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Speaker 1: will A good morning everybody. Y' all listening to the voice,
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Speaker 1: got a radio show. Man. If y'all only knew, I
Speaker 1: think I'll tell it to you. This morning man started
Speaker 1: off real crazy. But it's just those little mishaps where
Speaker 1: we as people who are striving to be successful that
Speaker 1: makes all the difference in the world. When you have
Speaker 1: those little minor things that come up, you can't let
Speaker 1: the minor things stop you. You've got to keep pressing forward. Now,
Speaker 1: Could I have played the role of where is my car?
Speaker 1: Where is my car? Oh? Where is my car? Instead
Speaker 1: of hustling and grab a cab? So what am I?
Speaker 1: Am I above a cab ride? Now? Or do I
Speaker 1: have to look at the bigger picture and say okay,
Speaker 1: I could act like a little spoiled brat sometimes type
Speaker 1: of star and go I don't ride in cabs, or
Speaker 1: where's my car? And then go to blaming people for
Speaker 1: not having a car, or do I make the adjustments
Speaker 1: because ain't like I ain't been in a cab before
Speaker 1: now slow down. Ain't like I ain't never been in
Speaker 1: a beat up car before. Slow down. Ain't ever like
Speaker 1: I ain't never had a cab and roll the bus
Speaker 1: before slow down. Ain't like I ain't never been homeless before,
Speaker 1: and ain't have nowhere to go? Slow down. So in
Speaker 1: those moments right there, always remember where you come from,
Speaker 1: but even more importantly, always remember where you're trying to go,
Speaker 1: because it's important for me that I get here as
Speaker 1: many mornings as I possibly can. It's important because that's
Speaker 1: the goal. And so many people allowed a minor things
Speaker 1: to stop them on their road to success. And I'm
Speaker 1: giving you this example today not to say hey, look
Speaker 1: at me, but to say to you, hey, listening to me.
Speaker 1: They are going to be a lot of things that's
Speaker 1: gonna happen along your way to being successful. And if
Speaker 1: you allow the small things to stop you, there's no
Speaker 1: way you'll make it. You've got to always press forward
Speaker 1: and stop looking at the situation for what it is
Speaker 1: and look. Sometimes you have to take your offer right
Speaker 1: now and put your eye into future. You know, God
Speaker 1: has blessed me in so many ways. I mean, what
Speaker 1: can I say? You know, I ask God for the
Speaker 1: syndicated show. He gives me a syndicated show. Now I
Speaker 1: act like I don't want to come to it. Hold on, man,
Speaker 1: slow down. Did not you ask for this? Do I
Speaker 1: not realize that there are certain people, man, who look
Speaker 1: forward to this message in the morning. I've heard it
Speaker 1: from people, so from the hundreds that I've heard it for,
Speaker 1: that could represent thousands for all I know. So if
Speaker 1: I think somebody's counting on me, I gotta try to
Speaker 1: get there and give something. So today I didn't have
Speaker 1: any time at all to think about what I might say.
Speaker 1: I just walked right in and the jingle was playing,
Speaker 1: and so I decided to just tell you about my
Speaker 1: day and maybe you can relate it to something you're
Speaker 1: going through alone the way, because no matter who you are,
Speaker 1: you're going to have some moments man, where things are
Speaker 1: going to have And like I always tell my kids,
Speaker 1: and I just had this conversation with my little girl.
Speaker 1: It ain't that things ain't gonna happen. It's how you
Speaker 1: handle what happens that matters. But it don't matter. It's
Speaker 1: how you handle what happens that's the determining factor on
Speaker 1: where you get in life and how soon you get
Speaker 1: there and how long you stay there. That will always
Speaker 1: be a mishap, something that's gonna throw you off. That
Speaker 1: will always be something man that could deter you. That
Speaker 1: will be something somewhere, man, that will make you doubt it.
Speaker 1: Now that you know that's gonna happen, then let's talk
Speaker 1: about how you handle what happens, because it's going to happen.
Speaker 1: So now, what do you do as a person when
Speaker 1: these moments come about in your life? How do you handle? Oh?
Speaker 1: Woe is me? Oh? I guess it wasn't meant to be. Well.
Speaker 1: If the Lord wanted me to have this, I'd have that.
Speaker 1: How many deal how many times you hear people say that?
Speaker 1: You know, man, it really irks me. Man, Stop using
Speaker 1: God as your excuse. God ain't no excuse. God is
Speaker 1: a reason. He's a reason why the good happens. He's
Speaker 1: a reason. He's not an excuse. God don't have no
Speaker 1: excuses in none of his scriptures or writings, not that
Speaker 1: I've he just don't make excuses. I would have done this.
Speaker 1: But you know there's a scripture that says the poor
Speaker 1: will all shall always be amongst us. Why that's got
Speaker 1: to be you. Yeah, he said the poor will always
Speaker 1: be amongst us, because you know, everybody ain't gonna follow
Speaker 1: the principles of success. But he also said he came
Speaker 1: to give you life and give it to you more abundantly.
Speaker 1: He said that too, But old, no, you don't want
Speaker 1: to hear that because your life kind of trip it
Speaker 1: out a little bit. So now what you do with it?
Speaker 1: Now you twist it and you go to that one
Speaker 1: little scripture that say, well, the poor shall always be
Speaker 1: amongst us, Well, that's put in there because that's a
Speaker 1: that's auggests in case. See, that's a just in case
Speaker 1: y'all don't want to follow the scriptures. That's just in
Speaker 1: case you don't understand that faith without works is dead.
Speaker 1: That's just in case you have not because you ask not.
Speaker 1: It's just in case you don't believe in shall not doubt.
Speaker 1: He got all that in there. But in case you
Speaker 1: don't want to do that. There is a scripture that
Speaker 1: tells you who don't happen if you don't do it,
Speaker 1: And here it is the poor shall always be a monster.
Speaker 1: But then you get that when they say, well, that's
Speaker 1: I guess that's the lord's will, Lord's will, really, really,
Speaker 1: really really, that's amazing. I just don't believe that about him.
Speaker 1: I don't believe that God created your life to be
Speaker 1: a life of misery. I think that we make decisions
Speaker 1: along the way that cause us to have lives of misery.
Speaker 1: But I really really just don't believe that God created
Speaker 1: you for that. I've heard Nelson Mandela speak, and you know,
Speaker 1: you gotta go wild. All those years in prison, Man,
Speaker 1: what was it about? When you hear him speak, you
Speaker 1: understand what it was about. He said he always knew
Speaker 1: he would be free one day. Now, what he said
Speaker 1: he never knew was he said he never knew that
Speaker 1: he would be the president of that country. Oh my goodness,
Speaker 1: what a long way around. But he could have sat
Speaker 1: there and got involved in prison activities that wasn't up
Speaker 1: to pawing things like that. And they said whenever young
Speaker 1: inmates used to come in, he was telling the story
Speaker 1: one time of how young inmates used to come into
Speaker 1: the prison. They all sit around and talk to him
Speaker 1: about what they were doing and how many kids they
Speaker 1: had in their lives, and it helped them keep track
Speaker 1: of the outside a little bit, and it kept a
Speaker 1: sense of time for them, and it reminded me in
Speaker 1: to talk about what they left behind, and it kept
Speaker 1: them going because something was great on the other side.
Speaker 1: Had he allowed that to stop him, had he allowed
Speaker 1: the imprisonment, which is a pretty major deal. Oh, by
Speaker 1: the way, then guess what he would have never been
Speaker 1: to Nelson Mandela that we know to day, a martyr,
Speaker 1: a leader, a great force. People want to go around him.
Speaker 1: Even people that imprisoned him could not understand his staunch strength,
Speaker 1: his faith, his unwavering commitment. They couldn't understand it. So
Speaker 1: things are going to happen in your life, but it's
Speaker 1: how you handle what happens doesn't matter. So keep pushing, y'all.
Speaker 1: Don't let the little things get in the way, okay,
Speaker 1: And if you just sometimes you just don't know. I
Speaker 1: got in the cab thinking I wasn't gonna make it,
Speaker 1: But at least let's go see. Let's try. I made it. Now.
Speaker 1: Guess what that gives me another piece of information that
Speaker 1: I have and all I had to see it again
Speaker 1: to date. Guess what I said today? Man, Sometimes when
Speaker 1: it looked like you aren't gonna make it, just go
Speaker 1: ahead on anywhere. Now. I could still be back there
Speaker 1: at the hotel time I wear my car, but I
Speaker 1: got up in here made it. So Now what y'all
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Speaker 1: I know you you you've been you for a very
Speaker 1: long time, sixty five years. You know how you is?
Speaker 1: Do you ever just want to just not be you
Speaker 1: would just start cussing everybody? Have you ever just wanted that?
Speaker 1: What wait, ever wanted to just not be me and
Speaker 1: start cussing somebody out? Yeah, just not be the celebrity.
Speaker 1: Obviously you don't really know me. Oh, I've been custom.
Speaker 1: It used to be a resolution to stop cussing. I
Speaker 1: remember that day he tried to do it. Yeah, I had.
Speaker 1: I've given that up so many times. I don't even
Speaker 1: apologize for it. No more journey, I don't even I
Speaker 1: don't even I'm so sorry. No, I'm meant it yard
Speaker 1: one time. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, we had a money
Speaker 1: joab for cussing. Now the y'all will feel after the
Speaker 1: first day. Oh man, come on, No, I'm not. I'm not.
Speaker 1: I've just decided and that's how I am. Now. If
Speaker 1: you don't like cussing and everything, and you judgment about
Speaker 1: people who cause I understand where you're coming from, don't
Speaker 1: you don't have to cuss. But I'm gonna tell you
Speaker 1: right now me personally, Yeah, I recommend it. Stress reliever girl.
Speaker 1: I don't have alsos. I don't have high blood pressure,
Speaker 1: hot potential. I ain't got none of that stuff. Man,
Speaker 1: I ain't got I ain't ain't. I ain't got chronic illness.
Speaker 1: And you know I had none of that. Man, I
Speaker 1: ain't buy pola. You don't have none of that. You
Speaker 1: know why? Because I let sit out. Yeah, it's not,
Speaker 1: it's not. I don't give it time to fester in me.
Speaker 1: I'm not sitting around. I'm not bitter. No, I don't
Speaker 1: hold grudges because the moment we have the grudge, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna get to you that way. I ain't got to
Speaker 1: hold it. Yeah, yeah, man, I'm letting you in my
Speaker 1: life and it's it's okay. And after this birthday right here,
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, man, I'm just more settling who I am.
Speaker 1: And if you do not like me, it's okay, man,
Speaker 1: it's okay. Most people out that I discovered don't like me.
Speaker 1: I immediately starts disliking the ass and we eat. You
Speaker 1: gotta do this no more. I ain't no problem that
Speaker 1: what we're doing. What we like you, Steve, we like
Speaker 1: here a lot coming up at thirty two minutes after
Speaker 1: the hour, than the nephew is here would run that
Speaker 1: brank back. We'll get into it right after this. Thank you,
Speaker 1: you're listening. Show. All right, here we go. Here's a nephew.
Speaker 1: We'd run that brank back. Nephew. What you got start
Speaker 1: us off? What I got? What I got? What I got?
Speaker 1: My refrigerator, my refrigerator. Nothing minds up with a little run.
Speaker 1: Dam seeing that? All right, let's go, cat dog my refrigerator. Hello. Hello,
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach you, mister please, miss This is Jackson.
Speaker 1: I'm the driver, man, I'm actually the delivery guy that's
Speaker 1: bringing you refrigerator over the day. Okay, what's going on? Okay, listen.
Speaker 1: I know we had a window that was from eight
Speaker 1: to twelve this morning, it's see it eleven thirty now.
Speaker 1: So we run a little bit behind schedule. Man. We
Speaker 1: have some problems at the yard getting everything loaded up. Man,
Speaker 1: come on, man, you killing man? I can't, y'all. So
Speaker 1: y'all running behind. We're a little bit behind schedule. Man,
Speaker 1: we're gonna have we we'll beat up somewhere between twelve
Speaker 1: and four. Oh, come on, man, y'all know they're doing
Speaker 1: better than that. Now. I understand, sir, I understand. Actually
Speaker 1: it's actually I got a man, I got all my
Speaker 1: food in here and this and coolers and stuff. Man,
Speaker 1: I got everywhere. I mean, so, I mean, what's what
Speaker 1: What's what's going on is y'all ain't got to refrigerator.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out. No. No, we loaded up.
Speaker 1: You know, we just had some problems. I think one
Speaker 1: of the fourth lyifps went out, and you know, it
Speaker 1: kind of pushed us back. So that four hour wind
Speaker 1: that we had from eight to twelve, man just got ruined.
Speaker 1: And now we're pushing things from our twelve to four.
Speaker 1: So between twelve and four, man, we would definitely be there. Y'all.
Speaker 1: Brothers and man, it's all. I spoke to them yesterday. Actually,
Speaker 1: the warehouse supervisor he's actually out today. He's not here,
Speaker 1: so he's not here. Yeah, Man, imposed work here. You said,
Speaker 1: y'all not gonna be here till in between twelve and four.
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to be at work there. We want to Clark,
Speaker 1: I understand it, man, I greatly apologize. Man, this rarely happens,
Speaker 1: and it just so happened this morning and four Lymph
Speaker 1: was down and we had a lot of stuff to
Speaker 1: load up. You know, we got I got ten refrigerators
Speaker 1: on this truck, man, and one of them is definitely yours, sir.
Speaker 1: So I'm definitely gonna be getting into you as soon
Speaker 1: as I can, man, y'all. So so man, y'all, I'm
Speaker 1: pushing it. I'm supposed to do your work. And then
Speaker 1: I scheduled everything, yes, around this, because I'm supposed to.
Speaker 1: You know, I gotta have a refrigerator to pound on
Speaker 1: the food and stuff in the end in the kitchen
Speaker 1: and whatnot? Refrigerator went out? Did the refrigerator went out?
Speaker 1: Is that what happened? Yeah, it's very so did. I mean,
Speaker 1: I haven't had it for quite some times, which you know,
Speaker 1: so it's just amount of time. Phone, we'll go out.
Speaker 1: So I started to go even get the newes, you
Speaker 1: know right. That's why. Well now I can scared you.
Speaker 1: I can scared you next week sometime if you want
Speaker 1: me to. I mean, I can't. I can't afford that
Speaker 1: we're gonna pay for this food. As I got to
Speaker 1: hear all over the floor to me, let me get
Speaker 1: the hustler. Man, see if I can move as quick
Speaker 1: as I can. But twelve to four is the window, man,
Speaker 1: Like I said, I apologize, miss but we'll be that. Man.
Speaker 1: We're gonna, we're gonna, we're gonna be that what you're
Speaker 1: refrigerated day? Okay? Okay, So so when you when you
Speaker 1: on your way, how about I want you to call
Speaker 1: me and let me know that you on your ways
Speaker 1: so I know what's going on. We don't know. We
Speaker 1: don't know him to call when we're on our way.
Speaker 1: We just come on in and get some things. Shut up,
Speaker 1: what you mean you don't call not? You just called
Speaker 1: me just now, didn't Yeah? Yeah, I did meet. Like
Speaker 1: I said, the problem is on us, man, I give
Speaker 1: you a call when win around. Okay, okay, I appreciate that.
Speaker 1: Now you said Twitter, you said between pleaven fold now
Speaker 1: ye yes, sir, in twelve and four, we definitely be there.
Speaker 1: We got your own truck. Man. Okay, I don't want
Speaker 1: I don't want to know, miss Man. No, No, we
Speaker 1: got you. We got you. We'll see you in a minute. Man,
Speaker 1: all right, they care? Hello, miss This is Jackson agat
Speaker 1: the delivery guy man with the refrigerator. Well yeah, listen,
Speaker 1: listen about team man. We run into a few more
Speaker 1: problems here. Man. It looks like we're probably not gonna
Speaker 1: get that refrigerator out till tomorrow? Sometimes you you you said,
Speaker 1: what we run into a few more problems, man, it
Speaker 1: looks like we're probably not gonna get that refrigerator out
Speaker 1: till tomorrow. Into a few more problems, a few more
Speaker 1: problems like what s we got some problems with some
Speaker 1: um some more delivers we got just with all the
Speaker 1: delivers we got it just don't see we gonna make
Speaker 1: it on your side of town to bear to get
Speaker 1: this thing take. You're not gonna make it on my
Speaker 1: side of town? What is that you decide you want
Speaker 1: to take my money when I pay for when I
Speaker 1: paid for, but you're gonna tell me you don't and
Speaker 1: you ain't gonna make it on my side of town. Well,
Speaker 1: well we can definitely get out there tomorrow, man, we
Speaker 1: definitely can get out there to mart. I can't have
Speaker 1: them out to you tomorrow. I got chicken and beef
Speaker 1: and us all over here in my floake and you
Speaker 1: go to him. You can't make it in here just
Speaker 1: a mar that. Uh you you ain't got no answers
Speaker 1: for me on that. I understand. No, No, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't think you understand. So because I got sit
Speaker 1: I got food and ice and city in here. I'm coolers,
Speaker 1: all of them a floor of my kitchen. You're gonna
Speaker 1: tell me that I did just you can't make it
Speaker 1: in here to the marrow with with with refrigerated here
Speaker 1: because because you you you you you yelling on the
Speaker 1: back of Ram yesterday. The word that is, I know
Speaker 1: you spoke too. I told him yesterday I had to
Speaker 1: have my work at one o'clock. I told him that,
Speaker 1: I said that you gotta refrigerated your own time because
Speaker 1: I gotta grass work. Well, I said, I didn't talk
Speaker 1: to Ni more like I said, certainly not working today.
Speaker 1: He's not. He's not in the day in charge. Well,
Speaker 1: actually the lady name one that's actually in charge when
Speaker 1: Larry leaves. But uh, I don't even know if I
Speaker 1: saw mom. But but you reggive you one of y'all
Speaker 1: doing over that. Now we're gonna have it there. I
Speaker 1: took out my job, but y'all had a refrigerate here.
Speaker 1: I'm here at home and now you called me back,
Speaker 1: and so all I can tell you is we're gonna
Speaker 1: be there tomorrow. Okay, I'm not gonna go back and forth.
Speaker 1: You know, you know what you refrigerator. Sorry, y'all. You
Speaker 1: take the refrigerator, so you stit there, refrigerator. I don't
Speaker 1: want to know more. I'm gonna put this food in
Speaker 1: my neighbor refrigerator and I'm gonna go give me another
Speaker 1: from somewhere else because you playing around. I ain't got
Speaker 1: time for your men, sir. I don't know if I
Speaker 1: don't know if that's refundable. You know what you mean?
Speaker 1: You don't that is refund When you got time, you're
Speaker 1: gonna take my money and you're gonna tell me that
Speaker 1: I can't have my money back and you can't get
Speaker 1: my ffrigerated on your own time, sir. Listen, there's one
Speaker 1: more thing I need to talk. I ain't to say
Speaker 1: to me because okay, but I have one more thing
Speaker 1: I need to tell you. Okay, are you listening? This
Speaker 1: will probably help everything. This is nephew Timmy from the
Speaker 1: Steve Hall Morning Show. You just got pranked by your wife.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm gonna fix off, That's what I
Speaker 1: want to put it. Don't you hate it when they
Speaker 1: call and he got that window and they changed that window.
Speaker 1: So you can't do anything between those hours because if
Speaker 1: you leave, you know you're gonna miss it all right, right,
Speaker 1: thank you, nephew. Coming up next, ask the CLO Chief
Speaker 1: Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building for your love questions.
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning
Speaker 1: Show coming up at the top of the hour. And
Speaker 1: entertainment news, Well, the view has suspended. Our girl would
Speaker 1: be goldberg for two weeks for comments she made about
Speaker 1: the Holocaust. Yeah, we'll talk about that, Plus an other
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Speaker 1: prices are soaring. Okay, we'll talk about all of these
Speaker 1: stories at the top of the hour, but right now
Speaker 1: it's time for the Chief Love Officer to step in
Speaker 1: for your love questions. Aaron and Bosire City says, I'm
Speaker 1: a thirty three year old single woman and I have
Speaker 1: a crush on my dad's friend and he likes me too,
Speaker 1: the guy who is fifty five years old, same age
Speaker 1: as my dad. My mother and father don't speak at all,
Speaker 1: so when I asked my mom for advice, she told
Speaker 1: me to go for it, so it would give my
Speaker 1: father a heart attack. I don't want to upset my dad.
Speaker 1: Should I ask for my dad's blessing? Or should his
Speaker 1: friend ask him? Wow, she's going forward with this, Well,
Speaker 1: let me explain something to you, his friend. That's gonna
Speaker 1: be a hell of conversation. That's gonna be a hell
Speaker 1: of conversation. Man, don't I have no idea how you
Speaker 1: go to your friend and say, hey, man, look I
Speaker 1: care about your daughter. Oh, thank you for it. No, No,
Speaker 1: I care about it, and uh, I want to start
Speaker 1: dating your daughter. You know, we might get work through this,
Speaker 1: but it will be after this ass whipping though. That's yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: we might get work through it, but we're gonna suck
Speaker 1: up because because you're my boy and you've been looking
Speaker 1: at my daughter like that, Like that's a hard one. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's a hard one immediately though. Yeah, and I'm talking
Speaker 1: about man, like what ye Y're all up in my
Speaker 1: face just so you can be up in her face.
Speaker 1: It's too it's too much, especially old black dudes. I'm
Speaker 1: just telling you, man, we don't old white dudes. I don't.
Speaker 1: I just don't know me. And that's gonna do that
Speaker 1: when we are well, Hey, I wish you well, go
Speaker 1: for it. Yeah, no, no, no, all right, I'm moving
Speaker 1: on to a to Kennedy and Evanston. Kennedy writes, I'm
Speaker 1: twenty nine and I've had an on and off again
Speaker 1: relationship with a great guy. It's my fault that we
Speaker 1: always break up because I have a lot of male
Speaker 1: friends and it's hard for me to push them aside
Speaker 1: because I'm in a relationship. I vibe better with males
Speaker 1: than I do females. What does this Why does this
Speaker 1: bother my man so much? Why? Because he knows what
Speaker 1: your male friends won't the same thing he won't. He
Speaker 1: know what your male friends are do I given the
Speaker 1: opportunity because it's the same thing he did. He know
Speaker 1: you ain't just attractive to him. That's why I bother
Speaker 1: this hill And I've told y'all over and over this
Speaker 1: don't work. But y'all don't believe Uncle Steve. So go
Speaker 1: don't do like you won't to have all the male friends.
Speaker 1: You won't and you ain't been to hand no man.
Speaker 1: Now you got it, because your man is not going
Speaker 1: to tolerate understand all the male friends. First of all,
Speaker 1: you're talking to them when you could be talking to me.
Speaker 1: You're on the phone laughing, keep kid and all this
Speaker 1: is here with them, but you you ain't over here
Speaker 1: laughing and keep kiding with me. And I know why
Speaker 1: they're laughing. And keep kid because they'll do you if
Speaker 1: given the opportunity, and if you keep playing with them,
Speaker 1: they're gonna do you. Now, gonna tell you this, no
Speaker 1: damn mode, hey man. A matter of fact, let's says
Speaker 1: say this. Quit writing me. If you're in a relationship
Speaker 1: committed and your relationship is struggling because of your same
Speaker 1: sex friends or your opposite sex friends, don't write us
Speaker 1: no damn more about this because I'm tired of telling
Speaker 1: y'all what I've been telling you for years. And all
Speaker 1: these little new ass people he own fashion. You can
Speaker 1: have a male friend, all right, go ahead and get
Speaker 1: you one. I'll tell you what. But hey better now,
Speaker 1: won't you though, because you're gonna hear about it? All right?
Speaker 1: You heard from the clo Nicky and oak Cliff as
Speaker 1: we move on, says my mother and I fell out.
Speaker 1: My mother and I NICKI old Cliff it word, Okay,
Speaker 1: I was looking at your voice, I mean at your face.
Speaker 1: I was like, all right, Nicki, Nicki, Nicki, Nicki in
Speaker 1: an open cliff. Okay, my nikif too, says my mother
Speaker 1: and I fell out because she owes me money for
Speaker 1: a vacation we took over the holidays. She wanted to
Speaker 1: go visit her sister, so I bought our plane ticket.
Speaker 1: She has money, but she's always saving for a rainy day. Well,
Speaker 1: it's raining on my end and I need my money,
Speaker 1: she said. It's the least I can do for her,
Speaker 1: after all she's done for me. I'm so irritated. Should
Speaker 1: I count this as a total lawney? Well, you can
Speaker 1: lose the money or lose the relationship with your mother.
Speaker 1: Is it really that big a deal? Now your mother
Speaker 1: saves money for a rainy day? Do you know who
Speaker 1: she's saving the money for? Whose rainy day? For her
Speaker 1: rainy day? Now you having a rainy day? But now
Speaker 1: you're gonna fall out with your mama over airplane ticket?
Speaker 1: Did you understand my mama had slapped me dead in
Speaker 1: my mouth. I'm talking about nineteen years old, haul off
Speaker 1: slapped me dead in my mouth. Do you know I
Speaker 1: was over there the next day eating because my dad
Speaker 1: had said, you know we have them dinner over here
Speaker 1: in the house tomorrow. I can't tell my father I'm
Speaker 1: mad at my MoMA. No Hardma didn't hit me before
Speaker 1: man girl and woke up in white folks were standing
Speaker 1: over me. I'm trying to tank. Why did you We
Speaker 1: woke up at the doctor, woke up looking at machinery.
Speaker 1: Can you hear me? All right? Moving on to Georgia
Speaker 1: In Columbia, Georgia says, I've got a problem with the
Speaker 1: man I'm thing on the side because he's always buying
Speaker 1: the expensive gift and I don't have anywhere to keep
Speaker 1: dashing gifts jewelry, shoes and clothes or his thing. And
Speaker 1: my husband knows I don't make that kind of money.
Speaker 1: Is it rude to ask my side dude for cash
Speaker 1: instead not leaving him alone? I don't. That's not the situation, wow,
Speaker 1: Not the lady you have and a man on the side.
Speaker 1: And part of the reason why you still dealing with
Speaker 1: this man on the side is not only cause of
Speaker 1: what he'd do to you, it's also because of what
Speaker 1: he'd do fund you. So now, no, I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: help you. No, I'm not gonna tell you you're going
Speaker 1: to offend him if you ask for just can you're
Speaker 1: asking for can all right? Thank you? Turn on his
Speaker 1: investment coming up and say at the top of the hour,
Speaker 1: who will have some entertainment news for you? Right after
Speaker 1: this you're listening to morning show. ABC has suspended Whoobee
Speaker 1: Goldberg from the View for two weeks after us saying
Speaker 1: she said that the Holocaust was not about race. Now
Speaker 1: this is in a statement, ABC News President Kim Goodwin said,
Speaker 1: effective immediately, I'm suspending Wooby for two weeks for her
Speaker 1: wrong and hurtful comments. While Whoopee apologized, I've asked her
Speaker 1: to take time to reflect and learn about the impact
Speaker 1: of her comments. The entire ABC News organization stands in
Speaker 1: solidarity with our Jewish colleagues, friends, family, and communities who
Speaker 1: made the comments on Monday's episode of The View during
Speaker 1: a discussion of a Tennessee school boards ban of Mouth,
Speaker 1: a nonfiction graphic novel about cartoonists Art Spiegelman's father's experience
Speaker 1: surviving the Holocaust. Let's be truthful, will be said. Let's
Speaker 1: be truthful about it because the Holocaust isn't about race.
Speaker 1: It's not about race, It's about man's inhumanity to man.
Speaker 1: The comment was condemned by such Jewish organizations as the
Speaker 1: Anti Defamation League and the US Holocaust Museum. So yeah,
Speaker 1: I think what Whoopie was trying to say, but did
Speaker 1: it the wrong way, because when you don't understand the
Speaker 1: actual way that people feel about it, the Holocaust was
Speaker 1: definitely against humanity against man. That definitely was Whoopie Goldberg
Speaker 1: was using the terms in terms of race in like black, white, Asian.
Speaker 1: She was probably trying to say it that way, that
Speaker 1: it wasn't about you being an Asian or an African
Speaker 1: or a Native American. And I think that's what she
Speaker 1: was trying to say. The problem with this statement is,
Speaker 1: and I love Whoopie Goldberg, man, She's always been a
Speaker 1: stellar person to me, and I've never heard her say
Speaker 1: it just and that's why she would apologize because I
Speaker 1: think she was saying it wasn't about race in terms
Speaker 1: of how you can look at a person and know
Speaker 1: their race, you know, because you got right, but you
Speaker 1: got race, creed, religion, and uh, that's probably where she
Speaker 1: meant it. But you know, and I think, you know,
Speaker 1: that's why it's just a suspension because I think that's
Speaker 1: what she was trying to say. I don't know it
Speaker 1: either way one way or the other. I'm just based
Speaker 1: on what you just told me right here. But knowing
Speaker 1: the Whoopie Goldberg that I know she gets it. She
Speaker 1: gets it. Yeah, yeah, because her and I have had
Speaker 1: a conversation because I do not understand any rift between
Speaker 1: Blacks and Jews. I just don't understand any rift there
Speaker 1: because if any two people should understand anybody, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I would think those two groups. That's why I don't.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't get a rift between African Americans and Native Americans. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Whoopy said what she should have said, Steve, this is
Speaker 1: what Whoopie said. I should have said. It is about both.
Speaker 1: The Jewish people around the world have always had my
Speaker 1: support and that will never waiver. I'm sorry for the
Speaker 1: hurt I've caused. So she said it should have been
Speaker 1: about man's in humanity to man, and she says it
Speaker 1: should have been about both, but she did not say that,
Speaker 1: but it was. It was. I mean, seriously, it was
Speaker 1: one of the most inhumane things. Those two things, the
Speaker 1: Holocaust and slavery. Jesus go to both of those museums
Speaker 1: in Washington, DC. Go to both of those, and you
Speaker 1: are devastated. I'm telling you, tom Me, those oh my
Speaker 1: greatest atrocities against a people. But I've gotta tell you
Speaker 1: something else too, though, man. And this is crazy because
Speaker 1: Shirley turned me on to the series Yellowstone. She's been
Speaker 1: telling me to watch Yellowstone. I finished all four seasons,
Speaker 1: all right, because it's stop. That's all I do. I
Speaker 1: don't watch it. Ain't no sports on TV yet. You know,
Speaker 1: super Bowl ain't here. Yeah, you know. I watched the
Speaker 1: games and I go back to Yellowstone. I don't like
Speaker 1: basketball season too. After the All Star Game, so you know,
Speaker 1: I got time Yellowstone. What they did to Native Americans,
Speaker 1: I'm listened to me, man, And I put that up
Speaker 1: there because I was never thinking about it. But the
Speaker 1: atrocity against Africans, against Jews, and against Native Americans, Oh
Speaker 1: my god, what they did to Native Americans. Man, it
Speaker 1: was unthinkable what they've done and what they continued to do.
Speaker 1: But what they continue to do to black people is
Speaker 1: unthinkable too. I've never seen it. Man. This country has
Speaker 1: done so many things to people. What did the guys
Speaker 1: say on Yellowstone? He said, what is fair? The little
Speaker 1: boy on Yellowstone? In the final episode. He said, but
Speaker 1: that's not fair, because he was telling what happened to
Speaker 1: the Native Americans. He said, what happened was he said,
Speaker 1: he said, while they're not anymore buffalo, he said, because
Speaker 1: they wanted to kill the buffalo. And so Kevin Constant,
Speaker 1: he said, the little boy said why they want to
Speaker 1: kill the buffalo? And he stopped and he said, here's
Speaker 1: the truth. Because the Indians lived on the buffalo. They
Speaker 1: followed the buffalo. The buffalo was their life blood. If
Speaker 1: they got rid of the buffalo, they would get rid
Speaker 1: of the Indian. So they would just send troops out
Speaker 1: to just kill buffalo. Just kill him, kill him, kill him,
Speaker 1: kill him, kill him, kill him, kill him, so that
Speaker 1: the Indians wouldn't have a life blood. I'm sitting here
Speaker 1: going listen to this. And the little boy said, that's
Speaker 1: not fair. He said, you know what fair is when
Speaker 1: a person does something to you and then you can't
Speaker 1: do nothing about it and you have to just accepted.
Speaker 1: He said, that's what fad is. I would I'll be damned,
Speaker 1: And that's America's definition of fair. That's right, all right.
Speaker 1: Steve's coming up at twenty minutes after the hour Bomb
Speaker 1: threats at HBCUs. We'll talk about it right after this.
Speaker 1: You're listening to show here we are in Black History Month,
Speaker 1: and you got to ask the question, what's going on
Speaker 1: a growing number of historically black colleges and universities have
Speaker 1: had to lock down or postpone classes due to bomb threats.
Speaker 1: At least thirteen HBCUs have reported bomb threats. It is scary,
Speaker 1: it is horrifying. According to USA Today, there are calls
Speaker 1: for federal law enforcement to investigate. Homeland Security is providing
Speaker 1: President Biden with updates. I mean, this country, with these
Speaker 1: constant racially violent threats is just unbelievable. Everywhere you go.
Speaker 1: Our children can't go to school, they can't go to
Speaker 1: the universities without being terrorized. And again, this is just
Speaker 1: the beginning of Black History Month twenty twenty two. It's
Speaker 1: it's the country we live in. It's the United States
Speaker 1: of America. I mean, look, I was watching something online
Speaker 1: the other day. I don't think it was on d
Speaker 1: L side of somebody's side. There was a white guy
Speaker 1: on there ranting and raving that white people are the
Speaker 1: most discriminated against group of people in the world. And
Speaker 1: that was his claim that was his rant. The moment
Speaker 1: something happens to them, it's a catastrophe. But stuff can
Speaker 1: happen to other people repeatedly, over and over and over
Speaker 1: and nothing being said. If they get a moment, not all.
Speaker 1: But if there are some whites who if they get
Speaker 1: a moment to point a single incident that they can
Speaker 1: say it's discrimination, Oh, here it comes. It's a national
Speaker 1: atrocity affirmative action. Where they started saying you had to
Speaker 1: hire a certain amount of black people. I've been on
Speaker 1: a job interview where a guy told me, oh one.
Speaker 1: As soon as I said down, he said, I'm just
Speaker 1: I said, yeah, I'm here for the job interview. He said,
Speaker 1: we feel our quota already. We don't have to hire
Speaker 1: any more blacks. He told me that. Wow, in the seventies,
Speaker 1: he told me that I got him. Walk my ass
Speaker 1: right up out of that. We don't have to hire.
Speaker 1: He didn't want to hear how it was best for
Speaker 1: the job. I've been telling you right here, we have to.
Speaker 1: We've dealt with church bombings. They come into our place
Speaker 1: of religion. They had our schools bombing right now. They
Speaker 1: got the Willie Lynch letter. After slavery, they found a
Speaker 1: way now where if a black person can't show employment,
Speaker 1: they get imprisoned right after slavery. So now they can
Speaker 1: put you in these concentration and get free labor out
Speaker 1: of you. Anyway, we didn't even pass the Voters Rights
Speaker 1: Act this year. Happy Black History Month, man, miss me.
Speaker 1: All right, coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour,
Speaker 1: we're gonna switch gears and go to Steve's voicemail eight
Speaker 1: seven seven twenty nine, Steve. Right after this, you're listening
Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time now to check
Speaker 1: Steve's voicemail, and if you would like to leave Steve
Speaker 1: a voicemail, call eight seven seven twenty nine Steve and
Speaker 1: you could hear your message on the radio. All right, Steve,
Speaker 1: here we go. This is a call about men in
Speaker 1: the relationship tie. My name is said Kayla william I'm
Speaker 1: Tay three years old, calling in from our figures to
Speaker 1: bad us. I'm listening to your guy's conversation right now
Speaker 1: about men enclosure and it's not usually the woman is
Speaker 1: the man. And I'm literally going through this like right now,
Speaker 1: like where a guy came into my life with somebody
Speaker 1: who I knew from high school. Trusted him out of nowhere.
Speaker 1: He's just like guy that didn't gonna work. And I
Speaker 1: want to go back to the point of did you
Speaker 1: know that I was quote unquote too much when you
Speaker 1: came into my life? Because mind you, a lot of
Speaker 1: times men will set up this facade of women to
Speaker 1: be attentive and women who will be supportive and listening,
Speaker 1: and then once that woman started exercise and not support
Speaker 1: now it's too much. Now you can't uphold it. It's like,
Speaker 1: why are you showering me and candy talking to me
Speaker 1: all this week? And then you play you don't want
Speaker 1: a relationship, Just make it makes sense, that's all. Then
Speaker 1: you got it so much. I hope you guys have
Speaker 1: a last glorious day. Wow, very well said young lady. Here,
Speaker 1: let me help you with this part right here. You
Speaker 1: gotta understand, when you enter into a relationship with the man,
Speaker 1: for the first two weeks, you're going to meet the
Speaker 1: most attentive, best representative of himself you could possibly meet.
Speaker 1: Most dudes have got the two week game mastered, what
Speaker 1: to say, how to be because you can, as you
Speaker 1: use the word facade, you can keep up a facade
Speaker 1: for two weeks two weeks. It's two weeks is really good.
Speaker 1: It's hard to do that over ninety day stretch. No,
Speaker 1: it really is hard to pull that off over a
Speaker 1: ninety day stretch. It's been done, but it's harder. And
Speaker 1: so to protect yourselves women, before you give into this,
Speaker 1: oh my god, this is too good to be true.
Speaker 1: You have to develop the questions and the test to
Speaker 1: find out early if it is too good to be true.
Speaker 1: And that's why I created the ninety day rule. All right, Stephen,
Speaker 1: we have another call from a woman about men being
Speaker 1: the provider. I just heard you say, Steve, I got
Speaker 1: to tell end that women wants security. When a man
Speaker 1: meets a woman is game on. I'm really sick of
Speaker 1: women who look for security and a man. The word
Speaker 1: says God bless a child who has their own. No,
Speaker 1: that's not in the word, but the saying goal, God
Speaker 1: bless the child that has his her own. And also
Speaker 1: the word does say if a man wants to eat,
Speaker 1: he has to work. If a man don't work, he
Speaker 1: don't eat. That goes for a one man. Also, I've
Speaker 1: never looked for a man to be my security. God
Speaker 1: has been my source. I just retired from my job.
Speaker 1: After forty two years, God has blessed me to take
Speaker 1: care of myself. I'm so sick and tired of women
Speaker 1: who look to a man to take care of her.
Speaker 1: What I want from a man is loyalty, love, understanding, communication.
Speaker 1: I want to believe that I can believe in him
Speaker 1: because I want to. I don't get with a man
Speaker 1: because of what he can do for me. Never have,
Speaker 1: never will never will. I love the Black Man. I
Speaker 1: love you, Steve Harvey. Happy belated birthday, Hello to all
Speaker 1: of your crew, Stay safe, be blessed by by You
Speaker 1: know what. She made some valid points, but I want
Speaker 1: to show her something. I stand by what I said
Speaker 1: what a woman looks for. She's not arguing that point.
Speaker 1: She's telling about her standpoint. What a woman looks for
Speaker 1: in a man is security. But the things you describe
Speaker 1: that you want are forms of security. Loyalty is security.
Speaker 1: You want to be You want to know that your
Speaker 1: heart is safe with him. You won't love. You want
Speaker 1: to feel like you belong to somebody, like like you're
Speaker 1: somebody somebody. You want a person that can communicate with you.
Speaker 1: That's security. You want understanding, You want to believe in him,
Speaker 1: that's security. System, and then you need to package that
Speaker 1: up with when your chips is down, will he be there?
Speaker 1: See y'all please stop that. Everybody looking for security Now,
Speaker 1: I appreciate you. Your source is God and you've been
Speaker 1: on your own for forty two years. What you said
Speaker 1: and the whole thing you wanted a man, That's what
Speaker 1: security is, baby, That's what it is. Women on security
Speaker 1: and secure. Theres a lot of things and financial is
Speaker 1: one over and financial is one over. Yeah, if you
Speaker 1: want to leave a voicemail Force Steve call eight seven
Speaker 1: seven twenty nine, Steve, you might hear your message on
Speaker 1: the air. Coming up next a prank phone call with
Speaker 1: the nephew. Right after this. You're listening to the Steve
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top of the hour,
Speaker 1: about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today
Speaker 1: the subject caught on camera. Caught camera that in just
Speaker 1: a little bit. But right now it is time for
Speaker 1: the nephew and today's prank phone call, which you got
Speaker 1: Force Navy. Well what you want? How you want? Well,
Speaker 1: we know it's gonna be stupid, So hey, God that
Speaker 1: how do you want it? How does it feel? Coming up?
Speaker 1: I'm sorry the book a Tupac Book A Tupac Living
Speaker 1: in the fast Lane. I'm for real, all right, we're
Speaker 1: gonna turn to the Book of Ignorance. Verse five reads,
Speaker 1: your baby got my baby's name. That is the Book
Speaker 1: of Ignorance. Top to five, verse four junior it says,
Speaker 1: your baby got my baby's name. All right, stay with
Speaker 1: me if you would, cat dog, We're gonna run that.
Speaker 1: Thank you. Hey man, Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach
Speaker 1: a Patricia. Patricia, Who is it? How you doing? Listen? Um,
Speaker 1: my name is Floyd, Floyd. I want to give you
Speaker 1: a call. Your your daughter, she all teens middle school? Right,
Speaker 1: what's your name again, Floyd? Okay? What can I just
Speaker 1: fight you? Well, like I said, your your your daughter,
Speaker 1: she goes she do go to middle school, right, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: Now her name, her name is Dereka. Okay, Well, he's
Speaker 1: something wrong. It's something no, no, no, not nothing wrong.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't mean the alarm you're like that.
Speaker 1: But let me see. Well, here's the situation. My daughter
Speaker 1: actually goes to middle school along along with with your daughter. Okay,
Speaker 1: and and it's it's a bit of a problem that
Speaker 1: that that has arisen that me and my wife just
Speaker 1: found out about. Okay, some issues Derek and your baby
Speaker 1: in in some kind of like trouble or something. No, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: nothing like that. But I don't fool with nobody at
Speaker 1: a school. She don't mess with nobody. She owned the
Speaker 1: honor roll and everything. I don't have no problems out
Speaker 1: of Dereka, right, okay, I no, call me, let me know.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you, miss miss Patricia, what the problem is. See,
Speaker 1: my daughter name is Dereka. Okay, so, and and it
Speaker 1: just blew me and my wife away that it was
Speaker 1: another Dereka that went to school. Okay, all right, I
Speaker 1: don't know too many Derecas. That's a unique name. That's cute, okay,
Speaker 1: right right, Well, here's the problem. And my wife actually,
Speaker 1: you know, when it was time to name my child,
Speaker 1: we thought we was really picking a name that nobody
Speaker 1: would have a pick out for their daughter. And to
Speaker 1: have another Dereca in the school. That blew us away.
Speaker 1: And I guess the real reason why I'm trying to
Speaker 1: call you, miss Patricia's see if if if there's something
Speaker 1: maybe we can work out, you know, maybe uh like
Speaker 1: your dead name or nickname. She can be called by
Speaker 1: in opposed to both of them being Derek. You really
Speaker 1: want our child to be the only one with this name? Okay, wait, wait,
Speaker 1: wait wait now you calling me? Are you asking me
Speaker 1: to change my baby's name? Well, I mean you you
Speaker 1: ain't really got to legally change I mean, but just
Speaker 1: start calling us something else, you know? No, No, wait
Speaker 1: a minute, So what you naming police or something? Do
Speaker 1: you know how many and Louis and Patricia's out there?
Speaker 1: What if I asked everybody in the United States to
Speaker 1: change their name from Patricia? You're crazy that it and
Speaker 1: I understand that you must be all drugs. Not. What
Speaker 1: I'm trying to say is you know this, This is
Speaker 1: something that we really have. Our baby girl was this
Speaker 1: name and we didn't want nobody else to have this.
Speaker 1: So does your Dereka have a middle name? She can? You? No,
Speaker 1: we're gonna call her Dereka like we've been calling your name,
Speaker 1: your baby d D. Let's call your baby d D.
Speaker 1: Did you change y'all? Y'all change y'all baby name at
Speaker 1: the school? I'm not calling I'm not calling my name.
Speaker 1: I don't give me what you call it, but I'm
Speaker 1: not changing my baby name. He looks. Okay. Look, I'm
Speaker 1: trying to call you and handle us like adults, you know,
Speaker 1: but you've seen to see you're gonna push my fund
Speaker 1: to take me to another level. Honestly, you ain't calling
Speaker 1: me trying to handle us. He does ask me to
Speaker 1: change my baby name, call my baby something else at
Speaker 1: the school because y'all want your baby name to be
Speaker 1: Derek and the only Dereka in the school. Hey, you
Speaker 1: have many other kids at the damn school got the
Speaker 1: same name. I understand that, but from my baby girls,
Speaker 1: it ain't schools to be like that. I'm sorry, I'm
Speaker 1: fooluping that baby girl and your wife, but you know
Speaker 1: I'm not changing my baby damn name. Y'all call y'all
Speaker 1: baby d No. And I'm trying to do is get
Speaker 1: it rectified that we can call you get my phone number.
Speaker 1: I'm not a school. Ain't you my number? I got
Speaker 1: your number. Don't worry about how I got it. The
Speaker 1: problem is that what we're talking about right now. If
Speaker 1: call we what can we start calling your child? I
Speaker 1: don't give it. I know that school ain't called number. Listen, man,
Speaker 1: all I'm trying to do is thig out what can
Speaker 1: we start calling your daughter, don't the cuts she's been doing.
Speaker 1: Call you and your wife down. Need to go out
Speaker 1: to the statistics office and get chill there. Of the name,
Speaker 1: I kind you have to sum out the kind of
Speaker 1: name beha. But my days keep the same day on name.
Speaker 1: Let me explain something to you. I've been trying to
Speaker 1: be calm with you. Nor shall put if you anna
Speaker 1: find something else to call on, and I'm gonna go,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get all over you know number? How do
Speaker 1: you get my n Don't worry about how I got
Speaker 1: the number. Listen to what I'm trying to tell you.
Speaker 1: If you don't find another name, I'm gonna start getting
Speaker 1: the kids to call your daughter something else. You're just
Speaker 1: going to call my daddy starting I trot to I'm
Speaker 1: with an embody who called my buddy stop. Next, you're
Speaker 1: going to change your baby name. I want my baby
Speaker 1: name to beat the Dereka. Yeah I didn't get them.
Speaker 1: It's my princess is supposed to be the only one
Speaker 1: named Dereka. Had a chain call your baby stopping else
Speaker 1: at the school. I'm going out of these kids starting
Speaker 1: tomorrow at school calling your daughter. I'm going else I'm
Speaker 1: not staying. I'm just starting with you. Like this. Number
Speaker 1: him off my phone and don't call my right. Let
Speaker 1: me tell you something. I got one more thing I
Speaker 1: need to say to you. You listen to me? What
Speaker 1: are you listening to me? I'm listening to you. What
Speaker 1: this is, Nephew Tommy from the Steve Hobby Morning Show.
Speaker 1: You just got pranked by your girlfriend. I get huh wait,
Speaker 1: oh little oh yeah, girl, ain't brank me on this.
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. You are sorry. I'm gonna give her
Speaker 1: your that is Oh. I'm so sorry. You got my
Speaker 1: nerves bad this morning. Lord, have mercy, Lord, I gotta
Speaker 1: kiss my breath. I got one more thing I gotta
Speaker 1: ask you, darling, what is What is the baddest I'm
Speaker 1: talking about the baddest radio show in the land, Steve
Speaker 1: Hardy Morning Show. I listen to y'all every morning. Crazy y'all, crazy, Lord,
Speaker 1: have mercy. Y'all got my blood pressure up? This mon
Speaker 1: I love y'all. I listened to y'all show every morning. Lord, Henry,
Speaker 1: they find the Lord at the end. Oh, Lord, y'all
Speaker 1: got my pressure up. I want my baby to be
Speaker 1: the only Dereka in the school. You understand that. Call
Speaker 1: your baby something else here crazy Now. I wish Jeff
Speaker 1: would have came in. I'd have lit it. I'd have
Speaker 1: let Jeff butt up. If you part two, I'm on
Speaker 1: in here, jump and get some of this. I got
Speaker 1: your wife going through. Come on, Come on, Jeff, come on,
Speaker 1: come on, Huntsville, February what ten, eleven twelve, the neph
Speaker 1: you've come to town. What Stand Up Live Comedy Club?
Speaker 1: Stand Up Live Comedy Club, Huntsville, Alabama, February ten, eleven twelve.
Speaker 1: I will be there, Okay, tickets don't see right now.
Speaker 1: And stupid as on the way, just as just as
Speaker 1: stupid as just prank wood. Multiply that by twenty. That's
Speaker 1: what you're gonna get out, your boy. Okay, I promise
Speaker 1: you coming in there to act a dog go food
Speaker 1: star native food. That's what my daddy used to say,
Speaker 1: or star native food. I don't know what that meant,
Speaker 1: and I still don't know what that means. Just acting
Speaker 1: a star Native food down there at that school. That's
Speaker 1: what you did today. That's what I'm gonna do in Huntsville.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask a star Naded food. Are five shows
Speaker 1: two on one on IT two Friday two, Sarady back
Speaker 1: on the plane on Sunday, Super Bowl, super Game or
Speaker 1: whatever you want to call this Sunday night. Okay, Bill,
Speaker 1: everybody comes. Is everybody comfortable with my stupid? That's all
Speaker 1: I want to know. Keep it? Yeah, long as you
Speaker 1: claim it and keep it. I know, don't nobody on
Speaker 1: this show won't none. I know that. Coming up next,
Speaker 1: it is the Strawberry Letter. Subjects caught on camera. We'll
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Speaker 1: Here it is Strawberry Letter. Subject caught on camera. Dear
Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, I'm a forty two year old married woman,
Speaker 1: but I've separated from my husband. I've been married four
Speaker 1: years and I was in a long distance marriage because
Speaker 1: my husband works almost three hours away. He was offered
Speaker 1: a job that he couldn't refuse, so I told him
Speaker 1: to take it with him being out of town during
Speaker 1: the week. I got a home security system installed with
Speaker 1: four cameras. I put one camera in the basement and
Speaker 1: one in the main living area, one at the back door,
Speaker 1: and one at the front door. I put the alarm
Speaker 1: app on my phone so I could watch the cameras
Speaker 1: while I was at work. On a Tuesday, about a
Speaker 1: month ago, I was at work and I got an
Speaker 1: alert that the alarm was going off. Then it was reset.
Speaker 1: It sent chills up my spine because I was the
Speaker 1: only one in town and the only person that could
Speaker 1: have reset my alarm. I looked at the cameras and
Speaker 1: I saw my husband in our basement and a woman
Speaker 1: was with him. The woman sat down as my husband
Speaker 1: went upstairs. He came back minutes later with his garment bag.
Speaker 1: Then he kissed the woman and they walked out the
Speaker 1: basement door. I called him, and he lied and said
Speaker 1: he was at work and about to go to lunch
Speaker 1: and he would call me back. I told him to
Speaker 1: quit lying because I know he's in town and he
Speaker 1: had a woman in our house. I asked him why
Speaker 1: he didn't tell me he was in town, and why
Speaker 1: he would bring a woman into my house. He hung
Speaker 1: up on me. That night, he called and said he
Speaker 1: had a business event to attend, so he needed his tucks,
Speaker 1: and he used the basement door out of respect for
Speaker 1: me so the woman wouldn't be all over our home.
Speaker 1: He said he was going to take some time away
Speaker 1: from me to work on himself. It has been almost
Speaker 1: a month since he's reached out to me, so I
Speaker 1: filed for a legal separation. Still no word from him.
Speaker 1: Is my marriage over? Yes? I'm sorry, but it is.
Speaker 1: It's over. I mean he was caught red handed on tape. Period.
Speaker 1: Everything you saw in that camera was true and real,
Speaker 1: no matter what lies He thought of later and told
Speaker 1: you he had a dinner to go to so he
Speaker 1: needed a text. He had a business event to attend,
Speaker 1: so he needed a tech, and he didn't want the
Speaker 1: woman all over your house. Lies. Lies, lies, lies, lies.
Speaker 1: It's evidence clearly in his behavior that you saw on tape,
Speaker 1: not what he says, So don't let him play you.
Speaker 1: Do not be fooled. He came back to town. He
Speaker 1: didn't tell you, brought another woman to your house, kissed
Speaker 1: her in your house, and then they left out together.
Speaker 1: You're his wife. He completely disrespected you. He betrayed your trust.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sorry you had to see this and
Speaker 1: that you had to go through this. He's wrong. You
Speaker 1: did a good thing by filing for a separation. I say,
Speaker 1: just go on and finish up the deal, file for
Speaker 1: a divorce. He was hardly ever there anyway, and he's
Speaker 1: not coming back. You haven't heard from him for a month,
Speaker 1: So I say, good out now, Steve. I really don't
Speaker 1: understand this letter. I'm sorry. I don't caught on camera
Speaker 1: to what we're talking about. Yeah, what's what's the letter for?
Speaker 1: It starts off with I via stuff in it to me,
Speaker 1: Stephen Sherley. I'm a forty two year old married woman,
Speaker 1: but I'm separated from my husband. Now. Curiously, in this letter,
Speaker 1: she never said why she was separated from her husband.
Speaker 1: But I'm separated from my husband. We all know what
Speaker 1: that means. And then she says I've been married four years.
Speaker 1: It was and I was in I was, so this
Speaker 1: separation is what they've decided. I was in a long
Speaker 1: distance marriage because my husban husband works almost three hours
Speaker 1: away and he was offered a job he couldn't refuse,
Speaker 1: so I told him to take it now, with him
Speaker 1: being out of town, doing the weakest woman to put
Speaker 1: a camera system in the house in the basement, the
Speaker 1: front door, the back, doing all this hill and now
Speaker 1: while he was at work on Tuesday, about a month ago,
Speaker 1: she ain't got an alert on the lawn was going off.
Speaker 1: Then it was reset, As she said, send chills up
Speaker 1: her spine because I was the only one in town
Speaker 1: and the only person that could have reset my alarm,
Speaker 1: where you're not the only person that could reset the
Speaker 1: alarm because he got reset. I looked at the cameras
Speaker 1: and I saw my husband in our basement and a
Speaker 1: woman was with him. The woman sat down as my
Speaker 1: husband went up stairs. He came back minutes later with
Speaker 1: this garment bag. Then he kissed the woman and they
Speaker 1: walked out the basement door. I called him, and he
Speaker 1: lied and said he was at work and about to
Speaker 1: go to lunch and he would call me back. That
Speaker 1: was the lie he told. That was the only lie
Speaker 1: he told in this letter shell. Because I'm going to
Speaker 1: surprise you. I'm going to surprise you, Shell. I told
Speaker 1: him to quit Lyne because I know he was in town.
Speaker 1: He had a woman in our house, and I asked
Speaker 1: him why he didn't tell me he was in town
Speaker 1: and why he would bring a woman into the house.
Speaker 1: He hung up on me. That night, he called me
Speaker 1: and said he had a business event to attend, so
Speaker 1: he needed his tucks and he used the basement due
Speaker 1: out of respect for me, so the woman wouldn't be
Speaker 1: all over the house. He said he was gonna take
Speaker 1: some time away for me to work for himself. It's
Speaker 1: been almost a month since he reached out to me,
Speaker 1: so I filed for divorce. Still no word of him,
Speaker 1: and as my marriage over legation. Yeah, she filed for
Speaker 1: legal separation. Shirley, you were saying that he lied about
Speaker 1: coming home with the tucks and all like this like him, Well,
Speaker 1: he was on camera. He never denied that after he
Speaker 1: found out he was on camera. But the reason he
Speaker 1: came in the house could have very well been true.
Speaker 1: To get the tuxedough, No, that's really going because all
Speaker 1: they did was kissing, go out the dope. It could
Speaker 1: have been a tuxedo. It could have been a business meeting.
Speaker 1: He told her the truth. The problem is the truth
Speaker 1: wasn't enough. Yeah, the fact I mightn't even tell her
Speaker 1: he was in town. Oh I got more. Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: we'll have part two of your response coming up at
Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Subject of today's strawberry
Speaker 1: letter caught on camera. We'll get back into it right
Speaker 1: after this. You're listening show, All right, Come on, Steve,
Speaker 1: Let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject is caught on camera.
Speaker 1: Caught on camera, says it all. This woman put all
Speaker 1: these cameras in her house. Her and her husband are
Speaker 1: currently separated. She gets an alert on her phone that
Speaker 1: says the candle alarm has been reset. Well, she's thinking
Speaker 1: her husband out of town, but he's in town. She
Speaker 1: looked on the cameras. He in the basement with a woman.
Speaker 1: She calls him. He kisses her and walks out with
Speaker 1: a garden back. He calls her and asked where he
Speaker 1: had He say he at work, fit to go to lunch.
Speaker 1: He lied, he lied, So she called him up and said, no,
Speaker 1: you wasn't. I saw you in the house with this
Speaker 1: woman and you kissed her. Click. He hung up he
Speaker 1: hung up because he was off balanced, because he needed
Speaker 1: to regroup. So he's busted. Yes, So now he calls
Speaker 1: back that night and said, all right, hit the deal.
Speaker 1: I was in town. I had a business meeting to
Speaker 1: go to, so I needed to come home and get
Speaker 1: my tux seed though, and out of respect for you,
Speaker 1: I didn't want this woman all over the house, so
Speaker 1: I came through the basement. Though. That's the truth, because
Speaker 1: he wasn't denying that there wasn't a woman at the house.
Speaker 1: He wasn't denying he didn't picks up. He only left
Speaker 1: with a garment bag that was probably the tuxedough and
Speaker 1: it was probably business me. He did not lie to her.
Speaker 1: The problem is the truth. You should believe the truth.
Speaker 1: You saw it. Shirley's right. This marriage is over. Is
Speaker 1: my marriage over? And you haven't heard from him in
Speaker 1: a month, but I bet she has. Oh yeah, hell yeah,
Speaker 1: he's wrong, Dad. Wrong. Is not her fault in any way.
Speaker 1: But now that you know the truth, what you're gonna do.
Speaker 1: It's time to move on. Is my marriage over? Yes,
Speaker 1: it's over. So let me show you something. This has
Speaker 1: nothing to do with the letter Shirley or calling anybody
Speaker 1: ask me a question, and I'm gonna show you how
Speaker 1: to lie. The sheer lying capability. Watch watch the quickness
Speaker 1: and creativity. Okay, Shirley, you and I are in a relationship.
Speaker 1: Ask me anything, and I'm not gonna tell you the truth.
Speaker 1: I don't care how simple anything it is. Go ahead
Speaker 1: on your hair. That No, that's a patch right there.
Speaker 1: I had that put on. I was trying on a
Speaker 1: half piece and I left some glue on it. And
Speaker 1: that's the glue from that hals from blue Quick where
Speaker 1: it come so natural to you? Next question, we're in
Speaker 1: a relationship. Did you did you drive your car to
Speaker 1: work today? No? I drove it, parted away and then
Speaker 1: I dropped it off at the Jiffy lou And and
Speaker 1: then I took I took a ubon in the work
Speaker 1: and I just go back around now and are you
Speaker 1: Are you planning on working out today? I'd love to
Speaker 1: work out with you. Oh no, I ain't gonna be
Speaker 1: able to work out today because I tweaked my back
Speaker 1: because when I was leaving the Jiffy Jiffy Lube, I
Speaker 1: slipped in some all tied boy tied in that's what happening.
Speaker 1: That's you know, and it's so unnecessary. You will lie
Speaker 1: when the truth will do? What? What? What? What? What? Why? Not?
Speaker 1: But why can't you just tell the truth because you
Speaker 1: had to practice this in case you really need it.
Speaker 1: We can handle the truth. Oh no, you can't the
Speaker 1: way we handle Oh no, you can't. If you can't
Speaker 1: handle our reaction to your truth, you're a lie. Couldn't read?
Speaker 1: Can I ask that? What is? Yeah? Oh? Here you
Speaker 1: call them? Who is that on the camera with you? I?
Speaker 1: Who is that on? Who is that on the camera
Speaker 1: with me? Yeah? I'm talking to you. Who is that
Speaker 1: on the camera with you? Baby? What camera? The camera
Speaker 1: that I'm looking at? Who is that on the camera
Speaker 1: with you? Right? Fair? Wait a minute? Wait? Where do
Speaker 1: you think I am? What? Shall any more questions? When
Speaker 1: a committed relationship, you can ask me anything? What is
Speaker 1: the point of lying? Though? I don't get why is
Speaker 1: it so important to you? But but but but wait, minuto,
Speaker 1: let me ask you something. Why I got to lie?
Speaker 1: Ask yourself that I ask you why? I know why
Speaker 1: you like to distract? Why I got to lie? Though? Reaction?
Speaker 1: Let's see right there? See how you are okay, you
Speaker 1: see how you try to flip it don't try to
Speaker 1: if you're going to accuse me of doing I am
Speaker 1: and I am and I'm not doing it, and you're
Speaker 1: gonna accuse me anyway, You got as where from the
Speaker 1: back of your head. All right, listen, I'm gonna say, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna spend some time with myself and you need
Speaker 1: the divorce Hiper. Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letters
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Speaker 1: six minutes after the hour sports Talk with Junior. Right
Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to Steven Show. All right, time
Speaker 1: now for Junior and sports Talk. But you got Junior.
Speaker 1: First of all, can we just say congratulations to miss
Speaker 1: Angela Roi. She is joining ESPN as a special correspondent
Speaker 1: dealing with sports related issues of race and culture and
Speaker 1: social justice issues. Congratulations and come on, Quinnie, I think
Speaker 1: that is a beautiful girl, another black woman. Come on,
Speaker 1: I really do. And I'm trying to tell you Angela,
Speaker 1: I have a crush on you, so I will be watching.
Speaker 1: I know that I will. Yeah, I just just one
Speaker 1: of my crushes. Got another job, that's all I know. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: are you famla. No, I'm not, but I'm familiar with
Speaker 1: talking about crushes out loud on the radio. Okay, I
Speaker 1: do it all the time. It's just a crush. I
Speaker 1: can't she didn't want me? Yeah yeah, Bell Hold up though,
Speaker 1: but did you hear Tommy say he do it all
Speaker 1: the time? Yeah? See how that sounds. Just that's throwing
Speaker 1: that out there. Yeah, you know, you want to start
Speaker 1: practicing some habits you get good at. Just start practicing
Speaker 1: dogs yeahs in case, Yeah, I got you, I got you.
Speaker 1: Man to that food, right, yeah, I said all the time. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: he just let that go. That ain't what Yeah, he
Speaker 1: didn't even think about No, I didn't. He didn't think
Speaker 1: about it all. Also, a man, super Bowl ten days away? Man,
Speaker 1: what is you gonna be doing for the super Bowl?
Speaker 1: What kind of party you have? Like? How do you
Speaker 1: have your super Bowl parties? Sit up? Well, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't have a lot of friends, but I don't
Speaker 1: have on my house. So you know, I'm gonna have
Speaker 1: something at the house, like, you know, probably have my
Speaker 1: sons come over, you know. Yeah, you barbecuewing for your
Speaker 1: own super Bowl part? Do you do? You got you
Speaker 1: got the equipment for I know you. Now, if it
Speaker 1: was nice outside, that would be slick. Super Bowl party
Speaker 1: outside with the TVs and cook out. Yeah, but I
Speaker 1: don't know how the weather gonna be thirteen. Yeah, just
Speaker 1: like winter. You got to start buying wings. Naw, do
Speaker 1: you have? Yeah, we gotta have wings. You. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: call Rick Ross up. I'm probably gonna be I'm gonna
Speaker 1: probably do thighs. Yeah, you got, you got, you got connections.
Speaker 1: You got to worry about wing. You know some of
Speaker 1: these wing places. I've never been to Ross's wing place,
Speaker 1: so I ain't talking about that, but I've go to
Speaker 1: some wing places and they wings be real, real, little
Speaker 1: extra crunches don't be no better than a real big
Speaker 1: though dog that's ready. That's better than being don't Yeah,
Speaker 1: are you saying they're not chicken? Wings? Animal? I don't
Speaker 1: want to be confused with eating chicken or pigeons. You know,
Speaker 1: all right, Junior, thank you. Coming up at the top
Speaker 1: of the hour, we'll talk about more sports. Former NFL
Speaker 1: coach accuses the league of racial discrimination. We'll get into
Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey
Speaker 1: Morning Show. Okay, So Steve, what is the problem with
Speaker 1: the NFL and not hiring black coaches. I'm sure you
Speaker 1: have some ideas on that, and this is the league
Speaker 1: that's dominated by black players. Of course, we all know
Speaker 1: that now. Former Miami's Dolphin coach Brian Flores has filed
Speaker 1: a proposed class action lawsuit against the NFL and three
Speaker 1: of its teams, alleging racial discrimination. In the documents filed
Speaker 1: on behalf of Flores in Manhattan Federal Court, the former coach,
Speaker 1: who was fired by the Dolphins despite a winning season,
Speaker 1: he that in mind too, it was a winning season,
Speaker 1: contends that his interview with the Giants was nothing more
Speaker 1: than a move to satisfy the Rooney Rule, which now
Speaker 1: requires teams to interview at least two external minority candidates
Speaker 1: for all head coaching vacancies. Flora said that the league
Speaker 1: is racially segregated and the NFL is managed like a
Speaker 1: plantation boom. I mean, he goes on to say stuff
Speaker 1: about the the owners sitting in their luxury suites on
Speaker 1: days and the players get have to take vicious hits
Speaker 1: and suffer debilitating injuries to their bodies and their brains,
Speaker 1: while the owners make billions of dollars. Uh, there's a lot. Well,
Speaker 1: the NFL has a problem now because it's a class
Speaker 1: action lawsuit and it has to be addressed. You can't
Speaker 1: you can't just shoot this under the rug. The other
Speaker 1: problem is that maybe some other people that's gonna come
Speaker 1: out the wood working sign up for this. Brian Flores
Speaker 1: will never coach in the NFL again. But because because no,
Speaker 1: because of the brother. Let me ask you a question.
Speaker 1: Have you seen Colin Kaepernick throw another pass in the NFL? Dog?
Speaker 1: Once you go up against that shield, you're finished. Now.
Speaker 1: They paid Colin, and Floren's gonna get he gonna get paid.
Speaker 1: But it's gonna be some years though, and they're gonna
Speaker 1: wait until this ain't a major story anymore. But you
Speaker 1: know what, man, I should post my comedy routine I
Speaker 1: wrote for NFL Honors because I wrote a huge joke
Speaker 1: about this, because I decided two years ago to dress
Speaker 1: it with human and I cut a deal with the
Speaker 1: NFL on behalf of the black players. And I was
Speaker 1: I was cutting deals with them, like, you know, just
Speaker 1: give us certain things, man, and we'll be willing to
Speaker 1: exchange it for y'all. Like if you give us one
Speaker 1: white place kicker and holder, because you've never seen that
Speaker 1: in the NFL. We gonna give y'all two cornerbacks. And
Speaker 1: I wrote it as a joke, and the audience was
Speaker 1: dying laughing, but it was to a rest the seriousness
Speaker 1: of the issue that's in the NFL. It always has
Speaker 1: been an issue and always will continue to be. Now,
Speaker 1: these owners are all white men, billionaires. We got that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I can't knock you for being that. I can't
Speaker 1: knock you for owning a franchise. I can't knock you
Speaker 1: for trying to run it as a business. The problem
Speaker 1: is you're hiring practices. It doesn't represent your league, and
Speaker 1: we're the only that's the only sport that doesn't represent
Speaker 1: the makeup of the league. If you look at basketball,
Speaker 1: basketball does a lot better job of hiring black head
Speaker 1: coaches and black coaches and to fit any thing. Hockey
Speaker 1: don't have that problem. Coach well, yeah, yeah, it ain't.
Speaker 1: But a few black hockey players. Hockey don't have that problem.
Speaker 1: Baseball has done a better job of hiring and representative
Speaker 1: on the field. The football has not done a good job.
Speaker 1: In the Rooney rule where you have to hire two
Speaker 1: minority candidates for every head coaching job has still not
Speaker 1: resulted in any more coaches being high. As a matter
Speaker 1: of fact, since the Rooney rule is less. I want
Speaker 1: and it's just I want to believe this guy will coach.
Speaker 1: I want to hope that he will coach again. In
Speaker 1: oh Now, come on, part We'll have more of the
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at twenty minutes after
Speaker 1: the hour. Right after this, you're listening to Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 1: Carla is here with today's music news. What you got, Carla. Okay, guys,
Speaker 1: so no plans coming out high, no plants for Valentine's
Speaker 1: Day just yet? Well, get ready. A versus battle is
Speaker 1: set Anthony Hamilton versus music Soul Child. Now they will
Speaker 1: face off on Monday, February fourteenth, Valentine's Day. That's a
Speaker 1: night of R and B and romance. That's real nice.
Speaker 1: So it'll be in La and you know, as usual,
Speaker 1: you can see the versus battle on the Gram Trailler Uh, YouTube, Facebook?
Speaker 1: What's up, Tommy? You raise your hand. I'm just I
Speaker 1: catch it on the backseat. Okay, you're gonna pull out
Speaker 1: your phone and don't really be a hard one, even
Speaker 1: though my affinity is leaning towards Anthony Hamilton because of
Speaker 1: our relationship. Yeah, y'all are cool. Yeah, but I love music.
Speaker 1: Soulchilde hits Man. Yes, he nothing to be played with. Yes,
Speaker 1: I know. I don't really be torn on versus. We
Speaker 1: know former Versus Battle host Ah good. We'll be watching
Speaker 1: the R and B singers Anthony Hamilton's music Soul Child
Speaker 1: on February fourteen, Bound Time's Day and more announcements for
Speaker 1: the Super Bowl performers Mary Mary along with the Youth
Speaker 1: Orchestra Los Angeles. They will perform the Negro national anthem
Speaker 1: at the super Bowl. Lift every Boy. Yep, So we
Speaker 1: got more coming, Thank you, Carlo. We'll have more of
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at thirty three
Speaker 1: minutes after, and we'll play a round it would you rather?
Speaker 1: Right after this you're listening Morning show? All right, guys,
Speaker 1: it's time for a round of would you rather? Would? Shelley?
Speaker 1: Before you do it, just on this first one, huh
Speaker 1: A or B. We have to randomly pick A or
Speaker 1: B and then explain why that si as So, Timmy,
Speaker 1: you on A or B on this one, I'll take
Speaker 1: B junior A, I take I take b also, okay,
Speaker 1: let me now, let me get over he help Janie.
Speaker 1: Let me let me take a also, okay, go ahead, Shelly?
Speaker 1: All right? We would you rather be rich but not
Speaker 1: skilled at all in the bedroom at all? Or be
Speaker 1: would you rather be smaller in size and really know
Speaker 1: how to please your partner? That fits perfectly, so not
Speaker 1: me that you pick. Hey, you'd rather be smaller inside
Speaker 1: and really know how to please? Well, you know what
Speaker 1: I want to please my mate, and I know what
Speaker 1: it takes to please my mate. And size is not everything.
Speaker 1: You know, it's not. It's not the size on the show.
Speaker 1: See to even make that comment when you hear a
Speaker 1: man tell my size ain't everything. I ain't picking a
Speaker 1: head no more, Come on you, alright, the next one.
Speaker 1: I just wanted to try that, all right? Would you
Speaker 1: rather eat sweet potato pumpkin pie or a pickled pig
Speaker 1: ear sandwich? White people's favorite, Black people's favorite. I'm going
Speaker 1: I'm going with a together put it all together in
Speaker 1: the world potato was you thinking about what? Or a
Speaker 1: pickled pig ear sandwich? No, don't eat that sweet potato
Speaker 1: pump I'm hot before. Yeah, I've had a pig that
Speaker 1: sandwich before God and we put that hell for what
Speaker 1: was we thanking? What was we thank this damn slave?
Speaker 1: And saying, oh man, all right, all right, that's it
Speaker 1: for would you rather today? Coming on? Yeah? Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: our last break of the day, and then we'll have
Speaker 1: some closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to Steve Morning Show. Here
Speaker 1: we are, guys, our last break of the day on
Speaker 1: this Thursday. It's been a good day, yes, man. Yeah,
Speaker 1: learned a lot, shared a lot, laughed a little bit,
Speaker 1: you know. Um, you know it's kind of funny. Man.
Speaker 1: As I've gotten older, you know, somebody works in me
Speaker 1: was saying, man, you keep talking about this sixty fifth birthday?
Speaker 1: What's up with that? And I was just because I'm
Speaker 1: just so appreciative of the milestone, you know, because it's
Speaker 1: just like it's not like I didn't see it coming
Speaker 1: or I didn't believe I'd get here. It's just that
Speaker 1: I remember being younger thinking sixty five was I couldn't
Speaker 1: even imagine it. I couldn't even think about it because
Speaker 1: it just seemed so far. I was twenty, I was think,
Speaker 1: sixty five, what are we talking about that for but
Speaker 1: you know what it got here? Do you know when
Speaker 1: I was forty, man, I was giving very little thought
Speaker 1: to being sixty five, But you know what it got here?
Speaker 1: I was fifty. I really hadn't given too much thought
Speaker 1: to being sixty five, but it got here. Y'all. You
Speaker 1: gotta start making decisions today based on the fact that
Speaker 1: it's coming, that it's going to get here. You know what,
Speaker 1: too many people do, too many too many people make
Speaker 1: right now decisions based on today, like there's no future
Speaker 1: at all. But listen to me, that's a strong possibility
Speaker 1: that it will get here. And so even though we're
Speaker 1: not to weary ourselves about the future, you do have
Speaker 1: to give credence to the fact that one day it
Speaker 1: could get here. And so you can't make decisions based
Speaker 1: on jess right now today. On the other hand, let
Speaker 1: me say this about that what makes it hard for
Speaker 1: people to become successful is because they understand and they
Speaker 1: allow this to come into play. I can't see myself
Speaker 1: all the way through. You have an ambition to be
Speaker 1: a millionaire, you just can't imagine how to make the million,
Speaker 1: and so that daunting task freezes most people from doing
Speaker 1: the one action they could do, which is take the
Speaker 1: step today. But if you're trying to see your way
Speaker 1: all the way through, it freezes you because you don't
Speaker 1: know how to get all the way through. There's a
Speaker 1: story in this book, the Fox, the Hound, the horses
Speaker 1: and the boy, something like anyway, this boy and this
Speaker 1: horse is walking through the woods, and the boy says,
Speaker 1: I can't see I can't see all the way through,
Speaker 1: you know, because they had to walk through this force.
Speaker 1: And the boy told the horse, I can't see all
Speaker 1: the way through. The horse said to the boy, look down.
Speaker 1: Can you see your next step? He said, yeah, he said,
Speaker 1: take that one, Just take that one. That's what I've
Speaker 1: learned in my life, y'all, that even though I didn't
Speaker 1: really see sixty five, I would always take the step
Speaker 1: to at least just get to tomorrow. I couldn't see
Speaker 1: myself all the way through. I'm gonna be honest with you,
Speaker 1: the life that God has me with. I did not
Speaker 1: see this coming, not fully. I wanted some things along
Speaker 1: the way, but it's no way I saw this. He's
Speaker 1: just been too good to me. He's been overly good
Speaker 1: to me. That's how I know it's grace, because really, man,
Speaker 1: if you think about it, you know, stop thinking you
Speaker 1: deserve something all the time, because you really don't, because
Speaker 1: you deserved it. If we all got what we deserved,
Speaker 1: we'd all be in trouble, all of us, all of you.
Speaker 1: I don't care how righteous you think you are, own,
Speaker 1: how saved you claimed you are, how holy ghost spilled
Speaker 1: all this here. If we all got what we deserved,
Speaker 1: all of us would be in trouble because fate back
Speaker 1: on some of the decisions that we made that could
Speaker 1: have really really went the other way, and God, just
Speaker 1: through his grace and mercy and favor, just didn't let
Speaker 1: it go as far left as it could. He just
Speaker 1: gave you a break. So stop thinking that you deserve
Speaker 1: all that you have, because you don't. I've lived a life,
Speaker 1: I've tried to work out, eat, health and everything. But
Speaker 1: me getting to sixty five was God's grace. And you
Speaker 1: know how I knew it was because I know some
Speaker 1: real healthy people that ain't here no more. I know
Speaker 1: some people who could run faster than me, jump higher
Speaker 1: than mere, stronger than me in the gym and everything,
Speaker 1: and they not hear no more. I know some men
Speaker 1: who were in far better shape than I am today,
Speaker 1: and they're not here anymore. Do I deserve to be here?
Speaker 1: I'm not based on everything I've done, but through God's
Speaker 1: grace and mercy and favor, I'm here. So I'm saying
Speaker 1: about three different things in this closing remark, So let
Speaker 1: me sum it up for you. Stop trying to see
Speaker 1: your way all the way through and just take the
Speaker 1: next step. And every time you take a step, pray
Speaker 1: to God and ask God for guidance, wisdom and understand it,
Speaker 1: and that'll help you make the next step. Stop thinking
Speaker 1: that you deserve everything because you don't. Because if all
Speaker 1: of us got what we truly deserve, I think we
Speaker 1: all if you were honest, because I did some things
Speaker 1: when I was young man that have I If I
Speaker 1: had got caught doing it, I wouldn't be here today.
Speaker 1: I made some decisions when I was young that if
Speaker 1: I paid the full price for it, my life would
Speaker 1: be another guy. If you didn't like this one, see
Speaker 1: you tomorrow. I'll have another talk to God he loved
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