings. Keep it as g as you
Speaker 2: can without being disrespectful. Now, if you're a disrespectful person,
Speaker 2: that's totally different from you being an honest person. Sometimes
Speaker 2: you don't always got to see what's on your mind.
Speaker 2: I'm told that all the time, But I can't help
Speaker 2: that because I'm not here to coddle an adults. Now
Speaker 2: for children, it's very different. But out there in the
Speaker 2: real world, yeah, we need more people that look like
Speaker 2: us to tell us about ourselves in the right manner.
Speaker 2: You get what I'm saying. So I think you're doing this.
Speaker 16: Figure out the right man.
Speaker 2: Yeah, just figure out the right man if you feel
Speaker 2: like you are disrespectful. But again, if you ain't disrespectful
Speaker 2: and you just you just straightforward in Caribbean, I think
Speaker 2: they should be able to understand that.
Speaker 16: Okay, thank you, no problem.
Speaker 1: Lord of Mercy, keep it by the way, don't blame
Speaker 1: your nationality on you know, your bluntness. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I still don't get that one.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so people just blunt internal Women's Day? Why are
Speaker 1: you speaking? Shut up, no, and go wipe the Beijing
Speaker 1: off your fece.
Speaker 2: Let's pray for y'all then, Lord help these days.
Speaker 3: Eight on dread five eight five one oh five one.
Speaker 8: Uh.
Speaker 4: If you want to holler at Jess's International Woman's Day,
Speaker 4: so call Jess up right now?
Speaker 1: Is the breakfast club?
Speaker 2: Good morning, it's a real peal. Help me help. Oh
Speaker 2: my god, I'm all up in your mess. I'm gonna
Speaker 2: fix it, mix it, fix it, fix it. Just gonna
Speaker 2: fix your mess because my advice is real morning.
Speaker 4: Everybody is DJ en Vy, Jess, Hilarry, Charlamagne, the God,
Speaker 4: we are the breakfast club. Now, Jess, we have a
Speaker 4: gentleman on the phone. He said, his wife called you
Speaker 4: last week asking for advice on how to split money. Uh,
Speaker 4: and it didn't work out.
Speaker 1: So he wants to talk to you now.
Speaker 2: Oh damn, Hey, what's going on?
Speaker 1: What happened?
Speaker 12: Hey? Good morning, good good morning.
Speaker 1: How you doing?
Speaker 12: I'm all right, I'm calling. In response, there was a
Speaker 12: young lady called the other day and people asking you
Speaker 12: are She said that Hana want to be ex husband.
Speaker 12: They catch for three men. One person would pay the
Speaker 12: bills for a year while they said yes, and then
Speaker 12: the next year the other person pay the bills. Now
Speaker 12: she asked you she split the money since they're separating
Speaker 12: the I'm the guy she was talking about it. I
Speaker 12: feel like it ain't fair. I paid all my money
Speaker 12: for this year, and the year it's something for her
Speaker 12: to pay herself. Things working out, things ain't working out
Speaker 12: and stuff. So now she asked everybody said she split
Speaker 12: the money with me or not? Why I paid my
Speaker 12: money and made a lot of sacrifices for that year.
Speaker 2: That's what she said. She said that I thought that
Speaker 2: she was saying that you didn't have the money and
Speaker 2: now that it's time for you to pay everything you Yeah,
Speaker 2: I could have won, That's what she said. But okay, okay, Well,
Speaker 2: if what you're saying is you no, I think that
Speaker 2: is unfair on your end. No, if you did pay
Speaker 2: every if y'all had an agreement, first of all, going
Speaker 2: back to the agreement, if you if y'all had it
Speaker 2: set up some kind of way where you pay a
Speaker 2: year and she pays a year, and now she struggling
Speaker 2: on her year. I do still think you know, all
Speaker 2: those stuff happens.
Speaker 12: It wasn't pregnant, It wasn't there for us when her year.
Speaker 12: All things ain't working out, Like you don't say, with
Speaker 12: all this money from this this prior year and all
Speaker 12: these type of fights I made, and it's your turn
Speaker 12: to paid fields for the year, and now things ain't
Speaker 12: working out.
Speaker 2: Mm okay working out between y'all are working out with
Speaker 2: her funds? What's what do you mean between us? Okay?
Speaker 2: Are y'all is married or y'all just go together?
Speaker 12: We separated?
Speaker 2: Now separated Okay, so do y'alln't have y'all don't have
Speaker 2: a lawyer.
Speaker 12: We're going through a divorce and stuff like that. Okay,
Speaker 12: say that you you take this, y'all take that?
Speaker 6: Oh separated?
Speaker 2: Okay, Now is this agreement written or anything? Because you're verbal,
Speaker 2: y'alln't gonna do nothing. But it's just he say against
Speaker 2: she say, and y'all going, y'all ain't gonna do nothing
Speaker 2: but go back and forth about it because y'all not
Speaker 2: working out.
Speaker 12: Yeah, it was a verbal it was verbal verbal agreement
Speaker 12: when age.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I don't know if she was calling me
Speaker 2: it was to being truthful or you know you. I
Speaker 2: don't know y'all personally, but I'm saying I think this
Speaker 2: should have been a going forward. Just know, verbals don't happen.
Speaker 2: Don't don't need to be happening because you never know.
Speaker 2: You see how out of nowhere y'all ain't working out
Speaker 2: when she when it comes to her having to hold
Speaker 2: up her end of the bargain, and that's all you
Speaker 2: got to go back on is just her word, you know,
Speaker 2: and that ain't really serving you fair, you know what
Speaker 2: I mean? So no more verbals going forward.
Speaker 12: Actually it's just hurtful.
Speaker 2: It is, and I can tell in your voice. And
Speaker 2: I do apologize about that.
Speaker 12: I just wanted to clear that up because and I.
Speaker 2: Really appreciate that, because it's very rare that a man
Speaker 2: gets to tell his side after a woman gives her
Speaker 2: So I'm sorry. I wish you all the best with
Speaker 2: that though, but no more.
Speaker 1: Verbals correct, all right, all right, all right, Legia, Oh.
Speaker 2: My god, don't step it on my mesk.
Speaker 3: We got somebody else on the line. Selena, Good morning, Selena, good.
Speaker 5: Morning, good morning. Okay, So I currently work at the
Speaker 5: same job with my boyfriend, and so I was prefect
Speaker 5: it by Sam my boyfriend and I I work in
Speaker 5: the environment with mostly men. There's only three women at
Speaker 5: my job, about thirty men, and we've been together about
Speaker 5: eighteen months and we have minor issues here and there.
Speaker 5: But like I said, there are only three women at
Speaker 5: my job, and he has befriended one of the women
Speaker 5: at the job and they text and talk outside the job.
Speaker 5: So I told him it was an issue for me
Speaker 5: because she is clearly flirting with him, and I feel
Speaker 5: like he's gaslighting me by telling me like, oh no,
Speaker 5: it's fine. That's just how she talks. And it's like,
Speaker 5: as a woman, you can see what's boundaries are being caused,
Speaker 5: and he just he keeps coming here.
Speaker 6: No, it's fine, everything is fine.
Speaker 2: Well, if everything is fine to him and it's not
Speaker 2: to you, you know what to do. You already tell
Speaker 2: her how you feel about it. You told him how
Speaker 2: you feel about it. If it ain't no change, that
Speaker 2: ain't that ain't her.
Speaker 5: Because I don't feel like it's necessary to address the
Speaker 5: woman because I'm not in a relationship with her, and.
Speaker 2: You're not in a relationship with her, but you do
Speaker 2: see her every day. And it's because and because it's
Speaker 2: only three of y'all, I imagine that y'all have some
Speaker 2: type of work relationship as well, right, if y'all consider
Speaker 2: each other good coworkers. I mean, do y'all talk or
Speaker 2: do y'all not talk at all? No, y'all don't talk.
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, So yeah.
Speaker 5: Situation where I have to go to her for certain
Speaker 5: like you know, requirements for my job, and he's really
Speaker 5: off putting, like she's really rude, she has an unnecessary attitude,
Speaker 5: and because of their relationship, I brought it to him
Speaker 5: like Hey, you know that's your friend. I don't know
Speaker 5: if there's an issue, like if I said something to
Speaker 5: her to make her uncomfortable or anything, and he's just like, no,
Speaker 5: that's just how she is.
Speaker 10: But he's like this with me.
Speaker 2: The other woman she's not, So you can't see what
Speaker 2: it is. You can't see that that's your man, and
Speaker 2: you can't see what he's doing and what he's possibly
Speaker 2: doing behind your back. If she mad at you, and
Speaker 2: it's only three of y'all, you probably got the best
Speaker 2: looking man on the job. I'm not sure, or the
Speaker 2: one that she mad.
Speaker 5: But this is where I get messy. Her man worked there.
Speaker 2: Too, Girl quit the job.
Speaker 1: Quit.
Speaker 2: It's just a lot going on. Jesus Christ, what is
Speaker 2: happening here? The reality shop?
Speaker 5: Literally like I work in I work in cold storage,
Speaker 5: and I work in the warehouse. I'm not taking the
Speaker 5: warehouse employee. I just I work. I have to be
Speaker 5: there to maintain my side is the office part. So
Speaker 5: it's like I really don't have any interactions with any
Speaker 5: of them unless I need to.
Speaker 14: But with her, I have to have interactions.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, his loyalty is to you, or supposed to
Speaker 2: be at least and I don't feel like and I
Speaker 2: don't feel like it fully is how long y'all been together?
Speaker 2: Eighteen months? Over a year? How long they been friends
Speaker 2: and talking outside of this about eight? About eight months?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: So, girls, so they coming up on the hear of
Speaker 2: being good work friends. And listen, let me correct you.
Speaker 2: They're not friends. They're coworkers first, and they became friends.
Speaker 2: I don't know whether it's behind your back or not,
Speaker 2: but it could be something going on there. And I
Speaker 2: think you should actually set a boundary. I think you should.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna say give them an ultimatum, but you
Speaker 2: should put your foot down and say, look, I'm out
Speaker 2: of here if this don't you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: I got to see you every day. That's why you
Speaker 2: don't date where you work. But because you did, you
Speaker 2: gotta know that's what stuff like this come with. You
Speaker 2: get what I'm saying. And the fact that it's only
Speaker 2: three of y'all ladies around all the men, Okay, it's
Speaker 2: very very tempting, you know, because they looking at three
Speaker 2: of y'all. It's just three of y'all. I don't know
Speaker 2: how y'all look at it's just three of y'all. You
Speaker 2: get what I'm saying. So I think you should have
Speaker 2: a conversation with him. And it's more more about putting
Speaker 2: your foot down. It ain't even it ain't even about her,
Speaker 2: because if you give a man an ultimatum, he you
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, You're still giving him a chance
Speaker 2: to choose. You don't give him a chance to choose.
Speaker 2: You should already be chosen and at right.
Speaker 5: So I was very direct, and you know, to the
Speaker 5: point about how I felt about the situation, and he's
Speaker 5: His exact response to me was, how could you be
Speaker 5: upset at me having a friend? W All the men
Speaker 5: want to sleep with you?
Speaker 2: Okay, so there we are. You are the baddest one
Speaker 2: in the cold storage. Okay, so that's a problem. He
Speaker 2: is intimidated by uh other men when it comes to
Speaker 2: his girlfriend's appearance. That's what it is. You don't need
Speaker 2: to be with them, That's just what it is. You
Speaker 2: don't need to be with him. Sound like he needs
Speaker 2: to quit his job. He can't or or he can't
Speaker 2: date you. And I'm sorry. I know you probably love
Speaker 2: him because a lot of loves have been built up
Speaker 2: there in bonds and stuff over eighteen months, but it
Speaker 2: don't really sound like you need to be there with him,
Speaker 2: because that makes some fit a little bit inferior. If
Speaker 2: everybody want his girl, or let me let me have
Speaker 2: this other shorty on the side too. So I got
Speaker 2: both of.
Speaker 5: Them because that's the situation to him, like, I feel
Speaker 5: like you're just trying to throw it in my face,
Speaker 5: throw it in their face by playing in my face.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I don't think you should let yourself be
Speaker 2: played with.
Speaker 1: Don't. Don't.
Speaker 2: Don't play yourself for this man now at all. Y'all
Speaker 2: got the same job. Please don't thank you. I appreciate it,
Speaker 2: no problem. Give me a update because you sound like
Speaker 2: you're still gonna stay and I don't need that.
Speaker 13: No, I don't need to say that.
Speaker 5: I'm going through enough.
Speaker 2: I know that's right. So yeah, got open. So yeah, yeah, good, well,
Speaker 2: thank you, bo call back for an update next Thursday.
Speaker 10: Thank you, No problem.
Speaker 3: All right, Just fix my Mess eight hundred five eight
Speaker 3: five one oh five one.
Speaker 1: Now we got with them. You can see Just Fixing
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Speaker 2: Yes, Lola's X says he was staining for penis in
Speaker 2: the sixth grade.
Speaker 1: Wow, okay, all right, now we're talking that that was
Speaker 1: a tea. That was a goddamn te you hear me.
Speaker 1: He I'm the tree. Don't want to hear more. I
Speaker 1: bet you are. All right, we'll get to it. Next
Speaker 1: to the Breakfast Club, good morning. I am sick of
Speaker 1: breakfast club staff as a record label, as a crew,
Speaker 1: as a radio station. Now you know behind the scenes,
Speaker 1: Big Mac is one of our producers. But if you
Speaker 1: don't know about how the radio station is set up,
Speaker 1: you know we're set up with a bunch of other
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Speaker 1: the Godfather, Elvis Durant is down the hall. Elvis have
Speaker 1: amazing food. If you can see us right now, you
Speaker 1: see the plate that just got what you got on
Speaker 1: that plate, just have a little bit of everything, but
Speaker 1: everything is Italian, Okay, meatballs, spinach, some.
Speaker 2: Type of wings, some other type of pasta, roast potatoes.
Speaker 1: That's all the white people over there, that's right, We
Speaker 1: the black ones. So Big Mac goes over there, and
Speaker 1: somebody over there had to say, Man, last time you
Speaker 1: came here, you ate a ball of food. Man, big
Speaker 1: back ate of all of food, and he's gonna eat
Speaker 1: up all the food now, he ain't gonna leave nothing
Speaker 1: for nobody.
Speaker 3: That's embarrassing. They sent the email actually to the staff.
Speaker 1: No, they didn't cut it out. Yes, I didn't know
Speaker 1: what the email email said, he ate all the food.
Speaker 1: That was an email to say, wow, see that's the
Speaker 1: kind of stuff your parents tell you. That's the kind
Speaker 1: of stuff you heard family gathering over there. That's right, Mac,
Speaker 1: You go over there acting hungry all the damn time.
Speaker 1: Man embarrassing over there.
Speaker 2: Before he did.
Speaker 1: But you know, yesterday, you know, Elvis has a new
Speaker 1: ice cream business. He had his ice cream truck here.
Speaker 4: Yesterday he was giving you know, the staff ice cream
Speaker 4: free ice cream, and Mac got like four or five cones.
Speaker 1: See the moral of the story. I'm tired of Mac
Speaker 1: going over there acting hungry, his.
Speaker 2: Dad going ice cream truck. We was at the back
Speaker 2: of the line now because we black, y'all, We just
Speaker 2: was late, so he was at the back. He walked right,
Speaker 2: he walked up to the front, like, come on all,
Speaker 2: I'm like, you think that wild gonna get him everywhere?
Speaker 1: We gonna watch that Lord have mercy man and listen.
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Speaker 2: Nick Cannon criticized by doctor Umar for wearing women's clothing.
Speaker 1: What I don't know.
Speaker 2: Probably I don't know. I have no idea. That's just
Speaker 2: that's all the headline say. And I ain't even want
Speaker 2: the story, and they still gave it to me. Instagram
Speaker 2: now lets you edit direct messages within fifteen minutes, but
Speaker 2: you could always see that, Yeah, you could have been
Speaker 2: I guess now, I guess what's new about it is
Speaker 2: the fifteen minutes. I have no idea. I don't care.
Speaker 2: If you send something and it's coming from me, trust me,
Speaker 2: I ain't editing it. It's going to get to you
Speaker 2: the way it is. cMRI and Corey Hardrick sharing a
Speaker 2: hug on the red carpet. Yeah, I saw it yesterday.
Speaker 2: That was very awkward. They was looking like they ain't
Speaker 2: seen each other in five years. She was like all smiley,
Speaker 2: but he was looking like you can I don't know,
Speaker 2: and she like held out her hand for a handshake.
Speaker 1: Effort, and then he was like, uh, you know, that
Speaker 1: was two people worried about what everybody else gonna think,
Speaker 1: which is so scrange to me because y'all got children.
Speaker 2: Absolutely you would have thought that day. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: I don't know, but he probably don't because he took
Speaker 2: that real hard from what from what he showed on
Speaker 2: social media and still over there doing tiktoks every dayn day.
Speaker 2: Lordan's ex teases new music, so lolons X shared the
Speaker 2: video to tease this new song Nasoriety too, and he
Speaker 2: had some interesting things to say about what he was
Speaker 2: doing in middle school.
Speaker 1: What got bleak?
Speaker 2: What I can't say because y'all say bleak button and
Speaker 2: swings low with the swing high depending on how how
Speaker 2: were you for it? Yeah, that's what he said.
Speaker 1: Now I don't care on the table, put a light
Speaker 1: into the ball and smoke it.
Speaker 2: Now he needs his ass swept like every other girl.
Speaker 2: Hot ass girl, you know how hot your ass? He
Speaker 2: needed his low ass whip back then? What you're doing
Speaker 2: to talk about you feening for it and you don't
Speaker 2: grind them talking to note what no face accounts?
Speaker 1: What you know about that?
Speaker 2: He took his belt to your ass? You trying to
Speaker 2: take something else to you? As that is crazy? You
Speaker 2: and a six damn grade Wait till you because the
Speaker 2: high school or something he needed. That's like I said,
Speaker 2: Daddy didn't know what I was doing.
Speaker 1: Uh Happy Daddy didn't know. Yeah, that's crazy Jesus crash.
Speaker 2: But I mean, this is his truth.
Speaker 6: It is what it is.
Speaker 2: They know, that's right.
Speaker 1: Shut up.
Speaker 2: Trying to be a minisot. Just that's right, that's right,
Speaker 2: Shut up.
Speaker 1: I swear, I want to pray. Let us pray. Let's pray.
Speaker 2: Please help these niggas for real, every nigga even more Lord.
Speaker 1: All right.
Speaker 2: So Clay from Love is Blind explains why he went
Speaker 2: on the show. Fans on the Netflix series Love is
Speaker 2: Blind are reacting to the recent finale episode Clay and
Speaker 2: A D went to the altar. A D said, I do,
Speaker 2: but Clay did not. His excuse was that he was
Speaker 2: not ready for marriage. But the cast members know that
Speaker 2: when they participated in the show, the goal is to
Speaker 2: be married at the end of four weeks.
Speaker 10: Now.
Speaker 2: I've been reputting on the show periodically, and I think
Speaker 2: I don't know which one of y'all said, but it
Speaker 2: was like, what get married in four weeks? Yeah, that's
Speaker 2: just how it is. But you noticed before you go
Speaker 2: on the show, and the fans are questioning why Ad
Speaker 2: was signed up for the show. If no, not, Ad,
Speaker 2: come on, producers. The fans are questioning why Clay would
Speaker 2: signed up for the show if he wasn't ready to
Speaker 2: get married, But Clay spoke to People magazine and said,
Speaker 2: I was battling a lot. I think what you're seeing
Speaker 2: is a moment of self doubt based off how I
Speaker 2: was raised. I saw my dad have some infidelity moments.
Speaker 2: He even took Clay along with him in some of
Speaker 2: those infidelity moments when he was a child. So this
Speaker 2: is what he's seeing growing up, he said. So I
Speaker 2: think for me, I made the commitment when I was
Speaker 2: actually in it, I was like, can I really do this?
Speaker 2: Because he was convincing and very reassuring. They're an attractive
Speaker 2: couple when they were a black couple, so I was
Speaker 2: rooting for black love. But these were kind of like
Speaker 2: red flegs that Ad should have saw Ad as a woman,
Speaker 2: that she should have saw. He always said that he
Speaker 2: had a problem. He was scared of his self cheating.
Speaker 1: Yeah, especially if you saw your daddy do it in
Speaker 1: that way. Yeah, and your daddy was fien in the
Speaker 1: cheat if you get taking you with him.
Speaker 2: The cheat yup, and even the commentary that his dad
Speaker 2: had because he was joined by his mom and dad
Speaker 2: at the wedding day and his mother gave up, dropped
Speaker 2: a lot of gems, and she actually talked to her
Speaker 2: ex husband, which was Clay's dad, and he was like,
Speaker 2: he didn't really care, he didn't yo. The dad was
Speaker 2: just like, man, you you did it was best for you.
Speaker 12: You know it.
Speaker 2: It's all right.
Speaker 1: So he did this at the altar.
Speaker 2: He did this at the altar. Wow, now mind you Yeah,
Speaker 2: it is four weeks, but you could have you knew
Speaker 2: in your mind, you know what I'm saying now. He
Speaker 2: said he knew when he got up there and like
Speaker 2: he was actually in it. He couldn't go through with it.
Speaker 2: But the remarks when she walked down out, he was
Speaker 2: just like, look at that body, like it was just
Speaker 2: and then he is used to dating a certain type
Speaker 2: of woman. Now, looks do matter to Clay?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 2: And that was the thing. Ad is not unattractive, He's
Speaker 2: just she's just not what he would usually go after.
Speaker 2: And he kept saying, I'm scared of myself cheating. I
Speaker 2: made cheat, you know, And he kept bringing that up.
Speaker 2: So that was red flags that she saw. No, she
Speaker 2: did have.
Speaker 1: You think she thought she could change him.
Speaker 2: I think so, and you know, and and and in
Speaker 2: the grand scheme of things. Yeah, And she was also
Speaker 2: kind of saying like she had faith in him.
Speaker 1: She she did.
Speaker 2: She she had a little doubt herself in him at
Speaker 2: one point, but she was gonna fight for it.
Speaker 1: If that man tell you he's gonna cheat, you better
Speaker 1: have faith in him that he's gonna cheat.
Speaker 4: Do you think it's bs? You think he did it
Speaker 4: for the show. He knew four weeks he would have
Speaker 4: to do it. He knew he was gonna get to
Speaker 4: that altar. He know he's gonna get the TV time,
Speaker 4: depress and all that other stuff, and you know he's
Speaker 4: gonna take it to another level that you know he
Speaker 4: was always Yeah, performative sounds like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. That's what Wyley think though. Wiley
Speaker 2: the rapper, he is totally invested into the show, and
Speaker 2: he was like, man, you don't do a girl like that,
Speaker 2: Like that's crazy, Like that was messed up that he
Speaker 2: why are you looking like that?
Speaker 1: We waiting on music from and here watching. If you
Speaker 1: don't put some goddamn music watching, I don't care about
Speaker 1: your thoughts on Lovely Blind. I don't care about your
Speaker 1: Lovely Blind takes with.
Speaker 2: Music that this might be, this might be inspiration, This
Speaker 2: may inspire some good music, because you know when while
Speaker 2: they're getting the boof is gonna be fire notice you know, yeah,
Speaker 2: But I just think I encourage you to watch it, y'all.
Speaker 2: I encourage you all to watch it. Watch you tell me,
Speaker 2: but I've been watching it. That's it, Thank you very much.
Speaker 1: I know it because you tell me about it so much.
Speaker 1: Sad and Clay.
Speaker 2: That is said, yep, but you are already to watch
Speaker 2: jo Justin's cap.
Speaker 1: No, I would not. You made you watch it.
Speaker 2: You did watch it, so but that is just what
Speaker 2: the mesh on.
Speaker 3: All right, Yes, we're giving that down man for after
Speaker 3: the hour.
Speaker 1: We need Lauren ben forarre Lo and Karen cash Bomb
Speaker 1: to come to the front of the congregation. Two women
Speaker 1: on International Women's Day. We'll discuss, all right, we'll get
Speaker 1: to that next. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, you're
Speaker 1: checking out the Breakfast Club. The Donkey of the Day
Speaker 1: is something to go to you.
Speaker 2: The reason he gave me donkey other day, and I
Speaker 2: deserve that. You need to know what you need to
Speaker 2: tell them. I am you have the boys tell them.
Speaker 1: It's stunned for Donkey of the day.
Speaker 2: It's a read.
Speaker 1: But you're so good at Charlamage. She only wants Charlomagne.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Chlomeamee. Who do you leave with dusk the other day?
Speaker 1: Soon?
Speaker 10: Now?
Speaker 1: Well, Sexy read Donkey to Day for Friday, March eighth,
Speaker 1: International Women's Day. Go to two Ohio women. Loreen excuse me,
Speaker 1: Loreen b. Farrello, she's fifty five, and Karen Cashbaum, she's
Speaker 1: sixty three. Now, I didn't go looking for two women
Speaker 1: to give donkey to Day two this morning, but God
Speaker 1: clearly wanted me to deliver this message today. I know,
Speaker 1: I know, Charlamagne. How dare you give two women the
Speaker 1: biggest he hall on International Women's Day? Well, I have
Speaker 1: no reason to explain. Instead, I'll let you hear it
Speaker 1: yourself and you decide. Let's go to Fox and Ohio
Speaker 1: for the report. Please.
Speaker 18: Astrabula City officials say they are stunned after arresting two women,
Speaker 18: Loreen for and Karen Cashbaum, who are accused of taking
Speaker 18: a deceased eighty year old man through a bank drive
Speaker 18: through to withdraw money from his accounts.
Speaker 1: They both tripped in charge with felonies.
Speaker 18: Astribulus City Police Chief Robert Stell tells us that women
Speaker 18: are facing charges of theft and gross abuse of a corpse.
Speaker 15: They're charged with gross abuse of a corpse for taking
Speaker 15: a person who was dead.
Speaker 2: And acting in a manner that would shock the conscience.
Speaker 18: Police say the women lived with the elderly man, Douglas Layman,
Speaker 18: and they found him dead inside the home Monday, but
Speaker 18: instead of calling police or an ambulance, officials say the
Speaker 18: two had other plans.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 19: The allegation is that he was propped up in the
Speaker 19: front seat of the car and take it through the
Speaker 19: drive through so that the bank.
Speaker 2: Would see him in the vehicle and they'd be able
Speaker 2: to make the withdrawal.
Speaker 18: After receiving about nine hundred dollars. The women are accused
Speaker 18: of taking his body to the hospital and then leaving.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, No, first things first, rest in peace,
Speaker 1: Douglas Layman. Okay, dropping a clues bombs with dougla all right,
Speaker 1: These two women rolled around with a man's corps, propped
Speaker 1: him up in the card withdrew money from his bank account.
Speaker 1: Now here's the thing. Both these women were not related
Speaker 1: to this man, yet they both lived with him. That
Speaker 1: man was eighty years old. Loreen you twenty five years
Speaker 1: younger than him, carrying you seventeen years younger than him.
Speaker 1: That means combined, y'all are forty two years younger than
Speaker 1: that man. If y'all two relatively young ladies to him
Speaker 1: had been sucking in sex in this man the way
Speaker 1: y'all was supposed to, you wouldn't have had to prop
Speaker 1: up his body to go withdraw money because because y'all
Speaker 1: would have had access to his accounts already. Okay, if
Speaker 1: he was feeding and funicating with this eighty year old properly,
Speaker 1: you would have owned everything he owned. Eighty years old,
Speaker 1: all he need is fruits and vegetables from starches, beans fished,
Speaker 1: and proteins, easy work. If not, you know, if y'all
Speaker 1: were doing that, y'all would have been in this man's
Speaker 1: will already. Okay. Clearly, these women never listened to one
Speaker 1: City Girls album ever in their life. Okay, y'all supposed
Speaker 1: to be tag teaming that old man. You should have
Speaker 1: been giving him the best last days of his life.
Speaker 3: He eighty.
Speaker 1: He not even getting directions like that anymore. All they
Speaker 1: really want is company.
Speaker 12: Now.
Speaker 1: Our rectod dysfunction is not an inevitable part of aging,
Speaker 1: especially if you have a healthy lifestyle. Okay, you know,
Speaker 1: if you let a healthy lifestyle, that helps you to
Speaker 1: prevent diabetes and hypertension and heart disease and other diseases.
Speaker 1: But it's still a little bit more difficult for older
Speaker 1: men to get aroused during sexual stimulation and younger men.
Speaker 1: So you didn't even have a lot of work to
Speaker 1: do eighty years old. He just wanted some company. Now,
Speaker 1: the reason they did this, you heard, you know, wasn't
Speaker 1: as cruel as one may think because the bank previously
Speaker 1: allowed the women to withdraw money from Doug's account as
Speaker 1: long as he was with them. So when they went
Speaker 1: to get the nine hundred dollars out, the telegaate with
Speaker 1: to them because they didn't know Doug was dead. They
Speaker 1: saw Doug just propped up in the front seat, so
Speaker 1: they gave him the money. Now, listen, it's International Women's Day.
Speaker 1: Jess hilarious. Defend these two women and what they did.
Speaker 2: I will never what the hell do I look like?
Speaker 2: Stop playing? I don't want to say something else, but
Speaker 2: we on a radio and we're gonna get fined.
Speaker 1: So the first let up.
Speaker 2: Don't FM play with me? Okay, okay, I will never defendish.
Speaker 2: Clearly they didn't see baps because Nissi and Mickey didn't
Speaker 2: have to do no sexual acts, didn't have to suck
Speaker 2: him or do none of that crab so, mister Manley,
Speaker 2: and they both was in the they both was in
Speaker 2: a wheel at the end when he died. Yea, they
Speaker 2: just had to take care of him. Partly. They probably
Speaker 2: wasn't even taking care of him, right, because if you're
Speaker 2: getting taken care of writ and you'd be putting.
Speaker 1: The wheel to That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, but no, you was making it real sexual
Speaker 2: and they ain't had to Donna get married. Yeah when
Speaker 2: I'm eighty alright, cool, Okay, but they're young. Don't nobody
Speaker 2: want to do that. I don't care how much money
Speaker 2: is on the line.
Speaker 1: No, I'm not doing it. It's no justification for what
Speaker 1: these two.
Speaker 2: He asked me the question.
Speaker 1: Listen you there's no justification for these two women.
Speaker 15: No, there's no.
Speaker 2: Josephe Okay, what propping the man up?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 2: Like what is this weekend at Bernie? He's like, you
Speaker 2: propped him up? Are you dumb?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: Absolutely not, I'm not.
Speaker 12: I'm not.
Speaker 1: That's why just Larry's is a woman you can trust.
Speaker 1: Please give Lauren for Lauren for ray Loo and Karen
Speaker 1: cash Ban the biggest he hull and then they're just
Speaker 1: gonna drop him off of the just makes a good point.
Speaker 1: That's why I said earlier. All this man really wanted
Speaker 1: was company. You know what I'm saying. If they were
Speaker 1: just treating him good, they would have been in the will.
Speaker 1: By the way, they might be in the wheel and
Speaker 1: don't know it, dummies, Yeah, all right, well.
Speaker 2: They may not. You got the balls to do something
Speaker 2: like that. That means they wasn't even doing them right
Speaker 2: while he was here.
Speaker 1: You ain't lying.
Speaker 2: That's crazy, right.
Speaker 1: If you just drop me off at the hospital, you
Speaker 1: ain't never cared. Hold, I'm getting a text. Who texted
Speaker 1: me he was the president of the Fat Lives Matter community.
Speaker 1: But he's come here, Mac, Mac, you come in here,
Speaker 1: Come here, mack.
Speaker 13: Man.
Speaker 2: What was going on?
Speaker 1: Okay? Mac has a p OV on this, Go ahead
Speaker 1: and back when you eighty. It's very simple. All you
Speaker 1: care about is watching cheers and getting cheeks. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: that's it. Ok hingo and booty, okay, TV landing titties
Speaker 1: and land I want to stress outside anything else.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm done, all right, thank you for that, donkey.
Speaker 3: Now when we come back, let's go back.
Speaker 1: To Love is Blind.
Speaker 2: Yes, this is my show too.
Speaker 3: So what you say, clay and a D.
Speaker 2: Yeah, clayton a D. Yes, we're going back to Love
Speaker 2: is Blind? What teas that I gotta build it up
Speaker 2: at the altar?
Speaker 10: Right?
Speaker 1: You got that?
Speaker 2: He got all the way to the altar and she
Speaker 2: said I do, and he said I don't. And it's reasoning.
Speaker 2: I think could have been a little bit better than
Speaker 2: I was just battling a lot, y'all, and I'm allergic
Speaker 2: to her dog. That's what he said. I didn't say
Speaker 2: their schedules didn't make sense, and.
Speaker 6: He just.
Speaker 1: What it was. Yes, you start making up stuff like that,
Speaker 1: I can't be with alert dog, nigga.
Speaker 3: Let's open up the phone lines, ladies out there. Eight
Speaker 3: hundred five eight five one oh five to one.
Speaker 4: What are some red flags that you should have you
Speaker 4: shouldn't have ignored before you said I do some things
Speaker 4: that you've seen that you later found out that they
Speaker 4: were red flags and you shouldn't have ignored them.
Speaker 1: Lamdia twice. Bet y'all won't call it here in to
Speaker 1: mid that what you.
Speaker 2: Gave somebody that twice?
Speaker 3: All right, then eight hundred five eight five one five one.
Speaker 1: That's the question. Call us up now, it's the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 1: Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 19: It's topic time called eight hundred five five one five
Speaker 19: one to join into the discussion with the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 3: Morning everybody.
Speaker 4: It's DJ en Vy Jess Hilarious, Charlamage the guy. We
Speaker 4: are the Breakfast Club. Now if you're just joining us
Speaker 4: with open off the phone lines. Eight hundred five eight
Speaker 4: five one oh five one. This is coming from Love
Speaker 4: is Blind. Now we're asking ladies, what are some red
Speaker 4: flags that you shouldn't have ignored.
Speaker 1: Before saying I do? That is the question.
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
Speaker 3: Well, since we both said I do and everything worked out,
Speaker 3: why I guess it's not.
Speaker 1: Talking to us. But let's go to the phone lines. Hello,
Speaker 1: who's this Hi?
Speaker 14: This is Terry Anne calling from Brooklyn.
Speaker 3: Hey, Terrrianne calling from Brooklyn with something Mama.
Speaker 5: Hi, I am good.
Speaker 14: How are you guys?
Speaker 16: Good?
Speaker 11: Good?
Speaker 14: Good?
Speaker 3: What are some red flags you wish you didn't ignore?
Speaker 14: Literally almost the same thing, just the fact that they
Speaker 14: say they're not that they're that they've seen a lot
Speaker 14: of infidelity and they use that as like a excused
Speaker 14: for why they're un faithful, Like that's just like the
Speaker 14: biggest repsack ever.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think. But but all right, so at some point,
Speaker 2: right if they if they tell you that, do you
Speaker 2: think it's more of an excuse? I mean, are you
Speaker 2: looking at it as an excuse or do you give
Speaker 2: credit to it just being honest and you just be
Speaker 2: like you can make a decision for I've.
Speaker 14: Like I'm talking in my personal experience, I think I
Speaker 14: try to encourage the person.
Speaker 11: While my husband I.
Speaker 14: Didn't necessarily take it as an excuse because we did
Speaker 14: still get married and we are still married eight years later.
Speaker 2: But it was a load.
Speaker 10: It was a lot.
Speaker 14: It takes a lot because you have to encourage this
Speaker 14: person constantly. Yeah, and sometimes it's it's like, you know,
Speaker 14: you're telling this person listening, we have kids now, you
Speaker 14: don't want that to continue, so we have to break
Speaker 14: generational curses. But you know, it's still kind of in
Speaker 14: the back of their minds, Well, this is what I
Speaker 14: saw my dad do, this is what I saw my
Speaker 14: grandmother do. And the crazy thing about this is that
Speaker 14: his dad told me one day when I was renting
Speaker 14: to him that Well, you know, I don't know what
Speaker 14: to tell you. I don't know how much it's going
Speaker 14: to change, because that's exactly what he saw and that's
Speaker 14: what he knows.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you gotta think at some type of point.
Speaker 2: I mean, you know, like I'm with you on this,
Speaker 2: Like you think clearly at some point, Like, yo, if
Speaker 2: you say this because these men cheated on your mom.
Speaker 3: Like that he cheated on your mom.
Speaker 2: You know, this is your dad, but this is also
Speaker 2: your mom who was miserable for years because she kept
Speaker 2: being cheated on. Why would you then turn and do
Speaker 2: that to another woman?
Speaker 10: And not only is that, but.
Speaker 14: If you know how you felt as a kid and
Speaker 14: it bothers you so much, why would you in turn
Speaker 14: want your kids to do that? Like you have to
Speaker 14: make that change. You got to stop somewhere, all right.
Speaker 14: So I honestly don't think that eighty that eighty was
Speaker 14: cleave type. And she's a beautiful girl, but I don't
Speaker 14: think that that's what he goes for. So I think
Speaker 14: that as much as it may be like he may
Speaker 14: be serious about having these you know, issues with his
Speaker 14: dad and seeing what his dad did, I also don't
Speaker 14: think that he was so much into.
Speaker 2: Eighty Yeah, and that's the part of honesty that he
Speaker 2: was missing. I think you're correct, Thank you, Mama.
Speaker 1: Hello, who's this?
Speaker 12: Good morning?
Speaker 1: This is hey Keisha, good morning.
Speaker 4: We're asking some red flags you've seen before you got
Speaker 4: married that you wish you have held on to.
Speaker 5: Alrighty, so I got married after then on somebody for
Speaker 5: eleven months, so I had no business marrying a person
Speaker 5: to begin with. That's firstly right.
Speaker 10: Secondly, the first red flag was.
Speaker 1: The sex was horrible.
Speaker 4: Now the sex is horrible. You stayed with good morning,
Speaker 4: good morning, so you stayed in then after.
Speaker 1: The sex was still horrible. Hello, I wanted to ask
Speaker 1: why you got married? And Hello, who's this?
Speaker 11: Yes is.
Speaker 4: Chelsea, good morning. We're talking about red flags you've seen
Speaker 4: before you got married.
Speaker 11: So let me start off by saying congratulations, death on
Speaker 11: new position, and the baby all that stuff shout up
Speaker 11: to the man, So let me get into it just
Speaker 11: real quick. I thought that it was very nice and
Speaker 11: sweet the relationship that my ex had with his mother,
Speaker 11: because you know, the whole adage is, you know, if
Speaker 11: he gets a all with his mob, you know, that's
Speaker 11: an indication that he may be your good lad.
Speaker 12: But I had no idea how involved.
Speaker 11: That she was gonna be. All the red flags there.
Speaker 11: She was stopping them by popping up. She had a
Speaker 11: key with over thirty, picking up his clothes, washing his clothes.
Speaker 11: We was soting in health financial decision.
Speaker 12: I thought it was nice.
Speaker 11: I was like, oh, this is the sweet you know,
Speaker 11: she's always coming over. We're always over there.
Speaker 10: Those are red.
Speaker 11: Flags that I thought were green flags because it's started
Speaker 11: from there to she was like the third person in
Speaker 11: the marriage and at thirty years old washing her clothes.
Speaker 2: Y'all got married after eleven months. So y'all were married
Speaker 2: fort eleven months.
Speaker 11: We were together for We got married after two years.
Speaker 2: Actually, oh I heard eleven months somewhere. Oh snap, okay,
Speaker 2: all right, well I think that you should have it.
Speaker 2: Never should have been a flea for his mother to
Speaker 2: have a kid of house.
Speaker 1: Jesus.
Speaker 11: Yeah, she had a key.
Speaker 6: Yeah, And I thought it was nice.
Speaker 11: I was like, you know, she's doing us favors. That's great.
Speaker 2: No, but checked this out. She got kitty house and
Speaker 2: she picking up his laundry. Hit my pick up mine too. No,
Speaker 2: we're not doing that. You're doing this for us because
Speaker 2: we are now one. He is not just your son.
Speaker 2: You have a daughter in law now, so he'll do
Speaker 2: this for both of us.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you should have put your clothes in it too.
Speaker 6: That's what's up hey now, because that would have been
Speaker 6: a private too.
Speaker 11: I think she wanted her dolls to be in there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, whatever was the real flag?
Speaker 8: Boy?
Speaker 1: You missed it.
Speaker 2: You better not do it again.
Speaker 1: Are you'll still married or no?
Speaker 11: Oh?
Speaker 6: Man, I have a new medal I met.
Speaker 11: It's okay to make a mistake with us.
Speaker 12: Just the price, so right.
Speaker 1: I want of this time, Matt. Though, if you meet
Speaker 1: somebody in like you know, in four weeks, if y'all
Speaker 1: grow to love each other and y'all get married, a
Speaker 1: lot of times those relationships work out too.
Speaker 2: Yes, it is still people from Lovers Blind season two
Speaker 2: that are together and they are on their kid. Do
Speaker 2: not look over here. I've been asking for a tackle
Speaker 2: for all week and I had.
Speaker 1: No that is something from McDonald's.
Speaker 2: Yes, burrito, thank you.
Speaker 1: You are really pregnant. Have you got pictures of all
Speaker 1: the different places you've had this morning?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Well, she asked for tackle for the last four days Monday.
Speaker 4: She wanted pizza. Well, God bless you want to lasagna?
Speaker 1: Enjoy yourself Christmas?
Speaker 2: Say damn, you should have been with an Italian.
Speaker 1: Dan you want?
Speaker 7: I want?
Speaker 13: Hey yo?
Speaker 1: Eight hundred five eight five one o five one.
Speaker 4: If you're just joining us, we're asking, ladies, what are
Speaker 4: some red flags that you shouldn't have ignored before saying
Speaker 4: I do.
Speaker 1: Let's discuss it's the breakfast Club the morning. Let's say
Speaker 1: if you're all talking about it, you know we talking.
Speaker 19: It's to times called eight hundred five five five one
Speaker 19: to join into the discussion with the breakfast Club Morning.
Speaker 3: Everybody, it's DJ.
Speaker 4: Envy, Jess, Hilarius, Charlamagne, the gud. We are the breakfast Club.
Speaker 1: If you're just.
Speaker 4: Joining us, we're asking, lady, what are some red flags
Speaker 4: that you shouldn't have ignored before saying I do? Eight
Speaker 4: hundred five eight five one oh five to one. We
Speaker 4: got Blade on the line, Blade Morning, I'm sorry, shut
Speaker 4: up straight.
Speaker 2: About Western's nips. I'm so sorry.
Speaker 10: How you doing, Blady, It's okay, I'm okay. That called
Speaker 10: me saw your blade.
Speaker 1: By the way, I got from Mortal Kombat. Yes, yes, yes,
Speaker 1: all right, miss Blade.
Speaker 4: You know the question, ladies, what are some red flags
Speaker 4: that you shouldn't have ignored before saying I do.
Speaker 15: So.
Speaker 10: When I was dating, I found out he was cheating
Speaker 10: on me, so I broke up with him. He started
Speaker 10: to like say, he was gonna do stuff to himself
Speaker 10: where he wasn't living anymore. So I ended up staying
Speaker 10: with him because I didn't want anybody not to live anymore.
Speaker 10: And we got married. Almost ten years of marriage, I
Speaker 10: found out he was cheating again. I told him, like,
Speaker 10: you know what I'm done. You know, I can't do
Speaker 10: this no more. We got four kids, we got, you know,
Speaker 10: a whole life, but I'm like, I can't do it.
Speaker 5: He ended up doing it anyway.
Speaker 10: Well, yes, he committed a suicide in our home.
Speaker 2: Lord have mercy because you left because he cheated once again.
Speaker 10: He was cheating constantly. It wasn't like it was just
Speaker 10: one time. It was like him I had just found out,
Speaker 10: like over the years that it was just happening.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I hope you're not guilting yourself over this, and I
Speaker 1: hope that you know. I'm sure you're probably in therapy
Speaker 1: now to deal with the trauma, but I hope you're
Speaker 1: not guilting yourself about this absolutely wasn't your fault at all.
Speaker 10: Oh a little bit I was at first, just because
Speaker 10: I felt like, had I not, did you know, left him,
Speaker 10: my kids would still have their dad.
Speaker 2: So yeah, a little bit, you know, yeah, I think
Speaker 2: it was more so about your kids then you just
Speaker 2: you know, you felt like you said, you felt like
Speaker 2: you it has to be someone to blame because you
Speaker 2: got four babies with this man. But no, please, please don't.
Speaker 2: And you don't feel that way anymore, right, No, I don't.
Speaker 10: I don't. My children they they actually they don't hate them,
Speaker 10: but they really they really don't like them for what
Speaker 10: he did, so they had they they find him accountable.
Speaker 13: For what he did.
Speaker 10: But just me being a mother and just knowing what
Speaker 10: the adult situation was, I felt like maybe if i'd
Speaker 10: just shut the hell up, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: But you can't. But you can't. You can't, you know,
Speaker 1: shut the hell up and be uncomfortable and be ruining
Speaker 1: your your mental and emotional piece for somebody else. I mean,
Speaker 1: you did what you were supposed to do, you know.
Speaker 1: You know, I wish he didn't make that decision. Did
Speaker 1: he have any issues before this? Like ant?
Speaker 10: I mean, yeah, like I said he cheated on me
Speaker 10: like months after we started dating, and I was like, oh, I.
Speaker 5: Wasn't even hurt.
Speaker 10: I was just like okay, you know, and I you know,
Speaker 10: I broke up with him, but he called me like, yeah,
Speaker 10: I'm about to off myself and I'm about to do this,
Speaker 10: and I'm just like, you doing too much. And literally
Speaker 10: he ended up trying to do it and going to
Speaker 10: the hospital and everything, and I was like, oh my god, like,
Speaker 10: you're period.
Speaker 2: He clearly had abandonment issues from a long time ago.
Speaker 2: There was something that happened going on, something else was
Speaker 2: going on, but don't Yeah, I'm glad that you are
Speaker 2: in a better place now.
Speaker 1: I wish you would have got helped. Yeah, definitely, I'm sorry.
Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, thank you guys.
Speaker 14: This was five years ago.
Speaker 10: He you know, committed suicide on February fifth, twenty nineteen.
Speaker 1: Lord man, we definitely still sending you healing energy always. Man,
Speaker 1: have to live to your kids as well to your
Speaker 1: kids and everybody Jesus Christ.
Speaker 10: Yeah, thank you so much. My children are almost grown now.
Speaker 2: So okay, yeah, well that's good.
Speaker 12: Go alea right, thank you, thank you so much.
Speaker 2: I would go have a drink or something damn, I
Speaker 2: don't please, don't have a drink.
Speaker 1: I need one right now. I don't want to play anymore.
Speaker 1: I don't want to play anymore.
Speaker 2: Ye don't have a drink, mister mental wealth, mental health,
Speaker 2: God getting this b long life of alcoholism.
Speaker 1: Huh, you can have a drink. I don't want play
Speaker 1: with y'all anymore.
Speaker 4: Allright, when we come back past the aux, Nala will
Speaker 4: be joining us. She puts us on this some of
Speaker 4: the hottest music that's out right now. We're gonna kick
Speaker 4: it with her next night.
Speaker 1: Is she here?
Speaker 2: She in Atlanta, y'all so funny, leader girl.
Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Lave. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Good
Speaker 1: morning everybody.
Speaker 4: It's DJ v Jesse, Larry Chelam and the guy. We
Speaker 4: are the Breakfast Club and Nihala is here for pastor os.
Speaker 1: Yeah. DJ comes.
Speaker 7: Big.
Speaker 17: Since this International Woman's Day, though, I'm gonna go with
Speaker 17: three records from women.
Speaker 2: The first one is this girl group out of London
Speaker 2: called Flow. They're really big here in the US. Two
Speaker 2: but they dropped the new record walk like this sounds
Speaker 2: very nineties, late two thousands. Like it sitcom, not scomish.
Speaker 2: I think it is nineties. It sounds brilliantly nostalgic film. Yes,
Speaker 2: fair enough, I think they.
Speaker 1: I mean just the fact that it's.
Speaker 17: A girl group, it's three of them. They kind of
Speaker 17: remind me of Destiny Child's ish.
Speaker 2: So yeah, mixture. You guys tune in with them if
Speaker 2: you aren't familiar.
Speaker 17: I actually just interviewed them on my podcast, We Need
Speaker 17: to Talk w N T T l K on the
Speaker 17: gram so makes you guys check.
Speaker 2: That out flow f l O.
Speaker 1: Okay like that.
Speaker 17: Next up, though, we got Lotto and I know you
Speaker 17: like this record Lotto and oh my god, why am
Speaker 17: I drawing to blank?
Speaker 2: J lo? Yes, I actually like this perform like a
Speaker 2: couple of weeks ago, I mean a couple of days ago.
Speaker 2: I love it. It's called get Up. I love it.
Speaker 2: She goes hard on that. I don't know who did
Speaker 2: beat and all that, but that's nice.
Speaker 1: Before Lottle sound started rapping, that sounded very late nineties,
Speaker 1: early two thousand.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I love it though.
Speaker 17: Good record, and then the music video for it is
Speaker 17: also fired. But lastly we got Chloe with f y
Speaker 17: s your cousin.
Speaker 2: Allegedly Okay, okay, cousin, all right, okay, cousin yeah, it
Speaker 2: sound like somebody.
Speaker 1: I just can't remember who it sounds like. The then
Speaker 1: who was doing that singing patterns? Again? Then who was that?
Speaker 1: Not Beyonce? Right, I don't know that. Shut up, man,
Speaker 1: you better worry about all these people that's gonna be
Speaker 1: on your ass. I'm telling you women to go cook
Speaker 1: on International Women's Day, is all right?
Speaker 2: It reminds me of like a Normani track, though I
Speaker 2: would say like it gives like Normie a little bit,
Speaker 2: but I do love that for Chloe, our music sounds
Speaker 2: different to me, so I do like that. I'm not
Speaker 2: gonna lie.
Speaker 17: I do feel like Normani and Chloe you know what
Speaker 17: actually nermarks?
Speaker 1: But what are you about to say? No, no, no,
Speaker 1: no no, but because international women that you don't want
Speaker 1: to say anything negative about women.
Speaker 17: Negative, But I do feel like they all get like
Speaker 17: Beyonce Ino you're in the studio, like I want to
Speaker 17: sound like Beyonce, and then everybody's records kind of sound
Speaker 17: the same instead of just trying.
Speaker 2: To do like.
Speaker 1: I just can't think of what song it was though, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I could see it not far off.
Speaker 17: But it is internationals Women's Day and it's women's history
Speaker 17: months so this one, Certified Vibe is an all girl lineup.
Speaker 17: We got Detrenada at A Baltimore. We got Billy b
Speaker 17: we got Girl Colde, we got a Honey Baby, and
Speaker 17: then we just got some openers that A handpicked myself
Speaker 17: that I'm just really big fans of and I just
Speaker 17: wanted to shine some light on. So next Friday, Cafe
Speaker 17: Arizuli in Brooklyn. Makesure you guys need me there. Okay,
Speaker 17: they got r VP anything, definitely RSVP. You can just
Speaker 17: click the link in my bio on Instagram at Nils Simone.
Speaker 2: N y l A S Y M O N E
Speaker 2: e E and tell them listen to the podcasts and
Speaker 2: make sure you guys listen to the podcast We Need
Speaker 2: to Talk. We dropped two episodes a week.
Speaker 17: And yeah, we just have flow on and then next
Speaker 17: up is Nick Grant. And if you're here in New
Speaker 17: York City on Power one has a show on Sunday nights, Yeah,
Speaker 17: make sure you got to tune into my Sunday night show,
Speaker 17: Blends and Trends. It's from ten to midnight, but I'm
Speaker 17: eleven to twelve.
Speaker 1: That's right. You gotta talk that talk right working you
Speaker 1: don't want too much.
Speaker 2: She's doing so much she forgets she was hold o
Speaker 2: wee what Sunday? Oh yeah you got something funday okay, yeah,
Speaker 2: so that's amazing.
Speaker 4: All right, well we come back. We got the People's
Speaker 4: Choice mix it o't move. It's all about the women today.
Speaker 4: It's the Breakfast Club.
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Speaker 19: Today it's Women's History Month and we're celebrating the most
Speaker 19: influential women in history.
Speaker 1: Check out this phenomenal woman. Morning.
Speaker 4: Everybody in stevej n V, Jess, Hilarie Charlamage, the guy.
Speaker 4: We are the Breakfast Club. Today's International Women's Day. And
Speaker 4: who we repping today?
Speaker 1: Jess?
Speaker 2: We repping Eve today. Y'all listen. I wanted to get
Speaker 2: into Eve's story because it's kind of comical to me,
Speaker 2: so Eve used to be a stripper, right, and then
Speaker 2: she ran into past the mace at a strip club
Speaker 2: and then he had said, you know, you could be
Speaker 2: doing something better than this, right, So then she started
Speaker 2: being a rapper and she was successful. Now she is
Speaker 2: married to a millionaire, Maximilian Cooper, and she got a child.
Speaker 1: So Google is lying that man that man like he
Speaker 1: don't he owned gum Ball three thousands was like a
Speaker 1: gum Ball owns a bunch of other businesses. I think
Speaker 1: he is a billionaire. Yeah. If he ain't a billionaire,
Speaker 1: he's a damn close. But either way, he's rich, is
Speaker 1: what we're trying to say. Yes, yeah, I think Eve
Speaker 1: don't get enough credit because people forget Eve had a sitcom.
Speaker 1: Eve was in movie. She was going Platinum Evil. He
Speaker 1: was a big, big, big deal. I never understood why
Speaker 1: her show was called Eve though, and the character on
Speaker 1: the show wasn't called He never understood that.
Speaker 2: It's fine though, because it didn't she like write her
Speaker 2: show or produce her show or something like that.
Speaker 1: She was she was a EP.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but that was my favorite theme song, how
Speaker 2: did I Don't Remember His Things?
Speaker 12: Song?
Speaker 4: What Morning Everybody is TJ n V Jess Hilary Charlamane
Speaker 4: the guy. We are the breakfast Club. It's time to
Speaker 4: get up out of here. You enjoy your day to
Speaker 4: day Jess on this International Women's Day.
Speaker 1: She'll be in Miami this weekend.
Speaker 2: I will at the music fest, y'all. So yeah, I
Speaker 2: will be hosting Day one with Ricky Smiley and we
Speaker 2: got a lot of musical acts. I think I've seen
Speaker 2: Fantasia Maxwell, Jasmin Sullivan and also Trina and Trick Daddy
Speaker 2: will be They'll be coming later on in the night
Speaker 2: and stuff like that. So yeah, y'all catch me there
Speaker 2: it yeah, type oh.
Speaker 1: I want to tell everybody make sure you go get
Speaker 1: your tickets for the second annual Black Effect Podcast Festival
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Speaker 1: you can go to event wright dot com and get
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Speaker 1: com Slash Podcast Festival. Okay, enjoy y'all weekend. Man, my father,
Speaker 1: Notice simply this self control is strength, Okay, calmness is mastery.
Speaker 1: You have to get to a point where your mood
Speaker 1: doesn't shift based on the insignificant actions of someone else.
Speaker 1: Don't allow others to control the direction of your life.
Speaker 1: Don't allow your emotions to overpower you. That is so interesting, man,
Speaker 1: and it reminds me of something a good therapist, a
Speaker 1: friend of mine said the other day. His name is
Speaker 1: Elliott Connie. He said, it's not the world's job to
Speaker 1: not disturb your piece. It's your job to have undisturbable peace.
Speaker 1: So work on your piece this weekend, y'all have a
Speaker 1: great day.
Speaker 2: Basically all in a nutshell. And then this is a
Speaker 2: quote for the women. Thank you for being an amazing
Speaker 2: woman in my life. I'm glad you exist.
Speaker 1: What's wrong with dad? That's a beautifu quote. Who wrote that?
Speaker 1: That sounds amazing? Hallmark did not write that. I wrote
Speaker 1: that myself. I gave it the same.
Speaker 2: Flowers Sane Burger he bought everybody.
Speaker 1: Now, let me ask you a question. I bought Chick
Speaker 1: fil A for all the women in here today. I
Speaker 1: got the women flowers. I do that your International Women's Day?
Speaker 1: What these other niggas got y'all in here? Goddamn thing
Speaker 1: all Brandy want to give you it was a hard time.
Speaker 1: All any want to give you is a hard time.
Speaker 1: All red want to give you a hard time.
Speaker 2: You do that same thing for them every year.
Speaker 1: Last year when I get y'a last year, I got your.
Speaker 4: Let me ask your question, let me ask you talk
Speaker 4: about big backs, and then you bring it's not health.
Speaker 1: Today is Friday. It's a cheatday. It's a cheat day.
Speaker 1: And by the way, I am very proud of sim
Speaker 1: very proud of Taylor. Don't know if y'all have noticed
Speaker 1: they've been big in their backs. I've noticed. I didn't
Speaker 1: say you had a big back, but the back is
Speaker 1: getting slimmering. The other day, when I told her that
Speaker 1: she was I've been working out, No cops. Now's you
Speaker 1: on the radio show.
Speaker 2: Three Chick and she went over to the Italian food
Speaker 2: side with him. Yeah, damn.
Speaker 1: Happy Women's International, International Women's Day, breakfast club. Pities, you're
Speaker 1: finished for your dam