Speaker 1: Y'all know what time of y'all don't know. Y'all back
Speaker 1: a suit on, looking back to back down, giving them
Speaker 1: like American buck things. And it's not doing me true
Speaker 1: good At Steve har listening to move together for Steve. Please, Bobby,
Speaker 1: I don't join by joining me. You gotta use turning.
Speaker 1: You gotta turn to turn them out. Turn't got to
Speaker 1: turn them out. Then turn the water the water. Come
Speaker 1: come on your fabdad, Uh huh, I sure will. Good
Speaker 1: morning everybody. Y'are listening to the voice. Come on dig
Speaker 1: me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: here's what I want to share with you. Stop complaining.
Speaker 1: So I had to let you see how I let
Speaker 1: that one sit for a second. Stop complaining. Do you
Speaker 1: realize without us even thinking about it, oftentimes we just
Speaker 1: complain about stuff and it comes up in such subtle forms. Man,
Speaker 1: I don't know why they're still letting that lady work there. Man,
Speaker 1: If they don't fire this woman, man, I don't know
Speaker 1: what I'm gonna do. She driving me crazy. She always
Speaker 1: got something to say. I bet to day though, the
Speaker 1: way I'm feeling right now, I bet she'd been not
Speaker 1: saying nothing to me today. M yeah, yeah, because day
Speaker 1: it today it. I'm sick of her running her mouth.
Speaker 1: Last time she says something to me, I should have
Speaker 1: said something to it. You know what I'm saying. I'm
Speaker 1: just giving you a small example of how it starts
Speaker 1: to snowball once you start to complain. It's it just
Speaker 1: carries over into so many things. Man, Stop complaining about
Speaker 1: your car, Stop complaining about your bus pass, Stop complaining
Speaker 1: about your kids. Can't seem to get it together, Stop
Speaker 1: complaining about your man, can't seem to get it together.
Speaker 1: Stop complaining. Stop Have you noticed? I'm just asking, have
Speaker 1: you noticed that in all of your complaining, it has
Speaker 1: provided not one solution. The reason I'm telling you to
Speaker 1: stop complaining because God is able. Because God is capable.
Speaker 1: He is capable and able of fixing anything, capable and
Speaker 1: able of curing anything, capable and able of allowing you
Speaker 1: to get too adjusting to things, and capable and able
Speaker 1: to strengthen you to get through and change anything. But
Speaker 1: the key here is God is capable, and God is able.
Speaker 1: A lot of times I find myself complaining because I
Speaker 1: have not used my greatest asset. And that's my relationship
Speaker 1: with God. You all have one. Now. You may not
Speaker 1: have nurtured it, but you have one because God created
Speaker 1: you as you as his child. He's available to you now.
Speaker 1: The fact that you ain't went to him. Okay, once again,
Speaker 1: who fathers that? Stop complaining until you strengthen your relationship
Speaker 1: with God and formulate this relationship. You don't have enough weapons.
Speaker 1: You ain't got a big enough shield to fight this
Speaker 1: thing called life. It just keeps coming. Man, And unless
Speaker 1: you develop a relationship with God, you need a partner
Speaker 1: in all of this. Maybe you got another route you're
Speaker 1: gonna take. But every successful person I know personally has
Speaker 1: a relationship with God. I have some really really some
Speaker 1: people that's kind of up there in the success term
Speaker 1: in terms of business and money and statue. I'm just
Speaker 1: talking about that portion of success. And then I have
Speaker 1: a lot of people who are very successful in their
Speaker 1: spiritual life, who have become great men of God and
Speaker 1: women of God. But look at all of them, and
Speaker 1: all of them have substantial amounts of you know, possessions
Speaker 1: and things like that. Also, most successful people I know
Speaker 1: have that even if you saw them never with a
Speaker 1: big lot of house and a lot of money or
Speaker 1: stuff like that. They had so much respect, so much love,
Speaker 1: so much power was given them from people that their
Speaker 1: life was rich in that area, you know, like a
Speaker 1: man Nu the king or something like that, or Gandhi
Speaker 1: or somebody who lived their life in service or their
Speaker 1: Mandela who came out and just man, people put stuff
Speaker 1: at their feet because of their service. So all successful
Speaker 1: people I know have that, Every last one of these
Speaker 1: people that I know, they have relationship with God. They
Speaker 1: used the tool that was available to them to give
Speaker 1: them the strength, the bullets, the arrows, the slings, the
Speaker 1: shield to fight this thing called life and have the
Speaker 1: most valuable partner right there by their side. They heavily
Speaker 1: father God because he will help you get through this
Speaker 1: thing called life. Man, stop complaining all the time. It's
Speaker 1: not fixing anything. Why don't you do yourself a favor
Speaker 1: and strengthen your relationship with God? Man? Why can I
Speaker 1: never get over? Well you have not because you ask not. Man,
Speaker 1: how come I always got problems? Well, you keep trying
Speaker 1: to solve them yourself and taking them to your friends.
Speaker 1: You keep trying to do them with your own thought process.
Speaker 1: Who are you? I keep telling you, man, You're going
Speaker 1: through stuff you ain't got no business going through. And
Speaker 1: if it's you going through something over and over and
Speaker 1: over and over and the same problem keep coming back
Speaker 1: to bite you again, all that's saying is you still
Speaker 1: ain't strengthen your relationship with God. It's your relationship. He's
Speaker 1: not gonna make you have one with him. He is
Speaker 1: a perfect gentleman. He only comes into your life when
Speaker 1: you invite him in. But for those who do invite him, men,
Speaker 1: they have a distinct advantage on their road to success,
Speaker 1: a distinct advantage. You can do it without him. Trust me,
Speaker 1: you can. How far you get. I can't promise you nothing,
Speaker 1: how well you handle it when you arrived there, I
Speaker 1: can't promise you nothing. How long you're gonna stay there,
Speaker 1: I can't promise you nothing. How difficult it's going to
Speaker 1: be without him, I can't give you that. It's going
Speaker 1: to be far more difficult. But you can. Something can happen,
Speaker 1: and you know, receive a measure of success, and you think,
Speaker 1: is you this move you made, And you can describe
Speaker 1: it as I got lucky. I happened to be in
Speaker 1: the right place at the right time. I got lucky.
Speaker 1: Lucky is usually how other people describe other people's success poor.
Speaker 1: He was lucky. He was right there. Well, let me
Speaker 1: tell you what luck is. Luck is when hard work
Speaker 1: bumps up into opportunity. If you've been working hard as something,
Speaker 1: an opportunity presents itself that comes a match. That's not luck.
Speaker 1: But now, if you haven't done that on a repetitive
Speaker 1: enough basis, that opportunity could present itself one time. You
Speaker 1: got to reconnect. Stop complaining, man, come on, listen to me.
Speaker 1: Stop complaining. It hasn't fixed a single thing in your life.
Speaker 1: And if you're a chronic complainer, it's because you really
Speaker 1: really have not fixed your relationship with God. He's smooth
Speaker 1: it out for you. That I can tell you for
Speaker 1: a fact. I know that for a fact he smooved
Speaker 1: mine out. All right, let's go. You're listening, ladies and gentlemen, man,
Speaker 1: I have it. You know what I'm looking for? Your attention.
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey morning showing full effect. Good morning, Shirley, Good morning,
Speaker 1: Steve Carlin for real, Hello, dollings that damn junior, my
Speaker 1: mentor uncle, Steve Man, nephew, Tommy filthy rich uncle, what
Speaker 1: it dude with it? Damn here man doing real, well
Speaker 1: blessed and highly favored. I'm I'm gonna just saying that, Steve,
Speaker 1: because people are thinking that you're just like right now,
Speaker 1: you're waking up in the hallway with a bottle. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I wish they tuned into the radio show.
Speaker 1: I know, you know, Oh, I wish they come to
Speaker 1: family feud. Yeah you know, I mean they thank you
Speaker 1: and the dog just flicking the light on it all. No, no, see,
Speaker 1: listen to me, and I'd like to say this a
Speaker 1: few times a day. Listen to me. God is working
Speaker 1: on my behalf. This is something that I'm prepared for.
Speaker 1: God never put you in a situation without preparing you
Speaker 1: for it. See, this is new news to everybody else.
Speaker 1: I've known this for eight months. I'm prepared, and I'm
Speaker 1: actually in a great place. You know. The news that
Speaker 1: his talk show counseled that they got Melissa Cartney to
Speaker 1: do little big shots. I don't, I don't well whoever
Speaker 1: that is. I mean, I'm cool, you know, first of all,
Speaker 1: let's just let's just everybody calmed down. Steve Harvey in
Speaker 1: great shape. Man, I'm I'm positioned right what God wants
Speaker 1: me to be. Well, I am also the owner of
Speaker 1: Little Big Shots, and I'm also the executive producer of
Speaker 1: A Little Big Shot. You I'm not holding your face.
Speaker 1: I'm not hosting it, but I'm the owner and I'm
Speaker 1: the EP of the show. You can't take that, okay,
Speaker 1: So you know you're you have you know you have to.
Speaker 1: I'm just not hosting it anymore. Well, Steve, that's all
Speaker 1: you know. It's okay, But Steve, you have to understand that.
Speaker 1: And we tell you this a lot that they may
Speaker 1: not come directly at you. You may see it on
Speaker 1: social media or something, but people actually text us, they
Speaker 1: actually call it, They actually stop us on the street
Speaker 1: okay and ask us about you and what is going on.
Speaker 1: So I want them to hear it from your mouth
Speaker 1: because it's almost like they don't believe us when he's fine,
Speaker 1: It's all good, don't We could say it several times
Speaker 1: today and spread the good news. The good news is
Speaker 1: God got me right here, right where he want me.
Speaker 1: And I want everybody to know this. I saw this
Speaker 1: coming eight months ago. God saw it coming years ago.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah yeah, and he prepared his boy for
Speaker 1: this day. I knew all this was coming, So all
Speaker 1: this new news that people is now circulating. Some people
Speaker 1: celebrating it, some people want to have something to say.
Speaker 1: I'm okay with you either way you want to handle it,
Speaker 1: but just know this, I'm in better shape today than
Speaker 1: I was a year ago. I've been in my talk
Speaker 1: show seven years. We know. I've told him all this. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're talking here. Bottom line, you're fine and coming up
Speaker 1: at thirty two after the hour you want to you
Speaker 1: want to finish talking about this, or you're you're ready
Speaker 1: to move on, Steve, we do whatever y'all want to do. Y'all,
Speaker 1: y'all got some questions from me, I do questions. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: let's talk about old school relationship advice that needs to
Speaker 1: be revised. Yeah, uh huh, okay, all right, we'll do that.
Speaker 1: Uh right after this at thirty two after the hour
Speaker 1: you're listening to show. Old school relationship advice means well
Speaker 1: most of the time, but some of it is out
Speaker 1: of touch and should become a thing of the past.
Speaker 1: Some of these rules or tips need to be redefined
Speaker 1: and clarified for the time we live in now. This
Speaker 1: is according to psychologist doctor Joshua Clapale. For example, clap
Speaker 1: Clapal For example, Steve the old cliche and this is biblical,
Speaker 1: don't go to bed angry. Doctor clap Howe says, we've
Speaker 1: heard this classic, but it's unrealistic, and sometimes going to
Speaker 1: bed mad and sleeping on it is better. What do
Speaker 1: you say, Well, I don't know what were you with that.
Speaker 1: I wish we could go to bed and not be mad.
Speaker 1: I really do, right, I don't. Nobody won't go to
Speaker 1: bed mad. You know you got to sleep back to
Speaker 1: each other. Somebody roll over and touch you. You jumping?
Speaker 1: You don't damn foot off. Nobody wants that. I think
Speaker 1: it's better to do that. Now is it realistic to
Speaker 1: expect not to ever go to bed? Man? Now, don't
Speaker 1: think it is. That's what he's saying. But that show
Speaker 1: included to go to bed man. We're gonna be up
Speaker 1: or you wake up mad. Let me tell you something
Speaker 1: that you know. I hate that if you let a
Speaker 1: woman go to bed man she wake up, she gonna
Speaker 1: be just as mad or mad because she'd have thought
Speaker 1: about some most stuff. Yeah, now duds wake up and go, hey, baby,
Speaker 1: how you doing? How the hell you think? How was
Speaker 1: our last night? When you shut your eyes? Exactly? Yeah?
Speaker 1: So no, I think he's wrong about that. It's not healthy,
Speaker 1: all right, Doctor clip House says, you can change them.
Speaker 1: He says it's a romantic idea, the old cliche, you
Speaker 1: can change them. But he points out, it's not your
Speaker 1: responsibility to change anyone, right. I agree with him. It's
Speaker 1: not your job to change anyone, nor don't you nor
Speaker 1: do you have the ability? Right, that's something that women have.
Speaker 1: I mean, we may as well admit that we're always
Speaker 1: trying to change. And I think it's the nurturer in us.
Speaker 1: We always Yeah, we all change him. Yeah, I change.
Speaker 1: I know he's like that right now. But once he
Speaker 1: gave me six months, yeah, yeah, let me work on. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I got this. You're gonna have to work at every
Speaker 1: day though, work every day. I changed to do it
Speaker 1: every day. Yeah. But by women are all right, here's
Speaker 1: another one. Some people never change. That's the cliche, the
Speaker 1: old school cliche. Doctor cliff House says, on the flip side,
Speaker 1: the suggestion that someone is incapable of changing is wrong,
Speaker 1: and it ignores the fact that we all have control
Speaker 1: over our choices. So I absolutely agree with that. That's
Speaker 1: one He's only said one thing I didn't agree with.
Speaker 1: And that was the first one. Yeah, I agree with that.
Speaker 1: You don't go to behead will change. Yeah, people change, man,
Speaker 1: all right all the time. Here's another one. Old school
Speaker 1: love will keep you together. Love keep you together. He says.
Speaker 1: This works in an old romantic movie, but in real
Speaker 1: life it takes a lot more than love to make
Speaker 1: it work. Whoa, what love got to do? Yeah, got
Speaker 1: to do with it? What love but a second handed move?
Speaker 1: We try to take it up, gotta do it. Ain't
Speaker 1: got nothing to do with it, man. Yeah, you gotta
Speaker 1: honor that commitment. You got to compromise love, understanding, take
Speaker 1: the blame, not be right all the time? Why, yeah,
Speaker 1: on it. It never worked for me never. All right,
Speaker 1: here's Julie. No, it's that love thing. I told her
Speaker 1: I love her. But my replacement was at the dome
Speaker 1: when your I'm just like, who is this Chris Week
Speaker 1: going to dinner? You ain't I love you? Though? To
Speaker 1: the left to the left through Yeah, it's almost like
Speaker 1: what you've grown up now you're for now? Yeah, you're
Speaker 1: good now? Yeah that was back. Yeah, we've all been
Speaker 1: through some things. Yea. Tho it up to the game, Yes,
Speaker 1: all right, Old school love will keep I mean, know
Speaker 1: your role in the relationship. That's old school. Doctor clapp
Speaker 1: Howe says, forget this old gender stereotype and remember there's
Speaker 1: not a required way for you to act. Your role
Speaker 1: in a relationship shouldn't always be the same. It's constantly shifting.
Speaker 1: I missed it. No, your role in the relationship. That's
Speaker 1: old school thinking. Okay, Doctor clip Howe says, forget this
Speaker 1: old gender stereotype and remember there is not a required
Speaker 1: way for you to act. That's new schooling. He says,
Speaker 1: your role in a relationship isn't going to be the
Speaker 1: same all the time. It's constantly changing. And that's a
Speaker 1: good thing, that's what he's saying. He says, it'll shift organically, Yeah,
Speaker 1: and that's a good thing. You think your role should
Speaker 1: stay the same in a relationship, Well, I mean I
Speaker 1: think I think your roles have to be defined so
Speaker 1: that everybody has an understanding of positioning. And then I
Speaker 1: think there has to be some type of all give
Speaker 1: and take or sometimes the other person can do that.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying like roles like you do all the cleaning.
Speaker 1: I I'm not talking about that. Yeah, but if you're
Speaker 1: good with money, yeah, do that anything. Yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: you know that. And if you either side, if you
Speaker 1: role playing, then your roles changed. Like you know, I
Speaker 1: might be bad man one night, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: but then next night I might be in credible hook.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Your roles you change organically, right, nephew,
Speaker 1: Organic organically and realistically you're neither one. All right, here's
Speaker 1: old school. You should stay with them for better or
Speaker 1: for worse, he says. He says. We all want to
Speaker 1: think our partner will stick around no matter what. But
Speaker 1: if a relationship is unhealthy, you don't. You don't need
Speaker 1: to stick it out. Os get out, all right, we
Speaker 1: do have to get out. Coming up next, nephew, Tommy
Speaker 1: is gonna run that prank back right after this. You're
Speaker 1: listening to show coming up at the top of the
Speaker 1: hour and Entertainment news, over one million people watched Beyonce's
Speaker 1: Netflix premier and Little Na's Ex Loves Kevin Kanye's daughter
Speaker 1: Northwest Old Town Road video. I loved it too, But
Speaker 1: right now the nephew is in the building to run
Speaker 1: that prank. That what you got new problems at the valet,
Speaker 1: That's what we have chirltte. We have problems at a valet.
Speaker 1: Let's run that if you would thank you. Hello, Hey,
Speaker 1: I'm going Hey Tommy, how's it going? Hey? Man, what's
Speaker 1: going on? You're doing all right? I'm doing good, doing good?
Speaker 1: What's up? Hey? Listen? I need you to do something
Speaker 1: for me. But you need your your your cartels us.
Speaker 1: No no no, no, no no no no not because we listen.
Speaker 1: If I got someone want you to do for me,
Speaker 1: I'm doing a plank phone call, and I want you
Speaker 1: to call this guy and tell him you're the valet downstairs,
Speaker 1: ask him for his ticket number and tell him, hey,
Speaker 1: we got a little bit of an issue. But my
Speaker 1: my manager's gonna call you back. Uh. Are you sure
Speaker 1: you want me to do it? You're the ballet guy,
Speaker 1: that's all you gotta do? S right? What is the
Speaker 1: Mexican guy? Gotta be a de valet guy and you
Speaker 1: get to be the manager? What's up with that? I'm
Speaker 1: putting click over Nick the car. All I want you
Speaker 1: to do is telling you new ballet guy? Will you
Speaker 1: do that for me? All right? Man? I got you?
Speaker 1: All right? All right? All right? Hang on, hang on hello? Hello?
Speaker 1: Is this mister Franklin? Yes, can I ask us calling?
Speaker 1: Oh yes, UM, I'm I'm Orlando with Ballet. Did you
Speaker 1: part Collectis with us about thirty minutes ago? Yeah? I did.
Speaker 1: What's what's going on? What's this about? I'm just gonna
Speaker 1: need your ticket number real quick. There's a small issue.
Speaker 1: And UM, once you get the ticket number, I could
Speaker 1: have my manager just call you back five three four six.
Speaker 1: But why do you Why do you need my ticket number?
Speaker 1: Is there something wrong with my car? If something happened, Um,
Speaker 1: my manager will call you back and he'll give you
Speaker 1: all the details. Oh okay, so so something did happen
Speaker 1: to my car? Um? Once I give him my manager
Speaker 1: your ticket number, he'll call you back shortly and he'll
Speaker 1: tell you everything. Okay, Well, can you have him give
Speaker 1: me a call as soon as possible because I would
Speaker 1: like to know what happened to my car if something happened.
Speaker 1: This is I don't I don't really understand whats going
Speaker 1: on here. I'm sorry. I have to go, but you
Speaker 1: can't tell me anything else before you leave you. I mean,
Speaker 1: there's no details that you can give me about anything
Speaker 1: with my car. Like I said, my manager won't handle it.
Speaker 1: I have to get going. Perfect, Orlando, that's perfect, right,
Speaker 1: I got it from here. Bro. I appreciate. Let's call
Speaker 1: him back. Hello. Hello is this uh? Is this mister Franklin? Yeah?
Speaker 1: This is he can ask his calling. This is clough Man.
Speaker 1: I'm the manager here down at the valet. Oh great,
Speaker 1: thank you. I've been waiting to hear from you. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, thirty minutes ago you you pulled in with
Speaker 1: a they're telling me a silver light? Great lexus, Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's that's yeah, that's my car. What what's going on
Speaker 1: with my car here? Okay? And what's your number? Is
Speaker 1: it five? Three four six? Yeah? That's that's my number.
Speaker 1: I mean I already went through this with the other guy.
Speaker 1: Can you just tell me what the hell is going
Speaker 1: on with my car? Okay? Are you able to come
Speaker 1: downstairs right now? No? I can't. I valiate over there.
Speaker 1: I'm at a I'm at a lunch with a client
Speaker 1: somewhere else. I'm not there right now. Why do I
Speaker 1: need to come down right now? Just what is happening? Okay?
Speaker 1: So here's a deal, sir. We have a we have
Speaker 1: a one of the valet workers here has gotten mad
Speaker 1: and he left, he quit the job, and he's he's gone,
Speaker 1: he's left. The premise. The problem we're having right now
Speaker 1: is we don't see your car and you don't see
Speaker 1: what do you what? I'm sorry, what I'm okay, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: Oh wow, all right? So my car is gone? Car
Speaker 1: is gone? Is that what you're telling me right now?
Speaker 1: Somebody your company and took my car? Well, well, hey,
Speaker 1: we're looking on every flour and we're trying to figure
Speaker 1: out if it's got part somewhere else. But he's gone,
Speaker 1: and we're we're that's why we call to get your
Speaker 1: number on cards somewhere else. Man, What the do you mean?
Speaker 1: Do I have a car or not? That my card
Speaker 1: just stolen? How many fours do you have? How long
Speaker 1: to say I just bought that car that is a
Speaker 1: brand new car. And now it's just are you kidding me?
Speaker 1: Right now? Well? Hold on, hold on, I understand, I understand.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you something. Is there a way? Um?
Speaker 1: Is there a way? Maybe you can come by tomorrow
Speaker 1: and we can try to work come now and just
Speaker 1: see it. You know, No, there is no way I'm
Speaker 1: coming by tomorrow for a car that's listening today. First
Speaker 1: of all, we need to get the police involved. In this.
Speaker 1: I don't even know mister Frank. Right now, mister Frank,
Speaker 1: we don't want to get the police involved in this.
Speaker 1: We who is we? Because I damn sure I want
Speaker 1: to get the police involved. So who is it? I'm
Speaker 1: just saying, I'm listen. I don't want to lose my
Speaker 1: job because we lost the car. If you just give
Speaker 1: me some time to find in the car, That's all
Speaker 1: I want you to do, is give me some time.
Speaker 1: Let me go by this guy's house where he lives
Speaker 1: and see if the car is there. You should already
Speaker 1: be in a car driving YO. Ask to this man's
Speaker 1: house talking to me right now. Okay. The fact that
Speaker 1: you're not there, it's malpractice. I'm calling the police. I'm
Speaker 1: suing the building on it. I'm suing the manager, I'm
Speaker 1: suing THEO made the valet box. I'm sure everybody affiliated
Speaker 1: with YO. Mistess, you didn't seeing me right now? Okay,
Speaker 1: but it's a parking Why are you? Why are you?
Speaker 1: Why are you upset with me? I didn't do nothing.
Speaker 1: I didn't take the car. Okay? Why are you responsible
Speaker 1: for this park at BT? Are you a manager? What
Speaker 1: is your ocuproblem? Sir? Why are you going to manage
Speaker 1: I'm the manager here. An Orlando called you earlier, okay,
Speaker 1: and we're trying to find out where the car is.
Speaker 1: We all really feel like if you don't even want
Speaker 1: the police involved, man, you're not trying to fudge trying
Speaker 1: to come Yeah, right now, I'm mad at Orlando, I'm
Speaker 1: mad at you, I'm mad at your company. I'm at
Speaker 1: the man who put the damn assphalt down in the
Speaker 1: parking lot. I'm mad at everybody right now. Okay, Cliff, Okay, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: we came down. Okay, but let me ask you this here.
Speaker 1: Are you are you? Are you mad at um? Are
Speaker 1: you man at your wife? What? What is none of
Speaker 1: my wife? And White didn't steal my damn car Ain't
Speaker 1: your wife name Carrie? How the hell you know my
Speaker 1: wife's name? You know how I know your wife's name
Speaker 1: because your wife got me to call you. This is
Speaker 1: nephew tom Me from the Steve Harby More. Damn, Frankly,
Speaker 1: you just got packed. Maybe damn we're going to marriage conflict.
Speaker 1: This is y'all. You haven't shared the boy? She said,
Speaker 1: he just bought this car. He loves this car. I
Speaker 1: tried sitting in it when he ain't going nowhere. Wow,
Speaker 1: I can't believe. It's always it's always the closest people.
Speaker 1: It's always you don't tell you what I tell you?
Speaker 1: Who is not getting right in this car for a
Speaker 1: long time? You know? Hey, man, I mean is what
Speaker 1: is the baddest that I'm talking about? The baddest radio
Speaker 1: show in the land. It's the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Baby,
Speaker 1: you know, honestly, that's the way I can get on
Speaker 1: because Steve, when he rolling in them big cars and
Speaker 1: he's Valet, that might be the way of getting you.
Speaker 1: It's about telling me to get you again. Though, no
Speaker 1: you can give me with Valet. Sorry why I can't
Speaker 1: because I don't Valet. But where your car when you
Speaker 1: go to the front, right up front in the front, Yes, well,
Speaker 1: ain't that Valley. He has a driver, Tommy, you forget Yeah,
Speaker 1: the driver or the driver he doesn't worry himself with.
Speaker 1: He probably don't think about it. Get you through the drive,
Speaker 1: through the drive Cliff to Cliff, one of the best
Speaker 1: drivers ever. Yes, he member Tennessee here come to nephew.
Speaker 1: I would beat the Memorial weekend Friday, Saturday and Sunday
Speaker 1: to Friday to Saturday. Who Sunday at Chuckles Comedy Clubs.
Speaker 1: So tickets are on sale right now, Bob a Q
Speaker 1: and Nephew same weekend. Come on, come on, let's get it.
Speaker 1: When you was gonna get out of hand, all right?
Speaker 1: Listen coming up at the top of the hour, Entertainment
Speaker 1: News right after this, you're listening to Morning Show and
Speaker 1: Today's Entertainment News. Teaming with Beyonce was certainly a good
Speaker 1: deal for Netflix. According to Nielsen, one point one million
Speaker 1: US viewers tuned into last month's premiere of Homecoming, a
Speaker 1: film by Beyonce, with an average minute audience of eight
Speaker 1: hundred and twenty eight thousand viewers. Not surprisingly, yeah that's
Speaker 1: a lot. Not Surprisingly, the largest percentage of the concert
Speaker 1: film's audience were young, female and African American, with a
Speaker 1: premiere attracting a sixty three percent African American audience. Wow yeah,
Speaker 1: congratulations again. Yeah me too, I watched it was yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: no mistake about that, agroom. Beyonce is the premier. She
Speaker 1: is right now, the premier living performer, top top top YEP.
Speaker 1: She's tome yes Quinn Yeah, old school, Holly Wilson school.
Speaker 1: I like it yeah, wow, all right and um yeah
Speaker 1: and other entertainment news. Guys. Little nas X has yet
Speaker 1: to release a video for his hit Old Town Road,
Speaker 1: but someone else is taken care of that for him.
Speaker 1: Kim Kardashian shared a video of her daughter North dancing
Speaker 1: to the song, which was really cute, captioning it what
Speaker 1: we do on maternity leave. This is when Kim was
Speaker 1: waiting for her Sarah Gate to have the baby. She
Speaker 1: and North were making videos. It was directed and choreographed
Speaker 1: by North. Uh well, Little nas X loved it. He
Speaker 1: wrote no way, I love you guys for this, then
Speaker 1: reposting it with the caption It's North song now you guys.
Speaker 1: He let her have it. She did her thing on
Speaker 1: that video. I loved it. It's so cute. Did you
Speaker 1: see it, Steve? You gotta see it. She's acutest's acutest.
Speaker 1: Love the kid, Yeah, but I love Kim and Kanyetos.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah. What's not to love about him? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: all the kids love Old Town Road, loves her crew.
Speaker 1: So it's the number one song in the country, So
Speaker 1: go ahead, North, Yeah, who who is? Who is? Baby
Speaker 1: knows he's a young rapper and it's a country rap song.
Speaker 1: It's cyrus. Yeah, it's real, real cool. Yeah. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: real different and it's doing this thing so hippopped and
Speaker 1: teamed up with country. Yeah, cute song. Yeah it really is,
Speaker 1: really really is all right? Well, um, keep doing your
Speaker 1: thing North. I can't wait to see. She's so talented
Speaker 1: and active. She's just so free with you know everything.
Speaker 1: I love the way she dresses. Yeah, I love the
Speaker 1: way she dresses. I just what you're saying, Steve. That's
Speaker 1: money free and everything dressed. Yeah. They just let her
Speaker 1: be her authentically little creative yeah self, and I like that.
Speaker 1: I like kids when kids are allowed to express themselves
Speaker 1: like that. Now, poverty got restriction. Yeah, we couldn't do it.
Speaker 1: Sit down, you knock something over. Yeah you are not
Speaker 1: heard all of that. Yeah, don't ask them for nothing.
Speaker 1: That's where. That's where when my mom used to tell me,
Speaker 1: have a seat, get somewhere and sit down, little girl. Uh,
Speaker 1: everyone has seen you that. It came from that. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: because I used to do that, all of us attention always.
Speaker 1: But remember when they used to call you in the
Speaker 1: room to dance. There you go and do something the
Speaker 1: parties they would have Maybe I should have waited for
Speaker 1: the call and my mom too early. Yeah, my mom
Speaker 1: would have busted me out like that. All right, Steve,
Speaker 1: we gotta go headlines please, ladies and gentlemen, Miss Ann
Speaker 1: tripp Nah, thank you very much, and good morning everybody
Speaker 1: out there. This is an trip with the News in Washington.
Speaker 1: The Republican chairman of the Senate Judiciary Committee, Lindsay Graham,
Speaker 1: says he's going to introduce a bill aimed at slowing
Speaker 1: the migration of Central Americans being apprehended at the southern
Speaker 1: border now Santa Graham says the situation calls for a
Speaker 1: different approach and fast. No matter how high the wall
Speaker 1: will be built, no matter how many drones you have,
Speaker 1: no matter how many agents you put at the border,
Speaker 1: they'll keep coming because they want to get caught. So
Speaker 1: he says his measure would speed up the asylum process
Speaker 1: by sending unaccompanied minors back quicker, while forcing people to
Speaker 1: apply for asylum in their own countries and not in
Speaker 1: this one. Graham also says he's willing to work with
Speaker 1: the Democrats on the bill because, as he puts it,
Speaker 1: it's quote time to close the fawcet. President Trump, meanwhile,
Speaker 1: says he intends to announce his own immigration plan later today,
Speaker 1: and it's focused. They say, we'll be on reducing family
Speaker 1: based immigration in lieu of employment or skills based immigration.
Speaker 1: In laws came here just last year. Right abortion rights
Speaker 1: activists are promising to muster up a legal fight against
Speaker 1: the measures, sign into law late yesterday by Alabama's Republican
Speaker 1: the Governor k Ivy. It restricts all abortions whenever they occur.
Speaker 1: It mandates a ninety nine year life or life sentence
Speaker 1: in jail for any physician performing an abortion, and there
Speaker 1: are no exceptions for rape or incests. The Alabama abortion
Speaker 1: laws now the most restrictive anti abortion legislation in the
Speaker 1: country passed by any state, by the way, in the
Speaker 1: forty six years since the Supreme Court legalized the procedure
Speaker 1: at nationwide. Again, abortion rights activists say they're going to
Speaker 1: be mustering up a serious legal fight to get rid
Speaker 1: of this one Republican sentiment. Romney broke with the President
Speaker 1: and the rest of his party, even voting this week
Speaker 1: against the confirmation of a federal judge who once referred
Speaker 1: to President Obama as an Unamerican impostor. Romney was the
Speaker 1: only member of the GOP to break ranks by not
Speaker 1: voting to seat this guy, Michael trun Kale on the
Speaker 1: US District Court for the Eastern District of Texas. The
Speaker 1: Republican dominated Senate nevertheless approved Trunkale on a forty nine
Speaker 1: to forty six vote, making him the one hundred and
Speaker 1: thirteenth Trump nominated judge to win confirmation. One hundred and
Speaker 1: thirteenth in Texas, the Dallas Police Department raided the headquarters
Speaker 1: of the Catholic Diocese in two buildings yesterday, all in
Speaker 1: search of documents related to child sex abuse allegations, allegations
Speaker 1: made last August against the priest at Mundo Pereiras and others.
Speaker 1: Major Max Sharon of the Dallas PD says there's a
Speaker 1: warrant out for Father Pereiras. They are new allegations that
Speaker 1: became apparent to us that were made to us following
Speaker 1: the announcement of the charges against mister frets that they're
Speaker 1: looking for. And finally today is don't believe those rumors.
Speaker 1: Day arming every day. Back to the Steve Harby Morning Show.
Speaker 1: You're listening to show, all right, So it looks like
Speaker 1: Zion Williamson is New Orleans back owned um. The New
Speaker 1: Orleans Pelicans won the number one draft pick in the
Speaker 1: NBA lottery. Williamson is widely considered the top player available.
Speaker 1: The Memphis Grizzlies got the number two pick and the
Speaker 1: New York Knicks will pick third. The NBA draft takes
Speaker 1: place on June twentieth. Is that true, Junior? Absolutely true?
Speaker 1: And he will be the number one pick and you'll
Speaker 1: be watching your Absolutely. Does Anthony Davis gonna stay with
Speaker 1: New or They still want to leave? No matter what
Speaker 1: Anthony Davis want to leave. Still, where do you think
Speaker 1: Anthony Davis will go? And he's trying to get LA
Speaker 1: but he's not gonna get that. They're not gonna set him.
Speaker 1: Why they don't want to pay the question? I don't
Speaker 1: think they. I don't think they want to pay him.
Speaker 1: Who don't want to pay? Not with the Lakers. The
Speaker 1: Lakers don't want to pay. You gonna play Lebron and
Speaker 1: him max money? So you think they could trade Lebron
Speaker 1: to New Orleans? Could that be possible? Dog? The whole
Speaker 1: thing was they was trying to get Anthony Davis dead.
Speaker 1: They was gonna ship everybody out for Anthony Davis. That's
Speaker 1: messed the season. I'll talk about the free agent. I'll
Speaker 1: just talk about free agent. They're gonna be a peep
Speaker 1: him and Lebron, not Mac. This is deep, Like I
Speaker 1: really feel bad for Lebron because yeah, I do. I
Speaker 1: feel bad for Lebron because he's had such a stellar
Speaker 1: career and I don't want him to end it up
Speaker 1: on a mediocre team like they got out in LA
Speaker 1: right now, And I knew he shouldn't have went there.
Speaker 1: I was dead set against it. And then Magic then left.
Speaker 1: What you're the whole reason he came And right now
Speaker 1: it's just a mess out there, and I don't see
Speaker 1: him fixing it no time soon. They ain't got no
Speaker 1: draft pick, man, So you know, I feel bad for Lebron. Man,
Speaker 1: go ahead call him. This is Kyrie, Irvin's fault from
Speaker 1: the very beginning. Kyrie, Kyrie's only hope. What would be
Speaker 1: the greatest turnaround if he went out to La La
Speaker 1: and just say, hey, man, I'm gonna go back. I'm sorry. Ready,
Speaker 1: he already said I'm sorry to Lebron. Yeah, he already said, Oh,
Speaker 1: he apologized, he said, man, I'm sorry, man, he said, look,
Speaker 1: I did not know what you were going through. But
Speaker 1: trying to be a leader. It's harder than I thought.
Speaker 1: I apologize, man, And that's what it is. Like I
Speaker 1: tell people all the time, you know you want to
Speaker 1: get out under the shadow. Yeah, well I got news
Speaker 1: for your pardon. Shadow was actually shade. You know. Oh man,
Speaker 1: you ain't You ain't got to glare on you. If
Speaker 1: Kyrie went to La would be the story of stories. Wow.
Speaker 1: All right? Coming up next at thirty four after the
Speaker 1: hour Trending entertainment news, lamar Odom says he's a sex
Speaker 1: addict and has had sex with over two thousand women.
Speaker 1: All right, we'll get into it right after this. You're
Speaker 1: listening hard morning show X NBA basketball star lamar Odom
Speaker 1: says he's addicted to sex and claims that he's had
Speaker 1: sex with more than two thousand women. That's a lot. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's a lot of women. That's a lot. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think so it didn't. I don't care who you are
Speaker 1: going to. That's a that's a big number. I think
Speaker 1: it is rolling. But who's counting though? That's that's not
Speaker 1: for me, that's not I mean, first of all, I
Speaker 1: can't Yeah, but seven I ain't you know? Well, he says,
Speaker 1: it includes Steve. I've seen two thousand women I've wanted
Speaker 1: to do. No way, I've just counted up like that.
Speaker 1: But anyway, He's say, you know, if you just go
Speaker 1: by fine women, I've seen millions of fine women. But
Speaker 1: I'm just saying that two thousand sleep with him. Wow,
Speaker 1: that's a big number. A lot of that was groove
Speaker 1: activity to I don't give a damn one single whatever.
Speaker 1: Two thousand people, Yeah, that's a lot. And that includes
Speaker 1: strippers and prostitutes. We need to see yo, medically, a
Speaker 1: large number is gonna be that. Yeah, okay. Lamar comes
Speaker 1: clean about his sex life and as soon to be
Speaker 1: released book Darkness to Light. There were so many strippers
Speaker 1: to count. I am a sex addict, Lamar Odom said
Speaker 1: in an excerpt of his book. Also in the book,
Speaker 1: Lamar admits he cheated on Chloe Kardashian during their marriage
Speaker 1: and she found out. I was shocked and embarrassed, Lamar
Speaker 1: told People Magazine. I wanted to take it back, but
Speaker 1: you can't. You can't take that back. He said. I
Speaker 1: wanted to hide it, but that sixth sin was hard
Speaker 1: for me to hide. I had a problem Lamar. Lamar's
Speaker 1: vices all came to a head at the Love Ranch
Speaker 1: brothel back in Nevada in twenty fifteen. We all remember
Speaker 1: this when he overdoes during a cocaine and booth fueled binge. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and he said something about he would like, you know,
Speaker 1: to get to a place where he and Chloe can
Speaker 1: at least be friends. Now moving forward, that probably ain't
Speaker 1: gonna have my home and just go ahead over Yeah,
Speaker 1: that probably ain't. No, No, that ain't gonna just wrote
Speaker 1: the book two thousand women. She didn't got she'd just
Speaker 1: gone through this with this other tall ass basketball player.
Speaker 1: She about trip with y'allah. Yeah, yeah, she about through
Speaker 1: with y'all. You're gonna say that we can't get to
Speaker 1: a place we can be friends. No, man's going do
Speaker 1: something else. Well, I just apologize to the girl, you know,
Speaker 1: try to be decent about that. You know. That's what
Speaker 1: I say to men. Look, we I've made a lot
Speaker 1: of mistakes in my life. At least apologize so so
Speaker 1: a woman can feel a whole admit where you're wrong.
Speaker 1: You know, man, allow a woman to be whold. Don't
Speaker 1: don't be a dog about it and going about your
Speaker 1: business and just leave alone, man, just leave alone. Just
Speaker 1: let it go, y'all. Ain't gonna be friend. But she
Speaker 1: took care of him, you know, she helped him get back,
Speaker 1: She did way and above. Yeah. Yeah, really that she
Speaker 1: had no children with that girl, and that girl right
Speaker 1: there cared, Yeah, she did. She cared for him, and
Speaker 1: so that's cool. I like lamar. I just don't. I
Speaker 1: don't see this, Just think, man, And she's a good person,
Speaker 1: and that's why I think she may forgive him and maybe,
Speaker 1: oh yeah, forgiving me. Cool. He gonna need some physicals though,
Speaker 1: he need a lot of physical for you, church, me
Speaker 1: or anyone. You need to see your medical rector. How
Speaker 1: many pages is that hands up you got? He can't
Speaker 1: pass me afore? Wait what he can't even pass me afore?
Speaker 1: He's okay, Now he's fine. Now yeah, this is his
Speaker 1: physical got It's probably longer than the mutal report. Did
Speaker 1: you say that you heard of you heard? You heard
Speaker 1: what he said? But tell me the book the books.
Speaker 1: He ain't got no medical report. I ain't got no
Speaker 1: medical report. Ain't nothing wrong here. Let me show you
Speaker 1: some two thousand of the show you all right? Coming
Speaker 1: up next? The nephew is here with the prank phone
Speaker 1: call for ten thousand women. That's six hundred and sixty
Speaker 1: six boxes of three PAT conducts. Yeah, prank phone call
Speaker 1: coming up after the Steve. I'm just turning. He ain't
Speaker 1: got that number, right, you damn show got to medical.
Speaker 1: You're listening, coming up at the top of the hour.
Speaker 1: Write about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today,
Speaker 1: subject I wish I didn't trust her so much. It's
Speaker 1: two thousand women. I'll tell you right now. You got
Speaker 1: two thousand women. That's six hundred and sixty six boxes
Speaker 1: of three PAT condoms. You're still in lamar odom. I'm
Speaker 1: talking about lam. It's just six hundred and sixty six
Speaker 1: boxes of three PAT counting. Yeah. If you said someone
Speaker 1: ain't where in hell your answer is in you sick.
Speaker 1: You ain't bought six hundred sixtix boxing condoms. Your answers
Speaker 1: in trouble. You can't be a number off. It might
Speaker 1: be buying a Dosen though, it might be buying the
Speaker 1: twelve the messages be safe here, He's safe. Yes, that
Speaker 1: is a message d all right, nephew, Tommy's here with
Speaker 1: today's praying phone call what you got nav NBA party?
Speaker 1: Oh you might well, let's run that NBA party. Hello,
Speaker 1: I'm looking for Brad again. Hey, broad how you doing this? Puncho? Man?
Speaker 1: I don't want to Marcus his boys? How you doing? Man? Oh?
Speaker 1: Yeah here? What's up that? Hey? Y'all talked to Marcus man.
Speaker 1: He was telling me about you know, the uh the
Speaker 1: playoffs party man for for Sunday. Man. So, uh he
Speaker 1: told me if it was cool, I would come through. Man.
Speaker 1: I just wanted to call it. And how you see
Speaker 1: if I can I need to bring anything, uh food
Speaker 1: or some drinks or whatever you know you took in
Speaker 1: front of Marcus. Yeah, yeah, this is puntcho man. I'm
Speaker 1: friends with markets. Okay, yeah, yeah, I think it's cool.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, well now you're either raid unless, of course,
Speaker 1: you know you you're drinking something special. But yeah, it's
Speaker 1: just gonna be me Marcus and uh you know other
Speaker 1: boys gonna be here and uh, you know, what are
Speaker 1: you want bringing to me while I'll be so Yeah
Speaker 1: that's cool, okay, okay, okay, what time of y'all starting? Man?
Speaker 1: He told me like around one? Yeah, yeah, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be there all day. But you know, you're coming through
Speaker 1: about one one three o'clock. You know that before the
Speaker 1: game he started with had a you know, got the
Speaker 1: flat screen going to be laid out. So yeah, just
Speaker 1: come on through whatever you come through, all right, just
Speaker 1: remember man, Puncho. All right, I'll be there. I got
Speaker 1: it all right, cool? All right, Hello, hey, hey brand yo,
Speaker 1: Hey Puncho again. Man, listen real quick, how much how
Speaker 1: much food and and and and look at do you have? Uh?
Speaker 1: I think we got enough for for suddenly? It was right?
Speaker 1: What you got going on? What's up? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I got I got like three boys gonna ride with me. Man,
Speaker 1: I just want to make sure you got enough over there. Okay,
Speaker 1: who is this again? This Puncho. You know we talked
Speaker 1: about thirty minutes ago. This Puncho a Marcus friend, right right, okay,
Speaker 1: Uh man, I remember I call you about thirty minutes ago,
Speaker 1: told you Marcus told me it was cool. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's right. Yeah, I'm sorry for me bringing back and forth.
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, well, I mean I guess it's all right.
Speaker 1: So you know, we ain't trying to overload the joint. Man.
Speaker 1: Just you know, I know Marcus and if you're a
Speaker 1: friend of his then then that's cool. You can come
Speaker 1: to may it ain't even three guys, man, ain'tven three
Speaker 1: guys coming with me? Many? They they really cool man.
Speaker 1: Well we we we we were bringing something to put
Speaker 1: on your pit or whatever. You know, it'll it'll be good. Okay, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's cool man, you know yea yeah, come on through
Speaker 1: the man. All right, all right, all right, I talked
Speaker 1: to you. I talked to you, all right, brat U wait,
Speaker 1: is one of them, Marcus? It's one of the guys, Marcus. Yeah, no, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I got it's it's three guys. Me, I'm ade four
Speaker 1: you know, some three other guys. Yeah, whatever, man, that's cool, yeah,
Speaker 1: bring him through, man, come on, it's like alight, all right,
Speaker 1: all right, lak hello, hey brat Puncho again. Man listen, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna bring one more Um, I'm I'm I'm
Speaker 1: gonna bring one more person with me. The hold hold up,
Speaker 1: braves player, wait, hold up, hold up? Now, what's up
Speaker 1: you Marcus is friend? Yeah, you're you're you're you're me
Speaker 1: and I'm Puncho. Yeah okay, I know you, Parcho man,
Speaker 1: but you're bringing everybody, but just go Kip and Marcus
Speaker 1: is cool with me. That's my fault. We go way back.
Speaker 1: And if you cool with him too, then okay you
Speaker 1: can come. You know, I'm trying to have an NBA
Speaker 1: playoff game. You're bringing the whole NBA with you. No, no,
Speaker 1: it ain't like that, man, man, I mean playing that big.
Speaker 1: You know, my wife is gonna be coming through here,
Speaker 1: and you know I got the house played out. I
Speaker 1: told I wasn't gonna destroy the place. I just got
Speaker 1: out the dog house like two weeks ago. I to
Speaker 1: that up. So if you're coming through, you come through,
Speaker 1: you know, bring one or two people with you. But
Speaker 1: that's it. Okay, all right, but listen to it. Would
Speaker 1: I decided to me, I ain't gonna bring them dude
Speaker 1: with me. I'm just gonna bring a little lady from
Speaker 1: him with me. Man, if they is that cool, I'm
Speaker 1: just gonna bring a little lady from him. No, dudes, okay,
Speaker 1: that's cool. Now you're talking. Okay, because I know she
Speaker 1: ain't eat it for much, come on through here with
Speaker 1: her and you know, be done with that's fine, right
Speaker 1: right right. I'm gonna call Simone nine tell her and
Speaker 1: tell her that that she coming with me. Okay, what's
Speaker 1: her name? Her name Simone. That's funny, that's my wife's name. Okay, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: but maybe they'll hook up while they while we're watching
Speaker 1: the game. She ain't, she ain't got be here, So
Speaker 1: I send her in her girls so that the nail's done. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: So check us out, man, I'm I'm gonna reach out
Speaker 1: to Simone and let her know that we're gonna we're
Speaker 1: gonna leave it and get over there like about one.
Speaker 1: And you say it's cool, right, yeah, yeah, it's cool
Speaker 1: man that that's a whole lot better than being about
Speaker 1: up here. But okay, okay, back yeah, yeah, you're years now,
Speaker 1: and I took this man mine, uh you know, my friend.
Speaker 1: She she she's married, you know, and and and she
Speaker 1: wanted to get away from my husband for a minute. Man,
Speaker 1: I guess they'd been going through so, you know, you know,
Speaker 1: just keeping way back back up there, bringing a married
Speaker 1: woman named Simone were the eyes of that. My wife's
Speaker 1: name is Simone? Okay, well done, I mean what was
Speaker 1: this one? Simone? Is my last name? Is that's my
Speaker 1: last name? Wait? Wait? Wait wait wait wait wait wait,
Speaker 1: hold on holdaway, wait wait, hold hold on, hold on dog.
Speaker 1: This this okay, this this Simone is is light skin. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you keep on describing her. She's light skin, five one
Speaker 1: short hair. That's the hallyka. Yeah that's that's that's that's that's.
Speaker 1: How about you do? My wife? Hey do? Me and
Speaker 1: Simone been friends for a minute. Man, It wasn't ntil
Speaker 1: like a couple of weeks ago. She reached out to
Speaker 1: me and saying she was she was going through some
Speaker 1: some some he reached out to you to tell you
Speaker 1: that she's going through some stuff with a dude. Well
Speaker 1: I don't that dude. Okay, okay, I want you my wife.
Speaker 1: Hey man, you know about a year, but who counting?
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? A year that's about the
Speaker 1: time we started to have some issues. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: come on over to this party. Hey man, I'm sure
Speaker 1: we can try to picket this kind of situation. Imp
Speaker 1: my wife. I don't give you. I don't give me
Speaker 1: about her either. You know, you know they said, you
Speaker 1: know what, I've always believed this. There are no mistakes.
Speaker 1: Everything happens where it's supposed to me. So it's funny
Speaker 1: how you call me. Okay, Okay, listen, man, listen, I
Speaker 1: can get this number my boy. Game no, no, no,
Speaker 1: this man, I get it time. You probably called it
Speaker 1: direct from her. That's what my boy gave me this.
Speaker 1: Leave leave simone out of this, man, But you can't
Speaker 1: tell me right now. You know, I'm a gonna ge
Speaker 1: up this call with you right now. I'm gonna call her,
Speaker 1: not to say I ain't gonna call her at all.
Speaker 1: Don't don't tell her my wife. Just bring her to
Speaker 1: the party. I got a gift for this for you.
Speaker 1: I got a three eighty, I got a Smith, I
Speaker 1: got a Weston, I got a size fourteen tiller to go.
Speaker 1: Oh yes, come on over with this tarp. Okay, hey man,
Speaker 1: hey man, listen, listen my boy, my boy gave me
Speaker 1: your number, man, so I'll know who my boy is. Mark.
Speaker 1: I say he don't know you, Marcus don't know me.
Speaker 1: But guess who else knows me? Though that you don't
Speaker 1: know what's say something? Hey Brad, this is Nephew timing
Speaker 1: Man from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your boy Marcus
Speaker 1: got me the prank phone. Call you what I don't
Speaker 1: give us this un I'm gonna get up. Yeah, yeah, Hey, Brad,
Speaker 1: what was you gonna do with the party? Man? Damn? Man?
Speaker 1: Uh about hey man, let me ask you something. What's
Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the land. It's the Steve
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Nay, look at them. You have a
Speaker 1: seen somebody that you invite him to your party? Plus
Speaker 1: one plus? Yeah? Yeah? How many pluses you got, don't? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Not cool? That's party up? But the il the party
Speaker 1: Memorial Day weekend though, and is a chuckle to Friday too,
Speaker 1: said it too, Sandy. So it is Nephew in the building,
Speaker 1: Nephew and Bobby Q. That's how I'm saying. Okay, NBA
Speaker 1: party on. How many boxes was that again? Huh? That's
Speaker 1: too much? All right, nephew? Thank you. Up next, it
Speaker 1: is a Strawberry letter subject I wish I didn't trust
Speaker 1: her so much. We'll get into it right after this.
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Speaker 1: I wish I didn't trust her so much. Here Stephen Shirley.
Speaker 1: I am a twenty six year old man with two
Speaker 1: children and a wonderful wife of four years. My wife
Speaker 1: recently graduated from medical school and she's studying for her
Speaker 1: certification exam, so she is not working right now. She
Speaker 1: is at home studying most days, or she's on campus
Speaker 1: with her study group. I had no problem with all
Speaker 1: of the free time my wife had, nor did I
Speaker 1: ever question her loyalty in our marriage until recently. I
Speaker 1: was using her phone one day not too long ago,
Speaker 1: and a text from Jarvis popped up, and the message was, yes,
Speaker 1: I'll come by tomorrow for lunch. I asked my wife
Speaker 1: who Jarvis is, and she told me that he's one
Speaker 1: of her study partners and she's asked him to drop
Speaker 1: by on his lunch break the next day to pick
Speaker 1: up some notes. I would be at work, so this
Speaker 1: bothered me, but I trust her and she assured me
Speaker 1: that it was nothing. But now I have a real
Speaker 1: problem with Jarvis because of what happened over the weekend
Speaker 1: When my wife and I were having sex Right when
Speaker 1: it got good, my wife asked me to stop and
Speaker 1: she was crying. I asked her what was wrong, and
Speaker 1: she told me that while we were having sex, she
Speaker 1: could not stop thinking about Jarvis and it scared her.
Speaker 1: I asked her if she had ever cheated on me
Speaker 1: with a guy, and she swore that she'd never cheat,
Speaker 1: but she wanted to let me know that she was
Speaker 1: thinking of him in a sexual way and it made
Speaker 1: her feel bad. I suggested that maybe they should stop
Speaker 1: studying together, but she said, Jarvis is the smartest person
Speaker 1: in their class, so she needs him. I pray that
Speaker 1: she has not had sex with Jarvis in my house
Speaker 1: in our bed. Steve, what do you think is going on?
Speaker 1: Am I crazy? Or should I trust my wife? Give
Speaker 1: it to me straight. Well, you should trust your wife
Speaker 1: until you don't until there's a reason for you not
Speaker 1: to trust her. And if ever there was a reason,
Speaker 1: I think this is it. This man is coming by
Speaker 1: the house when you're at work and it is just
Speaker 1: the two of them there. I don't know. I know
Speaker 1: a lot of relationships, especially married ones, if the wife
Speaker 1: is alone at home. The husband doesn't want another man
Speaker 1: in the house when he's not there. There is such
Speaker 1: a thing as being too honest as well. I don't
Speaker 1: even understand why she told you this. And when she
Speaker 1: told you, oh mg, I mean, the timing couldn't have
Speaker 1: been worse, you said, just when it got good, she
Speaker 1: broke it down to youth. At first, I thought it
Speaker 1: was maybe a fantasy, you know, just in her head.
Speaker 1: She was thinking about Jarvis, but she got all in
Speaker 1: her feelings, started crying and stuff. This is pretty serious
Speaker 1: right here. I'm sorry, but I think you really have
Speaker 1: cause for concern here. I just do. If she hasn't
Speaker 1: done it already, she's definitely thinking about it, and she's
Speaker 1: probably considered it. She spends a lot of time with him,
Speaker 1: and he was responding to a text she made to him.
Speaker 1: She asked him to come over on his lunch break.
Speaker 1: He was responding saying, yes, I'll come by tomorrow for lunch.
Speaker 1: So there's something going on and you definitely need to
Speaker 1: get to the bottom of it. Steve, good, this is crazy.
Speaker 1: Let's get down to the bottom. And this to him, Yeah, Steve,
Speaker 1: what you think? Steve, what you think though? Because I'm
Speaker 1: crazy or I trust my wife, give it to me straight,
Speaker 1: all right? No, he his name, Ain't it in no
Speaker 1: way rusty or nothing like that name. Right, I'm trying
Speaker 1: to figure. You're twenty six year old man. You got
Speaker 1: two beautiful kids wife for four years. Your wife graduated
Speaker 1: from medical school and she's studying for her certification exam.
Speaker 1: See certification exam. Let's keep that in mind. Might have
Speaker 1: to come back and use that. So she ain't working
Speaker 1: right now. She had the house most of the time,
Speaker 1: she had the house in most days, so she on
Speaker 1: campus with her group. Ain't ain't got no problem my wife,
Speaker 1: you know, got a lot of every time. You know,
Speaker 1: I ain't never questioned a lordy and imagin Oh man,
Speaker 1: you know for years, got two kids. You know what
Speaker 1: you're gonna do. Then I was using her phone and
Speaker 1: got a tech from Jobs. Say that again. I got
Speaker 1: teching jobs. Yeah, Jarvis is a real play ass name
Speaker 1: to meet dogs. I don't know what your name, and
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just call you rusted Rusted Jarvis sound like
Speaker 1: a real player ass name. Jobs propped. The message was yes,
Speaker 1: I come back for lunch month. Now. If you saw
Speaker 1: the tech from Jarvis, then you had to see or
Speaker 1: text from your wife asking jobs. But that wasn't the case.
Speaker 1: So all you saw was tech from Jarvis and say
Speaker 1: y'all be there a mom So they mean they talk.
Speaker 1: I asked my wife who the hell jobs is? And
Speaker 1: see that your mistake. See you asked her who Jarvis was?
Speaker 1: You should ask her who the hell is jobs? How
Speaker 1: should you said that? Who the hell a job? And
Speaker 1: why job is talking about? Coming over here? Question? Car?
Speaker 1: See we are doing studying at my house. Though that
Speaker 1: what they got library fault. That when they got the
Speaker 1: uh cafetier fault. She told me. One of her study
Speaker 1: partners she asked him to drop back on his lunch
Speaker 1: break the next day to pick up some notes at
Speaker 1: my house. Now I'm at work, all right? Hang on, Steve, Well,
Speaker 1: hang on, we gotta uh we're gonna have part two
Speaker 1: of your response or the letter at twenty three after
Speaker 1: the hour, subject I wish I didn't trust her so much?
Speaker 1: Right after this you're listening to show, all right, Steve,
Speaker 1: let's recap this letter, subject I wish I didn't trust
Speaker 1: her so much? Wow. Well, all I can tell you
Speaker 1: is I just got started, twenty six year old dude.
Speaker 1: But man four years got two d is you know
Speaker 1: wife lovely graduating medical school, studying us son, you know
Speaker 1: certification exam working on it right now. She ain't working.
Speaker 1: She at home study in most days on campus with
Speaker 1: a study group. I have no problem with the free
Speaker 1: time my wife had. I ain't never question of loyalty.
Speaker 1: Using the phone one day and got texting the damn
Speaker 1: jobs job's name propped up. Message was yes, I come
Speaker 1: by for lunch to the maw. I asked my wife,
Speaker 1: I said, you know who is jobs? When I suggested
Speaker 1: that he should have said who the hell is? She
Speaker 1: told me one of the study partners, and she asked
Speaker 1: him to drop down on his lunch break the next
Speaker 1: day pick up some notes and me and Tom was
Speaker 1: talking on break. Who do that? Who got to come
Speaker 1: by your house? Pick up a damn note? You could
Speaker 1: text that note. You can email that note, you can
Speaker 1: snapchat that note, you can DM that damn note, you
Speaker 1: can Facebook that note, you can group meeting on a
Speaker 1: computer to skype damn notes. You ain't got it. Bring
Speaker 1: your monka asked by my house pot see number one.
Speaker 1: That's rude number one, and your wife and broke it.
Speaker 1: You don't have no man in no another man's house
Speaker 1: while he had work or nowhere else. You don't have
Speaker 1: another man in a man's house, no more than I
Speaker 1: can have another woman in my house. Can no women
Speaker 1: over here doing services? And Madre ain't hire part It's crazy.
Speaker 1: So this bothered you. But I trust and she had
Speaker 1: sewed me that nothing, that it was nothing. But now
Speaker 1: I got a real problem with Jarvis because it would
Speaker 1: have over weekend. Man, my wife was having sex y'all
Speaker 1: in that job. You let me go? Yeah, you got
Speaker 1: two kids? Yeah, yeah, right right when it got good,
Speaker 1: my wife asked me to stop, and she was crying,
Speaker 1: what baby, what's wrong? I asked her what was wrong?
Speaker 1: She told me to why we was having sex. She
Speaker 1: couldn't stop thinking about Javis, and it scared her. All.
Speaker 1: We often to be scared, Na, Na jovis too. It's
Speaker 1: scared you. I'm scared you feel to be most scared.
Speaker 1: Javis asked for to get tight. I asked if she
Speaker 1: had ever cheated on me with the guy. She swore
Speaker 1: she never cheat, but she wanted to let me know
Speaker 1: that she was thinking of him in a sexual way
Speaker 1: and it made her feel bad. I suggested that maybe
Speaker 1: they should stop study that you suggested, see your words,
Speaker 1: ain't who is Jovis? See all that then changed to
Speaker 1: who the f is? Jobs? Too nice? And then this
Speaker 1: right here. I suggested that maybe they should stop studying together,
Speaker 1: but she said Javis is the smartest person in their class.
Speaker 1: So she Hey, let me tell you something, Javis ain't
Speaker 1: that damn smart. See jobs, mister mess rod Jovis if
Speaker 1: you can get hit a well being so damned smart,
Speaker 1: she needs him. You need him so much that you're
Speaker 1: thinking about him sexually. Where we having sex? You don't
Speaker 1: stop me? And now you cry hell far hole love
Speaker 1: hole love. I pray that she has not had sex
Speaker 1: with Javis in my house, in our bed women on
Speaker 1: a thump. I don't give a damn where she didn't
Speaker 1: have sex. I don't give a damn if it's on
Speaker 1: the steps. I don't give a damn if it's on
Speaker 1: the welcome matt at the dough into the house. The
Speaker 1: fact that you think her and Javis may have had sex,
Speaker 1: that's a enough. Now in the house, it's just gonna
Speaker 1: it's gonna worse than the ass QUI, Steve, what do
Speaker 1: you think te mention your name in it. It's time
Speaker 1: to go see Jobs. Yeah, she's time to go see Jarvis.
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna tell you why. And I'm serious about
Speaker 1: this too, because he Jarvis needs to get a visit
Speaker 1: from the man whose house he's so comfortable going over.
Speaker 1: Because I'm gonna tell you right now, man, ain't no
Speaker 1: man feeling to be comfortable coming to my house. Somebody
Speaker 1: gonna go Steve now because just just just the way
Speaker 1: Steve talk, I just ste do Steve. No, I'm coming.
Speaker 1: Oh man, it's it's it's all day, It's all day,
Speaker 1: I promise you. Man, I'm going to see Jarvis. Because
Speaker 1: he Javis is comfortable enough to come over here, then
Speaker 1: he ought to be comfortable enough for me coming over there.
Speaker 1: Javis been over my house? Why can't I come over Jarvis? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Now all is you crying because you're thinking about him?
Speaker 1: Now we've finning addressed this at the house too. Why
Speaker 1: aren't you gonna get with Jarvis? Because all this crime
Speaker 1: while we have it set thinking about jav Yeah a
Speaker 1: bit much? Ye see that right now, I'm not finding
Speaker 1: And now every time I see you crying, well, what
Speaker 1: you think about Jobs? And I don't and I don't
Speaker 1: know where you had the courage to tell me you
Speaker 1: was thinking about him in a sexual way. Dog, you
Speaker 1: a little weak ass dude. Man, you're gonna have to
Speaker 1: tighten up a little bit because you can't talk too
Speaker 1: kind of crazy. If a woman is having sexual thoughts
Speaker 1: about another man, I promise you I ain't dated one
Speaker 1: that to tell me that. No. No, but right hip
Speaker 1: up glass Steve crazy. All right, look, email us or
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Speaker 1: the hour. From the Talk our girl, Cheryl Underwood. Go ahead,
Speaker 1: see what jo what jobbing house at? You're listening to?
Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, it's Carla's
Speaker 1: Reality Update. But right now from the talk, Steve take
Speaker 1: it away, shuns. Let's thank you very much and I
Speaker 1: accept that intro and I got a bone to pick
Speaker 1: with the World the World show. That's the World, the
Speaker 1: World the World. Y'all heard of this group called BTS. Yeah,
Speaker 1: uh huh, okay, okay, I don't get from Japan right now.
Speaker 1: They're from Korea, South See that that's why See Ween
Speaker 1: went it, sir, we don't even know where they're from.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, I'm sending up getting ready
Speaker 1: to watch what I think. It's BT Express. I thought
Speaker 1: I held come the Express. That's a cut. I mean,
Speaker 1: don't act like you donna understand with BT Express it's
Speaker 1: all about But this is BT S some South Korean
Speaker 1: boy band that stuck in the nineties doing all the
Speaker 1: stuff that the black boy bands used to do in
Speaker 1: the nineties, speaking in their own language. Now look, I'm
Speaker 1: not against nobody speaking in their own language. I'm not
Speaker 1: even against a little All my pop stars was almost
Speaker 1: all different races of people and black people. See. I
Speaker 1: used to love the Osmans. You know, one bad Apple
Speaker 1: was a cut like a Yo Yo was the cut.
Speaker 1: The battle was the Jackson five versus the os Yes,
Speaker 1: oh that's right, But we don't have on boy bands.
Speaker 1: So what is happening to America while y'all out there
Speaker 1: making it great? You need to make a damn boy
Speaker 1: band so we can have some boyfriends out there and
Speaker 1: cane Korean peoples they making, they making bags. They making
Speaker 1: badgs Junior. They was out of the rose Bone, collected
Speaker 1: all the money. What has happening to America? Don't nobody
Speaker 1: want to go to the moon. We need a boyfriend,
Speaker 1: and we need a boy band with different type. We
Speaker 1: need a band with different type of boys in it.
Speaker 1: When we was growing up Suny Scribeberries, there was different
Speaker 1: people in the band that we love. Even a Switch
Speaker 1: had different people. The Temptations is an original boy band.
Speaker 1: Stop buying. The del Phonics is an original boy band.
Speaker 1: Bang in the day, we loved the boy band. So
Speaker 1: come on, America. I'm not against these little Korean boys.
Speaker 1: I just need a band with I can't mess with
Speaker 1: nobody with a skinny pass. If my arm can't fit
Speaker 1: in your slacks, we cannot be together. I can't scream
Speaker 1: for you. So I need us to make a boy band.
Speaker 1: I like Beyond the Scene, but damn that I thought
Speaker 1: I was about to listen to BT Express, So I'm
Speaker 1: very upset about I'm very upset about this. So y'all
Speaker 1: need to open the phones so everybody can shout out
Speaker 1: every boy band that they love. I'm out, Steve Harvey,
Speaker 1: shout out every boy banding what's the phone number Charliet
Speaker 1: so they can shout out every boy band named the
Speaker 1: best boy band of all times. Joda sation. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, I was supposed to play Joda see and
Speaker 1: jo show. We gotta go. Thank you, Thank you, Cheryl Uh.
Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, It's Carla's
Speaker 1: Reality Update by Cheryl. You're listening, get ready, get ready
Speaker 1: to get ready. It is that time. She is here.
Speaker 1: Carlin Farrell with what reality Update? All right, thank you nephew.
Speaker 1: Here we go, loving hip hop Atlanta. Just quickly. You know,
Speaker 1: we talked about this last week. Kirk and Rashida they
Speaker 1: hosted that couple's retreat where they you know, they all
Speaker 1: went to the cabin and Kirk and Rashida want to
Speaker 1: give advice to the couples. And we found out Rashida
Speaker 1: cheated on Kirk back in the day and early in
Speaker 1: their relationship. I was like, what, I didn't believe that.
Speaker 1: Who wrote the letter? Oh well she got all that
Speaker 1: coming in and all that stuff. Kirt and Kirk got
Speaker 1: babies and everything. Then you better talk to Steve. Well,
Speaker 1: they decided to. That's what she said. She cheated early
Speaker 1: in their relationship. But they they decided to forgive each other,
Speaker 1: and they were giving advice to the other couples so
Speaker 1: they can work on their relationships. Uh, MESSI, Carley, you
Speaker 1: can say, yeah, I guess that's cool because you gotta
Speaker 1: have gone through something to know something. That's what that
Speaker 1: point was listening it. So, yeah, and they have children together,
Speaker 1: and obviously he had a child outside the marriage. But
Speaker 1: you gotta give props to Rashida for forgiving her husband
Speaker 1: and they're trying to make it work. Um, mess retreat
Speaker 1: all of us, do you think? So we're gonna go
Speaker 1: to Kevin. We're just gonna go to We're go to Kevin.
Speaker 1: We're just gonna go to Steve High. That is a retreat. Yeah,
Speaker 1: yeah it's nice. It's a resort. Yeah, it's a resort
Speaker 1: over there. So anyway, let me get back to it.
Speaker 1: MESSI MESSI Carly. Um, she was about to fight Kendred
Speaker 1: young Jock's girlfriend. It was real messy, and the people
Speaker 1: in the house, all the couples and everybody there, they
Speaker 1: called her out on it and they told Carly, you
Speaker 1: know what, you real file, You're being real messy. It's
Speaker 1: not necessary. So, uh, Carly kind of tried to pull
Speaker 1: back a little bit. But anyway, her and her fiance,
Speaker 1: Arkansas Mo. They're back together. Remember she Yeah, remember she
Speaker 1: broke it off with him because he went, yeah, he
Speaker 1: was so bad and fain. Okay, let me let me
Speaker 1: toss it to you again, Steve. Carly Red and Arkansas
Speaker 1: Mo are back together. Yeah it girl child, you're right?
Speaker 1: Chip please yep. So anyway, that's hip Atlanta. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: can say what you want to say, Steve. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: all good. And then let me tell you this. I'm
Speaker 1: watching Real Housewives of Potomac. Are you watching it, Shirley? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I missed the first two, but yeah, okay, so you
Speaker 1: gotta watch it. It just came back on. So if
Speaker 1: everybody knows spoiler alerk, you gotta catch up, ladies with
Speaker 1: watching Real Housewives Potomac. What what what are you saying?
Speaker 1: Snack cheese? You're terrible? All right? I got good? Please? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Hit me up at lip Spark Carlo. We'll talk more
Speaker 1: socially about Real Housewives of Potomac. We'll talk more about
Speaker 1: love and hip hop Atlanta. Chip please. Steve Harvey will
Speaker 1: be second twenty after you're listening to show how many
Speaker 1: friends do you guys have I'm not talking about social
Speaker 1: media friends. I'm talking about real friends. Now. According to
Speaker 1: a new survey, the average American has about sixteen friends.
Speaker 1: Of these sixteen friends, yeah yeah, this got no damn
Speaker 1: sixteen Steve. This is according to a new survey. Yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: and they say of these they say, of these sixteen friends,
Speaker 1: three were described as friends for life, five were people
Speaker 1: they really liked and would hang out with one on one,
Speaker 1: and the other eight were people the respondent said they
Speaker 1: liked but would not spend time with them one on one.
Speaker 1: The survey also found that the average American adult has
Speaker 1: made a new friend hasn't made a new friend in
Speaker 1: five years. Because Steve, I gotta ask begs the question,
Speaker 1: how many friends real friends do you have? Sixteen or less?
Speaker 1: Probably got five? Five? You can kind them on one hand? Friends, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm talking about ride or did don't give a damn?
Speaker 1: Let's go top five? Yeah, I'm talking about well with
Speaker 1: it five? Maybe hard to make new friends at the
Speaker 1: and I ain't made a friend at five years? How well?
Speaker 1: At work? At work, Steve, that's where you are all
Speaker 1: the time. How many friends you got, Tommy, I always
Speaker 1: say three conversation when we come back. You play spade.
Speaker 1: All right, we'll be back. We'll pick this conversation up
Speaker 1: when when we come back at thirty three after the hour.
Speaker 1: You're listening to show, all right, Steve. We were talking
Speaker 1: about how many friends do we have. There's a new
Speaker 1: survey and it says that the average American has about
Speaker 1: sixteen friends. Of those sixteen, it's impossible. Well, well, this
Speaker 1: is how they break it down. Three were described as
Speaker 1: friends for life, three you have for life. Five were
Speaker 1: people you really liked and you would hang out with
Speaker 1: one on one, and then the other eight were people
Speaker 1: the respondents said they liked, but they wouldn't spend time
Speaker 1: with them one on one. And that's not your friend. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's you wouldn't consider that friend. People you really like
Speaker 1: don't necessarily mean that your friend. Yeah, that's true as well. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and then they say the average American adult hasn't made
Speaker 1: a new friend in five years. I know that. And
Speaker 1: you know why why you don't have time to learn?
Speaker 1: Nobody else didn't learn you. Yeah. Yeah, And there's a
Speaker 1: there's a trust factor. Yeah, you say something that's right,
Speaker 1: I can't believe. Yeah, you get quiet. I noticed you
Speaker 1: get quiet but it was right. He was some point,
Speaker 1: Yeah he was. You ain't got to have to learn nobody.
Speaker 1: But it sounds like with us, this group right here,
Speaker 1: we don't use that term loosely, like when I call
Speaker 1: you a friend. Yeah, come on, yeah, yeah, I can
Speaker 1: count on you no matter what. Yeah, that's just five
Speaker 1: of them dudes in my world. I'm sixty two years old.
Speaker 1: And it's about loyalty too. It's and and and my
Speaker 1: good ones didn't die. Yeah that's what's cold. But you know, look,
Speaker 1: I know, like my friends for life, Butcher Ricardo, so
Speaker 1: you know, you look at Butcher Ricardo. I've been friends
Speaker 1: with Manny since I was four. My best friend from
Speaker 1: from college is Marvel Is Marvin Horton. We steal boys,
Speaker 1: do ride or doc. Yeah, I'm talking about Biggie Wig
Speaker 1: okay and Blue. I'm talking about man, dudes that to
Speaker 1: walk off the edge for you. Yeah yeah, Biggie Wig
Speaker 1: and Blue prove Yeah yeah, they walk off the edge
Speaker 1: for you. Man. Yeah, that ain't no lie. Yeah. You know,
Speaker 1: Rickie Lewis could ask brother to man, but I got that.
Speaker 1: I called, like like Steve Perry, Perry, oh this is
Speaker 1: my dude. Man, he could he climb down and hold it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what do you call that group? That's after friends? But
Speaker 1: they still cool with you? Like you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: But you're not in that top you're not in that five.
Speaker 1: Well maybe it's levels of friends. Yeah, I think right,
Speaker 1: I think that. I think that, And that's what they
Speaker 1: were saying. Uh. Some people are with you right or
Speaker 1: die and then others are I know, spend time with
Speaker 1: them one on one, you know, Yeah, I think they're
Speaker 1: different levels of friendship because I mean, you know, I
Speaker 1: call them like New York like short for New York
Speaker 1: a n y K. That's what I call. Just put
Speaker 1: them in the n y K A group like New York.
Speaker 1: I know what he's saying, n y K y Um.
Speaker 1: All right, Well we'll be back with more of the
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show, I know, coming up at forty nine.
Speaker 1: After it's some closing remarks coming up as well. Right
Speaker 1: after this you're listening to show. All right, Steve, here
Speaker 1: we are last break of the day. It's time for
Speaker 1: your closing remarks. What you got, Steve? You know, we're
Speaker 1: talking about friendship, and I want to say something about
Speaker 1: it because I've actually found this to be true. In
Speaker 1: my life. I don't know if this is a fact,
Speaker 1: but I've found it to be true. I don't know
Speaker 1: how everybody else feels, but in my life, I've found
Speaker 1: this to be true. That friendship is so important, man,
Speaker 1: It's such an essential component of life. I have found
Speaker 1: that you can live without your father. There are people
Speaker 1: who've never met that dad. I have found that you
Speaker 1: can live without your mother. There are people who've never
Speaker 1: met their mothers. There are people who've lost their mothers.
Speaker 1: I've lost my oldest brother. I've learned that I can
Speaker 1: live without so many things, man, But you know the
Speaker 1: one thing I found out that you cannot live in
Speaker 1: this world without. You can't live in this world without
Speaker 1: a friend. Man. Everybody has to have somebody that they
Speaker 1: can run it by. I've just found that to be necessary. Now,
Speaker 1: Jesus can be your friend, I got that. But everybody
Speaker 1: needs somebody you can run it by. I got that.
Speaker 1: There's an organization of men who understand it as well
Speaker 1: as I've ever heard it put. There's a group of
Speaker 1: men who live by a credence that friendship is essential
Speaker 1: to the soul. That's such a true statement, man. I
Speaker 1: ain't trying to push my belief of my thing on
Speaker 1: nobody else but man, it's friendship really is essential to
Speaker 1: the soul. In order for your soul to thrive, you
Speaker 1: got to have somebody you can lean on, Somebody you
Speaker 1: can call, Somebody you can run it by that won't
Speaker 1: be judgmental. Somebody who is there with you, thick a
Speaker 1: thin rider, die, Ace, Boon, Coon, Buzzard back buddy. You
Speaker 1: got to have somebody you can pick up that phone
Speaker 1: no matter what is going on, and when you pick
Speaker 1: up the phone, they go, okay, I'll be over there.
Speaker 1: You got to have somebody that go, hey, man, don't
Speaker 1: worry about that and start providing solutions for you. You
Speaker 1: know how many people I've lost along the way, man,
Speaker 1: because it got hot and thick for me when I
Speaker 1: called them up? Man, how could you do something like that? Women?
Speaker 1: Hold up, don't wait? Whoa pardner? I'm calling you because
Speaker 1: I hadn't done something like that, and I'm in trouble. Man.
Speaker 1: I need a out man. I can't believe you would
Speaker 1: do something like that. Why you do that? Hey? Man?
Speaker 1: I know I wasn't supposed to do it, but I
Speaker 1: did it. Thought damn. Now I need a out, man,
Speaker 1: can you help me? I ain't got nothing for you. Man,
Speaker 1: you shouldn't have did okay? Cool? This ain't your friend?
Speaker 1: Friendships are so necessary man. You often think about friendships
Speaker 1: as though, and what makes them so valuable is you
Speaker 1: get to choose them. You actually have a say. So
Speaker 1: it's not like family. You're born with family, but your friends,
Speaker 1: you actually get to choose them. Somebody told me one
Speaker 1: time is describe your five friends. Describe your five closest
Speaker 1: people around you. Described in five people, You've just described
Speaker 1: yourself because you surround yourself with like minded people. You
Speaker 1: picked friends because you have something in common. I remember
Speaker 1: my mintoring camp. One time I was mentoring this young
Speaker 1: boy and he pulled out a picture. He said, I
Speaker 1: gotta picture you and my daddy. I went what? And
Speaker 1: it threw me off because my mintoring campus for young
Speaker 1: boys who are from single parent homes, headed up by
Speaker 1: women who don't have relationships to their father. He said,
Speaker 1: you and my father friends. I said what? Because it
Speaker 1: startled me because I realized I don't have friends that
Speaker 1: don't take care of their kids. I don't. I don't
Speaker 1: have any friends who have forsaken their children. I don't
Speaker 1: have any because we've talked, and the boy pulled out
Speaker 1: a picture and I'll be dog gone. It was a
Speaker 1: dude that when I lived in Texas we were friends. Now,
Speaker 1: we didn't stay in touch, but we were really cool.
Speaker 1: And when he showed me the picture, I was floored. Man.
Speaker 1: I called my bodyguard boom Ring. I said, hey, man,
Speaker 1: you remember the dudes nomber Man? He said yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I still gotta let me call it. I said, hey, man,
Speaker 1: come out to my ranch and get your son. I
Speaker 1: what you're talking? Abong? Steve? What's up? Why are you
Speaker 1: being no no, no no no? Your son out here? Man?
Speaker 1: Why is your son and my ranch? Why am I
Speaker 1: feeding and housing and clothing your son this week at
Speaker 1: my ranch? When I know you you got money? Whol
Speaker 1: our Pardner? What's wrong with you? Man? You don't understand
Speaker 1: his old lady man hold that, HI got all of that,
Speaker 1: But your son out here crying with a picture of
Speaker 1: his daddy because he just missed his father. He came
Speaker 1: out there and got his son. I said, whoa man?
Speaker 1: Because I just don't have friends like that. You get
Speaker 1: to select your friends. It's a selection process. Friendship is important.
Speaker 1: Now you know what I've learned in my life. And
Speaker 1: this would startle some of my male friends, but some
Speaker 1: of them who get it get it. You know, my
Speaker 1: best friend is actually my wife, and you know why
Speaker 1: because she actually fulfills all the requirements that I've developed
Speaker 1: for friends over my lifetime. I can talk to her
Speaker 1: about anything. She's not judgmental. When it gets really rough
Speaker 1: for me, she comforts me. When it's time to climb
Speaker 1: down in the hole and fight our way out, she
Speaker 1: right there. She has never betrayed me. She don't backstab me,
Speaker 1: she don't talk about me behind my back, and she's
Speaker 1: my biggest fan and she cheers for me. Wow, I'm
Speaker 1: married to my best friend, and I'm just glad that
Speaker 1: I got a couple of brothers on the side. That's
Speaker 1: my friends too. Friendship is essential to the soul. It's
Speaker 1: really really necessary. My clothes are remarks friendship today by
Speaker 1: keep it peppery, Hey have a great weekend. That sounds
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