Speaker 1: Hey, fucker's what up? It's Christina Hutchinson and Karin Fisher.
Speaker 1: You're about to hear a clip from our show Guys.
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Speaker 1: we interview the founder of Comments by Celebs, Emma Diamond, Yes,
Speaker 1: the co founder, along with her partner, her bestie, they
Speaker 1: looked at something happening on Instagram and they were like,
Speaker 1: how can we fucking monetize this instead of just clicking
Speaker 1: things and making ourselves feel bad about our bodies. It's great,
Speaker 1: she's lovely. We got to know a lot about her
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Speaker 1: for as little as to a month. I believe in
Speaker 1: the universe like two of Fault, like to the point
Speaker 1: where I think it's annoying. If you're not like that,
Speaker 1: you're kind of like what the funk? Like? I genuinely
Speaker 1: truly believe that this happened as they're meant to, Like
Speaker 1: I don't just say it, so I kind of like
Speaker 1: we're meant to be, like it's gonna work out, and
Speaker 1: if we're not, that's fine, do yeah, And that's that's always. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's all and that's always um. That's always great advice
Speaker 1: to give somebody. It's like you can't ever force somebody's
Speaker 1: feelings out, but sometimes people, you know, people you can
Speaker 1: find out like someone that you liked, like had to
Speaker 1: crush on you. And if if if one party doesn't
Speaker 1: make a move at a certain point, life just goes on.
Speaker 1: Because I I I do believe in the universal lot.
Speaker 1: But I also you know, sometimes less with spiritual people.
Speaker 1: I would say more with like you know, organized religious
Speaker 1: people will be like, you know, God's gonna do what
Speaker 1: God's gonna do, and then like they won't like wear
Speaker 1: a seatbelt in a car, and like, to me, that's
Speaker 1: just being stupid. Yeah, totally. Yeah. I don't know. I
Speaker 1: just I just trusted it. And I also I think
Speaker 1: the thing was for me honestly, I was like I
Speaker 1: don't want to make my life a gut about guys
Speaker 1: right now, Like I want to build my career. This
Speaker 1: is kind of just a benefit, and to be honest
Speaker 1: with you, the work that would have gone into having
Speaker 1: more enjoyable sex would have been so much comfort that
Speaker 1: would have to come with another person, And I was like,
Speaker 1: why am I going to do that? You know that
Speaker 1: makes sense for sure? Absolutely? Yeah. Yeah. I mean like
Speaker 1: I'm every time I tell this to current often like,
Speaker 1: I'm like, I should be on the dating apps because
Speaker 1: I don't even have a crush at this point, But
Speaker 1: every time I go to go on them, I'm like,
Speaker 1: I don't want to, I don't want this. I'm just
Speaker 1: that's how I feel when I'm on them. I'm just
Speaker 1: swiping and I'm going, this is awful, even though why
Speaker 1: I'm here? Yeah, so uh yeah, it's all those fucking
Speaker 1: Disney movies that caught us. But have you ever had
Speaker 1: a successful like playing a relationship with someone from an app? Yeah,
Speaker 1: my last boyfriend was from an app. I mean it
Speaker 1: was Riyah, But still that's a cool one that counts
Speaker 1: um and the pattern? Do you know, oh you would
Speaker 1: love this app? The pattern? Yeah, they are bucking finally
Speaker 1: making a dating app. I know. I mean, goddamn, waitless.
Speaker 1: I really do feel like the pattern has sometimes causes
Speaker 1: more problems though, because you know, like if you have
Speaker 1: a connection with someone who you have a crush on,
Speaker 1: and I'm saying like if and but this is a
Speaker 1: percent just a personal story that I'm telling you and
Speaker 1: masking you know. So I have this there's a person
Speaker 1: who I'm friends with, and everyone was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: you guys are like so alike, but all this stuff
Speaker 1: like you you guys are going to really hit it off.
Speaker 1: And then so I just threw his info into the pattern,
Speaker 1: and of course it's like friendship, epic love, powerful past
Speaker 1: life love, past like karmic links. And so now it's
Speaker 1: at the point where my crush is so over the top.
Speaker 1: He has no idea how how I feel because it's
Speaker 1: quarantine and like you can't ruin your own friend group.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, this is so like and also like
Speaker 1: I have a real big problem with disappointment. So like
Speaker 1: there's just it's almost unfair to him because there's pretty
Speaker 1: much no way he would be able to live up
Speaker 1: to these expectations set by the pattern that I feel
Speaker 1: bad for him in advance. I so yet that it's
Speaker 1: so dangerous. And also you can go the other way.
Speaker 1: You can really like someone then you're like, we are
Speaker 1: not compatible, right, you run the bond? Well this is
Speaker 1: and then I just stopped texting them that X in
Speaker 1: and it it gave me a lot of explanation of like, Okay,
Speaker 1: so if this app that's a stranger that's never met
Speaker 1: me can like kind of hit the nail on the
Speaker 1: head on what I thought was happening in my old relationship.
Speaker 1: I'm like, that's cool. But in terms of new guys,
Speaker 1: I don't put them in because I don't want to know.
Speaker 1: But I learned a lot about myself from that app
Speaker 1: because it's like, this is the month where you need
Speaker 1: to like just put your head down and focus on
Speaker 1: your work. And I'm like, okay, and and I do that.
Speaker 1: So I use it for guidance a little bit. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you guys are into astrology, then like, do you have
Speaker 1: a person that you like? No, I just the pattern. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I like the pattern, but I actually am not I'm
Speaker 1: very like kind of not into astrology. I'm into I'm
Speaker 1: into like I am into the universe, but just not
Speaker 1: actually very into the un astrology. For some reason, it
Speaker 1: just doesn't do it for me. I would love to do.
Speaker 1: I mean, I totally respect that I would just love
Speaker 1: to see how you would feel after one reading with
Speaker 1: my person. Oh, I do reading, So I do have
Speaker 1: that kind of stuff all the time, but I do it,
Speaker 1: you know, with a grain of salt because I find
Speaker 1: it just entertaining. And you know, anytime there's just like
Speaker 1: a hot line like they do have that disclaimer this
Speaker 1: is for entertainment purposes. So I'm very open to all
Speaker 1: these things. Like I've done wild thing, I've had clearings,
Speaker 1: and I've been to like a mystical empress, like I'm
Speaker 1: down for it, and some things help. It's just the
Speaker 1: actual astrology, but like you know, like things like the
Speaker 1: clearing really did help, because yeah, I do feel like
Speaker 1: there's kind of like a especially because I'm an EmPATH.
Speaker 1: Sometimes I hold energy and it feels very heavy, like
Speaker 1: a burden, uh, and it needs to be released. And
Speaker 1: also sometimes this is gonna sound narcissistic, but what's new.
Speaker 1: This is just who I am. Um uh. But people
Speaker 1: get very obsessed with me, but that's positive and negative.
Speaker 1: So like if someone hates me, they're gonna really hate me,
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna be able to feel it. And even
Speaker 1: if I don't care, it's still distracts with my energy flow. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's so true. With guys, you have to be so careful,
Speaker 1: like you can start to feel often then you're like, oh,
Speaker 1: it's because I'm literally taking in their energy and I
Speaker 1: don't want this, Like it takes me so long to
Speaker 1: realize that. But I don't know if you have this too.
Speaker 1: But I, um, if I'm seeing a guy and we're
Speaker 1: just sleeping together, but there's a there's crush is happening,
Speaker 1: but we're not talking about it because you know, uh,
Speaker 1: and I can tell he loses he either loses interest
Speaker 1: or meet somebody else, and I don't have to talk
Speaker 1: to him. So I could have seen him two days
Speaker 1: ago and then we haven't talked. But that's not, you know, abnormal.
Speaker 1: And then I just know when the interest is gone.
Speaker 1: I know it right away, and it's I'm like, I'd
Speaker 1: rather just not know. I know you can feel it
Speaker 1: almost right. Yeah, yeah, I know. It's a weird that
Speaker 1: happens too. It's a very bizarre thing. Someone said it's
Speaker 1: a blessing. Yeah, well, and I think it is. It
Speaker 1: can be it. But I think a lot of it
Speaker 1: too has to do with, um, I have to be
Speaker 1: motionally connected of sex as well. So when I'm emotionally
Speaker 1: connected and I have sex, it's like this explosion, Like
Speaker 1: it's a very intense hense, It's just very intense. I
Speaker 1: have orgasm from sex only with two people, and both
Speaker 1: have been people that I've been in love with, even
Speaker 1: guys that I've liked, like really liked and been into
Speaker 1: never And I actually to the point now like I
Speaker 1: used to hate dick pics, like I thought that that
Speaker 1: I just never did it for me, and now like
Speaker 1: my new thing. Honestly, a lot of times instead of
Speaker 1: watching foreign it's like not even watching sometimes just listening
Speaker 1: to a video of like the guy that I loved
Speaker 1: jerking off and like hearing him home all right, Like
Speaker 1: I think that's why that k off. Yeah, And when
Speaker 1: you like the guy, it's it's it's so hot. Oh,
Speaker 1: it's so hot. I got the best. The best sex
Speaker 1: to ever get from a guy that you're fucking or
Speaker 1: seeing is him jerking off and saying your name. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you have to have them say your name so you know.
Speaker 1: It's a custom video on or like to a picture
Speaker 1: of you. Yeah, wait, a video of him drinking off
Speaker 1: to a picture of you. One time, a guy, I
Speaker 1: like that. I love sending nudes. It's just like a
Speaker 1: thing that I just always I don't know, I just
Speaker 1: really appreciate it. And I always with sound of my tids.
Speaker 1: Like I never really was an ass news center, and
Speaker 1: then recently I kind of just got more into that.
Speaker 1: I was like testing out the waters, the angles, some
Speaker 1: good angles. Okay, let me say something. A mirror, a
Speaker 1: full length mirror for an ash shot is your best friend.
Speaker 1: I know that's probably very known. I just discovered it recently.
Speaker 1: So go on, I have a full length mirror. But
Speaker 1: where what what angles are we talking? You just bend
Speaker 1: like you're on you know, you're on your like sitting
Speaker 1: kind of like in a squat almost. Yeah, the camera
Speaker 1: like this, so you are facing um backwards to the mirror,
Speaker 1: your asses facing the mirror. Yeah, like like just right.
Speaker 1: And if you put something I learned a trick game changing. Okay,
Speaker 1: if you put something that's like smaller than you and
Speaker 1: lower than you in front of you and you can't
Speaker 1: see it in the picture, you get the best arch
Speaker 1: because you're leaning on it like a small trash can
Speaker 1: they can't see that. I love the visual of just
Speaker 1: you leaning on a small trash away roller luggage. Wait,
Speaker 1: where is this luggage? And where's you're leaning on it?
Speaker 1: They can't see it in a photo, but you're leaning
Speaker 1: on it. That's the key with the the lean and
Speaker 1: but the arch. But I'm like, I don't know how
Speaker 1: to like put heels on too, because otherwise it's hard
Speaker 1: to balance on just your toes. Yeah. I don't really
Speaker 1: know what happened. It just like worked for me. So
Speaker 1: now I've been testing out all these different things. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you got to try it. And I sent this picture
Speaker 1: and he loved it. And then he sent me a
Speaker 1: video of him jerking off onto his iPad and the
Speaker 1: picture was on the iPad and I was like, I
Speaker 1: love this. Wow did he come on the iPad? And
Speaker 1: I know, I was so worried about the technology. I
Speaker 1: was like, that's a baby on the iPad. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: was like, you're fine, that's great. Yeah, never send that
Speaker 1: video to no one else exactly. Yeah. Yeah, So how
Speaker 1: sexually adventurous have you gotten with your boyfriend? Right? We
Speaker 1: could say, yeah, my boyfriend, UM, I don't know, pretty adventurous,
Speaker 1: Like he's he's pretty down, which I appreciate. He's really
Speaker 1: I learned my number one thing, which I didn't realize
Speaker 1: until kind of recently, is that I never want to
Speaker 1: be in a situation again where I happened with one
Speaker 1: guy where I'm afraid to say something like that I
Speaker 1: want to experiment with because I'm afraid of judgment. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I can do it anymore. That's like my probably my
Speaker 1: top five now turn off, Like if I want, I
Speaker 1: want to be able to say the freakiest ship and
Speaker 1: then to be like, Okay, hey fuckers, we hope you
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