Speaker 1: College. Those of us that have been there know the
Speaker 1: glory days of streaking the quad, being held upside down
Speaker 1: by our legs for an epic kegstand wow, and going
Speaker 1: into class hungover, sitting down and saying, wait, there's a
Speaker 1: final exam today.
Speaker 2: We're here for education.
Speaker 1: Those are the good days. But there's also some not
Speaker 1: so great memories from college. And that's why one of
Speaker 1: our listeners emailed the show for help because it involves her,
Speaker 1: her best friend, and one giant question that's haunted her
Speaker 1: for the last six years. How could you? You're gonna
Speaker 1: hear what happened when we do a closure call. That's
Speaker 1: coming up next. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,
Speaker 1: and is it healthy to confront people who have wronged
Speaker 1: you in your past? Cousin, I have to say earlier
Speaker 1: this morning, Alexis's hair wronged me and I have not
Speaker 1: been able to get over it ever since, with wet hair.
Speaker 2: Issues in the morning.
Speaker 1: Is that the excuse? Because you guys say it right, well, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm looking over there right now.
Speaker 2: I bought pillowcases.
Speaker 3: It didn't Apparently, we'll consider confronting Alexis's follicles a little
Speaker 3: bit later.
Speaker 1: Because we're gonna put our focus on the listeners.
Speaker 2: First, distract me from that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like Sophia who asked for our help with a
Speaker 1: closure call, oh love, And if you aren't familiar with these,
Speaker 1: they're a little bit more serious than what we normally
Speaker 1: do on the show. But we try to help people
Speaker 1: who've been stuck on something that happened in their past,
Speaker 1: maybe it was months ago or even years ago, bring
Speaker 1: them a little peace of mind so they could finally
Speaker 1: put it behind them and move on. Let's get to
Speaker 1: it with Sophia. Sophia, welcome to the show.
Speaker 4: Hey, how's it going?
Speaker 2: Yeah, you sound down? Are you okay?
Speaker 4: I'm a bit stressed. There's a situation. I guess that
Speaker 4: it's been a long time, but it's been bothering me
Speaker 4: for forever and ever, you know, and I wasn't really
Speaker 4: sure how to deal with it and everything. So I was,
Speaker 4: you know, hoping you guys could help me out go.
Speaker 3: Your insurance doesn't cover therapy either, and I'm sure it
Speaker 3: couldn't possibly be more stressful than what's going on in
Speaker 3: studio right now with Alexis's hair.
Speaker 1: So whenever you reach what happened, just tell us about
Speaker 1: why you reached out to us.
Speaker 4: Yeah, here's what happened. So back in college. It was
Speaker 4: my freshman year and I went to a really big
Speaker 4: school and I'm kind of shy, I guess, so I
Speaker 4: didn't I didn't know anybody, you know what I mean.
Speaker 4: It's time and I had a hard time for starting out.
Speaker 4: But one night I was, you know, sitting in the
Speaker 4: cafeteria by myself after classes and everything, and this girl
Speaker 4: came up to me and she introduced this. Yeah, it
Speaker 4: was really sweet, and her name was Aubrey.
Speaker 1: Aubrey.
Speaker 3: That's awesome. It's always so nice when somebody reaches out
Speaker 3: like that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, some people like me, I'm a little bit introverted
Speaker 1: and I need somebody sometimes to start the conversation.
Speaker 4: Yeah, she was like friendly and warm and we hit
Speaker 4: it off immediately, which was really cool and everything. And
Speaker 4: she ended up inviting me to a house party, and
Speaker 4: after that we became really good friends and everything, and
Speaker 4: then we ended up being roommates and renting an apartment
Speaker 4: in near campus and.
Speaker 2: Oh that's so fun.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we got really close and then we started like
Speaker 4: dating people and stuff, you know, like we would go
Speaker 4: on double dates and whatever. So I started seeing this
Speaker 4: guy senior year, and I like really really was like
Speaker 4: and kind of in love with this guy.
Speaker 2: We've all been there, yeah for sure.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and we were like talking about suture plans to
Speaker 4: keep dating after graduating and all that stuff.
Speaker 3: Did it hurt your relationship with Aubrey? I mean sometimes
Speaker 3: it can, and when you're like so infatuated with a
Speaker 3: guy and you kind of lose sight of other relationships.
Speaker 4: Well, no, that wasn't the problem. So what happened was
Speaker 4: I was studying for finals in the library right when.
Speaker 1: I you were still studying your senior year. Yikes.
Speaker 4: Anyway, sorry, and I got tired and I decided to
Speaker 4: go back home like early, I guess you could say.
Speaker 4: And I walked in and my boyfriend and Aubrey were
Speaker 4: on the couch making out. O.
Speaker 3: My heartbroke, girl.
Speaker 2: We har now she doing? I mean it's like you
Speaker 2: can replace the boyfriend, you can't replace her.
Speaker 1: That's awful.
Speaker 3: It was so bad.
Speaker 4: It was so bad. It was like the most gut
Speaker 4: wrenching moment, like I had to stand.
Speaker 1: Through about being a horrible friend.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So I went in the bathroom and like locked myself
Speaker 4: in the bathroom and started crying. In the bathtub. It
Speaker 4: was awful, Oh my god. And then she was like
Speaker 4: trying to talk to me through the bathroom door and
Speaker 4: like make things better. Of course I was devastated and hysterical.
Speaker 2: And like, yeah, I mean, how do you make things better?
Speaker 1: Game of beer pongs? How you fix that through the door? Jus?
Speaker 2: So it ended your friendship properly, what happened?
Speaker 4: And it like ruined the last two weeks of my
Speaker 4: college experience, like I don't know, a blur, like everything
Speaker 4: that we broke up, and then like she was never
Speaker 4: there and I was just a hot mess express.
Speaker 1: I mean, the last two weeks of my college were
Speaker 1: a blur and a hot mess express, But not because
Speaker 1: of that. It was just I was going all out
Speaker 1: for the lost time, last hurrah before it was all done,
Speaker 1: guy making out. I don't have any recollection of the
Speaker 1: last two weeks, so it's possible.
Speaker 2: I mean, that is heartbreaking.
Speaker 3: So how long, I mean, it's been years and I'm
Speaker 3: guessing you just haven't talked to Audrey since Aubrey, sorry
Speaker 3: Aubrey since no.
Speaker 1: She deserves to have her names.
Speaker 4: I mean, so we graduated and then turn after that
Speaker 4: I found out they were like officially dating. And this
Speaker 4: was like six years ago just about yeah, but recently
Speaker 4: so I just found out from another like an old
Speaker 4: cold trend that Aubrey and my ex actually they just
Speaker 4: got engaged.
Speaker 2: I how does that make you feel?
Speaker 4: You know, it's been so long, Like I wouldn't say
Speaker 4: I'm angry about it anymore, like literally like Arianna Grande,
Speaker 4: like no more tears left to cry, like I love it.
Speaker 4: But I've spent like so much time just being like confused,
Speaker 4: like why why would she do this to me? You know,
Speaker 4: she was my best friend? I mean, why did she
Speaker 4: not tell me that she had feelings for him? Or
Speaker 4: why would you just like stab me in the back
Speaker 4: and throw away our friendship like that? So I've just
Speaker 4: been like confused for so much time. And then I
Speaker 4: heard you guys had the segment, and I thought, well,
Speaker 4: maybe I could get some answers, because I mean, I
Speaker 4: don't think that I would feel comfortable like reaching out
Speaker 4: by myself, and I don't think i'd be able to
Speaker 4: form the right words were like you know what I.
Speaker 1: Mean, we have no shortage of words that we can
Speaker 1: offer on this show. We're very good at words.
Speaker 3: I think like I lost one of my best friends
Speaker 3: after I graduated college, and it was her boyfriend.
Speaker 2: No, she lied to me about a bunch of stuff.
Speaker 3: But yeah, and it hurt more than any breakup I
Speaker 3: had ever been.
Speaker 1: It's like betrayal, actual.
Speaker 2: Like you put so much trust in love in.
Speaker 1: That person, and it sounds a little bit more like
Speaker 1: you deserved it, though, Brooke with So it's a different story,
Speaker 1: and you know how these things go. Sophia has been
Speaker 1: working with our producer to come up with four questions
Speaker 1: to send to her old friend Aubrey.
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm curious if you're going to get any answers
Speaker 3: that is going to make it feel better.
Speaker 1: Well, we got Aubrey's email, sent those out a few
Speaker 1: days ago, and Aubrey replied to all four questions, and
Speaker 1: we're going to read what she said. We give you
Speaker 1: some answers about why she cheated with your old college
Speaker 1: boyfriend when we finish your closure call right after this.
Speaker 4: Thank you.
Speaker 1: Hold on, we're in the middle of doing a closure
Speaker 1: call and I know everyone probably just wants me to
Speaker 1: get right into reading the answers from the emails, So resolution.
Speaker 2: Here, So you're gonna give us what we want.
Speaker 1: Well, first, before we do that, we just have to
Speaker 1: fill other people in on what's going on, because if
Speaker 1: any listeners are just joining us what.
Speaker 2: We're doing here to the party.
Speaker 1: We're in the middle of a closure call, hoping to
Speaker 1: help out Sophia to figure out why her best friend
Speaker 1: in college named Aubrey basically stole her college boyfriend right
Speaker 1: out from under.
Speaker 2: Her literally basically, Yeah, she found.
Speaker 1: Them hooking up on their couch senior year and that
Speaker 1: instantly ended the friendship. Now six years later, she found
Speaker 1: out Aubrey is engaged to that same guy, and Sophia
Speaker 1: has spent all this time with a million questions in
Speaker 1: her head, wondering why, what, how, But Yeah, doesn't have
Speaker 1: the right words to ask. So she's been working with
Speaker 1: our producer came up with four questions that we've sent
Speaker 1: to Aubrey, and Aubrey has responded, Okay, the questions aren't what, wait,
Speaker 1: what why? We'll find out in just a second us that.
Speaker 1: But Sophia, I mean, how are you feeling right before
Speaker 1: we read these two? You doing Okay?
Speaker 4: I'm stressed and nervous about what I'm getting here, but
Speaker 4: I'm also really looking forward to hopefully getting answers.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I.
Speaker 3: Think this is definitely going to close the book on
Speaker 3: that relationship, hopefully for you forever.
Speaker 1: Well, now's the time that everybody's been waiting for and
Speaker 1: pressuring me to get to. Finally, let's get to these
Speaker 1: questions and answers. Good part. Yeah, question one that we sent. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I've spent years being confused and angry at you, and
Speaker 1: I've never even heard the full story of what happened
Speaker 1: that night when I came home and found you and
Speaker 1: Danny on the couch.
Speaker 2: Do you want the whole story? I mean, these are
Speaker 2: these questions that I don't know that you really want
Speaker 2: the answer?
Speaker 1: This is this is the question that she has worked
Speaker 1: with our producer to come up with. It's just what
Speaker 1: questions we want. Do you want me to go back
Speaker 1: and take back emails?
Speaker 2: As long as the next question is it how was it?
Speaker 1: She didn't ask that we asked, don't know. I just
Speaker 1: need to know why and how this happened. Okay, Okay, Sophia,
Speaker 1: you ready for this?
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's wrong, We'll let's do it.
Speaker 1: Aubrey wrote back. She said, well, I'll be one hundred
Speaker 1: percent honest with you. That was not the first time.
Speaker 3: Okay, Oh, come on, what was not shocking news? I mean,
Speaker 3: did you see that coming, Sophia?
Speaker 1: Not really?
Speaker 4: That really sucks because now I want to know, like
Speaker 4: when and how long?
Speaker 1: It's like, sorry, there is more to what she wrote back.
Speaker 1: She said we had been meeting up secretly for a
Speaker 1: few months before it all started. God, it all started
Speaker 1: when he was complaining about how he thought you weren't
Speaker 1: a good listener.
Speaker 2: Oh god, now we just put the blame on Sophia.
Speaker 4: Yike.
Speaker 1: So she continued to show I stood up for you,
Speaker 1: and somehow my shirt came off. Oh she did not
Speaker 1: say that. That's what she said. I'm reading it verbatim
Speaker 1: in here.
Speaker 2: Are you serious?
Speaker 1: She says, I'm sorry that happened, but we were young
Speaker 1: and stupid, and I wish it wouldn't have cost us.
Speaker 1: Our friends would talk to.
Speaker 2: Me like that, are you? Are you okay, Sophia?
Speaker 4: I'm half shocked, like disgusted, like ew, like, how fake
Speaker 4: of a friend are you?
Speaker 1: Yeah, it feels it must feel so much worse knowing
Speaker 1: now that they were going back behind your back for
Speaker 1: so long.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's awful.
Speaker 2: It's like a full blown affair.
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, maybe we'll feel a little bit better after
Speaker 1: we do question two, because the second one we sent
Speaker 1: was out of one hundred percent. How much is Danny
Speaker 1: to blame for what happened? Danny her ex boyfriend, and
Speaker 1: Aubrey wrote back, I don't want to get into numbers,
Speaker 1: but Danny definitely initiated things between us. Yeah, and if
Speaker 1: you remember, I was going through my quote big promiscuous
Speaker 1: streak at that time, is that true?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Yeah, she was calling us a little bit not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I wish I met girls during these scenes were
Speaker 1: telling you to college, dude, that's where it's at. Anyway, it
Speaker 1: doesn't accept it there, Aubrey finishes. She says, so I
Speaker 1: was weak. I'll admit though after the first time, I
Speaker 1: felt bad, but not bad enough to stop. Oh, she's
Speaker 1: definitely being honest. We can know that, right.
Speaker 3: It sucks, But they did have a connection. I mean
Speaker 3: that may make it feel worse to you, Sophia, like
Speaker 3: they're engaged now.
Speaker 4: Like I don't know if they're engaged. Like that's why
Speaker 4: I've been like trying to come to terms of the
Speaker 4: best I can, because I was like, well, damn it,
Speaker 4: they really have that good of a connection that now
Speaker 4: they're getting married, Like I kind of understand, you know
Speaker 4: what I mean, Like everyone deserves love. But it's just
Speaker 4: like I still think she's a friend.
Speaker 2: For doing that for sure.
Speaker 1: I mean that that was really what we got into
Speaker 1: in the third question we sent her. Do you realize
Speaker 1: how much you hurt me? I've spent years being all
Speaker 1: up in my head about this, Like what do you
Speaker 1: have to say to me?
Speaker 2: She better come back good?
Speaker 1: This is really her chance to like fall on her
Speaker 1: sword here and apologize for what she did.
Speaker 3: Well, it's like it affects all of Sophia's relationships from
Speaker 3: then on too.
Speaker 2: You know, it's not just that relationship.
Speaker 1: So Aubrey responded, saying, I've already said I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: She deserves this guy.
Speaker 4: She did not say that she literally ever apologized.
Speaker 1: I don't know what else you want to hear from me.
Speaker 1: Do I feel bad? Sure, sure, she says I did,
Speaker 1: but I got over it, And she says, I hope
Speaker 1: that you can do the same. Like, what was it
Speaker 1: a four month college relationship. It's not the end of the.
Speaker 4: World in front of me right now. I literally would
Speaker 4: punch her in the face.
Speaker 3: Friend, So take that.
Speaker 1: That was well, not for one of the girls, She do. Well.
Speaker 1: I know we're running a little bit short on time here,
Speaker 1: so let's get to the last question that we sent,
Speaker 1: which was I heard you and Danny are engaged. Now
Speaker 1: do you truly love him? Like feel like you and
Speaker 1: him were meant to be?
Speaker 3: I mean, it could be, honestly, it could be that
Speaker 3: she's just pushing it just because she feels so guilty.
Speaker 3: At least that's what I thought before that last answer.
Speaker 1: My gosh, blood is boiling.
Speaker 3: Answer.
Speaker 1: Yeah, here's what Aubrey said. What do I truly think?
Speaker 1: I truly think that I'm pregnant and I don't want
Speaker 1: to be a single mom. If that answers your question, Oh,
Speaker 1: she's only doing it because of the pregnancy of my.
Speaker 2: Oh that's what I read, she says.
Speaker 1: Danny and I definitely have fun together and have history.
Speaker 3: Oh that's always a great thing to build a relationship.
Speaker 1: A little bit of history.
Speaker 2: Yeah, not history, Sophia.
Speaker 1: She says, But I want you to know Danny and
Speaker 1: I talked about it, and even though we're not really
Speaker 1: close with you anymore, we would like to name our
Speaker 1: baby after you.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, no, exactly exactly, Sessa.
Speaker 2: Keep your name out of my mouth type of situation.
Speaker 1: The last thing she says was maybe we could meet
Speaker 1: up and I could show you ultrasound picks. I'd love
Speaker 1: to be friends.
Speaker 4: Know what is wrong with her? Seriously, what is wrong
Speaker 4: with her?
Speaker 3: She is fake?
Speaker 1: Like she was so nice to you, and consider it
Speaker 1: all those years ago and the whole time she behind
Speaker 1: your bag. I mean, I am mad.
Speaker 2: I can tell you. I think I think you just
Speaker 2: let it go.
Speaker 3: I don't even think you do anger anymore. None of
Speaker 3: this is worth your energy.
Speaker 1: Is that a no for meeting up to see the
Speaker 1: ultra sent books a baby? Sophia?
Speaker 4: Definitely no, And I actually am so relieved. It's like
Speaker 4: I feel so much better.
Speaker 3: Oh well, I hope they don't want you to be
Speaker 3: the godmother too to find a new one.
Speaker 1: But hopefully that gave you a little bit of closure there, Sophia,
Speaker 1: thanks for being on with us and text into seven
Speaker 1: eighty five nine two. If you have somebody from your
Speaker 1: past that you want us to reach out to, you
Speaker 1: may not like what you hear, but we'll try and
Speaker 1: get you answers when we do your closure call. It's
Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.