Speaker 1: Alicia and Steve HARBFM says, when I first met my husband,
Speaker 1: I wasn't attracted to him at all, But over time
Speaker 1: he grew on me and I fell in love with
Speaker 1: him because he's charming, funny, successful, and incredibly kind. My
Speaker 1: friends didn't understand why I wanted to be with him,
Speaker 1: but I knew I wanted to spend the rest of
Speaker 1: my life with him. Well, now we've been married a
Speaker 1: few years, and my physical attraction to him is never
Speaker 1: really caught up with my emotional attraction. Sometimes I think
Speaker 1: without that physical attraction, we might not survive as a couple.
Speaker 1: So should I just try and get this thought out
Speaker 1: of my head? Do couples who aren't attracted to one
Speaker 1: another go on to have successful and loving marriages? Have
Speaker 1: I made a mistake?
Speaker 2: Well? Look, you married as a glass that's what you did.
Speaker 3: See that now and successful because see she'd have woke
Speaker 3: up d You know she's coming out the bathroom, she
Speaker 3: seeing when he's sitting on the couch. You know she
Speaker 3: seen him over there at the table food or talking
Speaker 3: with his mouth open. You know, all of a sudden,
Speaker 3: you know, you starting to see what he was. Now
Speaker 3: your friends saw this early on. You ain't see it
Speaker 3: because he's charming and kind, and you know you had
Speaker 3: been treated that well by man in a long time.
Speaker 2: Now it's a uglass and now he's just starting to
Speaker 2: come on out.
Speaker 1: Now.
Speaker 3: See the thing about uglass people is you got to
Speaker 3: go and you got to keep adjusting.
Speaker 2: Oh no, it's just you going. If they look.
Speaker 3: If you meet a person, you're not attracted to him.
Speaker 3: What about when he just now he putting his best
Speaker 3: foot forward, y'all out on the date, he got it
Speaker 3: nice and clothes on him, being as good as he can,
Speaker 3: and you're not attracted to him. What about when he
Speaker 3: let his guard down, when he's sitting there with his
Speaker 3: mouth hanging open.
Speaker 2: You know he ain't paying attention.
Speaker 3: You know, when he's sitting there with the bottom lip
Speaker 3: open and see the puddler spit between this, lipping his gun.
Speaker 3: You know, when he's trying to smile and that charming.
Speaker 3: Because I've been unattractive, Junior, I'm surprised you don't know this.
Speaker 2: I don't even see how this, how this like this
Speaker 2: is news to you?
Speaker 4: Married, His wife loves him.
Speaker 1: He's attracted.
Speaker 2: Junior is charming. Junior is funny.
Speaker 3: Take care of her love. He's a protector. He making money.
Speaker 3: But now she got up there she didne looked at you.
Speaker 2: You know what I mean? Look at it?
Speaker 3: Look okay, let's go for that. Okay, look at the
Speaker 3: where had the pictures? You saw where his hairline was
Speaker 3: in the work. We ain't even get married, you're not already.
Speaker 3: It's better not his hairline, head head set?
Speaker 2: How you know? That's okay? You know what on two years?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 2: What I want to ask? He acts like you don't?
Speaker 2: How I notice? I have to ask?
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm living the same life you living, don't what
Speaker 3: should the lady in the question when you.
Speaker 2: See real quiet who ain't said nothing?
Speaker 1: Oh he doesn't think he's unattractive, but.
Speaker 3: He's glass and found out for you know, he'd be
Speaker 3: at the baseball game and then uh, you know, somebody
Speaker 3: asked his little boy, Jordan's Jordan.
Speaker 2: He want to be here for that? Got your daddy
Speaker 2: up there and there he.
Speaker 4: Goes, Yeah the baby he cap Yeah, I see.
Speaker 2: I say what I want to say? What should she do?
Speaker 2: What should she do? The lady? What should she having him?
Speaker 4: Now?
Speaker 2: When you marry other person?
Speaker 4: Man?
Speaker 2: Look, it's three husbands on this show.
Speaker 3: We can't hear you tell me what one of them
Speaker 3: is good looking, But go ahead, let him finish what
Speaker 3: he wanted to say. And then that's the sad part,
Speaker 3: the ugly ass dude and he don't know it. Lord,
Speaker 3: you've got something on your hand and he walking around,
Speaker 3: but you can tell Tommy not attractive. Look at the
Speaker 3: amount of money he got to spend to take care
Speaker 3: of his family. He don't built a big ass chateau
Speaker 3: out there. He's buying all the luxury ass cars. He
Speaker 3: making an ugly, ugly.
Speaker 2: Man move
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