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Speaker 1: top of the hour, but right now it is time
Speaker 1: to ask the CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey. All right,
Speaker 1: Donnie and Columbia says, I'm married to a lazy woman
Speaker 1: that hasn't had a job since twenty fifteen. I canceled
Speaker 1: her credit cards and gave her a prepaid visa. She
Speaker 1: can't get a credit card on her own, so she
Speaker 1: runs out of money and gets angry with me. She's
Speaker 1: being very unreasonable. So I'm thinking about divorce. Can you
Speaker 1: think of a better solution? You asking me? Yeah? Twice?
Speaker 1: Huh a better solution? Now what I've asked that question.
Speaker 1: I can't. I've asked that question twice and it came
Speaker 1: up with the answer, No, you cannot come up with
Speaker 1: a better solution. I didn't. Now, so let the human
Speaker 1: side of me speak. Now that may be a better solution.
Speaker 1: I couldn't find it. I can't about you, it's about him. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but surely all I can give you is my responses
Speaker 1: from my life experience. I can't. I can't. I don't
Speaker 1: want to be hypocritical. Yeah, and tell the man something
Speaker 1: that I was unable to do myself. You don't look red,
Speaker 1: you can Okay, here we go watch this hill. You
Speaker 1: can sit down and try to have an open, honest, communicating,
Speaker 1: communicative conversation with your wife about her spending and everything.
Speaker 1: But I think the problem is you've labeled her as lazy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and you're using a negative term to describe your wife,
Speaker 1: and I think you're unhappy with this and this fine,
Speaker 1: excuse me, you, miss Junior. What happened Junior? Negative? Yah? Yah?
Speaker 1: Write all this down Junie about your wife. Go ahead,
Speaker 1: I'm negative, turned he lazy all this hill? So, bro,
Speaker 1: you have a dilemma man, because uh, infidelity isn't the
Speaker 1: number one cause of failures in marriage. It's finance. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and you're having that major struggle, and I don't know
Speaker 1: what help you manage. Y'all have to meet halfway. If
Speaker 1: the other person ain't willing to meet, I don't know, man,
Speaker 1: you have to wait the odds out, but please don't.
Speaker 1: I've tried to find other solutions. Yeah, it sounds like
Speaker 1: he wants her to get a job too. Huh. All right,
Speaker 1: moving on to Sapphire, me h does it does? Sapphire?
Speaker 1: And Little Rock says, my neighbor and I are friendly
Speaker 1: but not friends. So when I started sleeping with her
Speaker 1: ex husband, I didn't feel bad. She came to me
Speaker 1: woman to woman and said, I'm low down. Why won't
Speaker 1: women address the man in a situation like this? Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: wait a minute, that woman to woman. Yeah, I don't know. Look,
Speaker 1: I don't know why women won't address the men in this.
Speaker 1: You know, she ended up divorcing her husband for a reason.
Speaker 1: She probably know how he is. It may have surprised
Speaker 1: her that you are the way you are, but I don't.
Speaker 1: That's not to say you did anything wrong. I think
Speaker 1: the problem is kind of what you're saying. Women want
Speaker 1: to find someone to blame for their fair relationships, and
Speaker 1: they always look outside and you happen to Now you
Speaker 1: the reason, you know what I found? Whatever man your
Speaker 1: voice as a woman or breaks up with a woman. Whoever?
Speaker 1: The next woman is he evolved with somehow she becomes
Speaker 1: the reason. Oh I bet you was talking to her
Speaker 1: when we And no, that's not you. That's not always
Speaker 1: the case. It is sometimes, but when you when you
Speaker 1: say that, you know it is sometimes. But when you're
Speaker 1: in a fair relationship, you know, look, man, it's a
Speaker 1: fair relationship. You can't look for the solution outside all
Speaker 1: the time. Sometimes it was just y'all were the wrong
Speaker 1: people at the wrong time. You know, you can pick
Speaker 1: the wrong one. And when you pick the wrong one,
Speaker 1: you know he doing what he do now, even slept
Speaker 1: with you, your friend, wash your low down and you
Speaker 1: know that's y'all friendly, but you ain't free. How How
Speaker 1: you doing, baby? How your hut? Moving on to Phoebe
Speaker 1: and Shane Johnson's how y'all doing? Hey, mister Johnson? All right, now,
Speaker 1: keep showing concern, mister Johnson, how you doing to day?
Speaker 1: All right? Now, keep showing concern yourself? All right, Phoebe
Speaker 1: And Charlotte says, I'm almost sixty and I smoke weed
Speaker 1: all day to keep me from custom people out. All right.
Speaker 1: My new man has never smoked it before, and he
Speaker 1: wants me to stop because he thinks it's disgusting. I
Speaker 1: can quit if I want to, But shouldn't he accept
Speaker 1: some of my flaws? He don't have to. Y'all learn
Speaker 1: this right here, let's say it. They have to accept
Speaker 1: me the way I am. No, they don't. I don't
Speaker 1: know who told y'all that. But you smoke weed all day,
Speaker 1: all day, all day. Yeah, don't nobody want all that now?
Speaker 1: But she says it keeps her from custom people out.
Speaker 1: If you need weeds to keep from custom people out,
Speaker 1: you need a whole lot modeing weed. Yes, you need therapy,
Speaker 1: you yeah, but see you're using something else to keep
Speaker 1: you from going off when really it ain't that. Why
Speaker 1: don't you Why don't you learn how not to go off?
Speaker 1: And why are you sixty and still going off? Though? Everybody? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I mean you know, and that's why you was available.
Speaker 1: Now he's been to lose him, you've been to be
Speaker 1: back out on the market again. I want nobody, won't you?
Speaker 1: And he gonna get rid of your ass. He can't
Speaker 1: take all that smoke. You might be sitting around nobody's
Speaker 1: smoking weed all the time to your old adhere last
Speaker 1: one Steve, Adrian and Kenny says, my husband and I
Speaker 1: heard her eighteen year old daughter making out with her
Speaker 1: boyfriend by our pool. Surprisingly, my husband doesn't want to
Speaker 1: mention it to her, he says, since she didn't quote
Speaker 1: go all the way, it's fine. I'm shocked that she
Speaker 1: was so bold, and I want to talk to her
Speaker 1: about it. Who's right me or my husband? Well, it's
Speaker 1: not a matter who's right or wrong. You have different viewpoints.
Speaker 1: Your husband don't want to discuss it with his daughter.
Speaker 1: M He just don't now to you the mother, y'all
Speaker 1: got different relationship. You probably can't. But he don't want it.
Speaker 1: He just you out there letting that boy. Come on,
Speaker 1: what is it this say? Is this his daughter? You
Speaker 1: should go and talk to her. If that's how you feel,
Speaker 1: you go talk to her. But he's not. Yeah, right,
Speaker 1: okay with that hey little girl, because that's how Yeah.
Speaker 1: But me and that little boy, we're gonna have a conversation. Yeah,
Speaker 1: there you go. You all appeared my damn pool. You
Speaker 1: ain't got no pool money? All right, Thank you, cello.
Speaker 1: Great advice. Coming up at the top of the hour,
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