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Speaker 1: y'all listening to the voice, Come on dig me now,
Speaker 1: one and only Steve Arvey got a radio show. Man,
Speaker 1: Old Man. Old Man symbolizes just one thing to me. Man,
Speaker 1: It's just a constant remind of exactly how good God
Speaker 1: has been to me over the years. And I'm thank
Speaker 1: him for it too, because I realize every day that
Speaker 1: I wake up that I would be nothing without him.
Speaker 1: That everything I am, that's any good in me, I
Speaker 1: owe to him. Now. Have I made some mistakes along
Speaker 1: the way? Yep, bunches, bunches and bunches. And will I
Speaker 1: continue to make mistakes along the way yep? Not as many,
Speaker 1: hopefully as I have in the past, because a lot
Speaker 1: of stuff I know better now. But you're still going
Speaker 1: to make mistakes. Now. You know, hopefully I've limited the
Speaker 1: amount of intentional errors in my life. I've wiped quite
Speaker 1: a few of those out. But from time to time,
Speaker 1: because we're human, we're going to make a mistake every
Speaker 1: now and then. The trick what it is, y'all, it's
Speaker 1: not to let the devil deceive you into thinking that
Speaker 1: once you make that mistake that that's it. You can't
Speaker 1: do it. You're falling off the wagon. You can't reboard it.
Speaker 1: That's the biggest trick that he uses. He makes you
Speaker 1: think that if you keep stumbling, that you can't run
Speaker 1: the race. It kind of reminds me of a marathon runner.
Speaker 1: From time to time, I watch him on TV, and
Speaker 1: you'll see some people who finish the race, you know,
Speaker 1: in a in a nice pace. You see people finish
Speaker 1: the race sprinting towards the finished line. But every now
Speaker 1: and then you'll watch a marathon and you'll see a
Speaker 1: runner and the runner is in really, really bad shape.
Speaker 1: The key is they finish the race. See, you don't
Speaker 1: get disqualified in the marathon because you stumble, You don't.
Speaker 1: They don't. They don't take your opportunity to finish the
Speaker 1: race because you keep falling. That's not the key. The
Speaker 1: key is finishing. And a lot of times what the
Speaker 1: devil does is he makes you think that because you
Speaker 1: keep stumbling, because you're swaying from side to side, that
Speaker 1: you know you out the race. Well, that's not the case.
Speaker 1: And see and then this thing called life, let me
Speaker 1: help you understand something. Everybody falls. Nobody sprints to the
Speaker 1: tape in this one. Nobody just runs free and clear
Speaker 1: as some people running faster than you and all like this.
Speaker 1: And some people gonna get to the end before you
Speaker 1: let them go ahead. And when the end come, the
Speaker 1: end come. I ain't in the rush to get to
Speaker 1: the end. But in this race, though, when you're stumbling
Speaker 1: and you're falling, it's a part of it. No one
Speaker 1: gets through this race without stumbling and falling, swaying from
Speaker 1: side to side. So don't let the enemy deceive you
Speaker 1: into thinking that it's over. I try to be encouraging
Speaker 1: to people because I don't want people to get stuck
Speaker 1: on this thing, you know. And my walk is very
Speaker 1: different from a lot of people's walks. And then I
Speaker 1: know a lot of people who walking in faith the
Speaker 1: way I'm walking in faith. But my thing in the
Speaker 1: morning is just to remind those that is not a
Speaker 1: perfect walk man, that it's not something that's set up
Speaker 1: where you're gonna be skipping through life scot free without
Speaker 1: any pitfalls. You know, I keep saying it over and
Speaker 1: over and over again because, like I said, when I
Speaker 1: was in DC, my boy Hondo said this to me,
Speaker 1: and it just kind of stuck with me that the
Speaker 1: road to construct, the road to successes always under construction.
Speaker 1: You have to figure and count on the setbacks and
Speaker 1: the pitfalls. But it's those people that that that that
Speaker 1: fight through will be the victors in the end. You
Speaker 1: cannot give up, man, Stop going somewhere sitting down every
Speaker 1: time something goes down. It's going to go down. It's
Speaker 1: a part of it. It's going to happen. It's going
Speaker 1: to occur that are going to be setbacks. If you
Speaker 1: go and sit down every time there's a setback, that's
Speaker 1: not how this works. It is designed that way. If
Speaker 1: success were easy, everybody would be successful. But success is
Speaker 1: just reserved for those who are willing to fight through,
Speaker 1: who refuse to settle for mediocrity, who wants something more. Now,
Speaker 1: don't get me wrong. Success is defined by each individual.
Speaker 1: So what I may consider to be successful, you may
Speaker 1: not consider that. You know what Bill Gates considers successful.
Speaker 1: I might not consider what Michael Jordan considers successful. I
Speaker 1: might not consider what you consider successful. Your boss might
Speaker 1: not consider. You have to define what that is for yourself.
Speaker 1: It may not be monetary at all. You know, your
Speaker 1: level of success could be tied up in community service.
Speaker 1: It could be tied up in family. It could be
Speaker 1: tied up into church. Your level of success could be
Speaker 1: tied up into boys clubs. It could be any number
Speaker 1: of things. Whatever your level of success is, you have
Speaker 1: to determine what that is you and the best way
Speaker 1: to determine that is to get in touch with your maker,
Speaker 1: who created you, to find out what your mission and
Speaker 1: your purpose is so he can put you on track.
Speaker 1: I just had this conversation with my son, and we
Speaker 1: were talking about getting on the path that God has
Speaker 1: set up for you. So many times we find ourselves
Speaker 1: fighting through life because of so much uncertainty, because we
Speaker 1: have no idea where we're headed. It's like one of
Speaker 1: my own sayings that I have at my mentoring camp
Speaker 1: for boys, is is that a boy without a male
Speaker 1: role model is like an explorer without a map. See
Speaker 1: if you don't have a map laid out in front
Speaker 1: of you of where you're going when you wake up
Speaker 1: every day. That pretty much explains the feeling of confusion.
Speaker 1: The laxidaisical attitude, the lack of purpose, to not understanding
Speaker 1: your mission because you don't have not gotten in touch
Speaker 1: with your creator to find out exactly what your path
Speaker 1: in life is. What are you supposed to be doing?
Speaker 1: The moment you can identify find that is the moment
Speaker 1: that you get started waking up with purpose, with the
Speaker 1: sense of direction. When you kill the sense of I
Speaker 1: don't know what's next or what to do. Now, there's
Speaker 1: going to be some confusing moments no matter what happened,
Speaker 1: it's going to be some uncertainty, but at least you'll
Speaker 1: know where you're going. So if you're tied a waking
Speaker 1: up feeling loss, abandon confused, don't know what to do,
Speaker 1: don't know what you're supposed to be doing, refer back
Speaker 1: to your makeup. Because when he created you, he had
Speaker 1: a plan for you. When he created you, he had
Speaker 1: a path for you. Now we've made some decisions to
Speaker 1: get off of both of those the mission and the path.
Speaker 1: But God can get you right back on track. Do
Speaker 1: that today, Ask him what you're supposed to be doing,
Speaker 1: and listen. God has all the answers if you form
Speaker 1: the relationship. Okay, show, ladies and gentlemen, it is here again.
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Speaker 1: greatest ride in all of radio. Let us begin and
Speaker 1: be grateful this morning that you are here to attend.
Speaker 1: That's a blessing. Don't overlook at it. Start your day
Speaker 1: with gratitude. Find a list of twenty things to thank
Speaker 1: him for. Why are you listening to the show? You
Speaker 1: have two minutes. Let you begin now, Junior. What's on
Speaker 1: your mind? All right? Unc? Let me ask you something.
Speaker 1: And this is just something really for me really, But
Speaker 1: I just want to know, uncle, with the times in
Speaker 1: your life that you doubted God too? No, I never
Speaker 1: doubted God. I always knew it was me. I questioned him,
Speaker 1: but I didn't doubt him. I questioned him about is
Speaker 1: he there in my life? But it wasn't because I
Speaker 1: doubted him. I was. I don't know, man, It's a
Speaker 1: weird question. You're asking me. I don't think I've doubted him.
Speaker 1: I've always known he was most capable. I was always
Speaker 1: raised to believe that. But every time that was a disconnect,
Speaker 1: and I even thought it was something going on, like
Speaker 1: he ain't watching over me or something like that. When
Speaker 1: I analyzed the situation, I always discovered it was me.
Speaker 1: Every time I felt like God wasn't there for me,
Speaker 1: it's because I had stopped inviting him in, I had
Speaker 1: stopped counseling with him, I had stopped confiding any And
Speaker 1: that happens even today. You know, we're not perfect. You know,
Speaker 1: nobody has a perfect relationship with God. I don't believe.
Speaker 1: I don't know because because we're just you know, we're
Speaker 1: human beings, and we live in a world that's full
Speaker 1: of stimulus. So you have so many things that stimulate us.
Speaker 1: You know, like when you wake up in the morning,
Speaker 1: you might want to go pray, but all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: your phone is right there. I mean that smartphone is
Speaker 1: one of the biggest distractions in the world. You know,
Speaker 1: you gotta go see who left you a message, You
Speaker 1: got any emails, and you gotta see if anybody like
Speaker 1: your post you postage yesterday. There's a lot of stimuli
Speaker 1: that can draw you away from him. But whatever, I
Speaker 1: feel like there wasn't a connect if I really analyzed it,
Speaker 1: the lack of connection was my lack of connection to him.
Speaker 1: That's what I've always discovered. The trick that the devil
Speaker 1: uses is he makes you think. The trick that the
Speaker 1: devil uses he makes you think God ain't there for you.
Speaker 1: That's one of his favorite tricks. But it's usually it's
Speaker 1: one hundred percent of the time. Is usually you who
Speaker 1: is not there taking advantage of the ability to prayer.
Speaker 1: Sometimes you question, how can I put it when one
Speaker 1: passes away, when a loved one passes away, and you
Speaker 1: about that person should be leaving this early? Too soon?
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. I've questioned that before. I've
Speaker 1: struggled with that before. Yes, Oh, that that's a one.
Speaker 1: When my mom passed, I'm on, let me tell you something.
Speaker 1: He had to really have some conversations with me because
Speaker 1: I was going old, we're just taking people out of here.
Speaker 1: I actually had submitted some names or some people I
Speaker 1: thought he could have pulled about him. Oh, I submitted names.
Speaker 1: You're just looking at you look for a body count.
Speaker 1: I know a couple of trifles people, And I told
Speaker 1: you all right, look coming up with thirty two minutes
Speaker 1: after the hour the nephew, and run that frank back
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Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, the Bob's Shop, that's the black Man's
Speaker 1: Country Club. Let's go us this, Brady, Brady, how are
Speaker 1: you doing? Man? My name, my name is Dennis Man.
Speaker 1: I got a haircut from you a couple of weeks ago. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what's up about hey? Listen, um, I wanted to get
Speaker 1: an appointment with you, man. Uh like I said, I
Speaker 1: was there a couple of weeks ago. Man, my first
Speaker 1: time getting haircut from you. Did a real, real good job.
Speaker 1: So I want to say thank you for that. All right,
Speaker 1: not a problem, It's not a problem. Okay. Do you
Speaker 1: have any um any time available on Thursday? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: for sure, Yeah you come up to Thursday. Fine, what's
Speaker 1: what's what's your name here? Brother, Dennis Man? Dennis? Okay, Dennis,
Speaker 1: Why I can't chance? Dennis? About about three o'clock man,
Speaker 1: something of that nature. I mean, you know, I know
Speaker 1: the work appartments. You know three o'clock you will be there. Yeah, okay, Hey,
Speaker 1: I got a little bit of situation though, man, that
Speaker 1: had them last time I was there. I kind of
Speaker 1: wanted to talk to you about it, man, because it
Speaker 1: kind of called me off guard. So I wanted to
Speaker 1: do how I let you, man and see if we
Speaker 1: could rectify the problem. For I came back up there.
Speaker 1: What happened? What somebody disrespect your something? I mean, what
Speaker 1: else to do? What? Um? It really wasn't somebody, man,
Speaker 1: it was it was it was it was actually you
Speaker 1: me whoa? I mean, what's the his deal? Man? When
Speaker 1: you was cutting my hair? When it when it was
Speaker 1: time to turn the chair, you didn't turn the chair
Speaker 1: with with with with with your hand man. See Brady, man,
Speaker 1: you you turned the chair with your with your private part. Oh,
Speaker 1: come on safe, it's I mean, I'm a professional man.
Speaker 1: I've been doing this fifteen years bro right right. I
Speaker 1: don't think it's anything deliberate. Man. I think you just
Speaker 1: do it unconsciously man, because you know you'd be leaning
Speaker 1: over on the chair cutting and I think you don't
Speaker 1: realize you know, you be turning the chair with your
Speaker 1: private part instead of doing it with your hand. Man,
Speaker 1: And see, my hand got caught out there, and I
Speaker 1: saw it out the corner of my eyes. I saw
Speaker 1: your private part coming towards my hand. I moved it
Speaker 1: just in time. You understand, but not see, Dennis, I'm
Speaker 1: not understanding something. But because I don't, I don't. We
Speaker 1: don't operate like that, mind, because you know I don't
Speaker 1: make mistakes like that. But I mean, you know, I
Speaker 1: don't know you. You're sure you're talking to the right person, man, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, ain't you the third chair on the right
Speaker 1: when you walk in the door. Yeah, it's correct. Okay,
Speaker 1: that one I'm talking about. Man, And you cut me
Speaker 1: two weeks ago, and like I said, I really like
Speaker 1: my hair cut, so I wanted to call back and
Speaker 1: rectify this problem. But you know, you gotta turn the
Speaker 1: chair with your head and not to your pride part.
Speaker 1: If not, we're gonna have a problem. Okay, Bro, Now
Speaker 1: I feel it, and I understand you your complaint and everything.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not understanding what you're saying, but I
Speaker 1: don't do that, you know, I mean, we will be
Speaker 1: glad to you know what I'm thinking another cut or whatever.
Speaker 1: You understand, man, you know, but I don't move nobody
Speaker 1: around with my problem. Man, that's just not being okay.
Speaker 1: I understand what you're saying, but I want you to
Speaker 1: hear what I'm saying. If you put your private on
Speaker 1: there at all when I come in there Thursday, then
Speaker 1: I promise you I'm gonna jump up and we're gonna
Speaker 1: have a problem. Who what let's see not now now
Speaker 1: right there? And I'm not I'm not feeling that jump
Speaker 1: up and having a problem because you know, you don't
Speaker 1: really know me like that. Bro, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to be professional here and and solve your
Speaker 1: little issue that you got your understanding. But all this
Speaker 1: jumping up and stuff you're talking about doing, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to come in and get a nice hair
Speaker 1: cut and walk out with a nice hair cut. What
Speaker 1: I don't want to do. It's come down there, you're
Speaker 1: lean old, put your private part. Well, I got my
Speaker 1: arms in my hands and I got help you. Now,
Speaker 1: that's what I don't from the you're starting, You're touching
Speaker 1: the wrong talking about what you're talking about I'm teuching
Speaker 1: you wrong. You touch me wrong two weeks ago when
Speaker 1: you put your private on my hand. Man, I don't
Speaker 1: know how to touch you feel say what I don't know?
Speaker 1: You know, dog all I'm trying to say. You're the
Speaker 1: brother trying to come in and get his hair cut
Speaker 1: and walk out fitting like a man and not walk
Speaker 1: out feeling violated. Man, because you didn't turn the chair
Speaker 1: with your private part all up against my head and
Speaker 1: my elbow and stuff. Man, you know what I'm saying
Speaker 1: and saying. You know I'm trying to talk to you.
Speaker 1: Do you feel? But unless you don't run me wrong,
Speaker 1: ain't no punk flying here? And you understanding they ain't
Speaker 1: no punk flying that didn't keep it off my hand.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something man won't said. Oh here
Speaker 1: you bring your stupid Oh He'm gonna tell you right now.
Speaker 1: Just you understanding and look quickly play. Oh here is
Speaker 1: sal father shop. Hear me. I hear what you're saying.
Speaker 1: But let me explain something. You we are you using
Speaker 1: your hips and your private section like a peinball machine.
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna tell you right now I will put
Speaker 1: something on your you. Come on, understand me, dude, I'm
Speaker 1: just trying to come and get a halt cut. I'm
Speaker 1: trying to get a hair cut and walk out of
Speaker 1: there like a man, feeling like a man. Open you,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna open you, a boy. Don stand here now
Speaker 1: now now come on you, I do something to your
Speaker 1: which want to be This is a barber shop. Go
Speaker 1: you understand me. I hold what I got on. I
Speaker 1: got somebody have a cold run back. You're gonna come
Speaker 1: over here to space. I bet you did. I donna
Speaker 1: do it. I don't do it. You feeling? You know
Speaker 1: what I mean? What is you? Man? You'll come up?
Speaker 1: Come on up, pill can recognize yourself and you come
Speaker 1: up to you put your name? Okay, okay, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: put my real name on my shirt. Then you want
Speaker 1: to know what my real name is. That's what's up.
Speaker 1: That's what's up. Okay. Then you might want to you
Speaker 1: want you want to know what name gonna be on
Speaker 1: the shirt? I want to know what right? Then the
Speaker 1: name on the shirt is nephew Timmy from the Steve
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Speaker 1: I used to get my hair cut up there with
Speaker 1: Mike Tyson. We should get our hair cut at the
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Speaker 1: But right now it is time for ask the CLO.
Speaker 1: Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey is here ready for your
Speaker 1: love questions. Anonymous in Virginia says, my boyfriend mother is
Speaker 1: staying with us and her boyfriend has his own place,
Speaker 1: but he likes staying overnight at our house. He smoked
Speaker 1: cigarettes and goes in our driveway to light up, and
Speaker 1: I don't want him out there looking ghetto. My husband
Speaker 1: and I were raised very differently, so I've learned to
Speaker 1: overlook a lot that his mom does. But can I
Speaker 1: draw the line with her stinky boyfriend? Yes, because it's
Speaker 1: your house, you absolutely care. You are the queen of
Speaker 1: the castle. Your husband is the king of the castle,
Speaker 1: and you all get to make rules. And I could
Speaker 1: just tell you flat out the queen's rules at the
Speaker 1: castle outweighed the king's rules. I'm just gonna tell you
Speaker 1: that now you can act like it. Don't if you
Speaker 1: want to. You' sadly mistaken in the way. The thing
Speaker 1: really does work. Queen's rule, Make the rule, set it,
Speaker 1: and then tell your king that's what you won't carry
Speaker 1: it out at your house, that his mama's staying there.
Speaker 1: That's one thing. But hello punk as boyfriend coming over
Speaker 1: that smoking cigarettes and stuff. We're not doing that. And
Speaker 1: matter of fact, he can't stay here. He got his
Speaker 1: own place. Keno, man comes, stay in my house. Man
Speaker 1: sleep with somebody. Man, get out of here. You're gonna
Speaker 1: be crazy. It's gonna put your foot down, all right.
Speaker 1: Moving on to Madeline and Austin. Madeline rights to have
Speaker 1: two children by a man I was with for six years.
Speaker 1: He got married a year after we broke up, and
Speaker 1: I still cannot get over the fact that he moved
Speaker 1: on so quickly. I feel like he didn't give our
Speaker 1: relationship a chance, and he threw me and the kids
Speaker 1: to the side for his new wife. Was he cheating
Speaker 1: with her all along? What difference do it make? What
Speaker 1: difference do it make? You had two children with this
Speaker 1: man in six years. A year after y'all break up,
Speaker 1: he married somebody else. Now you can't get over that
Speaker 1: because you want to know if he was cheating with
Speaker 1: this woman, and did he just throw you away and
Speaker 1: the kids for the woman? Yes? Now what okay? So
Speaker 1: now now now what? Now you're gonna stay You're gonna
Speaker 1: stay there in that past or you're gonna get up
Speaker 1: and realize that that was that was probably a reason
Speaker 1: for that. First of all, he was not your soul mate.
Speaker 1: If he was your soul mate, y'all will still be
Speaker 1: made it. That's not him, and he's gone. These are facts,
Speaker 1: and yea, and men don't do closure. So quit looking
Speaker 1: for him to come over there to explain to you
Speaker 1: what he did. We're telling you what you wrote in
Speaker 1: the letter, what he did, did he leave gone? What
Speaker 1: they always got to know if they want to know
Speaker 1: the whole story, how it started, when it started, when
Speaker 1: it ended, it don't matter. And and you you you
Speaker 1: got the story? Did you got the opening? You got
Speaker 1: the chapter? Yeah, you got the closing, you got the forward,
Speaker 1: you got the baby, Yeah, you got everything in the store.
Speaker 1: She just doesn't want to face it. Yeah, all right,
Speaker 1: moving on, thank you have no choice. Yeah, that's right.
Speaker 1: And she's got two kids. She's an example for this,
Speaker 1: and they're watching. You've all been move old m That's right,
Speaker 1: all right, Madeleine in Austin. Moving on to LaToya and Henderson, Nevada.
Speaker 1: LaToya says, I'm a personal chef for newlyweds, and they
Speaker 1: host wild dinner parties that usually end up with people
Speaker 1: dancing naked and hooking up. I was safe for the
Speaker 1: first few months, but now the husband wants me. I
Speaker 1: told him I'd do a threesome with his wife, but
Speaker 1: she said she's not interested. It's awkward knowing that she
Speaker 1: doesn't want me. What is this awkward for me to
Speaker 1: get a new job? What? So, LaToya, First of all,
Speaker 1: this is the first profession I've heard that's a chef
Speaker 1: for newlyweds. That's the first time i've heard that specific, tyler,
Speaker 1: I'm a chef for newlyweds. So let's be honest. Is
Speaker 1: the chef a cover because that's what it sounds like
Speaker 1: because you're specific just to newlyweds. Now the husband won'ts you,
Speaker 1: and you said you'd be willing to do a threesome
Speaker 1: with them, but now the wife don't want you. Now
Speaker 1: it's awkward for you being the newlywed chef cause she
Speaker 1: don't want you. I'm so damned. Why why did you
Speaker 1: write us? I don't know you know, I don't know
Speaker 1: doctor Phil, you know, oh, somebody who care? Yalla? You
Speaker 1: could have wrote Iyalla fixed my life because she retired.
Speaker 1: She done but too much for her? Yeah, M, where
Speaker 1: is the next dinner party? Though? That's I mean, we
Speaker 1: really should and you need to know this. Why, well,
Speaker 1: I like to cook. I like to cook. Y'all like
Speaker 1: to cook? Yeah, yeah, yeah, you like to cook. But
Speaker 1: don't swoman here, let's go ahead. She all right, Uh,
Speaker 1: we don't have a lot of time, but let's see.
Speaker 1: It's Dell in Bergen County says, I'm dating a man
Speaker 1: that is insecure, and every time I'm on the phone
Speaker 1: with my male best friend, he's right in my face,
Speaker 1: listening to every word. He's forbidden me to visit him
Speaker 1: at his house, and we can't travel together anymore. He
Speaker 1: said it would help if my friend weren't so fine.
Speaker 1: Is it okay for a man to say that? M?
Speaker 1: Excuse me? You have a male best friend that your
Speaker 1: husband has told you he don't want you talking to
Speaker 1: no more. He don't want you visited, and he don't
Speaker 1: want y'all taking trips no more. You don't, you don't? Yeah,
Speaker 1: all right, yea. We need to come back for this
Speaker 1: because you got it all right. At the top of
Speaker 1: the hour, Steve will finish this and we have some
Speaker 1: news and how you can win possibly qualify at least
Speaker 1: for twenty five hundred dollars right after this. You're listening
Speaker 1: to show, all right, Steve. So, before we went to break,
Speaker 1: we had a Cello question about a woman who's dating
Speaker 1: a man who's insecure because her best friend is a male.
Speaker 1: He doesn't like her to talk on the phone or anything,
Speaker 1: and he and her boyfriend said that it wouldn't be
Speaker 1: so bad if her male best friend wasn't so fine.
Speaker 1: Her question is is that okay for a man to
Speaker 1: say that? But you said earlier that her man doesn't
Speaker 1: want her talking to her, visiting her best friend anymore, Yeah,
Speaker 1: and taking trip very insecure. Yeah, but you said it,
Speaker 1: you said an original. She can't go ahead, she can't
Speaker 1: visit him at his house, and they can't travel together anymore.
Speaker 1: She can't The man said, you can no longer visit
Speaker 1: this man at his house, and y'all can't travel together
Speaker 1: no more. Yeah, And then he said it'd be different
Speaker 1: if he wasn't so fine. Your question, that's the right end, person,
Speaker 1: is is it normal for a man to say that
Speaker 1: another man is so fine? That ain't a damn issue.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't give a damn if you look like Gorilla
Speaker 1: Jack Johnson. You find to go where I find to
Speaker 1: go over? Stanley House, Stanley House, Okay, me and Stanley
Speaker 1: going away for the week. Here you and Stanley going. Man, lady,
Speaker 1: do you understand how ignorant sound I keep telling y'all
Speaker 1: about these these opposite sex best friends. It don't work
Speaker 1: out that y'all keep having them if you want to,
Speaker 1: but it's gonna cost you what man is disattractive, that's
Speaker 1: having a hard time finding somebody to come over, finding
Speaker 1: somebody to go on trips with. I'll tell you what
Speaker 1: Golvi's house and see and see what happened when you
Speaker 1: open that damn though, I'll be behind your ass. I'll
Speaker 1: be coming up them stepps like swat. I got that
Speaker 1: dough ram in my hand and everything. I got the
Speaker 1: two dogs with me. Everybody in there gonna get their
Speaker 1: ass when I get up in the house. My wife
Speaker 1: would come in here and tell out I got a
Speaker 1: male friend and we find to take a trip. I'll
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Speaker 1: entertainment news Listen Up, Nephew, One of Hollywood's most coveted
Speaker 1: roles is vacant again for the first time in nearly
Speaker 1: twenty years. Rumors have been circling for for years that
Speaker 1: forty nine year old actor Ittris Elba might possibly be
Speaker 1: the next James Bond, and as it turns turns out,
Speaker 1: his name has finally, finally, Carlos been thrown in as
Speaker 1: part of the conversation to take over the role of
Speaker 1: Double oh seven. Speaking on a Deadline podcast this week,
Speaker 1: Long Time Nobody told Tyrees that he wants oh you
Speaker 1: oh you ain't seen Tyree's post. Mm no oh, I'll
Speaker 1: just go on Tyrese's sacram and go back. The whole
Speaker 1: thing about his name is in the hat. Student in
Speaker 1: front is yeah over interest, over interest, Hell yeah over interest.
Speaker 1: You know how good this will be to have a
Speaker 1: double O seven with emotional issues anyway? Long time Bund
Speaker 1: producer Barbara Broccoli had nothing but good things to say
Speaker 1: about interest. You know how good that to be? Hold
Speaker 1: on Shelty? Do you know how good that to be
Speaker 1: the actually cut on James barn and he'd be on
Speaker 1: the crying or ever. I'd be excited to see that
Speaker 1: on a sidekick to where I think a double O
Speaker 1: seven on to have a sidekick, you ought to have
Speaker 1: ty Reefs ask double O seven and his sidekick is
Speaker 1: a Tony O'Brien too emotional to emotion of the people
Speaker 1: I'm gonna watch that. I would I'd be there. I
Speaker 1: beat there with popcle Man taking his shirt off every five,
Speaker 1: taking his clothes. I had to go to the movie
Speaker 1: theater with a tube, so I packed it in my mouth.
Speaker 1: I'm laughing, man, y'all gonna get this role to dress
Speaker 1: open quick playing. Yes, Yes, that's what everyone wants to see.
Speaker 1: That's that's who they want to see. But now I
Speaker 1: can I ask you another question though, Yeah, Tommy, Tommy,
Speaker 1: let me ask you push your sister though. Could you
Speaker 1: play the role of James Baum if they do me
Speaker 1: like the Green Mile and make me look taller than
Speaker 1: what I really am? Yeah, that's all Steve. What are
Speaker 1: we entertaining this? Yeah? You gotta have we gotta we
Speaker 1: gotta have a little bleachers build all over the Get
Speaker 1: up on that third one, Steve, in here, get up
Speaker 1: on the fourth one. I will say that the movies
Speaker 1: make you look bigger. They do. The movies do make
Speaker 1: you look bigg look taller. Yeah, we go, there, we go.
Speaker 1: They do you know that, Steve? Yeah, yeah, bigger. Yeah.
Speaker 1: But Tommy, but what you're gonna do about sex appeal? Though?
Speaker 1: At the top of what is Funny adress Elba, Nephew, Tommy,
Speaker 1: You're gonna love this. Next story, Steve, the president caught cussing.
Speaker 1: We'll get into that at twenty minutes after. Right after this,
Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, So, Steve,
Speaker 1: I think the story is just for you. Okay. President
Speaker 1: Biden was caught on a hot mic expressing his frustrations
Speaker 1: with Fox News Channels Peter Doocey. At the end of
Speaker 1: a White House event on lowering prices for US families,
Speaker 1: Doocey asked, do you think inflation is a political liability
Speaker 1: in the mid terms. Biden didn't know the mic was
Speaker 1: still on and sarcastically mocked the question, saying it's a
Speaker 1: great asset more inflation. Then he added, what a stupid
Speaker 1: son of a bee? Yeah, my man, about the time, right, yeah, Trump,
Speaker 1: Trump was able to say, what do you want to say? Biden?
Speaker 1: Biden need to go with mo cussing. That's why we
Speaker 1: voted for him. That's why they vot keep it waiting
Speaker 1: on see number one, everybody telling about Steve you're the
Speaker 1: wrong for president right there. You'd have been had this
Speaker 1: you'd have been had you had this in the debates,
Speaker 1: not getting this, all this cussing from Joe Biden, you'd
Speaker 1: have been had this out of me, This would have
Speaker 1: started in the debates. Manage y'all hear what he said
Speaker 1: in prime time? Ya, this would have been in the
Speaker 1: debates on ABC right right after the jail chill y'all, Oh, man, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: it ain't No, wait man, I think I think it's time,
Speaker 1: you know, I think that, you know, I look, man,
Speaker 1: I think that Donald Trump has changed the way politics
Speaker 1: will be done in this country forever. He flipped up
Speaker 1: the dirty side of it and made the dirty side
Speaker 1: the way to do it. And they've accepted it. And
Speaker 1: that's the way they're doing it now. And now we
Speaker 1: don't have a country that cares about what the people want.
Speaker 1: It's just they politicize everything. They get on the right
Speaker 1: and they get on the left and they stay that
Speaker 1: don't matter what what's good for the people, It what's
Speaker 1: good for the party. And that's the country we live
Speaker 1: in now, and it's not going back the other way.
Speaker 1: And too many people saw saw Trump have success. That
Speaker 1: go ahead, that's right. I gotta ask you this now.
Speaker 1: You know you talked about running for president and all that,
Speaker 1: but in reality, has this ever happened to you? Where
Speaker 1: you know, you do a lot of TV, your TV
Speaker 1: shows and stuff. As your mic ever been on and
Speaker 1: you know you said I know the end the radio,
Speaker 1: what do you know the stuff? I hadn't say, Yes,
Speaker 1: we do. We know on this show for sure because
Speaker 1: our combination cuss, if you catch four of you last
Speaker 1: fourth real nice. All right, We're moving on. Coming up
Speaker 1: at thirty four minutes after the hour, A woman tried
Speaker 1: to buy a baby at Walmart. And I'm not talking
Speaker 1: about a baby doll. I'm talking about a real baby.
Speaker 1: We'll get into that right after this. You're listening to
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. A Texas woman was arrested
Speaker 1: at a Walmart store after approaching a mother and offering her,
Speaker 1: get this, half a million dollars to buy her son
Speaker 1: her baby. Son. Rebecca Lynette Taylor, forty nine, approached a
Speaker 1: mother and her baby at the checkout line at a
Speaker 1: Walmart and Crockett, Texas, and as a mother, she could
Speaker 1: buy her baby. The mother tried to laugh off the comment,
Speaker 1: thinking that Taylor was joking. Taylor told her that she
Speaker 1: had two hundred fifty thousand dollars, and that's when the
Speaker 1: mother realized that Taylor was serious and managed to check
Speaker 1: out and leave Taylor behind. Taylor approached the mom again
Speaker 1: in the Walmart parking lot and began screaming at her,
Speaker 1: saying she would give her up to a saying she
Speaker 1: would give her up to five hundred thousand dollars. That's
Speaker 1: where the half a million came in because she wanted
Speaker 1: the baby and she was going to take him. Police
Speaker 1: responded and Taylor was taken into custody on one count
Speaker 1: of participating in the sale or purchase of a child,
Speaker 1: which is a third degree felony in Texas. Wow, my hunt, though,
Speaker 1: I'd have been going my MoMA, so my right in
Speaker 1: that wal Mart, I've been in a different basket. I
Speaker 1: know that I was in her basket and now I'm
Speaker 1: in another half to me go, Judie would not have
Speaker 1: Junior would have rolled your ass right up the groceries
Speaker 1: A and y'all good here. Now I was I was
Speaker 1: trying to figure out the race of this person because
Speaker 1: of the name. So let's see how this is how
Speaker 1: I analyze it, Rebecca Taylor. Now it takes a real
Speaker 1: black turn with Lenette Taylor. But you gotta remember, now
Speaker 1: where was this that in Texas? Or Crocket Crockett. Now
Speaker 1: see once you say Crockett Texas, now you gotta start
Speaker 1: thinking Hillbilly. So now you have to think of how
Speaker 1: hell Billy's name. They babies, they give him a lot
Speaker 1: of first names. Rebecca Taylor, Tammy Wannett, So you gotta
Speaker 1: look at that. So you don't really know Hill because
Speaker 1: it's in Crockett, but it has a real hell billy
Speaker 1: tone to it because you know, first of all, I
Speaker 1: think m hell billy billy. Yeah, oh yeah, see that's
Speaker 1: not been this band yet, hell billy still except as much.
Speaker 1: And yeah, and I'm gonna tell you something else too.
Speaker 1: The reason I think the ladies white because I think
Speaker 1: if this were a black committing this crime, we will
Speaker 1: start much lower. If we got two fifty, we're gonna
Speaker 1: start with sev the five thous Yeah, yeah, we're at
Speaker 1: least work deal. Get yeah, ye ain't nobody fitting to
Speaker 1: offer the whole two hundred and fifty. I got two
Speaker 1: hundred and fifty for the baby, now no, hey, let
Speaker 1: me million like that baby you got you got? I
Speaker 1: got seventy five thousand. By the time we get to
Speaker 1: the car, we'll be up. Yeah. I told you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: see you went too high with your money, Blacks. By
Speaker 1: the time we got to the car, I would have
Speaker 1: been up to one hundred and twenty five that time
Speaker 1: we got got it up took yeah, but we gonna
Speaker 1: and then I will be looking at your face, judge,
Speaker 1: and the reactions to see what's the number in your
Speaker 1: eye because you know we might be able to get
Speaker 1: this done at once seventy five and I would be
Speaker 1: able to look at your eyes. Yeah, I mean you know,
Speaker 1: she just gets to keep something that we gotta have
Speaker 1: some money raised. Baby now? And what color is the baby? Oh?
Speaker 1: The baby white? Oh? Dog, dog look white? You don't
Speaker 1: getting he well the baby white? What what color is
Speaker 1: the baby? The baby white? Like you said, like Junior
Speaker 1: just said, you don't get to have the baby black.
Speaker 1: You've been gone, Junior, Junior said him would have been
Speaker 1: gone by babies. But at the point, no, no, the
Speaker 1: ignorant point is that's a crime you she go, Yeah,
Speaker 1: trouble for that. But I would lie to what when
Speaker 1: you catch me? I say, who do you have said?
Speaker 1: Try to baby? We gotta go. Coming up next the
Speaker 1: nephew and today's right. You're listening to morning show coming
Speaker 1: up about four minutes after the hour. In US today's
Speaker 1: Strawberry letter, the subject is her husband is better than mine. Okay,
Speaker 1: we'll get into that. We'll get into it, not what
Speaker 1: you think. We'll get into it in just a bit.
Speaker 1: But right now, the nephew is here with today's prank
Speaker 1: phone call. What you got for us. Nep, you want
Speaker 1: me to be stupid, like what y'all want? What level
Speaker 1: you want today? Go to the highst It's not that
Speaker 1: we want you to be we expected because you are
Speaker 1: so going. I'll tell you what. I'm crying. I'll tell
Speaker 1: you what. I'll tell you what. I tell what? Give
Speaker 1: us your level two? Let's see what that? Oh? You
Speaker 1: want him to go? Hold on, let me reco. You
Speaker 1: want a tooth? Yeah, I pull a tooth. Watch be
Speaker 1: a ten. Okay, let me shoot this check to him.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna pull a tooth for you now. I'm watching
Speaker 1: his level two. Yeah, you will see if you ever
Speaker 1: want to ask for teen. Okay, you're schooling me. Okay,
Speaker 1: Steve on the stupidity, the levels of it. Okay, because
Speaker 1: I'm a little and is listening, watch me work, baby,
Speaker 1: This is how I do this double old time right there?
Speaker 1: Right there? Are you starting to get the feeling that
Speaker 1: they all the levels is just saying that I didn't
Speaker 1: get a stupid shot. He just called out indriss elbow
Speaker 1: right there, interess. No, that was that was his level
Speaker 1: two right there? He called out right string a bell. No,
Speaker 1: let's go catch the description tom me that a lot
Speaker 1: of people have for leading man, tall, dark and handsel.
Speaker 1: You ain't No, I ain't now one of them. No, no,
Speaker 1: no dog well light skin hansel. I got that, I
Speaker 1: got that. No has that? All box of short Now
Speaker 1: they was looking for short light and strange strange whatever.
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna let you out. I got my sex
Speaker 1: short yellow art, your short yellow limited, shut up your
Speaker 1: tall light and fine two out of three rich and
Speaker 1: one more thing. Fix all that. Yes, yes, you do it, sir,
Speaker 1: Yes that box. Yes, you get your ugly money. We're
Speaker 1: sick of you with that. Tommy. Okay, yeah, okay, I'm ugly.
Speaker 1: I take it. I'm gonna give y'all a number two
Speaker 1: right here. This is a number two. Right here is
Speaker 1: uh your daughter, bit my son? Your daughter, bit my son.
Speaker 1: This is a on scale of one to ten. I'm
Speaker 1: giving you a two of my stupid let's go cat, Hello, hello, sweet,
Speaker 1: this is this is look do you do you do?
Speaker 1: Your daughter go to little academy? Yes? Who's this? And
Speaker 1: her name is? Yes? Who's this? Listen your daughter and
Speaker 1: bit my son? Uh, Joshua went on the back. This
Speaker 1: is Wilton, your daughter, then bit my son, Well Wilton
Speaker 1: slow down. You can't just call my house and tell
Speaker 1: me my daughter bit your ever saying be cussing at me, lady,
Speaker 1: I just said, your daughter Sakia bit my son Joshua
Speaker 1: in the back, and I just let no. I just
Speaker 1: said no two things. One my daughter wouldn't bite nobody,
Speaker 1: and two, don't call my house with this tone. I
Speaker 1: called with any kind of tone I want to call with.
Speaker 1: All I'm saying is your daughter then bit my son
Speaker 1: in the back, And I'm gonna tell you. All I'm
Speaker 1: saying is don't call my house with this add to
Speaker 1: saying some that my daughter bait your child in the back.
Speaker 1: My daughter has manners and she wouldn't be biting nobody
Speaker 1: in the back. You know, somebody, how the hell you
Speaker 1: know what your daughter gonna be doing? If you ain't
Speaker 1: there my daughter you're raising she? Ain't you just come
Speaker 1: in one month and trying to do some kind of
Speaker 1: daddy work your daughter. But four years old, high nail,
Speaker 1: you don't you know how that damn well, I've been
Speaker 1: with her for four years. What you been? My daughter
Speaker 1: does not be biting people around in the back of
Speaker 1: the neck or anything like that. What the hell is
Speaker 1: wrong with you don't call my house with his attitude
Speaker 1: where I get what I don't how you figure I'm
Speaker 1: a weekend daddy. I'm calling you about what's going on
Speaker 1: with my child. But I don't think you got your
Speaker 1: facts straight. So next time you call somebody to tell
Speaker 1: them about their child, figure out everything about your child first.
Speaker 1: All I'm saying is that the people at the academy says, so,
Speaker 1: Carol bit my son, Josha were in the back. Well,
Speaker 1: I can't understand what you're saying because I don't like
Speaker 1: your tongue. So don't call me about my baby. Have
Speaker 1: her mama called me? It don't make no difference. If
Speaker 1: a mama or daddy called long with somebody called hello,
Speaker 1: call her back. Hello? Is this Carol? This is Why
Speaker 1: are you hain't up on me? Why are you still
Speaker 1: calling me? And why are you yelling at me? My
Speaker 1: child didn't bite your child in the back. When I
Speaker 1: picked up my child, they didn't say to me your
Speaker 1: child is body in the back. Child my child every day,
Speaker 1: Like I said in the first, lady, you must be
Speaker 1: some kind of weekend daddy. I know my child. I'm
Speaker 1: with my child every day. How you are you I'm
Speaker 1: with my I don't even know who Joshua is. She
Speaker 1: should have just hit him in the head. Ain't what
Speaker 1: you ain't gonna do and sit there and talk about
Speaker 1: my baby now you asked me to lower my child.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna hang up
Speaker 1: one lay hello Hello, called back? Then call her back
Speaker 1: cat Hello, don't hang up on me no more lady
Speaker 1: number again. I'm gonna call you until you tell me
Speaker 1: why you your child beat me? Just bite my child
Speaker 1: in the back. I am not in the mood to
Speaker 1: play with you right now. You're gonna try to get
Speaker 1: you and your child swoop you and your child? You
Speaker 1: don't who guess what Shakira got her daddy? You talking
Speaker 1: about whipping somebody? Daddy else to say? You can't call
Speaker 1: my house and threaten me and my jold. If my
Speaker 1: child beat you up, child, that's what your child deserved.
Speaker 1: He got whoop. You gotta whooped your just you want
Speaker 1: me to last time? The little fast not in those
Speaker 1: kids you're gonna be talking about when the fake facts
Speaker 1: she didn't bite them in the back. She might have walked,
Speaker 1: but my daughter don't play. Now what keep talking? You
Speaker 1: found my phone number, find my address and have some kids.
Speaker 1: Daddy beat choke you what I said? Bring your phone
Speaker 1: over again with my babies, fare with your babies. My baby.
Speaker 1: Daddy gonna whip y'all. Bring it on. I'm coming over
Speaker 1: there and beat you and your child for the day.
Speaker 1: You don't call a woman and tell her you coming
Speaker 1: over to beat behind child. You come up here and
Speaker 1: beat her. Daddy. Come over here and beat your kids. Daddy,
Speaker 1: he don't he don't want not to me. You don't
Speaker 1: want it. I'm on my way over without now. Bring
Speaker 1: it on. Somebody gonna get date. Yeah, daddy home week
Speaker 1: not he ain't got no damn y'all. You he got
Speaker 1: a job, y'all gonna make me come overout a night.
Speaker 1: Bring it on right now? Do you know? You know
Speaker 1: what I'm gonna tell you. I'm gonna tell me something else.
Speaker 1: You're gonna get bit and your baby gonna get bit too.
Speaker 1: You gonna bite me and my baby. She gonna whoop? Yo.
Speaker 1: Can I say something to you? Say something to me then,
Speaker 1: Nephew timing from the Steve Harvy Morning Show. You just
Speaker 1: got prank you. Oh I am shame. I am just
Speaker 1: got prank. Your sister Glenda told me. She said they
Speaker 1: could get me. She said give my She said, you
Speaker 1: never give me that. Oh. I told him that wouldn't
Speaker 1: happen to me. But you can't call somebody talking about
Speaker 1: the baby. That's that's where it killman. Don't don't call
Speaker 1: nobody about that. You got my heart hurted. Look can
Speaker 1: I ask you something? Let me ask you. What is
Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the land, Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 1: You that's a two, right, Joe? That's my two? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's a deuce. That's a two. Okay, Okay, did I do?
Speaker 1: I rest my case. He's one level, y'all. You can't
Speaker 1: attach numbers to him. He's one level stupid. Your school
Speaker 1: doesn't all right? All right, thank nephew? Coming up next
Speaker 1: cold he change my number? I don't get it. What
Speaker 1: Strawberry letter? Your ranking subject? Her husband is better than mine.
Speaker 1: We'll get into it right after this. You're listening to
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, now, guys, it is time
Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter, And if you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting,
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Speaker 1: You hear that you never know, it could be yours,
Speaker 1: It could be yours. You never know, buckle lappinhold on type.
Speaker 1: We got it for you here It is Strawberry letta subject.
Speaker 1: Her husband is better than mine. Dear Stephen Shirley, My
Speaker 1: husband and I have been together for eleven years total
Speaker 1: and married for eight. My older sister has been married
Speaker 1: for fifteen years, and her husband is like a big
Speaker 1: brother and mentor for my husband. My sister and her
Speaker 1: husband have always done great financially, and when I got married,
Speaker 1: my sister bought my dress and paid for my glam team.
Speaker 1: She's always been the one to take care of my
Speaker 1: parents as well. I was struggling through graduate school and
Speaker 1: then I got pregnant before I got married, so my
Speaker 1: sister and brother in law Stelfdent stepped in to help
Speaker 1: us out with the baby. Because the goal was for
Speaker 1: me to finish school and for my husband to finish
Speaker 1: medical school. We've always been appreciative of the help but
Speaker 1: along the way we tried not to become a burden.
Speaker 1: After we got married, we got a loan for home improvement,
Speaker 1: and my husband decided to chip in and help my
Speaker 1: sister and brother in law with redoing their outdoor kitchen.
Speaker 1: My husband and I bought a very expensive grill and
Speaker 1: smoker for them. Instead of being grateful, my brother in
Speaker 1: law was offended and said he couldn't accept the gift.
Speaker 1: From then on, our relationship turned into a competition. My
Speaker 1: sister and I aren't as close as we once were
Speaker 1: because she told me that her husband is better than mine.
Speaker 1: Things were fine and dandy as long as we were needy,
Speaker 1: But now my husband is one of the most respected
Speaker 1: doctors in our area and she can't take it. When
Speaker 1: I got my new car. When I got a new car,
Speaker 1: she got a new car, more expensive car. I got
Speaker 1: breast in plants, so did she. Both of our husbands
Speaker 1: are successful and great fathers, So why can't she be
Speaker 1: happy for us? Should I even try to repair our relationship? Wow?
Speaker 1: I just think here and simple, this is nothing but
Speaker 1: jealousy and hate uration from your sister and her husband.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think you're exactly right. They were fine
Speaker 1: and you guys were the needy ones, and now that
Speaker 1: you're doing well, they just can't take it. I think
Speaker 1: it was nice gesture of your husband to help them
Speaker 1: with their outside kitchen and to buy them those you know,
Speaker 1: the expensive smoker and all the cooking equipment and stuff.
Speaker 1: I just don't think they can take it now. It's
Speaker 1: killing them that you guys, you know, are doing well,
Speaker 1: your husband husband is respected in the community and everything,
Speaker 1: and that just doesn't seem to sit well with them.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's sad. It's your sister, it's family. You
Speaker 1: would think, like you said, she would be happy for
Speaker 1: you and understand that you were struggling, but now you're not.
Speaker 1: And you guys are grateful for their support and you
Speaker 1: wanted to pay them back in some way, and of course,
Speaker 1: you know you ask should you try to repair your
Speaker 1: relationship and that would be nice, and you know, because
Speaker 1: she is your sister. But I don't know what I mean.
Speaker 1: They're so green with envy right now. I mean, you
Speaker 1: get breast in plants, she gets breast in plants. Okay,
Speaker 1: who does that? At least with not without a conversation.
Speaker 1: You like them? Since there they okay? Are they big?
Speaker 1: Enough did you you know all of that? You know
Speaker 1: that could have been a conversation between the two sisters,
Speaker 1: but no, she made it into a conversation. So I say,
Speaker 1: you know, you can try because she is your sister,
Speaker 1: but don't be surprised if she stays right there in
Speaker 1: her hate space. Steve, Well, I really don't understand this letter.
Speaker 1: I really don't. It don't really seem like that big
Speaker 1: a deal to me. I go through it and see
Speaker 1: you where I sold this whore. I see the problem
Speaker 1: just Steven Shirley. Oh the subject is her husband better
Speaker 1: than mine? My husband and I've been getting leven years
Speaker 1: married eight My older sister been married fifteen husband like
Speaker 1: a big brother men to my husband. You know, my
Speaker 1: sister bought my dress from a wed and paid from
Speaker 1: a glam team. She always took care of our parents
Speaker 1: and stuff. I was struggling through graduate school and then
Speaker 1: I got pregnant for I got married, So your sister
Speaker 1: and your brother in law stepped in to help us
Speaker 1: out with the baby. Because gold was for me to
Speaker 1: finish school and from a husband finished medical school. We've
Speaker 1: always been appreciative of the help, and along the way
Speaker 1: we tried not to become a burden. And after we
Speaker 1: got married, we got a loan for home improvements, and
Speaker 1: my husband decided, here we go. Here's what the letter about.
Speaker 1: My husband decided to chip in and help my sister
Speaker 1: and brother in law with redoing their outdoor kitchen. My
Speaker 1: husband and I bought a very expensive grill and smoker
Speaker 1: for them. Instead of being grateful, my brother in law
Speaker 1: was offended and said he couldn't accept the gilt. From
Speaker 1: then on, our relationship turned into a competition. Well, I
Speaker 1: see right here, I don't understand problem. I buy you
Speaker 1: an expensive grill and the ultimate smoker for your new
Speaker 1: outdoor kitchen, and you turn it down for guess what
Speaker 1: my outdoor kitchen gonna be banging? Yeah, he problem. Plus,
Speaker 1: you took some of your home improvement money. Anyway, might
Speaker 1: well improve your home, you know time. You know, I
Speaker 1: put me outdoor kitchen out there and it'd be nice then,
Speaker 1: you know, she said to my sister, and I ain't
Speaker 1: as close because the whole relationship turned to a competition.
Speaker 1: And then she once told you that her husband is
Speaker 1: better than mine. Well see why your husband might have
Speaker 1: been doing better than mine or while back. But we
Speaker 1: can cut y'all. We're in the game. Now, you up.
Speaker 1: We all? You got, we got, you won't, we won't.
Speaker 1: You bought, we bought, But it turned into a combination
Speaker 1: a competition. She wants to know at the end of
Speaker 1: the lettership, I try to repair our relationship, and I'm
Speaker 1: gonna tell you how I think you can finally put
Speaker 1: a stop to this week. All right, all right, Steve,
Speaker 1: hang on, we'll have her two of your response coming
Speaker 1: up at twenty three minutes after the hour, subject her
Speaker 1: husband is better than mine. We'll get back into it
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening, Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,
Speaker 1: come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject
Speaker 1: her husband is better than mine? Well, lady got an
Speaker 1: older sister, been married longer than her hurt, and her
Speaker 1: husband was in medical school and graduate school and had
Speaker 1: a baby before they got married, and the sister brother
Speaker 1: in law helped out. Everything seemed to be normal. That's
Speaker 1: what families do, you know, everything, They try not to
Speaker 1: be a burden to him. But her whole assist had
Speaker 1: always been the one to help her parents out and everything.
Speaker 1: And finally you and your husband got married, and you
Speaker 1: got a loan for home improvement, and your husband decided
Speaker 1: to chip in and help your sister and his brother
Speaker 1: in law, who's done so much for them, with redoing
Speaker 1: that out there kitchen, so your husband and you wouldn't
Speaker 1: bought this expensive grill and a smoker. Instead of being grateful,
Speaker 1: the brother in law was offended and said he couldn't
Speaker 1: accept the guilt. From then on, our relationship turned into
Speaker 1: a competition. My sister and I are as close as
Speaker 1: we weren't worth because she told me her husband is
Speaker 1: better than mine. Well, let's see, she said that for
Speaker 1: a while. You know, they were doing better than you all.
Speaker 1: You know, but my husband is better than yours. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm already bought y'all this grill and this smoker you
Speaker 1: didn't want, which means I've been had a baller backyard
Speaker 1: outdoor barb Q. Now, thank you, and so let's just
Speaker 1: move along. But here things got a little different though,
Speaker 1: And things was fining Danny as long as we were needy.
Speaker 1: But now my husband is one of the most respected
Speaker 1: doctors in our area, and she can't take him. When
Speaker 1: I got a new car, she got a new and
Speaker 1: more expensive car. I got breasting plants she did. Both
Speaker 1: our husbands are successful and great father, so why can't
Speaker 1: she be happy for us? She'd even try to repare relation.
Speaker 1: I don't know if this needs repairing. It don't seem
Speaker 1: like that big a deal than me. But if you
Speaker 1: want to put a stop to it, to have some
Speaker 1: suggestions for it. You said, when you got a new car,
Speaker 1: she got a new more expensive car. Well you know
Speaker 1: what your next move is, don't you. You got to
Speaker 1: go by a more expensive car than the one she bought,
Speaker 1: na see where she go with this. Oh, since we
Speaker 1: up in each other, you got to go by cart
Speaker 1: him more expensive than the one she bought and see
Speaker 1: what she do. Then you ought to call up your
Speaker 1: sister and say, hey, look remember the bad breasting plants
Speaker 1: I got and you wouldn't got some. I'm going back
Speaker 1: down now and I'm gonna go with. I'm gonna put her.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get an extra D. I'm gonna I'm gonna
Speaker 1: go get it. I'm I'm gonna get double ds this time. Yeah. Now,
Speaker 1: let's see if she wants to try to get a
Speaker 1: e See, I don't know, I'll tell you what. She
Speaker 1: ain't gonna be able to cool coffee. If she messing
Speaker 1: with me because I have a breast right up under
Speaker 1: her throat, they'll be so big. But you want to
Speaker 1: be able to see your food you're eating on the table. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm for all this hill, but it all seriousness. You know,
Speaker 1: Let's look at this the right way. It's a competition thing.
Speaker 1: So what some people can't take it when you do better.
Speaker 1: Some people like it when when they're doing better and
Speaker 1: you the underdog. Some people just don't like to see
Speaker 1: you up. Even that's that's a sad person right there,
Speaker 1: and it's really nothing you can do for them. But
Speaker 1: if that's her objective is to keep you under her,
Speaker 1: the best thing you could do is just keep winning.
Speaker 1: I don't know how to repair that. I don't know
Speaker 1: how you go to your sister, your relative and say, look,
Speaker 1: I don't want to compete with you, but we're doing
Speaker 1: okay now. It's really I don't really see how what
Speaker 1: it is, what y'all think, because I don't really know.
Speaker 1: I don't want it. I mean, like I said, she
Speaker 1: can try that because she is family, but I don't
Speaker 1: think it's gonna do any good. The sisters probably just
Speaker 1: gonna stay where she is because she It gave her
Speaker 1: something to be able to provide for the family and
Speaker 1: be the one that everybody came to. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Everyone She provided for her her family, for
Speaker 1: her parents and everything. So she she liked that position
Speaker 1: and that feeling. And now that's well, what I sin
Speaker 1: started to do is go get some new friends. God,
Speaker 1: you you can find you. Listen to me, you can
Speaker 1: find somebody got more than you. Trust me. You can
Speaker 1: stay out there, you can. Let me tell you something.
Speaker 1: Don't go out here trying to get into competition who
Speaker 1: got the most, because you're gonna be in the world
Speaker 1: and trouble out here in this world right here, man,
Speaker 1: because I don't think where you go somebody can show
Speaker 1: you something. But do you know, man, I saw a
Speaker 1: meeting where a group of people was laughing at Jeff
Speaker 1: Bezo's money, laughing I'll live and he's supposed to be
Speaker 1: the richest man in the world. Right he's not. But
Speaker 1: that's I've been. I've been in me where they was
Speaker 1: laughing at I saw it. But everybody can be great.
Speaker 1: There's room for everybody to be great. What's the competition about?
Speaker 1: Live your life? Not in this family but there are
Speaker 1: some people who make their greatness based on the lease
Speaker 1: of other people, if that makes sense. Some people make
Speaker 1: their greatness based on the group they end and if
Speaker 1: they're doing better than everybody in their group, then that's
Speaker 1: their greatness. Yeah, and that's a sad way to live.
Speaker 1: And that's the truly sad way to Yeah, that's not
Speaker 1: cool at all. That's sad. That's sad. Man. When you're
Speaker 1: making your greatness beyond the backs of others who have less,
Speaker 1: that ain't nothing, right, then that's like being the richest
Speaker 1: richest person in the projects. And ain't we all steal
Speaker 1: in the projects? Don't? All? Right? What you're doing the
Speaker 1: rise or help get them home. It's such a great
Speaker 1: feeling when you can pay someone back who's helped you.
Speaker 1: I mean, come on anyway, all right? Uh? You can
Speaker 1: leave your comments on Today's Letter on Instagram and c
Speaker 1: fr VFM, and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand.
Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is Junior and Sports Talk. Right
Speaker 1: after this you're listening to show it is time now
Speaker 1: for a sports talk with Junior. What you got Junior?
Speaker 1: Thank you, Shirley. But first let me just go throw
Speaker 1: this out here. Uncle April Foods Comedy Jam, Dallas, Texas.
Speaker 1: I'm coming April first. Get your tickets. We're gonna be
Speaker 1: at the Texas Trust Theater. Get the tickets. Bruce Bruce,
Speaker 1: Bill Bellamy, Earthquake, myself, Sean tay Ways, and Ryan Davis.
Speaker 1: We all gonna be the April first, Texas Trust Theater man.
Speaker 1: All right, listen people. Tom Brady says that the family
Speaker 1: will be a part of his decision if he's gonna
Speaker 1: play next season. Y'all see Tom Brady coming back next season? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Things.
Speaker 1: He said you want to play till he's forty five
Speaker 1: years old, but it's forty three right now, so I
Speaker 1: see him coming back next year. Also, Aaron Rodgers doesn't
Speaker 1: want to stay in Green Bay if they start a rebuild,
Speaker 1: and I would like to just say on behalf of
Speaker 1: the Houston Texas. Aaron Rodgers, we would love to have
Speaker 1: you come play for us. I think that we got
Speaker 1: a lot of things to offer that they don't have
Speaker 1: in Green Bay. First thing, we got this warm weather.
Speaker 1: We got that we on Christmas. We ain't seventified the Greens.
Speaker 1: You can come play. You ain't gonna worry about all
Speaker 1: that snow, no mode, that's out. We got a lot
Speaker 1: of barbecue, Blenny barbecue. Yeah, you love barbecue. You just
Speaker 1: try this out. Okay. Now, you know you're from California
Speaker 1: and you like water, Well, we got Gallas. Okay, we
Speaker 1: got Gallas. Yeah. Well, you know the water ain't blue,
Speaker 1: but it's it's blue out. It's gonna you're gonna see
Speaker 1: some fish not in there. They're gonna be walking the
Speaker 1: boardwalk too. They don't swim. You're gonna see some of that.
Speaker 1: Don't worry about it. But it's just water. Also, we
Speaker 1: have a galleria that we think you might like. We
Speaker 1: got a huge galleria. It's got every snow and we
Speaker 1: got a no Boo too, So you know you got
Speaker 1: great restaurants. We got a minestroke. Everything that you like,
Speaker 1: we got it for you. Man. We got a rodeo.
Speaker 1: You ain't gonna believe, I swear it you. We got
Speaker 1: thirty days of nothing but a straight rodeo. You're gonna
Speaker 1: love it down here, Aaron, if you just take the
Speaker 1: time to sit around everything but good as football team
Speaker 1: for him me ging talking, I know he just didn't
Speaker 1: put us down talking already. No, he ain't come into Cleveland.
Speaker 1: You already know, because we ain't number Green Bay without
Speaker 1: the Winds. Also, man, they got this big argument going on, man,
Speaker 1: because of the Bills and the Chiefs game. Do you
Speaker 1: think they should change the old time rules again? See
Speaker 1: the rules is the rules? If you don't. Yeah, they
Speaker 1: think everybody should get opportunity to touch the ball, but
Speaker 1: if you score a touchdown is over. Now. They want
Speaker 1: each team to get the ball and then see what
Speaker 1: the score is. I just prefer to keep it like
Speaker 1: it is, because you can't keep changing. It's all on
Speaker 1: the coin toss, is what I'm saying. Get the talks,
Speaker 1: get the ball. Yeah, you gotta get the ball. Score
Speaker 1: the ball score. That's it. Thank you? Well, come on, Eric,
Speaker 1: all right, we rebuild them too though. Coming up, we'll
Speaker 1: talk about an Australian white who has no problem separating
Speaker 1: business and pleasure. Right after this you're listening show, a
Speaker 1: former escort with two vaginas you heard me, two J's
Speaker 1: claims that her rare abnormality allowed her Yeah do you
Speaker 1: need me to read that again? She has two okay,
Speaker 1: and she claims that this has allowed her to separate
Speaker 1: her sex work from her personal married life. All right,
Speaker 1: she's an Australian female. She uses an alias to protect
Speaker 1: her safety. She worked as an escort for eight years
Speaker 1: and claims having two was handy and helped her to
Speaker 1: separate her work relationships and her intimate relationship with her husband.
Speaker 1: She relied on the row write one for pleasure and
Speaker 1: reserved the Oh, she she relied on the right one
Speaker 1: for pleasure and reserved the left one for her husband only.
Speaker 1: So they're side by side, side by side. Okay, Oh,
Speaker 1: they side by side. Sucky. The husband didn't get the
Speaker 1: one that was for pleasure, so he just got probably
Speaker 1: got the ward honey. Is the price the same? But
Speaker 1: each album was different, so the one that was for
Speaker 1: pleasure was that was probably extra. The husband probably got
Speaker 1: to regularly. Yeah, he got the left one. The right
Speaker 1: one was for work. Yeah, it wasn't the same. I
Speaker 1: can assure you. The husband got the downgrade model fought
Speaker 1: Australia's don't you worry about it? Wow? Anyway, that's worth it.
Speaker 1: It's worth a trip though. Come on, now, this is
Speaker 1: what you didn't know That this condition affects one in
Speaker 1: three thousand women globally. M and from the outside everything
Speaker 1: looks normal. Oh wow, everything looks normal from the outside them.
Speaker 1: There's two of them, but there's still two one on
Speaker 1: the left and one on the right. Hot. Oh that's
Speaker 1: Jack Pott literally, Steve, I see your mind working over there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because I'm gonna one with everybody paying for myself. Do
Speaker 1: you want the right one? Yeah, we're gonna be in
Speaker 1: here arguing. Yeah, But I mean you would think, why
Speaker 1: would why would she she got? What's the argument with you? Okay,
Speaker 1: go ahead, I know you have something on your mind.
Speaker 1: Your wife has two private parts, and she's a prostitute,
Speaker 1: and she uses one for her work and one for
Speaker 1: her hub farmer, you're not my wife. You're not my wife. No,
Speaker 1: that that left one ain't your wife? That right one?
Speaker 1: In I'm so confused. I don't know the right one
Speaker 1: is for work, the left one is for her husband. Okay,
Speaker 1: then my wife, see right there? S wife prostitute? Them two?
Speaker 1: Ain't how that's in the same sense. So you have
Speaker 1: a problem with her profession, not the fact that she
Speaker 1: has two. You just have a problem with what she
Speaker 1: does for a living. I like the fact she got too.
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie to you, right, Steve, That's what
Speaker 1: I ask I mean, I don't. That's the fact that
Speaker 1: you got too that. That's a whole nother concept we
Speaker 1: had to work with that. I'm exhausted, but you're exhausted,
Speaker 1: you're thinking about it. I don't know what the hell
Speaker 1: I'm belna do with two of these. I'm exhausted, But
Speaker 1: you're not selling the other one to some other people? No,
Speaker 1: what you mean the same thing you do with one again?
Speaker 1: That so my friend she not happy? She jealous? Was
Speaker 1: I don't know if I could say this? Probably not No,
Speaker 1: probably that, man, I don't know what if I give
Speaker 1: it careful, careful. This has something to do with what
Speaker 1: Steve pregnancy. Come on, Steve, come if I'm able to
Speaker 1: do both? Wow, Now I just had to ask. But
Speaker 1: it's not the same, y'all. Y'all still need a level
Speaker 1: of what his ig No, never that one. She wanted
Speaker 1: to bring awareness to this condition. That's why she went public.
Speaker 1: All right, We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning
Speaker 1: Show coming up at twenty minutes after right after this
Speaker 1: You're listening Morning show. Rolling Stone has released its list
Speaker 1: of the twenty five most Fashionable musicians, and the focus
Speaker 1: is on artists who are both conceptually cool and culturally important. Um.
Speaker 1: The list was filled with black excellence, UM courtesy of
Speaker 1: you guys. Take a guess and who you think would
Speaker 1: be on the list. I'll give you a hint. Rihanna
Speaker 1: was on there, Beyonce, of course, Beyonce, Nicki Minaje, or
Speaker 1: Cardi B. Dress is good. Cardi B's on there. Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: it's John Legend on there. No he's not. Well, are
Speaker 1: you talking about just females? No, no, it's not just
Speaker 1: females here. They'll probably put Kanye on there. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: definitely Kanye. The way Kanye dressed, well, I'm just saying
Speaker 1: I knew he was gonna be I'm not wearing boots.
Speaker 1: I'm not give me looking at my face mask with
Speaker 1: just the eyes. I have a hard enough time with this.
Speaker 1: M R. Yeah, all right. Lizzo is on the list,
Speaker 1: Little nas X is on the list, Asap Rockies on
Speaker 1: the list, Solange is on the list, and Tyler the Creator.
Speaker 1: Those are just to name a few. But you guys
Speaker 1: gotten a few of the people that definitely are on
Speaker 1: that list. Yeah, Asap Rocky and uh and Rihanna, Rihanna. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's that's a nice hour fashionable couple right there. All right,
Speaker 1: we'll have more of a Steve Harvey Morning Show coming
Speaker 1: up at thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll play
Speaker 1: around of would you rather right after this? You're listening
Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show all right time? Now, guys,
Speaker 1: we're a round of would you rather? Would you rather
Speaker 1: mow your own lawn for one year? Or would you
Speaker 1: rather live huh b okay? Or would you rather live
Speaker 1: in a four hundred square foot house for thirty days?
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna do. I'm but you're talking about mowing
Speaker 1: for a year? Thold, No year, your own lawne though,
Speaker 1: I take that thirty day. Yeah, I take the house.
Speaker 1: You're gonna have a lot of uh bruises on your
Speaker 1: head because you're gonna bump everything. You're gonna bump your hen,
Speaker 1: you'll need You're gonna be messed up. Thirty you're talking
Speaker 1: about Steve right yeah, time he turned around. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: have trouble using the bathroom that close to the kitchen.
Speaker 1: That's gonna be my problem. You're gonna have problem getting
Speaker 1: in and out of it. Yeah, I'm gonna have to
Speaker 1: burn the bed sheet while I'm using the bathroom, so
Speaker 1: we not had this over here by the kitchen, because
Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, I'm gonna have to start
Speaker 1: a fire every time I go to the bathroom in
Speaker 1: that little tiny house. We got to get some sit
Speaker 1: in here something. I guess all right, Moving on, Tommy,
Speaker 1: since you brought it up. Would you rather be five
Speaker 1: five and a billionaire b or six four and just
Speaker 1: earn you know, five figures annually? I'm gonna go I
Speaker 1: take that five five because the five figures or six figures?
Speaker 1: Five figures? He said, billion Oh you're talking about the
Speaker 1: other guy. Yeah, would you rather be five five in
Speaker 1: a billionaire? Would you rather be six four and earn
Speaker 1: five figures annually? No, I'm gonna go with five five.
Speaker 1: When I stand on my wallet, I'm pile it in
Speaker 1: the Yeah, I'm trying to do. How about six figures
Speaker 1: that I'm still go I'm still going to that five five.
Speaker 1: I ain't got a problem with this five five. I
Speaker 1: got no problem with it. Not them shouldn't. Yeah, what
Speaker 1: sh it is? What it is? You know, there'll be
Speaker 1: a denier to deal with it. For me personally, I
Speaker 1: have a problem with it. I'm gonna be six smoke
Speaker 1: giving them six figures and let me try to flip it.
Speaker 1: I'm notaire. I'm not gonna trying to explain myself to everybody.
Speaker 1: Have me? Why you just got attitude? What you looking at? All? Right?
Speaker 1: Here's one here, y'all keep staying at me. Fault. Come on?
Speaker 1: Would you rather have a six pack and really nice arm?
Speaker 1: Or would you rather have nice teeth and a great
Speaker 1: personality and really nice arms? Really nice arms? Or nice
Speaker 1: teeth and a great personality. That seemed like to be
Speaker 1: a hard one. So we'll save it for later, coming
Speaker 1: up at forty nine minutes after the hour closing remarks,
Speaker 1: and we'll get back to this would you rather question?
Speaker 1: Right after this? You're listening Steve Show, all right, right
Speaker 1: before we get to the closing remark, Steve, we have
Speaker 1: to finish our what you'd rather question? I asked you, guys,
Speaker 1: would you rather have a six pack and really nice arms?
Speaker 1: Or would you rather have nice teeth and a great personality?
Speaker 1: I gotta have them teeth, a six pack and really
Speaker 1: nice arms or a six pack, step nice six pack,
Speaker 1: nice and nice arms, buff guns? Yeah, or nice teeth
Speaker 1: and just a wonderful personality and a wonderful person Yeah,
Speaker 1: give me them nice teeth and wonderful personality. Yeah okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: because we've been in the gym. We ain't got them
Speaker 1: as yet. We've been in the gym and an't got
Speaker 1: the man we've been making it with Addie, Ye been
Speaker 1: doing five. I've lived my whole life, actually, okay, you
Speaker 1: can so to myself having a pretty decent personality. Always
Speaker 1: been blessed with good ass teeth. So I really I'm
Speaker 1: going out six pack of nice arms or nice teeth
Speaker 1: and a good personality. Ain't gonna give me that. I
Speaker 1: might have to work on the personality part. But you
Speaker 1: know your grill is straight, little grill. Yeah. I've been
Speaker 1: gritting my whole career. Yeah, yeah, so I'll be all
Speaker 1: right with that. Yeah, people on the show, we really are.
Speaker 1: Then it's six times a year, Hey, I would ain't
Speaker 1: no way in the hell I go to dinners. No,
Speaker 1: six times a year. Even when you go for a cleaning,
Speaker 1: you have to have that gas. I'm telling you right now,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna go down here. No, damn, six times
Speaker 1: a year? What is he doing? I just went to No,
Speaker 1: I'm not doing you. Everybody should go I don't have
Speaker 1: them type of teeth. Don't trust me. I ain't never
Speaker 1: been six times a year to worked out fine for me.
Speaker 1: I'm sixty five years old. I finished star going down
Speaker 1: that six times a year, but not all that now
Speaker 1: I'm aloft, my damn if no it is, it's not okay? Sure,
Speaker 1: six times a year. And now if you want to go,
Speaker 1: that's fine. Go. I tell you this a couple of
Speaker 1: things I've been controversial about that. I've said, so, if
Speaker 1: you want to go to dinner six times a year,
Speaker 1: I think you should do that. I think that's best
Speaker 1: for gum and teeth. Health don't work for me, but
Speaker 1: that's fine for you. Also think you should get eight
Speaker 1: hours of sleep a night, if that's what you want
Speaker 1: to do, going to sleep yourself eight hours? You know,
Speaker 1: I was. I was listening to Jeff Bezos the other
Speaker 1: day talking about he requires hisself to get eight hours
Speaker 1: asleep because he has to make quality decisions, so he
Speaker 1: requires himself to get eight hours asleep. And I was
Speaker 1: just sitting there knowing him, just waiting on, and I
Speaker 1: kept saying to myself, you know, good in hair Well,
Speaker 1: you didn't get to be who you are sleeping eight hours.
Speaker 1: And I kept listening to him, and then he said, Now,
Speaker 1: when I was building my company, I was going only
Speaker 1: getting four to five hours to sleep, but I was
Speaker 1: building my company. Okay, see tell people the truth about it. Brother.
Speaker 1: So now, but I've decided that if you want to
Speaker 1: get eight hours sleep, gonna get yourself eight. Matter of fact,
Speaker 1: they man, do dude, do me faith, do ten? Hold on,
Speaker 1: hold on, Listen to me. I don't even sound mad.
Speaker 1: If you want to get yourself ten, get yourself do ten.
Speaker 1: Get you plea a sleep sleep, sleep, sleep, sleep, Wake up, y'all,
Speaker 1: wake up, go back to sleep ys get all you want.
Speaker 1: Don't don't worry about me. Take back what I said. No,
Speaker 1: I'm just saying it's not a tirade. It makes perfect
Speaker 1: sense because what I've learned is no matter what you
Speaker 1: say to people, somebody gonna agree with you, and somebody
Speaker 1: gonna disagree. And for those that choose to disagree, man,
Speaker 1: knock yourself out because you the best thing Dion saying
Speaker 1: has taught me. Man, it took me a long time
Speaker 1: to learn this. People. You have to stop throwing life
Speaker 1: rafts to people swimming away from the boat. You can't
Speaker 1: save a person that don't want to be saved. You
Speaker 1: you can't. You can't. You can't make a person get
Speaker 1: rescued that that think they're fine. And that's that's one
Speaker 1: of the hardest lessons I've had to learn. But I
Speaker 1: finally got it. Though. Now I really appreciate that message
Speaker 1: from Prime, but I got that loud and clear. So
Speaker 1: I've decided. Man, everything I've ever said in terms of
Speaker 1: the motivational space that people have disagreed with, you are
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Speaker 1: said she couldn't see she didn't actually see the cat,
Speaker 1: and you said, you're blaming the cat because the cat
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