Speaker 1: Welcome to Guys We Fucked. Guys We Guys Book. I'm Christina,
Speaker 1: I'm Karren. We're sorry about last night, the anti slug
Speaker 1: shaming podcast. I never stopped. Hey fucker's Welcome to another
Speaker 1: episode of Guys We Fuck. It's the anti slut shaming podcast.
Speaker 1: I'm Karn. I'm Christina. Hey, Hey, are you so good?
Speaker 1: This is great? That was great? That was I didn't
Speaker 1: know if you were recording some sort of a voice
Speaker 1: over real or no. But I want to win my head,
Speaker 1: so I've just been like, Hi, yeah, great, great. And
Speaker 1: sometimes I talk to people in my everyday life, like
Speaker 1: you don't want to go to the store, I'll just
Speaker 1: talk to me voices to see if I could pull
Speaker 1: it off. And sometimes I do and they don't. But
Speaker 1: sometimes do they notice, like yeah, like when my accents bad,
Speaker 1: like I, oh, you know, I wanted to type fly
Speaker 1: stas and they're like, you're faking. Why. It's ten am. Hey,
Speaker 1: come see us live tomorrow tomorrow Saturday, May one. We're
Speaker 1: going to be in Nashville, Tennessee. I'm so fucking excited.
Speaker 1: I grew up on country music. This is so excited,
Speaker 1: So get pumped. So at PM the guys We Fucked Tour.
Speaker 1: This is our touring show. It's going to be part
Speaker 1: of the wild West Comedy Festival, which is happening at
Speaker 1: Zany's Comedy Club in Nashville. Ticks are twenty two dollars.
Speaker 1: There's a link in the podcast description. Come on the
Speaker 1: funk out if you know this show is so fucking good. Okay,
Speaker 1: if you are a die hard fan of the podcast,
Speaker 1: if you kind of like the podcast, you're gonna love
Speaker 1: the show. And if you've never heard of the podcast,
Speaker 1: you are going to love the show. But obviously maybe
Speaker 1: you're heard of it once if you're listening, but otherwise,
Speaker 1: like you can like feel comfortable to bring a friend
Speaker 1: or a boyfriend or a girlfriend. They're not gonna hate it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And if you know people in Nashville and you think
Speaker 1: they would like it, they don't. There's no inside jokes.
Speaker 1: Well there's a couple, but like they don't. They're still funny.
Speaker 1: It's like when you if you like when you were
Speaker 1: a kid watching Clueless with your parents, there were stuff
Speaker 1: for the adults to enjoy, and there was stuff for
Speaker 1: the kids to enjoy. Exact, you didn't have to have.
Speaker 1: You didn't have to know all about like perfect um
Speaker 1: and then UM that Monday. This coming Monday a p m.
Speaker 1: We're doing the Guys we Test tour date at Subculture,
Speaker 1: which is on forty five Bleaker Street. Um. We have
Speaker 1: a couple more dates left. I don't know if there's
Speaker 1: tickets to this one. There's a link. We have a
Speaker 1: ticket link in the description of this podcast. I think
Speaker 1: there's a few standing room tickets left. But the next
Speaker 1: date for our tour show is uh is Monday, June twenty,
Speaker 1: and that's an all ages show if you're under sixteen,
Speaker 1: though you have to be accompanied by an adult. Kay.
Speaker 1: And then Saturday in Manhattan West West Village at seven
Speaker 1: thirty is Glama plus Um co hosted by myself and
Speaker 1: Wendy Starling. We got this's gonna be titties, It's gonna
Speaker 1: be whigs because it's gonna be whiskey. Um. There's a
Speaker 1: ticket link for that in the description of this podcast.
Speaker 1: It's called be a Ranger. And then that same day Saturday,
Speaker 1: MA me Karen, I'm gonna be in Columbus, Ohio for
Speaker 1: World Day Weekend. It's one night only. I'm doing a
Speaker 1: show at a police call Mikey's Late Night Slice, which
Speaker 1: is in downtown Columbus. Tickets are twelve dollars if you
Speaker 1: buy them advance. All the infos on our social media
Speaker 1: and my boyfriend's going to be there, shut, I need
Speaker 1: him to get his autograph. Yes you can, sweet so
Speaker 1: so excited, crazy you do. I'm good. Uh, it was
Speaker 1: interesting weekend. Uh. It's funny because all the guys We
Speaker 1: Fucked have become like kind of like little celebbernies in
Speaker 1: their own rights, I mean, below our non celebrity celebrity.
Speaker 1: They're also then a little less but some cow a subversion,
Speaker 1: you know, you know, like like a Tila Tequila junior.
Speaker 1: Yeah all junior junior. Ye. So. And I think one
Speaker 1: of the most popular characters um from the podcast is
Speaker 1: Yo Mike Brown. Yo Mike Brown. So I get a
Speaker 1: lot of got a lot of a lot of people
Speaker 1: have feelings about Yo Mike Brown. Always been interesting for me.
Speaker 1: And so people don't understand it's like, yeah, this podcast
Speaker 1: that's called Guys We Fucked, But uh, some people we
Speaker 1: fucked and also had feelings and we loved or dug
Speaker 1: or or enjoyed treasure or we're intimate with and so
Speaker 1: It's just so funny because I've had a couple of
Speaker 1: instances where people, you know him and other people will
Speaker 1: come up and like tell me things like, oh, I'm
Speaker 1: trying to have sex with this person or I'm like
Speaker 1: and I'm like, but I that's about you know, that's
Speaker 1: my person like a personally listen to the podcast, I'll
Speaker 1: try to have sex with a past guest, yeah or
Speaker 1: something and so, and I've talked about it briefly before,
Speaker 1: but it happened again this weekend. So it just kind
Speaker 1: of and then really and then coincidentally, Mike Brown was
Speaker 1: on uh Nacho Bitches, and so I kind of just
Speaker 1: was like talking to him about it because I was like,
Speaker 1: this is really weird for me to say, because I
Speaker 1: was like, we're not dating anymore and I and I
Speaker 1: don't have those feelings for you anymore. And I have
Speaker 1: a new boyfriend who I really really like, and but
Speaker 1: I was just like, there's something, there's something that happens
Speaker 1: inside me when people say this, and it really hurts
Speaker 1: my feeling when they want to fuck when they're when
Speaker 1: they and then also when they come up to me
Speaker 1: and like openly tell me like like I don't of
Speaker 1: course you can try and funk everyone. I don't. I
Speaker 1: don't want to know that. And I think and so
Speaker 1: Mike and I had a conversation about and he goes,
Speaker 1: okurre and I know exactly what you mean. He's like,
Speaker 1: whenever people come up to me and you're like, oh,
Speaker 1: what was it like to have six with Korean fisher
Speaker 1: and like, and I go l O l that people
Speaker 1: say that at all, um, and then then he goes, oh,
Speaker 1: I I never tell them because he's like, yo, that
Speaker 1: was that was Bay. This is his words, not mine.
Speaker 1: That's Bay. And that's he goes, of course, it was
Speaker 1: wonderful nuts between us, and it was just kind of
Speaker 1: nice to talk to a guy and have him had
Speaker 1: this feel like that there are these like Fourever Bays
Speaker 1: and like people people who no matter where special place
Speaker 1: life takes us and it's like and it's just like
Speaker 1: that's our time and no matter who we end up
Speaker 1: with or whatever, like that's like just a person who
Speaker 1: is always special to me. It's not like just something dude,
Speaker 1: I right, and well that's what that's what the misconception
Speaker 1: is a lot on the podcast, because I have we've
Speaker 1: all that people in our lives that are just some
Speaker 1: dude we fucked totally and that's cool and that's great
Speaker 1: and we can high five when I see those people totally.
Speaker 1: But there's also guys that I'm like so proud to
Speaker 1: have been happy to have been intimate with and it
Speaker 1: was really special and talking about it on a podcast
Speaker 1: that a lot of people listen to is I mean
Speaker 1: when we started, we didn't know anybody was gonna listen
Speaker 1: to it, so that's it's different. It's different, yeah, but
Speaker 1: there's a little bit more of a risk kind of
Speaker 1: in that. Like I'm more I mean, I know I
Speaker 1: talked about Stephen all the time on the podcast, but
Speaker 1: like when he was on Low and Talies episode and stuff,
Speaker 1: I'm I don't know, I feel like more protective over
Speaker 1: him in our in our intimacy. I'll still talk about
Speaker 1: what we do on the podcast with his permission and
Speaker 1: now I ask because you know, courtesy. But yeah, like
Speaker 1: because the one we I get a lot of people
Speaker 1: talking about Niko the second episode, people still tweet me
Speaker 1: and message me about his voice and sexy is and
Speaker 1: they just I'm like, I knew if I like shared
Speaker 1: a social media people will be like try to get
Speaker 1: all that day, but he was someone who's so special
Speaker 1: to me. Yeah, and always will be told the day
Speaker 1: I die, even if I never see him again. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and it's totally cool. But I think they're just like
Speaker 1: I think we need to realize is as like people
Speaker 1: number one, like the people that you hear in podcasts
Speaker 1: or real life people we have and we care about
Speaker 1: that and wives and stuff like that. But also secondly,
Speaker 1: um that just as people existing in the world, Like
Speaker 1: I don't know if there's ever time to go up
Speaker 1: to someone's ex if you're like now fucking them and
Speaker 1: they just talk openly about it, I think, like we're
Speaker 1: we don't, we're not conscious of that. So I think
Speaker 1: they're just like just the same way as you wouldn't
Speaker 1: go up to my brother and tell him how you
Speaker 1: fuck my brains out, Like I think there's not there's
Speaker 1: not that same respect amongst like friends or people. Like
Speaker 1: they're just just remember like that was someone very special
Speaker 1: to that person, So like just keep there's a nice distance.
Speaker 1: I don't need to know everything. Yeah, I don't tell
Speaker 1: you guys everything about me. I know you think I knew,
Speaker 1: but I do not. So Yeah, and just like but
Speaker 1: just in life and it has nothing nothing like not
Speaker 1: apart from myself and Christina, just in your everyday life.
Speaker 1: Like if you have a friend and they broke up
Speaker 1: with some a long time ago, you don't know exactly
Speaker 1: how they still feel about that person or or how
Speaker 1: how that ended precisely, so just like yeah, and the
Speaker 1: conscious of it if you track somebody down because you
Speaker 1: heard him on a podcast, like you can do whatever
Speaker 1: you want with your social media, with your with your
Speaker 1: hitting on people, and with your with your pussy, do
Speaker 1: whatever you want. But like maybe not so I try
Speaker 1: to funk that guy that you had fucked and then
Speaker 1: you were talking about like you know, not Kurrent Fisher's
Speaker 1: pussy dating service, but it's not you can, but that's yeah,
Speaker 1: I hear you, just like hey, oh speaking of hey, hey,
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Speaker 1: I'm sorry that I was the one that got your
Speaker 1: name and I sucked it up. But I know how
Speaker 1: that is. And I've just learned to disassociate my name
Speaker 1: with my identities. Opully probably done the same by now.
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Speaker 1: And then what do we reading? Oh? Yeah, what are
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Speaker 1: Thank you Replay for your supportive guys. We fucked replay good.
Speaker 1: Replay it. So the article I was, I was talking
Speaker 1: Marshabell Ski on Facebook as I like to do, and
Speaker 1: someone of a Fello queen and Kyle Airs shared this
Speaker 1: article called World's Oldest Women got that way by avoiding men,
Speaker 1: and it talks about the oldest woman in New York.
Speaker 1: I guess a Brooklyn Knights, Susannah Mushott Jones, who died
Speaker 1: at the age of a hundred and sixteen. Uh, and
Speaker 1: she said that one of the things that kept her
Speaker 1: alive so long was staying away from men. And then
Speaker 1: you read when you afford me that article was like
Speaker 1: and then there's all these other hundred and sixteen year old,
Speaker 1: hundred nine year old women that are like, what's your secret,
Speaker 1: and they're like one of them was a virgin. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was like, let's nine include her in the article.
Speaker 1: But the thing that into like crazy people use it
Speaker 1: as like say, don't have sex. But the thing that's
Speaker 1: interesting to me is it reminded me of my great
Speaker 1: aunt Helen May she rest in peace. One of the
Speaker 1: most vivacious people I knew. And she never got married
Speaker 1: and she chained smoked her whole entire life. And she
Speaker 1: lived until ninety six with her sister Alice, in a
Speaker 1: place in Jersey City, and she had a great She
Speaker 1: was she was happy and she will. Family history has
Speaker 1: it that she never found anyone good enough for her.
Speaker 1: And I was like, Okay, now I know I know
Speaker 1: where you get that. Hell you number one. But then
Speaker 1: so I commented that on the post. And then my
Speaker 1: friend Katie goes my grandma is currently one oh one
Speaker 1: and has been single since she was fifty. And then
Speaker 1: another comic gen goes My great grandmother was a widow
Speaker 1: from her mid fifties until she died at one oh four.
Speaker 1: She was amazing and then I mean then a male comic,
Speaker 1: Dan Perlman said something sassy and ruined it for well,
Speaker 1: Louis c. K has that great bit from one of
Speaker 1: MSG specials that's like, when are the greatest threat to women?
Speaker 1: Like why would a woman say yes to a date
Speaker 1: with a man like we could kill you? And uh
Speaker 1: and you do and you do even without weapons, I know,
Speaker 1: and I will slowly kill us with you goddamn uh dick,
Speaker 1: and you got damn masculinity. I love men so much,
Speaker 1: but being in a relationship again, it's I mean, it's
Speaker 1: just really reminds me like how much time and effort,
Speaker 1: how much how exhausting I it is. Yeah, not in
Speaker 1: a bad way. Now, it's fun, but it's like I
Speaker 1: would have lived a lot longer if I had just
Speaker 1: gone Panera single for the rest of my life, just piecing,
Speaker 1: you know, yeah, because well, these those little tiny things
Speaker 1: of I'm coming up from work and he's on the
Speaker 1: couch and I just want to go to the deli
Speaker 1: and getta make salad wrap with salt, pepper and lettuce.
Speaker 1: But I got to think of him, and then you
Speaker 1: gotta ask him, and then it's a little more stress. Oh,
Speaker 1: I've cooked more meals. Yeah, thanks Bue. Seriously, they're not
Speaker 1: advertising on this episode. But well, I mean that was
Speaker 1: kind of like a sarcastic things because I think they
Speaker 1: sended me that I had to make it. I mean
Speaker 1: fucking delicious, though, it's like the freshest I'm the I
Speaker 1: feel like I'm goddamn best chef in the whole world.
Speaker 1: But like, would I want would I rather be? I
Speaker 1: wouldn't say lonely, I would say more independent, like you're aunt.
Speaker 1: Helen was not a lonely woman. She's independent, right, That's
Speaker 1: that's the vibe that I'm getting. She was a little hotti.
Speaker 1: She didn't She could have got so much if you wanted,
Speaker 1: so she chose not. She could have got that d
Speaker 1: and she was like no, she said I'll pass. Maybe
Speaker 1: she had Tourette's and the word was passed. And everyone's like,
Speaker 1: I guess she was very She knew a loss about
Speaker 1: the news and pop culture. She made some sandwiches. But
Speaker 1: is it so? But people are a lot of people
Speaker 1: are afraid to dine alone. But I'm like, is Diane
Speaker 1: alone that bad? You'll have so much space and so
Speaker 1: much time, and there's so much room on your shelf
Speaker 1: to put nicknacks. Yeah, you put whatever magnet you wanted
Speaker 1: your friends. You get percent nicknack space, not fifty percent
Speaker 1: nicknack space. Oh yeah, and you get a hundred percent
Speaker 1: closet space. Not Wow, maybe she just uses thick fabrics.
Speaker 1: All right, let's read that email actually attributed to why
Speaker 1: his his bice fucking suit jackets? Well, no, well I
Speaker 1: helped when I I actually helped base that off of
Speaker 1: information that I knew from when I helped you move,
Speaker 1: because I was like, you're sweating under a pilot of
Speaker 1: this clove. I remember going, Well, Steven owns a lot
Speaker 1: of jackets for a man who I don't see. Where's
Speaker 1: on of jackets? He possesses many jackets, thank you for saying.
Speaker 1: And they're beautiful jackets. Shut up, Shut the funk up.
Speaker 1: You were on a roll and then you ruined it.
Speaker 1: But you gotta wear them, I know, otherwise let someone
Speaker 1: else they take me on a date every goddamn night.
Speaker 1: You can't each one of your jacket, can't see the
Speaker 1: beauty of the jacket. If the jackets in the closet,
Speaker 1: you know, let the world see you. I know, who
Speaker 1: did you see these Jackets. It's like when I met him,
Speaker 1: I only had two bras and I didn't know you
Speaker 1: like had to wash them a lot. And I was
Speaker 1: just like, I want, I'm just gonna wear the bra
Speaker 1: because my boobs don't stink. I mean, I don't know,
Speaker 1: maybe people's boobs stink from but that if you stick
Speaker 1: your nose in that in that cup, maybe your faces
Speaker 1: can't get close enough because your boobs are so big,
Speaker 1: but it smells real bad. I'm not a sweater. After
Speaker 1: a couple of wars, I go, it's real. Well, that's
Speaker 1: what it did happen. But I wasn't the one who
Speaker 1: said it. Stephen was. But I was like, oh, Mr,
Speaker 1: five thousand Jackets trying to me, to get you, trying
Speaker 1: to get me look on all these bras now. But
Speaker 1: he's like, no, you should for your hygienic You think
Speaker 1: he was hooked on bras well. All I did think
Speaker 1: that initially, and then I was like, Christina, not everything
Speaker 1: is a conspiracy theory. Not everything is trying to be
Speaker 1: against you. Calm down, get more bras. It is important
Speaker 1: because I saw this one thing that scarred me for life,
Speaker 1: and it was something about like how some like mites
Speaker 1: got into a bra company whatever, And basically it was
Speaker 1: the picture of the woman's breast looks like a goddamn honeycomb,
Speaker 1: And every time I think about it, I can't even
Speaker 1: function anymore. So I'm sorry, guys. So you know what,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give it the first ever trigger warning, but
Speaker 1: after I said it, it was a gunshot wound warning.
Speaker 1: That's what we call right now. All right, let's read
Speaker 1: some emails. Do you want to read that one first? Okay,
Speaker 1: I'll read that one, and then you read the other one. Okay, cool?
Speaker 1: This one? Should I hook up with a strange man
Speaker 1: in NYC? Are I'm saying no? I was like, hello,
Speaker 1: my love is, my name is? I don't know if
Speaker 1: I can say this, And I am so obsessed, like
Speaker 1: a healthy level with you guys. Blah blah blah. I'm
Speaker 1: a student at this college outside of Boston, and I
Speaker 1: have a job this summer that required me to be
Speaker 1: in New York City this week Monday through Wednesday. I'm
Speaker 1: a first year. Uh it's at All Women's College. I
Speaker 1: don't want to give away this information. She's nineteen years
Speaker 1: old but definitely sexually active. I love older men and
Speaker 1: sex in general. Here is my pressing question. I met
Speaker 1: a guy on my plane ride from Boston to n
Speaker 1: y C literally a few a few hours ago, and
Speaker 1: we totally were checking each other out, and eventually he
Speaker 1: asked for my number. Should I invite him to my
Speaker 1: hotel room one night this week to have a little fun?
Speaker 1: Here are my pros and cons list? I know, L
Speaker 1: O L that's what she wrote. Pros he's super hot,
Speaker 1: he is apparently a designer. He looks and dresses exactly
Speaker 1: like Will I am. He's smooth, he's Jamaican British, and
Speaker 1: I want to tab dat con he's a stranger indeed,
Speaker 1: and I don't want to get myself in a crazy
Speaker 1: situation anyway. Thank you for your show. Blah blah blah.
Speaker 1: So quick thoughts on this. Why did she get a
Speaker 1: drink with him? He doesn't have to go straight to
Speaker 1: your hotel room. Yeah. My own concerned is it's totally cool.
Speaker 1: You know, you're an adult woman whatever, But it's just
Speaker 1: like inviting someone to your hotel room. We'll wait. She's nineteen,
Speaker 1: she's young. Yeah, No, I know she is young, and
Speaker 1: it's cool, I said, But I mean, I just yeah,
Speaker 1: you want to meet in a public place first. You
Speaker 1: need to catch a vibe. Someone should just not becoming
Speaker 1: to your hotel room like that. Bad things can happen
Speaker 1: that you don't know. Once that door closes, girl, you
Speaker 1: don't know. He put the do not disturb signing and
Speaker 1: I want to saw you tied to the bed by flaws. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and then and then made her here screaming, and then
Speaker 1: she sees that do not disturb hold in and she's like,
Speaker 1: all right, you just have a sex. I hear this
Speaker 1: a lot. Yeah, just be super careful. Yeah, I don't
Speaker 1: know if I mean, I wouldn't if you're you're asking us,
Speaker 1: so I can say I would not recommend you inviting
Speaker 1: him up straight to your hotel room. You're in New
Speaker 1: York fucking City. Go to the high Line, go to
Speaker 1: Union Square, go to Washington Square Park. There's all this
Speaker 1: cool ship to do. That's beautiful. Go to a comedy show. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and listen, there's always obviously there's all. He's a risk
Speaker 1: that first time when you take someone home, and that
Speaker 1: is you know, part of being a woman, unfortunately, but
Speaker 1: just be careful and of course, like he probably reached
Speaker 1: of being excited and eager for a week in New
Speaker 1: York City. I don't want to do. I don't want
Speaker 1: to New York City, but you probably reachd of I'm
Speaker 1: coming from Boston. That's exactly when I sounded like. When
Speaker 1: I moved to New York, I was nineteen and I
Speaker 1: snuck myself into a lot of celebrity parties. I mean,
Speaker 1: and I don't want to point figured, but then you
Speaker 1: got didn't you know, get napped by a Jamaican club promoter. Oh,
Speaker 1: I did get kidnaped by Jamaican ophades of Christina's pass less,
Speaker 1: So damn it. I I forgot about that. I mean
Speaker 1: nothing against Jamaican club promoter. No, he's probably hot though,
Speaker 1: sexy Jamaican British will I am like, I get the
Speaker 1: desire to hop on that day, but be public, be
Speaker 1: in a public place when you made him? Yeah? Absolutely.
Speaker 1: This subject of this email is chill ay, Okay, what
Speaker 1: about it? Hello? I wanted to let you know that
Speaker 1: I love your podcast and I appreciate what you're doing
Speaker 1: by having an open dialogue about things matter. Oh, this
Speaker 1: emails from a guy. I should say, I actually started
Speaker 1: listening to your podcast because I thought there was going
Speaker 1: to be sexy talk and discussion about sucking smart move.
Speaker 1: I took the bait there is sexy talk, but after
Speaker 1: two episodes I came to realize how intelligent and aware
Speaker 1: you two are, Plus your guests are amazing, and I've
Speaker 1: been hooked ever since. Thank Yeah. Being a thirty two
Speaker 1: year old guy with a two year old daughter, I
Speaker 1: think it's incredibly important to be aware of the culture
Speaker 1: and society around you. I've read a lot about shame,
Speaker 1: specifically by Breen Brown, and how it affects every aspect
Speaker 1: of our lives. I think just being aware can go
Speaker 1: a long way, and having these discussions openly helps break
Speaker 1: the stigma that's built up around it. Yesterday I saw
Speaker 1: a woman carrying a large box and it seemed like
Speaker 1: she was struggling a little bit. I was going to
Speaker 1: ask if she needed help carrying it, but I hesitated
Speaker 1: because I thought she might be offended by me asking.
Speaker 1: I've seen similar situations where women have been offended when
Speaker 1: offered help by a man. I should have just asked
Speaker 1: if she needed help and not worried about it if
Speaker 1: if I would offend her. But the pause made me
Speaker 1: think about this topic and how people say feminism kills
Speaker 1: should chivalry. I was curious about your thoughts about this.
Speaker 1: I think I know I know some some women, not
Speaker 1: a lot, maybe like one or two that I can
Speaker 1: pick off on the top of my head. That would
Speaker 1: be like I can open the door myself. That's not
Speaker 1: you know, if I'm carrying a heavy box, fucking yeah,
Speaker 1: hold the door for me like I would never. I
Speaker 1: think you're right, you're thinking a little too much about it.
Speaker 1: And if a person does get piste off because a
Speaker 1: man helped her, that's the that's a deeper issue. Well,
Speaker 1: I think there's there's belittling people by helping. If I'm
Speaker 1: walking down the staircase with a suitcase and I'm not
Speaker 1: struggling and I'm doing it totally fine, then you can
Speaker 1: I don't need right, I don't need your help. But
Speaker 1: here he said, if you see someone struggling, man or
Speaker 1: a woman. I've helped men before who are struggling if
Speaker 1: you're carrying too many things. I've you know, we've all
Speaker 1: been by the ups guy when his fucking cart tips
Speaker 1: over and I helped him where and he appreciates that
Speaker 1: because no one ever does that because he's the ups guy.
Speaker 1: And it's like, be a good person, and then things
Speaker 1: such as doors. I hold doors from women all the time,
Speaker 1: and I expect women to fucking hold doors for me.
Speaker 1: And if you don't hold doors, you're a piece of ship.
Speaker 1: Thanks well, and next sorry, I'm just really I get
Speaker 1: really pissed when people don't hold the door. Well, it
Speaker 1: was so funny. I was at this movie theater right
Speaker 1: by my house with a friend and her, like two
Speaker 1: friends I I don't speak with anymore, but one of
Speaker 1: them was a very tall, model esque looking like she's
Speaker 1: just hot. She looks like a model, right, and and
Speaker 1: she we were leaving the movie theater and she just like,
Speaker 1: she didn't hold the door, but she wasn't. We were
Speaker 1: like having in the middle of a conversation, didn't even
Speaker 1: think about it. And a girl, a woman ran ran
Speaker 1: up to us after we're halfway down the block and
Speaker 1: was like, excuse me, excuse me. You didn't hold the
Speaker 1: door for me. And I get it, like you're really pretty.
Speaker 1: I get it, you're really pretty. But I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: that was an issue that had nothing to do with
Speaker 1: not holding the door. So I'm saying, if a woman
Speaker 1: gets mad at that and you're not belittling her, then
Speaker 1: there's it's something else going on. It's not feminism killing Schoberry.
Speaker 1: Absolutely so thanks for at the door. Uh and this
Speaker 1: last email subject, I sucked a celebrity. Not sure I
Speaker 1: should tell my boyfriend high ladies love your show, blah
Speaker 1: blah blah. When I was in high school, I loved
Speaker 1: hip hop and always listened too. I can't say the reverstyr. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you can say again, don't say any where she's from? Okay.
Speaker 1: And I also I always listened to a little Wayne,
Speaker 1: the good little Wayne that actually wrapped, not the auto
Speaker 1: tune little Wine. Thanks for letting us know. At that time,
Speaker 1: I would always say that I would meet him, just
Speaker 1: out of sheer desire. It never occurred to me that
Speaker 1: I would actually meet him. Well, I moved to a
Speaker 1: city for college, and I actually ended up meeting him
Speaker 1: through one of his friends. One night, randomly, I was
Speaker 1: in the studio with his friend and all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: there appears the little Wayne. Now I should mention that
Speaker 1: I'm not a studio whore or a girl a studio lady,
Speaker 1: or a girl who is all over the place to
Speaker 1: find celebrities. I'm just a normal girl. It just so
Speaker 1: happened that I lived in the same building as his
Speaker 1: friend and worked out that I ended up meeting Little Wayne.
Speaker 1: The universe is an interesting force, isn't it. Anyway, his
Speaker 1: friend was taking me on a tour of the studio
Speaker 1: and said that quote, my bro wants to get it
Speaker 1: in with you. I'm like, look, I told you I'm
Speaker 1: not hooking up with any of your friends. He said,
Speaker 1: it's Wayne, and obviously, as an eighteen year old girl,
Speaker 1: I was just couldn't or didn't know how to turn
Speaker 1: down the opportunity to hook up with your then favorite celebrity.
Speaker 1: Lo and Behold. We had a one night stand. It
Speaker 1: was actually less than an hour, and we both went
Speaker 1: our separate ways, never to see each other again. I
Speaker 1: also stopped talking to his friend shortly after that as well.
Speaker 1: That was almost ten years ago. I've had to face
Speaker 1: a few awkward situations since then, from random people asking
Speaker 1: me about it to just me feeling really weird and
Speaker 1: unsure as to why I did it. Anyway, I have
Speaker 1: not told anyone about this for a very long time
Speaker 1: and was never planning on bringing it up again. Ever,
Speaker 1: I just hated the way people looked at me because
Speaker 1: of it, or what they thought, etcetera. However, I am
Speaker 1: in a relationship and it's pretty serious and I really
Speaker 1: love this guy. I always thought that when I found
Speaker 1: the one I wanted to be with forever, I would
Speaker 1: have no secrets. However, my girl friend's best friend told
Speaker 1: me that I should actually not tell him about this secret,
Speaker 1: and I'm just not sure what to do. This was
Speaker 1: a big part of my life for a very short time,
Speaker 1: and still I think about it slightly out of regret,
Speaker 1: although I've stopped listening to his music and just try
Speaker 1: to avoid anything about him altogether. It was so long
Speaker 1: ago and I don't want it to be a part
Speaker 1: of my future. It's like I'm almost ashamed of it.
Speaker 1: It did teach me some valuable lessons, but I just
Speaker 1: don't know how he will react, and I'm not sure
Speaker 1: if I even want to tell him. Is it wrong
Speaker 1: to keep this kind of a secret. And if I do,
Speaker 1: what happens if he finds out? Anyway, Girl, you in
Speaker 1: your head, yeah, that was ten years ago. For less
Speaker 1: than an hour, convince convinced. It's weird because when we
Speaker 1: got this email, I was just talking to my friend
Speaker 1: Vanessa about how much I wanted to funk low Wayne, Um,
Speaker 1: but that don't you don't have to tell your boyfriend
Speaker 1: if you don't want to. He doesn't need to know.
Speaker 1: This isn't like it was a one night stand. You
Speaker 1: feel really ashamed? You do? I think you do feel
Speaker 1: shamed about it or something. I don't know what it
Speaker 1: is for sure. When you fuck us celebrity, it's weird
Speaker 1: and you don't have to say. You don't have to
Speaker 1: preface it with I'm not a studio whore, I'm not
Speaker 1: a star fucker, because you know what, when the second
Speaker 1: anyone is around somebody very famous and like young and attractive,
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter if you're star fucker
Speaker 1: a regular person. Yeah, there's a there's a lot of
Speaker 1: different reasons why we fun people though. I mean, in
Speaker 1: sucking someone because there are a celebrit he is really
Speaker 1: no different than someone because they're super hot or because
Speaker 1: they have money. It's just another reason that's not their
Speaker 1: personality or can any connection that you have with them.
Speaker 1: So it's I don't think it's any worse or better
Speaker 1: than that. I mean, I have kind of like a
Speaker 1: role that celebrities, but it's just to be spiteful that's
Speaker 1: the only way that that's when that comes from. It's
Speaker 1: just one up celebrities. That's because they're used to getting
Speaker 1: everything they want. Yeah, And the only reason I have
Speaker 1: that when I first moved to New York, like I
Speaker 1: I sucked a celebrity for a couple of years on
Speaker 1: and off, and then I was I fucking bragged about it.
Speaker 1: I was an idiot. I was like, I was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, you guys, I fucked sell and sell
Speaker 1: and there can you shut up? This is like the
Speaker 1: eighth time you told me. I know, but it's just
Speaker 1: so cool. It's weird because everyone knows who this person is,
Speaker 1: and that's cool. I do want to write you back.
Speaker 1: I don't he wraps so much about eating girls out,
Speaker 1: but but like it's it's a thing that happened, and
Speaker 1: it's weird because he's really famous that a lot of
Speaker 1: people know who he is. Yeah. I think my main
Speaker 1: problem with this email is that you say in the end,
Speaker 1: this was a big part of my life for a
Speaker 1: very short time. I mean, okay, so I guess a
Speaker 1: very short time. I guess there was like if there
Speaker 1: was like you know, weeks after when you're like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, I sucked lot wan. I get that. I
Speaker 1: totally get that, but it's like, this is it's over,
Speaker 1: it's a decade ago, this doesn't matter anymore. And if
Speaker 1: this is still the coolest thing that happened in your
Speaker 1: life or the most the thing that you remember most,
Speaker 1: Dear God, please make some changes immediately. Parasailing. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: just your boyfriend doesn't need to know. And I think
Speaker 1: I think it's like there's no reason you don't're not
Speaker 1: gonna tell him about every other one night stand you
Speaker 1: had by name, like it's he's just another one night stand.
Speaker 1: And I think just think of him like that, don't
Speaker 1: don't let him have that power over you. And it's
Speaker 1: just something like if you kind of like sit you're
Speaker 1: you're now you know, you know, boyfriend down, you're like
Speaker 1: I had sex with little Wayne, and makes it into
Speaker 1: a bigger issue than it is. Anytime someone sits me
Speaker 1: down and has a conversation about something that if they
Speaker 1: had just said him passing, would like you maken to
Speaker 1: make it a meal by having that kind of presentation.
Speaker 1: If you haven't told him by now after all this time,
Speaker 1: you don't need to tell him. And it's just it's
Speaker 1: just going to cause a problem and make him feel insecure.
Speaker 1: It's unnecessarily care so long ago. Just get it out
Speaker 1: of your hand. Yeah, if you cheated on him with
Speaker 1: Little White, know, that's a different. I should probably tell
Speaker 1: him that's a whole different. That's what happened with me.
Speaker 1: And I said something, yeah, but that's not what happened
Speaker 1: with you. It was a one night thing and she
Speaker 1: was on someone with Little Wayne. No other person I
Speaker 1: cheated on Darren with Oh once I'm going. I was like, wait, yeah,
Speaker 1: oh yeah, yeah, so that's why you really buried the
Speaker 1: headline the Christina And I'm gonna tell him huck um,
Speaker 1: But yeah, I get it. Celebrity is weird. I was
Speaker 1: just at a party on Saturday with fucking Drake and
Speaker 1: he was standing right next to me. Yeah, that's not
Speaker 1: a party. He running out David Busters afterwards, and there
Speaker 1: was like a chick. It was crazy. It was nuts
Speaker 1: and uh but I was standing at to the bar
Speaker 1: and I looked at my left, I'm like, oh, fuck,
Speaker 1: that's Drake. Indeed, and like I never wanted to funk Drake,
Speaker 1: but oh my god, Like celebrity is sexy, it's sexy.
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is. I am very sexually
Speaker 1: attracted to it, male or female. It's a weird thing.
Speaker 1: But I don't whatever it is, what it is. I
Speaker 1: think it's thrilling. Is the word very thrill? Thrilling. Even
Speaker 1: when I when I was really close at the Britney
Speaker 1: Spears concert, Oh my god, I felt that meaning Andy Dick,
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, please look me, Oh my god.
Speaker 1: For sure, absolutely absolutely so it is weird, and it's
Speaker 1: you know, every person, no matter what they say about
Speaker 1: people who have sex with celebrities, probably would react to
Speaker 1: the same way, not current Fisher, because her spite is
Speaker 1: more more worthy to her than sucking a celebrity. And
Speaker 1: that's great, and maybe we should take that mental like
Speaker 1: way of thinking on And it's it's also that I
Speaker 1: was being silly. That is part of it, for sure.
Speaker 1: But the other part is that I feel like I'm
Speaker 1: just gonna be a notch on their hide post and
Speaker 1: I have to be. And maybe that's what this girl felt. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean he talks about sucking chicks. Yeah, and you
Speaker 1: probably were, and that's okay, Yeah, that's fine, who cares
Speaker 1: wrong about it? But like that's not that's not the
Speaker 1: cool thing. To do. I guess either it was cool.
Speaker 1: You have fun and now you're in a common relationship
Speaker 1: and that's fun to speaking rappers, right, yeah I did that. Well.
Speaker 1: You know, Christine and I were wanting to have a
Speaker 1: rapper on for a long time, and we're like, this
Speaker 1: is gonna be great. We're gonna completely change someone's views
Speaker 1: on women. We're gonna take a misogynist and he's gonna
Speaker 1: leave this place. Yeah, we're gonna We're gonna be the
Speaker 1: true heroes that we always wanted to be. Yeah, that
Speaker 1: didn't happen. No, he was great, but we did have
Speaker 1: a really nice conversation. It's a very sexy voice, ginger
Speaker 1: Latino ladies and gentlemen, please give it out for Shane Santo.
Speaker 1: What a marvelous evening, remarkable even tree and so get
Speaker 1: your claim. So if we all in the agreement, come on,
Speaker 1: I said, stand up, If we all in the agreement
Speaker 1: that you snap your man. If you sit and tell
Speaker 1: him it's not to proceed it, I'm gonna type ticola.
Speaker 1: How I see it lies to see his mind on
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Speaker 1: sales down, you show all Right, we're here with Shane Santo.
Speaker 1: Don't peace Shane Santo, Yo, this is amazing. Please do
Speaker 1: that throughout the whole podcast. Yeah, you can shout out
Speaker 1: your whatever you're anything. Can I really shout? Or should
Speaker 1: I speak at this? You should speak at that volume.
Speaker 1: But you know, feel free in terms of burbage that
Speaker 1: comes out of your mouth. Whatever you got? No, no,
Speaker 1: this is comfortable. UM, as long as the mike is
Speaker 1: on the right height. UM, very comfortable. So yeah, I
Speaker 1: shout out to d x A, who's that Dixon? No,
Speaker 1: but they no, Uh, we're gonna We're gonna really reveal
Speaker 1: our whiteness on. This is an acronym for the the
Speaker 1: hip hop group that I work with and my boys,
Speaker 1: my brother and my Bedred that I've been working with
Speaker 1: for over a decade. Nice perfect in the hip hop scenes.
Speaker 1: So before we start recording, you took your hat off
Speaker 1: and I noticed, do you have a man bun? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I reinvented the man bun. Then the trend happened, and
Speaker 1: then I kept the man bun just because I'm lazy
Speaker 1: and I don't want to pay for haircuts. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: because dude's gotta get haircuts, like multiple times, like what
Speaker 1: once a month, I don't know, yeah, twice a month.
Speaker 1: Dan high school, it was like my boy would get
Speaker 1: a haircut every week. You get to shape up. Yeah,
Speaker 1: did you have very beautiful hair? Though? Thank you thanks
Speaker 1: to my mom. Is it flowing? Is it It looks
Speaker 1: like it might be curly at the end, it's it's wavy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Like I guess it's a little curly, but it's I
Speaker 1: think the curves come from the or the band or
Speaker 1: the hair band. So when you're banging chicks, do they
Speaker 1: pull your hair? Not really know what? Really, that's the
Speaker 1: first thing I think of when I see a man ba,
Speaker 1: and I think that's why I'm inherently attracted to them,
Speaker 1: because I'm like, y'all, grab your hair. I mean, I
Speaker 1: feel like, maybe instinctfully that's what you think will happen,
Speaker 1: but then in the moment that's not what's happening. Well,
Speaker 1: it's like the man button could be the great equalizer.
Speaker 1: Like we've been getting our hair pulled for generations. Yes,
Speaker 1: do you get your hair? Does your hair stop up
Speaker 1: the shower drain? Uh? Yeah, it has in the past,
Speaker 1: but I try to, like, I don't know, I guess
Speaker 1: comb it so it doesn't. It's hard though, right, Yeah
Speaker 1: it is. I mean every boyfriend I've ever had gives
Speaker 1: me ship for that. Yeah, I mean, you know it
Speaker 1: can be. You just got to clean the shower during now,
Speaker 1: so you're very relaxed about it. It's fine. Yeah, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I've I've I've grown accustomed to this. The bond has
Speaker 1: been there. While I'm so glad to give you that espresso.
Speaker 1: So you are thirty two? Cool? How's it be? So?
Speaker 1: How long have you been a rapper? Man? Well? What what?
Speaker 1: What exactly qualifies me as being? I was born because
Speaker 1: it's in my soul and that how you want to say? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I was always into rhythm and uh, I
Speaker 1: think once I learned that of rhyme words, which is
Speaker 1: probably poetry and elementary school, it evolved into rap because
Speaker 1: I like beat and you know, hip hop was very
Speaker 1: prevalent in my life growing up. So did your parents
Speaker 1: listen to it a lot? They're like, howtow about some
Speaker 1: My mom listened to a lot of like, you know,
Speaker 1: doop and you know, um, a lot of difference of soul,
Speaker 1: and she had a lot of records and tapes and stuff.
Speaker 1: But hip hop was I mean, she's she was a
Speaker 1: little out of that, wasn't her generation. My dad was
Speaker 1: a classical guitar player, so sweets that. Yeah, yeah, there's
Speaker 1: some music in the family. And what's your ethnic breakdown? Um,
Speaker 1: my mother is uh Irish American mixed. You're like, you know,
Speaker 1: European Irish American and my father's Resilian. Okay, because I
Speaker 1: was like I was, obviously you're Latino if that's your
Speaker 1: real last name. Santo Is is my last name, because
Speaker 1: you remind me a lot of the actor Armando Riesco.
Speaker 1: You're kind of like this like Ginger Latino almost, what's um?
Speaker 1: I should Ginger Latino. That's a good yeah, a good combo.
Speaker 1: I used to work for a company. Well, Christina and
Speaker 1: I both used to work for a company that represented him.
Speaker 1: He's a wonderful actor. I can't really name the things
Speaker 1: he's been in, but he's very good. It's been in
Speaker 1: that thing in that commercial because I've seen he's real.
Speaker 1: So it's just like little clips and things. Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: no that I mean, I'm I'm going with that's a
Speaker 1: good thing. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. What's it like
Speaker 1: being up? Well, so you're not you're not white? I
Speaker 1: thought you was white when I met you. I mean,
Speaker 1: that's the thing like the ambiguous, ambiguous city of whom
Speaker 1: Big Guy is. Yeah, ambiguity, there we go. That's how
Speaker 1: you say ambiguity and sell that you I write ambig
Speaker 1: you know what. You're an artist, so you can say
Speaker 1: it however it works for you. You You know. I like
Speaker 1: to bend the words in the language every now, and
Speaker 1: you're the Atlanta's more set of rap. I saw that already.
Speaker 1: I like that. Um, yeah, I feel like it's people
Speaker 1: don't know. Uh, you know, in school, when I was
Speaker 1: given a test that I had to check, you know,
Speaker 1: my ethnicity or my background, I would just check other
Speaker 1: because if I put white or Caucasian, but you see
Speaker 1: the last name like this, this is not what is this?
Speaker 1: So I would have to put other because I mean
Speaker 1: it was other. I put other because I wanted to
Speaker 1: make people I was ethnically ambiguous. But I'm not. My
Speaker 1: name my first name spelled weird. But you did it
Speaker 1: because you actually are. I mean, I just I didn't
Speaker 1: know what else to do. It's kind of like and
Speaker 1: you know, my mother's you know, white, and I grew up,
Speaker 1: you know, in a white household, but I grew up
Speaker 1: in New York City in the very urban environment, and
Speaker 1: uh you know, and my my dad is is Latino.
Speaker 1: So you say it, you say it that the way
Speaker 1: they have a good accident. But I don't speak the
Speaker 1: language very well. Well actually the Portuguese is the language,
Speaker 1: but you know, Spanish is also similar language that Latino speak.
Speaker 1: So I'm not going to bring you to Miami to
Speaker 1: translate so I can buy drugs at the club. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: I see they'll think I'm gringo. What's what's gringo? Is that?
Speaker 1: Is that a mean term? It's like it's like it's like,
Speaker 1: you know American. You know, when you go overseas and
Speaker 1: you're down in like Central America or something, Jamaica. You know,
Speaker 1: you you're traveling your foreign or your tours and you
Speaker 1: call that. My dad called me a greno. It's just
Speaker 1: it's just the Jamaican guy in Jamaica. When he was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: he doesn't know he's gringo. Get a ed tea from
Speaker 1: things that he's building building, fix skin there for you,
Speaker 1: hecause he was just teaching me. Did you have any
Speaker 1: like like I know, as comedians, everyone's like, well, what
Speaker 1: happened to you when you were a kid to make
Speaker 1: you a comic? And a lot of times it's a
Speaker 1: lot of shitty stuff that made us a comic and
Speaker 1: but sometimes nothing happened to us. We just like doing comedy.
Speaker 1: What about your background? Because I feel like I was
Speaker 1: telling you about that documentary ages watched about Rhyme Fest,
Speaker 1: and I was like, do you have did you have
Speaker 1: a struggle? Because that's why I think I love hip
Speaker 1: hop so much and why love Kendrick so much is
Speaker 1: because they talk about these fucking ideas that that about
Speaker 1: struggle and the rising up against it, and it's just
Speaker 1: fucking empowering. Did you have that, um? I did? I mean,
Speaker 1: I think I found being able to talk about, like
Speaker 1: my what I was going through, even if it was not.
Speaker 1: I mean when I first thought everybody and I wrote
Speaker 1: my first real rhyme I could say in early on
Speaker 1: sixth grade, you know, and then I like didn't write
Speaker 1: rhymes for a while. Then I started writing a round again,
Speaker 1: and it was like more to like test my I
Speaker 1: guess the ability to like the craft. You know, you
Speaker 1: can test the craft and see what I could do. Um.
Speaker 1: So in the beginning it was it was more like
Speaker 1: I didn't know what I could do exactly with it.
Speaker 1: And then as I've kind of honed the craft and
Speaker 1: gotten into what I do, um, you know, I think
Speaker 1: now I have the power to say what I want
Speaker 1: to say, how I want to say and express it
Speaker 1: like you know, the right way. And there's a lot
Speaker 1: of things, you know, for me, you know, there's a
Speaker 1: lot of things that to talk about, you know, and
Speaker 1: sometimes you gotta have phone, but sometimes you gotta address
Speaker 1: some serious things, and you know, can we curse on this? Yeah?
Speaker 1: All right? Just you know, I just wanted to be
Speaker 1: called that. What did you wrap about in sixth grade? Uh?
Speaker 1: A day of going to class in sixth grades? It's
Speaker 1: just talk about what you know, right. I think that's
Speaker 1: like the simplest rule to writing. People like people trying
Speaker 1: to write about stuff that they don't know about. I'm like,
Speaker 1: why don't you just write about what you know about,
Speaker 1: because you're an expert on that exactly exactly tell your story,
Speaker 1: you know. I think that's that's what I did. I
Speaker 1: rapped about waking up and going to school, playing basketball,
Speaker 1: smoking a joint in the parking lot, which I didn't
Speaker 1: do in sixth grade, but I already had the hindsight
Speaker 1: or the foresight. Yeah, it was happening. Do you remember
Speaker 1: any of the rhymes that you wrote when you were young?
Speaker 1: You want to, Yeah, something like I mean it was
Speaker 1: something like I remember the beginning. My brother always got
Speaker 1: helped me out with this, because you remember it. Like,
Speaker 1: I wake up in the morning, then I opened my
Speaker 1: eyes and I see some beautiful butt of flies. And
Speaker 1: I looked at it right, and I seemed broke. Chris
Speaker 1: and go to the bath maybe want to go to
Speaker 1: the bathroom and take a piss and something like. Then
Speaker 1: going to school and then I was like talking about
Speaker 1: playing ball and then it's the life and then he
Speaker 1: goes kind I kind of call my my sixth grade
Speaker 1: teacher at jerk o edgy very controversial stuff. You know, yeah,
Speaker 1: let him know. I don't know. And now when you
Speaker 1: said you talk about you'd like to talk about more
Speaker 1: serious issues now sometimes or have fun, Like what are
Speaker 1: some of the things that you hold close to your
Speaker 1: heart that you like to talk about? Whoa, Um, it's like,
Speaker 1: I mean, the thing is like when I it's hard
Speaker 1: to like I try to write and have fun as
Speaker 1: much as possible and just like rat bars and like
Speaker 1: come up with rhymes that are just like really you know,
Speaker 1: cool and you know, hit ore and creative. But like
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, like I want, I
Speaker 1: do want to use the power to like actually try
Speaker 1: to say something like the latest project that we worked on,
Speaker 1: my brother and I, you know, we were trying to
Speaker 1: at least talk about our approach to life and how
Speaker 1: things are happening around us in life, and we didn't
Speaker 1: get to like, you know, cynical or like in depth
Speaker 1: into things that a crazy society. But it was more
Speaker 1: about like you know what, how is life affecting us?
Speaker 1: And like how we're going to take that energy and
Speaker 1: turn it around, you know what I mean? Make lemonade?
Speaker 1: Yeah exactly, you know lemon need real nice lemonade. You
Speaker 1: see juice lemonade tour? Uh yeah, we have done and tours. Now,
Speaker 1: how do you have you experienced yet or or is
Speaker 1: that not the kind of people that coming to your shows,
Speaker 1: like girls trying to like get on your dick. They're
Speaker 1: like you, it's all good out there, you want to
Speaker 1: get your dicks out? No, never like that blatantly. Really,
Speaker 1: I'm actually surprised. No, I mean I feel like I don't.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not like looking for that at shows necessarily,
Speaker 1: So I feel like the energy maybe isn't set up
Speaker 1: and like we don't have girls like that at the shows,
Speaker 1: like you know, it's like more like it's like yeah
Speaker 1: into it, like dudes coming out most dude. I mean,
Speaker 1: there's there's a lot of do I mean here in
Speaker 1: the city is a kind domination of like like friends
Speaker 1: and like I mean there's some people that like we
Speaker 1: know that like the female groups and that have come
Speaker 1: out supported for a while, and guys that come out
Speaker 1: of support for a while. So like we have like
Speaker 1: a good camaraderie of people that come out of support
Speaker 1: in the city. Um so, no sexual relationships with fans, No,
Speaker 1: not really. I mean I don't, I don't, I don't, like,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just something's kind of that I've
Speaker 1: never really been into doing the craft. Yeah yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean we all, we all have been in it for
Speaker 1: the craft, like you know, I feel like, you know,
Speaker 1: it's never been about like, oh, I'm gonna go get
Speaker 1: some fucking bussy after the show tonight, you know. I
Speaker 1: mean for a lot of people, I feel like it
Speaker 1: is everyone I know who knows like every man who's
Speaker 1: ever I've ever met who knows how to play guitar.
Speaker 1: That was like that they love guitar. But originally yeah, no,
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean they viewed the guitar as the
Speaker 1: bridge and that the other end of the bridge was pussy.
Speaker 1: The interesting I guess, I guess it's interesting about that
Speaker 1: is like the first time I started writing anything that
Speaker 1: was rhymes was poetry and like third grade for girls,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? So I guess it was
Speaker 1: like subliminally in my head, I was trying to get
Speaker 1: some pussy, but like it was like I'm just writing
Speaker 1: rhymes like you know, and and this is you know,
Speaker 1: how I'm gonna present it and right, So I guess, yeah,
Speaker 1: there's people like when I do this, So maybe I'm
Speaker 1: good at I think I think yeah, because we've I've
Speaker 1: asked I mean we've asked people the podcast that are musicians,
Speaker 1: like straight up, why did you start the band? And
Speaker 1: I mean they gave me the answer that exactly what
Speaker 1: I thought they were going to say, like, well, the
Speaker 1: good girls. But I feel like with rap, when you
Speaker 1: look at artists like Kendrick and stuff, they're obviously not
Speaker 1: in like for the pussy, but then other rappers you're like,
Speaker 1: you're for the Yeah, this is that. This isn't a
Speaker 1: rap group, This isn't even a group that you could
Speaker 1: give credit to. But L L M F A L
Speaker 1: before they got before they got huge. Yeah, their hits there,
Speaker 1: you know, soul, like they just get to your soul. Um.
Speaker 1: I went to a concert of Theirs Get You because
Speaker 1: I go Um. I went to their concert when I
Speaker 1: was in college. I don't know how someone knew someone
Speaker 1: and but they no one knew who they were yet.
Speaker 1: They weren't big, they weren't they didn't have hits on
Speaker 1: the radio yet. But the show was pretty good. It
Speaker 1: was really high energy. There was a lot of chicks there.
Speaker 1: And then after the show, I was standing kind of
Speaker 1: towards the front of the stage. There's this dude that
Speaker 1: came out behind these like metal barriers and he goes
Speaker 1: you you you, you like picking all these girls and
Speaker 1: I was one of them with my friend. I had
Speaker 1: no idea what we were doing. He's like, come over
Speaker 1: this way. I'm like, oh, is it like a second
Speaker 1: secret show. I walk in the room. The guy is
Speaker 1: snorting coke off of a butt cheek, and I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm good, I'm gonna go back here. I'm like, this
Speaker 1: is what they do. That's crazy. I mean, after you
Speaker 1: have a big show and it goes well and everyone's
Speaker 1: freaking out and they're like yeah, all that, which is
Speaker 1: crazy to think about, but I guess you want to
Speaker 1: get bitches and do drugs after. But I mean, the
Speaker 1: thing is, I feel like a lot of people who
Speaker 1: get into it, they start experiencing all these things when
Speaker 1: they get into it, and it's like from I mean,
Speaker 1: for me, I've been making music, you know, writing and
Speaker 1: you know, living life long. You know, at a young age,
Speaker 1: I started experiencing you know, just life. So it was
Speaker 1: like I didn't have to get into music to get
Speaker 1: into other things, you know, parenting life, what you call
Speaker 1: having sex, like I mean, yeah, like you know I did.
Speaker 1: I did started having sex at a young age and
Speaker 1: like smoking weed at a young age, and like, you know,
Speaker 1: just you know, walking to school by myself in fifth grade,
Speaker 1: you know to me at the time, and it seemed crazy,
Speaker 1: but you know that like fifth grade, do you think
Speaker 1: kids walking by themselves to school? I mean, you know
Speaker 1: it's not it's not necessarily the safest thing to do,
Speaker 1: you know, in New York City, but I mean it
Speaker 1: was definitely something that you know, I just felt like
Speaker 1: in New York City, I mean, grow up, just not
Speaker 1: even intentionally, you just things happen around you where circumstances
Speaker 1: um you know, occur. So uh, you know, for me,
Speaker 1: I felt like music when I finally got to music
Speaker 1: where I was able to focus on it and try
Speaker 1: to make music. You know, to me, I'm not worried
Speaker 1: about all these other trinkets on the side, you know,
Speaker 1: like I make music because that's what the funk I
Speaker 1: want to do, is make dope music. And I think
Speaker 1: that also within my group is what we all feel
Speaker 1: when we make what we make. So you know, the
Speaker 1: other stuff, I mean, they can have all that, you know,
Speaker 1: if that's what they want, you know, and that's the energy.
Speaker 1: Like I kind of feel like I also put out
Speaker 1: at shows, like I want to have a good time,
Speaker 1: like you know, let's have a drink, to smoke whatever,
Speaker 1: it's chill. But you know, I don't put out energy
Speaker 1: like al right, who we're gonna go fu, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. Let's this an Why do you have
Speaker 1: to start using that voice if you want people to know?
Speaker 1: Because for me, that just alerted me, like vagina, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think the m X got a copy right on it,
Speaker 1: that specific voice. Don't give any one. What's your first
Speaker 1: sexual memory? You said you had you know a lot
Speaker 1: of experiences young, and what's your what do you want
Speaker 1: my first sexually? Man? Well, I guess if I mean
Speaker 1: the first time I had sex, you know, I was
Speaker 1: thirteen and uh it was junior high school and um
Speaker 1: it was scary ship but it was also pretty awesome.
Speaker 1: What are guys scared of? Was sex? Because I think
Speaker 1: girls are scared of obviously the pregnancy thing, but also
Speaker 1: like a dick is kind of scary when you haven't
Speaker 1: seen a lot yeah before, It's more like what possibly
Speaker 1: removing a rock from a cave that a dragon might
Speaker 1: be in? Yeah? Or yeah, yeah, yeah that was. That
Speaker 1: was way better than I was gonna say, lifting up
Speaker 1: a rock and seeing like a snake, but yeah, a
Speaker 1: dragon in a cave underneath it might be or might
Speaker 1: be a nice little worm that you want to hang
Speaker 1: out with you Yeah. Um no, I never really, I
Speaker 1: mean I wasn't. No, I had an experience where you know,
Speaker 1: it was it was very quick and uh yeah, it
Speaker 1: was very quick. I mean I was thirteen years old,
Speaker 1: so I had I think it was like a minute.
Speaker 1: That's pretty good. I mean, I mean it was amazing.
Speaker 1: It felt the best minute of your life. I had
Speaker 1: a few more minutes it was. It was. It was
Speaker 1: a really good minute. And you know, anyone who's been
Speaker 1: in that minute would know what I'm talking about. Who
Speaker 1: was your partner? Have to say no, no no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: just like she girlfriends thirteen year old girl was she
Speaker 1: two year oldman? She's a classman and nanny? Were you dating? Okay,
Speaker 1: we're boyfriend and girlfriends. How did it come up? How
Speaker 1: did that conversation? Like you want to are we ready
Speaker 1: of sex yet? You think we are? Do you remember that? Um? No,
Speaker 1: I mean I remember we both were just really horny.
Speaker 1: I think it was a half day. Yeah, it's always
Speaker 1: a half day. Yeah, it was a half day for
Speaker 1: me to half days and uh yeah, no it was.
Speaker 1: It was. It was very interesting. I mean it was
Speaker 1: amazing and interesting and how fast and like how it happened,
Speaker 1: you know, was it everything he thought of it? I
Speaker 1: mean I didn't know what it would be, so it
Speaker 1: was like it was more than anything I could have
Speaker 1: thought of. Did you kind of go into it just
Speaker 1: not doing anything? Didn't your friends talk about it? Or
Speaker 1: did your dad tell you anything about it? Not? Like
Speaker 1: not like okay, so you're gonna like go in and
Speaker 1: then you're gonna know it was I just it, you know, whatever,
Speaker 1: whatever it happened. I guess I knew. I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: I'm sure I've seen some porn at that point, so
Speaker 1: I understood what was happening. Um, but I just you know,
Speaker 1: it just kind of just went, you know, I went
Speaker 1: with the flow and everything seemed to work. A sex
Speaker 1: something that is important to you that you crave all
Speaker 1: the time, or is it something that's there but your
Speaker 1: desire to make music is stronger. Well, I know it's two.
Speaker 1: There's two different things because it's a form of expression
Speaker 1: with making music and putting out to the masses, and
Speaker 1: sexism obviously more intimate. Yeah, it's uh. I feel like
Speaker 1: sex is sex is very important. I feel like intimacy
Speaker 1: and passionate are equally as important as the sex. Like
Speaker 1: for me, I can't have sex with somebody who I'm
Speaker 1: not feeling passionate about. You know, it's just not like
Speaker 1: what's the point. Yeah, I don't really get that connection,
Speaker 1: Like I'm not Maybe I'm just not that free with
Speaker 1: my body. You know. That's how you like to use
Speaker 1: your dick. Yeah, I just don't like to throw it
Speaker 1: around and like see what happens, you know. Um So
Speaker 1: you know, I guess I'm a little more reserved in
Speaker 1: that regard, like to be a little bit more into it,
Speaker 1: like you know what I mean. But yeah, I I
Speaker 1: also you know, I don't know work is doing Work
Speaker 1: is important thing focused is important. Not that you know
Speaker 1: there's such thing as having too much sex or anything
Speaker 1: like that, but I don't know, it's just gotta just
Speaker 1: you know, I sex is awesome, so you know, find
Speaker 1: your back for the podcast, so you know, find your balance.
Speaker 1: I would say, you know, that's that's important. Got to say,
Speaker 1: you're you're knocking down all the stereotypes that I was
Speaker 1: hoping to challenge you on it with you about that
Speaker 1: to be a real jerky today on Guys we fucked.
Speaker 1: You're really delightful you had It's very it is. Have
Speaker 1: you just called me that ginger greenol? Have you ever
Speaker 1: select shamed a girl? See? This is the thing? Okay,
Speaker 1: oh here we go. Yeah. So, like you know, like
Speaker 1: I said, my mother you know, primarily raised me. I no, no, no,
Speaker 1: not that I know of. Maybe in her previous life.
Speaker 1: I don't know, knock on wood. But what I'm here today,
Speaker 1: so that's what matters. My brother is here today. Um,
Speaker 1: but no, like she raised us, and like she I've did,
Speaker 1: I think a pretty good job and like making sure
Speaker 1: that we respected women, liked like you know, the right
Speaker 1: idea of at least not even the approach, but just
Speaker 1: like the society. I don't know. I don't know where
Speaker 1: I got it from, because to me, it's like I
Speaker 1: was never the guy who was always just like, yo,
Speaker 1: you see that girl, right, Yeah, that's what I was
Speaker 1: hoping you would be. But you're realized. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say I haven't like looked at a
Speaker 1: girl's ass and been standing with somebody looked at girls
Speaker 1: like yeah, it's I mean, I think you know, at
Speaker 1: the end of the day, you can overthink things, you know,
Speaker 1: But I'm not one who's like out there trying to
Speaker 1: make it uncomfortable for women to walk around or like, Tha,
Speaker 1: that's so appreciative. You have friends that do that, that
Speaker 1: call girls. I've definitely seen. I've seen some calling for sure.
Speaker 1: Now when that happens that you're with, you're like hanging
Speaker 1: out with him? What do you do? There's no It
Speaker 1: depends on how inebriated I am, if you know, if
Speaker 1: I'm drunk, you know, and maybe I laugh more. But
Speaker 1: as long as it's you know, funny and on it
Speaker 1: not something that's really you know, kind of over the border,
Speaker 1: you know, over the border instead of over the line.
Speaker 1: Well that's start speaking Spanish Spanish. Yeah, I'm just I'm
Speaker 1: just yeah, just across the border. Like, what do you
Speaker 1: have any like do you remember anything your friends have
Speaker 1: said you have to name names? Right? That was out
Speaker 1: of line? Yeah, I don't know, I mean, not not
Speaker 1: specifically anything that anyone's ever said, like because as a woman,
Speaker 1: like it's kind of walking around like it's part of
Speaker 1: our daily lives. Not to say that it happens every day,
Speaker 1: but if you live in a city, a lot of
Speaker 1: times when you go outside it's like, oh, this is
Speaker 1: going to happen, or before you decide what to put on.
Speaker 1: It sounds silly. And I know a lot of women
Speaker 1: talk about it all the time, but that's because it
Speaker 1: happens all the time. So I'm just curious. Like one
Speaker 1: of the ways that I was thinking of that it
Speaker 1: could stop is like if dude's friends were like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't do that. Man, the girls don't like that
Speaker 1: because like we don't. Yeah no, Um, that's the only
Speaker 1: thing I could think of to help the pro Okay,
Speaker 1: that's good to know, and I think I'll pass that.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, like I said, it, like
Speaker 1: when when people are out drinking and not necessarily saying
Speaker 1: because I don't even drink that often. I mean I drink,
Speaker 1: you know, maybe now and then, but I don't drink
Speaker 1: that often. But you know, when people are out drinking,
Speaker 1: I feel like things are said a lot more freely
Speaker 1: and loosely, you know, and that goes both ways. I think,
Speaker 1: you know, you know, women and girls just as easily
Speaker 1: can say some crazy shit and then you know, but
Speaker 1: you know, as far as it goes as like the disrespectful, uncomfortable, unnecessary,
Speaker 1: really type stuff, you know, I don't know if it's
Speaker 1: an insecurity thing from the guy the guy like it's right.
Speaker 1: I mean, that's what I think because the way a
Speaker 1: girl would fuck you if you give me a pussy,
Speaker 1: there might be a girl who might That's why they
Speaker 1: do it. And I don't know because this is this
Speaker 1: historical yet, you know what I mean, like one out
Speaker 1: of you know, fifty nine sixty nine girls did it.
Speaker 1: You know, I was going to say thousand, but that
Speaker 1: one out of a million, one out of a million,
Speaker 1: like you know, like Jim Carrey said, you're telling me
Speaker 1: there's a chance we'll see you guys cat call and
Speaker 1: hopes to funk, just like I played a lottery. I
Speaker 1: could have. I could, it could happen. Someone's going to
Speaker 1: win it. Yeah you got why not me? You gotta
Speaker 1: be into twinnes. So I guess you got a cat
Speaker 1: call and maybe get fused. Yeah right, I mean what
Speaker 1: if they actually I mean I guess they do me. No, right,
Speaker 1: that's why they call it catcol I mean to me,
Speaker 1: and no one's ever but people have gone like that, well,
Speaker 1: you're calling an animal. It's a squirrel call. Is that
Speaker 1: I've never squirreled? Next time, squirrel? I've never called a scorel.
Speaker 1: I never called a squirrel. No, but I'll call a
Speaker 1: dog like that too, Like, oh yeah, don't listen to that. No,
Speaker 1: but squirrels actually make that noise. That's like the noise
Speaker 1: they make when they're eating acorns, when they're eating acorns
Speaker 1: or walnuts. But still like, doll, I'm not a squirrel, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1: Don't go you know, because at the second I hear that,
Speaker 1: even if I'm like looking down, I'm like you fucking prick,
Speaker 1: and I look around the coast doing it. Sometimes they're
Speaker 1: not talking to me like alright, sorry, but then a
Speaker 1: lot of times they are, I'm like, funk, I'm not
Speaker 1: make it pussy crawling to itself like a snail, like
Speaker 1: just just heads up to everyone tur going into a shell.
Speaker 1: You know, you gotta you gotta tone down the calling,
Speaker 1: the calling, you know, just speak politely. What would you
Speaker 1: rather have them say? Nothing? Nothing on the streets? I mean,
Speaker 1: I mean if someone I guess there is that instance
Speaker 1: where like you couldn't seen someone who you truly think
Speaker 1: is like you are destined to be with. But that's
Speaker 1: not happening every block. But don't also you think though
Speaker 1: that we need to switch it around, not switch it around,
Speaker 1: but it needs more encourage more women to approach guys.
Speaker 1: I'm totally with that. I that should happen, like guys
Speaker 1: should feel sexy, like that's a that's a good thing,
Speaker 1: that's an insecurity thing. I mean, that's why guys don't
Speaker 1: get hit on like that. So they feel like they
Speaker 1: have to go extra to get some kind of a
Speaker 1: reaction or something, you know, because when else are they
Speaker 1: going to get the reaction? But that's why they have
Speaker 1: an entire dance in high school dedicated to the girl
Speaker 1: asking a guy out, because it never happens. But I
Speaker 1: feel like if because like girls Sadie Hawkins. My high
Speaker 1: school never did it because no one would have gone.
Speaker 1: But I feel like, yeah, yeah, but uh but I
Speaker 1: think like men don't feel sexy. Do you feel sexy ever,
Speaker 1: because women certainly do? But do I feel sexy? Yeah?
Speaker 1: What I'm doing comedy, I don't feel sexy, but I
Speaker 1: feel telling me you know, you know, for me, this
Speaker 1: is this is okay. I grew up always thinking like
Speaker 1: I never really thought about looks, like how I looked
Speaker 1: other than like, you know, I was me. You know,
Speaker 1: I thought, like, you know, being good at different things
Speaker 1: was going to be what got me somewhere, you know,
Speaker 1: And that's how I think it's still you know, should be.
Speaker 1: You know what you do it is kind of for men,
Speaker 1: it is it is, it is, it is, it is.
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean unless you're like stupid attractive and
Speaker 1: then it's distractive. Yeah, and then yeah, I guess it's
Speaker 1: like one of those things that you just can't get anywhere,
Speaker 1: and like that's if that's what's going on. But you know,
Speaker 1: I don't know, like you know, I think as I've
Speaker 1: gotten older, I've definitely embraced you know, myself, you know,
Speaker 1: more as far as just like how the world kind
Speaker 1: of reacts to me or like, you know, Um, when
Speaker 1: I was younger, I didn't really acknowledge or recognize it,
Speaker 1: you know. I was so like here and well, that's
Speaker 1: why children are pure and adults are monsters. So yeah,
Speaker 1: and that's a lot of times you don't really seem
Speaker 1: like very nice monster. And that's why though more women
Speaker 1: go into sex work though, I think too, because they
Speaker 1: realize that their bodies are currency. Are there the women's
Speaker 1: looks are their currency. As as much as that sucks,
Speaker 1: I feel like that's really true because if someone's attracted you,
Speaker 1: they're going to hire you for the job. You're more
Speaker 1: likely they're gonna hired for something. People are gonna be
Speaker 1: nicer to you when you're a woman. When you're a man,
Speaker 1: probably too. But with women, god damn, you get treated
Speaker 1: so differently based on how look is so annoying. I mean, like, wow,
Speaker 1: if we didn't care about that, what would I have
Speaker 1: been in my life? Would I have been a mathematician
Speaker 1: but still do some mathematics? Um, yeah, I don't know
Speaker 1: what that is. I mean, that's something that's been in
Speaker 1: place in society, and you know, like for I mean,
Speaker 1: there's so many things that society is still trying to
Speaker 1: think break out of UM and that being one is
Speaker 1: this mentality that you know, women have to be treated
Speaker 1: a certain way in the workplace or any you know,
Speaker 1: anywhere and just walking down the street, you know, and
Speaker 1: you know, guys, maybe they just haven't evolved enough to
Speaker 1: like mentally think about you know, how am I doing
Speaker 1: this right now? Like maybe they can reflect on it later,
Speaker 1: but you know, you gotta be able to just kind
Speaker 1: of apply it as you go. Do women hit on you?
Speaker 1: I feel like they would. I mean I feel like
Speaker 1: I give off unless you talk to me, Like I
Speaker 1: get listen where I work, you know, I work where
Speaker 1: there's a lot of people who you know, we've got
Speaker 1: a very popular grocery store, Trader Joe's. Shout out to them, Oh,
Speaker 1: I can see you working at Trader Joe. Yeah, when
Speaker 1: I saw those glasses, Yeah, in the building, shout out
Speaker 1: to them working hard over there, that discount, Yeah, the
Speaker 1: Trader that's right. They are actually um. But you know,
Speaker 1: I feel like they're where I'm like exposed. And I
Speaker 1: say exposed just because there's a lot of people there
Speaker 1: and there's customer service discuss there's all this I feel
Speaker 1: so naked up here at this cash registered No, it's
Speaker 1: it's you know, I feel like I can't I can't
Speaker 1: walk away from any You're behind that wooden cabinet to
Speaker 1: be there and like the guy with the paddle. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm the guy with the paddle. Oh yeah, dictator, Um,
Speaker 1: that's me too. We do everything over. What kind of
Speaker 1: shirt do you wear? There is the red one put
Speaker 1: the flowers out. I wear whatever color shirt you know
Speaker 1: I have ready to go? Yeah, I don't wear like
Speaker 1: the flower shirts. Perfect. Do women hit on you when
Speaker 1: you're a trader? Joe's I get. I get a lot
Speaker 1: of different things over there. Let's hear them. No, I
Speaker 1: mean I would say like a lot of like um,
Speaker 1: I would say women who don't have hair and like
Speaker 1: so cancer patients no, no, no, older well definitely like
Speaker 1: like like fucking amber Rose chicks. It's I would say,
Speaker 1: like for instance, like yeah, there'd be older women who
Speaker 1: are in there, and I mean older, like you know,
Speaker 1: older women like not grandmother ages. Yeah, your hair is
Speaker 1: so nice and it's like really annoying because you know,
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna get this. This annoys the hell out
Speaker 1: of me, But I keep my hair up in the
Speaker 1: bun because if I put it down, it would be
Speaker 1: a whole another level of just wait, you know, it
Speaker 1: would just be too much for me to deal with.
Speaker 1: I think, I think like they like like society couldn't
Speaker 1: handle it and it would be five minutes. Is that
Speaker 1: the guy from Beauty in the Base Society is really
Speaker 1: what it is? Like I'm not ready for that. Like,
Speaker 1: you know, when I make music and I can control
Speaker 1: my surroundings and what I'm doing, like, I feel much
Speaker 1: more comfortable. Like fully, like you know, recently, I've just
Speaker 1: gotten real comfortable with not wearing my glasses all the time,
Speaker 1: you know, like I just you know, are kind of
Speaker 1: like a shield. Yeah, but honestly, you know what in
Speaker 1: reverse from that is the glasses and they are like
Speaker 1: a shield. Um. But like what I've noticed is because
Speaker 1: I am kind of blind a little bit in my
Speaker 1: left eye, uh, it creates a much more of a
Speaker 1: like I have blinders on kind of so I can
Speaker 1: like kind of be more present here than like always
Speaker 1: being all over the place with like you know, just
Speaker 1: looks or energies or anything like that. I can just
Speaker 1: be um. But yeah, so it's it's interesting. So you
Speaker 1: get old ladies loving your hair? Do you get any
Speaker 1: like younger? Like, No, I don't get that. I don't
Speaker 1: get that. Um, I've had a couple, Like, I don't
Speaker 1: put the energy out there like that, Like I think
Speaker 1: I have like a very like that's why I would
Speaker 1: think girls would want to fuck you and hit on
Speaker 1: you in public. No, I don't know. I mean maybe
Speaker 1: not just noticed. You're just not noticing it because a
Speaker 1: lot of guys are oblivious to that ship maybe. I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm sure there's there's a lot of
Speaker 1: eyes out there, you know, Like eyes are like constantly
Speaker 1: you know, so there's a lot of eyes out there.
Speaker 1: But like you know, I'm like, I don't necessarily, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm not looking for that kind of thing, so like
Speaker 1: to be just walked up on, even though you know,
Speaker 1: maybe that would be nice, you know, but hey, do
Speaker 1: you have a girlfriend right now? I am out of
Speaker 1: a relationship that I was in for a while and
Speaker 1: it's still kind of gray area for me. But um, yeah,
Speaker 1: like fizzling out. It's it's just it's more it's kind
Speaker 1: of a psychological thing and like you know, just trying
Speaker 1: to Uh. No, I definitely miss her. But you know,
Speaker 1: it's one of those things where I had to kind
Speaker 1: of get some space in my head to think, you know,
Speaker 1: and it's it's been going right though, as far as
Speaker 1: clearing my head a little bit. I went upstate this
Speaker 1: weekend and spent three days just kind of up in
Speaker 1: the woods and uh, it was just me, the birds
Speaker 1: and silence, and it was just sleep in the woods. No. No,
Speaker 1: I was in the house. I was in the house.
Speaker 1: Uh not only imagining a bird building a nest. Try
Speaker 1: to that, Actually a couple of bees try to build
Speaker 1: a high um. But no, yeah, not. My mother has
Speaker 1: a house up there. So I was able to kind
Speaker 1: of get away real quick and just get to time
Speaker 1: and take it to time out. You know, sometimes you
Speaker 1: need to take a time out for sure. And then
Speaker 1: what other things like are part of like your breakup
Speaker 1: process as a man. I'm always interested in like a
Speaker 1: man's break up. It's kind of crazy because right now
Speaker 1: to even talk about it is this kind of interesting
Speaker 1: to know that we're talking about this on the air.
Speaker 1: But it's the breakup process. I don't know. I it's tough, man.
Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like, you know, I'm still not
Speaker 1: exactly like you know, I feel like where I was
Speaker 1: at the time when we were doing you know, I'm
Speaker 1: feeling like we gotta take a break, I gotta break up.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm trying to do what's best for me,
Speaker 1: you know, and look out for me, and like, you know,
Speaker 1: but as you take time and you you know, you
Speaker 1: get space and you you know, you you have time
Speaker 1: to reflect and evaluate, you know, you don't know, you know,
Speaker 1: and things are always like maybe I made a mistake
Speaker 1: or maybe we should be the other. I mean yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean you just think just what am I doing exactly?
Speaker 1: You know, you got to think about this ship like
Speaker 1: it's you know, it's a serious relationship. You gotta think,
Speaker 1: you know, um, you know, what are you gonna continue
Speaker 1: to do and how are you gonna do it? And
Speaker 1: you know I don't And then I still haven't, Like emotionally,
Speaker 1: are you hurt? I mean no, I feel like before
Speaker 1: we even broke up, I was going through like some emotions,
Speaker 1: you know, like it was it was tough even because
Speaker 1: it was like I don't know, I didn't know. I
Speaker 1: thought for a while, you know, I thought we were
Speaker 1: gonna go go keep doing this and the relationship and
Speaker 1: you know, and she and she was down, you know,
Speaker 1: she was down, but it was, um, you know, there's
Speaker 1: just some things that support wise that I felt like
Speaker 1: we're a little off and you know, things got weird,
Speaker 1: you know, just between some of the chemistry and you know,
Speaker 1: I needed to take a break to really reevaluate myself
Speaker 1: and like what I'm trying to do um with my
Speaker 1: life and um, you know, and I think as you're
Speaker 1: doing that, you know, get him emotional. I know she
Speaker 1: definitely was very emotional about it. Yeah, Um, did you cry? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: because you're a man and you feel and you don't.
Speaker 1: The only time I love a cry as family, I
Speaker 1: love that's it. I mean, you know, if I get hurt,
Speaker 1: you know I don't. I'm not gonna cry some from
Speaker 1: some physical pain unless it's like in the gut physical pain. Well,
Speaker 1: obviously you've never been shocked. I have not been shot,
Speaker 1: so I can't say that. What kind of a rapper
Speaker 1: are you? Yeah? This is bullshit, But thankfully now it's
Speaker 1: so interesting to me. So you're you're you're the nicest
Speaker 1: I'm going to say, you're the nicest rapper that ever lived.
Speaker 1: And you're very respectful. So it's like, ah, this is
Speaker 1: this is totally ruined my reputation. This is great though.
Speaker 1: I think I think it's great because you know, we
Speaker 1: we we expected you this great. We expect you to
Speaker 1: walk in and be a real woman, hating asshole about that.
Speaker 1: I want to talk about hip hop culture and the
Speaker 1: treatment of women and the depiction of women and all
Speaker 1: it's it's it's not it's not a great place for women.
Speaker 1: So how is someone who like you, who's super respectful
Speaker 1: and you know, well, how is what are your thoughts
Speaker 1: on this, let's get into it. Are you saying from
Speaker 1: like just how you know, how they portrayed in music
Speaker 1: videos and how they've spoken about like I mean, I
Speaker 1: think how they regard women sometimes. Like I was, I
Speaker 1: was a kid going like I like them young fresh
Speaker 1: and green with mohand between what I mean, I was
Speaker 1: sucking rapping the Biggie songs as a kid, and I
Speaker 1: was like, I don't know, I didn't have time know
Speaker 1: what it means. And then I listened back, I'm like, funk,
Speaker 1: I love that track. But that's what Yeah, it's like
Speaker 1: a ton of sexual objectification, just you know, like women
Speaker 1: or people who suck your dick real good. Every rapper
Speaker 1: has eight women, you know this and this is not
Speaker 1: all rap, of course, but I think, you know, it's
Speaker 1: something that is definitely associated with hip hop culture. And
Speaker 1: a woman is a prop and a lot of the
Speaker 1: rap songs sometimes they're not. Sometimes they're like this fucking
Speaker 1: goddess is sometimes but it seems to be there's no
Speaker 1: middle ground. They're either like this this ass that I fuck,
Speaker 1: or that's around to make me feel good or you know,
Speaker 1: give you some validation doing something with your life. Um,
Speaker 1: I don't know, you know, I think and at least
Speaker 1: from what I experienced and saw, you know, early on
Speaker 1: early nineties and you know, late eighties when you know,
Speaker 1: R and B and hip hop were like kind of
Speaker 1: two different things. You know. R and B was always
Speaker 1: very like into you know, glorifying the woman and you know,
Speaker 1: very sensual and like, you know, appreciating the woman like
Speaker 1: that was like, you know, and hip hop was more
Speaker 1: on the conscious, like let me talk about something like
Speaker 1: maybe you might throw in something about a girl here
Speaker 1: and there, but it's like what was going around Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you're talking about what's going on around you. It's not
Speaker 1: as much like, oh, you know, from the window to
Speaker 1: the wall ski ski skiing, you know, like it's not
Speaker 1: I mean, so I think and I'm not I don't
Speaker 1: want to be like yeah exactly, I get you need
Speaker 1: something to like stand to in the club. I think
Speaker 1: they marketed it, you know, like I think the industry
Speaker 1: was like listen, sex cells, drug cells, you know, violence
Speaker 1: and hip hop's case cells. Let's make music popular with
Speaker 1: this message, you know, because at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, as somebody who appreciates conscious rap,
Speaker 1: you know, they didn't want a bunch of people who
Speaker 1: were smart and intelligent speaking truths on the mic and
Speaker 1: reaching the masses, you know, and that because scares the
Speaker 1: hell out of you know, and uh, you know, in
Speaker 1: the industry run by the dollar, you know, they sell
Speaker 1: what they want to sell, you know. And the message
Speaker 1: I think changed a little bit and it went through
Speaker 1: some stages. And now I mean you got artists now
Speaker 1: kind of do the you know, like like Drake, you know,
Speaker 1: to name one guy who recently put out a song.
Speaker 1: You know, he he has some songs that touch touch home,
Speaker 1: like about some real personal like you know, relationships stuff.
Speaker 1: But then he also has some music that you know,
Speaker 1: it's a little bit more on. You know, it's just
Speaker 1: hotline bling if you like, look at the lyrics. There's
Speaker 1: some girl who posted on her Facebook that went viral
Speaker 1: about basically she was reinterpreting the words as he said,
Speaker 1: and if you actually think of the song and you
Speaker 1: look at the read the lyrics, you're like, oh, he
Speaker 1: moved away, and he's mad that she's still getting dick.
Speaker 1: He's like a controlling maniac. And when that girl wrote
Speaker 1: the post, I was like, oh, fuck, yeah, no, totally,
Speaker 1: God damn it, because that's a problem with I think
Speaker 1: a lot of hip hop is so fucking catchy that
Speaker 1: you can just find yourself and then you're like, what
Speaker 1: just came out about? What did I say? What did
Speaker 1: I just say? But then people like Kendrick like backseat
Speaker 1: Freestyle that video. There was a fucking to a minute
Speaker 1: of that video. He was sitting, he was standing outside
Speaker 1: of a car and this fucking hot chick, this hip
Speaker 1: hop video girl was trking for a whole minute and
Speaker 1: he was just standing next to it. And but to me,
Speaker 1: I was like, this beautiful, Like I don't know it
Speaker 1: was the way he did it because and his and
Speaker 1: his songs are about something way beyond just like get
Speaker 1: posting this. So when he does it, I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: that's fucking art. Shut up everybody. But I don't know.
Speaker 1: But then when someone like like um, the Yan Yang
Speaker 1: Twins sing a song, I'm like, yeah, shut the funk up.
Speaker 1: Yeah it's it's um. I guess it's presentation too, you know,
Speaker 1: because you know, you know, Kendrick isn't about that. You know,
Speaker 1: that's not what he's about. So if he includes it
Speaker 1: in his presentation, you know it's done deliberately with a purpose.
Speaker 1: You know. It wasn't just Yeah, it felt like, you know,
Speaker 1: like it was there with a point to be artistic,
Speaker 1: whatever his point was. You know, it was there for
Speaker 1: a reason. I think a lot of artists like, I mean,
Speaker 1: we have a video that we shot, you know, several
Speaker 1: years back, but we hired uh, you know, an actress
Speaker 1: or actor to come over. Is it is it politically
Speaker 1: correct to say actor? I can say actor for anyone.
Speaker 1: So we had an actor come over and and she
Speaker 1: you know, we paid her. I think it was like
Speaker 1: a hundred dollars to be in the video, just to
Speaker 1: be in the video. Like she didn't do anything except
Speaker 1: just like ben extra in the video, and you know,
Speaker 1: she didn't know, she didn't do anything, even like she
Speaker 1: literally stood there and just like kind of like moved
Speaker 1: and it was like at the time, you know, we
Speaker 1: kind of did it last minute to make a video happened.
Speaker 1: It was like was it even necessary to do that?
Speaker 1: You know, we lunch, That was lunch for the crew
Speaker 1: right there, fall offuls down the street. But did you
Speaker 1: what was the casting call? Like, no, not girl, No,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think my boy just like went
Speaker 1: on Craigslist or something and just was like, need need
Speaker 1: someone for a music video or something that. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think it was. I think it's just that well, I mean,
Speaker 1: surely you took a look at the photos and made
Speaker 1: sure that she was not try I did. Yes, I
Speaker 1: hope he didn't. I didn't, you know, I didn't wasn't
Speaker 1: in charge of that that process. So I hope there
Speaker 1: was some screening involved and it worked out all right.
Speaker 1: I mean I guess it was. Yeah, whoever applies, you know,
Speaker 1: first respond. But it's weird though, because when women are
Speaker 1: objectifying rap videos, and sometimes I've seen it like the
Speaker 1: in the Kendrick video that I'm like, that's beautiful, and
Speaker 1: then I'll see it again Yang Twins video. I'm like,
Speaker 1: that's discussing. And then Nicki Minage will just do it herself.
Speaker 1: I'm like, she's in control, that's okay. But then I'm
Speaker 1: kind of like, I don't know, or is the industry.
Speaker 1: I mean, it has to be. It's all we are
Speaker 1: coner so I don't know, like the heads up at
Speaker 1: the labels, who knows who knows? He's in control? You
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Everything we do is all independent
Speaker 1: and out of out of the house. You don't have
Speaker 1: a label like where you going, No, just d XA
Speaker 1: records are a labeled and who I mean they people
Speaker 1: who you see doing stuff. I mean there's very few
Speaker 1: independent artists who you actually see doing what they do.
Speaker 1: You know, everyone has somebody dictating, you know, what their
Speaker 1: messages not. You know, I'm not gonna say everybody, but
Speaker 1: like you know, artists a lot of time will do
Speaker 1: what they gotta do to sell, you know, and you
Speaker 1: know they have texts why we have songs like I
Speaker 1: know that makes me want to work, It makes me
Speaker 1: want to just yeah, well, what's your message if you could?
Speaker 1: I don't know what explained to the children your message.
Speaker 1: I feel like my message is just trying to do
Speaker 1: your best. You know whatever you do, and you know
Speaker 1: because best rhymes with a lot of things. Or yeah,
Speaker 1: best is better than the rest, perfexactly while we nailed it.
Speaker 1: Are you going to at freestyling? I can flow a
Speaker 1: little bit. Can you make a rap about Karen and
Speaker 1: I real quick? A rat right now? Yeah, we can
Speaker 1: tell you some facts. Yeah we're about guys we fucked. Okay,
Speaker 1: give me some facts. I'm quirky and positive and naive.
Speaker 1: Karin loves uh like a real life vampire. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: like taking picture of her, but like, take you fish
Speaker 1: from my butt? More realistic, I will say, Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't want to say whimsical for sure. I'm like a
Speaker 1: child forever. Like if I could wear two too, I
Speaker 1: would every day, every day, and a smiling, smiling and
Speaker 1: whiling I wish you had a unicorn since you was born,
Speaker 1: since two in the morning, even on your knees, praying,
Speaker 1: naive every day and bums on the street asking for change.
Speaker 1: More realistic. Here still passing the strange greenery to the right. No,
Speaker 1: no smoke in the building, but I'm here, sorry about
Speaker 1: last night and we all chilling. Here's one for the children. Uh,
Speaker 1: don't piece off the mind spilling whatever is willing, you know,
Speaker 1: the microphone killing. What's the feeling we talked about my breakup.
Speaker 1: Had to drop a few lines just for a quick
Speaker 1: shake up upstairs downstairs? What kind of hair does he have?
Speaker 1: Blond hair, brown hair? I don't know, but not from
Speaker 1: around here. More like the lower East flowers beasts don't
Speaker 1: peace represent the older beasts that I was, well, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be uh whatever represent four Willoughby Brooklyn, good looking,
Speaker 1: kind of handsome, stands six ft tall. Don't got a grandson,
Speaker 1: not even a son, or a couple of grandson. Maybe
Speaker 1: a couple of grandson whatever, damn son, you've got a
Speaker 1: couple of grand I'm six falk, not six one, not
Speaker 1: five eleven. Thanks for clarifying that. Yeah, I just had
Speaker 1: to make sure that was understood, not overstood. Oh ship,
Speaker 1: Now do you get in the zone like when I
Speaker 1: get on when I'm done with a comedy show, Like
Speaker 1: when you're in a relationship, you know, I do a comment, sy'all,
Speaker 1: like do a roast ban or something. I'll come home
Speaker 1: and I'll just like start making fun of Stephen, my boyfriend.
Speaker 1: I'm like oh sorry, I'm telling the zone. Do you
Speaker 1: get like that with your girlfriend or your people whoever
Speaker 1: lives with you, Like you just started talking, I'll tell
Speaker 1: you to get the funk out of his zone. If
Speaker 1: I'm in the zone, then one like I mean, if
Speaker 1: I'm really in the zone, then it's like, yeah, I
Speaker 1: gotta be in the zone. Don't bother to me. But
Speaker 1: you know, but do you ever get stuck like when
Speaker 1: you're talking to people, like when you're at when you're
Speaker 1: at a deli, you're like, yo, man, give me coffee, man,
Speaker 1: because I gotta do a brand stand for my man. Man.
Speaker 1: I don't know. That's good? That was dope. Um. I
Speaker 1: you know, at work sometimes I bust a little rhyme.
Speaker 1: My brother used to do that all the time. Are
Speaker 1: you're doing it right now? Yeah? I did? Like Yo,
Speaker 1: the chocolate, nice nice selection selection paper a plastic You know,
Speaker 1: we reckon all the dumps in the ocean because that's
Speaker 1: where the trash goes. I'm gonna stop. That's that's the
Speaker 1: fat flows though, fatos. I think, Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Sometimes the zone just you know, I've seen the zone
Speaker 1: up here, you know, whether I'm saying it out loud,
Speaker 1: like I'll be forehead my forehead with my temple, temple,
Speaker 1: and uh, I try to keep the zone up here
Speaker 1: so that you know, if I have to wrap, you know,
Speaker 1: on the spot. So it seems like if we're in
Speaker 1: if almost a relationship with you, it might be it
Speaker 1: might be difficult as a women don't like being told
Speaker 1: to get out of those zolt oh if you get
Speaker 1: if you tell me to get out of my zone,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get so much farther in your zone. But
Speaker 1: if you're in my zone, I would be like, please
Speaker 1: leave my zone. My zone is very bloody right now.
Speaker 1: It's very bloody zone, stark and bloody like my stool. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well there's still trying to wrap. It's fun. It's hard
Speaker 1: to stop. It's hard to stop. It is really hard
Speaker 1: to stop. Um no, yeah, I mean, like, can you
Speaker 1: ever tell a girl like when you're on the couch
Speaker 1: and you're trying to think of it, it's like, can
Speaker 1: you stop talking? Not because if we're sitting on the couch,
Speaker 1: you're and I'm in the zone, you know, in the zone,
Speaker 1: so so they know not even mess with your zone.
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean it's it's a mutual it's a
Speaker 1: mutual understanding agreement, you know. I mean the fact that
Speaker 1: I would be willing to sit there next to you
Speaker 1: on the couch in my zone is you know, I
Speaker 1: feel intimate. Yeah, it's like exactly, it's more intimate than
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm I'm I guess. I mean for anybody
Speaker 1: who's in the zone and they're like it's them and
Speaker 1: what they're doing, you know, for anyone to have somebody else,
Speaker 1: they're kind of able to give it a look over.
Speaker 1: Not that they are, but like, you know, just that
Speaker 1: kind of like comfort level to be you know, you're
Speaker 1: here and you're part of this experience of what I'm doing,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like, I think that's pretty
Speaker 1: you know, well, relationships make you vulnerable, and then the
Speaker 1: artistic process and also makes you vulnerable. So to kind
Speaker 1: of combine those two things is the ultimate vulnerability. And
Speaker 1: it's like very difficult to let someone. It's also hard,
Speaker 1: I feel like with art, like because if you like
Speaker 1: someone in your a relationship with them and then you
Speaker 1: let them into your art and they don't like your
Speaker 1: art or you don't like you know, that's the you
Speaker 1: don't like their art. That can you fuck someone or
Speaker 1: have sex with them if you don't have any artistic
Speaker 1: respect for them, I'm obviously they have to be in
Speaker 1: the art field because if they're not, then that's not
Speaker 1: even a question. Um. I mean I think, you know,
Speaker 1: I think being creative. I mean, you know, I don't
Speaker 1: know if if you have to be an artist is
Speaker 1: a credential, but you know what I mean, Like for you,
Speaker 1: it's not like you don't you don't usually gravitate, show
Speaker 1: me a painting, yeah, let me see if skills No,
Speaker 1: But you know, I think having the intelligence to be
Speaker 1: creative and think out of the box and to you know,
Speaker 1: be ambitious. You know, it's definitely you know, qualities that
Speaker 1: you need to you know, have a display to be
Speaker 1: you know interesting. Yeah, I mean do you ever take
Speaker 1: that into the bedroom with sex? And like, do you
Speaker 1: because I know people I've met, people I've been with
Speaker 1: people that they sex to U it's important that sex
Speaker 1: is adventurous, not all the time, but like it's just
Speaker 1: it's an experience, it's intimate. They need to really be
Speaker 1: into the person. And so do you, like, do you
Speaker 1: ever have times where you're like, I want to improve
Speaker 1: my sex life by trying something new? With somebody or
Speaker 1: spicing it up or is it kind of you get
Speaker 1: on top again, Like, how do you spice up? Or
Speaker 1: how do you see? That's a good question. I don't.
Speaker 1: I mean, that's I feel like passion. You know, there's
Speaker 1: got to be you know, there's got to be something
Speaker 1: that you know. Yeah, I don't know exactly how you
Speaker 1: do it, you know what I mean? But you with
Speaker 1: your eyes white? Yeah, I love you. I like the
Speaker 1: idea of, you know, freedom to have sex, like when
Speaker 1: I want to have it, you know, if I want
Speaker 1: to have it, when I want to have it. So
Speaker 1: not rape, no, not rape no. No. Obviously it has
Speaker 1: to be, but it has to be everyone has to
Speaker 1: know what's going on. It's gotta be consensual both parties,
Speaker 1: both parties are interested in experience. That's always good. What's
Speaker 1: the kinkiest thing you've ever done? Oh? Man, kinkiest thing
Speaker 1: I've ever done? I mean, for you, I've had sex
Speaker 1: on the beach, um, you know, sex in the woods,
Speaker 1: um in the woods, or in the house in the
Speaker 1: woods in the woods. Damn Um, that sounds crunchy. I've
Speaker 1: had sex on the roof of buildings and the staircase,
Speaker 1: you know, I mean, we're more of a location s guy.
Speaker 1: I like, like the photographer. I mean, this is like,
Speaker 1: you know, my life like in my in my in
Speaker 1: my you know, last relationship, you know, it was it
Speaker 1: was more centered around you know, the bedroom and more,
Speaker 1: you know, and it was something I had to adjust
Speaker 1: to at least mentally and like kind of just you know,
Speaker 1: and I will say, like it was, you know, it
Speaker 1: was something I had to get acclimated to the idea of,
Speaker 1: like you know, maybe I I'm not going to be
Speaker 1: able to you know when when I am feeling the
Speaker 1: urge expressed myself, like I'm feeling this way because it
Speaker 1: probably won't be reciprocated in the same way. Did she
Speaker 1: not like having sex and stairwells? Is that reasonings that? Well, no,
Speaker 1: that's that's an old experience. That's what I mean. I
Speaker 1: don't need to have sex and stairwells. I'm just saying, like,
Speaker 1: you know, not that the bedroom is anything wrong with
Speaker 1: the bedroom, Like you know, I think I appreciate. I
Speaker 1: appreciate the bedroom, you know what I mean a lot,
Speaker 1: but to me, you know, sometimes you know, you might
Speaker 1: just feel horny, yeah, you know, and like you know,
Speaker 1: and she would like make you wait until you were
Speaker 1: not in public, and you resent at that. I didn't
Speaker 1: make a long, long side no, because it's it's not
Speaker 1: right for me to feel like I was than that.
Speaker 1: It's not. That's not the case because I gotta respect
Speaker 1: and you know, respect what she wants, you know, And
Speaker 1: it's not like I can be like you're wrong for
Speaker 1: not feeling that Peah, was there sexual compatibility? Uh? Yeah,
Speaker 1: there was, um for sure. You know. I think it
Speaker 1: was something that you know, kind of when you know,
Speaker 1: it's an adjustment any time, Yeah, any and any You know,
Speaker 1: when you have different partners in life, you know there's
Speaker 1: adjustment every time. You know. So it's like most like
Speaker 1: you forget how to have sex. Yeah, well you just gotta,
Speaker 1: you know, you gotta. You gotta see what the approach
Speaker 1: is like and you know you're going to stick the
Speaker 1: landing and I can make sure that the flight is
Speaker 1: comfortable and it isn't too bumpy unless it's not yea
Speaker 1: Spirit Airlines, man, she right, they don't even recline. Oh man,
Speaker 1: it's so bad. But all the money goes into the baggage. Well,
Speaker 1: you know, we're all truly starving artists. Spirit airlines. We're
Speaker 1: all familiar. I'll watch has never flown spirit in your line?
Speaker 1: Like they're of spirit. Um. Do you have a sexual
Speaker 1: fantasy that you want to do? See? That's the thing
Speaker 1: that's that's like what kind of I'm talking about, Like fantasy,
Speaker 1: like sexual Like to me, the ability or in the
Speaker 1: situational ability to like okay, are we feeling this right now?
Speaker 1: Let's you know, go, that's part of the fantasy. Like
Speaker 1: to me, like I want to feel like you know,
Speaker 1: the fantasy you can happen at any time, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, like if you know the time is right? Um,
Speaker 1: you know. So to me, you know, I never really
Speaker 1: thought like, oh, you know, I want to you know,
Speaker 1: go to the moon and take you know, take a
Speaker 1: rocket ship to Pluto and you know that's very expensive.
Speaker 1: That's a fantasy though, right, Like that's a fantasy. Your
Speaker 1: fantasies are not achievable. Yeah you have? Do you have?
Speaker 1: Well that's good though, I think you're you're dreamer. Do
Speaker 1: you have not the only one I've heard that somewhere fun? Um,
Speaker 1: do you have any sexual fantasies that are like able
Speaker 1: to carry out that you're like I've always wanted to
Speaker 1: have sex on the dance floor, or I want the
Speaker 1: girl to wear a leather fucking shrap on, or I
Speaker 1: wanted an address that's kind of like a school girl.
Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm just pulling stuff out of my ass,
Speaker 1: but or I want I want to pull stuff out
Speaker 1: of my ass. I don't know. Yeah, No, I mean
Speaker 1: that's a fantasy's pulling stuff out, you know, doing anal beads.
Speaker 1: These are easily achievable fantasy. Now we went aay, any
Speaker 1: other we go to store down the block. No, um,
Speaker 1: I don't. Uh, you know, like I think some of
Speaker 1: my experiences in life already, I mean I've never had
Speaker 1: it three soon, you know, like, do you want to U? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I'm not saying I don't. Yeah, I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna sit here and me like, you know, I wouldn't
Speaker 1: love to hook o with two girls at the same time.
Speaker 1: That would be fucking on. But you know, I'm not
Speaker 1: sitting here like, God, if I die without having a
Speaker 1: three ciping, you know, I'm failed. Well, how about a
Speaker 1: dude and a girl in a threesome? I'm not really
Speaker 1: interested in that. Seemingly across the board that we get
Speaker 1: the girls are very interested. I'm not really I mean
Speaker 1: to me, it doesn't mean you like to no, no, no, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm just I mean I feel if that was to happen,
Speaker 1: it would have to be a crazy fucking situation. And
Speaker 1: you know, at this point in my life, I'm not
Speaker 1: like no, no, no, that does not cheese. I feel
Speaker 1: like to me, I like, I like pleasing, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, Like I don't want distractions, you know,
Speaker 1: if it's I don't know, and and even that's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like even if there was two girls, you know,
Speaker 1: like I mean, if it was like some crazy fans
Speaker 1: like nine girls, you know, like that would be crazy,
Speaker 1: Like if I might have a three simon minds, we'll
Speaker 1: have a ninthesome, you know, like a bunch of it
Speaker 1: was like so I gang bang? Yeah, I mean yeah,
Speaker 1: I would love that fantasy of me and nine dudes.
Speaker 1: That sounds great, But like would it ever? I could
Speaker 1: never think of a situation where it would happen that
Speaker 1: I would be like, okay, with every single person, you
Speaker 1: have to find it. You'd have to find a tenth party.
Speaker 1: A tenth party, I guess you would be the tenth party. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you have to find an eleventh party to organize it right,
Speaker 1: and then like a wedding planner, but a gang gang
Speaker 1: bang planner that will be that's a great idea. Nine dudes,
Speaker 1: I mean that's a lot. Okay, nine is a lot,
Speaker 1: but maybe I think my jaw hurts one really, Oh
Speaker 1: my god, I wouldn't want to blow nine dudes or
Speaker 1: you No, no way. Well, some of them are jerking
Speaker 1: off in the corner, you know, some of them are.
Speaker 1: I think that's in your I guess this is your fantasy.
Speaker 1: So I guess they can jerk them. Yeah, just knowing
Speaker 1: that they're there. They have they have fluffers. You gotta
Speaker 1: just get one, you know, one more girl, she someome
Speaker 1: getting ready for you also be the fluffer. Yeah, double job.
Speaker 1: If there was a fluffer maybe yeah, So you know,
Speaker 1: take some of the stress, like your own self, just
Speaker 1: cherk off. Do you jerk off a lot? I mean,
Speaker 1: like what you do to I've been trying to U,
Speaker 1: you know, keep that cut that out. Yeah, because I
Speaker 1: feel like mentally your mind is better. And I think
Speaker 1: we met you in a very just interesting time in
Speaker 1: your life. You were very sharper before or after you
Speaker 1: jerk off, you know, I'm saying. I'm saying, your mind's
Speaker 1: at peace when you're not worrying about jerking all. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like clouds your It clouds your mind. I'm not worried
Speaker 1: about jerking off. I've heard a lot of people say
Speaker 1: this is actually around the stage too. It's something that
Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, you need for a male,
Speaker 1: you need like I don't know, you need that testosterone
Speaker 1: kind of stocked up, build up, build up. You know,
Speaker 1: if you're kind in the jerk and author everywhere one,
Speaker 1: you're not doing very well with the ladies and to
Speaker 1: you're kind of short changing yourself. I think as far
Speaker 1: as what you might keep, you're wasting your time as
Speaker 1: far you can possibly be doing with yourself. Is it
Speaker 1: like for for me? And I know a lot of
Speaker 1: other my female friends have the same thing where like,
Speaker 1: if I don't have sex for a while, I'll just
Speaker 1: kind of stop craving it or even like what needing
Speaker 1: to masturbate or anything like that. I'm not a huge masturbator,
Speaker 1: but then once I start having sex again, I'm like
Speaker 1: immediately addicted to it. Do you have the same kind
Speaker 1: of thing? Well, how do penises where? Yeah? Tell us, I,
Speaker 1: Well they usually start, you know, not hard. I know
Speaker 1: that part hard, I know that part, thank you, shame
Speaker 1: for that. Your more like your arousal process or man.
Speaker 1: I mean it's you know, like do you get an
Speaker 1: owner when you're just like looking out the window right, Well,
Speaker 1: this is crazy. When you're young and this is your kid,
Speaker 1: you get bonus all the time. Yeah, I mean class
Speaker 1: with a boner. But now it's more like you know
Speaker 1: you have the field. Yeah, but you have to also
Speaker 1: like I don't feel like I just get boners anymore,
Speaker 1: like unless there's an energy to create a boner, you know,
Speaker 1: like what is it? Okay, so it's not out of
Speaker 1: the blue. It has to be a force. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean anything in life has to be a force. Seriously,
Speaker 1: you can people who are just getting boners at age
Speaker 1: thirty two need to have a little more control over
Speaker 1: their minds. Yeah. Um no, I'm not not actively not
Speaker 1: like passively passive. If you feel like you don't need it,
Speaker 1: I feel like you thinks about my Yeah, I think
Speaker 1: I want to state this weekend, like I said, and
Speaker 1: had three days a piece and that was really good,
Speaker 1: like kind of just to clear my mind. You know,
Speaker 1: that's meditation. I guess yeah, yeah, it's like soothing your soul.
Speaker 1: I try to you know, I don't know meditation. I
Speaker 1: have meditated, you know, I've at one point been able
Speaker 1: to get to that point where you feel like that
Speaker 1: kind of heightened. Yeah, you know, like after you know,
Speaker 1: when I was in not the woods, was in the
Speaker 1: backyard family friend's house, and I was just sitting there. Um,
Speaker 1: I don't know I was meditating. It can be really powerful.
Speaker 1: Sometimes when I do remember to do it, I can
Speaker 1: get myself to energized almost. Do you meditate with someone
Speaker 1: talking to you and guiding you through it? Or when
Speaker 1: I do sleep meditation, I have like an app on
Speaker 1: my phone that I do guided meditation to go to
Speaker 1: sleep sometimes when I can't sleep, But otherwise I just
Speaker 1: think of energy, like and how much energy there is
Speaker 1: in the city, and I think of it all coming
Speaker 1: into a ball of light. Do you do you acknowledge
Speaker 1: the light that's hitting your face or does that you
Speaker 1: don't even think about that. I actually try to make
Speaker 1: the real I do in my room, and I make
Speaker 1: it as dark as possible because my curtains make it
Speaker 1: pretty dark. Otherwise it is distracting because I get so easily.
Speaker 1: Oh god, it get so easily distracted. I do this
Speaker 1: exercise sometimes where I imagine that ball of light like
Speaker 1: starting at the top of my skull and going down
Speaker 1: to my body, and It'll take me like an hour
Speaker 1: to get it because I'll just get distracted and start
Speaker 1: thinking about some other stupid ship. I'm like, that's why
Speaker 1: I need this. The balls all the way through the body.
Speaker 1: It goes all the way through my body. And but
Speaker 1: it's weird because I get to the point where when
Speaker 1: I feel it going like through my throat for example,
Speaker 1: I get tingles in my throat or wherever it is
Speaker 1: that's tingling in. Yeah, of energy, there you go. Energy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know. It's powerful. And when you use that, I
Speaker 1: feel like when you have sex, it's like your sex
Speaker 1: moves mountains more so than the average guy, because you
Speaker 1: value energy and presence and passion. I do. I do
Speaker 1: think that it's important to you know, be present. And
Speaker 1: you know, I'm not going to say like, you know,
Speaker 1: I've always been on like point, like you know whatever,
Speaker 1: but I try to, like I aim to please, you know,
Speaker 1: and uh so for me, it's like being in that moment,
Speaker 1: you know, is you know, why would you be anywhere
Speaker 1: else and not giving it your all, because at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, I mean, we're all here because
Speaker 1: of a similar act. Now, whether it was you know,
Speaker 1: great or not great, who knows, but someone someone that's worst,
Speaker 1: somebody you know so uh you know it's it's I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: cool man. Well, thank you so much for talking with us.
Speaker 1: Where can we find you online? Um? Okay, so you
Speaker 1: can find me Don't Piece d x A Records at Twitter,
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Speaker 1: You can catch us on Facebook, YouTube, instag ram, um, SoundCloud. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we got some stuff on Spotify, iTunes. You know, we
Speaker 1: put out records independently, and um, we got some stuff
Speaker 1: in the work. Shout out to the to the Boys,
Speaker 1: Ice Rocks, Calamity, Chris d Phase to d shout out
Speaker 1: to Joe for letting me know, and uh, you know,
Speaker 1: shout out to everybody has been helping the movement and
Speaker 1: work for all these years and you know, keeping unscrounded
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