Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the
Speaker 1: million bucks things and it's too good. Guys together, Please,
Speaker 1: I don't join jo. You got turn out? You're going
Speaker 1: to do? You gotta turn to turn them out. Turn
Speaker 1: you got to turn them out, then turn the water
Speaker 1: the water go. Come come on your tha uh huh,
Speaker 1: I show will good morning everybody, y'all listening to the bars,
Speaker 1: come on dig me not wanting on it. Steve Harvey
Speaker 1: got a radio show, Man on Man on man, grateful
Speaker 1: for it comes with a huge amount of responsibility. I
Speaker 1: didn't really know I was gonna have to be this responsible,
Speaker 1: you know, Um, can I share something with y'all? I
Speaker 1: started out to Finally I had gotten on track and
Speaker 1: was able to see a way to even pursue my dream.
Speaker 1: It has been a long, a long trip that I've
Speaker 1: been on, and I've gone through so many phases of it.
Speaker 1: It is rewarding along the way to accomplish your dreams.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying is this, let me, let me put
Speaker 1: it together because I got so much running through my
Speaker 1: head right now. You know, it's it's one thing to
Speaker 1: accomplish your dream, But there's joy in the process of
Speaker 1: achieving it. See, some people are so caught up in
Speaker 1: the goal, the final goal, that they find no joy,
Speaker 1: no enjoyment in the process. If you have found what
Speaker 1: it is you want to do and you strike out
Speaker 1: on that journey, please understand you are far more blessed
Speaker 1: than the average person to know what it is you
Speaker 1: really want to do. To find your work in life,
Speaker 1: your purpose, to find out what direction you want to
Speaker 1: go in is such a blessing. The average person, if
Speaker 1: you sit down and talk to them, oftentimes don't have
Speaker 1: their life on track. And it'd be some people that
Speaker 1: you're looking at you think God it going on because
Speaker 1: of their appearance, their swagger, or they walk like it,
Speaker 1: they talk like it, they look like it. But if
Speaker 1: you sit down and talk to the average person, the
Speaker 1: average person man does not know what their purpose is,
Speaker 1: has not discovered what they want to do, and have
Speaker 1: no idea how to get there. If you are on
Speaker 1: the other side of that, if you understand your purpose,
Speaker 1: if you have an idea of what you want to be,
Speaker 1: and you are on your way there, you are truly blessed.
Speaker 1: And in that blessing. You must recognize it as a blessing.
Speaker 1: You must recognize the fact that you are on the
Speaker 1: right side, and that there should be a sense of
Speaker 1: accomplishment and a feeling of pride in you that you
Speaker 1: are on track to accomplish your goal. See what used
Speaker 1: to happen was sometimes I used to keep my nose
Speaker 1: so on the grindstone that I wouldn't even look up
Speaker 1: and realize. Man, hey, man, I know you're trying to
Speaker 1: get here, but Steve, hold on, man, can't you see
Speaker 1: what you've done so far? Can't you find there's some
Speaker 1: joy in the process. See, a lot of us lose
Speaker 1: the joy of the blessings God has given us because
Speaker 1: we're looking at the end. Tomot, I ain't there yet.
Speaker 1: You on your way. I'm gonna give you an example.
Speaker 1: I had a friend who told me that they wanted
Speaker 1: to be a million now, and they asked me some
Speaker 1: questions and I told him, so they started the process,
Speaker 1: and I am telling you, this dude works extremely hard.
Speaker 1: So about a year later we were talking. He had
Speaker 1: found this business, he had set his goal, and he
Speaker 1: was working towards it. Then about two years later I
Speaker 1: ran up into him again. We were talking about it
Speaker 1: and everything. It's a man. Really really appreciate the advice.
Speaker 1: He said, Man, but this is all jacked up, man,
Speaker 1: because I still ain't made that million I was talking about.
Speaker 1: I said, well, hey, man, just just keep at it.
Speaker 1: It's coming. He's a man. Keep at it. Man. You
Speaker 1: know how long I've been doing this? Been two years now.
Speaker 1: And I didn't say that to him, but I said
Speaker 1: to myself, yeah, two years. He said, Man, I've been
Speaker 1: grinding so long. Man, it's just it ain't having it
Speaker 1: from me. I said, wait a minute, man, hold on,
Speaker 1: hold on. I said, about how much you're making right
Speaker 1: now a year? Man, about two hundred and fifty thousand.
Speaker 1: I quit breathing. I said, well, my man, two years
Speaker 1: ago you didn't have a clue. Two years later, you're
Speaker 1: making a quarter of a million dollars. I said, man,
Speaker 1: do you understand how blessed you are? I said, man,
Speaker 1: your family was about to get put out two years ago.
Speaker 1: You don't bought a house? Yeah, man, but this ain't
Speaker 1: the house. I really won't. Ohh Pardner, whoa, I got that.
Speaker 1: I got that house. You really won't make Mike call
Speaker 1: five eight million. I don't know but man, all got
Speaker 1: a house, you're making a payments, you drive it. You
Speaker 1: ain't out no more. I said, hold on, man, you
Speaker 1: got to stop. I said, you got to stop. I said, man,
Speaker 1: because right now, man, you you coming across as real
Speaker 1: ungrateful to me. And so he said, man, why are
Speaker 1: you tripping like that? Man? Man, you act like don't
Speaker 1: nobody want to have nothing but you? I said, whoa man,
Speaker 1: where are you going with this conversation? I said, Oh,
Speaker 1: I didn't come to you. I just came to you
Speaker 1: and ask you how you doing. And I'm trying to
Speaker 1: point out to you that the journey that you started on,
Speaker 1: that you are on your way, and you are in
Speaker 1: the process of accomplishing your goals. And can you not
Speaker 1: feel some joy and some pleasure in your accomplishment. Quit
Speaker 1: tripping on the fact that you ain't made a million yet.
Speaker 1: You on your way. You don't went from your He thought,
Speaker 1: this dude was making fifteen thousand dollars a year. You
Speaker 1: making quarter of a million dollars in two years. May
Speaker 1: come on, man, can't you see? Can't you see? So
Speaker 1: he said eventually a man, I kind of see what
Speaker 1: you're saying. But that ain't about nothing to me because
Speaker 1: I ran up into him a year and a half later.
Speaker 1: How you doing, man, Man, I showed, wish I'd appreciate
Speaker 1: it my life when I had it like that? I said,
Speaker 1: what you mean, had it like that? Man? Just fell
Speaker 1: on some hard times, Man, I'm right back why I was.
Speaker 1: And then we talked. I said, hey, man, don't worry
Speaker 1: about it. I said, Once you know how to accomplish something,
Speaker 1: I said, you just reapply the same principles and start
Speaker 1: on over again. Man, you know how hard it is
Speaker 1: or be to start over. Okay, my man, Hold up, partner,
Speaker 1: you can't do yourself like this again. First you wasn't
Speaker 1: grateful for what you had. Now you're looking at the
Speaker 1: fact that you might have to start over, and you
Speaker 1: know how hard it is to start over. Maybe God said, okay,
Speaker 1: you ain't happy with this. Okay, didn't handle it your way?
Speaker 1: You obviously ain't happy with the way I'm bringing it
Speaker 1: into your life. You want to handle it your weight,
Speaker 1: Go ahead and handle it because he will let you
Speaker 1: have it your way. Can I tell you that he
Speaker 1: will let you do it exactly the way you want
Speaker 1: to it because He gives us all the power of choice.
Speaker 1: So then maybe he said, Okay, you don't appreciate the
Speaker 1: way I'm doing it. You don't like the favor I'm
Speaker 1: showing you. You think it's take it too long. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna let you do it your way. I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: turn my back on you. I'm just gonna let you
Speaker 1: do it your way. Just just say. Maybe he said that,
Speaker 1: and now he right back where it was. So what
Speaker 1: I try to get the young cat to understand was, man,
Speaker 1: appreciate your life for what it is. Because like life,
Speaker 1: Jenny's got that song that he got out off this album.
Speaker 1: Still I still believe it could have been worse. And
Speaker 1: now that it is worse, what's on your mind now, folks,
Speaker 1: If you are on that side of life where you
Speaker 1: have figured out what you want to do, you know
Speaker 1: how you're gonna get that, and you know your purpose.
Speaker 1: You're accomplishing what the majority of people never ever do.
Speaker 1: So be grateful for your process. Don't tumble yourself, don't
Speaker 1: throw yourself off the cliff. It's gonna be all right.
Speaker 1: Success takes a measure of time. It is not easy.
Speaker 1: If success were easy, everybody would be successful. You're listening
Speaker 1: to show ladies, and gentlemen, here we are. It is
Speaker 1: time for the Steve Harvey Morning Show. And who better
Speaker 1: can tell me and wake you up to what time
Speaker 1: it is than the legendary brother duo of Casey and
Speaker 1: Joe Joe. Here is their version of It's time. It's
Speaker 1: slipping away from me? Yeah, Hi, slipping away man. Hi,
Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, ask Casey and Joe Joe's Internet version
Speaker 1: of life. I heard it the other day and I
Speaker 1: think I stopped saying it all day yesterday. And if
Speaker 1: you want to, just them two in the studio and
Speaker 1: it sounds exactly like keep flipping away, Rob Stupid. So
Speaker 1: that's how we're doing it this morning. I couldn't I
Speaker 1: couldn't stop saying, Ladies, Jim, Charley Strawberry, callin for real
Speaker 1: mouth the South, Junior and the legend of Nephew Tommy
Speaker 1: My people been riding with me, Junior. What's on your
Speaker 1: mind to day? Let me ask this, how old was
Speaker 1: you uncle when you discovered the power of no? I mean,
Speaker 1: you know, the terrible tools is when children first started
Speaker 1: doing no. That's when I discovered the consequences of note.
Speaker 1: Because I wasn't raised in the family where we weren't
Speaker 1: alive to have terrible twos. Terrible twos was a very
Speaker 1: short time for me. I think mine was two days.
Speaker 1: I had two days until the two before I found out, Hey,
Speaker 1: you you ain't white, get yourself together. Now, as I
Speaker 1: grew older, it's crazy, I understood the power of no.
Speaker 1: What I first started liking girls, and that was early
Speaker 1: in my life because, and I tell people, I never
Speaker 1: went through the phase of not liking girls. I never ever,
Speaker 1: I can't remember not liking little girls kindergarten. I had
Speaker 1: valentized cause I had little sweethearts. I wanted a girlfriend
Speaker 1: from the time I could remember. I never went through
Speaker 1: the faith girls what. So asking a girl to be
Speaker 1: your valentine and them saying no was devastate. But what
Speaker 1: I learned was it made me won't one even more.
Speaker 1: And so the power of no gives you a moment
Speaker 1: of pause, a moment to understand your true power. And
Speaker 1: it also taught me the value of things. And that's
Speaker 1: how I learned about no. From the little girl who
Speaker 1: did not want to be my valentine. You know how
Speaker 1: you checked the block be my Valentine? Yes? Yeah? And
Speaker 1: I got back six of them cars and five of
Speaker 1: them head no owner. Yeah, you know, I was playing
Speaker 1: a numbers game back then. I just didn't want all right,
Speaker 1: coming up next at thirty two minutes after the hour,
Speaker 1: we'll run that break back the nephew right after that. Man,
Speaker 1: you're listening, all right, It is time now, guys for
Speaker 1: the nephew and run that break back. What you're running
Speaker 1: back today? Now what you got barely? I come humbling
Speaker 1: stupid this morning. I come bearing nothing but stupid to
Speaker 1: Tim in the best form of comedy that I can
Speaker 1: h present this right here is Jean. I got your girl, Jean,
Speaker 1: I got your girl, cat dog. If you whod hello,
Speaker 1: sweet of Jean, my name Vernon brother was playing. What's
Speaker 1: going on? I need to huh let you for a minute,
Speaker 1: my man. I want to let you about your wife.
Speaker 1: So you got a minute. Yeah, I'm listening. I don't
Speaker 1: even know how to break this to your dog. I
Speaker 1: just want to be straight up with you, man, Me
Speaker 1: and your wife have been kind of seeing each other,
Speaker 1: and really she want to let you go. But she ain't,
Speaker 1: you know, she really ain't out of it, got it
Speaker 1: up in it to say she want to let you go.
Speaker 1: So I'm coming to you like a man and letting
Speaker 1: you know, you know that she really wanted to shut
Speaker 1: it down with you. We've been seeing each other for
Speaker 1: a minute now, so I don't know how we can.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm just coming at you like a man brother,
Speaker 1: trying to let you know she don't even really want
Speaker 1: you no more. You know, we've ben't talked about it,
Speaker 1: talked about it, and I'm just trying to get it all.
Speaker 1: I know. I'm tired. I'm tired of hiding with it. Really, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: Well you know it's a lot smoother than I expected. Player,
Speaker 1: I man, it is what it is. It is what
Speaker 1: it is. I mean, as long as long as you
Speaker 1: as long as you cool, I thought, you know, I
Speaker 1: just want to be a man called how I let
Speaker 1: you let you know. Have you seen her today? And
Speaker 1: where are you from? From Jersey? I'm up around Nork.
Speaker 1: I mean, you said it's a lot smoother than you
Speaker 1: thought I was gonna be. Well, you know, anytime I'm
Speaker 1: another man from the car, another man about his wife.
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, you don't expect it to be nothing,
Speaker 1: you know, pretty simple, that's for sure. I didn't contemplate
Speaker 1: it a long time by calling you saw you know,
Speaker 1: the day I just said to head whatever, I get
Speaker 1: my number. So I've been hand your number. I had
Speaker 1: your number a long time. All right, now you say
Speaker 1: you're looking U there's a lot smoother than you thought
Speaker 1: its gonna be. It ain't that smood. But you know
Speaker 1: you don't want you know, the thing is, you got
Speaker 1: one up on it because you know my information. Now
Speaker 1: I's gonna come find you. Okay, wait wait wait wait
Speaker 1: wait wait wait hold up? Now good? You feel like no,
Speaker 1: hold up, okay, you feel like you need to be
Speaker 1: looking for me or something. Brother, Look look ahead, let's
Speaker 1: check this out. This is a decision that the wife
Speaker 1: has made. You understand what I'm saying. So you have
Speaker 1: no reason to be mad at me about anything. You
Speaker 1: have no reason to be coming looking for me or
Speaker 1: any information on me, because see, when that happens, then
Speaker 1: it's gonna really get stinky up in here. And I'm
Speaker 1: trying not to let that happen. That's why I'm calling
Speaker 1: you like a man. Brother. Trust me, Man, ain't nothing
Speaker 1: that I'm never worried about. Okay, Well, I'm just letting
Speaker 1: you know, man, I'm letting you know up front sheet
Speaker 1: with me and how contemplated a long time y'all to y'alla,
Speaker 1: so now you know here we are. So I said,
Speaker 1: you know, what the hell with it? I'm calling to
Speaker 1: day y'all should have did this on the phone together.
Speaker 1: I respect both of y'all a lot more. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: you know, and then you know, if that's what it's
Speaker 1: got to be, we be face to face together whatever
Speaker 1: it's gotta be, man. Okay, So, but but let me
Speaker 1: ask you this here where it's going in. Once we're
Speaker 1: both staying flat footed and tell you how it is.
Speaker 1: Then what I ain't gonna never be flat footed? Okay?
Speaker 1: What flat footed or upside down ain't where you want
Speaker 1: to look at it. Bro. I'm trying not to get
Speaker 1: into this physical part, but it seemed like you're leaning
Speaker 1: that way with me. It could be whatever you know.
Speaker 1: It could be on this side of the other side.
Speaker 1: And don't make it difference. It never does, brother, It
Speaker 1: never does. When two bulls come together, one of them
Speaker 1: got to go down. No, guess what we are doing
Speaker 1: too much? You got my information. Guess what Now I'm
Speaker 1: lock loaded than hunter for you. You lock and loaded.
Speaker 1: There's no need for you to say there's no need
Speaker 1: for us discussing anymore. Okay, cool, you know why why
Speaker 1: we at it? Man, let me go and drop it
Speaker 1: all on you then, because it's it seemed like we
Speaker 1: need to go and get it all out the way.
Speaker 1: You cool? You know what I'm saying. I think you
Speaker 1: need you know, matter of fact, if you want to
Speaker 1: just keep it all the way real, you might want
Speaker 1: to go take a blood test about a line and
Speaker 1: make sure you to Papa to that. All right, feel me?
Speaker 1: Got it? So I'm gonna have your wife getting your car, man,
Speaker 1: because we didn't contemplate it or too long and it's time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you do that. You know my information? Like I said,
Speaker 1: you said enough, you're hit enough bones yet now I'm
Speaker 1: really loading hunter for somebody. So you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: somebody's got to go. What you mean? Wait? Wait, what
Speaker 1: was all this? Somebody got to go? What you're saying,
Speaker 1: somebody got to go? Okay, you're trying about either me
Speaker 1: or you. One of us got to go because you're
Speaker 1: saying the wrong thing. Because what you must understand is
Speaker 1: if I've given you as much information as I already have,
Speaker 1: that means I have enough information to know where you
Speaker 1: are brother. You know nothing about me norway I reside.
Speaker 1: So if you're gonna talk about locking load and somebody
Speaker 1: got to go, then you're saying it to the wrong person,
Speaker 1: because I'm already up on you. Player. You got a
Speaker 1: first off, they ain't really annoyed because it got a
Speaker 1: country action. So second off, like you've done them on
Speaker 1: the real street. So however you want to handle it,
Speaker 1: you know my information. Guess what, I don't reside in
Speaker 1: the more. I ain't doing more and that's what. Now
Speaker 1: you've got to start from scratch like me. He'll go
Speaker 1: to math. Man, you're ready for that. You're ready for
Speaker 1: this math, You're ready to player, He'll go to math.
Speaker 1: This nephew, Timmy from the Steve Harvey mart And Show.
Speaker 1: You've been pranked by your wife? Yeah, black man until
Speaker 1: I but you you kind of had me scared for
Speaker 1: a minute because you really wasn't flinching. You whatever you
Speaker 1: eating over there, you never did stop eating on it. Oh,
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna stop eating. I'm keeping I listen to
Speaker 1: you every morning. What's the baddest radio morning show in
Speaker 1: the land, Steve Harvey Show. What y'all think? Oh? I mean,
Speaker 1: you know that's a run that prank back you're here
Speaker 1: to yesterday? But what what? What do you really think?
Speaker 1: He don't prank a gangster? What? What? What? What? Vastly
Speaker 1: while they're eating, Yeah, thanks's knee pranking too. He never
Speaker 1: stopped chewing. I was scared for you, still am. If
Speaker 1: you want another I prank from a distance. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I don't nobody, Thank you, thank you
Speaker 1: for that. Coming up next, it has Asked the CLO
Speaker 1: with our Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building,
Speaker 1: ready for your love questions. Right after this, you're listening
Speaker 1: morning show. Coming up at the top of the hour,
Speaker 1: we have a very special guest. R and B superstar
Speaker 1: Tank will be joining us. He needs to talk about
Speaker 1: his brand new album and his final album. It's called
Speaker 1: R and B Money. But right now, can't wait for that.
Speaker 1: Right now, it is time for Ask the CLO Chief
Speaker 1: Love Officer Steve Harvey right here for you, all right.
Speaker 1: Teresa in Long Beach writes, I have a male friend
Speaker 1: that brought me a lot of nice jewelry and he
Speaker 1: helped me get a car. I wanted to date him exclusively,
Speaker 1: but he didn't want that. Now if I miss his
Speaker 1: call or don't want to go out with him. He
Speaker 1: loves to mention what he's given me. I am not
Speaker 1: given any of the gifts back, So how do I
Speaker 1: deal with him? No? Are you kidding me? You know
Speaker 1: why he gave you to Gilts. You know what he
Speaker 1: wanted when he gave you the guilt. You know what
Speaker 1: you did to get to Gilts. So now what's the deal.
Speaker 1: You don't want him exclusively? She said, she don't want
Speaker 1: him exclusively. No, he doesn't want her. He doesn't want
Speaker 1: to date. She wanted to date him exclusively. He doesn't
Speaker 1: want that. Okay, so what does she want now? Sure,
Speaker 1: maybe I'll misunderstood the question. Well, she you know he
Speaker 1: doesn't want that, so she's gone on with her life.
Speaker 1: She he doesn't want her to miss a phone call
Speaker 1: or she if she can't go out with him or
Speaker 1: doesn't want to go out with him, then he'll mention
Speaker 1: you know, well I bought you this, I bought It's
Speaker 1: just like thank you, always be gracious, thank you. I
Speaker 1: really appreciate it. I'm enjoying the jewelry, I'm loving the car,
Speaker 1: but I want more, and until you are willing to
Speaker 1: give me more then this is what I'm giving you.
Speaker 1: You want the rest of it, just like he wants
Speaker 1: the rest of it. Well, if you've given all you're
Speaker 1: gonna gill, then you got to draw a line with
Speaker 1: all you gonna give. And it's fair that way. I'd
Speaker 1: love to not miss your call and call you right back.
Speaker 1: But it's not because you bought things. I wanted it
Speaker 1: because I wanted an exclusive relationship. You don't want an
Speaker 1: exclusive relationship. Then when your phone rang, I might be
Speaker 1: doing something else. But I love you though, and I
Speaker 1: wish we could be. But obviously it's not what you want.
Speaker 1: You're not getting your gifts back. No, no, you can't
Speaker 1: get none of this stuff back now. But stay that's right,
Speaker 1: that's a that's a good point, Steve. That's a good point. Um.
Speaker 1: Justine and Paramas says, I'm dating a man that has
Speaker 1: two small dogs and he expects me to love them
Speaker 1: as much as he does. They're his ex wife's dogs
Speaker 1: that he's keeping for her because she's developed allergies. He
Speaker 1: needs to cut ties with her and the dogs. Am
Speaker 1: I wrong? Nope? No, no, no, nobody damn about some
Speaker 1: dogs but him and huh no, Now you got to
Speaker 1: love something that he supposedly used to love the ex wife,
Speaker 1: and now she still got control and ties to him
Speaker 1: through them too. Damn dogs. Now you got to get
Speaker 1: in their relationship and he wants you to love the
Speaker 1: dogs that really belonged to her. That this sounds so
Speaker 1: stupid to me. If I was you, I just go, hey,
Speaker 1: listen to me. It's the dogs on me and it's
Speaker 1: real silfle cool. I choose me because I don't like
Speaker 1: the tide that keeps you bound to that. And obviously
Speaker 1: you're not ready to move on because you know they
Speaker 1: got kennels all as we love the dogs like family.
Speaker 1: Well they ain't, damn it. You know they just like kids.
Speaker 1: No they not dogs. Is not like kids. No they don't. No, no, No,
Speaker 1: I've had both. It ain't close. And you begged to differ,
Speaker 1: all right. Moving on to Emberley in Chattanooga, Emberley writes,
Speaker 1: I went on a first date with a guy that
Speaker 1: only drinks wine. I don't drink wine. When I ordered
Speaker 1: a mixed drink, he commented that classy women drink wine.
Speaker 1: I only had one drink, but he drank a whole
Speaker 1: bottle of wine, So how can he judge me? Am?
Speaker 1: I not classy for ordering what I like to drink?
Speaker 1: Is it a turn off for men? Wine has nothing
Speaker 1: to do with you being classy or not. It has
Speaker 1: nothing to do. It's nothing wrong with you have in
Speaker 1: a cocktails. That's a rule. He came a wit because
Speaker 1: that's what he drink. Classy women drank wine. Well, then
Speaker 1: some people say classy women don't drink at all, and
Speaker 1: then some people can say classy women only drink martinis
Speaker 1: or Cosmo. Who is this food coming along? Because it's alcohol.
Speaker 1: It's a damn glass alcohol right now? Which one you like? Business?
Speaker 1: He drank a whole bottle of wine. And then you
Speaker 1: want to just tell him real men drink Scotch and
Speaker 1: see what he's say. Oh, I like it. I like it.
Speaker 1: You know, real men drink bourbon. See what he's say.
Speaker 1: Because I ain't got no friends except one. It used
Speaker 1: to every time order glass of shamblee everywhere we went.
Speaker 1: He wanted to get glass of shabbleep. But let me
Speaker 1: tell you something. He was all the man you could
Speaker 1: won't And I'll say something to him, crazy, get slapped
Speaker 1: with the bottle of shably. That's how he was. And
Speaker 1: I've seen it almost happened before. All right, so moving on,
Speaker 1: this is our last one. Steve Lexie and Gaithersburg says,
Speaker 1: my sixteen year old daughter has a body like a
Speaker 1: thirty five year old woman, but she acts like a
Speaker 1: nerdy kid. I'm seeing text messages on her phone from
Speaker 1: read different boys. She loves the attention. But I burst
Speaker 1: her bubble and told her what boys really want. She's
Speaker 1: very upset with me, and how do I fix this?
Speaker 1: You don't what are you trying to fix it? For?
Speaker 1: Truth is truth? You know? My daddy always told me this,
Speaker 1: he says, son, if somebody, if you tell somebody the
Speaker 1: truth and they don't believe you, that ain't your fault. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so now I've had to tell my children the truth.
Speaker 1: My daughter, she was telling me dad, he just want
Speaker 1: to be friends. Girls. Stops, dumbass boy want to be
Speaker 1: your friend. Fault. You don't play video game, you don't
Speaker 1: play no sport, you don't do nothing he do. Now
Speaker 1: you could do something he want to do, and that's
Speaker 1: why y'all friends. But right now you currently don't do
Speaker 1: anything he do with his friend. Nothing in common. So now, no,
Speaker 1: you don't fix it. You stay persistent and you teach
Speaker 1: and if you can get one of your brothers or
Speaker 1: uncles to come in here and double down on what
Speaker 1: you just said so she'll understand. All boys want the
Speaker 1: same thing. My job was just to make it hard
Speaker 1: for you to get it over here. That's all. I
Speaker 1: put a wall around my daughters. Now. Now I can't
Speaker 1: do nothing with it now, but I had a wall
Speaker 1: around them when they lived at the house, and I
Speaker 1: made it difficult to get to. I know what you want.
Speaker 1: I know what you want. I know their last one
Speaker 1: of y'all want. I just like her cause we're friend.
Speaker 1: What's your ass out of here than you're talking to like?
Speaker 1: I ain't been a boy at the folks man. Please
Speaker 1: all right, Cello nailed it today. Thank you. Coming up
Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, Steve, family member and
Speaker 1: friend of the show Tank right after you. You're listening,
Speaker 1: she show Hey, y'all, that's promise. We got special guests
Speaker 1: this morning. We got a family member. We've actually been
Speaker 1: around for the release of all his album and today
Speaker 1: he's dropping his tenth and final album of his career.
Speaker 1: But Lord her Mercy, this boy can say, yes, he's
Speaker 1: a singer, he's a songwriter, actor, all around talented brother,
Speaker 1: and we invited him so he could introl the new
Speaker 1: album here on the show because he's family. So we're
Speaker 1: gonna get into it. Ladies and general, please put your
Speaker 1: hands together for family member, our man Tank. Come on now,
Speaker 1: come on yeah, yeah, yeah, take a celebrators, now, come
Speaker 1: on get to Yeah. Let me have flowers while I
Speaker 1: can stroll. Hey, how you being? Man? I've been good man.
Speaker 1: You know, it's been a long time coming in y'all.
Speaker 1: Y'all have beenness to day one, just like you said, man,
Speaker 1: and the love and the support has been unwavering. And
Speaker 1: you know I expect that same same support and love
Speaker 1: as I moved into this new chapter of just doing
Speaker 1: more things man, and just trying to keep R and
Speaker 1: B in the place where I know, I know it
Speaker 1: should be. Well, we appreciate it, man. We got this
Speaker 1: new one now, this is the final album. It's called
Speaker 1: R and B Money. It's got two number one singles already.
Speaker 1: Why don't you tell us about this new music? Man?
Speaker 1: Is this classic Tank with the ballance what we're looking at? Yeah? Man,
Speaker 1: you know, you know you you made that tape back
Speaker 1: in the day that's set the mood tape. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. It was uninterrupted. Yeah, you know, so
Speaker 1: you so you could get some real work done, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Kind of really, boy boy, you
Speaker 1: could focus as soon as soon as you press play.
Speaker 1: Nobody really had to say anything because the intentions were
Speaker 1: clear based on the music in the in the mood,
Speaker 1: and the tone of what that music was saying. So
Speaker 1: for the first I want to say, nine songs, somebody's
Speaker 1: in trouble, you know, somebody's somebody's gonna get touched. Hey man, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you got to say somebody heard in a long time?
Speaker 1: What Yeah, Yeah, there'll be some touching and some agreeing. Uh,
Speaker 1: because we we gotta agree. We have to agree. Ain't
Speaker 1: agree all nine clear? Thing clear. But from the tone
Speaker 1: of the album, from song number one through nine, everybody
Speaker 1: hit know what need to occur? No, what need to
Speaker 1: We're in here. You you know what you see is
Speaker 1: stop all this. We gotta get back to that. We
Speaker 1: got to get focused, you know what I mean. And
Speaker 1: R and B music has always been a place that
Speaker 1: you could go to to, you know, to to introduce yourself. Hey,
Speaker 1: how you doing, I'm such and such for you know,
Speaker 1: to reintroduce yourself. I know you remember me, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, or to just rekindle um that flame
Speaker 1: and music would have that conversation for you that you
Speaker 1: probably didn't know how to have yourself. So I just
Speaker 1: you know, for this first three quarters of this album,
Speaker 1: I wanted to be able to speak into those relationships,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, and speaking to those moments
Speaker 1: m uninterrupted uninterrupted break. We started talking about Slow, so
Speaker 1: we're about to hear it now. Tank set up Slow
Speaker 1: for me in the LS play. Slow is really amazing record,
Speaker 1: a record that you know, I can proudly say I
Speaker 1: didn't write or produce, But when I heard this record,
Speaker 1: I said, these young fellas is onto something and in
Speaker 1: a space R and B music needs to be in
Speaker 1: because you know, we got to get back to taking
Speaker 1: our time. Social media has spared us up and we
Speaker 1: no longer take the time to appreciate the nuances, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Are we still running bubble bass?
Speaker 1: I don't know what they're doing in twenty I don't
Speaker 1: know if we still running bubble bass, you know, I
Speaker 1: don't know if they're still heating the oil up. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, were just not pouring it on
Speaker 1: you out the bottom. You know we're gonna we're gonna
Speaker 1: put that in a night shore like yeah, are they
Speaker 1: still heating up? I got a microwave in the bathroom
Speaker 1: thought for playing with rosy? Are you in the mot
Speaker 1: when you see the look on my face? That's my
Speaker 1: type of few? Can I swim many other rotion? Can
Speaker 1: I drown in it? To baby? When I come do yours?
Speaker 1: I'll make you running over and over and dover and lota.
Speaker 1: Just slow and that you slow. We ain't gonna tackle
Speaker 1: time out. Get me up, get up, show me what
Speaker 1: I need to know. Now I think it's about the
Speaker 1: go down and you ain't control so sexual how we
Speaker 1: end up on the floor. Now, I think we on
Speaker 1: the full ground. On't your back throwing back? It's breaking
Speaker 1: things you do makes me proud of you. It's stamina,
Speaker 1: it's so for you. I'm a grabbing nigh smag. It
Speaker 1: can't get it. I gonna we'll be right back. You're
Speaker 1: listening Harpy Morning show. Light everybody, We're back. And before
Speaker 1: the break we heard tanks newest single slope. Well, everybody,
Speaker 1: you know this is tanks tenth and final out. So man,
Speaker 1: let's just I mean, so after this, I mean, what's
Speaker 1: the next fight. You know, as I speak to my
Speaker 1: last album in my retirement, it's getting to a place
Speaker 1: to where somebody got to hold the gate. Somebody has
Speaker 1: to be able to go into these officers and have
Speaker 1: these conversations, whether it be for new record deals for
Speaker 1: real R and B artists, whether it be a touring
Speaker 1: for real R and B artists, whether it be endorsements
Speaker 1: and all these things that have gotten away from real
Speaker 1: R and B artists, Like we need the next generation
Speaker 1: of R and B artists, songwriters, producers. They got to
Speaker 1: have a place to go, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: Like the last great R and B label was the
Speaker 1: Face Records with La Read and Babyface and and it's
Speaker 1: no mystery as to why they were that, but they
Speaker 1: were that because they were that. And so you know,
Speaker 1: I feel like it's my responsibility to put myself in
Speaker 1: a splace to where I can build this R and
Speaker 1: B label, all things R and B. That's all we need.
Speaker 1: Want to you want to make money come to you, Well,
Speaker 1: hey man, that's what we need. We appreciate you, man,
Speaker 1: don't look even though your last album, we know we
Speaker 1: ain't gonna we have Harley seen or heard the last
Speaker 1: of you, because you in this business for the long haul,
Speaker 1: and I'm hearing the label talking the place far and
Speaker 1: be the live. We wish you well with everything. Man.
Speaker 1: You know you got a home here for whatever you
Speaker 1: decide to do. And slow has motivated me, and I
Speaker 1: suggest y'all do the same. Go in your bathroom and
Speaker 1: clear off all that counter space and all that stuff
Speaker 1: that ain't doing nothing, all that bad beads that you
Speaker 1: ain't never opened, and that damn lotion you don't stole
Speaker 1: from them hotels. Get all that stuff off the counter.
Speaker 1: Get yourself from microwave up there. Put a microwave on
Speaker 1: the counter. Get you a spatchler out to kitchen. Get
Speaker 1: you some stuff you can work with in there. Put
Speaker 1: the other minting. Now, get you some stuff in there
Speaker 1: that there's some some utential, your rolling pin, stuff that
Speaker 1: you already got in the house that could come in
Speaker 1: handy some honey over there, Get some flowers. Start yea
Speaker 1: what caring starts they put card starch one babies for
Speaker 1: die for rash Back in the day, you can ask
Speaker 1: what else to do? Yeah, yeah, Steve, we're going full size,
Speaker 1: Michael Webb. We're going like a half size like the hotel.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, we just need a small one because a
Speaker 1: lot of people bathroom ain't got all that room. You
Speaker 1: don't want a hot place. You're gonna mess out the
Speaker 1: engine yourself. You're gonna injine yourself with that hot place.
Speaker 1: Steve Harvy Nation, here's a deal. This is the tenth
Speaker 1: and final album of his career. The album is called
Speaker 1: On and B Money. It got two number one singles
Speaker 1: on it already. We heard slow. There are others want
Speaker 1: you all to do what we do best. That the
Speaker 1: Steve Harvy Nation. It's on all downloading streams to all
Speaker 1: of the real old people out there. Get your nephews
Speaker 1: and grandkids that come in there and downloaded fighting and
Speaker 1: and I'm an album to Steve Harvey Nation. We owe
Speaker 1: it to Tank. He's given us so many years the
Speaker 1: great music. Everybody, go get it, ladies and gentlemen, put
Speaker 1: your hands together for the legend Tank. Okay, we'll be back.
Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. There he is there
Speaker 1: all the time. Sam names the names. Even all you
Speaker 1: gotta do all the you know what, like yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: rock over bam here you are? Yeah heah, man, you
Speaker 1: know what man, everything everything went old? H Hello Roscoe, however,
Speaker 1: what's up? Roscoe as the girl? Then Roscoe my hero,
Speaker 1: my man on one time a dog boy over and
Speaker 1: then going over the rim man. What's y'all do? Mother
Speaker 1: to day? What y'all need? Roscoe? We're not surprised you're
Speaker 1: here because we just had a special guests family member
Speaker 1: U Tank about this new album surprise he's here, Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: I'm not by will have me here so I can
Speaker 1: explain the new album Tea. The new album is R
Speaker 1: and B Money. But he's got a new single. It's
Speaker 1: called Slow, So I gotta ask you. I know you
Speaker 1: heard it? What do you think about that? And Tank
Speaker 1: said he didn't write the song? So do you know
Speaker 1: who wrote it? We all we know good Hair where
Speaker 1: he ain't wrote it? And here you think I'm here
Speaker 1: for this goes into the right back into the lawsuit
Speaker 1: that I had early in this year. Through it. Everybody
Speaker 1: now what they doing it? They're trying to be slick
Speaker 1: Tall my day ain't wrote it. I know Gooda here
Speaker 1: where you ain't wrote it. Everybody knew I wrote slow,
Speaker 1: Yeah I wrote I wrote slow, What are you? What
Speaker 1: are you thinking about? The inspiration for that song I wrote?
Speaker 1: I wrote, h huh, Well, let me ask what year
Speaker 1: was a man's patient proclamation? Eighteen sixty? I wrote slow
Speaker 1: in eighteen sixty eight? Were you alive? Then? Really right,
Speaker 1: y'all was lying here? I wrote the song for that
Speaker 1: because it took them so damn long to sign the
Speaker 1: damn paper. And when I wrote slow, you know what
Speaker 1: you need to realize? Stop? You need to really really
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Yeah, we'll go ahead and really stop.
Speaker 1: Why because nobody believes that, Roscoe. You're just popping up
Speaker 1: after ten kids been our special. I ain't pop up.
Speaker 1: Whoa y'all called me? Y'all call me, let me jall
Speaker 1: you something? I wrote Slow right after man's fatal proclamation.
Speaker 1: But I got news for you? What fast coming out next?
Speaker 1: Aclim it out right out of it right here? You
Speaker 1: I know how to write a hit, baby, because rocket
Speaker 1: go ahead? What what was your inspiration for the song slow?
Speaker 1: Since you wrote it, you ain't literally what was your inspiration?
Speaker 1: White folks sold long to free the slaves that it
Speaker 1: inspired the song slow. I told it to Tink Tank
Speaker 1: turned it into a love song. It was sexy. It
Speaker 1: wasn't what sexy when I wrote it? You know, Tank
Speaker 1: a and being the here the dand one what he
Speaker 1: gonna do? He can't write a slave song? Right? No?
Speaker 1: You know, do you really know Tank though? The bigger dude?
Speaker 1: Tank know me? Who had a Tank? Thank you? Gotta
Speaker 1: be crazy. I knew all in religions. I knew his
Speaker 1: uncle helicopter U. I knew it that air folks now
Speaker 1: where naked got the name? Air folk? Who was what calling?
Speaker 1: I have a question, have you ever thought about instead
Speaker 1: of suing all of these people Tank, all of these singers,
Speaker 1: have you ever thought about just Collabo doing it? You know?
Speaker 1: You know that hand had had crossing my mind. It
Speaker 1: had not it had it had done crossing my mind? Okay,
Speaker 1: to do what you do? Ellabor with these people? Collabor?
Speaker 1: So what happened? You know? Just everybody won't be I'm
Speaker 1: always getting fought over. They end up don't go in
Speaker 1: with none of these people, and they just stealing, stealing Rusco.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry to say. We're out of China. You're listening,
Speaker 1: coming up at about four minutes after the hour. It's
Speaker 1: my strawberry letter for today. And the subject is why
Speaker 1: is he in my brother's house? We'll find out in
Speaker 1: just a little bit. We'll get into it, but right
Speaker 1: now it is time for the nephew and the prank
Speaker 1: phone call for today. Now what you got? So the
Speaker 1: title of the Strawberry letter is why is he in
Speaker 1: my brother's house? Right? Right? Yeah? This prank here because
Speaker 1: I left my medicine in your house. You see what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Oh kind of goes together. Yeah, yeah, we're
Speaker 1: gonna you know, we want to have a title fight.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, We have a title fight.
Speaker 1: I left my medicine in your house. All right? That
Speaker 1: is a cat dog if you would We're going to
Speaker 1: strategically dive into this one. If you're driving right now,
Speaker 1: I think you should pull over because this one right here,
Speaker 1: this home running hitter, this classic nephew Tom, I left
Speaker 1: my medicine in your house. Let's go Hello Clarence, Yeah
Speaker 1: this see it was just hey Clarence. Uh hey mon
Speaker 1: named Sherman dog. Your house is the one that uh
Speaker 1: got broke into last week? Right yeah? Man, just waiting
Speaker 1: on the police to get back women Tim if they
Speaker 1: found these people or not. Man. So now hold on,
Speaker 1: what's your name again? No, Surman, Sherman. How you here
Speaker 1: about it? Oh? No, you know, I stay a couple
Speaker 1: of streets, so everybody in the neighborhood kind of heard
Speaker 1: that y'all had got broke in on. Damn man, everybody
Speaker 1: being kind of kind of real good around him. Man.
Speaker 1: Just don't make no sense. Man. You go out here
Speaker 1: and work hard for stuff, and then you know, people
Speaker 1: just do you like this? Man, It's just I'm just
Speaker 1: glad what nobody hurt. Man. My wife and my son
Speaker 1: they alive, and that's you know, that's the best thing. Man.
Speaker 1: So you know, trying not to custom like this happened.
Speaker 1: You know, I understand. Man, you stay a couple of
Speaker 1: streets over you say yeah, yeah, yeah, hey hey, let
Speaker 1: me let me let me say this to you. Man.
Speaker 1: I want to say for I hate what happened, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Yeah, And uh I do, man,
Speaker 1: you know, and I'm glad y'are your family and stuff. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I said, well, hey, man, can I just can I
Speaker 1: just say this here? Man? Uh? And I don't really
Speaker 1: know how to say it, but uh, I was. I
Speaker 1: was with the two dudes that had broken there. I
Speaker 1: was with them when they did that. Okay you did?
Speaker 1: You just say you was with them that broke in
Speaker 1: my house? Oh so you were broke in my house?
Speaker 1: No seeing, no see see that's why I'm to see
Speaker 1: the clear. That's what I'm I'm calling you trying to
Speaker 1: tell you. I was trying to talk them out of it.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Well, what the happening? Because
Speaker 1: they did this, I couldn't talk about it, but you
Speaker 1: know I was what I wasn't there taking nothing. It's
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Hey, okay, okay, okay, who was any
Speaker 1: attention then? And I can't I can't be doing I
Speaker 1: can't do that. I can't see. I ain't trying to
Speaker 1: get in the middle of that. No, no, no, you
Speaker 1: can't do that. You just called my damn phone. Oh
Speaker 1: you can tell me who broke any is you was
Speaker 1: one of them? Do what I was wanted with you?
Speaker 1: That ain't this? That ain't even the reason why I
Speaker 1: called man. I don't give a damn what the reason
Speaker 1: you call me? You called me broken? Who who was
Speaker 1: with you? Who was with you? Man? I'm matter fact
Speaker 1: what streets you stay on? Let me say this to you, man,
Speaker 1: this is really why I called ain't when we was
Speaker 1: in there, and then they started screaming at all and
Speaker 1: in each other, then saying we got to hear him
Speaker 1: get out. You know. Like I said, I was in
Speaker 1: there trying to talk to them out of that. I
Speaker 1: don't give it. If you tried to talk them into it,
Speaker 1: you broke into my man, broken my heart you and
Speaker 1: got the my dadhit to call me. Okay, but listen, man, listen, listen,
Speaker 1: listen to me, man. I'm listening to you fucking while
Speaker 1: I was in there, man, and know it was we
Speaker 1: was getting out of there in a hurry. I actually
Speaker 1: love I my uh my pills fell out my pocket,
Speaker 1: my bottle of pills, man, my medicine, and I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't got no more repells on it, man, and
Speaker 1: I need my medicine. That's why I'm calling you to
Speaker 1: see if you don't man, me coming back over there
Speaker 1: to get my pie. I don't go about your medicine.
Speaker 1: Who gives us about I'll tell you what I tell you.
Speaker 1: I can ask me about some medicine. I was just
Speaker 1: caught up in a bad situation. Man. I swear to God,
Speaker 1: if I see you over I swear to God, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna beat yours. I'm gonna beat your You better be
Speaker 1: glad my sean. I wasn't in my house. Man. Listen, man,
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to get have no problems with nobody.
Speaker 1: I just need my medicine. Man, your medicine. You got
Speaker 1: problems with me, but I don't have no more repills
Speaker 1: on that medicine. I need my medicine now. I get said,
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. I'll tell you what. Come come
Speaker 1: get you. You know exactly where I said. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: have to get the front door open. You ain't got
Speaker 1: the break in this time. Come get your buy medicine.
Speaker 1: I spear to God, gonna need more than just that game.
Speaker 1: I'm medicine. I put some on your I smell, why
Speaker 1: are you down? And I don't on man. Man, And
Speaker 1: I'm the one that was in there trying to talk
Speaker 1: him out of it. He was with them because that's
Speaker 1: the point. I don't know that's bringing them to telling
Speaker 1: them to help you. Come get your medicine. So all
Speaker 1: I want to do is get my medicine and be
Speaker 1: through with this. That's all I'm trying to say to you.
Speaker 1: I ain't trying to start. No trouble with you start,
Speaker 1: No bay, some trouble you'll bron get to my You
Speaker 1: know what, I tell you what I all this? You know,
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. Come get the medicine. Come come, come,
Speaker 1: get the medicine. Right now. I'm at what what street
Speaker 1: you stay on? I bring it to you. Hey, man,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna go back and form arguing with you. Man,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna come over and get my medicine. And man,
Speaker 1: you're gonna be through with each other. You ain't got
Speaker 1: to go back and forth. I tell you what, Come on,
Speaker 1: gonna get your some medicine right now. This anymits you're
Speaker 1: gonna need some moments your medicine. They're gonna come breaking
Speaker 1: my from house. You both get to my shoe. I
Speaker 1: take care on my wife and my kids in this house.
Speaker 1: I understand that. And I would not be back in
Speaker 1: your arms. I can get my mouth gives you houling
Speaker 1: that dog. I'll tell you what you know. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: you ain't gonna be back in my house. After you
Speaker 1: get you medicine. You're gonna have a permanent new residence.
Speaker 1: I swear to God, you're gonna be living in the cemetery.
Speaker 1: I gotta lie my friend. I need to see before
Speaker 1: I get over there. The man say this on your
Speaker 1: way over here, I'm gonna. I'm no, I want my friend.
Speaker 1: I need to say it. Who say that's what I say?
Speaker 1: It is? That's my prop from the stem harm In
Speaker 1: Morning Show. You just god pray by your sister bright. Hello?
Speaker 1: Who the is this a man? And class? This nephew?
Speaker 1: Tell me man from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You'll
Speaker 1: supster breed got me to prank you man boy? You
Speaker 1: you oh, you play too so much. I don't believe this,
Speaker 1: Missy say, man, they broke in my brother Owes he
Speaker 1: needs spirits, he said, come on calling me and get it.
Speaker 1: You know what you damn that had you a well
Speaker 1: with bad? Oh man, why y'all wrong for this? Here?
Speaker 1: Oh man? Hey, man, let something. What is what is
Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the land. It is the
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Listen, bro hey, And if then
Speaker 1: that that broke in my house is listening, Uh, you
Speaker 1: come back over here. If you left your medicine, come on,
Speaker 1: come back and get it. I'm at home right now.
Speaker 1: If they listening, they come on back over the now yeah,
Speaker 1: right right now, bring your boy, y'all roll for that.
Speaker 1: I don't know nobody better than me. I hate to say,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? I am the I am
Speaker 1: the I am the Steph Curry lebron of Price. When
Speaker 1: you leave your medicine and somebody house that y'all broke into.
Speaker 1: Come on, man, come on, and you called back for yours.
Speaker 1: You was with them blanketed banks and what it got?
Speaker 1: The nerd a call boy? Boy? You are really a
Speaker 1: dumb criminal? Yeah yeah, yeah, what are you? You're sick
Speaker 1: for any right? Right right? But let's not let me
Speaker 1: go through any more complications. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I understand they stole your stuff. I got there, but
Speaker 1: help me out here with my medicine, right, do me
Speaker 1: a solid? I have a heart, brother, have a heart. Wow,
Speaker 1: catch me tonight baby on the Own Network. Ready to
Speaker 1: Love a style The Nephew coming straight at your baby
Speaker 1: tonight on the Own Network nine eight tenth. You don't
Speaker 1: want to miss me. That is Ready to Love Miami,
Speaker 1: hosted by yours truly nephew. Tell me, get it get
Speaker 1: it in, get you some loving, come on, can't wait?
Speaker 1: Thank you? Nephew coming up next Strawberry Letter. The subject
Speaker 1: is why is he in my brother's house? We're gonna
Speaker 1: find out right after this. You're listening Dave Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if
Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting and more,
Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com
Speaker 1: and we could be reading your letter live on the air,
Speaker 1: just like we're gonna read this one right here, right now,
Speaker 1: and you never know, it could be yours. It could
Speaker 1: be yours. Buckle up and hold on type be guided
Speaker 1: for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter, Thank you nephew.
Speaker 1: Subject why is he in my brother's house? Dear Stephen Shirley.
Speaker 1: I'm writing for my brother because he is too upset
Speaker 1: to do it for himself. My brother is thirty eight
Speaker 1: and his wife is thirty five, and she has planned
Speaker 1: a trip for Labor Day with two girlfriends and a
Speaker 1: guy that has been her friend since they were eighteen
Speaker 1: years old. This guy was married before and he has
Speaker 1: one child. Now he's no longer dating women. He told
Speaker 1: my brother that he is a great new man in
Speaker 1: his life, but he keeps him away from his friends
Speaker 1: because it is not serious yet. My brother told this
Speaker 1: guy it's imperative that he meet the boyfriend. And here's wife.
Speaker 1: My sister in law is always with this guy, and
Speaker 1: my brother thinks she's cheating on him right in his face.
Speaker 1: Now the guy is going on vacation with his wife,
Speaker 1: so my brother got really skeptical. But that's not the
Speaker 1: biggest issue. We need to know how far another man
Speaker 1: is allowed up in another man's house. Last week, my
Speaker 1: brother came home and this man was sitting in a
Speaker 1: shirt and shorts on the patio, his wife being on
Speaker 1: the couch. The guy said they had gone running in
Speaker 1: the neighborhood and he jumped in the shower while she
Speaker 1: took a nap. The biggest issue is that he took
Speaker 1: a shower in my brother's bathroom. My brother uses the
Speaker 1: upstairs bathroom so his wife can have the primary bathroom
Speaker 1: all to herself. There is a shower downstairs in the
Speaker 1: other guest room, but this guy went upstairs and used
Speaker 1: my brother's shower. My brother feels that this guy is
Speaker 1: way too comfortable in his house and it's his wife's
Speaker 1: fault for letting him do it. I agree with my
Speaker 1: brother and his wife needs to be checked and this
Speaker 1: guy should not go on vacation with her. What if
Speaker 1: his boyfriend doesn't even exist. I am trying to stay
Speaker 1: out of it, So I need your advice on how
Speaker 1: my brother should handle this situation. Okay, Sis, it just
Speaker 1: sounds like someone might get hurt in this situation. I
Speaker 1: don't know. I just feel that in my spirit somehow.
Speaker 1: Huh of course. Yeah, a lady writer's letter or guy.
Speaker 1: A sister wrote the letter for her brother because her
Speaker 1: brother's too upset to write it, and I was just
Speaker 1: going to get to that, Steve. It's confusing. This letter
Speaker 1: is really confusing. But from what I gather, the wife
Speaker 1: you guys suspect is cheating on her husband your brother
Speaker 1: with the guy who she said is gay to throw
Speaker 1: everyone off. That's kind of what she's trying to say here.
Speaker 1: And not only is your brother mad about the cheating
Speaker 1: he thinks that he thinks is going on, he really
Speaker 1: is angry that the guy is in his house using
Speaker 1: his shower and acting like it's okay because his wife
Speaker 1: gave him permission, especially when there are other bathrooms in
Speaker 1: the house. You're also asking for yourself and your brother.
Speaker 1: How far should another man be allowed in a man's house.
Speaker 1: And I'm going to tell you right now, you shouldn't
Speaker 1: even have to ask that question because at your house
Speaker 1: it's simple. You set the rule. It's a respect thing.
Speaker 1: I don't care who it is. If you don't want
Speaker 1: him in there, he shouldn't be in there, as simple
Speaker 1: as that. I mean. And your wife, his wife, your
Speaker 1: sister in law, should know better. She should never let
Speaker 1: another man or anyone disrespect the household, especially your husband's things,
Speaker 1: your husband's bathroom. She's wrong for this. I think it's
Speaker 1: just a matter of time before the truth about her
Speaker 1: and her so called gay best friend comes out. So
Speaker 1: tell her you're going on the trip too, and that
Speaker 1: will be nice time for the two of you to
Speaker 1: reconnect and have some fun. That's what the husband should say.
Speaker 1: See how she reacts. If she protests just a little
Speaker 1: too much, that then you'll know that your instincts are
Speaker 1: right and you can deal with her accordingly. But all
Speaker 1: signs are pointing to she's cheating with this guy, the
Speaker 1: so called gay friend of hers. I mean, he has
Speaker 1: too much leeway in the house. All of that. It's
Speaker 1: just too much. It's way too much. Steve, and it's
Speaker 1: very confusing. I know that you know what. I'm so
Speaker 1: damren confused him. It is very confused because let me
Speaker 1: read this letter with y'all and let me just go
Speaker 1: as I'm feeling this letter. Okay, we may not ever
Speaker 1: even get to the end. Why is he in my
Speaker 1: brother's house? I'm confused with I'm not a girl. Let
Speaker 1: me see just Stephen Shelley, I'm writing for my brother
Speaker 1: because he is too upset to do it for himself. Well,
Speaker 1: as we go through this letter, we're gonna find out
Speaker 1: that your brother is incapable of doing several things for himself,
Speaker 1: not only write this letter, but he's too upset to
Speaker 1: do it for himself. Okay, you've been calling in this
Speaker 1: little boy. My brother thirty eight, his wife thirty five.
Speaker 1: She's playing a trip for Labor Day with two girlfriends
Speaker 1: and a guy that has been her friends since they
Speaker 1: was eighteen years old. How many times have I got
Speaker 1: to tell y'all about these male friends that y'all keep thinking,
Speaker 1: just want to be your friend? How many times we
Speaker 1: got to go over there? How many letters do we
Speaker 1: need for y'all to get off this trick trail and
Speaker 1: quit thinking this marriy go around, don't come around. I'm
Speaker 1: so sickly yup. This guy was married before, he has
Speaker 1: one child. Now he's no longer dating women. Hello. Now
Speaker 1: I've heard of this, We've seen it in famous people.
Speaker 1: A person starts living their truth later on in life.
Speaker 1: That's lowable, that's doable, that's fine. But now I don't
Speaker 1: know at what point he decided he no longer dating
Speaker 1: women because he was making kids of men. So there
Speaker 1: had to be some type of Steve oh girl at
Speaker 1: Coming up in twenty three minutes, half coming up today's
Speaker 1: strawberry letter? Why is he in my brother's house? We'll
Speaker 1: be back right after this. You're listening show, all right?
Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter, the subject
Speaker 1: why is he in my brother's house? This letter is
Speaker 1: beyond me ridiculous, y'all. I ain't even touched on any points.
Speaker 1: So let me try to do it quickly. Why is
Speaker 1: he in my brother's house? I'm writing for my brother
Speaker 1: because he's too upset to do it for himself. Your
Speaker 1: brother too upset to write? He too upset to do
Speaker 1: a lot of things in this letter. Let's get to it. Ye,
Speaker 1: my brother thirty eight is wife thirty five. She's playing
Speaker 1: a trip for Labor Day with two girlfriends and a
Speaker 1: guy that's been her friends since they were eighteen years old.
Speaker 1: I'd have told y'all about these opposite sex friends. I
Speaker 1: have told y'all about this, but y'all don't believe me.
Speaker 1: So this is another strawberry letter to help you understand.
Speaker 1: This guy was married before, he has one child. Now
Speaker 1: he's no longer dating women, but he's still friends with
Speaker 1: your your wife though jo on date women no more.
Speaker 1: But he didn't cut your your wife out. He told
Speaker 1: my brother that he has a great new man in
Speaker 1: his life, but he keeps him away from his friends
Speaker 1: because it is not serious yet. Man, what First of all,
Speaker 1: if you are my wife's friend me and you ain't
Speaker 1: that cool you telling me about a new man you got,
Speaker 1: but you don't bring him around your friends yet because
Speaker 1: it ain't that serious. Wait a minute, we ain't all
Speaker 1: discovered the news yet that you don't date women no more,
Speaker 1: So then you ain't brought him round your friends because
Speaker 1: you don't know if it's serious yet. Have you told
Speaker 1: your new friend that you don't date women no more?
Speaker 1: Or maybe you've been running in this circle the whole time.
Speaker 1: I don't know what's happening right here, but because of HR,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna comment. I'm just gonna try to keep moving. Okay,
Speaker 1: Then my brother, your brother told this guy's imperative that
Speaker 1: he meet the boyfriend and his Why what, man, I
Speaker 1: don't give a damn what you doing. I ain't gonna
Speaker 1: meet your damn boyfriend. But here's why. Though my sister
Speaker 1: in law is always with this guy that didn't stop
Speaker 1: liking women and date men now and got a child
Speaker 1: and used to be married. My sister in law is
Speaker 1: always with this guy. My brother in law thinks he's
Speaker 1: cheating on him right in his hold up. So your
Speaker 1: brother think that his wife is cheating with the guy
Speaker 1: that don't don't date women. Know more that that came
Speaker 1: up to him, and now he wants to meet this
Speaker 1: guy's new guy, but he'd have told him, and he
Speaker 1: don't want him to meet yet because he don't know
Speaker 1: if it's seriously that fam missed me with this Just ay,
Speaker 1: why is the ass whipping not started yet? Because I'm
Speaker 1: trying to figure out if I think my wife is
Speaker 1: cheating with a man. And then he come up in
Speaker 1: my face and strike up any conversation. I want to
Speaker 1: meet this new guy. Well, it ain't serious yet, so
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna bring him. Man flick pop dead in
Speaker 1: your jaw, Dead in your damn jaw. Now the guy
Speaker 1: is going on vacation with his wife, So my brother
Speaker 1: got real skeptical. But that's not the biggest issue. What's more,
Speaker 1: we need to know how far another man is allowed
Speaker 1: up in another the man's house. Wait a minute, much.
Speaker 1: I needn't know how you ain't allowed in my house,
Speaker 1: not how far you ain't. You can't knock on the door,
Speaker 1: rang the doughbell, You can't call my damn house. I
Speaker 1: wish I would come home and you in it. Pardon
Speaker 1: I can't take in all right, let's go. Last week,
Speaker 1: my brother came home and this man was sitting in
Speaker 1: the shirt and shorts on the patio. His wife was
Speaker 1: sleep on the couch, knocked out. Probably that's she sleep
Speaker 1: on the couch knocked out. The guy said they had
Speaker 1: gone running in the neighborhood and he jumped in the
Speaker 1: shower while she took a nap. What right hold of dun?
Speaker 1: You're so cool and comfortable, you and my wife weren't running.
Speaker 1: You didn't took a shower in my house. In my house,
Speaker 1: this ain't our house no more. See when it comes
Speaker 1: to a man of the man, No, it's the other
Speaker 1: man's house. I don't care what the wife say. You
Speaker 1: already know you need to check with this man. The
Speaker 1: biggest issue is that he took a shower in my
Speaker 1: brother's bathroom. Hold on, dog, you're in my room, oh pardoner,
Speaker 1: this man, my brother uses the upstairs bathroom to his
Speaker 1: wife can have the primary bathroom all to himself. There's
Speaker 1: a shower downstairs in the other guest room. But this
Speaker 1: guy went upstairs and used my brother's shower. Yeah, ain't
Speaker 1: want upstairs because that's where the bad room. Man. Might
Speaker 1: as well go around the corner. Why you think she
Speaker 1: downstairs knocked out on the couch, right man, I'm in here.
Speaker 1: I'm in here whooping so much ass. I'm telling you
Speaker 1: right now, you can't count the asses just getting whoop.
Speaker 1: Everybody got some, the lawn boarding, got something on the
Speaker 1: way in the milkman, the mail man that got some.
Speaker 1: Ask car repair dude and got to ask whoopen? You
Speaker 1: got to ask whoopen? From right man? He don't even
Speaker 1: have ass no boat. My brother feels that this guy's
Speaker 1: way too comfortable in this house, and his wife's fought
Speaker 1: for him. Do it. No dog is your fault because
Speaker 1: you letting him do it. You let this man come
Speaker 1: up in your house and sit around and you ain't
Speaker 1: at the house. Oh man, this ain't on your wife,
Speaker 1: just on you. You being disrespected on so many levels.
Speaker 1: It's an ignorant ass letter. I agree with my brother
Speaker 1: and his wife needs to be checked and this guy
Speaker 1: should not go on vacation with her. What is his
Speaker 1: boyfriend doesn't exist. I'm trying to stay out of it,
Speaker 1: so I need your advice on her. My brothers can't
Speaker 1: handle this situation. Your brother need to start woman somebody
Speaker 1: all right? Thank you, Steve. Coming up next, it is
Speaker 1: Junior and Sports Talk. Right after this you're listening Stry
Speaker 1: Morning Show. It is time now, ladies and gentlemen, for
Speaker 1: Junior and Sports Talk, which you got junior. Thank you, Shirley.
Speaker 1: Don't forget September first, Huntsville, Alabama. Stand up laugh here
Speaker 1: I come, Oh, I can't wait September first. You take
Speaker 1: your favorite play cousin gonna be in to build it.
Speaker 1: I can't wait to do this show for y'all Huntsville
Speaker 1: stand up, laugh, We're gonna do that. But uncle, let's
Speaker 1: talk about it. Lebron James, man lit'ten. I just need
Speaker 1: to put this in perspective. Lebron James signed an extension
Speaker 1: to stay with the Lakers for two more years, but
Speaker 1: they panned this boy. Ninety seven million? Wait a million? Wait,
Speaker 1: wait a minute, perspective. Tell me ninety seven million making
Speaker 1: that's what his wife said at the house, ninety seven millions,
Speaker 1: making him the highest NBA player paid NBA player ever ever.
Speaker 1: Nobodies made more money in the NBA did Lebron Jack?
Speaker 1: He ain't. But what dude, ninety seven million dollars to do?
Speaker 1: We don't know? Millions? What this? Dude? How you how
Speaker 1: you deal with nine seven me? Well? How you act?
Speaker 1: First of all, let's let's break it down. That's over
Speaker 1: two years. That's forty eight point five a year, Yes, sir,
Speaker 1: I'm I understand, yes, yeah, but how are you acting?
Speaker 1: How many games? Is it? Though? Let me just explain
Speaker 1: it to you. What the cutoff points is that? Yeah,
Speaker 1: once you make two hundred thousand dollars, you're in the well,
Speaker 1: in the upper realm of what the average person makes
Speaker 1: in the world. So understand that if you're making two
Speaker 1: hundred thousand dollars, it catapolts you into the upper end
Speaker 1: of what the average person makes. I don't know the
Speaker 1: exact percentage, but it's up there. Once you make anything
Speaker 1: over two hundred, you you in the stratosphere. Once you
Speaker 1: get into the millions, you are into percentages of percentage
Speaker 1: of people. Wash, you get into the tens, you are
Speaker 1: into the percentage of the percentages of that percentage of people.
Speaker 1: You follow what I'm saying, Wash, you get up there
Speaker 1: where lebron ad who is a billionaire? Huh, you just
Speaker 1: it's a magazine. You can just start flipping through and
Speaker 1: looking at him. They can put them all on a
Speaker 1: sheet of paper. Everybody that's a billion now can get
Speaker 1: on a piece of paper one sheet. Yeah, all right,
Speaker 1: he buying stuff you can't even look at You got
Speaker 1: that Michael Jackson money where you just buying stuff. You
Speaker 1: don't even know what's sale the heir You didn't bought
Speaker 1: this giraffe from Michael Marinade on that for a bit,
Speaker 1: because coming up at the top of the hour, we
Speaker 1: have a Facebook question from a listener right after this
Speaker 1: You're listening show? All right, So guys, this is a
Speaker 1: Facebook question from j M and Lafayette, Louisiana. J M says,
Speaker 1: I found out that my husband has a side piece,
Speaker 1: and I confronted him. He admitted that he has tried
Speaker 1: to leave the woman alone, but he can't. I have
Speaker 1: a good life with him and he is a great dad.
Speaker 1: We haven't had sex in two years, and I'm okay
Speaker 1: with that. I don't want to leave him, and he's
Speaker 1: promised me that he won't ever leave me and the kids.
Speaker 1: Am I crazy for accepting this lifestyle? What do you
Speaker 1: think about that? Steve Harvey? Well, you ain't hair sex
Speaker 1: what he meant to you? So what what did you
Speaker 1: want him to do? Please tell me you having it,
Speaker 1: she said with him. But see, I don't if you
Speaker 1: all are not having sex, and you're not having sex
Speaker 1: for whatever reason, you've lost your desire, you got medical issues.
Speaker 1: I don't know what the case is. He he don't
Speaker 1: have none of that. He's good. But let me tell
Speaker 1: you something. When you got the nerve to tell your
Speaker 1: wife I've tried to leave her, No, that's what you're
Speaker 1: seeing this man. Listen to me, baby, I've tried to
Speaker 1: leave her. Lord him, mercy, I'm telling you right now,
Speaker 1: this woman is doing some things to him where his
Speaker 1: confession is inclusive of the thing she's doing. All right,
Speaker 1: he is surely asked me about you found out about us? Um?
Speaker 1: So baby, um, I is this true? Please tell me
Speaker 1: this isn't true. I heard you have a side piece.
Speaker 1: Oh you how'd you find that out? Back? Um? You know,
Speaker 1: word gets around a social media all that. I saw
Speaker 1: you guys together? U huh? Well can you leave her alone? Please? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I gotta side people. So it's true. Yeah, yeah, Well
Speaker 1: you do realize we're married? Can you please leave her alone?
Speaker 1: Well we've been telling about two years now? How how
Speaker 1: long to do you? Why am I just not funding? Well?
Speaker 1: Well you you found out when you told me we
Speaker 1: wasn't having sex more. Well that's only been two years.
Speaker 1: But yeah, well that's how long I started seeing her,
Speaker 1: because when you said we're not having sex no more?
Speaker 1: So we meet? We to me, met me and you long.
Speaker 1: I didn't sign up for this, I honestly think the
Speaker 1: wife says she Next question, sir, you have a question.
Speaker 1: I'm very calm. I was hoping to let you know that.
Speaker 1: I was just gonna let you know, dog, tell her,
Speaker 1: don't don't, don't. Don't call this side piece no more
Speaker 1: at all. Don't don't do that, do not call her.
Speaker 1: I could call her and tell her stop messing with
Speaker 1: my husband. No, you don't know you're gonna I've tried
Speaker 1: to stop seeing her. I've already tried that. I've tried
Speaker 1: into two years. I've actually set her down fifteen times.
Speaker 1: You're not trying hard enough, and said we can no
Speaker 1: longer do that. As soon as I got through talking,
Speaker 1: she did it to me again, and I said, what
Speaker 1: is she doing to you? That? Excuse me? Yeah? What
Speaker 1: is it? What is what? What is she doing? Yeah? Girl, girl, girl, baby,
Speaker 1: you don't need to notice. You sure you want to know?
Speaker 1: Because I don't think you're gonna be I don't think
Speaker 1: you're gonna be able to do nothing. You all are missing.
Speaker 1: The wife doesn't care. They've already said you don't you're missing.
Speaker 1: He don't care. I'm not. The wife says she's going
Speaker 1: along with this a great dad and they have a
Speaker 1: great light. He ain't had sex in two years with him. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because I'm upset and Shirley is saying the wife doesn't care,
Speaker 1: wife doesn't care. Everybody is take happy. Let's not bother you.
Speaker 1: Boo Yeah. Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour,
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Speaker 1: summer favorite. Okay, and guys, I have to ask you this.
Speaker 1: It is Friday. What are your weekend plans? Plans? It's
Speaker 1: my anniversary the three teens Tony Tony is my anniversary,
Speaker 1: that's right. What are your plans? Well, my husband said,
Speaker 1: we're gonna go to dinner and have a nice night
Speaker 1: out and then maybe kick it on Sunday hang out
Speaker 1: by the pool, stay cation. You know we won't hand
Speaker 1: them on money, stay cation. I need to sign up
Speaker 1: a secret to get this fifth money. How many years, Carlo?
Speaker 1: How many years? Eighteen years? Congratulating eighteen that's all right,
Speaker 1: you're doing well eighteen yeah, yes, so let me say congratulations,
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you? Words? What what's this? How many
Speaker 1: years you guys? Sir? Oh, look at the time. We
Speaker 1: gotta get out in here, show you girls, Dan, Lord
Speaker 1: of mercy. I don't think i'd make it one. Let
Speaker 1: me say how anniversary to my husband mar The Steve
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show coming up at thirty three minutes after
Speaker 1: the hour, we'll play a round of would you rather?
Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening to morning show? It's time
Speaker 1: now for a round of would you rather? Would you
Speaker 1: rather get a prostate exam? Or attend a spoken word
Speaker 1: poetry show? Bin't if all the poets is Junior, the
Speaker 1: poet laureate that he is on this show. Man, I'll
Speaker 1: be in the pay close, just paying attention to happen.
Speaker 1: Popping fingers, oh, Junior, not to example, but yeah, we're
Speaker 1: gonna do that. But we're gonna stop this finger actually okay, man,
Speaker 1: but you want to be healthy, right, yeah, I'll be healthy.
Speaker 1: I don't want to test. Hell if I could sit
Speaker 1: through two hours of Junior's point, so I must be
Speaker 1: all right? All right? You know how strong I have
Speaker 1: to be for that? Yeah? All right? Would you rather
Speaker 1: skip a bath and wear cologne or skip brushing your
Speaker 1: teeth and just use mouthwash? Be? We got to get
Speaker 1: that bath though, No, I'm sorry, Yeah, no, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: skip that bath and use this deodor than cologne. I
Speaker 1: talk who damn much? No, dog, I talk all day
Speaker 1: hell and smelling like oh kind of stuff. You can
Speaker 1: stay back away from people. I got to talk. You
Speaker 1: go through a drive through and just cry the window.
Speaker 1: You ain't stay back way for you. You can stay
Speaker 1: back way from You can stay back way from people.
Speaker 1: And it's up, dog, you give me some dapt no, no,
Speaker 1: not to day. Dog broke my hands be over here
Speaker 1: on what's up? Hey girl? What's gonna hey baby? I'll
Speaker 1: be up in a minute. Man. If I walk up
Speaker 1: to Marjorie and I've been smoking a cigar, man, the
Speaker 1: conversation I got to hear about my breath on no law,
Speaker 1: no law, no law, y'all have no idea. I got
Speaker 1: two brushes all around my house. Yeah, now you got
Speaker 1: She don't do that. Now, she don't do that? Though
Speaker 1: high teen is everything? All right? Would you rather eat
Speaker 1: baby food for a week or would you rather eat
Speaker 1: Vienna sausages and crackers? I can't do take that, baby foot.
Speaker 1: I can't do the Vienna sausage. Wind up Vienna sausages
Speaker 1: and crackers. That's that's a postal. I'll just swow off
Speaker 1: Vienna sausage. I haven't even be on the sausage since
Speaker 1: I was in high school. I mean apple sauce pair,
Speaker 1: I mean all that this in there. Baby food is good.
Speaker 1: It's tasty baby food. If you eat the sweet don't
Speaker 1: eat them green beans, don't Brandon Corli should just spit
Speaker 1: the green beans in my face. That's how. And it
Speaker 1: would be funny as hell to me, because they were
Speaker 1: they were highly offended. And then I messed around and
Speaker 1: tasted them one day, and I spit the green beans
Speaker 1: in the face. Oh no. All right, we'll be back
Speaker 1: with our last break of the day and some closing
Speaker 1: remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey right after this.
Speaker 1: You're listening show, all right, guys, here we are our
Speaker 1: last break of the day on this Friday. We gotta
Speaker 1: say thank you to our very special guest family member Tank.
Speaker 1: Make sure you check out that single slow while you're
Speaker 1: added to his last album. We're gonna miss you, Tanks
Speaker 1: in that capacity, such a talent. Sure, then you be
Speaker 1: careful when you sech stuff like that because you kill
Speaker 1: awful person in heart. Oh yeah, you be careful. We're
Speaker 1: gonna miss you. Yeah. Yeah, we'll say that funeral now
Speaker 1: because your ass will write a person all your ass
Speaker 1: to be junior. I can't tell you how many times
Speaker 1: you didn't have one of them. Crisis and comment Shirley
Speaker 1: made really rather permanent. You're so I'm not telling the
Speaker 1: truth right now? Well, I show hope. You want to
Speaker 1: see him in the hospital. What did you do? I'm
Speaker 1: not going down to see your sick down that fall?
Speaker 1: He called it hung up. They didn't even have a
Speaker 1: cure for sick or what is i'thing to do down
Speaker 1: at the hospital? He called it hung up? Yeah, and
Speaker 1: the stuff I want to bring him, they won't let
Speaker 1: me take him. You need a sick guard. Come on, yeah,
Speaker 1: hey man, I got a sick off for you. Y'all
Speaker 1: want some Scott gonna let you do that in the hospital.
Speaker 1: So what is I'm going down to the hospital fall?
Speaker 1: Clearly there's no cure for that. Damn. Hey do you
Speaker 1: want ham saying which is something? Yeah, you know, I
Speaker 1: just do stuff make you feel good? Right now? Right Steve,
Speaker 1: Steve could have been Remember the role John Goodman played
Speaker 1: in flight, Remember when he was coming to that's that's
Speaker 1: a role for him right now, coming through with all
Speaker 1: the goodies. Yea, hey, y'all my closing remarks. Let me
Speaker 1: give you something that I was thinking the other day. Okay,
Speaker 1: this has been good for me because in my life
Speaker 1: I've had a series of setbacks, and just like everybody
Speaker 1: that's listening, everybody has storms in their life, all of us,
Speaker 1: all of you listening, Some of you are in the
Speaker 1: middle of a storm right now. You can't live in
Speaker 1: this life storm free. But the thing about the storm
Speaker 1: that I've had to learn and grow to appreciate about
Speaker 1: the storm is that you will not be the same
Speaker 1: person when you come out on the other side of
Speaker 1: the storm. You won't be the same. The storm changes you.
Speaker 1: And see, the storm can be anything, y'all, because the
Speaker 1: storms come along with warning. See, it ain't like a hurricane.
Speaker 1: You know, the National Bureau gives you a warning. There's
Speaker 1: a storm brewing out on the coast, and you get
Speaker 1: a warning, and they give you evacuation route, and they
Speaker 1: tell you about the day that it will arrive, and
Speaker 1: they give you expected winds and all of that. Every
Speaker 1: storm that will come up in your life ain't like that.
Speaker 1: Some of them just a tornado. They just drop out
Speaker 1: the sky. Sometimes you walk home and it's a storm.
Speaker 1: Sometimes you leave a house and this a storm. Sometimes
Speaker 1: you get it working, it's a storm. Sometimes you get
Speaker 1: a phone call and it's just a storm. Everybody gets
Speaker 1: And like I said, the thing about life is that
Speaker 1: they don't get to be pre announced like on the
Speaker 1: weather channel. Sometimes they show up. But if you notice,
Speaker 1: if you pay close attention, these storms that happen are
Speaker 1: actually vets in your life that you have no control over.
Speaker 1: For the most part, I mean, nobody wants a storm, nobody.
Speaker 1: I wish I could live my life storm free, but
Speaker 1: that's not how it works. These storms come up so
Speaker 1: unexpectedly and it and sometimes the storm stays in your
Speaker 1: area way longer than you want it to. But the
Speaker 1: thing about this storm when you do come out of it,
Speaker 1: and you will come out of it, because that is
Speaker 1: the nature of things. You've survived every storm you've been
Speaker 1: in so far, you've gotten to the other side. Now
Speaker 1: if you don't dway all on the storm, if you
Speaker 1: don't dway all on it, and you allow the storm
Speaker 1: to leave something behind, because behind every storm that is
Speaker 1: a lesson and a blessing. You will be changed when
Speaker 1: you get to the other side of the storm. But
Speaker 1: you got to be open to the change. See, you
Speaker 1: can't do nothing about the things that's happening in your
Speaker 1: life oftentimes, but it's how you respond to it that
Speaker 1: determines who you are, who you will be, how you
Speaker 1: move forward, or how you get tossed and laid down.
Speaker 1: Have you ever seen somebody go through something and then
Speaker 1: you got to hear about it every time you talk
Speaker 1: to him. I know a woman that's in a relationship,
Speaker 1: and every time I talk to her, it's that relationship.
Speaker 1: If I had never met him, if we hadn't spend
Speaker 1: all them years together, I can't get those years back.
Speaker 1: I wasted these many years of my life. She has
Speaker 1: allowed the event and the way she responded to it
Speaker 1: to effect the person that could be changed. So instead
Speaker 1: of changing, she remains the same and worse off because
Speaker 1: now she didn't let the storm determine her life. The
Speaker 1: storm is here to throw you forward, not to throw
Speaker 1: you backwards. Even if a storm come along and causes
Speaker 1: us a setback, a setback is just a set up
Speaker 1: for a comeback. You got to understand what the storm
Speaker 1: is for. It's not the storm, it's how you respond
Speaker 1: to the storm. You've got to start responding differently to
Speaker 1: these storms in your life. Man, when you get thrown back,
Speaker 1: it becomes a setback, but it's just a set up
Speaker 1: for the comeback. Come on, man, you got to start
Speaker 1: responding better. Talk to God the day he loved to
Speaker 1: hear from you. Okay, that's for real. I wish I
Speaker 1: had more time, but we got to. For all Steve
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