Speaker 1: It's awkward. It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call. When
Speaker 1: you're in a relationship, is it okay for your significant
Speaker 1: other to have a crush on somebody else? I mean,
Speaker 1: it depends on who it is, right Like, if it's
Speaker 1: a celebrity crush, that's probably fine, but if it's one
Speaker 1: of their co workers, that's a little bit messy. Yeah. Now, Brook,
Speaker 1: I'm your co worker and also kind of a celebrity. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so this is dangerous territory that we're getting into here.
Speaker 1: I don't have one. Anyway, Let's not focus on Brooke
Speaker 1: and the craziness going on in her head. Let's talk
Speaker 1: to Connor, who's worried that his girlfriend may have a
Speaker 1: little bit of an unhealthy crush. Connor, Welcome to the
Speaker 1: show man. Thank you, I caught her. How long have
Speaker 1: you been dating your girlfriend? So we've been dating for
Speaker 1: a little over a year now, okay, your name yet, yes? Vanessa? Vanessa? Okay,
Speaker 1: So what's going on? Why are you so concerned? Okay,
Speaker 1: So we moved in together a little while ago, and she, uh,
Speaker 1: she decided to buy a Pelotan for our place, and yeah,
Speaker 1: it's peloton but we don't he obviously doesn't ride a
Speaker 1: month for a second. Whatever, it's her thing. I I
Speaker 1: don't even don't have pronounced it. M. She's been really
Speaker 1: really into it, you know, I thought was great. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and you know, bonus for me. She looks amazing riding
Speaker 1: the bike, you know, workout clothed, you know, it's a
Speaker 1: good view. But noticing she seemed to be really into
Speaker 1: one of the instructors, Um, who's a guy and she's
Speaker 1: always taking his classes and who cares? I'm sorry, I
Speaker 1: gotta step in on this one. Like the Peloton instructors
Speaker 1: are all incredibly sexy. Yeah, yeah, there isn't one other.
Speaker 1: I haven't found an ugo yet. Okay, well I don't
Speaker 1: think they would hire an ugly person to be doing it.
Speaker 1: Wouldn't be a good advertiser. Yeah right, yeah, do you
Speaker 1: know which guy it is? Connor? I honestly can't remember
Speaker 1: the guy's name, but like I get it. I mean,
Speaker 1: he's really good looking. You know, it's obviously in shape.
Speaker 1: He's got like the sculpted arms, the perfect hair, you know,
Speaker 1: the whole. It sounds like two people have been checking
Speaker 1: out this pelt. So what's the problem. Why is that
Speaker 1: an issue? Well, I see her doing his ride and
Speaker 1: she has like these googly eyes on and like she's
Speaker 1: biting her lower lip while she's doing it. So I thought,
Speaker 1: maybe she has a little crush, you know, just only fine.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm not that insecure, like we all have crushes,
Speaker 1: but lately it's getting kind of weird. So what do
Speaker 1: you mean? I found the trainer guys social media, whatever
Speaker 1: his name is, and of course she follows him, and
Speaker 1: I noticed she's like every single one of his posts. Okay,
Speaker 1: when when we hang out, she'll bring up things, he said,
Speaker 1: so he'll be like, oh my god, you know, I'm
Speaker 1: taking a ride today, And he said, this isn't that funny?
Speaker 1: I mean, like stuff that you say when you're like
Speaker 1: really into someone or like dating them. She's not dating
Speaker 1: the Peloton Instructor's virtually on a screen. I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: his fan page isn't like the best way to get
Speaker 1: to him either. Yeah, Like she obviously just really likes
Speaker 1: his classes. I mean a lot of these, Like in
Speaker 1: the classes I've taken, they're all about motivational and live
Speaker 1: your best life and a lot of like good energy
Speaker 1: and stuff. Right, But like, is that a healthy behavior
Speaker 1: to be kind of obsessing over somebody and writing your
Speaker 1: peloton naked and stuff, say that, yeah, you might start
Speaker 1: only going for peloton trainers kind of not your boyfriend.
Speaker 1: But I don't know how. I came home one day
Speaker 1: and she was watching one of his classes. Like she
Speaker 1: wasn't working out, she wasn't wearing any of her gear
Speaker 1: or anything. She's just standing there holding her coffee watching
Speaker 1: the guy work out. Okay, so fun. What have you
Speaker 1: keep up to your husband doing that? I can see
Speaker 1: where you'd you'd feel a little weird about it. I
Speaker 1: mean that that's pretty extreme. One thing. I constantly take
Speaker 1: the classes, but yeah, the extracurriculars to go find them,
Speaker 1: to just watch them casually. But you're not obviously, like
Speaker 1: actually worried she's gonna cheat. You're just concerned that this
Speaker 1: is a little over the top and it hurts your feelings.
Speaker 1: What are you feeling? I mean, I don't know. To
Speaker 1: be honest, it's weird to say, but I am getting
Speaker 1: a little bit jealous and I want to talk to
Speaker 1: her about it. But I don't want to be like
Speaker 1: the jealous boyfriend, right, Yeah, it would be a hard
Speaker 1: conversation to bring on. Yeah, crush on the guy on
Speaker 1: the screen. Yeah, okay, so you want us to call
Speaker 1: your girlfriend here and you want to talk to her
Speaker 1: about this obsession that you think might be going a
Speaker 1: little too far. Yeah, I definitely need some help and
Speaker 1: to get to the bottom of it. Hold on, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you say get to the bottom of it. Do you
Speaker 1: mean you want it to stop? Or you need her
Speaker 1: to explain her feelings about him? Like, what's the solution?
Speaker 1: Maybe both, depending on what she says. I mean, okay,
Speaker 1: we don't know what the solution is then, okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, I at least want to understand where she's
Speaker 1: coming from if I'm just imagining this, or I mean,
Speaker 1: for me, it seems over the top, now, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: I will see that, all right, all right, Well, so
Speaker 1: we'll think about this. We'll play a song, we'll come back,
Speaker 1: call your girlfriend Vanessa for you, and we'll give her
Speaker 1: an ultimatum saying it's either that is not the advice.
Speaker 1: We'll come up with better advice. We'll come up with something.
Speaker 1: We'll do it right after this, with your awkward Tuesday
Speaker 1: phone call. Hold on, then, it's awkward. It's Tuesday. It's
Speaker 1: awkward Tuesday phone call. All right. We're just getting our
Speaker 1: sweat on for the awkward Tuesday phone call right now.
Speaker 1: We're gonna push through together. Guys. Okay, everybody, I know
Speaker 1: half of you aren't feeling the pain the pain of
Speaker 1: this segment because it's not very good. But we're gonna
Speaker 1: get together, all right. The new you starts today. Connor,
Speaker 1: this is your moment. We're gonna call your girlfriend and
Speaker 1: tell her. You know what, honey, your obsession with your
Speaker 1: peloton instructor. It's not healthy. Okay, we want a healthy relationship.
Speaker 1: Are you with me? Left? Right? Right? Push? Connor? You
Speaker 1: with me? I'm ready, okay, Okay, I'm feeling the energy.
Speaker 1: That's okay. You have a second career in your just
Speaker 1: gotta get in physical shape in order to do it.
Speaker 1: Tired me out, Yeah, I know very second classes. Yeah.
Speaker 1: If you're just joining us, we're in the middle of
Speaker 1: an awkward Tuesday phone call, we're one of our list.
Speaker 1: There's Connor wants our help to reach out to his girlfriend, Vanessa.
Speaker 1: They've been together for a year and she's been a
Speaker 1: little bit obsessed with her peloton instructor lately a lot. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because he even came home one day and found her
Speaker 1: just watching videos of him, not even working out, just
Speaker 1: drinking coffee and enjoying the visuals. But Connor, hopefully we
Speaker 1: can help get things right for you. Are you feeling
Speaker 1: all right? Are you ready to hear some advice? Oh? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think I'm ready. Okay, Brooke, what do you got
Speaker 1: for him? Well? I think you have totally valid feelings, Connor,
Speaker 1: but I think you would even admit this is a
Speaker 1: pretty ridiculous conversation. Those are two total. But this is stupid,
Speaker 1: sid I said ridiculous, like silly, and I think that
Speaker 1: you need to lean into that. Okay, I mean, if
Speaker 1: you admit in the beginning this is a really ridiculous
Speaker 1: thing I'm about to bring up. Wanted to let her
Speaker 1: guard down so she's not so defensive, and it makes
Speaker 1: you sound less like accusatory, you know, and it doesn't
Speaker 1: seem that ridicul with all the things that she's doing.
Speaker 1: I just mean, like the conversation of like you have
Speaker 1: a crush on your peloton instructor is pretty silly conversation. Brook.
Speaker 1: I know this this is probably gonna sound ridiculous and stupid,
Speaker 1: but that advice was bad. What do you think? What
Speaker 1: should I think? I'm concerned about It's like, usually in
Speaker 1: these awkward tuesdays, both parties kind to have an idea,
Speaker 1: right of like the issue at hand, but it sounds
Speaker 1: like she has no idea what's coming. Like, Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: for sure, I just think maybe kind of ease into it,
Speaker 1: but don't be too aggro, don't be too yeah. No,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be diplomatic about it. Okay, okay, good be diplomatic.
Speaker 1: Don't be too ease into it. You know that this
Speaker 1: is ridiculous, but also at the same time it's really important.
Speaker 1: We're so good. Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, this good luck. Man.
Speaker 1: We're gonna be here ready to jump in if you
Speaker 1: feel like you need a little bit of help, but
Speaker 1: we're going to dive in us his number. Let's do it, man,
Speaker 1: good luck? All right? Thank you? Because up? Okaying it
Speaker 1: here we go. Just give me a quick hello, Hey baby,
Speaker 1: it was I didn't know this was you. What's up? Oh? Nothing,
Speaker 1: I was just calling to say, hey, um, you got
Speaker 1: your day's going well. I just finished a ride, so
Speaker 1: I'm so hyped. Oh you were you worked out today? Yes?
Speaker 1: I did my thirty minute hit ride. It was so good.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Um, Okay, um did you use that
Speaker 1: uh that one guy? Uh Alex? His name is Alex. Yes,
Speaker 1: obviously he's so good. Yeah, huh uh I was going on.
Speaker 1: I was kind of hoping to talk to you about
Speaker 1: that actually, uh yeah, talk to me about what what's
Speaker 1: going on? Uh? Like this Alex dude, I feel like
Speaker 1: maybe you've been a little into him lately. What wait
Speaker 1: what you've just been kind of you've been kind of
Speaker 1: set with him? Oh maybe what what are you talking about?
Speaker 1: He's my palace from the utter, He's aleg Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't know. You just like you take a lot of
Speaker 1: his classes. It's like super motivational. He gets me to
Speaker 1: like get my done when I'm at work, Like it's amazing.
Speaker 1: He's motivation. Yeah yeah, okay, okay, but but like when
Speaker 1: you're working out, you just have like this this look
Speaker 1: in your eyes. I don't know, it's what look what
Speaker 1: look in my eyes? Like like you're trying to seduce
Speaker 1: him through the camera or something like like I'm trying
Speaker 1: to do What are you talking about? Are you king? No? No,
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not joking. If I was staring at
Speaker 1: some girl every single day like that, I mean you
Speaker 1: wouldn't like it, would you Listen? This is a fitness instructor.
Speaker 1: I have to look at him so I know what
Speaker 1: to do. Well, Okay, Rod, what what about like like
Speaker 1: the other day when when you were just just standing there,
Speaker 1: you know, watching his video, like not even working out? Baby?
Speaker 1: Are you like that curious? Now? Yeah? I'm serious? Oh ring,
Speaker 1: they're smiling like a giddy school girl. Okay. First of all,
Speaker 1: I was trying to find this incredibly motivating quote that
Speaker 1: I wanted to film and sent to Erica, who you
Speaker 1: know is my best term who's having a horrible time
Speaker 1: right now because this guy is so inspiring and motivational. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I see the motivation and I I see the sculpted arms, like,
Speaker 1: oh he's got everything. I know. What do you want
Speaker 1: me to tell you? How sex you are? You're so hot?
Speaker 1: This is stupid? Like what is it? Alex? I mean
Speaker 1: I don't get the sounds that he gets. I mean,
Speaker 1: what about that sounds you make while you're working out?
Speaker 1: About what singles? Are you talking about? It? The noises?
Speaker 1: The noise workout? So noise work. I'm working out, working
Speaker 1: out watching Alex. You're like, all right, I told you
Speaker 1: this is going to be ridiculous. Who is on the phone,
Speaker 1: con Alex Vanessa, you're on the radio right now with
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Oh my god, I
Speaker 1: am dying. We're doing something laughing. We've been listening in
Speaker 1: on this call. Oh my god, Oh my god. Don't
Speaker 1: be embarrassed. It's fine. Yeah, this is just we're doing
Speaker 1: an awkward Tuesday phone call with Connor because he's been
Speaker 1: a little bit jealous, jealous, a little insecure seeing you
Speaker 1: with Alex. Apparently, although you do seem to have a
Speaker 1: very strong connection with Alex. I have tried to get
Speaker 1: Connor to take Claus with me and he won't do it,
Speaker 1: and now I understand why. But yes, I have a
Speaker 1: strong connection with my Peloton teacher Alex. She thought he's
Speaker 1: super hot. Yeah, yeah, okay, Oh my god, Connor, you
Speaker 1: cannot still be mad. I mean, it does sound like
Speaker 1: she really really likes this Alex guy. But it doesn't
Speaker 1: sound like in the way that you were worried about. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it sounds like they're connected at the growing. That's what
Speaker 1: it sound That's what you took from this, Connor, That's
Speaker 1: what you heard her say. Maybe I don't even know him.
Speaker 1: I mean, granted, he does have a book signing in May,
Speaker 1: but in New York that I got tickets for us.
Speaker 1: You can come. But dude, it's like a freesome. She's
Speaker 1: not hiding any of this from you, Connor. This isn't
Speaker 1: like a hall pass situation. Yeah, and I got when
Speaker 1: the hall pass on this guy and you know, like
Speaker 1: you know he's going to be in New York and
Speaker 1: stuff like that's so weird. I don't I didn't realize
Speaker 1: that this was like upsetting you that much. But I
Speaker 1: need you to know that, like, you don't have to
Speaker 1: worry about anything. He can't see me. He's just super
Speaker 1: inspiring and he has to New York or whatever. Right now,
Speaker 1: they're just giving off insecure. She gave me your answer.
Speaker 1: You asked, and she said, you have nothing. It comes
Speaker 1: down to trust. Just trust. It's not her problem anymore.
Speaker 1: It's you're a problem now, is what Jose saying. I
Speaker 1: actually think it might be a good idea, Connor, if
Speaker 1: you went with her to New York and met Alex
Speaker 1: in person, and that might put you at ease a little. Him.
Speaker 1: I was thinking he'd get motivated to take a class.
Speaker 1: But either one, yeah, you can all make those noises
Speaker 1: altogether com like, listen, he's just super motivational and inspiring.
Speaker 1: So if you see me looking nine times out of ten,
Speaker 1: I'm trying to find a quote that I want to
Speaker 1: put on my vision board. Okay, exactly what you're trying
Speaker 1: to find, Like, yeah, I cannot. I love him, but
Speaker 1: I cannot, Like he's going to be like this cutter.
Speaker 1: It's not very attractive right now, all right, Conor, Yeah,
Speaker 1: this is like obviously a highly emotional thing. Yeah, we're
Speaker 1: doing this on the radio right now. You need to
Speaker 1: let it sit for a while and marinate. And I
Speaker 1: think you're going to see that it's not as big
Speaker 1: of a deal as you think it is. If she
Speaker 1: would have said all the difference this is books because
Speaker 1: you know, if I were doing this to a girl,
Speaker 1: you know that I was watching and I was like,
Speaker 1: fall her schedule around the state. I think that somebody
Speaker 1: needs a bottle and a diaper and a nap. She
Speaker 1: tried to give you, Sep, I'll tell you nobody changes
Speaker 1: a diaper like Alex. Yes, you need those noises watching him.
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning