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Speaker 7: Steve Harvey got a radio show. But like I said
Speaker 7: the other day, you got something too, though, don't you.
Speaker 7: God done done something wonderful for you. You just got
Speaker 7: to thank Him for it, you know, in the midst
Speaker 7: of all that's going on in my life and in
Speaker 7: your life. You know, I always use myself as an
Speaker 7: example because well, I mean that way. I guarantee you
Speaker 7: one hundred percent I know what I'm talking about here.
Speaker 7: Here's the situation, you know, with everything that's going on
Speaker 7: in my life and all the things I'm asking God
Speaker 7: for in the midst of a taxing and a very
Speaker 7: trying situation. That's very challenging for me right now. Man,
Speaker 7: God just keeps on, keeps on surprising me. He keeps
Speaker 7: doing things, And I want you to look at your life.
Speaker 7: Or for a second, let's make two columns here. Let's
Speaker 7: make a column of all the things you want from God.
Speaker 7: You know, just do that throughout the course of the day.
Speaker 7: You know, you know, run down the list of all
Speaker 7: the things you're asking God for, all the things you're
Speaker 7: praying for, the things you aspire to, what your dreams,
Speaker 7: your visions, whatever it is.
Speaker 2: Just make a column a list of all those things.
Speaker 2: Let's make three lists.
Speaker 7: And then the second list, I want you to make
Speaker 7: a list of everything that you've been asking God for,
Speaker 7: so I guess that could be a little bit of
Speaker 7: the same.
Speaker 2: But this third list, I want you to do a
Speaker 2: check off point.
Speaker 7: I want you to do a make a list of
Speaker 7: everything that God has given you that you've asked him for.
Speaker 7: Just think about it like that for a second. I
Speaker 7: may be explaining a little wrong right now, but I'm
Speaker 7: gonna pull it together for you. Make a list of
Speaker 7: everything you're asking God for. Just just listed. You know,
Speaker 7: It's okay, It's a dream board. You can call it
Speaker 7: that I got one. It's a vision board. You know,
Speaker 7: everybody's got something you hope for. Make a list now.
Speaker 7: I want you to make another list of everything you've
Speaker 7: asked God for that.
Speaker 2: He's given you already.
Speaker 7: See this is a good list because sometimes and what
Speaker 7: I've been guilty of, and maybe you two in my
Speaker 7: request list on my dream board. I keep focusing so
Speaker 7: hard sometimes on the what I'm yet to receive. I
Speaker 7: keep focusing so hard on the what I hope he
Speaker 7: gives me. I keep focusing so hard on the things
Speaker 7: that I yet not fulfilled in my life that sometimes,
Speaker 7: as he starts checking off my wish lists the things
Speaker 7: I've asked for in the past that have come to
Speaker 7: pass that he's given me, I sometimes, in praying for
Speaker 7: what I want forget to thank him for what he's
Speaker 7: done for me. And I'm currently in the middle of
Speaker 7: that situation. And this morning when I woke up, I really, man,
Speaker 7: I just got on my knees this morning and I
Speaker 7: quit tripping for a second. I said, Man, hey, God,
Speaker 7: you know what I really do need all them things
Speaker 7: I'm asking for, and I'm really am believing that You're gonna.
Speaker 2: Give it to me.
Speaker 7: But in the meantime, though, Man, have I overlooked some
Speaker 7: important details here?
Speaker 2: I had to really look at what he's done for me.
Speaker 7: I mean, look, man, take yourself out of it personally
Speaker 7: and look, well, you can leave yourself in it however
Speaker 7: you want to be. Some people can't do that, So
Speaker 7: just leave yourself in it.
Speaker 2: Then.
Speaker 7: But man, I started looking at the eye part of me,
Speaker 7: and I started looking around at what's happening overall. Like, man,
Speaker 7: he has kept my family together and in spite of
Speaker 7: the attempts to tear it apart. I look at all
Speaker 7: of that. I look at how he's blessing my children
Speaker 7: with the desires of their heart, which I pray for
Speaker 7: my kids. You know, I want my kids to have
Speaker 7: a better life than I've had. I really really do.
Speaker 7: I don't want them to take as long as it
Speaker 7: took me to get it together. I really really don't.
Speaker 7: I'm trying to say, hey, man, if you go to college,
Speaker 7: this is what you can be. Don't do like your
Speaker 7: father did. Don't go three years drop I'll throw yourself
Speaker 7: into a spiral. And then got to start to scratch
Speaker 7: all over again, you know, And for the most part
Speaker 7: so far, you know they're doing quite well of it.
Speaker 7: You know, you know they're getting kicked around a little bit,
Speaker 7: but that's life. I started thinking of the blessings that
Speaker 7: he's helped me overcome with some of the previous mistakes
Speaker 7: I've made in relationships in my life. And then I
Speaker 7: started looking about the things he's blessed me with that
Speaker 7: I've been asking him for. But since I've moved on
Speaker 7: from it, I forgot to keep thinking because I got.
Speaker 2: To always thank God for a roof over my.
Speaker 7: Head because guess what, when I was asking for the
Speaker 7: roof and I didn't really have it, then he gave
Speaker 7: me one. Now, since he gave it to me, what,
Speaker 7: I'm just cool now I can't ever go back to
Speaker 7: him and go, hey, man, I do appreciate this roof
Speaker 7: over my head because that was a time when I
Speaker 7: was living in a car. But see, so every morning
Speaker 7: I wake up, I gotta remember the fact that I
Speaker 7: have a home now, because I got to look back
Speaker 7: and go, man, that was time, Steve, when you didn't
Speaker 7: have no home. But see, we forget what God has
Speaker 7: done for us because in our column, the won't column,
Speaker 7: the need column, we oftentimes forget for the columns and
Speaker 7: the check marks as He's already fulfilled in our life.
Speaker 7: You've got to take inventory every now and then daily
Speaker 7: if possible.
Speaker 2: But I know we're humans. We're not gonna do that.
Speaker 2: I don't.
Speaker 7: But you've got to take inventory of your life to say, hey.
Speaker 2: What has God done for me? You know? And remember
Speaker 2: something else too. Change is good, but change is challenging.
Speaker 2: Accept the challenge that it is.
Speaker 7: Look a lot of you come up to me all
Speaker 7: the time and say, Steve Man, thank you man, and
Speaker 7: boy you in the morning. Man, I really be needing that,
Speaker 7: Like Holy said it a hundred times, but I'm gonna
Speaker 7: say it again, y'all, I be needing it too.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 7: You understand, sometimes what God is dealing with me is
Speaker 7: for me. But now I'm in a sharing position where
Speaker 7: I can open up and if I just if I
Speaker 7: just quit being so about me and become a little
Speaker 7: bit more transparent, I can maybe some of me that's
Speaker 7: happening to me is happening to you, and you can
Speaker 7: see some of this in me. That's why I use
Speaker 7: myself as an example, because man, I'm catching it too, y'all.
Speaker 7: I ain't perfect either. So for those of you that
Speaker 7: come up to me and say that I want you
Speaker 7: to understand these these talks in the morning. Man, this
Speaker 7: is important for me because man, I need these conversations
Speaker 7: from God. I need God to continue to strengthen me,
Speaker 7: to show me the way, to help me understand what's
Speaker 7: happening to me.
Speaker 2: And see, as we've all those of you who have made.
Speaker 7: The decision to change, to become a better person, a
Speaker 7: better woman, a better boy, better girl, a better man.
Speaker 7: For those of you who's made the decision to change,
Speaker 7: change is a challenge, and accept the challenge because it's
Speaker 7: gonna come.
Speaker 2: Because right out of that, here come to haters.
Speaker 7: Here they come people you don't even know, discussing your
Speaker 7: life and your change. If God see you really really
Speaker 7: mean what you say in spite of what they say
Speaker 7: about you, God will raise you above the freight. He'll
Speaker 7: keep promoting you. He'll keep blessing you, He'll keep moving
Speaker 7: you up.
Speaker 2: He will use you as a show off point. He'll
Speaker 2: show you.
Speaker 7: Off, man, He'll he'll make you look good the people man,
Speaker 7: who wish you'd fall all day long. And so to
Speaker 7: all your haters, all your haters will end up just
Speaker 7: watching you rise.
Speaker 2: Man.
Speaker 7: They will watch you continue to grow. That's what God
Speaker 7: will do for you.
Speaker 2: Man.
Speaker 7: You can fool the world, but you can't fool God.
Speaker 7: God know your heart, He know your every thought.
Speaker 1: Man, you're listening.
Speaker 2: Show, ladies and gentlemen. You know what.
Speaker 7: Excited again overjoined As a matter of fact, Man, God
Speaker 7: hasn't done it again. I'm so grateful man, Thank you
Speaker 7: Lord for waking me up today. Started me on my way,
Speaker 7: I mean closed, I'm capable of thinking. But the most
Speaker 7: important thing is I'm here. So me being here sends
Speaker 7: a clear cut message that you are not through with
Speaker 7: me yet, that there's something else you want me to
Speaker 7: receive that I'm not yet partaken of, and I'm looking
Speaker 7: for it.
Speaker 2: Eyes wide. Oh yeah, Steve.
Speaker 7: Robin Morning Show, Shehirny Strawberry College for Real, Mississippi, Monica
Speaker 7: Junior and the legend of Nephew Tummy Junior. Always inquisitively. Yeah,
Speaker 7: I lood tight this morning. You get enough sleep last night.
Speaker 2: Now your thing good?
Speaker 8: But let me ask you, man, did you keep talking
Speaker 8: about every morning he gat his new day, get a
Speaker 8: new day?
Speaker 1: Is it anything you're looking for?
Speaker 5: A like?
Speaker 2: Now that's shocking, tea? Is anything shock? And tea you
Speaker 2: could you get, you got a lot of experience, a
Speaker 2: lot of things.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it ain't a lot to shock me. I'm still
Speaker 7: surprised about a few things, though. I'm throwing off a
Speaker 7: bit by a little bit of the negativity that's going
Speaker 7: on around. I can't believe it's this much hate out
Speaker 7: here now. I've never seen it at this level before.
Speaker 1: Uh.
Speaker 7: That's uh that you can visibly see. I've always been
Speaker 7: subjected to racism my entire life.
Speaker 2: I've seen it. But now that they got cameras and stuff, and.
Speaker 7: Now everybody can see what we've known for years, that's
Speaker 7: a little bit throwing me off. I am a bit
Speaker 7: surprised at how people make money now, the use of
Speaker 7: the Internet to make money.
Speaker 2: In so many good ways.
Speaker 7: And then I'm shocked at some of the best you know,
Speaker 7: it's really I think to me was the fans Only page.
Speaker 7: That one kind of threw me because I was wow,
Speaker 7: when I really understood what they was doing, I was
Speaker 7: going board this COVID.
Speaker 2: COVID had some people coming over with some creative ideas
Speaker 2: for making some money.
Speaker 7: Yeah, and I's actually had a contestant on family few
Speaker 7: who obviously some of the guys knew that she had
Speaker 7: fans on the page, so.
Speaker 9: Fans what they call it only.
Speaker 7: Okay, well, but just go to show you at least
Speaker 7: at least you know, I ain't been there, but I
Speaker 7: was curious about the lady that was on the show.
Speaker 10: With her.
Speaker 11: You didn't you huh?
Speaker 2: Yeah, she had she had invested into what it took
Speaker 2: to be on the fans only things she looked good.
Speaker 7: Well, you know, she had invested in the parts. Let's
Speaker 7: just say, I'm much to all that cold man, I
Speaker 7: don't know, but she had invested heavenly yeah, you know that.
Speaker 7: I know hers had to cause extra because it was extra. Yeah,
Speaker 7: but yeah, I'm still surprised.
Speaker 2: There's some stuff Julie still you know, yeah, yeah, I
Speaker 2: got you back?
Speaker 5: All right?
Speaker 12: All right, coming up in thirty two minutes after the hour,
Speaker 12: we'll hear from the nephew if he runs that prank back.
Speaker 1: Right after this you're listening morning show.
Speaker 11: It is time up for the nephew to run that
Speaker 11: prank back. What you got for its nephi.
Speaker 10: Right now, we're gonna give the drama soum got dog
Speaker 10: if you would.
Speaker 5: I'm trying to rich uh, Richie, he hey, Richie. How
Speaker 5: you doing? You the drummer for the for the band
Speaker 5: you're saying, you're saying, all right, and you also the
Speaker 5: guy that that you man, you're the manager of the
Speaker 5: band too? Right?
Speaker 13: Correct?
Speaker 5: Correct? Correct? What's all right?
Speaker 13: All right?
Speaker 5: We want to book you guys for I think it's
Speaker 5: gonna be in February. All right, all right, February sixteen.
Speaker 5: That's yea. My name is Carter. They told you I's
Speaker 5: gonna be calling I think so. Yeah. Okay, let's tell
Speaker 5: you what. We're gonna go through a little check minus
Speaker 5: list here, make sure we on the same page, and
Speaker 5: we got everything's gonna be good that night. But I
Speaker 5: hear you got you got. I'll tell you something. You
Speaker 5: guys come highly recommended. You know that, don't you.
Speaker 13: I appreciate that, we know that we were the best
Speaker 13: friend out there.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's all good.
Speaker 13: It sounds all good, sounds perfect.
Speaker 5: All right. Now let's talk about up money, because that's
Speaker 5: always the most crucial thing to talk about. Now, you
Speaker 5: guys good, uh, you guys are supposed to be what
Speaker 5: about what thirty five hundred from what I understand? Correct?
Speaker 2: All right?
Speaker 5: How many how many hours do I get you to
Speaker 5: thirty five hundred.
Speaker 13: So what time is starting that we're gonna start that.
Speaker 5: We're gonna start seven, probably seven thirty, you know, get that,
Speaker 5: get that thing jumping off about seven thirty. I think
Speaker 5: that's gonna be good.
Speaker 13: Yeah, we can play till like I guess put out
Speaker 13: ten o'clock, seven thirty ten.
Speaker 5: Correct. Yeah, I'm gonna pay something. They not gonna get
Speaker 5: going good till about ten. So I'm gonna say, I'm
Speaker 5: gonna say this to you right now. You say you
Speaker 5: guys should probably go to midnight, maybe twelve thirty. If
Speaker 5: I if I make that thing of nine.
Speaker 13: Five thousand dollars sounds good to me.
Speaker 5: We could definitely work with that. You can work with that.
Speaker 13: Yeah, yeah, well we'll accommodate. It's gonna be an awesome party.
Speaker 5: We're gonna we're gonna branfit. Okay, all right, we got
Speaker 5: that out of way. I tell you what, I think
Speaker 5: the main thing that we haven't gone over is we
Speaker 5: haven't gone over the songs. And that's what's that's what's
Speaker 5: gonna be impartant for this showdown. Now you you can
Speaker 5: you got a pen and a pant, you can write
Speaker 5: this down.
Speaker 13: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I write it down, all right, down,
Speaker 13: give a second, go ahead?
Speaker 5: Did you got that?
Speaker 4: All right?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 13: Yeah?
Speaker 5: I got all right? Somebody. I just want to be
Speaker 5: clear you guys when you go, when you guys go
Speaker 5: do gigs, you do have people that want certain uh songs?
Speaker 5: Am I right or wrong? Yeah? Usually? Yeah.
Speaker 13: If you got a requests, definitely let us know we
Speaker 13: can commodate.
Speaker 5: All right, all right, well here we go, Uh, here
Speaker 5: we go. I want you to write this down. I
Speaker 5: got I got some that we gotta make sure this
Speaker 5: is gonna be doing the hide of the party.
Speaker 2: Here we go.
Speaker 5: Okay, friends in low places by Garth Brooks, right, Tennessee whiskey,
Speaker 5: that's Chris Stapleton. You know that. Okay, not time to party,
Speaker 5: that's Jason all things.
Speaker 13: Hold off for a second. Is that country music?
Speaker 5: That's country music? Well, that's that's that's that's that's everything.
Speaker 5: We gonna do. Everything we gonna do that said be country.
Speaker 13: Yeah, bro, I gotta tell you right now, man, R
Speaker 13: and B.
Speaker 5: That's our specialty. Did you not know that? You know
Speaker 5: what I'm saying?
Speaker 13: We played R and B.
Speaker 5: You did not know that? All I know is you
Speaker 5: guys come high and recommend they tell me you guys
Speaker 5: can sing anything in the world. All I know is
Speaker 5: I want that gun country. I want some that gun
Speaker 5: country music going on round. I know that.
Speaker 13: But you know, our specialty is an R and B.
Speaker 5: That's our specialty. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 13: It's it's not like we're trained monkeys where we could
Speaker 13: just learn something new last mint like that. You know
Speaker 13: what I'm saying, Let's let's get let's get one.
Speaker 5: Let's get one thing. Understand you're the person that's said monkey,
Speaker 5: I ain't sick, yo, yo, I'm just no.
Speaker 4: And you know that we're an R and D band.
Speaker 5: That's our big thing.
Speaker 13: That's what we promote ourselves at.
Speaker 5: Let me ask you something, Richie. He something do you
Speaker 5: not Do you not want to make the five thousand
Speaker 5: knowledge that you and I have already negotiated.
Speaker 13: I don't like being disrespected though, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 13: and maybe.
Speaker 5: I is disrespecting you at You're just gonna we're an
Speaker 5: R and D band. We don't see the country.
Speaker 13: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: Hang it on here, Richie, you got something country music?
Speaker 5: I have no problem with country music.
Speaker 13: It's just that we have a full horn section, which
Speaker 13: doesn't really work with country music. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 13: we play R and B. It's not our genre.
Speaker 5: Well I got how got what year used to doing?
Speaker 5: But if I don't hear uh, let me see you're
Speaker 5: gunner old my Cole Swim they didn't didn't that. It
Speaker 5: ain't gonna work for me. I gotta get that. I
Speaker 5: gotta get slow burned by Tim Heats. I gotta get
Speaker 5: all my arty friends who coming over by. I ain't Williams.
Speaker 5: I mean that, y'all. You know what Wayne, wait, wait, wait, wait,
Speaker 5: Kevin's over at the Bandy is telling me that you
Speaker 5: guys can sing anything in the world. Now, I know
Speaker 5: you ain't telling name that Kevin's line.
Speaker 13: I mean he may he should have told you explicitly
Speaker 13: what we do and what we play. You know what
Speaker 13: I'm saying, I've.
Speaker 5: Never met anybody in my life. I'm playing problem playing Guardbrooks,
Speaker 5: Chris Stapleton, Jason now Dain's Brooks and Dons, Blake Shelton,
Speaker 5: Cole Swindale. Lady, ay, you don't sit here and tell
Speaker 5: me you can't play none of these songs. I want
Speaker 5: you to get on the stage and sing these songs
Speaker 5: that we want done. We ain't got time to find
Speaker 5: another group.
Speaker 13: Everybody, I don't care about your stupid party.
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 13: You came to us to play music, and.
Speaker 5: Then we told you what we do right now, you know,
Speaker 5: right now, I feel like I feel like we had
Speaker 5: a standoff at the I'm okay, Coral, all.
Speaker 13: Right, all right, let me let me talk to my band,
Speaker 13: all right, because this is going this is going unnecessary
Speaker 13: too far.
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 13: Maybe we can make it work, all right.
Speaker 5: Let me let me ask you something. Is Dre the
Speaker 5: bass player? Yeah, correct, Okay? Can I tell you something
Speaker 5: about Drey? What about him? Drey got me to prank
Speaker 5: phone call you. This is nephew Tommy from the Steve
Speaker 5: Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 2: Baby, you just got pranked by your boy.
Speaker 5: In the band dream Damn. Oh okay, I gotta ask
Speaker 5: you something, man. What is the baddest and I mean
Speaker 5: the baddest radio show.
Speaker 13: In the land, Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 12: This ain't taxas you can hold You's coming up next.
Speaker 12: It is as the clo or Chief Love Officers. You're
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Speaker 1: Up at the top of the Hour.
Speaker 12: In entertainment news, Jonathan Majors avoids jail time in his
Speaker 12: harassment and domestic violence case. Judge ruled Miss Memphis Grizzly
Speaker 12: star John Morant punched a teenager in self defense, and
Speaker 12: Dave Chappelle said having dinner with Kanye West and his
Speaker 12: wife was a bit awkward due to her lack of clothes.
Speaker 11: Bet it wasna wow.
Speaker 12: We'll talk about all of these stories at the top
Speaker 12: of the hour, but right now it is time to
Speaker 12: ask the CLO or Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey money,
Speaker 12: and Brooklyn writes, my husband and my mother are too
Speaker 12: close for comfort, and he buys her things and gives
Speaker 12: her money all the time. I usually have to check
Speaker 12: with him if I can't catch up with her because
Speaker 12: they text a lot.
Speaker 1: She's seventy nine.
Speaker 4: Is this cute?
Speaker 11: Or should I put an end to it? Which one?
Speaker 7: Well, she's seventy nine, I pretty much. I pretty much think.
Speaker 7: You know, ain't nothing going on. I wouldn't think, but
Speaker 7: then you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: Look, you know you could put a stop to it,
Speaker 2: but for what reason?
Speaker 5: Though?
Speaker 7: Okay, okay, so go ahead and stop it. You know,
Speaker 7: the man loves your mama. Yeah, yeah, and you want
Speaker 7: to put a stop to that.
Speaker 11: Okay, go ahead, she's jealous of their relationship.
Speaker 12: Go ahead, go ahead, and then you have your husband
Speaker 12: and your mom mad Yeah no, I mean just go ahead, lady.
Speaker 2: What man? You don't care if you jealous of your mama,
Speaker 2: you might not go down to his job.
Speaker 12: Oh okay, speaking of that, Moving on to Carlos in
Speaker 12: Oklahoma City, Carlos says, my boss and I have an
Speaker 12: emotional connection. I can tell her anything without being judged.
Speaker 12: My wife overheard us on the phone, and the next
Speaker 12: day she came and caused a scene at my job.
Speaker 12: She wants my boss to get fired, even though I've
Speaker 12: told her that I've never had sex with the woman.
Speaker 12: How do I stop my wife? I'm down at the job.
Speaker 7: See, brother, it's talking at the house. That was stupid. Ah,
Speaker 7: This me and this woman have a special connection. That's stupid.
Speaker 7: You spending time talking to this other woman while you
Speaker 7: at home and you ain't talking to your wife. That's stupid.
Speaker 7: And if you don't think this conversation going to lead
Speaker 7: to six you stupid.
Speaker 2: R bro dog dog. I can't help you.
Speaker 7: You know what's happening. I've told her we haven't had sex.
Speaker 7: You might as well have said yet, right, we ain't
Speaker 7: even had sex?
Speaker 14: What not?
Speaker 7: Know, I would never, I've never, I'm not none of that.
Speaker 7: Just we ain't even had sex. Right, Yeah, nothing to
Speaker 7: make her feel at ease.
Speaker 2: You can bro.
Speaker 9: She want her fires, he might lose his job, Yeah,
Speaker 9: causing all the drama.
Speaker 7: Okay, Okay, See, if he's not complaining about his superior
Speaker 7: and she's not breaking any rules at the company, you
Speaker 7: can't get her fired. They were on the phone talking.
Speaker 7: You can't get fired for that.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Well, moving on to Grason Toledo.
Speaker 12: Grace says, I called my husband and asked him to
Speaker 12: pick up cold medicine for our son.
Speaker 1: On his way home.
Speaker 12: I noticed that he got it from a pharmacy that's
Speaker 12: over forty five minutes from our house. But he said
Speaker 12: he was at work when I called. Why would he
Speaker 12: lie about this.
Speaker 2: If he called the man at work.
Speaker 7: And he bought it at a pharmacy forty five minutes away,
Speaker 7: it's some simple math. How far away is his job
Speaker 7: from the house, Which direction is the pharmacy between the
Speaker 7: house and his job, And what did he lie about?
Speaker 7: So what is she saying he's lying about Shirley.
Speaker 12: I don't knowmember well, she's saying that he got the medicine,
Speaker 12: the coal medicine for their son, that's forty five minutes
Speaker 12: away from their house. But he said he was at
Speaker 12: work when she called.
Speaker 1: So why would he lie about it?
Speaker 7: He didn't lie. He was at work when you called.
Speaker 7: Now where he went to get the medical So what
Speaker 7: you're worried about that for? Did the baby get the medicine?
Speaker 2: That's what that's what we should be focusing on.
Speaker 7: I can't, so it's all about you. Damn the sick
Speaker 7: baby we got. Turned it around, Bedad. I did not
Speaker 7: realize that.
Speaker 1: This selfish Yeah, did the baby get the medicine?
Speaker 2: How could you.
Speaker 1: Turn it around?
Speaker 7: He was at work when you called. The way he
Speaker 7: was when he bought the medicine was at the pharmacy.
Speaker 7: Now the pharmacy was the other way.
Speaker 2: Not what he lie.
Speaker 12: Yeah, don't create problems where there are none, lady, All right,
Speaker 12: here we go, Last one, Steve, Last one. Elena in
Speaker 12: Fairburn says, I met a man at church and we
Speaker 12: went out on a date.
Speaker 11: The next day, a woman claiming to be.
Speaker 1: His wife called me.
Speaker 12: I talked to my pastor, and he said, the guy
Speaker 12: is single and the lady harasses a lot of men.
Speaker 11: Should I steer clear of him or continue to date him?
Speaker 2: Well, the pastors said, he is single? Mm hmm you know, yeah,
Speaker 2: but now you ain't the only single woman? Won't he?
Speaker 2: But so what he won't you? He dating?
Speaker 5: You?
Speaker 2: Going and keep talking to him? You know, just getting
Speaker 2: ready to get rolled up on? Yeah, yeo, you need
Speaker 2: to understand who you're dealing with.
Speaker 12: Right where did the lady get her number and all
Speaker 12: of that?
Speaker 2: Oh? Track him down? See see this whole thing.
Speaker 7: She got her eyes on him, And you're not finn
Speaker 7: to come up in hill and win him over.
Speaker 1: And I've been here all this time.
Speaker 2: We not we not just this ain't this type of church?
Speaker 1: She said, no, no, no, what's her name?
Speaker 7: Now? I'm telling you right now, see this is great
Speaker 7: amount give a lot Baptist church. But we don't get
Speaker 7: that thing. But you're not run up, sister Ruby, and
Speaker 7: what you want to do. I'm sister Ruby up in here.
Speaker 7: I'm I'm read you understand.
Speaker 5: Okay?
Speaker 12: Playing so so she you think she should still continue
Speaker 12: to date him and forget about Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: Don't let this woman run you off. She's trying to
Speaker 2: run everybody. He don't want her.
Speaker 7: You need to find out who she is. Ask her
Speaker 7: to meet you somewhere so you can see what you're
Speaker 7: dealing with. Now, I'm four warning. You know she's gonna
Speaker 7: be a big girl. She's gonna have some size on ready.
Speaker 5: How do you know that? Though? Oh?
Speaker 2: Well, you know, because you know she threatened.
Speaker 1: Anyway than coming up at the top of the hour,
Speaker 1: you need to.
Speaker 11: We'll have some entertainment news for you right after this.
Speaker 1: You're listening morning show.
Speaker 12: According to People magazine, actress Megan Good was at Jonathan
Speaker 12: Major's side at his sentencing hearing in New York City.
Speaker 12: The judge sentenced Majors to participate in a domestic violence
Speaker 12: treatment program after he was found guilty of assault enherissment
Speaker 12: back in December.
Speaker 1: No jail time.
Speaker 12: Majors will attend one year in person Batterer's Intervention program
Speaker 12: in Los Angeles and must continue mental health counseling and
Speaker 12: stay away.
Speaker 11: From the victim in the criminal case. So no jail time.
Speaker 7: You know what, I don't understand this case. I haven't
Speaker 7: seen at all, but this this smells really re fishy.
Speaker 7: You know. Yeah, that's the thing because the video I
Speaker 7: saw was him running away, you know, yeah, And and
Speaker 7: there was no.
Speaker 1: I mean chasing him for a while, she chased him
Speaker 1: on that.
Speaker 7: And was no evidence of him ever striking or being
Speaker 7: physically abusive to this woman.
Speaker 1: Well, the jury said, I was reading a little bit more.
Speaker 15: They said, what he did, he didn't intend to harm her,
Speaker 15: like I guess they were trying to say, he did
Speaker 15: what he had to do at the time. I don't
Speaker 15: want to put words, and it was yes, yes, So
Speaker 15: that's I guess that's why the judge said no jail time.
Speaker 7: But see, but this man's career, but yes, because of this,
Speaker 7: And it's unfair man, that this man loses his livelihood
Speaker 7: over a false accusation.
Speaker 1: Shit, we're hoping he can get his career back on tracking, yeah.
Speaker 9: Man, because they say, they say, right, man, he deserves
Speaker 9: a second chance.
Speaker 2: Well, he didn't do anything, though.
Speaker 1: No tail time. He needs some counseling and all of that,
Speaker 1: which is good.
Speaker 2: He didn't have to go to y'all. But what he
Speaker 2: need counseling on if he wasn't wrong.
Speaker 7: Listen to me, man, They all know good and well,
Speaker 7: and I know good and well and America, no good
Speaker 7: and way had a black man physically done something to
Speaker 7: this white woman and they had the goods on it,
Speaker 7: you know, what the hell would be happening.
Speaker 2: They don't have no goods on this k They just
Speaker 2: won't do.
Speaker 7: Something to it, man. And that don't seem right. Man,
Speaker 7: Something about this doesn't seem right.
Speaker 12: I mean what they've done, what what has happened is
Speaker 12: pretty severe with the loss of his career and everything.
Speaker 12: So he does have a movie coming out with Marvel
Speaker 12: called The Kane Dynasty of Things.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that got shot all rich You never talked
Speaker 1: about replacing him for that. He's lost in doors. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he used to do the army commercials.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he lost so much, that's crazy.
Speaker 11: Yeah, all right, Moving on to this is.
Speaker 12: According to Yahoo dot com, Dave Chappelle apparently had dinner
Speaker 12: with Kan Kanye West and his wife u Beiyonka Sensori
Speaker 12: recently and described the experience.
Speaker 1: Has quote Offwards and.
Speaker 12: Dave talks about the encounter during a comedy performance and
Speaker 12: said it was the most uncomfortable dinner he's ever attended.
Speaker 12: Bianca was basically naked. We know this about her though, right, So.
Speaker 1: Dave said in.
Speaker 12: Part, we're going to try to keep it clean, clean
Speaker 12: it up for radio quote, she looked like she woke
Speaker 12: up and put some makeup on, slapped some duct tape
Speaker 12: on her breast breasts, and walked out the door.
Speaker 1: Of course, Dave had more to say.
Speaker 12: You know, we can't say that on the air, but anyway,
Speaker 12: some people have criticized Kanye for seemingly showcasing his wife portrayed,
Speaker 12: you know, just parading her around for public consumption, just
Speaker 12: and basically nothing. The last controversial outfit she had and
Speaker 12: it was like a condom, like a body condom or something.
Speaker 1: Anyway, but he.
Speaker 2: Walking around in that, in that in that hot box sweatsuit.
Speaker 1: Yeah, all black and yeah, I mean but he got on.
Speaker 2: The same suit boxes well when they're trying to make weight.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so.
Speaker 2: He got a.
Speaker 11: Glass Yeah, and she's basically naked.
Speaker 2: All I just you know, for me, for me, I
Speaker 2: think I think it's just I think this is for
Speaker 2: his ego. Yeah what I got.
Speaker 12: Yeah, he posted on Instagram, Steve, I'm a I'm a
Speaker 12: I'm a post my wife as much as I want, Bro,
Speaker 12: it makes me happy.
Speaker 1: Okay, It's just you have daughters.
Speaker 2: That too much.
Speaker 5: It is it is?
Speaker 1: It is too much.
Speaker 11: I don't understand.
Speaker 2: I don't I don't understand.
Speaker 7: How your wife is for public consumption, right, I don't
Speaker 7: understand that. Man, I don't understand it.
Speaker 11: As much as I want it.
Speaker 1: It's sickening. I'm so sick of seeing how. It's horrible.
Speaker 2: It's horrible.
Speaker 1: This is horrible that this is happening like this he has.
Speaker 12: I don't understand what exactly what he's thinking. I don't
Speaker 12: understand what she what she's thinking. Why are you doing this?
Speaker 16: Why?
Speaker 2: A huge part of this is her fault? Say it
Speaker 2: against a huge part of this is her fault.
Speaker 11: Yeah, because I mean, you're the wrong woman.
Speaker 2: Right, is he?
Speaker 1: I'm not wearing that.
Speaker 2: I'm wearing this.
Speaker 7: Yeah, easy, baby, put that actually a seat through thing
Speaker 7: on and put them redstocks.
Speaker 2: Come on, let's go.
Speaker 1: Yeah you got more?
Speaker 2: What did you?
Speaker 5: Right?
Speaker 2: I'm not wearing that. He looked like he laid her
Speaker 2: clothes out, though he do look like, Yes, it's just
Speaker 2: too stupid.
Speaker 12: Unless she's an exhibitionist and she likes all of the attention.
Speaker 12: That's the only thing I can come up with. But
Speaker 12: what about indecent exposure and all of that?
Speaker 11: What about that. Yeah, aren't there laws against that?
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a lot, it's a lot. Yeah, she's doing
Speaker 1: way way much. And it's not hate.
Speaker 5: This is not hate.
Speaker 2: This is nobody hating.
Speaker 11: No beautiful girl, clothes on girl.
Speaker 12: All right, coming up in twenty minutes after the hour,
Speaker 12: we're gonna check Steve's voicemail eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve.
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening morning show, and it's.
Speaker 12: Time now to check Steve's voicemail. And if you would
Speaker 12: like to leave Steve a message, call him eight seven
Speaker 12: seven twenty nine, Steve eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve,
Speaker 12: you might just hear your.
Speaker 1: Call on the air.
Speaker 12: All right, Steve, you're ready for Darnell from Los Angeles.
Speaker 12: He needs some relationship advice.
Speaker 16: Steve, Hope, all is well, this is Dartnell. Call him
Speaker 16: from Los Angeles. Man, I've lost my girl. She packed
Speaker 16: up and left on Good Friday. I'm supposed to go
Speaker 16: to work and never came back. End up going back
Speaker 16: to her parents' help. We have some disagreements sober.
Speaker 17: Things that a man wants, things that a woman wants.
Speaker 14: It.
Speaker 17: You know, she didn't voice a lot of those concerns,
Speaker 17: but I didn't have an.
Speaker 5: Opportunity to fix them. We never had an.
Speaker 17: Opportunity to sit down, have that conversation, work on it
Speaker 17: and fix it. But I do know that they feel
Speaker 17: I won't change, and you always say a man will
Speaker 17: change for the right woman. Just asking that you got
Speaker 17: some advice for me to help me out, I'm just
Speaker 17: trying to push forward, get my woman back, take care
Speaker 17: of my responsibilities.
Speaker 5: I've been in the apartments that.
Speaker 17: We have by myself.
Speaker 5: You gotta hold down the bills and the rent for myself.
Speaker 5: If that's what a man do.
Speaker 17: How many advice and then I appreciate it?
Speaker 5: Are big gone out?
Speaker 2: Well? You know, bruh. A couple of things comes to
Speaker 2: mind here.
Speaker 7: Number one, as I oftentimes tell women, sometimes the breakup
Speaker 7: is the blessing. Now, I know you want her back,
Speaker 7: but if she don't want to come back, then, you know, man,
Speaker 7: we have to grapple with that. And then you mentioned
Speaker 7: something about you weren't even aware of what was wrong
Speaker 7: when you had never had a chance to address it
Speaker 7: or fix it. I understand up too. For her to
Speaker 7: just up and bounce on a good Friday, there's a
Speaker 7: little message in that for you. Maybe she didn't want
Speaker 7: to fix it.
Speaker 2: Could that be it? Maybe she just don't want to be.
Speaker 7: Involved anymore to just go back to her parents' house
Speaker 7: like that. So I think I know you want her back,
Speaker 7: but you could say this right here. You could just
Speaker 7: say what you said to me. Look, I feel really
Speaker 7: bad that you didn't allow me a chance to address it.
Speaker 7: This is how I really feel about you, and I'm
Speaker 7: willing to do some things. But obviously something has broken
Speaker 7: down somewhere. So if I were you, you got the
Speaker 7: right attitude. You said you got this apartment in the bills,
Speaker 7: you'll hold it down yourself, because that's what men do.
Speaker 7: You sound like a good dude, man, You really really do,
Speaker 7: because most men don't even handle it that way. So
Speaker 7: I think you might be in great shape.
Speaker 2: Brother.
Speaker 7: So you know, sometimes the break up is the blessing,
Speaker 7: and I wouldn't even I wouldn't sweat.
Speaker 2: It that hard.
Speaker 7: I know you want her back, but sometimes man, it'll
Speaker 7: give you a chance to find the one that's right
Speaker 7: for you. Because if they'll leave you without warning like that,
Speaker 7: that sends a message to me too.
Speaker 10: If anybody leave on Good Friday and then come back Sunday,
Speaker 10: they pretty much gone, though, that's a good Friday guys.
Speaker 2: You know looks good, right. I don't see no return
Speaker 2: on that. It is a bad.
Speaker 1: Him right, all right? Well hey listen coming up.
Speaker 2: For this food. That means uh he has risen on
Speaker 2: the Thursday relationship.
Speaker 1: Don't look thank you right, you just ghosted, not holy ghosted?
Speaker 9: All right?
Speaker 12: Coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour, we'll
Speaker 12: have more of Steve's voicemail at eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve,
Speaker 12: right after this.
Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show.
Speaker 12: All right, Steve, we have more voicemail calls for you.
Speaker 12: If you you you would like to leave a message
Speaker 12: for Steve, call him eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve,
Speaker 12: you might just hear your voicemail on the air. This
Speaker 12: one is from Ken in Kansas City.
Speaker 5: What's up, mister Steve Harvey. This is Kim and Kansas sEH, Missouri,
Speaker 5: Me and the fellas at as I and Shipping and
Speaker 5: we seeing we listen to you every morning. Man. We
Speaker 5: just like to thank you for your encouraging. You're probably
Speaker 5: never play us on the air, but we pray that
Speaker 5: you get to listen to the message.
Speaker 6: Man.
Speaker 5: Your message is being reached. Its going out. I appreciate you,
Speaker 5: man from the bottom of my heart, because you give
Speaker 5: us all encouragement in our lives. And we are men,
Speaker 5: all of us are men, and we all are believers. Man.
Speaker 5: Thank you so much. Bless you man, God, bless you.
Speaker 7: Wow to the brothers down there in Kansas City and
Speaker 7: down there at the ASI.
Speaker 2: Steve Hart is standing strong with you.
Speaker 7: Man, y'all stay with it, man, don't ever give up.
Speaker 7: I appreciate you telling me that, because, like I say,
Speaker 7: sometimes see we do this work on the radio. We
Speaker 7: get up in the morning to provide you know, encouragement
Speaker 7: and enlightenment, entertainment and inspiration, and we don't know if
Speaker 7: it's getting through or not. So it's good man. We
Speaker 7: hear from brothers like y'all. All y'all men down there, man,
Speaker 7: keep standing strong. We got you were down here holding it.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I love that.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 11: This is a a man, Steve, who has a question
Speaker 11: about finding a wife.
Speaker 5: Thank Steve.
Speaker 18: I just have a question when you talk about a
Speaker 18: man's job and provide, protect and profess this woman and
Speaker 18: do all he can to take care of his wife.
Speaker 18: You know she can bring last this world and may
Speaker 18: that's one of the biggest things, the biggest blessings were
Speaker 18: when a woman can bring a whole human into this world.
Speaker 18: But what else should a man look for in a
Speaker 18: wife besides a person who can take care of his kids? Like,
Speaker 18: what should he look for? What quality do you think
Speaker 18: will make a great wife? Thank you, Steve, and thank
Speaker 18: you for entertaining me every day, getting me.
Speaker 2: To my day. God bless well.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I understand what you're saying, because a woman has
Speaker 7: to bring more to the table than just childbirth. I'm
Speaker 7: just saying that that's the biggest thing a person can
Speaker 7: bring to a table. You can't top that. I don't
Speaker 7: care well how much money you make on what you do,
Speaker 7: you can't. You can't making lives dog we fit facts.
Speaker 7: But I think that women what I look for, what
Speaker 7: I've finally found and what I understood was important was
Speaker 7: the two things three things. Three things I think are
Speaker 7: imperative and the third one I think women miss out
Speaker 7: the most. The three things that a man is really
Speaker 7: looking for is support, loyalty, and appreciation. Will you don't
Speaker 7: really hear man talking about too much about no love.
Speaker 1: Top three?
Speaker 11: No, because it's not so they don't have to love you.
Speaker 7: No, no, no, no, that that should be, but that
Speaker 7: that love has to be in the form of support, loyalty,
Speaker 7: and appreciation. A man needs somebody that's gonna get in
Speaker 7: there and be supportive of his efforts and his dreams.
Speaker 2: And a man needs to know that you belong to me,
Speaker 2: and I belong to you, that you loyal to me.
Speaker 7: And this is the most overlooked thing that women fail
Speaker 7: to do that I hear from a lot of men
Speaker 7: is appreciation. A man wants to feel appreciated. Men don't
Speaker 7: get the Men don't hear thank you enough. Men don't
Speaker 7: hear man, I really appreciate the good job you're doing.
Speaker 7: Enough now, Ladies, right here, this ain't the time for
Speaker 7: you to go well, he don't say it to me.
Speaker 7: Slow down, slow down. All I'm doing is answering the
Speaker 7: question that the brother asked. You know, I've been on
Speaker 7: your side for a long time, but I am telling
Speaker 7: you one of the most overlooked attributes that a woman
Speaker 7: can give to a man, that oftentimes overlooked, is appreciation.
Speaker 7: You have no idea what a man would feel like
Speaker 7: if he felt more appreciated, or if he heard.
Speaker 2: Thank you more.
Speaker 7: Because it's a hard job being a father, because we
Speaker 7: can't get it right. If we spend time with the family,
Speaker 7: we ain't out there making the money they need. If
Speaker 7: we out there making the money they need, then we
Speaker 7: ain't giving them enough time. And as hard as you
Speaker 7: do it, it's hard to get that one right.
Speaker 2: Wait till she get home.
Speaker 1: Come on Newlywed.
Speaker 12: Going up next, nephew, tell me in the frank phone
Speaker 12: call for today. Right after this, Thank you guys.
Speaker 1: You're listening hard morning show coming up at the top
Speaker 1: of the hour.
Speaker 12: Right about four minutes after it's my strawberry letter for today,
Speaker 12: and the subject is why can't I go with my
Speaker 12: friend and her cousin? All right, we'll get into that
Speaker 12: find out what that's all about in just a few
Speaker 12: Why can't I go with my friend and her cousin?
Speaker 12: Right now, it is time for the nephew and today's
Speaker 12: prank phone call.
Speaker 10: Nephew, Well, Cly, you know what, when we go to church, oftentimes,
Speaker 10: you know, there's a mixture of race. Sometimes sometimes you
Speaker 10: marry and to marry someone that goes to a Baptist church.
Speaker 10: Right now, I got a white guy that is married
Speaker 10: to a black lady going to a Baptist church.
Speaker 2: Now. But you know, when you come up in our church,
Speaker 2: you know it's certain things you need to know.
Speaker 10: So what we have right here today is a Black
Speaker 10: Gospel Quiz, Black One Gospel Quiz. These are just things
Speaker 10: you need to know if you're gonna be sitting up
Speaker 10: in here with us worshiping the Lord.
Speaker 2: You understand what I'm saying.
Speaker 10: This right here is the Black Gospel Quiz, cat Dog
Speaker 10: if you would, goodness, this.
Speaker 5: Is Grant, oh Grand Grant Stephens. Right, yes, hey, great,
Speaker 5: this is brother Lewis Finley. I'm calling from Mount Side
Speaker 5: Now Missionary Baptist Church. You and your wife just joined
Speaker 5: a couple of weeks ago, am I right? Absolutely? Yes? Okay,
Speaker 5: So now listen, I wanted to reach out to you.
Speaker 5: I know you guys have started the uh the orientation
Speaker 5: and from my understanding you you finished one one class
Speaker 5: at the orientation. You got three more to go? Is
Speaker 5: that right?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 5: All right? All right, all right. So first of all,
Speaker 5: I want to say welcome to my finn that and
Speaker 5: and I hope you are enjoying yourself. I know that
Speaker 5: you and your wife are a mixed couple. You you're
Speaker 5: a Caucasian and she's she's Black Are you Are you
Speaker 5: liking the church so far?
Speaker 14: Grant, Absolutely, we really are enjoying it. We completed our
Speaker 14: first orientation and uh yeah, so far, we're really enjoying it.
Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, did I catch at a bad time?
Speaker 4: I am at work right now, but it's okay.
Speaker 14: I've got a couple I've got a.
Speaker 5: Couple of minutes, Okay, Okay. I just wanted to call you, man.
Speaker 5: I was worried I know you because I don't think
Speaker 5: you noticed, but you are the first Caucasian to join
Speaker 5: our church, and I just want to make sure you
Speaker 5: kind of knew the language and and just just kind
Speaker 5: of knowing what the Black Church is all about. And
Speaker 5: there's certain sins and different things I think you should
Speaker 5: know so that you know, I just don't want you
Speaker 5: to say that the wrong thing while you at the church,
Speaker 5: if that makes sense. Okay, Okay, So what I wanted
Speaker 5: to do, like, I wanted to give you a little
Speaker 5: Black Church quiz so you can kind of maybe if
Speaker 5: you could let me know where you are, you know,
Speaker 5: if you're on a lower level or a high level
Speaker 5: as far as being knowledgeable about the Black Church, Like
Speaker 5: feel this blank in for me grant and if you
Speaker 5: don't matter, I just want to take a liberty of
Speaker 5: time and I let you get back to work. But
Speaker 5: first of all, give a blank to God. What would
Speaker 5: go in that blank? Right there? First of all, give
Speaker 5: a blank to God?
Speaker 4: Now I can think of something has Give thanks to God.
Speaker 5: No, see that's wrong. See that's wrong. See to see
Speaker 5: what it is is? First of all, give a honor
Speaker 5: to all all right, remember that. First of all, give
Speaker 5: an honor the God. You got that, okay, yes, yes, okay.
Speaker 5: First of all, give an honor to God, who is
Speaker 5: the blank of my life? What? What? What? What goes
Speaker 5: in the blank? First of all, give an honor to God,
Speaker 5: who is the blank of my life, the love of
Speaker 5: my life. No, no, see that's that's that's that's wrong.
Speaker 5: First of all, give an honor to God, who is
Speaker 5: the head of my life.
Speaker 2: You can you share that?
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, okay, I was just are you sure? Are
Speaker 5: you sure about that? Oh? I'm definitely sure about man.
Speaker 5: Don't don't. Don't. What I don't want you to do
Speaker 5: is question what I know. I'm from the Black Church.
Speaker 5: I know you.
Speaker 2: No, I wasn't.
Speaker 14: I wasn't questioning you, sir, I wasn't.
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, I just always heard it that way. But okay,
Speaker 5: So so I'm trying to give you the understanding of
Speaker 5: morning what the Black Church is about. You understand, I understand.
Speaker 5: I just I appreciate you. I apologize. Okay.
Speaker 14: Now, look, I don't know these answers, obviously, but I've
Speaker 14: got a meeting. I got to get to here in
Speaker 14: a minute. Like this, I'm curious if everyone in the
Speaker 14: church get.
Speaker 4: These stone calls.
Speaker 5: Well wait a minute, wait a minute, grand I know
Speaker 5: what you have a meeting, But what's more important? Your
Speaker 5: meeting or knowing your position at the Black Church? What's
Speaker 5: more important?
Speaker 4: I really don't have time for this right now.
Speaker 14: I can't believe it's actually happening.
Speaker 4: Like, does your pastor even know that you're calling you
Speaker 4: right now?
Speaker 5: Well? No, I took the liberty of myself. What I
Speaker 5: realized you was Caucasian, that I would call and try
Speaker 5: to help you so you would know what to do
Speaker 5: when you're in the Black Church when people are saying
Speaker 5: certain things you Okay, okay, Grant, if you don't man,
Speaker 5: just do this funny grant, like do you know what
Speaker 5: hooping is? Hooping? Like, who's a hooping. Uh no, cooping
Speaker 5: is when the pastor is at the end of his sermon.
Speaker 5: So listen to this. Oh God, I'm like, do that funny?
Speaker 5: If you? If you? Oh hello, oh god? Oh my no, no,
Speaker 5: no more, come on you wit me?
Speaker 1: Oh no, no.
Speaker 5: God, I'm got.
Speaker 2: I can't believe I'm doing that.
Speaker 14: Oh no, no yoah, oh God, Oh mighty.
Speaker 5: Okay, Hey Greg, do you think maybe it's possible, ady, mean,
Speaker 5: you could have some sessions before you come back to
Speaker 5: the church and I can prepare you more.
Speaker 14: Hey, man's listen, you have caught me at a really
Speaker 14: bad time, and I'm quite honestly just so frustrated.
Speaker 4: Like I've never heard of a quiz like this. I'm
Speaker 4: really offended to be Like, do you guys not want
Speaker 4: me to go to your church anymore? Like, as matter
Speaker 4: of fact, dude, you should be calling my wife right now.
Speaker 5: She's black, well, she should already know the que is
Speaker 5: question you the ones don't know why I'm gonna call.
Speaker 5: I said call you.
Speaker 14: I'm at work right now.
Speaker 4: I have a meeting to get you in just a minute.
Speaker 4: I don't know what you're doing. And I hold on
Speaker 4: a second, I have got to close my office door.
Speaker 14: This is so embarrassing.
Speaker 4: I have never ever received a phone call like this
Speaker 4: in my life, and you better be lucky. I mean,
Speaker 4: I want to talk to your pastor. I am going
Speaker 4: to talk to him next Sunday.
Speaker 2: No joke.
Speaker 5: Well, I didn't mean to put you to get hostile
Speaker 5: like that. I didn't mean to get you. I didn't
Speaker 5: mean to upset you or nothing like that. Cannot Can
Speaker 5: I say something else to you? One last thing? And
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Speaker 12: Coming out Strawberry Letters subject why can't I go with
Speaker 12: my friend and our cousin?
Speaker 1: We'll find out right after this. You're listening Hardy Morning Show.
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Speaker 12: Subject why can't I go with my friend and her cousin,
Speaker 12: Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been married for nine years and
Speaker 12: I've been mad at my husband for the last year.
Speaker 12: For an entire year, he has questioned my faithfulness to
Speaker 12: him and demanded me to drop friends that I've known
Speaker 12: longer than I've known him. My husband is projecting his
Speaker 12: character tits, character traits on me. He's a cheater, not me.
Speaker 12: He is the one that textes women and comments on
Speaker 12: their pictures on ig while he's in bed next to me.
Speaker 12: When he started tripping about who I hang with, it
Speaker 12: set me off. I've known my girl Fay for twenty
Speaker 12: two years, and I met her cousin, John John about
Speaker 12: five years ago. We've had Faye and John John over
Speaker 12: to the house hundreds of times My husband enjoyed hanging
Speaker 12: with John John until I told him that John John
Speaker 12: is Fay's cousin and not her man. I should have
Speaker 12: never told him because now he is trying to ruin
Speaker 12: my summer vacation with Fay. We have paid for an
Speaker 12: all inclusive trip to the Bahamas, and my husband said
Speaker 12: I can't go because John John is going. He said,
Speaker 12: if I.
Speaker 11: Go, I can't come back to his house.
Speaker 12: I didn't even argue with him that it's my house too,
Speaker 12: because the real issue is that my husband is a cheater,
Speaker 12: so he thinks I'm dirty too. I don't have sex
Speaker 12: with him because he's always looking at his phone and
Speaker 12: grinning day and night. I can't get turned on by
Speaker 12: a man that doesn't pay me any attention. He assumes
Speaker 12: that I don't want to have sex with him because
Speaker 12: I'm having sex with John John. We've had full blown
Speaker 12: arguments daily and I'm so over it all. Can I
Speaker 12: go to the Bahamas and come back home? Do I
Speaker 12: have to cancel my trip?
Speaker 1: It would be a shame.
Speaker 12: It just would be a shame to lose all of
Speaker 12: your money over something that's not even true, that your
Speaker 12: husband thinks up in his head but of course it
Speaker 12: would be worse to lose your marriage over your husband's
Speaker 12: silly assumptions too. But this isn't much of a marriage, now,
Speaker 12: is it. I think your husband meant what he said,
Speaker 12: even though it is your house too. And you're exactly
Speaker 12: right that cheaters are always suspicious of their partners. Because
Speaker 12: your husband is doing something wrong, he thinks you are too.
Speaker 12: You said that clearly in the letter, and so your
Speaker 12: husband doesn't trust you, especially with another man. Well, right
Speaker 12: now he's punishing you because you're depriving him of sex.
Speaker 12: You've been doing this for a whole year. I want
Speaker 12: you to go to the Bahamas. I really do, because
Speaker 12: everyone deserves a vacation and a getaway. But my question
Speaker 12: to you is what is your endgame? I mean, you
Speaker 12: can't continue to be married to this man and not
Speaker 12: have sex with him.
Speaker 1: You can't do that.
Speaker 12: You can't expect him not to cheat if you're not
Speaker 12: having sex or whatever. I mean, come on, now, that's
Speaker 12: not realistic. A decision has to be made.
Speaker 2: Here before this trip.
Speaker 12: Your husband is still there in the house. You guys
Speaker 12: are living together, but the marriage is broken. I mean,
Speaker 12: you cut him off. He's on the gram now liking
Speaker 12: other women's pictures. So again, what is your end game?
Speaker 12: Are you guys going to try to fix this mess
Speaker 12: that way? Your husband maybe he'll want to go with
Speaker 12: you on the trip. Are you going to divorce him
Speaker 12: and then you know, you could do whatever you want
Speaker 12: to do, go on vacation with whoever you want.
Speaker 1: But you guys got to fix this if it's fixable.
Speaker 2: Steve, Well, this letter starts off pretty rough. Now. The
Speaker 2: titletter letter is why can't I go with my friend
Speaker 2: and her cuz well, you know.
Speaker 7: Call your cousiners do wherever. Let's get into that a
Speaker 7: little bit later. I've been married for nine years. I've
Speaker 7: been mad at my husband for the last year. I
Speaker 7: be down right there.
Speaker 2: Mad for a whole year.
Speaker 7: Man, that that just sounds like such a hell of
Speaker 7: a house to be in. I've been, y'all. I'm living
Speaker 7: in a house with a person that's been mad at
Speaker 7: me for a year.
Speaker 2: I don't.
Speaker 7: You know, I'm not like somebody for a year. But
Speaker 7: I ain't never been mad at nobody that I live
Speaker 7: with for a year.
Speaker 2: Well, I take that.
Speaker 1: Back, Oh you have.
Speaker 2: I don't know how I heard that.
Speaker 11: You just went through your mental rolodexca.
Speaker 2: I lived in a house with a person for nine
Speaker 2: year hated me. So I don't know how that. I
Speaker 2: don't know how I thought I could get away anyway.
Speaker 7: Let's this is not about me, And you said for
Speaker 7: an entire year, he has questioned my faithfulness to him
Speaker 7: and demanded me that I drop fears that I've known
Speaker 7: longer than I've known him. Now, your husband is projecting
Speaker 7: his characteristic on you because he's the cheater, not me.
Speaker 7: Now she's saying he's the cheater. But she never pointed
Speaker 7: to a cheating incident, except she's using this thing right here.
Speaker 7: Here's the one that texts women and comments on their
Speaker 7: pictures on IG while he's in bed next to me.
Speaker 2: That yeah, okay, yeah, I take that back. That's cheating. Yeah,
Speaker 2: that's cheating.
Speaker 7: In your damn face, I'm laying in bed and I'm
Speaker 7: texting women and commenting on pictures on IG while I'm
Speaker 7: in bed next to my wife.
Speaker 2: Mad you not only cheating on her, you disrespecting her.
Speaker 7: Yes, and then when he started tripping about who I'm
Speaker 7: hanging with, it kind of set you off. You've known
Speaker 7: your girl faith for twenty three years. I met her
Speaker 7: cousbind John John five years ago. We've had Faye and
Speaker 7: John John over to the house hundreds of time. My
Speaker 7: husband loved John John until he found out that John
Speaker 7: John I fade cousin. Oh, here we go, we come back.
Speaker 2: We'll get into it all right.
Speaker 12: Uh, we'll have part two of Steve's response coming up
Speaker 12: at twenty three months.
Speaker 2: You mean John John ain't fa mane.
Speaker 19: That's exactly what happened, you know it. The subject is
Speaker 19: why can't I go with my friend and her cousin.
Speaker 19: We'll get back into it right after this.
Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show.
Speaker 12: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.
Speaker 12: The subject is why can't I go with my friend
Speaker 12: and her her cousin?
Speaker 7: Why this woman has been mad at her husband for
Speaker 7: a year. Now, First I didn't understand. It's how you
Speaker 7: in the house with somebody mad for a year. But
Speaker 7: those of us that's been in bad marriages, you've lived
Speaker 7: in a house and we ain't messed up and jacked
Speaker 7: up for years, so it's doable. But she say he cheated,
Speaker 7: but then she didn't give an example of how he cheated.
Speaker 7: And then she said he's been laying in bed next
Speaker 7: to me on his phone, texting women and comment on
Speaker 7: air ig pictures.
Speaker 2: I'll be dombe so fould.
Speaker 7: That's a lot damn dog. So now he disrespectful too.
Speaker 7: So now I got why you're mad.
Speaker 2: I got that.
Speaker 7: Then he started tripping about who you hang out with
Speaker 7: him and set you off because you've been friends with
Speaker 7: this girl you know, named Faith for twenty two years
Speaker 7: and you met her cousin, John John about five years ago.
Speaker 7: We didn't have Fay and John John over to the
Speaker 7: house hundreds of times. So mean, over a few year period,
Speaker 7: they've been over to the house, my husband and Jorge
Speaker 7: hanging with John John until I told him that John
Speaker 7: John is phased cousin and not her.
Speaker 2: Man who heit who wait? Man wait? Who hold hold
Speaker 2: hold on? Who ain't who? Man?
Speaker 1: No, baby, that's her cousin. That's that's not her John John.
Speaker 11: Yeah, they don't go together.
Speaker 1: They're just they're related, the man their blood cousins.
Speaker 2: Yeah, cousin. Yeah, and y'all finna go well now.
Speaker 11: Should have just down to the Bahamas. We already booked
Speaker 11: the trip.
Speaker 2: Oh you ain't gonna wear I don't tell you right now? No, no, no,
Speaker 2: hell no, hell no, hell no.
Speaker 7: If you go down there to the Bahamas with John
Speaker 7: John and and he ain't fay Man, you stay going
Speaker 7: you you ain't coming back to this your house.
Speaker 1: It's my house too, It was your house.
Speaker 2: It was your house to you left with on vacation
Speaker 2: with that man.
Speaker 11: It's her cousin.
Speaker 14: Girl.
Speaker 7: You know I don't play that right here. Now, see
Speaker 7: what the problem he making is he gonna push her
Speaker 7: into the arms of John Jon. Yeah, yeah, with all
Speaker 7: these accusations because now John John looking way more pleasant
Speaker 7: than he is.
Speaker 5: Now.
Speaker 7: You want to be careful because the man's name is
Speaker 7: spelled j o n j o en. You want to
Speaker 7: be careful.
Speaker 1: That's John John.
Speaker 2: So what you need?
Speaker 7: So, yeah, Jean Jean, you know, so you might want
Speaker 7: to check into a couple of things because John Johns
Speaker 7: been coming over in five years, playing cousin and everything.
Speaker 11: So you know, well her even her husband liked hanging
Speaker 11: out with them.
Speaker 2: Okay, well you might tell you some things about your
Speaker 2: husband too.
Speaker 7: Anyway, I should have never told him because now he's
Speaker 7: trying to ruin my summer vacation with Faith. We had
Speaker 7: to pay for an all inclusive trip to the Bahamas,
Speaker 7: and my husband said, I can't go because John John
Speaker 7: is going. He said, if I go, I can't come
Speaker 7: back to his house. I ain't even argue that because
Speaker 7: this is my house too, exactly, because the real issue
Speaker 7: is that my husband is a cheetah, so he thinks
Speaker 7: I'm dirty too. I didn't have sex with him. I
Speaker 7: don't have sex with him because he's always looking at
Speaker 7: his phone and grinning day and night. I can't get
Speaker 7: turned on by a man that don't pay attention to me. Understood.
Speaker 7: He assumes that I don't want to have sex with
Speaker 7: him because I'm having sex with John John. Well, he's
Speaker 7: using that as the new approach for the hundreds of
Speaker 7: times John John was coming over there and he was
Speaker 7: hanging out with John. He didn't think nothing of it,
Speaker 7: and he was perfectly comfortable about you not having sex
Speaker 7: with him because I'm on the phone anyway. We've had
Speaker 7: full blown arguments daily, and I'm so over it. Can
Speaker 7: I go to the Bahamas and come back home?
Speaker 6: I would?
Speaker 7: Yeah, of course you can't. Now a man can't do that.
Speaker 7: What a man can't go to the Bahamas and expect
Speaker 7: to come back home and his key work you dog,
Speaker 7: you can't go, but she gonna go and she gonna
Speaker 7: come back right because because because men don't really change locks,
Speaker 7: a woman change lock on your ass? Do I have
Speaker 7: to cancel my trip? I don't think so. No, I
Speaker 7: really don't think so. Why don't you just tell your husband?
Speaker 7: See this is where line comes.
Speaker 11: In here, Oh oh, where's she going?
Speaker 2: John John ain't going?
Speaker 1: Okay, but he really is going.
Speaker 2: Hell yeah, hell yeah, we're gonna be kicking. Yeah, just
Speaker 2: don't post nothing.
Speaker 12: But she didn't say John John was cute, Steve. She
Speaker 12: didn't say anything she's attracted to John John any of that.
Speaker 2: You know how many women and is married to people
Speaker 2: that ain't cute?
Speaker 12: Yeah, I do, okay, but I'm saying she didn't even
Speaker 12: say she was attracted to John Johnny in any kind
Speaker 12: of way.
Speaker 2: I know one for sure. I mean, I mean surely
Speaker 2: look at your screen.
Speaker 11: Yeah, I'm looking.
Speaker 2: There's three men over here that's married.
Speaker 1: Yeah, all those guy wise Tommy has told you about.
Speaker 7: Yeah, he's sex Yeah, in the mid life Christ and
Speaker 7: he put a tattoo on his whole damn arm. He's
Speaker 7: so tired of looking at his ass he decided to
Speaker 7: draw you want to sleep, man, I wish I would, Steve,
Speaker 7: you should do it. Man, I'm not getting no damn
Speaker 7: tattoo put on me. I ain't got no time to
Speaker 7: be laying on. That wasn't put some ink on me? Man,
Speaker 7: That don't come out?
Speaker 5: All right?
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Speaker 1: You know what time it is?
Speaker 11: Time for Junior and Sports Talk.
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening morning show. All right, Junior
Speaker 1: is here with Sports Talk. What you got for it's Junior?
Speaker 2: Well, you know the Summer Olympics is coming up.
Speaker 8: Yeah, they're in Paris. You know they're in Paris. But
Speaker 8: did you find I just found out I didn't know this.
Speaker 8: The track and field will start getting paid for gold medals,
Speaker 8: the only sport in Olympics. Fifty thousand for gold medals.
Speaker 8: I'm no longer on the Syncrednized swimming team at this point,
Speaker 8: I'm not doing that. They're paying fifty thousand for gold
Speaker 8: medals in friend of Ship. But if it ain't, it's
Speaker 8: just fifty thousand. We've been doing it for free. You've
Speaker 8: been getting gold medals for free. That's the only sport
Speaker 8: we're paying for. It's gold medals.
Speaker 2: All tra can feed. Do you know how long you
Speaker 2: got to practice to try to win fifty thousand?
Speaker 1: Now I'm shakiri.
Speaker 5: Money.
Speaker 8: They hadn't paid anybody, but they're only paying for track
Speaker 8: and field.
Speaker 2: So why is we on the polo team? Why I'm
Speaker 2: on here?
Speaker 5: Who?
Speaker 6: Who?
Speaker 5: You?
Speaker 19: Who?
Speaker 2: You gonna pay on polo team?
Speaker 8: Yeah, but if we get a gold medal as a team,
Speaker 8: should we get fifty.
Speaker 1: Thousand for what we're on?
Speaker 2: No one name on the polo team?
Speaker 8: Fifty thousand for gold medals and we on the I'm
Speaker 8: taking the horse out there on the track.
Speaker 1: I'm not fencing for free gold medal. I'm not doing that.
Speaker 1: I'm getting out here on this track.
Speaker 2: At least, say you just get out there on that track.
Speaker 2: You're not gonna win.
Speaker 1: At least I'm gonna try.
Speaker 8: Okay, I know I get somebody dreams I can I
Speaker 8: can get somebody. I get somebody on the shock, old.
Speaker 2: Body you think, tell me that one time you think
Speaker 2: dog on top of poor hamstraight? Lets you keep it?
Speaker 5: Really?
Speaker 1: Are you finally admitted that?
Speaker 2: Now you know later I got that, I got all
Speaker 2: the laughs out of it.
Speaker 7: You need a dude running down ho How much young
Speaker 7: are you the time? You ten years young at that time?
Speaker 1: Well, if I can go out there, would you be
Speaker 1: proud of me?
Speaker 8: If I got a gold medal, got fixed out, would
Speaker 8: you be proud of me?
Speaker 14: I know?
Speaker 2: Good?
Speaker 7: Hell well you're not Finn win no gold you how
Speaker 7: hard you asking me to imagine you're finish?
Speaker 2: Go out there and win a gold medal? Would I
Speaker 2: be better? Keep shaving? That's what you better keep doing.
Speaker 10: So what Timm said, what I said, you better keep
Speaker 10: chasing that hairline. Ain't no sense you're getting out there
Speaker 10: trying to raised.
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Speaker 2: Sorry, I have I have a hairline when I when
Speaker 2: I want, I now you had a hairline when you're now?
Speaker 8: Anyway, also mad a massive start today?
Speaker 2: Man. We rooted for Tiger back Man a hard man.
Speaker 7: I hope, I hope you got one more inning man
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Speaker 7: given nobody say stop. Look at all the tapes on
Speaker 7: the Palmer Jack Nicholas, look at look at the shots
Speaker 7: they made. Look at the shots tiger Man. Tiger was
Speaker 7: the greatest golfer ever played this game of golf period.
Speaker 1: All Right, all right, thank you, Peter.
Speaker 12: Coming up at the top of the hour of Steven
Speaker 12: Man on social media, needs your advice, He says, my
Speaker 12: mom's interested in my widowed neighbor.
Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening Harvey
Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, Steve so CJ.
Speaker 12: On Steve Harvey FM, rights, my mama is trying to
Speaker 12: get me to play matchmaker, and I'm not trying to
Speaker 12: do that. I have a neighbor who's in his mid
Speaker 12: fifties and his wife passed away about.
Speaker 1: Three months ago.
Speaker 12: My mama has been divorced my pops for about five
Speaker 12: years and has commented on the guy next door multiple
Speaker 12: times in the past.
Speaker 1: Now that my neighbor is a widow, were.
Speaker 12: My mama apparently sees this as her chance to shoot
Speaker 12: her shot, and she wants me to play matchmaker.
Speaker 11: I have told her no, So what am I supposed
Speaker 11: to say? Excuse me?
Speaker 12: I know the love of your life just died, but
Speaker 12: I'd like you to meet my mama. Come on now,
Speaker 12: my mama is.
Speaker 1: Like, what is the big deal? Help me, uncle Steve.
Speaker 2: Okay, now this is months when she did.
Speaker 5: That.
Speaker 2: Mom, I didn't say nothing to him when she was here.
Speaker 5: I was respectable.
Speaker 14: Soon.
Speaker 2: Yeah, i'd have been over there.
Speaker 10: You know.
Speaker 2: I see how I looking at me.
Speaker 1: Three months ago.
Speaker 2: Your daddy is on.
Speaker 1: But they divorced.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he does it to me, to you, so I don't.
Speaker 7: See what the proud me is. Now you're gonna introduce
Speaker 7: us or not? He said no, all right, Well then
Speaker 7: I'm gonna take him some cookie. I'm gonna came a
Speaker 7: power over the Friday.
Speaker 1: MoMA, you just can't go over that man house like man,
Speaker 1: you're gonna embarrass. Listen to me.
Speaker 2: She ain't there.
Speaker 11: He hungry and it's only been three months.
Speaker 2: You don't think. You don't think you ninety days?
Speaker 6: He need eat.
Speaker 2: Cookie. I'm just gonna take you some food over there.
Speaker 1: Mama is relentless.
Speaker 7: Now listen to him over Dmetri, I'm finna go over here.
Speaker 7: I got your pound take in my hand, un Bud
Speaker 7: Bud you mama blouse.
Speaker 1: Sonny you need Dmitrius the son.
Speaker 7: Dmitri. I got just pound cake in both hands and
Speaker 7: take it over to the main. But you know what,
Speaker 7: y'all two more button down?
Speaker 2: I just I can't con button your buttons. I can't
Speaker 2: do that. Let's you all out of doing for you?
Speaker 5: You can the.
Speaker 1: Guilt of it all.
Speaker 2: What you're gonna say to them when you get over there.
Speaker 7: You don't worry about that. You let nature that, that's nature,
Speaker 7: nature take care of you. You just come on and
Speaker 7: and and open this door for me. I paid all
Speaker 7: that money seeing you down there and the little racist
Speaker 7: ass school you wanted.
Speaker 5: To go to.
Speaker 10: Okay, okay, I'm gonna do your buttons. I'm gonna do
Speaker 10: your buttons. But is everything else straight forward? You walk
Speaker 10: out of here. Let's let's just go through everything you
Speaker 10: got on. Let's just make sure you strength. Okay, you
Speaker 10: got your blouse only, I got two buttons down?
Speaker 2: For what else is wine? I got on? I got on?
Speaker 2: I got on new panty holes, you know, brain new okay.
Speaker 10: New pantyhold, brows blos down, two buttons?
Speaker 2: What else we got? I got? I got on the guard,
Speaker 2: a belt guard, A belt around my thigh case.
Speaker 7: When I sit down on the couch, and cross my
Speaker 7: legs and to give them something to look at. Okay,
Speaker 7: and I and I got and I got my perfume
Speaker 7: on nail number five, shouldn't nail. I was gonna wear
Speaker 7: that Liz Taylor and white diamonds, but I said, no,
Speaker 7: that'll be too fast.
Speaker 2: Twist shift, little young ass. Up.
Speaker 10: We got, we got pantyhold guard belt, we got blose down,
Speaker 10: two buttons, we got, we got, we got nailed perfume.
Speaker 2: Moments.
Speaker 5: Is that it?
Speaker 10: You ready to walk out the door and you're taking
Speaker 10: some cookies over there?
Speaker 7: I got some cookie and I got the heels I got.
Speaker 7: I put the ones on that I wear when I'm
Speaker 7: not on the usher bowl and a half inch heels.
Speaker 7: I ain't wear my kitten heels because I'm going up.
Speaker 12: All right, all right, Mama Intimity, I want more for you,
Speaker 12: a new dad and wished it well. Steve Harvey Morning
Speaker 12: Show coming up at twenty minutes after right after this,
Speaker 12: you're listening Harvey Morning Show. All right, Well, you guys
Speaker 12: heard about this woman in South Florida who said an
Speaker 12: eight foot alligator had actually gotten inside of her house.
Speaker 11: And she was just chilling out in her living room.
Speaker 5: All right.
Speaker 12: She was in another room of the house when she
Speaker 12: heard banging on the screen door and thought it was
Speaker 12: maybe one of the neighbors in her community trying to
Speaker 12: get into the wrong house. But she when she went
Speaker 12: into the living room, she was greeted.
Speaker 1: By this humongous alligator.
Speaker 12: The woman said, quote, Oh my goodness, I have an
Speaker 12: alligator in my house.
Speaker 1: How am I going to get rid of him?
Speaker 12: She called the police and they brought along several wildlife
Speaker 12: officers to help remove the alligator from the home. The
Speaker 12: woman said her door has some sort of magnetic closure
Speaker 12: on it, and the alligator probably pushed right.
Speaker 7: Through the door.
Speaker 11: Can you imagine what that's my alligator?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, no cuffing at all.
Speaker 12: If you walk into your living room there's this gigantic
Speaker 12: alligator in there.
Speaker 1: What are you doing? What are you going to do?
Speaker 2: Great?
Speaker 7: And I'll put on that alligator. First of all, you're
Speaker 7: gonna have a hard time seeing me.
Speaker 2: Why you say that cause your spray from my butt?
Speaker 7: God, you should have been when you get your sugar
Speaker 7: honey ice tea scared out of here going.
Speaker 1: Up at thirty three minutes after the hour.
Speaker 11: We'll play around it, would you rather right after.
Speaker 1: This you're listening Hardy Morning Show.
Speaker 12: All right, guys, it's time now for a round it.
Speaker 12: Would you rather would you rather sleep walk every time
Speaker 12: you go to sleep? Or would you rather hiccup every
Speaker 12: time you talked.
Speaker 1: Walking?
Speaker 10: Or are we yeah, I'm just walking whatever? Yeah, just
Speaker 10: snawing and walking, snaw and walking.
Speaker 2: I'm a hiccup. You talking, talk.
Speaker 10: Show your hiccup everything you talk, your last your last
Speaker 10: of ragged ansports?
Speaker 1: Would you what would you?
Speaker 12: Would you rather baby sit a baby that won't stop crying,
Speaker 12: or baby that won't stop throwing up?
Speaker 2: If you're throwing up all the time? Hell, I'm gonna
Speaker 2: be crying, ain't what if he throw he throwing up?
Speaker 2: You got prod? Yeah, we better go with crying. Just well?
Speaker 11: Yeah, what you could fix crying?
Speaker 2: What are you gonna do?
Speaker 10: Yeah?
Speaker 2: They down there right there, that's so you ain't fit
Speaker 2: in the out crime.
Speaker 16: Meat there.
Speaker 1: All right?
Speaker 12: Would you rather eat ten buckets of fried chicken? Or
Speaker 12: would you rather eat ten hamburgers?
Speaker 1: Temburgers?
Speaker 2: Ten buckets? Ten buckets?
Speaker 11: Ten buckets?
Speaker 2: So much chicken?
Speaker 1: Fried chicken?
Speaker 2: It's a hunt some piece of chicken?
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, what would you rather do?
Speaker 10: Chicken?
Speaker 11: Would you rather, if you guys do answer.
Speaker 2: Is ten buckets of chicken or what else?
Speaker 1: Or burgers? Ten burgers? Thank you, thank you. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: all we needed. We appreciate you, Junior, be the way
Speaker 1: we backed up, That's all I know. I'm on those
Speaker 1: burgers though, Please make.
Speaker 2: Them bur Please make them turkey burgers.
Speaker 5: All right?
Speaker 12: Would you rather share your spoon with someone who never
Speaker 12: brushes their teeth? Or would you rather share a hot
Speaker 12: tub with someone who never showers?
Speaker 7: I can't put that that spone in my mouth. No,
Speaker 7: I'm gonna go hot tub tune in your mouth or
Speaker 7: a hot tub with somebody never shower.
Speaker 11: And the spoon in your mouth with someone that never
Speaker 11: brushes their teeth.
Speaker 12: You got to share your spooney, Okay, So all of
Speaker 12: you guys are going with a hot tub, all right.
Speaker 1: Would you rather have a huge nose or would you
Speaker 1: rather have huge tie?
Speaker 2: What s that's a step and shir question? Huge nose
Speaker 2: or what huge eyes? Sure you get this big nose,
Speaker 2: you'd be just a big old uglad.
Speaker 1: All right? That is today's round of would you rather?
Speaker 12: Coming up in forty nine minutes after the hour, last
Speaker 12: break of the day, and we'll close out the show.
Speaker 11: Put the one and only Steve Harvey right after this.
Speaker 1: You're listening Harvey Morning Show. All right, So Steve, here
Speaker 1: we are last break of the day.
Speaker 12: Before we get to your closing remarks, we have a
Speaker 12: voicemail from a woman who has a question about one
Speaker 12: of your closing remarks.
Speaker 6: Good morning, Steve in the Morning Show. Blessings to you all.
Speaker 5: Steve.
Speaker 13: If I was listening to your clothes.
Speaker 6: And remarks and you were talking about the past and
Speaker 6: how you know if people bring up your past, keep
Speaker 6: bringing up your past, you need to let them go,
Speaker 6: and how God forgives us for our past.
Speaker 1: I believe that.
Speaker 6: But I have a question if when you get passed
Speaker 6: someone's past behavior and they continue on with the same
Speaker 6: behavior that you have forgiven them for we already know
Speaker 6: the Lord has But do you remove them because you
Speaker 6: keep having this you're keep reminded of this past behavior
Speaker 6: because they're not changing, or do they remove you? I'm
Speaker 6: just asking y'all.
Speaker 5: Have a blessing on you to buy well.
Speaker 7: That seems to me two different things from what I
Speaker 7: was talking about. What I was talking about was in
Speaker 7: reference to you having control over not allowing people to
Speaker 7: hold you to your past, and when God that's forgiven you,
Speaker 7: you have the right to move on and be different
Speaker 7: and grow from what you were and learn from your experiences.
Speaker 7: What you're saying now is should you move on from
Speaker 7: a person who you forgiven from bad behavior in the past,
Speaker 7: but they continue to bad behavior? See, that's two different things.
Speaker 7: You know, you can forgive a person, but you don't
Speaker 7: have to allow a person to continue to do things
Speaker 7: to you that's that's detrimental to you. There's nothing in
Speaker 7: the Bible that requires you to have to do that.
Speaker 7: That's nothing that I know of. It might be, but
Speaker 7: I'm just Steve Harvey don't know of it. Look, man,
Speaker 7: if if I if I forgive you for cheating on me, right,
Speaker 7: let's just use that for example, but you continue to
Speaker 7: cheat on me, I don't have to keep forgiving you. Now,
Speaker 7: I forgave you. But what I'm gonna do is I'm
Speaker 7: gonna remove myself from this situation so you can go
Speaker 7: on and do you see. See, so now you ain't
Speaker 7: gonna keep cheating on me because it ain't gonna be
Speaker 7: no me.
Speaker 2: Now.
Speaker 7: If that's what you say, and then yes, you have
Speaker 7: every right to remove yourself from a situation. You know,
Speaker 7: if a person steals from you and you forgive that person,
Speaker 7: but they steal from you again. Okay, well hold up now,
Speaker 7: I ain't got to keep forgiving you for stealing from me,
Speaker 7: but I but no, look man, like, if you steal
Speaker 7: from me twice, I'm gonna forgive you, but you best well,
Speaker 7: I'm just not gonna be there for that second stealing. Man,
Speaker 7: I'm just not gonna be that for that. I mean you,
Speaker 7: once you steal from me, I appreciate you. Man, I
Speaker 7: forgive you, God bless you. Gonna live your best life.
Speaker 7: But the key is go on, go on and live
Speaker 7: your best life, because I'm not gonna stand here and
Speaker 7: put myself in a position where you can do it
Speaker 7: to me again. Now, if by chance you steal from
Speaker 7: me a second time, I may forgive you again, but
Speaker 7: we've got to separate ourselves now because obviously we're not
Speaker 7: right for each other at this point.
Speaker 2: At one point in.
Speaker 7: Time, I'm not learning the lesson. You know, I say,
Speaker 7: oftentimes behind every moment of adversity there's a lesson and
Speaker 7: a blessing. Well, if somebody steals from me, I've got
Speaker 7: to now recognize what that looks like so I can
Speaker 7: see it again and I can avoid it happening to
Speaker 7: me again. Some things happen to us in our life
Speaker 7: to give us the experience to be able to recognize it.
Speaker 7: And sometimes God allows certain things to happen to us
Speaker 7: because of where He's taking us. He knows that we
Speaker 7: will need and we require to have this skill set.
Speaker 2: What hurts people is is when.
Speaker 7: You don't learn from your mistakes, when you don't learn
Speaker 7: from your past experiences.
Speaker 2: Example, let's take women for example.
Speaker 7: Let's say you've been cheated on twice, and the two
Speaker 7: times you got cheated on, you saw the same behavior
Speaker 7: in both men. Well, now if you start to see
Speaker 7: the behavior in a third man, don't you think it
Speaker 7: would be wise to remove yourself from this situation. Well,
Speaker 7: because he showed you what it looked like twice before,
Speaker 7: he showed you the exact way it looks and each
Speaker 7: time it looked like that, it happened. Well, the third
Speaker 7: time it comes along you you experienced that, so now
Speaker 7: you could avoid it in your future. So now you
Speaker 7: know how to safeguard yourself from such a situation. It
Speaker 7: just happens like that, man, and and and and and
Speaker 7: you know, people have to stop, you know, and stop
Speaker 7: stop looking at things that happen in your life as
Speaker 7: a punishment are a karma.
Speaker 2: That's not what it is.
Speaker 10: Man.
Speaker 7: Some of this stuff is life lessons, y'all. Some of
Speaker 7: this stuff we got to go through and get it
Speaker 7: so we'll have it. It ain't karma. It it ain't
Speaker 7: no you know, payback and all this here. Sometimes this
Speaker 7: is the lesson you got to learn. Hey man, I'm sorry.
Speaker 7: It's just a lesson you got to learn because where
Speaker 7: you are headed. God clearly knows where you are going,
Speaker 7: so he has to prepare you for what the place
Speaker 7: you're gonna arrive at. And if you got to be
Speaker 7: in a position where you got to have a better
Speaker 7: spirit of discernment, he gonna have to put some stuff
Speaker 7: in front of your face to teach you how to
Speaker 7: develop discernment.
Speaker 2: And it's okay.
Speaker 7: If God gonna put a put some money in your
Speaker 7: possession in the future, you got to see what thieves
Speaker 7: look like early on, so they can steal a little
Speaker 7: bit from you, so when you get the big money,
Speaker 7: you can safeguard it.
Speaker 2: That's all it is, man, And that's how I view it.
Speaker 2: And that's how I look at it.
Speaker 7: You know, people that might disagree with what I just said,
Speaker 7: but I can only speak from my perspective and in
Speaker 7: my years of living and trying to win and overcome,
Speaker 7: these are the things I've learned. So that's my take
Speaker 7: on the situation. I hope it helps you out there today. Hey, listen, y'all,
Speaker 7: talk to God today. Talk to him today. He would
Speaker 7: absolutely love to hear from you. He really would. And
Speaker 7: it don't matter if you don't talk to him in
Speaker 7: a while. He's always a favor.
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