Speaker 1: Well, it's time now for usk. The CLO Chief Love
Speaker 1: Officer Steve Harvey in the building and ready to go
Speaker 1: to work. This one is from Medina in Syracuse. Medina writes,
Speaker 1: my boyfriend is a cry baby. We've been in a
Speaker 1: few situations that have made me wonder if he would
Speaker 1: be a great husband and dad if we got married.
Speaker 1: He cries watching chick flicks, he cries uncontrollably at church,
Speaker 1: and he gets sad when we pass by homeless people.
Speaker 1: His mom says, he has a big, kind heart, but
Speaker 1: he's not ashamed to express his feelings. But I'm worried
Speaker 1: about it, especially because he cries every time we have sex.
Speaker 1: We've been dating for almost a year. Should I be
Speaker 1: concerned about this?
Speaker 2: Deeply?
Speaker 3: Wow, I've never cried doing sick.
Speaker 2: I had some wonder.
Speaker 3: Could Lord, I've had some standing on the mounttop shouted,
Speaker 3: go tell it on the mountaintop moments.
Speaker 2: Never once have I cried.
Speaker 3: I have a serious, deep spot in my heart for
Speaker 3: homeless people. But action is required for homeless people, not crying.
Speaker 3: Give give them a few dollars, man, buy them something
Speaker 3: to eat. Start you a program, Go down there and
Speaker 3: feed the homeless. You know, don't cry. See, that's what
Speaker 3: I don't like, crying without any action. You know, you
Speaker 3: crying at all the chick flicks. You cry when you
Speaker 3: go to church. Okay, I got that crying at the
Speaker 3: movie all of them. You saw White Chicken was.
Speaker 2: Just crying coming to America. You got her crime.
Speaker 3: Fine, Yeah, you have a problem, and she should be concerned.
Speaker 3: And his mother talking about he got a big heart.
Speaker 3: That's Look, I'm a sensitive guy, not.
Speaker 2: That out doing the you know what they're doing.
Speaker 1: We're moving on. Miss Diana in New Mexico says, I'm
Speaker 1: in my mid sixties and I am married for the
Speaker 1: third time to a great man, and he loves me unconditionally,
Speaker 1: but not enough to let me get a tattoo sleeve
Speaker 1: on my left arm. My oldest daughter held had her
Speaker 1: arm done recently, and I think it's beautiful. But my
Speaker 1: husband says I'm too old to do it. I think
Speaker 1: he's out of touch with what's.
Speaker 2: Going on in the world.
Speaker 1: What do you think should I honor his wishes and
Speaker 1: not do it, or get it done and explain it afterwards.
Speaker 2: I think you out of touch with what's going What
Speaker 2: that tattoo gonna look like? In ten years.
Speaker 3: That's what I think you out of touch with. You
Speaker 3: can't get no sleeve on your arm. And you sixty,
Speaker 3: You know what you finna look like when you seventy.
Speaker 3: You know that little butterfly you finna get on your arm.
Speaker 3: You know it's gonna look like when you seventy.
Speaker 2: Mouth a mouth, it's gonna look like a mouth. You know.
Speaker 3: You know what that heart gonna look like when you seventy,
Speaker 3: gonna look like it teardrop. It's gonna turn upside down.
Speaker 3: Gravity is not your friend. Right now, you got a
Speaker 3: merrymaid heit tattooed.
Speaker 2: On your arm. In ten years, it's gonna look like
Speaker 2: a dead fish. Oh not gonna be good.
Speaker 3: No, lady, I think you out of touch. Your daughter
Speaker 3: did that. You said your daughter did it, and it's beautiful.
Speaker 2: On your daughter.
Speaker 3: But you're sixty. This man married you because he loved you.
Speaker 3: He didn't marry you because you want He had a sleeve.
Speaker 3: Why would you inc up your body like that? And
Speaker 3: now if you want to get a tattoo, I ain't
Speaker 3: not a tattoos do your thing. But I'm just telling
Speaker 3: you the problem you got right now is you sixty.
Speaker 3: He out of touch he ain't out of touch. He
Speaker 3: was in touch with you. He don't want you with
Speaker 3: the sleeve on.
Speaker 2: And what you're gonna put on this at sixty's? What's
Speaker 2: in that? Yeah, let's talk about that.
Speaker 3: What goes on a sixty year old sleevenly? I know
Speaker 3: what she's gonna still here, her medication schedule.
Speaker 2: Her medications catch Yeah, funny, that's funny. Ship here that say?
Speaker 2: What call I said?
Speaker 1: Tattoos are a form of self expressions.
Speaker 2: Old express What she gonna put on that?
Speaker 3: Grown?
Speaker 2: Now? All these old ass expressions?
Speaker 3: Look a him, I'm finn to be seventy?
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, what's it gonna be?
Speaker 1: What?
Speaker 2: What's she gonna put on it?
Speaker 3: All right? Okay, I ain't no saying. Let's put a
Speaker 3: picture on that? Who's she gonna put her hair? Tell
Speaker 3: me who's gonna put on my who she gonna put on? Now?
Speaker 2: Who's she don't put on? Now? You would get the tattooed?
Speaker 3: What would you get?
Speaker 2: The only thing I would tattoo on my body at
Speaker 2: this age? Marjorie name? But you know, I you know, if.
Speaker 3: I had to get a tattooed, I'd probably get a
Speaker 3: tattoo on my shield or something.
Speaker 2: You know that's saying that did meant something to me?
Speaker 2: I put my tattooed my shield and no nonsense on you, yo. No,
Speaker 2: that ain't no nonsense. No no, no, not talking about that.
Speaker 3: You say you can't get nothing else by something means airthday.
Speaker 2: He can't put that on you.
Speaker 3: That's a sound Florida cook, cook sound.
Speaker 2: I don't think tattoos.
Speaker 1: My wife and I have been married twenty eight years
Speaker 1: and we have a twenty six year old son that
Speaker 1: lives with us. He's dating one of my wife's friends,
Speaker 1: and my wife has no idea. My son came clean
Speaker 1: about it after I saw the woman drop him off
Speaker 1: one night. I've told the woman that my wife will
Speaker 1: hurt her if she finds out, but she doesn't seem
Speaker 1: to care. My son wants to move on. He wants
Speaker 1: to move in with this woman, and he doesn't want
Speaker 1: me to tell his mother. Who should I be loyal
Speaker 1: to him or my wife? Or should I stay out
Speaker 1: of it and let him learn a lesson?
Speaker 2: Yeah, you got to be loyal to your sir. You
Speaker 2: got to be loyal to your sir.
Speaker 3: Why he's staying there at twenty six pelts That that's
Speaker 3: a couple of problems to you. You got a woman
Speaker 3: dropping you off, you stay at your mama's.
Speaker 2: Well, see, let me tell you something.
Speaker 3: He's not being disloyal to his wife in any way
Speaker 3: because this ain't nothing to do with his wife. This
Speaker 3: is his wife's friend. So I would stay lord till
Speaker 3: the son. Let him move on in there and get worms.
Speaker 2: All right, all right, we're moving on. We're done with it.
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