Speaker 1: It's time now to check Steve's voicemail and if you
Speaker 1: would like to leave Steven message call him eight seven
Speaker 1: seven twenty nine. Steve eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve,
Speaker 1: you might just hear your call on the air. All right, Steve,
Speaker 1: you're ready for Darnell from Los Angeles. He needs some
Speaker 1: relationship advice.
Speaker 2: Steve Hope, All is well. This is Dartnell callings from
Speaker 2: Los Angeles. Man out, I've lost my girl. She packed
Speaker 2: up and less on Good Friday. I'm supposed to go
Speaker 2: to work and never came back and have gone back
Speaker 2: to her parents' house. We have some disagreements sober things
Speaker 2: that a man wants, things that a woman wants.
Speaker 3: It.
Speaker 4: You know, she didn't voice a lot of those concerns,
Speaker 4: but I didn't have an opportunity to fix them. We
Speaker 4: never had an opportunity to sit down, have that conversation,
Speaker 4: work on it and fix it. But I do know
Speaker 4: that they feel I won't change, and you always say
Speaker 4: a man will change for the right woman. I'm just
Speaker 4: asking that you've got an advice for me to help
Speaker 4: me out. I'm just trying to push forward, get my
Speaker 4: woman back, take care of my response abilities of being
Speaker 4: in the apartments that we have by myself.
Speaker 2: We gotta hold down the bills and the rent on myself.
Speaker 2: If that's what a man do. Any advice, and then
Speaker 2: I appreciate are big gone out? Well?
Speaker 5: You know bruh. A couple of things comes to mind here.
Speaker 6: Number one, as I oftentimes tell women, sometimes the breakup
Speaker 6: is the blessing. Now, I know you want her back,
Speaker 6: but if she don't want to come back, then, you know, man,
Speaker 6: we had to grapple with that. And then you mentioned
Speaker 6: something about you weren't even aware of what was wrong
Speaker 6: when you had never had a chance to address it
Speaker 6: or fix it. I understand up too. For her to
Speaker 6: just up and bounce on a good Friday, there's a
Speaker 6: little message in that for you. Maybe she didn't want
Speaker 6: to fix it. Could that be it? Maybe she just
Speaker 6: don't want to be involved anymore to just go back
Speaker 6: to her parents' house like that. So I think, I
Speaker 6: know you want her back, but you could say this
Speaker 6: right here. You could just say what you said to me. Look,
Speaker 6: I feel really bad that you didn't allow me a
Speaker 6: chance to address it. This is how I really feel
Speaker 6: about you, and I'm willing to do some things, but
Speaker 6: obviously something has broken down somewhere.
Speaker 5: So if I were you, you got the right attitude.
Speaker 6: You said, you got this apartment, the bills, you'll hold
Speaker 6: it down yourself because that's what men do. Sound like
Speaker 6: a good dude, man, you really really do, because most
Speaker 6: men don't even handle it that way.
Speaker 5: So I think you might be in great shape. Brother.
Speaker 6: So you know, sometimes the breakup is the blessing, and
Speaker 6: I wouldn't even I wouldn't sweat it that hard.
Speaker 5: I know you want to back.
Speaker 6: But sometimes, man, it'll give you a chance to find
Speaker 6: the one that's right for you. Because if they'll leave
Speaker 6: you without warning like that, that sends a message to
Speaker 6: me too.
Speaker 3: If anybody leave on good Friday and then come back Sunday,
Speaker 3: they pretty much gone. Though that's a good Friday, I
Speaker 3: don't see no return on it.
Speaker 1: All right, all right, well, hey listen coming up.
Speaker 5: For this food.
Speaker 6: That means he has risen on the Thursday.
Speaker 5: Relationship don't look like right?
Speaker 1: You just ghosted, not holy ghosted?
Speaker 3: All right? Good?
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Speaker 1: in Kansas City.
Speaker 7: What's up, mister Steve Harvey. This is Kim and Kansas City, Missouri.
Speaker 7: Me and the fellas at ASI and Shipping and Receiving.
Speaker 7: We listen to you every morning.
Speaker 2: Man.
Speaker 7: We'd just like to thank you for your encouraging words.
Speaker 7: You'll probably never play us on the air, but we
Speaker 7: pray that you get to listen to the message.
Speaker 1: Man.
Speaker 7: Your message is being is going out. I appreciate you,
Speaker 7: man from the bottom of my heart, because you give
Speaker 7: us all encouragement in our lives.
Speaker 2: And we are men, all of us are men, and
Speaker 2: we all are believe this.
Speaker 4: Man.
Speaker 5: Thank you so much.
Speaker 7: Bless you man, God, bless you.
Speaker 6: Wow to the brothers down there in Kansas City and
Speaker 6: down there at to ASI.
Speaker 5: Steve Hart is standing strong with you.
Speaker 6: Man, y'all stay with it, man, don't ever give up.
Speaker 6: I appreciate you telling me that because, like I say sometimes.
Speaker 6: See we do this work on the radio. We get
Speaker 6: up in the morning to provide you know, encouragement and enlightenment,
Speaker 6: entertainment and inspiration, and we don't know if it's getting
Speaker 6: through or not.
Speaker 5: So it's good man.
Speaker 6: We hear from brothers like y'all all, y'all men down there, man,
Speaker 6: keep standing strong.
Speaker 5: We got you. We're down here holding it. Yeah. I
Speaker 5: love that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is a man, Steve, who has a question
Speaker 1: about finding a wife.
Speaker 8: Hey, Steve, I just have a question when you talk
Speaker 8: about a man's job and provide, protect and profess this
Speaker 8: woman and do all he can to take care of
Speaker 8: his wife. You know, seliness were a man, that's one
Speaker 8: of the biggest things. The biggest lessons were when a
Speaker 8: woman can bring a whole human into this world. But
Speaker 8: what else should a man look for in a wife
Speaker 8: besides a person who can take care of his kids? Like,
Speaker 8: what should he look for? What qualities do you think
Speaker 8: will make a great wife? Thank you, Steve, and thank
Speaker 8: you for entertaining me every day, getting me to my day.
Speaker 5: God bless well.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I understand what you're saying, because a woman has
Speaker 6: to bring more to the table than just childbirth. I'm
Speaker 6: just saying that that's the biggest thing a person can
Speaker 6: bring to a table. You can't top that. I don't
Speaker 6: care well how much money you make or what you do,
Speaker 6: you can't. You can't top making lives dog we put
Speaker 6: the facts. But I think that women what I look
Speaker 6: for I've finally found and what I understood was important
Speaker 6: was the two things three things. Three things I think
Speaker 6: are imperative and the third one I think women miss
Speaker 6: out the most. The three things that a man is
Speaker 6: really looking for is support, loyalty, and appreciation. Will you
Speaker 6: don't really hear a man talking about too much about
Speaker 6: no love.
Speaker 5: I not top three no, because it's not so they
Speaker 5: don't have to love you.
Speaker 6: No, no, no, no, that that should be, but that
Speaker 6: that love has to be in the form of support, loyalty,
Speaker 6: and appreciation. A man needs somebody that's gonna get in
Speaker 6: there and be supportive of his efforts and his dreams.
Speaker 6: And a man needs to know that you belong to
Speaker 6: me and I belong to you, that you loyal to me.
Speaker 6: And this is the most overlooked thing that women fail
Speaker 6: to do that I hear from a lot of men
Speaker 6: is appreciation. A man wants to feel appreciated. Men don't
Speaker 6: get the Men don't hear thank you enough. Men don't
Speaker 6: hear man, I really appreciate the good job you're doing.
Speaker 6: Enough now, ladies, right here, this ain't the time for
Speaker 6: you to go well. He don't say it to me.
Speaker 6: Slow down, slow down. All I'm doing is answering the
Speaker 6: question that the brother asked. You know, I've been on
Speaker 6: your side for a long time, but I am telling
Speaker 6: you one of the most overlooked attributes that a woman
Speaker 6: can give to a man, that oftentime is overlooked, is appreciation.
Speaker 6: You have no idea what a man would feel like
Speaker 6: if he felt more appreciated, or if he heard thank
Speaker 6: you more. Because it's a hard job being a father,
Speaker 6: because we can't get it right. If we spend time
Speaker 6: with the family, we ain't out there making the money
Speaker 6: they need. If we out there make the money they need,
Speaker 6: that we ain't giving them enough time.
Speaker 5: And as hard as you do it, it's hard to
Speaker 5: get that one right. Wait till she get home.
Speaker 1: Come on, newlywed, going up next, nephew, tell me and
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