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Speaker 1: a good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, Come
Speaker 1: on dig me now. One and all is Steve Harvey.
Speaker 1: Man got a radio show. Steve Harvey got a radio
Speaker 1: show because God in the blessing business. Yeah, that's all.
Speaker 1: I'm just a recipient. Steve Harvey got a radio show
Speaker 1: because God is in the show you favor business. He
Speaker 1: showed me some favor. Steve Harvey got a radio show
Speaker 1: because God is in the forgiving business. God and forgave
Speaker 1: me thousands and thousands of times, you know. And I
Speaker 1: say that as a big number like that, because it's
Speaker 1: probably true. God is a forgiving God. That's how I
Speaker 1: exist today, and that's how you exist today. And one
Speaker 1: of the things I want to remind you about even
Speaker 1: in existing today, you know, Joel Oldstein had a has
Speaker 1: a book out called It's Your Time. I love this book.
Speaker 1: It's called It's Your Time, And that's kind of what
Speaker 1: I want to touch you on today. And I want
Speaker 1: to remind you all that it's still your time. See,
Speaker 1: you know, there's look. You know, they've got unsuccessful people
Speaker 1: have created a lot of sayings to justify our failures
Speaker 1: as people. Well, my ship has passed. That that was
Speaker 1: created by a person who did not quite make their
Speaker 1: goal in the amount of time that they had set for.
Speaker 1: So to justify it, here comes this great, seemingly very
Speaker 1: clever saying, and a lot of us adapt, Well, my
Speaker 1: ship has passed, so we adopt that. Here's another one. Well,
Speaker 1: I guess it just wasn't meant to be. That sounds good,
Speaker 1: don't it, Because they mix it up with a little
Speaker 1: bit of faith base in it. I guessed it wasn't. Well,
Speaker 1: here's another one. I guess if God wanted it for me,
Speaker 1: i'd have it. Are you serious? Man? Are you serious?
Speaker 1: You're actually gonna use that one to to to justify
Speaker 1: where you are in life? Man? That's that's so, that's
Speaker 1: so not the case. I want to remind everybody today
Speaker 1: that it's still your time that you know your ship
Speaker 1: hasn't sailed, you didn't miss all of your opportunities. There's others.
Speaker 1: It's still your time. You know you still got a chance.
Speaker 1: You still have a shot. Here's a good one. You
Speaker 1: still have hope, you do all of you. As long
Speaker 1: as God is who he is, there's always hope for you.
Speaker 1: You can never lose sight of that. You can never
Speaker 1: let the devil win that battle that there is no
Speaker 1: hope for you and cause you to do something that's unthinkable.
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna cash in the chips. I'm gonna take
Speaker 1: my life. I'm gonna commit suicide. No no, no, wait
Speaker 1: a second, Wait a second, Are you for real? That's
Speaker 1: not God talking to you. That's something wrong and it's
Speaker 1: not coming from him. It's still your time. You still
Speaker 1: got a chance. There's always hope. But listen to me.
Speaker 1: You got to move and you got to move on it.
Speaker 1: So many people are not getting the full benefit of
Speaker 1: their life, and so many people are not getting all
Speaker 1: the blessings that God has for because you keep waiting
Speaker 1: on the perfect time. Man, how many times have I
Speaker 1: heard people come to me and say, hey, man, I'm
Speaker 1: just waiting on everything to line up right, Man, I'm
Speaker 1: waiting on the perfect time to get can't tell you something.
Speaker 1: If I were waiting on the perfect time, I wouldn't
Speaker 1: be hardly any of the things that I've become. And
Speaker 1: one of my greatest blessings was marrying Marjorie. I wouldn't
Speaker 1: even have married Marjorie if I was waiting on the
Speaker 1: perfect time, because I had gone through what I thought
Speaker 1: was enough misery to cover my entire lifetime. And so
Speaker 1: when I was first divorced, I just said, man, it's
Speaker 1: gonna be five six years before I do this again.
Speaker 1: I said it. Two years later I was married. But
Speaker 1: guess what, man, it wasn't the perfect time. I didn't
Speaker 1: have my ducks, all my ducks lined up in a row.
Speaker 1: It was still some things I needed to clean up.
Speaker 1: I even told her, it's some things I want to
Speaker 1: clean up out of my life before you know it's
Speaker 1: it's I want I want to make sure I got
Speaker 1: all the stars are lined up, you know I want
Speaker 1: to I want to wait until all the ducks are
Speaker 1: in a row. I was waiting on the perfect time.
Speaker 1: If I had not stopped, and Marjorie and I had
Speaker 1: set out and said to each other there will be
Speaker 1: no perfect time. And then she said, I'll go through
Speaker 1: with you whatever you're going through. That was it. I
Speaker 1: took a chance. The ducks were not lined up in
Speaker 1: a row. Had a lot of baggage in my life, man,
Speaker 1: I wanted to try to clear up. I want to
Speaker 1: do some things financially different. I wanted to just get
Speaker 1: rid of some residue I had in my life. She said, no,
Speaker 1: we'll do it together, because they ain't no perfect time.
Speaker 1: And guess what it wasn't. So if you're out there
Speaker 1: waiting on the perfect time to do something, it may
Speaker 1: not come. There is no such thing as waiting on
Speaker 1: the perfect time. I've said this a hundred times, and
Speaker 1: here comes one on one. The road to success is
Speaker 1: always under construction. You ain't gonna go out there and
Speaker 1: there ain't no barrels on the road. You're not going
Speaker 1: out there and not running to deep to a sign.
Speaker 1: You're not going out there without seeing the men working
Speaker 1: sign to get off. You're not going out there to
Speaker 1: see it. So guess what. Stop waiting on the stars.
Speaker 1: I got man, this is a perfect time to do
Speaker 1: it now. If you're waiting on the perfect time, that
Speaker 1: could be one of your biggest problems. You're still waiting.
Speaker 1: You have got to move and you've got to move
Speaker 1: on it, and you've got to make a decision to
Speaker 1: go now. God will get you through everything necessary for
Speaker 1: you to get through. But you can't quit though. See
Speaker 1: it is as apart. You can't quit just because the
Speaker 1: road you're own is under construction. You can't get off
Speaker 1: at the exit because you're tired of all the bump
Speaker 1: of the bumper traffic. It's that way. Get you some God,
Speaker 1: like I said, get you some God, and go on
Speaker 1: and go see what your life can be like. So
Speaker 1: stop waiting on the perfect time, stop waiting on the
Speaker 1: stars to align themselves. You got to move and you
Speaker 1: got to move on it. Get you some God, apply
Speaker 1: some faith, and get started. And remember when you get
Speaker 1: out there, coming towards your goal, the road to construct,
Speaker 1: the road to success is always under construction. If it
Speaker 1: was easy, everybody would be it. Stop expecting it to
Speaker 1: be easy. Come on out here, get up in this thing.
Speaker 1: It's funky out here. Yeah I got all that. It's
Speaker 1: hard out here, yeah I got all that. But what
Speaker 1: you wanna do, man, what you wanna do? You're gonna
Speaker 1: push your chips up to the window. It ain't time
Speaker 1: for that. You still got time, you still got a chance.
Speaker 1: There's always hope, there's always God. That's my conversation today.
Speaker 1: You're listening to show. Ladies and gentlemen, you know what
Speaker 1: it is. It's a new day, and we started the
Speaker 1: same way every day, man, and today as a special day,
Speaker 1: because today it's the day that the Lord has made.
Speaker 1: Let us rejoice and be glad in it. This is
Speaker 1: the one we got, yesterday, gone tomorrow, and promise, this
Speaker 1: is the one we're dealing with. So since this is it,
Speaker 1: this is the one you got, let's get to getting
Speaker 1: after man. Let's be glad about it. Get your tuted up,
Speaker 1: get your tued up. I start this day like I
Speaker 1: do every day, with gratitude, which then affects my attitude,
Speaker 1: which has a direct correlation to my altitude. Without one,
Speaker 1: you can't have the other, and without the other, you
Speaker 1: need the other one. What I'm saying here is gratitude
Speaker 1: affects your altitude, which directly is in correlation with your altitude.
Speaker 1: If you ain't flying high, as you won't altitude wise,
Speaker 1: I bet your attitude is the reason why you're not there,
Speaker 1: And the reason why your attitude ain't there, it's probably
Speaker 1: because you're showing a lack of gratitude. They all gonna
Speaker 1: hand in hand. Or if you think your attitude ain't right,
Speaker 1: it's probably because you ain't grateful for the stuff you have,
Speaker 1: so you can't even see what God done for you.
Speaker 1: So now you you steady on the ass till when
Speaker 1: you don't even realize you got a lot to be
Speaker 1: grateful for. So why would he give you more? If
Speaker 1: God is a just god, Now why would he give
Speaker 1: you more to be grateful for? If you ain't grateful
Speaker 1: for what you have, he ain't gonna overburden you with that.
Speaker 1: Now you better get to being grateful, Ladies and gentlemen.
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, Morners Show, Shirley Strawberry, The Mouth of the South, Mississippi,
Speaker 1: Monica Junior kill Space, the legend that he is Nephew
Speaker 1: Tommy Junior. I would tell you this luck. Let me
Speaker 1: ask you the luck. You know, man, it's mentor care weekend.
Speaker 1: You know it's a mentor care weekend. You said, Man,
Speaker 1: if I want to change it kind of up the number,
Speaker 1: you said, I got to help more boys and so
Speaker 1: Therefore you don't need to see. You had the means.
Speaker 1: Now you got the ranch that you Jeff bought. Now
Speaker 1: you're over here doing mo Is this the process that
Speaker 1: you just asked for? And to show up? You just
Speaker 1: keep doing it? Well, Faith without works is dead. You
Speaker 1: can ask for a lot of stuff, but if you
Speaker 1: ain't willing to do the things that can make it happen.
Speaker 1: What you keep asking God for? Dear God, give me
Speaker 1: a job. But you're sitting at the house. Ain't feeling
Speaker 1: out no applications, You ain't doing no interviews, You ain't.
Speaker 1: You ain't went on a head hunter, You ain't on
Speaker 1: none of the site's for a job. But you stayed
Speaker 1: there at the house asking God for a job. But
Speaker 1: you ain't done no work. That's all it is, man,
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just to buy product over. When hard
Speaker 1: work and faith come together, some amazing things can happen
Speaker 1: in your life. But the key to this whole thing
Speaker 1: is faith. And yeah, I ask because and then when
Speaker 1: I ask, he do more. Though see he does exceedingly
Speaker 1: and abundantly. Over all I think or ask. I can't
Speaker 1: can't tell you something. Everything I've ever asked for it
Speaker 1: took a long time to get. When I got it
Speaker 1: was way more than I thought it was gonna be. God, Man,
Speaker 1: I'll tell you something, Man, God sir, that God, I sir,
Speaker 1: you can't tell me nothing about him. I don't even
Speaker 1: hear you. A matter of fact, boy, you're gonna mess
Speaker 1: when I find out what Christ type Christian I really
Speaker 1: am it? Say something me about it. Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: don't go. Steve coming up at thirty two minutes after
Speaker 1: the hour, we'll hear from the nephew and run that
Speaker 1: frank back right after this. You're listening show, all right,
Speaker 1: it is time now to start your morning off with
Speaker 1: the nephew and run that brank back. What you got
Speaker 1: for his nef. Your wife is in the limo. Let's go,
Speaker 1: cat Dog, Your wife is in a limo. Hello. Hello,
Speaker 1: I'm sure I'm trying to read Rob Robert. This this Robert.
Speaker 1: What's up? Boss? Hey? Hey? How you doing? Hey? Hey, listen, man,
Speaker 1: my name Field Dog. I know you threw some other
Speaker 1: people your brothers right, Yeah, that's my brother. Yeah, what's happening? Listen? Man,
Speaker 1: I'm calling you cause little something going on. Hold. First
Speaker 1: of all, everything all right with my brother, like you
Speaker 1: need this ain't no, he ain't no trouble is it? No? No, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: no no straight man. Listen, No, you're married to right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's my wife's boss. Okay, we'll see. Man. What I'm
Speaker 1: trying little man? Um? I mean, what's happened about? Listen
Speaker 1: what I'm trying to explain to you? Once getting my
Speaker 1: name for you for a time, I drive Limos and
Speaker 1: uh I'm actually driving right now. Okay, that was up. Well,
Speaker 1: I had seen your wife, you know, I knew you
Speaker 1: were a little brother. You know. I was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: this this right here ain't cool. Hold on, what do
Speaker 1: you see my wife? What do you mean my wife?
Speaker 1: How do you know? What are you talking about? Okay,
Speaker 1: we'll live. Okay, okay, rob, let me ask you. Is
Speaker 1: your wife there right now? Lave? My wife's been gone, man,
Speaker 1: she was out with us something her home. Girls. Man,
Speaker 1: they've been gone. What are you trying to get at? Man?
Speaker 1: What listen? Okay? I got hey, hey, I understand. Just
Speaker 1: listen to me. Man, listen, Hey man, I'd have been
Speaker 1: dog got a many times about some ladies. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I just hate to see brothers get
Speaker 1: done wrong. I'm like, whoa where are you coming from? Dog?
Speaker 1: Listen down, you need to go and stood out the
Speaker 1: oldest revenue. Man, how did you get to drive? Drive?
Speaker 1: I drive limousine. And what I'm trying to say to
Speaker 1: you is what you're trying to say. Man, spit it off.
Speaker 1: Your wife is in the back of the limousine and
Speaker 1: I'm driving right now. She in the back though, what
Speaker 1: what the girls out? And and like that, y'all No, man,
Speaker 1: if it was a bunch of girls out, I wouldn't
Speaker 1: even be calling you. Bro. Your wife is in the
Speaker 1: fact that it's limousine with a man. What the man?
Speaker 1: What the band? Hey? Sure, y'all, Hey, y'all, step about, Hey,
Speaker 1: y'all step about the room from a man. Hey, step
Speaker 1: about the room for a minute. Step about the room,
Speaker 1: just hold on, hold on, step by the room for
Speaker 1: any man. Step by the room. Hello, U s yeah, Hey, hey,
Speaker 1: look man, you need to come correct man, because this
Speaker 1: ain't gonna matter right here. Dog, you're saying that my
Speaker 1: wife you you got my wife in the back of
Speaker 1: the limits in you're driving. Man, she got on the dog?
Speaker 1: What she got on? What coming? Is that she got
Speaker 1: on a black trans with white lines and what I'm trying.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to hey, hey, hey, hey, I'm trying to
Speaker 1: make sure I got the right person. What she had
Speaker 1: on sand. You know, my brother, you ain't got that accomplish.
Speaker 1: And you said that you got my wife and what
Speaker 1: she is the house were talking about this this look cute. Look,
Speaker 1: I wasn't starting this look cute. And you said, hear
Speaker 1: the back of your car. Then you're driving that dog?
Speaker 1: What are you driving that? Man? That's all I need
Speaker 1: to know about you. You don't have that who the dog? Who? Okay? Dogs?
Speaker 1: Listen man, Well I'm trying to say this to you.
Speaker 1: See though I've been around, I'm being on this road
Speaker 1: here myself. Man, you know what I'm look, I just
Speaker 1: tell me this man out to you. Man, it's it's
Speaker 1: it's the wrong that's sitting in the back. She got
Speaker 1: the curls coming down on the side. That's all I
Speaker 1: need to know. Do she got the curls just dangling
Speaker 1: on the side. You know, I can't hear you, boss,
Speaker 1: I hear you speak up, man, I said, yeah, man,
Speaker 1: I can't talk. Many are you in the back? I
Speaker 1: can't look man? You calling me though? And just some seriously,
Speaker 1: you're gonna calling you. You're trying to make a straight right,
Speaker 1: so you bring it on little to where I'm at boss. Dog.
Speaker 1: I can't do that, man, I can't bring that. Dog's
Speaker 1: gonna ask crazy people crazy you call me. Put it
Speaker 1: on the phone. Put it on the phone. I can't
Speaker 1: put get the phone to a dog. Get a phone
Speaker 1: up here. You need to drive where I'm at, boss.
Speaker 1: Find that where I'm at, boss, because this is gonna
Speaker 1: be handled right now. I just got it, love. I said,
Speaker 1: I'm going back to my home home home. Ups. They
Speaker 1: hem me intact, Man, I can't hear you dog. You
Speaker 1: you listen, listen all this whichping. You usually need to
Speaker 1: stop this car and say you need to some stand
Speaker 1: outside the car and tell me where the others that
Speaker 1: I can come meet you whenever the hell you do,
Speaker 1: or you need to do around and tell huh this
Speaker 1: you gotta take a detour some down because you let go. Okay,
Speaker 1: you gotta calm calm man. You don't even know me. Man,
Speaker 1: you even mess with the one dog to listen about.
Speaker 1: It's a thing box. Look, I'm easy to gonna find
Speaker 1: out what little the server the rither you drive and
Speaker 1: I'm gonna find y'all or you're gonna have to come
Speaker 1: find me. Dog, you don't mess with the wrong one.
Speaker 1: Put on the phone box. Put on the phone and
Speaker 1: pushing the phone. Man, They ain't got sanding to be,
Speaker 1: ain't looking looking, and you helped me out to shake
Speaker 1: the call man. Put up the phone. Wait wait wait
Speaker 1: wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait rob
Speaker 1: Rob what man? Okay, listen, man, you say this a game? Man,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna come fast. Do you want I'm gonna go.
Speaker 1: We don't let out? Hey, hey, so all I know
Speaker 1: is they're gonna stop at the hotel for a minute.
Speaker 1: Man is trainla hotel? What do this? Black? Hey? Look
Speaker 1: and you had rot me out. I'm on my way.
Speaker 1: I'm on wait tail dog, come on, man, don't don't
Speaker 1: act like what are you at all? Don't act like that? Man, Hey, look,
Speaker 1: you got one more time to be trying to tell
Speaker 1: me how to act. Great, Okay, I'm going to tell
Speaker 1: you man to listen to me. I want to tell
Speaker 1: you one more thing, man, what they ain't got time
Speaker 1: for no more one more things? Do. One more thing
Speaker 1: you need to be telling me is when you hit dog? Wait,
Speaker 1: you at man. This is Nephew Time May from the
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Speaker 1: No man, no man? Am I on the radio? Man
Speaker 1: my bad man? You got the man? You got the man?
Speaker 1: God me oh Man? Before we go Rob? What is man?
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Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after you're
Speaker 1: listening to Steven Show. It is time now for ask
Speaker 1: the CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey. We have some
Speaker 1: good questions from uh Steve Harvey FM dot com. Keep
Speaker 1: them coming, people, keep them coming. This one is from
Speaker 1: Nikki and Dayton, Ohio. Steve oh Oh Patterson Patterson Cooper
Speaker 1: Oh will the right Air Force base for Dayton come
Speaker 1: to club? To go here? All right? It says Nikki says,
Speaker 1: I'm a thirty seven year old UH woman and my
Speaker 1: father hooked me up with a decent man and I've
Speaker 1: been dating him for seven months. He works hard and
Speaker 1: he is a great man, but he's not the one
Speaker 1: for me. We started having sex a month ago and
Speaker 1: there were no sparks at all. I know that this
Speaker 1: is a type of man I should be with. But
Speaker 1: I prefer a street savvy guy with a little edge
Speaker 1: to him, great in the bed, but still loves the Lord.
Speaker 1: What's wrong with me? Do you think I'm going to
Speaker 1: miss out on a good thing because of what I
Speaker 1: prefer in a man, street savvy, edge and love the Lord? Right? Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: let me get it right. You won't street savvy, edge,
Speaker 1: love the Lord and great in bed? Check right, But
Speaker 1: I'm assuming you have a great man who just for
Speaker 1: you ain't great in bed. Yeah, pretty much. Y'all could
Speaker 1: work on the sex part, but you're thirty seven, so
Speaker 1: you're gonna pass on this man because y'all could have
Speaker 1: better sex and it could happen. So I would reconsider,
Speaker 1: because I don't know how long you've been out there
Speaker 1: on this grind looking for this man, this good man
Speaker 1: and all is here. But if you want to get
Speaker 1: back out there and see what else is out there,
Speaker 1: go ahead. But there are a lot of people on
Speaker 1: this on this listening that would tell you to work
Speaker 1: on that first you've been with him seven months. I
Speaker 1: put some effort into seeing if y'all can't stretch straight,
Speaker 1: it's straighten out. This sexual problem. First. Yeah, so you
Speaker 1: go throwing this good man back in the trade. Well,
Speaker 1: she's gonna tell her daddy why they broke up. Well, Daddy,
Speaker 1: you know I liked him and everything, you know, like
Speaker 1: he was everything you said he was. But damn, Daddy,
Speaker 1: this he couldn't. He couldn't carol a toe if he
Speaker 1: if I put it in a tight shoe. Yes, all right.
Speaker 1: See this one's from Caroline. Caroline in Greenville, Mississippi. She says,
Speaker 1: I am sixty two years old and about nine months ago,
Speaker 1: I started dating a man that I dated in high school.
Speaker 1: We're both divorced, and he told me he was looking
Speaker 1: for a good Christian woman. We're both seeking a stronger
Speaker 1: relationship with God. But we slipped up and had sex
Speaker 1: a few times. After the first time we had sex,
Speaker 1: he told me he wants to marry me. That made
Speaker 1: me feel better about us having sex before marriage. He
Speaker 1: hasn't talked about marriage in a few months now, but
Speaker 1: he still wants sex. Do you think he brought up
Speaker 1: marriage so I would keep having sex with him. I'm
Speaker 1: too old for games. Uh, this ain't no game. It's
Speaker 1: having before. This ain't no game. This happened before, so
Speaker 1: this is not new. How old do you have to
Speaker 1: be before you understand that? Men tell you what they
Speaker 1: think you want to hear first, then after that, then
Speaker 1: we tell you what makes us sound best next, and
Speaker 1: if you keep persisting, we'll tell you the truth. You
Speaker 1: didn't persist. You just ran up into your old guy
Speaker 1: from high school. Y'all was both divorced, love the Lord,
Speaker 1: want a close relationship with the Lord. Both y'all have sex,
Speaker 1: a bunch of them, so you know, so y'all just
Speaker 1: in here just you know. I don't know what y'all
Speaker 1: doing with it, but you know, just come on now,
Speaker 1: you're too old for games. For games. He ain't bought
Speaker 1: a marriage no more because he don't won't get married.
Speaker 1: He wants sex though, right, we know how to give you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: all right. This one's from Brian and Atlanta. Stephen says,
Speaker 1: I'm a single, middle aged man and my best friend
Speaker 1: is a female. She has had me in the friend
Speaker 1: zone for years, but I'm in love with her. I
Speaker 1: have told her this and she says she loves me too,
Speaker 1: but she's not in love with me. Bottom line is
Speaker 1: she wants a man with a lot of money, and
Speaker 1: that's not me. We do everything together like we're a couple,
Speaker 1: but she won't date me. How can I show her
Speaker 1: that money is not all that matters? Clo, I don't
Speaker 1: know how unch okay, whoa whoa? Show her? Yeah? How
Speaker 1: can I show her that money is not all that matters?
Speaker 1: Get showing her? How old is? He doesn't give his age?
Speaker 1: He's middle middle aged man thirty to fifty thirty ain't
Speaker 1: middle middle aged. He ain't middle aged. See when a
Speaker 1: man don't tell you his age, he up and he
Speaker 1: trying to explain why he ain't done it. That's why,
Speaker 1: because dudes ain't No, I'm a middle aged man, and
Speaker 1: how do you fitted? How do I get? How do
Speaker 1: I get out of money? Money is not all that matters?
Speaker 1: It ain't Listen to me. He's in love with I know.
Speaker 1: I know man with a lot of money, and that's
Speaker 1: not me, he said, just when I got that right,
Speaker 1: Well you said it best. That's just not you, and
Speaker 1: so well, bro, listen to me. Man, you know man
Speaker 1: you had in the friend zone. I told y'all men
Speaker 1: ain't really trying to be your friends, but you know
Speaker 1: you had any friends. How do I get hurt of
Speaker 1: but money? Is not all that matters. Well, you're gonna
Speaker 1: have to excel into other things. Brother, You're gonna have
Speaker 1: to every other thing. Everything I'm talking about. You're gonna
Speaker 1: have to get good at every other damn thing and
Speaker 1: overshadow the fact man in the words, in the words
Speaker 1: of the Great Fight Trainer, you could do it wrong.
Speaker 1: You're listening. Finding out a secret about someone's spouse is
Speaker 1: always a tricky situation, and one woman is now wondering
Speaker 1: whether or not she should tell her best friend the
Speaker 1: scandalous thing she just discovered about her husband. Now, Steve,
Speaker 1: this woman is from New York City. She sent us
Speaker 1: this story from the internet, and she is asking for
Speaker 1: a friend. Ha ha ha quote quote, you know those
Speaker 1: air quotes. She's asking for a friend who might be
Speaker 1: in a similar situation. A woman was recently at a
Speaker 1: prenatal doctor's appointment when she saw her best friend's husband
Speaker 1: there with a very pregnant woman. She notes by their
Speaker 1: actions they were definitely a couple. Okay. She adds, I
Speaker 1: was shocked when I saw him, and I regret not
Speaker 1: speaking to him now and wonders whether she should tell
Speaker 1: her best friend and what she saw now And I
Speaker 1: know I already know what you're gonna say. But what
Speaker 1: do you think this woman should do? Or have you
Speaker 1: ever caught a friend's spouse in a compromising situation? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: but see, here's see, here's what probably happened. This is
Speaker 1: probably what happen. Just yeah, this is all this is.
Speaker 1: He took his cousin to the doctor cause she needed
Speaker 1: a ride his cousin. Yeah yeah, yeah. Did you hear
Speaker 1: the part when I said they by their actions, they
Speaker 1: were definitely a couple. You can hold your cousin's hand
Speaker 1: and pat it and be supportive, you know, listen, cousin,
Speaker 1: Well you got it? You know he kicking? Oh, let
Speaker 1: me here and put your head on the stomach. That's
Speaker 1: probably all that was, right. Oh he can just go
Speaker 1: and just kill himself right now. Options he got you
Speaker 1: got easy, got to sell his cousin story, or you
Speaker 1: got to go on to start killing yourself. Scrape up
Speaker 1: some money and give it to this best friends, or
Speaker 1: she can be quiet. Hush money, the hush money. Okay,
Speaker 1: get her my fifty thousand in her hand real quick. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's thud. I'm I'm talking. I don't ever say nothing
Speaker 1: ever ever. Yeah, so you for the rest of her life,
Speaker 1: Church mouse man. So should she tell her friend though,
Speaker 1: ain't it no your friend? For what? Because the woman
Speaker 1: was pregnant? Up you saw her husband at the doctor's
Speaker 1: office with another woman. Yeah, for y'all, ladies, you know
Speaker 1: I'm not my business. You're gonna tell the carp face
Speaker 1: I'm after doctor's office. Girl, God, it's not my business.
Speaker 1: As soon as I see you on your phone, I'm
Speaker 1: snatching your damn phone running out because you already know
Speaker 1: you don't being called nobody ready, not right now? You Now,
Speaker 1: if I see caller at a doctor's office, put my
Speaker 1: fold out. I just pull a gun out and robbed
Speaker 1: the place. That's what I now. Now you're carrying, that's
Speaker 1: what I was doing in there. You're a criminal that
Speaker 1: everybody on the floor. Yeah, that's what I do. What
Speaker 1: I before, I before I let you carriage back to
Speaker 1: the house. I just robbed the place. That's your business.
Speaker 1: Surely you wouldn't say anything. This is just her. I
Speaker 1: couldn't do it. I haven't seen it go bad every time.
Speaker 1: Car couldn't do it. Yeah, I just couldn't do it.
Speaker 1: It's not your business. You don't know, friend, you don't know, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's yeah. I don't. I don't see what telling this
Speaker 1: is gonna accomplish. Because here's a deal. Here's the truth
Speaker 1: of the matter, in all seriousness. You can't hide a baby,
Speaker 1: you can't this this, you can't hide the other family. Na. Man,
Speaker 1: this here, this here comes to light. Yeah, and it's
Speaker 1: not necessarily I feel your job to bring it to light.
Speaker 1: In due time, everything will come out. But now let's
Speaker 1: just suppose let's take this scenario. You go to her
Speaker 1: and you're telling turns out it's nothing. And now you
Speaker 1: bought this to me to try to mess me up.
Speaker 1: Tell me exactly you mess backfire on you. If it's
Speaker 1: my best friend, that relationship that I have with my
Speaker 1: best friend, that's like a sister to me. I don't think.
Speaker 1: I don't think our relationship, you know, I say that
Speaker 1: your your your responsibility as her best friend is support
Speaker 1: her when she finds out, because she's going to find out.
Speaker 1: You're supposed to be there for her when she finds out,
Speaker 1: that shoulder to cry on. Okay, and let me ask
Speaker 1: you another question. Here's a question for everybody. Tommy. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna start with you. Have you ever had a best
Speaker 1: friend that ain't your best friend? No more? Yep, Corlin,
Speaker 1: have you ever had a best friend that ain't your
Speaker 1: best friend? No more? No, have you ever had a
Speaker 1: best friend that ain't your best friend? Yes, yes, I
Speaker 1: have had a best friend that ain't my best friend.
Speaker 1: No more. You you've had a You've had a wonderful life. Calngratulations, wonderful. Oh,
Speaker 1: because I still have my best friend. Well, I mean,
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just talking about in your life. Have
Speaker 1: you ever had a best friend. I'm talking about throughout
Speaker 1: the duration. I'm i talking about your girl toy, because
Speaker 1: you and your girl toys your best friend. Yeah, but yeah,
Speaker 1: before that in college, you ain't have a best friend
Speaker 1: growing up? Because in college I had a best friend.
Speaker 1: She was she's been my best friend since we were
Speaker 1: thirteen years old. But our moms were best friends, right,
Speaker 1: so we kind of hold on, hold on, hold on,
Speaker 1: let me ask you that question. Have you ever had
Speaker 1: another really good friend other than her? And y'all ain't friends?
Speaker 1: No more? Absolutely, here we go. That's what I'm talking about,
Speaker 1: right there? Yeah, yeah, yeah, Because I see you may
Speaker 1: not have lost your very best friend, but all of
Speaker 1: us that have lived in this world long enough has
Speaker 1: lost what we thought was a ride at that absolutely oh, absolutely, yeah,
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Speaker 1: We're gonna pose the question if you guys could choose
Speaker 1: which exotic animal, uh you could communicate with, what would
Speaker 1: it be? And let's start with you, Steve. Well, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna let timmy junior take a crack. Let's see where
Speaker 1: they coming to go with you. Okays, my stand up buddy,
Speaker 1: go head Junior. You're trying to be a friend. Thank you.
Speaker 1: You know my low light. They asked, would like to communicate,
Speaker 1: went earth. Yeah, I would want to communicate with a hyena,
Speaker 1: because I'm what out here in this juggle? I really
Speaker 1: want to know why we out here laughing and lions
Speaker 1: is killing everything. I just looked at you when you
Speaker 1: said that, because I hardly ever think about those I
Speaker 1: been watching fights just to be able to what we
Speaker 1: laughing at. Good, very good. Yeah, come on tell me.
Speaker 1: I think I would want to talk to and octopus.
Speaker 1: I thought she was gonna say, an ass, he's getting
Speaker 1: Hoodie's waist halting mean, explain man, do it? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: And all of them have little suction cups on them.
Speaker 1: It's the conversation. You know, how you moving around the ocean,
Speaker 1: how you handling things? You know what you sucked up today?
Speaker 1: You know? Okay, yeah, stuff like that. He said, I know,
Speaker 1: all right, come on, Steve, that damn gorilla. I was
Speaker 1: talk to a gorilla. So the next time I go
Speaker 1: into a meeting, you know how they always say he
Speaker 1: was in the meeting with eight hundred pound gorilla. Get what, Yeah,
Speaker 1: come on there and cheat them and a real gorilla
Speaker 1: walk in the meeting and he sit there and just
Speaker 1: be looking at people. And anytime somebody say something I
Speaker 1: don't like. I wink and he knocked the ass through
Speaker 1: the walk. That's your boy, dog, I'm talking about man.
Speaker 1: I have people mind be signed so many contracts. But
Speaker 1: that would be a different Doctor Dolittle movie with Steve Yes.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, No, that's funny. Yeah, that's funny. I
Speaker 1: could see you know, damn animals shut up? Man, No dogs?
Speaker 1: Who told you to talk? Yeah? See you could do that.
Speaker 1: Eddie Murphy did it right, didn't he do it? I
Speaker 1: don't know how to do stuff because himmy will Smith
Speaker 1: his experts. That talking to stuff that ain't ain't there,
Speaker 1: you know? Yeah, yeah, it ain't had real animals in there.
Speaker 1: There wasn't animation. I can't be in the room talking
Speaker 1: to no real animal. That's it's gotta chain on it.
Speaker 1: You don't care what it is. Oh no, I don't see.
Speaker 1: We ain't too much happening with real animals. Huh. Now
Speaker 1: all of them got to be chained up. Then, Ellen
Speaker 1: gonna right here, she gonna be made saves gorillas. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's been some animals with its, some went bad. Befoto
Speaker 1: you right about that? Remember that painned the bad that
Speaker 1: was sitting up and turning to that lady next remember
Speaker 1: that what I'm sorry twisted? I was telling people. You
Speaker 1: know somebody? It was, man, how do you stay so young?
Speaker 1: I laugh every day? And I laugh. Yes, if you
Speaker 1: want to stay young, you have to laugh hard every
Speaker 1: day in order to laugh hard every day, because you're
Speaker 1: not gonna hear a joke or something funny every day.
Speaker 1: You're gonna have to learn how to laugh at stuff
Speaker 1: you ain't supposed to laugh at. Now, ain't got a panda,
Speaker 1: damn it. I'm yeah, I was. You don't remember that call?
Speaker 1: I look at oh man, you're listening to show coming
Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour above four minutes after.
Speaker 1: It's my strawberry letter for today. Subject My man treats
Speaker 1: me like an afterthought. We'll get into that, but right now, nephew,
Speaker 1: tell me, is here with today's prying phone call. What
Speaker 1: you got for his niff? A small favor? That's what
Speaker 1: I want. I'd like to ask for a small favor.
Speaker 1: Now this sounds perfectly harmless. Don't just sure to tell
Speaker 1: him to run it? Small favor? Run run it. Hello,
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Vicky. Vicky, Hey, Vicky, how are
Speaker 1: you doing? Are you the m Are you the niece
Speaker 1: of of uh? Uh? I think it's ain't ain't your aunt? Yes? Okay,
Speaker 1: and you're you're now you aren't passed away? I mean
Speaker 1: I mean years ago, y'all passed. It was about five
Speaker 1: years ago. Okay, listen, I'm over here at the funeral home.
Speaker 1: Uh my, my my sister just passed away, and uh
Speaker 1: they gave me your phone number, did you guys? We're
Speaker 1: going through a little bit of a situation here. Did
Speaker 1: you guys aren't have to you know your was a
Speaker 1: heavy set woman, Is that right? Yes? Okay, now they
Speaker 1: had to Did they have to put her in a
Speaker 1: in a Did they have a bill of a special
Speaker 1: casket for her? Yeah? Okay, that's what we're kind of
Speaker 1: going through with my sister. We ordered a special casket
Speaker 1: for for for my sister, and I'm assuming this is
Speaker 1: the same thing that you guys went through. I've called
Speaker 1: several of her, her children, but I wasn't able to
Speaker 1: get in touch with anybody. But the funeral home actually
Speaker 1: had your name on file as well, so they gave
Speaker 1: me your number where I would be able to talk
Speaker 1: to you. Is that is that? Okay? Yeah, that's Okay,
Speaker 1: you can speak to me, but you know, let's seems
Speaker 1: to be a problem. Well listen, uh, we the funeral
Speaker 1: is actually in two days, okay, and we ordered one
Speaker 1: of those special caskets, but it doesn't look like it's
Speaker 1: gonna be in for another week. So you know, it's
Speaker 1: almost like we're gonna we're gonna we're not gonna have
Speaker 1: a casket for her, um, you know, for the funeral.
Speaker 1: And you know, like I said, the funeral home told
Speaker 1: us about you know that you guys were the last
Speaker 1: ones that order a casket of that size, and you know,
Speaker 1: me and the rest of the family has been you know,
Speaker 1: we've been trying to figure out what to do and
Speaker 1: what to do. Do you think it's any way possible
Speaker 1: we can borrow the casket that your Ain't is in,
Speaker 1: and then when the casket comes in and we ordered,
Speaker 1: we can put her in that casket and put her
Speaker 1: back down to rest like she's always been. Do you
Speaker 1: think that? Excuse me? Hello, hello ese thin cold you
Speaker 1: repeat yourself? What exactly are you asking me? Well, what
Speaker 1: I'm saying is, do you think we can borrow your
Speaker 1: ain't casket? Because you know the funeral is in two
Speaker 1: days and the casket is not going to be in
Speaker 1: in order for us to be able to bury her
Speaker 1: in a in a casket for you know, to accommodate
Speaker 1: her size. That's what I'm asking. What kind of that
Speaker 1: you're talking about? First of all, who is this? Okay? No,
Speaker 1: as Larry, Like I said, my name is Larry. I
Speaker 1: got you, I got you guys. Like I said, I
Speaker 1: tried to call some of her kids, but nobody ever
Speaker 1: picked up when I called her niece's number on file too.
Speaker 1: You you are her niece, Vicky, right, Yes, I am. Okay,
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Do you think that maybe you
Speaker 1: can talk to the children and see if we can
Speaker 1: maybe use that particular casket? Okay, wait a minute, what
Speaker 1: the talking about this? The First of all, who who
Speaker 1: is this? You? You gotta be losing your mind if
Speaker 1: you think I'm gonna let you dig up my amy
Speaker 1: for just to bury yourself stuff. But I understand where
Speaker 1: you're coming from. But what I'm trying to say is
Speaker 1: that we don't have a casket big enough. And they
Speaker 1: were they they let us know that you guys were
Speaker 1: the last ones that had a casket that you know,
Speaker 1: you gotta do with us. Dash. You don't trying stuffing out,
Speaker 1: have you? No? No? Well, okay, First of all, what
Speaker 1: I'm trying to do is this. The family been grieving
Speaker 1: pretty hard and I just wanted to make sure that
Speaker 1: the funeral was be right. And it ain't gonna be right.
Speaker 1: We don't have that bring my family gonna feel digging.
Speaker 1: Any of you lost your They don't call me with this.
Speaker 1: Who is the funeral home that gave you my number
Speaker 1: to ask me to use the casket so you can
Speaker 1: bury your sister? Who is the name of that person?
Speaker 1: I can't remember, but it was it was a guy.
Speaker 1: The funeral director let me know that you guys had
Speaker 1: went through a situation where you had to bury your
Speaker 1: your your your aunt. Like I said, I try to
Speaker 1: call what's your name again? My name is Larry. Okay, Larry,
Speaker 1: this is this is I don't know what give you
Speaker 1: my phone number to call me asking you this? Dun
Speaker 1: Can you believe they call here asking me so can
Speaker 1: dig so they can bury the foster. Here's don't have
Speaker 1: a casset. Hello, No, No, what's your fault? No? I
Speaker 1: understand it's not your fault. What I'm trying to say,
Speaker 1: is what y'all show some sympathy and some love for
Speaker 1: what me and my family going through because we don't
Speaker 1: have a casking Like I say, my sister, My sister
Speaker 1: wasn't was you know, was it? If the heavens was
Speaker 1: a heast good? You know, my condulesce go out to
Speaker 1: you and your family. You know I'm trying to be
Speaker 1: as reserved as I can with this whole situation. But
Speaker 1: do you understand what kind of stupid you're asking me
Speaker 1: right now to actually dig up my art? Whose army,
Speaker 1: who's been and what for fare years? Because there your sister.
Speaker 1: Let me let me ask you this row if this
Speaker 1: when you you ain't ain't gonna know, she ain't gonna
Speaker 1: know where you for you to say to me? What
Speaker 1: you stupid? You're smoking on you smoking crack? What don't know?
Speaker 1: I don't know more. First of all, you know what
Speaker 1: I First of all, I appreciate you trying to work
Speaker 1: with me, but I want to say it is you.
Speaker 1: You don't even have the authority to make that decision
Speaker 1: if you give me one of the numbers to one
Speaker 1: of your cousins. Because I was really trying to be
Speaker 1: nice and became but guess what. We're not doing this stupid.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to be nice to you and tell and
Speaker 1: trying to help you out, but no, you want me
Speaker 1: to get ignorant and ask stupid with you. I was
Speaker 1: trying to be nice and sympathetic, but we're not doing it.
Speaker 1: I'm not giving you the number. I got the authority
Speaker 1: to tell you right now. No, we're not digging up
Speaker 1: so you can bury your sister fear. Okay, so so
Speaker 1: so so, so, that's just it. I can't talk to
Speaker 1: now that. No, you ain't talking to know, but you're
Speaker 1: talking to me. Okay, I got, I got, I got
Speaker 1: something else I need to tell you though, I need,
Speaker 1: I need to tell you something else. Are you listen
Speaker 1: but tell me? I want to tell you this. This
Speaker 1: is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Mornings. Your Vicky.
Speaker 1: Your sister Sheila got me the prank phone called hub.
Speaker 1: Who is this again, Biggy Vicky. This is nephew Tommy
Speaker 1: from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your sister Sheila got
Speaker 1: me to prank phone call you. Oh h y'all you
Speaker 1: got me over, y'all worked up. I'm I'm gonna played
Speaker 1: too much. She ain't got. I got one more thing
Speaker 1: to ask you, baby, what is the baddest and I
Speaker 1: mean the baddest radio show in the land, Steve Harvey
Speaker 1: Morning Show for y'all crazy, it's just a it's just
Speaker 1: a small umbody. The casket, Hey dog, the casket is perfect.
Speaker 1: But for for my sister, that just pas. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I should just use it once? Why
Speaker 1: all that money for one time? There you go, Jay,
Speaker 1: Tommy Baby, Team Tommy. Know what I'm saying. Why should
Speaker 1: a cast could only be used once? Why the person
Speaker 1: is already in the cast, but they gone? How about
Speaker 1: we just do that a show? You sell it again? Yeah?
Speaker 1: And if you if you borrow it, are you going
Speaker 1: to give it back? Ye have any idea? But that
Speaker 1: thing gonna smell a lot with some sense. Plea, damn
Speaker 1: each other. We'll get your ashes out of there. Stupid
Speaker 1: keeps rolling, stupidest rolling this weekend and stupidest rolling right
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Speaker 1: Sunday night. Get your tickets they don't sell right now.
Speaker 1: And laying in the cut Arlington Improv February twenty eight,
Speaker 1: that is Thursday night, and then February and then March
Speaker 1: first and second. The nephew will be in Arlington Improv,
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Speaker 1: all right, thank you nephew, Jesus all right, Coming up
Speaker 1: next Strawberry Letter. Subject my man treats me like an afterthought.
Speaker 1: We'll get into it right after this. You're listening Steve
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And
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Speaker 1: to read this one right here, right now. Buggle up,
Speaker 1: hold on tight, We got it for you here it
Speaker 1: is draw up every letter. Thank you, nephew. Subject my
Speaker 1: man treats me like an afterthought. Dear Stephen Shirley. I've
Speaker 1: been in a relationship for almost two years, and when
Speaker 1: I think about the things this man has shown me
Speaker 1: sexually and mentally, I am floored. He literally takes my
Speaker 1: breath away. But there are a few problems with our relationship.
Speaker 1: We've never spent a night together, and I've never met
Speaker 1: his family except for his twin daughters and their mother.
Speaker 1: What except for his twin daughters and their mother. It
Speaker 1: was a quick high and by when we ran into
Speaker 1: them at Target. We were not together on our one
Speaker 1: year anniversary because of his job. You got it now.
Speaker 1: I didn't see him on Valentine's Day because he had
Speaker 1: his daughters that night. I saw him the next day
Speaker 1: and he gave me flowers. His birthday is three days
Speaker 1: before Christmas, but I didn't see him until Christmas Eve
Speaker 1: because his grandparents were in town. There was nothing on
Speaker 1: Christmas Day and he went to church for New Year's
Speaker 1: Eve without me. Then he came over for a few
Speaker 1: hours on New Year's Day to make up for it.
Speaker 1: I don't discuss how I feel about things for fear
Speaker 1: of running him off, because he told me his ex
Speaker 1: girlfriend nagged him a lot. He is always busy if
Speaker 1: I asked to see him. If I asked to see him,
Speaker 1: but when he calls me, I will drop everything to
Speaker 1: be with him. I don't know why he's acting this way,
Speaker 1: and I pray it's not what my subconsciousness telling me
Speaker 1: it is in his defense. He does work extreme hours.
Speaker 1: He has his kids every other weekend, and he likes
Speaker 1: to chill with his boys to unwind. I offered to
Speaker 1: cook dinner at his house so we could have a
Speaker 1: heart to heart, and he said he still needs to
Speaker 1: buy furniture and fix his place up before I can
Speaker 1: come over. I need him to make me a priority
Speaker 1: in his life. How can I get this through to him?
Speaker 1: Has our relationship run its course? He'll never make you
Speaker 1: a priority. He'll never do that because guess what, he
Speaker 1: already has a priority in his life. Okay, he has
Speaker 1: a priority. You should have titled and titled this letter
Speaker 1: for two years I've been in a relationship with a
Speaker 1: married man, because that's what it is. I mean, think
Speaker 1: about it. You never ever get holidays. You don't get Christmas.
Speaker 1: You don't even get his birthday, which is three days
Speaker 1: before Christmas. You don't get New Year's Eve, you don't
Speaker 1: get New Year's Day, well you get a couple of
Speaker 1: hours when he decides to come over. You don't get
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day, that's the day for lovers. You don't get anything.
Speaker 1: And he played you so hard. He told you his
Speaker 1: ex girl for and nagged a lot. So now you're scared.
Speaker 1: You said, you're scared of running him off. You're scared
Speaker 1: to tell him how you feel and what all of
Speaker 1: this means to you, and why doesn't he spend more
Speaker 1: time with you and what's going on. You're scared to
Speaker 1: bring up how you feel he puts you off. He's
Speaker 1: always too busy for you. He's got the kids every
Speaker 1: other weekend, or he's going out with his boys. You
Speaker 1: can't even go over his house because he doesn't have
Speaker 1: any furniture, really, and you make excuses for him at
Speaker 1: every turn. You have to stop this talking about in
Speaker 1: his defense, he's very busy, Yeah, busy with his wife
Speaker 1: and family running away from you. You have to stop
Speaker 1: all of this. You got to stop seeing him. You
Speaker 1: have to stop answering his call, stop calling him, stop
Speaker 1: everything all of the above, because you already know what's
Speaker 1: going on. You said it. You're subconscious. You don't want
Speaker 1: it to be what you're subconscious is telling you that
Speaker 1: it is. Well, that's what it is. Listen to your
Speaker 1: self conscious, all right. Please please don't be stupid on this.
Speaker 1: I mean, don't be just don't be get yourself together,
Speaker 1: Listen to your head and not your heart. In this situation,
Speaker 1: the man has a wife. Steve, I just wow, I
Speaker 1: know how long have we been doing these letters? Yeah?
Speaker 1: How obvious does it have to be? Yeah? How many
Speaker 1: times have we given advice on this subject? Right here?
Speaker 1: You say, my man treats me like an afterthought. That's
Speaker 1: caust that's what you are. See. You solved that the
Speaker 1: answers in the letter. I've been in relationship for two
Speaker 1: years and now hear what you hear? You hear the
Speaker 1: glory of it. When I think about the thing this
Speaker 1: man has shown me sexually and mentally, I'm floored. Why Well,
Speaker 1: let's talk about what he didn't showed you. We don't
Speaker 1: know what he's doing sexually, but obviously you sprung. He
Speaker 1: literally takes my breath away. Now here, go to letter.
Speaker 1: We've got some problems though. I've never spent enough, you've
Speaker 1: never spent a night together, and I've never met his family.
Speaker 1: What two years and you ain't been over his house?
Speaker 1: And later on in the letters say because he ain't
Speaker 1: got no furniture, who would take two years to get
Speaker 1: a couch? A couch? Who then got this place? And
Speaker 1: in two years. Ain't got a couch, ain't got no
Speaker 1: damn bad, ain't got a TV? Who did a day
Speaker 1: house for two years without no damn cable and somewhere
Speaker 1: to sick? Where do he eat when he at home?
Speaker 1: What do you mean he don't have furniture? Listen to me,
Speaker 1: and I've never met his family except for his twin
Speaker 1: daughters and named mother. And it was a quick hid by.
Speaker 1: We ran into them and talking. That was an accident.
Speaker 1: That was a damn accident. He damn sure wasn't intended
Speaker 1: for you to meet them then, but you did. We
Speaker 1: were not together on our one your anniversary, that's because
Speaker 1: y'all don't have anniversary. What you what is you making up?
Speaker 1: Y'all don't have anniversary because of his job. I didn't
Speaker 1: see him on Valentine's date that cause you ain't his Valentine.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just give it to you because he had
Speaker 1: his daughters that night. Who'll spend Valentine's with the damn kids? Right?
Speaker 1: Which supposed me having sex on Valentine's date? What is
Speaker 1: your kids in here? Fault? Keep you as waving the
Speaker 1: dog crazy? I got the rest of it for you
Speaker 1: when I come back, Steve, I'm not even putting no
Speaker 1: punches with this. Please don't well that Part two Steve's
Speaker 1: response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.
Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's
Speaker 1: strawberry letter. My man treats me like an afterthought. Well,
Speaker 1: that's caused you, and it's all in the damn letter,
Speaker 1: other than when y'all having this crazy ass sex where
Speaker 1: you didn't learn so much. You on the floor. So
Speaker 1: now he literally takes my breath away. But then we
Speaker 1: got some problems. She ain't never spend the night at
Speaker 1: the man's house two years? Why? Because he say he
Speaker 1: don't have no furniture yet. My question is, who ain't
Speaker 1: bought a couch in two years. I don't know where
Speaker 1: do he eat when he at home? He just standing
Speaker 1: in the middle of the floor with some containers. I've
Speaker 1: never met his family except for his twin daughters and
Speaker 1: their mother. And it was a real quick hide and
Speaker 1: by we ran into them at Target. That was a
Speaker 1: damn accident. We were not together on our one year anniversary.
Speaker 1: That's because y'all don't have anniversaries. I'm just going over
Speaker 1: what I went over and then we'll get to the
Speaker 1: rest of it. Because of his job. I didn't see
Speaker 1: him on Valentine's Day. No, that ain't caused his job.
Speaker 1: It's because you didn't see him on Valentine's Day, because
Speaker 1: you ain't as Valentine. Because he had his daughters that night.
Speaker 1: Who the hell spend Valentine Night with their kids, even
Speaker 1: if it's my week of custody. Somebody for the watch
Speaker 1: their ass or Valentine's Night because I got to go
Speaker 1: see somebody naked with a dipper on with a bow
Speaker 1: and arrow Cupid. I didn't played Cupid on Valentine's Day.
Speaker 1: I didn't jumped out the closet with a dipper. You
Speaker 1: have a long time ago, y'all ain't know me then
Speaker 1: I was young. I had the body for that dipper.
Speaker 1: I saw him the next day and he gave me flowers.
Speaker 1: You know why you got flowers because he spent all
Speaker 1: the money on the person, the candy on the girl.
Speaker 1: And anybody give you flowers, that's just stop. They sell
Speaker 1: them on the corner. His birthday is three days before Christmas,
Speaker 1: but I didn't see him until Christmas Eve because his
Speaker 1: grandparents was in time. Wow, who need four days with
Speaker 1: some old ass people to say marry Christmas? Who needs
Speaker 1: fall damn days with some old people that say Mary Christmas.
Speaker 1: Then there was nothing on Christmas Day, as jo, No, no, no,
Speaker 1: that's where you're wrong. Oh, Christmas Day was popping, It
Speaker 1: was jis family woman, Christmas was lit. It just wasn't
Speaker 1: with you, because who can leave their house on Christmas Day?
Speaker 1: And why would he not come over to your house
Speaker 1: on Christmas Day? He got no damn furniture, He didn't
Speaker 1: even got no nothing to sit on and look at
Speaker 1: the damn lights on the tree. Everybody like putting that
Speaker 1: tree up, getting a cup of call fel, some hot chocolate,
Speaker 1: looking at the tree and they dream and then having fun.
Speaker 1: That's the purpose of a tree Christmas. Yeah, that was
Speaker 1: nothing on Christmas Day. And he went to church on
Speaker 1: New Year's Eve without me. That man was not in
Speaker 1: church on New Year's Eve. He was just without you.
Speaker 1: He told you he went to church on New Year's Eve.
Speaker 1: His ass ain't go to church on New Year's Eve.
Speaker 1: Then he came over for a few hours on New
Speaker 1: Year's Day to make up for it. Oh, I bet
Speaker 1: that's when y'all was in the flow, having some of
Speaker 1: that mind blowing sex. I don't discuss how I feel
Speaker 1: about things. For feel running him off because he told
Speaker 1: me his ex girlfriend nagged him a lot. You know why,
Speaker 1: because she was trying to figure out how the hell
Speaker 1: you gonna come over because he had he ain't had
Speaker 1: no furniture in this apartment for about eight years. Oh really,
Speaker 1: she weared his ass to death about coming over, and
Speaker 1: she had never spent the night over there. Okay, he's
Speaker 1: always busy if I ask to see him, but when
Speaker 1: he calls me, I drop everything. I don't know why
Speaker 1: he's acting this way. What You've been with him two
Speaker 1: years and you don't know why he acted in this way.
Speaker 1: He can't act no other way. He got a family.
Speaker 1: He got a family. He can't act no other way.
Speaker 1: I pray. It is not what my suspicion is telling me.
Speaker 1: It is stop praying for something God gives you to
Speaker 1: protect you. You have this thing called intuition. It's telling you.
Speaker 1: Now you want to call it your self conscious. I'm
Speaker 1: prayer is not what my self conscious is telling me.
Speaker 1: It's your intuition and it is telling you that, and
Speaker 1: God gives it to women to protect them, and all
Speaker 1: of women out there listening know every time they go
Speaker 1: against what their intuition tells them, they pay for Every
Speaker 1: woman has done it. True. Now in his defence, is
Speaker 1: he does work extreme hours? What is he a forst fighter?
Speaker 1: Come on? What job he got where he work for
Speaker 1: stream hours? What is he in the UFC fighter? What
Speaker 1: is extreme hours? So he don't get no time? He
Speaker 1: working all these hours and still can't buy no damn
Speaker 1: couch and bed? But he worked extreme hours? Dat He
Speaker 1: has his kids every other weekend and he likes to
Speaker 1: cheer with his boys on wine. I like cheering with
Speaker 1: my boys on wine too, But I'd rather be somewhere
Speaker 1: having six What are you talking about? I want to
Speaker 1: cook dinner at his house. He can't have you over there.
Speaker 1: Somebody over there already cooking and they're not gonna understand
Speaker 1: you coming over because that's they kitchen, right all right?
Speaker 1: I need him to make me a part in his life.
Speaker 1: He's not. How can I get through to him? You can't.
Speaker 1: Is our relationship run its course? You have no relationship.
Speaker 1: That's your strawberry let all right? Thank you Steve, post
Speaker 1: your comments on today's Strawberry letter and Steve Harvey FM
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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Come on Junior with Truth Be Told.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, do god listen, Charlie. I'm so happy
Speaker 1: right there. I really tell me, because Truth be Told,
Speaker 1: I'm told I'll need no help getting necked off the counters.
Speaker 1: All of us on the showcase say that HU have
Speaker 1: to go get the step out on the side of
Speaker 1: refrigerator to get up there. I don't have to do that.
Speaker 1: Three people, I'm in there the most tall stuff. I
Speaker 1: do stuff at the top of the closet, Like, shoot,
Speaker 1: I get that, you're that, I get that. No problem.
Speaker 1: I ain't got no problem getting none of that. Everybody
Speaker 1: on Screwing in Light Bulls no problem. I'm tall. I
Speaker 1: can't do that. Now, everybody on this show, percent of
Speaker 1: us can do that, not one hundred percent, but ninety five.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, I like getting stuff out the freezer
Speaker 1: at the top. I can do that. I can go
Speaker 1: in there and get it back of me. At the
Speaker 1: top of the Tommy can put a light bubby easy
Speaker 1: bake oven. It it just had to be a night
Speaker 1: like night. It had to go at the bottom. But
Speaker 1: he got to get up here where I had to
Speaker 1: me like, man, don't worry about that. I got tall
Speaker 1: shoulders for you to stand on if you need help.
Speaker 1: And I love you. Man, what you do? Short behind you?
Speaker 1: All right? No? No, no, no, no, no, no no no,
Speaker 1: you made a mistake. Hits behind ain't shot. That's the
Speaker 1: tallest thing can get in the talk club? Can he
Speaker 1: get in the talk club? Now? Tall? A little lag man,
Speaker 1: a little hunchback and not the dame booty. Yeah, he
Speaker 1: was a little short with us doing that segment. No, man,
Speaker 1: don't verybody. One day timing one day, man, one day,
Speaker 1: one day. Man. You know they sell these things you
Speaker 1: can put in the shoes and make you you know left. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they give you like another a couple of inches action
Speaker 1: still shot, a couple more inches, you get two inches,
Speaker 1: you're still short. I lose two inches. I'm still talking. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you put those in the shoes, but your heel is
Speaker 1: sticking at the back of your shoe. It looks real, man,
Speaker 1: your shoe. By walking you're listening to show you guys
Speaker 1: already know. But sometimes honesty isn't the best policy. Here's
Speaker 1: a situation or a question that we found on Facebook,
Speaker 1: and this one is from Jerry. Jerry says, when my
Speaker 1: wife comes home from getting her hair done and colored,
Speaker 1: it doesn't look great, but I always tell her it
Speaker 1: does always okay. Any married man should know this, no
Speaker 1: matter what, tell her she looks beautiful. So when do
Speaker 1: you feel like honesty isn't the best policy all the time.
Speaker 1: I'm not all attended. I've been on the hardest look
Speaker 1: on me, just man, just yeah, j I've been on
Speaker 1: the old what you're saying, I've been there. Yeah, yourself, virgad.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to save myself from what I already know.
Speaker 1: If I tell the truth, what's gonna happen? So why
Speaker 1: not try this? Yet? You put your hand on the
Speaker 1: Bible and still lie. That's not a real Bible ship
Speaker 1: And the people that's in there trying to get me
Speaker 1: is not religious people. Everybody in that line to prosecutor line,
Speaker 1: everybody in that line. I ain't you even put my
Speaker 1: hand on the Bible and then hold me to that.
Speaker 1: Have you lied sh in the relationship? Yeah? Last time
Speaker 1: you lied to you, Last time you lied to you?
Speaker 1: Who Uh, it's been a while. That's been a while,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm not Yeah, I don't you know, I
Speaker 1: don't really lie. But last time you lie your wife time,
Speaker 1: there's morning once you call? What perfectly comfortable answer? Yeah,
Speaker 1: Now that was an honest answer from you. When when Steve? Yeah,
Speaker 1: well she out of town right now, So I'm anticipating
Speaker 1: you sooner. Well, I'm anticipating as soon as she called. Exactly.
Speaker 1: But why do you guys lie when the truth will?
Speaker 1: Will we beat? Just fine? I don't get that. Fine,
Speaker 1: don't say that. No truth, Yeah, ninety percent of the time,
Speaker 1: the truth is not fine. Okay, what is she gonna
Speaker 1: ask you that you have to lie about this? I don't.
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. I'll tell you what asked me.
Speaker 1: So let's let's just practice. Let's go, Hi, honey, is
Speaker 1: the raining there about to seem? Like? Why are you asking?
Speaker 1: Because see now I got to Is it raining there?
Speaker 1: Because now what I got to see in you? Yeah?
Speaker 1: In the mail? No, go ahead, She'll ask me something, Uh,
Speaker 1: what are you doing today? What are you gonna do today?
Speaker 1: Like after work? I know you have to work, but
Speaker 1: like after working all day, bab, I ain't I'm gonna
Speaker 1: work all the way to this time to go to bed.
Speaker 1: I ain't got no breaks, no breaks because I was
Speaker 1: thinking about coming down and maybe we could have lunch together.
Speaker 1: Now we don't have a lunch today because we got
Speaker 1: we got cases as backed up for COVID. What did
Speaker 1: you wear to work today? Did Ellie? Um? Did Ellie
Speaker 1: pick something out for you to wear? No? No, I
Speaker 1: just put on something myself. Just got on sweatsuit, that's all.
Speaker 1: Well I saw you posted something and it had Ellie's
Speaker 1: name under it. Yeah, I was picture from last week.
Speaker 1: You know I don't post nothing, no damn way, So
Speaker 1: let's put just from last week. Well, um, have you
Speaker 1: been on Instagram lately? Instagram social media? Yeah? Have you
Speaker 1: been on Instagram lately? When did they When did they start? That?
Speaker 1: To lie? You know, just that that just gets she
Speaker 1: just be going black ass if you don't ride fast, Steve,
Speaker 1: what are you lying about Instagram for? I don't know,
Speaker 1: just practice discussion? Who ye? All right? When did they start?
Speaker 1: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming
Speaker 1: up in twenty minutes after right after this. I work
Speaker 1: with a bunch of liars. Yeah, you're listening to show.
Speaker 1: All right, guys, before we left for break, we were
Speaker 1: talking about lying. Isn't a good time to lie? But
Speaker 1: you guys like, regardless, it doesn't matter. Yeah, And I
Speaker 1: tell you why I lie? Regardless? Why if you tell
Speaker 1: a woman the truth? Yeah, they're gonna expect it all
Speaker 1: the time. Yeah, thank you, and then expectations Yeah, and
Speaker 1: then what happens when I do tell the truth and
Speaker 1: then she don't believe me? I picked those moments where
Speaker 1: I will tell you the truth, but they're very few.
Speaker 1: And then when you when you assume that's a lie,
Speaker 1: then I jump out and improved that it was the truth.
Speaker 1: And then I'm good for another year. See, Damn, every
Speaker 1: time I tell you something, you think I'm lying, then
Speaker 1: I tell you the truth. Now look at this right here, Damn,
Speaker 1: baby allowed me to lie for another year. Love it?
Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying? You see that, Shirley, That's
Speaker 1: how they would I see it. But you know whatever
Speaker 1: with that all the live line. Yeah, ain't you still
Speaker 1: with your husband after all these years? Yeah? Thank the Lord.
Speaker 1: He's been lying? Yes, Yeah, so you're so then you're saying,
Speaker 1: all men, lie, that's what you're saying I'm saying, you're
Speaker 1: saying all men lie absolutely yeah, coming up in thirty
Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour. Well, we'll try to get
Speaker 1: the truth out of you when we play a round
Speaker 1: of would you rather? Right after this you're listening to
Speaker 1: show time now for would you rather? Would you rather
Speaker 1: let your boss see your full Internet history? Or would
Speaker 1: you rather let your spouse see your full Internet history? Yeah?
Speaker 1: You see this all yeah, and he won't fire you,
Speaker 1: And he's gonna fire you might get a raised out
Speaker 1: of them if I do it right. You bade me proud?
Speaker 1: All right, boss, all day? All right? Would you rather
Speaker 1: lose a finger? Lose a finger, or have a headache
Speaker 1: every day for the rest of your life. No, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna take this damn finger. You know that head but
Speaker 1: but but take that Take that ring finger on the
Speaker 1: right hand, you know, the ring finger on the left hand.
Speaker 1: Just give me the ring finger on the right hand
Speaker 1: because I'm left handed, and that finger. I don't need
Speaker 1: that finger to button my shirt or nothing, zip up
Speaker 1: my pants. That finger kind of useless. I'm gonna need that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you ain't gonna be able to hold a knife without
Speaker 1: that thumb without looking like a cave man. Yeah, all right,
Speaker 1: hard to button your shirt with both your index fingers.
Speaker 1: I tell you that right now. All right, picking up
Speaker 1: French fries gonna look a little crazy like you smoking
Speaker 1: a cigarette. Yeah. Would you rather be trapped on a
Speaker 1: desert island with someone who never speaks, never talks to you,
Speaker 1: Or would you rather be trapped on a desert island
Speaker 1: with someone who never shuts up? Hey? Quiet all the time?
Speaker 1: You're gonna get tired of that. Talking, gonna drive you crave.
Speaker 1: I really had to talk. Yeah, you rather have to
Speaker 1: talk to silence to kill me? Junior. You want someone
Speaker 1: who saw the talk to me? We talk every morning.
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't want to talk all time. Okay?
Speaker 1: Do you want someone who who's quiet? What about you
Speaker 1: never shut up? No? I want the person to talk
Speaker 1: all the time. I know how to cut I know
Speaker 1: I know how to shut people out. Anyway. You can
Speaker 1: be talking my ass off to me. Man, I just
Speaker 1: look right at you and be looking right through the
Speaker 1: back of your head. I know how to I know
Speaker 1: how you hearing me. I know you hear me. You're
Speaker 1: looking right at me and make them think I'm looking
Speaker 1: at them. But I'll be my man. Man, I'll be
Speaker 1: looking at something right off to the side of your head.
Speaker 1: Answer me, you know you don't like a bush or something,
Speaker 1: and you as don't even know you talking to me.
Speaker 1: All right, that's today's round guys of would you rather? Now?
Speaker 1: Coming up at forty nine minutes after the hour, it
Speaker 1: is our last break of the day, and of course
Speaker 1: we'll have some closing remarks from the one and only
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening show, all right,
Speaker 1: here we are, last break of the day. Time for
Speaker 1: Steve's closing remarks. Okay, today Tommy sent me something, sent
Speaker 1: me a caption that I'm gonna keep because I oftentimes
Speaker 1: keep quotes in my motivational folder in my photo stream
Speaker 1: and I just look at him from time to time
Speaker 1: when I'm feeling a certain kind of way. Sometimes I
Speaker 1: just need a little uplift myself, you know. And Tommy
Speaker 1: sent me this today and I'm gonna share it with you,
Speaker 1: and it's gonna call me cause me to expound on
Speaker 1: it a bit because it's something I really do believe in.
Speaker 1: It says, do not ask God to guide your footsteps
Speaker 1: if you're not willing to move your feet. Do not
Speaker 1: ask God to guide your footsteps if you're not willing
Speaker 1: to move your feet. You know, folks, it's very simple.
Speaker 1: God can put his finger on something to bless if
Speaker 1: you give him something to put his finger on. But
Speaker 1: you can't. You can't ask God to do something, and
Speaker 1: you're making no effort. Lord, help me get a job,
Speaker 1: but you ain't putting in no applications. Lord, help me
Speaker 1: do right. But all you ever want to do is wrong.
Speaker 1: You're just committed to wrong. You know, you gotta make
Speaker 1: a move in the right direction. You know, faith without
Speaker 1: works is dead. So what Timmy sent me? Do not
Speaker 1: ask God to guide your footsteps if you're not willing
Speaker 1: to move your feet. It's something all of us, and
Speaker 1: all of us are guilty of it. From time to time.
Speaker 1: Sometimes we get complacent. Sometimes we just get the feeling
Speaker 1: side fiurself. You know, man, I guess it ain't meant
Speaker 1: to be. Oh Lord, whatnot? You know? Look, man, you
Speaker 1: can complain your way through life if you want to,
Speaker 1: but you really have to make an attitude adjustment. You
Speaker 1: gotta get two things moving, your attitude and your feet.
Speaker 1: Those two things have to get moving. You gotta start
Speaker 1: taking steps. You may not know the weight how to
Speaker 1: get to the finish line. But the finish line is somewhere,
Speaker 1: It ain't where you at. The finish line is never
Speaker 1: where you're standing. So you got to start taking some steps.
Speaker 1: And once again, you may not know all the steps
Speaker 1: necessary to get to the tape, but you got to
Speaker 1: start the process. Man. So, like the caption says, stop
Speaker 1: asking God to guide your footsteps. If you ain't willing
Speaker 1: to move your feet, you got to put it into motion. Look,
Speaker 1: it's just a dream when you're thinking about it, but
Speaker 1: you gotta put some You gotta put your dreams to work.
Speaker 1: Motivation is when your dreams put on work clothes. You
Speaker 1: gotta take your dreams and put work clothes on the man,
Speaker 1: you gotta start stepping in the right direction. You've got
Speaker 1: to make a move towards the light. You've got to
Speaker 1: step towards the finish line. You've got to start to
Speaker 1: get the way you're trying to get to. You gotta
Speaker 1: get to go. You gotta go to get. Period. You
Speaker 1: cannot stay that whereever you're trying to get. You can't
Speaker 1: be right where you at. It can't be. It can't be.
Speaker 1: I give you look this is. This is a silly example.
Speaker 1: But let's say your family reunion is in Wyoming, which
Speaker 1: I know it's not. That's why I said, And you
Speaker 1: drive to Wyoming. When you get to Wyoming, and you
Speaker 1: reach Wyoming, the state of Wyoming, you still got to
Speaker 1: do something because what where is the family reunion at?
Speaker 1: It just can't go to Wyoming. Well, I'm here, Lord,
Speaker 1: you hear you, wom you Even when you get the
Speaker 1: way you say you going, you got to move around.
Speaker 1: Let's say you get to the park where you're holding
Speaker 1: the family reunion. And you get to the park. Once
Speaker 1: you get to the park, but what you gotta do something.
Speaker 1: You're gonna play softball, volleyball. You're gonna sit there on
Speaker 1: the tree and play domino. You're gonna bob kill, You're
Speaker 1: gonna make the lemonade. You constantly gotta be doing something.
Speaker 1: There is no when you get there, you there. There
Speaker 1: is no more movement required. There's movement required throughout your
Speaker 1: life because wherever you're trying to get to it ain't
Speaker 1: where you at. I can promise you that it's never
Speaker 1: where you at. I'm doing very well in my life,
Speaker 1: it ain't where I'm going. How would I be just
Speaker 1: I'm here now, this it this in what No more dreams, Steve,
Speaker 1: no more visions. You want nothing else. You hear this
Speaker 1: it for you and it doesn't matter mead that people
Speaker 1: look at me and go, man, you gotta all this.
Speaker 1: I don't even see what you're tripping for. I ain't tripping.
Speaker 1: I just to be more than I am. I'm really
Speaker 1: trying to be a better person. I really, really am.
Speaker 1: I'm not content with the person I am. I could improve.
Speaker 1: I could actually be a better person. So I'm in
Speaker 1: the process. God ain't through with me yet. He's working
Speaker 1: on me. I'm trying. I'm better than I used to be,
Speaker 1: but I'm still got my feet moving. So I'm asking
Speaker 1: God to God my steps. But I got my feet moving. Man,
Speaker 1: stop asking God to guide your footsteps. If you ain't
Speaker 1: willing to move your feet can't happen. It's what you want.
Speaker 1: Come on, man, stop that, dude. You're being unreasonable to God.
Speaker 1: Guiding your footstep and moving your feet down the path.
Speaker 1: That's too different that you got to do that. You
Speaker 1: make one step, he'll make two. So if you don't
Speaker 1: make the one, you cannot expect him to make the two.
Speaker 1: He can touch you and bless you, but you got
Speaker 1: to give him something to bless you. Gotta do some. Okay,
Speaker 1: sit at the house watching TV. That's it. Stop asking
Speaker 1: God to gad your footsteps. If you're not willing to
Speaker 1: move your feet, Thank you, Tom, those are my clothing
Speaker 1: them drop it. Okay. Oh now that actually sounded like
Speaker 1: am Mike. That was encouraging. Yeah, all right, y'all have
Speaker 1: a good one. Have a great weekend too. I'll be
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