Speaker 1: How do you convince someone to break up with a
Speaker 1: toxic partner? It's a circle, man, it's a vicious cycle.
Speaker 1: It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. And we all
Speaker 1: know that breakups can be hard. Yeah, but sometimes they're
Speaker 1: necessary in order to make your life better. Right, absolutely,
Speaker 1: I'm glad that you agree, because Brooke, we have your
Speaker 1: husband on the phone with us right now and he
Speaker 1: wants to talk with you about something. I don't know what.
Speaker 1: That is? Not funny? Michael, Hello, you there? What's up? Michael?
Speaker 1: Are we going on party later? Single boy? How did
Speaker 1: he hang up? Okay? Because he loves me, Jeffrey relationship
Speaker 1: maybe got nervous or something. I'm sure it was nothing.
Speaker 1: An it just goes to show dumping someone not as
Speaker 1: easy as it sound. Crushed. One man in China actually
Speaker 1: specializes in them. Really. His name is Xiao Shang and
Speaker 1: he's thirty one years old and he's a self proclaimed
Speaker 1: emotional counselor for hire. Okay, what does that mean? His
Speaker 1: specialty is helping married men break up with their mistresses
Speaker 1: and returned back to their wives. Wow, that sounds like
Speaker 1: a messy situation. I never want to insert myself in
Speaker 1: that sounds like a terrible job. Now, it's not like
Speaker 1: he's some therapist who sits you down in a chair
Speaker 1: and talks you through all the positives and negatives of
Speaker 1: an affair. Now, Joo's methods are a little more unconventional,
Speaker 1: a little more extreme. Okay, but that's why he's been
Speaker 1: so effective, and now he's getting international fame for his work. Really.
Speaker 1: In fact, the other week he did in an interview
Speaker 1: and shared some of his most recent cases. For example,
Speaker 1: last fall, he was hired by a married woman who
Speaker 1: found out her husband had been cheating with a younger girl.
Speaker 1: So I could totally see where a married woman would
Speaker 1: want to hire him make sure that the husband breaks
Speaker 1: up with a mistress now to help her, Jaw's first
Speaker 1: step was to hire an actor to take some compromising
Speaker 1: pictures with the married woman. Okay, so wait, now he's
Speaker 1: taking risque photos with the woman that hired him. Yes, okay.
Speaker 1: Then Jao posed as a vacation planner and sent the
Speaker 1: married couple on a romantic getaway, and during their vacation,
Speaker 1: he made sure the husband got an anonymous letter from
Speaker 1: a stranger warning him to break up with his young
Speaker 1: mistress as soon as possible because his wife quote had
Speaker 1: a new boyfriend. Oh oh, so it's like a little
Speaker 1: fight fire with fire, And inside the envelope were the
Speaker 1: photos of his wife with the staged actor as the
Speaker 1: evidence of the affair. Oh my gosh. And you're just
Speaker 1: like maybe hugging or kissing on the cheek. You're not
Speaker 1: cheating in the pictures, but it's enough to be like, well,
Speaker 1: it's an actor. I'm just saying he's cheating. So it
Speaker 1: would be too bad if you had to do something
Speaker 1: a little bit more risk. Game, it doesn't count if
Speaker 1: you paid for it, thank you. So the husband finds
Speaker 1: this out. He sees these pictures during their ten day vacation,
Speaker 1: so we can't go anywhere, okay, And he's like, hell no,
Speaker 1: I mean I can cheat, but she can't. Yeah. But
Speaker 1: since he's on vacation, it gives him plenty of time
Speaker 1: to actually sit down and assess his situation and fix
Speaker 1: his relationship with his wife. And then when they returned home,
Speaker 1: he voluntarily broke off the relationship with the mistress, never
Speaker 1: realizing that Jiao set up the entire thing that little game.
Speaker 1: Do you think the wife feels so powerful yet? I
Speaker 1: mean I'd never take anyone back, but that's cool. If
Speaker 1: you're willing to, they can feel guilty about that's amazing.
Speaker 1: If you're just joining us. We're talking about a guy
Speaker 1: in China who helps married men break up with their mistresses,
Speaker 1: and that particular case costs the wife thirty thousand dollars. Okay,
Speaker 1: you can just hook up with somebody record it yourself,
Speaker 1: she says, she was totally cool paying it given the
Speaker 1: successful outcome. Wow, Alexis has a point. She could have
Speaker 1: just had a free affair on the side and done
Speaker 1: the whole thing all. But this guy's an expert. He's
Speaker 1: going to make it seem very very anonymous. And it's
Speaker 1: good point. You know. I feel like if you try
Speaker 1: to do it yourself, you're not going to do it
Speaker 1: quite as well. Okay, very true. Now, not all the
Speaker 1: cases are as simple as the one that we just
Speaker 1: talked about either. Sometimes Jow and his team will take
Speaker 1: the opposite approach and actually confront the mistress to try
Speaker 1: and to convince her to dump the married boyfriend. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, side piecee piece to drop the guy right.
Speaker 1: Jow admits that strategy can be difficult and extra time consuming.
Speaker 1: I just heard him say more money, he says. Sometimes
Speaker 1: you'll hire an attractive actor to seduce the mistress and
Speaker 1: secretly photographed the two of them together so he can
Speaker 1: send the photos to the married man. Does this guy
Speaker 1: must not be attractive because I would want to do
Speaker 1: all that work myself and I'm going to make out
Speaker 1: with her so much bro Other times they'll follow the
Speaker 1: mistress around to see if she has any unsettling secrets
Speaker 1: that can be exploited to scare the married man away. Blackmailer.
Speaker 1: I mean, isn't the secret that she's sleeping with a
Speaker 1: married fan? Yeahoo has been in business for about six
Speaker 1: years now, and the demand for his services has gotten
Speaker 1: so high that he actually had to hire a full
Speaker 1: time eight persons staff to work alongside him so they
Speaker 1: can handle all the cases. What a strange thing to
Speaker 1: put on your resume for the next job you get. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what does that job title even look like? I don't know.
Speaker 1: I mistress breaker upper mistressed. Aside from helping to end
Speaker 1: marital affairs, Jaw's company does offer other services too, including
Speaker 1: relationships stress tests. What does that mean? Where you can
Speaker 1: actually rent out love testers who will do their best
Speaker 1: to try and seduce your significant other to see how
Speaker 1: faithful they really are to you. Alexus, No, that is
Speaker 1: playing with fire exactly. That is not going to work
Speaker 1: out well for you. See, as soon as you get
Speaker 1: to that point in your relationship, break it off where
Speaker 1: you are suspicious and you're hiring other people to maybe
Speaker 1: seduce your partner, that's when you know this relationship isn't working.
Speaker 1: Thank you, Jeffrey. That is absolutely guys. Okay, well text
Speaker 1: into seven eight five nine two. What do you think
Speaker 1: should we start our own version of this business locally? Yes,
Speaker 1: jose can seduce the unfaithful. Wise, Alexus can seduce the husbands.
Speaker 1: Brook will dig up dirt online and I'll be the
Speaker 1: secret camera guy disguised as a dog in the corner
Speaker 1: taking pictus. They'll never know, huge dog. Your phone TAP's
Speaker 1: coming up right after this