Speaker 1: Time now for ask the clo Now. This one is
Speaker 1: from Amelia in DC Amelia Rights. I met a sixty
Speaker 1: one year old gentleman several months ago. I'm fifty six
Speaker 1: and I've been divorced five years. He's been divorced for
Speaker 1: two years from the beginning of our courtship. He said
Speaker 1: he doesn't like labels. This conflicts with his actions because
Speaker 1: he sleeps with me and gives me a few dollars
Speaker 1: every now and then. To me, we are in a relationship.
Speaker 1: I have told him I want a commitment that leads
Speaker 1: to a wedding. Should I give him more time or
Speaker 1: give him an ultimatum?
Speaker 2: See, well, you could do whatever you want to. But
Speaker 2: he told you he ain't into no titles, which is
Speaker 2: cold word for I don't want to be married. Now
Speaker 2: you called it a relationship because he didn't gave you
Speaker 2: some money and.
Speaker 3: What and because he sleeps over you know?
Speaker 2: Okay, you know, girl, I can't tell you and you
Speaker 2: fit six. I can't tell you how many me in
Speaker 2: this level, I ain't got trying to come up with
Speaker 2: no damn title. Sleeping over don't mean that y'all have titles,
Speaker 2: And he ain't gave you one.
Speaker 4: Now, you have every right to want what you want.
Speaker 2: So you could want what you want, and you can
Speaker 2: make an ultimatum, but you have to be prepared for
Speaker 2: the response because he gonna go back to what I
Speaker 2: told you in the beginning.
Speaker 4: Now, women always think they can change a man, and
Speaker 4: he might.
Speaker 3: Yeah. All right, all right, Amelia, did you hear that?
Speaker 3: Say it again?
Speaker 2: Colo, He's getting what he wants. Now, you got to
Speaker 2: see if you can get what you want.
Speaker 1: That's right, all right, Here we go. Katrees and Tupelo, Mississippi, says.
Speaker 3: Two below Mississippi.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm a forty eight year old single mother of
Speaker 1: an eighteen year old son. I woke up to a
Speaker 1: big commotion recently, and it was my son having sex
Speaker 1: with his girlfriend in the shower. I have asked him
Speaker 1: repeatedly to stop sneaking her in my house. I talked
Speaker 1: to her mom about the incident, and she said her
Speaker 1: daughter is eighteen and grown. I make sure my son
Speaker 1: has condoms, and I suggested to the girl that she
Speaker 1: get on some kind of birth control. The girl's mom said,
Speaker 1: I'm wrong for meddling in their sex life.
Speaker 3: Is she crazy? Or am I doing too much?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah, The woman is crazy, But you have every right
Speaker 2: to make rules at your house. That's your house. You
Speaker 2: can make all the rules you want. Now, he eighteen,
Speaker 2: he's sneaking this girl in the house, but he ain't
Speaker 2: got no sense to be quiet.
Speaker 4: See what he needs is a room or an.
Speaker 2: Apartment, yes, yeah, or go over her mama house, who
Speaker 2: ain't got no problem with none of this. No, because
Speaker 2: she'll stay in her business. So tell your son take
Speaker 2: all that over her mama house because she cool with it,
Speaker 2: but you ain't. Now, you got every right to set
Speaker 2: the rules up in your house and he has.
Speaker 4: To respect them.
Speaker 3: Amen to that. Okay, moving on.
Speaker 4: Y'all need to go downtown. Park in missip.
Speaker 1: Somewhere in the shower in your mom's house making a
Speaker 1: lot of noise.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you need to go down the bottom river.
Speaker 2: It's a big river. Go down through that, Miss Sydney
Speaker 2: going down now.
Speaker 4: You're down there.
Speaker 3: Only yeah tea.
Speaker 2: Yeah, man, you know you're eighteen, but you're acting grown.
Speaker 2: But you ain't paying for.
Speaker 3: Nothing, nothing nothing from no lady.
Speaker 4: You're not wrong at all. And the other mama she
Speaker 4: cool with it, yeah.
Speaker 3: Bound, So so she cool with it.
Speaker 4: Y'all go over her house.
Speaker 3: Yeah, make all the noise you want right in her shower.
Speaker 4: I got a tie wreck off the wall.
Speaker 1: Mary moving on, Mary and Fort Lauderdale says. I'm a
Speaker 1: thirty seven year old married woman and my husband is
Speaker 1: thirty eight. He has turned into a miserable homebody and
Speaker 1: he wants me to be one too. We've been married
Speaker 1: for eight years and I am still active in my
Speaker 1: sorority and I go out to brunch and social events
Speaker 1: once or twice a month. My husband told me that
Speaker 1: married women of my age shouldn't hang out like I do.
Speaker 1: My line sister is having a yacht party for a
Speaker 1: fortieth birthday, and my husband doesn't think I should go,
Speaker 1: but I'm going anyway.
Speaker 3: Am I wrong for being defiant?
Speaker 2: Absolutely not. You have every right to live your life.
Speaker 2: And when is it too old to have a social life?
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're too old, right? Yeah.
Speaker 4: I got some frat brothers coming to my house.
Speaker 2: I'm the second youngest one. Only one younger than me
Speaker 2: is Lee. Everybody else older than me straight kick. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and we love to see each other. It's such a joy, man,
Speaker 2: to have friends that you've been friends with man forty
Speaker 2: six years.
Speaker 4: One of my boys coming. We've been partners.
Speaker 2: We've been friends man elementary, junior, high, high school, and
Speaker 2: college since we was four.
Speaker 4: We've been friends for sixty.
Speaker 3: Years, four years old.
Speaker 2: Since we were four. We've been running together sixty four.
Speaker 2: It's five of us called the One twelve Street Boys.
Speaker 2: It's me, Butch, al Manny and Rico.
Speaker 4: It's five o us and it ain't nothing changed between y'all.
Speaker 4: Not a damn thing. Man.
Speaker 2: We all know each other's birthdays. We all call each other.
Speaker 2: We're on the same group text. Were the one twelve
Speaker 2: Street Boys. We know that call. We there for each other,
Speaker 2: talk about anything that's.
Speaker 3: Friends. Yeah, Yeah, that's greatness, all right.
Speaker 1: Tyrone, who is an iHeartRadio Apple listener, says, I'm dating
Speaker 1: a woman I met online and she's forty four years old,
Speaker 1: still living at home with her parents and her three children.
Speaker 1: She said she had a rough time after her divorce,
Speaker 1: so I didn't judge her. She expects me to come
Speaker 1: over there and watch TV and even spend the night
Speaker 1: with her. I'm almost sixty years old and I have
Speaker 1: my own apartment. She's very family oriented, and it's kind
Speaker 1: of strange. Why is she reluctant to come stay over
Speaker 1: at my place.
Speaker 4: I don't know, man, I don't know that house past.
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 2: That's wild you six, I'm not going over. I'm not
Speaker 2: going over nobody in mama house.
Speaker 3: I'm sixty.
Speaker 4: Men, and your daddy went to school. I'm just trying
Speaker 4: to figure.
Speaker 3: You're not going over.
Speaker 2: Well now, I'm not going over nobody house. I'm sixty.
Speaker 2: I'm sitting with your mama, all right. Still live with
Speaker 2: your parents?
Speaker 4: No, we not.
Speaker 2: We ain't gonna do this here, watch TV and spending night,
Speaker 2: spend night.
Speaker 3: Well, I had her parents house, my old.
Speaker 4: Ass at somebody house, beending the night. Hey man, what's haping?
Speaker 4: I don't know what you're doing?
Speaker 3: All right, we gotta go. Thank you, Cello. You're listening
Speaker 3: to The Hardy Morning Show.