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Speaker 9: Good morning everybody.
Speaker 2: You are listening to the voice, come on, dig me
Speaker 2: now on and only Steve Harvey got a radio show.
Speaker 9: Man, oh man, oh man? How good is God to me?
Speaker 2: And part of the mission and the reason that I
Speaker 2: have a radio show is to become a share of
Speaker 2: more and more of a share of you know. I
Speaker 2: used to hear my mother say it to me all
Speaker 2: the time. But God blesses you to become a blessing.
Speaker 2: And I think the more you understand that about yourself,
Speaker 2: I think the more blessings will flow your way. I
Speaker 2: think that once you understand the principle that.
Speaker 10: You know.
Speaker 9: But it's kind of tied together with some other scriptures, and.
Speaker 2: I'm not too knowledgeable about them, of course, as usual,
Speaker 2: but I do know what I've heard. You know, and
Speaker 2: you know if you look at something simple as do
Speaker 2: unto others as you would have them do unto you,
Speaker 2: wouldn't you want somebody to help you if you needed help.
Speaker 2: I just know how to get it down there to
Speaker 2: where I've been able to understand it. If there's a
Speaker 2: scripture similar that it says do unto others as you
Speaker 2: would have them do unto you, or if that's you
Speaker 2: know in a prayer, would not you want somebody to
Speaker 2: help you if you needed help? You've heard you reap
Speaker 2: what you sew? Do you understand that if you so discord,
Speaker 2: that discord is gonna come your way. That if you hate,
Speaker 2: hate gonna come your way. If you blog nothing but
Speaker 2: negative comments about people, your life will be filled with negativity.
Speaker 2: If all you do is talk about people, then guess
Speaker 2: what somebody got to turn that gun around and talk
Speaker 2: about you. See, it just stands to reason. So what
Speaker 2: I've learned in my life and through all the trials
Speaker 2: and tribulations that I've had, is to take those lessons
Speaker 2: and share them with people in case you ain't heard
Speaker 2: it from somebody else. See sometimes, and the reason it
Speaker 2: seems like I'm redundant at times is which I am
Speaker 2: is because I'm always trying to find a different way
Speaker 2: to say the same thing. Because it's a funny thing. Man,
Speaker 2: you got to hear it a certain way for it
Speaker 2: to click with you. How many times have I heard
Speaker 2: a saying and then I heard it a different way
Speaker 2: that it clicked with me. You know, I've heard this
Speaker 2: saying right here. Remember this now, everybody's not happy for you.
Speaker 2: We've all heard that, right everybody's not happy for you. Well,
Speaker 2: that's very simple. I don't need no explanation. That simply
Speaker 2: means of all the people you know or do not know,
Speaker 2: when something happens to you and you celebrate, everybody.
Speaker 9: Not gonna join in on the celebration.
Speaker 1: That's all that is.
Speaker 2: But then you take it one step further. My father
Speaker 2: used to say something to me all the time. He said, son,
Speaker 2: everybody come with you can't go with you. I didn't
Speaker 2: get that when I was fifteen. Everybody come with you,
Speaker 2: can't go with you. He said, you're gonna lose some
Speaker 2: of these friends you got along the way. But I
Speaker 2: don't care where you get in life. Know this right here,
Speaker 2: everybody can't go with you if you are constantly trying
Speaker 2: to improve yourself. You constantly have to take assessment of
Speaker 2: the people around you, because if you are going to
Speaker 2: continue to go and continue to grow, then guess what
Speaker 2: you got to have people that's on the goal and
Speaker 2: willing to grow, or else.
Speaker 9: Guess what.
Speaker 2: You're gonna learn the valuable lesson. You know, the late
Speaker 2: boxing promoter Butch Lewis. I was talking with Butch Lewis
Speaker 2: one time, and man with a good brother. Man, he say,
Speaker 2: every successful man is doing what I call he got
Speaker 2: rope work to do. He got rope work to do.
Speaker 2: He got to put in work on rope. And I'm
Speaker 2: sitting there listening to Butch Lewis and all the money
Speaker 2: he had made and all the people's lives he had changed,
Speaker 2: and all of the moves he was making. And he's
Speaker 2: an incredible skills as a negotiator on behalf of some
Speaker 2: very very wealthy people.
Speaker 9: He was just an amazing man with no education, but
Speaker 9: he read everything.
Speaker 2: He Butch Lewis read all the papers, all the periodicals.
Speaker 2: That brother knew everything. He said, you got to put
Speaker 2: in rope. And I was sitting there listening. He said,
Speaker 2: here's the analogy, little brother. He said, you are on
Speaker 2: rope there's a thick rope. You have on no shirt,
Speaker 2: you have on some tattered clothes, you have on no shoes.
Speaker 2: Your shorts is cut off just below the knee, and
Speaker 2: they tatted, and you got dirt on you and your sweating.
Speaker 2: There's this huge, huge raw rope over your shoulder. There's
Speaker 2: burn marks on all of your shoulder. Connected to that
Speaker 2: rope is a wagon. That wagon has all your weight
Speaker 2: on it, all your responsibilities, all the people you're responsible for,
Speaker 2: all your children, your wife, your family members, your employees,
Speaker 2: your coworkers, your friends. They all on that wagon. Man,
Speaker 2: they just sitting there. He's saying, what you gotta do
Speaker 2: is you gotta pull that wagon up the heel.
Speaker 7: Now.
Speaker 2: The only thing with it is, can't nobody help you
Speaker 2: pull your wagon? You pull your wagon alone. He say, Now,
Speaker 2: what you can do along the way of pulling your
Speaker 2: wagon is you can find yourself a good wife, a
Speaker 2: good woman. He say, Now, what that woman does is
Speaker 2: she get down off the wagon. She fan you while
Speaker 2: you pull it. She put water on you while you
Speaker 2: pull it. She puts stuff in your mouth while you
Speaker 2: pull it. She kicked rocks out the weight while you
Speaker 2: pull it.
Speaker 9: But she but she pull it for you.
Speaker 2: But she is equally as important as you are on
Speaker 2: the pull the rope. He say, you hear me clearly now,
Speaker 2: young soldier, He said, nah, I got this here, he says,
Speaker 2: people on your wagon.
Speaker 9: That you're responsible for.
Speaker 2: But you want the people on your wagon to help
Speaker 2: you get your wagon to the top. So what you
Speaker 2: hope is that they got their foot hanging over the
Speaker 2: side pushing, They got one leg over the back, or
Speaker 2: maybe both legs over the back pushing. They got they
Speaker 2: might have their butt on the wagon, but they push
Speaker 2: you with both legs they back facing your back, maybe
Speaker 2: some of them facing you when one of them got.
Speaker 9: Left leg hanging over trying to push.
Speaker 2: And you hope that all them people on the wagon
Speaker 2: you pulling is back there at least trying to help
Speaker 2: the wagon get to the top of the hill.
Speaker 9: Here go your problem.
Speaker 2: Though, everybody ain't pushing, Everybody ain't pulling. Ain't everybody ain't pulling,
Speaker 2: Everybody ain't kicking rocks out the way. You got some
Speaker 2: people on your wagon that's just laying on the wagon,
Speaker 2: drinking lemonade, looking at you, talking about how long it's
Speaker 2: taking you to get your wagon up to the top.
Speaker 2: Looking at you, talking about why this wagon is so slow.
Speaker 2: Then when you start picking up picking up speed, they
Speaker 2: want you to pull harder, you to pull faster, you
Speaker 2: to pull more. Then they want you to throw what
Speaker 2: you then earned on the way up the hill backed
Speaker 2: on the wagon so they can have MO. But guess what,
Speaker 2: they ain't helping you get more. But they got a
Speaker 2: sense of entitlement that since you got MO, they should
Speaker 2: have MO. Everybody come with you can't go with you.
Speaker 2: Sometimes you gotta kick the people off the wagon that
Speaker 2: ain't pushing and pull it and say, hey man, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: I thought I could do this with you, and I
Speaker 2: thought you was going with me. But it's clear to
Speaker 2: me you ain't nothing but dead weight. And it ain't
Speaker 2: my responsibility to carry dead weight anymore. I have carried
Speaker 2: you as long as I have to carry you. You
Speaker 2: are no longer my responsibility. I'm responsible for my family,
Speaker 2: my wife, my children. I'm not responsible for you. You
Speaker 2: got to get off my wagon because I'm a man
Speaker 2: on rope. I'm on a mission. Baby, I'm pulling.
Speaker 3: You're listening, shot Hardy Morning.
Speaker 9: Show Ladies and gentlemen, the time has come, a new
Speaker 9: day has arrived. He did it again. And God boy,
Speaker 9: he's something else.
Speaker 4: Man.
Speaker 9: He the only one could do it.
Speaker 2: Man. You know what he show up, never been late,
Speaker 2: track record, one thousand percent, accountability, all of it. He
Speaker 2: checks all the blocks. I don't know nobody else check
Speaker 2: all the blocks. But God, Almighty. Wow, that's a good
Speaker 2: friend to have. Man, check all the block. God answers
Speaker 2: to all your question and got a solution to all
Speaker 2: your problems. Man, if you don't do nothing else, get
Speaker 2: your relationship with God. Man, if you don't do nothing else.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 2: So, sometimes your focus is too much on a relationship
Speaker 2: on a man or woman. You better get you some God. Man,
Speaker 2: somebody ain't gonna ever check out on you. That's all
Speaker 2: I'm saying. Steve Harbin, Marty Show, Shery Strawberry, call the
Speaker 2: Frail mississipp Marnica Jr.
Speaker 9: And the legend that is nephew Tommy Well Jr.
Speaker 11: Yeah, I just got a question for you this morning.
Speaker 11: I got a question for you this morning. Consider this
Speaker 11: is Easter week.
Speaker 9: Up. Could you have been a disciple lord with the
Speaker 9: Lord back in the day? Up?
Speaker 11: Could you have followed the Lord back in the day.
Speaker 11: Steve Harvey's disciple. Could you be a disciple.
Speaker 9: Look, I'm doing it now. I'm talking about walking with
Speaker 9: me every day. You would complain by nothing, you would
Speaker 9: have No, Steve didn't. I didn't say that. I said
Speaker 9: I be a disciple. Yeah, yeah, Now you know.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go over there with him. But all this
Speaker 2: y'all talking about doing it, all this, his spitting, all
Speaker 2: this here, That's what I'm here for.
Speaker 12: Now.
Speaker 9: When Jesus leaves, I'm gonna come back over here to eve.
Speaker 2: Through something. Next time we come to town here. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 2: you know I'll be back there. I'll be back selling
Speaker 2: all the stories. So y'all gonna throw something five thousand,
Speaker 2: y'all all, y'all hung You ain't see what they deal
Speaker 2: with their fish? Yeah huh, I'll be his hype man.
Speaker 2: Five fish, two long bread.
Speaker 13: You ain't on you.
Speaker 9: You aren't there for that. Yeah, he wouldn't be there
Speaker 9: for that. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Last, and then I know he already knew, but i'd
Speaker 2: have been on him by Judas. Hey, hey man, we
Speaker 2: need out of here because right here he's tripping.
Speaker 9: You can already tell.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm a I'm I'm I'm a warm Judas. Though
Speaker 2: I know I noticed the way it's got to go. Yeah,
Speaker 2: but when I find out about it though, yeah, y'all
Speaker 2: could have been one.
Speaker 9: But you know, it's just.
Speaker 2: You know, man, I think I've come to the I've
Speaker 2: come to understand better and better as I walk with him.
Speaker 2: You know that they are none perfect, no, not one
Speaker 2: and so and so. As I keep that in mind,
Speaker 2: I keep that in mind for myself. And I watch
Speaker 2: a lot of people online and stuff because I follow
Speaker 2: a lot of motivation and stuff. And you know, I
Speaker 2: watch some people out there talking about perfection. Okay, if
Speaker 2: all you doing is talking about it, you.
Speaker 9: Do know that, don't. We ain't gonna never get there, boy,
Speaker 9: all right, I ain't seeing the chip, all right?
Speaker 14: Coming up with thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll
Speaker 14: hear from the nephew as he runs that prank back
Speaker 14: right after this. You're listening hard morning show. It is
Speaker 14: time now for the nephew to run that brenk back
Speaker 14: what you got for his nef.
Speaker 7: Oh, this is just a this is just a you know,
Speaker 7: difficult time every time of the year. I just don't
Speaker 7: know what to do.
Speaker 13: Man.
Speaker 7: Every time your wife birthday come up, I don't know
Speaker 7: what to do, just trying to figure out what I'm
Speaker 7: gonna do, what I'm gonna get for I just it
Speaker 7: just sends me just I don't know, I just be
Speaker 7: out of control. I got to get her something. I
Speaker 7: don't know what to get her. Yeah, it's just exhausting, man,
Speaker 7: just not knowing what I'm gonna do for your wife
Speaker 7: on her birthday. I just don't know what I'm gonna do.
Speaker 7: But I got to figure something out. I can'tnot do nothing,
Speaker 7: you know, I can't. I got to get her something.
Speaker 7: So yeah, anyway, your wife's birthday, Boy, what is we
Speaker 7: gonna do?
Speaker 12: Lord?
Speaker 7: My grandmama saying, chih today, I don't come on, man,
Speaker 7: your wife's birthday.
Speaker 9: Let's go cat.
Speaker 4: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach there.
Speaker 8: Yeah, what's up?
Speaker 4: What's going on? Brother?
Speaker 12: My name is Chris.
Speaker 4: I work with your wife, Sharon. I think I think
Speaker 4: I'm gonna senior at one of the one of the
Speaker 4: gatherings before, man, like a happy we had for work
Speaker 4: or something. I don't know if you remember me or not.
Speaker 4: Now I don't remember you, Okay, okay, cool, Hey listen, man,
Speaker 4: I know sharing birthday is coming up, so I wanted
Speaker 4: to if you didn't mind. I hope you don't mind
Speaker 4: me called. I wanted to reach out and see if
Speaker 4: you were, uh you know, what you were getting her
Speaker 4: for a birthday. You know we're gonna pitch in and
Speaker 4: get us something at the job. Make sure you know
Speaker 4: we didn't get you know, you know what you may
Speaker 4: have be gonna get her.
Speaker 15: You know what I'm saying kind of like something like
Speaker 15: a grab bag or something like that.
Speaker 4: Uh No, I wasn't gonna hit her with no grab man.
Speaker 4: I was just you know, like I said, we were
Speaker 4: gonna get something. You know, we haven't really put our
Speaker 4: put our all the thoughts to it or what we
Speaker 4: was gonna get yet, but I want, I personally want
Speaker 4: to see what you was getting that way. We don't
Speaker 4: you know do Okay?
Speaker 8: Well, she likes money, man, you can you know, uh
Speaker 8: give us some give us some cash or you know,
Speaker 8: Starbucks card or uh something from McDonald something. You know,
Speaker 8: it don't have to be too big. She she don't
Speaker 8: uh you don't.
Speaker 15: Have to, you know, she she's not that material a
Speaker 15: listic Okay, okay.
Speaker 4: Let me let me let me ask you this so deep.
Speaker 4: Uh do you uh you know what a size is?
Speaker 4: Do I know what a size is like clothing, you know,
Speaker 4: do you know what side she will?
Speaker 5: Uh?
Speaker 15: Yeah, I know what size she's about. She's my wife. Man,
Speaker 15: What I think this is kind of like I'm getting
Speaker 15: a little bit uncomfortable with this.
Speaker 4: Man, What do you do you think? You know? I
Speaker 4: don't mean to make you uncomfortable. Brother. Let me ask
Speaker 4: you this. Do you think she she would like?
Speaker 5: Uh?
Speaker 4: Do she like stuff from Victoria's Secret?
Speaker 15: WHOA hold up?
Speaker 5: Man?
Speaker 15: Stop right there? You talking about like I said, what
Speaker 15: what you hey? What's your name again? Man?
Speaker 4: My name Chris? Like like I said earlier, my name Chris.
Speaker 15: How long you been with the company?
Speaker 4: I don't only been there six months? You know? But
Speaker 4: like I said, I think I saw you at one
Speaker 4: of the happy y'all I saw maybe you just don't
Speaker 4: remember who I am though.
Speaker 15: No, no, no, man, but you way out of line
Speaker 15: talking to about her size. And I'm not comfortable with
Speaker 15: this at all. Man. You know Okay, okay, you way
Speaker 15: out of line.
Speaker 4: What's what? You didn't answer? My question was what do
Speaker 4: you think she liked?
Speaker 15: Victorious Secrets? Going to answer your question? Keep talking about?
Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, what's what's what? What what's the language? Brother?
Speaker 4: What's what's we brothers?
Speaker 15: You know we ain't no brothers? Fun fool? What do
Speaker 15: you get off asking me about my white's clothes?
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, all right, okay, talk without.
Speaker 15: Okay.
Speaker 4: What all I'm saying is do you think she gonna
Speaker 4: like the victorious secret I will give her? Hey, man,
Speaker 4: just stup with that.
Speaker 15: Do you know how long we've been together? I know
Speaker 15: this woman since high school. Don't come to me with that.
Speaker 4: Okay, So I was just trying to get up. What what? What?
Speaker 15: What time do you guys get off?
Speaker 4: I'm coming I need office at five thirty, but I
Speaker 4: was gonna leave early.
Speaker 15: I mean, right, hey, we can talk about this faith
Speaker 15: to faith. Say hey, listen, I'm trying to get listen
Speaker 15: what I ain't gotta listen to me?
Speaker 4: I'm trying to get shared a pandem Broth said, man, okay, hey, you.
Speaker 15: Ain't buying my wife and she wouldn't even accept it anyway. Okay,
Speaker 15: hey man, how you get this number? How you get
Speaker 15: this number?
Speaker 8: I know she didn't give you this.
Speaker 4: Let me tell you how there I got it from
Speaker 4: your wife, Sharon, because guess who I am? I am
Speaker 4: nephew Toppy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Sharon got
Speaker 4: me to brank phone call you what then there this happened? Man,
Speaker 4: This is nephew Tommy brother.
Speaker 8: Man.
Speaker 4: This is some bulls.
Speaker 8: This is some real books. This is some straight up bully.
Speaker 15: Hey man, you ain't white man. You know you need
Speaker 15: to stop with people, you know, because you might get it.
Speaker 15: You might somebody might be waiting for you have to
Speaker 15: work one day. Man, that's totally wrong. You have heard
Speaker 15: of karma. I heard somebody gonna play a prank on
Speaker 15: your one day. Your uncle is right, somebody's gonna what
Speaker 15: your It's just a matter of time.
Speaker 12: Oh man, all right, all right, darn before I get mad,
Speaker 12: will you please tell the people what is the baddest
Speaker 12: radio show in the land, Steve Harvey Show, And now
Speaker 12: you have it?
Speaker 9: Stupid crazy Yes, run that prank back. We got that.
Speaker 9: We got to get your wife something.
Speaker 7: You know. I'm just saying, let's just work this thing
Speaker 7: out tween the book, tween the two of us. Man,
Speaker 7: So we everybody happy.
Speaker 9: You happy.
Speaker 7: I'm happy to see you happy, and that's all we want.
Speaker 7: We just want everybody to be happy.
Speaker 1: Just I love about this time?
Speaker 9: Is you was concerned. You actually had the courtesy to
Speaker 9: call and ask by this jure, Yes, I love you.
Speaker 1: He's not trifling.
Speaker 9: And that's all I'm saying. That's all I'm saying. If
Speaker 9: we're gonna do something, let's do a decent and in order.
Speaker 9: You know what I'm saying. Yeah, there's a right way
Speaker 9: to do the wrong thing. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, come on, sweat right and the wrong way
Speaker 1: to love.
Speaker 7: That's the right way. Big up the sweat. That was
Speaker 7: the right way to do the wrong thing. And that's
Speaker 7: all I did.
Speaker 3: We're moving on, nephew, thank you.
Speaker 14: Coming up next, ask to see hello our Chief Love
Speaker 14: Officer Steve Harvey in the building.
Speaker 3: Right after this, You're listening.
Speaker 14: Morning show coming up at the top of the hour
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Speaker 3: Diddy's lawyer, we'll talk about that.
Speaker 14: Diddy's lawyer said the FED used excessive force during the
Speaker 14: raid of his La home and slamm them for putting
Speaker 14: his sons in handcuffs. And also, we have a programming alert.
Speaker 14: The countdown is on for the iHeartRadio Music Awards. We'll
Speaker 14: talk about all of these stories at the top of
Speaker 14: the hour, but right now it is time to ask
Speaker 14: the CLO our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. This one's
Speaker 14: from lew And Washington. Lou says, I'm divorcing my husband,
Speaker 14: but he won't move out. He's dating someone, and so
Speaker 14: am I. He facetimes his girlfriend around me, and he
Speaker 14: lets her come to the house to pick him up.
Speaker 14: I'm a lot more respectful to him. Why is he
Speaker 14: behaving like a child?
Speaker 9: Well, see, you.
Speaker 2: Can't place levels of respect on disrespect. You know what
Speaker 2: I'm saying. Both of you have aged for a divorce.
Speaker 2: Both of you have argured for divorce. Okay, both of
Speaker 2: you have agreed to a divorce.
Speaker 9: He won't move out.
Speaker 2: You got a boyfriend. He got a girlfriend. He faced
Speaker 2: timing her while you're around. He got her coming over
Speaker 2: to the house to pick him up. But now you
Speaker 2: want to place levels of respect on disrespect? Cook man,
Speaker 2: If y'all ain't gonna be together, then don't live together.
Speaker 2: If y'all don't want each other, quick current, quick quit
Speaker 2: caring about who the other one won't You got a boyfriend,
Speaker 2: he got a girlfriend, But what.
Speaker 3: Why he thinks he's behaving like a child.
Speaker 2: She says, while y'all living together, y'all don't want each other.
Speaker 2: You got a boyfriend, he got a girlfriend. What now
Speaker 2: where we at that?
Speaker 4: Now?
Speaker 9: Once you break the covenant of marriage, what you expect
Speaker 9: to happen? He posts a lineup and some other rules.
Speaker 9: He won't even play the basic rules.
Speaker 2: That's all I'm saying. It just don't seem like I
Speaker 2: don't see why you wrote us. You know what's happened
Speaker 2: today in this world, we allow and exist in so
Speaker 2: many abnormal conditions. We keep trying to normalize mess, and
Speaker 2: then you want mess to get regulated.
Speaker 9: You can't regulate mess. That's why they call it mess.
Speaker 1: Now, all right?
Speaker 9: I don't understand that.
Speaker 3: I think she just wants them out of the house too.
Speaker 14: Moving on to a mirror in Detroit, a mirror says,
Speaker 14: I have proved that my husband cheated, and my two
Speaker 14: sisters saw the video. They are mad because I'm not
Speaker 14: responding to him like they expect me to. I know
Speaker 14: what's going on in my house, so I need grace
Speaker 14: from them. How do I tell them to let me
Speaker 14: handle it?
Speaker 2: He had a video come from that's what you say,
Speaker 2: I need y'all to let me handle this. Okay, now
Speaker 2: the video is out.
Speaker 1: What is going on?
Speaker 2: Once the video get out, you are open to public
Speaker 2: scrutiny and speculation.
Speaker 9: You might as well have posted it.
Speaker 7: Wow, I'm convinced you can't cheat. Let you in pitch dogs,
Speaker 7: just pitch y'all.
Speaker 9: Why won't my sisters let me have it? Yeah, lady
Speaker 9: to body, how did they see the video? You show
Speaker 9: it to.
Speaker 4: You?
Speaker 2: Well, see to me, like your house is in the streets,
Speaker 2: so now you know everybody know what's going It's hard
Speaker 2: to he was in your house with everybody.
Speaker 9: In the house.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, and you don't.
Speaker 2: Her and her husband, Mike could work this out. It
Speaker 2: might could be workable, but when you get that outside pressures.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and a video.
Speaker 3: Okay. Moving on to Tavita in Baton Rouge to be
Speaker 3: the writes up. My daughter has a half brother that
Speaker 3: goes to school with her.
Speaker 14: My daughter is eight and he's seven. I just found
Speaker 14: out he was my husband's kids two years ago.
Speaker 3: The kid was sick at school and my husband called
Speaker 3: and asked if I could go up there. I told
Speaker 3: him no. Was he wrong for asking me? Or was
Speaker 3: I wrong for saying, no, this is stuff.
Speaker 2: Go get the bar man, it is his job. Then
Speaker 2: you deal with it regardless. Well, it seemed to me
Speaker 2: like he should have went up yeah, instead of well
Speaker 2: but maybe he couldn't get off work and then closer
Speaker 2: and all this here. But now see bro, wife, just
Speaker 2: now now listen to me. The boy ate your daughter seven. Yeah,
Speaker 2: you just found out about this boy two years ago.
Speaker 2: Dad ain't really know when he was six he was,
Speaker 2: so now Dad ain't really set in yet. And now
Speaker 2: you're trying to figure out what you want to be
Speaker 2: coming to help you do what? And that's a tough one.
Speaker 2: I don't think you were wrong for not going up there.
Speaker 2: I really don't think you were, because you have every
Speaker 2: right to. Uh, he can't ask you to join in.
Speaker 9: And help with the rear in and all like that.
Speaker 9: He should have went up there, or the boy's mama
Speaker 9: should have been up the wind up. Yeah, but that
Speaker 9: was a test to see how if he could work
Speaker 9: this in. He know now, don't they don't having everybody.
Speaker 1: I'm not there yet.
Speaker 14: He's only had two years to process this seven year
Speaker 14: old baby. So so the dad's gotta go if she's
Speaker 14: not gonna go and the mom. So he's gotta go
Speaker 14: because the baby is sick.
Speaker 2: I mean the boys, well you don't now remember now
Speaker 2: this is a this is a letter, so they didn't
Speaker 2: already handle this high ever, so I ain't know.
Speaker 9: Who got it go. She didn't go.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she didn't say how the baby got handled, but
Speaker 2: she didn't go. Her question was was I wrong for
Speaker 2: not going? Was he wrong for asking? He wasn't wrong
Speaker 2: for asking you, but you wasn't wrong for not going?
Speaker 14: Okay, all last one Steve moving on to Fabian and
Speaker 14: Indianapolis baby and says, I'm dating a new guy and
Speaker 14: I cooked dinner for him. I had jambalayah with jolapeno cornbread.
Speaker 14: After we ate, he immediately went home. He said his
Speaker 14: stomach was messed up for days. He could have said
Speaker 14: he had stomach issues. How is this my fault?
Speaker 9: Come on, now, you gotta get to the hub man,
Speaker 9: What does you come on?
Speaker 13: Now?
Speaker 9: Do you know what's happening?
Speaker 2: Jumb See, just because you can say the name of
Speaker 2: the dish, jumb and the dish, Oh we go together
Speaker 2: if you can cook? See sure didn't had this problem
Speaker 2: in time.
Speaker 5: I knew it.
Speaker 9: I knew it a steak in a crock pot. Something
Speaker 9: was wrong with what you made?
Speaker 1: All right?
Speaker 3: Thank you, Clo coming over at the top of the hour.
Speaker 9: Everybody, people, you're listening show.
Speaker 15: All right.
Speaker 14: So Halle Berry was speaking at the Universal Conversation Summit
Speaker 14: with First Lady doctor Jill Biden, when she revealed Halle
Speaker 14: a painful intimacy experience with her boyfriend Van Hunt, which
Speaker 14: led to Halle to believe that something.
Speaker 3: Was very wrong.
Speaker 14: Halle said, it felt like razor blades were in her
Speaker 14: private area. That's what Halle said. She said she went
Speaker 14: to the doctor and he said it was the worst
Speaker 14: case of herpes he had ever seen. However, Halle and
Speaker 14: her man Van they both tested negative for herpes. Halle
Speaker 14: went on to say that her symptoms were later diagnosed
Speaker 14: as a transitional period of perimiental pause. Then Halle said, quote,
Speaker 14: my doctor had no knowledge and didn't prepare me. That's
Speaker 14: when I knew, Oh my gosh, I've got to use
Speaker 14: my platform. I have to use all of who I am,
Speaker 14: and I have to start making a change the difference
Speaker 14: for other women.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: What what was she talking to, Tommy? Tommy, she doesn't
Speaker 3: have it, Tommy, let him go.
Speaker 9: Through it. Let she doesn't have it.
Speaker 2: She tested her negative, leave it alone?
Speaker 1: Yes, is crush, that's all.
Speaker 11: You know.
Speaker 3: How people hear what they want to here, she doesn't.
Speaker 1: Did you hear that card that she tested that little bite?
Speaker 9: Yes, Tommy, it's that. It's that, Yes, she got Yeah,
Speaker 9: shut up, shut up, yes.
Speaker 1: Yes, yourself to get their.
Speaker 3: Why are you letting him go through the it's unnecessarily we.
Speaker 9: Got to check on out.
Speaker 14: I know he loved Barry, but yes, well, well the
Speaker 14: results were negative and now she's doing a good thing
Speaker 14: by helping other women.
Speaker 9: Yeah, going, I need to go see us. I need
Speaker 9: to go see yes, no, no, no, yeah you do,
Speaker 9: you need to go see I need to check out
Speaker 9: you you Yeah, I'm going in there and tell her
Speaker 9: what you heard? That's what.
Speaker 3: Yes, real.
Speaker 14: Tommy, Steve, tell him it was a misdiagnosis. Okay, what
Speaker 14: doctor did that?
Speaker 9: Who did that?
Speaker 14: Misdiagnosed her doctor who she said had no knowledge and
Speaker 14: didn't prepare her at all.
Speaker 3: Okay, so she probably changed doctors in fire.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you ain't never had no news when the
Speaker 2: doctor told you something you ain't want to hear.
Speaker 10: Her doctor made a horrible mistake, just didn't have the knowledge.
Speaker 1: You know, I didn't know because your doctor don't mean.
Speaker 3: You know everything everything right, Okay.
Speaker 2: See Tommy, you are to the ultimate doctor and look
Speaker 2: at you now, see you fine? Yeah, but you do
Speaker 2: need to go see Holly though.
Speaker 3: And we love we love.
Speaker 14: Other people during a time like this. You know, she
Speaker 14: wants to help other women and make a difference.
Speaker 3: You could change.
Speaker 2: But you know what, on a serious note, the number
Speaker 2: one cause of death in this country is not cancer.
Speaker 2: It's not auto uh no, it's not auto or crashes,
Speaker 2: it's not unviolenced. The number one cause of death in
Speaker 2: this country is medical misinformation misdiagnosis. That's the number one
Speaker 2: cause of deaths in this country because it mentally. I've
Speaker 2: been medically misdiagnosed before. You know, it wasn't real serious,
Speaker 2: but they gave me the wrong diagnosis. Yeah, and I
Speaker 2: mean it messed me up. Yeah, well I could just
Speaker 2: tell it. I've been diagnosed with or with having diabetes before.
Speaker 9: Wow. And then I went, what are you talking about?
Speaker 9: I feel fine?
Speaker 2: And then we went down there and retested and they
Speaker 2: came back again, you have full blown diabetes. Your A
Speaker 2: one C number is six ' nine. I said, how
Speaker 2: can that be a month ago? It was five to two.
Speaker 2: I get diabetes in a month. Then here come to laugh.
Speaker 2: We apologized we had contaminated tests. Oh now guess what
Speaker 2: they they done, send prescriptions up to the clinic to
Speaker 2: get me started right away.
Speaker 9: I got hair instantly.
Speaker 3: What mm hmm.
Speaker 2: Misdiagnosis, that's what. And and and there's people with more
Speaker 2: serious issues than that. That's why listen to y'all. When
Speaker 2: you all get an opinion, go get another one. Get
Speaker 2: a second second, get a second one. Okay, all right,
Speaker 2: I'm all right, I'm I'm gonna go see it.
Speaker 3: I know it was devastating.
Speaker 2: I got a partner, had two knee operations, come to
Speaker 2: find out it was his hip?
Speaker 4: What what? What?
Speaker 9: And I had a partner, had two knee operations, come
Speaker 9: to find out it was it was his hip.
Speaker 3: Oh now that's bad.
Speaker 9: There's nothing you can do about that.
Speaker 5: Mm hmmm.
Speaker 3: Second opinion, Second opinion.
Speaker 9: That is a lawsuit.
Speaker 14: Yeah, all right, we're going to try and get to
Speaker 14: this other story. It's about Diddy. His lawyer says he
Speaker 14: was a victim of a witch hunt. Aaron Dyer released
Speaker 14: a statement that read, in part, there was a growth
Speaker 14: over use of military level force the search where warrants
Speaker 14: were executed in mister Combe's residences. There is no excuse
Speaker 14: for the excessive show of force and hostility exhibited by authorities,
Speaker 14: or the way his children and employees were treated.
Speaker 3: This is an ongoing story, and we'll keep you abreast
Speaker 3: of course.
Speaker 14: Well, yeah, coming up in twenty minutes after the hour,
Speaker 14: we'll talk about our favorite Easter childhood memories.
Speaker 3: Right after this, you're listening Morning show.
Speaker 14: All right, So this Sunday is Easter Resurrection Day, you'll
Speaker 14: get the day Christians celebrate all around the world. So guys,
Speaker 14: let's talk about our favorite childhood Eastern memories.
Speaker 3: I'm sure you have some. Easter was an important day still.
Speaker 9: Is growing up.
Speaker 3: I mean, you know.
Speaker 1: All of that.
Speaker 12: Yeah, My my my.
Speaker 7: Favorite one was also my worst one at the same time,
Speaker 7: what do you mean, mad Me and my cousin decided we.
Speaker 9: Was gonna do you know, you know, you bought eggs,
Speaker 9: then you paint them and do all that, you know.
Speaker 7: Yeah, so we decided we were We did these eggs,
Speaker 7: but we didn't all of them. Man on purpose, on
Speaker 7: purpose put them out there for people to find. And
Speaker 7: man when they start breaking the egg. That yolk was
Speaker 7: all over that place. Boy, my mama found out. It
Speaker 7: was me and my cousin that didna meg, we had
Speaker 7: that yoke. That yoke was all over them people's stoops,
Speaker 7: man all over the people. Well, me and my cousin
Speaker 7: laughing our butt off.
Speaker 2: Man.
Speaker 7: My mama whooped our ass right there in that church yard. Man,
Speaker 7: Oh my god, I mean, I mean about nine be
Speaker 7: our butt to death. Man, I mean your man passed.
Speaker 7: They had yoga all on the robe. It was just
Speaker 7: it was bad.
Speaker 9: It was bad. But we have We had done about
Speaker 9: three duzen and we had a bunch of raw eggs
Speaker 9: just painted. Oh man. We thought that's that's that's that's
Speaker 9: my first prank right there.
Speaker 1: Right yeah, that's when it all started.
Speaker 9: That's my right there, junior.
Speaker 11: I don't like it right now, just like the Thursday
Speaker 11: before Easter, I'm getting my ass because I ain't got
Speaker 11: that speech together yet. I speech with the belting hands,
Speaker 11: say space, she whip in my head because I can't
Speaker 11: get the second line out. The Thursday before we got
Speaker 11: it for form on Sunday, I ain't got nothing together.
Speaker 11: Almost a lot of damn pressure right now, get it
Speaker 11: together right. All that bill was coming from my back.
Speaker 11: Five here, I need to ride right now, to ride, I.
Speaker 1: Can't do it.
Speaker 2: Seal his Roebuck had a suit called a ten way.
Speaker 2: It had reversible pass, reversible vest, and reversible jacket. And
Speaker 2: they said you could make ten combinations out of there.
Speaker 2: I had thirty five.
Speaker 9: Folks. They didn't know what I was finn to do.
Speaker 9: I was turning inside out. I was so cold. I
Speaker 9: would go to church.
Speaker 2: Let the little girl see me go to the bathroom
Speaker 2: and come out with a whole of outfit on.
Speaker 9: WHOA, I'm changing that.
Speaker 3: You come right up.
Speaker 2: Then I could change anywhere. I could go in the
Speaker 2: road claus and and change the bathroom and change I'm going.
Speaker 2: I'll go in to janitor clause of the change.
Speaker 3: I'll come up him right after this. You're listening Steve
Speaker 3: Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 14: It is time now to check Steve's voicemail eight seven
Speaker 14: seven twenty nine Steve eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve.
Speaker 14: If you would like to leave a message for Steve,
Speaker 14: all you have to do is call him. You might
Speaker 14: hear you call on the air.
Speaker 7: Steve.
Speaker 3: Are you ready?
Speaker 9: Stay ready?
Speaker 3: A voicemail from from a loyal listener. Check it out.
Speaker 5: Hey, Steve and the rest of y'all. I just want
Speaker 5: to let y'all know that we listen to y'all every
Speaker 5: single morning as my husband.
Speaker 8: And the kids.
Speaker 5: The mornings at y'all do the stub liney, I'll say,
Speaker 5: get them kids the hell out the room.
Speaker 16: I have to.
Speaker 5: We're being a call, so I'll be trying to figure
Speaker 5: out how to help. I supposed keep them out of call,
Speaker 5: but we love y'all so so so much. I wanna
Speaker 5: try to keep going everything y'all do. Steve, if you
Speaker 5: it's a bed, I really really love you. I'm like,
Speaker 5: you just made my morning. Every single morning you made
Speaker 5: my morning, like you just letting me know that. Yes,
Speaker 5: we don't keep going like I just love you. I
Speaker 5: love you, I love all your carecters. I just love
Speaker 5: everything about chow.
Speaker 3: Gee every blank morning, blank in morning.
Speaker 9: I like that it's calling.
Speaker 1: Yeah all right.
Speaker 14: See, this is a guy from Cleveland. His name is
Speaker 14: Ken Kenneth. He wants to know if you remember him.
Speaker 15: Flow Steve, my name is Kenneth.
Speaker 5: Maybe you remember me from Parkwood Elementary.
Speaker 15: We got into a bit of a scuffle after flipping
Speaker 15: each other in the snow when you flip me off,
Speaker 15: fell and broke my front tooth. There's a memory that
Speaker 15: I always have. I thank God that you're successful, that
Speaker 15: you are where you are, have a blessed date.
Speaker 2: Remember, I remember I fought all the time. No, I'm
Speaker 2: gonna tell you. I tell you I was fighting ass
Speaker 2: little boy man? Why because we had to fight?
Speaker 9: Oh okay, I didn't care if it was in the
Speaker 9: snow or what you whipping my ass?
Speaker 2: I'm not funny at I didn't remember his name was Kenneth,
Speaker 2: But I flipped the boy. I got in trouble because
Speaker 2: he chipped his tooth when I flipped it. But he
Speaker 2: tried to flip me, And what.
Speaker 3: Were you gonna do?
Speaker 9: I was just quicker than his ass.
Speaker 1: That's so you do remember him.
Speaker 9: I do remember. I didn't know.
Speaker 2: I don't remember his name was Kenny. But I got
Speaker 2: in a lot of trouble because because I broke his tooth.
Speaker 3: Oh did he Was he able to get it fixed?
Speaker 9: Or did he?
Speaker 2: What you should have did? Stayed off me, I told you,
Speaker 2: But he told me. We got in a fight because
Speaker 2: he told me. When the bell rang, I'm kicking your head.
Speaker 4: What you know.
Speaker 3: Who didn't he?
Speaker 1: So how did it start? Y'all? Just outside of the
Speaker 1: snow and then the flipping?
Speaker 2: No, we started in school, argy, we got out on
Speaker 2: playground to suddenly, so I came out the back door
Speaker 2: to go home. He's standing there waiting with a whole
Speaker 2: group of people or black people will woo you into it.
Speaker 2: Yes and't And because let me tell you, because he
Speaker 2: that's park with Elementary. You got to know me to
Speaker 2: say park with because that was the school and he's
Speaker 2: one hundred and eleventh street. Dude, I was one hundred
Speaker 2: and twelve. I had to cross his street to go home.
Speaker 7: See, but you know, okay, I told him, you want
Speaker 7: to check on killer Man and see if killer need
Speaker 7: another too?
Speaker 9: Because I told his ass did go ahead on?
Speaker 3: How old were you? How old were you?
Speaker 9: We was in there? There had to be fifth sixth grade?
Speaker 3: Oh wow, I can't.
Speaker 2: You can't count the stories how many fights I've been in.
Speaker 2: I fight my neighborhood. We were we had hair, but
Speaker 2: you had to have hands though. Uh it wasn't none
Speaker 2: of it wasn't. No shoot, no got no calls all
Speaker 2: about the kidder man and that dog.
Speaker 14: Here's the last call listener, had to comment on Michael
Speaker 14: Jackson's son blanket with his lawsuit against his grandmother.
Speaker 2: Ms.
Speaker 6: Catherine, Hey, this is Jackson from Gramsvio, South Carolina. I'm
Speaker 6: comment on the Michael Jackson's son sing his grandmother. I'm wondering,
Speaker 6: why are we still pretending like those white kids were
Speaker 6: Michael Jackson's kids in.
Speaker 1: The first place.
Speaker 6: What Catherine Jackson needs to do is go ahead and
Speaker 6: take a DNA test and crew those aren't her grandkids
Speaker 6: in the first place, and that will shut him up
Speaker 6: real quick.
Speaker 2: Oh wow, ma'am, ma'am, ma'am. When you at that level
Speaker 2: of money, all that's been settled long time. If you
Speaker 2: stop talking about one of them white kids, is you
Speaker 2: stop all that?
Speaker 6: All?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 3: Look, we gotta go.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 14: Coming up next the nephew with today's prank phone call
Speaker 14: right after this, you're listening.
Speaker 3: Morning show coming.
Speaker 14: Up at the top of the hour, right about four
Speaker 14: minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today and the
Speaker 14: subject is my husband and part time lover. But right now, hm,
Speaker 14: it's time for the nephew and today's prank phone call.
Speaker 14: What you got for his nest?
Speaker 7: Well, it's early, it's happened to most of us. If
Speaker 7: it hasn't happened to you, then you probably just ain't
Speaker 7: really live. It hasn't happened to you, ain't really lived.
Speaker 7: If you have not gotten your car repossessed from you,
Speaker 7: you have not live. If you haven't walked outside and
Speaker 7: you'll driveway and your.
Speaker 9: Call will just gone, you have not live yet.
Speaker 7: Came out the grocery store on the mall and your
Speaker 7: car gone, you ain't lost it. It's gone because it
Speaker 7: has been repossessed. This right here is the repo man,
Speaker 7: repoll man. And that man right there he didn't hear
Speaker 7: it at all, seen it all. Let's go cat dog. Hello,
Speaker 7: I'm trying to reach age. Please try. My name is Robert.
Speaker 7: I'm with the collection agency. You do own a Sierra
Speaker 7: GMC truck? Am I correct?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 9: Okay.
Speaker 7: We don't show that we've had any payments within the
Speaker 7: last I guess about three close to four months now,
Speaker 7: and we want to try and stop having to come
Speaker 7: in and repossess it. Maybe we give you a chance
Speaker 7: to uh bring your payment in, but we haven't had
Speaker 7: a payment from you in about four months, sir.
Speaker 13: No chances financial with the other other thing. I don't
Speaker 13: know what's in the mode. Yeah, I've been paying all
Speaker 13: the time. It's directed partly from about that.
Speaker 7: Well, I'm with They've they've turned you over to us.
Speaker 7: I'm with collection agency, and we haven't gotten anything from don't.
Speaker 7: I don't show any uh any paperwork here on the
Speaker 7: computer at all that we've had any payments made within
Speaker 7: the last four months.
Speaker 9: So that's why they have.
Speaker 13: How they turned it over to y'all without my permission.
Speaker 13: They can't never tell my truck over to y'all.
Speaker 9: A Yo, Well, I understand that, sir.
Speaker 7: What happens is if you haven't paid it in a
Speaker 7: certain amount of time, it actually comes over to the
Speaker 7: collection agency. And that's what they've done. They've actually sent
Speaker 7: it over to us. They've given us, uh pretty much
Speaker 7: all the information on you. I guess it's uh gold
Speaker 7: this type of color uh seer two thousand and three
Speaker 7: GMC truck from our understanding, Am I correct?
Speaker 13: That's my truck?
Speaker 9: Okay.
Speaker 7: Now, what I'm gonna need from you today, Jeremy, is
Speaker 7: for you to come in uh and make a payment
Speaker 7: to us this evening for four months so we can
Speaker 7: see so we don't have to come in and repossess
Speaker 7: your truck, and I don't want to have to do that.
Speaker 7: But if I have to send a record out there
Speaker 7: to you, I have your address on file as well.
Speaker 9: I don't want to have to send anybody have to
Speaker 9: pick it up.
Speaker 13: Y'all not coming here my truck. And I'm not paying
Speaker 13: y'all for new full months. I'll truck all time every month.
Speaker 13: That's a dunk deal, sir.
Speaker 7: I don't want to get in a back and forth
Speaker 7: with you, but I'm telling you exactly how it's gonna go.
Speaker 9: Now. I come out there and repossess it myself. But
Speaker 9: I'm telling you.
Speaker 13: No, no, look, that's not that's not even where we
Speaker 13: gotta go with that.
Speaker 4: Don't be you don't need to be screaming and.
Speaker 13: Fussing and chaotic. Can come get it yourself and all
Speaker 13: that suff you ain't so much truck my truck. That's
Speaker 13: gonna be that?
Speaker 7: What hang on, let's back up, because I'm a man
Speaker 7: just like your man. What do you mean it's gonna
Speaker 7: that's gonna be that? What are you saying? What are
Speaker 7: you what do you what are you saying to me?
Speaker 4: Sir?
Speaker 13: I'm telling you, Look, I'm telling you that I pay
Speaker 13: my truck note and and that's a final I don't know.
Speaker 4: I know.
Speaker 7: Let's get I've already stated it to you before. I'm
Speaker 7: with an agency. And let's get one thing straight. You
Speaker 7: don't tell me I tell you now.
Speaker 13: Hey, calm down on the phone. It don't make no
Speaker 13: sense to me, you know, over the phone and whatnot.
Speaker 13: You can come, you can come get the truck, my
Speaker 13: truck right here, I work. I'm ready here, you can come.
Speaker 13: You can come, try to get my truck. You come
Speaker 13: on there.
Speaker 9: Sure, I'm already aware of where you work in the
Speaker 9: whole nine yards. Now I don't. I'm trying to be
Speaker 9: as uh cardial with you as I can.
Speaker 13: Now you can talk about coming get my truckle I'll
Speaker 13: tell you I'll be paying much. So you know you
Speaker 13: should have dropped down and been like, all right, I'm
Speaker 13: gonna check with somebody else, check with somebody else to
Speaker 13: make sure I'm right, and then call me back.
Speaker 7: I'm telling you you haven't paid anything. That's what I'm
Speaker 7: telling you. I've got it listed on the computer. You've
Speaker 7: been turned over an agency and you haven't done it.
Speaker 7: You haven't done it thing.
Speaker 13: What used to you? You you're waiting your press, screaming
Speaker 13: and hollo over the phone like that because they ain't
Speaker 13: gonna do me at you no good. But you ain't
Speaker 13: getting no money from me, then you ain't coming my truck. Well,
Speaker 13: a matter of fact, you could come for my truck.
Speaker 13: I'm I'm gonna be at my truck and I'm gonna
Speaker 13: wait on you till you're gonna be.
Speaker 7: It doesn't make any difference, sir. You gotta get repossessed tonight.
Speaker 7: If I don't get four months payment BRUK, Definitely, if
Speaker 7: I don't get four months payment brought into me collection agency,
Speaker 7: your truck will be taking care of.
Speaker 4: No.
Speaker 13: Hold on, listen, man, hold on the probably pas with me.
Speaker 13: You kind of kind of serious truck and.
Speaker 4: Pard you couldn't at me.
Speaker 9: That's what's wrong.
Speaker 13: You got me look right outside. You can come over
Speaker 13: here and get it. I'll be sitting on that.
Speaker 4: Way for you.
Speaker 9: Look, you know what. I'm at the point I don't
Speaker 9: give it about this job. I'm ready to come kick
Speaker 9: your That's what I'm ready to do. Call him back.
Speaker 7: I don't need a little scared hanging up the phone.
Speaker 7: You're standing here like a man, and you handle your problems.
Speaker 13: Hey, I'm I can't.
Speaker 12: Make it.
Speaker 13: Wait, bro, stop calling.
Speaker 9: I'm at work to doing my job the same way
Speaker 9: you're doing yours.
Speaker 4: You don't want to get I got one more thing
Speaker 4: I want to say.
Speaker 9: To you before you go. And you're listening.
Speaker 7: This is Nephew Timming from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 9: You just got prayed by.
Speaker 13: You got you got all my teacher?
Speaker 4: You are you all right? Man?
Speaker 13: I'm gonna talk to this man.
Speaker 4: I'm talking about cool.
Speaker 13: You talk about.
Speaker 9: She told me. She told me, man, she said that
Speaker 9: boy love that truck.
Speaker 13: Yeah, that's my choice, man, my only trportation. Man, that's choice.
Speaker 13: Many Yeah, you got it.
Speaker 7: Hey, I gotta I gotta ask you man, tell me, brother,
Speaker 7: what is the baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio
Speaker 7: show in the late st Now you have it that
Speaker 7: you have it to repot? Man, an'ybody have been repold
Speaker 7: on the show. No, man, I ain't never been repo
Speaker 7: Wow call you've been repot.
Speaker 16: When I was a little girl, our car got repold
Speaker 16: and my daddy told me that it was you got
Speaker 16: stole them.
Speaker 1: And my mama said, who told you that?
Speaker 9: I was real?
Speaker 3: Yeah it sound like hell yeah.
Speaker 9: Well let's go ahead and ask you know.
Speaker 2: Who aren't no good here? Well from a long time though,
Speaker 2: I drove a car three years. I'll make him.
Speaker 9: Payment of three years. Yeah you do that?
Speaker 3: How did you hide it?
Speaker 2: My ex wife set up here and it got a
Speaker 2: hold to it and used and parked at somewhere.
Speaker 9: I told her, I asked not to part.
Speaker 3: But you didn't tell her? Why did you?
Speaker 9: She knew?
Speaker 7: Why?
Speaker 9: Hell? Oh we did this together. Hold, you want to
Speaker 9: park the car before you go back to the house.
Speaker 9: I feel like party like the house. Well, not a
Speaker 9: car going Yeah be dam if you ain't been republicshed,
Speaker 9: you have not live yet?
Speaker 4: Yeah girl, yes, what.
Speaker 1: What walk? I said?
Speaker 9: No, just one time, one time.
Speaker 7: That's a that's an eery fitting though, because you think
Speaker 7: somebody stole it.
Speaker 9: Somebody s right there. I know I parked it right there.
Speaker 9: I parked that every night. I know other parker they
Speaker 9: knew too. That note.
Speaker 7: That note was one eighty five one eighty six per month.
Speaker 7: That's what that note, and that's all.
Speaker 3: That's all.
Speaker 7: Six was hard though it's jumping off Friday night. The
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Speaker 14: Subject to my husband and part time lover. Just Stephen Shirley.
Speaker 14: I've been married for four years, but we have been
Speaker 14: together six years. My husband charmed me and I was
Speaker 14: head over heels in love with him. He was always
Speaker 14: considerate and very loving, but over the years he's become
Speaker 14: distant in everything that we do. He stopped dating me
Speaker 14: after the pandemic. We had just got married, and when
Speaker 14: the world opened back up, he never resumed his duties
Speaker 14: as my husband. Now, we make love and he gets
Speaker 14: in the shower and then goes to sleep on the sofa.
Speaker 14: He said it's because I don't like to sleep with
Speaker 14: the TV on, but I will compromise if he'll stay
Speaker 14: in the bed with me. I even tried to lure
Speaker 14: him back in for sex twice in one night, but
Speaker 14: he said he was tired. When we go out for dinner,
Speaker 14: we don't have much to talk about, so we talk
Speaker 14: about whatever's topical on social media. We talked about starting
Speaker 14: a family and he told me he wants to put
Speaker 14: it on hold for at least another year. Whenever he's
Speaker 14: on the phone with his boys, he's his usual talkative self,
Speaker 14: but if he's with me, he barely speaks. He still
Speaker 14: does the husband stuff, like he will kiss me when
Speaker 14: he comes in, and he still rubs my feet and
Speaker 14: gives me compliments. There is a disconnect somewhere though. He's
Speaker 14: doing just enough in the bedroom to please me, but
Speaker 14: I'm not sure it's good for him. I'm scared to
Speaker 14: ask him because I don't want to know the answer.
Speaker 3: What if he tells me he's.
Speaker 14: Over the marriage. I did not think we survived being
Speaker 14: locked down together for a year, but we did. Why
Speaker 14: is he being a part time lover?
Speaker 3: Now? Is my marriage over?
Speaker 15: Yeah?
Speaker 14: Your husband is just going through the motions, and you
Speaker 14: know what, I'll say this about your marriage. It doesn't
Speaker 14: have to be over. But you are right, there is
Speaker 14: a disconnect somewhere. I'm sure if you think back, you
Speaker 14: can remember just when it started changing. The pandemic intensified everything,
Speaker 14: and it was a maker to break a time for
Speaker 14: a lot of marriages during a pandemic, some couples just
Speaker 14: couldn't survive being up under each other all day, every day,
Speaker 14: and it sounds like your husband grew apart and the
Speaker 14: intimacy in your marriage is gone. He's not interested in
Speaker 14: getting it back. You guys only have four years under
Speaker 14: your belt, six years altogether, you say, and while you're
Speaker 14: willing to work on it, he doesn't seem to be.
Speaker 14: So you can't be afraid to ask him these hard
Speaker 14: questions if you want the answers. That's where the work
Speaker 14: comes in in a marriage. I definitely suggest counseling for
Speaker 14: you too, if he's open to it. He's still there,
Speaker 14: he's still going through the motions. He's still doing some
Speaker 14: of the husbandly things you say, like rubbing your feet
Speaker 14: and kissing you when he comes in. He's still even
Speaker 14: making love to you. So you got to tell him
Speaker 14: how you feel. You need to find out where he
Speaker 14: is and possibly save your marriage.
Speaker 3: If it can be saved.
Speaker 14: You know you always should try that, So don't be
Speaker 14: afraid to ask him.
Speaker 3: Steve hum.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 9: My husband in part time lover. It's the subject.
Speaker 2: At the end of the letter. The lady asked a question,
Speaker 2: is my marriage over?
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 9: Sounds like something wrong though, It sounds like based on
Speaker 9: the letter. Something is wrong. Oh, lady, you know all
Speaker 9: of this. Let's just get to it now.
Speaker 2: You know, I could go through this letter line by
Speaker 2: line and show you what I've discovered and all this here,
Speaker 2: you know, here's the part when now when y'all make love,
Speaker 2: he gets in the shower and he go to sleep
Speaker 2: on the sofa, he said, because I don't like sleep
Speaker 2: with the TV on. Then you said, but I'll compromise
Speaker 2: if he'll stay in bed with me. Even tried to
Speaker 2: lure him back in for sex twice in one night,
Speaker 2: but he say he died. Well, lady, I don't know that.
Speaker 2: Then you said, you start talked about starting a family,
Speaker 2: and he told you, let's put that off for another year.
Speaker 9: Is my marriage over?
Speaker 2: When he's ever on the phone with his boys, he's
Speaker 2: his usual talking hisself, but he's with me, he barely speaks.
Speaker 9: Is my marriage over?
Speaker 2: He became distant in everything that we do. He stopped
Speaker 2: dating me in the pandemic. Is my marriage over?
Speaker 9: I don't know.
Speaker 2: We go out to dinner or we don't have much
Speaker 2: to talk about, so we talk about whatever's topical on
Speaker 2: social media. Is my marriage over? I mean, I'm just
Speaker 2: reading lines out there letter, it sounded like sound like
Speaker 2: a rap to me. But the problem you have, ma'am
Speaker 2: is I'm scared to ask because I don't want to
Speaker 2: know the answer. You can't put your head in the sand.
Speaker 2: I don't understand that part of it. I'm scared to
Speaker 2: ask because I don't want to know the answer. Seemed
Speaker 2: to me like you already know the answer, you just
Speaker 2: don't want to hear it. So with the rest of
Speaker 2: this letter, I'm going to do a reenactment. Shirley and
Speaker 2: Carlor will ask me a series of questions that a
Speaker 2: wife would normally ask her husband, and I'm gonna show
Speaker 2: you the answer you probably getting, which will answer the question,
Speaker 2: is my marriage over? These quest will be about anything
Speaker 2: from finances, to the children, to going out to dinner,
Speaker 2: to public relations anything, and our answer a way your
Speaker 2: husband is asking you and you tell me, is your
Speaker 2: marriage over. We'll do that when we come back right
Speaker 2: after this.
Speaker 14: All right, at twenty three minutes after the hour Today's
Speaker 14: Strawberry Letter subject my husband and part time lover. We'll
Speaker 14: get back into it with reenactment right after this. You're
Speaker 14: listening hard Morning Show, All right, Come on, Steve let's
Speaker 14: recap today's strawberry letter.
Speaker 3: The subject is my husband and part time lover.
Speaker 9: Well, we have a problem.
Speaker 2: This woman been married four years, being together six. She's
Speaker 2: asking us is her marriage over?
Speaker 4: Now?
Speaker 9: Everything will changed after the pandemic?
Speaker 5: Uh?
Speaker 2: He make love to her. Now he getting the shy
Speaker 2: and he goes sleep on sofa. She then tried to
Speaker 2: lure him back with six twice. He don't come back
Speaker 2: in there.
Speaker 4: He tied.
Speaker 2: When they're on the phone talking with his boys, he
Speaker 2: his usual talking himself. When he talked to her, he
Speaker 2: shut down when they go to dinner. They ain't got
Speaker 2: nothing to talk about himself was topical on social media.
Speaker 9: He don't do that.
Speaker 2: He's still kissing when he come in the house. But
Speaker 2: it's total disconnect. The lady says she's afraid to ask
Speaker 2: because I don't want to know the answer. What if
Speaker 2: he tells me he's over the marriage? Then she said,
Speaker 2: I don't think we'd be survived being locked down together
Speaker 2: for a year talking about the pandemic. But they did
Speaker 2: survive it, but everything changed after that. So did you
Speaker 2: survive it?
Speaker 9: I'm not sure.
Speaker 2: So Now, since this letter is so obvious to me,
Speaker 2: what I've decided to do is ask Shirley and Carl
Speaker 2: Hem to ask me any questions, and I'm gonna be
Speaker 2: the husband that's in the letter, and I will answer
Speaker 2: the letter based on how I think this man is
Speaker 2: been acting. He's aloof, he's distant, he's disconnected. Ladies and gentlemen,
Speaker 2: let us begin with the wives questioning the husband.
Speaker 3: Honey, you want dinner.
Speaker 7: Now?
Speaker 9: Ain't hungry already? Eight? I ate yesterday, Yeah.
Speaker 13: But.
Speaker 3: Surely you're hungry now. I can fixture whatever you like.
Speaker 3: We got steak, we got shrimp, we got chicken, whatever
Speaker 3: you want.
Speaker 2: Honey, Yeah, I don't eat that no more. I gave
Speaker 2: up chicken, steak, shrimp, all that. I'm just letting it go.
Speaker 9: Good night. So you're vegan now, now, I ain't a
Speaker 9: vegan right now. I just don't eat that no more.
Speaker 12: Right.
Speaker 9: Uh?
Speaker 16: So you want to do a double date hang out
Speaker 16: with our friends? You know when we normally go out
Speaker 16: with Oh.
Speaker 9: Yeah who who what? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah, we're going
Speaker 9: while we.
Speaker 16: Was gonna go to dinner and then afterwards get some
Speaker 16: cocktails or something like that.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 9: Oh no, no, no, no, no, I want to do that.
Speaker 9: I gotta go work.
Speaker 1: You're busy.
Speaker 9: Yeah, I gotta go work tomorrow tomorrow night.
Speaker 1: I know you gotta work during the day, but I'm
Speaker 1: talking about tomorrow night. Let's go kick it.
Speaker 9: Yea, tomorrow night. That's what I say. I gotta go
Speaker 9: work tomorrow, So you gotta work during the day and
Speaker 9: at night.
Speaker 2: I gotta rest at night because I'm gonna go to
Speaker 2: work tomorrow the next day, tomorrow. What you know, I
Speaker 2: just said tomorrow. You ain't listening to me, so.
Speaker 1: So we can't hang out. We need something together time.
Speaker 13: What's going on?
Speaker 2: I don't like hanging you know what I mean that
Speaker 2: It bothered me. You know, I was watching I was
Speaker 2: watching the Clint Eastwood movie the other day, hanging loose
Speaker 2: at high noon. And ever since they hung Clint Eastwood
Speaker 2: they shot him down out that tree, I ain't been
Speaker 2: able to hang out no more.
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is thinking about.
Speaker 3: That baby. Isn't that baby so cute? I look at him.
Speaker 2: I told you, I told her, I see what you're
Speaker 2: going with this here. I told you we need to
Speaker 2: have no damn baby right now.
Speaker 9: I told you that.
Speaker 3: Well why not, I mean, why not?
Speaker 2: We don't okay, okay, because you see how you just
Speaker 2: was falling in all over that baby right there.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's so cute.
Speaker 9: I don't want to split that time fawn over me.
Speaker 9: I do fawn over you at least for another year.
Speaker 14: But a baby would be such a beautiful addition to
Speaker 14: our family.
Speaker 9: Not right now? Well, why not hold you a year?
Speaker 16: We have the time, We have the time.
Speaker 3: We got a work in order, everything, our careers are going. Well,
Speaker 3: why not a baby? I want a baby, honey?
Speaker 9: Why are you pressuring me? Why are you all up
Speaker 9: on me about this baby?
Speaker 14: We just want to increase our family, that's all.
Speaker 3: That's all it is. Just have a beautiful little baby,
Speaker 3: that ain't.
Speaker 9: I don't feel that way, sister pandemic.
Speaker 3: I don't want to plan.
Speaker 1: Let's plan our vacation, summer vacation. Want to go?
Speaker 16: You want to go to the Caribbean, You want to
Speaker 16: go to Mexico, you want to go to Europe?
Speaker 1: Where you want to go? Africa? Where you want to go?
Speaker 4: You know what what.
Speaker 2: I was thinking about going down there? The ymc A
Speaker 2: got a the package, the ymc A.
Speaker 1: What does that have to do with our vacation, our summer?
Speaker 2: No, they got a family vacant that's why I want
Speaker 2: to go. You know, just wake up, go down there
Speaker 2: every day, you know, workout, swim, come on back.
Speaker 1: But that's not what I want to do. I want
Speaker 1: us to go somewhere.
Speaker 9: Oh, here we go again. Oh it's about you now, Oh.
Speaker 1: Hey, nowhere. You don't want to go anywhere.
Speaker 2: When you you told me about family vacation, I told
Speaker 2: you where I want to go. That's right back on where.
Speaker 9: You want to go. That ain't what I want to do.
Speaker 9: You got to lower your tone.
Speaker 2: Oh nah, I can't say nothing. See all this here
Speaker 2: at the pandemic. I used could talk for the pandemic,
Speaker 2: pre pandemic. Now here come damn COVID. Now, all of
Speaker 2: a sudden, I got shut.
Speaker 1: Up those four years ago. What are you talking about?
Speaker 1: The pan.
Speaker 2: We're gonna stack all this money up now, he won't
Speaker 2: just go blow through it right now? Well this money
Speaker 2: stacked though. We were saying, now you want to just
Speaker 2: go blow through the money.
Speaker 3: No, we were saving it for a reason to buy
Speaker 3: a new home, our dream home.
Speaker 2: We're not gonna buy no house right now because we
Speaker 2: ain't finna have the baby right now.
Speaker 3: Damn, I guess our marriage is over. You don't divorce me.
Speaker 3: I'm definitely divorcing.
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Speaker 3: What you got Junior?
Speaker 11: All right, well, then marsh Madges continues, This weekend, come
Speaker 11: on now, Friday is the Women's Sweet sixteen. They start,
Speaker 11: but tonight the men start. So let me just see
Speaker 11: how you're gonna pick them up.
Speaker 9: Let's just see.
Speaker 11: This is when a tournaments start. Let's just see how
Speaker 11: you're gonna pick these game men and women.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 11: No, just go with your feeling, see how you feel
Speaker 11: about it. Just start with the women. Here we go
Speaker 11: South Carolina, Indiana Women, South Carolina. Okay, Oregon State no today,
Speaker 11: number three. Oregon State gets number two.
Speaker 2: No to dame.
Speaker 9: What that's old? Women?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Women, Oh, just pick one up. Orgon way too far
Speaker 2: away the girls on team none of that.
Speaker 9: Go ahead. The next day.
Speaker 11: Okay, women, Texas Gonzaga.
Speaker 2: Mm hmm, please Texas, please, I'm just so sick of Gonzaga.
Speaker 1: Okay, here we go.
Speaker 11: Number three North Carolina stated against number two Stafford women.
Speaker 9: That's gonna be rough them Stanford girls.
Speaker 2: Boy, they not playing, They not playing, boy, they not
Speaker 2: king the North Carolina Steak gonna catch hell with Stamford.
Speaker 11: Okay, here we go our number one hour against Colorado.
Speaker 9: You know, Kayla Clark who our move on?
Speaker 2: We'll see what y'all ain't paying attention to. Though, since
Speaker 2: Dion been been up in Colorado, I got a different attitude. Yeah,
Speaker 2: but that girl Caitlin Clark them who shit everything.
Speaker 11: Every here you go, it's gonna make you prior right
Speaker 11: here up number three L s U gets number two
Speaker 11: U c l A.
Speaker 9: It's gonna be rough too. Man, It's gonna because you know,
Speaker 9: I like L s U.
Speaker 1: Angel come on, Angel Reeth, Yeah, girl on poor.
Speaker 2: I'm poor for them. They struggling a little bit right
Speaker 2: now though, Okay, struggling little bit. They getting through these games,
Speaker 2: but they struggling.
Speaker 9: All right.
Speaker 11: Ug let's switch over to the men is now here.
Speaker 11: Here we go now I start to night ukon't San
Speaker 11: Diego State.
Speaker 9: Oh god, dog boy, San Diego was looking good a
Speaker 9: minute ago. Over there. You can't is not a game boy.
Speaker 11: Here we go up North Carolina, Alabama.
Speaker 2: Oh Ima, look good, Alabama, man, they strong. They funk
Speaker 2: it this year too. Yeah, yeah, they got the more
Speaker 2: this more dog skinned people on Alabama.
Speaker 1: Yeah, there you go.
Speaker 9: Just what I said. I'm going with them. I know,
Speaker 9: light skinned people have limitations.
Speaker 1: You know, my god.
Speaker 9: Okay, University of Houston versus.
Speaker 2: Duke, Well, I want Houston to do something, but Duke man,
Speaker 2: they looking food, they looking nasty right now.
Speaker 3: Who you got you got?
Speaker 9: I mean, I won't Houston.
Speaker 3: But all right, go coops, go coos.
Speaker 14: Coming up on the top of the hour, a man
Speaker 14: on social media needs some advice Steve. He says, my
Speaker 14: ex wants more money for child support. We'll talk about
Speaker 14: it right after this. You're listening Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 3: All right, So Steve Matt and Steve Harvey FM.
Speaker 14: Says, my ex and I split custody of our six
Speaker 14: year old daughter and I pay her child support. But
Speaker 14: even though she only has our daughter every other week,
Speaker 14: she doesn't have a job, and she says that she
Speaker 14: needs more money from me because she can't survive on
Speaker 14: what I give her. We never had an official custody arrangement,
Speaker 14: and I really don't want to have to take this
Speaker 14: to court. But I don't think I should have to
Speaker 14: pay one hundred I should have to one hundred percent
Speaker 14: support her and our child?
Speaker 3: Am I wrong?
Speaker 14: How should I handle this? I could probably afford to
Speaker 14: pay her a bit more if I had to. Should
Speaker 14: I try to get sold custody of her? Sould custody
Speaker 14: or give her a little more money?
Speaker 2: Now, bruh, I can't get in that part with you.
Speaker 2: I don't know if you should get sold custody or nothing.
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. Before court takes a child
Speaker 2: from the mother, she got to be unfit. Ain't no
Speaker 2: court taking no child from no mother.
Speaker 4: Man.
Speaker 9: You can get up out of here with that.
Speaker 2: You can go in there and try it if you
Speaker 2: want to, but you have to be unfit for the
Speaker 2: courts to take the child from the mother.
Speaker 9: So period.
Speaker 2: Second, she may need more money for her to live,
Speaker 2: but the courts will determine what that is, and it's
Speaker 2: based on your income. Now you try not to go
Speaker 2: to court, but this is fit to go to court.
Speaker 2: Now she ask you for more you said you could
Speaker 2: probably afford to pay a little bit more, then go
Speaker 2: ahead and make your offer. But if she don't want that,
Speaker 2: then what you're gonna do, and then what you can
Speaker 2: do when she come back for more, because she coming
Speaker 2: again too. So it seemed to me like your smarter
Speaker 2: move was just to go to court and see what's
Speaker 2: required of you to pay. You don't seem like you
Speaker 2: have a problem with paying. But I can't tell you
Speaker 2: shit you go and get cussed at that baby either,
Speaker 2: because I got news for you. Unless she's an unfit mother,
Speaker 2: she's not taking that child. They're not the court not
Speaker 2: taking the child from the mother. The mother gotta do
Speaker 2: something wrong gonna happen. You can quit wasting your damn
Speaker 2: time and rightfully so, yeah, because I'm gonna tell you, man,
Speaker 2: every child deserves a mother's love. Now everybody don't get that,
Speaker 2: but it'll show. He is a bonus if you got it. God,
Speaker 2: it's a bonus if you got a mama's love.
Speaker 9: Boy.
Speaker 14: Okay, all right, Well, here's another child support question from
Speaker 14: Demetrius on Facebook. Dimitria says, my wife became my ex
Speaker 14: wife three years ago and I got total custody of
Speaker 14: our son.
Speaker 3: I pay for everything. She contributes nothing.
Speaker 14: Now I've been hearing some rumbling or talk that she
Speaker 14: wants to take me to court to have my paycheck
Speaker 14: garnished for child support and back child support. I don't
Speaker 14: see how this can really happen, but I do do
Speaker 14: think it would be wise to be prepared in case
Speaker 14: she tries this.
Speaker 3: Any advice would be appreciated.
Speaker 9: Bruh, listen to truth.
Speaker 2: If you have soul custody of the boy and you've
Speaker 2: been taking care of the boy, ain't no court thing
Speaker 2: to give this woman no money, now, you're straight, bro,
Speaker 2: Ain't no court thing to give this woman no money
Speaker 2: because now what she's gonna take you to court for
Speaker 2: is spousal support. And that ain't what the arrangement is.
Speaker 2: If you didn't get that at the divorce, you ain't
Speaker 2: finna get it now. You skip your happy ass on.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he says he doesn't see how it can happen.
Speaker 9: I'm gonna tell you right now.
Speaker 4: You can.
Speaker 9: You came to the right place, boy, boy, you know
Speaker 9: from which you speak.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm telling because I know because I've gotten possession
Speaker 2: of my son before, so I know how that goes.
Speaker 9: Yeah, and.
Speaker 2: You know, people can say what they want to say,
Speaker 2: but I got possession of my son. You right, you
Speaker 2: write whatever you want on that damn internet. I got him.
Speaker 9: Now you go from there.
Speaker 7: I paid child support for years and my son.
Speaker 4: Was with me.
Speaker 9: Now look at that. Look at that. Yeah, hold up,
Speaker 9: I got I got warm for you.
Speaker 1: I can top you.
Speaker 9: Well, I just say it.
Speaker 1: What it all right.
Speaker 14: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming
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Speaker 14: We're sending our thoughts and prayers out to the families
Speaker 14: and the victims and survivors from that horrific, terrible, terrible
Speaker 14: Key bridge collapse in Baltimore. Maryland's governor Wes Moore and
Speaker 14: other officials said the collision was an accident, and federal
Speaker 14: officials said there was no evidence of terrorism, declaring the
Speaker 14: bridge a terrible accident. President Biden said he intended for
Speaker 14: the federal government to pay the entire cost of reconstruction.
Speaker 14: That is good news, the President said, quote, We're not
Speaker 14: leaving until this job gets done.
Speaker 3: That's a great thing. You know that he's on it.
Speaker 3: This is an election year, he's busy. We know that,
Speaker 3: but he's on it.
Speaker 16: Yeah, he caresples right down the street from Washington, DC.
Speaker 1: It was horrible.
Speaker 16: Yeah, say it, Tom, It's just it was unbelievable what
Speaker 16: we saw when we saw that video.
Speaker 3: It looked like a movie.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Steve, you.
Speaker 3: Said you saw headline people driving on.
Speaker 7: The bridge on the bridge, Yeah, And who was driving
Speaker 7: the barge? Did we get a name on that person?
Speaker 3: And then if we do what? Because Tom, where are
Speaker 3: you as?
Speaker 7: Did you sound like, Uh, I'm sorry, I just want
Speaker 7: to know who was driving? That's I really did.
Speaker 9: I want to hit it. Hit the if it was Jake.
Speaker 2: Well, it was horrible because when I saw the slow
Speaker 2: motion I saw I mean personally, I thought I saw
Speaker 2: two cars on the bridge going down.
Speaker 9: I saw headlights. That's a horrible accident.
Speaker 4: Man.
Speaker 3: I saw prayers, like we say, going out to them.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 14: Coming up at thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll
Speaker 14: have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.
Speaker 3: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning.
Speaker 14: Show, and it's time now for a round. Would you
Speaker 14: rather would you rather take back anything you say or
Speaker 14: would you rather listen in on every conversation about you?
Speaker 9: I said, what I.
Speaker 1: Said, yes, I'm staying on business.
Speaker 14: Are either taking it back or you're listening in on
Speaker 14: every conversation about it.
Speaker 11: I have some more to say soon as I hear
Speaker 11: what you said about me, Steve.
Speaker 9: I'm not taking back nothing I said. I don't give
Speaker 9: a damn what.
Speaker 10: You said about me.
Speaker 9: It's so simple, I'm full blown. I could give less.
Speaker 14: Than all right, Would you rather show your coworkers every
Speaker 14: picture in your phone? Or would you read aloud every
Speaker 14: text you've sent in the past five days?
Speaker 9: All right?
Speaker 14: So send you send your coworkers every picture in your phone,
Speaker 14: or read aloud every text you've sent in the past.
Speaker 9: Well, that would depend on what level of pain y'all
Speaker 9: want to experience. What do you mean say, hurt me deeply?
Speaker 9: Then I'm gonna let y'all read these texts. You're talking
Speaker 9: about the text about us. If you want to say,
Speaker 9: shock me, that's cold. How you want to do it?
Speaker 1: So it's on us?
Speaker 5: Right?
Speaker 3: Would you rather but you put it back on us?
Speaker 2: See, Junior, I'm gonna tell you right now because where
Speaker 2: your coping skills work, you need your look at these
Speaker 2: pictures and.
Speaker 9: Let me read what you say. You'll be in therapy.
Speaker 3: Then it would be your own people, all your own people.
Speaker 2: I'm just keeping it real with you. You don't need
Speaker 2: the text These pictures ain't gonna be damn.
Speaker 9: I'm taking what you say about.
Speaker 5: Junior.
Speaker 9: You don't need to see these. We're talking now.
Speaker 2: You don't need cit texts because you ain't ain't you
Speaker 2: ain't that stable. You ain't got too much right now,
Speaker 2: you got a lot on.
Speaker 3: You take that full capacity loaded for two weeks.
Speaker 14: Would you rather wear your spouse's panties or just go commando?
Speaker 1: Wow?
Speaker 7: Oh well, I ain't wear no pennises, just commando. Oh
Speaker 7: just ignorant.
Speaker 9: I can't get my white panties on. You're you're talking
Speaker 9: about cutting off all circulations. I gotta get that.
Speaker 2: I get that if just above my knee, I get
Speaker 2: the little things on might be blooding, might look like
Speaker 2: a guard bill. I ain't gonna get both legs in them.
Speaker 2: But we have a would you rather for Junior? You
Speaker 2: know we're talking about your wife's clothes. So I was
Speaker 2: just thinking about JUNI here's a question for you, ju
Speaker 2: Visa or he had you said yes, you know it's basket.
Speaker 1: Give me, gim me advise again I'm going.
Speaker 3: All right, we gotta go. That's today's rounded.
Speaker 14: Would you rather coming up with forty nine minutes after
Speaker 14: the hour, We'll close out the show with the one
Speaker 14: and on least.
Speaker 3: Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening morning show.
Speaker 14: Here we are, guys, our last break of the day
Speaker 14: on this Thursday.
Speaker 12: Wow.
Speaker 3: A lot of things going on in the world, A
Speaker 3: lot going on this heavy thoughts and prayers again going
Speaker 3: out to Baltimore.
Speaker 1: Yes, we got easter this weekend tomorrow Friday.
Speaker 9: Baltimore's government though he owned it.
Speaker 3: Man yeah, Governors yeah, and the man and the mayor.
Speaker 10: You black.
Speaker 3: Agreed, Steve, you want to take us out?
Speaker 2: Well, oh, you know, always try to be encouraging to people,
Speaker 2: and I try to give people, you know, something to
Speaker 2: hang their had on. I was in a conversation yesterday,
Speaker 2: and I guess you all must say, Man, Steve, you
Speaker 2: have a lot of these conversations. Well, I do, because
Speaker 2: that's what I attract. I attract these types of conversations
Speaker 2: because I have people coming up to me all the time,
Speaker 2: even on commercial breaks at family Feud, I take questions
Speaker 2: from the audience. All of them are in terms of
Speaker 2: advice and what would you do or how do you
Speaker 2: handle this? And you know something I've been thinking about lately.
Speaker 2: I would rather be known as a person who has
Speaker 2: valiantly tried and failed than to be a person who
Speaker 2: sat and watched. I'm gonna give it to you again.
Speaker 2: I would rather be known as a person who valiantly
Speaker 2: tried and failed than to be a person who sat
Speaker 2: and watched. You know, there's a lot to be said
Speaker 2: about you making an attempt. There's a lot to be
Speaker 2: said when you put forth an effort, because in attempting
Speaker 2: and putting forth an effort, you learn things, and learning
Speaker 2: what not to do, oftentimes is just as valuable as
Speaker 2: knowing what to do. Give yourself some credit when you try,
Speaker 2: give yourself some credit when you make the attempt, and
Speaker 2: don't beat yourself up so badly when you fail, because
Speaker 2: failure is a part of the process. I don't know
Speaker 2: any successful person who has not failed miserably time and
Speaker 2: time and time again. I've set down with Tyler Perry.
Speaker 2: I've heard the story. I've sat down with Denzel, I've
Speaker 2: heard the story. I sat with Jamie Fox, I've heard
Speaker 2: the story. I with said the entertainer. I've heard the story.
Speaker 2: I sat down with Mark Cuban, I heard the story.
Speaker 2: I've sat down with Dame dash I've heard the story.
Speaker 2: I've set down with so many people, and I heard
Speaker 2: the story. Me and LL had a conversation one night
Speaker 2: on a boat. I've heard the story. I don't know
Speaker 2: a successful person who has not failed time and time
Speaker 2: and time again. And in each one of those failures,
Speaker 2: that was a valuable lesson learned. And what you end
Speaker 2: up becoming in failure is you become experienced. And I've
Speaker 2: often said experiences prices is a shame. You have to
Speaker 2: pay for it with your youth. But boy o, boy o,
Speaker 2: boy oh boy, the things I've learned in all my failures,
Speaker 2: the things I've been taught in all my moments of adversity,
Speaker 2: But those things combined have become the total sum of
Speaker 2: who I am. And I got to tell you something, folks.
Speaker 2: You can fail a lot of times. You only need
Speaker 2: one win.
Speaker 9: That's all you need. You need one here, you need
Speaker 9: one of them balls to go over the wall. You
Speaker 9: need one home run, that's all you need. We're talking
Speaker 9: about life now. We ain't talking about a game. Were
Speaker 9: talking about life. And your life is not summed up
Speaker 9: with your current set of circumstances and conditions.
Speaker 2: You have to realize that you are on your way somewhere.
Speaker 2: You are being processed right now, that's all you're doing.
Speaker 2: Quit looking at your right now set of circumstances and
Speaker 2: thinking that's it. That's the determining factory. Do you have
Speaker 2: any idea you could wake up tomorrow and all this
Speaker 2: is different. Do you know that next week all of
Speaker 2: this could change you? You know, next year, this whole
Speaker 2: thing could be different from you. You don't know when
Speaker 2: God gonna turn on the switch, But you can't cut.
Speaker 2: You ain't got no switch to turn on. If you
Speaker 2: ain't attempting, if you ain't trying, if you are not
Speaker 2: in the arena, if you're not an active warrior, if
Speaker 2: you are not a Valian soldier, you get nothing in
Speaker 2: the stands. You know, all you did was buy a ticket.
Speaker 2: You get nothing in the stands. You're just sitting there
Speaker 2: watching everybody make an attempt. And then what kills me
Speaker 2: about the people in the stands. Cain't got the nerve,
Speaker 2: They got the damn audacity to comment, running your mouth
Speaker 2: about my failure, talking about my attempt, laughing at my
Speaker 2: outcome when you ain't got nothing going on.
Speaker 9: You ain't you ain't even got a shot. That's what
Speaker 9: kills me.
Speaker 2: About the people in the stands man running they mouth
Speaker 2: you bought a ticket to see me?
Speaker 9: Yeah, I don't think he all that you tune in
Speaker 9: every day.
Speaker 2: You know, I was reading somewhere. I was just going
Speaker 2: through my timeline. Somebody said, I don't know what the
Speaker 2: fussy is. I don't even like family feud what at
Speaker 2: So it's a whole lot of people don't like family feud.
Speaker 2: But guess what, I don't need you to be successful.
Speaker 2: I just need a win, and I got enough people
Speaker 2: tuning in to negate. You not ever watching or carry.
Speaker 2: You just need one win, that's all it is. But
Speaker 2: you in the stand, you got TV nob sitting a
Speaker 2: bit talking about you don't like me on TV. Well,
Speaker 2: at least I'm on the damn credit below.
Speaker 9: Let me stop. I'm out of here, y'all have a
Speaker 9: great day. Man, doctor God he loved to hear from you.
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