Speaker 1: Time for ask the CLO Chief Love Officer.
Speaker 2: Steve Harvey in the building, ready for your questions.
Speaker 1: Courtney and iHeart A listener says, I'm thirty and dating
Speaker 1: a man that's thirty one, and he tells me all
Speaker 1: the time that I'm his soulmate. He's all into me
Speaker 1: in every way. He gives me bass and pedicures, and
Speaker 1: he even will polish my toenails if I ask him to.
Speaker 2: He irons my.
Speaker 1: Clothes for me daily, and he cleans up the kitchen
Speaker 1: if I cook. We never argue, and if we ever disagree,
Speaker 1: we settle it quickly.
Speaker 2: Is this letter ful? Listen? He's so different than any
Speaker 2: other guy I've dated.
Speaker 1: My daddy says he's soft and won't make a good husband.
Speaker 2: How can my daddy make such a negative assumption.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's better to be soft and be a soft. Well,
Speaker 3: nothing says that the man is soft. He's just solved
Speaker 3: to his dad. Maybe her father's hard and made may
Speaker 3: and he's a good husband. So he thinking, because this
Speaker 3: dude a hard, he must be soft. I got lady,
Speaker 3: If you have no complaints, don't let your father create one.
Speaker 2: This guy's a dream.
Speaker 3: There you go, ash Well, can't say that, all right?
Speaker 2: What I can't say that because.
Speaker 3: Somebody I was gonna say, maybe you should ask your
Speaker 3: mom how happy she's been, how she would feel with
Speaker 3: some treatment like that, because your dad he ain't gonna
Speaker 3: do none of that.
Speaker 1: He to that. Yeah, all right? Moving on Kenetra in
Speaker 1: Memphis Rights. I'm a forty two year old divorced woman
Speaker 1: and I fell in love with the perfect guy, but
Speaker 1: I ran him away by being paranoid. I had a
Speaker 1: rough marriage and my husband cheated, so I developed bad
Speaker 1: habits like checking his phone and popping up at places
Speaker 1: he was hanging out. I carried this behavior into my
Speaker 1: new relationship and was always accusing my new guy of
Speaker 1: messing around. I want a second chance with him, and
Speaker 1: I want him to know that I changed. How do
Speaker 1: I start the conversation with him?
Speaker 2: Luggage?
Speaker 3: You know what? You know what?
Speaker 2: What?
Speaker 3: Boy?
Speaker 2: I was tripping?
Speaker 3: You know, you know it's so crazy, cause you know,
Speaker 3: I know you a good man, but I'm so stupid.
Speaker 3: I'd be just checking your phone and you know you
Speaker 3: ain't even know. I'd be outside the ball waiting on you.
Speaker 3: I'll be in at your house. That's crazy, and I
Speaker 3: just you know, I've just been you know, but it
Speaker 3: was my ex. He just made me his way. But
Speaker 3: you know what, I'm not gonna do that anymore because
Speaker 3: I think I found what I'm looking for. You know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, it might work, but.
Speaker 3: I doubt it.
Speaker 2: All right.
Speaker 1: So, Tony in the Bay Area says, I'm a thirty
Speaker 1: three year old married man raising my two daughters while
Speaker 1: my wife is in jail for sixteen months. She committed
Speaker 1: credit card fraud, and I was liss when she got arrested.
Speaker 1: The problem I'm having now is that she only calls
Speaker 1: us once a week if then she calls her mom daily,
Speaker 1: and it ticks me off. Her mom said she's still
Speaker 1: ashamed to talk to me. But I don't believe that
Speaker 1: she had a whole side hustle that I didn't know about.
Speaker 1: So do you think she has a side due too?
Speaker 1: Am I being a fool for waiting for her?
Speaker 2: Wow? Whoa a side dude? Yeah? He wants to know. Yeah,
Speaker 2: well you don't know what.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but bruh, listen to me. Credit card theft ain't
Speaker 3: got nothing to do with a side dude. She might be,
Speaker 3: you know, honestly, just embarrassed. The mom could be right,
Speaker 3: I don't know where you got the other dude from.
Speaker 2: Because she kept that from him. You know, she she more,
Speaker 2: she keeps secrets. So he's okay.
Speaker 3: Well, well, okay, okay, then go with that theory, you know,
Speaker 3: go with that theory and see how that work out
Speaker 3: for you. Sometimes being paranoid about stuff that you have
Speaker 3: no facts on it, it's a waste of time. It's like,
Speaker 3: why a You're tripping yourself out about something that you
Speaker 3: don't even have the facts. But uncle, if she lied
Speaker 3: about that, what he thinking is he probably has some
Speaker 3: most skeletons, That's what it is. Well, excuse me, but nephew, Tommy,
Speaker 3: because you lie about one thing, don't mean that you
Speaker 3: lie about everything. Well, when I lie, when I lied,
Speaker 3: I no, surely no, because.
Speaker 1: You usually have you know, when you tell one tell
Speaker 1: another line another life.
Speaker 3: But you I mean, I'm just saying this. Because you
Speaker 3: lie about one thing, don't mean you'll lie about all things. Now,
Speaker 3: if you want to accept the paranoial and act on it.
Speaker 2: Then go ahead.
Speaker 3: But the woman might not have nothing to do with
Speaker 3: no other dude. She called once a week, She and bad.
Speaker 3: She called her mama daily, how close Once y'all before
Speaker 3: she went.
Speaker 2: In wildy not as close as why.
Speaker 3: Was you doing all this anyway? I mean, why was
Speaker 3: she doing all this anyway? Something else is going on, bro,
Speaker 3: And now you're thinking it's another dude in the picture.
Speaker 3: When she went to jail for credit card fraud, she
Speaker 3: didn't go to jail with an accomplished That was a dude.
Speaker 2: She went by herself. Maybe we need to see what
Speaker 2: she was buying with the credit card. I mean we
Speaker 2: got hotels on it and a whole bunch of other stuff.
Speaker 3: Yeah. See, you know, why don't we just let mister
Speaker 3: negativity here?
Speaker 2: He's a person's raising two daughters' I don't know how
Speaker 2: I became negativity. I'm negativity.
Speaker 3: She just letting him ask all the little negative asked
Speaker 3: questions so he can break up this family.
Speaker 2: All right, we're moving We're moving on here.
Speaker 3: I know you agree with him, Jay, because you you ignorant.
Speaker 2: So what reached one understands me. Let's get to this one.
Speaker 1: Ken and Huntsville says, I'm fifty two and I recently
Speaker 1: met a fifty five year old man on an online
Speaker 1: dating site. He has never been married, and he is
Speaker 1: one adult child. I am divorced and I have one
Speaker 1: child in college. I bought a small house after my divorce,
Speaker 1: and he's living in a one bedroom apartment. We both
Speaker 1: are teachers and we're both Baptists. Other than that, we
Speaker 1: don't seem to be on the same page. To be honest,
Speaker 1: I had hoped to meet a man that didn't still
Speaker 1: live in an apartment. Am I focused on the wrong thing?
Speaker 1: Should I get to know him anyway?
Speaker 2: Cello?
Speaker 3: I mean, you got every right to focus on what
Speaker 3: you want to focus on day your priorities. If you
Speaker 3: want a man that's a home own there fifty two,
Speaker 3: then maybe that's one of your qualifications, and you can
Speaker 3: pass up on a good man. If he ain't never
Speaker 3: been married, maybe he ain't never had a reason by
Speaker 3: the house, I don't know, or he couldn't live with somebody.
Speaker 3: He just said he ain't been married. You know, he
Speaker 3: ain't leave with nobody, you know.
Speaker 2: Mhm, all right, well, thank you Sellon Once again.
Speaker 3: You could ask mister negativity, what do you want to
Speaker 3: do with cons to let everybody off, you know, let
Speaker 3: everybody just break up.
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