Speaker 1: Y'all know what time to y'all don't know y'all have
Speaker 1: a suit looking back to back down, giving them more
Speaker 1: like the million bucks things and its cubs. Do me
Speaker 1: true good it. Steve har listening to move together for stum, Please,
Speaker 1: I don't join join me? You doing me? You gotta
Speaker 1: turn hur you gotta turn to turn them out. Turn,
Speaker 1: you got to turn them out to turn the water
Speaker 1: the water go. Come come on your fad uh huh,
Speaker 1: I sure will come on it everybody. Y'all listen to
Speaker 1: the voice, Come on dig me now, one and only
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Uh got a radio show. Yep, yep. Sometimes
Speaker 1: I saw all I can say. Yea help man. How
Speaker 1: far I've come is really unbelievable. But you know I
Speaker 1: finally figured it out. Man. God allowed me to have
Speaker 1: the life I've had so that I can become experienced
Speaker 1: at so many different things. And then this experience when
Speaker 1: I'm talking and sharing with people, I will be able
Speaker 1: to relate to a lot of different circumstances, not exact,
Speaker 1: but just the circumstances. You know. You know if a
Speaker 1: person comes to me and they say, man, I've been
Speaker 1: down and out, Okay, well I know what that is, man,
Speaker 1: I didn't I didn't have any direction. Okay, got that
Speaker 1: been there, man, At one point in time, I just
Speaker 1: kept piling mistake on top of mistakes. Okay, and they're
Speaker 1: done that too. So you know, I think what I'm
Speaker 1: trying to say to everybody is when you're going through
Speaker 1: life and life is dealing the cards that it deals,
Speaker 1: I want you to understand that life deals everybody these cards.
Speaker 1: The disappointment card, the setback card, the failure card, the
Speaker 1: mishap card, the unexpected misery card. Everybody gonna get, the
Speaker 1: grief card, everybody gonna get, the rash of bad decision card,
Speaker 1: everybody gonna get them. Understand that going in that everybody
Speaker 1: is gonna get these cards. It's how you play them, though,
Speaker 1: you know, from time to time, one more time, it's
Speaker 1: how you play them, you know. From time to time
Speaker 1: when I'm watching TV, I love to watch the World
Speaker 1: Series of Poker. I like watching poker tournaments on TV
Speaker 1: because it's it's really weird, what's happened to a sport?
Speaker 1: To a poker? They're actually trying to call it a sport,
Speaker 1: you know, And as the everyday guy that doesn't have
Speaker 1: to be athletically inclined to anything, who has a shot
Speaker 1: of winning a title if they play their cards right.
Speaker 1: The best poker players in the world don't have the
Speaker 1: best hands, They just make the best plays. I've seen
Speaker 1: guys win a hand with nine two in their hand
Speaker 1: that's nothing, and win the hand because they knew the bluff,
Speaker 1: they knew the odds, they calculated risks, they made the
Speaker 1: stakes higher than the other person was willing to pay.
Speaker 1: They gave off the illusion that they had something with
Speaker 1: an actuality. They had nothing. So what I what I
Speaker 1: enjoy about poker and watching it is that these people,
Speaker 1: these people here, played the hand they dealt and it
Speaker 1: ain't always a good hand. But it ain't whether your
Speaker 1: hand is good. And it ain't whether you're gonna get
Speaker 1: dealt bad cards or not. Because you're gonna get dealt
Speaker 1: some bad cards. Everybody ain't gonna get two bullets in
Speaker 1: their hand. You ain't gonna get two aces when you
Speaker 1: get dealt. Uh. You know, when you play and draw poker,
Speaker 1: some of your cards gonna be nothing. But you got
Speaker 1: to turn that nothing into something. So when you get
Speaker 1: dealt these cards in life, it ain't the fact that
Speaker 1: you get keep getting them dealt. I was talking with
Speaker 1: a young person yesterday and we were talking and we
Speaker 1: keep having the same conversation over and over and over,
Speaker 1: and they could not understand why they were not moving forward.
Speaker 1: But I said, you don't understand. Every time we talk
Speaker 1: we have the exact same conversation. It is simply because
Speaker 1: you keep getting your cards and you play in them
Speaker 1: the same way. See. Until you make a conscientious different,
Speaker 1: the conscious decision to do something different, the results will
Speaker 1: continue to be the same. See here's the way this works.
Speaker 1: When you're dealt to disappointments in life, it's how you
Speaker 1: handle the disappointments that determine the outcome and who you are.
Speaker 1: Because everybody gonna be disappointment, Everybody gonna lose a love one,
Speaker 1: Everybody gonna make a bad decision, Everybody gonna end wake
Speaker 1: up one morning they have done something they regretted. Everybody
Speaker 1: gonna get caught at the wrong time, every everybody gonna
Speaker 1: make a mistake. It ain't just you. That is how
Speaker 1: you play your cards when they get dealt to you,
Speaker 1: that determine who you are. Na how do I play
Speaker 1: my cards better? First of all, it's a mindset. Quit
Speaker 1: looking at everything as just the end when it happens
Speaker 1: to you. Oh lord, woe is me? Nah, everybody at
Speaker 1: your circumstances somewhere, it ain't old woe is me. It's
Speaker 1: hold on, man, Okay, let me play this out to
Speaker 1: see how God then connected this to something else. See,
Speaker 1: as soon as a person have a setback, what's the
Speaker 1: first thing A lot of people do, They go straight negative.
Speaker 1: I can't see him to get a break. I can't
Speaker 1: see them move forward. Hold on, man, do you realize
Speaker 1: this could be connected to something? But if you take
Speaker 1: the negative position all the time, this setback could be
Speaker 1: connected to something good that's gonna happen for you in
Speaker 1: just a few days, weeks, months, or year or years.
Speaker 1: But it all works for the good. See. You got
Speaker 1: to understand, man, that this thing is all connected. That
Speaker 1: you're not having these mishaps and these spills and accidents
Speaker 1: and falls for no reason. It's so you can become
Speaker 1: experienced at them. So when He takes you to the
Speaker 1: next level, when it happens again, you have no how
Speaker 1: and how to handle it. But if you keep handling
Speaker 1: the wrong if you don't ever handle mishaps correctly, if
Speaker 1: you keep throwing yourself off the cliff every time something happened.
Speaker 1: Come home, man, you're just gonna be a cliff diver.
Speaker 1: You just every time something pop off. Oh here I
Speaker 1: go out to playing without the parachute. Man, stop tripping
Speaker 1: yourself out. I was talking to this young person. I
Speaker 1: kept saying, and you know what they tried to tell me.
Speaker 1: They said, you know, I'm trying to stay positive. This
Speaker 1: is what they told me. I'm trying to stay positive.
Speaker 1: But the people around here they're just killing that. They
Speaker 1: just kill it. Whoa, whoa. Oh that's what our problem is. Oh,
Speaker 1: I see. So when you learn something and you know something,
Speaker 1: you don't take ownership of it. You allow other people
Speaker 1: to come into what you know and believe and shake
Speaker 1: it loose from you. I don't kire who you are.
Speaker 1: You're not doing me like that. You are not doing
Speaker 1: me like that, and don't let nobody do that to you.
Speaker 1: Here's a deal. I have a gift that was given
Speaker 1: to me from God. That is the gift of comedy.
Speaker 1: That's what I've done. I've made the bulk of my
Speaker 1: living on that skill set. Right there. That are comedians
Speaker 1: who are supposedly friends of mine, who I've worked with
Speaker 1: who get around in huddles with one another and they say, man,
Speaker 1: Steve really ain't funny. I don't see what they'd be
Speaker 1: laughing at. He ain't funny to me, he wasn't the
Speaker 1: funniest king. To me, he wasn't the funny? Is that
Speaker 1: to me? Hey, excuse me, excuse me. You're irrelevant in
Speaker 1: this conversation, sir. If I really want to be truthful
Speaker 1: with you, you're irrelevant in this conversation because I regardless
Speaker 1: as to how you feel about me. That are people
Speaker 1: think that I'm knocked down kill over funny. But more importantly,
Speaker 1: I own the gift that God gave to me. I
Speaker 1: take ownership of his blessing, what God has done for me.
Speaker 1: I claim it and own it because you don't think
Speaker 1: it so you ain't taking that from me. Stop letting
Speaker 1: people steal your joy. Stop letting people take what you're
Speaker 1: supposed to. No. Look, I'm a I'm a I'm a
Speaker 1: I'm a kind person at heart. Man, You ain't nothing
Speaker 1: now you said, I here going Man, I guess I
Speaker 1: ain't what you're tripping for. You are a kind person
Speaker 1: own that take ownership of it. Stop letting things God
Speaker 1: has given you be taken away from others. The devil
Speaker 1: is a cold player, and he got cold players working
Speaker 1: for him, just shaking, just taking stuff from you. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm a hard worker. I really am intelligent. You stupid, Oh,
Speaker 1: you stupid man. I thought I was a hard worker. Man.
Speaker 1: They came in here and said I was stupid. Man,
Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm doing wrong? What excuse me?
Speaker 1: You're a very bright person. Hey, y'all take ownership when
Speaker 1: God gives you something, blesses you would have gifted talent,
Speaker 1: a skill set, a mindset, own it. Don't let people
Speaker 1: come in here and take it from you. Man, Okay,
Speaker 1: I probably shouldn't do with that. You're listening to show
Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen playoffs? Everybody, let me have your attention.
Speaker 1: Today is not gonna be another one of them days.
Speaker 1: Today is a new day, new day, a new day day?
Speaker 1: What day? Is it? A new day? A new day
Speaker 1: gonna be a new game? Is that a song? Something says?
Speaker 1: A song? Oh? Yes, yes, just shrling murder. A new
Speaker 1: day brings reality? Yeah? Is that a song? But it's
Speaker 1: gonna be that? And tell me I heard you say
Speaker 1: nude day. I heard a little naked and put a
Speaker 1: little naked in your day. So that naked. Okay, we
Speaker 1: just got here. We just put our clothes on. Crack it,
Speaker 1: it's gonna crack. Yeah. It's a little chili out, a
Speaker 1: little chili wom up, as the old people say, wom up.
Speaker 1: How you feel? How you feeling, Steve, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm talking about, right, Yeah, woma, it's up. It's any
Speaker 1: kitchen on top of it and just warm it up
Speaker 1: and eat it. Nothing wrong with it. Old people had
Speaker 1: a house hot no matter what time of the year.
Speaker 1: And man, let me tell you something. Man, a couple
Speaker 1: of years ago, a couple of years ago, we did.
Speaker 1: I took my family out on Thanksgiving. It we delivered meals,
Speaker 1: meals on wheels, and we delivered all day all you know,
Speaker 1: two families in need. We went into this old lady's house.
Speaker 1: Come on, hey, man, it was so I didn't now
Speaker 1: And as soon as I walked then, Lord Jesus, what
Speaker 1: not you? What is you doing? Downhill? Baby? What didn't
Speaker 1: TV people know you? Downhill? She went to her wonder
Speaker 1: and looked out the color. Ain't no police with you?
Speaker 1: I said, no, ma'am, Oh lord, you want me to
Speaker 1: call my nephews. I said it for what so they
Speaker 1: can watch over you? I said, ma'am, I'm from hill.
Speaker 1: I heard you was, but you don't. It's Look, what
Speaker 1: time is it? I said, twelve thirty? Oh you got
Speaker 1: a little time. Want you to be gone? You're gonna
Speaker 1: stay till this dog? I said, not here. I got
Speaker 1: to do a lot of other house. Oh I thought
Speaker 1: you were gonna stay a while. I said, no, just
Speaker 1: drop this off. I got some more houses to take
Speaker 1: care of. I said all that to say it was
Speaker 1: the hottest house I've ever in my time life. And
Speaker 1: that conversation we had was taken two damn long. I
Speaker 1: had reached that age, that hot stage day. Yeah, man,
Speaker 1: it's gotta be hunt really. Yeah, my room is my
Speaker 1: kids William come see me. It's too hot over their
Speaker 1: dad like, oh, that's the reason you made it. Hey,
Speaker 1: listen coming up at thirty two after the hour, guys,
Speaker 1: we're gonna start the morning off with a question. Uh
Speaker 1: and and it's this, what's something you want to say
Speaker 1: to your significant other but you're scared. We'll do that
Speaker 1: at thirty two after right after. Oh yes, you're listening
Speaker 1: to show well now, anyone in a relationship knows that
Speaker 1: no matter how much you love someone, you know, kissy, kissy, smoothie,
Speaker 1: all of that, how much you love them, there are
Speaker 1: things about them that get on your nerves. Okay, I
Speaker 1: redded Pole asked, what's the one thing you wish you
Speaker 1: could say to your spouse or your mate but you
Speaker 1: cannot bring yourself to say it because you know it's
Speaker 1: gonna cost World War three? Up in there some head,
Speaker 1: you know, like little bitty gripes like we can just
Speaker 1: go with that. I've got all right. Oh, why don't
Speaker 1: you shut up? Oh? Uh, okay, let me, that's me.
Speaker 1: Let me just let me. Let me ask this question
Speaker 1: before you jump the gun. Mister Harvey, you say it
Speaker 1: what you want to say, but you don't say because
Speaker 1: you scared your spouse or your mate or your significant other?
Speaker 1: Did you miss your heart? Is there something you want
Speaker 1: to say to your wife your significant other but you're
Speaker 1: too scared to say? I'll say it one more time.
Speaker 1: Why is my answer not sufficient? It's not that it's
Speaker 1: not sufficient. You got a lot of aggression on you. Yes,
Speaker 1: are you serious right now? Oh? Don't act like y'all
Speaker 1: see what killed me? Not not not here, the two foods,
Speaker 1: all the suddenness concerned that they I totally agree with you.
Speaker 1: This is the time. I definitely agree that you say
Speaker 1: what this is about? Every man wants to say that,
Speaker 1: and that's what I say for him. Say do you wait?
Speaker 1: So what do you as the only wife here? Do
Speaker 1: you guys think that Nesta wants to say that to
Speaker 1: me with everything in him? You know what you want
Speaker 1: to say? Sir? When the hell are you gonna cook
Speaker 1: something round here that ain't gonna kill me? No, Shirley,
Speaker 1: what he has thought that? Yeah? He thought that? Really? Okay, then,
Speaker 1: believe it or not. There are times in a relationship,
Speaker 1: and I've been in a line when a man really
Speaker 1: don't want to hear what you got to say at
Speaker 1: all at all. Okay, now I understand I get that, Okay,
Speaker 1: But to say it like you said, it's no you say,
Speaker 1: I said, this is something I want to say to
Speaker 1: your wife? What you to your wife's about? But you
Speaker 1: can't be cause you skate it right? You just yo,
Speaker 1: this is what my husband is thinking all the time.
Speaker 1: Not all the time, Shelly, we thought that. When y'all
Speaker 1: be right, it's something I want to say no, come on,
Speaker 1: are we ever gonna do it? When I want to do? Huh?
Speaker 1: You the one pick and choose all the damn time. Hey,
Speaker 1: that's that's never gone. Yeah. Wow, you guys really have
Speaker 1: stuff like your You said what you want to, yes,
Speaker 1: but you're afraid to say it. I didn't think you
Speaker 1: would say that. Okay, I got one, every man to say,
Speaker 1: you think you can cook that meal, but you cannot.
Speaker 1: You ain't never got it right? The hatred that I
Speaker 1: have built right now for you guys, I think we
Speaker 1: have not said said it all right? Come on, see
Speaker 1: you have more dang something you want to say to
Speaker 1: your wife, a significant other that that that you're too
Speaker 1: scared to say? Oh, just like you mom? Yeah, I
Speaker 1: got one okay, yeah, Tommy first, just cause you have
Speaker 1: any damn hot flash, don't mean I don't have it. Okay,
Speaker 1: I got one. Yes, that dress makes your butt look did? Okay? Yes? No,
Speaker 1: I don't want to hear that I got one? What what? Hell? No?
Speaker 1: Like what you got on? But we gotta get out
Speaker 1: of here because we laid already. She's only changed time.
Speaker 1: So bab you like this? Oh yeah, come on, yeah
Speaker 1: we did. Oh you you nailed it. That's it right,
Speaker 1: we're saying, we're saying what we want to see this.
Speaker 1: How scared you are you're trying to man? Okay, let
Speaker 1: me make it hear here. The girl I had for
Speaker 1: we got married, knew how to cook some damn going
Speaker 1: tom Man. You can't say oh no, no, but you
Speaker 1: can say what you said. It's all the same, sir.
Speaker 1: I'm oh I got one. Wait till I've seen that.
Speaker 1: So okay, I got one. Every man is wonder say
Speaker 1: what you ask me if she's fine? And now my answer, yes,
Speaker 1: she is fine. Hell. So this is what you guys
Speaker 1: are holding in. Okay, all right? Is there something you
Speaker 1: want to say to your wife or significant other that
Speaker 1: you're too afraid to say? Uh, steve anything else to
Speaker 1: get off your dress? What? I guess you got one
Speaker 1: right quick, Timmy. I don't love you like that. I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't love you like that right there,
Speaker 1: right there. I don't love you like that, But I'm
Speaker 1: just taking another. Yes, that's yes. Oh god, Oh I
Speaker 1: wish I never had met your ass. I got one
Speaker 1: to close it out of the zoo. I wish I
Speaker 1: had never met your Go ahead, Jake, go ahead. Okay,
Speaker 1: sometimes you just do that too hard. Okay, that's all
Speaker 1: I'm say. Yes, come on, this has to be like
Speaker 1: like that movie that's that's out with Teraji p Henson.
Speaker 1: What men want? You know? She could read their thoughts? Yeah,
Speaker 1: thank god, every woman can read her husband's thoughts. I
Speaker 1: hate all of you, I really do. Right now, oh man,
Speaker 1: I really do you know? All right? Coming up next,
Speaker 1: it is the nephew would run that prank back. I
Speaker 1: hate all of you. See Tommy and Jake today. Right
Speaker 1: now you're listening Day Morning show. Coming up at the
Speaker 1: top of the hour, guys, miss Anne, we'll be here
Speaker 1: with our national news and I'll have some entertainment news
Speaker 1: for you. But right now it is the nephew here
Speaker 1: would run that prank back. Nephew, what you got is that?
Speaker 1: Oh triosity? Oh triosity? Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach
Speaker 1: Marvin Police. Yes, speaking Marvin High. I'm calling you from
Speaker 1: doctor's office. I'm actually the lab technician. Um and you
Speaker 1: you came in and I got it physical I guess
Speaker 1: about a couple of weeks ago. Yeah, okay, and my
Speaker 1: understanding this is for your for your occupation, correct, Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: you're at what do you do for a living when
Speaker 1: you're a Oh yeah, I'm a tub job. Okay, Now
Speaker 1: I was giving you a call about I'm here looking
Speaker 1: at your records and all the testings that you actually
Speaker 1: went through. Um wow, let's see have you had any
Speaker 1: Have you had any activity or any problems around your
Speaker 1: naval area? Na that's fine, okay, saying all right, h yeah,
Speaker 1: everything's fine. But I mean if you haven't had any
Speaker 1: any type of nothing, no breakout or anything around your
Speaker 1: navel or whatsoever. No about my navel. Now everything's going straight, man, Okay,
Speaker 1: to see what's going on? Man, what's happening? Okay? Actually,
Speaker 1: you've been diagnosed with um oak triositis and oristriosis is
Speaker 1: actually a fungus that comes out of South America. And
Speaker 1: you have no activity whatsoever around your navel. It's otriositis, sir.
Speaker 1: And what what that is is actually you're you're if
Speaker 1: you haven't had it yet, you say you haven't had
Speaker 1: any activity. There's gonna be like a small little tree
Speaker 1: that's gonna be growing from your navel, and it gets
Speaker 1: about six inches long and it probably bears about probably
Speaker 1: about twenty five to thirty leaves on it, but it's
Speaker 1: very small. You see a tree gonna be growing out
Speaker 1: my name, It's to be a small tree. And Uh,
Speaker 1: what's gonna happen is I'm gonna have to get you
Speaker 1: to come back in probably in the next month. We're
Speaker 1: gonna need you to come in so we can check
Speaker 1: it out. But it's got to grow its fullest potential
Speaker 1: before we can actually do anything to it. Nah, I
Speaker 1: can't come in and on money. I got to come
Speaker 1: in today, man, somebody got to we we get just
Speaker 1: trying to resolve. Man, I'm tryna get married. Man. Well,
Speaker 1: we can't. It has to grow its fullest potential, sir.
Speaker 1: And the full term is actually like about four weeks
Speaker 1: before we can actual man. I'm not waiting for those
Speaker 1: four weeks. Man. Somebody got to come tell me something, right, Nah, Man,
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna go married. Man. Have to fly to time,
Speaker 1: man and have something going out of my neighbor. Man.
Speaker 1: Y'all going crazy, man, sir, Oa Triosa. This is something
Speaker 1: that's very rare. We're actually getting this assignment from overseas
Speaker 1: in South America on how to treat this. Man. I
Speaker 1: don't give it down. Where is it? Man? Somebody's gonna
Speaker 1: have to come give me some some help, right nah, Man,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get ready to get married. Man, I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna be putting up with it. Man, Somebody in this
Speaker 1: office main't got to come down in do something for me. Man,
Speaker 1: And what you say, you said I could cut it
Speaker 1: out myself. So the best I can do is probably
Speaker 1: trim it a bit, you know, and maybe knock a
Speaker 1: few leaves off. But I cannot touch the full stock
Speaker 1: at all. Man. You can cut this day do something
Speaker 1: if you cut it right now, you cannot, sir. If
Speaker 1: you cut it, there's a possibility of hemorrhaging, and you're
Speaker 1: gonna really create a bigger problem than what you have already. Man,
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get this dot. Man. You didn't tell me.
Speaker 1: Ain't nobody never I've dried on there and get this
Speaker 1: put man. I'm gonna get married in two weeks. Man,
Speaker 1: we're gonna fly to Jamaican. It can't now. Somebody can
Speaker 1: do this for me. Pull so you cannot pull it out,
Speaker 1: You're gonna create, good Man, You're gonna create a bigger
Speaker 1: problem if you try to pull it out. Sorry, problems
Speaker 1: already out. I'm trying to get this problem. Man, give
Speaker 1: me tell me a big hospital. Ain't nowt hit me
Speaker 1: you want me to do that? Man, It's not something man.
Speaker 1: I poke out of my summer and you're telling me
Speaker 1: it ain't you can do. Man, sir, Oak triositis is
Speaker 1: not something that we treat all the time. Like I said,
Speaker 1: it hails from South America, so we got I don't
Speaker 1: give a from Great Britain. Somebody for me to come
Speaker 1: down and help me, poor man, Sir. I understand what
Speaker 1: you're going through, but we have to let it grow.
Speaker 1: It's full term, which is four weeks, sir, the full
Speaker 1: root of it having to grow. Man, I ain't something
Speaker 1: whoa man, I'm going to go down right, nah Man,
Speaker 1: y'all gonna have to do something. Man, Sure, there's nothing
Speaker 1: we can do. We can probably trim it a little bit.
Speaker 1: The trim get some training so this man do something. Sir.
Speaker 1: There's nothing we can do at this point but sit
Speaker 1: back and wait and let it grow. It's full term, Okay.
Speaker 1: Can we get you doing the waiting? Man? Somebody helped me, right,
Speaker 1: nah man, Sir. Can we get an appointment for you
Speaker 1: in the next four to five weeks and we do that.
Speaker 1: Now you got to get a pointment for me to day.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give madder. Man, I'm gonna fly to Jamaica. Now,
Speaker 1: I can't have them sticking out of me. I can't
Speaker 1: see it. The apport. Man, you're going embarrass me like
Speaker 1: that man after got out my neighbor. Sir, I understand it,
Speaker 1: and like I said, oatriositis is very rare, and it's
Speaker 1: it's something that we haven't treated that many times here
Speaker 1: in the States, but overseas or the message that we're
Speaker 1: getting is that we need to let it grow. It's
Speaker 1: full term me. Ain't nobody in the Milicans got what man,
Speaker 1: it's oatriositis, sir, So I get it. If nobody else
Speaker 1: got it, Sir, I could not believe that you were
Speaker 1: coming up with oatriositis here in the States. It's it's
Speaker 1: something very rarely seen here. There's been two people in
Speaker 1: the past has been diagnosed with this and they actually
Speaker 1: passed away. So now you tell them dive and you're
Speaker 1: gonna till me three weeks. Man, I'm coming down that
Speaker 1: a day. Man, somebody could do something for me, sir.
Speaker 1: There's nothing that we can do today until four to
Speaker 1: five weeks or I got to get married. I'm fine
Speaker 1: to Jamaica, Man, I said, Man, I'm hearing what you're saying,
Speaker 1: but I can't do anything if you don't see the
Speaker 1: tree already coming out of the navel. Yeah, somebody got
Speaker 1: to do something. Man. Now I'm saying what you want
Speaker 1: me to do. Man, I don't know what I want
Speaker 1: you to do, sir, but I have one more thing
Speaker 1: I can tell you what you got to say. Man, Oh,
Speaker 1: you're listening. I'm listening to you. Man. This is nephew
Speaker 1: Timmy from the Steve Harpin Morning Show. You just got
Speaker 1: pranked by your boy, Earl. Man. You gotta be kid, Damn,
Speaker 1: I'm protected out my wig. Man, you too, lift you
Speaker 1: Tommy Man, Man, y'all he'll be going crazy here. Man,
Speaker 1: I'm looking at all of my damn neighbor things. The
Speaker 1: truth Fella, go out this man. I'm on Man, No,
Speaker 1: you ain't on right now. Man, I'm already never to
Speaker 1: get married in two weeks. Man, Hey, Man, I got
Speaker 1: one more thing to ask you, Marvin Man, what is
Speaker 1: the baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio show in
Speaker 1: the land, Steve Harvard Morning Show. If you're listening your
Speaker 1: answers out the wed Yeah you out. That's so creosty
Speaker 1: for Carla right there, shirt, I feel better, Carla. That's
Speaker 1: his favorite one. Yeah, your answers the weed. You understand
Speaker 1: that you got the weed. Kleen Texas. The Nephew is
Speaker 1: coming to town, Baby, February fourteen, fifteenth, and sixteenth twice
Speaker 1: is Funny Comedy Club. Tickets on sale right now, y'all
Speaker 1: get them, Get them, get them. The Nephew was coming.
Speaker 1: All you troops out there. I'm coming to visit the
Speaker 1: base and hang out with y'all a little bit on Saturday.
Speaker 1: But that's what I do. Miles A given, I give
Speaker 1: back to won't do veterans, West Palm Beach, Florida. I
Speaker 1: will be there February twenty second, twenty third, and twenty
Speaker 1: fourth at the Improp. Tickets on sale red Nah, thank you. Nephew.
Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, Miss Anne
Speaker 1: will be here with our national news and entertainment news.
Speaker 1: I'll tell you that Rihanna has been up to something.
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what that is. And I have some
Speaker 1: sad news about a legendary soap opera star that's all
Speaker 1: coming up right after this you're listening to show, all right,
Speaker 1: Donald Trump, our president has accepted newly sworn in House
Speaker 1: Speaker Nancy Pelosi's updated invitation to address a joint session
Speaker 1: of Congress. That'll be tonight at nine pm Eastern. It'll
Speaker 1: be Trump's second State of the Union address, where he
Speaker 1: will lay out his agenda for his third year in office.
Speaker 1: Although Trump has reopened the government fully, that continued standoff
Speaker 1: about border wall funding goes on, and we'll play a
Speaker 1: big part in his speech. Former Georgia gubernatorial candidate Stacy
Speaker 1: Abrams will be giving the Democratic rebuttal to mister Trump's address.
Speaker 1: That's good news. I'm sure she'll have a lot to say.
Speaker 1: And entertainment news. We're excited about our girl Rihanna. She
Speaker 1: has a brand new album on the horizon. A studio
Speaker 1: producer confirmed to US Weekly that yes, Rihanna has about
Speaker 1: five hundred new songs for this project, but of course
Speaker 1: it's only one album, so they'll probably only choose about ten,
Speaker 1: so she'll have four ninety left over four hundred, five
Speaker 1: hundred new songs. That's like Prince Territory, right, I mean
Speaker 1: that must be five hundred people have submitted songs. Well
Speaker 1: it's just for her. Yeah, yeah, that's a lot, and
Speaker 1: she's they're only picking ten, you know how albums go.
Speaker 1: Also in sad news, this is really sad news for
Speaker 1: Young and the Restless bands actor Christoph Saint John. He
Speaker 1: has died. Christoph played the role of Neil Winters on
Speaker 1: Young and the Restless. He was in that role since
Speaker 1: nineteen ninety one. It was a role that earned him
Speaker 1: ten in Double ACP Image Awards. Law enforcement sources reported
Speaker 1: that one of Christoph's friends went to check on him
Speaker 1: at his home in the San Fernando Valley of in
Speaker 1: a Los Angelist and found his body. Paramedics pronounced Christoph
Speaker 1: dead on the scene. Yeah you remember him, Yeah, pronounced
Speaker 1: him dead on the scene and reported that there was
Speaker 1: no sign of foul play, but one four says that
Speaker 1: alcohol may have played a role. So I don't know,
Speaker 1: all right, A long time, Yeah, a long time. So
Speaker 1: we're just you know, Christoph and condolences to his family
Speaker 1: Rest in peace. I remember, you know what I'm I'm
Speaker 1: pretty sure I met him backstage somewhere. Man introduced a
Speaker 1: lot of work as a presenter somewhere. Oh wow, you know,
Speaker 1: we didn't know each other well at all, but I
Speaker 1: do remember making contact with him and so at an
Speaker 1: award show, I introduced him or something like that. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's sad man. Yeah, it really is, It really really is.
Speaker 1: You never think about it. I remember when I used
Speaker 1: to watch Young and the Restless. He and Shamar Moore
Speaker 1: played brother's on that show, and he just got engaged
Speaker 1: in August. Who we understand, hey and christ condolences goes
Speaker 1: out to his family. Absolutely. And on another note, A
Speaker 1: I wasn't you know, we were kind of touched on
Speaker 1: it yesterday. I wasn't aware of any super Bowl boycott.
Speaker 1: Did you all know about a super Bowl boycott in
Speaker 1: New Orleans? There was one? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah they
Speaker 1: have Yeah, I know that one. I know that. Rihanna
Speaker 1: and Cardi B said they weren't performing at the super
Speaker 1: Bowl to support college capital. Right when they initially asked them,
Speaker 1: they turned they turned the half down halftime performance down right.
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I'm not, I'm not. I didn't know.
Speaker 1: I didn't know of any organized boycott. No, I don't
Speaker 1: think anything organized. No, people were talking about it. Yes,
Speaker 1: the whole French quarter did a black out just to
Speaker 1: let you know, oh wow, and you really like boycott
Speaker 1: in this game? Wouldn't have nobody customer to see man
Speaker 1: the lowest scoring game in the history of the Super Bowl. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: let's quit calling it that the worst game we've ever
Speaker 1: seen played in the worst Wow. No, I've never seen
Speaker 1: the worst game. Well, uh, Steve, let's go to National
Speaker 1: News with miss Anne. Please, ladies and gentlemen, without further
Speaker 1: a due miss Anne trip, Thank you very much everybody.
Speaker 1: In good morning. President Trump makes his State of the
Speaker 1: Union speech, as Shirley said in it tonight, it's around
Speaker 1: nine o'clock by the way Eastern. He's expected to lay
Speaker 1: out his case again for his five and a half
Speaker 1: billion dollars with a b vorder wall. Now right now,
Speaker 1: the White House and Congressional Democrats remain far apart on
Speaker 1: water security funding, and there's no indication that they're going
Speaker 1: to get any closer to a compromise by the new
Speaker 1: shutdown or emergency declaration deadline, which is February fifteen fast approaching.
Speaker 1: And yes, Georgia Stacy Abrams has been selected to deliver
Speaker 1: the Democratic rebuttal to the speech. Abrams, the black woman
Speaker 1: who ran in all almost won the governorship of the
Speaker 1: Peach State last November is considered a rising star in
Speaker 1: the Democratic Party. Still no resolution in the situation involving
Speaker 1: Virginia Governor Ralph Northam and that the unearthed medical school
Speaker 1: yearbook page photo. But how Speaker Kirk Cox, who's a Republican,
Speaker 1: says that nobody's actually thinking of throwing north amount of
Speaker 1: office at this point. Impeachment. That's a very high standard.
Speaker 1: So I think that's why we have called for the
Speaker 1: resign nation. We hope that's what the governor does. I
Speaker 1: think that would obviously be less paying for everyone. Well,
Speaker 1: so far, Northern says he will not step down, but
Speaker 1: just in case he does, his Lieutenant Governor Justin Fairfax,
Speaker 1: would lead the state House. And Justin Fairfax happens to
Speaker 1: be an African American, by the way, And he is
Speaker 1: really slamming the Washington Post this morning because they're printing
Speaker 1: a story and allegation from the same right wing website
Speaker 1: that unearthed that photo claiming that Fairfax sexually assaulted a
Speaker 1: woman in a few years back in the Democratic National Convention.
Speaker 1: He says that's lie and that he's very very upset
Speaker 1: that the Washington Posts printed at The Washington does admit
Speaker 1: in the article apparently that they have not been able
Speaker 1: to verify that allegation. The campaign manager of Northern's challenging
Speaker 1: me while it seems mifted at the Republican Governor's Association,
Speaker 1: Ed Gillespie lost, his campaign manager tells Fox News that
Speaker 1: the Republican Governors Association was responsible for all that so
Speaker 1: called opposition research, you know, digging up dirt on people,
Speaker 1: and one is allowed how that racist snapshot of Northern
Speaker 1: wasn't turned up by them last year during that election.
Speaker 1: Automaker General Motors has reportedly begun handing out pink slips
Speaker 1: to about four thousand salaried workers as part of a
Speaker 1: restructuring of the company. GM reportedly slashing jobs and its
Speaker 1: information technology units in Texas and Michigan, Arizona and Georgia.
Speaker 1: And I hate to end this on a sad note,
Speaker 1: but I have to. Yes, Christophe Saint John is dead.
Speaker 1: Officials say that the body of the fifty two year
Speaker 1: old actor who played Neil Winters on The Young and
Speaker 1: the Restless discovered at his California home. No official cause
Speaker 1: of death mentioned, but TMZ reports that alcohol might have
Speaker 1: been involved. Saint John's twenty four year old son, Julian,
Speaker 1: committed suicide in twenty fourteen. He's been grieving ever since.
Speaker 1: Down back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening
Speaker 1: to show, all right, Steve, it is time for asked Steve.
Speaker 1: Here's a question from a listener. It says, Steve, I've
Speaker 1: been dating a guy for six months and we are
Speaker 1: both very involved in our church. Now, when we first met,
Speaker 1: I told him that I was practicing celibacy and he
Speaker 1: was okay with it. Now he is ready to have
Speaker 1: sex and I'm not. My friends tell me I'm stupid
Speaker 1: and I'm going to lose a good man. Am I
Speaker 1: really being stupid? Steve? Well, you're not being stupid, of
Speaker 1: course not. Those are your values and morals and you
Speaker 1: you make decisions for your life what you think is
Speaker 1: the best. The majority of your friends is calling you stupid.
Speaker 1: Are they in a committed relationship? Are they married? You know?
Speaker 1: How do they know what's right for you? And what
Speaker 1: you decide to do is the right thing? That you
Speaker 1: and this dude go to the same church and you
Speaker 1: both agreed. But now let's just have a real conversation here.
Speaker 1: It is easier to say you're gonna wait for marriage
Speaker 1: than it actually is to wait for marriage. It is,
Speaker 1: especially if you're dating on a regular basis. Yes, and
Speaker 1: especially if you've had sex befoult, yes, hard to say
Speaker 1: no to that. What are we waiting? It ain't good
Speaker 1: when we get to yeah, yeah, no, no, it's not.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry y'all to stay out there. I'm just telling you,
Speaker 1: the young lady, that is hard to do that. It
Speaker 1: is that it is, And the guy who said he
Speaker 1: could do it, he threw. He threw now, And I'm
Speaker 1: not mad at the guy for wanting you, because that's
Speaker 1: that's the human nature of it. So you wouldn't even
Speaker 1: need to sit down and call to have talks. Now.
Speaker 1: I've heard other people say, you know, there are other
Speaker 1: things y'all could do, and I don't know what that is.
Speaker 1: But wait, what, Steve, what did you just say? I said,
Speaker 1: I've heard people say that's other things y'all can do.
Speaker 1: I don't know what that is. You didn't hear that
Speaker 1: from Steve. That won't lead to having sex some kind
Speaker 1: of way. I just said. I have heard people say,
Speaker 1: that's other things that two people can do instead of
Speaker 1: having sex. Now, based on the sex that I've had,
Speaker 1: I can think of no replacement. All right, look, we
Speaker 1: gotta go coming up at thirty four, None of this foolishness.
Speaker 1: Thirty four after Jay's gonna have some comedy roulette for us,
Speaker 1: and that is your favorite thing, Steve. Right after this,
Speaker 1: right after this, you're listening to show. All right, guys,
Speaker 1: it is time for comedy roulette. Jay, please do the
Speaker 1: honors and explain. Go ahead, look on his face, all right, priceless,
Speaker 1: I know right. You gotta do it, though anything, do
Speaker 1: you take four subjects? Because we're all comedians, we can
Speaker 1: do this. You put those four subjects, one at a
Speaker 1: time on a wheel that goes around and around. When
Speaker 1: that wheel spins round and around and around, where that
Speaker 1: wheel stops. Because we're all comedians, will do the damn thing.
Speaker 1: All right, Here we go with the topics. Things you
Speaker 1: hide in the fridge from other people, all right. Lies
Speaker 1: you tell yourself when you're running out of gas, what
Speaker 1: you say to yourself when you get dumped, and what
Speaker 1: you say when you oversleep, spend the wheel? Catch spun
Speaker 1: it spun the wheel. I'm like you's thinking something, but
Speaker 1: it's what you say to yourself when you get dumped.
Speaker 1: I want to this one. Let's go, guys, let me
Speaker 1: start it off. Come on, hey, I was gonna go
Speaker 1: into service anyway, so this relationship wasn't gonna work out anyway.
Speaker 1: I don't really like I didn't really wan't her no way,
Speaker 1: it was her best friend. I really want it to
Speaker 1: be honest with you. Work it out for yourself. Yes,
Speaker 1: what you say to yourself when you get dumped, Steve,
Speaker 1: you don't want crazy? I ain't crazy when trust me,
Speaker 1: your breath was gonna break us up. You know, I
Speaker 1: didn't really care for you making me wear all that
Speaker 1: leather in the bedroom anyway, So I'm glad we ain't
Speaker 1: doing this. No mother, I'm chap nah. Come on, See
Speaker 1: what you say to yourself when you get dumbed. I
Speaker 1: was just about to text her anyway, right after breakfast.
Speaker 1: You say to yourself when you bring up I don't
Speaker 1: know how to tell you, but I never did like
Speaker 1: your dogs. How about you know? Truth be told, Truth
Speaker 1: be told. My baby mama won't me back anyway. Talk
Speaker 1: ain't worry about this right here? What you say to
Speaker 1: yourself when you get dumped? I bet you I can
Speaker 1: find somebody else love, you said to yourself when you're done,
Speaker 1: and just in case you get ready to call me,
Speaker 1: I have blocked all. You know. He's hurt. Oh, he's hurt.
Speaker 1: He's hurt. You know what, you know what? What you
Speaker 1: know what, Tommy, she'll be back because don't nobody to
Speaker 1: do that little thing that I do. Don't nobody else
Speaker 1: do that. She'll be back. That third person temm me
Speaker 1: right there, he's hurt. Yes, what you say to yourself
Speaker 1: when you get jumped. See, you ain't the first person
Speaker 1: leave me. You think you're doing something. Thank you doing
Speaker 1: something that didn't knowing I didn't left. That be like
Speaker 1: you doing something. You say something you get I don't
Speaker 1: know how to tell you, but the white girl was
Speaker 1: checking me out anyway, right, Yeah, you know what what
Speaker 1: you know what, Timmy, I'm gonna we're gonna get our
Speaker 1: life together. We're gonna going to church and we're gonna
Speaker 1: just let the Lord as we let the Lord ask
Speaker 1: about it up. That's a good one. Yeah, one more,
Speaker 1: Steve close it out. Huh here my lips say he
Speaker 1: can't be I'm next to next right after the great job. Guys,
Speaker 1: you're listening to show coming up at the top of
Speaker 1: the hour, right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry
Speaker 1: letter for today subject could her EX be My Next?
Speaker 1: That is the subject for today's strawberry letter, Could her
Speaker 1: X be my Next? But right now the nephew is
Speaker 1: in the building with today's prank phone call Tommy, what
Speaker 1: do you have for us today? Sir? No games today, Sir?
Speaker 1: I couill bookie here it is no games today? Running. Hello. Hello,
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach a Quincy. Please. This is Hey.
Speaker 1: How are you? My name is Maurice. Maurice calling you
Speaker 1: from the power company. How are you doing today? I'm
Speaker 1: all right? What's up? Well, listen, we're doing some testing
Speaker 1: in your neighborhood. We're trying to make sure we don't
Speaker 1: have to actually shut the power down out there, and
Speaker 1: we're calling around quite a few people in your neighborhood,
Speaker 1: running some tests on individual homes and making sure the
Speaker 1: electricity is running correctly. Can I get you to do
Speaker 1: a few things swarm and see and the quicker we
Speaker 1: get through with this, sir, and as possibility, we won't
Speaker 1: have to turn your power off. But all I know
Speaker 1: you don't want us to have to come out and
Speaker 1: turn power off. And you got stuff in your refrigerator
Speaker 1: that can spoil and things like that. So we want
Speaker 1: to try to get this done and hopefully the power
Speaker 1: with the with the test that we run, it'll it'll
Speaker 1: run correctly and we won't have to do anything. Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't know about an electricity though, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, So no, no, no, I understand that. Don't
Speaker 1: worry about that. All right, here's what I need you
Speaker 1: to do. Now. How big is your house? What do
Speaker 1: you how many bedrooms? You got four bedrooms? Now you
Speaker 1: have upstairs downstairs? It's too short, okay, all right, so
Speaker 1: here's what we need to do. Um, if you can't,
Speaker 1: ain't gonna take loan though, right, I got it, because
Speaker 1: I'm in a hurry. Then ain't gonna have a lot
Speaker 1: of time. No, no, no, this this, this, this, this
Speaker 1: won't take long at all. So can I get you
Speaker 1: to take your breaker and shut down everything upstairs and
Speaker 1: we're gonna run a test on the stuff downstairs right now.
Speaker 1: It'll be real quick, all right, just shut just shut
Speaker 1: everything off. I want you to keep the downstairs open
Speaker 1: and keep that to the weekness so we can run
Speaker 1: our tests on this thing. All right, everything's shut, everything's down. Okay.
Speaker 1: You you turned off everything. I just turned off all
Speaker 1: the switches. Okay. Here's what I need you to do.
Speaker 1: I need you to turn on your television and then
Speaker 1: turn it off downstairs downstairs. How many TVs you got downstairs?
Speaker 1: I got two TVs downstairs. Let's turn them both on.
Speaker 1: You just turn them on, Just turn them on. You
Speaker 1: got them on? I got one on. Let's try to
Speaker 1: turn that other one on. All right, they both on. Okay. Now,
Speaker 1: you got a microwave in your kitchen? Yeah, yeah, microwave. Okay,
Speaker 1: turn that on. It's already on. Man. I can see
Speaker 1: the light zone, it's got the clock on it. That's
Speaker 1: got that double h run thing that's going through there,
Speaker 1: and it's a whole different type of current. I just
Speaker 1: want to mount number what you're talking about. But I
Speaker 1: gotta get to work, man, So the microwaves on, it's running. No, No,
Speaker 1: I want you to actually turn it on. I want
Speaker 1: you to actually push like a minute or two on
Speaker 1: that thing. Do with anything, man, Come on now, I mean,
Speaker 1: what do you gotta do? No, this is a test, sir.
Speaker 1: What I don't want to have to do is come
Speaker 1: out there and turn your power off. And I don't
Speaker 1: want to do that. You got a lot of food
Speaker 1: in your fridge, I'm sure, right, all right, all right,
Speaker 1: I look it's on microwaves zone TV zones. Okay, now
Speaker 1: open your refrige. Man, the electricity works downstairs. Okay, but
Speaker 1: listen now, I know, but what we gotta do is
Speaker 1: we gotta make sure that this stuff isn't overpower. Now.
Speaker 1: Can you open your refrigerator? Yeah? Yeah, man, do you
Speaker 1: see the button that actually has you can turn on?
Speaker 1: You can push it in the lighter go out. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm talking about. Come on, man, you ain't
Speaker 1: got nobody to just be able to check something outside. Man,
Speaker 1: I mean I'm in the fridge. I understand. But push
Speaker 1: that button five times for him and see what it does.
Speaker 1: What the light button? Yeah, push that light button five times?
Speaker 1: Come on, man, that did it? Go off? And on?
Speaker 1: Every day's oping on? Man? Actually they wrong with the
Speaker 1: refrigerate reficiates plug in. Man. Okay, Now here's what I
Speaker 1: want you to do. Right there, and you're in the kitchen,
Speaker 1: turn your sink on for me. Turn sink on. What
Speaker 1: they got through electricity? Many that's a nitril current. That's
Speaker 1: a nitril current. You wouldn't understand that, But I need
Speaker 1: you to turn that on for me too. Just turn
Speaker 1: it on full blast. Got it on, I got it on. Okay,
Speaker 1: Now go in your master bedroom. I can turn it off. No,
Speaker 1: let that water run. Go in your master bedroom and
Speaker 1: go in the bath for me. I appreciate you helping
Speaker 1: me out on this. Man. Come on, man, Quincy, I
Speaker 1: appreciate a hurry. I mean everything that. It's everything I'm in.
Speaker 1: I'm in the baths. Plush that toilet for me, Quincy,
Speaker 1: see where plush that toilet for me? Plush the toilet. Yeah,
Speaker 1: plush that toilet. It isn't even electrical what it is.
Speaker 1: It's a it's a it's an awkward book and heard.
Speaker 1: You need to get somebody up. Okay, I'm gonna plush
Speaker 1: the toilet. It ain't no electrical plugs in that in
Speaker 1: this area, man, right. I understand that you don't see
Speaker 1: what it is. This is an awkward booky current that
Speaker 1: flows through that water. Plush that thing for me one time. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's it. Okay, all right, toilet Worse, man, you ain't
Speaker 1: got nobody in the area that could come out here
Speaker 1: and just check it out. Man, Quincy, I'm trying my
Speaker 1: best not to come out and and and and and
Speaker 1: turn your power off. And I know you got someone
Speaker 1: to go turn my power off. You're supposed to making
Speaker 1: sure the power stay on, right, I understand that. Now
Speaker 1: do you have, Quincy, Do you have a blender? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I gotta blender, man, I gotta blender. I got a TV,
Speaker 1: I got a refrigerator. And they all worked the Twitter
Speaker 1: it works, everything worked all right. What I want you
Speaker 1: to do is get this blender and we'll just throw
Speaker 1: you a few cues to eyes or something there and
Speaker 1: turn that thing on for him. Come on, man, we're
Speaker 1: almost done. I got to get to work, man, This
Speaker 1: work women who comprecated. Man, this is just the blunder.
Speaker 1: Come on, man, it's a bully. I said, I have
Speaker 1: to mention your current us be walking with house. Man.
Speaker 1: You need to take the next house. You don't have
Speaker 1: no problems with no smoothes or nothing in that thing,
Speaker 1: do you you see? Man? With the world, I got
Speaker 1: to do anything. Man, I gotta get to work. I understand.
Speaker 1: I just listen to a minute. A minute got too
Speaker 1: far to come out here or do this because I
Speaker 1: need to get to my job, and I got understand
Speaker 1: that job. Well, I could just call and have people
Speaker 1: go through the damn house playing scavenger hunt. I gotta
Speaker 1: get to work. Okay, now, listen, Quincy, one last thing.
Speaker 1: Are you able to shut that breaker? Put that breaker
Speaker 1: back on and then shut off downstairs, and then go
Speaker 1: upstairs and check some stuff for me? Shut up? What
Speaker 1: shut off the breaker downstairs? Go ahead and turn it.
Speaker 1: I'm not shutting up no breaker downstairs. I shut off
Speaker 1: the water upstairs. We didn't turn on every damn thing
Speaker 1: down here. You didn't have me. I got the blender.
Speaker 1: I didn't turn on the microwave to from Fritz Lay,
Speaker 1: cool Man Fresh and the tall us. I gotta get
Speaker 1: to work, quist it. I needs you to lose this
Speaker 1: attitude you got. I need you get somebody down here
Speaker 1: to do my electricity in my house work. It worked
Speaker 1: for you. Calm me, an't thing ain't work. It's my
Speaker 1: ain't at work because I'm here doing this book playing
Speaker 1: off and all. Get somebody in here to work. I
Speaker 1: don't piss me off and make me turn it all
Speaker 1: the way off. We must work. And when I get
Speaker 1: back from work, way this should be on. I got
Speaker 1: one more thing I need to say to you. Quinny,
Speaker 1: it's better be the last thing that his nephew Timmy
Speaker 1: from the Steve Hobby Morning Show. You just got preaked
Speaker 1: by your sister gown still better being a witness protection program. Man,
Speaker 1: Let me turn it one. Man, Hey man, let me
Speaker 1: ask you something. Man, what is the baddest I'm talking
Speaker 1: about the baddest radio show in the land as guy
Speaker 1: be Steve Harvey Morning Show and Tommy you call me again,
Speaker 1: They're gonna be the show used to have Tommy on.
Speaker 1: That is Serta. That was my mom's favorite. My mom
Speaker 1: loved that one. She really did. Yes. February fourteen, fifteen sixteen.
Speaker 1: You heard you been talking about it. The nephew is
Speaker 1: coming to Kaleen, Texas brand new Comedy Club twice as
Speaker 1: Funny Comedy Club. Tickets on sale right now, so go
Speaker 1: get them, Go get them, and then I am on
Speaker 1: my way to Florida. I'm keeping it in the low Land,
Speaker 1: trying to stay warm. February twenty third, twenty fourth, and
Speaker 1: twenty fifth. I am West Palm Beats Florida at the
Speaker 1: Improv Pick its own sale Red now the nephew is
Speaker 1: coming to town. Stupid on the loose. Y'all know how
Speaker 1: to do it, stupid on the loose, on the run. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we know how you do it now, stupid and you
Speaker 1: want to comment from us? Oh yeah, my wife to
Speaker 1: found out I'm talking about her hot flashes on stage.
Speaker 1: I didn't, I didn't got a whole Yeah. Yeah. Somebody
Speaker 1: came back and told her that take money from the joke,
Speaker 1: they can be in the joke. What you say, If
Speaker 1: they can take money from the joke, they can be
Speaker 1: the joke. Thank you your money? That ain't that ain't
Speaker 1: a good thing to save time? Okay, yeah, he ain't
Speaker 1: got nobody? All right, all right, thank you nephew. Coming
Speaker 1: up next it is a Strawberry letter. Could her ax
Speaker 1: be my next? Right after this? You're listening Steve Harvey
Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, guys, it is time now for
Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter. And let me tell you. If you
Speaker 1: need some advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more,
Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM. And
Speaker 1: all you have to do is just click submit Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 1: We'll get your letter and we could be reading your
Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're gonna read
Speaker 1: this one today right now. Okay, so get ready, y'all,
Speaker 1: buckle up, a hold on tight. We got it for
Speaker 1: you here. It is the Strawberry Letter. Subject, Could her
Speaker 1: X be my next? Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a single,
Speaker 1: thirty eight year old female and I like dating older gentlemen.
Speaker 1: I'm open to online dating and I've met some nice
Speaker 1: men on Facebook, so I often look at men's profiles
Speaker 1: and meet them that way. A handsome man in another
Speaker 1: city caught my eye and I send him a message.
Speaker 1: We chatted back and forth and found out that we
Speaker 1: have a lot in common, even though he is twelve
Speaker 1: years older than me. When we first started video chatting,
Speaker 1: I thought that he looked familiar and we're from the
Speaker 1: same city, so I just figured our paths cross somehow
Speaker 1: in the past. After we did our video chats for
Speaker 1: about a month, I mentioned that he looked very familiar,
Speaker 1: but I couldn't place him. He told me where he
Speaker 1: used to hang out and what his nickname is. My
Speaker 1: face dropped and I got quiet. He asked me if
Speaker 1: I had really figured out if I had finally figured
Speaker 1: out who he was yes, I knew exactly who he is.
Speaker 1: He is my sister's ex boyfriend. He said he knew
Speaker 1: who I was all the time, the whole time, and
Speaker 1: was just waiting for me to figure out who he was.
Speaker 1: He said he wanted to see if I was going
Speaker 1: to be a grown woman about things and continue to
Speaker 1: chat with him, or if I was going to run
Speaker 1: away from something that could be so good for both
Speaker 1: of us. Even though he and my sister dated fifteen
Speaker 1: years ago, I still stop communicating with him. I told
Speaker 1: my sister what had happened and exactly how it went down.
Speaker 1: My sister told me to go ahead and talk to
Speaker 1: the guy. I told her that I could not date
Speaker 1: the same guy she dated. She told me that I
Speaker 1: should at least see where things would go with this guy.
Speaker 1: I do miss talking to him, but I'm still skeptical.
Speaker 1: What do you think? Could her ex be my next? Please? Help? Yeah?
Speaker 1: M M, it's right. You know. There is such thing
Speaker 1: as a girlfriend code. All women know this. It's an unwritten,
Speaker 1: unspoken rule where friends and sisters and things. You know.
Speaker 1: You don't date your your friends or your sisters ex's.
Speaker 1: It's just not something you do. You just don't do it.
Speaker 1: It's it's weird. I'm a little torn here because your
Speaker 1: sister doesn't seem to adhere to the girlfriend code. She's
Speaker 1: a rare breed among women, because most women would not
Speaker 1: want you to go anywhere near their ex, husband, ex boyfriend,
Speaker 1: any of that. So it's interesting that she said you
Speaker 1: should hang in there and see where this date goes.
Speaker 1: It's also interesting that her ex is onto you and
Speaker 1: knew who you were and wanted to talk to you
Speaker 1: and was kind of pursuing you and things like that.
Speaker 1: That's interesting. So maybe he was he liked you, you know,
Speaker 1: the entire time, which is kind of crazy if he
Speaker 1: was dating your sister. Yeah, it was fifteen years ago. Yes,
Speaker 1: it was fifteen years ago. There's still that girlfriend code
Speaker 1: out there. Now. If you do date this guy and
Speaker 1: it doesn't work out, are you and your sister still
Speaker 1: gonna be tight and cool and everything, or you know,
Speaker 1: is she gonna start acting funny, you know, feeling some
Speaker 1: kind of way about this. It doesn't seem like it
Speaker 1: in this letter, but people change, especially if you and
Speaker 1: her ex get really tight and you know, you guys
Speaker 1: marry or something like that could happen. So I don't know.
Speaker 1: This is a tough one. I don't know if I
Speaker 1: would do this even if I did have my sister's blessing. Steve,
Speaker 1: I don't care for this letter because it don't really
Speaker 1: mean nothing. Could her ask be my next thing? You're
Speaker 1: on line talking to this dude sitting out the thing
Speaker 1: about this girl. I'm a little concerned about it because
Speaker 1: you know, she's a thirty eight year old female and
Speaker 1: she likes dating older gentleman. But maybe she just wants
Speaker 1: because she ain't. She ain't really says she's looking for nothing.
Speaker 1: I like dating older gentleman. I'm open to online dating.
Speaker 1: I met some nice men on Facebook, so I look
Speaker 1: at me as profiles and meet them that way. You know,
Speaker 1: that's she just just seems to be up and it
Speaker 1: ain't nothing wrong with it. Maybe that's your life. She's
Speaker 1: just a serial data to me, so trying to help
Speaker 1: her get hooked up don't really seem to be the
Speaker 1: objective in this letter. A handsome man and another city
Speaker 1: called my Eye. Just send him a message. We chatted
Speaker 1: back and forth, found out that we have a lot
Speaker 1: of incoming, even though he's twelve years older than me.
Speaker 1: When we first started video chatting. I thought he looked familiar.
Speaker 1: Were from the same city, so I just figured out
Speaker 1: our pass crossed somewhere in the pass. After we did
Speaker 1: our video chats for about a month, I mentioned that
Speaker 1: he looked familiar to you and you couldn't place it.
Speaker 1: Then he told me so to hang out and his
Speaker 1: nickname is my face dropped and I got quiet, So
Speaker 1: he said, have you finally figured out who I am?
Speaker 1: And I knew exactly who he is. He was my
Speaker 1: sister's ex boyfriend. Now the dude knew who you were
Speaker 1: right away, but he wanted to see how long this
Speaker 1: game did He go to pimp move though. He wanted
Speaker 1: to see if I was going to be a grown
Speaker 1: woman about things and continue to chat with him, or
Speaker 1: if I was going to run away from something that
Speaker 1: could be so good for both of us. Oh, dog,
Speaker 1: you're for real, lady, you don't know what game is,
Speaker 1: because if you don't think that's a game, lie, I
Speaker 1: just wanted to see if you was gonna be a
Speaker 1: grown woman about things. See here's what's happening. He's an
Speaker 1: older man. Your sister was older fifteen years ago. You
Speaker 1: was what how was you for twenty three twenty three.
Speaker 1: Sister was what maybe thirty four, thirty five, something like that.
Speaker 1: They was probably around the same age. I was gonna
Speaker 1: see if you was gonna be a grown woman about
Speaker 1: things and continue to chat me or run away from
Speaker 1: something that could be good for both of us? What
Speaker 1: was gonna be good for both of y'all? He don't
Speaker 1: want really nothing from you but one thing, because you
Speaker 1: ain't told him you want nothing from him but one thing?
Speaker 1: You know why? Because you were serial data. This just
Speaker 1: fitting to be another night man you the met on Facebook,
Speaker 1: then slept with another relationship, and he gonna leave you
Speaker 1: to y'all, will not come back? Yeah, okay, okay, all right,
Speaker 1: John commercials in the Super Bowl too. Yeah, but I'm
Speaker 1: let me tell you this what Well, well, when we're
Speaker 1: going back, I'm and tell you the rest of it.
Speaker 1: But this is a setup. This is going nowhere. It
Speaker 1: has no intentions. But aren't you shocked at the sister though? Well,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get to that, So let's get back. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna tell you why too. All right, all right, we're
Speaker 1: gonna have part two of Steve's response coming up at
Speaker 1: twenty three after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter subject, could
Speaker 1: her X be my next? All right, we'll have that
Speaker 1: coming up right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve,
Speaker 1: Let's recap today's Strawberry letter sub could her X be
Speaker 1: my next? Wow? Wow? Yeah? Well, like I said in
Speaker 1: the letter, this woman is online just dating people randomly.
Speaker 1: Look like a seal dated to me ends up meeting
Speaker 1: this gown online that used to date her sister. It
Speaker 1: took her month or so to figure it out, but
Speaker 1: finally she thought she recognized him. Then when he said
Speaker 1: she asked him his nickname, she said that and where
Speaker 1: he lives? She got quiet. He said, have you finally
Speaker 1: figured out who I am? And she said yes. He
Speaker 1: said I knew who you were from the beginning, but
Speaker 1: I wanted to see if you was gonna be a
Speaker 1: grown woman about things and continue to chat with me,
Speaker 1: or if you was going to run away from something
Speaker 1: that could be so good for both of us. Boy
Speaker 1: in the world that says game recognized game, I Recknin's game.
Speaker 1: This is a cold line he didn't used on you. First,
Speaker 1: he challenged you to be grown up, Then he bated
Speaker 1: you with something that could be so good for the
Speaker 1: both of us. But since you ain't never established what
Speaker 1: you really want with none of these men, because you
Speaker 1: are serial daily data and you like dating older men,
Speaker 1: so you're just like dating. So now he figured it's
Speaker 1: gonna be another day he gonna hit it and be gone. Wow,
Speaker 1: Now you said, even though he and my sister dated
Speaker 1: fifteen years ago, I still stopped communicating with him. I
Speaker 1: told my sister what had happened, So you and your
Speaker 1: sister got good relationship, and exactly how I went down.
Speaker 1: My sister told me to go ahead and talk to
Speaker 1: the guy. I told her I couldn't date the same
Speaker 1: guy she dated. She told me I should at least
Speaker 1: see where things were gonna go with this guy, because
Speaker 1: your sister know you're crazy. Your sister know you're a
Speaker 1: serial data, and you're sister hoping something just stick for you.
Speaker 1: Because your sister had moved on, she got her life.
Speaker 1: It's probably a nice little bowl and everything, but she
Speaker 1: wants you to have a great life. So she told
Speaker 1: you to go ahead. Then here you go, because you're
Speaker 1: going so you just waiting on me, and surely give
Speaker 1: you to go ahead because this is what you say.
Speaker 1: I do miss talking to you. Yeah, but I'm still skeptical.
Speaker 1: What's your skeptical about? What do you think? Could her
Speaker 1: ex be my next it's going to be according to you,
Speaker 1: your sister that gave you the green Like you just said,
Speaker 1: you do miss talking to him, and he didn't challenge you.
Speaker 1: This could be something good for the both of us.
Speaker 1: But he ain't said what good he talking about? Do this? Man?
Speaker 1: Won't you? Or do he just wants something from you?
Speaker 1: If you take your time, you can figure out the
Speaker 1: answer to them two questions. But if you're gonna rush
Speaker 1: back in and just going to let him do what
Speaker 1: he want to do, then you're not gonna know. And
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying to you. Now here's some danger
Speaker 1: to this right here. I can't imagine this happening with
Speaker 1: me and my brother. I got an older brother. I'm
Speaker 1: dating some woman he used to date, and I called
Speaker 1: my brother, go hey, bro, I'm dating this good ah man,
Speaker 1: go ahead. See. But now suppose my brother called me
Speaker 1: up every nineteen to check on me, how me and
Speaker 1: her doing? But he got advice with it though, h hey, man,
Speaker 1: be careful. You know she don't like chicken. I don't
Speaker 1: like chick. She don't like chicken. You know, just a
Speaker 1: little step, a little stuff like that. Hey, man, let
Speaker 1: me tell you something. Don't mess round, get yourself slap.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying. I'm just saying, don't mess round, get
Speaker 1: yourself slap. Oh she's slapping people. Yeah, she getting mad.
Speaker 1: She bust your upside your damn here. Okay, just calling
Speaker 1: with all kind inviting a little bro or you wait
Speaker 1: till she do this tea. Yeah, that's what happened. It's
Speaker 1: too much. Knock it down, a little bro, knock it down.
Speaker 1: Represent see how you see how you stack up a dog? Ass? Call?
Speaker 1: Is she like big bro? A little bro? Back? Called
Speaker 1: me back? Man, I don't get it. I don't get it.
Speaker 1: I don't understand it. I couldn't do it. But you
Speaker 1: know you're not me. You like dating older men, and
Speaker 1: you're a serial dating. You don't want nothing, so you're
Speaker 1: gonna probably end up seeing it. You know. So her
Speaker 1: sister either really loves her really hates her. I can't
Speaker 1: figure out which one. Go ahead. You have tried everything
Speaker 1: going over there. I told you it's a reason I
Speaker 1: ain't win him. Going over there and see for yourself.
Speaker 1: Yeah it could be that, it really really could. But
Speaker 1: he was just laying back, waiting for her to catch on.
Speaker 1: You know. So you're right about the part with the
Speaker 1: game and everything, you know, waiting. So my nickname goosey, Yeah, goose,
Speaker 1: you know, kind of like goose man. You know the
Speaker 1: you know the Virginia governor. Huh oh oh that nickname?
Speaker 1: Did they call him goose? They called me goose? Say
Speaker 1: that was a stretch fore we got it? Yeah, I
Speaker 1: know it was an obscure joke. Yeah, I really yeah.
Speaker 1: You know, when you own the radio, sometimes they don't
Speaker 1: all work. You know, they can't all make it over
Speaker 1: the wall. Understand, some mom's out. Most of them do, yeah,
Speaker 1: but some mom's out and that was out. You hear
Speaker 1: the ball and they catch it at second base. Ain't
Speaker 1: nobody had to even jump? So what should we tell
Speaker 1: her to not do this? I mean, it only makes
Speaker 1: suse not to do it. To do it? Should you know?
Speaker 1: That's what she won't to do? Go ahead, yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean of all the guys, so here's nothing gonna do it?
Speaker 1: Do it well? What you don't want to hear, don't
Speaker 1: do it? Do it well? Don't want what ja your
Speaker 1: sister was better? You don't want to you evet back
Speaker 1: in him. It's not a good look. I'm not a
Speaker 1: good look. Yeah. Yeah, it could end badly. Yeah all right, Well,
Speaker 1: if that's all we have, just don't do it. Don't
Speaker 1: take someone. Your sister stated. Yeah, all right, guys, we
Speaker 1: gotta get out of here. Leave your comments on today's
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Speaker 1: and so you know, I was in with a group
Speaker 1: of people in this suite and the guy said this.
Speaker 1: Lady said to me, isn't this exciting being here? I said,
Speaker 1: you want my understand that. She said yeah, And I said, no,
Speaker 1: it's really not as kind of boring to me. She said,
Speaker 1: oh my god, to feel the same way. I was
Speaker 1: just trying to keep an upbeat at the time. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, I feel the same way. I was just
Speaker 1: trying to keep an upbeat. I was hoping you had
Speaker 1: something to say. I said, no, I wasn't nothing born.
Speaker 1: This was not even cool. So I said, man, because
Speaker 1: I would have rather had stayed. I don't want to go.
Speaker 1: My wife has never been to the Super Bowl, so
Speaker 1: who she wanted to go. Oh, that was nice of
Speaker 1: you to do that for her. Yeah, you know, And
Speaker 1: I took invited all my sons. Jason couldn't come because
Speaker 1: he's sick. They had fifty yard line seats right behind
Speaker 1: the team Wow, watching nothing went to say dad, but
Speaker 1: I love you father, I love your father. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: bet you too. That that was nice, Steve, that was
Speaker 1: really nice. Yeah. And then my two oldest children, Brandon
Speaker 1: Carly came to the Honors award the night before. Uh huh,
Speaker 1: so that was really nice. You know. Yeah, you did
Speaker 1: your thing on the NFL Honors. I don't know if
Speaker 1: we've said it enough, but you're a good job. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you really did a good job, Steve. And you know
Speaker 1: Temmy wants you to host the sp Awards. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: this could be, you know, a step to that. That
Speaker 1: could be your next level. No, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I have it. That's nothing for me. The NFL Honors
Speaker 1: was greatness. Well, we're doing the asps when they ask
Speaker 1: you boys, stop no, I mean if they asked me.
Speaker 1: But you know, the NFL Owners was like the best
Speaker 1: award show I've ever done because it was just like, man,
Speaker 1: I knew all the guys dance. I'm a football fan, man,
Speaker 1: and it seemed well organized. Who I like that, It
Speaker 1: was smooth, It was the best rand show. Everything about
Speaker 1: it was cool, man, Everything about it was cool. And
Speaker 1: you love an excuse to put on a text, all right,
Speaker 1: we'll be back, blue cheese. We'll be back with more
Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're
Speaker 1: listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Donald Trump,
Speaker 1: our president, has accepted newly sworn in House Speaker Nancy
Speaker 1: Pelosi's updated invitation to address a joint session of Congress
Speaker 1: that'll be tonight at nine pm Eastern. It'll be Trump's
Speaker 1: second State of the Union address, where he will lay
Speaker 1: out his agenda for his third year in office. Although
Speaker 1: Trump has reopened the government fully, the continued standoff about
Speaker 1: border wall funding goes on, and we'll play a big
Speaker 1: part in his speech. Former Georgia gubernatorial candidate Stacy Abrams
Speaker 1: will be giving the Democratic rebuttal to mister Trump's address.
Speaker 1: That's good news. I'm sure she'll have a lot to say.
Speaker 1: And entertainment news. We're excited about our girl Rihanna. She
Speaker 1: has a brand new album on the horizon. A studio
Speaker 1: producer confirmed to US Weekly that yes, Rihanna has about
Speaker 1: five hundred new songs for this project, but of course
Speaker 1: it's only one album, so they'll probably only choose about ten,
Speaker 1: so she'll have four ninety leftover. Four hundred, five hundred
Speaker 1: new songs. That's like Brent's territory, right, I mean that
Speaker 1: must be five hundred people have submitted songs. Well, it's
Speaker 1: just for her. Yeah, Yeah, that's a lot, and she's
Speaker 1: they're only picking ten, you know. Also in sad news,
Speaker 1: this is really sad news for Young in the Wrestler
Speaker 1: his fans actor Christoph Saint John, he has died. Christoph
Speaker 1: played the role of Neil Winters on Young and the Restless.
Speaker 1: He was in that role since nineteen ninety one. It
Speaker 1: was a role that earned him ten in WACP Image Awards.
Speaker 1: Law enforcement sources reported that one of Christoph's friends went
Speaker 1: to check on him at his home in the San
Speaker 1: Fernando Valley of Los Angeles and found his body. Paramedics
Speaker 1: pronounced Christoph dead on the scene. Yeah you remember him, Yeah,
Speaker 1: pronounced him dead on the scene, and reported that there
Speaker 1: was no sign of foul play, but one four says
Speaker 1: that alcohol may have played a role, So I don't know,
Speaker 1: all right, yea A long time, yeah, a long time.
Speaker 1: And condolences to his family Rest in peace. That's sad, man, Yeah,
Speaker 1: it really is, it really really is. You never think
Speaker 1: about it. I remember when I used to watch Young
Speaker 1: and the Restless. He and Shamar Moore played brothers on
Speaker 1: that show, and he just got engaged in August who
Speaker 1: we understand hey and condolences goes out to his family absolutely,
Speaker 1: and on another note, he I wasn't you know, we
Speaker 1: were kind of touched on it yesterday. I wasn't aware
Speaker 1: of any super Bowl boycott. Did you all know about
Speaker 1: a super Bowl boycott in New Orleans? There was one? Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: yeah they have Yeah, I know that. I know that.
Speaker 1: Rihanna and Cardi B said they weren't performing at the
Speaker 1: super Bowl to support right when they initially asked them,
Speaker 1: they turned they turned the half down halftime performance down right.
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I'm not. I'm not. I didn't know.
Speaker 1: I didn't know of any organized boycott. No, I don't
Speaker 1: think any anything organized. People were talking about it. Yes,
Speaker 1: Old French Quarter did a blackout just to let you know,
Speaker 1: oh wow, and you really like one cotton. This game
Speaker 1: wouldn't hurt nobody because to see man the lowest scoring
Speaker 1: game in the history of the Super Bowl. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: let's quit calling it that the worst game we've ever
Speaker 1: seen played. Initially the worst Wow, No, I've never seen
Speaker 1: the worst game. All right, guys, that's enough of this.
Speaker 1: We are moving on. We're gonna come back with Steve's
Speaker 1: closing remarks, last break of the day. We'll be back
Speaker 1: at forty nine after the hour right after this you're
Speaker 1: listening to show. All right, Steve, here we are, last
Speaker 1: break of the day. It's been a good day. You
Speaker 1: guys have really really clowned and really embarrassed me today. Okay, good,
Speaker 1: so then that was a good day. Right, thank you.
Speaker 1: You're welcome. I hope you enjoyed it. We've got more.
Speaker 1: But before we get out of here, Steve, you're going
Speaker 1: to leave us with some enlightening closing remarks. Well, you know,
Speaker 1: my remark today are just a reminder, as I have
Speaker 1: to remind myself that the thing that you do have
Speaker 1: full of complete control over is your mind. We've all
Speaker 1: got to understand that part of it. Yeah. See, we've
Speaker 1: all got to understand that part of it that you
Speaker 1: have a say so in this matter and in this
Speaker 1: coming year. What I'm trying to get everybody to just
Speaker 1: be a constant reminder to you that you've got to
Speaker 1: stay upbeat, you've got to stay appreciative and grateful and
Speaker 1: thankful even in the midst of difficulties. See, that's a
Speaker 1: hard part. But what but what will help you through
Speaker 1: the difficulties is the realizing that you have recovered and
Speaker 1: gotten through so many other previous challenges and disappointments and difficulties.
Speaker 1: So in that what I try to do, and I'm
Speaker 1: not always successful to everybody, I want you to understand
Speaker 1: that I wish I had it mastered. But what I
Speaker 1: try to do as often as I can is stay
Speaker 1: in the positive light. I try to look at everything
Speaker 1: that's happened to me with a beacon of light shining
Speaker 1: on it, even when it looks dark, because the only
Speaker 1: way out of darkness is through with light. You can't
Speaker 1: come bat dark with more dark. So here it is
Speaker 1: when haters attack you this year, if you are attack
Speaker 1: them back with hate, it becomes a spend cycle. Now
Speaker 1: you are now involved in the cycle of hate. And
Speaker 1: so now when you cast hate to them, they're gonna
Speaker 1: recast it on you. Then somebody else that know them
Speaker 1: starts hating on you, and somebody didn't know you start
Speaker 1: hating on them, And now y'all in a vicious spin
Speaker 1: cycle and the hatred has turned into a bigger ball
Speaker 1: than it actually is. When what could have stopped this
Speaker 1: whole thing would have been when you were first hit
Speaker 1: with the darkness, when you were first hit with the
Speaker 1: untrue rumor, when you first came under attack, if you
Speaker 1: didn't swing back hard to have a one man fight.
Speaker 1: If only you had not swung back, the fight wouldn't
Speaker 1: have grew into what it is today. And it's hard
Speaker 1: to do that. Man. Do I understand that? Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: hard to do. Am I human being? Yes? I am. Do.
Speaker 1: I facetimes when I want to do something different, Yes
Speaker 1: I do. Does sometimes I end up doing something different regrettably,
Speaker 1: Yes I do. But the times when I do get
Speaker 1: it right, the times when I you manage to hold
Speaker 1: my peace, the times when I do manage to hold
Speaker 1: my tongue, the times that I do manage to bite
Speaker 1: down and grit it and just take it, it ends
Speaker 1: far quicker. Yeah, I don't give it legs. Don't give
Speaker 1: people gasoline to throw on the fire they trying to
Speaker 1: start at your house. I just try not to provide
Speaker 1: you the gasoline, the starter fluid. I just try not to.
Speaker 1: Now that's hard, but I'm telling you, man, And it's
Speaker 1: so much energy that you have to give to deal
Speaker 1: with haters. You gotta muster it up every time you
Speaker 1: see them. You gotta respond every time you see a post.
Speaker 1: You gotta comment on every comment. Na man, no stop
Speaker 1: feeling though, as you got to comment on every time
Speaker 1: somebody say something bad about you, are negative about you.
Speaker 1: They don't know you, they have no idea who you
Speaker 1: really are. They don't And because they'd have lied on you,
Speaker 1: nothing they can say gonna make it true. That's one
Speaker 1: of the ones I had to learn, y'all that just
Speaker 1: because a person lies on you, it's not gonna make
Speaker 1: it true you lied. I don't have to buy into that.
Speaker 1: And so now, man, I've just learned, and I'm trying
Speaker 1: to get better and better. But I invite all of
Speaker 1: you in two nineteen to move yourself forward with the
Speaker 1: right attitude. Don't stay on the wall. Listen to me.
Speaker 1: Stay on the wall, don't get off the wall, addressing
Speaker 1: stuff that you ain't got time for. And if you
Speaker 1: can forgive a person, if you can forgive a person,
Speaker 1: do that. It's in your best interests because we remember,
Speaker 1: forgiveness is not for the other person. Forgiveness is for you.
Speaker 1: It's so you don't have to react every time you
Speaker 1: see them. It's so you don't have to feel some
Speaker 1: kind of way sitting by yourself. It's so you don't
Speaker 1: have to keep rehashing it in your mind. I'll forgive
Speaker 1: you not forgiving a person. And I've said this a
Speaker 1: hundred times before on this show. Not forgiving a person.
Speaker 1: It's like you drinking the poison, waiting on them to die.
Speaker 1: Bishop Jake's taught me that. I will never forget it. Y'all.
Speaker 1: Stop drinking the poison. You better than that. Don't deal
Speaker 1: with the haters. You better than that. Fix your attitude.
Speaker 1: If you change your attitude, you change your altitude. Y'all
Speaker 1: have a great weekend. I'm so happy for all. Steve
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