Speaker 1: West up It slip service a mansla yee, I'm Gigi Maguire.
Speaker 2: Oh that's my cue. I'm Kim o Sorrio girl.
Speaker 3: I'm a Kem Woods, I'm Ida Rodriguez.
Speaker 4: I feel like we need to like edit this because
Speaker 4: are too many pluses.
Speaker 5: It was I thought, because.
Speaker 6: I thought only the hosts were doing it, and then
Speaker 6: y'all was going to introduce the guests.
Speaker 5: That's what I thought was gonna happen.
Speaker 1: No, we don't everybody introduce themselves up here. Okay, all right, well,
Speaker 1: I guess Kim Osrio's guest hosting.
Speaker 4: Hey, you've seen her up here before.
Speaker 1: But Kim and I have known each other forever, and
Speaker 1: I always introduced you to say.
Speaker 2: As your friend.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I appreciate that, my friend, but also the first
Speaker 1: woman editor in chief of The Source who okay, straight
Speaker 1: from the Source. Also executive producer on TV shows that
Speaker 1: you may know. So, I mean a ton of them,
Speaker 1: a ton of them growing up hip hop, you know,
Speaker 1: black ink love and hip hop, the impact New York.
Speaker 1: So doing her thing for real, and she writes her
Speaker 1: own scripts too.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: To be clear, we're just waiting for her to really
Speaker 1: like her to get to work, go heavy on the plane,
Speaker 1: all right, and I keen Wed too. We've had up
Speaker 1: here a couple of times, and he's guests hosted with
Speaker 1: me on Way Up. But a comedian, and of course
Speaker 1: my other friend Ada Rodriguez, who is a woman of
Speaker 1: the Hour today Ida who has her HBO special fighting words.
Speaker 1: But also she's an author. Legitimate kid. I love that word.
Speaker 1: She's an author.
Speaker 3: I appreciate that. And I love that you read the books.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you actually read the books.
Speaker 4: I love when I read a book and I know
Speaker 4: the person because you'd be like child.
Speaker 1: Yeah, girl, like I can't believe you did that. And
Speaker 1: Kim's book is juicy too. I just want to put
Speaker 1: it out there.
Speaker 4: Thanks.
Speaker 1: But Gigi, by the way, it's going to be at
Speaker 1: south By Southwest.
Speaker 4: I am me too, Monday, Monday.
Speaker 1: This will actually be yeah, okay, well this is because
Speaker 1: I'm so excited that we did a world premiere of
Speaker 1: the Magic City document Oh look, I'm wearing my shirt
Speaker 1: of the Magic City documentary yesterday.
Speaker 7: I want to say I'm excited as of yesterday. I
Speaker 7: saw it was great, but I'm actually I'm so excited
Speaker 7: about this project. It's produced by Drake and Jamaine Duprie,
Speaker 7: along with of course Magic City and Jamie Gertz and.
Speaker 4: The narrator. Yeah, I hosted there as well.
Speaker 5: As sit for an interview.
Speaker 7: It was a three part docuseries and the world premiere
Speaker 7: south by Southwest. I've been counting down this day since
Speaker 7: I found out, like like Christmas, like a little kid.
Speaker 3: Did you say Jamie Gerts the actress?
Speaker 7: Yes, so you know her and her husband owned the
Speaker 7: Atlanta Hawks.
Speaker 3: I know it so so yeah?
Speaker 6: She?
Speaker 7: Oh really I love her. She her baby, such a sweetheart.
Speaker 7: This is a big deal.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it really is.
Speaker 4: GJ.
Speaker 1: At Magic City, when you were there, what would you say,
Speaker 1: like if you had to guess what your annual salary was, Like,
Speaker 1: how much would you say you were making?
Speaker 4: Like a year? Do you even know?
Speaker 3: Probably like one fifty to two hundred don't.
Speaker 4: Stop, so what I'm talking about often?
Speaker 8: Did you want to film therefore a Magic Yeah? Yeah
Speaker 8: we filmed scenes there, of course.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 7: I would try to work as much as I physically could,
Speaker 7: because I always felt like when I wasn't there, I
Speaker 7: was missing money, Like I would rather go make money
Speaker 7: than go spend money. And I felt like if I
Speaker 7: wasn't there making money, then I'm missing out, and like
Speaker 7: you never know what you're gonna make, Like you could
Speaker 7: make six thousand on a Tuesday, and you can make
Speaker 7: seven thousand on a Wednesday, Like you can make three
Speaker 7: hundred on Monday, and you can make four thousand, like
Speaker 7: you never really know.
Speaker 8: In the club and look at the beginning and be like, oh,
Speaker 8: this is this a one thousand dollar night. This is
Speaker 8: just a two thousand dollars night. You can't tell they.
Speaker 4: Should throw money on.
Speaker 1: Comedians changed my whole life.
Speaker 5: Funny get out of what's his name?
Speaker 3: Roland Martin threw some money at me. And when I
Speaker 3: did a comedy show and I picked it up and
Speaker 3: threw it back.
Speaker 4: You should have let that set things off.
Speaker 3: Ye, I was next. So I'm from Miami, so I
Speaker 3: grew up. Uncle Luke was my mentor. He was my
Speaker 3: I interned for him.
Speaker 4: So I was very involved.
Speaker 3: And around a lot of the dancers, freaky red like
Speaker 3: it was a bunch of girls. And I remember Gloria,
Speaker 3: you know, like my beautiful Porto rock And I always
Speaker 3: had this admiration and adoration for dancers because I remember
Speaker 3: one of the girls at my high school dance at
Speaker 3: the talent show. And I just remember when she started dancing,
Speaker 3: everybody was and then by the end all the teachers
Speaker 3: were running.
Speaker 4: Like, oh no, hold on, dance at the talent show.
Speaker 3: She started dancing, and then he was like, she became
Speaker 3: like one of the star dancers at the Rolex.
Speaker 1: In high school, you can't do that dance in high school,
Speaker 1: but not at the talent show.
Speaker 3: It's the talent, but the culture of like Miami.
Speaker 1: But it is a talent because there's people who are great,
Speaker 1: and then these people there's like, come on, you gotta
Speaker 1: do more than work around.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 7: I feel like a misconception I had before I started
Speaker 7: was that every girl knew how to dance or had
Speaker 7: like a routine or like certain costumes that they wore
Speaker 7: blindly thinking that that was the thing.
Speaker 4: And I got there and I'm.
Speaker 1: Like, half these girls can't dance at all, and they're
Speaker 1: not flexible, they don't point their toes, like they can't
Speaker 1: get on that po Because G's kind of exceptional, though
Speaker 1: you can't like compare people to when Gigi was at
Speaker 1: Magic City. She started, I mean, Monday nights kicked off
Speaker 1: at Magic City because well not really, because of me.
Speaker 7: But the whole like pole movement I started when I
Speaker 7: came to make the city.
Speaker 4: None of these girls were doing poetricks.
Speaker 7: I came in at one hundred and ten pounds and
Speaker 7: an acup and that's all I had. I didn't have
Speaker 7: the big booty, I didn't have the popularity because nobody
Speaker 7: knew me from there.
Speaker 3: I was from Philly.
Speaker 7: But I had talent, and you know that is what
Speaker 7: kind of pushed me ahead of the the game.
Speaker 3: It's all I have work or.
Speaker 1: Remember when it was so popular to do like pole
Speaker 1: fitness training, That shit was rough.
Speaker 4: I did a class once.
Speaker 1: I was like, look, my arms is hurt, my abs hurt,
Speaker 1: everything hurt.
Speaker 7: Work out yeah, bruised, definitely a full body workout. And
Speaker 7: I want to say that when I work classes as
Speaker 7: well after I retired, and I just want to say
Speaker 7: that I saw everyday women pull out like just sexiness
Speaker 7: and confidence that they didn't even know they had, and.
Speaker 4: That was kind of to me.
Speaker 7: That was probably like the best reward that I got
Speaker 7: from teaching is that you we would have like lawyers
Speaker 7: and teachers and nurses and just like regular everyday moms
Speaker 7: and they would come in and they would walk out
Speaker 7: a whole different person.
Speaker 4: We need to do this.
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe we need to set up some type of
Speaker 1: like private classes.
Speaker 4: Are y'all down a little Poe trick?
Speaker 3: But let me tell you when I knew it was
Speaker 3: popular is when Sheila Kelly that's David Kelly's wife, wrote
Speaker 3: a book called The S Factor and it was all
Speaker 3: about the pole dancing. And I was like, that's from.
Speaker 5: The it's a book.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's she they had that. Wasn't that the name
Speaker 4: of the classes too? They had S Factors.
Speaker 3: It became she branded it and everything, and I was like,
Speaker 3: what that's that's from where I come from.
Speaker 1: You'll know how to clap your body listen. I came,
Speaker 1: there's a story that you were going to tell our
Speaker 1: way up that I would love for you to share now.
Speaker 1: He was like, I can't because you know, way up
Speaker 1: in my show I heard is a lot.
Speaker 6: More I told something doing the people in the comedy.
Speaker 6: It's not a radio story.
Speaker 4: But now you can tell the real story of what
Speaker 4: happened in your gym.
Speaker 6: Okay, So I went, I don't I work it out?
Speaker 6: I work out it was. It was it was a
Speaker 6: midday workout, like not it was the summer still out.
Speaker 6: But it was like getting to the customer night, great workout,
Speaker 6: but I realized that it was more dudes because I've
Speaker 6: been doing workout classes but wheezy, and there were more
Speaker 6: dudes in this class than normal normally just a bunch
Speaker 6: of white women.
Speaker 5: I'm like, all right, this is cool, dude.
Speaker 6: I didn't get a good workout in because I was
Speaker 6: checking everybody out the whole time, so I didn't.
Speaker 5: Work out a lot.
Speaker 6: Afterwards, I go, I go to the locker room, and
Speaker 6: I wish I would have kept this note. There was
Speaker 6: a note in the locker room, in my locker because
Speaker 6: I put all my stuff on the locker and the
Speaker 6: note just had like an address, and it had it
Speaker 6: just said sex party.
Speaker 5: And then I had an address, and in my head,
Speaker 5: I'm like, girl on my going to.
Speaker 4: This so I enis said yes, I am no.
Speaker 6: So I so I go home, I go home, I
Speaker 6: go home and I take a shower.
Speaker 4: And that's how you knew you were going No, no, no, no.
Speaker 6: I took it because I just worked out, just worked out,
Speaker 6: and in my head, I'm like, I'm not going to
Speaker 6: this party.
Speaker 5: But then I put in the address. Bitch.
Speaker 6: It was three minute walk. It was three minutes walking.
Speaker 6: I'm like, I'm like, well, the Lord, well, the Lord
Speaker 6: wants me to go, watched me to go. So I
Speaker 6: go to the party and it's it's it's a gay
Speaker 6: sex party. So exactly what you think is happening is happening.
Speaker 6: A lot of hot dudes, a lot of people of
Speaker 6: color too. I'm like, okay, inclusion. So it's just so
Speaker 6: at one point, but there's the thing. At one point,
Speaker 6: I'm sucking this dude and I look over and I
Speaker 6: see a mirror and I see myself sucking this dude,
Speaker 6: and I'm like, Nigga, is Monday.
Speaker 9: You shouldn't be doing this muchtigation ship on a Monday afternoon. Like, Nigga,
Speaker 9: you have a problem you in in.
Speaker 4: The mirror when you looked at but he bent over.
Speaker 6: Yeah, he was bent over, and there was a dude
Speaker 6: visions and there's a dude behind me.
Speaker 4: He was behind you.
Speaker 6: He was behind me, Like like like, this is gonna
Speaker 6: be I can't wait to read the comments on this,
Speaker 6: because y'all are gonna be Really, he was eating my ass,
Speaker 6: so he was behind.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's a nice I can't say something else, like
Speaker 1: you ambidtion.
Speaker 6: No, I cannot wait to the homophobic comics and this
Speaker 6: and this is gonna be why wait.
Speaker 8: I have to ask, So are they rules to the
Speaker 8: sex party when you walk in? Like does someone greet you?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 5: What happened was this was this was actually a really
Speaker 5: saved sex party.
Speaker 6: So there's lube everywhere, there's a bunch of condoms, there's refreshments,
Speaker 6: those gas music playing like drinks drinks and stuff like that,
Speaker 6: and then there's music playing and the strobe lights and
Speaker 6: then there was just.
Speaker 2: Dude, is there a host?
Speaker 5: Like, hey, well there probably what I think the host
Speaker 5: was the one who was getting fucked the most, like
Speaker 5: he was like the bell.
Speaker 2: Of the aga the most.
Speaker 5: He was the best. It was the balls.
Speaker 6: And so anyway, this is happened. I look at the
Speaker 6: mirror and I see myself in the mirror.
Speaker 5: I'm like, oh it came. This is it's Monday.
Speaker 4: You can't have the room smell.
Speaker 5: It was just good because they had those music.
Speaker 6: Like it's it's spelled like sex at the end. And
Speaker 6: I will say I stayed too long, like if there's
Speaker 6: if there was set.
Speaker 2: Nigga, everything's in an open room, private room.
Speaker 6: There's no there are private rooms, but I didn't go
Speaker 6: what rooms, so I don't know.
Speaker 3: I tell you, you know, it's the least likely person
Speaker 3: to have a sex party story here is probably me.
Speaker 3: But I can tell it now because my daughter is older.
Speaker 3: But my daughter when my daughter was I was little,
Speaker 3: she had a teacher that was she was young, and
Speaker 3: she was you know, she was cool, and she was like, hey,
Speaker 3: you guys ever go out? I would love to go
Speaker 3: out with you guys. So we were like, hey, we're
Speaker 3: going to go out this weekend. So one of our
Speaker 3: other friends is friends with these two queer girls and
Speaker 3: they want to have a baby. So they decide that
Speaker 3: they're going to get impregnated at a sex party.
Speaker 5: At a sex club.
Speaker 4: Right, no idea who the dad?
Speaker 3: All? No, they brought the dad, but they want everybody
Speaker 3: to be there to watch.
Speaker 4: Thought they were going to just have sex and one like,
Speaker 4: you know.
Speaker 3: They wanted the community to be there. But I didn't
Speaker 3: know any of this was going on, right, So then
Speaker 3: so I take the teacher with me. I said, Hey,
Speaker 3: we're supposed to be going to the party. And then
Speaker 3: I walk in. It's a locker room, right, and I'm like, yo,
Speaker 3: what is an interesting venue, right, So I got my
Speaker 3: clothes on and then there's a buffet, right, we didn't
Speaker 3: have that. They had salmon. They had silent no alcohol
Speaker 3: in La, though in LA you bring your own alcohol,
Speaker 3: so everybody has these. So this is when I realized
Speaker 3: someone was off because I saw sam and asked right,
Speaker 3: and I was like, this is salmon.
Speaker 5: Or it was an old white.
Speaker 3: Man one the other yeah, he had a cowboy boots on.
Speaker 5: Or he was like.
Speaker 3: I was like, is this man naked? So we go
Speaker 3: out and then there's the dance floor and they're dancing
Speaker 3: and people are naked and people have clothes. They're trying
Speaker 3: to pull people. So I'm like, oh, my men and
Speaker 3: women and I told the teacher I am so sorry.
Speaker 3: I did not know and.
Speaker 4: Was laughing thet I didn't expect it either.
Speaker 3: But we go dance and then I was like that
Speaker 3: you stayed and danced dance with her because I was like,
Speaker 3: I don't want protective services to come get my kids.
Speaker 3: So we go to the other side and that's when
Speaker 3: it is happening. They haven't the girls are having sex.
Speaker 3: They're in this place clad plexiglass room that's covered there
Speaker 3: in the in the chamber, they having sake, all the
Speaker 3: friends are watching. I was like, okay, this is kind
Speaker 3: of ritualistic. I'm gonna go.
Speaker 5: I go.
Speaker 3: This dude is sitting at a chair, He's like talking
Speaker 3: to me, and he's like, come here, let's not He's fine.
Speaker 3: I'm having a conversation with him. And then I never,
Speaker 3: I never, never looked down on the floor to realize
Speaker 3: that there was a line of women on their knees
Speaker 3: in line to give him head.
Speaker 5: So what's her name?
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, you think you're trying to get.
Speaker 4: Me out.
Speaker 5: Behind, Like, wait a second, he got a fast past.
Speaker 3: But I don't know. I'm said that where you from?
Speaker 3: And he was like you Puerto Rican? I was like,
Speaker 3: I'm Puerto Rican. The girl she goes undoes his pansts
Speaker 3: and she gets it. And then I was like, I
Speaker 3: think I'm gonna go, but I'm curious. I want to
Speaker 3: know everything. I'm like, I'm doing investigative journalism. I just
Speaker 3: want to know. I go upstairs. I hear these people screaming.
Speaker 3: Is the S and M chamber they have.
Speaker 2: In the private room?
Speaker 3: Yes, And this woman is like and then I'm like,
Speaker 3: we're gonna go get this bitch. Like something.
Speaker 5: I don't know what it is.
Speaker 3: I'm like, they're doing something.
Speaker 2: We go up in there.
Speaker 3: They got her tied up cat of nine tails.
Speaker 4: It's a couple.
Speaker 3: They're they're eating her. It was amazing because it was
Speaker 3: I was just like, I didn't know, and it was
Speaker 3: very very sanitary, people cleaning up.
Speaker 6: Yes, that's the thing people don't realize about sex party
Speaker 6: because I told some of the story on the radio
Speaker 6: and people were commenting disgusting disease. I'm like, y'all don't
Speaker 6: realize plan sex parties are clean. Yeah, these people are
Speaker 6: sanitizing these there's.
Speaker 9: Everyone's checking like you have like the clean So wait,
Speaker 9: have you ever been to a sex party?
Speaker 3: Kim?
Speaker 2: No, No, I'm just I know boring.
Speaker 1: I am in no way, no, g I'm never even
Speaker 1: been iNTS club. Okay, watched No, I was gonna says
Speaker 1: actual sex part back in the day because in the
Speaker 1: music business. The reason I asked you is, remember they
Speaker 1: used to have the Mike Show Power Summit.
Speaker 2: I went to that one and there was something going on.
Speaker 7: Right.
Speaker 8: Yes, they would have never let me find out. They
Speaker 8: would be like, she's gonna write a story.
Speaker 1: But it was always the guys that did it, but
Speaker 1: I just remember I was leaving to go catch a flight,
Speaker 1: and so it was an event that they would do.
Speaker 4: It was actually in Cominican republics.
Speaker 1: That in both places some years, and then they moved
Speaker 1: it to dr I think the year when it was
Speaker 1: in Dominican Republic.
Speaker 4: But what they do is for the DJs.
Speaker 1: They used to set it up for like prostitutes on
Speaker 1: the island to come and it would be like a
Speaker 1: big room.
Speaker 4: I remember, yeah, I remember that.
Speaker 7: Remember.
Speaker 4: So I remember I was leaving early.
Speaker 1: I had like a super early flight trying to get
Speaker 1: back home, and so I get on the elevator at
Speaker 1: like six in the morning and a whole bunch of
Speaker 1: guys like that were there, and I knew some of
Speaker 1: them get on and it smelled like us, and I
Speaker 1: guess they were just coming from the party, you know,
Speaker 1: that they had where they said it was like a room.
Speaker 1: One of them told me it's like a room, and
Speaker 1: they turned the lights off and then it just they
Speaker 1: go for it, and then the light comes back on
Speaker 1: and then those people have to leave to let the
Speaker 1: next group of guys in. Yeah, but it doesn't sound
Speaker 1: as well organized or sanitary as the events that This.
Speaker 3: Happens monthly in LA, which I didn't know. It's like
Speaker 3: a path. You pay a monthly fee and you have
Speaker 3: they do it like once a week. That's what's then.
Speaker 3: I don't know if they do it anymore. People. It's everybody.
Speaker 3: It wasn't just straight people, it was every It was
Speaker 3: all kinds of stuff happening. And you know, my friend
Speaker 3: was like, you ain't do nothing you want to do.
Speaker 3: I did it because I was in love with a
Speaker 3: loser at the time.
Speaker 5: I went in.
Speaker 3: I saw everything I was but you know what, I
Speaker 3: did it like a tour. I was like, and where
Speaker 3: is that? And what is this? Because I wanted to
Speaker 3: see all.
Speaker 6: This is interesting to see, even if you don't participate,
Speaker 6: it is very interesting. I've never seen a straight one,
Speaker 6: but because I don't want to see naked women.
Speaker 4: But I'm sure I.
Speaker 3: Saw more naked men than women. The men were less inhibited,
Speaker 3: they were more They were so free in there. You
Speaker 3: can see the awkwardness with the women.
Speaker 6: That's what That's why I was thinking it is awkward
Speaker 6: for women to go for straight ones because I can't
Speaker 6: imagine because the dynamic is because there's still a.
Speaker 5: Power between the men and the women, So I imagine the.
Speaker 6: Energy there is different because at the gay ones it's
Speaker 6: just like hey, we all like that.
Speaker 5: So it's like like but.
Speaker 1: And I feel like in general, men like being naked,
Speaker 1: like yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah we do.
Speaker 5: You see.
Speaker 4: Women are more conscious about their bias.
Speaker 3: Yeah, the beautiful women, they were all like this, oh
Speaker 3: crusty balls getting naked.
Speaker 4: Just walk around.
Speaker 5: Likely niggas getting naked so quick.
Speaker 3: Yeah, they they did not hesitate. Yeah, it was amazing.
Speaker 3: It was I never went back, like I think one
Speaker 3: of my girlfriends says she started going because she likes
Speaker 3: she liked to go. You know, who would I to
Speaker 3: judge anybody. I feel like, as long as people get
Speaker 3: to do stuff like that, that's less violent time. You know,
Speaker 3: it keeps the violence against women down.
Speaker 4: Enjoy yourself, love but exactly.
Speaker 5: I think I will say the thing.
Speaker 6: The one time I did go to one, I did
Speaker 6: like it because I kind of felt like a bad
Speaker 6: bitch because everyone was like, look like chasing after me.
Speaker 6: I'm like, oh, like this whole time, I was a
Speaker 6: bit I don't know.
Speaker 5: So sometimes I feel bad about myself.
Speaker 6: I'm going to show up to like a little don
Speaker 6: against Donna, Like okay, look at that.
Speaker 1: Does it bout it if a guy has a little
Speaker 1: dick in there or in reality in life?
Speaker 5: I mean I don't prefer it.
Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah, I don't want.
Speaker 5: To say it bothered me. I don't want to shame,
Speaker 5: but it does. Yeah, it's not you know, but.
Speaker 3: That's a very interesting question because I think about that
Speaker 3: because of the hardware, and you know the implications of
Speaker 3: what how painful that would be, you know.
Speaker 5: You know, but it was not painful for men we
Speaker 5: have we have a prostate.
Speaker 4: Yeah, painful.
Speaker 5: No, I mean not saying that it's not painful at all,
Speaker 5: but like.
Speaker 3: That's not how I.
Speaker 6: Because those those straight, those those straight, those those draight
Speaker 6: people pretending to have gaza.
Speaker 4: Actual I also kind of feel like the first time
Speaker 4: it probably.
Speaker 5: Hurts there, but then if you get lou but it.
Speaker 6: But also at the same time, I'm not taking like
Speaker 6: I had a dude that wants to fuck me.
Speaker 5: I don't know if I showed you his picture. I
Speaker 5: have to show you his picture.
Speaker 6: His dick was so it was Jude in Atlanta, black dude.
Speaker 6: His dick was so big. He sent me a picture
Speaker 6: and I just sent him.
Speaker 5: L O L Y. I did show the picture because
Speaker 5: I'm like, yeah, I got things, I got things to do, like.
Speaker 6: I'm not you're not fucking me. So we hooked up,
Speaker 6: but he didn't. I just liked his dick or whatever.
Speaker 6: And by the way, why.
Speaker 4: Did you do that?
Speaker 5: Then? Poorly? It was the worst blowdown. It was something bad.
Speaker 6: It made me feel like I didn't know how to
Speaker 6: suck dick. I'm like, wait a second, I've been like
Speaker 6: a dick for a long time, but I felt bad.
Speaker 6: I'm over your second. I'm doing all the dick stuff.
Speaker 6: I'm like, yo, am I bad as sucking dick? Because
Speaker 6: it was so massd after show late picture.
Speaker 4: It was ridiculous and it's hard, but it's really curved.
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, oh yeah you saw the picture.
Speaker 6: Yeah it was it was yeah, it was our first challenge.
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I just celibate, so none of this.
Speaker 3: I know. I've been celibated for eighteen months almost well
Speaker 3: now it's spent almost two years. But it's so funny.
Speaker 4: It's not like I ain't never forgot.
Speaker 3: I'm not like some people get. They become celibated, they
Speaker 3: become so pious and they're like, O, I've given my
Speaker 3: life to no. I I had to take myself out
Speaker 3: the game because I was I was in a relationship
Speaker 3: and I was it wasn't it wasn't working for me.
Speaker 3: So I went into this trauma therapist and I did
Speaker 3: a trauma therapy program and one of the one of
Speaker 3: the things that you have to do is not engage
Speaker 3: and you have to be celibate, and you have to
Speaker 3: stay away not just the sexual part, because the sexual
Speaker 3: part is actually the easy part. It's the emotional part
Speaker 3: that gets connected to the special. So she was like,
Speaker 3: I need you not to be involved with men in
Speaker 3: this way for how long? I'm almost done. I'm still
Speaker 3: doing it. I'm almost Oh.
Speaker 5: Wait, the program is longer than two years.
Speaker 3: No, no, no, I I hadn't been. I had no
Speaker 3: I broke up and I hadn't been with everybody. But
Speaker 3: then I started doing the program. It's the best thing though,
Speaker 3: for me, the best thing I've ever done, I feel.
Speaker 3: And it's not religious, not to shit on anybody who
Speaker 3: does it for religious reasons, but I was like, we
Speaker 3: got so much trauma, and we walk around with so much,
Speaker 3: so many issues, and for women, they deposit all that
Speaker 3: shit into us. And I was like, yo, I gotta
Speaker 3: I gotta get myself together because I don't want to
Speaker 3: be in in what I've been in before. And it's
Speaker 3: been good. It's been hard, you know, it's been hard.
Speaker 1: And the way you can't have any type of intimacy
Speaker 1: at all, though it's not intimacy nothing.
Speaker 3: No, for how long?
Speaker 4: How long?
Speaker 3: I'm almost done? It's while you do it's twelve steps.
Speaker 3: It sounds like a right, but it's like twelve steps
Speaker 3: and nine I'll be trying to do these steps fastest.
Speaker 5: Yeah, how long.
Speaker 3: It's been a long time for me because of my schedule,
Speaker 3: because therapist, I have to sit with her, I have
Speaker 3: to do these extra it's been but it's been like
Speaker 3: to get all of it, to get clear without having
Speaker 3: that in my ear, all that game and all that
Speaker 3: toxicity from a man telling me everything that's wrong with
Speaker 3: me because women on fixed plates no more that bullshit.
Speaker 3: And I'm like, yo, I just want to be with
Speaker 3: a healthy man above all things. You know, you gotta
Speaker 3: be fine to me and all of that, but I
Speaker 3: want to be with somebody who's healthy because I've never
Speaker 3: been in a healthy relationship.
Speaker 4: I wonder mind that is. You know you read my book. Well,
Speaker 4: we were watching Love is Blind.
Speaker 1: You know me and show, but one of the couples
Speaker 1: that didn't end up getting married.
Speaker 5: Spoiler go ahead, Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean you know, didn't end up getting married, and
Speaker 1: you got to see his parents have a conversation and
Speaker 1: how his parents were like later role in him being
Speaker 1: scared because he watched his father's infidelities and just a
Speaker 1: lot of things that happened with his parents.
Speaker 4: It kind of had him nervous.
Speaker 2: I think that was an excuse.
Speaker 4: You think I will sing from the beginning.
Speaker 8: He did, but I just feel I felt It's like
Speaker 8: I just kept hearing excuse, excuses.
Speaker 4: You don't believe you.
Speaker 5: I didn't believe.
Speaker 8: I don't think he wanted to. Yeah, because the whole
Speaker 8: time I'm watching it, I'm like, they're building this watching
Speaker 8: if somebody's saying gonna say no, they were building it
Speaker 8: too much and you were too invested in their couple,
Speaker 8: their love.
Speaker 6: What was so weird about it is like, you know
Speaker 6: the premise of the show, it's a sixth season.
Speaker 8: You knew it was, And think about this, right, you
Speaker 8: see how the other guy told the girl before they
Speaker 8: got it.
Speaker 5: Yes, those two.
Speaker 8: Playing a d I felt like you watch them together
Speaker 8: and they really looked like it seemed too perfect.
Speaker 2: Right, he could have told her.
Speaker 4: He waited till they were and then he was like, yeah,
Speaker 4: I don't think it's responsible for me to get married.
Speaker 8: Yeah right, if you don't want to break someone's heart,
Speaker 8: you could tell them off camera.
Speaker 4: Right.
Speaker 2: She was in on it, but I don't think.
Speaker 1: She wasn't going to do it right, He freestyled his vows.
Speaker 4: He didn't like have it.
Speaker 1: I feel like bows you kind of think about that, right,
Speaker 1: like when you get married, you don't just get up
Speaker 1: there and be like, you know, you're real cool.
Speaker 4: And I just feel like I.
Speaker 5: Also didn't like the fact that he kept blaming his daddy.
Speaker 6: It's like you at some point you got to look
Speaker 6: in with It's not you can't keep blaming your daddy.
Speaker 4: He said his dad took him with him when he
Speaker 4: went to cheat.
Speaker 5: I didn't like that either.
Speaker 2: That's traumatiz that is traumatized.
Speaker 5: And the mom didn't find out chilled show.
Speaker 8: You know, my ex husband apparently had my daughter when
Speaker 8: he was cheating with him a few times.
Speaker 1: Cheating field to me, it's like some type of like boundaries. Yes,
Speaker 1: yes I don't, but when she was too little nobody
Speaker 1: in your bed, you know kids?
Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, this is just I wouldn't hook up
Speaker 6: with someone who had who would have a kid in
Speaker 6: the room, yeah, in.
Speaker 8: The building, because you know, a lot of I read
Speaker 8: this comment on these like like the Instagram posts that
Speaker 8: will say women, what's you know? How do you tell
Speaker 8: if they're lying or whatever? And I circled it one
Speaker 8: of them and sent it to a friend of mine
Speaker 8: because it was funny. We know guys that say this
Speaker 8: is like when you're living with someone but you're not together, right, Like,
Speaker 8: you know, I still live with her, but I feel
Speaker 8: like when I was married, you know, he possibly would
Speaker 8: have no Listen, I don't give the whole benefit of doubt,
Speaker 8: but you know, I feel like he probably said we're
Speaker 8: not together, but.
Speaker 1: Saying a lot because I think about even my parents
Speaker 1: when I was growing up, my dad like slept on
Speaker 1: the couch all the time, you know, because I feel
Speaker 1: like sometimes people stay together because it's convenient they have kids,
Speaker 1: they do and there's people who like, really, I have
Speaker 1: friends who legitimately don't have sex.
Speaker 4: I have friends like that too, and I do not.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, literally we all have sex married but
Speaker 1: having sex.
Speaker 8: But The thing is if if you are not in
Speaker 8: the relationship right like and you, I think it's worse
Speaker 8: when you stay together for the kids. I think, if
Speaker 8: you're gonna break up, I think just break up, just.
Speaker 4: Say than to do.
Speaker 2: It's because it's it's phony to me.
Speaker 8: And now the kids, you know, they need to learn,
Speaker 8: you know, I mean it's hard. The worst time you
Speaker 8: can break up for kids is when they're between like
Speaker 8: seven and eleven, right like anytime before that, the kid's
Speaker 8: kind of too young and it's fine, they don't you know,
Speaker 8: they don't care. And then after that the kid can
Speaker 8: process what's going on.
Speaker 2: But between like seven, like that.
Speaker 8: Pre adolescent age, it's really bad for parents to get
Speaker 8: divorced at that time.
Speaker 4: So a lot of people stick with it.
Speaker 2: But I feel like a lot.
Speaker 8: Of men know after like one year of having the
Speaker 8: baby whether they want to stay or women right, whether
Speaker 8: they want to stay or leave.
Speaker 4: I feel like that's a tough.
Speaker 1: Time though, with like women who go through postpartum and
Speaker 1: babies do change a relationship.
Speaker 4: It absolutely is that, you know.
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess it's a case by case basis,
Speaker 1: but I will say, knowing that his dad used to
Speaker 1: bring him and.
Speaker 5: How old was his mind?
Speaker 4: Seemed really cool like and very.
Speaker 2: He was old enough to remember.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I could imagine that that would make somebody
Speaker 1: feel like shit like in a relationship. I don't know
Speaker 1: if I should do this, and his dad kind of
Speaker 1: was not taking that much accountability.
Speaker 7: I wouldn't have told that story on TV, especially knowing
Speaker 7: that the mom didn't know that.
Speaker 3: The mom, you're putting boundaries on people who are on
Speaker 3: a show called Love is Blind. That's where you're like,
Speaker 3: this is where I brought The mom was great.
Speaker 4: Mom was great when she you weren't good to me?
Speaker 5: Yeah, she called him out on Can.
Speaker 1: You imagine falling in love with somebody though and not
Speaker 1: seeing them?
Speaker 6: I'm toxic? So yeah, for me, I can't wait till
Speaker 6: they make a gay version. If they make a gay version,
Speaker 6: I know.
Speaker 5: They can't tell me.
Speaker 6: It's impossible because because the whole, the whole person of
Speaker 6: the shows, they separate them the men and the women,
Speaker 6: but for gay people they can't. And I told I
Speaker 6: was actually I told the story and to say that
Speaker 6: y'all know Sam Jay and I said it, and Sam's
Speaker 6: like Sam's gay lesbian, and Sam's like they'll just separate
Speaker 6: the tops from the bottoms.
Speaker 5: I'm like, that's not gonna work because you put me.
Speaker 6: If you put me in with the tops and I
Speaker 6: see hot enough to I'm like, oh, I'm a bottom map.
Speaker 4: He said, they'll all be fucking each other.
Speaker 6: Yeah, so it wouldn't work logistically, But if they find
Speaker 6: out how to do it logistically, sign me up.
Speaker 5: I can't wait to find.
Speaker 1: My back Chelsea and Jimmy that you could tell he
Speaker 1: didn't really like feel her like that, right, So you're
Speaker 1: fall in love with somebody's personality, with that, then overshadow
Speaker 1: what they look like to you, because physical attraction is
Speaker 1: a thing, and I feel like it's not fair to
Speaker 1: act like you're superficial because if you may not be
Speaker 1: physically attracted to someone, right.
Speaker 5: I just wish they were more honest with her.
Speaker 6: I wish the dude when he saw that she didn't
Speaker 6: look like Megan Fox, he should have been like, yo, bitch.
Speaker 5: Signed.
Speaker 4: You're not He's not what I thought.
Speaker 5: He said, But he didn't say, well enough honesty for me.
Speaker 5: He said it.
Speaker 8: Tonight, you know, didn't you tell her that? Like when
Speaker 8: she asked him, was this this this couple? She said,
Speaker 8: what do you like the best about me? He said,
Speaker 8: you're teeth?
Speaker 5: Was that that? Yeah, that's kind.
Speaker 3: Of Somebody on social media was like, you you either
Speaker 3: look like Megan the little creature or you look like
Speaker 3: the fox? What has been about?
Speaker 1: And then looks either, but that's a weird person like
Speaker 1: you can't that's you cannot compare yourself to like you know,
Speaker 1: it's always going to be a letdown when people be like, oh,
Speaker 1: I look just like this person.
Speaker 4: It never works out well.
Speaker 6: Also, I will say it was a loaded question for
Speaker 6: him to ask, because this show is called Love is Blind.
Speaker 4: I tell you who the I looked like supposed to
Speaker 4: be blind?
Speaker 1: How many times have you fallen in or maybe not
Speaker 1: fall in love but ended up dating somebody who physically
Speaker 1: like normally you wouldn't have And you know how in
Speaker 1: the beginning you're like, I would never and then you
Speaker 1: end up being with that person.
Speaker 3: I think that the most Go ahead, I talk way
Speaker 3: more than you. I want to hear what you gotta say.
Speaker 7: No, Well, I usually like tall, dark guys, and I
Speaker 7: was with a short I don't want to say what
Speaker 7: nationality or what like culture, but he was not black.
Speaker 7: There was and there was nothing, uh, let's say big
Speaker 7: about him.
Speaker 4: Was about him that made you change your mind?
Speaker 7: It was his personality, it was our chemistry. He went
Speaker 7: maybe like six months before we had sex.
Speaker 3: All right, Wow, Okay, I did somebody who my friends
Speaker 3: were like, he's not your physical type. I wouldn't call
Speaker 3: him ugly, but I would say that he just didn't
Speaker 3: look like somebody that I would date. But he had
Speaker 3: the most swag of anybody I ever did. He had
Speaker 3: the most personality. He had the I mean, he's from
Speaker 3: the Bronx, but he is the most swagged out dude
Speaker 3: I ever went out with. And I was like, it
Speaker 3: was it was his personality that got me. I just
Speaker 3: wanted to say, because I've been on a reality show,
Speaker 3: people will say that's right. And when I was on
Speaker 3: Last Comic Standing, when I got eliminated from the show,
Speaker 3: I walked out of off the set and they walked
Speaker 3: me into a room with a therapist. I have them
Speaker 3: on set.
Speaker 8: So when Kim's like, we don't do that on the show, No, no, yes,
Speaker 8: you gotta go through psycho.
Speaker 3: You get a psycha after. So when people say that
Speaker 3: they see these reality shows and they're like, oh, they
Speaker 3: they set this up I'm like, you will be surprised
Speaker 3: what people will do when the cameras get on.
Speaker 5: People people.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I was on a reality show too too,
Speaker 1: and it together get matter of fact, yes, and there
Speaker 1: are things I was like, now, hold on, this is
Speaker 1: like people just make stuff up and they say anything
Speaker 1: about you. You think the cameras are off, You think
Speaker 1: you'll cool the cameras come on all of a sudden.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 2: And that was before cycle out.
Speaker 8: Remember they didn't have that psycho stuff just.
Speaker 4: Happened a couple of what was I forgot the name
Speaker 4: of the damn Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: And it's a lot also because you're sitting around waiting
Speaker 1: the film for like hours, and so by the time
Speaker 1: you go film, you're like exhausted.
Speaker 2: It's a lot of Yeah.
Speaker 4: J was on Beyond the Pole TV season two.
Speaker 6: I need to get reality.
Speaker 3: A lot of Love is Blind.
Speaker 4: Listen, we gotta figure out different. This guy was on
Speaker 4: this season.
Speaker 1: Gay but he pretended to. He was on Love is Blind,
Speaker 1: but he was gay. He was he ended up Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: he was bye. He ended up with the women like
Speaker 1: but then it turns out he.
Speaker 5: Was by she was mad.
Speaker 6: Oh I remember that that was the first season, right,
Speaker 6: Carlton or something like that, Cliff something something with THEE.
Speaker 4: But he said, you respond.
Speaker 5: No, he was too problematic.
Speaker 6: I ain't.
Speaker 4: I ain't got that right.
Speaker 5: Also, I don't live in Atlanta. I'm not going to Atlanta,
Speaker 5: so that that's the real reason.
Speaker 6: Nah, he was parbmatic, and I'm not gonna lie. If
Speaker 6: he was a little bit finer, I would have reply back.
Speaker 4: Right all right now.
Speaker 1: Another thing I wanted to get into right now is
Speaker 1: Resa Tisa. Oh right, you know, she signed a ca
Speaker 1: They're gonna make a movie. There's like a bidding war
Speaker 1: over her story to make a movie. But one of
Speaker 1: the main things that she's very honest about when she's
Speaker 1: telling her story is all the red flags that she.
Speaker 5: Continent.
Speaker 4: Yeah, the whole thing was red flags everywhere.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I will say in her defense, it was during
Speaker 6: the pandemic and every and the pandemic was like the
Speaker 6: super Bowl for scamming people because it was the best
Speaker 6: time to scam people, and she got scammed.
Speaker 5: But it was like it was a pandemic. We didn't
Speaker 5: know what was going to happen. We thought the apocalypse
Speaker 5: was coming. So well, in her.
Speaker 1: Defense, I also want to say pandemic or not we
Speaker 1: all ignore some red flags, yeah, because you kind of
Speaker 1: believe what you want to believe. Like she she was like,
Speaker 1: I know he lying, but whatever, I'm gonna let him
Speaker 1: continue to lie.
Speaker 4: I just told him let's not look at no more houses.
Speaker 1: And he had a test driving cars like it was
Speaker 1: just crazy.
Speaker 4: And you see he's like replying now, yeah, he's.
Speaker 5: Know the fact that we're even saying his name right.
Speaker 3: Now mental illness? Is his family say that.
Speaker 5: His brother came out and said mental illness.
Speaker 1: So let's talk about so in solidarity with Resa Tisa,
Speaker 1: what are some things that we've done and as far
Speaker 1: as ignoring red flags that we have been so embarrassed
Speaker 1: to even talk about, but we can.
Speaker 4: Just put it on the floor.
Speaker 8: Red flag right here, all right, Kim, Oh my god.
Speaker 8: My whole wedding was a red flag.
Speaker 1: The reality show was a red People were like, I
Speaker 1: don't know about this before?
Speaker 8: Was that before? Yeah, there were a lot of red
Speaker 8: flags that. Okay, So when I when I got married,
Speaker 8: I got married for the wrong reasons, right, Like you
Speaker 8: get married because you want to be married. A lot
Speaker 8: of women get into the situation because they want to
Speaker 8: be married, right, you want to be married.
Speaker 2: You want to get him to a family.
Speaker 8: So it wasn't necessarily like the right person. He wasn't
Speaker 8: the right person for me. And I think throughout like
Speaker 8: there was cheating before we were married.
Speaker 2: So for me, that's a red flag, right, Yes, that's
Speaker 2: who you are.
Speaker 8: But you know, you kind of like, well we weren't married,
Speaker 8: you know, or maybe you ignore it, you know, you
Speaker 8: ignore certain behaviors, Like there were a lot of things
Speaker 8: that happened that I was just like, okay, but you
Speaker 8: have kids, so you stay.
Speaker 2: In it for those reasons, you know. But even the wedding.
Speaker 8: I was saying yesterday, just yesterday, that I always wanted
Speaker 8: a destination wedding. So when I got married, why didn't
Speaker 8: I have a destination wedding?
Speaker 2: Because this fool want.
Speaker 8: To do it here and one of his family there,
Speaker 8: and so like I gave into that because it was like,
Speaker 8: you're getting married, you want to be you want to
Speaker 8: you know, compromise, and I didn't get what I wanted
Speaker 8: like I wanted it.
Speaker 2: I wanted to go away and get married.
Speaker 8: So I think there were a lot of things, you know,
Speaker 8: and a lot of relationships.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not That's why I'm saying we're standing in solidarity.
Speaker 1: Now I've also been married, okay, so, but even whether
Speaker 1: or not it was that, what are some red flags
Speaker 1: that you ignored? And now that you look back, you're like,
Speaker 1: what was I thinking?
Speaker 3: This is why I'm in this program? You know, growing
Speaker 3: up you read my book without my father and being
Speaker 3: illegitimate and being feeling like I wasn't enough one of
Speaker 3: the things that I remember listening to and thinking that
Speaker 3: it was cool. As long as he comes home to you,
Speaker 3: it doesn't matter what he does in the streets or
Speaker 3: buying into this whole idea that men are not designed
Speaker 3: to be monogamous.
Speaker 4: They will tell you that, and society will tell you that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and so you know, I think that the reality
Speaker 3: of it is. Listen, I was dating somebody. He's in
Speaker 3: the book. He's an actor, This motherfucker such. He used
Speaker 3: to lie with a straight face, and it got to
Speaker 3: the point where I'd be like, I feel like I'm
Speaker 3: in a scene and I don't have my line. Can
Speaker 3: you give me the stream?
Speaker 5: So I don't know?
Speaker 3: So here coming down that one glory tear. I remember
Speaker 3: one time he was missing, right, he would disappear and
Speaker 3: he popped up and he had on this ring, this
Speaker 3: real like ring, like a skeleton ring, and I said,
Speaker 3: where have you been? You're not gonna believe what happened.
Speaker 3: He was like, I ended up in a fight with
Speaker 3: all these Mexicans, and uh, I think once asked so
Speaker 3: bad that I took his ring as a trophy. And
Speaker 3: I was sitting I spent the night on his doorsteps
Speaker 3: because I wanted to know where he was. And I
Speaker 3: just remember just thinking to myself, I know this is
Speaker 3: a line, but what am It's like that, like Corey
Speaker 3: Holcomb has a joke that says you're gonna trade in
Speaker 3: two dimes in the nickel for a case quarter, Like
Speaker 3: what am I gonna do? I'm gonna break up with
Speaker 3: him and then I'm gonna have to do this again
Speaker 3: with somebody else who's also going to do this, Because
Speaker 3: in my thinking, that's what I believe about men. And
Speaker 3: so I was just like, just get over it and
Speaker 3: then get on.
Speaker 4: With it, glad you want to fight.
Speaker 3: Furious. It was just lie after lie, and you know,
Speaker 3: you know it, you.
Speaker 4: Know you know what guys lie about it. They'd be
Speaker 4: like I was in jail, I got arrested.
Speaker 1: Man say whatever, Yeah, they say, any I fell asleep
Speaker 1: in my friend's house.
Speaker 4: You know, I remember a guy. This is how I
Speaker 4: should know. It was a reflag. I should have never
Speaker 4: gotten in a relationship with this guy.
Speaker 1: He when I first met him, he had just gotten
Speaker 1: out of a relationship with his ex. But then I
Speaker 1: guess like they ended up getting back together, but he
Speaker 1: did not tell me, and so all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: like things change because I was seeing him all the time,
Speaker 1: and then things like really really slowed down. So I
Speaker 1: was like, all right, cool, he wasn't my boyfriend. We
Speaker 1: just felt like kind of dating a little. And then
Speaker 1: one day I'm at work and his ex girlfriend girlfriend
Speaker 1: again caused me, and she I guess he had broke
Speaker 1: a phone and got a new phone, and so she
Speaker 1: was calling from his old phone.
Speaker 3: And put it back together.
Speaker 4: Yeah, she said, he was.
Speaker 1: Like calling me a lot, and and she was like,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm at his house right now. I just
Speaker 1: I'm pregnant, And yeah, she told me this whole thing.
Speaker 1: She's pregnant, she's staying at his house. They lived together,
Speaker 1: and then he called me on the other line while
Speaker 1: I was talking to him.
Speaker 4: Wow, So you know, I told him.
Speaker 1: I was like you know, your girlfriend's on the other line,
Speaker 1: and he's like horrified. So she ends up like throwing
Speaker 1: all his stuff out the window and breaking his TV,
Speaker 1: calling his parents. She never even met his parents, but
Speaker 1: she got their number and was she really pregnant? No,
Speaker 1: she wasn't. She actually, by the way, though, did had
Speaker 1: had an abortion and was resting at his house.
Speaker 4: Abortion, but she was think like she.
Speaker 3: Was having that's a red flag.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So anyway, I stopped talking to him after that. But
Speaker 1: then one day I was on the train going home
Speaker 1: and I run into him on the train, and then
Speaker 1: you know, he wasn't with her anymore because then it
Speaker 1: was embarrassing for him, like the neighbors had to like
Speaker 1: gather his belongings out the windows. And I was like,
Speaker 1: so we end up like little by little putting it
Speaker 1: back together, but and then dating for like four years,
Speaker 1: and I was like, why did I even that was
Speaker 1: a terrible idea to get. Yeah, because he wasn't my
Speaker 1: Like I justified it, you know how you justified like
Speaker 1: he wasn't my boyfriend. He was getting out of the Yeah,
Speaker 1: he was the train. She was like, like, I just
Speaker 1: wanted her to get this abortion. I was being nice
Speaker 1: to her until you know.
Speaker 5: Such a good lie.
Speaker 8: But on one of my rules is if he did
Speaker 8: it to her, he'll do it to you, right. So
Speaker 8: like a lot of times we get into situations right
Speaker 8: and you think that he's going to treat you differently, right,
Speaker 8: like or how you you know or how you.
Speaker 4: Mean him exactly.
Speaker 2: So I feel like even if you.
Speaker 1: Say that's Christina Mackie right now and everything.
Speaker 8: Is exactly, but it's like, you know, you can't change
Speaker 8: a person. Yea, they are in their character right. So
Speaker 8: it's almost like, don't get into a situation trying to
Speaker 8: change a person.
Speaker 2: You gotta, you know, meet someone where they're at.
Speaker 1: Yeah, either enjoy yourself or if that's not what you
Speaker 1: want and be realistic.
Speaker 4: What about you?
Speaker 1: I can tell us about some red flags that you none.
Speaker 5: I don't date. I'll just be out here in these streets.
Speaker 1: There's been a couple of times that there's some people
Speaker 1: You're like, I really like this person.
Speaker 6: No, there has been and there has been some Okay,
Speaker 6: so there was this dude I was talking to and
Speaker 6: there were definitely red flags and I'm still actively ignoring them.
Speaker 5: Fair enough, He's had two wives and now he's in
Speaker 5: demand again. Now he's like gay and we're still talking.
Speaker 6: So I'll be on the next episode.
Speaker 4: I'll let y'all know, consider himself bisexual? Is he now gay?
Speaker 5: He's gay? Okay, he's here for the dick.
Speaker 4: Now he's gay dick.
Speaker 5: So tune in three or four more months. I'll be
Speaker 5: up here. The woman.
Speaker 4: He went back to the other side. Is he openly
Speaker 4: gay or yeah?
Speaker 5: Okay?
Speaker 4: And giz, what about you?
Speaker 5: Oh man?
Speaker 7: You know my biggest red flag? There's two actually, Oh
Speaker 7: my god, y'all can't breathe I'm sorry, there's two actually.
Speaker 7: So the first one is I went back to the
Speaker 7: same person eighteen thousand times, even though he was cheating
Speaker 7: on me and you know, going behind my back end,
Speaker 7: having sex with girls that we had three sons with
Speaker 7: and all types of shit.
Speaker 4: First red flag.
Speaker 7: Second red flag was I said yes to a three
Speaker 7: day engagement and it was engaged for sixty five days.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 4: And I was really for it. But I don't know
Speaker 4: if that's a red flag.
Speaker 3: It was.
Speaker 4: It was. I mean I called it.
Speaker 7: I called his bluff and said yes, but like it
Speaker 7: was a whole like love bomb.
Speaker 4: That's a red flag. Yeah, I should have saw that
Speaker 4: to call someone.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she said, yeah he was.
Speaker 3: I didn't know. I mean I experienced love bombing, and
Speaker 3: of course many times, but when I was able to
Speaker 3: understand what it really was and how many times I've
Speaker 3: experienced it and the letdown, Yeah.
Speaker 6: I've done some stupid stuff for fine people. Find people
Speaker 6: make you do dumb ship.
Speaker 4: Tell me what love bombing is exactly. I know. It's
Speaker 4: like people just.
Speaker 8: It's like an alcohol of attention and then affection from
Speaker 8: the start.
Speaker 2: It is a that's a huge red flag to me.
Speaker 8: When a girl a friend of mine comes up to
Speaker 8: me and says like, oh, you know, we talk all day,
Speaker 8: I'm like, dang right, why y'all talking all day?
Speaker 2: Why y'all going back?
Speaker 8: You know, it doesn't make sense right because you know
Speaker 8: they give you, they can't maintain that type of attention,
Speaker 8: so it's all about the hunt that they're chasing you
Speaker 8: to get you.
Speaker 4: It's kind of normal in the beginning, where you like
Speaker 4: talk all the time.
Speaker 3: And yeah, but love red flags thing is more when
Speaker 3: they're it feels obsessive, it feels like and they are
Speaker 3: also they everything you want. They are. They mold themselves
Speaker 3: into like appearing that they are those things. I experienced that,
Speaker 3: and it was it was a lot for me because
Speaker 3: it went from one extreme to the other because when
Speaker 3: he realized that I wasn't gonna I wasn't ready to
Speaker 3: go there, it was like, you know, and then and
Speaker 3: then he probably went somewhere else and tried something, and
Speaker 3: then when that didn't work out, came back and then.
Speaker 3: But the love bombing is is somebody who keeps you
Speaker 3: so occupied that you don't have time for yourself and
Speaker 3: your life to really assess what's happening because you're so
Speaker 3: you're constantly so invested.
Speaker 1: So I'm glad you said I want to read this
Speaker 1: to you, guys, because this is a post that I
Speaker 1: saw on social media and see if you agree or disagree.
Speaker 1: I never used to understand why people in healthy relationships
Speaker 1: isolate themselves from everyone, but now I get it. Once
Speaker 1: you find your person, you realize that then you have
Speaker 1: been you justly searching for and come and go friendships,
Speaker 1: relationships and partying will never amount to the presence of
Speaker 1: this one human And so you know how when you
Speaker 1: get into I just like.
Speaker 6: No, yeah, that's the textbook definition of love bombing.
Speaker 1: Really, because I saw a lot of people liking this post.
Speaker 1: And you know how you could be with somebody and
Speaker 1: it's like, really just the two of you, like you
Speaker 1: don't go anywhere anymore, just be with chaboo.
Speaker 3: I don't think I think that's intense under the freeway, Yeah,
Speaker 3: you know, I just think that's the the I remember
Speaker 3: I went to Dela Reese's church.
Speaker 4: She is.
Speaker 3: It was like the the Science Mind Church, you know,
Speaker 3: like metaphysical thinking church. And I remember that she the
Speaker 3: lady preaching, said, y'all out here fantasizing about Jerry maguire.
Speaker 3: You you complete me. She's like, that's the most dysfunctional
Speaker 3: thing I've ever heard in my life. Two incomplete people
Speaker 3: do not make a whole person. Two incomplete people just
Speaker 3: equal to complete people. It's important to be a fully
Speaker 3: realized and self developed human being that has your own
Speaker 3: life and your own existence to be able to be
Speaker 3: in a healthy relationship. This is what I've been learning
Speaker 3: in this thing, because I was with somebody who would
Speaker 3: do everything with me. He would go people, he'd be
Speaker 3: at the comedy club and they'd be like, you going
Speaker 3: up tonight.
Speaker 5: So much.
Speaker 3: They were like, you got to have a set. At
Speaker 3: this point, yeah, but it's not healthy. And it's insecurity
Speaker 3: that you latch onto somebody, you trauma bond and you're
Speaker 3: with them all the time. And what happens to you
Speaker 3: the individual? Because we all came here along with our
Speaker 3: own purpose. So what you do when you what are
Speaker 3: y'all gonna, y'all gonna, we're gonna start a label together?
Speaker 3: You just unhealthy? It is the epitome. And yes, when
Speaker 3: you are in a romance and you are in love
Speaker 3: with somebody and it works, there are moments where everybody
Speaker 3: else disappears.
Speaker 5: But which to do?
Speaker 3: When you have a baby, you gona ignore your baby
Speaker 3: because you're with this person.
Speaker 5: You know, Like, what about your job.
Speaker 3: Your career, your own purpose? What about your grandmama? You're
Speaker 3: not gonna see your grandmoma. He is the one that
Speaker 3: sounds crazy.
Speaker 4: What do you think, guys, have you ever been in
Speaker 4: that situation?
Speaker 8: I think I was co dependent before. I think I
Speaker 8: had this conversation with you, right, like just being in
Speaker 8: my marriage. So like you said something interesting, you said,
Speaker 8: you came into this world alone.
Speaker 2: Right, most of the time, you're going to die alone.
Speaker 2: So whether you know the person dies.
Speaker 8: Before you or you die before them, or whatever, or
Speaker 8: they cheat and they break up. I always feel like,
Speaker 8: you have to learn how to be happy with yourself, right,
Speaker 8: You have to learn how to be happy with yourself
Speaker 8: because if another person, if you're dependent on that other
Speaker 8: person to make you happy, then you're not really happy.
Speaker 4: Right. So I feel like.
Speaker 8: I can see a situation when you're in love and
Speaker 8: you're with someone every day, and that's cool, but don't
Speaker 8: lose yourself in that because you anything can happen, and
Speaker 8: you don't want to feel like, you know, you're so
Speaker 8: co dependent that you can't exist without that person when
Speaker 8: that person goes away.
Speaker 1: I feel like it's possible for me to be with
Speaker 1: somebody all the time anyway. Yeah, yeah, because I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 1: at work, I'm here, I'm doing other things. Like if
Speaker 1: I'm with somebody, if I'm lucky, I'm gonna see you
Speaker 1: for like four hours, you know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, But you also have you have your own angela
Speaker 3: yee life. You go on trips with your girlfriends.
Speaker 4: You know, you don't have a problem with girls trips.
Speaker 1: I saw there a post about that, like, oh, you know,
Speaker 1: I don't do girls trips and if I go somewhere.
Speaker 5: We have a problem with it. Is it men that
Speaker 5: have a problem with women not doing no girl Any.
Speaker 6: Woman who's like I don't have any women friends, Like, oh,
Speaker 6: so you just that is you're not a fun person,
Speaker 6: Like you don't have any women friends.
Speaker 5: That's why you hate yourself? Yeah, I hate other women.
Speaker 4: It's just weird.
Speaker 5: That's weird.
Speaker 6: Yeah, because I have all types of friends, right, I
Speaker 6: feel the same way with some, even though even some
Speaker 6: straight gay people were like, I don't have any gay friends.
Speaker 6: I'm like, why do you have any gay friends? And
Speaker 6: I don't have a lot because I do comedy for
Speaker 6: a living. But I still have some.
Speaker 3: But my idea of being in a good, healthy relationship
Speaker 3: is being with somebody who when I go on a
Speaker 3: girl's trip, is like, I trust my my woman. I
Speaker 3: know she's gonna be and I can be like, oh
Speaker 3: he in Vegas with his boys. You're not nervous, no,
Speaker 3: because if he's gonna cheat, he'll cheat down the streets. Yeah.
Speaker 5: The location has nothing to do with cheat. And if
Speaker 5: you're gonna be a cheater, you gonna be a cheat.
Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly. My boyfriend is like, I like when we
Speaker 4: miss each other.
Speaker 8: I like that too, Right, when you're away from someone
Speaker 8: and then you get to miss them because then you
Speaker 8: you value the time you spend together more.
Speaker 1: So, what about friends of the opposite sex, Like if
Speaker 1: you're with somebody that's and and I want to say
Speaker 1: I saw this. Was it on Taylor Rooks and Joy
Speaker 1: Taylor's podcast. They were saying that they couldn't trust a
Speaker 1: man who didn't have female friends.
Speaker 4: And I've always said that too, because I agree.
Speaker 6: With that because if you don't have female friends and
Speaker 6: you're a straight man, then that leads me to believe
Speaker 6: that you only think of women as sex But if
Speaker 6: you only see women as sex objects, then that's gross.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because some people think there's no such thing as
Speaker 1: platonic friendships those and those are people.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I hate when people say that. Yeah, like so
Speaker 8: that they can't be platonic.
Speaker 3: Oh, I've been that insecure. I have been that insecure
Speaker 3: that I have felt threatened by a female relationship that
Speaker 3: my partner has with a woman that that's been platonic
Speaker 3: before I even came along. But I know that it
Speaker 3: was insecurity, which that's stepnumber seven. But I just I've
Speaker 3: been that insecure where I've been like, I'm the only
Speaker 3: friends you need. You don't need to be. And you
Speaker 3: know this other thing being Puerto Rican that's very celebrated
Speaker 3: in our culture. Like my mom is like, because you know,
Speaker 3: Puerto Rican women are jealous and we're violent, and I'm like,
Speaker 3: that's toxic and unhealthy and it's exhausting, and so walk
Speaker 3: around being that all the time. It's not going to
Speaker 3: do anything but make your liver sick. Like, I don't
Speaker 3: want to live my life like that, but I've been
Speaker 3: so insecure in a relationship that the thought of my
Speaker 3: partner looking at somebody's page made me feel because it
Speaker 3: was how I feel about myself. So, you know, and
Speaker 3: I don't want to be like that. I don't I
Speaker 3: want you to have a friend. I want you to
Speaker 3: see women as people.
Speaker 1: Right now, you're right, How after you put out your
Speaker 1: book and your special and the documentary and everything that
Speaker 1: you've done, do you feel like there's been like a
Speaker 1: weight lifted off of you for being able to tell
Speaker 1: your story?
Speaker 3: Yeah? You know, it's funny, my therapist told me, because
Speaker 3: I've had a pinch nerve for like six weeks, and
Speaker 3: my therapist was like, you have trauma trapped in your body.
Speaker 3: And Mama Souse was like I would not be surprised
Speaker 3: that since you had that download of all that stuff
Speaker 3: coming out, it's all just trying to get out of
Speaker 3: your body, because you know, I got raped, so then
Speaker 3: trauma's trauma gets trapped in your physical body. And I've
Speaker 3: been that was the other thing that I've been dealing
Speaker 3: with in this thing, is like getting that stuff out
Speaker 3: of me. But I said things in that book I was.
Speaker 3: My mom still hasn't read it because I don't want
Speaker 3: I don't want her to read it because I don't
Speaker 3: want her to hurt. But I said things in that
Speaker 3: book that I had never been able to get out.
Speaker 3: And it's only because I sat down and wrote it
Speaker 3: that I was able to get that stuff out of,
Speaker 3: you know, and hopefully it'll help somebody else, you know,
Speaker 3: because people are like you. Puerto Ricans were like you.
Speaker 3: You don't air out our dirty lune.
Speaker 1: Yet that's definitely a cultural thing too, I mean even
Speaker 1: for Caribbean culture. You're not everything is supposed to be
Speaker 1: like in the family.
Speaker 4: Like that too.
Speaker 6: Nothing gets fixed if you keep it all.
Speaker 1: I wonder what the conversation you'll have with your mom
Speaker 1: is if she ever went because I know at.
Speaker 3: Some point will I forget. I mean, I told her
Speaker 3: I had to forgive myself because a lot of the
Speaker 3: stuff was me holding that in. But I adore my mother, And.
Speaker 1: I know you talked about how you don't want people
Speaker 1: to hate your mom, and that was a big jail
Speaker 1: for you.
Speaker 3: She had her first baby when she was like thirteen,
Speaker 3: and she was a victim of abuse, and so what
Speaker 3: was she going to do?
Speaker 5: You know?
Speaker 3: That's the thing like people are like when you hear
Speaker 3: those conservatives talking about liberals and you hear them talking
Speaker 3: about poor people there's no father in the home and
Speaker 3: all that bullshit that they're always saying about things that
Speaker 3: you know, affect everybody, not just people of color. There
Speaker 3: are a lot of single parents led white homes and
Speaker 3: real America. But that's the bullshit that the things that
Speaker 3: we are always holding people to, these metrics where they
Speaker 3: don't have the resources to meet. My mom didn't grow
Speaker 3: up and you know, going to school, having therapy, having
Speaker 3: a resource.
Speaker 5: That's a new phenomenon.
Speaker 3: So I have to give her grace, Like what was
Speaker 3: she going to do? She had she was a kid
Speaker 3: with a kid, you know what I mean.
Speaker 4: And so and like you said, forgiveness is for you also.
Speaker 3: Oh self, their baby, the best self care you can
Speaker 3: give yourself.
Speaker 4: I can't wait till you write your book.
Speaker 3: That's all.
Speaker 6: Neither come on Audible, give me on them deals.
Speaker 1: Because you know, comedy is a form of therapy too,
Speaker 1: it is. That's how I got started.
Speaker 5: But I will say it's also not therapy. Comedians.
Speaker 3: Man has become a.
Speaker 5: Mess because it is not right now.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you guys are.
Speaker 3: You will? It is a lot of it's just drama though,
Speaker 3: But you would think by the way that these comedians
Speaker 3: be talking that they can fight.
Speaker 5: That's why I know I can't fight. I talked about
Speaker 5: how I can't fight.
Speaker 3: It's a couple of them.
Speaker 5: But yeah, I am not a fighting gay. I'm not
Speaker 5: one of them. Games like that is not all right?
Speaker 1: And then do you feel like you have to pick
Speaker 1: a side sometimes too, because there are people.
Speaker 5: Who sometimes yeah, you know they.
Speaker 1: See you with this person, but you have some type
Speaker 1: of solidarity with this person who might have put you
Speaker 1: on more than this person. You know that's hard because well,
Speaker 1: you know, people are sensitive. Comedians are sensitive.
Speaker 3: I'm friends with a comedian who has beef with everybody.
Speaker 3: He actually took me I mean took me on the
Speaker 3: roll when my grandmother died. Was the one that was like,
Speaker 3: I'm talking about Corey hocom you know, like, I don't
Speaker 3: inherit other people's beef because I think that the thing
Speaker 3: about and my son was the one that told me,
Speaker 3: he's like you dealing with somebody else's situation that you
Speaker 3: have nothing to do with. You don't know where those
Speaker 3: people were at that point in time where they're going
Speaker 3: through this, and now you want to say, oh, because
Speaker 3: you said this, it's really hard in comedy. I'll tell
Speaker 3: you what, I'm so disappointed by. What I'm disappointed by
Speaker 3: is all this beef, All this he says, she say,
Speaker 3: they say, we say, and ain't nothing coming out in
Speaker 3: the comedy Like I would expect that after said comedian
Speaker 3: said all these things. That comedian was like, you would
Speaker 3: see a slew of comedy specials with some fire ass
Speaker 3: jokes like when when uh nas and jay Z Yeah,
Speaker 3: let's get you, Like, where are those comedy specials.
Speaker 5: That are podcast? All the doing is like you me
Speaker 5: on the podcast.
Speaker 3: On the podcast, I'm going take it on right, the
Speaker 3: most clever joke that you could ever write about? Remember
Speaker 3: what Jamie Fox did that special when he said j
Speaker 3: punks him all in his mouth. It was he went
Speaker 3: out to stage and did jokes about the people who
Speaker 3: had said something about him. He went in on j log,
Speaker 3: but it was that it was in the joke and
Speaker 3: it was funny.
Speaker 4: And then you kind of can't get mad because it's comedy.
Speaker 4: I mean you can, but you understand that.
Speaker 5: But but now everyone's just like just doing it on.
Speaker 3: The Where is that comedy eather? Where is the takeover?
Speaker 3: That's what I was as a comedian. I was like,
Speaker 3: all right, we're shaking it up. Kat Williams did he
Speaker 3: connection on January fourth?
Speaker 9: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah, he has been on stage, and I haven't been
Speaker 1: at the shows because now it's as harder to see
Speaker 1: the content because you can't bring phones in.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so there might be stuff going on. We just
Speaker 4: may not.
Speaker 1: Also, Oh well, I know Kat talks about it on Sage.
Speaker 1: I feel like he has because I seen a couple
Speaker 1: of little custins.
Speaker 3: But I did a show with Cedric on Friday and
Speaker 3: he talked about it. He's okay, and it was funny
Speaker 3: and it wasn't even it wasn't malicious because Cedric is
Speaker 3: not a malicious person doesn't. People will say, well, why
Speaker 3: Cedric is not. He's not a malicious.
Speaker 5: Seem like a family guy.
Speaker 3: He's just not. He's a good spirited person. And the
Speaker 3: thing about this is like we as people of color,
Speaker 3: will shoot on each other and shoot each other out,
Speaker 3: but we get in these public spaces that none of
Speaker 3: these white names come up, and you only black comedians
Speaker 3: stealing jokes? Yeah, only not comedian stealing calling everybody? Are
Speaker 3: you only calling the people who.
Speaker 5: Look like you? That's why. That's why I said this
Speaker 5: on Copage podcast.
Speaker 6: I think Kat Williams is like the King of cold
Speaker 6: twitching because he was. He went on Shape Club with
Speaker 6: all this animosity and energy and called our earthquake. Can't
Speaker 6: read this niggag shit. He did all that and then
Speaker 6: he called off Joe Rogan he's like jokes and booking
Speaker 6: the same mediocre white people. And then he went on
Speaker 6: Joe Rogan show and proceeded to talk about space and
Speaker 6: aliens for three hours. Wow, nigga, you just said that
Speaker 6: he wasn't ship. Now you're on his show say that
Speaker 6: he ain't.
Speaker 4: Ship Like I didn't walk about that.
Speaker 6: It was three hours of of of of aliens, made
Speaker 6: the Pyramids.
Speaker 1: All that saff was a conversation, Yeah, because brother and
Speaker 1: Martin had some things to say about that.
Speaker 4: The Mentho that was that was.
Speaker 6: Why It's like show you had three thousand books and
Speaker 6: none of them was on Mentho's Nigga.
Speaker 3: Teocrat, where you got a journalists crack coming back with
Speaker 3: clever jokes and the comedians but Hurt.
Speaker 5: I'm like, why are you?
Speaker 3: Why are you in your field? And then you go
Speaker 3: sit around the most instigating people that are just gonna
Speaker 3: be like, hey, so such and such as because everybody's
Speaker 3: trying to get their videos to go viral, go to
Speaker 3: Netflix and say I got a fire ass hour. I'm
Speaker 3: gonna address all of this. I wouldn't even talk on
Speaker 3: a podcast. I'll be like, you know what, see me
Speaker 3: on y'all.
Speaker 1: It shakes so long because by the time you address
Speaker 1: things in a Netflix special, it'd be like months later.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, like Chris, well, you know what the thing is?
Speaker 3: You going on stage recorded and put the clip up.
Speaker 6: That's what everybody and then still stand up, Yeah, do the.
Speaker 3: Stand up clip?
Speaker 4: Well.
Speaker 1: Godfre's like he's doing a go fundme, So shout out
Speaker 1: to him for that because he wants to do his
Speaker 1: own special, so he's trying to raise money to do
Speaker 1: it because it's time. And I do admire when people
Speaker 1: can say, all right, i'm gonna figure this out.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna own my stuff, you know.
Speaker 6: Because the industries ain't The industries are still being the industry.
Speaker 6: So they picked who they like and if you don't,
Speaker 6: if they don't like you.
Speaker 3: That's what we should be rebelling about that somebody like
Speaker 3: Godfrey doesn't have an hour exactly that's what you should
Speaker 3: be and he could, like.
Speaker 1: Somebody would do it, you know, he said, Shack hit
Speaker 1: him up. But it's also ownership too, and I'm having
Speaker 1: control over the country.
Speaker 6: But the fact that Netflix hasn't came to him when
Speaker 6: the deal is insane, right right, But it's like, but
Speaker 6: they like who they like, and if you're not, if
Speaker 6: you're not the Dave Chappelle's of at all, But then I.
Speaker 1: Look at like a Joe Koy who couldn't get a
Speaker 1: deal either and then did his own special and then
Speaker 1: you know, and maybe you'll get more.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know that anyone who did. They ready,
Speaker 3: all twelve of us got our special from Netflix. No,
Speaker 3: they not one of us.
Speaker 6: Which is insane because every one of you are justifiably
Speaker 6: could do.
Speaker 5: An hour oh for sure.
Speaker 3: I mean I went and did mind an HBO Max.
Speaker 3: But what I'm telling you is nobody in that. And
Speaker 3: and listen, we got viewership because even though they don't
Speaker 3: give us our numbers, there are people there who do
Speaker 3: tell you, hey, look, but the thing is, there are
Speaker 3: people who've been doing stand up way longer than me,
Speaker 3: who deserve an hour special before me. I am humble
Speaker 3: enough to say that, but they didn't give anybody. We
Speaker 3: can't sit around and wait on these institutions.
Speaker 1: And I produces specials as well for other comedians. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Walk that walk, talk that talk. Okay,
Speaker 1: Angela goes to them.
Speaker 4: I will be there all right.
Speaker 1: Well, listen you guys. I appreciate y'all for coming through.
Speaker 1: We talked, we were all over the place. Yes, we
Speaker 1: talked about sex parties, and we ended with therapy.
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 4: But Ada Rodriguez I keen with. I appreciate both of you.
Speaker 1: Make sure you follow them, make sure you go see
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Speaker 3: Yeah funny. So actually April sixth, I will be with
Speaker 3: U in Prairie Texas with t I, Tiffany Hottish, Ryan Evans,
Speaker 3: and Capone. We're doing the show, so make sure you
Speaker 3: check that out. But if you go to funny Ida
Speaker 3: dot com you'll see where all my shows are and
Speaker 3: make sure you check them out.
Speaker 6: You see me there and a Keen same thing. Keenwoods
Speaker 6: dot com has all my tour dates. I can't think
Speaker 6: of any April dates right now, but go look atwood
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Speaker 5: I don't know where I'm at, but I'm out here.
Speaker 1: I'm out there all right, well gg south by Southwest
Speaker 1: on the City documentary on the way, and.
Speaker 4: Wait to see that Sarrio girl not on tour.
Speaker 7: We'll see what we are tuned into the impact every
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