Speaker 1: All right. See this is from Devon On Steve Harvey FM.
Speaker 1: Devon says how does he get his mother in law
Speaker 1: to stop gossiping about people's illnesses? He said, the woman
Speaker 1: is like a walking hip of violation. Every time I visit,
Speaker 1: I have to hear about so and so's broken hip.
Speaker 1: Another bout with COVID from someone else, Miss Lily from church.
Speaker 1: Her diabetes has been acting up and some dude I
Speaker 1: don't know versidas now my wife's actually has something wrong
Speaker 1: with her medically, and I don't feel comfortable talking to
Speaker 1: my mom about it because I don't want her spilling
Speaker 1: the tea and gossiping about the wife's sickness. Is there
Speaker 1: any way to stop my mother? Or is this just
Speaker 1: the way she is?
Speaker 2: No, that's how she is. Though, ain't nothing you need
Speaker 2: to do. She ain't got nothing else talking about. She'd
Speaker 2: a medical report down at your church. Uh huh, she's
Speaker 2: a medical report down at you know anybody. It said, listen,
Speaker 2: you need people like that because when paramedics come or
Speaker 2: people get rushed. She got all the medical records in
Speaker 2: her head. She know about when they reported to sickness
Speaker 2: and the illness. You need people like that. You know,
Speaker 2: she's she's a medical chart. It's what she is, and
Speaker 2: she's made that her thing. You know, it's certain people.
Speaker 2: Certain people have certain things, you know that they keep
Speaker 2: up with. You know, you got sports people keep up
Speaker 2: with baseball stats, you know, the Battan averages of all
Speaker 2: the players and stuff like that, kind of like sports trivia. Well,
Speaker 2: your mama is medical trivia. She just wants to do
Speaker 2: medical trivia for everybody. So ain't nothing you can do
Speaker 2: about that, though, I ain't never heard of that. So yeah,
Speaker 2: her man, So God bless her, keep us safe, you know,
Speaker 2: just let her go ahead. That's what she do though,
Speaker 2: you know, sister her you know, sister Harold Deane's help
Speaker 2: is she's getting replaced.
Speaker 3: On the third Carol the surgery. She's using the same
Speaker 3: doctor that Bert Peterson used for his hip.
Speaker 1: So he shouldn't tell her about his wife.
Speaker 2: Well, I made him at the church picnic. He didn't
Speaker 2: want to play softball because his hands were so precious
Speaker 2: to the medical field.
Speaker 1: You know, could you met the doctor?
Speaker 3: You're not at all good doctor.
Speaker 1: All right, we have time for another one, Steve. This
Speaker 1: is from Jaden on Steve HARBFM. Jaden says. Every time
Speaker 1: I try to ask the woman out on a date,
Speaker 1: which isn't very often, I can't seem to get over
Speaker 1: my shyness and end up mumbling and my sentences trail off.
Speaker 1: I can imagine being confident and just coming out and
Speaker 1: asking someone out, but when it comes time to do it,
Speaker 1: I just fall back on being my usual shyself. I
Speaker 1: really need to get over being so timid, but I
Speaker 1: don't know how. What can I do to become more confident?
Speaker 1: How can I overcome my shyness so I can ask
Speaker 1: someone out?
Speaker 2: Well I could, I could really throw you into something,
Speaker 2: but I'm not. So let's try to handle this a
Speaker 2: little bit more diplomatically. Look, and if you don't, you're
Speaker 2: gonna be by yourself. Okay.
Speaker 3: Now, if you want to be with somebody, talk to somebody.
Speaker 2: You're gonna have to. You got to just try it.
Speaker 2: But nothing, nothing gets this accomplished like practice. You got
Speaker 2: to practice. Look in the mirror, practice at jade, and
Speaker 2: then when you meet the girl, do like you do,
Speaker 2: be say look and just admit to it. Hey, listen,
Speaker 2: I'm really shy. I'm not I'm not good at this,
Speaker 2: but I've been watching you and I just think, man,
Speaker 2: I would love to get to know you and you know,
Speaker 2: take the pressure off and just say I was wondering
Speaker 2: if you know, if we could go have coffee at
Speaker 2: Starbucks or something sometimes, or dinner my treat, you know,
Speaker 2: just allow me to just get to know you, you know,
Speaker 2: and just you know, put it out there and you know,
Speaker 2: hope you got a good job or something, because you're
Speaker 2: gonna need something to go ahead, to need a carrot
Speaker 2: or something, you know, because all this I don't talk
Speaker 2: and I don't know what to say.
Speaker 3: Stuff.
Speaker 2: You're gonna need at least a good job, you know,
Speaker 2: do that, you know, but that's what you're gonna have
Speaker 2: to do.
Speaker 3: Jarvis, Can I ask you some Yeah, go ahead. It's
Speaker 3: Jade unattractive like us. He just on a tramp of course,
Speaker 3: you know that, of course.
Speaker 2: But yeah, by the way, would he's unattractive?
Speaker 3: That's why Jayden, you know, that's usually what throw.
Speaker 2: You into a shell. And you're looking at me and
Speaker 2: you can't believe anybody would talk to you.
Speaker 1: That's what he shied.
Speaker 3: I was trying to stay away from that, Junior, know
Speaker 3: how they feel.
Speaker 1: So marry now.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it took a long time. It took forty six years.
Speaker 2: You had a lot to get over.
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