Speaker 1: All right, Steve.
Speaker 2: This is from Andrea on Steve Harvey FM. She says,
Speaker 2: my aunt keeps giving me unsolicited advice about raising my
Speaker 2: children from their diet to their screen time, even though
Speaker 2: her own kids are frankly a mess. I've been polite
Speaker 2: so far, but it's getting on my nerves. Should I
Speaker 2: tell her off and once and for all? Or should
Speaker 2: I just keep biting my tongue for family peace? Is
Speaker 2: there a way to set boundaries without causing a family feud?
Speaker 1: How you can do that? At this point? I think
Speaker 1: you have going and just blasted just saying blasted about
Speaker 1: I think you're school. I'd have to have it. Hey, Auntie,
Speaker 1: listen here.
Speaker 3: I know you trying to be helpful, but I don't
Speaker 3: really want you talking to me about my kids because
Speaker 3: I don't think you've done all that day. I'm good
Speaker 3: at job with yours. Raymond dropped out of school. He
Speaker 3: getting a ged.
Speaker 2: Going down to Little.
Speaker 1: Carell down in Julie.
Speaker 3: Right now, your daughter is doing fine, she's at least
Speaker 3: looking like she doing well in school, but we just
Speaker 3: caught her smoking weed last week at Grandma's house. Now,
Speaker 3: and we ain't even gonna talk about Pooky and his
Speaker 3: little ignorant act because you down at the school every
Speaker 3: Friday by something he done did and he'd been and
Speaker 3: he'd been suspended full time.
Speaker 1: Please stop talking to me about my children.
Speaker 3: Okay, now, now I tell you, right now, clearly your
Speaker 3: children are a problem. When they got to put out,
Speaker 3: when they got put out of Sunday school, we know,
Speaker 3: so we're gonna put a stop to this.
Speaker 2: Right, are a mess, her cousins are.
Speaker 1: A mess, and just point out the mess. Yeah, all right.
Speaker 2: I think we have time for other onand Steve. This
Speaker 2: is from Vince on Steve PARVEFM. Vince says, my wife
Speaker 2: and I have hit a rough patch as of late.
Speaker 2: To work through it, I've suggested couple's counseling, but my
Speaker 2: wife is having no part of it. Even so, I've
Speaker 2: decided that I would go to a therapist alone to
Speaker 2: try and work through my part of it. Here's a
Speaker 2: problem lately, whenever I come home from an appointment, she
Speaker 2: wants to talk about what happened in my session and
Speaker 2: what am I saying about her. So far, my only
Speaker 2: response has been that I'm that my therapy sessions are
Speaker 2: my time and it's none of her business. But I
Speaker 2: add that if she wants to come along and to
Speaker 2: be a part of it, she's more than welcome to
Speaker 2: join me. That's where the conversation ens. But to say
Speaker 2: things have gotten even more tense is an understatement. Is
Speaker 2: there a better response to this or am I right
Speaker 2: to say my therapy is my business?
Speaker 1: Well?
Speaker 3: I admire you, brother for wanting to work through it,
Speaker 3: cause see it. If it's more more tense and you
Speaker 3: want to do something about it, you offer couple's therapy.
Speaker 3: You thought that was a good idea. She didn't, so
Speaker 3: you went out there to handle your part of it.
Speaker 3: There is no other way to do it, man, I mean,
Speaker 3: but you can't. You You're not gonna win this battle
Speaker 3: by yourself. It takes two to tangle it.
Speaker 1: You know. It takes two people to work on the marriage,
Speaker 1: not one one. I don't know how. I don't know
Speaker 1: how one fix it.
Speaker 3: If you want to win in the marriage and she don't,
Speaker 3: I don't know what to tell you. Yeah, if you
Speaker 3: think it's a problem in the marriage and she don't,
Speaker 3: I don't know what to tell you. But you're a
Speaker 3: good dude, though, I'll tell you that you wanted them good.
Speaker 2: Men and all she wants to know is what is
Speaker 2: he saying about her to the therapist?
Speaker 1: What is he?
Speaker 3: Well, I went to I went to a couple's therapy
Speaker 3: one time. Yeah, one time I go and what happened?
Speaker 3: I left therapy and went to pot a law.
Speaker 1: Office the same day.
Speaker 2: Why did I know this is gonna be a crazy answer?
Speaker 2: This therapist your life?
Speaker 3: You done went out that more than once. I went
Speaker 3: one time on meeting. After that, I made a phone
Speaker 3: call as soon as I got back.
Speaker 1: To Now you knew, you just knew. Yeah, I didn't
Speaker 1: know what.
Speaker 3: I don't know what therapist was gonna say in the
Speaker 3: next session. But but she wasn't gonna be talking to.
Speaker 2: Me though, because you were done.
Speaker 3: Clearly I recognized the problems even if she didn't.
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