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Speaker 1: Good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, come on
Speaker 1: dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got the
Speaker 1: radio show. I feel it's necessary to explain what I
Speaker 1: say in the morning because somebody asked me, what do
Speaker 1: you mean by that when you say that in the morning.
Speaker 1: When I say huh, it's in response to David Hollister
Speaker 1: opening the song by saying, go ahead, big Daddy, go ahead.
Speaker 1: I said, uh, huh, I show Will. Then I say
Speaker 1: good morning everybody. Because I was raised at Ray, you're
Speaker 1: supposed to speak when you come in the room. I'm
Speaker 1: coming in y'all's room, whether it's your bad room, the
Speaker 1: room in your house, your car, your office, you know,
Speaker 1: wherever you had I come in the room or God speaks.
Speaker 1: I say, good morning, everybody. You are listening to the voice.
Speaker 1: And then I got to introduce myself because as a performer,
Speaker 1: I always felt my best when I was introduced. It's knowing.
Speaker 1: Why would you walk out on stage anybody introduce you.
Speaker 1: You know you can't get the round of applause. It's
Speaker 1: just it's horrible. So I say, you are listening to
Speaker 1: the voice want and only Steve Harvey. Come on, dig
Speaker 1: me now. Now that's old school. I got that, but
Speaker 1: that's I was once again, dig me Now, is I
Speaker 1: want you to feel what I'm about to say. That's
Speaker 1: all I'm saying. That's not a bragging thing. You know,
Speaker 1: you're listening to the voice wanting only Steve Harvey. Come on,
Speaker 1: dig me now. I'm just asking you to feel what
Speaker 1: I'm saying in the morning because it's part of a
Speaker 1: promise that I made to God. See a long time ago,
Speaker 1: I told God, if he allowed me to make it,
Speaker 1: that when I got there, I would tell everybody I
Speaker 1: know how I did it, and I wasn't gonna shortcut
Speaker 1: it or shade him on it. I said, if you
Speaker 1: allow me to make it, if you give me the strength,
Speaker 1: the courage, the wisdom you gave me a gift if
Speaker 1: you let me apply it, don't destroy myself in the process.
Speaker 1: Forgive me for my sins along the way, continue to
Speaker 1: hold and rock me when I need it. When I
Speaker 1: make it, I promise you Lord, when I get there,
Speaker 1: I will tell everybody how I made it. Well. This
Speaker 1: started back in LA when I got on the radio
Speaker 1: and I was making it okay. I was doing okay,
Speaker 1: but I had to keep my promise to God. My
Speaker 1: promise was, if you allow me to make it, I'll
Speaker 1: tell everybody how God there. I have to tell you
Speaker 1: that every day because if it was not for that
Speaker 1: grace and mercy, I wouldn't even be here able to
Speaker 1: fulfill my promise, because I've done enough dirt in my life.
Speaker 1: Man to not be worthy. He could have easily walked
Speaker 1: away from me a long time ago because I had
Speaker 1: show walked away from him. See, and I didn't walk
Speaker 1: away from him once. I walked away from him a
Speaker 1: bunch of times. But guess what He forgave me a
Speaker 1: bunch of times. I'm a living example of hundreds of chances.
Speaker 1: His forgiveness and his mercy is available for everybody. It's
Speaker 1: The only reason I get on this show every day,
Speaker 1: the only reason I have the blessings that's coming my way.
Speaker 1: It's the only way that the things that keep happening
Speaker 1: in my life, Man, that I have no explanation for,
Speaker 1: it is because of His grace and mercy. See, anytime
Speaker 1: something good happens in my life and I can't explain it,
Speaker 1: that's usually him, he exhibits to me. Remember, I'm a
Speaker 1: forgiving god. Man. Remember, So when you fall, Steve, don't
Speaker 1: lay down now, don't you lay down there. Don't you
Speaker 1: let the devil fool you that because you'd have made
Speaker 1: some mistakes that you ain't that you can't do it
Speaker 1: because everybody gonna make. There's none perfect, no, not one.
Speaker 1: So get up, keep moving, keep pushing, step on what
Speaker 1: you're laying there for. Your daddy didn't raise you that way. Look, man,
Speaker 1: my father was just about manhood. I'm gonna just tell you.
Speaker 1: My daddy never had a conversation with me about church.
Speaker 1: He beat me for not going, but you know a
Speaker 1: couple of times, but he wasn't about that wasn't his message.
Speaker 1: That was my mama's job. My mama taught me about
Speaker 1: being saved, about loving the Lord, about giving your life,
Speaker 1: about the teachings of Jesus Christ. My mama was a
Speaker 1: Sunday school teacher, so I got all of that from her.
Speaker 1: My old man ain't had none of that for me.
Speaker 1: My old man talked to me about one thing all
Speaker 1: day long, hard working manhood. And when you're gonna get
Speaker 1: that if you don't get nothing else from me, he
Speaker 1: gave that to me, so I got it. See, so,
Speaker 1: my father, you say, excuse my language, but you ain't
Speaker 1: gonna sit there like no little punk up in here.
Speaker 1: You ain't an what you're finding to do. You fin
Speaker 1: to get up and go do what you posted to do. Now,
Speaker 1: stop all that wine like some little punking gonna get
Speaker 1: to move it. That's how my father talked to me. Now,
Speaker 1: I'm just telling you real. It worked for me, though,
Speaker 1: And before you start emailing me. They had nothing to
Speaker 1: do with homosexuality at all. It's just that was his
Speaker 1: turn for a man not acting like a man. That's
Speaker 1: all it was. It had. It was not a gay
Speaker 1: reference at all. I want you to understand that before
Speaker 1: you start emailing me. So my daddy wasn't calling. That
Speaker 1: wasn't not a sexual reference for him. My father talked
Speaker 1: to us. That's what he meant. I knew exactly what
Speaker 1: he meant. He couldn't admit, No, he didn't even know
Speaker 1: nothing about that. My man clueless when it comes to
Speaker 1: that right there. So when I was getting down and
Speaker 1: feeling bad about myself, my old man, he taught me
Speaker 1: this toughness. Man. He gave me this grit, this doggedness,
Speaker 1: this go to work and work hard. That's why today,
Speaker 1: when God does bless me with something, he ain't got
Speaker 1: to wear about me not working hard because that's in me.
Speaker 1: And when I get tired, I asked that same God
Speaker 1: for strength to keep on doing so I can do
Speaker 1: the blessings he got for me. So when you ask
Speaker 1: me how you gonna do all this, Steve Harvey, I
Speaker 1: don't know. I ain't got to figure that out. All
Speaker 1: I got to do is show up with the same
Speaker 1: amount of faith for being showing up with God handle
Speaker 1: the rest of it. See y'all, hey le, let me
Speaker 1: tell yourself. I don't see how you do it. I
Speaker 1: don't either, can I can I get hey man, news flash?
Speaker 1: Let me hear I don't see how you doing all that, Steve.
Speaker 1: You're doing this you doing that, you can I tell
Speaker 1: you something I don't either. I just wake up with
Speaker 1: the faith man and trusting that if He gonna bless
Speaker 1: me with it, he must be gonna show me a
Speaker 1: way how to get it done. See I ain't tripping
Speaker 1: on that part. See I. Once you take yourself out
Speaker 1: to how to business, you can go on and get
Speaker 1: with it. But see if you're gonna trip yourself out
Speaker 1: with the how to, you can't think like God can think.
Speaker 1: You can't figure like God can figure. So now you're
Speaker 1: sitting up in here gonna Lord, I want this to
Speaker 1: have him for me? Then I don't know how I'm
Speaker 1: will do all that. Well, guess what You in the way? Now?
Speaker 1: See you? Now you in the way, because see God
Speaker 1: ain't ask you to figure out how to? He said,
Speaker 1: ask and believe. Then he said faith without works is dead.
Speaker 1: That's my solution. That's the concoction that I'm functioning on.
Speaker 1: All I got to do is accept the blessing, keep
Speaker 1: the faith, be willing to work and believe God can
Speaker 1: do anything but fail. Why would God bring me this
Speaker 1: far to leave me? Why would he bring you this
Speaker 1: far to leave you? So? Why I get up every
Speaker 1: morning I have no choice. I got to get up
Speaker 1: in here the rap. When I'm running late, man, I
Speaker 1: try to ply through here. Sometimes I don't make it. Man,
Speaker 1: I gotta do a rerun. But I ply through here
Speaker 1: because man, Steve, you're gonna run out of something to say. No,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just keep thanking him now. You can't run
Speaker 1: out of that canyon because you owe him that. A
Speaker 1: matter of fact, when I get through talking, I really
Speaker 1: ain't thanked him enough. Sta ladies and gentlemen, welcome again
Speaker 1: to one of the greatest gifts of life. What is that, Steve? Time?
Speaker 1: You have two great gifts in life, y'all, and just
Speaker 1: want to remind you of that time and health. Both
Speaker 1: of those are your two greatest gifts. If you can
Speaker 1: hear me, you have both of those. You have a
Speaker 1: measure of health and you have time. So congratulations and
Speaker 1: welcome to twenty twenty two. Let church say, man a
Speaker 1: man a man, Shirley Strawberry Colin for real, that girl
Speaker 1: out of Mississippi, Monica Junior, better than owners kills faith
Speaker 1: and the legend that is was and always will be.
Speaker 1: Bitter Man. Watch out there now, Jay Anthony and Brown Junior.
Speaker 1: What you got, man. You know, Uncle had a conference.
Speaker 1: Let me ask yourself much. You know. I had a
Speaker 1: conversation this weekend, man, and we talked about trusted friends
Speaker 1: and uncle. If you could commit a crime with anybody
Speaker 1: on this morning show, who would you do it with?
Speaker 1: And who would you not do it with? And why?
Speaker 1: Janathan and Brown? I would do it with Janathan and
Speaker 1: Brown because we've been in more ride and die situations
Speaker 1: that all y'all put together. Were playing codes and systems
Speaker 1: back in the day. We knew each other before. That
Speaker 1: was phone cameras. We was friends for. That was sale phones.
Speaker 1: We was leaving messages on answering machines with codes and
Speaker 1: all like that. I've come to his rescue and he's
Speaker 1: come to my rescue. That is who I would ride
Speaker 1: or die with? Now? Who would I not do a
Speaker 1: damn thing with? Riley Strawbilly? She too damn honest, She
Speaker 1: too damn honest. She'll admit she's a crack opening in
Speaker 1: interrogation room and she's gonna tell a damn truth. What
Speaker 1: in the world do you need a person for sitting
Speaker 1: with you in a little ride or die situation but
Speaker 1: not willing to lie you as heard of that sitting
Speaker 1: up in here, and then she bushy you know. And
Speaker 1: wait a minute, Steve being correcting me in front of
Speaker 1: the FED officers, and yeah, you know, you know, you know,
Speaker 1: if I'm gonna do something wrong, I'm gonna bigger go home.
Speaker 1: No local crew for the jaywalk. E've gonna get into
Speaker 1: some brazilment or something at Shirley Strawberry is not the
Speaker 1: person I'm doing any damn presence. If I had to
Speaker 1: pick anybody outside of jay Caller, who would ask for
Speaker 1: real ride die? She gonna lie, she a bustle, wonder
Speaker 1: out she has split the time. I needed somebody that
Speaker 1: go forward just right, yes, and then allegedly I need
Speaker 1: a person that you words like, got no proof. I know,
Speaker 1: I need somebody that to kill you about the baby.
Speaker 1: You don't have written people down at the cheerleading squad
Speaker 1: the school now, Monica, If you do so, Monica, it's
Speaker 1: gonna be on Instagram. So you want to glad you
Speaker 1: cleared that up, Steve, I had no doubt coming up
Speaker 1: at thirty two minutes after the hour's right here in
Speaker 1: the middle of the crime, the pal are coming up
Speaker 1: with church complaints. Special guest Pastor Reverend Adnoid right after this.
Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, it
Speaker 1: is time for church complaints with Reverend Motown and special guest.
Speaker 1: Reverend Adnoid is with us this morning. Yeah, uh, def
Speaker 1: Jam is not here today. So the main that introduced
Speaker 1: me to the ministry, the main who was with me
Speaker 1: before Iva one of us was even considered diminished, my
Speaker 1: older brother from the same mother. We grolled it up
Speaker 1: in the church. We went to healing school together, we
Speaker 1: went to we took all the courses to be a pastor.
Speaker 1: We took collection plate, conversation ladies and gentlemen. My old brother,
Speaker 1: Reverend ad Noid th Reverend add Noid don't have on
Speaker 1: a mask, y'all. That's just it's a breathing agician. The
Speaker 1: last person covid. Yeah, it has to be off. If
Speaker 1: I put it on, I'm I'm done. I'm completing it
Speaker 1: done anyway. These are chicken users, the women who look
Speaker 1: real fine, way way way off. But when you get
Speaker 1: close up on them day that damn fine. Will meeting
Speaker 1: meeting room seven right after Chi we are gonna have
Speaker 1: this meeting in that and I've been stalled real view
Speaker 1: mirrors all over the meeting room. Because these objects are
Speaker 1: closer than they appears, don't matter what will help us
Speaker 1: with that. So I've been stalled those mirrors all over
Speaker 1: the room for those of us that have to go
Speaker 1: through that and make contributions of any kind. Ahead, when
Speaker 1: you walk up on them, you'll know before you before
Speaker 1: you walk up, you know what I'm saying. I understand babies,
Speaker 1: babies with fat ass knees will be gathering in room
Speaker 1: room unusually, fat knees, unusually fat kneeds will be meeting
Speaker 1: room nine. So bring you babies. We don't use the
Speaker 1: fat knees down there for the minds of the blessing.
Speaker 1: Go ready, here, say what we've done in this room. Here,
Speaker 1: We've installed rastling match so they will just do all
Speaker 1: the crawling they walk without bruising. We've done that for
Speaker 1: the babies. These rules are just so special. God bless
Speaker 1: the baby for sure. Babies with exceptionally fat ass knees
Speaker 1: and or that same rule will use as a prayer
Speaker 1: rule for old women who have fat ass knees and
Speaker 1: ankles the same room as for old women badass kneed Yes,
Speaker 1: all right, the cock that ministry is doing very well,
Speaker 1: and to and to serve the problem. We've decided to
Speaker 1: have it in two rooms, so you can go to
Speaker 1: the left or to the right, because they were getting
Speaker 1: confused with the one room, so we didn't either go
Speaker 1: to the left or to the right. Also in this room,
Speaker 1: or we even stalled, oh, two way mirrors, a lot
Speaker 1: of mirrors. Well even if even if one of your
Speaker 1: eyes is looking at the wall, you'll still be looking
Speaker 1: back at somebody. Yes, yes we would. Brother Wally is
Speaker 1: the head of the Cock ministry, Brother Wallyye, And he
Speaker 1: got that nickname because all the kids used to say
Speaker 1: we called it wall Eye because one of his eyes
Speaker 1: is always looking at the way face. Brother Walleye. That
Speaker 1: was a nickname. His name is Wallace, but they called
Speaker 1: it brother Wayee. Go ahead, go ahead. The church has
Speaker 1: installed a hen Pick Men's room for men who want
Speaker 1: to go in that room, solid sound and custy wives
Speaker 1: out and not be threatened. Doesn't be No one don't
Speaker 1: know you in there and the hen Pick Men's room.
Speaker 1: Look right ahead, right ahead. What I've done is to
Speaker 1: control the people in this group, so I like to
Speaker 1: have stuff on people. No one knows this, but I've
Speaker 1: installed audio and video EQ whipment open the corners. So
Speaker 1: why are you in there cursing her out? If I
Speaker 1: need you to perform a duty at the church and
Speaker 1: you refuse, I play the tape bath for you. I
Speaker 1: bet you will be on parking lot ministry this weekend. Now,
Speaker 1: I want to have no trouble at your ass at all.
Speaker 1: Excuse me behind behind ball behind church members who swept
Speaker 1: way to damn much of the ass to slide down
Speaker 1: to the end of the queue. I mean, it's just
Speaker 1: it's it's ridiculous the sweat that they kneal up, and
Speaker 1: so the church is asking that they could flete slide
Speaker 1: down to the end of the queue with all that sweating.
Speaker 1: Go right ahead, s and all y'all's big heavy sweaty
Speaker 1: asses have been loved to the eleven thirty SURVI because
Speaker 1: we need you. What we cannot do is stop up
Speaker 1: and mop up this place after they're all sweat to
Speaker 1: ask people to the eleven and you can't come to
Speaker 1: the eleven thirty service to a quarter to one? Are
Speaker 1: we clear sweat to ask in here? We're all forty five?
Speaker 1: Thank you for church announcements this morning. Reverend Motown Reverend
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Speaker 1: the CLO asked the CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey
Speaker 1: in the building. Right after this, you're listening to the
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, it is time now
Speaker 1: for ask the CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Ever in
Speaker 1: the building ready for your love questions. This one is
Speaker 1: from Deja and New York. Deja Rights. I'm in love
Speaker 1: with my sister's husband, and he knows it, and he's
Speaker 1: making it harder for me to resist him. He invited
Speaker 1: me to hang out with him and his friends, and
Speaker 1: my sister encouraged me to go so I can possibly
Speaker 1: meet a good man. She doesn't know that I've got
Speaker 1: my sights and a good man already. Should I go
Speaker 1: out with my brother in law and see what happens?
Speaker 1: Or should I tell my sister what's up? What? Wait
Speaker 1: a minute, man, how about how about neither is neither option?
Speaker 1: Because both of the options you got is trifling. Because
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you why you got your eyes set
Speaker 1: on him? You like him, and he's making it hard
Speaker 1: for you because you attracted to him. Now, so should
Speaker 1: you go out with him and see what's happening? Or
Speaker 1: should you tell your sister? I don't even understand what
Speaker 1: the what the turmoil is, so you're gonna go tell
Speaker 1: your sister? What? Look? Oh girl, I just can't deal
Speaker 1: with this no more. I've been looking at your husband,
Speaker 1: and girl, he just who I was. I was fitting
Speaker 1: to go out with him just to see what was up,
Speaker 1: you know, see if we hit it off and everything,
Speaker 1: you know, and I was gonna see what it was like,
Speaker 1: and then I was gonna tell you then. But I'm
Speaker 1: just gonna tell you now because see you that don't
Speaker 1: make no damn sense. See you trifling? Yes, really right?
Speaker 1: You know? But you know, like like you have options here.
Speaker 1: This is your sister, So I don't know what to
Speaker 1: sell to tell you. Need to deal with the fact
Speaker 1: that you trifling. You need to go in prayer and
Speaker 1: have untriflingness taken off of you. At what asked the
Speaker 1: Lord to remove you? To untrifling you? Ask Lord to
Speaker 1: release this demon of trifling. This whatever this is, I
Speaker 1: ain't I ain't never done nothing to my brother man
Speaker 1: I hain't not my brother. I ain't oh my brother
Speaker 1: or my sister. You can't. You can't come to me
Speaker 1: and tell me none about my sister. You say something
Speaker 1: about my two sisters? You got what? I won't kill you, lady?
Speaker 1: Come on? What'sn't this all right? Uh? Police and mobile
Speaker 1: says I'm divorcing my husband of eleven years because he
Speaker 1: cheated on me. I cheated too, but he doesn't know it.
Speaker 1: The guy I was sneaking around with made a few
Speaker 1: videos of us having sex in the car. His girlfriend
Speaker 1: found the videos on his phone, and she's trying to
Speaker 1: get to my soon to be ex husband to tell
Speaker 1: him I cheated on him. This will affect my spousal support.
Speaker 1: What do I do about her? Asking me? Come on?
Speaker 1: You ask kidding me to be involved in a potential felity.
Speaker 1: What do you mean? What should I do about her?
Speaker 1: What you mean? What should I do about her? Whatever?
Speaker 1: What are you looking for? Options? Suggestions? What you're looking for?
Speaker 1: You're looking for a way to do it. I can't
Speaker 1: help you here. I can't help you here. You're divorcing
Speaker 1: your husband because he cheated on you, But you cheated
Speaker 1: on him too. It's just he don't know it, but
Speaker 1: he about to know it though, so look and if
Speaker 1: he found out, it's going to affect your spouse and support.
Speaker 1: It's nothing you can do to this woman because hell
Speaker 1: have no fury like a woman scorn. So now you
Speaker 1: don't think she mad too? You think that she's feen
Speaker 1: to let you go skip to the loo, all the
Speaker 1: way to the bank. You think she's been to do that.
Speaker 1: I don't, I don't. You didn't let your husband get
Speaker 1: away with cheating on you. You cheating on him too.
Speaker 1: So whatever happened to you Finn happen. But don't you
Speaker 1: do nothing to that lady though, And don't you say
Speaker 1: for one minute. Steve Harvey suggested, I'm telling you right
Speaker 1: now you got to eat this one. Eat it the
Speaker 1: whole HOGI is yours. That's your sandwich. That's your sandwich.
Speaker 1: Enjoy all right. Caleb in Oklahoma says, I'm a twenty
Speaker 1: six year old married man studying to become a pastor
Speaker 1: because my dad wants me to follow in his footsteps.
Speaker 1: My wife and I had a swingers encounter on New
Speaker 1: Year's Eve, and I'm worried my dad will find out
Speaker 1: my wife and I enjoyed the experience and we're hoping
Speaker 1: to do it again soon. Do I tell my dad
Speaker 1: before rumors start? Let me help you out with us something.
Speaker 1: So let let me tell you something right here. You
Speaker 1: hain't really headed down the pastoral. You need quit telling
Speaker 1: people y'all enjoyed it and thinking about doing again. Not
Speaker 1: only boy boy and you twenty six. You need to
Speaker 1: go get a few more things out your system. Also,
Speaker 1: you're going to study to be a minister because that's
Speaker 1: what your father wants you to do. I'm old school.
Speaker 1: I don't think you should do that unless you've been
Speaker 1: called and sounding me like the swingers club is calling
Speaker 1: you more than the ministry is right now, and do
Speaker 1: they have your sale number? So dog, listen to me.
Speaker 1: Do I tell my father before he find out? Wait
Speaker 1: a minute, man, how would your father find out that
Speaker 1: you and your wife was at a swingers club unless
Speaker 1: y'all were swinging with some more people at the same church.
Speaker 1: Because who would go up to your father and go,
Speaker 1: you know, Earl Junior, pastor Earl Earl Junior was down
Speaker 1: that and swinging clubs. I don't understand how your father
Speaker 1: would find out. Well, never it could get out, you know,
Speaker 1: get out, okay, But what you're gonna tell your daddy
Speaker 1: for you got a bigger problem with God? What you're
Speaker 1: worrying about your daddy for you got a bigger problem
Speaker 1: with the Lord. But you don't need to go down
Speaker 1: to the to the ministry school right now. You ain't ready. Man,
Speaker 1: You and your wife going to work that thing out,
Speaker 1: y'all doing? Y'all got gonna get that out of your system,
Speaker 1: all right? I got news for you, and and let
Speaker 1: me tell you something else. So just so you know,
Speaker 1: you and your wife ain't gonna be together much longer,
Speaker 1: So just go ahead, all right, just had that announcement.
Speaker 1: You could tell him you went to the strip club
Speaker 1: and lost your wife. Just wait till that happen. Given
Speaker 1: about a year and a half, y'all won't be together,
Speaker 1: all right? And Ralli says, I'm dating a man that
Speaker 1: cries when we make love. The sex is amazing, but
Speaker 1: I don't know why he's so emotional. Could he be
Speaker 1: a novice and I'm too much for him? Is this normal? Yeah? No,
Speaker 1: you got to get out of that planned real half
Speaker 1: while we have one, okay, But every day, every time,
Speaker 1: every time, a little wit and then you're talking about
Speaker 1: the sex is phenomenal. But then he cried. He killed
Speaker 1: it every time he cried. Now you got to hold
Speaker 1: him and comfort him because this is planned. Where's yours?
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Speaker 1: fall winter show in Paris featured Ablow's final collection for
Speaker 1: the brand, of which he became the first black artistic
Speaker 1: director back in twenty eighteen. The same year he was
Speaker 1: named a Time one hundred Most Influential People honoree. And
Speaker 1: Steve your personal stylist, Ellie was all over Instagram because
Speaker 1: he was invited to the show in Paris. Look and
Speaker 1: fly as ever, straight Fia, Ellie. That was nice, Yeah,
Speaker 1: it really was paying homage to him, to such a
Speaker 1: creative person like Virgil Ablow. And moving on, some very
Speaker 1: very sad news. We are sending our prayers and our
Speaker 1: condolences out to actress Regina King. Regina's song ian Alexander
Speaker 1: Junior died by suicide over the weekend. He was only
Speaker 1: six years old. Yeah, yes, yes, he just celebrated his
Speaker 1: birthday too. Regina issued a statement on his birthday. Yes,
Speaker 1: she says, our family is devastated at the deepest level
Speaker 1: by the loss of Ian. He is such a bright
Speaker 1: light who cared so deeply about the happiness of others.
Speaker 1: Our family asked for respectful consideration during this private time. Yeah. Also,
Speaker 1: actor comedian Louis Anderson passed away on Friday after a
Speaker 1: battle with blood cancer. He was sixty eight. Oh, I
Speaker 1: mean yeah, and meat Low passed away as well, the
Speaker 1: actor and singer Meet Loaf. Yeah. Wow, I just can't
Speaker 1: imagine Gina King is going through to lose absolutely not
Speaker 1: only child. Yeah wow. Yeah. We just pray and you're
Speaker 1: saying he died on his birthday when he made twenty six,
Speaker 1: and it's just depression is real, very very real, man, Yeah,
Speaker 1: it really is. Yeah, just praying, just feel for her,
Speaker 1: feel her. Yeah. And you guys knew Louis Anderson, right,
Speaker 1: you knew him as well? Yeah? Yeah he did. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I've never met him. Yeah. Yeah, a lot of people
Speaker 1: on that list twenty twenty two already. Yeah, it's so sad, Yeah,
Speaker 1: very sad. Rest in peace to um everyone in our
Speaker 1: condolences and our prayers for their families. Of course. And finally,
Speaker 1: producer Will Packer has confirmed that a sequel to his
Speaker 1: twenty seventeen comedy Girls Trip is officially underway. That's great news.
Speaker 1: Will announce the great news in an interview with Michael
Speaker 1: Strahan on Good Morning America Friday. He told Michael Strahan
Speaker 1: that the time was right to finally deliver a follow
Speaker 1: up to the movie It start. Of course, Jada Pinkett Smith,
Speaker 1: Tiffany Hattish, Regina Hall, and Queen Latifa. Will is also
Speaker 1: set to produce this year's Academy Awards in March. And Tommy,
Speaker 1: speaking of Will Packer, Will Packers your other boss on
Speaker 1: the Own network, and you have some good news to
Speaker 1: share about your hit TV series, Ready to Love? What
Speaker 1: is it? What? What? Mo? Mo? Ready to Love? Coming
Speaker 1: your way? All right, there's another season of Washington, DC
Speaker 1: coming at you. And then laying in the cut is
Speaker 1: oh my god, my Ammy, we going we are going
Speaker 1: to my mean what what what? Most seasons in Miami?
Speaker 1: Won't he do it? Won't he do it? Hey? Tommy,
Speaker 1: it's let me just let's just hypothetical this situation. Single,
Speaker 1: hypothetical junior single, which one of them women would have
Speaker 1: been ready for love? Candidate for junior ladies. If y'all
Speaker 1: saw it, you can chime in too. We're dedicated. Which
Speaker 1: he possess it behind? I think Sabrina, Sabrina. You don't
Speaker 1: think so for Junior. I think Sabrina for Junior. You
Speaker 1: don't see that. Tell you right now, tom I'm here
Speaker 1: talking to Alexa. Yeah, yeah, y Alexa. Play to Steve
Speaker 1: Harvey more anybody. I think I can find it for you, Junior,
Speaker 1: I really do. I think I can find Yes. I
Speaker 1: think so. I can't remember you look up. You think
Speaker 1: you can make that happen. I think I can make
Speaker 1: it happen. I really do, Jay. I think I can
Speaker 1: hook Junior up, show him a few ropes and just
Speaker 1: walking right on through there. Just love all the way, Junior,
Speaker 1: and lay the African girl. I think she would have
Speaker 1: been great for you. She was beautiful an all right,
Speaker 1: coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll look
Speaker 1: into the mind of Jay Anthony Brown. Oh Lord, and congratulations, Tommy.
Speaker 1: We'll be back right after this. You're listening to Steven Show.
Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, it is time for you
Speaker 1: and your friends. It is time ladies and gentlemen, the
Speaker 1: Bitter One, Jay Anthony Brown, thank you very much, Thank
Speaker 1: you very much, Steve Harvey. This time right now for
Speaker 1: sound effects and music for people in the news. Congratulations
Speaker 1: to my girl Tiffany hattus to make the remake of
Speaker 1: Girls Weekend. Is that the name of the movie Girls Trips?
Speaker 1: But over the weekend, Over the weekend, she had a
Speaker 1: little bump in her career when she got busted. DUI,
Speaker 1: we're rooting for you. It reported that when Tiffany got
Speaker 1: in the back of the car, she said, this, check
Speaker 1: it out. This is this. Next song goes out to
Speaker 1: all the football teams who are it's over. It's done,
Speaker 1: the Dallas Cowboys, especially the Dallas Cowboys, and don't forget
Speaker 1: the Dallas Cowboys. The song goes out to you hit it.
Speaker 1: This next song goes out and Antonio Brown. Antonio Brown,
Speaker 1: who quit a job like nobody else has ever quit
Speaker 1: a damn job such perfection. Oh we will wit you.
Speaker 1: We've all wanted to quit job, but you went all
Speaker 1: the way out. The song goes out to you, we
Speaker 1: have another another dedication Antonio Brown, who really went all
Speaker 1: the way out of that. Then it would not be completed.
Speaker 1: We don't play this song right here, hit it at
Speaker 1: this job and shoveing, I ain't no more. You made
Speaker 1: that one more time, play that one more time for
Speaker 1: this shoving, I ain't born. And last, last, but not least,
Speaker 1: his dedication goes out to Kanye, who's doing everything he
Speaker 1: could to find out where his baby was celebrating her birthday.
Speaker 1: He called, he wrote, he texts, he made a video.
Speaker 1: This goes out to you, Kanye, hit it what I
Speaker 1: like that? Hit him one more time? An nobody asked.
Speaker 1: Hysical dedications has been brought to you by Hot It
Speaker 1: than them Hot Sous for all your hot sous needs.
Speaker 1: Watch out there now, all right, thank you, Jay coming
Speaker 1: up in thirty four minutes after the hour at Mitch please,
Speaker 1: Mitch McConnell says he's sorry for implying that African American
Speaker 1: aren't Americans. We'll talk about it right after this. You're
Speaker 1: listening to show, all right, so send a GOP leader.
Speaker 1: Mitch McConnell sparked an uproar last Wednesday while explaining his
Speaker 1: opposition to Democrats voting rights legislation. He said. This is
Speaker 1: what he said. Now, if you look at the statistics,
Speaker 1: African American voters are voting in just as high a
Speaker 1: percentage as Americans. What implying that black voters are not Americans?
Speaker 1: And of course he's been I really am not because
Speaker 1: there's a thing such as inside voice and outside voice.
Speaker 1: We know it. I mean, it's how he's always felt.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's always how he's always voted. He's expressed
Speaker 1: nothing but those type of views. I did none of
Speaker 1: these people's surprise meeting none of them. He's at it,
Speaker 1: and he considers us separate. He's always considered us separate.
Speaker 1: You know, But you think about or ain't just him? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know we've always been separate. We are the black vote,
Speaker 1: right to vote, We are the black vote. Can't keep
Speaker 1: that in mind now, So it's it's it's more than him.
Speaker 1: This is the system. Ween, that's just you know, this
Speaker 1: country right here, we're having a problem because it just
Speaker 1: this is not the country that's on paper, right This
Speaker 1: is not the one that's in the constitution. That's that's
Speaker 1: not the country we live in. This country has to
Speaker 1: be what's on paper for all Americans or else not.
Speaker 1: It's it's false. It's false, and they I'm tired of
Speaker 1: living to lie with them, just telling like all their
Speaker 1: opportunities in America. Absolutely, can you make something about yourself
Speaker 1: in this country. Absolutely, But now is it gonna come
Speaker 1: with some challenges as anywhere else. But that thing set
Speaker 1: up in place to stop you, you better believe it.
Speaker 1: And all you got to do is try to become something.
Speaker 1: And you're gonna meet all the watch I promise you
Speaker 1: you will. I promise you you will. You will meet
Speaker 1: every last one of them. And the moment you thank
Speaker 1: you that somebody with a little bit more power gonna
Speaker 1: step in and try to show you something. And you
Speaker 1: gotta fight through that. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, it's been He's
Speaker 1: been trending Steve since since then. And on Friday, he
Speaker 1: said he inadvertently omitted the word almost, but then after
Speaker 1: the news conference ended, he returned to the microphone to
Speaker 1: correct himself one more time. The omitted word is all,
Speaker 1: not almost, he said, sorry, sorry, all almost. What do
Speaker 1: you mean by that, Shirley, Well, you know it's omitted. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he said. The comment that he made would have read
Speaker 1: differently had he said all Americans or almost all Americans,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, It would have read differently
Speaker 1: and not not been so obvious that he was separating us.
Speaker 1: He said, African Americans. If you look at the statistics,
Speaker 1: African Americans voters are voting in justice high a percentage
Speaker 1: as Americans. So if he had said all Americans or
Speaker 1: you know, that wouldn't have made a difference. But he
Speaker 1: thinks it wouldn't have made a difference. But he's trying to,
Speaker 1: you know, fix what he said. He'd been talking in
Speaker 1: Sarah for ever. Yeah, you can add all are almost
Speaker 1: once you say African Americans and Americans voters vote almost
Speaker 1: as much as Americans, just as much as Americans. Either
Speaker 1: way you want to put it, homie, but that's what
Speaker 1: That's who you are, that's who he is. Sometimes you
Speaker 1: make a statement that can't be fixed. It's just can't
Speaker 1: be fixed. You can't fix that. You can't fix that
Speaker 1: was not a slipper. They ain't the words you could
Speaker 1: have inserted that would change that. But but this is
Speaker 1: this is also what he said, Steve. He said, he
Speaker 1: said sorry, and then he said he called the criticism
Speaker 1: an outrageous mischaracterization of his record. As a result of
Speaker 1: leaving one word out inadvertently the other day, which I
Speaker 1: just now have supplied to you. It's deeply offensive. Oh
Speaker 1: now he's oh right there, he's special, Mitch, please again.
Speaker 1: All right? Coming up next, Mitch, coming up next, It
Speaker 1: is the Nephew and the prank phone call for today.
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming
Speaker 1: up about four minutes after the hour. It's my strawberry
Speaker 1: letter for today. The subject he won't stay out of
Speaker 1: my stuff. We'll get into that in just a little bit,
Speaker 1: because right now it is time for the Nephew and
Speaker 1: the prank phone calling. What you got for us now?
Speaker 1: Church bees? Church Bees? So let's go can Hello. Hello,
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach us to trace. Hey you got it? Hey?
Speaker 1: How you doing? This is? This is brother Glenn from
Speaker 1: the church. Hey, brother Glenn, how are you doing. I'm good,
Speaker 1: I'm good, I'm real good. Did you enjoy service morning? Oh?
Speaker 1: I enjoyed it? Pasta? Who who pasta? Brought it down?
Speaker 1: Oh my god? That was a word for me, right
Speaker 1: right right right? So what do our old the pleasure
Speaker 1: is called? I wanted to give you some information that
Speaker 1: the that the church has come up with and we
Speaker 1: wanted to let you know what was going on before
Speaker 1: next Sunday. I didn't interrupt you that. Oh no, no,
Speaker 1: I actually i may sound a little a little off
Speaker 1: a little bit. I'm trying to get getting ready for
Speaker 1: my little babies, my little darlins, and I'm trying. Your
Speaker 1: voice sounds so familiar to me. It just sounds so familiar.
Speaker 1: Trying to play place that voice. Okay, Well, you've seen
Speaker 1: me at the church quite a few times. I think
Speaker 1: I have I'm just trying to place it. I can't
Speaker 1: place it right now, but looking at it. Well, nevertheless,
Speaker 1: I just wanted here's here's what's going on now. You
Speaker 1: aware of that for the last the last six Sundays,
Speaker 1: you've been actually coming in the service late. Have you
Speaker 1: realized that, Yes, I know, I'm sorry about that, but uh,
Speaker 1: you know, yes, I have, I have my reasons. So okay, okay,
Speaker 1: Well here's what's going on. The officials at the church
Speaker 1: have gotten together and this is what they've decided on,
Speaker 1: is that anybody who is late starting next Sunday, there
Speaker 1: would be a fifteen dollar charge for that for coming
Speaker 1: in and disrupting services. The fastest tide of service being
Speaker 1: disrupted by people walking in late that that could not
Speaker 1: come at a worse time. I don't have fifteen dollars
Speaker 1: to give. I don't. I don't have it. Oh Um,
Speaker 1: Look I'm sorry, I'm sorry that we late. I am.
Speaker 1: We are doing our best. I have three kids, have
Speaker 1: three young kids, two seven and nine, and they are
Speaker 1: a handful, and and and we do the best that
Speaker 1: we can to get the church on time and and
Speaker 1: to tell your truth when we get there. It's during
Speaker 1: praise and worship. I mean, pastor ain't even preaching yet,
Speaker 1: so I know it's not past, it's not up yet,
Speaker 1: but he's he's stating that people coming in. It just
Speaker 1: seems very disrupted to the service that's going on. That's
Speaker 1: so Nevertheless, like I said, this is a warning call,
Speaker 1: you know, to let you know that if you are
Speaker 1: late on next Sunday, then they will be charging you
Speaker 1: fifteen dollars a lafe charge. And actually you won't be
Speaker 1: able to even come in until you are until you
Speaker 1: pay ten dollars. I can't even get in church with
Speaker 1: we Look, okay, look I don't I don't owe nothing.
Speaker 1: I don't owe you no explanation but I need to
Speaker 1: tell you something. We are me and my kids for
Speaker 1: the last a few sundays that we've been late. It's
Speaker 1: because my car broke down. We are owned the bus
Speaker 1: man public transportation. Okay, I mean, and I understand, I understand,
Speaker 1: I civilize with everything that you're going through. But why
Speaker 1: are you called if you understand? Why are you calling
Speaker 1: me about fifteen dollars? If you understand what I'm going through?
Speaker 1: Well I didn't. I first of all, I didn't know
Speaker 1: what you would go? Why are you raising your voice
Speaker 1: at Why are you raising? Did you just raise your
Speaker 1: voice at me? You know what? You know what I think?
Speaker 1: You're raising your voice at me? How dare you call
Speaker 1: me about this? About a feet And I'm there at church.
Speaker 1: I got my kids in there trying to raise them
Speaker 1: up is where they should go, just like the Bible say.
Speaker 1: And you know why I gotta do this and why
Speaker 1: I'm lead? Why why we gotta tesch the bus? Do
Speaker 1: you understand why that is? Brother Glenn? No, I do not.
Speaker 1: That is because they to their dad is ain't and
Speaker 1: they yes, you got to calm down a little bit now.
Speaker 1: Oh Jesus help me, Jesus help me, Jesus. Okay, listen,
Speaker 1: all I can do is tell you this. I hope
Speaker 1: you can make it. Maybe you can catch an earlier bus,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, and get there a little earlier.
Speaker 1: But but I'm just stating the fact that as of
Speaker 1: next Sunday, if you come in late, it's fifteen dollars
Speaker 1: late fee, and that's what you'll pay in order to
Speaker 1: get in the service. You know what, Well, maybe next
Speaker 1: Sunday I just won't be there. How about that? You know,
Speaker 1: I'm already working six days a week. The only day
Speaker 1: I have office Sunday, I've been baking, breaking my back.
Speaker 1: Do you know? I worked two jobs or two jobs,
Speaker 1: and they always trying to take money out of my check,
Speaker 1: always trying to pull me here and there, and I'm
Speaker 1: always tired. I get two hours asleep, and then now
Speaker 1: the church wants to dump another fifteen dollars charging me
Speaker 1: for being at church. Well that's what I'm supposed to do.
Speaker 1: But you're coming in late though, because to Tracy, you
Speaker 1: know what, you know what, late ain't bad. Okay. I
Speaker 1: might be delayed, but I ain't denied, and I'm getting
Speaker 1: there the best way that I know how We o
Speaker 1: the bus. I have to put my kids on the
Speaker 1: school bus. And not only have to put them on
Speaker 1: the school buses, I have to get on the bus
Speaker 1: to myself to him because I don't have a car,
Speaker 1: because they daddy's ain't doing nothing nothing for them. Do
Speaker 1: you understand what I'm saying to you? I need to understand. Oh,
Speaker 1: Daddy number one, guess what he daddy for two? He
Speaker 1: and jail been there by five years. He ain't. And
Speaker 1: Daddy number three he decided to go ahead and walk out, ain't.
Speaker 1: I ain't heard from that in about seven months now.
Speaker 1: He know we're struggling. He had the nerve to take
Speaker 1: my wallet too. You don't. You don't even understand what
Speaker 1: I'm going through. You don't even understand that I'm trying
Speaker 1: to make a better life for me and my children.
Speaker 1: There is one more thing, such a tracy that the
Speaker 1: Church wants you to know before the next Sunday that
Speaker 1: you definitely need to know. And what one more thing
Speaker 1: does the church want me to know? It's like sixteen dollars.
Speaker 1: The Church just wants you to know that this is
Speaker 1: nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Jail. Your sister
Speaker 1: Patrese got me to pray phone call you. I am
Speaker 1: gonna who her. You know, I ain't got time for that. No,
Speaker 1: I ain't got time for that. Oh Patrese, girl, you're
Speaker 1: all right. Oh, I got something for her. How about that?
Speaker 1: She told me? She said, she said, my sister car
Speaker 1: broke down. She says she got these kids she over
Speaker 1: are struggling and struggling, and she trying to make it.
Speaker 1: But you gotta give a hard time. She just wanted,
Speaker 1: she wanted, she wanted you to put us. She wanted
Speaker 1: to put a smile on your face. What she well,
Speaker 1: all you want being settled out, I'm gonna have to
Speaker 1: say she did. Right. Wow, now that I know you,
Speaker 1: y'all were joking, and now I know this is nephew Tommy. Hey,
Speaker 1: I gotta ask you something, baby. What's the baddest and
Speaker 1: I mean the baddest radio show in the land, that
Speaker 1: Steve Harvid Morning Show? Baby? Oh man, you need to stop,
Speaker 1: you stop you think so bus man, Come on, dog y,
Speaker 1: the church needs it's money, okay, So don't don't, don't
Speaker 1: don't with fifteen dollars, yes, it's fifteen dollars. We need everything.
Speaker 1: Bring all these ties into the storehouse. But what what
Speaker 1: what what do you say? Sir ya come huh wait
Speaker 1: wait wait, let me ask you a question. Why am
Speaker 1: I caught up in this? I can ask you a question, Tom.
Speaker 1: In the process of doing a prank where you see
Speaker 1: the persons like really really doing bad, is there anything
Speaker 1: inside you that says, I I can't do this. I
Speaker 1: just no, no, I go I go harder when when
Speaker 1: I see you crumbling. When I see you crumbling, I
Speaker 1: go harder. I want you to fall off. I tell me.
Speaker 1: I was so mad at the beginning of the prank
Speaker 1: when she said seemed like I recognize your voice. Oh
Speaker 1: you seen me many times at the church, and she
Speaker 1: was trying to get you to tell her you know
Speaker 1: who you were right the description. I almost jumped in
Speaker 1: and said, I'm the short ball head deacon. I just
Speaker 1: wanted that. I wasn't going to do that, deacon, short
Speaker 1: ball head deacon. Yeah. I couldn't get in there. Why
Speaker 1: I wanted to let me, Let me let me say this,
Speaker 1: Let me say this. I'm going to Huntsville, Alabama, February
Speaker 1: tenth through the twelve. Tent through the twelve Marsaul Scott
Speaker 1: y'all know Marsaul Scott from Loving Marriage Huntsville, Marsau. You
Speaker 1: came to my city. I showed you love. I'm coming
Speaker 1: to your city. You and Letitia needs to sell y'all
Speaker 1: better show me some love. I'm coming your way, all right,
Speaker 1: Nephew Coming up next Strawberry Letter, subject he won't stay
Speaker 1: out of My stuff. We'll get into it right after this.
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Speaker 1: and hold on tight. We got it for you. Here.
Speaker 1: He is the Strawberry Letter. Thank you, Nephew. Subject he
Speaker 1: won't stay out up my stuff. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm
Speaker 1: a forty six year old married woman and this is
Speaker 1: my second marriage. When I was dating my new husband,
Speaker 1: he'd love wearing my house shoes around the house, even
Speaker 1: though his feet off the back. Then he started wearing
Speaker 1: my bathrobe until I got him a big, comfy one
Speaker 1: like I have. I'm not even a big woman, so
Speaker 1: it had to be uncomfortable. The moment we moved in together,
Speaker 1: he was in everything of mine. He plunders and goes
Speaker 1: through my stuff, and I'll find important things misplaced because
Speaker 1: he's used them. I can't ever find my nail clippers
Speaker 1: and files because he takes them to work with him,
Speaker 1: or they're left in his car. He's growing his hair out,
Speaker 1: so he wears these little knowing twists in his head,
Speaker 1: and he uses all of my shampoo, conditioner, and styling
Speaker 1: products because he needs his hair moisturizers moisturized, or so
Speaker 1: he says. I have encouraged him many times to go
Speaker 1: to Walmart and get his own things, but he's stubborn
Speaker 1: and says it's easier to use mine. When I started
Speaker 1: a diet, he ate all of the meal prep I did.
Speaker 1: He has no limits, and no matter how much I
Speaker 1: yell and screa at him, it's like living with a child.
Speaker 1: My own kids don't touch my things, and I need
Speaker 1: him to learn to keep his hands to himself. This
Speaker 1: leads me to the biggest problem. He likes to spoon
Speaker 1: every night, and it was cute at first, but now
Speaker 1: it's a problem because once again he's in my stuff. Yes,
Speaker 1: he has to have his hand on it to fall asleep.
Speaker 1: Can you imagine how awkward this is for me? He's
Speaker 1: all in my space and in my stuff day and night.
Speaker 1: How do I get some sort of separation from him
Speaker 1: without causing a big rift in my marriage? I should
Speaker 1: have stopped it from the beginning. What do I do now? Holy?
Speaker 1: Holy WHOA? Yeah, you should have stopped it in the beginning.
Speaker 1: I don't know. At first I thought this letter was
Speaker 1: going to be about cross dressing, and then it just
Speaker 1: kind of changed for me. You didn't stop him in
Speaker 1: the beginning. But how could you have known it would
Speaker 1: be this bad? I mean, I mean, there are, of
Speaker 1: course worse things in life, but he is like a
Speaker 1: spoiled brad kid. He's all over the place. What did
Speaker 1: he bring to the marriage? Did he have any Does
Speaker 1: he have anything? It doesn't sound like he do, but
Speaker 1: he does. He's also lazy. He's disrespectful, he's inconsiderate, he's selfish,
Speaker 1: I mean lazy because he won't get his own hair
Speaker 1: products that's simple, you know, Like you say, just go
Speaker 1: down to the walmart and pick yourself up something disrespectful.
Speaker 1: He's in your things without asking you. You know you
Speaker 1: can't find him when you're looking for him. You've asked
Speaker 1: him to stop, he won't. He's inconsiderate, selfish, he doesn't
Speaker 1: care how this makes you feel. He's just walking all
Speaker 1: over you with no What is with this guy? He
Speaker 1: needs to understand that even in marriage there are boundaries
Speaker 1: there just there's boundaries everywhere. Your spouse needs to still
Speaker 1: be respectful and ask you to use your things. I
Speaker 1: mean it is very childish and stupid. I agree with
Speaker 1: you there. So I say treat him like a child
Speaker 1: and put him on punishment and until he can leave
Speaker 1: your stuff alone. No spooning, No hands on your stuff
Speaker 1: like you say, no hands on it, and you have
Speaker 1: to mean it this time. I say, stopped putting yourself second,
Speaker 1: stand up for yourself. You gotta you know, you scream
Speaker 1: and yell at him, but he doesn't hear you. But
Speaker 1: you gotta make him hear you. Your husband is wrong.
Speaker 1: You're letting him get away with this stuff. Steve, sure
Speaker 1: you're saying something you said when you first read the letter,
Speaker 1: you thought it was about cross dressing, and I did too. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And after reading a whole letter, I still think the
Speaker 1: same thing. And I thought, initially, yeah, thats what the
Speaker 1: hell I'm going. That's the round I'm going, right, Hill, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I still think it's about some damn cross dress. And
Speaker 1: I got proof in the whole damn letter. Something going on. Hill. Now,
Speaker 1: you forty six year old married woman. It's your second marriage,
Speaker 1: this to your new husband, and before you got married,
Speaker 1: he loved wearing your house shoes round the house, even
Speaker 1: though his feet hang off the back. Now, she later
Speaker 1: on says she's not a large woman, So this is
Speaker 1: a small woman. Recoglicide. You know she ain't no bigger
Speaker 1: of what she's saying. But so you got small feet.
Speaker 1: I can't even put my toes in Margree's house shoes.
Speaker 1: I can't even get my toes in that. I can't
Speaker 1: get through the opening of none of her house shit
Speaker 1: because my feet too wide. Now, somehow he didn't manage
Speaker 1: to slide in your house shoes and what they're just
Speaker 1: hanging off the So I'm assuming this ain't a big man.
Speaker 1: Well he's bigger than you. Then he started wearing your
Speaker 1: bathrobe until I got him a big, comfortablee like I have.
Speaker 1: I'm not even a big woman, so it had to
Speaker 1: be uncomfortable. So now he could he could put your
Speaker 1: bathrobe on, and he could wear your house shoes. Okay,
Speaker 1: then you said, I'm not even a big woman, so
Speaker 1: it had to be uncomfortable the moment we moved in together.
Speaker 1: He has everything of mine. He plunders and goes through
Speaker 1: my stuff. I'll find important things misplaced because he's used
Speaker 1: this cross quest. He plunders through my things. This don't
Speaker 1: sound familiar to you. This don't sound like a story
Speaker 1: we've heard any news recently. Over the years. It started
Speaker 1: like that to day house too, just a little wearing
Speaker 1: dresses and stuff. Next thing you know, Yeah, he was
Speaker 1: a major news item. And I'm not even gonna get
Speaker 1: into it because of political correct correctness, and nobody's gonna
Speaker 1: be able to say Steve was bashing anybody, because I'm not.
Speaker 1: I'm just making you aware of a familiar story you
Speaker 1: may have heard. All right, hang on, I have no
Speaker 1: ways to bring it about. I'll just drop more clues
Speaker 1: right afternoon. We'll have part two of Steve's response coming
Speaker 1: up in twenty three minutes after be our subject, he
Speaker 1: won't stay out of my stuff. We'll get back into
Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening, all right, Come on,
Speaker 1: Steve Woot's recap today's Strawberry letter and so we can
Speaker 1: finish up your response, he won't stay out of my stuff.
Speaker 1: Here is the subject, he won't stay out of my stuff.
Speaker 1: This sounds like a very familiar story. This ain't common
Speaker 1: for us. That's in marriages and relationship. But when you
Speaker 1: hit this, it reeks a familiarity. It's your husband. He
Speaker 1: loves walking around the house and your stuff. Now, Shirley saying,
Speaker 1: at first she thought this letter was about cross dressing,
Speaker 1: and then she went on it was about other stuff.
Speaker 1: I'm thinking it's about cross dressing. Hole dog on letter too,
Speaker 1: And I'm explaining to you why got your house shoes on?
Speaker 1: Somehow he could finish toes in there and they just
Speaker 1: hang off the bat then even wear your bathrobe around
Speaker 1: the house, and then he goes he wears everything in yours.
Speaker 1: He plunders and through my stuff, and I'll find important
Speaker 1: things misplaced. He shused them. I've heard of men who
Speaker 1: wear their wife's clothes. I've heard of men who put
Speaker 1: their wife's dresses on and then wear they dresses and clothes.
Speaker 1: And you just said he plunders through everything. You got.
Speaker 1: It's more to this story right here, lady, I can't
Speaker 1: even find my nail clippers and files because he take
Speaker 1: them to work with him. Who do that? What man
Speaker 1: take his wife's nail clippers and files to work with him? Who? Who?
Speaker 1: I ain't never heard of that before, but I know
Speaker 1: someone who get it. This story is sounding familiar, while
Speaker 1: I have more clues. He's growing his how. Oh, that's
Speaker 1: all the sign. He's growing his how. So he wears
Speaker 1: these little annoyed and twisted his head, and he used
Speaker 1: all of my shampoo condition and styling product because he
Speaker 1: needs his head moisturizer. So he said, he's growing his hal.
Speaker 1: He using your nail products, he wearing your clothes, and
Speaker 1: he growing his hal. You're not gonna be able to
Speaker 1: write in on, Steve Harvey. I'm too smart for this hill.
Speaker 1: But all I am asking you is this don't sound
Speaker 1: for million. I bet your husband probably real athletic too.
Speaker 1: You know it could be still got still got these
Speaker 1: house shoes on the knees, growing his hat and using
Speaker 1: your nail products and all this here. You know, it
Speaker 1: just sounds familiar to me. Now, I'm not getting in
Speaker 1: trouble with this here because I would never but I'm
Speaker 1: not fit to do say nobody's name, but be talking
Speaker 1: about nobody lifestyle. That ain't my bugs. You do what
Speaker 1: you want to do. But once you in your wife's
Speaker 1: closing and growing your hal and doing your nails, all
Speaker 1: this hill, I'm just saying, now, let's try to move on. Now.
Speaker 1: You've encouraged him to go to Walmart and get his
Speaker 1: own things, but he stubborn. He says it's easy to
Speaker 1: use mine. When I started a diet, Hold up, now,
Speaker 1: just said you weren't the big girl. Yeah, when I
Speaker 1: started to diet. And that's some truth starting to come out. Now,
Speaker 1: maybe these house shoes is a little bit bigger than
Speaker 1: I thought. Maybe maybe he could wear this road. I'm
Speaker 1: just saying, this is some stuff in this ladder. I'm
Speaker 1: just reading the ladder. I'm just pulling out the fact
Speaker 1: when I started a diet, he just said you wasn't
Speaker 1: the big girls. I don't know all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: now we on the diet now and he ate all
Speaker 1: the meal preps. Idd he has no limits of no
Speaker 1: matter how much I yelled and scream at him. Is
Speaker 1: like living with a child. My own kids do not
Speaker 1: touch my things. I need him learn to keep his
Speaker 1: hands himself. And then here we go to the biggest problem.
Speaker 1: He likes to spoon every night. And it was cute
Speaker 1: at first, but now it's the problem because once again
Speaker 1: he's in my stuff. Yes, he has to have his
Speaker 1: hand on it to fall asleep. Cast got to be
Speaker 1: very uncover you know, I'm gonna tell I'm like, now,
Speaker 1: somebody trying to put their head on your stuff every
Speaker 1: night while you sleep, it's gonna be a problem. Damn it.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to sleep him finger nails couldn't cross me.
Speaker 1: You don't get your damn hands over there on yourself.
Speaker 1: What you're not finding fooling me? And I'm trying to
Speaker 1: nails and everything all over here. I'm trying to go
Speaker 1: to sleep. Kind of hard to go to sleep and
Speaker 1: breathe hard at the same time, I get nervously. Nails
Speaker 1: is around me and you hill, you know, following me,
Speaker 1: and I'm trying to go to sleep. You got your
Speaker 1: finger nails, Get your nails, Get your nails. Can you
Speaker 1: imagine how awkward this is to me? He's all in
Speaker 1: my space and in my stuff all day and night.
Speaker 1: How do I get some sort of separation from him
Speaker 1: without causing a big riff in my marriage? I should
Speaker 1: have stopped this from the beginning. But what do I
Speaker 1: do now? Well, you said this is your second marriage.
Speaker 1: I'm thinking probably gonna have to start looking at a third.
Speaker 1: I'm thinking right now, after listening to reading this letter,
Speaker 1: if you don't get away from this man, he gonna
Speaker 1: be up at y'all's church doing church church announcements and
Speaker 1: someone else whoa because you know, after after they do
Speaker 1: put all the clothes on and grow they hell, you know,
Speaker 1: they do get invited places to speak. So you're gonna
Speaker 1: look up at church and your husband gonna be doing
Speaker 1: church announcements instead of Sister Ross. All right, pagram at
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM to comment on today's letter the same dress,
Speaker 1: Sister Rob. Also check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand.
Speaker 1: Coming up next, Junior and Sports Talk forty six minutes after.
Speaker 1: Right after them, you're listening to st. Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 1: All right, here we go, it is time for Sports
Speaker 1: Talk with Junior. What you got Junior Shirley. The divisional
Speaker 1: round of the playoffs is set, the championships is set.
Speaker 1: Did y'all not see? I don't care you're on vacation, knock?
Speaker 1: Did you not see this? The saw the Bengals over
Speaker 1: the Titans? Did you not expect? We didn't even camp?
Speaker 1: Derry here? He came back sixty? That hurt you? A
Speaker 1: Tennessee Steve, though, where is he laughing at? Can't? Can't?
Speaker 1: Can't go to a super Bowl with a man named Tannehill?
Speaker 1: What's I'm saying that? That's I'm telling y'all from Cleveland?
Speaker 1: He let's got everything. Look at it. Look at the
Speaker 1: homes earls, you know, games like that, you know stuff
Speaker 1: like that. That Tom Brady, you know what. I'm sad.
Speaker 1: You know That's why I asked at the house, Baker Mayfield,
Speaker 1: what did you see this? Covering? Though everybody'd been saying it,
Speaker 1: I mean, pryme picked this too? Man the forty nineties,
Speaker 1: top the package thirteen to ten? Who knows who that
Speaker 1: the house trying to is? A rod trying to leave nothing?
Speaker 1: Does he not want to be a packing nomore? Aaron Rodgers?
Speaker 1: And I thought baseball when you said that, My bad yeah, Well,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't I don't know what he's
Speaker 1: gonna do. But I'm gonna tell you, the greatest football
Speaker 1: game I've ever seen was the Bills and the Karas
Speaker 1: City Chiefs. Yes, I've never seen that in my life.
Speaker 1: I saw more points scored in a minute and two.
Speaker 1: Josh Allen was going to the AFC Championship twice thirteen
Speaker 1: seconds left. They down on the thirty yard line and
Speaker 1: they let these foods get out here, I'll be damn
Speaker 1: and not not only did they get down here, well,
Speaker 1: they tied it up with the field goal. Then they
Speaker 1: get in the overtime, overtime so and they march and
Speaker 1: get a touchdown. If they'd got a field goal, Buffalo
Speaker 1: would have had a shot with the ball, yes, but
Speaker 1: if they scored a touchdown, it's Oh, it's the man.
Speaker 1: Tariq Hill is the truth though he is dog that
Speaker 1: that little black lightning all love that. Amazing. That was
Speaker 1: a good game, amazing, the incredibly talented guy. Man. It
Speaker 1: was wonderful. Man. And then the rams over the bucking
Speaker 1: knee is thirty to twenty seven. I'm sorry, time won't
Speaker 1: be eight this year. Brady at the House ye be back.
Speaker 1: Is he going? Is he going? You think you're gonna
Speaker 1: come back next season? I think so. I think he'll
Speaker 1: be back and play enough season. Here the goat, babe,
Speaker 1: he still got some moat. The goat will be back,
Speaker 1: all right, Junior, Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 1: Coming up next to Fellows and comedy Roulette at the
Speaker 1: top of the hour. Right after this, you're listening to
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. It is time for comedy Roulette. Jay, Please,
Speaker 1: very simple, very simple. Take three subjects. Put them on
Speaker 1: the wheel, spun the wheel, which stops? Will made it funny?
Speaker 1: Watch us do it? Watch us do it. Here are
Speaker 1: the titles. Things men say when they think they put
Speaker 1: it down in the bedroom. Things a losing coach says
Speaker 1: to his team said yesterday, they said yesterday, all right.
Speaker 1: And the way women talk about each other and then speak, yeah,
Speaker 1: let's go. Please land on the girls, all right, men
Speaker 1: in their ego. Things men say when they put it
Speaker 1: down they think they put it down in the bedroom.
Speaker 1: You read it and soaking some ebsence out water, huh,
Speaker 1: he said. Things men say when they think they put
Speaker 1: it down in the bedroom. Junior, tell your girls about me.
Speaker 1: Can't get to break it. You ain't got to worry
Speaker 1: about that. Thingsmen say when they think they put it
Speaker 1: down in the bedroom. Nephew, huh huh huh. What what
Speaker 1: things men say when they think they put it down
Speaker 1: in the bedroom? Steve? You right from the heart, Steve
Speaker 1: that you want it again. Things men say when they
Speaker 1: think they put it down in the bedroom. I'm doing
Speaker 1: it again. They think they put it down in the bedroom.
Speaker 1: You are when they think they put it down in
Speaker 1: the bedroom. I know you sleeping. I know you're sleeping, Jake.
Speaker 1: They've been saying when they think they put it down
Speaker 1: in the bedroom, Junior. Look at you speaking in tongues.
Speaker 1: They've been saying when they think they put it down
Speaker 1: in the bedroom. Nephew, you can ask your mama about, mate.
Speaker 1: What you can ask your mama about? Mate? All right? Uh, Steve,
Speaker 1: come on. Things men say when they think they put
Speaker 1: it down in You want me to get to tie.
Speaker 1: I'm waiting right there though. That's right there, right all right,
Speaker 1: one last one. I'll make it so if you're gonna
Speaker 1: close it out, all right, here we go. Things men
Speaker 1: say when they think they put it down in the bedroom.
Speaker 1: Come on, you need you need some help, gett into
Speaker 1: the bathroom. Well, let morn I'm the Steve Harvey Morning
Speaker 1: Show coming up in twenty minutes after right after this,
Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Police and
Speaker 1: Maryland made a horrifying discovery on Wednesday when they found
Speaker 1: him and dead inside a house full of snakes. Sorry, Carla.
Speaker 1: Authorities were called to a home after a neighbor reported
Speaker 1: finding a man passed out on the floor. When police
Speaker 1: and EMTs arrived, they discovered the dead body of the
Speaker 1: forty nine year old man, who was surrounded by more
Speaker 1: than one hundred snakes, including some venomous ones. Um. Yeah,
Speaker 1: his snakes. Animal control ultimately wrangled up one hundred and
Speaker 1: twenty five, including cobras, rattlesnakes, and a fourteen foot Burmese python.
Speaker 1: Neighbors say the man lived alone and they had no
Speaker 1: idea he was keeping snakes in the house. Tommy dare
Speaker 1: go to her answer, I understand authorities have not given
Speaker 1: a cause of death yet, but say there were no
Speaker 1: Thomas sy who who's waiting on this report? Who need
Speaker 1: the autopsy on this? Right? Yeah? You live by the snake,
Speaker 1: die by this exactly y'all ain't gonna find me like that,
Speaker 1: oh cobra, Yeah yeah, your house high brattle snakes, I mean,
Speaker 1: just crazy. All right, all right, we'll have more of
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at thirty three
Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we'll play around would you rather?
Speaker 1: Right after this? You're listening to show? All right time
Speaker 1: guys for would you rather? Would you rather answer calls
Speaker 1: on a speaker for a month, or would you rather
Speaker 1: pierce your belly button? Mess up myself in the stomach.
Speaker 1: But we're not going to hear these phone calls. You're
Speaker 1: gonna you're gonna even do y'all much cheeks before I
Speaker 1: put my phone on speak. Here's everything I got. But
Speaker 1: we get to you, I'll let you go on and
Speaker 1: pierce my belly button because you ain't gonna be seeing
Speaker 1: no damn one. Yeah, I'm I'm you gotta come on, Joe,
Speaker 1: all the same team they they said, you can't let
Speaker 1: anybody hear your your I ain't explaining these voices to you.
Speaker 1: You gotta pierce belly button, all four of them. All right,
Speaker 1: y'all never hit the wrong Yeah, y'all, never hit the
Speaker 1: wrong button. And it went on speaker and you dove
Speaker 1: across the room and get to that. I am turned it.
Speaker 1: I have hung up on some people. All right, would
Speaker 1: you rather appear on the TV show Naked and Afraid
Speaker 1: or Shark Week? Um, I'm naked in the frame. I'm
Speaker 1: on Shark Week. Yeah, yeah, I'm I'm on Shark Week
Speaker 1: on the radio. Boy, have you seen that in the fair?
Speaker 1: Twenty one days? Have you seen them? Shark? Have you
Speaker 1: seen them? You got to get in the water. I
Speaker 1: ain't got to get in the water with Shark Week. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I ain't got comic. If you think you could be
Speaker 1: outside with no clothes for twenty one you're sadly mistaken.
Speaker 1: There are people that do that right there. I don't
Speaker 1: even understand what they're talking about. All them damn books
Speaker 1: eating your ass up. Yeah, well, I'm gonna be pull
Speaker 1: dudes off for islands. Dude had a parasite climbed inside
Speaker 1: of his gilla. No swall it up. They had to
Speaker 1: come take him off the island. Now, where does your
Speaker 1: ass do? And then what do you win? Prot? What
Speaker 1: do you and where do you put it? When you
Speaker 1: win it? I'm gonna I'm gonna be naked and a
Speaker 1: frame with a condom on naked and what that's gonna do.
Speaker 1: I know where they ain't going. I know that I
Speaker 1: know they ain't gonna naked, they go wherever? All right,
Speaker 1: coming up the last break of the day and the
Speaker 1: Chlores will close out the show with Steve Harvey closing
Speaker 1: remarks of forty nine minutes after right after this, you're
Speaker 1: listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, so Steve,
Speaker 1: here we are our last break of the day. We
Speaker 1: have to remind everyone that you are on Nick Cannon's
Speaker 1: talk show today, so uh, you know, he's all over
Speaker 1: the place. Check your local listing so you don't miss
Speaker 1: Steve and Nick Cannon today. Here we are. I forgot
Speaker 1: to be honest with hey, y'all. I got some closing
Speaker 1: remarks to day. It might be helpful to people, because
Speaker 1: it's very very helpful to me. You know what I
Speaker 1: really had to come to terms with. I was I
Speaker 1: was thinking about It started off kind of a sad thought,
Speaker 1: you know, I was thinking about the people that we've
Speaker 1: lost so far this year, and my wife reminded me
Speaker 1: of something that I want to just share what you
Speaker 1: all because it might can help you out sometimes in
Speaker 1: looking at where we are in life and where we
Speaker 1: want to be. We sometimes we just happened to look
Speaker 1: at other people. And I was getting sad about the
Speaker 1: Louis Anderson and Bob Sagat, I was sad about Betty White.
Speaker 1: You know, just people share being capricorns or whatever. You know,
Speaker 1: I just facistica had a little moment. But you know
Speaker 1: what Marjorie said, that really helped me man the other day,
Speaker 1: and it might help somebody else, and it made me
Speaker 1: really start thinking about the whole spectrum of life. I said, Wow,
Speaker 1: you know, I just was fortunate enough to have a birthday.
Speaker 1: Bob Sagga died at sixty five. Louis Anderson was seventy.
Speaker 1: And you look at h Tally, the great designer. He passed.
Speaker 1: Virgil just passed a lot of great people, passed all
Speaker 1: of my heroes, Muhammad, Ali h Richard Pryor. You know,
Speaker 1: you think of all the people. I could go on
Speaker 1: and on. The list is endless. I'm not trying to
Speaker 1: think of everybody. I'm just telling you, and you know
Speaker 1: what Margie said to me, that made a lot of sense,
Speaker 1: but it made me think even deeper. She says. Steve
Speaker 1: that's not your story. That's not your story. And you
Speaker 1: know what, folks, that's not your story either. What I'm
Speaker 1: saying is I had to really refocus myself and it
Speaker 1: caused me to think that all your blessings has your
Speaker 1: name on it. Your name. Everything God has for you
Speaker 1: specifically has your name on it. You don't have to
Speaker 1: wonder if it was meant for you. You're gonna get it.
Speaker 1: It's gonna be in God's timing and it's gonna be
Speaker 1: in God's will. And if you align yourself to his
Speaker 1: timing and will, you will get everything that has your
Speaker 1: name on it. That's the key, though. You got align
Speaker 1: yourself up with his timing and his will. But all
Speaker 1: of your blessings have your name on it. Stop looking
Speaker 1: at what's happening to somebody else. That's not a story.
Speaker 1: I have extremely successful friends who have far more than
Speaker 1: I have. That's not my story. It's not my story.
Speaker 1: It doesn't mean that you can't have some of the
Speaker 1: same things, but you're getting it when they got it
Speaker 1: and how they got it and exactly what they have.
Speaker 1: That's not going to happen. You know why, because that's
Speaker 1: not your story. And as long as you keep looking
Speaker 1: at somebody else, You're never gonna be content with who
Speaker 1: you are. You have a lot of things that you
Speaker 1: could be content with if you focused on you. But
Speaker 1: the moment you're focus is on somebody else's article, somebody
Speaker 1: else's print, somebody else's book, somebody else's chapter. Oh man,
Speaker 1: you're making a serious mistake, folks, because that's not your story.
Speaker 1: You know. You ever hear the slogan the grass is
Speaker 1: greener on the other side, Really, the grass is greenness
Speaker 1: on the side that you water. That's where the grass
Speaker 1: really is green. The grass is greener on the side
Speaker 1: that gets water. I give you an example. I got
Speaker 1: a friend that's going through a divorce and hearing this
Speaker 1: girl ain't been cool with each other for two years.
Speaker 1: It's been two years they have not been cool with
Speaker 1: each other, and I mean told us that they weren't
Speaker 1: cool with each other, right, So they're really they're going
Speaker 1: through this divorce, and all he comes to me and
Speaker 1: talk about it is this girl that he's seeing, right,
Speaker 1: And he's telling me about this girl he's seeing, and
Speaker 1: he always talking about what his wife ain't And I
Speaker 1: told him the other day we were talking and I said, hey, brother,
Speaker 1: God just tell you something. You keep talking about what
Speaker 1: your wife anging, what this girl is. I say, he
Speaker 1: saved Steve. That grass greener on the other side, though,
Speaker 1: I said, but dog, that's beside you watering. You ain't
Speaker 1: even watering this side of it. You're watering that side.
Speaker 1: You buy her stuff, you tell her, she find you,
Speaker 1: compliment her. You sit out here talks with her, you
Speaker 1: take out to dinner. You don't take your wife to dinner.
Speaker 1: You don't compliment her. Y'all gonna sit down and talk
Speaker 1: no more. You ain't watering the grass on this side.
Speaker 1: So of course the grass is greener on the other side, brother,
Speaker 1: because that's the side you water it. Now. I ain't
Speaker 1: saying you and your wife are to get back together,
Speaker 1: but you can stop telling me how good is over there,
Speaker 1: because if you go over there and you do it
Speaker 1: the same way you did your wife, that grass gonna
Speaker 1: drop and look brown too, and then you're gonna have
Speaker 1: to find another field to go play in. Listen, man,
Speaker 1: learn this about life. What's happening to somebody else doesn't
Speaker 1: have to be your story. You have your own story.
Speaker 1: The more I focus on me, the better off I am.
Speaker 1: The better off I find out my life really is.
Speaker 1: Your life is really great if you focus on it
Speaker 1: and you water it and you tend to it. But
Speaker 1: the moment you start looking at somebody else's story and
Speaker 1: you start tending today chapters in books, you're gonna mess
Speaker 1: up the writing of your own story. Man, it's your story.
Speaker 1: All your blessings have your name on it. Remember that
Speaker 1: you have. You won't miss a single thing if you
Speaker 1: adhere to God's timing in God's build y'all have great day.
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